1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Welcome back Happy Hour listeners, and I couldn't do another 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: week of Katie season without my girl Tasia alongside me. 3 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: She is back to chat about everything from this second episode. 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: So welcome back, Tasha, Hi, my little Happy Hour listeners. 5 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: I am so excited to be back and give y'all 6 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 1: a little bit more tea about this season. But I'm 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: most excited for our guest today, the Bachelorette herself, Katie 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: is joining us, and I just like, can't wait. It's 9 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: gonna be a good episode of Bachela Happy Hour. I 10 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: can't wait. We haven't had Katie on Bachelor Happy Hour 11 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: since she was on Matt season, which was four ever ago. Crazy, 12 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,319 Speaker 1: it's been so long. I mean, it just feels like 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: eons ago that we had her on, and like, I 14 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 1: absolutely fell in love with her when we first had 15 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: her with us. So we're gonna bring her on very shortly. 16 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 1: But before we do chat with her, we just have 17 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: to get into last night's episode. We saw a lot 18 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: go down. We obviously were left with the cliff hanger. 19 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm excited to actually have Katie on though, because you know, 20 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: we can chat about all of the dirt and the 21 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: tea and what went down with her. But I think 22 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 1: we should just start off and Tasia, if you're cool 23 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: with this, just like maybe give like our favorite highlights 24 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: or lowlights of the I was gonna say the season 25 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: of the episode that we saw, Yeah, absolutely, Okay. First off, 26 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: I had to say with the first date, can I 27 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: just say that I love Heather McDonald and that yes 28 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: you can. I think that date was just so different 29 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: from anything I've ever seen really on The Bachelorette, and 30 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: I think the guys were so incredibly funny and made 31 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: light of a situation that can kind of be awkward 32 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: at times in front of thirty guys that are all 33 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: trading date the same girl. Heather McDonald was the perfect 34 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: host for that. I absolutely love her. Obviously we chatted 35 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: with her last week, but she just brought such a 36 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: funny perspective to the date without making it like it 37 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: didn't cross a line like I'm sure some people were 38 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: gonna watch it and be like, oh, you know, this 39 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: is kind of like scandalous or like dry. I thought 40 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: it was great. It was handled so well. Most of 41 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: the guys, besides Mike, who obviously we saw it, was 42 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: very uncomfortable with the date. For certain reasons, like most 43 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: of the guys just owned it and made it very lighthearted. 44 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: Who I mean because you were obviously they're sitting next 45 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: to Katie, who was your favorite stand o guy from 46 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: that group date. Oh my gosh. Let me think she 47 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: laughed so hard with Trey's little like puppet show, which 48 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: was so awkward in verson because it went on for 49 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: like fifteen minutes, but it was it was comical. I 50 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: think she really enjoyed Connors the Cat song. She loved 51 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: that song. I loved that song. I was like, girl, 52 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: if you don't like that song, there's something wrong. But 53 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: she had let me clean out your little ears because 54 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: he was just I was not expecting that from him. 55 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: I mean, he's good, he can actually sing, he's not 56 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: just right lyrics. Hello, Yes, he's clever. It was it 57 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,559 Speaker 1: was like the perfect balance of like actually good performing 58 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: and you know, like he's very musically talented with witty lyrics. 59 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: And I was right, And it wasn't like to showoff. 60 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: He like, Hi, I'm a musician, Like let me play 61 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: for you. It was just like I could play along 62 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: and then just like it was witty, he was cute, 63 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: it was flirty and you didn't expect some of those 64 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: lines from Conn or the cat. So um, yeah, that 65 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: was great. The only thing I wish would have been 66 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: added to that is if he would have actually still 67 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: had the cat costume on while he was I think 68 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: the cat costume is dead and done. Okay, baby, I 69 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: think the cat costume is dead and done. I don't know. 70 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: After we saw how much she loved in Ny one, 71 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: it's got to be somewhere. I feel like it's not 72 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: too far away. It's so funny. He probably still has 73 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: it in his closet. Oh gosh, I hope. I would hope. 74 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: So if he doesn't come out to like mentell all, 75 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: if he you know, I don't know how far he gets. 76 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: But if he's if he's partamental all and he's not 77 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: in that cot costume or like the pousitible, don't make 78 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: an appearance, I'm gonna be very disappointed that is can okay, wait, 79 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: we'll have to look out for that. Okay. So obviously 80 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: group date for the most part, when well we saw 81 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: Thomas get the group date rose that night. Great. Can 82 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: I just say I don't think I trust Thomas. It's 83 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: so funny because I'm trying not just say too much. 84 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: But I thought the same thing, like you're too good 85 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: looking and you say the right thing, and there's something 86 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: like red flaggy about that. Is that not right? No? 87 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: I feel the same way I wrote in my notes. Okay, 88 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: I said he's hot, but I don't trust a man 89 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: who after meeting him, says he keeps saying like you 90 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: can trust me, you can trust me. It's like, why 91 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: are you telling me this right now? Like he's just 92 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: like too scripted, too perfect, Like he says all the 93 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: right things. It's like he's watched the show every season, 94 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: you know, like he does. But I mean, of course 95 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: you if I was Katie, I would look at him 96 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: and be like, oh, okay, I trust you too, got it? Yeah, 97 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, there's just something about him. So we'll see, 98 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: we'll see. I don't know what she's going to go on, 99 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: but yeah, he got the group date on that on 100 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: that or he got the group date Rose on date Rose. 101 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: But then we go into one of the people's favorites 102 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: so far, mister first impression roseman himself, Greg winked on 103 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: a red pickup truck camping tent date with Katie, which 104 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: I found one of us one of the sweetest dates 105 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: I've ever witnessed. I completely from start to finish, it 106 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: was sweet. But no, I think Greg just there's something 107 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 1: about like sharing something really heavy, like a loss of 108 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: a parent with somebody else that bonds people in a 109 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: specific way. And I think, I mean, it's only it's 110 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: week one, it's her first one on one date. I 111 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: mean usually guys who go on the first one on 112 00:05:58,440 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: one date, it's like tend to make it pretty far, 113 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,119 Speaker 1: just because you establish a connection very early on, fresh 114 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: out the game. And so I think that in itself, 115 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: layered with the fact that they both recently lost their fathers. 116 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, wow, I've just watched the entire 117 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: season unfold, So I like Greg, I'm going to keep 118 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: my eye on him. If I was, if I was 119 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: a betting woman, I'd say he's going far. I was wrong, 120 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: so I probably shouldn't bet. But yeah, then we're getting 121 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: into the last state. The buckle brawl nothing like too 122 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: wild and crazy. With most of the men besides Aaron 123 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: and Cody, which we saw some of that drama happened. 124 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: There was obviously tension brewing between the men, which ultimately 125 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,559 Speaker 1: led Katie feeling comfortable talking to Aaron, which I'm glad 126 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: that she got to that point with him, with somebody 127 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 1: in the group where she could sit down and be like, hey, look, 128 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 1: tell me what's going on. Give it to me straight, 129 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: you know, nobs and led her to send Cody home, 130 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: which whatever, if she felt like that was the right 131 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: thing to do, like, kudos to her. If she knows 132 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: what she wants, she doesn't want to mess around and 133 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: deal with extra guys who she has to question this earlier. 