WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Burrito Boy

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<v Speaker 1>You've heard the stat that fifty percent of relationships end

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<v Speaker 1>in divorce. Yeah, well, on our show, fifty percent of

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<v Speaker 1>people who go out on second dates never return our emails.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say it's higher actually likes. But hey, there

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<v Speaker 1>is one couple who did. They went on a virtual

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<v Speaker 1>date that even had a special theme for the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Things definitely got weird, not just that evening, but over

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us too. But today they're back with

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<v Speaker 1>an update on their situation. We're gonna play their original

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<v Speaker 1>call first and then afterwards talk to the couple to

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<v Speaker 1>find out what's new in a second date update. Update

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<v Speaker 1>that's coming up next second date update. What counts as

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<v Speaker 1>dating right now? I think that's a fair question. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you only see each other between the hours of

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<v Speaker 1>three am and seven am and you're never sober for that,

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<v Speaker 1>is that Well, that's how I used to date. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was dating. If you've only bought you socks

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<v Speaker 1>from them online? Is that dating.

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<v Speaker 2>In that case?

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<v Speaker 1>In some circles, I think that might qualify. And one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners emailed us because she isn't sure if

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<v Speaker 1>her hangout should be considered worthy of a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she was hoping that we would do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we have low standards, so I'm sure we will.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's actually lucky that the first four people that

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<v Speaker 1>we tried calling this morning didn't answer.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy of a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show, Hookup, Nicole. We look forward to

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<v Speaker 1>helping you, even if you've only bought someone socks recently. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start

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<v Speaker 1>telling us what's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Nicole?

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<v Speaker 1>Who are we trying to call today?

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<v Speaker 5>We're trying to well, Evan, I wasn't sure afet answer

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<v Speaker 5>because it was actually we had a virtual date, not

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<v Speaker 5>an in person date.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I think that counts more than like a three

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<v Speaker 2>am hookup as a date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned out right.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date. I actually I

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<v Speaker 6>actually prefer it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, when you meet people online, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of build up, and then you meet up in person

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<v Speaker 5>and sometimes it's really awkward, like they don't look like

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<v Speaker 5>their picture and they have no personality, and then you're

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<v Speaker 5>you're stuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that why you chose to do a virtual date,

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<v Speaker 2>because you've had such a bad run with online dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Or because you can start a virtual date with no

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<v Speaker 1>pants and no one would know.

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<v Speaker 2>That usually makes a date go better even in person.

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<v Speaker 6>A little bit of both, A little bit of both.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of

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<v Speaker 2>video like chatting at all. But it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 2>can talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good.

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<v Speaker 1>She meant. I think she meant that as a compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any nerves going into a virtual date?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I do have nerves.

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<v Speaker 5>I was a little nervous because he had a really

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<v Speaker 5>fun date plan. So Evan said that we should meet

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<v Speaker 5>up online and do a virtual burrito date, which I

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<v Speaker 5>thought was really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds messy?

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, and it wasn't messy because his idea is

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<v Speaker 5>that we would buy three different frozen burritos, the same ones,

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<v Speaker 5>and then we would try them together on you, which

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<v Speaker 5>I thought was really cute.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.

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<v Speaker 6>No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a bad angle.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't know the name of.

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<v Speaker 1>It, but it's that orange one. Let's try and focus

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<v Speaker 1>on the date and not the food. How did your

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<v Speaker 1>frozen burrito date go.

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<v Speaker 6>It was really fun.

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<v Speaker 5>We both thought the bean and cheese was the best.

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<v Speaker 5>We had a grating system. It was one to ten,

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<v Speaker 5>like in the Olympics. Like we wrote it down and

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<v Speaker 5>held up a little signs so we could both see it.

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<v Speaker 1>The scale of one to ten. How sexy did Evan

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<v Speaker 1>look eating his burrito?

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<v Speaker 6>I I'm saying ten.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you know ten's the highest, right, yeah, hot burrito boy?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So how do you end a burrito date?

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<v Speaker 3>But you got to go to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>A sprint to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does

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<v Speaker 1>it end?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 6>We just we finished burritos.

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<v Speaker 5>We were just hanging out and talking, you know, we

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<v Speaker 5>broke the ice and I just was told them that

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<v Speaker 5>I was taking bass guitar lessons, which is something really fun.

