1 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the 2 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: Rough with myself Teddy Mellencamp. 3 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 2: And Hi, I'm Erica Jane. Hi, Rika Jane, Hi baby, 4 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 2: how are you? Oh? 5 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: My gosh, I like almost needed to call you for 6 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: advice because this past week has been so brutal. 7 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 2: Okay, what's going on? I don't know. 8 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: I feel like, well, I ended up getting. 9 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: Sick, right, I text you you got COVID. 10 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got COVID, which I'm good now. But then 11 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 1: I started feeling like extreme extreme depression. 12 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: Ooh, like I hopeless, hopeless Okay, and did you call 13 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: your psychiatrist? 14 00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: I called my psychiatrist. My dad flew in his assistant 15 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: to be with me. Okay, but I haven't ever felt 16 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: like that. 17 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: It's frightening. 18 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: So and then how long does it take to kind 19 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: of bounce back from that? 20 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 2: Everybody's different. What did your psychiatrist say? 21 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: Well, I mean they changed my medications around, okay, and 22 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: they my psychiatrist just said, like, nobody really knows exactly 23 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: what you're going through. That's right, And all you can 24 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: do is just, you know, try to stay as positive 25 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: as you can and think about all the great things 26 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 1: that are going on in your life. But I mean 27 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: I didn't. I cried every single day last week. 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 2: Why didn't you tell me? 29 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: Because I hate asking people for help? 30 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you this is the time that you lean 31 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 2: on people, like you know. I would have come out here, 32 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 2: I know, but it's like I know you had COVID, 33 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 2: but I still would have come. I would have come. 34 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: But how when you I mean, because. 35 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can ask anything you want to ask when you. 36 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: Are going through like depressive stuffs, like how long does 37 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: it normally take you to kind of snap out of it? 38 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 2: Okay? So for me, my medication didn't really kick in 39 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: till about four to six weeks, and I laid in 40 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 2: bed a lot and I had really intrusive thoughts. Are 41 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 2: you having intrusive thoughts? Okay? So I wanted to kill 42 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: myself for a very long time and thought about it 43 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 2: a lot and then didn't. The hopelessness is what's frightening, 44 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: you know, the hopelessness, And sometimes you just need someone 45 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 2: to come and sit with you, which I will do 46 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 2: anytime you need me to. You're going through a lot, 47 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: and I think, like, of course, obviously I'm no health professional, 48 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 2: but I think the gravity of what you've gone through 49 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 2: is hitting you right now. 50 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I think too. Like I went from 51 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: like having like this kind of chaotic life NonStop and 52 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: then right into the hospital, right and then I bound 53 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: to process hold on. 54 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: But you had one of the biggest I don't want 55 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 2: to say bounce backs, but that's the only word that's 56 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: coming to me right now I've ever seen of anybody 57 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: like I'm sure your doctors, like you shrugged this very 58 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: serious diagnosis of like it was nothing. You had surgery, 59 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: you were competing in horse shows, you were dating, you know, 60 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 2: so all of those things. I say all of that 61 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: to say that, like you're caught up in all of 62 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: this and now it's hitting you like months later. Yeah, 63 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 2: the seriousness and the gravity, and I mean, I'm sure 64 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: you're psychiatrists or your doctors have said that it's kind 65 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 2: to normal. 66 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, they said that it's normal to feel this way 67 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: and just to kind of keep going through you know, 68 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: you just have to keep going through it. But it 69 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: was really scary. 70 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: It is scary, isn't it. Yeah, Because it's almost like, 71 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: who am I why? I've never felt this way, You've 72 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: never felt so low, And I was worried it wasn't 73 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: going to stop. I know, That's what I was worried about. 74 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 2: Wasn't too How can this? How can I pull myself 75 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 2: out of this? Because you and I are very proactive, 76 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 2: whether it be fitness, nutrition, your family, your schedule. You know, 77 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: you're somebody that had your entire life scheduled down to 78 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 2: the minute. When something like this is overwhelming and you 79 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 2: feel did you feel paralyzed? 80 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: I felt paralyzed, and like that's why it's like hard 81 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: for me to even like send a text message or 82 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: reach out to anybody or and then you know, when 83 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: it comes to work stuff like. 84 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 2: I love work, Yeah you do. 85 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: I love it, and I like the brain fall and 86 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 1: all those types of things. It's just like I can't 87 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: stand it. 88 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think you need to be a little bit. 89 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 2: You need to cut yourself a break right here and 90 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 2: not be so hard on yourself. You're hard on yourself anyway, 91 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 2: ye like at your best of times, like really hard 92 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 2: on yourself. I think you really have to be gentle 93 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 2: with yourself right here. Yeah. Also know that this is 94 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: not forever. But the more you resist and the more 95 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 2: you fight, the worse it kind of gets in your head, 96 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 2: like you have to move because I hated it so much. So, 97 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 2: like anybody listening, like, I wasn't the best at this either, 98 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:38,559 Speaker 2: because I started acting out. 99 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: I mean that's what I was doing before, but now 100 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: I don't even