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Speaker 2: Just like that, we're back on the air. Welcome back
Speaker 2: to get another carefully reckless episode with your girl.
Speaker 3: Just hilarious.
Speaker 2: What I'm gonna be doing, I'm gonna be fixing mess.
Speaker 2: And we have Taylor here with a story. Say hey
Speaker 2: you hey, she's gonna be reading for me again because
Speaker 2: I just want her to so and she's been practicing.
Speaker 3: So let's go ahead and just jump straight on in.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't have to read this one off of
Speaker 1: SO and I know, okay, So basically I have a friend.
Speaker 3: That crazy.
Speaker 1: So my friend has a dog, has had the dog
Speaker 1: for several years, and and she got the dog though
Speaker 1: from her ex. They didn't have the dog when they
Speaker 1: were originally together. They stayed cool, but when he got
Speaker 1: the dog, he gave it to her to watch, and
Speaker 1: she's been the primary care Now moving on, she's been
Speaker 1: in relationships and she found someone that you know is
Speaker 1: her person. She's been dating him, and she's been moving
Speaker 1: away from her ex. And when I say moving away,
Speaker 1: like he the ex was watching the dog when she
Speaker 1: would like go away for like vacation or whatever.
Speaker 3: It was a good parenting situation basically at first.
Speaker 1: Okay, So now you know she's in a relationship, so
Speaker 1: it's not necessary to like keep a bond with the ex.
Speaker 3: Now the ex has been.
Speaker 1: In love with my friend for ever since they've been
Speaker 1: together and been like they only been together for like
Speaker 1: maybe close to a year, and they stay cool for
Speaker 1: the next other couple of years.
Speaker 2: Okay, So their relationship wasn't that long. It was about
Speaker 2: a year, yea, four years ago.
Speaker 1: This was, yes, okay, all right, And now you know
Speaker 1: she's been trying to break apart and not having him
Speaker 1: watch the watch the dog because she's had like either
Speaker 1: her other friends watch him or you know, her new.
Speaker 2: Boo and she's the primary caretaker for this dog basically
Speaker 2: a single mom.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's the dog, yes, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So now she told him that she wants to cut ties, and.
Speaker 3: He did not take that.
Speaker 2: Well, now she doesn't completely I'll say not officially because
Speaker 2: they officially cut ties, but completely cut ties, Like I
Speaker 2: don't even want you. We're not even co parenting anymore,
Speaker 2: we don't need how involved is he as a dad
Speaker 2: to the dog anyway? Before you know, for the fact,
Speaker 2: for the past three years.
Speaker 1: It would just be babysitting. Really, that's the only time
Speaker 1: he'll see him.
Speaker 3: M It wasn't like he's like, oh I want to
Speaker 3: see him, take him for a week. Oh no, no, no, no, no, Like.
Speaker 1: If she's gonna wait, he'll be like, all right, I'll
Speaker 1: take him whatever that and it'll be like for a
Speaker 1: couple of days.
Speaker 2: Because I was gonna say, who pays for everything? Because
Speaker 2: dogs are like kids, they're expensive. The mother, Yeah so.
Speaker 1: She okay, her name is on all the documents. Documents.
Speaker 3: Wow. The only thing I would say.
Speaker 1: He he bought the dog originally, but she's had the
Speaker 1: dog since five or six months. Okay, yeah, since the
Speaker 1: dog's three now, okay, okay, okay, okay. So he bought
Speaker 1: the dog. He bought the dog together. Yeah, they went
Speaker 1: together when Okay, So he just.
Speaker 3: Bought her a dog.
Speaker 1: That's I said, Like they were cool afterwards whatever, And
Speaker 1: I think he bought the dog to he said he
Speaker 1: want you know, people making money off dogs, So he said,
Speaker 1: what kind of dog?
Speaker 4: Is it?
Speaker 3: A French bull dog? Oh? Hell yeah, my fucking money.
Speaker 1: So he wanted to breed him per se. But it's
Speaker 1: also a boy dog. So it's more work, I think,
Speaker 1: to find a female dog.
