WEBVTT - Closure Call: Neighbor Nightmare 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.200 Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:05.040 much for being here. If you haven't caught on to 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:08.440 our schedule, because maybe you're not here enough. Tuesdays we 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:12.080 do awkward Tuesday phone call, and then Thursdays is kind 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:15.320 of a grab bag, you know. Yeah, sometimes it's sexual healing. 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:16.680 Sometimes it's an update. 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:19.040 Updates, sometimes it's whatever our boss just feels like throwing 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:20.040 us into that day. Yeah. 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.520 Yeah, but today is a closure call. And if you 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:26.960 don't know how these work, someone will email us about 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:32.440 a relationship or a situationship that had a fallen out right, 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:35.680 and it's maybe been months, sometimes it's been years. We've 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:38.760 had even decades where they haven't talked to each other. 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:40.920 Yeah, and we're trying to get a higher fifty years, 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:41.800 one hundred years. 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:45.760 For us dramatic. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:49.320 Well that first works with our producer to get back 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:52.760 into contact and ask the questions that they've been thinking 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:53.479 about forever. 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:56.120 Yeah, you can hear the answer totally. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.400 It can be pretty dramatic. And we've got one for 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:00.800 you today. Hey, thanks for in here. It's Brook and 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:01.680 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:04.520 In a couple of minutes, we're gonna do a brand 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:07.640 new closure call. Here, which if you haven't heard, is 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:10.720 a segment where we help a listener send four questions 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:14.000 to a previous friend or lover or someone they had 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:16.560 a falling out with to get some answers so that 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:19.120 they can finally move forward with their life. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:20.560 It's a really amazing segment. 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.600 Yeah, yeah, at least that's the hope that we're going 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:23.160 to help them. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:25.840 But this may be the first time in the show's 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:29.440 history the listener doesn't even want to hear all of 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:33.200 the answers. After we read the first two it was 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:39.600 that shocking and surprising and embarrassing. All those emotions plus 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.480 a few more tossed in for the mix, you're gonna 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.119 hear why when we do a brand new closure call 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:48.520 right after this, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:51.480 And sometimes in order to move forward in life, yeah, 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.760 first you have to look backwards. 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:55.440 That's true, jeff kind. 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:58.960 Of like a moonwalk in a way, looking back, but 0:01:59.160 --> 0:01:59.960 moving forward. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:02.600 It a really cool Yeah. 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:05.040 That's kind of the idea of this segment called closure Calls, where, 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:06.800 if you haven't heard it before, we try to help 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:10.120 a listener get some answers and hopefully peace of mind 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:10.840 on an issue. 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:12.760 From their past that's been haunting them. 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:16.000 Some of these get really deep too. Yeah. 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:18.400 Yeah, And recently, one of our listeners asked for our 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.200 assistance getting some closure. 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:21.440 Her name is Jody. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:23.239 Keep wanting me to do this? 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:27.160 Heye, Jody wants to go full Michael Jackson today. 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:28.640 So, Jody, welcome to the show. 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:30.880 Hey, thanks for having me. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:34.480 Yeah, Jody, we're all so interested in what brought you here? 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:36.239 Yeah, what's going on in your life that made you 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:37.040 reach out to us? 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:42.400 Okay, it's so strange. So, my husband and I used 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:45.519 to live in this amazing neighborhood. Absolutely loved it. 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:46.919 That's cool. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:51.680 Yes, it was everything. And our next door neighbors, the Coopers, 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.760 they were like our best friends, our families. We did 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:58.280 everything together. We had birthdays, barbecues, you know, we watched 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.959 the other's passively, went on vacation, everything broke. 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:02.880 How jealous are you of those neighbors. 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:06.920 No, I love my neighbors. I have the best neighbors. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:10.639 Honestly, you literally like have disputes with them all the time. 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.480 You're trying to buy their property out from them. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.520 You're talking about the guy with the abandoned cars right 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:20.160 next to me. Yeah, it's great to make granola. 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.679 She doesn't consider him a neighbor where she's like, oh, yeah, 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:23.120 that's right. 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.360 I love that guy too. He's got two kids that 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.080 live about an hour. You want to know more about. 