have the energy to act out. 101 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: I understand, I understand, and I think that I think 102 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: your faith is strong, yeah, yeah, very strong. This is 103 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: where you really need to lean into your faith. Yeah, 104 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: and everyone around you and know that people are here. No, 105 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,119 Speaker 2: I don't know exactly what you're going through, Okay, I don't, 106 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 2: but I do know what it's like to feel that way, 107 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: and I think this is a time when all of 108 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 2: us need to You know, you can call me any 109 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: fucking time, Teddy, thank you, And I mean that like 110 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: you're welcome to call me twenty four hours a day 111 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 2: if you can send the text. Now I'm going to 112 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 2: be calling you. I will, but then I understand if 113 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: you don't answer. But I think that you need someone 114 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 2: with you all the time. Someone needs to be with you, 115 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 2: just because you don't need to be alone with your 116 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 2: own thoughts, because that rumination can get into a place 117 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 2: where it's just really heavy. 118 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: And then you're just like you feel so stuck. Yeah, 119 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: And like I still can't drive. I felt like I 120 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: was just stuck inside of this house. And then I 121 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: think COVID added to it, well that's yes, And I 122 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: was like, holy shit, I haven't felt like this. 123 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: I don't ever, ever, ever. 124 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: In my life. And then you start wondering like did 125 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: I make a mistake. Did I need to change? 126 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 2: Like you didn't make a mistake coming Okay, that's you 127 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 2: did not make a mistake. You don't need to apologize 128 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: for anything. You don't need to go back and relive 129 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: the past. You need to take in this moment. And 130 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 2: has your new medication started to kick in. 131 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: I think it started to kick in, Like I feel 132 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: pretty good today. 133 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: Good? 134 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel pretty good today, but today is probably 135 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: the first day. And but I mean, luckily for pax 136 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: a livid, it got me through the cood pretty quickly. 137 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: Good testing negative. So I was like, whew, now I 138 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: can leave my house. 139 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: Yes, and you do need to leave your house, even 140 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:46,679 Speaker 2: if it's just to walk around the block. 141 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like yesterday, I was like, okay, I'll go get 142 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: my nails done. 143 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: Nice. 144 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I went and got a petty good. Yeah, so 145 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: you know that's what it is. Then I watched Roal 146 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange County. 147 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 2: Okay, which will get in? I watched it too. 148 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: Hold on, shold we talk a little bit about the wedding. 149 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, well, yes you. First off, I'm so happy 150 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: you came and I think you had a good time. 151 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: I had such It was such a beautiful wedding. It 152 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: was so pretty, and their speeches. 153 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: Were insane in saying the fact that they've known each 154 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 2: other since the third grade and he used to spend 155 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: the night in his car outside of their. 156 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: Home waiting for her to wake up so they could 157 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: spend more time together. 158 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: So they were meant to be together. 159 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, like that love story. It really got me. 160 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 2: I saw Kyle the other night at the NBC Emmy 161 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: party and I said to her, like, you know, there 162 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 2: aren't many happy marriages in my family where I come from. 163 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 2: We don't have events like that, and I'll never have 164 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 2: a family like that, brothers and sisters and things like that. 165 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 2: But I was so happy to have like witnessed that. 166 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 2: I know that sounds horny, but it was so special. 167 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: And singing, oh when singing, well. 168 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: When they got up on stage and were singing, I 169 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: was like, who's that beautiful voice? And the fact that it. 170 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 2: Was coming out of Alexia. 171 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my goodness. 172 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 2: And their first dance, which was totally adorable, complete with 173 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,239 Speaker 2: lifts and turns, and it was precious. 174 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 1: It was one of those things like I was like, 175 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: what a magical night. It was so magical and it 176 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 1: was It was nice to have to see everybody. 177 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 2: Everybody was really happy you were there. 178 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was happy to see Rinna. 179 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: She's a good time. 180 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: She cracks me up. 181 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 2: You guys are having a good time over there at 182 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 2: your table. 183 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, your table? Who was who was at your table? 184 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: Alex, myself, Sutton, who's on the edge. I think Justin 185 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,719 Speaker 2: was at my table? And who was across from us? 186 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: I forget, but yeah, we had a great time. 187 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fun. 188 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 2: It was beautiful. It was really pretty happy. The flowers 189 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 2: were gorgeous handles, the food was good. Everybody there, it 190 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: was really nice. And when I didn't think I was 191 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: gonna cry, but when I saw Kyle come down and 192 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: wait for her, I just was like, oh God, Erica stop, 193 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 2: you know, doesn't even have anything to do with me. 194 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: I cried too, And I loved that. It just felt 195 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: it felt even though it was a big wedding. It 196 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: felt so intimate. 197 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 2: It felt like everyone there really knew the couple. Yeah, 198 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: it didn't feel like a business event. 199 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: No, it was. 200 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: It was lovely. 