WEBVTT - Canine Co-parents 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:16.239 and the Black Effects, And. 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:18.120 Just like that, we're back on the air. Welcome back 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:20.320 to get another carefully reckless episode with your girl. 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:21.440 Just hilarious. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:23.680 What I'm gonna be doing, I'm gonna be fixing mess. 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:28.000 And we have Taylor here with a story. Say hey 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:32.560 you hey, she's gonna be reading for me again because 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.680 I just want her to so and she's been practicing. 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:40.720 So let's go ahead and just jump straight on in. 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:43.960 Well, I don't have to read this one off of 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:48.760 SO and I know, okay, So basically I have a friend. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.920 That crazy. 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:57.840 So my friend has a dog, has had the dog 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:01.840 for several years, and and she got the dog though 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:06.120 from her ex. They didn't have the dog when they 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:10.280 were originally together. They stayed cool, but when he got 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:13.559 the dog, he gave it to her to watch, and 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:19.160 she's been the primary care Now moving on, she's been 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:24.640 in relationships and she found someone that you know is 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.760 her person. She's been dating him, and she's been moving 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.760 away from her ex. And when I say moving away, 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:34.800 like he the ex was watching the dog when she 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:38.039 would like go away for like vacation or whatever. 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:40.680 It was a good parenting situation basically at first. 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:45.839 Okay, So now you know she's in a relationship, so 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:49.520 it's not necessary to like keep a bond with the ex. 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:52.720 Now the ex has been. 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:57.720 In love with my friend for ever since they've been 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.920 together and been like they only been together for like 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:03.560 maybe close to a year, and they stay cool for 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:05.720 the next other couple of years. 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:08.280 Okay, So their relationship wasn't that long. It was about 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:09.959 a year, yea, four years ago. 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:15.440 This was, yes, okay, all right, And now you know 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:17.600 she's been trying to break apart and not having him 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.919 watch the watch the dog because she's had like either 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.079 her other friends watch him or you know, her new. 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:26.720 Boo and she's the primary caretaker for this dog basically 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:27.720 a single mom. 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:30.560 Yes, it's the dog, yes, okay, okay. 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:35.200 So now she told him that she wants to cut ties, and. 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:37.720 He did not take that. 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:41.840 Well, now she doesn't completely I'll say not officially because 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:44.960 they officially cut ties, but completely cut ties, Like I 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.800 don't even want you. We're not even co parenting anymore, 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:51.359 we don't need how involved is he as a dad 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.919 to the dog anyway? Before you know, for the fact, 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:55.440 for the past three years. 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.520 It would just be babysitting. Really, that's the only time 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:00.000 he'll see him. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.080 M It wasn't like he's like, oh I want to 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:06.480 see him, take him for a week. Oh no, no, no, no, no, Like. 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.680 If she's gonna wait, he'll be like, all right, I'll 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.160 take him whatever that and it'll be like for a 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:11.840 couple of days. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:13.760 Because I was gonna say, who pays for everything? Because 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:17.320 dogs are like kids, they're expensive. The mother, Yeah so. 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:22.840 She okay, her name is on all the documents. Documents. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.480 Wow. The only thing I would say. 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:29.360 He he bought the dog originally, but she's had the 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:33.800 dog since five or six months. Okay, yeah, since the 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:39.320 dog's three now, okay, okay, okay, okay. So he bought 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:42.000 the dog. He bought the dog together. Yeah, they went 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.000 together when Okay, So he just. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:44.520 Bought her a dog. 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:47.000 That's I said, Like they were cool afterwards whatever, And 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:50.440 I think he bought the dog to he said he 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:54.839 want you know, people making money off dogs, So he said, 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:55.560 what kind of dog? 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:55.720 Is it? 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:59.400 A French bull dog? Oh? Hell yeah, my fucking money. 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:04.800 So he wanted to breed him per se. But it's 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:08.600 also a boy dog. So it's more work, I think, 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:10.040 to find a female dog. 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:11.040 It's all other stuff. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:14.480 So he kept claiming that he's gonna try to find 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:17.159 a dog, or he wanted her to try to find 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:21.040 I don't know me. Yeah, but nothing of that ever happened. