WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Stress Test

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. It can be pretty frustrating when a

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<v Speaker 1>first date doesn't go the way that you planned.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 1>When you go to the movie theater you find the

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<v Speaker 1>tickets are all sold out. You go to the concert,

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<v Speaker 1>the band forgot their guitar. I don't think that you

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<v Speaker 1>go skydiving. They're out of parachutes, right, but they do

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<v Speaker 1>have a big bundle of those helium party balloons. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you give it a go, but it's just

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<v Speaker 1>not working out the way that you hope.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you're after that skydiving day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happened to one of our listeners, justin, not skydiving,

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<v Speaker 1>but just his date didn't go the way he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>it to. So justin welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, thank you for having me out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but you didn't say she jumped first.

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<v Speaker 1>Well we'll get to what you did on your date

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<v Speaker 1>in just a second, but first, tell us about the

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<v Speaker 1>person that you were meeting up with. Who, what, where,

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<v Speaker 1>when and why? That's a lot well just who, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess right now? Everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, her name was Robin. She's beautiful, has these really

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<v Speaker 3>really sexy green eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean like, wow, oh that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook has some sexy green eyes over there, like little

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<v Speaker 1>line of beans, like a like a mountain dew.

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<v Speaker 4>See them, probably like an almost compliment into an insult.

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<v Speaker 2>I get you, I get you us green eyed girls?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you know we stick together with rare.

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<v Speaker 3>Breed are Yeah, like real green eyes, not contacts or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Like what you're going on? Okay, so wait where did

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<v Speaker 2>you meet her? Where'd you meet Robin?

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<v Speaker 3>We met on a dating app and we decided to

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<v Speaker 3>do like a dinner date.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, was were you feeling a lot of pressure going

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<v Speaker 4>into this because it sounds like there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>build up a.

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<v Speaker 3>Little bit, but like, I try not to get too

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<v Speaker 3>nervous because I feel like on dates we all just

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<v Speaker 3>get nervous and we're trying to impress the other person,

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<v Speaker 3>but the other person's probably feeling the same. So I

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<v Speaker 3>just try to mellow out, be cool, just go there,

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<v Speaker 3>have a good time, make sure everybody's comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a good it's good life lesson right there?

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<v Speaker 5>Really they always say be yourself. I feel like a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of times if people try too hard, that's ruins.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. So you go to the restaurant for the date,

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<v Speaker 1>How does it go.

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<v Speaker 3>I ended up getting there a couple of minutes early, like,

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<v Speaker 3>because I really like this girl, and I'm always like

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<v Speaker 3>five ten minutes late, so I made sure I was

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<v Speaker 3>there fifteen minutes early.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice, bro, don't set that precedent. You're gonna be late

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<v Speaker 1>the rest.

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<v Speaker 3>Forget this. So I'm there about fifteen minutes early, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I get a text that she's running late. So

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, in there, of course.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how it always wears.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah right, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you know, like I completely understand. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, not a problem. I just ordered a drink

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<v Speaker 3>while I was waiting. So I finished my drink and

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<v Speaker 3>by that time, she texts me again that she's still

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<v Speaker 3>on the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, how long that here was a while?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'll tell you, Like, I saw another couple come

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<v Speaker 3>in after I had been there, sit down, finish their meal,

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<v Speaker 3>and leave. I think it had been like at least

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<v Speaker 3>an hour before she got it.

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<v Speaker 2>But she she did show up, right, and she stayed

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<v Speaker 2>in contact.

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<v Speaker 3>She did. She stayed in contact. She showed up. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>people have rough days, I understand, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And that can be hard though, after you've been waiting

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<v Speaker 1>like cold for like an hour for them, but.

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<v Speaker 4>A couple of drinks, I know, But you know, the

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<v Speaker 4>restaurant staff is like, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and all the other couples around are looking over

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<v Speaker 1>like getting stood up. And as a.

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<v Speaker 5>Server, you know, this guy wants to make money off

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<v Speaker 5>this table, but you can't go up and go, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>when are you gonna just call it quits and let

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<v Speaker 5>me get another table?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can't do that. So how did it go

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<v Speaker 1>when she finally did show up to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I was happy just to like, you know, have

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<v Speaker 3>somebody there to be with me, because I was to.

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<v Speaker 6>Her.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want to like make herself conscious. She's I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what kind of day she was having. She's

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<v Speaker 3>finally here. Let's just have a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's hard though, Like was she super frazzled.

