Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour.
Speaker 2: I'm Cheerny and I'm Rachel. We have a very exciting
Speaker 2: episode today.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be super fun, and before we get into that,
Speaker 1: we're just gonna like have some little girl chat. I'm
Speaker 1: headed to Lala this weekend. I'm really sad because Rachel
Speaker 1: was supposed to be going with me and she's no
Speaker 1: longer coming. But it's okay, neither here nor there. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna update you guys while I'm there, and it's gonna
Speaker 1: be fun and we'll do it again.
Speaker 3: Right, Yes, we have to, because we came up with
Speaker 3: a really good idea. We want to do Bachelor Happy
Speaker 3: Hour in the wild, so hopefully one day we'll be
Speaker 3: able to bring this to fruition.
Speaker 2: But I'm so excited for you to go to La La.
Speaker 2: Who are you most excited to see Olivia Dean?
Speaker 1: You know, I'm like transitioning like out of my true
Speaker 1: festival days of like where I'm like at like hardcore,
Speaker 1: but like the fact that Olivia Dean is performing and
Speaker 1: I have not seen her live yet is going to
Speaker 1: transform my life for the better. So I'm so excited
Speaker 1: about that. There is this like British UK artist that
Speaker 1: I didn't even know she was performing out Laala. Her
Speaker 1: name's Jade. If you guys know who she is, shout out,
Speaker 1: but if not, look her up, Like I don't know.
Speaker 1: There was something that my Spotify incorporated her into, like
Speaker 1: the shuffle one day, and I never knew about her,
Speaker 1: and I was like, wait, I kind of like her,
Speaker 1: and then I just went on this deep dive and
Speaker 1: I became like a fan. So I'm excited to see
Speaker 1: her too. But yeah, that's those are like my top two.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be just a low key but very fun.
Speaker 1: Nothing's really low key with me and Dot.
Speaker 3: But I know who else is gonna be there, Like
Speaker 3: in your group, is Sean still going?
Speaker 1: I don't think so last that I know, but if
Speaker 1: he does pop up, I wouldn't be surprised, Like I,
Speaker 1: Sean is always down for a fun, good time, so
Speaker 1: he's more than welcome. I know Alex and Andrew will
Speaker 1: be there for sure. Obviously Alex Well Andrew lives in Chicago.
Speaker 1: I think Greg is going. I've been seeing some of
Speaker 1: their posts gearing up for Lala, so I'm like, oh, gud,
Speaker 1: we can't We'll see he running too.
Speaker 2: Well you'll have to let me know all the tea.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited to hear about it, cause you know,
Speaker 3: I do not frequent the music festival scene.
Speaker 1: What I have to drag you?
Speaker 2: No, When we couldn't go to Laha, I was like,
Speaker 2: darn it, oh dang no.
Speaker 1: Rachel's like, I love this for me.
Speaker 2: But I'm curious. What is the prep for Laala?
Speaker 3: And how is it different than say a Coachella or
Speaker 3: a stage coach prep.
Speaker 1: Oh? I mean, I feel like in a way, the
Speaker 1: prep is still the same. It's like, okay, what am
Speaker 1: I wearing? Like gearing up your outfits, and it needs
Speaker 1: to be kind of like festival coded. However, there is
Speaker 1: just so much more hype around Coachella and stage Coach
Speaker 1: obviously two different types of festival like stage coaches country
Speaker 1: music focus. Coachella is just it's like the met Gala
Speaker 1: for influencers, so it is very different in that sense.
Speaker 1: I do feel like Lala. This is my first time
Speaker 1: going to Lala, so I don't really know what to expect,
Speaker 1: but I know I've seen rumblings and I've seen like obviously,
Speaker 1: I have friends who've gone and done it, and it's
Speaker 1: similar like it's a festivals, a festival, so I do
Speaker 1: just think that there's like more hype with the other
Speaker 1: two festivals. And that's literally like, especially in Bachelor World,
Speaker 1: it's like we are known for attending these and not
Speaker 1: skipping out. But i am like very excited for Lalla
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I do think that it might be
Speaker 1: a little bit more chiller. I do know. Unfortunately no
Speaker 1: shade to the young folks, but it is a younger
Speaker 1: crowd to that part of it. I'm like, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: we'll see how this goes, and that might be very
Speaker 1: interesting with you know, our gen zers and the younger ones.
Speaker 1: But hey, I'm just here for a good time, not
Speaker 1: a long time.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm curious too because your outfits are always
Speaker 3: amazing when you go to a festival.
Speaker 2: Do you work with a stylist or is that all you?
Speaker 1: So this past a year for Coachella, I worked with
Speaker 1: a stylist, but every other time it's always been me.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I do think that I have it
Speaker 1: in me. It's just a matter of like having that
Speaker 1: eye for just really eclectic things, I should say, or
Speaker 1: just things that are not what I would normally wear
Speaker 1: on my day to day basis, and I'm getting more
Speaker 1: comfortable with that. It's just hard sometimes with like pairing
Speaker 1: accessories or just like stepping outside of your comfort zone
Speaker 1: like I said, and you know, doing a fun hat
Speaker 1: and scarf and somehow making it look cohesive and making
Speaker 1: sense that is just not me. It's like I need
Speaker 1: to like look polished and put together. But a festival
Speaker 1: is kind of like your opportunity to play with the art.
