1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to the Almost Famous Headlines Today. Trista 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: is here with me and we're going to be breaking 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: down Bachelor headlines. 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 3: And if you. 7 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 2: Haven't already, just a reminder to go and vote in 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: the Almost Famous Podcast Awards yet you. Trista and I 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 2: both nominated. I think I am most like expressionful. 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 3: I think I just made up that word. I have 11 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 3: the most expressed face. 12 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 2: I know justin Glaize is definitely going to beat me 13 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 2: out of that category. 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 3: It's really fun categories, guys. 15 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 2: It's like who's your favorite lead, who is your favorite villain? 16 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 3: Most memorable moment stuff. It's really great. 17 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 2: If you're wondering how to vote, you got to go 18 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: to our socials and it will teach you exactly how 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: to cast that thing. All right, Trisa, let's get into 20 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: headline number one. It seems as if Lin Bristo is 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 2: soft launching her relationship with Zach Clark, Like you and 22 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: I totally have no idea what's going on? 23 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: No, I have no idea. 24 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: You guys know just went on a trip together, and 25 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: I know that you didn't talk about her love life 26 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: at all. 27 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 4: No, not at all. We don't talk about love life 28 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 4: or any We didn't talk really about life at all. 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 4: We just looked at the beautiful ocean. 30 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 3: That was her fortieth birthday party, right. 31 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 4: Yes, well one of them. I feel like she was. 32 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 4: She celebrated her fortieth a few times. But she planned 33 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 4: this trip to Mexico with like her Canadian besties and 34 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 4: Kat from Nashville and Whitney, who I freaking love. We 35 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 4: were roomies and I just love her. Yeah, but yeah, 36 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 4: we got to go to Cabo and it was so 37 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 4: much fun. I just love myself some Caitlin. And yeah, 38 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,919 Speaker 4: I'm not spilling any today about what we talked about, 39 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 4: but yeah, go on, you go, Okay, fine. 40 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 2: So supposedly they were taking a very long, thirteen hour 41 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: road trip together where she sat in the passenger seat 42 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 2: and she actually passenger princess, napping, snacking and singing the 43 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 2: whole time. 44 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 3: She was posting along the way, and. 45 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: People feel like the arm that was present in the 46 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 2: driver's seat look a lot looks a lot like Zach's arm, 47 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: And they said that there's also like some people catching 48 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: a voice in the background sounds like Zach's voice. Another 49 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 2: person said, I know like a person that comment said, 50 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 2: I know that voice, I know it anywhere. 51 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 4: And I think there was a watch too, wasn't there 52 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 4: a watch situation? 53 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 2: Oh? 54 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 3: I matched together? 55 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, like he there was a watch in a picture 56 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: of hers and they matched it. I mean, please, a 57 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 4: billion guys wear the same kind of watch, so you 58 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 4: know it is what it is. But yeah, I mean 59 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 4: I'm happy for her regardless of what's happening, because she 60 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 4: is very happy right now. And I am totally a 61 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 4: kind of person that would play detective and be like, hmmm, 62 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: is he wearing you know, a watch that looks like 63 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 4: something that he just posted. I would totally be the 64 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 4: detective person if I if I didn't know what was 65 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 4: going on. So I totally get it. I get why 66 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 4: people are interested in want to figure that out, but 67 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: I'll just leave it at I'm really happy for Kaitlin. 68 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 69 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 2: I know that when Caitlin broke up with Jason that 70 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: her plan was kind of to never put another relationship 71 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: online until there was a wedding ring on her fingers. 72 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 2: He was like, not an engagement ring, ah, wedding ring. 73 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 3: So we'll see if she sticks with that. 74 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: But this was a little bit of a tease, a 75 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: jump in what we would like to think is the 76 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 2: right direction, and as far as relationship growth goes, not 77 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 2: as far as you know posting on Instagram. 78 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, yeah. 79 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 2: She seems very comfortable if this is in fact him 80 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 2: and if if they're in fact together or whatnot. Okay, 81 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 2: So then Daisy Kent reveals unexpected details about her life 82 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 2: living with her boyfriend Thor, which. 83 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 3: I still can't get over. 84 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: It's like a year and a half later that she's 85 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 2: dating a guy named Thor. If you guys don't know, 86 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 2: she and Thor had a kind of previous relationship back 87 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 2: in college and then they rekindled things after things didn't 88 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 2: work out with Joey on his season as a Bachelor. 89 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 3: They moved to Las Vegas. 