201 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: Oh, it was so nice. Probably more lovely than going 202 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: to Temecula for a twenty four hour trip. 203 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: I would say I'd rather go to Alexia's wedding like 204 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: every day of the week than have to go to 205 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 2: Temecula once. Even though the house looked really good, that 206 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 2: house was quite beautiful. 207 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: The house was beautiful, but okay, so it starts off, 208 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,199 Speaker 1: Taram recalls Shannon invites her on a twenty four hour 209 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: venyard trip to Temecula. Shannon is hesitant to go on 210 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: the trip because she doesn't know which Tam or She's 211 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: gonna get. 212 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 2: Valid point, valid point. 213 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: Also, she couldn't even make an effort to be like 214 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: no or yes. 215 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 2: She was like, ah, well, two things I think are 216 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 2: at play here. She can't say no, and we both 217 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: know why. So eh was probably her way of saying no, 218 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 2: But I have to if I were to translate it. 219 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 2: You know, you all know what I'm saying without me 220 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: saying it. 221 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: She was like, ah, eh, but why did you pack 222 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: all those kitchen supplies? We didn't see any cooking. 223 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 2: Purely for a kitchen and effect. I was like, it's 224 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: a stick. Well, when nobody's cooking on this shit, like 225 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 2: stop with all the games. 226 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. 227 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: Then Shannon, Gina, and Jen meet for lunch. Gina and 228 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: Jen tell Shannon they said yes to going on Tameras 229 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: to Mecula trip. Gina thinks that it would be an 230 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 1: opportunity for Shannon and Tarmor to clear some things up. 231 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: Gina was going to town on her You know how 232 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: we always said it's hard to eat on camera with 233 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: her artichoke biting, it was full. 234 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 2: Well, she must have been the three that day, and 235 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 2: it's interesting you should bring that up because I was 236 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: watching them eat and I was like, I hate eating 237 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 2: on camera. I know we you know, we we've talked 238 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: about this, never eat on camera. Yet here we are 239 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 2: eating on camera, eating on that artichoke. Must have been good. 240 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 2: And then Heather records her episode of her podcast with 241 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 2: Dylan mulvaney, which was very good, and I thought, maybe 242 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 2: I should listen to Heather's podcast. 243 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: She has a new one. It's on iHeart. Actually it's 244 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: called Between Us Cute. Her and Terry have a podcast together. 245 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 2: That's kind of adorable. I know, do they have a 246 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 2: good time? Have you heard it? 247 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 1: I haven't heard it, but I think that they probably. 248 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 2: Maybe they should invite us over and we could really 249 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: chatted out. Oh we should do a double Yeah we should. 250 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 2: We should actually, like, you know, we go over there 251 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 2: and bullshit with them. 252 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: Because I mean, I think he's hilarious. 253 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 2: He's great. 254 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 255 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: Did you know his brother was like a fucking rock star? 256 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: No? 257 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, his brother was like the lead singer. Don't quote 258 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 2: is it Rat or Quiet Riot? Really? Yeah? I mean 259 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 2: he's no longer on this planet, but yeah, his brother 260 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 2: was like a legit guy, was a Quiet Riot. Quiet right, 261 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 2: he's the lead of Quiet Riot. Come and feel the noise. 262 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:34,359 Speaker 2: Terry Deburrow's brother. 263 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: That How did I not know that? 264 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 2: Do you think your dad might have known him in passing? 265 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. Let's ask ask. 266 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: We need to ask the Koug's. 267 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: Well, ask the coos Coogs. Did you know him? 268 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: Now? Well, Koog's knows everybody. 269 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean the Coug's knows a lot of 270 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: the kooks. Has farm made this weekend? By the way, guys, oh. 271 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: Is it still going? I love that he's a bit 272 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 2: he's like one of the leaders that is Willy showing 273 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 2: up for that. 274 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if Willy is I would have I mean. 275 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 2: Really so old, it's so fabulous. I'm not saying that 276 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 2: in a bad way. 277 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: Normally it's like Willie, your dad, Matthews. 278 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 2: You know what. I like it that your dad has 279 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 2: been so involved with that for so long. 280 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 1: I mean, he's so passionate about it, but he should be. 281 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: And that's what I was like. I couldn't even believe 282 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: that he sent his assistant out. I'm like, during farm aid, 283 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: you must really love me. 284 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: Mut's have farm maide down though. 285 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. Then Emily and Jen help out at an animal shelter, 286 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: which was cute. It was cute. While there, Emily opens 287 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: up about Luke and how she coddles him and how 288 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: Shane thinks Emily is rewarding bad behavior by doing that. 289 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 2: I have a question, is Shane, and and forgive me 290 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: for not knowing, is Shane their dad? Or does she 291 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 2: have kids with another person? 292 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: Or he has kids with another person? 293 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 2: Okay, but these twins are theirs? 294 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: Yes, But also did you hear that? And I'm trying 295 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: not to do Shane. I'm just confused by it. That 296 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: they're doing wife swap what. 297 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 2: Yes, they're doing Yes, Emily and Shane are doing it. 298 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: Yes with who are their part Who are they swapping with? 299 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: We don't know exactly who. 300 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 2: Oh like, oh, I I mean that's this is a 301 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: hard time to do that. 302 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we're oh. 303 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: My god with the boys. 304 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've had the whole season talking about Luke, I know, 305 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: and now they're going to switch families. 