WEBVTT - (Tr)igger Warning 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.120 Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:07.640 and the Black Effect. Back there, Nice Little asked back there, 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:19.520 Stele asked back there, nice And just like that, we're 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:21.800 back on the air. I want to know, last week, 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.000 did you miss me? I know you did. But look, 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:27.880 this week ain't gonna be no bunch of jumping around 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.960 and a whole bunch of cussing and loudness and out 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:33.600 of pocket and all the high energy because the bitch 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:36.479 don't feel good. So y'all grab your tea because I 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:38.640 got mine and I'm sipping it as well. Get ready 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:44.720 for story time. Now, Look, this topic is a never 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:48.520 ending topic. It's never ending. It's always gonna be people 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:52.280 arguing with it. It's always gonna be people debating around it. Okay, 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.959 here it is now. When COVID first hit, we were 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:58.880 forced to shut ourselves in the house. All I could 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:02.400 do was think about filming, finding ways to be innovative, 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:05.280 to keep y'all into my content, to keep y'all wanting more, 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:09.640 to keep y'all wanting Jess Fine, creating new ways to 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:11.600 be funny. So I did a lot of filming. So 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.920 one day, after wrapping up an episode, we all in 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:17.120 the parking lot at the restaurant. Capitol Lounge is a 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:20.759 black owned restaurant in one of the hoods of Baltimore City. 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:25.720 We're all standing around having a conversation, laughing, kicking ship, 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:29.080 cutting the ball, cracking on each other, whatever. So the 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:32.200 videographer says, man, like, I told him, they can't stopped 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:35.640 playing with me. Not only was he loud as ship 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:38.440 when he said it, he blurted it out. What nobody 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.440 even talking to him? This is the thing. He's white. 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:48.040 He's white. So that eventually turned my stomach sour. I 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:50.240 didn't like it, but I ain't say ship. I looked 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:54.800 at everybody else faces to see their reaction. Ain't nobody 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:58.560 do shiit? Say? Ship looks stunned or nothing. That's okay, cool, 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:01.400 So we continue with the comf station. Damn if he 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.520 can't say it again. My man said, nyo, because niggas 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:06.800 be wilding, And I said, nah yo, hold up, hold up, 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.639 it's not really happen. So I stopped the conversation and 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:13.919 I pulled Joe to the side. Everybody else was relieve. 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.200 I said, all right, y'all, see y'all later. Whatever. Whatever. 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.160 I don't like embarrassing people. Now, I've been friends with 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:22.440 this guy for like eight years, never heard him utter 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:24.840 the word from his lips. But the fact that he 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.280 was so comfortable, and the fact that he didn't even 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:29.000 know why the hell I was pulling him to the 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:32.639 side until I told him. Lets me know, you say 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:35.520 this ship every day. He's not somebody that I hung 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.680 with every day. You know. I would just see him 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:39.840 at the open mics and you know, at at the 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:43.359 events that we would have, you know, surrounding comedy. But 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:46.040 he's never said this ship to me or around me. 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.040 So I'm shocked. I'm shocked the doodles, do you understand 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.520 what I'm saying. So everybody else getting the call, they leave, 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:53.280 I say, yo, let me I'll let you real quick. 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:56.959 He said, what's that? What's up? I said, um, you 0:02:57.080 --> 0:03:02.760 said nigga twice and conversation we was having, I only said, Josh, 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:06.360 let me stop you. Look I was raised in the hood, 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:09.200 like I said, or let me stop you. I don't 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:12.840 give a fuck about it. Look at your skin. You're 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:14.840 not black. I don't give a funk. If you was 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.280 even raised in a black family, they should have taught 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:20.239 you not to say the ship. I don't give a funk. 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.120 I don't I don't care about none of that. The 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:26.359 urban environment and once you grew up does not justify, 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:30.680 does not solidify. It does not give you a pass 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:33.760 to say nigga. And I don't ever want to hear 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:36.760 you say it again, just period. It offends me. And 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.040 so you know you have a black friend, and you 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.840 know for a fact that it offends your black friend 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:45.840 to hear you say nigga. You should feel bad that 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:49.400 ship should make you cringe, even coming up about your throat, 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:51.480 to come through your mouth, to slip through your teeth. 