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Speaker 2: Every day up waiting, click your ass up the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: You don't feelsh for y'all done morning. Everybody is DJ

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Speaker 2: Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Law La Rosa is here as well. We got a

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Speaker 2: special guest in the buildings. Back again, ladies and gentlemen, Bozama,

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Speaker 2: Saint John, Welcome back.

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Speaker 3: How you feeling being here? I feel great.

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Speaker 2: You're feeling good. Yeah, last time we spoke to you'all

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Speaker 2: know you were we were talking about you were moving

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Speaker 2: because of the things that happened with your house and

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Speaker 2: the house burned down. So just give us an update

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Speaker 2: of what happened with that.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been a crazy time.

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, it's like I think, like everybody else,

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Speaker 4: you know, the new year came, It's like, oh twin

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Speaker 4: twenty five, gonna beat my year. And then seven days

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Speaker 4: later my house burned down in Malibu, and I was like, oh, okay,

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Speaker 4: you know, and the challenge of the house is that

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Speaker 4: it was really my dream house. I fought hard for

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Speaker 4: that house. I was actually just reading something about Harry

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Speaker 4: Belafonte who was trying to buy a property in the

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Speaker 4: nineteen fifties an apartment here in Manhattan, and they were,

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Speaker 4: you know, trying to keep him out because obviously he

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Speaker 4: was black, and I was like, damn, Like you know,

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Speaker 4: seventy years later, I was facing the same thing in Malibu,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. And so it was really

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Speaker 4: really devastating, but you know, God grace grit, some tears,

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Speaker 4: some anger, some lawsuits, because sometimes you gotta take it

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Speaker 4: to your lawyers, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: What insurance they was just I'm sure they didn't want

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Speaker 2: to say, will cover it.

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Speaker 3: Everybody's in trouble, you know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, there was so much damage, so many

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Speaker 4: people who didn't have who lost everything that I don't

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Speaker 4: I don't know that it's possible.

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Speaker 3: You know, to recover, and so sometimes you just gotta

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Speaker 3: you know, get a little mean with it.

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Speaker 2: You're going to rebuild.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 4: I've only been there twice, you know, because it's it's very,

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Speaker 4: very hard, you know, to see it. So the first

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Speaker 4: one went, it was like all in rubble, and then

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Speaker 4: I went back a couple of weeks ago and it's

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Speaker 4: like all cleared out now, so you can see the land,

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Speaker 4: and it's just a tough thing because I look at

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Speaker 4: it and I'm like, man, but if I leave, like

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Speaker 4: when do I come back?

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Speaker 3: You know, like when when do I get another opportunity.

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Speaker 3: It was so hard to buy it, So it's just

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Speaker 2: Said, it so hard to buy it. They don't let

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Speaker 2: black people buy it, meaning that.

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Speaker 4: It was as an argument I had. I had to

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Speaker 4: put a trust inside of a trust so that nobody

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Speaker 4: could find me. Nobody would know that a single black

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Speaker 4: woman was buying a property on the beach front of Malibu,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So did you actually go see the house? So you

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Speaker 2: know you couldn't go see the house because they would

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Speaker 2: see a black woman come to that house.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 4: I went to see the house like sort of undercover,

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Speaker 4: you know, pretending my house, just sight seeing, and then

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Speaker 4: sent my real estate agent, who's a wonderful little Jewish woman.

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Speaker 3: Love her to death, and sent her to go to

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Speaker 4: And my business managers, uh, you know, put my trust

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Speaker 4: for me so I don't never have to show up.

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Speaker 2: And that's how I got people really care, like when

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Speaker 2: they're selling a property, they're making money, right, I don't

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Speaker 4: I wish I could answer that question, but they really

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Speaker 4: do care. It's wild because even after we had closed,

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Speaker 4: contract was done saying that he could have access to

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Speaker 4: my beach.

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Speaker 3: Really my house.

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Speaker 4: You gonna be walking audacity, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I own this.

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Speaker 4: House now you no longer own it, and if you

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Speaker 4: come as trespass that we'll call the cops on you.

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Speaker 3: How has your family been really good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like my daughter who's sixteen, really loved the house,

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Speaker 4: you know, and it's it's a it's a it's a

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Speaker 4: hard thing to go through, you know, grief upon grief

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Speaker 4: is a hard thing for sure.

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Speaker 3: But we're managing you.

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Speaker 5: You also, since we last thing, you got engaged.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I knew this is why I want to

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Speaker 4: see Lauren today because last time I was here, we

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Speaker 4: were talking about me and my man, and then I

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Speaker 4: think you said, like, you know, are you guys?

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Speaker 3: Is he gonna propose?