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<v Speaker 3>She seemed a bit flustered. I don't know if it

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<v Speaker 3>was because she was late. I didn't want to like

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<v Speaker 3>keep digging at it or digging into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you just want to move forward, move on. And

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<v Speaker 4>were you able to Well?

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<v Speaker 3>I tried, but the vibe was just different from before,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I could tell this is not going well, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I was like, hey, why don't I get you

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<v Speaker 3>like a really nice cocktail. When they brought it out,

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<v Speaker 3>she gulped it down like a shot.

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<v Speaker 1>She was really stressed out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's not a good look.

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<v Speaker 1>So some people broke speak for yourself was a huge

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<v Speaker 1>turn on. How did you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I really like her. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>she's like the perfect physical match for me. And on

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<v Speaker 3>the text she was so nice, funny, playful and charming.

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<v Speaker 3>She just seemed really distracted, like she got food, she

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even finish her food. So I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>was going on. I just could tell like, oh boy,

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<v Speaker 3>this is not how I wanted it to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So how did you end this date with her?

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<v Speaker 3>So? I asked if she wanted to just go for

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<v Speaker 3>a walk, because I love walking when I'm stressed out,

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<v Speaker 3>and just you know, for fair and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind, that's suthful.

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<v Speaker 3>He said that she just kind of felt like she

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<v Speaker 3>has to decompressed today and wanted to go home, And

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<v Speaker 3>I said, that's not a problem.

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<v Speaker 4>Did she give any indication that she wanted to see

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<v Speaker 4>you again or like retry, because if it was me,

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<v Speaker 4>I would feel really apologetic, right, like, like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>I ruined this day. I was super late. I've been

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<v Speaker 4>totally distracted. Can you just give me a redo?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, she didn't even say sorry when she came in.

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<v Speaker 2>Ouch.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it definitely doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like there was something going on with her.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's call her and find out and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that'd be great.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, hold on second date update. Let's take

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<v Speaker 1>this from the woman's perspective. Okay, she shows up an

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<v Speaker 1>hour light, She's in a sour mood, she's gulping down cocktails,

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<v Speaker 1>barely eating, hardly even talking to the sweet man sitting

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<v Speaker 1>across the table from her. Man, and after all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy still wants to see her again. Bro That's

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<v Speaker 1>how powerful it is to have a pair of sexy

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<v Speaker 1>green eyes. I bet Brooke wishes that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>real pair and they weren't hiding behind those giant four

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<v Speaker 1>and thick lenses that you got.

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<v Speaker 2>Kay, Listen, my eyes don't work well, but they are green.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, according to photoshop they are. But look,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why one of our listeners, justin wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>Robin after he waited an hour at the restaurant for

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<v Speaker 1>her to show up, and the date never really even

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<v Speaker 1>got off the ground once she did. But those darn

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<v Speaker 1>gorgeous asparagus green eyes they just had him wanting one

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<v Speaker 1>more change?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you hit lima beans and now you're going to asparagus?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, like a sexy Diesel gas pupp Right, you

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<v Speaker 1>should say like an emerald or like a that's class,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what everybody does. What what do you think they

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<v Speaker 1>looks like? Justin how would you describe those green eyes?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, like magical little kiwi.

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<v Speaker 1>The outside, Yeah, kind of they're exotic.

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<v Speaker 4>O. Justin the thing For me with this girl, she

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<v Speaker 4>didn't apologize after she was so late. That doesn't rub

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<v Speaker 4>you wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>It does, But you know, just taking all the history

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<v Speaker 3>in the consideration, I thought like, maybe she's just something

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<v Speaker 3>personal happened, Like Okay, I wouldn't mind giving it one

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<v Speaker 3>more shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's nice.

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<v Speaker 5>The way you've been describing her. A lot of times,

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<v Speaker 5>really hot girls aren't apologetic.

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<v Speaker 1>They're used to people waiting on them.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you worried maybe this girl has like a ton

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<v Speaker 5>of options and doesn't really care about you that much?

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to project onto him.

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<v Speaker 4>I waited on a positive note on you try one

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<v Speaker 4>more time, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I just did not have experience with Let's let Jose

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<v Speaker 2>sit in the corner and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we have a lot of theories justin but we're

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<v Speaker 1>really hoping for the best year. I'm gonna dial Robin's

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<v Speaker 1>phone number right now. We'll see what's going on. You ready,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, just picture those beautiful key we eyes. There

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<v Speaker 1>we go. All right, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Robin?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, my name is Jeff work on the morning radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, and this is Jose.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thanks Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>This is weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, this is Brook. It sounds like you're busy, Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, am Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>That is Alexis.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she was asking for a round table introduction.