90 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 2: They actually built the home together in Las Vegas, and 91 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: she was recently on Casual Chaos, which is Theresa Judice's 92 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 2: daughter's podcast, Gas Judaice, and she revealed that she and 93 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 2: Thor have separate toilets. That's the way they they designed 94 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 2: the house. I think this is a fantastic idea. She was, 95 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 2: we have a joined bathroom, but we have our own 96 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: sinks ones on my side, was on his side and 97 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,119 Speaker 2: they face each other. There's a bath in the middle, 98 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: and then we have supper toilets, which I like. She 99 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 2: said that like they were joking that they had never 100 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 2: seen anything like this, but that they're like the setup, 101 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 2: and I'm like, duh, you like this setup? How nice 102 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: is that? That's the ideal situation. Actually, Jared's a tub guy. 103 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 2: So back before we had kids, I was like obsessed 104 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 2: with designing our house. I definitely thought like it was 105 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 2: time to build off forever home. And then you have 106 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: a kid and you're like, whatever we'll do right now, whatever. 107 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 2: I will live in the fineness, happiness, contentness until like 108 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: they're in upper elementary school, right and then I can 109 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: be a moment to think about this, decorate it and 110 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 2: not get destroyed. 111 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 3: Glad it actually didn't happen. But my dream situation was. 112 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: To have our bedroom and then to have two bathrooms 113 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 2: coming off the main bedroom. 114 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 3: I wanted whole. 115 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 2: Separate bedrooms because Jared's a tub guy, and I was like, 116 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 2: I want to take a bath without having his grime 117 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: and all his little body hairs on the side of 118 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 2: the dub once it drains out. 119 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 3: That's so true. 120 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 4: Neither of us are really big bath people. But I 121 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 4: totally get that because Blakesley will use our bathtub every 122 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 4: now and then, and yes, the grime that's left in there, 123 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 4: and even if it's just from the bubbles or whatever, 124 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 4: it's just kind of grue. So yeah, I totally get that. Yeah, 125 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 4: but I love that they. You know, we had in 126 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 4: our house and Veil, we had separate closets, and I 127 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 4: will always if there's a house that has separate closets 128 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 4: and it's in our budget, that's the house I want. 129 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 4: You know, that's a priority. We share a closet now 130 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 4: and it's big enough for us to share it. But 131 00:06:55,760 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 4: the bathroom situation, I've never really thought about separate bathrooms. Clearly, 132 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 4: separate sinks are a necessity if if that's something that's 133 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 4: in your budget, Like, oh, it's a game changer. I 134 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 4: feel like for any relationship, if you can have a 135 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 4: separate sink, it will save your marriage. 136 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big one. So that's where you start. 137 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 2: And then I would say step number two, separate toilets 138 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: is pretty nice, and step number three whole separate. 139 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 3: So Daisy, we understand you. This is not weird. 140 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 4: And I actually have to say that. We were just 141 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 4: in Tahoe together her Daisy was there for pickleball tournament, 142 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 4: which we missed you at. But yeah, so we were 143 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 4: talking about how she wants to write another children's book, 144 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 4: possibly in the future, and I was like, oh, you 145 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 4: need to put Thor in the book, like maybe make 146 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 4: him like a little you're, like pet dog or something. 147 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 148 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 4: I was like, you even put Thor, But yeah, you're 149 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 4: write that name Thor. It's so interesting to me. I know, 150 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 4: I don't know where. 151 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 2: It is because he doesn't look like a Thor either, 152 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: because you just obviously imagine Chris Hemsworth. 153 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 4: Yes. 154 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Lauren Lyondyke she had a pajama baby shower. Well, 155 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 2: how about your first thought about a baby shower for 156 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: your fourth kid. My thought, I'm pretty much assuming here 157 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 2: that what happened was she they had a asex me, 158 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 2: like they biologically said, we're closing the door on this. 159 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 2: So if they did it to his body, they definitely 160 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: did it to the stuff in the house, so they 161 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: probably got rid of everything. 162 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 4: And so right, yeah, well I think also, you know, 163 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 4: when you're having a baby shower or wedding shower, it's 164 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 4: like a way to get started with all the basics 165 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 4: and for people to shower you and spoil you and 166 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 4: all of that stuff. And it doesn't seem like Ari 167 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 4: and Lauren are are struggling financially. Yeah, so that would 168 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 4: be the thing that I feel like people would have 169 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 4: the biggest problem with is really, you're having a baby shower. 170 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 4: But I feel like, more so baby showers are just 171 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 4: a way to get together with your girlfriends or your 172 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 4: family or whatever and celebrate, you know, a new baby 173 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 4: is coming. It's not like I don't think that Lauren 174 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 4: was probably like here is my wish list, get me 175 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 4: all of these. 