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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what I'm not doing this week.

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Speaker 1: What aren't you doing this week? Drinking? On Martin You're

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Speaker 1: drinking wine though, Okay, okay call me the first second

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Speaker 1: of this. It's it's honest. I mean we are in

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Speaker 1: the honest you room, and you know it's part of

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Speaker 1: that casual we had a cocktail. But I literally I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna mentioned this on my Instagram last week. I had

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Speaker 1: the biggest talk of shame on Friday morning. I was like,

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Speaker 1: what did I say last night? So I made myself

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Speaker 1: go listen, which also I hate to listen to my

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Speaker 1: own podcast. Like it's so it's so embarrassing, and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I never want to do this again, you know. Um,

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Speaker 1: But I just had this like oh my god moment,

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Speaker 1: like what do we actually talk about? Meanwhile, like I

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Speaker 1: was buzzed too, and I'm like it, don't worry about

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Speaker 1: it. It It was you were like you're I went back

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Speaker 1: and listened. I like, I'm reading the listener email slurring.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, first of all, though, stop sending me long emails.

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Speaker 1: It's all was like borderline rude. Don't you know I'm drinking? Um?

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Speaker 1: And then I texted you and I was just like,

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Speaker 1: I can't do this ever again. Like I think I

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Speaker 1: actually ended up having a total of two martinis, which

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Speaker 1: will just put me. It was a full tumblr you

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Speaker 1: mean to you, you know when you're at a like

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Speaker 1: a really fine dining restaurant and like those you know

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Speaker 1: ba um, but like you're like, I know, I've been

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Speaker 1: even walk out of the restaurant. You're like, how did

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Speaker 1: I get so drunk only in one glass of wine? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You think it's the one glass. It just never gets

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Speaker 1: six bottles. Well, that was what happened to me with martini.

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Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god, this one martini

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Speaker 1: is lost to me for so many hours. Yeah. But

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Speaker 1: so we invented this new term, which is actually pretty

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Speaker 1: funny in my opinion. I texted you and I was like,

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Speaker 1: what's the equivalent of a walk of shame? But when

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Speaker 1: put it out to the world, that's even more mortifying,

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Speaker 1: and you can you go the talk of shame. I

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Speaker 1: posted it on my Instagram. I got so much feedback

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Speaker 1: from people being like, oh my god, that's me every weekend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's bad, especially if you know your friends are like

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Speaker 1: videoing you. You know, when you wake up the next

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Speaker 1: morning and you're like, what do we put on instant stories?

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Speaker 1: Like night Like it's it's like instant regret. And I

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Speaker 1: camera phone can get you in trouble that I try

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Speaker 1: because I always regret it, like it's just but sometimes

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Speaker 1: see me ride this bowl, like people need to see that.

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Speaker 1: I've started to like, well this is back when we

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Speaker 1: used to actually go out. I would be like, you

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Speaker 1: just like, don't do it right now. Remember the night

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Speaker 1: that we were out and you're like skirt ripped? You

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Speaker 1: mean I remember barely remember, Like we were crossing Broadway

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Speaker 1: making you walk in front of me and basically block

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Speaker 1: like we posted that night. I'm sure we did. I

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Speaker 1: It must be that damn out. It's so weird. I know,

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Speaker 1: you start liking where my pictures or something. I don't know. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I decided this week I would have a glass of wine.

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Speaker 1: Luckily for me, I have an early morning. This is

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Speaker 1: this is interesting to say. I have an early call

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Speaker 1: tom tomorrow. Isn't that fascinating? I'm back at work. It

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Speaker 1: what's been happening in your week? Um? Well, no talks

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Speaker 1: the people tune in? Should we? Should we talk about this. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: see the event for Lindsay Ell. It's next Friday the twelve.

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Speaker 1: And if you don't know anything about Lindsay L's live show,

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Speaker 1: So and this isn't going to be your run of

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Speaker 1: the mill like live stream like where it's like the

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Speaker 1: everything's been volunteered from the the staging to the lights

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Speaker 1: to um, you know, all the creatives who are putting

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Speaker 1: the crew, so we're putting them back to work, which

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Speaker 1: is really awesome. But it's like an arena level production.

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Speaker 1: So it's not Lindsay l from her living room like

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Speaker 1: a lot of UM, a lot of these live streams.

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Speaker 1: she's this really beautiful ballad called make You that's piano

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Speaker 1: But the show could not happen without them, and any

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Speaker 1: I hope you guys raised a ton of money. It's

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Speaker 1: would be a fun Valentine's date. Yeah, that's And it's

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Speaker 1: You could actually save it for your Valentine's dinner date

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Speaker 1: like the albums called Heart Theory, so it's like love songs,

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Speaker 1: you're not alone, right, Either get together with your girlfriends

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Speaker 1: the feedback we got on you? Oh my god, people

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Speaker 1: have a list of businesses you want to start, brilliant ideas.