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Speaker 1: Because it was I think it was your birthday trip

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Speaker 1: And when you posted, I was like, she they are

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Speaker 1: so happy, they are so in love, Like I love

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Speaker 4: Remember I told you to go call him. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: never called. You called, and then the proposal happened.

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Speaker 2: You know how you did he had any friends for

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Speaker 2: you at the time when you was looking, because she

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Speaker 2: was looking, she was looking at me, looking hard.

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Speaker 5: Looking hard.

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Speaker 1: I was like, and God, do whatever he needed to do.

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Speaker 1: And I'm in a great is good amen Amy?

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Speaker 3: Look But back to.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so last time you was here, we talked

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Speaker 1: you know, family is my thing. Yeah, and then a

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Speaker 1: surprise proposal happened and you I read the People exclusive

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Speaker 1: it said you were actually surprised.

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Speaker 5: But I find it hard for you to be surprised.

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Speaker 4: It's very difficult to surprise me. I mean, because like, look,

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Speaker 4: first of all, I feel like I'm psychic. Next, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I see people's movements and I'm like, why do you

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Speaker 3: Why did you do that?

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Speaker 4: Now, the thing that tipped me off a little bit

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Speaker 4: I knew something was happening was that he's a traveler.

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Speaker 4: You know, we both love to travel a lot, and

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Speaker 4: we exchange voice notes and video messages constantly all day long.

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Speaker 4: And we had gone to London for my sister's wedding

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Speaker 4: the real houseits of Beverly Hills, and he said he

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Speaker 4: sending me videos of his tour. He's in Paris, he's

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Speaker 4: like doing all these things. And then he's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: you know, I'm gonna stop by Mumbai. And I was like, India, you.

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Speaker 5: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, yeah, I've never been with him, gonna go.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, you know, So he goes.

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Speaker 4: He was there for a week and I was getting like,

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Speaker 4: you know, messages, but they were always from his room

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Speaker 3: Why would he be in India? Now? The thing is

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Speaker 3: these two rings that I wear constantly.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I got both of them in India on different trips, right,

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Speaker 4: and they were kind of like my own like you know,

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Speaker 4: the and this band I actually bought from Prianca Chopra's

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Speaker 4: jeweler when I went to her wedding and so I

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Speaker 4: love India first jewels, first gems, all that stuff. And

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Speaker 4: so that's when I was like, is he in India

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Speaker 4: only thing that kind of my spidy senses were going

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Speaker 4: that wasn't sure, and you know, you know, you don't

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Speaker 4: want to ask all the way. So when he proposed,

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Speaker 4: I was surprised because I wasn't expecting it. And then

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, my spidy senses weren't wrong.

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Speaker 2: I will tell you the fact that boze Man was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm traveled. I'm going to Rome today, like you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to stop down.

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Speaker 5: I'm really happy for you.

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Speaker 1: I mean you mentioned earlier like you know, even with

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Speaker 1: like you know, your ex husband and then your house

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Speaker 1: and it's like kind of like watching a fairy tale

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Speaker 1: play out. So like, I'm happy to see that for you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it's been like, because sometimes too,

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Speaker 1: I think when people go through such hard hits back

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Speaker 4: But that's the thing is that I don't know that

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Speaker 4: you can get a wound and then you don't want

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Speaker 4: to repeat that same pain. You try to avoid it

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Speaker 4: at all costs, you know. And so I think for me,

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Speaker 4: part of it has been for sure, like trying to

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Speaker 4: understand how to heal my grief, but also having some courage,

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Speaker 4: you know, and being like, you know what, I could

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Speaker 3: And I'm not even like judging anybody.

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Speaker 4: Who's like lost a partner or like to death or

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Speaker 4: I don't even blame them for that, because I certainly understand.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I love love, and I love happiness and

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Speaker 4: I love joy, and it is an active thing that

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Speaker 4: I'm doing every day.

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Speaker 3: To choose it.

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Speaker 2: Did he ask your daughter first? Or did he did

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, because he hold on, let me

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Speaker 3: Yes, well, contrary is a popular belief.

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Speaker 4: I am a traditional woman in that way that he

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Speaker 4: flew to my father and asked him for my hand,

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Speaker 4: asked my mother, and he.

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Speaker 3: Asked my daughter wow before asking me. I love it.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like checking with all my people, everybody, all right,

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Speaker 1: Are all right?

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: Now. Now do we have any other little bosmus that

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Speaker 1: we should that we need to be right right right?

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Speaker 4: No, not not now, but we are interested. And so

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Speaker 4: I have been on a fertility journey for the last

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Speaker 4: six or seven months.