306 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 2: I don't like that me neither. Emily knows best what's 307 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 2: right with her family. 308 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah she does, but like I don't. Maybe she signed 309 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: up for this before. 310 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 2: Maybe it's a contractual obligation. That's where I'm going. 311 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: Let's hope that's okay. 312 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 2: I do want to say this though. Yeah, I see 313 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: how Emily and Shane's marriage, Like, I get it. I 314 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 2: think that again, And I've said this before. Men and 315 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 2: women process things differently, and that's always going to be 316 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 2: a thing, like I view it. But this is a 317 00:15:54,640 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 2: tough spot, you know, because I feel it's hard because 318 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 2: you know, Emily talks about how the other children haven't 319 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 2: gotten as much focused as Lucaz and she kind of said, 320 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 2: I'm paraphrasing, they'll be okay. At the same time are they. 321 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's just it's really hard on a family. 322 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 2: This is really hard on. 323 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really hard on the family and especially But 324 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: do you think that it's like to the point where 325 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: it's causing Emily and Shane so much stress that it's 326 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: going to hurt them. No, I don't think so. I 327 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: think they're a strong couple. 328 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: I think they're a strong couple. And I also think 329 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 2: that at times like this you really find out what 330 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 2: your marriage is made of, you'll be fine. 331 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 332 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 2: I don't think that this is going to rip them 333 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 2: apart neither. They'll probably go to counseling, which all couples 334 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 2: of all married couples, in my opinion, should go to anyway. 335 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe they're already in counseling. 336 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: I hope so. 337 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: I think it's just hard to record these types of 338 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: things film talking about your son. 339 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 2: Nobody wants to talk about that. That's very heartbreaking. It's 340 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: really I don't think people quite understand, like, yes, we 341 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 2: are on these reality TV shows to share our lives, 342 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 2: and while it's so much more fun to go to 343 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 2: a winery and talk about you know, when you're talking 344 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 2: about your children being having problems that hits on a 345 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 2: whole other level. That's really being vulnerable for all of us, 346 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 2: for every woman that's ever been on any one of 347 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 2: these shows. 348 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and because not only do you have to continue 349 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: to live through it again and again and again. 350 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:37,120 Speaker 2: You're also subject to everybody else's opinion of it again 351 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: and again and again. So easy on the judgment of 352 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 2: moms whose children are struggling. 353 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:47,479 Speaker 1: Please, Yes, for sure, I have another question for you. 354 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 2: I have an answer. 355 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: Shannon's missing a tooth and never getthing like that. 356 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 2: Need to see that. Don't think that's the best. We 357 00:17:56,040 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 2: need to get her some dental implants. Stat. I saw 358 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 2: that doctor Rashti. She keeps coming up on the TV. 359 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 2: I don't know if she's any good or not, but 360 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 2: she'd probably give you some free teeth. 361 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 362 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: I didn't like that. I don't hurt. And she called 363 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 2: it her flipper. 364 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: Well, flipper isn't. 365 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 2: That something in that old school MGM thing? Flipper like 366 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 2: Judy Garland. 367 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: I think a flipper is like when you are in beauty. 368 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 2: Pageants and you're missing your baby teeth. Yes, I said, 369 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: they give you the teeth the flipper, and so that 370 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: you when you smile and wave you had the full smile. Yeah, 371 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 2: that's what I thought it was too. I didn't need 372 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 2: to know she was missing a molar, you know what 373 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 2: I mean? 374 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 1: Like, I didn't need to know. But why didn't she 375 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: get it put back in or find it by a 376 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: new one. 377 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 2: Chance for the molars, I mean, can get them alone. 378 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: On the molar and now send us a quick selfie. 379 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: Please is your molar back in? 380 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 2: Or now I'm being shady about the teeth, my apologies, 381 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 2: don't show it to us and then I won't have 382 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 2: to be it was. It was shocking. 383 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: It was shocking. 384 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like hm mm hmm yeah, oh okay, okay. 385 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 1: Then into Mecula, Shannon unpacks her suitcase filled with pots, 386 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 1: pants and baking supplies. 387 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 2: I left it at home. It's a stick, don't do it. 388 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 1: And like what was she going to whip up and win? 389 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely not? 390 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: Absolutely nothing? I mean, which I feel like. 391 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 1: She just wanted to have a lot of luggage. Yeah 392 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: for camera, Like what was she going to make a 393 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: good spot? 394 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 2: Not a goddamn thing? 395 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: Like why did she need the blending thing? 396 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 2: She doesn't she had brought her own like blender to 397 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 2: make her own like protein shake or something. Yeah, like 398 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 2: I get all that, but like pots and pans. 399 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: Pots and pans, and maybe that was her pots and pants. 