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Speaker 1: They're great. He's literally the best entrepreneur I know that

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Speaker 1: us what it is. Well, Um, if you all didn't

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00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 1: read um, TJ Osborne from Brothers Osborne came out of

427
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 1: the closet yesterday, yes, which we've known for years. T

428
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 1: J is a good friend of ours and like just

429
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,159
Speaker 1: heats toured with all of our people. We've known him forever.

430
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 1: Literally one of the best humans I have ever met

431
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: in my life, and talented and find yeah fun fun,

432
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they're so fun. I love both him

433
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 1: and John so so much, and just seeing him be

434
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: able to own who he is and just be open

435
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:17,360
Speaker 1: about it is to me just the absolute best thing

436
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 1: that I could ever wish for him. Yeah. I mean, look,

437
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna admit I'm a little upset about it because

438
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 1: I've I've like had a crush on him for years,

439
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 1: being like I'm a Mary tj Osborne, and now every

440
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: gay in America is like, let me get have you

441
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,360
Speaker 1: seen this man? Have you seen him? Like he's literally

442
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: I remember when I found out by the way, being

443
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: like what, no, there's no so I know, welcome to

444
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: our world. It's like it was literally like every girl

445
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: I knew is just obsessed with him, and I'm like,

446
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's not into us, into us, and

447
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 1: that sucks because he is so so so sexy, he

448
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 1: really is, but he's also like I mean he we

449
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 1: talked about this a little bit earlier, like it was

450
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 1: the epitome of like acting casual, like it was so

451
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: his his story if you haven't read it, if he

452
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: came out in Time magazine, it is a article and

453
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 1: he is just so smart and it's clearly like lived

454
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: with these thoughts and feelings to the point which and

455
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm paraphrasing what he said, but he was just like,

456
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a non point to me, like this

457
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 1: is just a piece of who I am, absolutely, and

458
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: that like coming out just seems like why are we

459
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,399
Speaker 1: talking about this, well, he I think the part of

460
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: the article that you're talking about. He said, Um, it

461
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,439
Speaker 1: is weird that we have to have this conversation because

462
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 1: like it doesn't really have anything to do with my career,

463
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: you know, and like, first of all, can we just

464
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 1: make a note at how talented those two are? To me,

465
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm still like they're the most underrated band in Nashville

466
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: in country music when I watched them speaking of great

467
00:23:55,560 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 1: Lave music, absolutely my favorite band to watch Lave. They

468
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 1: are so so so good and so talented and just

469
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: like naturally so talent playing a better guitar player than John.

470
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 1: The next best one is t J. And then also

471
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: the vocals, like I can't even the songs are amazing.

472
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 1: It's all the way around. So but so to his point,

473
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: he was just saying, like it's so interesting to me

474
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: that this is a topic because he's so calm. He said,

475
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: I'm so comfortable being gay, which I've I loved because

476
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: he's a little bit like it's not dismissive, but it's

477
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: almost like why are y'all making this a thing now?

478
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: Like really, what it was was like a public um,

479
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,439
Speaker 1: a public recognition of saying I don't care what anyone

480
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 1: else thinks, because I'm comfortable in my own skin, which

481
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: is the best his friends in Nashville have known for years.

482
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: So it's I mean, I like how he came out

483
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: because beautiful, he really he let himself get to a

484
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:58,120
Speaker 1: point where he loves himself and it wasn't a production

485
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 1: and now he gets not like any of the fear

486
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: that comes with living in the closet, Like that's the

487
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: reason to come out, because it is stifling, and especially

488
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 1: when you're in the public eye, like in country music,

489
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: Like I feel like if you were in pop or

490
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 1: something else. I mean, people have been coming out in

491
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: the different genres for years now, and so it's not

492
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: as taboo. But in country music it's a little more,

493
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: you know, Southern culture that is a little slower to

494
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: adapt to the changes that are happening or like accepting

495
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: things that are different from how they are. And like

496
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: maybe that's a generalization, like I'm from the South and

497
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel that way. However, I think it is

498
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: a stigma, and so you know, even in the article

499
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: he talks about like I don't really know what this

500
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: is going to mean for our career, but at the

501
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: same like He's like, I think we can go to

502
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 1: Chicago and be fine and play, but when we go

503
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: to these rural towns and do these fairs, I don't

504
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: know what the reaction is going to be. But at

505
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 1: this point, I'm also like, I have to live my life.

