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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And.

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Speaker 2: Just like that, we're back on the air. Welcome back

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Speaker 2: to get another carefully reckless episode with your girl.

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Speaker 3: Just hilarious.

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Speaker 2: What I'm gonna be doing, I'm gonna be fixing mess.

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Speaker 2: And we have Taylor here with a story. Say hey

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Speaker 2: you hey, she's gonna be reading for me again because

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Speaker 2: I just want her to so and she's been practicing.

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Speaker 3: So let's go ahead and just jump straight on in.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't have to read this one off of

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Speaker 1: SO and I know, okay, So basically I have a friend.

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Speaker 3: That crazy.

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Speaker 1: So my friend has a dog, has had the dog

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Speaker 1: for several years, and and she got the dog though

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Speaker 1: from her ex. They didn't have the dog when they

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Speaker 1: were originally together. They stayed cool, but when he got

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Speaker 1: the dog, he gave it to her to watch, and

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Speaker 1: she's been the primary care Now moving on, she's been

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Speaker 1: in relationships and she found someone that you know is

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Speaker 1: her person. She's been dating him, and she's been moving

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Speaker 1: away from her ex. And when I say moving away,

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Speaker 1: like he the ex was watching the dog when she

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Speaker 1: would like go away for like vacation or whatever.

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Speaker 3: It was a good parenting situation basically at first.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So now you know she's in a relationship, so

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Speaker 1: it's not necessary to like keep a bond with the ex.

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Speaker 3: Now the ex has been.

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Speaker 1: In love with my friend for ever since they've been

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Speaker 1: together and been like they only been together for like

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Speaker 1: maybe close to a year, and they stay cool for

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Speaker 1: the next other couple of years.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So their relationship wasn't that long. It was about

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Speaker 2: a year, yea, four years ago.

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Speaker 1: This was, yes, okay, all right, And now you know

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Speaker 1: she's been trying to break apart and not having him

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Speaker 1: watch the watch the dog because she's had like either

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Speaker 1: her other friends watch him or you know, her new.

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Speaker 2: Boo and she's the primary caretaker for this dog basically

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Speaker 2: a single mom.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's the dog, yes, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So now she told him that she wants to cut ties, and.

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Speaker 3: He did not take that.

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Speaker 2: Well, now she doesn't completely I'll say not officially because

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Speaker 2: they officially cut ties, but completely cut ties, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't even want you. We're not even co parenting anymore,

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Speaker 2: we don't need how involved is he as a dad

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Speaker 2: to the dog anyway? Before you know, for the fact,

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Speaker 2: for the past three years.

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Speaker 1: It would just be babysitting. Really, that's the only time

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Speaker 1: he'll see him.

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Speaker 3: M It wasn't like he's like, oh I want to

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Speaker 3: see him, take him for a week. Oh no, no, no, no, no, Like.

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Speaker 1: If she's gonna wait, he'll be like, all right, I'll

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Speaker 1: take him whatever that and it'll be like for a

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Speaker 1: couple of days.

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Speaker 2: Because I was gonna say, who pays for everything? Because

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Speaker 2: dogs are like kids, they're expensive. The mother, Yeah so.

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Speaker 1: She okay, her name is on all the documents. Documents.

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Speaker 3: Wow. The only thing I would say.

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Speaker 1: He he bought the dog originally, but she's had the

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Speaker 1: dog since five or six months. Okay, yeah, since the

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Speaker 1: dog's three now, okay, okay, okay, okay. So he bought

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Speaker 1: the dog. He bought the dog together. Yeah, they went

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Speaker 1: together when Okay, So he just.

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Speaker 3: Bought her a dog.

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Speaker 1: That's I said, Like they were cool afterwards whatever, And

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Speaker 1: I think he bought the dog to he said he

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Speaker 1: want you know, people making money off dogs, So he said,

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Speaker 1: what kind of dog?

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 3: A French bull dog? Oh? Hell yeah, my fucking money.

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Speaker 1: So he wanted to breed him per se. But it's

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Speaker 1: also a boy dog. So it's more work, I think,

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Speaker 1: to find a female dog.