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:33.320 Him, No, let's focus more on Jody and her neighbors, 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.680 the Coopers. It's nice to have a family next door 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:36.760 to you that you actually like. 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:41.160 Yeah, but here's where the twist comes, and it's unfortunate. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:48.840 We basically our house burnt down. My gosh, yeah, absolutely everything. 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:49.800 It was horrible. 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:51.240 I'm so sorry. 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:54.240 Wait was it the Coopers that did it? 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:56.160 No? 0:03:56.160 --> 0:04:00.280 No, no, no, we're asking them why. 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.280 No, they were like, they were really supportive. Actually they 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:06.320 helped us get through all of it. They helped us 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:09.040 put our life back together. But yeah, we couldn't afford 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:10.960 to like stay and rebuild the house, so we were 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:13.640 forced to move, which we really did not want to 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:15.880 because again, just love where we lived. 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:18.680 Do you build all those relationships for so long, dude, 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.440 in all the memories and you know that's hard, that 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:22.400 must be really hard. 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:25.279 Yeah, it was awful. But we found a house like 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:28.880 forty five minutes away from there, and you know, we 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:31.599 had to do what we had to do. And we 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.640 stayed in touch with them for a couple of months. Yeah, yeah, 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:38.120 and then one day they just stopped responding, like they 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:41.280 wouldn't answer any of my phone calls, they stopped inviting us. 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:43.200 Wait did their house burn down to. 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.080 Yeah? 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:47.960 No, that's weird. 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:50.560 Sorry, who was setting all the fires? Sorry? What were 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.320 you saying? They stopped answering you. 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:56.359 Yeah, they stopped answering, like you know, I tried multiple times, 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.039 no explanation at all, you know, just completely cut off 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.400 communication and really for you and. 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.560 Your husband, like they have zero contact. 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.120 Yeah, zero. It's so strange. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.760 That is really weird. What was going through your mind 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:09.760 when that started happening? 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.280 We did not know. We went over this so many times, 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:16.040 and like I understand, like we don't live next door 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:19.240 to them anymore, but yeah, I mean, why why I 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:20.679 completely cut us out? 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:23.680 You know, like and they're still living there in that 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:24.960 same neighborhood and everything. 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:28.240 Okay, So I was curious. I was like, well, maybe 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:30.960 they moved, you know, like, yes, maybe something happened to them. 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:31.719 Yeah. 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:35.120 So I think a year and a half after I 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:37.640 decided to drive back, you know, to see if they 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:40.160 even still live there, and I didn't bring the doorbell 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:42.280 or anything, but their car was in the driveway. 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.840 Okay, so they're still around in the same house at least, 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:51.400 but for some reason totally cut all communication with your family. 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:54.520 Yeah, it's so strange. And it's been over four years, 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:57.120 and the thing is is that I still think about it, 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:58.960 like I just wish we could get some of that 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:02.200 old friendship that you know. Yeah, it would be really 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:05.240 great to reconnect our children again and all that, but 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.680 it's just something that like lingers in my mind. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:09.880 Oh my god. Well, and like even for me, like 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:11.560 I grew up in the same house my whole life, 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:14.320 and our neighbors growing up are like second family. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:14.839 Yeah. 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:16.400 I mean honestly, you guys. 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:17.120 Marry each other too. 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:23.200 But is there any like drama between your families in 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.840 that time or something fight or maybe an affair that 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:30.800 you had with someone casually drop that one something like that. 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:31.599 No? 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.400 Absolutely no, okay, at least not that you're gonna admit to. 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:38.440 Okay, do you think your kid may have done something? Like, 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.520 you know, because sometimes like if kids fight or it 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.520 can cause parents to fight. 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:45.159 Yeah, like the kid will be like, well my mom 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:47.120 said this, and it's like playing telephone. 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:50.960 They I mean, sure, that's the possibility. It's one of 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:53.760 those things where like we have as a family all 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.360 sat down multiple times at dinner and talked about this, 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:59.080 like he does anyone have any idea of why it's happening? 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:02.760 And everyone's no, Yeah, why do the Coopers hate you? 