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Speaker 3: It's been really tough, you know, because I'm forty eight,

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Speaker 3: I'm almost forty nine. You look good, Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Jesus, thank you, everybody look And I mean, I don't

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Speaker 4: know if you know you've you've ever experienced it, but

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Speaker 4: it's like going through the hormonal journey, you know, taking

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Speaker 4: the medication, taking the injections, like getting the checkops, getting

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Speaker 4: the eggs extracted.

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Speaker 3: It is such a difficult process on your body. I mean,

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Speaker 3: it's like not just the gaining weight and the bloating,

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Speaker 3: but it's like the emotional rollercoaster. And I'm trying to

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Speaker 3: do a million thanks and no you know.

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Speaker 5: What I mean. So much going on on top of

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Speaker 5: all your other businesses.

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Speaker 4: You yes, and so it's like this and it is

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Speaker 1: life when these things happened, Because then she's posting the

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Speaker 1: billboard right right, right?

440
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Speaker 5: Okay, so cool again.

441
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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. These feelings are all real.

442
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Speaker 4: That's the one thing I didn't know going into the

443
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Speaker 4: show was that if you are, you know, not feeling somebody,

444
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 4: you're not feeling them.

445
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:34,119
Speaker 3: For real, you know what I mean.

446
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Speaker 4: And I think the other thing that confuses people about

447
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Speaker 4: these shows, and I didn't know that when I went in,

448
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 4: is how much time, how much intense time you're spending

449
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Speaker 4: with them.

450
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Speaker 3: You know, it's like we filmed for three and a

451
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Speaker 3: half months.

452
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Speaker 4: You're spending eight hours day, six days a week with

453
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Speaker 4: these people, and it's not like you go in and

454
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Speaker 4: you're like, oh, what's the weather?

455
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Speaker 3: Like, No, you're like, what's happening with your divorce? You

456
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 3: know what I mean?

457
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 4: And you're talking deeply about these things, and so of course,

458
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 4: like your emotions get caught up in it, and you

459
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 4: to know people so much better than you.

460
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Speaker 3: Would in your regular life.

461
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Speaker 4: I mean at that time, it's like, look, I talked

462
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Speaker 4: to my I have three sisters, and I was selling

463
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Speaker 4: them less than I was talking to these women every day.

464
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Speaker 4: And so last year Kyle and I had a tough

465
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Speaker 4: time because I just felt like she should be more

466
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Speaker 4: open and honest about her life. I was like, hey, look,

467
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 4: we're all sharing, you know, like I'm going through a

468
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Speaker 4: lot and I'm sharing, you know, why did't you share

469
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Speaker 4: what's going on with you? And the thing is that

470
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Speaker 4: like if we are meant to get to know each

471
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Speaker 4: other or meant to be friends, like if you're gonna

472
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Speaker 4: keep it light with me, then I'm keeping a.

473
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Speaker 3: Light with you, right, you know what I'm saying, Like

474
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Speaker 3: why am I going to tell you all my business?

475
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Speaker 4: And you don't want to tell me anything? And she

476
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Speaker 4: felt a way about it because I said she was cold,

477
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Speaker 4: you know, but that was the truth.

478
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Speaker 3: That was the experience I was having.

479
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 4: But in this current time, we've crossed that bridge, you know,

480
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Speaker 4: and I think maybe to you know, give her some grace,

481
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 4: it is that she also is going through a hard

482
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Speaker 4: time and she wasn't necessarily open to being like, oh,

483
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Speaker 4: here's a new girl, let me just tell her everything.

484
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Speaker 3: And not everybody's the same, you know. Drek was very

485
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Speaker 3: open with like all of her drama.

486
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 4: And so, yeah, we became closer, and I was in

487
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 4: as close to Kyle, but we're in a much better

488
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 4: place now. And so the joy that she feels about

489
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Speaker 4: my success in this show with Fallin is real.

490
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 3: Now.

491
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Speaker 1: On the show, you're basically like tag teaming with Fallon,

492
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Speaker 1: but he's the boss of the agency and you are

493
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: the chief marketing officer, right yeah, So I mean you

494
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Speaker 1: explain how you got there, but how real are like

495
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 1: the campaign? So I've only watched some of the first episodes,

496
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Speaker 1: and I know they're really dealing with the brand you

497
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Speaker 1: guys are.

498
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Speaker 5: Working with Dunkin Donuts in the first episode. Are they

499
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Speaker 5: really taking these strategies and actually applying them or is

500
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Speaker 5: it just for the show.

501
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Speaker 3: Yes, And That's the hard thing is that they're spending

502
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Speaker 3: millions of dollars.

503
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Speaker 4: So after I leave here today, I'm going over the

504
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Speaker 4: Dunkin Donuts because the episode that just aired was about,

505
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Speaker 4: you know, essentially recreating what the like a deal would be.

506
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Speaker 3: Right you walk into dunk Donuts, you want a breakfast deal?