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:54.080 You should feel some type of way, because I do, 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:57.240 and I'm telling you I do. He said, cool, Cool, 0:03:57.480 --> 0:03:59.920 that was it. So before we walked away, I said, listen, 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.160 you know I understand it. It's a habit for you 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.360 and it's gonna be hard for you to stop saying it, 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:05.920 but I want to help you stop saying it. Do 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.320 you want to stop saying it? He said yes, yes, yes, 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:10.360 because I see how it offends you. And I said, yeah, 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:12.160 you don't know how many other people that it offends 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:14.600 as well. But because people love you, they will beat 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:16.240 around a bush or they will let you say it 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:19.359 because they know you don't mean it in a derogatory sense. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.280 They know that you're not calling us niggas. They know that, 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:24.880 but it still makes them feel some type of way 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:26.920 trusting me. I know I'm not the only black friend 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:29.440 that you have that is offended by this ship. I'm 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:33.760 quite frankly insulted, to say the fucking least. So every 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:36.599 time you said you need to come up on five dollars, 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:38.960 he said five. I was, I said five dollars? Do 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.560 you wanted to be tend the fuck? He said no, No, No, 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:44.240 I got you, I got you, all right. Cool. By 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:46.440 the time it was all said and done, this guy 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:50.360 owed me three hundred and sixty five. That's ironically how 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:53.080 many days are in a year. But he didn't say 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:56.320 nigga once a day for a year. He crammed three 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.320 hundred and sixty five niggas in like three weeks. So 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.559 that's how much he owed me. Now, he only paid 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:03.520 me like a hundred and sixty dollars. Now, he didn't 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:06.000 have three sixty five to give me family. All right, cool, 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.640 I get that. But at the while, this ship started 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:10.520 to be like a game to him, and I didn't 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:12.440 like it. It was like, man, if I said, all 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:14.280 I gotta do is give a five dollars and then 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.880 should be all right. Nah, Nah, it's supposed to be 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:18.400 a fucking goal. What the funk I'm gonna do with 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:22.320 three sixty five dollars anyway? Ain't nothing to me, I understand, 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:24.440 It's a lot of money to other people. It's even 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:26.040 a lot of money to you, my nigga, because you 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.320 still owe me the other half of it, so stop 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.159 playing with me. But either way, I'm like, all right, cool, 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.719 it's not about you giving me the money. It's about 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:38.360 you learning what the word means two black people. When 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.760 you say it and you're not black, your damn self, 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.400 and even to some black people want other black people 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:47.359 say it, it's cringe worthy. You understand me, So listen, 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:50.200 this was the last straw. I'm telling you. This is 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.520 what did it for me. Hit face time me. One 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.200 day we was going over some content. I wanted him 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.640 to shoot something for me because I stopped letting them 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:00.080 shoot from me and everything. You know, I really was like, no, 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:02.000 I can't. I can't funk with you, y'all. I can't 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.080 funk with you. I used to until you get it 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.400 through your thick, greasy head that I don't want to 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.480 hear you say nigga. I don't want to hear it. 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:12.760 We're on FaceTime, so I'm taking out my trash. He 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:15.720 was like, Yo, you need a man. You're doing a 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:17.480 man's job. I said, listen, I've been taking out my 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:19.960 own trash for a while. I've been single for about 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:22.040 three years. I'm good. I do everything on my own. 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:29.960 He said, that's not what I was saying, negro. Hold up, 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.680 hold up. I don't think he understood how bad my 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:37.400 blood was boiling. Do you understand you went from nigga 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:41.160 to negro? What the funk makes you think that that 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:46.159 was better to say? What the fuck? And what the fuck? 