134 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: And I'm like, send him home, goodbye, goodbye. Agree, That's 135 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: what I told her. I was just like, hey, if 136 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: this is already a thing nippet in the bud, we 137 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: don't have time for that. And she was like, yeah, 138 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: I actually don't have time for that. So I'm just 139 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: gonna say, tata, you know, wait, can I just say 140 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: one thing, like the one thing that kind of like 141 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: pulled all my heart strings just a little bit this episode, 142 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: give it to me? Of course, you know, I just 143 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: have to say, like after watching it, because obviously Caitlyn 144 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: and I were there on the Greatest Lover Date, but 145 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: to see Mike p like behind the scenes, like how 146 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: much like how nervous he was, but also like how 147 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: much he emotionally went through, like having to tell somebody 148 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: that he's a virgin like M. That broke my heart 149 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: because it really isn't something that like I feel like 150 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: people should like be so scared to say. And I 151 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: know that Katie sex's positive, but like people like that's 152 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: him and like you, and I really hated that he 153 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: felt like I don't know M, like it was something 154 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: to almost gotta be not He wasn't ashamed of it 155 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: at all, but it was more like he was like 156 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: timid to share. Yeah. Well, And I can't speak for 157 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: him because I don't know him and I'm not him, 158 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: but I can imagine, like it's one thing to know 159 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: at some point you're going to have to have that 160 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: conversation with whoever the lead is. That's that's expected unless 161 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: you go home early on. But I don't think he 162 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: and he even admitted this, I don't think he thought 163 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: it was going to be that early in that public 164 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 1: of a setting. It's definitely something if I was him, 165 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 1: I would have wanted to have with just her, But 166 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: the way he approached how he actually told her, I 167 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 1: found O My god, so in daring, I like, I'm 168 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 1: so glad she gave him the award to win that 169 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: group date that day because he opened up and he 170 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: was sweet about it. He made I think he made 171 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: it be known like more of who he was and 172 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: that you know. Yeah, maybe he didn't want to share it, 173 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: but he still did and that takes balls. But maybe 174 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: that's like the wrong phrase to say too right now. 175 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like he did it in 176 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: such a classy way, like yeah, I just remember being 177 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: there and him reading that, you know, his entry, his 178 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 1: journal entry, and I was crying, Katie was crying. Katl's crying, 179 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: Like it was done so beautifully, and I just want 180 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: to give him like a round of applause and just 181 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: like tell him, like I loved that so much. We're 182 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: Mike fans. It was just so genuine and sincere and 183 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: so well said, and just I'm so happy he received 184 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: the award. Like hopefully that encourages people to like, I 185 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: don't know, just okay with that. If that's you, that's you, 186 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, And it's so great that we're seeing 187 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: all ends of the spectrum here from everyone that comes 188 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: on the show. You have people who are virgins and 189 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: saving themselves, sill marriage and that's great. You have people 190 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: who are very open and out there and sex positive 191 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: and that's great, and then you have everyone in between, 192 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: and so it's all all somebody's own personal choice. It's 193 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: all our own personal journeys to learn and grow on, 194 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 1: and so just allow everyone to be themselves people. And 195 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: so Mike, thank you for sharing. I'm so glad that, 196 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: you know, we finally got to the point. Hopefully now 197 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: now that that's out, he can feel more comfortable in 198 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: this setting and you know, being more open and moving 199 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: forward with Katie. Yeah, but that was really sweet. So yeah, 200 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: I just wanted to anyway. Yeah, Okay, Hey, I'm so 201 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: excited for Katie. Yeah, I'm so excited to see what 202 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: next week holds. We'll start off, I'm assuming with the 203 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: Rose ceremony, because we ended with that cliffhanger, which I hate, 204 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: but I get it. You got to keep us hooked people. So, um, 205 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: I think without further ado, we just should bring Katie 206 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: on because I have so many questions for her. I 207 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: know you do, and you have definitely built a friendship 208 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: with her since then, and it's probably just going to 209 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: be great to have you as co host with me 210 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: today to help her feel a little bit more comfortable, 211 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: So everybody please welcome the amazing bacherette herself, Katie, Katie, 212 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. I was trying to 213 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: just think about the last time we had you on, 214 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: which was in the middle of Matt's season, I think, 215 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: like months and months ago, So welcome back. Your life 216 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: has completely changed since then, between finishing matt season, watching 217 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: his season back, being announced his bachelortte, filming your own season, 218 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 1: and now your season is airing, so much has gone down. 219 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: So how have you been feeling throughout all of these 220 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: crazy months. I mean, I'll be honest, like my life 221 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: actually feels kind of the same right now, because everything's 222 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: like in limbo a little bit, you know, at times, 223 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: it also feels like a dream. And so when I 224 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: watch it back, I'm like, oh no, this is real life. 225 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: This is really happening, Like that stuff actually went down right. 226 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: And it's always such an odd experience because obviously you 227 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: lived it, like there's so much that you went through 228 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: with these guys and like in your own personal journey, 229 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: but now watching it back, there's so much that you 230 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: realize you don't see, like you you know, like you're 231 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: not with the guys twenty four seven. You're not in 232 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: their interviews, So how has that been like watching what 233 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: they say about you back, watching what goes down at 234 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: the resort when you're not around, Like, what is that 235 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: like for you? It's interesting because without giving any spoilers, 236 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: some of the things that these guys are saying are 237 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: struggling with are like foreshadowing future conflict, and it's like, oh, 238 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 1: that was something they were battling early on, or there 239 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: were red flags early on that I never saw, And 240 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: so it's just it is very interesting to finally see 241 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: like behind the scenes, isn't it. It's it's like I 242 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: wish y'all would have told me about that now that 243 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: you're watching about it, right, I mean, I know I 244 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,719 Speaker 1: definitely felt like that watching my season back, and I 245 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 1: can only imagine for you because like we all can 246 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: relate to some capacity, we all could relate a lot, Okay, 247 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: but these guys, I feel like I always thought, like, 248 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: why didn't you tell me that? Like it would have 249 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: helped us, you know, so I totally understand. Well, that's 250 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: why I think it's good that Katie you have Caitlin 251 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: and Titia, which I want to ask you about, but 252 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: thank goodness you had them, you know, as like this 253 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: girl gang, these confidence like that you could lean on 254 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 1: for advice in situations because you know, they went through 255 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: the entire thing, and maybe they were picking up or 256 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 1: hearing certain things when you weren't around that they could 257 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: have shared with you. Obviously, when they came on, it 258 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: was a complete surprise to you. So reliving that back. 259 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: What did that feel like for you when you first 260 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: saw them, I mean, well, I was gonna say, come 261 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 1: out of the limit, but they just it's like a 262 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: behind you. I was so shoved, even like I'm reliving 263 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: the emotion right now of like this like overwhelming joy 264 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: of like thank God these women aren't here, And it 265 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: was nothing I could have ever expected. And I honestly 266 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: almost cried, or maybe I even did, I don't remember, 267 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: but I was relieved. I was so happy to have 268 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: them both there. You took on a big undertaking going 269 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: in thinking like you might not have a host, you 270 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: might not have anyone there besides the men, and you 271 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: know your team of producers there. So I'm so glad 272 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 1: that you guys all had each other to know. I know, 273 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: I've talked to both Tatian and Caitlin, who they've had 274 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: moments too. I think filming with you that brought back 275 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: memories and so I think on all fronts, it was 276 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: good that you guys all had each other one thing 277 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: that we can all relate to. As Tastia said, you 278 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: know more than anything else, is like this experience really 279 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: bonds people in a weird way, and nothing can truly 280 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: prepare you for the role that is being the lead 281 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: in this franchise. So we're curious to know since we 282 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: have you on and I'm sure much of our listeners 283 