Speaker 3: It's all other stuff.
Speaker 1: So he kept claiming that he's gonna try to find
Speaker 1: a dog, or he wanted her to try to find
Speaker 1: I don't know me. Yeah, but nothing of that ever happened.
Speaker 1: So now out the blue, I think he found out
Speaker 1: that she got a man now and now he supposedly
Speaker 1: misses a dog.
Speaker 3: And he was also offering that.
Speaker 1: He got a litter of other French bull dogs and
Speaker 1: he wants her to sell them for some reason. He
Speaker 1: just he keeps trying to be in business with her
Speaker 1: while she's trying to break away.
Speaker 3: So after her.
Speaker 1: Telling him that he don't want to or that she
Speaker 1: doesn't you know, she want to cut ties like it's yeah, there's.
Speaker 3: No point, it's fuss.
Speaker 1: And I also make clear that she almost already saying
Speaker 1: she wants to get him neuter because it's been three years,
Speaker 1: like yeah.
Speaker 3: Nothing came about sitting around waiting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you have a friend she he oh, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: And it's.
Speaker 2: It's very nerve wrecking, like man, you seeing little doggie
Speaker 2: seeming around the house on your sheet and it's like, no,
Speaker 2: I need to get your ass fished, or you need
Speaker 2: to hurry up and bust a nut and make a
Speaker 2: litter or something because I'm about to Yeah, this is crazy.
Speaker 1: So even now like he has another litter, So now
Speaker 1: that she wants to ceties, he feels the type of
Speaker 1: way and like, well, if you don't want to share him,
Speaker 1: I want to take him back.
Speaker 2: M But nothing has ever been an issue until this
Speaker 2: new man. And so she got a new man and
Speaker 2: now he's like trying to make demands or trying to Okay,
Speaker 2: tell me this, have your friend?
Speaker 1: Has she seen him the ex the last time previously
Speaker 1: or anything. The last time she's seen him, he confessed
Speaker 1: he tried to confess his love again to her.
Speaker 3: He still locked in on trying to be.
Speaker 1: Like he get back with her, yes, like but very
Speaker 1: submissively like he's not he's not a or not yet
Speaker 1: at least a stalker X where he's consistently like come on,
Speaker 1: like I just feel like we just need to work
Speaker 1: it out.
Speaker 3: But he has done it over the spend of years.
Speaker 1: So the last time again shut him down and they
Speaker 1: weren't talking for months because I guess he's a little heartbroken.
Speaker 1: So then again like at the Blue, he comes and
Speaker 1: tries to make it seem like either way. So now
Speaker 1: she doesn't know what's the next move and kind of
Speaker 1: nervous of him.
Speaker 3: Can you go to the court for a dog? You
Speaker 3: damn sure you can go to court for a dog.
Speaker 3: Guess you can.
Speaker 2: But the thing is okay, So she doesn't want to
Speaker 2: give him the dog. No, okay, right, because it was
Speaker 2: like she feels like, yo, I've been the primary care
Speaker 2: taker all this time. I've been I've been paying for shit,
Speaker 2: I've been, you know, been there for the damn dog.
Speaker 2: And then also you just don't want to uproot a
Speaker 2: dog's life, honestly at the dog. But I've gotten used
Speaker 2: to her for the past four or three years.
Speaker 3: How old is a dog? Three? Right? And you got
Speaker 3: the dog? Let me finish that thought.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so if the dog has been with her for
Speaker 2: the past three years, you can't just take the dog
Speaker 2: out of her possession.
Speaker 3: And then now you think you're gonna live.
Speaker 2: Happily after with this dog, Like I look at that
Speaker 2: like a kid, Like that's like a mom. Like a
Speaker 2: dad comeing to rip a mom of the child out
Speaker 2: of a mom's house and put him in in his house.
Speaker 2: Now it's like, damn, I had three years with my mom.
Speaker 2: Now I got to get used to this nigga who
Speaker 2: was my dad and shit, which is not bad in
Speaker 2: a child's case, but for a dog, the whole situation
Speaker 2: is a little messy.