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.160 If I was in your face, I was spitting it. 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:52.120 Do you not know That's how I feel when I 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:54.320 hear you say nigga to me? Do you not know 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.159 that's how I felt hearing you called me a negro. 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.520 I will spit in your face now, I'm gonna do 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.599 you want better? I would chew up something too bad 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:05.320 gol Son and I don't even do that, and then 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:09.280 spit it in your face. That's how offended and insulted 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:11.960 I was by that. I said, let me tell you something, 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:13.760 if I ever see you again in my life. And 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:16.040 I got a guy with me, and oh no, I'm sorry, 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:17.960 And I got a nigger with me. He gonna knock 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:20.440 your bitch ass out. Believe that hung up on him, 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:22.800 blocked him. Oh my god, he was so apologetic. He 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:25.920 been hitting me ever since. This was like beginning of quarantine. 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.880 This guy has been hitting me ever since. He didn't 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:34.280 understand the detriment, the pain, the severity behind that word. 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:38.600 And we'll be right back after this. So that story time, 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:42.480 and that brings me to carefully reckless discussion. Should we 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.160 be the only ones allowed to say it? I'm kind 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:47.520 of torn about that. I'm kind of torn about it 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.560 because it should never be said. That goes back to 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:54.640 how the world was created. It was created by white people. Nigger, 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:59.080 you know, nigger. It starts from nigger. They didn't only 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.000 say nigger, though, they said nigga as well. If you 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:03.800 go back and you watch some of these movies, if 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.360 you if you go go talk to your great great grandmother, 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:08.200 if you know, if they're still living a hope the 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:11.360 hopefully they are, they can tell you they didn't always 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.160 put the E R on it, they put they put 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:15.560 an a on it. Because white people had slang back 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:19.000 then as well. They would say nigger, they would say nigga, 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.840 they would say monkey, they would say a bunch of ship. 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:24.600 That don't nobody want to hear a white person say today, 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:27.600 whether you're cool with that motherfucker or not, whether you're 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.360 just talking to me, whether he was raised in the 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:33.520 hood or not, that does not solidify that ship. That 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.920 does not justify the ship. You cannot talk to me 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:41.559 like that. It's disrespectful, It's painful at the end of 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:46.160 the day. Now listen, I'm conflicted on whether black people 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.199 should be the only ones allowed to say anyway, because 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:50.440 that means we've adopted a word that was created by 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:53.080 white people to heard us. Now, I say the word 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:56.280 all the time. I say it. It's a habit. It 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:59.079 wasn't taught in my household. My mother never uses nigga. 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:02.360 My father can't stand the word. But as I was 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:04.080 growing up I went to school, I would hear people 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:06.560 say it. Friends on the block was saying. My brother 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:09.719 was said to his friends. It's a cultural word. Now 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.520 we use it as cultural slang. It means yo, it 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:18.360 means my homeboy. It means, you know, playfully, but we 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:21.120 ain't playing when we heard come from another race. Now 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:27.240 that and its own right, is hypocritical, but it eases 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:31.280 the blow because we're black. I think that's wrong. However, 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.520 it's habitual, you know, it's a habit. It's something that 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:40.040 we've we've commonly adopted generationally. Honestly, I do believe that 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.240 we can stop. I do believe that we can create 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:45.120 a movement to actually stop us from saying the word. 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:48.160 That's only for people that want to stop saying the word. 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.800 You know. I feel like a lot of white people 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.839 feel like this, How the hell can y'all say it? 