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: have been wondering this too. What we're like, say three 284 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: qualities or conversations, etc. That you had going into your season, 285 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: knowing you wanted to talk about with the men, whether 286 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: it made it on air or not, that like we're 287 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: very important to you. You know. It's tough because becoming 288 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: a bachelorte was such a short notice for me that 289 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: I almost didn't really have time to plan that way. 290 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: You know, Like as I'm there, I'm getting advice from 291 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: Tatia and Caitlin of like exactly that question, like what 292 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: do you want to know? And I'm like, I don't know. 293 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: I haven't really thought this far yet I was taking 294 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: it day by day, but obviously kind of knowing I 295 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: think what their goals are, like where they see their 296 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: life headed in the next year, and trying to figure 297 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: out if that's something I can intertwine with man I know, 298 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: and like, honestly being that I was there with Katie, 299 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: like we had a lot of conversations her I and 300 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 1: Caitlin about like, you know, what are you trying to 301 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: get out of this? Also, like she was kind of 302 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: stressed out because she's like, I don't know what I'm 303 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: supposed to feel. What I'm supposed to feel, and when 304 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: that's like it's going to be very obvious to me, 305 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: and why don't I feel this or that yet? And 306 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: it's just it's so hard to really tell somebody when 307 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: that's going to happen or how you're supposed to feel 308 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: or navigate those waters. But it's just it's such a 309 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: unique journey that you kind of just have to let 310 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: it unfold and try to let go control, which Katie, 311 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: I know I've told you multiple times. It's like this 312 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: is the one thing you kind of just have to 313 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: like lean into and it's really really hard to do that. 314 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: So I understand the thing of like not knowing exactly 315 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: coming in there and be like, I don't know, I 316 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 1: know that I like this type of man, or like this, this, this, this, this, 317 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: but like being able to like pick up a guy 318 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: in the line up and be like, yep, you have 319 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: it all. It's so hard to do that, even though 320 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: you have that option in a way. I mean, you 321 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: had thirty minute to choose from what well, and I 322 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: think it's so easy for anyone to kind of go 323 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: off of what you're physically attracted to, right like they 324 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: men are coming out of the limo. It's easy to 325 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: be like, oh that's my type, he's hot, Yes, sign 326 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: me up for that man. But that's why I loved 327 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: Katie when you were able to sit down with tasition 328 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: Caitlin and I don't remember which one of you told 329 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: her this, but you said one of you said, just 330 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: you know, stay open to everyone because they might surprise you, 331 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: you know, like, don't write anyone off night one, because 332 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: you never know what their personality, what their personality is 333 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: going to be, like, what they might open up to 334 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: you about. And so so I know that they told 335 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: you that night one, Katie, to do you feel like 336 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: throughout these next couple weeks, and I guess throughout the 337 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: entire journey, if you will go, I'm like trying not 338 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 1: to say that word, but throughout your entire journey, did 339 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 1: you keep that in the back of your mind and 340 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: try to always like remember that? And you know, like 341 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: if you were trying to write somebody or like at 342 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: the point of writing somebody off, you're like, hmm, let 343 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 1: me just give them one more shot, Like how open 344 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: do you feel like you stayed the entire time? I 345 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 1: was extremely open with every single guy, which I think 346 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 1: it would be so obvious, as you know, Batchel Nation 347 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 1: is watching back. I built really strong connections with some 348 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: of these guys, friendships with some of them. Like, to 349 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 1: be honest, I'm very excited for mental all because I 350 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 1: have nothing but great things to say about a lot 351 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: of these men. I don't think I've ever heard anyone 352 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 1: said before. I'm just gonna say that's usually not the case. Yeah, 353 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: it's nerve wracking walking into a room full of all 354 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: of your exes who you just recently broke up with 355 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: and you're just like, oh, it's I mean, it's fun, 356 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: and a lot of them like for the most part 357 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:02,719 Speaker 1: like the guys are great. I don't know your men. 358 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 1: I can only assume going off of past seasons, like 359 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: they'll wish you the best and want you nothing but happiness. 360 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: But it's a little nerve wracking. So thank god you 361 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: have Carrie to style you, and you have Gina to 362 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: make you look flawless when you're out there in front 363 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 1: of all those exes. But okay, let's get into the 364 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 1: good stuff. Um, we need to get into I mean, 365 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: we've obviously seen now two episodes, but there's so much 366 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 1: more that I'm sure it's going to go down in 367 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: the weeks and the months to come. So getting into 368 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: night one, obviously, you know, one of the biggest surprises 369 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure you had were Caitlin and Tasia coming in 370 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: and surprising you. But Limo entrances, what was your absolute 371 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: favorite and what was your least favorite? I feel like 372 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 1: that so obvious. My favorite was Connor the cat like, 373 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: hands down, without a doubt. My least favorite was definitely 374 00:18:55,600 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: the RV which but was it your least favorite at 375 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 1: first or when he brought you in later? Um, I 376 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 1: think in the beginning I had a feeling I wasn't 377 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 1: gonna like it, so I was already going into a 378 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: flute expectation, and then when I was in the RVY, 379 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, I would yes, is not 380 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: it as he's eating celery and just has like crappling 381 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 1: all over. I was selling tato this last week, like 382 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: murdering me and like taking me a drink and go 383 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: to the bedroom. Like he's like jokes, Like, I don't 384 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 1: know how you're joking, sir. If you want to know what, 385 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: I weirdly love like true crime and weird shit like 386 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: that's so I feel like I would have kind of 387 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: been like into it a little bit in a weird way. 388 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: So that's probably not a good thing, and you probably 389 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: should cut that habit, like now okay, Like I would 390 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 1: have just been like given him shit like oh yeah, 391 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 1: I heard this on like a crime podcast last week, 392 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 1: or I just watched a documentary and the girl got 393 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: murdered and like, great, would you sign me up for ABC? 394 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: You know, like just I don't right it would I 395 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: would have had some fun with it. Um, oh my gosh. 396 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 1: I just had a watching about the RV thing and 397 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: I totally forgot um oh my gosh. We can move 398 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 1: on from that. I guarantee. It was so interesting though, 399 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: watching you meet the men and then having Kaitlyn and 400 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 1: Titia watching in the background, because I feel like there 401 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 1: were certain instances where you, I don't know, I feel 402 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 1: like you weren't too sure of the men of who 403 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: you were meeting, but the girls in the background like, oh, 404 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: she likes him, she's into him. Yeah, and then like 405 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: to see it all play back and like who you 406 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: kept and sent home? I was like, this is this 407 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: is like a good way to be doing a premiere night, 408 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 1: like having your girlfriends there eating some popcorn. Yes, it's 409 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,959 Speaker 1: so funny because Katie, like I was just realizing this 410 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: last week, but like we had no idea what these 411 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: guys were saying to you, and so like when you're 412 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: working us a thumbs up, we're like, okay, cool, like 413 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: she's into it, and like when you're wringing the thumbs down, 414 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 1: like we had no idea what the guys were saying. 415 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: But then watching the episode, we're like, now that makes sense. 416 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: That was reeky or like way, like you know what 417 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 1: I mean. So it was so fun like seeing you 418 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 1: be able to I don't know because we had just 419 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: met that night, like we didn't know what you're into 420 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: and how you would react to some of these things. 