Speaker 3: It's crazy what he's trying to do because I feel like.
Speaker 2: He bought the dog for her when they were broken up,
Speaker 2: so we can all always remained tied.
Speaker 3: To her, right, that's the thing. And all her.
Speaker 1: Friends just say that, and the thing is like, she
Speaker 1: understands that, but she was like, look, if he want
Speaker 1: to be my babysitter, then, but.
Speaker 3: Was she ever open to going back to him? How
Speaker 3: did they end? Do you know?
Speaker 1: She ended up blocking him after I'm saying, how did
Speaker 1: the breakup go?
Speaker 3: Oh, because you said they were cool after? Yeah, because
Speaker 3: he he's.
Speaker 1: Not, I guess in the sense of bad guy, but
Speaker 1: she they just weren't in line like he just.
Speaker 2: So he's not because I noticed they remained friends after
Speaker 2: the relationship. So it's like, all right, you're not good
Speaker 2: boyfriend material, but we're good friends and you brought me
Speaker 2: this dog. Okay, cool, great, Yeah, thanks that we have
Speaker 2: a dog together. That was the contract that should never
Speaker 2: been stepped in down.
Speaker 1: But there's no written, no written of like it's going
Speaker 1: to be it's still my dog.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so technically he just brought her a dog pretty much.
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 3: Cool?
Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good.
Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 3: Wait, so what's the question?
Speaker 1: Oh, she doesn't know if she should should she start
Speaker 1: making the legal actions first?
Speaker 2: Okay, so she wants to tell whether or not she
Speaker 2: should take him to court for the dog, because I mean,
Speaker 2: has he threatened her in anyway.
Speaker 1: He had to take the dog because she wants to
Speaker 1: cut ties and you said she blocked him. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then but then because after that he threatened to take
Speaker 1: the dog. Yeah, and then wants to be like, well,
Speaker 1: well then and then follows up and was like, well,
Speaker 1: at least you know, can I get his his semen?
Speaker 1: Because but it doesn't make sense of because you should
Speaker 1: have been had it seamen because he wanted to quote
Speaker 1: unquote breeding him right. But now yeah, because she hasn't litter. Now,
Speaker 1: so what do you what are you worrying about?
Speaker 2: He's just still trying to keep that communication open. Does
Speaker 2: he ever bring up the other boyfriend or absolutely really
Speaker 2: because now.
Speaker 3: We see what it's about.
Speaker 1: So she doesn't know if, like I said, like she
Speaker 1: should even be like, look, I'm taking this serious and
Speaker 1: I'm going to take legal action or just wait.
Speaker 2: See, I don't want her to be leading him on
Speaker 2: in any type of way. And then I give advice,
Speaker 2: but then she's still like kind of back peddling a
Speaker 2: little bit because this man, it sounds as if he
Speaker 2: just came out of nowhere and asked about this shit,
Speaker 2: you know, for him for them to be like done
Speaker 2: for four years. He bought a dog three years ago,
Speaker 2: and then they never tried to get back together. Do
Speaker 2: you feel like she's telling you everything? Like no, I
Speaker 2: never like have they gone out, have they seen each other?
Speaker 2: She was she ever leading him on in any type away?
Speaker 3: Because niggas can be crazy. I just want to make
Speaker 3: sure everything on her before I get in. You know,
Speaker 3: what I know is that.
Speaker 1: She's dated several other guys. Yeah, like she's she's when
Speaker 1: that broke up with him, and he's try I think
Speaker 1: almost every year, like to make it seem like he
Speaker 1: like or not even make it seem what confesses love,
Speaker 1: and she shuts it down, like look I just.
Speaker 3: Want to be like, we're not got you.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, So he is greaty, he is crazy. It's
Speaker 3: the unusual guy.