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:05.520 I would say, maybe they and this is gonna come 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.040 out wrong, so I apologize. Maybe they think they're better 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.480 than you, like we don't talk to them because they 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:12.440 moved out of the neighborhood. But then I go, you've 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:14.760 known them for so long you would know if they 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:15.800 were shallow white. 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:18.040 See I was saying in the opposite where maybe they're jealous. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:21.600 Maybe your new situation is that they they always wanted, 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:23.360 probably not on status. 0:07:23.520 --> 0:07:24.440 I mean, they just moved. 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:24.840 I don't know. 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:26.720 Brook won't talk to us because of where we live. 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:29.360 Sometimes we're not allowed over on her fancy island. Yeah, 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.239 but Joe, do you know how this works. You've already 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:34.240 worked with our producer to come with the four questions, 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:37.240 and we've told you the Coopers have responded, Oh my god, 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:40.880 are you nervous about hearing from them? 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:41.960 After how long has it. 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:45.240 Been now it's been over four years. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:47.000 Wow, are you nervous. 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:49.840 Yeah, I'm I'm curious more than anything. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.920 It seems like this could be something resolved. I mean, 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.040 maybe if they explain then their you two can come 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.760 to some understanding and rebuild this friendship. 0:07:59.040 --> 0:07:59.720 I agree with Broke. 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:01.680 I do think if it was one of the kids, especially, 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.000 it's like yeah, no, no, nos, misunderstanding. 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.480 Yeah, just get rid of that kid and then everything's happen. 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:07.400 So we're gonna do it. 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.920 We'll read the answers from your neighbors that ghosted your 0:08:09.960 --> 0:08:13.200 family five years ago when we do your closure call. 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:16.280 Right after this just joining us. 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:18.600 We're in the middle of a closure call, and it's 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:20.400 an interesting one because I don't know if we've ever 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:23.720 done anything quite like this before with two sets of 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:27.280 neighbors whose families were very close. And our listener, Jody, 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.440 who's on the phone with us, is the mother of 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:33.880 one family. Her house sadly burned down years ago, so they. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.000 Had to move away. 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:38.480 Yeah, forty five minutes from where they originally lived. Shortly 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:41.920 after they lost all contact with this other family who 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:44.480 used to basically be their best friends. 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:46.680 It's not like, yeah, moved even to a different state. 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:50.560 You're like forty five it's not that not that dramatic, 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:51.040 So I don't know. 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.120 I'd say, when my parents only lived forty five minutes away, 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:53.840 I never saw. 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:56.520 Yeah, they were away. 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:59.439 But it's been very confusing for Jody because she doesn't 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:03.120 know why they cut off all contact and want some closure, 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:05.320 hence the term closure call. 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:07.640 Oh wow. 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:12.079 For this joke, and Jody, I know you want to 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.160 get to the answers. We're gonna get those in just 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:15.920 a second. Brook Do you have any final thoughts? 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.360 No, I think it's just interesting. You know, you said 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:21.320 these people were really there for you after your house fire, 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.160 so I mean, I could see them turning their back 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:26.000 on you if you needed help, but that that's not 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.960 even the case here. You know they did that for you. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:32.040 It sounds like, right, yeah, they were great. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:34.079 So strange. 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:36.560 Well, if your new house burns down, you can always 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:38.199 live in the basement of Brooks Current. 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:42.440 Oh sure, my husband works down there, so just don't mind, Tim, 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.040 We'll always have a backup. Yeah. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:45.760 Alright, So let's get to the first question. 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:50.000 Okay, we wrote it's been almost five years since we 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.800 spoke to each other. That's so long, and I've tried 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:56.080 to text you and send you letters and birthday invites, 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:59.760 but you never responded. Our friendship was so important to me. 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:02.920 It makes me so sad that we don't speak anymore. 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.040 Do you even still live at the same house? 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:08.720 Wait, don't we know that because you did the secret 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:09.400 drive by. 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:11.840 I mean that was three years ago though, so I 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:12.960 mean she could have moved. 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.199 Yeah, yeah, that's true. 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:20.160 So the coopers responded and they said, hi, Jody, nice 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.400 to hear from you. Yes, we're still at the same address. 