421 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: So it was really fun for Caitlin and I to 422 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: actually watch it and like talk about it after the 423 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: fact because like that makes so much sense now. We 424 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: could have wish we had like a listening device next time, 425 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: just give everyone some walkie talkies. That would be a 426 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: good idea. So yeah, like we um, okay, So Katie, 427 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 1: last night, let's get into your first actual week of dates. 428 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: So we saw you go on through different dates. Out 429 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,880 Speaker 1: of all of those, which date activity wise, was your 430 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 1: overall favorite? Honestly, I really loved The Greatest Lover of 431 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 1: All Time date because you guys got to see just 432 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: a small portion of it, but it felt like a 433 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 1: comedy show. Like it was like, I don't know, like 434 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: two hours maybe of just pure entertainment and laughter. And 435 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: this is like the first time we're all kind of 436 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: getting to know each other as a group. Was just 437 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: so much fun. It was a good one. I will say. 438 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 1: Heather McDonald is incredible. She did such a good job 439 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: hosting that, and it was just such like a good 440 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: catered date towards you. I feel like, because you know, 441 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 1: all season so far, we've been talking about how sex 442 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: positive and just open you are. And I think that's 443 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: something probably very important that you wanted to see and hear. 444 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: So we saw you give your group date rose to 445 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: Mike at that date, who admitted that he was saving 446 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: himself for marriage. How did that make you feel? Sitting 447 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: on the bed staring at him as he is reading 448 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: you this letter. I just want to clarify. I think 449 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 1: he actually got just like the award for that, but 450 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 1: the rose was someone else at night, right. Oh yeah, 451 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: so Mike got the award. Yes, Yeah, So Mike got 452 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 1: the award just because, like he surprised me. I knew 453 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: had a time. I had his gut feeling based on 454 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 1: his very minimal answers in the beginning. I was like, oh, shoot, 455 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: he must be emerging, because like he looked very uncomfortable, 456 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: and I was very worried, right and I didn't have 457 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: the opportunity to check on him, you know, before he performed, 458 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: so I didn't know what to expect. And then when 459 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: he went up there and read that letter, I was 460 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,719 Speaker 1: just so moved by it and how just you know, 461 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: comfortable he was still pursuing me given his beliefs, and 462 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: how just open and honest he was like it literally 463 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: I brought a tear to my eye, and so he 464 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: was so deserving of the award that day. I just 465 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,400 Speaker 1: think it was like so nice to watch like him 466 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 1: being able to be vulnerable and be true to himself 467 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: and not feel like he has to be something else 468 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: and know like who you are, and honestly he gave 469 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 1: himself a chance. And the fact that you like actually 470 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 1: fell to connect with him as he was being open 471 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: and vulnerable. I thought that was like so beautiful to 472 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: see because like sometimes I mean, if you think about it, oh, 473 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: you know, a virgin going to date like someone that's 474 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:54,199 Speaker 1: very open and like sex positive, it doesn't sound like 475 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: it's like a recipe for success. However, there's so much 476 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: more to him, and he's not saying I'm not going 477 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,919 Speaker 1: to have you know, sex to you ever, it's just 478 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: like I'm waiting for a certain time. So who knows 479 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 1: he could have been your person. Who knows. I'd like 480 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: to say there are other ways to physically connect that 481 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: Arno exactly exactly, and I like how it was portrayed. 482 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 1: I feel like in the past, there's been such a 483 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 1: stigma around virgins on the show, you know, like we 484 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: saw with Colton's season where it you know, I think overall, 485 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,239 Speaker 1: like people own it, but they still, like, you know, 486 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: there's always people out there that will criticize and comment 487 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: and say mean things whatever they want to say, And 488 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 1: I think that it was shown in a really great 489 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: way where I mean, at first, I was like, oh 490 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 1: my gosh, God bless him. He looks so uncomfortable and 491 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: I just want to hug him through the screen. But 492 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,360 Speaker 1: I think as you sent Tasi, like he just kind 493 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: of owned who he was and he wasn't ashamed, and like, yeah, 494 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure overall the date made him feel weird, but 495 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't think he was afraid to share that with you, Katie. 496 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 1: And I'm I'm actually glad that he was able to 497 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: do it so early on that I didn't come as 498 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: a major shock to you later on. I think that 499 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: would have just been worse for everyone involved. Absolutely, yeah, 500 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: because you know, like and again like I don't read spoilers, 501 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 1: I truly have no idea how far he goes. But 502 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 1: if he's somebody that you would have really fallen for, 503 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 1: and he would have told you this like a month 504 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: or so in, it probably could have changed a lot 505 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: of things in a different way. So, yeah, it really 506 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 1: reminded me of my entrance on Matt season, and I 507 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: knew I was gonna be myself and it could either 508 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,199 Speaker 1: send me home or keep me, you know, going and 509 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 1: pursuing this. And Mike Pie said the same thing. He's like, 510 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: I could either own it and risk possibly going home 511 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: because she is sex positive, or you know, lying about 512 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 1: who I really am. And so I was just really 513 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,920 Speaker 1: propitive for just you know, owning it, embracing it. And yeah, 514 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 1: you guys will see you Mike and I move forward together, right, 515 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 1: can't wait? Can't wait? Well, speaking of moving forward, that's 516 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: not the only date you had this week, we obviously 517 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 1: saw you go in your first one on one, which 518 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: I really actually want to ask you about because we 519 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: obviously saw that date go to Greg. He also was 520 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,479 Speaker 1: the lucky recipient of your first impression rows. And I 521 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 1: don't think and I'm sure people will correct me if 522 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: I'm wrong, we've ever seen somebody received the first rows 523 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,360 Speaker 1: and then also get the first one on one day. 524 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 1: I feel like, at least when I was bad Shurettes, 525 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,439 Speaker 1: I was kind of told to steer away. They're like, 526 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 1: don't put all your eggs in one basket and don't 527 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: give it all away, like you don't want the men 528 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: to know you're like super super into somebody. So was 529 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 1: that a decision that you were just like, fuck it, 530 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: I like him, I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do, 531 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 1: and I want to spend more time with him. Or 532 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: how did that all transpire? I guess yeah. I knew 533 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: the date was going to be sent around my dad, 534 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: so it was a very important date. And Greg was 535 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 1: someone that I had a very early connection with, just 536 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: like right away, and so without really getting to know 537 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: a lot of the guys, I was like, Greg's the 538 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 1: best one at this time to go on this date 539 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: with me, you know in plus right, you know, so 540 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: shy and insecure, and I was like, I'm gonna give 541 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: him that validation and really get him to bring down 542 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: his walls and get to know him better, you know, 543 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: because I didn't want that to be a problem going 544 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: forward if he continued to be like shy and closed off. 545 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: So he was the perfect one to go on the 546 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: date with, although not knowing that he had also lost 547 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: his dad. So it really was this like beautiful thing 548 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 1: that I could never have predicted, which I found really 549 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,120 Speaker 1: interesting watching because he actually waited to the dinner date 550 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: to tell you that, you know that he had also 551 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: lost his dad, as opposed to talking about it earlier 552 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: in the day when you opened up to him. And so, 553 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: did you feel like at that time like you wish 554 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 1: you would have known earlier or did you feel like 555 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: it was like the perfect time. I do actually wish 556 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: he told me during the day, because as I'm telling 557 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 1: him my story, I could tell there was something he 558 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: wanted he was holding back or right, maybe yeah, holding back, 559 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: you know, but also as someone who lost a parent, 560 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 1: if he's not ready to talk about or doesn't want 561 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 1: to get emotional in front of me, then that's fine. 562 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,040 Speaker 1: But there was a kind of a little bit of 563 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: a roadblock at times when I would recognize there's something 564 