Speaker 1: But he's but it's like low key crazy though, because
Speaker 1: he'll get he'll give her space, but then out the
Speaker 1: blue like, let me try to see you again because
Speaker 1: he thinks you always might. I mean, I think it's
Speaker 1: not Jamaican Okay, okay, because guys may be like, look,
Speaker 1: this bitch is mine. Well, I do know when she
Speaker 1: first originally broke up with him, he told her it
Speaker 1: was like, you know, I'm not gonna let you go
Speaker 1: that easily. Look, and she said, just take that like
Speaker 1: an episode of fatal retraction.
Speaker 3: Hell the fuck, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not gonna say it's not gonna be easy to get
Speaker 2: away from me. Shit, I hope the new nigga can fight, like.
Speaker 4: Damn.
Speaker 2: I do think she should take legal action to be honest,
Speaker 2: this guy. I mean, all the signs point to it.
Speaker 2: I mean it's red flags. It's like, after four years,
Speaker 2: you haven't moved on. Does he have a girlfriend?
Speaker 3: Is he ever dated? What the fuck?
Speaker 2: So? I said the girlfriend, I mean, your your friend.
Speaker 2: Don't know about any other girlfriends? I mean, because they
Speaker 2: were friends afterwards she has no Yeah, yeah, I just
Speaker 2: think it's one of those things. If I can have you,
Speaker 2: nobody will because I feel like.
Speaker 1: The legal action with the dog, or just even legal
Speaker 1: action just restraining.
Speaker 2: Oh I don't know, restraining order also with the dog,
Speaker 2: but first a restraining order.
Speaker 3: I mean, it doesn't seem like it's that much about
Speaker 3: the dog. It does not.
Speaker 2: And then you said he brings up the ex boyfriend.
Speaker 2: I mean he brings up the new boyfriend a lot.
Speaker 2: And like you said, he'll he's kind of reserved, he'll
Speaker 2: give her space and then it'll come back around then.
Speaker 2: But when he does come back around, it is a
Speaker 2: little aggressive, but he will fall back. But you just
Speaker 2: can't trust things like that, especially if she's trying to
Speaker 2: move forward now completely.
Speaker 3: She don't want to look back, don't even.
Speaker 2: Want to consult him about the dog, anything about the dog,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, I just want to
Speaker 2: cut ties with you completely. That can get a little crazy,
Speaker 2: you know, And we hear all too often about how
Speaker 2: men end up hurting women over rejection, whether it's an ex,
Speaker 2: a crazy ex, a new person or stranger or whatever.
Speaker 2: Like we hear that all too often these days. So
Speaker 2: I definitely want your friend to be safe for sure.
Speaker 2: So I think that she should pursue legal action against
Speaker 2: him for herself first and then get to the dog
Speaker 2: later or once she has a she don't need to go.
Speaker 3: She don't need.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she gave him. I guess that he was
Speaker 1: trying to new to him whatever or not new to him.
Speaker 1: He was trying to breed him whatever, and nothing came
Speaker 1: about it. He ended another dog dog and littered whatever him.
Speaker 1: So what do you need that dog for? Just and
Speaker 1: she ends up getting him new d So what's the point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was totally separate from from him. She
Speaker 2: just got it done on her own someone else.
Speaker 1: She told him, if you don't have a dog, it's
Speaker 1: been three years at this point.
Speaker 3: She wants to hurry up and get it fixed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she's a primary care she has to deal
Speaker 1: with it's a lot. Yeah, she has to deal with
Speaker 1: his humping and all that stuff.
Speaker 3: So she already has everything.
Speaker 2: She trying to get that process going so she can
Speaker 2: get him fixed.
Speaker 3: And I totally get it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think she should definitely take legal action
Speaker 2: against him, like a restraining order or something like that.
Speaker 3: I mean, I know he knows where she lives, where she.
Speaker 1: Works, and all of that type of shit, and it
Speaker 1: just sounds like it's it's I don't know.
Speaker 3: It just sounds real creepy. So it's also petty. It's
Speaker 3: petty because.
Speaker 2: It's definitely creepy after four years, move the fuck on by,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I mean, I understand it's hard to.