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<v Speaker 1>And you are now part of this thing called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning. Welcome, so bad.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what's going on? Did I win something or what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Possibly?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, we're doing a segment called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The way that works is one of our listeners reaches

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<v Speaker 1>out to us and we call the person who they

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with and has been ghosting them,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to help him figure out the reason why.

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<v Speaker 1>So the guy you went out with recently, his name's Justin.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Justin.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, you can just tell him I'm not interested anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're not interested in Justin. He sounded like a

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<v Speaker 4>really nice guy.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean, I've got my reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Well, look that's okay, Like you're allowed to choose

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<v Speaker 1>who you want a date and who you don't. But

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<v Speaker 1>for Justin's sanity, he's trying to figure out what went

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<v Speaker 1>wrong because he told us it took you a while

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<v Speaker 1>to show up to the restaurant even I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean, yeah I did, and I do feel bad about.

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<v Speaker 1>That, Like that seems like it's more on you and

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<v Speaker 1>it's less of what Justin did or are we are

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<v Speaker 1>we wrong about that?

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<v Speaker 6>No, it's totally what he did.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh oh, do So, like I had some stuff to

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<v Speaker 7>get done and so I was like running late. But

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<v Speaker 7>also like sometimes I do this with guys I meet online,

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<v Speaker 7>just kind of to see how they're going to react.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, wait, wait, the one hour late thing was a test?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you're saying yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I didn't like planet ahead of time, but

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<v Speaker 7>once I started being late, I was like, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 7>how's he going to react to this? You know, and

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<v Speaker 7>dude like sat there for an hour and waited for me,

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<v Speaker 7>Like what is that?

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<v Speaker 4>It's a gentleman called patience and kindness and forgiveness.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean you were texting him the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>You kept telling him you were going to be there.

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<v Speaker 2>You were leading him on. It's not like he sat

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<v Speaker 2>there for an hour and hadn't heard from you.

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<v Speaker 7>I only texted him twice and kept saying like I'm

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<v Speaker 7>head of there, and all we had to do. He

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<v Speaker 7>kept many options here, right, he could have rescheduled, he

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<v Speaker 7>could have left, I mean something that should he had

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<v Speaker 7>a backbone.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so you're are you seriously saying that you're mad

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<v Speaker 1>at Justin because he waited an hour for you to

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<v Speaker 1>show up.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I'm not mad at him. I just he's not

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<v Speaker 7>the guy for me. I'm looking for somebody who's confident,

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<v Speaker 7>who's going to stand up for himself. Like I didn't

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<v Speaker 7>even say I'm sorry when I got.

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<v Speaker 2>There, and he's too nice.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's just kind of pathetic and it's just like

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<v Speaker 7>a little puppy dog waiting.

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<v Speaker 6>For like his master to show up.

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<v Speaker 7>Love puppies, I mean, yeah, I like an actual puppy,

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<v Speaker 7>not a man who's a puppy.

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<v Speaker 4>I okay, I understand that you want somebody who's confident.

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<v Speaker 4>But to me, it's not that he wasn't confident, it's

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<v Speaker 4>just that he was forgiving. Those are two separate things,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think, like god, the world needs more of

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<v Speaker 4>that type of attitude right now more than anything.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, no, spare me.

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<v Speaker 7>I think the world needs more men who like have

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<v Speaker 7>a backbone and are a little waiting for somebody to

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<v Speaker 7>show up who well out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it takes a lot of backbone, Robin, to

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<v Speaker 1>be on the other line listening to this conversation the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time and not freak out. Yeah, the patience. That

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<v Speaker 1>takes strength and courage because Justin's actually been there the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time wanted to talk to you. Isn't that right, Justin?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, that's true My point.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, point, come on, mister, confidences show it, Robin.

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<v Speaker 3>The reason I was waiting for you for so long

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<v Speaker 3>was because you were late. You confirmed, and you said

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<v Speaker 3>you were coming. I didn't want to be rude. If

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<v Speaker 3>you want a guy who's mean to you, who's route

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<v Speaker 3>to you. Good, Look, I just hope you guys don't

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<v Speaker 3>have any kids, because all they're going to create is

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<v Speaker 3>more havoc and monsters in the world's mind.

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<v Speaker 7>Now you're just kind of like lashing out.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, it's kind of put that now, slashing out.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that that's what you wanted him to do.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I wanted him to be confident and to like

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<v Speaker 7>stand up for himself, but like not just saying stuff

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<v Speaker 7>to piss me off or to look strong.

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<v Speaker 4>Like.

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<v Speaker 1>No, okay, you wanted to be confident without being told

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<v Speaker 1>to be confident.