506
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: And to me, the most the most casual and like

507
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: at casual moment was in the article, his brother John says,

508
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: I'll give up all this stuff if it means my

509
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: brother gets to live as his true, authentic It's amazing

510
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 1: what I like, beautiful, you know, I like, I don't

511
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: know this for a fact, but I would imagine that

512
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 1: in the beginning of their career, like when things were

513
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: starting to hope, there was probably some rub there where

514
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: John probably had to say to him at sometimes like dude,

515
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: you got to be careful, like because this affects me

516
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: too well. I actually don't know if you had to

517
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 1: say it or t J just didn't did that instinctually,

518
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 1: which is key references in the article, right, so you

519
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: know it's But now they're at a place where I

520
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: think they're a little bit more established and they've they've

521
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: made some money, and they have a pretty good foundational

522
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: fan base that like if they don't become the biggest

523
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: thing in the world. It's not gonna matter. They're going

524
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: to have a great career. I just like it does

525
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 1: happiness I think is going to shine through in the Yeah,

526
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 1: I think that's right. Also, I'm like, I think that

527
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 1: it's going to open this is this is just my projection,

528
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: but I think it's going to open them up to

529
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: a bigger audience, um than just country music, because it

530
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: put him on a different radar now, and like their

531
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: music is so good. You don't have to just be

532
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 1: a country music. They're a rock band for sure, and

533
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: they're just so good. Like, I think so many people

534
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: will like them. And I think it just put him

535
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: on the map of that versus like keeping him this

536
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: little bubble that he's just bigger then, you know what

537
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: I mean. Well that was I just we're so happy

538
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: for him, and I'm happy that he can be kind

539
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: of as a voice for anyone else coming up in

540
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 1: the country music industry to be like, hey, like you

541
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: can do this, you know, because he's such a calming,

542
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 1: kind human and so intelligent while spoken he is. I

543
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: don't know if the article said it or if it's

544
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 1: just been things that have been posted. He is the

545
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: only out gay person signed to a major label on Nashville.

546
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: That's crazy out gay mail. Maybe are there any gay females? Um,

547
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: Brandy Clark signed a Warner Brother um, and Big'll just

548
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: signed Lily Rose, but that is I don't think there's Yeah,

549
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: I mean people don't. She's found fame off of TikTok so.

550
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 1: But yeah, definitely male. That's amazing. Yeah, well, good for

551
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: him for being that like pioneer basically, I mean I

552
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: almost hate having to say that. You know, it's like

553
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: kind of how in that article it said like I

554
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 1: don't know why this is a conversation. Um. I actually

555
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: texted him to be like, hey, I agree with you

556
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: that I don't know why it's a conversation, but it is,

557
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: and now you can kind of give a voice so

558
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: that maybe later it's not like I think that's amazing,

559
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: Like I just loved that. So anyway, we're happy for them.

560
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: Two of my favorite people in Nashville, hands down, and

561
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of their music. So so yeah,

562
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,239
Speaker 1: if you haven't given it over a listen, like, go

563
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: do it. You listen to their records so good, the

564
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: live record it is one of my favorites we live

565
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: record is start to finish like brilliant. This new one's

566
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: really good, amazing. I love them both. Um. Okay, are

567
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: you ready for our listener questions of the week. Yeah?

568
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: Are you ready to read that book? Okay, listen. Well,

569
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: I was going to start with a shorter d I

570
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: got a d M that I found interesting and I

571
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: don't think it'll be that long of a response from us,

572
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: but I will say I actually I don't want to

573
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: discourage people from like ever sending emails, so I hope

574
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: that it's not coming across that way. Um. I do

575
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: drink on these podcast, So if you guys are like

576
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: happy for me to be stumbling through it, then keep

577
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 1: the long ones coming. Otherwise, let's like try to like

578
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: sum it up a little faster, like just like edit

579
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: yourself down, guys. Come on, Okay, Well, this one comes

580
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: from g O. This is actually a d M, so

581
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: it's not very long because it's high. So I have

582
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: a question, since you do cover a lot of topics

583
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: and sex, relationships, etcetera, etcetera, with your knowledge and feedback

584
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: from a lot of people. I have a friend who

585
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: recently got married at two two years of dating and

586
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: never had sex until marriage. Recently, she told me and

587
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: my girlfriend, which is her sister, that she falls asleep

588
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: during sex or starts watching TV during sex. Is that

589
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: a physical connection issue or is there something more going

590
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: on there on her end or his? Well, damn, it

591
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: definitely sounds like it's not good sex, and look it

592
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: could be too. It's there's probably a lot of things

593
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: going on there, Like he clearly is not hitting the

594
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: right spots. I'm sorry if you're turning on the TV,

595
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: Like what's she turning on? I don't know. I was

596
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: confused by That's a good question, like date lines on

597
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 1: it's like Friday date line, or she's like she's like

598
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: up weekly, I mean nightly office, you know, watching you know.