400 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: Well, I mean we did have to cook this year. 401 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 2: It was a disaster, but that's just you know, who 402 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 2: did the cooking, allegedly all of us, not me. I 403 00:19:58,080 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 2: could have told you that was fucked up and we 404 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: to beg hungry, oh and a little you know an 405 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 2: it was my. 406 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 1: Birthday, so I was like, what did you guys cook? 407 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 2: I don't know because it never got completed. Everybody started 408 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 2: a dish and it was way lame. 409 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 1: Can you remember what we ate when we were on 410 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: the camping trip in the RV Okay? 411 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 2: First off, I was thinking of that the other day, 412 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 2: and I was thinking about how much fun we were having. 413 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 2: I just know that Duri killed us at beer pong. 414 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was so good. 415 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 2: She was so she was so good. I remember eating 416 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 2: the pumpkin pie for breakfast. I remember us going to 417 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 2: the grocery store and you were like, we only need 418 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 2: one mane and two sides. Meanwhile, I was like cheese 419 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 2: balls and brownie mix. 420 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: Oh, we were using what is that the cheese that 421 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: you like squeezed? 422 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 2: Oh? Score, cheese. Yeah, like hello, maybe easy cheese or 423 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: something like this, not cheese at all, but we were 424 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 2: using that on crackers. 425 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know, but where did we 426 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: have dinner. 427 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 2: It's not coming to me we. 428 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 1: Either, Oh yeah, that's right. We got in an argument 429 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: with Camille because Camille like wanted to be in charge 430 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: of the grill. 431 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 2: And then like, all I remember is Camille telling us 432 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 2: how she gave Kelsey a pros state massage. That I 433 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 2: don't remember the grilling incident, but I do remember Camille 434 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 2: with the prostate massage. And I remember you're back and 435 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 2: forth with her about the playboy thing. Oh, her body 436 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 2: was rocking. I mean it was. 437 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: Rocking, but she was being judging about something I think, 438 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: and I. 439 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 2: Was like, we need to yeah, like yeah, you're naked. 440 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't having it. And then Heather hosts a sleepover 441 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 1: with Emily and Gretchen, but first the girls go shopping 442 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills and run into pop parazzi. She says 443 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: she knows for a fact that Heather did not call 444 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 1: the poparazzi at Disneyland. Emily wonders if they just ran 445 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: into a paid actress. 446 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 2: Well, Emily's a paid actor, so you ran into one 447 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:02,640 Speaker 2: of your own. So I mean, like, quit it. Who 448 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 2: cares you know? 449 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 1: I mean, but it's a very random, coincidental, Like it's 450 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 1: not like every single paparazzi knows each other. 451 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 2: I have a note, Okay, my storage unit was broken into, 452 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 2: So I was making a police report yesterday. Hold on, 453 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 2: and then I had to go to the gym. As 454 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 2: I'm walking into the gym, who meets me there? The 455 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 2: paparazzi that was asking me if my storage unit was 456 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 2: broken into. So I'm gonna x out on this. Yeah, 457 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 2: I was like, did the fucking storage unit call you 458 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 2: and tell you or did you just how that? 459 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: What? 460 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 2: Were you following me from my house to the storage 461 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 2: unit and saw me and then followed me to the 462 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 2: gym to ask me this tacky question. So I've had 463 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 2: it with that whole line of shit. So everybody's a 464 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 2: paid actor in this town. And but I do like 465 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 2: the fact that the paparazzi uh stuck up for Heather. 466 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, I liked it too, But I also was like, 467 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: they don't all know each other. They don't they don't know. 468 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 1: I mean, it's small, but I mean, but Also, I 469 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 1: don't care if she called. 470 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 2: I don't either, It's just not that important. I know 471 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 2: I didn't call it yesterday, and I found it fucking 472 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 2: annoying and interessive in my life. But that's my relationship 473 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 2: with that. 474 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: Well, anytime the pop Rozzi gets me, it's at my 475 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: very worst. 476 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 2: Definitely, exactly like I mean, my shit got stolen? Or 477 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 2: do you think that I fucking how do you think 478 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 2: I fucking feel? Thanks? 479 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: Thank you can. We also talk about how Heather and 480 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: Gretchen are dressed for two totally different whether I. 481 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 2: Noticed that too. Gretchen looks like she's in New York City, Yeah, 482 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 2: and Heather is wearing a little strap like black adorable dress. 483 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 2: But Gretchen looks like it's fall or winter. Yeah. I 484 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,959 Speaker 2: was like, Heather, it looks like it's summertime. 485 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: What is going on? This com this, this combo of 486 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: three was a little bit interesting. 487 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was interesting. 488 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: It was interesting. Then we're back at the winery. Tamra 489 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 1: starts yelling do you like me again? Shannon, and then goes, 490 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: I think Jen likes me again too. Gina thinks Tamara 491 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: isn't doing this right. Yeah, I mean, nobody's gonna like 492 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: you more. When you say do. 493 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: You like me? The answer is no, No, you're actually 494 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 2: on my nerves. Yeah, and asking Yeah, now it's getting worse. 495 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 2: Just leave it alone. Yeah, not the best, not the best. 496 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 2: At dinner, Heather brings up taking classes at the Groundlings 497 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 2: into Mecula. The women question Heather doing a comedy, I 498 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 2: prov Emily. Okay, so I I just side note on this. 499 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 2: Heather Debro is very talented, and she's a very talented 500 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 2: singer and had her own like band and I know 501 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,479 Speaker 2: we kind of share the same voice. Coach and not 502 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,439 Speaker 2: to say his name, but he was like, no, she 503 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 2: can sing. Yeah, she's talented, y'all. Like she's a talented actress. 