176 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 2: Things between brand partnerships, brand gifting, whatever they have in 177 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 2: the house from the kids. Like I'm sure that it 178 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 2: probably said something like no gifts or like bring a book. 179 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 2: That's like a lot of things for a sprinkle is 180 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 2: bring a book, or like bring a diaper or something 181 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 2: like that. 182 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 4: And I love that the whole Ari I was following 183 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 4: along with his the Hatcheler mansion, the whole chicken coop 184 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 4: that he made he made from scratch, Like it's actually 185 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 4: really satisfying to watch those videos, like how he does 186 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 4: like a time lapse of like how he built the 187 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 4: whatever he's building at the time. He is really becoming 188 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 4: very handy, and I loved seeing him create that like 189 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 4: little backdrop for the for the shower too. It's it's 190 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 4: kind of amazing that he's got that talent. 191 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 3: Sometimes I'm like Ari, like, wow, do you do all this? 192 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 2: How are you like a master reeltor you're selling multimillion 193 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 2: dollar houses, you have your social media influencer life, you 194 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: know work, Yeah, she's doing that. You have three kids 195 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: with the four on the way, and then you're just 196 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 2: in your spare time making Hatchler mansions for the chickens. 197 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 4: They have to have a nanny. 198 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 3: Well, their kids are in school now. 199 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: That's what they told us when we were like when 200 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 2: they were trying to get pregnant again and we're like. 201 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 3: Really like, how like we are so like we can't 202 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 3: do more than two? How could you do full? 203 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 2: And they were like, well, that's because of where you 204 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 2: guys are right now. Because when your kids are like 205 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 2: three and a half plus and they're in school like 206 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 2: for a lot of the day, then you realize that, 207 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 2: like you're look, you have so much more time than 208 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 2: you had had for the past like three four years, 209 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:20,479 Speaker 2: And that's when you're gonna have like the sadness. 210 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well we'll see. I'm not there yet. 211 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 4: Oh girlfriend, the sadness. I just uh, I just took 212 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 4: my last first picture of Max. It was his first 213 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 4: day of senior year. Oh my god, today, like I 214 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 4: mean day today. Yeah, it was their first day of school. 215 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 3: Do you have one from every first day of school? 216 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 4: I literally did that earlier. I went back and I 217 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 4: lost a bunch of pictures because I had like a 218 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 4: what do you call it, a hard drive where he's 219 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 4: or burnt up or whatever. So I lost a crap 220 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 4: ton of pictures, which was very sad. But I do 221 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 4: have some very devastating, like tens of thousands of pictures. 222 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 4: I try not to think about it, but anyway, yes, 223 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 4: I went through. I went through pictures and I found 224 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 4: I'm not going to post this on but I'm just 225 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 4: going to show you because this was his very first 226 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 4: day of preschool. Ryan's walking him to preschool. How tiny 227 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 4: he is. I'm literally like, you have to use this 228 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 4: like when we say goodbye to him, to when he 229 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 4: goes to college or whatever he does. 230 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 3: After school, Like that's my baby. 231 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 2: Anyway, I can't believe it goes very yes, so, I 232 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 2: mean Jared n I'm married six years now. Dawson's even 233 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: just saying Dawson's three and a half, which means I 234 00:12:48,920 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 2: was pregnant with him four years ago. It's like, everything's crazy. 235 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: I wanted to talk more about Ari though in his building. 236 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: So yeah, he's been showing off a lot of his 237 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 2: handyman skills on social lately, and we. 238 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,239 Speaker 3: Just can't help her wonder that maybe he's trying. 239 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: To get the attention of HGTV for the new Bachelor 240 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 2: mansion renovation show. 241 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: What's your take? 242 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, duh, I mean it's a smart move. I love 243 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 4: that whole Stu. I mean Ryan and I think this 244 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 4: is a little known fact. We did a show for 245 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 4: HGTV called Rocky Mountain Reno. It was a it was 246 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 4: just a pilot. They didn't pick it up. But I 247 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 4: love that whole space. It is so fun. I'm always 248 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 4: watching Jojo and Jordan's videos. She just bought this new 249 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 4: like house to you know, renovate and put on the 250 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 4: market to rent, and I want to be her, Like, 251 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 4: I want to do that so badly. It seems so fun, 252 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 4: even though so gross at the same time. But so fun. 253 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 2: See I think that Jojo and Jordan would be the 254 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: most obvious pick for that because they're the most modern 255 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 2: relevant Bachelor couple. That that's where she that's where she started. 256 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,599 Speaker 2: That was her first job, so she was doing what 257 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 2: she was on Ben's season. So yeah, I think that. 258 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: But they're so busy. Oh Tyler, I think Tyler. Tyler 259 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 2: is going to announce that he has a new show 260 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: with Ryan see her. You know Ryan from Million Dollar Listing. Yeah, 261 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure Tyler is going to be on a 262 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 2: million dollar Listing type show. 263 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 3: That's I think you batate GP TV for him. What 264 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: would you do it? Would you do it? 265 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, hell yes, sign me up. 266 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 3: I would. 267 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 4: I would do it in a heartbeat. Without the interior design, well, 268 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 4: I mean it will. It would depend on schedule because 269 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 4: you know, the kids and whatever and Ryan and I 270 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 4: can't just leave my dog. Yeah, but if no one's 271 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 4: watching him, But yes, I would love that. I love 272 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 4: renovation shows so much fun, and to renovate the Bachelor 273 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 4: mansion that is iconic and epic and will live in 274 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 4: history for all time, So I would love to be 275 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 4: part of it. Pardon me, I'm having a having a 276 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 4: hot flash. 277 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 3: Oh great, that's hot flash. 278 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so fun. 279 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: Our first bachelorette is having hot flashes. 280 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 3: So time goes by fast. 281 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 2: I always like to remind myself of this terrifying fact 282 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 2: that I went to a Jonah. My first Jonah's brother's 283 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 2: consulort was in two thousand and eight, which means that 284 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: it was I'm really good at math, like seventeen years ago, 285 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 2: you know, sixteen seventeen years ago. 286 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 4: Uouanteen because my son was born in two thousand and seven. 287 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 3: Okay, it's twenty twenty five, so Jesus Christ. 288 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 2: So my first jone is probably it was eighteen years ago, 289 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 2: and that met in eighteen years from now, when I am. 290 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 3: Fifty sucking five. Yeah, I'll be through menopause. 291 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 2: So like the amount of time from my first show 292 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 2: on the PROD concert too, I think that why you know. 293 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 3: Yeah what? 294 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: Oh yes, girl, Oh yeah, I'm fifty two right now, 295 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 4: so I right in there. 296 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yea. It's all right, everybody, don't make fun 297 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 3: of my math. I know that my numbers are a 298 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 3: little off there. 299 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: I'm very very tired, guys, and that's where I'm going 300 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 2: to leave it. 301 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 4: Give yourself some Grace. 302 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, moving moving on. 303 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 2: Sam McKinley and Ali Joe Hanks. You guys know them 304 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 2: from the past two seasons of The Bachelor and Bachelorette, 305 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 2: and you know both of them from this season of Paradise. Well, 306 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 2: they're revealing now if they'd ever talked before going on Paradise. 307 00:16:56,560 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 2: Now you may not remember this little nuance, but while 308 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: they were both on this season, they never overlapped in time, 309 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 2: so they missed each other by one week, just days really, 310 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,479 Speaker 2: and now they are dating in real life. Their like 311 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: launch posts was saying that they put it into their 312 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: own hands. Sometimes you had to put into your own hands, 313 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 2: and they are admitting that. He she reached out to 314 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:25,479 Speaker 2: him a couple months ago during Grant seasons airing, and 315 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 2: she messaged him and said, I actually just got compared 316 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 2: to you on the show, like right after the episode, 317 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 2: after the basketball date, and we started chatting for a 318 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,959 Speaker 2: little bit. And then a couple months later I posted 319 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 2: a photo and he DMed me and then we started 320 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 2: talking about Paradise. We both didn't know if we were 321 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 2: going to go or not. And then he answered me 322 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 2: and I stopped answering his messages. 323 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:50,640 Speaker 3: Good job, good job. 324 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: She says that if they both went that he would 325 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 2: be someone that she wanted to meet in real life 326 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 2: and explore relationship in paradise, So she did not want 327 00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: to keep the conversation going via DM and get all 328 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,199 Speaker 2: those questions on the beach. She wanted to happen. It 329 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 2: had to happen organically. Obviously that did not happen, But 330 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 2: they were gonna make stuff happen themselves, and they didn't 331 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,719 Speaker 2: need TV. They didn't need TV to book a plane ticket, 332 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 2: That's what he said. And once he found out that 333 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 2: she wasn't there and he was going home, he was like, 334 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 2: all right, that's fine. And then they started messaging each 335 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 2: other again and got a phone call, got a number, 336 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 2: before you know it, got on a flight. 337 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 3: That's it. Pretty love it? Yeah, why not? 338 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 4: Like I mean, just just the idea of pat of 339 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 4: Paradise and them going to Paradise. I think probably sparked 340 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 4: the conversation even more, that made maybe had already started 341 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 4: for them, So why not, like, you know, go for it. 342 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 4: Even though they're a long distance, they're they're still young. 