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Speaker 3: It's all other stuff.

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Speaker 1: So he kept claiming that he's gonna try to find

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Speaker 1: I don't know me. Yeah, but nothing of that ever happened.

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Speaker 1: So now out the blue, I think he found out

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Speaker 1: that she got a man now and now he supposedly

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Speaker 3: And he was also offering that.

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Speaker 1: He got a litter of other French bull dogs and

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Speaker 1: just he keeps trying to be in business with her

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Speaker 3: So after her.

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Speaker 1: Telling him that he don't want to or that she

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Speaker 1: doesn't you know, she want to cut ties like it's yeah, there's.

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Speaker 3: No point, it's fuss.

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Speaker 1: And I also make clear that she almost already saying

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Speaker 1: she wants to get him neuter because it's been three years,

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Speaker 3: Nothing came about sitting around waiting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you have a friend she he oh, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: And it's.

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Speaker 2: It's very nerve wrecking, like man, you seeing little doggie

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Speaker 2: seeming around the house on your sheet and it's like, no,

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Speaker 2: I need to get your ass fished, or you need

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Speaker 2: to hurry up and bust a nut and make a

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Speaker 2: litter or something because I'm about to Yeah, this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: So even now like he has another litter, So now

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Speaker 1: that she wants to ceties, he feels the type of

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Speaker 1: way and like, well, if you don't want to share him,

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Speaker 1: I want to take him back.

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Speaker 2: M But nothing has ever been an issue until this

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Speaker 2: new man. And so she got a new man and

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Speaker 2: now he's like trying to make demands or trying to Okay,

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Speaker 2: tell me this, have your friend?

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Speaker 1: Has she seen him the ex the last time previously

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Speaker 1: or anything. The last time she's seen him, he confessed

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Speaker 1: he tried to confess his love again to her.

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Speaker 3: He still locked in on trying to be.

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Speaker 1: Like he get back with her, yes, like but very

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Speaker 1: submissively like he's not he's not a or not yet

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Speaker 1: at least a stalker X where he's consistently like come on,

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Speaker 3: But he has done it over the spend of years.

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Speaker 1: So the last time again shut him down and they

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Speaker 1: weren't talking for months because I guess he's a little heartbroken.

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Speaker 1: So then again like at the Blue, he comes and

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Speaker 3: Can you go to the court for a dog? You

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Speaker 3: damn sure you can go to court for a dog.

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Speaker 3: Guess you can.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is okay, So she doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: give him the dog. No, okay, right, because it was

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Speaker 2: like she feels like, yo, I've been the primary care

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Speaker 2: taker all this time. I've been I've been paying for shit,

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Speaker 2: I've been, you know, been there for the damn dog.

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Speaker 2: And then also you just don't want to uproot a

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Speaker 2: dog's life, honestly at the dog. But I've gotten used

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Speaker 2: to her for the past four or three years.

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Speaker 3: How old is a dog? Three? Right? And you got

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Speaker 3: the dog? Let me finish that thought.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so if the dog has been with her for

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Speaker 2: the past three years, you can't just take the dog

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Speaker 3: And then now you think you're gonna live.

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Speaker 2: Happily after with this dog, Like I look at that

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Speaker 2: like a kid, Like that's like a mom. Like a

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Speaker 2: of a mom's house and put him in in his house.

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Speaker 2: Now it's like, damn, I had three years with my mom.

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Speaker 2: Now I got to get used to this nigga who

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Speaker 2: a child's case, but for a dog, the whole situation

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Speaker 3: It's crazy what he's trying to do because I feel like.

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Speaker 2: He bought the dog for her when they were broken up,

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Speaker 2: so we can all always remained tied.

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Speaker 3: To her, right, that's the thing. And all her.

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Speaker 1: Friends just say that, and the thing is like, she

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Speaker 1: understands that, but she was like, look, if he want

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Speaker 1: to be my babysitter, then, but.

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Speaker 3: Was she ever open to going back to him? How

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Speaker 3: did they end? Do you know?