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:27.599 Kids are getting bigger, hope you were well oh. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:30.120 Wow, okay, yeah, I don't know. 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:32.880 It did feel like when you get the text K 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.760 that a felt the same. 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:38.080 I'mnowledged, but I'm not really how do you feel how 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:39.320 do you feel about that answer? 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:40.480 Exactly? 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:44.080 Well, I mean it's it doesn't really say much. I 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.240 was saying I felt so sad that we weren't in 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.720 touch anymore, and they gave me like a one sentence 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:50.280 nothing response, you. 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.040 Know, trying to blow you off. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:53.920 I like how you were saying you were so sad 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:55.440 in the question, and she's like glad. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.840 You're well yeah, so yeah, not much of a response 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.800 on that first one, but good thing we asked more questions. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:04.600 Because they did respond to the rest of the questions. 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:07.079 Yeah, and this isn't an auto reply. They're all different. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:08.840 Just so you know, it's so funny. 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.600 Just like she said, I am out of the office. 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.400 Do we know who's actually writing us? Is it the 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:16.760 other mother from the other family. 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:17.400 I don't know. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:19.600 It doesn't say on it. Okay, all right, let's keep 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:22.320 going to question two. Hopefully we'll get a little bit 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:26.400 more clarification. We said, after being so close for so long, 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:29.920 it's always been confusing to me why you stopped responding 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:32.720 to us. I've spent nights trying to figure this out. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:36.440 I'm not sure if something happened or what changed. Is 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:38.360 there a reason you cut us out? 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:40.280 This is only the second question. 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:41.240 That's like the. 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:42.280 Question in my head. 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:45.800 I'm so interested to see how they're gonna respond. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:48.360 You know, this is the crux of what we're trying 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:49.480 to get to here, and. 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:52.559 You and our producer wrote that question really well. I'm 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:55.400 serious because he helps her with all of this. I 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:58.560 think it's really well written. Yeah, why you laughed? 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.520 Be serious because our producers a funny guy, so I 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:02.400 thought you were making a joke. 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:05.439 No, So let's get to the answer that they wrote. 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:09.600 Back for the reason that they cut you out. They wrote, well, 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:11.200 it's pretty simple, Jodie. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:13.040 Oh, we donated. 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:15.640 Two thousand dollars to your family's go fundme with the 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:19.480 expectation it would go towards building your life back, not 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:24.760 building your chest size. Apparently one of the neighbors said, 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:27.480 you got a breast enhancement after your house burned down. 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:31.120 Plus your family took a trip to the Bahamas. So 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:34.680 I think you could understand why we're not speaking dot 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:35.440 dot dot. 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:37.360 That looks so bad. 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:44.880 Oh whoa, Oh, okay, look, this is what I can 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:48.480 say about that. I was going through a lot at 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:52.040 the time. Yeah, and doing that made me feel better 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:55.000 about myself and it did help me build my life back. 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:56.160 It gave me confidence. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.599 You use the GoFundMe money to do a breast and 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:01.079 new monthly payments. 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:03.880 Maybe she didn't do it all at once. I mean 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:05.040 we did. 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:09.800 I don't. I don't really want to like get into 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.720 this really like, but. 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:14.280 That's the whole it's the whole reason she's not talking 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:14.480 to you. 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.400 A trip to the Bahamas. Are we gonna ignore that? 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:16.720 Yeah? 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:20.080 Well, you got to show off your new books so 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:21.960 much it gets cold. 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:24.440 Out the Coopers are accusing you of taking the money 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.600 that they gave you to like rebuild your new life 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.720 in your new house for personal things. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:30.880 Well not just them my bed. I mean, if it's 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:32.960 a GoFundMe, probably other people's money too. 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:37.000 We used a majority of the GoFundMe to get our 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:37.520 new house. 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:41.679 Yeah, what did you use the insurance money to get 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:42.280 a new house? 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:45.120 That went into it? It was very expensive getting a new 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.960 I mean we literally lost every single thing. Yeah, it's 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.959 like we did deserve a trip to Like my kids 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:52.280 were so devastated. 