507
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Speaker 3: What is going to look like? And it is in

508
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Speaker 3: the store right now, you know.

509
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Speaker 4: And Dunk like spend millions of dollars on this campaign,

510
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 4: and every single brand that comes uh does that.

511
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 3: And so these are real briefs.

512
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 4: They have real business issues that need to be solved,

513
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,199
Speaker 4: and so you know, it's like they're they're trusting us

514
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 4: as much as we are putting faith into what these

515
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Speaker 4: creatives can do.

516
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Speaker 2: It was so so wild, Like you said that last night,

517
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Speaker 2: I get at night when I have six kids, right

518
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 2: so at night, when the kids are sleeping, I just

519
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: have random thoughts kind of like like you do sometimes.

520
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Speaker 2: And my random thought last night was like, look, if

521
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Speaker 2: I was trying to get in the marketing industry, in

522
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Speaker 2: the commercial industry, I was like, what I would do

523
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Speaker 2: is I would shoot commercials for every brand I could

524
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Speaker 2: possibly but I would and I would like, listen because

525
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Speaker 2: I'm watching the Yankee game. I would like I would

526
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Speaker 2: do a commercial Yankees to get more people in the seats,

527
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Speaker 2: and I would just post it. I said, I would

528
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Speaker 2: do every brand. One brand's gonna hit me, one brand

529
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Speaker 2: hit me. And I'm thinking about, so, why don't why

530
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Speaker 2: don't some of these kids that are getting out of college,

531
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Speaker 2: why don't they do the rill of marketing like that what.

532
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Speaker 3: You do, what you do with you know, that's true.

533
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Speaker 4: And you know what's so crazy about that is that

534
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Speaker 4: regardless of the company I've worked for, I've always been

535
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Speaker 4: pitched like and when people know that I work there, right,

536
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Speaker 4: because I've been a public figure in the business world

537
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 4: for some time, and so if they know, it's like, oh,

538
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Speaker 4: I'm the chief marketing officer of Netflix. You know how

539
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 4: many films and TV shows I've been pitched over the.

540
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Speaker 3: Years, A lot? You know.

541
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Speaker 4: When I was at Apple, people like, oh, you know,

542
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Speaker 4: I got a new idea for some technology, I got

543
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Speaker 4: a new app that I want that I want to

544
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Speaker 4: pitch you you know. Or at Pepsi people would be like, Oh,

545
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 4: I have a new drink flavor, not Meg Pepsi.

546
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Speaker 3: No that discussion, you know what I mean? Like everybody

547
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Speaker 3: has ideas, and so you're absolutely right.

548
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Speaker 4: I don't know why people don't take it upon themselves

549
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Speaker 4: to be like, you know what, let me, let me

550
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Speaker 4: try something, let me like put some creative out there.

551
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Speaker 4: And this is what now the show is doing, is

552
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 4: that these folks aren't like they're not practiced industry leaders.

553
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 4: You know, there's a swim instructor in there, there's a

554
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Speaker 4: real estate agent in there.

555
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Speaker 2: Because you can get it, not like before you need

556
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: the camera and you needed a camera and had to

557
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 2: know you can do everything on your phone. And like

558
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Speaker 2: you said, if I'm looking for a business, I'm like,

559
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 2: if I do twenty commercials, hopefully if they're good, one

560
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 2: of those twenty people.

561
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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, And I think that's the opportunity right now,

562
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Speaker 4: and I'm actually hoping that that's what happens. Like people

563
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 4: will see this because the only challenge with like up

564
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Speaker 4: and doing something.

565
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Speaker 3: Is that if you don't know what the brief is,

566
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 3: you don't know what the business's.

567
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 4: Strategy is or what they're they're trying to accomplish, you're

568
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Speaker 4: gonna miss the mark.

569
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Speaker 3: Even if you have a great creative idea.

570
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 4: But in this case, it's like we're actually telling you

571
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Speaker 4: this is what Duncan Donut's trying to do, This what

572
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 4: Southwest is trying to do, This is what Kitchen Ad

573
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 4: is trying to do. And so I'm like, every week

574
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 4: you should be like doing your own pitch and posting

575
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Speaker 4: it and engaging and tagging everybody in it and being like, hey,

576
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 4: kitchen Ad, I got a better idea than these ten

577
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 4: people that are on the screen, you know what I mean, Because.

578
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Speaker 3: Now you heard the strategy, you might as well like

579
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Speaker 3: try and hit it.

580
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Speaker 4: So for me, it's like this is a real opportunity

581
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Speaker 4: for new people to get into the industry, into the

582
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 4: idea of marketing.