Speaker 1: So I'm getting more fun and good at it.
Speaker 3: You always look incredible, and I'm sure there's so many
Speaker 3: vintage shops in New York that have yeah, everything you
Speaker 3: could need, which.
Speaker 1: Is so great for that. So I always say, thrift
Speaker 1: your outfits. You don't need to buy something new.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, absolutely.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, today we are gonna do something actually pretty
Speaker 3: fun charity and I are going to you play a
Speaker 3: little behind the scenes photo deep dive.
Speaker 2: Our producer is going to show us a photo.
Speaker 3: From our time either on Bachelor Bachelorette Paradise, and we
Speaker 3: are going to give you guys the behind the scenes.
Speaker 3: I'm nervous because I have no idea what photos are about.
Speaker 1: Zero idea, no preparation at all.
Speaker 3: And for those who are listening on audio. You can
Speaker 3: head over to Bachelor Happy Hours Instagram. We will have
Speaker 3: a photo dump of all these pictures so you can
Speaker 3: follow along and we will do our best to describe
Speaker 3: them to you.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 3: I'm so scared to see, like the evolution of my
Speaker 3: eyebrows changing.
Speaker 1: No, I don't know what I look like.
Speaker 3: I can't handle it. My pulse, Charity, I hope it's you. Okay,
Speaker 3: so cute.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: So this is a picture and it is of me
Speaker 3: and Gabby outside of the mansion, and I have on slippers.
Speaker 3: We both have on blankets. I think they are I
Speaker 3: feel like this picture had to have been taken.
Speaker 2: After Night one.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: That is what outside looks like after we get done
Speaker 3: with the rose ceremony.
Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny and it's like this isn't
Speaker 1: even this is not even a picture of me, but
Speaker 1: because it's like I'm like the mansion, like it's in
Speaker 1: the background. You got like it's so like also Carrie
Speaker 1: Fetman coated, I can smell what this picture smells like.
Speaker 1: I know that sounds crazy, but like it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: we do like in the in the way of like
Speaker 1: what night one smells like it's like at that time
Speaker 1: in the morning. It's also like you know, you're not
Speaker 1: like you're not stinky, but like you have your fragrance
Speaker 1: still there and it's like it's slowly wearing off, but
Speaker 1: you're also like eureak of champagne and it's like it's
Speaker 1: just there's like a Christmas in the air. Like it
Speaker 1: is so bachelor, like someone needs to make a bachelor
Speaker 1: night one candle. Is that what I need to do?
Speaker 3: It'll be yes, steal champagne, liscerine strip yeah and hangover.
Speaker 2: Wow, that is so crazy. Yeah, and we have the
Speaker 2: ugs that they have.
Speaker 3: Off in the corner for us and between limbos, will
Speaker 3: go and put our feet in these slippers because your
Speaker 3: feet are freezing from standing on the wet driveway.
Speaker 2: What oh my gosh. I loves dress. The blue looks so.
Speaker 1: Good on her. I love both of y'all's dresses. Fire
Speaker 1: carried it over your next Okay, my turn, I guess Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh this is a cute one though. I okay. For
Speaker 1: those who are listening, this picture that I'm looking at
Speaker 1: is of me and Jesse Palmer, and this is as
Speaker 1: I am getting told or really live reacting to the
Speaker 1: news that I just found out that I'm going to
Speaker 1: be the next batch therette. This is after our reunion,
Speaker 1: so women tell all and I'm literally like gasping, covering
Speaker 1: my face, cannot believe it. Jesse's like, hey, it's happening.
Speaker 1: This is a very sweet picture. Honestly, Dez is somewhere
Speaker 1: in the corner.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, where is Dez?
Speaker 3: And do you have this picture on your phone? Because
Speaker 3: I feel like you need to frame this.
Speaker 1: I know I have so many pictures. I don't think
Speaker 1: I had one with Jesse. So this is this is
Speaker 1: good to know and good to have. But yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: like a lot of emotions come up, like in a
Speaker 1: good way. It's just it's so crazy that this feels
Speaker 1: like it was forever ago but also so recent. But truly,
Speaker 1: I think the night that my life changed for the better,
Speaker 1: I basically when I got brought back to this room,
Speaker 1: I was under the impression the entire time that I
Speaker 1: was playing this game. Well, let me tell you all this.
Speaker 1: I am someone who really kind of just goes with
Speaker 1: the flow, and I don't really question a lot, especially
Speaker 1: like in an environment like this where everything's still kind
Speaker 1: of New where like this is my first time filming
Speaker 1: a reunion of some sort, so I didn't know what
Speaker 1: to expect. So I was like, okay, yeah, like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go do social somehow I'm the only girl going
Speaker 1: to go do social. But I did not question it.
