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Speaker 1: Did I give them all?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 2: Is there any There's got to be something else. You

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Speaker 2: about that. Stamps are expensive. Don't write us a letter. Hey, Janelle,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Welcome.

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Hi. So I'm glad you're here. What's going on? This

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Speaker 2: is a situation with your husband, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just we had a discussion about some decisions

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Speaker 4: that we made as a family, and honestly, I've just

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I've got your note here. Your husband, the

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Speaker 2: two of you decided collectively that he would get a

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Speaker 2: sectomy because you have kids and you're done having children.

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Speaker 2: And that's the decision that you guys made as a couple. Hey,

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Speaker 2: you know, go go get a little go get a

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Speaker 2: and that that seems like the best method for you guys,

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Speaker 2: right correct, Okay, So Where did the problem begin?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 2: Because I know a lot of people in relationships they

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Speaker 2: have an issue for whatever reason, getting getting the dude

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Speaker 2: to go do that. And it's like that, I got

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Speaker 2: to be honest with you, I don't understand that. You know,

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Speaker 2: if you don't want to take birth control, and if

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Speaker 2: the choices are the dude goes and gets snipped, or

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Speaker 2: you have to go have some sort of invasive abdominal

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Speaker 2: surgery that is extracurricular and has nothing to do with

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Speaker 2: childbirth or c sections or whatever else. I think that's unfair.

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Speaker 2: I think the dude should go get snipped and not

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Speaker 2: So where's the problem.

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Speaker 4: So the other day he just kind of off handedly

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Speaker 2: What do you think he's going to do You think

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Speaker 2: it is this a big billboard for what you know,

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Speaker 2: Like, I mean, I don't know what was it. I

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I don't know. Like, I don't understand why we're

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Speaker 4: I went one step further and I'm like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: Well, now, hold on, No, that changes things a little bit.

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Speaker 2: So he's texting. I mean, I don't think it changes much,

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Speaker 2: I'm getting to a sectomy. I don't know if that

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Speaker 2: you said, let me see these texts, and then what happened.

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Speaker 4: So they're joking around about how he's going to be

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Speaker 1: Oh no, Also that the piece there's where Kiki goes

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Speaker 6: Yeah, girl, you bringing peace to my man's marvels. No,

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Speaker 6: I got a big problem with this is not the

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Speaker 2: All right, So then what does he say to you? Like,

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Speaker 2: so you say, let me see the text. I don't

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Speaker 2: think this is an appropriate conversation to have with a coworker.

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Speaker 2: And then and then what does he say?

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Speaker 1: So, well, now I'm.

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Speaker 4: Off rails and he is just kind of laughing at

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Speaker 4: me and saying it's a procedure that he's getting. It's

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Speaker 4: his private hearts. If he wants to talk about it,

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Speaker 4: he can talk about it. He's the one that's getting snipped.

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Speaker 4: And I just find that to be incredibly unacceptable. And

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I just don't think that he's not

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Speaker 4: he thinks he's allowed to talk about it. I agree

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Speaker 4: he can talk about it, but this is not how

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Speaker 2: And what is your concern with him sharing this?

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Speaker 4: I think that it's it's just opening up Pandora's box. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I think it's like it just it takes it to

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Speaker 4: so that she knows that he's absolutely protected and can't

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Speaker 4: talk about his nuts? Like I don't get it and

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Speaker 4: I just want advice about.

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Speaker 1: It, Jane.

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Speaker 2: One thing I found about cheaters is they don't really

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Speaker 2: don't necessarily think that he's been waiting all his life

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Speaker 4: Okay, so tell me, as a man, why else.

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Speaker 1: Would you be talking about your jewels?

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Speaker 2: Because and I hate to generalize old men. There are

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Speaker 2: obviously men who are not, but I think a lot

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Speaker 2: and I think, you know, we probably make a bigger

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Speaker 2: I don't know, e comical in some ways for some guys,

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Speaker 2: like A I can go down there and snip my stuff.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I think it's more experiential than it is. Uh that

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Speaker 2: he's advertising to everyone that he can spread his non seed.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just I don't. I don't think it's like, hey, everybody,

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Speaker 2: I got him a sectomy, so now I can I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm open for business. You know, I don't, I don't necessarily,

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Speaker 2: you know. I just I think maybe he's looking for

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Speaker 2: think there's inherent you know, what's the word I'm looking for.

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Speaker 2: I don't think this is inherently him trying to do

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Speaker 4: So you think I should just blow it off and

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Speaker 4: talk it up to him being a.

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Speaker 1: Big baby, I do.

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Speaker 7: Let me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's the equivalent.

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Speaker 2: What if you went and got a boob job, and

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Speaker 2: you were talking to your male co workers about getting

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Speaker 2: a boob.

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Speaker 6: Job, like I mean, I don't think exactly out of

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Speaker 6: all the people he could text, you're texting your female

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Speaker 2: I might argue that the intimacy of the of the

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Speaker 2: of the female text thread is interesting, but I don't

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Speaker 2: necessarily think that the subject matter itself is problematic.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna take some phone calls on this. I might

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Speaker 2: be way off, Janelle, and we got the of course

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Speaker 2: hear people have just you know, good luck to you

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Speaker 2: and thank you for sharing. Have a good day.