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:26.160 So now out the blue, I think he found out 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:30.760 that she got a man now and now he supposedly 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:31.520 misses a dog. 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:37.120 And he was also offering that. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.680 He got a litter of other French bull dogs and 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.760 he wants her to sell them for some reason. He 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:46.360 just he keeps trying to be in business with her 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.400 while she's trying to break away. 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:49.680 So after her. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:52.440 Telling him that he don't want to or that she 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.720 doesn't you know, she want to cut ties like it's yeah, there's. 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:56.280 No point, it's fuss. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:02.080 And I also make clear that she almost already saying 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.960 she wants to get him neuter because it's been three years, 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:05.440 like yeah. 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.480 Nothing came about sitting around waiting. 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:12.640 Yeah, like you have a friend she he oh, yes, yes, 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:13.480 And it's. 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.360 It's very nerve wrecking, like man, you seeing little doggie 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:19.320 seeming around the house on your sheet and it's like, no, 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:21.160 I need to get your ass fished, or you need 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:22.359 to hurry up and bust a nut and make a 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:25.360 litter or something because I'm about to Yeah, this is crazy. 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:30.080 So even now like he has another litter, So now 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.159 that she wants to ceties, he feels the type of 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.200 way and like, well, if you don't want to share him, 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:35.280 I want to take him back. 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:39.680 M But nothing has ever been an issue until this 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.560 new man. And so she got a new man and 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:45.760 now he's like trying to make demands or trying to Okay, 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.760 tell me this, have your friend? 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:53.960 Has she seen him the ex the last time previously 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:56.560 or anything. The last time she's seen him, he confessed 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:58.960 he tried to confess his love again to her. 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.600 He still locked in on trying to be. 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:04.800 Like he get back with her, yes, like but very 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:10.720 submissively like he's not he's not a or not yet 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:15.359 at least a stalker X where he's consistently like come on, 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:17.200 like I just feel like we just need to work 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:17.520 it out. 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:20.640 But he has done it over the spend of years. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:26.120 So the last time again shut him down and they 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:29.080 weren't talking for months because I guess he's a little heartbroken. 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:32.240 So then again like at the Blue, he comes and 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:36.440 tries to make it seem like either way. So now 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:40.919 she doesn't know what's the next move and kind of 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:42.839 nervous of him. 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:45.000 Can you go to the court for a dog? You 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:46.640 damn sure you can go to court for a dog. 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:47.320 Guess you can. 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:50.560 But the thing is okay, So she doesn't want to 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:53.760 give him the dog. No, okay, right, because it was 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:56.240 like she feels like, yo, I've been the primary care 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:58.479 taker all this time. I've been I've been paying for shit, 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:02.160 I've been, you know, been there for the damn dog. 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:03.760 And then also you just don't want to uproot a 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:06.360 dog's life, honestly at the dog. But I've gotten used 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:09.280 to her for the past four or three years. 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:12.560 How old is a dog? Three? Right? And you got 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.880 the dog? Let me finish that thought. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:19.960 Yeah, so if the dog has been with her for 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:22.720 the past three years, you can't just take the dog 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:23.680 out of her possession. 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.440 And then now you think you're gonna live. 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.960 Happily after with this dog, Like I look at that 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:33.320 like a kid, Like that's like a mom. Like a 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:36.160 dad comeing to rip a mom of the child out 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:39.800 of a mom's house and put him in in his house. 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:41.840 Now it's like, damn, I had three years with my mom. 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:44.560 Now I got to get used to this nigga who 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.240 was my dad and shit, which is not bad in 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:51.440 a child's case, but for a dog, the whole situation 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:52.440 is a little messy. 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:55.320 It's crazy what he's trying to do because I feel like. 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:58.320 He bought the dog for her when they were broken up, 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:01.160 so we can all always remained tied. 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:04.920 To her, right, that's the thing. And all her. 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:08.720 Friends just say that, and the thing is like, she 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:13.240 understands that, but she was like, look, if he want 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:16.080 to be my babysitter, then, but. 