Speaker 1: I was like, I think they just have to go
Speaker 1: one at a time. And I have like Cat and
Speaker 1: Jess in my ear, where are you going? Why are
Speaker 1: we not going? So it's crazy. But I get up
Speaker 1: to this room and our producer, our producer, Katie actually
Speaker 1: is there waiting for me, and she basically is stalling
Speaker 1: time for me not to question even more, like what's
Speaker 1: going on? Where's the game? Who am I playing the
Speaker 1: game with? And she tells me a ridiculous story, a
Speaker 1: story so ridiculous that I was like, this woman can't
Speaker 1: be lying to me because it's crazy. But it's also
Speaker 1: there's no way that this is true. And then in
Speaker 1: comes Jesse Palmer, and I'm going with the flow of
Speaker 1: the game this or that, and then at the very
Speaker 1: end he goes Bachelor in Paradise or Bachelorette, and it
Speaker 1: was it was already decided for me that Charity to
Speaker 1: Lawson was not stepping foot on the beach. So I
Speaker 1: was like, I was.
Speaker 3: Gonna ask, would you, like ever in another alternate universe
Speaker 3: have done Paradise if Bachelorette never came along.
Speaker 1: If I was so young, if I was like a
Speaker 1: lot younger, I just knew, I like I couldn't take
Speaker 1: it serious. And I don't mean that to say, like,
Speaker 1: obviously people have found love on there, but it's just
Speaker 1: like not the environment. Like if I was twenty three,
Speaker 1: twenty four, yeah, I would have like had the time
Speaker 1: of my life on Paradise. But I was like so
Speaker 1: committed to like I need to find just one person
Speaker 1: for me, and this is my person. We're gonna build
Speaker 1: a life. And I was like bachelorette dumb, So obviously obviously,
Speaker 1: Now this is a very sweet picture. I actually need
Speaker 1: you to send it to me. Katie. Thank you, Oh amazing.
Speaker 2: Well even better, Jesse.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, this is great, Okay, I love this picture.
Speaker 3: This is a picture of me and Jill Chin on
Speaker 3: the floor in our room in the mansion. And this
Speaker 3: is a picture showing how the conditions.
Speaker 2: Living in the mansion can sometimes be.
Speaker 3: There are suitcases everywhere, there is blankets being made into
Speaker 3: a fort so people could sleep. There is makeup all
Speaker 3: over the floor, and actually I love this because I
Speaker 3: can see what makeup I was using back in the day.
Speaker 3: I can see a Jacqueline Hill highlighter on the floor.
Speaker 3: I'm doing a full bake and I feel like I
Speaker 3: might have to bring this back. Jill is also fully
Speaker 3: in her Rose Ceremony hair outfit. Makeup's already done, just
Speaker 3: starting this process.
Speaker 1: I also see y'alls like your little portable mirror that
Speaker 1: was like essential. I did not pack one when.
Speaker 3: I feel like, not only do we not have space,
Speaker 3: there's not enough mirrors or lighting.
Speaker 1: Nowhere for girls to get ready.
Speaker 3: It's crazy, especially on days when we're all getting ready
Speaker 3: at the same time, like a Rose Ceremony day. But yes,
Speaker 3: my bags would have been fully packed in the back
Speaker 3: because I was always convinced I was going home, as
Speaker 3: anyone will tell you, and.
Speaker 1: We had to do that. That's insane. I forget we
Speaker 1: had to pack our bags before.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, and I have triple d's so that is
Speaker 3: definitely a throwback photo. And oh, I could see my
Speaker 3: mic pack as well, because we're always wearing our mics.
Speaker 1: I love this picture than I'm like you guys, I'm like,
Speaker 1: Jill looks exactly the same, it's does She's exactly this same,
Speaker 1: so beautiful, like gorge. Oh my gosh, Okay, I'm screaming
Speaker 1: at all of these exact Kylie. No, this is again
Speaker 1: another unserious moment, probably number two, if not number one.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of number one, but this is
Speaker 1: definitely top five most unseerious moments of my life. Y'all
Speaker 1: have me out there playing actual tackle football craziness, like, actually,
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. And if you go and watch
Speaker 1: our episode, honestly, I have a confession to make. I
Speaker 1: don't know how I got the group date Rose. Okay,
Speaker 1: the photo that I'm looking at is of me and Kylie.
Speaker 1: So this is from our Bachelor season together, season twenty seven,
Speaker 1: I believe, and this was our group date. This was
Speaker 1: the actual football, like not flag football, but tackle football.
Speaker 1: We are dressed fully padded out. Oh the bagel, the ball.
Speaker 1: How could I forget the actual title of it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was genuinely terrified for this day. I was not
Speaker 1: gonna lie because I didn't want to get tackled. I knew.
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm quick, I'm fast, like I'm small, petite,
Speaker 1: Throw me the ball, let me run, but don't tackle me,
Speaker 1: like I didn't want to get tackled, and I certainly
Speaker 1: didn't want to do the tackling. So yeah, this was
Speaker 1: just a very interesting date. But I will say I
Speaker 1: did have one phenomenal tackle. I like, I mean grass
Speaker 1: all in the nostrils, like I was in there. And
Speaker 1: I think that's what Zach saw in order for me
Speaker 1: to get the group date rose because other the other
Speaker 1: hours and segments of that day, I was just a
Speaker 1: run around like a lost little puppy.