Speaker 1: Let butesson also, like relationships go at the same time,
Speaker 1: I guess, like, again, he was watching the dog at times.
Speaker 3: At times, yeah, but the whole not the whole one hundred,
Speaker 3: three hundred and sixty five days here, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 1: So probably I would say, maybe if you can put
Speaker 1: a percentage on it, how much what percentage of the
Speaker 1: day was he being to the dog?
Speaker 3: Ten to five percent? What the fuck? That is so
Speaker 3: bad because you went with ten to five.
Speaker 1: Because oh but yeah it wasn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's hardly nothing. So it's not about the
Speaker 2: dog the fuck. It ain't about no damn dog. No,
Speaker 2: it's about her not being with him, And it's about
Speaker 2: as long as nobody.
Speaker 1: Updated if there was an issue with the dog, but
Speaker 1: she paid for it. The dogs are explosive, this fuck,
Speaker 1: and yeah, hell yeah, so yeah, no, I definitely get
Speaker 1: it now, but definitely tell your friend go to court.
Speaker 1: Take that man to fucking court, and hurry up and
Speaker 1: take him before Jauary before Trump. Say never mind, girl,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck you're gonna say. Everybody
Speaker 1: else scared, so let's just be scared with everybody. Shit,
Speaker 1: I don't know, take him to court before Jayary, bitch,
Speaker 1: I mean, girl.
Speaker 3: Shit cause niggas is Panican? What the fun going happen
Speaker 3: to this country?
Speaker 4: Shit?
Speaker 2: Now, we got a commercial and if you click off
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Speaker 3: Listen. All right, moving on, so we got another story girl.
Speaker 1: Yes, all right, hey Jess, So I'm gonna cut to
Speaker 1: the chase. I'm gay and I'm out, and of course,
Speaker 1: you know there's been time where I was afraid to
Speaker 1: come out, but fuck it, it's twenty twenty four.
Speaker 3: But the issue is I keep attracting these d L guys.
Speaker 1: I love seeing a fine man, and when they be
Speaker 1: gay in d L, I'm not gonna lie. I just
Speaker 1: be like, fuck it, that's not my problem, like he
Speaker 1: wants me whatever. But now now there's an issue. Should
Speaker 1: I've been fucking with this gay guy for Lenna, say
Speaker 1: a couple of months now, right, and you know, we
Speaker 1: got a good little connection going on, Like I think
Speaker 1: it's more than just fucking, Like I think like we're
Speaker 1: vibing for real. But he's not only gay in d L.
Speaker 1: He's also married and gay in.
Speaker 3: DL murried gay Murray gay and d L.
Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, they got and just recently his wife found out.
Speaker 1: But get the chase. She still want to be with
Speaker 1: her man, but she wants to fight me now. And
Speaker 1: you know my mama raised me, right, I don't fight females.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna touch a woman. But she's threatening me.
Speaker 3: So what should I do?
Speaker 1: And by the way, he acting like he just wants
Speaker 1: to be married with her now? So now I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I'm kind of heartbroken and I don't know
Speaker 1: what to do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I see this all too often as well.
Speaker 2: This is I just had a friend who went through
Speaker 2: this shit last week, y'all. So I'm gonna tell y'all
Speaker 2: I none that motherfucker will be mad and she's like, bitch,
Speaker 2: I told you don't say that.
Speaker 3: Will stop telling me, bitch. You know, I'm just fixing
Speaker 3: my mess.
Speaker 2: All right, listen, So I'm gonna tell you like I
Speaker 2: told my friend last week, because the question last week
Speaker 2: he wanted to know how he can stop attracting DL men. Listen,
Speaker 2: There's no way you can stop attracting the people that
Speaker 2: you attract. It's not I don't know, you know, you're
Speaker 2: just a DL magnet. I'm not sure what attracts that.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. But the fact that the
Speaker 2: wife want to fight you, I think is complete as
Speaker 2: to nine of her.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 2: I know it's a lot of women who flared up
Speaker 2: their no sherils when I said that, But listen, this
Speaker 2: is exactly why I say that. Like I told my
Speaker 2: friend last week, who was a gay man who got
Speaker 2: into it with a few of the niggas he was
Speaker 2: dealing with, when their wives or girlfriends will find out
Speaker 2: that they were gay and that they were with him,
Speaker 2: This is the thing, ladies, this is what we have
Speaker 2: to stop.