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 1: he's thinking about, but he wouldn't open up about it 565 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: until that evening. And how did you feel once he 566 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,479 Speaker 1: did like you, did you feel a sense of relief 567 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 1: or just you related to him a little bit more. Oh, 568 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 1: it was a huge moment for Greg and I because 569 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: you know, here he is getting emotional in front of me, 570 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: which I know sometimes for men that's hard, and I 571 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: was just letting him know, like it's okay to cry 572 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 1: and embrace your emotions and for us to talk about, 573 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: you know, him and his dad, and it was something 574 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: I think he's been needing to do in general, because 575 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 1: it has only been two years and it is a 576 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: tough thing to still have to think about, you know, 577 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: as he's moving forward warning a family and children in marriage. Yeah, 578 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 1: I gotta say for somebody who I mean, And we've 579 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: talked about this before on I think when we had 580 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: you on Happy Over the first time around, Um, you 581 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 1: know I can relate to losing a parent. I lost 582 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: my dad in two thousand and nine, and I think, 583 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 1: like it's never easy to talk about. It's especially in 584 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: certain situations when you know basically the world and all 585 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: these strangers that you don't know are going to hear 586 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: your story. It's a really, really scary thing. And so 587 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: I commend you for being able to put yourself in 588 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: the space with not only Greg but on the show, 589 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: to be able to open up and share your story, 590 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: because it's only going to bring out so many people 591 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: who have gone through something similar with you or similar 592 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 1: to you, and who can relate to losing a parent 593 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 1: or a loved one. I think it was a really 594 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: really special moment that like, just for me as a viewer, 595 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: I feel so grateful to have been able to watch 596 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 1: like you sit there and share that with him. And 597 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: I think too for Greg, Like you know, I don't 598 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 1: know him, I can only imagine for him this being 599 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 1: the first week ever coming on the show, like he had, 600 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: he didn't have a season under his belt to kind 601 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: of know what to expect. I think you felt like 602 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 1: a safe haven that he could open up to, which 603 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: I think is really special and just shows your character 604 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 1: and how important and just special and open you probably 605 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 1: made him feel. I think it was just a really 606 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: special moment. It was. It was a date that, um, 607 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: I don't think we see all that often on the 608 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 1: show where you can actually bond over something so deep 609 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: and real and raw and special. Um. And so for 610 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,239 Speaker 1: anyone out there who has gone through something similar, UM, 611 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: you know, reach out. I don't want to speak for you, Katie, 612 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: but you can always reach out to me or I'm 613 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: sure Katie at some point. But thank you for sharing that, 614 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: and I hope we can see more in depth conversations 615 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: like that, like, because I feel like it really bonded 616 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: you and Greg in a way where I have in 617 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: my notes after after he opened up at the dinner 618 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: date dinner portion, I was like, done, this is a 619 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 1: done deal, right, like bonds you in such a crazy 620 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: way that I was like, this man is going far, 621 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: Like he if he's not the one at the end 622 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: of this, he's going far because like the way that that, 623 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: you know, like sadness and like hard heavy shit can 624 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: connect people, you know. I don't know, I don't know 625 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 1: if you'll be able to do that with many of 626 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 1: the other men. I guess we'll have to wait and see. 627 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 1: But thank you Katie for sharing more of your story. 628 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: I think it was really important for all of us 629 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: viewers to see. Thank you. Yeah, I mean it's it 630 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 1: was definitely a moment where we could kind of show 631 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 1: each other that we're there for each other at our 632 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: lowest points. And yeah, I definitely brought it us for sure. 633 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: Were you you know, you said you knew kind of 634 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: going into that day what the date was going to 635 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: be like, was any part of you a little apprehensive 636 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: knowing that it was probably going to be a bit 637 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 1: more tougher and it wasn't the you know, let's go 638 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: in a hot air balloon type date, right, Yeah, you know, 639 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure how I was going to handle it. 640 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 1: You know, in some ways it's like this really special 641 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: moment and fun, but Becca, I'm sure you can relate. 642 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 1: Sometimes it just hits you when you least expect it, 643 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 1: you know. So I really didn't know what to expect 644 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: going into the date. You know. Of course I wanted 645 00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: to be light and fun and it's a very special 646 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 1: date to me, but I didn't expect to kind of 647 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: like open up as emotional as Greg and I ended 648 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: up being together. And it was just gonna say, like, 649 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 1: did you ever think that you could possibly relate to 650 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: somebody on this level on this journey? I mean, I 651 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 1: guess you could never know, but can you believe that 652 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 1: actually happened? That was like your first impression Rose, It 653 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: was so quick, you know, Like it's also my first 654 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: one on one day ever as a bacherette, And so 655 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 1: for us to really utilize that time together, it's not 656 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 1: a lot of time, and on the way that we did, 657 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: we used every minute of that that one on one 658 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 1: day and it really made a difference. M Well, all 659 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: I gotta say is the men have some very stiff 660 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 1: competition after that date and that Greg. I have high hopes, 661 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: big expectations for Greg. Who knows, I'm always wrong in 662 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: every time I think how the season's gonna play out, 663 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: it never goes my way, So I don't know. But 664 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: moving on, So we have one more date obviously this week, 665 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: which was a lot more lighthearted rugged the men did 666 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 1: this buckle brawl where they you know, rip up their 667 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 1: shirts and they're in the mud. Um, you know, I 668 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: think the main takeaway from that date was all of 669 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: the drama between Aaron and Cody, which we obviously saw 670 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 1: you address and sent Cody home by the end of 671 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: that night. When you sat down with Aaron, I mean, 672 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 1: I know that you right away highlighted the fact that Okay, 673 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: there was some tension there, we all felt it. But 674 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: did you expect him to share what he did with 675 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: you what Cody did with Yeah, did you expect Aaron 676 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 1: to share what he did with you? Like in regards 677 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 1: to Cody and like men not being here for the 678 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 1: right reasons and being you know, kind of sketchy. I mean, 679 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 1: I I don't know if I ever had expectations, because 680 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 1: I don't know what to expect ever with any of them. Um, 681 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 1: when he did open up though, I was. I was thankful, 682 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,240 Speaker 1: you know, because he is looking out for me in 683 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 1: our relationship and if he has a problem, I want 684 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: to know about it, you know. And I just love 685 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: that he was very direct, which you'll see, you know 686 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: with Carl, who was not very direct. And I don't 687 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 1: have time to play games, you know, so I really 688 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 1: did appreciate Aaron just being straightforward and not wasting any 689 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,800 Speaker 1: of my time and just letting me know what's up. Yeah, 690 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: uh yeah, I will say. I mean, you never know 691 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 1: what to expect in the you know, week by week, 692 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 1: day by day, so much changes so quickly. Um. I 693 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: remember at times when I was in your position, being like, 694 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,920 Speaker 1: it's too soon for this. It's too soon for the 695 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: drama and for men fighting with other men, but you 696 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 1: know that's the show. Well it really cut off cut 697 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 1: a lot of people off guard all night when when 698 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: they were like when Aaron pulled Cody asign was like 699 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: I never liked you and I don't like you. It 700 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,439 Speaker 1: was just everyone's like, what's happening here? I know there's 701 00:34:55,560 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 1: drama obviously, but yeah, at least we had more context 702 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 1: to what was actually going on and what was the 703 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 1: premier night, Everyone's like, what the heck is this guy 704 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: just called it a really cost trauma. Okay, Well, we 705 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: have so much that's going to happen in these next 706 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,479 Speaker 1: couple of weeks, and obviously we're already now into week 707 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: three coming up. So I want you, I know you 708 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 1: can't give much away, but I want you to give 709 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,839 Speaker 1: us like a little bit of a teaser of what 710 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: to expect what's coming up. We did see in the 711 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,320 Speaker 1: previous for next week that Nick Bile is going to 712 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 1: be hosting a date, So can you give us any 713 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: more about what's coming? Yeah? You know, the upcoming episode 714 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: is going to be a pretty important conversation and I 715 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: don't think it's really been highlighted before in this way. 716 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 1: And I say that because it's a conversation that I 717 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: want Vatch Nation to join in on. It's a very 718 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 1: important one for men and women to go through and understand. 