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<v Speaker 6>There's like a happy balance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it really is.

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<v Speaker 2>But there is something mean not mean nice. Is there

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<v Speaker 2>any way Justin can win right now? Robin?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean no, it's done.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I hope I hope that just like teaches

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<v Speaker 7>him a lesson though, because girls really do want a

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<v Speaker 7>little more confidence.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's the thing. I'm not trying to go out

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<v Speaker 3>with the girl. I'm trying to find a woman who's matured,

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<v Speaker 3>spoken with confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>Right there, Let's go Justin.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, Robin, I never got not confident from Justin this

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<v Speaker 4>whole time we were talking about him.

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<v Speaker 7>I did, really.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you should hear the way that he talks

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<v Speaker 1>about your green eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I've looked at Robin's green eyes in the flesh,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, now, I'm starting to think maybe they

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<v Speaker 3>are contact.

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<v Speaker 1>You think she's a phony green eyed girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you hear that? That was a thick burn on you? Robin?

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<v Speaker 1>Older?

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<v Speaker 6>Are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, do we ask this?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's definitely some sort of fiery passion going.

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<v Speaker 5>I have to ask by saying you don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>send him on a date, then she'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Say, yes, do it? So, Robin, this is the time

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm supposed to ask if you would like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on another date, but we don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to go on it. I don't think he even wants

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<v Speaker 1>to show up to it. He wants to leave you

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<v Speaker 1>hanging there. That's the type of guy, confident person that yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you're willing to show up to that, then

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>Thanks for the reverse psychology. I'm still good. I will

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<v Speaker 6>find my own day.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's hard, all this testosterone in the room.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really strong. Actually, Jeffrey Jose.

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<v Speaker 1>And I screwed up. You know what, Robin, he should

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<v Speaker 1>be the one that asks you, as the strong, independent

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<v Speaker 1>man that he is. Go ahead, go ahead, justin.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Robin, I'd like to officially ask you out on

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<v Speaker 3>a date to a restaurant that's not even open. It's

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<v Speaker 3>been closed by the health department.

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<v Speaker 2>But the health is that another bird?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you want some food poison.

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<v Speaker 7>Rob, You know, I don't know what the hell is

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<v Speaker 7>happening here. I'm like back in elementary school, like, what's

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<v Speaker 7>going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Because you're failing again?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, you're creating a monster.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's at this point, this is getting very unsexy. I

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<v Speaker 4>finally agree with thank you told you.

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<v Speaker 3>You can say what you want. But that's another sick burn.

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<v Speaker 5>Comedy you want to open anytime you want.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying I'll take you up on that comedy.

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<v Speaker 3>I just need a clown like Robin to you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and fire me.

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<v Speaker 6>Why am I still on this phone call?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think you're done now right.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you would have left if you really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to leave, But you want to stick around.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's just like he wants grave.

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<v Speaker 6>It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he's stuck around for you and you're doing the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. I don't know anybody agree. I guess that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really great comparisons. I just sick burned myself. It's working,

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. You know, it's kind of interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>We taped this a few weeks ago, and when we

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<v Speaker 1>were done with the phone call, Robin hung up and

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<v Speaker 1>we went back into the office to do our work.

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<v Speaker 1>We came back in studio a while later and Justin

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<v Speaker 1>was still on the line waiting for us. He just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to wait to say thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I call it kindness. Some call it weakness.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. My goal was to like defend him, like I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to be on his side the whole time. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's just like the last even thirty seconds of the call,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just too sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>He has no bad or mean bone in his body.

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<v Speaker 5>Even know what he was trying to be mean, it

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<v Speaker 5>didn't come out.

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<v Speaker 2>And I still don't like the girl. Like I hate tests.

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<v Speaker 4>I think tests sucks, you know, especially tests that make

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<v Speaker 4>people wait for an hour.

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<v Speaker 5>Of the.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's already like dating is already a hard

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<v Speaker 1>enough game as it is. Now she's playing games on

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<v Speaker 1>top of the game.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, clearly women just don't want to have a nice,

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<v Speaker 1>respectful guy anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not true, exactly, not a jerk. You can be

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<v Speaker 4>confident and also be kind. Those two things really truly

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<v Speaker 4>can't live together.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Brook, I love you, but shut up for now,

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<v Speaker 1>because I gotta.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell everybody if that was aggressive, you are so with makeup.

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<v Speaker 2>Take it. Those are like backhanded compliments, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, look, if you want to get a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>you can always email the show and we'll try to

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who wasn't calling you back. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be disappointing a brook In somewhere Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning