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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Date Update Today, a listener named Patrick

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Speaker 1: He sent us an email that said he doesn't go

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Speaker 1: out with a lot of girls, so he's really hoping

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Speaker 1: that he can get another date already with Vicky. I

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Speaker 1: guess that's the girl that he went out with, or

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Speaker 1: maybe it's just somebody else, but that's the name he

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Speaker 1: mentioned an email. Patrick, How you doing, man, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 1: How are you guys? Pretty good? It sounds like we're

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Speaker 1: doing better than you are. Thanks. Problem. I didn't mean

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Speaker 1: to just put you in It got right away there.

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Speaker 1: I think you would already punched him, and then you

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Speaker 1: punched him again with that second one. Welcome to the show, Patrick,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Yeah, no problem. So your email

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Speaker 1: said that you're really excited about this girl because you

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Speaker 1: don't go out on a lot of dates. Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I go on a date, it's just they're few and

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Speaker 1: fire between. Has been three in the past couple of years.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, three in the past couple of years is

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Speaker 1: not a bad ratio. Hey, come on that maybe by

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Speaker 1: your voice, right, Patrick, you're just really picky? Is that

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Speaker 1: it not so much that I'm Picky. I'll pretty much

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Speaker 1: go out with anyone. It's just I'm not very good

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Speaker 1: at conversations. Oh all right, so you clam up a

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Speaker 1: little bit when it comes to going on dates. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just a little bit. Well, if you have trouble talking

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Speaker 1: to people, then how did the conversation go on your date?

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Speaker 1: It actually was surprisingly well. Um. I yeah, I have

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Speaker 1: an icebreaker that I bring with me and I use

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Speaker 1: it on the state with Hicky. That you bring with you.

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Speaker 1: You're not you're not bringing an ice pick on dates?

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Speaker 1: That could be scary. Well, no, it's not an actual icebreaker.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't break ice What I did was I set

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Speaker 1: up just you know, casual restaurant dates, and I brought

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Speaker 1: my potted plant. You what I said, I brought my

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Speaker 1: potted plant with me, like an actual indoor plant you

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Speaker 1: brought with you? Yeah, just like a succulent you know.

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Speaker 1: So it's a small plant. Yeah, and just PLoP it

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Speaker 1: ask about it. Okay, do you always bring a potted

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Speaker 1: for the past three that it's worked really really well, no,

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Speaker 1: it has it, Patrick, because you've all had three dates

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Speaker 1: in a couple of years and you're on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us, right, But every date that I brought the

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Speaker 1: as I said, four break the guys. I will say,

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Speaker 1: at first I was pretty judgy, But would you paint

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Speaker 1: it like that? The plant sounds like a good idea. Yea,

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Speaker 1: the plant for the entire date. Okay, So it's so

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Speaker 1: And will you wait, though they're going to develop someday

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Speaker 1: So you're like, you know who else loves water? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: long has it been since you heard from her? Well,

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Speaker 1: your second day update. All right, great sounds great. Thank

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Speaker 1: you brooking jubil in the morning. We're right in the

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Speaker 1: middle of a second date updating if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 1: Patrick is on the phone, and I'm really surprised that

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Speaker 1: he went out with. Her name is Vicky, because on

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Speaker 1: his first date, he gave her the old green thumb. Right,

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Speaker 1: what girl can resist? All you perverts out there that

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello him, I speak the Vickie. Please? This

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Speaker 1: is she who's speaking? This is Jewil from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. How are you? I'm sorry? Who

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Speaker 1: is it? Bowl from Brook and jew Bolt in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Does that mean anything to you? Like the radio? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Kind of like it? Or like it? Yeah? Have you

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Speaker 1: heard of our show before? Yeah? All right, I'm really

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Speaker 1: it was about you whoa appropriate response. You went out

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Speaker 1: I email? Okay, Well, Patrick emailed us because he said

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Speaker 1: No he's not, Yes, he is hey, Vicky. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: come on, so you figured me out? Huh? Are you sure? Dad?

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Speaker 1: But I just wish you could have been more genuine

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Speaker 1: instead of following instructions from a blog. Well, as a

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Speaker 1: not the type of plants, it's just the plant. See

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Speaker 1: what's going on here where it's still talking about the plant.

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Speaker 1: Ricky's just like the day. Oh you are smooth, right,

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Speaker 1: You guys are laughing, But I'm a complex person and

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Speaker 1: Do you give up? Patrick? Second happened? You've tried your best? Okay,

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Speaker 1: with these kind of people. Up, this is what you get.

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Speaker 1: This is your dating pool that's left yo yo people.

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Speaker 1: And remember, if you want to do a second day update,

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Speaker 1: all you have to do is email the show and

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Speaker 1: we will call the person who didn't call you back.

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Speaker 1: Ju both