719 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: So I'm just really really excited to have that opportunity 720 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,840 Speaker 1: to share because I got to do that with the 721 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 1: men and it really made a difference. I can't wait now. 722 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 1: I know you can't give away anything, really, but is 723 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 1: it a conversation that you had with Nick or that 724 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 1: Nick then also had with the men, like we're talking 725 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 1: im again. I never expect anything, and so I'm going 726 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: through this day. I didn't know this conversation was going 727 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,400 Speaker 1: to happen. It's just in my heart. I was like, 728 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:28,280 Speaker 1: this is the time to share it, and it surprised everybody, 729 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: including myself, but it really was transformative for me on 730 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 1: my journey and really barning me with those men who 731 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 1: were there. Okay, well, I can't wait to tune in Kate. 732 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,760 Speaker 1: I know, I'm just like sitting back here, like being quiet. 733 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just saying because I don't want 734 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,840 Speaker 1: to allude to anything, but it's gonna yeah, it's it's impactful. 735 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, Katie, you are a pro. I mean, 736 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 1: I know that you've done your media rounds since the 737 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 1: premiere and obviously when you were announced as bouche rep, 738 00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 1: but you like give us just enough to want more 739 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 1: without giving too much away. And now I know what 740 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 1: it feels like because when I was on your side, 741 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,439 Speaker 1: I was like, oh haha, this is kind of fun, 742 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 1: like I can tease things but without like telling anything. 743 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:15,240 Speaker 1: And now I'm like, oh, oh god, okay, come on, Okay, 744 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I can't wait to see everything happen. I 745 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: mean overall in your head and your heart, how are 746 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: you doing? Like you know, obviously you lived it and 747 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 1: it's a different experience of watching it back, but like, overall, 748 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 1: where are you at right now? Are you happy? Are 749 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 1: you in a good place? Yeah? I will say I'm happy, 750 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: But I will also say watching these back is triggering 751 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: at times. You know, you're reliving what was once a 752 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: special moment and now is I just didn't memory. So 753 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 1: it's a little hard to kind of rego through this 754 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 1: when you had just finally like healed from it and 755 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: now you have to go all over it again. Is 756 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: there any the part that a lot of people don't 757 00:37:54,320 --> 00:38:00,880 Speaker 1: understand truly and it is difficult. Yeah? Is there anything 758 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 1: that you have had to I mean maybe you haven't already, 759 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: but you will. They'll have to or want to warn 760 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: your family and friends about. Like I remember when I 761 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: came back. I came, I came back home, and I 762 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 1: was like, okay, mom, just so you're aware, this happens 763 00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: in like week seven or something that happens at the end, 764 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 1: just so it's not a shock or to you. But 765 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:27,839 Speaker 1: have you had sorts of conversations. Yet without giving too 766 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: much away, everyone that is you with hometowns, with my 767 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 1: mom and my family, there's nothing that can shock us. No, 768 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 1: there's no warnings for them, nothing can shock them. Oh, 769 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 1: this is something that just popped into my mind because 770 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,760 Speaker 1: obviously you didn't go to hometowns on Mad Season. And 771 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 1: I don't mean that as a job at all. I'm 772 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:50,879 Speaker 1: just saying, like, I didn't even think about it. But 773 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 1: so this is your first time with your family that 774 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,359 Speaker 1: they'll be filming with you and part of this, you know, 775 00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:01,799 Speaker 1: the show, if you will. What was that like for them? 776 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 1: I mean, they're definitely out of their comfort zone, you know, 777 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 1: and a lot of people don't realize how vulnerable you 778 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: have to be when you are going through this experience 779 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 1: and talk about your emotions. And that's not something that 780 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 1: my aunt is used to, you know, my mom, she's 781 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 1: just an emotional mess yea. And so I think sometimes 782 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 1: they also lead with humor to kind of make up 783 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 1: for their nervousness. And that's the part I'm actually dreading 784 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:27,760 Speaker 1: watching back, is like, what did they say to these men? 785 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:34,759 Speaker 1: It's gonna be good, It's well. Heather McDonald was our 786 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 1: guest on happy hour last week, and she would you 787 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 1: had made a comment in the week of the premiere 788 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: and you were like, um, you know if these men, 789 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 1: I don't, And I don't remember what the context was around. 790 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 1: I think it was around like being open about like sexuality, 791 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: and and you were like, list, they can't keep up 792 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 1: with me, they can't keep up with my family, and 793 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 1: like what's going on with the family. But I took 794 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,840 Speaker 1: it as just like, you guys are all very open 795 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: and it's not a ta boo or like frowned upon 796 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: to talk about like your sexuality and like owning that. 797 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 1: Is that correct? Is that kind of what you meant. Yes, 798 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,360 Speaker 1: I'm glad you picked up on it, and I realized 799 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,280 Speaker 1: later how weird it did sound to people who didn't understand. 800 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's not uncommon for us to get like 801 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:17,759 Speaker 1: a family gathering and talking about sexual experiences or like 802 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,879 Speaker 1: making jokes about sex. You know, like we're just very 803 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,320 Speaker 1: open and comfortable with each other. And so if someone 804 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: was to be uncomfortable with that, they would just dread 805 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 1: family gathering. Then, m I want to meet your family. 806 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 1: They sound like a fun bunch. They're a fun bunch. 807 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I've heard some stories and it's it's it's well, um, okay, 808 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: we're going to get into a game, and I have 809 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: a couple more questions. But one thing that I wanted 810 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 1: to ask um that Tisha, I don't remember what you 811 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:51,840 Speaker 1: said earlier, but was there any point throughout, like, you know, 812 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 1: going back to rewatching the season now and there's so 813 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,760 Speaker 1: much that you've missed and that you're like learning about 814 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 1: the guys and hearing what they actually have to say 815 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: when you're not around. For Taysia and Kaitlin, was there 816 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 1: any point where they had to come to you and 817 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,719 Speaker 1: warn you about certain things and be like, hey, you know, 818 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 1: maybe ask this guy this sort of question, or bring 819 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:13,799 Speaker 1: this up to somebody, or this is kind of what's 820 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 1: going down, be aware of it, that type of thing. No, 821 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: what I loved is I was still able to go 822 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 1: through this experience in my own way and the most 823 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: natural way you can. You know, my girlfriends in the 824 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 1: real world wouldn't know about what's going on with my boyfriends, 825 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 1: So Tashia and Caitlin kind of stepped away in terms 826 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 1: of that. But when I reached out for advice or 827 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: they saw me struggling, then that's when you get to 828 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 1: see us all kind of have our girl moments and 829 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 1: really support each other. So not one did they ever 830 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,920 Speaker 1: kind of give me any like insider scoop to anything. 