504 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 2: She's a talented singer. I don't know if she's a 505 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 2: dancer or not. 506 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: But but if it makes her happy, what is what's 507 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: the problem with it? 508 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 2: Who cares? She's talented? Let her live her life. 509 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: Her live her life, and let her do things that 510 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 1: are going to give her more joy. 511 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 2: This is what this is about, like, and we should 512 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 2: be supporting her, and just like we need to support 513 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: everybody who's doing any sort of thing artistic and anything 514 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: that enriches their lives right, Yeah. 515 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: I mean how I would do anything right now to 516 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: find something that I really loved, that you. 517 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 2: Loved and like just like yeah you sunk your teeth 518 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: into and yeah. 519 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 1: My new version of riding horses. I need to find it. 520 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: You do, I need that was the last time you 521 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 2: got on horse. 522 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: Probably three months ago? 523 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:33,919 Speaker 2: Miss it? 524 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: I miss it like crazy. 525 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 2: Well, then we need to get on I know I 526 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 2: need to. Would you go like ride some nag with 527 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 2: me around? Like yes, okay, it's it eight, I'm gonna 528 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 2: pick you up and we'll go. 529 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: Let's do it. 530 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 2: Okay, schedule that I'll find let's let's get gin on 531 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 2: it and we'll yeah, we'll and I'll come get you 532 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: and we'll go riding. Not not riding in the way 533 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 2: you ride, but just get on a horse and look 534 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 2: at pretty ship. Yeah. 535 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, we did that once also when we filmed we 536 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 1: did that in Germany. Oh no, we've done it twice 537 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 1: then in Germany when the horses were all taking off. 538 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 1: But then also I think it was me you and 539 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: possibly we went riding and then we went to the 540 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: Mexican rest Superbank. 541 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, I mean yes, maybe we should do at 542 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 2: Griffith Park maybe we should do that. That was kind 543 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 2: of fun and then go to the Mexican place and 544 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 2: have a cocktail. 545 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 1: Perfect. 546 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, okayfect Brin. That was fun. Actually we were getting along. 547 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,920 Speaker 2: Dury showed up in a chanelle I had on, like 548 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 2: you know, the ride. Yeah, we have a hotel, and 549 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 2: just like, yeah, yeah, let's go do that. That's actually closer. 550 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 2: There's one not on Sunset, I mean like Malibu, but 551 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 2: that's probably not a great place, right now, let's go 552 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 2: over there. 553 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: That would be fun. 554 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll set it up. Jennifer're listening. Who by the way, 555 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 2: did crush Don't Stop Believing? Do you remember when she 556 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 2: sang that at the Who? Yeah, I was kind of shocked, 557 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:06,639 Speaker 2: even the high note Eve like we she was. She 558 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 2: was on the microphone. So Jen, shout out to you. 559 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,439 Speaker 1: Shout out to you. You nailed it. And and I 560 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: love like her background dancers new right, not background dancers, 561 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: but background singers new right. One to pull back and. 562 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 2: Let let her have her moment. No, it was great, 563 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 2: It was great. It was great. 564 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: Jenna is one of our besties, just so everybody knows, 565 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: and she is just always such fun. 566 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: She's a good time. But she loves you very much. 567 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 2: She's such a good friend to all of us, but 568 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 2: especially she loves you and Kyle very much. She's just 569 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 2: she's really a giving soul, very giving beyond it. Emily 570 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 2: brings up that Jen had asked if Heather pacifies Tamra 571 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 2: because she's scared of her. This is like the oldest 572 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 2: housewife trick in the book. You're not saying it because 573 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 2: you're scared of her, you know what. I think? This 574 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 2: is my take. She don't want to fight with her, 575 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 2: like it's old. Yeah, it's just like I'm not afraid 576 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 2: of you. I'm fucking tired of you, Like I know 577 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 2: what you're gonna do, and so I don't want to deal. 578 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 1: With it and it's not worth it. 579 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 2: It's not worth it because it never goes anywhere, and 580 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 2: it just is like it's time. Are you afraid of her? 581 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 2: It's like, no, she gets on my nerves and I 582 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 2: really don't want to hear it. 583 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,400 Speaker 1: But also I think and that's why, Yeah, I mean, 584 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: I think she also likes her comparatively, speaking. 585 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,120 Speaker 2: Of course she does. They do get along. I think 586 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 2: they get along, and I think and that's fine, and 587 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 2: you know what, you don't always want to like nail 588 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:27,400 Speaker 2: somebody over. 589 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: Again and shit. And I think that Heather has empathy, 590 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: which a lot of people don't. And I think Heather 591 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: can see when a friend is going through a rough time. 592 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, gets a bad rap, she gets shit on for 593 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 2: like not being but she's just different and I kind 594 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 2: of and we've said this before, what you know, she 595 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 2: lets the women be themselves. Yeah, so you don't always 596 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 2: have to fight with somebody to show that you don't 597 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 2: like their behavior or something like that. You can just 598 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 2: be like, you know, my nerves. 599 00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: How did you feel about the behavior When the girls 600 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: walk through the vend and once again, Shannon's falling. 601 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 2: Down, Yeah, I mean it looked like, you know, how 602 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 2: did you feel? 603 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: Well? I just was like this, it felt. 604 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 2: I'm not going to pick her up because I don't 605 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 2: want dirt on my outfit and I'm not going to 606 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 2: stream my back. 607 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: But it just it's it felt like to me the 608 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 1: same way as bringing all the cooking supplies. 609 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 2: It is it's a stick. 610 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: It's a stick. 611 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 2: It came off as sticky, it was shaky, and then 612 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: her ash was sticky because it had dirt all over it. Yeah, 613 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 2: I mean, if you're gonna fall down like eat like 614 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 2: when bit the dust in sand. 615 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: My gosh, I thought you were going to talk about 616 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 1: when almost fall down at the wedding. I never something 617 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 1: like that. So it was so story just to get backstory. 618 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 1: The wedding, it was an a place to wear like 619 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: huge shoes. 620 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 2: Even though we all did even I was guilty. 621 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: But Durd had on probably like I don't know, ten inches. 622 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 2: She wears big shoes, big shoes. 623 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: And so you walk up these stairs and there's like 624 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: these little rocks and as she's like plintering. 625 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 2: I'm laughing because we almost all of. 626 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: Us like, and I was like, believe me, I had 627 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 1: my own I wasn't even wearing big shoes and I 628 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 1: had my own I. 629 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 2: Had my own pros. I have my own problems, and 630 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 2: I was wearing big shoes. 631 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was I And then like this random 632 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: man like caught her. 633 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 2: It was full to eat style. 634 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: It was full. 635 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 2: It was just but even like even walking down the 636 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 2: the place to our seats was tough. 637 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 1: That was I don't The girls nailed it though, when. 638 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 2: They walk was nailed it. How beautiful were those girls. 639 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh, and all the dresses that they looked 640 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: so pretty ordinated, but not too cordin. 641 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 2: Too coordinated, like it was beautiful. It was a beautiful night, 642 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: full moon. It was gorgeous. 643 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 1: And then after they're walking through the vineyard, Gina says, 644 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: Heather presented the story of that end quotes. 645 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 2: That photo, which she never said that photo. She never 646 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 2: said it heavy. You were heavier at that time. Okay. 647 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 2: The girls arrive at dinner into Mecula and Tamar brings 648 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 2: up the heavy photo to Jenn and apologizes, and Tamer 649 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 2: thinks no one wants to accept her apology, which is 650 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 2: kind of true because Tamra, you give a lot of 651 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 2: content and then they just spit it right back at you, 652 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 2: and so yeah, and she explains that. Tamer explains that 653 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 2: her issue with Jen started because Jin had Ryan go 654 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 2: to Cabo with them while bringing will to her house 655 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 2: hold on but then the comeback was so somebody was 656 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 2: having an affair. But then the if then it got 657 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 2: turned around that Tamra was having an affair with Eddie 658 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 2: while she was married to someone else. See, I did 659 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 2: not know this because I'm a new Orange County watcher. 660 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 2: I didn't know any of this. So I was like, oh, oh. 661 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: Well, I mean of course it's going to get talked about. 662 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just didn't know. 663 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: No, but I met like it's going to get talked 664 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: about that She okay, So. 665 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 2: It's basically it's the same behavior. 666 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 1: It's well right imagedly, I don't I don't know is 667 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 1: it confirmed that they did. 668 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 2: Here's the thing, I don't really care when anybody like, 669 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 2: it's not any of my business who has an affair 670 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 2: or not. I'm not married to you. Shit happens in 671 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: adult relationships. Let's not throw it in people's faces. Well, 672 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 2: but I think the pro I'm wrong, Like, you know 673 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 2: you had an affair, way ye, who gives a fup? 674 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 2: Like you're not fucking the guy? 675 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: I am so, But if you went on a vacation 676 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: with that and then you come back and then you 677 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 1: have to see the person's husband. 678 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: That's okay. So Tom girlready had the greatest rule ever. 679 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 2: And you guys can say what you want to say, 680 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 2: but this was a good one. He said, We meaning 681 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 2: he and I are never going to dinner or drinks 682 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 2: or anywhere with anyone's girlfriend slash side piece, even though 683 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 2: he had a million Okay, but yeah, because and he 684 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 2: was correct about this, So take his own indiscretions out 685 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,840 Speaker 2: of it. He was like, what I don't want to 686 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: have happen is you and I say the wrong thing 687 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 2: or mix up the wrong date, and then we're in 688 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 2: the middle of something. And that's the problem with this. Yeah, 689 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 2: that's you know. It's like, oh, girl, say I was 690 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 2: you know, you go on a vacation with somebody you're 691 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 2: not supposed to be going on a vacation with, and 692 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 2: then other people see you and then they have to 693 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 2: pretend like they don't know. It's just dragging people in. 694 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, brings people in and then they all of a 695 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: sudden have to be held accountable. 696 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 2: To right, and then the person who's getting cheated on 697 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 2: goes to you. Let's just say, why didn't you tell me? 698 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 2: It's like, was it my place? Yeah? I didn't know 699 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 2: that homegirl was coming on the vacation. 