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<v Speaker 6>But he asked me to play a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>So I played a little bit of my songs.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, what did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Just sit there and he asked for it.

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<v Speaker 1>He gets a slighter out and liked, yeah, the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You only played one song, right, You didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Differ full concert.

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<v Speaker 3>Of full set.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I played like a bit of different songs.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, I see and we're talking like real songs,

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<v Speaker 1>not like old McDonald.

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<v Speaker 5>Or something, no, like another One bites the Dust or

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<v Speaker 5>like journeys leven, touch and squeeze in good And that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Impressive, even if you're not good at it, at least

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<v Speaker 1>you mus.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're worried that it like turned him off. Did

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<v Speaker 2>his mood change or something after you're done with your

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<v Speaker 2>bass plan?

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't think so.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was fun. We just kind of like

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<v Speaker 5>chatted a little bit more and then it kind of

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<v Speaker 5>came to its own and we said goodbye, and I

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<v Speaker 5>messaged him about going on a real date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and he didn't seem as.

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<v Speaker 5>Interested anymore as before we met first, really like he

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<v Speaker 5>stopped messaging me back that much. And I started to

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<v Speaker 5>think about, you know, like all all the things that

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<v Speaker 5>I worry about with a with a online date or

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<v Speaker 5>virtual date. I was like, do I not look like

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<v Speaker 5>my picture? And I started I asked my roommates. So

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why he's kind of faded out.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like you covered a lot of basses there, Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have your bass guitar with you right now?

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<v Speaker 5>It's in the other room, but it's it's here.

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<v Speaker 1>Would do you think maybe we could get a sample

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<v Speaker 1>of your bass guitar playing, just so that we know

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<v Speaker 1>this is research, so that we know what we were

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<v Speaker 1>working with.

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<v Speaker 3>These so uncomfortable people playing music. That's just because you have.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, i'd have to get at my amp and

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<v Speaker 6>get it set up.

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<v Speaker 5>I could.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's good because we actually have to play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna leave. We'll come back, yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you can play us a song when we do your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, radio, hold on update.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 2>right after you here part two.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any music because

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<v Speaker 1>we got our own in house band today.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never been so excited about the second part. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just a moment alone.

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<v Speaker 1>One person, our listener, Nicole, who we've been talking to

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<v Speaker 1>about her dating life. We're gonna get to that in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second. But she's an up and coming bass player. Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>We asked for a little demonstration because you played a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of bass on your date. So what are

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<v Speaker 1>we going to be hearing today?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm telling you I just started this month another one

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<v Speaker 5>bites the dust.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, before you get I'm gonna introduce you, ladies

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<v Speaker 1>and jam please welcome to the stage for your listening pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole and the finger flip.

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<v Speaker 2>Nic That would give her a second day to think,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, body, all right, now.

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<v Speaker 1>We've heard the YouTube version. Now play it yourself. An't

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<v Speaker 1>way better than I was expecting you to do after

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<v Speaker 1>just one month of lessons.

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<v Speaker 5>That was legit.

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<v Speaker 1>And so if you're just joining us and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why Nicole played, it's because during her virtual date

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy named Evan, she played the bass guitar

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<v Speaker 1>to show him what she's been doing, along with tasting

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<v Speaker 1>some frozen burritos with him. But after that, she's been

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<v Speaker 1>having a hard time organizing an in person meetup. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call Evan and ask what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>That is, if you didn't die from embarrassment just now, Nicole,

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<v Speaker 2>embarrass you. I just hear you in the background kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like laugh, moaning or something.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm still breathing.

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<v Speaker 3>You're still breathing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, here you go, take a deep breath.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're gonna dial Evan's phone, and we're gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you a second date. I just hope that

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<v Speaker 1>another one doesn't bite the dust, but yeah, let's do it. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>he is a seven?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name is jeff from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to talk with you a little bit about your dating life.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh okay, Well I'm not interested, so, uh, could you

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<v Speaker 4>take me off your list?

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<v Speaker 1>Regardless that No, yeah, it's not us, it's actually somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that you went on a date with who's asked us

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<v Speaker 1>to call you. Her name is Nicole.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so this is a real call.