Speaker 3: Was anyone on this date going super hard?
Speaker 1: Oh? Who do you think? Yes? Christina Mandrel, like she
Speaker 1: would not let it down that she was the number
Speaker 1: one football star and I was like, girl, sister, you
Speaker 1: got it. As long as if I'm on the same team,
Speaker 1: win for us. Truly, I am a I have good sportsmanship,
Speaker 1: like I am a team like I will root you
Speaker 1: on forever. So yeah, she was doing the absolute most
Speaker 1: that day and it didn't end at the Football Bachelor
Speaker 1: of Bau and it kept going into the night. But
Speaker 1: we won't talk about that. All is well now in
Speaker 1: twenty twenty six, But this was a really razy date.
Speaker 1: This is a crazy date. Like I literally was. I
Speaker 1: think I'm in like Junior's extra large, Like I'm in
Speaker 1: like a boys XXL. Like everyone else was like size medium.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, these don't fit me. Okay.
Speaker 3: Next photo, Oh my gosh, Okay, this is a photo
Speaker 3: for my very first one on one day on my season.
Speaker 3: I was with Jordan B and we got to do
Speaker 3: zero gravity and it was the coolest experience of my
Speaker 3: entire life. We got to go up in this plane
Speaker 3: and we were just like floating around in mid air.
Speaker 2: It was amazing. I'm so glad I got to do this.
Speaker 3: However, I will say there is something about this experience
Speaker 3: that completely just drains your energy.
Speaker 2: And on the way down, everyone was asleep.
Speaker 3: The camera people were asleep, the mic people were asleep,
Speaker 3: producers and we were going into the night and I
Speaker 3: remember we were just like, really, oh my gosh. Yes,
Speaker 3: and it was kind of not a great environment to
Speaker 3: get to know someone also, so me and Jordan have
Speaker 3: always said that our first one to one day, it
Speaker 3: just wasn't the best environment to get to know someone.
Speaker 3: So yes, me and Jordan have talked about this day
Speaker 3: a lot of fun, not good ticket to know someone,
Speaker 3: but a great.
Speaker 1: Experience is it just because you're like it's impossible to
Speaker 1: talk like what you're like trying to like you know,
Speaker 1: yes and okay, So I don't think.
Speaker 3: We talked really at all, and they wanted certain shots,
Speaker 3: so we didn't even really get to enjoy the moment
Speaker 3: because they were.
Speaker 2: Like do this now, you have to do this okay,
Speaker 2: no kiss.
Speaker 3: And we were like what okay, And it was just
Speaker 3: a lot at once, and I was so overwhelmed.
Speaker 2: But it was actually I.
Speaker 1: Remember watching that day and I was like, oh, this
Speaker 1: is so cute. Yeah, I really like this.
Speaker 3: Yes, they definitely tailored that date to me because I
Speaker 3: remember they came to me and Gabby and they said
Speaker 3: first date, Rachel, you're going in a plane. Gabby, you're
Speaker 3: going in the hot tub with champagne. And I was like,
Speaker 3: this makes sense.
Speaker 2: They do listen to us, good time?
Speaker 1: Do we have more? Oh?
Speaker 2: Oh this is both of us, both of us and Gabby.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Charity, wait, I know why am I
Speaker 1: looking at it? I'm like Gabby Ussa said something absolutely
Speaker 1: crazy because I'm like looking at her, like so crazy.
Speaker 2: She was being so funny on this day.
Speaker 1: I like truly dying does not hold back. Okay, so
Speaker 1: this this picture is from my season of the Bachelorette,
Speaker 1: The Longest Kiss Date, where Rachel and Gabby came back
Speaker 1: and co host at the date. So I was so
Speaker 1: happy to see them. I was like, oh, another girl,
Speaker 1: another bachelorette, Like I can ask them. I'm freaking out still,
Speaker 1: like it's still very like early on in like the
Speaker 1: journey in the process. Yeah, I want to say, this
Speaker 1: is our first time that we met. I believe so, yeah.
Speaker 2: I think so yeah. I remember the first time I
Speaker 2: saw you, Charity.
Speaker 3: I was like, this is the teeniest person I've ever seen.
Speaker 2: I felt like I could pick you up and put
Speaker 2: you in my pocket.
Speaker 3: On Lizzie Maguire, Literally, you were so excited, and I
Speaker 3: remember we were all drinking champagne and you were just
Speaker 3: so in it. And I remember being like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: you are such a good pick for Bachelorette because you
Speaker 3: could just tell that you were just ready to get
Speaker 3: to the guys didn't care about the cameras, and I
Speaker 3: was so impressed by you this day.
Speaker 1: Oh, I will say that you guys made it easier
Speaker 1: for me because I was like, I felt so comfortable
Speaker 1: around y'all.
Speaker 2: Someone on this date did give me the ick, and
Speaker 2: I will never have I.
Speaker 1: Told you who, no, you have no come on, come on,
Speaker 1: come on.
Speaker 2: Right now, no, because I will get canceled.
Speaker 1: And I think I know now, yeah, okay to me dying,
Speaker 1: I'll say the name.
Speaker 2: It was Joey Gross today.
Speaker 3: And he gave me the ick because everyone was saying
Speaker 3: their most uh what was it?
Speaker 2: They're like perfect kiss.
Speaker 3: They were like describing their perfect kiss and everyone was
Speaker 3: just like talking about kiss. And he started describing you
Speaker 3: and how his perfect would be with you, and I'm
Speaker 3: like it was giving I'm trying to win the day. Yeah, yeah, yea, yeah,
Speaker 3: just because he was the only one that did something different.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't know. But then everyone
Speaker 2: was like, oh, that was so cute.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what did you think that At
Speaker 1: the time, well, honestly, it didn't. It really didn't register
Speaker 1: for me that he was talking about me until I
Speaker 1: think one of you guys pointed it out. I was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, I'm like, what a cute girl. I'm like, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it's I'm being so for real. And then I was
Speaker 1: like oh, And then I was like oh and then
Speaker 1: of course, and I'm like, I'm in front of a crowd.
Speaker 1: I definitely feel like flattered. So I'm like, wait, that
Speaker 1: was cute. I'm not connecting the dots that. Oh, maybe
Speaker 1: there's a little birdy in his ear. Maybe he came
Speaker 1: up with on his own. I have no idea. Didn't
Speaker 1: know the guy enough to even give him that much credit.
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, I'm taking this. I was like,
Speaker 1: let's just kiss. But it definitely was. I'm laughing so much.
Speaker 2: Because I remember we were all just staring.
Speaker 1: No. I literally was like, okay, I just have to
Speaker 1: lock in. But I was like, this is going to
Speaker 1: be a long time. And I'm like the way they
Speaker 1: made the boys line up, I said, this is diabolical behavior,
Speaker 1: like lining up to watch. If that was me, granted,
Speaker 1: if I was someone on the other end of it, Okay,
Speaker 1: line me up and this is me the whole time,
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean? Why are we like?
Speaker 1: Why are your eyes still open? Close? I never understood it.
Speaker 1: But very cute day, very cute first meet and greet
Speaker 1: with you guys. It was lovely and we look good.
Speaker 1: Oh period, this is so many dancing. Hello, this is
Speaker 1: so cute. This is I want to say night one. Yep,
Speaker 1: definitely Night.
Speaker 2: One, so beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I like, can't I like bringing so much? No,
Speaker 1: I love I still have the robe to that. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is Night one. I believe of me. And of
Speaker 1: course this is a shout out to Carrie Fatman and
Speaker 1: all of the amazing jewelers that we work with during
Speaker 1: our season. But I'm basically just showcasing my hand full
Speaker 1: of diamonds and manifesting that you know, one's gonna end
Speaker 1: up on that ring finger at the end of all this,
Speaker 1: So we did charity.
Speaker 3: Karen loves to have us dripping in diamonds. How much
Speaker 3: money do you think you are wearing on your rings
Speaker 3: in this picture?
Speaker 1: I honestly can't even tell you because I'm like, I
Speaker 1: know for a fact, I'm like looking in holder. Let
Speaker 1: me expand the photo. Those the one on my left
Speaker 1: hand that is like my ring and my middle finger.
Speaker 1: I want to say that I honestly don't know, but
Speaker 1: I will say probably well over like we sent in
Speaker 1: Naha one hundred thousands, one hundred thousands, well over that
Speaker 1: I was terrified to wear this jewelry always because the
Speaker 1: fear of God was like placed in me if I
Speaker 1: ever lost it, And that goes to shade that they're.
Speaker 2: Very, very very pricey, very pricey.
Speaker 1: And yeah, this isn't costume jewelry. This is not costume jewelry. No,
Speaker 1: I love this picture. Oh my goodness, Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, this is a picture of me.
Speaker 3: And I was in Paradise doing pre night one or
Speaker 3: pre day one filming, and me and one of our
Speaker 3: producers were joking around and he was like, Okay, you
Speaker 3: have to do the stare cry, which I also did
Speaker 3: in my season of The Bachelor, which people don't know this,
Speaker 3: but I was doing it to hide my face because
Speaker 3: I was in the middle of an opera hall with
Speaker 3: cameras all around me, and the only place that I
Speaker 3: could not that I could hide was in.
Speaker 1: My arm And so we comin did it here iconic.
Speaker 3: And hey, you know that season of Paradise went just
Speaker 3: as well as my Bachelor season, So maybe I should
Speaker 3: stop doing that at might female last.
Speaker 1: Time, honestly, like, do you understand that you are known
Speaker 1: for that? Like what an honor? Truly and an honor.
Speaker 3: It really just is because I was trying to hide
Speaker 3: and my producer was outside and Gabby, Gabby's producer was upstairs,
Speaker 3: so you know, thank God for my producer.
Speaker 2: Being outside during that moment.