583
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Speaker 1: Going back to what you said when you said you

584
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 1: were you were at Netflix and people were trying to

585
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: pitch films, or you were at you know, Pepsi. Somebody

586
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: had a different flavor they wanted to pitch you every

587
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Speaker 1: single time. What was the process to that? Like, yeah,

588
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 1: what was it just no, or you gotta email somebody

589
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: or whatever.

590
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, What's the hard.

591
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Speaker 4: Part is that before it was almost impossible, you know,

592
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Speaker 4: it was impossible for me to get into the building,

593
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 4: you know what I mean that, Like, I mean I

594
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 4: crawled through the window in order to get into those rooms,

595
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 4: and it wasn't like, you know, anybody opened the front

596
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 4: door for me, right, And so it's like, yeah, sometimes

597
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 4: you you know, I would see a great idea or

598
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 4: hear a great idea, and I'd be like, all right here,

599
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 4: call me, you know, or email me. Most of the

600
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 4: time the ideas weren't great because yeah, they didn't know

601
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Speaker 4: the strategy, and so it's impossible to then have the idea.

602
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 3: But it's it's interesting.

603
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 4: There have been a number of times where I remember

604
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 4: at PepsiCo, there was a janitor who would often be like, hey, life,

605
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 4: you know, ideas, you know, and he eventually is the

606
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 4: one who created flaming hot Cheetos.

607
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 2: Or did I see a doc? You know what I mean.

608
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 4: It's like, so the ideas really can't come from Itford,

609
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 4: but you kind of have to have some insight into

610
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 4: what's happening on the business in order to make happen. Now,

611
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 4: the good thing about this current time is that most

612
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 4: brands aren't keeping their strategy behind closed doors. If you

613
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 4: go on their Instagram, you're probably gonna figure out their

614
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 4: strategy real quick. Yeah, you just see who are they targeting,

615
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 4: what is the message that they have. What's the tagline?

616
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 4: I mean, it's it's almost easy. So to Envy's point,

617
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,639
Speaker 4: it's like you should have the gumption, you know, to

618
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 4: try it, Like that's the way grates are made.

619
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 3: It's like you try and if you don't succeed, where

620
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 3: they say, try and try again.

621
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Speaker 2: Do you think AI is hurting a lot of the

622
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 2: jobs that require thinking right? Because I can see somebody saying, yeah,

623
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 2: Bo's is good, but she's gonna cost us too much

624
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: money dunkin Donuts marketing? What were Bose doing? And it's

625
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: gonna come up with something that they've seen you do

626
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: before and they based it off things. So do you

627
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 2: think that hurts the industry because a lot of people

628
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 2: they live and die by AI. I mean got AI artists,

629
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: You got so many, right, I know.

630
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 4: Here's the interesting thing about AI. First of all, I'm

631
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 4: not afraid of AI. You know, I've worked in tech

632
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 4: for a decade and all of the companies that were

633
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 4: always pushing the limits. I mean, look, I was at

634
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 4: the cusp when we started doing personalization and algorithms, so

635
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, It's like it was scary

636
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 4: for people.

637
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 3: They're like, why do you know so much information about me.

638
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 4: I'm like, because you'll be mad at me if I

639
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 4: give you Metallica when you're looking for Snoop Dogg.

640
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: You know what.

641
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 4: But whatever, Now everybody's used to it, so it's okay.

642
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 4: It's the same thing with AI. It's like, look, we

643
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 4: use it constantly. Anyway it's been used. Now it's like

644
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 4: in the hands of consumers, and so it feels a

645
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 4: little scary or it feels like, oh my gosh, it's

646
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 4: gonna take this job or that job. But honestly, it's

647
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 4: been in existence for some time. And on top of that,

648
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 4: you got to remember that AI uses information that already exists.

649
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 4: It doesn't create things that don't exist in the world.

650
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 4: And so that's where I feel like humanity is at

651
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 4: its best. Like we are the dreamers, we're the imaginers.

652
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 4: We're the ones who are thinking about what could be

653
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 4: the possibilities. AI doesn't have that option, and so it's

654
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 4: pulling from data that already exists and then putting it

655
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 4: together and then sort of guessing and estimating what could happen.

656
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Speaker 4: You know, there's this idea of like a hallucinating AI

657
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Speaker 4: right or chat GPT where it's like it makes up

658
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 4: something because there's no space, you know, and it's usually

659
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Speaker 4: not accurate. And now I'm not saying that AI is

660
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 4: not going to get better. It certainly will, and perhaps

661
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 4: at some point it's going to do a good job

662
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 4: of predicting. But I still think that from a creative standpoint,

663
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 4: there are nuances that are going to be hard to

664
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Speaker 4: solve in tech that humans can do.

665
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Speaker 2: The only problem with AI, the biggest problem I have

666
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 2: with AI is a lot of people don't fact check right.