831 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 1: I love that though. I love let you ask that 832 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,080 Speaker 1: backup because it's so true, like we were there to 833 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,279 Speaker 1: just help mentor her and like navigate her. We're not 834 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 1: trying to like persuade her to go any other way. 835 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 1: We're not producers, we're not, so not that they do that, 836 00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 1: but it's just like we're not running the show or 837 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 1: doing anything behind the scenes like that. We were strictly 838 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 1: there just to help her. So if she was going 839 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:07,360 Speaker 1: through something, it was like having a difficult decision or 840 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: a difficult time, like navigating through emotions. Like she just 841 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 1: called on us and then we helped her. You went 842 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 1: with your normal girlfriends. Yeah, but it wasn't like, Hey, 843 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: by the way, I stalked this guy's Instagram and there's 844 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 1: four girls post. You're not. I mean, if I was Katie, 845 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 1: I would be I would have on my hotel phone 846 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 1: you guys on speed dial and be like Hi, Hi, 847 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: come over and help me pick up my outphone, or 848 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: like I've just seen some girl time literally freaking out. 849 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: I would be calling you girls every single day. Yeah, 850 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 1: We're like, why is Katie not calling us today? It's 851 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: like she's dating and busy and stuff like she was occupied. Um, okay, 852 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask both of you this question. What is 853 00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: the strangest thing that you learned about each other throughout 854 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 1: this season? About about you two? I don't know if 855 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 1: she learned too much about me. This was about her, 856 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 1: It wasn't about me, but I learned on oh god 857 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:06,399 Speaker 1: what oh no. Jacia has this this alter ego when 858 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:10,560 Speaker 1: she wants to really loosen up. She's a good she's 859 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: a good time. What's her name? What's her name? We're 860 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: actually trying to figure that out. I don't know. We 861 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 1: were trying to figure out this time, um, what that 862 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 1: little alter ego is. But she definitely does come out. 863 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,759 Speaker 1: You are actually very right with that. I also meet 864 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,879 Speaker 1: this per CD has a really fun drink. She likes 865 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,319 Speaker 1: to drink to loosen up as well. She made it 866 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 1: for me. It has ipa beer and what else is it? 867 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: One gin? No? There it is great fruit juice. That's horrible. 868 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 1: I said this, I actually said this same thing, but 869 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:52,239 Speaker 1: it's actually really good. It's something it's really refreshing in 870 00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:53,919 Speaker 1: the summer. I feel like it would be a really 871 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,959 Speaker 1: good drink this summer, like if you're on the boat, 872 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 1: it like hits you, right, I don't know how to 873 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:03,080 Speaker 1: explain it. Oh my gosh, we can. Okay, I'm gonna 874 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:04,880 Speaker 1: I'll give it a go, but only if you make 875 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,359 Speaker 1: it for me, Katie. Yeah, I agree, when we're all together. Okay, 876 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,359 Speaker 1: if way doesn't have a name, Okay, here's the thing 877 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,839 Speaker 1: I thought I found it the first time. I thought 878 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 1: it was called like the the Elvis Presley, like right, 879 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 1: and it's not really like a known thing, um Elvis Presley. 880 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,799 Speaker 1: I guess no, No, we're gonna rename it. We're gonna, yeah, 881 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna rename it. Um Katie's Lucky Lucky number eighteen 882 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,719 Speaker 1: or something. Are just the New Mexico or like you 883 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I don't know, squad Yeah, 884 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: yeah like that. Okay, it's pretty good, all right. I'm 885 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 1: gonna have to give it a world one of these days, Katie, 886 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,840 Speaker 1: when I make a hang out with me. Um. Okay, 887 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,640 Speaker 1: so we want to get into this little fun game 888 00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:52,359 Speaker 1: that we have. But before that, you know the deal. 889 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 1: We asked you this the first time around and without 890 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 1: giving anything no spoilers away from your season so far, 891 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 1: what has been your rose of the season and what 892 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 1: has been your thorn the rose? Oh, I know this 893 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,839 Speaker 1: is gonna sound cheesy, but like the men, like I 894 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 1: can't say enough, and you guys are just gonna see it. 895 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,879 Speaker 1: They're so good. There's such a good group overall. Yes, 896 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,399 Speaker 1: there's some rotten apples, the overall America is gonna fall 897 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,360 Speaker 1: in love with all of them. I mean there's always 898 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 1: some rotten apples, that's to be expected. But and then 899 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 1: you're thorn. Oh, up to this point, there's plenty. Um. 900 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:43,400 Speaker 1: I mean the drama, like the petty drama like that 901 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 1: seems so pointless and like annoying. You know, that's why 902 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 1: Cody went home right away. I was like, I'm not 903 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 1: even invested in you to care to figure out if 904 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: this is true or not? Like by right, No, yeah, 905 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:58,759 Speaker 1: just the drama. Yeah, h well, I can't wait to 906 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,120 Speaker 1: see it all play out. Um. Okay, last question here. 907 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,440 Speaker 1: If you could give us a one sentence teaser of 908 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 1: what's to come this season, what would it be? Yeah? 909 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 1: I mean that's hard because there's so many different ways 910 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,279 Speaker 1: I can go. There's so much believing I just had 911 00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 1: to press say. They all kept asking you, like, I 912 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 1: don't know what actually to say because so much goes on. 913 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:30,760 Speaker 1: Did you not see the teaser? Like it's wild? Okay, 914 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: between the two of you, we can come up with something. Okay, No, 915 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:39,919 Speaker 1: this is all Katie. I mean I would say it's 916 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 1: I've been saying it's a wild ride. You know. I 917 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 1: really described it as like a roller coaster of just 918 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:47,560 Speaker 1: like slowly going up, up, up, and then it just drops. 919 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 1: Oh shit, what you just say? That? Does this sound happy? 920 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:02,240 Speaker 1: That's like that's like fun, that's like scary, that's like thrilling. 921 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: It's everything, Okay, what end? Like me? You know, I 922 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 1: definitely say that it's I tell people to buckle up 923 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 1: because it's gonna get really freaking good. I say that 924 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:16,120 Speaker 1: there's so much that is going to be unexpected. But 925 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,799 Speaker 1: also there's a lot of first and I know you've 926 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,800 Speaker 1: said this as well, but there's a lot of first 927 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,279 Speaker 1: this season that I don't think people are gonna or 928 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:27,399 Speaker 1: have seen before. And so that's what I leave it at. 929 00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,719 Speaker 1: Maybe let's not do this thing, but like maybe let's 930 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 1: see this this and then maybe like around and then 931 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,360 Speaker 1: like you know, maybe space Mountain. How about space Mountain. 932 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,400 Speaker 1: You're like, yeahys are covered. You don't know what you're doing? Okay, 933 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,080 Speaker 1: I don't wait it in like a bad way. She's 934 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:43,879 Speaker 1: like that first feeling of like h and then you're 935 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 1: like yay, you know, yeah, okay, okay. I like the 936 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: roller coaster analogy better than I'm thinking of like the 937 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 1: Tower of Terror where it just like drops me, like 938 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: plunge to the bottom and everyone's just like what well, 939 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 1: I mean she went straight up like hi, and then yeah, 940 00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 1: I know. I was watching her language as you as 941 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 1: you're reenacting this, and I'm like, um are I'm doing 942 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 1: an add for better help on the podcast. I mean, 943 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 1: are we talking about um? Okay, okay, um. So we 944 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,719 Speaker 1: always love to play. Our games are a little you know, 945 00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: bachelork games, if you will, and you are officially our 946 00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 1: no spot short. So, Tasia, do you want to kind 947 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 1: of explain how this is going to work? Yes, okay, 948 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 1: So this is a game of this or that. So 949 00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 1: this is a situation that only the bachelott knows how 950 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 1: to handle. So we're going to give you a situation 951 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 1: of this or that and you have to pick one 952 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,479 Speaker 1: of the other but it's more of like a rapid 953 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:38,000 Speaker 1: fire kind of thing, so you can't really give it 954 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 1: too much thought. So I'll start off yes, okay, Okay. 955 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 1: Would you rather send someone helme at a brow ceremony 956 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 1: or on a one on one day? A one on 957 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 1: one day? Oh, Katie, I like it all right? Okay, 958 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,879 Speaker 1: kiss everyone on the first night, have just a few 959 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:05,719 Speaker 1: meaningful kisses. Kiss everyone, love it, love it my girl. 960 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:12,880 Speaker 1: Okayrett um, break up with someone or breathe, let me 961 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: start break up with someone or be broken up with 962 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 1: break up with someone that's tough one. Honestly, they both 963 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: really suck. Okay. Would you rather watch fireworks or have 964 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 1: a surprise concert? Surprise concert? Okay? Would you rather have 965 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:39,840 Speaker 1: a cat Limo arrival or a bullpit Limo arrival? Oh? 966 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: I know that one kind of unfair man, I don't know, 967 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 1: I know, oh cat Limo arrival. Okay, don't don't do 968 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 1: her corn or dirty like that by saying the balls. 969 00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 1: I will say the balls looked pretty fun though. Okay, Wait, Taia, 970 00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: did you and Caitlin playing them later? No? Which is 971 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:05,279 Speaker 1: so we were busy that night. Okay, you have a 972 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 1: lot more on your mind. I get it, I get it. Yes, okay, Katie. 