343 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,360 Speaker 4: I think they're a really cute couple, and I think 344 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 4: it's great, you know, super cute I think that. Did 345 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 4: I talk about this with you, because I know Jade 346 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 4: came up with the idea. I'm not sure if we 347 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 4: talked about it, but she said that it would be 348 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 4: a good idea if Paradise like kind of had everybody 349 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 4: there at once, yes, where there was no entrances, because 350 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 4: then like everybody could see, hey, of this group, will 351 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 4: there ever be anyone for me? 352 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 3: And it could create more couples. 353 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 4: I think it'd be great. Like, I don't I get 354 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 4: that bringing people in. 355 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 3: Is like exciting. 356 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, like people are like who's coming, and it's the 357 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 4: what who knows? And what ifs and all of that. 358 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 4: But I do think it would be awesome to have 359 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 4: everyone there at the same time. They'd still have a 360 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 4: ton of content. You know, it might not be as 361 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 4: exciting with the arrivals, but you could still make it 362 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 4: exciting somehow. I don't know. Yeah, I think I think 363 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 4: that would be fair. You know, so if you're going 364 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 4: to be on Paradise, then you have the chance to 365 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 4: meet all of these people. And I have a question 366 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 4: for you. Were there less people this season? 367 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, they were like significantly less people because of the 368 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 2: Goldens being there. 369 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 4: Okay, that's what I was wondering. 370 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, they also usually bring people in a little bit 371 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 2: longer into the season. But I think because they wanted 372 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 2: to do the competition, they didn't. Yeah, right, they did 373 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 2: without that, which makes sense and is good because those 374 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 2: people that always come in the past the last couple 375 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 2: of weeks, they never have a chance anyway. So I 376 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 2: think that because they always get the complaint of why 377 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 2: is there even people coming in now there's not a 378 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 2: chance for them, They're like, all right, well, we'll do 379 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 2: without that. In sad news, I'm so sorry. 380 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 3: I feel so bad for them. 381 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 2: Nick and Natalie have revealed came out today on their 382 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 2: episode of Vile Off Files that she is currently going 383 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 2: through her third miscarriage this year. He said, as you 384 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 2: can see, Natalie is not with us. There's no easy 385 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 2: way to talk about it. Sadly, Natalie experienced another miscarriage. 386 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 2: It's her third this year or third this year, and 387 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 2: there's really no way good of saying it, like it 388 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 2: just sucks, and she's obviously at home resting and healing 389 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 2: it both emotionally and physically, and it's just. 390 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 3: It's so sad. I feel awful for them. 391 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 2: He said that it's a bit of a scary time 392 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 2: for him and Natalie because they experienced the previous two 393 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 2: miscarriages this year and this is it's just it's far 394 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 2: less normal to have two or three back to back 395 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 2: now there. He said that we're in kind of that 396 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 2: scary process of running tests and finding out more to 397 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 2: know about ourselves, you know, biologically. And the weird thing 398 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 2: is that if you want them to find something, like you, 399 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 2: you want them to find something, but then you don't 400 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 2: want them to find something. It's like that weird uncharted 401 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 2: territory of fact finding. That's what they're going through right now. 402 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 4: Oh I hate, I mean, I know, heartbroken for them. 403 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 4: It makes me want to cry. I feel that the 404 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 4: not knowing part because when Ryan was really sick, you know, 405 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 4: we we just wanted answers. It took forever to find 406 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,479 Speaker 4: an answer. I mean to the point where I was 407 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 4: like hoping that he had cancer. It got that bad 408 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 4: because I wanted I just wanted to have some way 409 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:28,479 Speaker 4: of focusing our energy more on getting him better. And 410 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 4: without the information, you know, of what was going on, 411 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,919 Speaker 4: you couldn't do that. So yeah, part of me was like, 412 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 4: I think both of us have said this, you kind 413 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 4: of wish for something that is known so you can 414 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 4: attack it. Yeah. So I totally get the unknown. I 415 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 4: totally get hating the unknown and why this is happening 416 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 4: to them, and my heart just goes out to him. 417 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then sometimes it's like, okay, well, if we 418 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,880 Speaker 2: get task and finds out there that there's something is wrong, 419 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 2: at least we like can know, right if there's a 420 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 2: way to fix it, and we can like take action. 421 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 4: Exactly exactly, yes, right. 422 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 2: Another Nick news he's clarifying the nuptial clause in the 423 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 2: Bachelor contract. Nick said that he was offered insight on 424 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 2: how the Bachelor franchise weddings are negotiated. 425 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 3: And this is something that you might you might know of. 426 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: There's something in our contracts that we sign where it's 427 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 2: like if they give a crap about your relationship and 428 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 2: you want to get married on TV, it's already a 429 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 2: kind of pre arranged thing in your contract. 