599
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: I think there's also like it sounds like there's not

600
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: an emotional connection coming from her, Like there can't be

601
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: if you're literally falling asleep. Also, I'm just like, if

602
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: you're falling asleep, what are you doing to participate in sex?

603
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: You're just laying there? Clearly right? And does he continue

604
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: having sex with her after she's fallen asleep? I hope not,

605
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: but maybe I mean it's still consensual? Is like, you

606
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean she was signed up for it,

607
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: but like it can't be fun on his end. Also,

608
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: how so many questions, how do you actually fall asleep

609
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: with someone inside of you, like on top of you,

610
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: on top of you? And also like I'm pretty sure,

611
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: I'm just this is this is one of generalization and

612
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: a judgment and I don't know this to be true,

613
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: but it feels like if you're falling asleep or whatever,

614
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: this guy's just like going to pound town. He's just

615
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: like Jack Camp. Yeah, he's not paying attention to her

616
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: at all, So like how are you falling asleep? Though? Like,

617
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: well that also good point, Like maybe there's no emotional

618
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: connection coming from him. Like the thing about sex is

619
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: it's like it is not just like putting your dick

620
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: in a pussy, Like it's about like it's a conversation,

621
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: like you should be looking at each other's eyes and

622
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: like you should both be there. What what what wasn't

623
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: in this d M? Was I know that they did

624
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: not have sex while they were dating, but had she

625
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: never had sex? She a virgin? So is it like

626
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: one of those things where like he's a virgin where

627
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: like they just don't know, Like it is literally like

628
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: and because they don't know, they're fumbling through it and

629
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: not having a conversation. Like my advice to her, like GEO,

630
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: you need to tell her like she needs to have

631
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: a conversation, Like I actually would recommend like a sex

632
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: they're sex therapist to be like or some sort of um,

633
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: you know, I do this work with this guy. His

634
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: name is Jake Widard. He's been on the podcast. I

635
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: think I've talked about him, but he does a lot

636
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: of like work with the masculine and the feminine energy.

637
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: And so if you didn't want to see a therapist,

638
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: you could really like dive into some of that stuff

639
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: to try to connect with maybe what you're blockages, because

640
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: you need that polarity, Like you need the whole. You

641
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: need to be in your feminine, you need to be

642
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: in your masculine. You need to like have that drive

643
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: to each other unless you're just like are you just

644
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: not attracted to each other either? Like I'm just there's

645
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: a lot of unknowns in this d M. I feel

646
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: because I don't know, but she needs to talk to

647
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: somebody who's in some way professionally related to what's going on,

648
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: not just her friend. And I mean yeah, because also

649
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: if this continues like long term, I don't know what

650
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: that means for their relationship as far as just even

651
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: like within their household. But also like that to me

652
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: is kind of when you hear a lot of cheating

653
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: stories or you know, like secret life ship. Like I

654
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: don't know, I just there's a lot going on there

655
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: that it seems like maybe outside council could be helpful.

656
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: At this point, I can't say if it's him or

657
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: her because we don't really know. I mean, the bottom

658
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: line should be something that's enjoyed. It's like falling asleep

659
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: and wanting to watch TV. Yeah. Yeah, It's like I

660
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: can watch TV and work at the same time, but

661
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: I can't fucking watch TV at the same time. She's

662
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: like this episode of Girls blanch is hilarious. She was

663
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: gonna get married and he stood her up. He's like

664
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: he's like, I'm inside you, right. I'm just feeling like

665
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: maybe she's never had an orgasm either. To be honest,

666
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: she's a little like I'm tired. Maybe she's a narcoleptic

667
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: for like narcolepsy wall fucking like there should be I'm

668
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 1: sure there's just make up. One feels like a t shirt.

669
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'll have to work on that one. Okay,

670
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: let's get to this long email. I'm gonna use the bathroom.

671
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: You know. The thing is, it's actually she asked great questions.

672
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: I am just like not very good at reading emails. Okay.

673
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: This comes from Julia high Killian Ship, a longtime listener

674
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: of your podcast. You guys are hilarious and so relatable.

675
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 1: I was hoping you guys could weigh in on a subject.

676
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: I will try to keep it short of brief. I

677
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: didn't realize that's what she said, Julio, love you girl. Okay.