Speaker 1: This is great. I love it.
Speaker 2: Starah cry lives on Forever.
Speaker 1: No, my honey, Oh that's okay.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's stunning.
Speaker 1: I still have that dress and it's never going anywhere.
Speaker 1: It's also so expensive, and Carrie did inform me that
Speaker 1: I probably had one of the most expensive finale dresses,
Speaker 1: and as I should. Okay, the photo that we are
Speaker 1: looking at is of me and my honey dog. But
Speaker 1: this is before we are announced as a public couple,
Speaker 1: which is crazy that to even like, I feel that
Speaker 1: what this picture is translating that moment, Like I was
Speaker 1: probably just saying, okay, like this is it, like it
Speaker 1: all ends here, and like as much as we want
Speaker 1: to be public, there is just something so pure about
Speaker 1: like the season of when you're in hiding and you
Speaker 1: can't be like seen, it's just you two, like nothing
Speaker 1: else matters. And I think we were having the realization
Speaker 1: that okay, like now here are like journey really does
Speaker 1: begin and kind of saying goodbye to it. In a sense,
Speaker 1: there's a little bit of like I just can say grief,
Speaker 1: like you're grieving that that season's over with, But we
Speaker 1: were equally so excited at the same time, so it
Speaker 1: is a weird like two feelings happening, but just giving
Speaker 1: him some words of wisdom. And I'm wearing this amazing
Speaker 1: Crystal drea us that I begged Carrie I needed to
Speaker 1: wear and he made it halfpen because I was not
Speaker 1: wearing anything else and Dot looked so good in his suit. Ugh,
Speaker 1: this was like truly like the most perfect for me,
Speaker 1: most perfect, But Nelle, I didn't care. I was like,
Speaker 1: I just want to be done with this and be
Speaker 1: with my my hobby.
Speaker 3: This really was your last moments before the entire world
Speaker 3: found out, because yeah, I want to double check, weren't
Speaker 3: you guys.
Speaker 2: Spotted or were you guys spotted before?
Speaker 1: We weren't spotted, but they were trying to crack the code.
Speaker 1: They yes, they not.
Speaker 2: Spotted your spotted.
Speaker 1: No, yeah we're not. No no, no, we were not.
Speaker 1: But there was never picture evidence of me, and there
Speaker 1: was no silhouettes, there was nothing. It was it was
Speaker 1: the sleuthers. They had peace, they had pieced together that
Speaker 1: I took a picture of my like cocktail I think,
Speaker 1: and then Dowton place. I mean he took a picture
Speaker 1: and posted of his like plate in it they together, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it was yeah, it was on us.
Speaker 2: However, did you guys go out in public?
Speaker 3: No, we didn't, Rachel, Oh see, I don't know these
Speaker 3: things because I didn't get to.
Speaker 1: Have an engagement that.
Speaker 3: I love hearing the stories about Hannah g and Dylan
Speaker 3: going out in wigs because I'm like, that's so fun
Speaker 3: to run around and have no one know yet. And
Speaker 3: then this moment, you guys are about to fully embrace
Speaker 3: each other as a couple for the first time publicly.
Speaker 1: For the first time, which is crazy because Dot was
Speaker 1: so convinced and I'm like, you don't understand. I was like,
Speaker 1: baby boy, you don't watch reality TV. He was very
Speaker 1: convinced that this is New York. No one's and I'm like,
Speaker 1: that's that is if not, that's the part of the problem.
Speaker 1: It is New York. I'm like, we could do this
Speaker 1: in like Idaho somewhere, but I'm like, not in New
Speaker 1: York City. Not in the fact that he's also so tall,
Speaker 1: hard like you're yeah, you don't you can't wear a weight.
Speaker 1: People still are gonna look at you and like look
Speaker 1: at you strange and then eventually piece two and two together.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it was very hard, but we managed so
Speaker 1: very sweet moment. I love that picture. All Okay, crazy enough,
Speaker 1: I have this picture hung on our little wall gallery.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay. The picture is of me and Dotton,
Speaker 1: and I mean embrace is just the word. We are.
Speaker 1: Literally he is hugging me so tight, but I'm also
Speaker 1: like just bundled up in his arms and we both
Speaker 1: have like the biggest smells on our faces. Our producer,
Speaker 1: I think Katie took this photo. She did an amazing
Speaker 1: job because, like I said, is hanging alm for your entry.
Speaker 3: Way happiness in a picture?
Speaker 1: No, I'm was. I don't. I can't even describe to
Speaker 1: you guys how beautiful of a season my happy couples were.