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:54.640 But we can't say we made this? Shut up? And 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:57.319 if we're not being rude to you guys, how to 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:00.559 fuck can't y'all like, why can' I'll say that we 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:03.760 can't say it. It's just the unspoken rule, don't fucking 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:07.240 say it, you know why, motherfucker? Because y'all wasn't using 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.800 it like we use it. Y'all were using it to 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:14.040 degrade a race of people. That's why dumbass it hurts 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:17.120 coming from you guys, because y'all were trying to hurt us. 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.560 This is what we're trying to get through to y'all. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:23.120 That's why it hurts, because it was created to hurt 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.920 black people. I do believe we could put a movement 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:30.000 in place to kind of stop even our race from 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.600 saying it. It starts with the younger generation. It starts 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:35.160 with the children. Yes, I say it around Ashton, but 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.559 I teach ash to do as I say and not 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.480 as I do. I think it starts there. Ashton does 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:43.959 not use the word nigger. In fact, my mother taught him, 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:47.599 don't answer to it, don't say it to others. I 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:50.160 love that. Now, if everyone did that with their kids, 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.680 it could actually stop for generations to come. That's called 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:56.560 flushing it out. We could flush the word out teaching 0:10:56.600 --> 0:10:58.839 our children don't call it out to others and do 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:02.640 not answer to it, because kids are the future of 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:07.119 the world. They are and what they see they absorbed 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.800 and if you squeeze the sponge at all comes back out. 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:14.640 So if they never absorbed nigga, because it's taught not 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:17.839 to be said, they won't ever have to regurgitate it. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.199 You understand what I'm saying, And that's real ship. Now, 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:25.600 how much power does the word actually have? I believe 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:29.120 It has no power until it comes from another race, 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.959 until it comes from white people. That's what gives the 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:38.320 word power, because the word had power behind it back 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:42.520 in slavery and even past slavery when things were still segregated. 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:45.959 Even now, it's some black people that can't even just 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:48.760 walk away after being called a nigga, or they're gonna 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:50.680 be in jail because they're gonna knock the motherfucker out 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.360 now within reason, rightfully, so do that. That's how I 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.959 would react if a white person called me a nigga. 0:11:57.480 --> 0:11:59.560 You know what I'm saying. I think when it's said 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:02.480 between mean too black people, it doesn't hold power. It 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:05.720 actually has like a camaraderie about it. That's my nigga 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.040 right there. Uh man, nigga, You geeting nigga. Let me 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:11.760 tell you what happened. Oh they my niggas. You feel me? 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.800 That's playful slang. If you're my nigga, you might right 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:17.439 to die. You you loyal? You know what I mean. 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.959 We've changed, we've altered the definition of what it is, 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:25.240 and we made it our own word. You know. However, 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:29.680 it wasn't birthed that way. The word nigga wasn't born 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:32.400 to stand for that. Do you understand what I'm saying? 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:36.040 So when I asked how much power does it actually hold? 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.839 I believe when it comes from a race outside of 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:42.079 our own, it holds power. And we don't like it. 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:45.599 It makes us feel uncomfortable, it makes us cringe. But 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:50.520 for me, it's especially white people especially. Absolutely, no white 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:52.559 person is supposed to be able to say nigga. I 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:57.520 don't give a fun nigger, nigga whatever, it don't matter, no, none, none, 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:01.080 And like I said, your environment of your upbringing still 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:05.320 does not permit you to say it. I don't care. Now, Listen, 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:08.680 rappers blast nigga in their music all the time. Now, 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:12.640 I remember a couple of years back, Kodak Black was 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:15.400 on stage and he bought one of his fans on stage. 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.160 A little boy was white. Now, he was rapping a song, 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.040 rapping a song, and he did say nigga because there 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:25.400 was a part in the song where Kodak said nigga. 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.640 Kodak wasn't offended. You know what I'm saying that was 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:30.559 that was a white kid. He wasn't a white man. 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:33.439 He was a white kid. But listen, the reason why 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:36.200 I feel like Kodak didn't get upset because they blasted 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.199 this all over the blogs and all over the socials. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:40.800 The reason why I don't think that Kodak got mad 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:44.199 and put the little boy off stage is because the 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:47.120 kid looked like he was about eleven. I don't think 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:49.800 that that was taught to him in his household. You 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:51.920 are not to say nigga, do not say it. And 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:55.200 and obviously he likes black people. He probably has black 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:58.599 friends because Kodak is one of his favorite rappers. The 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.839 little boy went on to say, but I don't think 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.080 it was taught to him not to say it, which 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:07.920 is a problem in his household, not in him, because 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:10.679 if he was taught that ship, he would have bleeped 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.679 over it. That's just what it is. He would have 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:14.800 skipped right over the word and kept wrapping it. Now, 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:16.640 a lot of people got mad at Kodak for not 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.440 putting a little boy off the stage. I get it. 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:21.640 He could have took him to the side and said, look, 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:23.680 you don't say that. I don't. I don't know if 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:26.200 you're being what you're being told at home, but nigga 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:28.800 is a word that was created by your ancestors to 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:32.640 degrade my ancestors. I don't think you should use the word. 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.520 But then that little boy could have been like, then 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.480 why do you say it in your music? So this, 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.320 this nigga ship is a very never ending topic. It's 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:46.480 always gonna be debatable all the time because here you 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:49.120 have a race of people that cannot stop saying it. 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.680 That's us. Then you have a race of people who 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.080 was confused and why they can't say it. But I 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:57.800 don't understand how you can be so fucking clueless as 0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:00.520 to why you can't say the ship. You just can't. 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.440 Don't worry about us saying it. You can't say it. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:06.520 That's it. And then now we're gonna get into different 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:09.720 races that take advantage of saying the word, like people 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.400 got a problem with Cardi b saying it, and uh, 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:19.520 you know, um six nine, Eric Amena send Santana people 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:24.560 who are not black, people who are not African American. 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:29.560 This is my thing. When people say no, Cardy black, Okay, 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:33.480 Cardy black and something else. You understand what I'm saying. Recommenda, No, 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:37.280 she she grew up a recommenda is not fully black. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:41.960 Six nine ain't black at fucking order. Daniel is not black, 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:44.440 sind Santana, I don't know what the funk she is. 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:47.200 I know she like Hispanic, though I don't know what 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:50.320 else she is if she's black at all. So what 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:53.000 do we do. We're gonna police everybody that say it. 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:56.640 We're gonna police all the Hispanics that come forth and 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:58.520 be like, no, but but I'm but I am black. 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:03.440 I'm black. Let's and I don't agree with you using 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.480 the black card. I'd rather you just say listen, I 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.440 was born in the Bronx. All my friends were black, 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.800 we were in the hood. Everything was predominantly black my 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:17.000 whole life. Like I just I say it because that's 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:20.360 I just grew up around everybody else who was saying it, 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.840 So I so I'm saying it too. That's just it, 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:26.520 point blank, Like, don't go on ancestry dot com and 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.840 try to tell me your percentage of black and and 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:32.200 justify why you can say the word h. That's not 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.680 It's not gonna work. But on another hand, that ship 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:38.160 don't offend me when the women say that ship, when 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:41.760 six nine say that ship, when when by racial motherfucker said, like, 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.880 you know, when Hispanics not, that ship don't phase me 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.840 like it phases me when a white motherfucker say it. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:51.720 You know what I'm saying. It doesn't. So we're gonna 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:55.320 police all all the Hispanics and we're gonna police Cardi 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:58.280 every time she said, we're going, We're going uh police 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:01.040 six nine and all that. We we're gonna police them 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:04.240 every time. We're gonna cancel them every time. The motherfucker's 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.520 gonna be canceled for life. It's in a vocabulary, no 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:11.680 police the right. Motherfucker's. It's white people that still use 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:15.480 it to this day and mean it and mean it 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:19.480 not Oh no, that's that's my nigga. Man. Nigga's be tripping. Nah, 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:22.920 They use it and they mean it. We've seen instances 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:27.720 where white people will get mad at a black person 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:31.240 and say nigga just to hurt the black person because 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.720 they can't beat us, because they can't fight, because they 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:36.720 want to hit below the belt. They want to feel 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.960 like they did something. So they're all white people that 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:43.240 have used the word and then got that clown asses 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:46.119 knocked the funk out and they would rather risk that 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:49.560 to hurt us. They don't care get knocked out. That's 0:17:49.600 --> 0:17:52.080 the lawsuit. Most of them do that just so we 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.399 can get sent to jail. I think it should be 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:57.080 a fucking charge you catch for calling a black person 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:00.119 a nigga. That's what I think when it's used by 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:02.680 a Caucasian. And then we got words we can say 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:07.200 back in return, like cracker honky, hill Billy, the ship 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:09.800 don't make them no motherfucking never mind. They don't care 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:13.239 about that ship. They don't trust me, they don't care 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:15.639 about cracker honky or did they don't care about it. 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:18.719 It hurts them more when we say when y'all get wet, 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:22.000 y'all smell like dogs. That hurts them worse than us 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:25.240 calling them crackers. And then what the fund is a honky? Like? 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:28.120 Who the funk even invented that? That ship? I wouldn't 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.200 I wouldn't be offended if they called me a honky. 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:33.520 The fund is a honky? Hold up? Hold up, I 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:35.520 know the ship getting good, but listen to just a 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:37.480 couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:41.160 you'll listen. Then that brings me to just fix my mass. 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.080 So of course I went online and I asked my 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:46.000 fans and followers how they felt about it, and I'm 0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:48.520 gonna read just a few of them off I said, 0:18:48.600 --> 0:18:51.120 how do you guys feel about the word nigga. Tell 0:18:51.160 --> 0:18:54.440 me about an experience you've encountered that ended badly. Go 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:59.119 Davis Diva said, when an ex friend tested me, she 0:18:59.400 --> 0:19:02.400 was Asian, her BF was black, and their friend was white. 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:05.399 We all were chilling in my car, so basically all 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:07.760 were smoking. I get it. They told the white dude 0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:10.639 to say nigga around me to see how I would react. 0:19:11.200 --> 0:19:13.919 I corrected his ass a sad. I said, you can 0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:16.720 say it anywhere else that's on you, but not in 0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:19.560 my car. Period. They didn't expect for me to care, 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.160 so you did the right thing. But honestly, I would 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.080 have slapped the ship out of my Asian friend and 0:19:24.119 --> 0:19:26.560 I would have slapped the ship out of her black boyfriend. 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:28.480 I don't give a funk, and I would have slapped 0:19:28.480 --> 0:19:30.639 shot out the white boy to get the funk out 0:19:30.720 --> 0:19:33.080 my car, because y'all tried me. And if you were 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:36.399 my friend friend who dared the white boy to say it, 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:39.040 you had to already have in your mind that that 0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:41.720 would have hurt my feelings because I'm black and I 0:19:41.800 --> 0:19:43.960 don't play that ship. So now all y'all get the 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:45.800 funk out. But I see in the beginning you said 0:19:46.160 --> 0:19:48.800 when an ex friend tested me, And that's exactly what 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:51.040 the funk. She need to stay an ex friend because 0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:52.879 that ship would have hurt me daily. But I'm telling me, 0:19:52.880 --> 0:19:54.280 I would have smacked shot out of all three of them. 0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:56.240 They just would have had to jump me the funk 0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:59.120 out my car, walked and give me my goddamn blunt back. 0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:04.080 Thank you. Deeply rooted goddess says old head caught me 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:06.000 a nigga in front of my kids, and I hit 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:09.000 him with my car off his bike, and I know 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:11.200 that's the funk, right. I would have done the same thing. 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:13.400 But I hope you didn't go to jail for that ship. 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:15.560 I hope you didn't. I would have sped off so 0:20:15.720 --> 0:20:19.680 fast that I was a getaway car but hit. His 0:20:19.800 --> 0:20:21.399 answer is what you should have did. I don't give 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:23.119 a funk, don't have a disrespect me in front of 0:20:23.160 --> 0:20:26.280 my child. Don't disrespect me period, but not in front 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:29.520