678
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: So I'm currently thirty years old, and back when I

679
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: was fifteen, I dated a boy for four years. We

680
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: of course broke up. We spent three years apart, and

681
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: then we were together for one year more on a

682
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: friends with benefit terms and it actually worked great. But

683
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: I ended up seeing this guy and we've been dating.

684
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: Oh and I've been dating this guy now for five years.

685
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: I should add in that I never stopped talking to

686
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: my ex anything physical stop from the first date I

687
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: had with my current boyfriend. But anytime me or my

688
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: ex had issues in our current relationship, we would confide

689
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: in each other and every couple of months just catch up.

690
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 1: Around the four year mark of my current relationship, I

691
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: started to want to move on not so much a

692
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: ring but a house together, but he wasn't budging, so

693
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: I left. I ended up sleeping with my ex for

694
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: four months or so. But since I know you guys

695
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: are into horoscopes, he is a scorpio just like me,

696
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: and it was like looking in the mirror. I have

697
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: never realized all my flaws until this point. Long story short,

698
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: I ended up working everything out with my boyfriend, who

699
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 1: was a cancer cheers um, and I know you know

700
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: it's like literally us, Julie, are you dating us? I mean,

701
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: who knows? We're all mirrors for each other. I have

702
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,439
Speaker 1: never felt more calmer and laid back since we've gone

703
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 1: through this. We've learned a lot of lessons and things

704
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 1: about each other along the way. I learned I could

705
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: never let my guard down or build a stronger bond

706
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: with my current boyfriend because I always kind of had

707
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: someone else and never gave my boyfriend the chance to

708
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: be let in. My question is I've been trying to

709
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: distance myself from my ex and trying to confide and

710
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: just let my guard down with my current boyfriend by

711
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: my ex still messages me. It is more it is

712
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: more generic cash up, See you're getting fatigued, the tongue

713
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: is tired. It is more generic catch up questions and

714
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: to see if I'm doing okay. My heart is so

715
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: torn because this is someone who has been in my

716
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 1: life for fifteen years. But part of me is saying

717
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: to just cut him out. What do you guys think

718
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 1: and know? My current boyfriend does not know any of this.

719
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: He is more of an emotional guy and some things

720
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: are better left unset. Thanks guys. Julia, My first question

721
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: is is are things love better? On said? Yeah, I

722
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: think I have a very strong stance on this. Well,

723
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 1: I think it sounds like to me, the only reason

724
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: that she's holding onto the X of you know that

725
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 1: she's known for so long is because there's history. It

726
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like he's serving any purpose really in her life. Well,

727
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: that would be a good question to ask yourself, you know,

728
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: like what is he feeling? Like? What is something in

729
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: history is a big thing, but is a big thing.

730
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: But I've changes. I like, I'm very much of the

731
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: mindset right now in my life that if people aren't

732
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: serving me and that I just I have to, like,

733
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 1: I have to serve myself, and and um, if I'm

734
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: friendships or relationships aren't serving me, then I don't need them,

735
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: you know. It's it's pretty cut and dry, especially now

736
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 1: that I'm you know, on the verge of death. I'm

737
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: so old. But so yeah, it's like to me, it's

738
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: like I really think that she has to she has

739
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: to sever tise. And it can be in a nice way.

740
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: It can be like, man, like you are honestly one

741
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: of the probably my closest friends in life. We can't

742
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: do this anymore, you know. And it's one thing to

743
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: find yourself to friendship. But it's like, if you're talking

744
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: about like things that are going on in a relationship

745
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: and ship like that, that is not fair to your

746
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: current boyfriend. Like, if you're having problems in your relationship,

747
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 1: the first person you should talk to about it is

748
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: your boyfriend. Absolutely. Also, that's like my sational affair, by

749
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: the way. So there's a couple of things I have

750
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: to say. I mean, I think you're probably right that

751
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,439
Speaker 1: the best thing to do ultimately for the relationship would

752
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,919
Speaker 1: be just to stop talking to this guy. However, I mean,

753
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: if you of course and so if it's something you're

754
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: not fully ready to do, I think the other option

755
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: is you just have to talk to your boyfriend about

756
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: it and like set boundaries for yourself with that relationship

757
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: with your boyfriend to something he's comfortable with. Because this person,

758
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: this person was in your life forever and maybe you

759
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: do want to maintain a friendship, but there has to

760
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: be boundaries, Like you can't be going to that guy

761
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: and talking about your boyfriend or your relationship or whatever.