Speaker 3: We have to we I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I've never been in this situation before, but I'm saying
Speaker 2: we because I'm a woman as well. We cannot get
Speaker 2: mad at the guy, just like if you find out
Speaker 2: that your man is cheating with a woman.
Speaker 1: We don't get mad at the fucking woman. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, We don't.
Speaker 2: Even if they did know about you, they don't owe
Speaker 2: you any fucking loyalty. Like, cut that shit out. Stop
Speaker 2: thinking that strangers owe you anything.
Speaker 3: They don't.
Speaker 2: It's the nigga that you lay with every night, the
Speaker 2: nigga that you wake up with every morning. It's the
Speaker 2: nigga that that walk down the fucking aisle and set
Speaker 2: them vowels. It's the nigga that you said your vowels to,
Speaker 2: y'all said I do, y'all jumped the burm or y'all
Speaker 2: kiss said I do whatever. That's who you need to
Speaker 2: take that shit up with, because you know what, you
Speaker 2: competing with some shit that you ain't got.
Speaker 3: You ain't got.
Speaker 2: You can't compete with the fucking man, ladies. And that's
Speaker 2: why your husband is fucking d l like you know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, because he doesn't want to be out,
Speaker 2: so he's gonna creep until he gets caught.
Speaker 3: Now he got caught.
Speaker 2: Now this guy saying that the wife's trying to fight
Speaker 2: him or trying to kill him, whatever.
Speaker 3: The fuck, she needs a fucking reality check.
Speaker 2: And the man needs a fucking reality check. Both of
Speaker 2: them need therapy, both individually, Okay, especially him, because if
Speaker 2: he can't be who he really wants to be, he
Speaker 2: don't need to be with nobody.
Speaker 3: That's really really fucked up.
Speaker 2: It's fucked up that he putting his wife through that shit,
Speaker 2: and it's fucked up that you're going through this shit.
Speaker 2: And it's also fucked up that he's depriving himself of
Speaker 2: being able to live his life freely and truly, because
Speaker 2: everybody deserves, honestly, everybody deserves to have a choice to
Speaker 2: be in a situation. And you and him both rabbed
Speaker 2: that wife of a choice.
Speaker 3: You get what I'm saying. You knew he was married,
Speaker 3: so you just as fucked up as he is.
Speaker 2: However, it's all on him because the wife can't control
Speaker 2: We as women can't control what the men do. We
Speaker 2: can't control what the side chicks and side niggas do.
Speaker 2: We can't control that. We can only control our emotions
Speaker 2: in ourselves. You know what I'm saying. I think she
Speaker 2: should leave that fucking man. You should leave that nigga alone,
Speaker 2: and you should stop seeking comfort from those who are
Speaker 2: dl because at what point do you want to be
Speaker 2: loved out loud as well, and you can't, you know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Everybody don't. And I get it. It's probably a good
Speaker 3: coin to come with it.
Speaker 2: And you know he probably buys you shit and you know,
Speaker 2: and keeps giving you empty promises and shit, and you
Speaker 2: know it's cute for the moment, But when you cry
Speaker 2: and by your fucking self, with the burking Netty brought
Speaker 2: you and shit like that, it's like, is it really
Speaker 2: worth it? Is it worth your integrity, your dignity, your
Speaker 2: pride as a man, your heart like because your heart
Speaker 2: broken as well, don't act like you not, don't act like,
Speaker 2: oh no, it's all good, Like, no, it's not.
Speaker 3: Because you want to be loved too. You want to
Speaker 3: be loved.
Speaker 2: Everybody's goal is to be loved, whether it's by a woman,
Speaker 2: a man, whatever the fuck, but everybody wants love. And
Speaker 2: at some point, that fucking with dl niggas, that shit
Speaker 2: is gonna get old.