430 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 3: He said. 431 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: It's more free wedding rather than you get paid. Do 432 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 2: you remember this? 433 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 4: So no, because we are the first ones to negotiate it. 434 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So so after you they started putting it in 435 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 2: the contracts. 436 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 4: Yes, because they were like, we're not going to pay 437 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 4: everybody a million. 438 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 2: Dollars, right, Okay, so once you negotiated and you got 439 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,120 Speaker 2: the money, they were like, okay, and. 440 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 3: Now there, we're not doing that again. 441 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 2: We really wanted that, we wanted it enough for a million. 442 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 3: Dollars, but we're never gonna want it that bad again. 443 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, And I'm sure Nick is referring to 444 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 2: Bachelor and Bachelor atte lead contracts. There is something in 445 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 2: the nuptial contract for just like a regular cast member, 446 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 2: and I really yeah, or paradise or something, because it 447 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 2: makes sense because like if you're marrying the lead, like 448 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 2: then totally okay. So he's saying, if they care about 449 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: your relationship and if you want to get married on TV, 450 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 2: then it's like, okay, here's your free wedding, no paycheck 451 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,120 Speaker 2: or minimal paycheck. 452 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 4: I'm sure that's what it focuses on, Like we're not 453 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 4: paying you, but we'll give you a free wedding. 454 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're not mandating you to have have a wedding 455 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 3: on TV. 456 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 4: Now, no, no no. 457 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 3: No no no no no no. 458 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 4: I would think not because there have been plenty of 459 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 4: people who have gotten married without it being on telephone. 460 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 2: Well, they also didn't want it to be of like 461 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 2: a lot of people wanted it to be on TV, 462 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 2: but it wasn't and people. 463 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 3: Are gonna be like that. I actually probably wanted hers 464 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 3: on TV. 465 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:24,239 Speaker 2: I can firmly tell you I did not want my 466 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:28,360 Speaker 2: wedding on TV. I had been to Bachelor weddings before, 467 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: you know, many actually, I think three by the time 468 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 2: Jared and I were planning our wedding, and I was like, 469 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 2: I don't want to not have full control of my wedding. 470 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 2: I want to be my style with my guests. I 471 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,959 Speaker 2: don't want it to be an orchestra event. I feel like, again, 472 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 2: with you having your for the first wedding, you probably 473 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 2: did get to have like all the. 474 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 3: People that you ever wanted at your wedding, right. 475 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:04,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yes, I had total control, not control necessarily, 476 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 4: it's not the right word, but input and and my 477 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 4: input was heard, you know, and and executed. It wasn't like, oh, well, 478 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,479 Speaker 4: I'd really like to have badly Mishkad do my my 479 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 4: dress and they would be like, okay, well, whatever, We're 480 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 4: not going to do that. They like actually listened and 481 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:31,439 Speaker 4: implemented pretty much all the things that I that I 482 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 4: wanted to do. I mean, Mindy Weiss was in charge really, 483 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 4: and I just kind of was like, I was like, 484 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 4: whatever she wants to do, you know, I like pink, 485 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:47,640 Speaker 4: and so you just roll with that. Yeah, there are 486 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 4: things looking back that I really wish I would have done, 487 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 4: But that wasn't like because it was on television. It 488 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 4: was it was more like, you know, little little moments 489 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 4: that I wish I would have done. But yeah, I 490 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 4: feel very lucky still that we had the wedding that 491 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 4: we did. 492 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: Right. 493 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 2: There was so there was reasons beyond just aesthetic choices 494 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 2: for me and guest choices. It was like, yes, you 495 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 2: never get it, they're gonna do with the edit of 496 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 2: your wedding. Like I just think about Jade and Tanner 497 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 2: or like some of our best friends. I'm just like, 498 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry that I was any sort of character crying. 499 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 3: Over a boy at your wedding. 500 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 2: And that it aired that way, and that our storyline 501 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,719 Speaker 2: was like as prevalent as your wedding was. 502 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 503 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, it definitely affected you. I totally understand. 504 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 4: You have every reason to feel like that, especially because 505 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 4: it was Jade and Tanner. Yeah, I mean, and it 506 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 4: was a beautiful wedding, and for them to not just 507 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,479 Speaker 4: solely focus on that is is a bit sad, and 508 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 4: it is weird because I mean, we took over an 509 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 4: entire resort in Palm Springs. It was ranch On and 510 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 4: now I think it's the Ritz. It's the Ritz Carlton now. 511 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 4: But so we had the entire resort there were there 512 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,200 Speaker 4: was nobody else there, and a lot of the rooms 513 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 4: were for executives and people we had never met before. 