667
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: They think AI is right, And I can't And I

668
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 2: can't hate on this too much because I think I

669
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: would do it too. When I'm in college and you

670
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: have to write a paper, right, you had to research, Right,

671
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 2: you have to go to the library, or you have

672
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 2: to look it up, you have to google. You had

673
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Speaker 2: to find out what the information is.

674
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Speaker 3: Yes, think about it like this.

675
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 2: You have your daughter here, right, she could just say

676
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 2: I have to write a paper on this that it's

677
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: gonna give you having ten pages, Yes, as a smart student,

678
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 2: all you got to do is go through the ten

679
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 2: pages and change pretty much it's done.

680
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Speaker 3: But how does that help you?

681
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 2: It doesn't because you're not necessarily learning the subject you're

682
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 2: not learning, you're just printing, and you getting an A

683
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 2: on a paper? Does that help you in the long run.

684
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Speaker 4: See, now here's where I have a controversial point of view.

685
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 4: I actually do think it's it's good because it is like,

686
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 4: and this is why I disagree when people say that

687
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Speaker 4: they don't want to give their kids iPads or have

688
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 4: them on the computer or this and that, because I'm like,

689
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 4: but then you are depriving them of understanding how to

690
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 4: cope in the world.

691
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Speaker 3: That does that, you know.

692
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Speaker 4: So the point is that AI, Chat, GPT, all these

693
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 4: programs are here to stay. And so I would prefer

694
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Speaker 4: that my daughter understand how to utilize chat, GPT, AI

695
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 4: and all these other programs and get the right answer

696
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 4: because you're only going to get the right answer if

697
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:12,479
Speaker 4: you put in the right questions.

698
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 3: And so she doesn't have that practice, in ten years,

699
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 3: she will be lost.

700
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 4: Because everyone else out here would have perfected how to

701
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 4: get the right answer out.

702
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 3: Of AI and she won't know.

703
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: I would have been in college.

704
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 4: Yes, But now that's a challenge for professors, right and

705
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 4: teachers it's like, Okay, how are you going to modify

706
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 4: the way that you teach so that you can make

707
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 4: sure that your students are retaining information and knowing how

708
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 4: to utilize these subjects. Because look now I'm gonna I

709
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 4: already told you. I'm forty eight years old. When I

710
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 4: got to college, we didn't have a computer lab. Okay,

711
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 4: there was no there was no such thing a college.

712
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 4: You go.

713
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Speaker 2: Look, we were in college around the same time computer

714
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: that was.

715
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Speaker 3: No computer lab.

716
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 4: I was there when the computer lab opened and you

717
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 4: had to sign up on the sheet, you know what

718
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 4: I mean.

719
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Speaker 3: No, Look, it didn't exist. It did not exist, and

720
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 3: so you have to go to library with the encyclopedias.

721
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 3: Yet to hell, do you know what I'm saying? It

722
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 3: was terrible.

723
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: But even on that, from that standpoint, right, you don't

724
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: want you don't think it's important for kids to know

725
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: that part of it.

726
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 5: To your found it's like what if no, because.

727
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 3: You think about it because.

728
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 1: All technology technology, we know with one it's glitches.

729
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 3: Yes, it's shut down.

730
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: They can be taken away.

731
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 3: I know it's here to stay.

732
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 5: But like say, if it's it's.

733
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Speaker 1: A glitch or something or something don't go right stuff,

734
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: then stuff definitely can go wrong. We would need to

735
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: be able to know how to go and search for

736
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 1: stuff in books or whatever.

737
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: You know.

738
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Speaker 3: You know, but I believe, I believe in humanity.

739
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, if something happened and all technology failed, I

740
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 4: think we would find our way back. You know.

741
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 3: However, I do believe that tech is here to stay.

742
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 4: So my example with like going to the library and

743
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 4: looking through the encyclopedia is that once Google was at

744
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 4: our fingertips and search engines ride our fingertips. When was

745
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 4: the last time you looked in encyclopedia? You know, you

746
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 4: need to understand how to search for the right thing

747
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 4: and get the right answer and discern what is truth

748
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 4: from fiction. Now that's the skill you need today. You

749
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 4: don't need to understand how to like find lamas in

750
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 4: the excited encyclopedia. You know, I need to know that

751
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 4: a lama does not look like a now paka, you know,

752
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 4: when I search for it on Google, and if I

753
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 4: see a picture of the two, I can discern which

754
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 4: one is which. And that is the trick that we

755
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 4: need to instill in our children and in educators and

756
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 4: everybody else.

757
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 3: Is that, like, we've got to teach the new skills.

758
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: We can't just depend on what happened fifteen years ago.

759
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 2: You could take a picture of animal right now, put

760
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 2: in chagy. What is this exactly?