762
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: And I also and this is because I'm a cancer,

763
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: but I don't think that you can go he's an

764
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: emotional guy, and so like it's you know, it's better

765
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: left and said that's like literally that's also to me,

766
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 1: like leaving things out is a form of line. So

767
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: like you're not giving him the space to even be

768
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: able to respond in a healthy way or in a

769
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: way that would be you know, actually like a connecting

770
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: part of your relationship, like that could take the intimacy

771
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,919
Speaker 1: even deeper, but like you're not giving him the chance

772
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: because you're like, oh, he's an emotional guy. I'm a

773
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: very emotional girl, and honestly, my boyfriend sometimes feels the

774
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: same way. He's like I just rather avoid the fight.

775
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: But like the reality is, at the end of the day,

776
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: my emotions are mine to take responsibility for. So if

777
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm upset about something or whatever, it's my responsibility to

778
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: react in a way that is helpful to our relationship.

779
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 1: Even if I'm upset or whatever. But like it's okay

780
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: to have emotions, they're not because otherwise they manifest themselves

781
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: in ways that like you might not control. And he

782
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: if he's a cancer, is probably very intuitive and so

783
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: he's going to pick up on something some sort of

784
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: withholding that ultimately will not be good for your relationship.

785
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: The funny thing about this, like she says in this

786
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: email that like she saw all the worst parts of herself.

787
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: It felt like looking in the mirror and she saw

788
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: all the worst parts of herself. Girl, that's the facts

789
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: that you need right there. Like why are you holding

790
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: onto this? That's like the biggest question, Julia. Go look

791
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: in the mirror and ask yourself what is this relationship

792
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 1: bringing you? And if you have an answer, then take

793
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: it to your boyfriend and say, this is why I

794
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 1: think I still need this person in my life. How

795
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: do we make this work for our relationship too? But

796
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: if you're like if the other guy is single or

797
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: in a relationship too, because he's not sing. I mean

798
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: he's single. I guarantee. If he's single and he's texting her,

799
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: how are you, it's borderline of booty call, Like he's

800
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: kind of hoping that she's single again, he's putting feelers out.

801
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: He's gonna just he's just going to keep that, like

802
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: he's like keeping on, like keeping on a string. That's

803
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: what I feel about guys. But I don't know. I mean,

804
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's a guy that has you know, friendships with

805
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: some of his exes, and it's like I said this

806
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 1: to you before. I was just like, we just have

807
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: to like have conversation about it. So I feel comfortable

808
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: with that. It's actually, like, you know, not that big

809
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: of a deal if you do have boundaries around it

810
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: and you do have the comfortability within your relationship, like

811
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: it can be a more like a good connector for

812
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: the two of you because you're being honest with each other.

813
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: It doesn't it removes the piece where like you, if

814
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: you and your boyfriend aren't having the conversation, then your

815
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: imagination runs wild and you're thinking, well, what the hell

816
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: is he talking about. What are they talking about? Is

817
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 1: it like when he's mad at me, they go talk

818
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: like that's not okay. If the understanding is there and

819
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 1: like the communication is clearer than it can be okay, right,

820
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 1: you know, because maybe they are just talking about like

821
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: the good old days, like back at home or whatever.

822
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: I don't think here's something. Here's something A friend of

823
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: mine said to me one time was um with her

824
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: now ex husband. So I don't know what this other relationship,

825
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: but this was her thing, was like he had some

826
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: excess he was friends with and she said, okay, well

827
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 1: that's fine if you go have once with her or whatever,

828
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: but like would I be invited? Like it was this

829
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: thing of like would you be comfortable if I was

830
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: sitting there too? And if so, the relationship is probably fine.

831
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: If not, then you need to think about some stuff,

832
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 1: like if there is something that you wouldn't feel comfortable with,

833
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: or the dynamic between the two of you or what's

834
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:19,919
Speaker 1: being said that is not good for your current relationship.

835
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: So if you're a protective and you really feel like

836
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 1: you love this guy and like now you've seen some

837
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: side of yourself that you didn't like with this other guy,

838
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I just think it's like, why are you

839
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: holding onto it and what is it actually bringing and

840
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: serving in your life and your new relationship that you

841
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: seem to really care about. I bet the sex was

842
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: really good between two scorpios though, and that's probably maybe

843
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: that's probably the little thing that like dangles in the

844
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:48,879
Speaker 1: back of her mind, you know, But is it though?

845
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,879
Speaker 1: I don't know a scorpion a cancer like fire too,

846
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: so I mean I think it's just scorpios with anybody

847
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: or kind of is it okay? He's really just kind

848
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 1: of like he's like, ISJ listening. I'm sure. I'm sure

849
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: he's the first one to listen every Friday morning. You're

850
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 1: gonna be embarrassed to be done to him. When I

851
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: had him as my screen saver on my phone that

852
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: I was like, you're literally going to run into him.