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Speaker 4: Thanks guys, you too.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, let's see what Ty has. I want to

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Speaker 2: know what you guys think that Ty. Hey morning, Tie, Hey,

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Speaker 2: good morning to stay here go.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 2: This woman is upset because her husband sharing with a

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Speaker 5: I'm definitely thinking that she should stay. I mean, I

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Speaker 5: You know, it was definitely a conversation to go around, so,

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Speaker 5: you know, I don't think it's anything too serious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why. For guys, it's like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know why, that's just somebody that comes up. But

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Speaker 2: most of the people I know who've had a vasectomy

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Speaker 2: talked about it pretty openly, and I don't know why

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Speaker 2: that is, but it is a thing.

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Speaker 1: So thank you man, have a good day.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely you two.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, ladies, what are you? I think? And Jason,

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Speaker 1: does this bother you? I actually think it would bother me.

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Speaker 8: I feel like mentioning it flippantly at work is very

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Speaker 8: different than texting someone directly about it and we're joking

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Speaker 8: that you're like out of the game.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 8: I don't know. I actually usually I don't lean this way,

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Speaker 8: but it kind of bothers me.

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Speaker 2: Kiky, it bothers you. You seem to have an issue.

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Speaker 2: It seemed to bother when when she offered to, you know,

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Speaker 2: or she didn't say, let me come over and look

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Speaker 2: let me, let me treat your incision, or hey, let's

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Speaker 2: see if it worked. She didn't say any of that.

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Speaker 2: She's I don't know. I mean, what was she supposed

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Speaker 9: They're just friends, you can't open up about like most

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Speaker 1: Stuff, and you would probably joke about bringing me peace.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like you just sprung this on a

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Speaker 2: I've never talked to you before and been like hey,

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Speaker 1: Up and getting snipped like right, just done. So I'm

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Speaker 8: Would you, But would you text a straight male coworker

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Speaker 10: Absolutely not, mariss I'm not texting you.

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Speaker 2: Michael Polina, you did. I know, I know every procedure

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Speaker 10: Well because well a like, I work very closely with you.

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Speaker 10: You're like a brother to me. And number two, okay,

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Speaker 6: If went in your phone, he would know exactly who

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Speaker 6: Freddie is. He would know you all's relationship. This woman

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Speaker 6: you talking about her? You talking about your jewels with her?

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Speaker 2: And he's a jewel. Yeah, I'm Morgan. I think with Calen,

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Speaker 2: to all, all, I'm uncomfortable he's cheating, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, Yeah, and I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think that's fair. Hey, Jenna, let's take the female.

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Speaker 2: We'll take another female perspective. Hi, Jenna, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 5: I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, basically, you know this woman who called in

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Speaker 7: I don't like it either. I don't think it's worth

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Speaker 7: I think he's seeking attention and wants coddling in sympathy

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Speaker 2: I could see that he's But I again, I think

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Speaker 2: all I'm getting to azam, going to get newtered or

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Speaker 2: you know, whatever it is. I'm not saying that we should.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right like that about the cold to right right.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, I don't I don't necessarily hear this

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. Maybe that's what I'm leaning towards.

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Speaker 7: It's worth a conversation.

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Speaker 1: I don't think a breakup over. But yeah, absolutely, thank you, Jenna.

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Speaker 1: I have a great day you too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad you called. Thank you for listening to

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Speaker 2: being part of the thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Karen, but pretty say hi, how are you hi?

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Speaker 1: Can you t any radio down? Please? Yes? Yes, perfect,

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Speaker 2: I love what I said forty seconds ago, but I'd

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Speaker 1: A vasecto me.

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Speaker 11: I agree that some men, you know, with the previous

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Speaker 1: But definitely say what's going on? Why are you texting

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Speaker 11: Because not all men, I mean, I've dated you know men,

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Speaker 5: Another woman like that.

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Speaker 11: So it just depends on what's going on I think

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would also be curious, Karen, to your point

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Speaker 1: I think that's.

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Speaker 11: Important, absolutely, and I'm you know, I work in a school,

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Speaker 11: and people in schools talk about everything. There's no boundaries.

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Speaker 11: But to text my coworker about this a male coworker

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get I would yeah, I would love to

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Speaker 2: know if it's abnormal. I agree with you. Thank you, Karen,

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Speaker 2: have a good day.

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Speaker 11: Thank you, have a great day.

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Speaker 1: Love you bybye. I love you too.

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Speaker 2: I think that's fair. Now here's Bob. Now Bob clearly Bob.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead, tell me what you said.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate you man, Yeah, No, I love you guys.

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Speaker 3: You guys are awesome. Okay, So two things. Number one,

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Speaker 3: just just I just would not. But number two, I

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Speaker 2: I would be concerned if he were sharing his deep

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Speaker 2: and he's texting with this Yeah, he's texting with this

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, with what's going on, So it's irrelevant. Even

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Speaker 1: So what do you do, Bob.

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Speaker 3: I'm on your your team right.

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Speaker 1: Now, okay, right, perfect, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, I work in I'm in I'm in the banking industry,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: And and and you know what, I appreciate that your

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Speaker 1: So thank you.

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Speaker 3: Have a good day, all right, you too, Love you guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Yeah, there you go. It's always

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