Speaker 1: So this is at our happy couples, I want to say,
Speaker 1: our second to last one, somewhere in that timeframe. But
Speaker 1: we had some producers come over and basically they did
Speaker 1: this photo shoot for us. But I'm just gonna like
Speaker 1: try to describe how happy couples were for us, and
Speaker 1: that's literally what you see in this photo. It's just
Speaker 1: like pure joy. I would go back to that season
Speaker 1: in a heartbeat, and not that I'm not happy now,
Speaker 1: but it's there's just a different type of happiness when
Speaker 1: you were in happy couples. Like I said, it's all
Speaker 1: in alignment with you know, your excited to come out
Speaker 1: as a public couple, but you're also in the season
Speaker 1: and you know you kind of have to enjoy it
Speaker 1: before it's over with. But our happy couples were always
Speaker 1: just fieled with so much love. Like I don't even know,
Speaker 1: like you can see it. I mean sure, yeah, like
Speaker 1: we had the best time together and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: can't get emotional, but it's very sweet, and yeah, it
Speaker 1: just takes me back to those those months leading up
Speaker 1: to it. So I love this photo, and I know
Speaker 1: I was. I could not. I had not seen my
Speaker 1: ring for like three months, two months at that time,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm so happy to just put
Speaker 1: her on so she had freshly clean. I was obsessed
Speaker 1: and I still am obsessed with this.
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed. I'm gonna make that my screensaver. There we go,
Speaker 2: because that is just a perfect picture.
Speaker 1: Katie, like so good, that's amazing. Thank you, Katie A charity.
Speaker 2: You're just your face.
Speaker 1: I like, it's literally like yes, and we were like
Speaker 1: Katie is a good creative director. Hello, but yeah it
Speaker 1: really was yes, yes, and we had Chick fil A.
Speaker 1: I got to meet Katie's baby.
Speaker 2: Like, how often did you have your happy couples with dot?
Speaker 1: I think, I'm like, I actually don't know if this
Speaker 1: is normal, but I feel like ours was every two
Speaker 1: to three weeks, like so twice. I want to say
Speaker 1: twice a month or give or take. But I was
Speaker 1: really Adam and I was like, no, I need to
Speaker 1: see him. I'm like, I'm missing him. If you guys
Speaker 1: want this to work, let's see him. Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, it is so important to be together, especially when
Speaker 2: the show.
Speaker 1: Is airing to that time. So yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: I did too.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm yeah. I don't like to think about that.
Speaker 2: They were not very happy.
Speaker 1: That is all right. We will not on this episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, one day we will, uh one day to our
Speaker 3: next segment.
Speaker 2: I'm actually very excited for this. This is going to
Speaker 2: be called Guilty.
Speaker 3: Confessions, and we are going to be giving you guys
Speaker 3: an inside look in a game where we're gonna answer
Speaker 3: basically our confessions. So we have some prompts written down
Speaker 3: and we'll get into it. So Charity, I'll ask you
Speaker 3: the first one I absolutely pretended to blame.
Speaker 1: Remember someone that has come up to me and it's like,
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, like do you remember me? And like
Speaker 1: me saying yes, and I have no idea who they
Speaker 1: are and I had had full conversations with people. Is
Speaker 1: that crazy? But actually that's also normal.
Speaker 5: You have to do that, Like but I'm exactly no,
Speaker 5: exactly that. I'm like, it happens way too many, like
Speaker 5: too many times, and I'm just like, yes, oh my god,
Speaker 5: last week, Yes, oh my god, so good.
Speaker 3: My go to line is so good to see you
Speaker 3: because you don't know if you can say again or
Speaker 3: not so.
Speaker 1: Good to see I say again, but I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so good to see you again because I'm like, you
Speaker 1: came up to me so clearly you know who I am,
Speaker 1: don't We don't cross pass at some point, I just don't.
Speaker 1: I don't recall any of it. But yeah, so good
Speaker 1: to see you again. How are things? Oh my god, Gray,
Speaker 1: Well I'm headed out actually, but like no, I promise
Speaker 1: I'm not being fake because I am someone I love
Speaker 1: a good conversation, I love to convert. I love to
Speaker 1: like just really get to know people. But sometimes it's
Speaker 1: it's tricky with the events, especially because yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Some people also don't pick up on social cues, and
Speaker 1: it makes me uncomfortable because I'm like, the conversation clearly
Speaker 1: isn't going, it's not expanding after a certain point, so
Speaker 1: it's like, let's just put a let's put a pin
Speaker 1: in it. But like some people want to keep going,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I gotta go exactly. Literally, I don't
Speaker 1: know what you like, I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: Yeah, charity, do you agree with Hannah Einbeiner's uh subway take?
Speaker 3: If someone says nice to meet you and you reply,
Speaker 3: we've met, it constitutes as a violent act because now
Speaker 3: you've embarrassed both people.
Speaker 1: No, actually I agree, because it's like just go with it, like,
Speaker 1: let's not we don't no one needs this right now.
Speaker 1: Let's just go with it and get it over with,
Speaker 1: you know, And.
Speaker 3: They always will let you know we've met every time.
Speaker 1: We've met before. Yeah, No, and it's it's it really
Speaker 1: is a certain type of person. But I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: get into that either, Like it's a certain type of
Speaker 1: person that I'm just like awesome couldn't agree up. So yes,
Speaker 1: I do agree that that is a violent Yes, a
Speaker 1: very very violent act. Okay, see the next one. Wait
Speaker 1: you have to answer. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I wish I could change my answer to yours, but
Speaker 3: I did mine. As if we are all collectively pretending
Speaker 3: to do math in our head, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 1: Oh no, you know what I'm doing.