761
00:33:58,440 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 3: That's crazy?

762
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: Fact great? Tell me?

763
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Speaker 3: And also, what is this bump on my toe? Tell

764
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 3: me what that is?

765
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 2: That's what it is? Dangerous? You got a bump on

766
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 2: your toe?

767
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 4: You think it's cancer and you should take your ass

768
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 4: as a doctor, you know what I'm saying.

769
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 3: Abnormal and you died yesterday.

770
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 2: You didn't know, then that's your fault.

771
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Speaker 5: You know what I mean.

772
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: There's a woman on the show speaking of age and

773
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: different like just eras knowing no because look, there's a

774
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: woman on the show, and one of the things that

775
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: stuck out from me for me with her was she says,

776
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Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm here and I'm doing this at

777
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: fifty Ye are marketing agencies hiring younger because they expect

778
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: you to know all the stuff y'all just talked about.

779
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 5: Is that so people are getting aged out of hiring?

780
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 3: For sure?

781
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 5: For sure?

782
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 4: Because the thing is that marketing and a lot of

783
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 4: creative industries are young people's game, you know, because I

784
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 4: think the challenge with being older and more mature is

785
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 4: that you've lived life and so you censor yourself, you know,

786
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 4: you'll be like, oh, this idea is not good because

787
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 4: I tried it twelve twelve years ago and it didn't work,

788
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 4: or like, oh I saw this other person do it.

789
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 4: You know, you ever met like a seventeen year old

790
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 4: with an idea. Yeah, lookin it's the best thing to

791
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 4: ever happened. And it probably is, you know, because they

792
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 4: have gumption and they have imagination and they are fearless

793
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 4: because they haven't seen it fail. But us, you'll be like, oh,

794
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 4: try and do this new thing. I'm like, ah, that's

795
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 4: not gonna work because syz thing. It's not gonna work

796
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 4: because we already tried it. Meanwhile, the seventeen year old

797
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 4: is like, I'm gonna try it.

798
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 3: I don't know any different.

799
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 4: And so yeah, I think the creative feels and for sure,

800
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 4: marketing and advertising is geared towards younger people, but you

801
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 4: do need the maturity of time to be able to

802
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 4: have discipline, you know, and be like, Okay, look, here's

803
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 4: a business problem. We got to focus on that. And

804
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 4: so that's why I feel like it kind of balances

805
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: itself out because you need more mature people who have

806
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 4: time on the books to be able to drive the

807
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 4: business any young people who are fearless to come up

808
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 4: with the ideas.

809
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 5: Were you at all nervous?

810
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: I know you guys talk about marketing and numbers and

811
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: stuff on your show, but were you at all nervous

812
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: when all of the Kimmel stuff was happening. Oh yeah,

813
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 1: because I know you guys bring some of those structual

814
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: holes onto your show. Ye're like, dang, I just got

815
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: this jump.

816
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, no, of course, I mean I think we

817
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 4: should all be worried about everything.

818
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean. I'm like, yeah, for sure.

819
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 4: When it's like Colbert got fired and then Kimmel got suspended,

820
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 4: I'm like, looking at fam, I'm.

821
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 3: Like, hey, you know what I mean, what you do?

822
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 3: What you talking about?

823
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 4: And the thing that I respect about him so much

824
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 4: is that he definitely wasn't trying to censor himself.

825
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 3: He's like, Hey, this is what I do. This is

826
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 3: all I know.

827
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 4: I've got to keep going. And I respect that because

828
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 4: for me, it's like, look, I've been in playing rooms

829
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 4: where it would be easier not to be black, it'd

830
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 4: be easier not to bring my perspective that is so

831
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 4: unique to everybody.

832
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Speaker 3: Else's in the room.

833
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 4: But you do it anyway, even though you know somebody's

834
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 4: going to be like, ah, you said the wrong thing

835
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 4: and you should be fired, you know what I mean

836
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 4: threats I've had around that, and that had nothing to

837
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 4: do with the president, you know. And so I feel

838
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 4: like at this moment in time, there is so much

839
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 4: to be concerned about, and I wish that more people

840
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 4: were anxious about that and saying like, well, how do

841
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 4: we make sure that we protect all of these areas

842
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 4: that we've created so that we can actually continue to

843
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 4: be creative, to be funny, to be a little outlandish,

844
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 4: you know, without having to censor.

845
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Speaker 1: I feel you I got one last Housewives question. Okay,

846
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: take a left turn. But I just thought about this Garsel.

847
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Speaker 1: I'm following you guys after she left. Oh gosh, yeah,

848
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: so she really didn't follow y'all. That wasn't like a

849
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: fan theory.

850
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Speaker 3: No, why you know, that's a really hard question. I

851
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,320
Speaker 3: wish I knew. I really do.