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<v Speaker 2>Then, yes, yes, dial one to sign up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so what's going on with this is called a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update? And Nicole reached out to us because

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<v Speaker 1>she told us that you guys went on a virtual

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<v Speaker 1>date together and she's been trying to hang out in person,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's confused why that isn't happening yet.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Well, to be honest, I don't think an in

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<v Speaker 4>person date is going to happen. So who thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's too bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean she seems so fun loving and your date

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<v Speaker 2>sounded awesome. She told us that you like put together

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<v Speaker 2>a what would we call it a burrito battle?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we had burritos and it was fun. It was

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<v Speaker 4>a fun date, don't get me wrong. But if I

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<v Speaker 4>must get into it, Nicole is a liar.

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA, that's heavy.

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<v Speaker 4>Well what I found out that she liked to me

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<v Speaker 4>about her age?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, dang, bro Like, I mean, is that how

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<v Speaker 2>much a big deal to you? Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how much?

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<v Speaker 4>She told me she was twenty nine, but I found

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<v Speaker 4>out that she was actually thirty?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait year are you? Is that a joke?

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<v Speaker 4>No? That's the wretch flank to me, Like, what a

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<v Speaker 4>stupid thing to lie about, especially by one year?

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<v Speaker 3>That's true?

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<v Speaker 1>Who cares?

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<v Speaker 3>It's one year?

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<v Speaker 1>Well what does that mean to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Evan?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that such a big deal that she's one

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<v Speaker 1>year off?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she's lying about that. What else could she be

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<v Speaker 4>lying about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Just maybe she made her profile when she was twenty

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<v Speaker 2>nine and she just never updated the eggs it updates,

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<v Speaker 2>it updates.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not concerned about it, Evan, then you should

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<v Speaker 1>have asked her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but this was after our date, and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>gonna just text her about that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just gonna move on. Well, are you okay if

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her that question, because Nicole is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the line and she's been listening this entire time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy to do that for you. Oh great, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>here she has Nicole. Is it true did you lie

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<v Speaker 1>about your age to Evan?

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't like lying directly to Evan. It's not that

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<v Speaker 6>big of a deal.

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<v Speaker 5>On my dating profile, I said, yeah, I'm twenty nine.

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<v Speaker 6>It's one year.

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<v Speaker 5>It really bothered you haven't one year firm.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just really weird, Like why why one year? Like

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<v Speaker 4>I see, if you lied by like five years, I

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<v Speaker 4>almost would respect that more.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean year old really honestly, like, okay, wow, I

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<v Speaker 5>would be actually more upset.

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<v Speaker 6>I'fs like I met someone and they were like forty

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<v Speaker 6>into the thirty. That's a big difference.

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<v Speaker 5>This is one year, and I.

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<v Speaker 6>Really feel weird that I actually have to explain this.

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<v Speaker 5>But I was on other dating websites and I have

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<v Speaker 5>found that if you say you're in your twenties, you

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<v Speaker 5>get way more matches.

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<v Speaker 6>So it was just a way to just maybe broad

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<v Speaker 6>in the field and I get to meet more people.

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<v Speaker 2>So you were just trying to optimize your matches by

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<v Speaker 2>going down one year saying in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>Evan, what do you think is that a reasonable excuse

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<v Speaker 1>for you?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I buy it, but I feel weird about it.

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<v Speaker 3>How old are you, Evan?

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<v Speaker 4>Thirty one? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was going to be something like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't date women in their thirties because I'm twenty three,

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<v Speaker 2>or something like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the more.

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<v Speaker 3>If she would have told you she was thirty, you

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<v Speaker 3>had been cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know. It seems like she's gaming the

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<v Speaker 4>system a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that what dating naps are for?

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<v Speaker 1>Though?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you obviously on your range set that you liked

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<v Speaker 5>twenty year old like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know, Evan,

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<v Speaker 5>I ought to say on your profile you said that

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<v Speaker 5>you were athletic and fit for your build in that question,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know, you look a little more average

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<v Speaker 5>to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, I was sitting down for the entirety

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<v Speaker 4>of the thing. Yea, they get look way better standing up.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, Nichole's feelings are a little hurt Evan, because it

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<v Speaker 2>just it seems like a pretty superficial reason not to

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<v Speaker 2>call her back. It sounds like if you would have

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<v Speaker 2>just asked her her age, she would have told you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess so, and I accept her reasoning to

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<v Speaker 4>be honest.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly, this was probably good

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<v Speaker 6>because that's.