Speaker 3: There's like a bill and people are like trying to
Speaker 3: add stuff up, and everyone's pretending that they're like adding
Speaker 3: stuff up.
Speaker 2: I will never actually be doing it.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, don't come to me with any formula,
Speaker 1: don't come up with me any numbers. I'm not doing
Speaker 1: it like respectfully, I'm just like mm hmm.
Speaker 3: I will literally do four time six my calculator. I
Speaker 3: don't care. Like I never want to have a thought
Speaker 3: of math. I had to take HELC two and I
Speaker 3: sit in my professor's room every day and cry until
Speaker 3: he would give me the answers.
Speaker 1: And that is why I went into the profession of psychology.
Speaker 1: I'm literature, I'm all of those things. Do not give
Speaker 1: me numbers, and respectfully, like I was okay with science,
Speaker 1: actually did enjoy science, but I just something that's not
Speaker 1: the right hemisphere. So yeah, no, absolutely not.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm okay, next, I love that.
Speaker 1: I respect that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Charity.
Speaker 3: I've googled blank more times than I would like to admit.
Speaker 1: I hate to say it. Am I dying? I'm like
Speaker 1: always googling symptoms hypochondriact? Is that what's happening? Yep? I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: my throat is scratchy Oh I've experienced this already in
Speaker 1: my life, but this must be something new. Yeah no,
Speaker 1: it's like, really, me and Google not good not good friends.
Speaker 3: Are you always just researching the like symptoms of what
Speaker 3: you have?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, No, I definitely can do that.
Speaker 1: I actually can't expand too much because like, yeah, someone's
Speaker 1: going to be like, cret you should probably And I'm
Speaker 1: like I'm already working through that in therapy. But it's like,
Speaker 1: even after I've gotten like further like additional confirmation that
Speaker 1: it's not that, I'm still trying to research, like, well,
Speaker 1: what could happen for it to ever become that? Like
Speaker 1: it's really like it's so crazy. So and I I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna give too much away because people are gonna
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, you're exposing your brain right now. But
Speaker 1: it's definitely just be glad that you're not a hypochondriac
Speaker 1: or don't have anxiety and you think about things way
Speaker 1: way too instantly.
Speaker 2: So no, that's fair.
Speaker 3: That's fair. Mine is I always google my dreams because
Speaker 3: I'm convinced every single thing in my dream has a meaning.
Speaker 2: So ie, the first thing I do, black.
Speaker 3: Cat and dream meaning what? Like every single day?
Speaker 1: I do it. I'm every night.
Speaker 3: No, but when I do, I need to know exactly
Speaker 3: what was the meaning, and I will google every single
Speaker 3: place la I was to find out the meaning.
Speaker 1: That's really honestly, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 2: I have to know.
Speaker 3: I need to have some sort of prophecy in my life.
Speaker 1: Something something for me to hold on. Tope, I need
Speaker 1: hope alive.
Speaker 3: Literal please, Okay, one more, what's a good one?
Speaker 2: They're all so good?
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to know your Roman Empire.
Speaker 1: I knew you. I knew you were going to ask
Speaker 1: me that my Roman empire, unfortunately is why has there
Speaker 1: only been one black woman winning dancing with the stories?
Speaker 1: I think about it way too.
Speaker 2: Often because these are the questions we need answered.
Speaker 1: I mean, answer me where, because at this point it's
Speaker 1: getting a little obvious. Somebody needs to give me a
Speaker 1: good answer. But that is mine. I really do think
Speaker 1: about it, and I'm like, oh, because like thinking about
Speaker 1: Zindea losing, thinking about I'm like, who else won? I mean,
Speaker 1: who else did not win?
Speaker 2: I was gonna say because Charity. I didn't even know that.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a lot of people don't like that.
Speaker 3: I can't have that is saying a lot Zendaia. I
Speaker 3: forgot that Zindea was even on Dancing with the Stars.
Speaker 2: Exactly, No, she's in conversation.
Speaker 1: She should have won, but I can't. I can't. Like
Speaker 1: it's actually crazy. I'm like, yeah, Zindea was on Dancing
Speaker 1: with the Stars, so that's mine.
Speaker 2: No, that that one. I'm gonna make that one mine
Speaker 2: as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have like me too.
Speaker 2: Actually actually same. We're gonna end with that because you
Speaker 2: don't want to know.
Speaker 1: I do want to know. Actually, tell me is right now?
Speaker 4: I need to know?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: My Room and Empire is the Jersey Shore episode where
Speaker 3: Jenni j Wow backhanded Mike the situation in Atlantic City,
Speaker 3: and when I went to Atlantic City, I tried to fight.
Speaker 1: With that app because that's a good one.
Speaker 2: Changed my brain chemistry.
Speaker 1: That's a good one and I honestly that's what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna watch tonight.
Speaker 2: Okay, this was such a fun episode.
Speaker 3: I hope we get to share more behind the scenes
Speaker 3: moments with you guys. So thank you for joining us
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Speaker 1: Bye.