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Speaker 1: She ended up blocking him after I'm saying, how did

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Speaker 3: Oh, because you said they were cool after? Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: Not, I guess in the sense of bad guy, but

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Speaker 2: So he's not because I noticed they remained friends after

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Speaker 2: the relationship. So it's like, all right, you're not good

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Speaker 2: boyfriend material, but we're good friends and you brought me

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Speaker 2: this dog. Okay, cool, great, Yeah, thanks that we have

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Speaker 2: a dog together. That was the contract that should never

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Speaker 2: been stepped in down.

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Speaker 1: But there's no written, no written of like it's going

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Speaker 1: to be it's still my dog.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so technically he just brought her a dog pretty much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good.

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Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen.

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Speaker 3: Wait, so what's the question?

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Speaker 1: Oh, she doesn't know if she should should she start

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Speaker 1: making the legal actions first?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so she wants to tell whether or not she

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Speaker 2: should take him to court for the dog, because I mean,

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Speaker 2: has he threatened her in anyway.

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Speaker 1: He had to take the dog because she wants to

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Speaker 1: cut ties and you said she blocked him. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: then but then because after that he threatened to take

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Speaker 1: the dog. Yeah, and then wants to be like, well,

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Speaker 1: well then and then follows up and was like, well,

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Speaker 1: at least you know, can I get his his semen?

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Speaker 1: Because but it doesn't make sense of because you should

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Speaker 1: have been had it seamen because he wanted to quote

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Speaker 1: unquote breeding him right. But now yeah, because she hasn't litter. Now,

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Speaker 2: He's just still trying to keep that communication open. Does

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Speaker 2: he ever bring up the other boyfriend or absolutely really

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Speaker 2: because now.

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Speaker 3: We see what it's about.

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Speaker 1: So she doesn't know if, like I said, like she

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Speaker 1: should even be like, look, I'm taking this serious and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to take legal action or just wait.

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Speaker 2: See, I don't want her to be leading him on

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Speaker 2: in any type of way. And then I give advice,

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Speaker 2: but then she's still like kind of back peddling a

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Speaker 2: you know, for him for them to be like done

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Speaker 2: for four years. He bought a dog three years ago,

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Speaker 2: and then they never tried to get back together. Do

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Speaker 2: you feel like she's telling you everything? Like no, I

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Speaker 2: never like have they gone out, have they seen each other?

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Speaker 2: She was she ever leading him on in any type away?

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Speaker 3: Because niggas can be crazy. I just want to make

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Speaker 3: what I know is that.

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Speaker 1: She's dated several other guys. Yeah, like she's she's when

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Speaker 1: that broke up with him, and he's try I think

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Speaker 2: Not gonna say it's not gonna be easy to get

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Speaker 2: I do think she should take legal action to be honest,

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Speaker 2: So? I said the girlfriend, I mean, your your friend.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't know, restraining order also with the dog,

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Speaker 3: I mean, it doesn't seem like it's that much about

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Speaker 2: And then you said he brings up the ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: She don't want to look back, don't even.

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Speaker 2: Want to consult him about the dog, anything about the dog,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she gave him. I guess that he was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was totally separate from from him. She

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Speaker 1: She told him, if you don't have a dog, it's

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Speaker 3: She wants to hurry up and get it fixed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she's a primary care she has to deal

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Speaker 3: So she already has everything.

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Speaker 2: She trying to get that process going so she can

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Speaker 3: And I totally get it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I know he knows where she lives, where she.

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Speaker 3: It just sounds real creepy. So it's also petty. It's

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Speaker 2: It's definitely creepy after four years, move the fuck on by,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I understand it's hard to.

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Speaker 1: I guess, like, again, he was watching the dog at times.

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Speaker 3: At times, yeah, but the whole not the whole one hundred,

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Speaker 3: Ten to five percent? What the fuck? That is so

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Speaker 1: Because oh but yeah it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's hardly nothing. So it's not about the

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Speaker 1: Updated if there was an issue with the dog, but

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Speaker 1: and yeah, hell yeah, so yeah, no, I definitely get

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Speaker 1: Take that man to fucking court, and hurry up and

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck you're gonna say. Everybody

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Speaker 3: Shit cause niggas is Panican? What the fun going happen

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Speaker 4: Shit?