700 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 701 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 2: So, like I said, even though Tom had a whole 702 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 2: lot of shit in his own indiscretion, he was SMA 703 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,880 Speaker 2: pretty smooth about this one. 704 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: He knew you. 705 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:17,879 Speaker 2: I gave her for a while until he got away 706 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 2: from him. Yeah, you know what happens to all of us, 707 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 2: to you. 708 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: Honey, Then Shannon gets involved and starts yelling at Tamra, 709 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 1: saying she doesn't ever take accountability. Shannon tells Tamar that 710 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: she goes low and everyone has just to forgive her. 711 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,800 Speaker 2: Well, we've heard this both back and forth for years. 712 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,919 Speaker 2: Nothing no revelation here. 713 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, I think the problem here is 714 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 1: tam says if she wants to go to zero to 715 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: one hundred, she needs to let them breathe and work 716 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 1: slowly through their friendship. 717 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 2: I believe that. Yeah, it's smart. 718 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it. 719 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: It's the most reasonable thing you can say. Yeah. Shannon 720 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 2: tells Tamra that her life has been better the past 721 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:01,239 Speaker 2: year with Tamra not in it, and Shannon expresses how 722 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 2: hard last year was for her with Tamra calling her 723 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 2: an alcoholic. I'm sure that that is true. Calling someone 724 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 2: an alcoholic does hurt your friends. And if you've had 725 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 2: the best year of your life without Tamra being in 726 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 2: your life, Tamra probably doesn't care, Shannon. She's really not 727 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 2: gonna sweat it. I'm just gonna tell you, Uh, nobody 728 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 2: really cares. 729 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: What about Tamar's amazing pivot where she lobs it over 730 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: to Gina. 731 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 2: I kind of love it. That's why we like. That's 732 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 2: why we love Tamra. She's like, how potato now it's. 733 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 1: On you by actually really thinks you have a. 734 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 2: Bro exactly Actually it's her, which I kind of listen, Hey, 735 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,399 Speaker 2: this is where it gets cute. Tamor throws Gina under 736 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:43,280 Speaker 2: the bus, telling Shannon that Gina is worried about Shannon's drinking, 737 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 2: and Gin admits that she does worry about Shannon. Reasonable. Yeah, 738 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 2: I mean it's reasonable to worry about Shannon. She hit 739 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 2: a house. She hit a house and maybe lost the molar. 740 00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:59,720 Speaker 1: Do you think she lost the molar? 741 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 2: I'm just being rude. And Shannon, if you're listening, girl, 742 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 2: you know, I think you're fears. But I have to 743 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:07,320 Speaker 2: be up here talking shit. 744 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 1: And if you're here, I have my teeth are fake. 745 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 2: So yeah, no, everybody's got veneers or something. I don't. 746 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean I would worry about Shannon's drinking too. 747 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 2: But did the tam encourage her to have a cocktail 748 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 2: in New Orleans? 749 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 750 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 2: So, I mean, y'all, really it's you. 751 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 1: Know, it's a lot, but I think next week it's 752 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:29,280 Speaker 1: gonna get pretty juicy. 753 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 2: I did too. Listen. Once again, I enjoyed this episode 754 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 2: at first I'm like, when I watch these episodes, I'm 755 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,839 Speaker 2: to be honest, I'm kind of like, okay, like what's 756 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 2: really going to happen? And then by the end, I'm 757 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 2: like that was cute. Yeah, yeah, no, that's fue And 758 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,919 Speaker 2: I don't you know, the ladies are working hard. They're 759 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:51,760 Speaker 2: putting it out. 760 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 1: There, and you know they're doing everything they can. 761 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 2: They're doing everything they can to entertain and to make 762 00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 2: it happen. 763 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:02,280 Speaker 1: So I was a little bit curious when Heather, Gretchen, 764 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 1: and Emily were at dinner and Emily alludes to the 765 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 1: fact that she wants to get Gretchen hammered. Yeah, so 766 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,439 Speaker 1: her vagina hangs out right, I'm like, this is kind 767 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,440 Speaker 1: of similar to Naked Wasted. 768 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 2: But maybe Emily's just wanting to see if Gretchen's vagina 769 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 2: will come out and if she needs to go to 770 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 2: the hospital again or not. I mean, I don't know. 771 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 2: Bottom line is, you can't get hammered unless you do 772 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 2: it yourself. Like nobody's gonna This is a show where 773 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 2: everybody should be adult enough to clock their own beverages. 774 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 2: I have been not naked and wasted, but I've been 775 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 2: wasted on this show. A couple of times too. Oh yeah, 776 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 2: one of your best performances. 777 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: By my most liked episode. 778 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 2: I didn't know you smoke cigarettes with the crew or 779 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 2: all kinds of shit. I was like, who was missed 780 00:37:56,200 --> 00:38:00,920 Speaker 2: off this fitness? You know, I didn't ship mad. I'm like, 781 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 2: who are you right? 782 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:08,359 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, those were the days. Oh my gosh. Well, 783 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: you guys, thank you for tuning in to another. 784 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,280 Speaker 2: I just want to point out you're smiling. 785 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 1: I know that because you make me laugh. Good. 786 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:15,320 Speaker 2: I'm glad. 787 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 1: That's the point. Why do you think I have you here. 788 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 2: Well to hopefully make you smile and good. 789 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: Make me laugh. Yes, but I appreciate you guys for 790 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 1: tuning in to another episode of Diamonds in the Rough, 791 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 1: and we will be back. I know that we're slightly delayed, 792 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: but we will be back recapping the next episode soon. 793 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get mad at us. We got a lot 794 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 2: going on. She's got going on. We're doing the best 795 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 2: we can over here. Thank you for listening, and we'll 796 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:44,439 Speaker 2: see you next time.