514 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 4: You know, they're behind the scenes at Disney or ABC 515 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 4: or Warner or whatever, and so that's weird. But it 516 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 4: really didn't affect me like I was. I was happy 517 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 4: that it was like of a resort that was full 518 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 4: of people that were all there to to celebrate the 519 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 4: love that Ryan and I had for each other. 520 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 3: So yeah, it was great. 521 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 2: Our final headline of the day is Rachel Rechia given 522 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 2: the real deats behind why Clayton broke up with her 523 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 2: for the second time, really broke broke up as a 524 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,719 Speaker 2: really heavy term here, I'm just using it for the 525 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,719 Speaker 2: gist of it all. On Perfect Match, there was like 526 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 2: twelve hours where they were going to maybe like try 527 00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 2: to recogn like rekindle something, and then right before he 528 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 2: had to like go into the boardroom. If you watch 529 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 2: Perfect Match, you understand what I'm talking about. He kind 530 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: of went to her and said, hey, never mind, don't 531 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 2: think that we're sued for each other because he wanted 532 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 2: to go on a date with a fresh person and 533 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 2: on the show, uh, he talked, you know, he gives 534 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 2: like certain reasonings, but Rachel says that the real reason 535 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 2: is because because he was saying that it was his intuition, 536 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: my intuition is saying no, and she's she's saying what 537 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 2: didn't make the cut is that he wants a gym 538 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: girly like he wants a real gym rat of a girl, 539 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 2: because he has he has used the gym as like 540 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 2: his outlets since he was twelve years old, and he 541 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 2: made sure that it is such a big part of 542 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 2: his life and he needs somebody to understand that and 543 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 2: share in that time with him. So so there's that 544 00:29:53,200 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 2: and that, and then today he he he posted something 545 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 2: on Instagram about his daily workout routine and said, just 546 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 2: letting you guys know that Rachel and I have spoken 547 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 2: multiple times this week and we both agree that we're 548 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 2: just not compatible for multiple reasons. 549 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 4: So and didn't he say something else in the like 550 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 4: on that story that he shared today. Hold on, I'm 551 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 4: gonna pull it up. 552 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 3: Here it is, he said. 553 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 4: And by the way, Rachel, maybe you said this already. 554 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 4: Rachel and I have spoken on the phone twice over 555 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 4: the last week. We both agree that we have different 556 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 4: lifestyles and that's perfectly okay. We respect that about one 557 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 4: another and just want the other to be happy. We 558 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 4: also both agree we make a mess on reality TV 559 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 4: together and need to quit doing that. Which, yeah, I 560 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 4: feel like being married for almost twenty three years, you know, 561 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 4: hindsight's twenty twenty, of course, and I've been through a 562 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 4: lot of years of marriage. But even when I was 563 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 4: looking for someone to be tied to forever, you know, 564 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 4: to be with together forever, I wasn't if there was 565 00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 4: something that was that I was passionate about, I wasn't 566 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:26,719 Speaker 4: expecting that person to like share in that passion exactly 567 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 4: as I do, do you know what I mean? So 568 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 4: I love hanging out with my friends and I'm not 569 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 4: expecting I wasn't expecting the person that I chose to 570 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 4: be with forever to like come join me with my friends. 571 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 4: I just wanted him to respect that I love hanging 572 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 4: out with my friends and give me that time. Now. 573 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 4: I do understand that you want to share your passions together, 574 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 4: and that's that's great. Of course you want to be 575 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 4: compatible with someone. But I feel like, is he at 576 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 4: the gym for like fifteen hours a day? Probably not. 577 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 2: I think that's why he wrote it all down, like 578 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 2: showing how much of a time commitment it is. But 579 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 2: also I think that this is just one of the 580 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 2: things that he said just to make her feel better 581 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 2: to him, to feel better because he knew that if 582 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 2: he were to walk into an actual relationship with Rachel 583 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 2: when it was like more like dazing versus like a 584 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 2: few hours, he was gonna get in trouble. He was 585 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 2: gonna find himself in trouble because if he started again 586 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 2: and it didn't end well again, it'd be like ah. 587 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 2: And you know, and for Clayton, it looks like this 588 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 2: this show isn't really making him look the best. I 589 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: haven't watched much of it yet, but I know that 590 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 2: he doesn't love the way that he's being portrayed on it. 591 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 3: Oh really Yeah, So I. 592 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 2: Feel like. 593 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 3: He messed up either way. 594 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 2: But he also says in the post that, like, both 595 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 2: of them are very messy on reality TV and they 596 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 2: don't plan on doing a dating show again. I don't 597 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 