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:19.200 Was she ever open to going back to him? How 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:20.440 did they end? Do you know? 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:24.720 She ended up blocking him after I'm saying, how did 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:25.320 the breakup go? 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:29.080 Oh, because you said they were cool after? Yeah, because 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:31.480 he he's. 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.520 Not, I guess in the sense of bad guy, but 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:37.920 she they just weren't in line like he just. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:41.320 So he's not because I noticed they remained friends after 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:45.280 the relationship. So it's like, all right, you're not good 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.760 boyfriend material, but we're good friends and you brought me 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:50.280 this dog. Okay, cool, great, Yeah, thanks that we have 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:52.880 a dog together. That was the contract that should never 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:53.640 been stepped in down. 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:58.560 But there's no written, no written of like it's going 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:01.000 to be it's still my dog. 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:04.920 Yeah, so technically he just brought her a dog pretty much. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:05.760 Yeah? 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:06.280 All right? 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:06.560 Cool? 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:08.720 Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good. 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:11.000 But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:12.240 If you love me, you'll listen. 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:14.840 Wait, so what's the question? 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:20.439 Oh, she doesn't know if she should should she start 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.160 making the legal actions first? 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.480 Okay, so she wants to tell whether or not she 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.679 should take him to court for the dog, because I mean, 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:33.000 has he threatened her in anyway. 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:33.400 He had to take the dog because she wants to 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:37.800 cut ties and you said she blocked him. Yeah, and 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:42.920 then but then because after that he threatened to take 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:44.719 the dog. Yeah, and then wants to be like, well, 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.880 well then and then follows up and was like, well, 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:52.200 at least you know, can I get his his semen? 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:56.800 Because but it doesn't make sense of because you should 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:59.320 have been had it seamen because he wanted to quote 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:06.040 unquote breeding him right. But now yeah, because she hasn't litter. Now, 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:08.280 so what do you what are you worrying about? 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.319 He's just still trying to keep that communication open. Does 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:14.439 he ever bring up the other boyfriend or absolutely really 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:15.520 because now. 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:16.240 We see what it's about. 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.599 So she doesn't know if, like I said, like she 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:22.720 should even be like, look, I'm taking this serious and 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.040 I'm going to take legal action or just wait. 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.800 See, I don't want her to be leading him on 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:31.199 in any type of way. And then I give advice, 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:33.480 but then she's still like kind of back peddling a 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:38.520 little bit because this man, it sounds as if he 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:40.120 just came out of nowhere and asked about this shit, 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:44.319 you know, for him for them to be like done 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:47.680 for four years. He bought a dog three years ago, 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.320 and then they never tried to get back together. Do 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:53.800 you feel like she's telling you everything? Like no, I 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:57.120 never like have they gone out, have they seen each other? 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.400 She was she ever leading him on in any type away? 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.600 Because niggas can be crazy. I just want to make 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:05.280 sure everything on her before I get in. You know, 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:06.720 what I know is that. 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:13.280 She's dated several other guys. Yeah, like she's she's when 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:16.760 that broke up with him, and he's try I think 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:20.120 almost every year, like to make it seem like he 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:23.040 like or not even make it seem what confesses love, 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:25.640 and she shuts it down, like look I just. 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:27.679 Want to be like, we're not got you. 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:27.839 No. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:31.000 Oh yeah, So he is greaty, he is crazy. It's 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.120 the unusual guy. 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:35.200 But he's but it's like low key crazy though, because 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.680 he'll get he'll give her space, but then out the 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:42.080 blue like, let me try to see you again because 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:47.880 he thinks you always might. I mean, I think it's 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:51.960 not Jamaican Okay, okay, because guys may be like, look, 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:56.000 this bitch is mine. Well, I do know when she 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.400 first originally broke up with him, he told her it 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:00.720 was like, you know, I'm not gonna let you go 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:05.360 that easily. Look, and she said, just take that like 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:07.240 an episode of fatal retraction. 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.640 Hell the fuck, I'm. 