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Speaker 2: Now, we got a commercial and if you click off

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Speaker 2: of this podcast, I swear i'mnna beat your ass.

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Speaker 3: Listen. All right, moving on, so we got another story girl.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, hey Jess, So I'm gonna cut to

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Speaker 1: the chase. I'm gay and I'm out, and of course,

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Speaker 1: you know there's been time where I was afraid to

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Speaker 3: But the issue is I keep attracting these d L guys.

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Speaker 1: I love seeing a fine man, and when they be

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Speaker 1: I've been fucking with this gay guy for Lenna, say

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, they got and just recently his wife found out.

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Speaker 1: But get the chase. She still want to be with

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Speaker 3: So what should I do?

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Speaker 1: And by the way, he acting like he just wants

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. I'm kind of heartbroken and I don't know

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I see this all too often as well.

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Speaker 2: I none that motherfucker will be mad and she's like, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I told you don't say that.

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Speaker 3: Will stop telling me, bitch. You know, I'm just fixing

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Speaker 2: All right, listen, So I'm gonna tell you like I

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. But the fact that the

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: I know it's a lot of women who flared up

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Speaker 2: This is the thing, ladies, this is what we have

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Speaker 3: We have to we I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I've never been in this situation before, but I'm saying

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Speaker 1: We don't get mad at the fucking woman. You know

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Speaker 2: Even if they did know about you, they don't owe

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Speaker 3: They don't.

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Speaker 2: It's the nigga that you lay with every night, the

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Speaker 2: nigga that that walk down the fucking aisle and set

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Speaker 2: them vowels. It's the nigga that you said your vowels to,

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Speaker 2: y'all said I do, y'all jumped the burm or y'all

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Speaker 3: You ain't got.

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Speaker 2: You can't compete with the fucking man, ladies. And that's

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Speaker 3: Now he got caught.

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Speaker 2: Now this guy saying that the wife's trying to fight

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Speaker 3: The fuck, she needs a fucking reality check.

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Speaker 2: And the man needs a fucking reality check. Both of

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Speaker 3: That's really really fucked up.

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Speaker 2: It's fucked up that he putting his wife through that shit,

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Speaker 3: You get what I'm saying. You knew he was married,

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Speaker 2: However, it's all on him because the wife can't control

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Speaker 2: We can't control that. We can only control our emotions

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Everybody don't. And I get it. It's probably a good

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Speaker 3: coin to come with it.

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Speaker 2: And you know he probably buys you shit and you know,

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Speaker 2: and keeps giving you empty promises and shit, and you

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Speaker 2: know it's cute for the moment, But when you cry

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Speaker 2: and by your fucking self, with the burking Netty brought

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Speaker 2: you and shit like that, it's like, is it really

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Speaker 2: worth it? Is it worth your integrity, your dignity, your

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Speaker 2: pride as a man, your heart like because your heart

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Speaker 2: broken as well, don't act like you not, don't act like,

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Speaker 2: oh no, it's all good, Like, no, it's not.

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Speaker 3: Because you want to be loved too. You want to

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Speaker 3: be loved.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's goal is to be loved, whether it's by a woman,

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Speaker 2: a man, whatever the fuck, but everybody wants love. And

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Speaker 2: at some point, that fucking with dl niggas, that shit

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Speaker 2: is gonna get old.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna get old, and it's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna get tiredsome and you will get hurt behind that

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Speaker 2: shit A lot of shit. Okay, So listen, if you

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Speaker 2: don't believe me, watch the movie cover that was a

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Speaker 2: really really good movie. It's about how d L married men,

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Speaker 2: a d L married man was attracted.

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Speaker 3: Just watch the fucking movie, all right.

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Speaker 1: I don't care, y'all, y'all, just look up cover. It's

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Speaker 1: a really really good film.