2: want to throw Rachel onto the bus with this. I 598 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 2: love Rachel on my TV. She's such a beautiful personality 599 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 2: and a beautiful face at that too. 600 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 4: So yeah, agreed. And for him to say, like because 601 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 4: she doesn't go to the gym that she's not beautiful 602 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 4: or for me, I don't know. I mean, to each 603 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 4: their own right, to each their own. And if that's 604 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 4: something that's really important for him to have in a relationship, 605 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 4: someone to go to the gym with him, then to 606 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:31,720 Speaker 4: each their own. But I think maybe just in terms of, 607 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 4: you know, unsolicited advice, I do hate unsolicited advice, so 608 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 4: I hate that I'm even saying that. But if he's 609 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 4: looking for a solid foundation of a relationship, I think 610 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 4: it's more about respect for each other's passions and not 611 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 4: holding it against them that they don't share the same 612 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 4: pas exactly exactly. 613 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: Well, Clayton, we're sorry, but we're sorry too, you know, yeah, 614 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 2: to get you a little bit, poor guy. 615 00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 3: He gets dug out a lot. 616 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 2: And he is going to come back on our podcast 617 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 2: to talk more about his experience on Perfect Match. 618 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:08,360 Speaker 3: He did. Just come on. 619 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 2: If you guys haven't listened to recap episode two, this 620 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 2: is before Rachel enters the villa, and you can listen 621 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 2: to how he feels about that episode, about the prior episode, 622 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 2: just how he fit in amongst the cast, and how 623 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 2: his portrayal is. 624 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 3: But then we'll get. 625 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 2: Him on more to talk about his relationship with Rachel. 626 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 2: Give him that opportunity since she just had the opportunity 627 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 2: on next podcast to talk about her experience with Clayton. 628 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that well, And can I say really quickly, 629 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 4: I feel like I don't feel like we're taking a 630 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,439 Speaker 4: dig at him necessarily. I think that he has said 631 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 4: what he's said. And if you are on reality television, 632 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 4: you know there's that part of you if you speak 633 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 4: about someone and you we share the same feelings about Rachel, 634 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 4: I adore. 635 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 3: I love her so much, gee, I love her. 636 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,879 Speaker 4: She's She's one of my favorite people from Bachelor Nation, 637 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 4: and we have a great time when we're together, and 638 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 4: I will go to bat for her every day of 639 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,879 Speaker 4: the week and twice on Sunday, you know what I mean. 640 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 4: So I don't think we're taking a dig at him. 641 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,720 Speaker 4: I think that it's just knowing what I know about 642 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 4: marriage and how hard it is and just what to 643 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 4: look for when you're looking for a solid foundation. I 644 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 4: just feel like maybe possibly rethinking, you know, things, because 645 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 4: maybe the gym is not what you should be focusing on, 646 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 4: you know. So I don't think that's a dig I 647 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 4: think that's just advice for anyone if you're looking for 648 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 4: a relationship, like get to know what people that you're 649 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 4: hanging out with are passionate about, but just don't hold 650 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,959 Speaker 4: it against them if it's not something that you don't 651 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 4: necessarily like to do. So anyway, Yeah, we we wish 652 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,520 Speaker 4: Clayton all the best, all the best, as as in 653 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 4: everybody who's on Bachelor Nation. It's always I try to 654 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 4: like look at everyone and think positively. But when you're 655 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 4: saying certain things that don't necessarily make sense, we just 656 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 4: have to like address it and then we can move on. 657 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you just should have been like, you 658 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,360 Speaker 2: know what, Rachel, this is gonna be sloppy. 659 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,320 Speaker 3: Let's let's not do this. It's gonna be sloppy. I 660 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 3: just say that. That's the honest answer. 661 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 4: Like there doesn't even have to be a reason you're 662 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 4: so right, there didn't have to be a reason. I 663 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 4: think he was. He was looking for a reason. And really, 664 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,320 Speaker 4: if your intuition is telling you that that's not the person, 665 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 4: then that's not the person. You don't have to have 666 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 4: a reason. 667 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:45,879 Speaker 3: Well. 668 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 2: I feel like Clayton probably got both ways. You know, 669 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 2: he got now for saying she didn't go to the gym. 670 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,720 Speaker 2: He got for saying it was intuition. So yeah, right, 671 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 2: poor I can't win. 672 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 3: But you can't win. You can't win. 673 00:36:59,280 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 4: Sorry, Clayton. 674 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 3: This is always so fun with you, Trista. 675 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,760 Speaker 2: And I know that Ben is going to Italy soon, 676 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,240 Speaker 2: so you and I will probably be doing this again 677 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 2: and I can't wait for it. 678 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 3: But until next time, IB and Ashley. 679 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 4: I've been Trista. 680 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 3: Bye. 681 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 682 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.