852
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 4: Like it's not even like me being politically correct, like

853
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 4: I wish I knew. When I went on Watch What

854
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 4: Happens Live with Andy right after she decided to resigne,

855
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 4: and you know, he asked me how I felt about

856
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 4: and I was like, man, I just I wish he

857
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 4: didn't because I would like to actually work out whatever

858
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 4: the challenges were that she was having on the show

859
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 4: or with me personally, right, And it just you just

860
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 4: don't have that option. And so it's a lot like

861
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 4: having a breakup where you don't get access to the

862
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 4: person anymore and you kind of have to have closure

863
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 4: on your own.

864
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: And a lot of times people are like, oh, they're

865
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 3: not over.

866
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,320
Speaker 4: The thing because they didn't get their closure, But I'm like,

867
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 4: you could close that door yourself too, So if that's

868
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 4: what she needed to do, then good for her. I mean,

869
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 4: I still follow her, I'm still interested in what she's doing.

870
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Speaker 3: I'm still cheering, but.

871
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 5: Try to reach out to her and talk to her. Yeah, yeah,

872
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 5: yeah I did nothing.

873
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 3: No no, no, she responded. But it wasn't It wasn't like, oh,

874
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 3: let's go, you know what I mean? Yeah, no, no.

875
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Speaker 4: I was just like, hey, look like I wish you

876
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 4: the very best, you know, and I want you to succeed,

877
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 4: and I wish this would have worked out.

878
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 3: And she said thank you, bos and that you know,

879
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 3: that's it. So it's amicable. Yeah, I do have a question.

880
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 2: Now you're engaged. Yes, how much you think y'all gonna

881
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 2: spend on the wedding?

882
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 4: Oh god, A lot of money, a lot, because I

883
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 4: want two weddings. Well, we want two weddings. I'm sorry, okay, yes,

884
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 4: well we want one. We both want one in l A.

885
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 4: I really want one in Ghana. So we're gonna do both.

886
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 4: And it's gonna cost a lot of money.

887
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 3: I mean, who paid for that? Well, we both do.

888
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 5: This.

889
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 3: Man said that you got the wedding. I took.

890
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: I flew for the third day.

891
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 2: You got the wedding the same to go get.

892
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 5: The ring, get the ring and move by.

893
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,720
Speaker 3: I mean, you know he knows who he's married.

894
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:45,479
Speaker 4: Yes, there's no surprises, there's no surprises, like we're gonna

895
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 4: do it big.

896
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want everybody there, Jesus Christ, if you.

897
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 5: Just got engaged. And he about to oh.

898
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 4: That's the thing, Yes, you're gonna have to pay for

899
00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 4: in Greece, and my god, yeah, so yeah, you're gonna

900
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 4: have to pay for that.

901
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 1: You see, he doesn't look because he's already counting the spots.

902
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: There's a lot of money, and and his daughter and

903
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 1: heard want to get married at the same castle that

904
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 1: the cases was married.

905
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 2: I got married twenty four years ago.

906
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 3: I got to do. Yes, there's a lot of money.

907
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, that's just I still got to do.

908
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, renovated exactly. We need a hunter of racks.

909
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

910
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 2: Racks.

911
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 4: Yes, that's the that's the starting price of just you

912
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm just getting the things.

913
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 2: Was like, we give you I'm gonna do damns.

914
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't.

915
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 4: I don't mind spending, you know. I just feel like

916
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 4: these moments are they are so special? You knowing so hard, yes, yes,

917
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 4: and been through so much.

918
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, I want to celebrate. I want everybody to

919
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 3: be there. I want to have a great time, and

920
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna spend the money to do it.

921
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 2: Yes, if you extra workers on the weekend, I can help.

922
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 2: I need the money. Same if you have a dog

923
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 2: up the door, you know. Love wedding.

924
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the contradey you know, I mean you

925
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: might need a host of the reception just to do

926
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: the comedy.

927
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 4: See, this is what I'm talking about. You know, Black people,

928
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 4: we need to we need to work invoices.

929
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm just talking would work here, definitely, no favorite.

930
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 3: You know I love that. I love it because I

931
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 3: do believe in paying for your friends businesses. You know

932
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 3: what I mean. Support your friends.

933
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 5: I loved and support.

934
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 2: One hundred thousand and now.

935
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 5: That right.

936
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 2: We appreciate you for doing. Thank you, Sure you check

937
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 2: out on brand with Jimmy Fallon is out right now

938
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 2: on these see and thank you so much at the

939
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Good morning, Thank you y'all.

940
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 3: I love you so much.

941
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 4: Hold up every day I wake up, wake your ass

942
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 4: up the Breakfast Club finish for y'all.

943
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 5: Done,