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.240 Not gonna say it's not gonna be easy to get 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:14.400 away from me. Shit, I hope the new nigga can fight, like. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:16.880 Damn. 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:19.520 I do think she should take legal action to be honest, 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.520 this guy. I mean, all the signs point to it. 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:25.199 I mean it's red flags. It's like, after four years, 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.200 you haven't moved on. Does he have a girlfriend? 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.600 Is he ever dated? What the fuck? 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:31.880 So? I said the girlfriend, I mean, your your friend. 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:33.840 Don't know about any other girlfriends? I mean, because they 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:38.160 were friends afterwards she has no Yeah, yeah, I just 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:39.960 think it's one of those things. If I can have you, 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:41.400 nobody will because I feel like. 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.480 The legal action with the dog, or just even legal 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.240 action just restraining. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.280 Oh I don't know, restraining order also with the dog, 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:49.880 but first a restraining order. 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.720 I mean, it doesn't seem like it's that much about 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:52.599 the dog. It does not. 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.000 And then you said he brings up the ex boyfriend. 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:57.600 I mean he brings up the new boyfriend a lot. 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:00.880 And like you said, he'll he's kind of reserved, he'll 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:02.440 give her space and then it'll come back around then. 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:04.280 But when he does come back around, it is a 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:08.520 little aggressive, but he will fall back. But you just 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:11.200 can't trust things like that, especially if she's trying to 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:12.719 move forward now completely. 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.640 She don't want to look back, don't even. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.640 Want to consult him about the dog, anything about the dog, 0:13:17.720 --> 0:13:19.079 you know what I mean, Like, I just want to 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:22.200 cut ties with you completely. That can get a little crazy, 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.280 you know, And we hear all too often about how 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:29.320 men end up hurting women over rejection, whether it's an ex, 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:31.600 a crazy ex, a new person or stranger or whatever. 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:35.560 Like we hear that all too often these days. So 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:38.640 I definitely want your friend to be safe for sure. 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:41.280 So I think that she should pursue legal action against 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:44.160 him for herself first and then get to the dog 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:49.040 later or once she has a she don't need to go. 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:49.719 She don't need. 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:53.439 Yeah, because she gave him. I guess that he was 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:56.480 trying to new to him whatever or not new to him. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:13:59.080 He was trying to breed him whatever, and nothing came 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:04.319 about it. He ended another dog dog and littered whatever him. 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:06.760 So what do you need that dog for? Just and 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:10.560 she ends up getting him new d So what's the point. 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:13.920 Yeah, but that was totally separate from from him. She 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:15.520 just got it done on her own someone else. 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.559 She told him, if you don't have a dog, it's 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:20.280 been three years at this point. 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:21.760 She wants to hurry up and get it fixed. 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.560 Yeah, because she's a primary care she has to deal 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:26.720 with it's a lot. Yeah, she has to deal with 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:29.840 his humping and all that stuff. 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.560 So she already has everything. 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:33.680 She trying to get that process going so she can 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:34.360 get him fixed. 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:35.520 And I totally get it. 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.360 Yeah, So I think she should definitely take legal action 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.440 against him, like a restraining order or something like that. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:42.920 I mean, I know he knows where she lives, where she. 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:44.520 Works, and all of that type of shit, and it 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:47.040 just sounds like it's it's I don't know. 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:50.200 It just sounds real creepy. So it's also petty. It's 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:51.400 petty because. 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:54.880 It's definitely creepy after four years, move the fuck on by, 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:56.400 you know what I'm saying. 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.200 I mean, I understand it's hard to. 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:01.720 Let butesson also, like relationships go at the same time, 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:06.400 I guess, like, again, he was watching the dog at times. 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:10.480 At times, yeah, but the whole not the whole one hundred, 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:12.880 three hundred and sixty five days here, you know what 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:13.280 I mean. 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:17.600 So probably I would say, maybe if you can put 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:21.320 a percentage on it, how much what percentage of the 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.200 day was he being to the dog? 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:27.920 Ten to five percent? What the fuck? That is so 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:31.080 bad because you went with ten to five. 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:39.840 Because oh but yeah it wasn't. 