853
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: It was it was too far. I'd be like, look

854
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,479
Speaker 1: at this thing that I read, and then I would

855
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 1: lift my it's a hot pick. I mean, it's on

856
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: his Instagram, you guys it he's a hot guy. He's

857
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: just it's like, also when there's a hot guy who's

858
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: like sweet and like, I mean, he makes you feel

859
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: like he's known you for years, you ask your questions

860
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: about yourself and you're like, oh my god, you're hot

861
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:53,360
Speaker 1: and nice. You know my name. We're rambling now, swe

862
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: good news is is like now I can talk about

863
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: like that I have a crush on him, anthy Well,

864
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: I hope that he's a part of Slighter Plus. If

865
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: he is, are you going to tell us about it?

866
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know that, but if it's maybe

867
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: if there's like a code word where it's like we

868
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 1: all of a sudden start referring to him as DJ

869
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: do you guys will know. You guys will know if

870
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: we're being very discreet about chips. So I can't wait

871
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: because we need the content get out there already. Jesus,

872
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: some of us need to know what's happening. I mean,

873
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: I can't like carry this sex tough. We gotta get

874
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: our vaccines first. Fine, God, Corona, just over this ship.

875
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: I can't wait. Slighter Palusa one coming at you in

876
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: our work store. All right, Well, I think that's all

877
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: I have for this week? Do you have anything else

878
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: I want to ask? It's a big week. I mean,

879
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 1: there's some other things we talked about, maybe talking about,

880
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: and then we were both like well, it's just not

881
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 1: even talk of shame for sure for somebody this week.

882
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: Let's just not do it there. Talk of shame never

883
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: meant so much. We should send a phone case, one

884
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: of those little things that covers the camera for all

885
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: his neighbors. Whoops, Okay, we got to go all right.

886
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for listening. Keep the emails

887
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,959
Speaker 1: coming to at casual at velvet edge dot com, although

888
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: I will appreciate if they're a little bit shorter. I

889
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: love you guys, mean it so so much. Um, but

890
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: give us the topics and maybe I just just stop

891
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: reading all the details and sum them up. That feels

892
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: like so much for my brain too. I got to

893
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: get better. A lot of times I haven't read them though.

894
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to you with all the details. Okay, but

895
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 1: that's a good idea that I'll send them to you

896
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: before and we can just sum it up. I don't know,

897
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: but the details feel important. I think we should just

898
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: read that. How do they even make it shorter? Because

899
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: I needed all those details from Julia, damn it. I

900
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: guess we're all in this together at email. And I

901
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: bet you that is edited. I bet it was longer

902
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: and she's probably and I kind of needed all the

903
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: details she gave me. To be honest, We'll just have

904
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: to not drink to martinis because you were kind of fine.

905
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: Your tongue got a little twisted towards the end. But

906
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: that was not thee it was. That was first show.

907
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: I wish, I wish, I wish I was that talented.

908
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, let me just stutter for a second. It's morginair.

909
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: That was my See. Now you know she's not improving.

910
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: It's misreal, Unfortunately, it's real. It's just like my tongue

911
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: gets tied, my mouth gets dry. I'm just it's a lot.

912
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: I guess my hosting skills are not up to part

913
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: and I'm probably like a worse reader. I could do

914
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: dramatic readings, oh my god, really dramatic ones. And I'll

915
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,919
Speaker 1: do a dramatic reading. So Chip has this thing. It's

916
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: like your party trick, I feel, but we have certain

917
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,879
Speaker 1: people do is this I don't know. There's certain things

918
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: like there's like an Instagram caption that Chip thinks it's

919
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: funny or like too much or like a little bit extra.

920
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,240
Speaker 1: You could do it with a lot of mine, probably,

921
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: you know, But it's like it's more of the ones

922
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: where they think they're being so poetic and deep. Yeah,

923
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: it's just like, come on, just get to the point.

924
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: So Chip, we'll get drunk and he does these dramatic readings.

925
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: Who really like, Actually, you're going to have to do

926
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: an email next week, but I don't want to make

927
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: I'll write an email. Maybe we could, Maybe we should

928
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: just find like a random dramatic It would have to

929
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: be a random because we can't give away any of

930
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: our sources. But yes, it's it's honestly one of the

931
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: most entertaining things of my life. But dramatic readings need

932
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: to be incorporated into Acting Casual, So we're going to

933
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: really work on that for you guys. Alright, keep the

934
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 1: emails coming to at Casual at Velvet Sage dot com,

935
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: or if you are brief, you can send them to

936
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 1: my d MS at Velvet's Edge. Chip is at Chip Doors.