Speaker 3: It's gonna get old, and it's.
Speaker 2: Gonna get tiredsome and you will get hurt behind that
Speaker 2: shit A lot of shit. Okay, So listen, if you
Speaker 2: don't believe me, watch the movie cover that was a
Speaker 2: really really good movie. It's about how d L married men,
Speaker 2: a d L married man was attracted.
Speaker 3: Just watch the fucking movie, all right.
Speaker 1: I don't care, y'all, y'all, just look up cover. It's
Speaker 1: a really really good film.
Speaker 2: You know. It's about married men being DL and shit
Speaker 2: on a down low fucking with these men and you know,
Speaker 2: somebody dies, shit like that.
Speaker 3: It's a really really good movie.
Speaker 2: But this is a real eye opener to these DL niggas,
Speaker 2: all right. So yeah, I had to go off a
Speaker 2: little bit on that because I'm like, yo, I just
Speaker 2: I just had a similar situation. Somebody just was talking
Speaker 2: to me about this bullshit about a man who was
Speaker 2: d L. And my friend is gay and he been
Speaker 2: dealing with this nigga, and he was like, yo, he
Speaker 2: didn't even know that the nigga was married. He found
Speaker 2: out about the wife when the wife contacted him, and shit,
Speaker 2: and she popped up at his job because they worked together.
Speaker 2: She probably have been the fucking.
Speaker 3: Job, y'all.
Speaker 2: And it was just it was just wold, like she
Speaker 2: is still holding her husband accountable, but she's just like, yo,
Speaker 2: we got seven kids, seven children, so she can't just
Speaker 2: get up and walk away.
Speaker 3: That free, like that's a marriage.
Speaker 1: They got businesses together, they had homes and properties and
Speaker 1: shit together, and he was taking care of that gay nigga,
Speaker 1: my friend. He was taking care of my friend because
Speaker 1: you know, I had a couple of little coins from
Speaker 1: my friend from him too that you know, yeah, shit,
Speaker 1: me and my old boy on a trip, and the
Speaker 1: nigga paid for it. We didn't know niggas married, you know,
Speaker 1: And so that's why he called me like, Yo, can
Speaker 1: you believe such and such as fucking married? And then
Speaker 1: you know, and all his money is from him and
Speaker 1: his wife's businesses, and.
Speaker 3: All of those knew that he was.
Speaker 2: He knew that he was DL. He just never said
Speaker 2: that he was married to a woman. He never said
Speaker 2: he was married. But yeah, so he he just was like, yo,
Speaker 2: I and my friend just knew that he could change
Speaker 2: that DL about He was like, I'm going to be
Speaker 2: the one to bring him out, like I want to
Speaker 2: bring him out. He'd been taking care of me, yo,
Speaker 2: And guess how long you've been fucking with my friend?
Speaker 2: He was talking with my friend for five years. He'd
Speaker 2: been married to his wife for twelve years. Fucking with yep,
Speaker 2: and they got seven children, three boys and four girls.
Speaker 3: Yep, wow, yep he knew about his kids. He didn't
Speaker 3: know that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: The guy was telling them like, Yo, I'm I'm just
Speaker 2: not out. I'm gay, I'm just not out.
Speaker 3: I just wanna say that.
Speaker 1: I think it's something deeper too, though, because I had
Speaker 1: a friend that was like, cat fucking y'all niggas, And
Speaker 1: now I was like, why do you keep fucking d'a
Speaker 1: niggas if you know it's not gonna go anywhere? There's
Speaker 1: something do you not believe that you could be yes?
Speaker 1: Like you said, like be in love.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something about it. Everybody needs healing. Everybody in
Speaker 2: a situation needs healing.
Speaker 1: But we've come to yet the end of another Catholy
Speaker 1: Rekless episode.
Speaker 3: Say bye, Taylor, and y'all say thank you to Tailor.
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Speaker 1: I love her so much.
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