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:43.600 Yeah, so that's hardly nothing. So it's not about the 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:46.200 dog the fuck. It ain't about no damn dog. No, 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:49.600 it's about her not being with him, And it's about 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:52.640 as long as nobody. 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:55.400 Updated if there was an issue with the dog, but 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:59.240 she paid for it. The dogs are explosive, this fuck, 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:04.600 and yeah, hell yeah, so yeah, no, I definitely get 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.960 it now, but definitely tell your friend go to court. 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:09.160 Take that man to fucking court, and hurry up and 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:13.920 take him before Jauary before Trump. Say never mind, girl, 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:15.680 I don't know what the fuck you're gonna say. Everybody 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.600 else scared, so let's just be scared with everybody. Shit, 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:19.920 I don't know, take him to court before Jayary, bitch, 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:21.040 I mean, girl. 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:24.640 Shit cause niggas is Panican? What the fun going happen 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:25.280 to this country? 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:25.640 Shit? 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:27.920 Now, we got a commercial and if you click off 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:30.040 of this podcast, I swear i'mnna beat your ass. 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:35.440 Listen. All right, moving on, so we got another story girl. 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:38.720 Yes, all right, hey Jess, So I'm gonna cut to 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.080 the chase. I'm gay and I'm out, and of course, 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:42.880 you know there's been time where I was afraid to 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.000 come out, but fuck it, it's twenty twenty four. 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:48.440 But the issue is I keep attracting these d L guys. 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:52.200 I love seeing a fine man, and when they be 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:56.040 gay in d L, I'm not gonna lie. I just 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.040 be like, fuck it, that's not my problem, like he 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:02.080 wants me whatever. But now now there's an issue. Should 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:04.840 I've been fucking with this gay guy for Lenna, say 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:08.320 a couple of months now, right, and you know, we 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.120 got a good little connection going on, Like I think 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:14.400 it's more than just fucking, Like I think like we're 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:18.879 vibing for real. But he's not only gay in d L. 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.439 He's also married and gay in. 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:26.119 DL murried gay Murray gay and d L. 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:33.280 Hey, y'all, they got and just recently his wife found out. 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:35.320 But get the chase. She still want to be with 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:39.280 her man, but she wants to fight me now. And 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:42.920 you know my mama raised me, right, I don't fight females. 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:47.760 I'm gonna touch a woman. But she's threatening me. 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:48.720 So what should I do? 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:52.960 And by the way, he acting like he just wants 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:55.760 to be married with her now? So now I'm not 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:59.520 gonna lie. I'm kind of heartbroken and I don't know 0:17:59.560 --> 0:17:59.960 what to do. 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:03.640 Yeah, so I see this all too often as well. 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:05.640 This is I just had a friend who went through 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:08.040 this shit last week, y'all. So I'm gonna tell y'all 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:11.400 I none that motherfucker will be mad and she's like, bitch, 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:12.320 I told you don't say that. 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:14.120 Will stop telling me, bitch. You know, I'm just fixing 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:14.560 my mess. 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:17.359 All right, listen, So I'm gonna tell you like I 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:21.120 told my friend last week, because the question last week 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:25.320 he wanted to know how he can stop attracting DL men. Listen, 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:28.280 There's no way you can stop attracting the people that 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:32.000 you attract. It's not I don't know, you know, you're 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:34.960 just a DL magnet. I'm not sure what attracts that. 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:36.280 You know what I'm saying. But the fact that the 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:38.480 wife want to fight you, I think is complete as 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:39.359 to nine of her. 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:40.560 Now. 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:42.800 I know it's a lot of women who flared up 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:44.679 their no sherils when I said that, But listen, this 0:18:44.760 --> 0:18:47.280 is exactly why I say that. Like I told my 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:50.440 friend last week, who was a gay man who got 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:54.000 into it with a few of the niggas he was 0:18:54.000 --> 0:18:56.920 dealing with, when their wives or girlfriends will find out 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:01.280 that they were gay and that they were with him, 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:04.240 This is the thing, ladies, this is what we have 0:19:04.359 --> 0:19:04.680 to stop. 0:19:04.840 --> 0:19:06.560 We have to we I'm saying. 0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:09.080 I've never been in this situation before, but I'm saying 0:19:09.080 --> 0:19:11.720 we because I'm a woman as well. We cannot get 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:13.560 mad at the guy, just like if you find out 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:15.080 that your man is cheating with a woman. 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:17.560 We don't get mad at the fucking woman. You know 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.120 what I'm saying, We don't. 0:19:18.960 --> 0:19:20.680 Even if they did know about you, they don't owe 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:23.440 you any fucking loyalty. Like, cut that shit out. Stop 0:19:23.520 --> 0:19:26.280 thinking that strangers owe you anything. 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:26.960