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<v Speaker 5>Gonna bother you and you're gonna not call me back

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<v Speaker 5>or even talk to me about it.

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<v Speaker 6>It probably is better that we don't see each other again.

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<v Speaker 1>It's spoken like a true thirty year old, right. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he was just getting over it.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, but now that I've heard your reasoning, like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>into it, let's not give up on there. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>like that no.

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<v Speaker 5>You called me at The first thing you said about

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<v Speaker 5>me on this call was I'm a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>No thanks, but you did lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's not wrong on it. Oh man, this is

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<v Speaker 1>like such a little thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys. It's like they're already in their first fight and

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<v Speaker 2>they haven't even met in real life yet.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She is kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks So,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm still willing to offer to send you guys

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up

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<v Speaker 1>to this point you were into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean maybe I jumped to conclusions too quickly

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<v Speaker 4>and I probably should just fast but I'm into it.

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<v Speaker 4>But if she's get.

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<v Speaker 1>It okay, well, Nicole, he admits that he made a mistake.

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<v Speaker 2>And which is a huge thing right now. Like to

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<v Speaker 2>find a person who could admit they were wrong and

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<v Speaker 2>learn from it like that is a good quality to have.

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<v Speaker 1>So can we meet in the middle here and go

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<v Speaker 1>out just one more time and we'll pay for it?

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<v Speaker 1>Think of the burritos.

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<v Speaker 4>I can prove that build.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe what would do it is if he's honest

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<v Speaker 1>with you right now and he tells you what he

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<v Speaker 1>really thinks about your bass playing.

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<v Speaker 4>It was pretty solid for someone who that live been

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<v Speaker 4>doing it a month, see, but it was honest.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't over the top like glowing review. It wasn't horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, it's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>I would like to hear more.

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<v Speaker 5>Come on, all right, fine, stop yelling.

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<v Speaker 1>Me court into a second date, Nicole, to celebrate you

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<v Speaker 1>want to play a little bit of bass guitar on

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<v Speaker 1>the way out?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I like I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 5>No, maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Making their glorious return to our show. A few months later,

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<v Speaker 1>we have Evan and Nicole once again back to give

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<v Speaker 1>us an update. Welcome back, guys, Yeah, hey every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you both still sound friendly, which is a good sign.

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to first of all, clear the air.

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<v Speaker 5>A bit after that second date, the infamous second Day aired,

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<v Speaker 5>I got a lot of heat actually from my friends

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<v Speaker 5>and family.

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<v Speaker 2>Who really about lying about being twenty nine on your

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<v Speaker 2>dating profile?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, but you know, when we did the call, I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't know what Evan was going to say. We got

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<v Speaker 5>him on the phone, and yes, he called me a

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<v Speaker 5>liar because I am actually older than what my profile.

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<v Speaker 7>I said, what I said on my profile.

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<v Speaker 6>I panicked.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's a lot someone call you a liar

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<v Speaker 4>on the radio. So I went like what he said? Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I said I was thirty, but the truth is, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>What the whole thing was based on how it was

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<v Speaker 2>only one year, It didn't really matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how old are you?

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<v Speaker 6>I am thirty four?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's still not that big of a difference, I know, but.

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<v Speaker 1>It is when you say, Okay, you're right, I'm thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you come back down. Next time we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to call her, she's gonna be fifty. Why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>come clean and just say that to us.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I was. I was worried that if I know

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<v Speaker 6>admitted that I was actually thirty four, I'd come off even.

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<v Speaker 5>More death right or set or whatever, because he really

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<v Speaker 5>mad at me.

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<v Speaker 1>For being thirty And Evan, how did you take that?

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<v Speaker 4>Not as bad as I did the first time?

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<v Speaker 6>Weirdly, Oh, it was pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 3>He was conditioned exactly an age at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh huh. Well she opened with it, which I appreciated,

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<v Speaker 4>and uh, I get it. Like she was on the radio,

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<v Speaker 4>there was a lot of pressure, so I totally understood

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<v Speaker 4>why she did what she did.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you dating an older woman then? Right now?

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<v Speaker 4>I am dating a cougar right now? Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice when one of these actually turns out. We congratulations, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, and remember you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.