973 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,359 Speaker 1: Would you rather take your men on a physical date 974 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,160 Speaker 1: or a date where they have to perform? A date 975 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:18,400 Speaker 1: where they have to perform? Yeah? Okay. Would you rather 976 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 1: have myself and Caitlin on a group date or at 977 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:27,680 Speaker 1: a row ceremony? Group date? For sure, always so much fun. 978 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,280 Speaker 1: Would you rather wear an extravagant dress or something more simple? 979 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:36,120 Speaker 1: Something more simple? That's my girl, girl. Okay. Would you 980 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,040 Speaker 1: rather share something personal with a guy or have them 981 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,360 Speaker 1: share something personal with you? I'd rather have them or 982 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 1: share something personal with me. Good answer too. Okay, this 983 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 1: is not part of the game. I just have a 984 00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,680 Speaker 1: question to go off of that. Did you ever feel 985 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:55,160 Speaker 1: like when you were about Shrett, were the guys good 986 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:57,799 Speaker 1: at first about asking you a lot of questions back 987 00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 1: because I know you are there, or get to know 988 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,880 Speaker 1: them very quickly because there's so many of them. But 989 00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 1: did you ever feel like they just assumed they already 990 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,880 Speaker 1: knew so much about you and didn't even care or 991 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 1: like need to ask you. Yeah, there are definitely some 992 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,440 Speaker 1: that were so focused on introducing who they were, you know, 993 00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: trying to like win my heart because they are A 994 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,319 Speaker 1: B and C. But then there's definitely a lot of 995 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 1: them who took the time to kind of ask me 996 00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:23,839 Speaker 1: similar questions and actually engage in conversations, and those are 997 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 1: the men who are going to go further because we 998 00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 1: are bonding back and forth and not just this one 999 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:32,040 Speaker 1: sided conversation. Yes, God, I love it, Katie. Okay, last 1000 00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,719 Speaker 1: question for the game. Would you rather give a guy 1001 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,400 Speaker 1: a group date Rose or the first Rose at a ceremony? 1002 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:46,400 Speaker 1: Group date? Rose? Alrighty, Katie, you were great. You like 1003 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:50,440 Speaker 1: so far, it has been such a pleasure to watch you. 1004 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,560 Speaker 1: You've just like I feel like you've just been yourself 1005 00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 1: and you've owned it and you articulate what you're looking 1006 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: for so well, like so as if you were I 1007 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 1: totally understand you. I don't have any questions around you 1008 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,160 Speaker 1: of like why is she doing this or saying this? 1009 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 1: It doesn't make sense and so I mean, I know 1010 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 1: we've only seen two episodes, but I keep saying this 1011 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 1: like I can't wait to see week by week what 1012 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,760 Speaker 1: happens because I am so excited to watch your journey 1013 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,960 Speaker 1: and we truly like want nothing but the best for you. Yes, you, 1014 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:23,880 Speaker 1: I appreciate it, and it has been so fun having 1015 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 1: you on. I really wish we could keep chatting, and 1016 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,240 Speaker 1: I wish we could keep chatting like outside of the podcast, 1017 00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:29,759 Speaker 1: because I see like I could get more dirt from 1018 00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 1: the two of you together. But I understand you are 1019 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,920 Speaker 1: a very busy, wanted woman these days. But where are 1020 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,520 Speaker 1: you all right now? Are you back home? Are you 1021 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:40,960 Speaker 1: able to like kind of chill and relax for a 1022 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, I'm home and kind of taking it 1023 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,719 Speaker 1: literally day by day, like I don't even know what 1024 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 1: next week holds for me. That's how my life feels 1025 00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,399 Speaker 1: right now. It's gonna be like that for a while. 1026 00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:55,000 Speaker 1: I think, just the worry. Just just hang on in 1027 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 1: there if you need us, you obviously know we're here 1028 00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 1: for you. Oh before we let you go, though, I 1029 00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:06,719 Speaker 1: know like your world is constantly changing and evolving, and 1030 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,200 Speaker 1: like you said, you'd never know what to expect. So 1031 00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 1: is there anything that you want to ask either of 1032 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: us right now in like this next chapter of what 1033 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,720 Speaker 1: to Expect? Or any advice that we can maybe hopefully 1034 00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 1: give you. Yeah, you know, I think I will have questions, 1035 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,879 Speaker 1: but I told myself to wait till the halfway mark. 1036 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 1: Like right now, I'm just so pid in once the 1037 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 1: like chaotic part of that kind of settled. That's what 1038 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, game plan, help me out, ladies. 1039 00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,200 Speaker 1: Where do I go? What do I do? How does 1040 00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,560 Speaker 1: this work? What's happening? Okay, Well, we'll be here whenever 1041 00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 1: you are ready. And you I'm sure our listeners will 1042 00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,680 Speaker 1: ask if you're part of the group chat. Yes, you 1043 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,120 Speaker 1: are part of the Bachelor for Chat. We added you 1044 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,719 Speaker 1: before your season started and all of the girls are 1045 00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,360 Speaker 1: so thrilled to have you, you know, joined this little 1046 00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,399 Speaker 1: girl gag that we have going on. So yeah, we're 1047 00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,359 Speaker 1: always here for everything. But thank you for taking time 1048 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,759 Speaker 1: out of your crazy schedule today to be with us. Yes, 1049 00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:00,399 Speaker 1: thank you, ladies, I appreciate it lately. I'm sure we'll 1050 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 1: talk soon, but hang in there and we will talk later. Yeah, 1051 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 1: thank you. Okay, look gorgeous. By the way, Katie is 1052 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,719 Speaker 1: a very strong and independent woman. And I think that's 1053 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,479 Speaker 1: the one thing that even like I learned from her 1054 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:21,480 Speaker 1: is just like she's very confident in what she wants, 1055 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,880 Speaker 1: and I think it's very admirable, you know. But also 1056 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 1: that's the one thing that I did tell her. I'm like, 1057 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,000 Speaker 1: I know, you like to control the situation. You have 1058 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,319 Speaker 1: a very good, like rain on your life right now. 1059 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,399 Speaker 1: But this is like the one time in your life 1060 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 1: where you have to let go and I'm telling you 1061 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,680 Speaker 1: it's okay to let go, Like we're not gonna let 1062 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 1: you fall. So that was something that you know, we 1063 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:49,320 Speaker 1: talked about week after week just because it's a scary time. 1064 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 1: But it's just like such it's a it's a scary 1065 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,520 Speaker 1: and exciting and like it's it's nerve wracking, and it's 1066 00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 1: you're vulnerable. Um, you're happy, but you're sad, and like 1067 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 1: it's it's there's so many emotions. So yeah, yeah, it 1068 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 1: gets intense, which is probably why she was like it 1069 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,960 Speaker 1: was a rollercoaster of emotions. I think for Katie, she 1070 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 1: came in and it seems like she doesn't need a 1071 00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,879 Speaker 1: man to complete her, Like you said, she seems so independent. 1072 00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:18,200 Speaker 1: You know, she has this great life back at home. 1073 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,520 Speaker 1: She just wanted somebody to kind of click and fit 1074 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,480 Speaker 1: into the puzzle that she has. And so at times 1075 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,880 Speaker 1: it's hard when you're like, no, I'm good, I'm fine, 1076 00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:28,560 Speaker 1: Like I don't need a man, but I want a 1077 00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,440 Speaker 1: man to really just like throw your hands up and 1078 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,319 Speaker 1: be like, you know, Jesus take the wheel right now. 1079 00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 1: It's not an easy thing. So I again, like that's 1080 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 1: why I'm glad that she had you and Caitlin, because 1081 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,960 Speaker 1: who better to give that advice and like be alongside 1082 00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,480 Speaker 1: her than to form about charrettes. You know, you did 1083 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:48,520 Speaker 1: just go through it, and so yeah, it's good. I definitely, like, 1084 00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 1: I hope we can have her back on either later 1085 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: on or at the finale, the season finale, because like, 1086 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,279 Speaker 1: I would just love to hear more. You know, I 1087 00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 1: can tell. It's such a weird space, Like I remember 1088 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:03,319 Speaker 1: doing the press rounds right winter season starts, and like 1089 00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,880 Speaker 1: I said, you can't give too much away and you 1090 00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 1: can only tease so much. And she's very good about 1091 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,200 Speaker 1: leaving us wanting more and not giving it away. So 1092 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 1: that's why I definitely want to have her back so 1093 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 1: we can, you know, really like let it all out 1094 00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,920 Speaker 1: there and tell everything, give us her real opinions and 1095 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 1: thoughts and whatnot. I mean, she is right now, but 1096 00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,640 Speaker 1: it's it's tough. It's a it's a tough thing to navigate, yeah, 1097 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:28,240 Speaker 1: for sure. So this has been so much fun, Tasha. 1098 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,879 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you were back on this week with 1099 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,000 Speaker 1: me once again and to all of our Bachelor Happy 1100 00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:35,319 Speaker 1: Hour listeners, Thank you all for hanging out with us. 1101 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,759 Speaker 1: And next week we're going to be talking to mister 1102 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:40,719 Speaker 1: Michael A. 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