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Speaker 2: You know. It's about married men being DL and shit

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Speaker 2: on a down low fucking with these men and you know,

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Speaker 2: somebody dies, shit like that.

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Speaker 3: It's a really really good movie.

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Speaker 2: But this is a real eye opener to these DL niggas,

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Speaker 2: all right. So yeah, I had to go off a

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Speaker 2: little bit on that because I'm like, yo, I just

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Speaker 2: I just had a similar situation. Somebody just was talking

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Speaker 2: to me about this bullshit about a man who was

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Speaker 2: d L. And my friend is gay and he been

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Speaker 2: dealing with this nigga, and he was like, yo, he

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Speaker 2: didn't even know that the nigga was married. He found

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Speaker 2: out about the wife when the wife contacted him, and shit,

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Speaker 2: and she popped up at his job because they worked together.

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Speaker 2: She probably have been the fucking.

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Speaker 3: Job, y'all.

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Speaker 2: And it was just it was just wold, like she

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Speaker 2: is still holding her husband accountable, but she's just like, yo,

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Speaker 2: we got seven kids, seven children, so she can't just

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Speaker 2: get up and walk away.

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Speaker 3: That free, like that's a marriage.

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Speaker 1: They got businesses together, they had homes and properties and

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Speaker 1: shit together, and he was taking care of that gay nigga,

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Speaker 1: my friend. He was taking care of my friend because

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Speaker 1: you know, I had a couple of little coins from

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Speaker 1: my friend from him too that you know, yeah, shit,

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Speaker 1: me and my old boy on a trip, and the

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Speaker 1: nigga paid for it. We didn't know niggas married, you know,

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Speaker 1: And so that's why he called me like, Yo, can

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Speaker 1: you believe such and such as fucking married? And then

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Speaker 1: you know, and all his money is from him and

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Speaker 1: his wife's businesses, and.

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Speaker 3: All of those knew that he was.

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Speaker 2: He knew that he was DL. He just never said

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Speaker 2: that he was married to a woman. He never said

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Speaker 2: he was married. But yeah, so he he just was like, yo,

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Speaker 2: I and my friend just knew that he could change

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Speaker 2: that DL about He was like, I'm going to be

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Speaker 2: the one to bring him out, like I want to

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Speaker 2: bring him out. He'd been taking care of me, yo,

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Speaker 2: And guess how long you've been fucking with my friend?

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Speaker 2: He was talking with my friend for five years. He'd

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Speaker 2: been married to his wife for twelve years. Fucking with yep,

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Speaker 2: and they got seven children, three boys and four girls.

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Speaker 3: Yep, wow, yep he knew about his kids. He didn't

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Speaker 3: know that. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The guy was telling them like, Yo, I'm I'm just

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Speaker 2: not out. I'm gay, I'm just not out.

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Speaker 3: I just wanna say that.

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Speaker 1: I think it's something deeper too, though, because I had

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Speaker 1: a friend that was like, cat fucking y'all niggas, And

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Speaker 1: now I was like, why do you keep fucking d'a

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Speaker 1: niggas if you know it's not gonna go anywhere? There's

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Speaker 1: something do you not believe that you could be yes?

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Speaker 1: Like you said, like be in love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something about it. Everybody needs healing. Everybody in

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Speaker 2: a situation needs healing.

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Speaker 1: But we've come to yet the end of another Catholy

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Speaker 1: Rekless episode.

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Speaker 3: Say bye, Taylor, and y'all say thank you to Tailor.

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Speaker 1: We can't hear y'all. We're gonna trust y'all say thank you.

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Speaker 1: I love her so much.

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Speaker 2: All right, y'all catch me next week wherever you find

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Speaker 2: your podcast, and each and every Thursday on Breakfast Club,

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Speaker 2: I will be fixed and mess So call up.

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Speaker 3: What's the number for Breakfast Club? One eight hundred five

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Speaker 3: five one five one. I tried to do it to

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Speaker 3: test your gangster and you didn't even touch it. I

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Speaker 3: see y'all next week.

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Speaker 4: Bye.

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