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:54.560 Yeah, if it makes you smile, it makes you happy, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.000 I guess it's worth buildings stuff. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.959 Ask after this because we had no idea. 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.280 Running out of time, we need to move on to 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:02.200 question three. 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:04.440 You know what, I honestly don't think we need to. 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:08.960 I think, like I'm thinking, okay, the same Jeff. 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:10.080 I was like, I don't know if we should be 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:10.440 on the phone. 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:12.360 Sorry, but this is how it works. We go through 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.640 all four. So I'm just gonna go to the third question. 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:18.559 Let's finish the segment. For everybody listening that tuned in, 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.880 it says question three. I'm not sure if you heard, 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:23.880 but I left my nine to five job, and I'm 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.720 now working with a charity to help raise money to 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:30.320 support teachers around the country. You've always been so generous. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:32.640 I'm hoping you'd consider contributing to. 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:36.680 Question. Are you joking? 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:40.640 I just jody, Yeah, but that is my job now. 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.560 And I didn't know that she was gonna say what 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:45.760 she just said. 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:50.200 Girl, Well you used fun race. No. 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:52.640 I was just trying to give him an update on 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:53.960 my life and what I was doing. 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:58.920 Okay, I mean working with charity is a really good 0:14:58.960 --> 0:14:59.560 noble cause. 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:01.440 If it actually he does go to the charity. 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.640 Maybe sending teachers to the Bahamas. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:05.960 Surgery. 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.680 Well, let's hear what the Coopers wrote back to that 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:12.920 ask for money for your charity. They said, as stated before, 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:17.000 I hope you're well, Yeah, but you know we will 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:20.920 not be contributing to your quote charity or any future endeavors. 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:22.280 Now we see why. 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.360 The first I hope you're well felt bad, and now 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:26.280 I understand what you didn't want us to read questions 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:26.520 for it. 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:28.320 They put charity it quotes. 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.960 Yet we're almost done. We have to do the fourth 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:34.560 and final question that you sent to them. 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:35.960 We do have to. 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:38.960 We wrote it's been way too long and we miss 0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:41.720 you guys so much. We'd love to get together sometime 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:46.600 and reconnect the families after we know what we know. 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:50.080 We said, do you think you'd be up for it? 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:54.840 And the Coopers wrote back, as stated multiple times before, 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:59.120 I hope you are well this yeah, being. 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:00.440 Left on red yikes? 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:01.520 Sorry, thank you? 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:04.400 That's it, Joy, Joe. 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:06.520 Do you feel like you got some closure from that? 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.280 I want to hang up, Yeah. 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:13.800 I wouldn't try to hit Yeah, I just yea, make 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:17.240 some new friends. Probably maybe no more gofundmes for a while. 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:17.680 I don't know. 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:19.720 I'm sure they'd like to see a Christmas card of 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:21.640 you and like what all that money went towards, So 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:22.400 maybe that would be. 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:24.880 Kind of nice. That's not funny chat. 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:28.240 But okay, I think that's funny anyway. Hopefully that helped you. 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:34.600 That's your closure call. And Jeffrey in the morning and 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:35.920 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:38.840 Well, that definitely did not go the way I think 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:42.400 she thought it was going to go. No, no chance. 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:44.800 Yeah, yeah, thank. 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:47.520 You for being here all the way through our closure call. Uh. 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:49.800 And we do have a lot of comments, a lot 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:53.440 of reflections on what just happened on our comment board. 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:54.920 And our YouTube comments. 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:57.920 Yeah, board, I mean a lot of people are obviously 0:16:57.960 --> 0:17:00.120 mad that she used like gofund me as a scam, 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:02.160 like for sure, So. 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:04.320 I mean, how many of the gofund means do you 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:05.200 think are scams? 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:05.280 Oh? 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:06.399 I've never even thought about it. 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.919 Like that, Brooks. Start your homework. You do the homework, 0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:12.679 and you got to know the person, Like if you 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:15.359 know the person also really wants a trip to the Bahamas, 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:19.080 I gotta be aware, yes, or if they come back 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:19.919