937
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 1: All that for the people. I P. D O R.

938
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: S C H And as always, will be back next

939
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 1: week every Friday with a new episode of that Casual.

940
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 1: You guys have a great weekend, right, do you have

941
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: big plans this weekend? I don't me. I don't except

942
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: tomorrow night the Britney Do Britney Do. I am going

943
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,919
Speaker 1: to have to miss that unfortunately. I kind of feel

944
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: like I need to like find a video that teaches

945
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: me how to do a Brittaney dance. Well you need,

946
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: I'm a slave for you. That's like, honestly, when I

947
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: fell in love with Brittany, I think it's when everyone did.

948
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: I hope she's sleeping. She looks very tired these days.

949
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 1: It's been I think I had a mute her on

950
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: social media because it's hard for me because I was

951
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: like such a fan and I just wanted to be

952
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: happy and whatever, and she seems like she is. But

953
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: I think she feels trapped, you know she should. I

954
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: can't wait. This is going to be like expose kind

955
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: of ship. You know. It's like, yeah, i'mn have to

956
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: watch it on Saturday, like the second I wake up.

957
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: So that's and then the super Bowl is Sunday. This

958
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: is funny. My neighbor's texted me and said, hey, um,

959
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: you got any plans for the super Bowl? And I

960
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: wrote back, when is it? You're like sports and I

961
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: was like the hand and like hand over face, like

962
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: but if it's not your team, like who cares and

963
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: also like pro is just not as good to me

964
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: as college. Well, they're they're from Kansas City. So the team,

965
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: who are you going to root for? I'm trying to test,

966
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: isn't it Tampa Bay? Yes? I mean I kind of

967
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: have to root for Tampa Bay because my friend Willa's

968
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 1: husband is a former Tampa Bay buccaneer. Okay, so I

969
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: mean loyalty from an ex player. Do you know who

970
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: the quarterback is? Okay, I'm just taking I mean, I

971
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just kind of like sort of feel

972
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: about Tom Brady and like he's so good. And this

973
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 1: is why I say this, It's like the same way

974
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: I feel about Alabama football right now. I'm just like

975
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: I'm over you guys winning, and we all just need

976
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: to see someone else win, right, But I'd really want

977
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: to think about him winning. I think he would be

978
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: the oldest courts, the oldest quarterback to ever get to

979
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 1: the super Bowl, and so if they want, he'd be

980
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: the oldest quarterback to win. Keeping may he'll retire too,

981
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: but I don't think he will. He's just so good.

982
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: So because I don't watch a lot of football, did

983
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 1: the Patriots even do Okay, this year without him, I

984
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: actually don't know, Like how crazy would it be if

985
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: like you could look back and be like it was

986
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: literally all Tom Brady. I mean it was if he

987
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: goes and wins the super Bowl his first year at

988
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 1: Tampa Bay. That's pretty hardcore scientifically, and if and if

989
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: the Patriots had a bad year, you could really do

990
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: it's a little mic drive, Yeah for sure. So for

991
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 1: that reason, I'm a Tampa Bay. Go ahead, go ahead,

992
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't really care. I'm in it for the food

993
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:50,439
Speaker 1: and the booze and the commercials. I mean, I hope

994
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: they're good that I've seen one. There's a U. Dolly

995
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: did one for Squarespace, and it's a kind of a

996
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: double commercial because she reworked the song nine to five

997
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: it's now five to nine and it's about people having

998
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:08,919
Speaker 1: side hustles. I thought it was about like nobody to nine,

999
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 1: like after you get all you can set up a

1000
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: business with a website. And it's promoting her new side hustle,

1001
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: which is her Dolly um perfume. Okay, first of all,

1002
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,439
Speaker 1: who ever thought of that? Their their campaign manners was amazing? Yeah, yeah,

1003
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 1: she I saw an interview with her and she said

1004
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 1: that they had already written the lyrics and she was like,

1005
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,760
Speaker 1: this is brilliant, amazing. She probably got paid two million dollars,

1006
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: so that helps. Yeah. I mean, I don't even think

1007
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: Dolly needs money at this point, but I just love

1008
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: everything Dolly does. So Okay, we're rambling and kids are

1009
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 1: about to run through this door, so I'm like, we

1010
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: gotta go, we gotta go now. Um, you guys keep

1011
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 1: the emails coming and we'll be back next week with

1012
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: all new episode of shot something different. It doesn't really

1013
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: work whatever,