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Speaker 1: Or at your basements by happenstance he was involved.

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Speaker 2: But I go in the bathroom and the doors are closed,

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Speaker 1: Please get in here? And Joe opened up the door

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Speaker 2: Because I'm bawling, like you don't know what to say,

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Speaker 2: so they're like, oh, she's just not proposed to doesn't.

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Speaker 1: He know who you are? Or does it?

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Speaker 3: Maybe you know?

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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, this episode is brought to you by boost Mobile.

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Speaker 1: Please welcome Savannah James and April MG Daniel's Hill. Rah. Hi, guys, Hi,

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Speaker 1: did you do interviews a lot? Or is this like

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Speaker 1: a never the bane of my existance? You hate it? It?

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Speaker 1: Tell me why talk to me about it? What is it?

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Speaker 1: What is the thing? I don't know. I just would

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Speaker 1: rather be quiet quiet. You know. He was so surprising

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Speaker 1: to me when you guys launched this pod for that

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Speaker 1: reason alone, because I feel like, you know, Savannah gets

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Speaker 1: so much of like she's our unproblematic queen. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, That's that's how they but you keep

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Speaker 1: it that way you like it, and I'm sure you're

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Speaker 1: problematic to like every other human being in private life, right,

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Speaker 1: but you never really showed that. So when you guys

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Speaker 1: some of the comments, like no, Savannah, don't don't talk.

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Speaker 1: We like you Like I'm like, y'all don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually a little more crazy, actually are you? But

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Speaker 2: it's fine, just a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But what made you want to come outside and give

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Speaker 2: To be honest, I think it's that I definitely have

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Speaker 3: I definitely have a voice.

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Speaker 1: I use it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe a little bit of a practice because to use

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Speaker 2: So coming out of my little box a little bit

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fun. Whose idea was it in the first place?

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Speaker 1: I think it was both couples together both. I feel

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Speaker 2: Always have aha moments, like you know, you're like talking

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Speaker 3: Would be genius. She like yeah, girl, like she is

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Speaker 1: But I was gonna say, were you surprised as her

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Speaker 1: she's perceived that she was like down to do this. No, no,

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Speaker 1: you were This is who she really is because you

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Speaker 1: take me to the friendship. So we have a seventeen

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Speaker 1: how I know you were working with Lebron?

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Speaker 2: So I've done all the Lebron's stuff for years. Like

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Speaker 3: Worked with Maverick.

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Speaker 2: I came up in the industry with MAV and Rich

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Speaker 2: I think being a black fean a lot, I would

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Speaker 1: Should I do this? Should I do that?

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Speaker 2: And they'd be like, yeah, girl, you should do that,

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Speaker 1: They're really good those guys too. I haven't spent a

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Speaker 3: I was like what you got to say?

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Speaker 1: And what was going on with you? Were you just

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like it's the way

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Speaker 2: You know, you can tell it's really in your corner,

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Speaker 3: So I think it was just that.

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Speaker 2: And I think consistency. I think people don't realize how

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Speaker 1: It's crazy now because you're grown and we see you

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Speaker 2: Just trying to figure it out. It was a lot

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Speaker 1: Here, I could be right here quiet. Yeah. My best

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Speaker 3: It was, but I just didn't just to be honest,

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Speaker 3: This is pre social Oh okay too, Like there was no.

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Speaker 2: Okay, guys were gonna be friends and we're gonna be outside.

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Speaker 1: Well, what was it about Savannah that you felt like?

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Speaker 2: I think for me, I felt like I I saw

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Speaker 3: This is a qualifier.

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Speaker 2: I think, Oh my god, she's so layered. I think

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Speaker 3: And I think that is the importance.

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Speaker 2: Crazy to be honest, because everybody thinks it looks like this.

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Speaker 2: Like even when we walked in, you were like, where's

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Speaker 1: Were like, no, they came here, she's hair.

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Speaker 2: I just think people believe one thing and they don't

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Speaker 1: But stop because y'all be having especially you you haven't

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Speaker 1: Glam and Squad sometimes don't do that. I do enjoy it, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I get my hair done and then I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm not paying for Glam because I like the shop,

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Speaker 2: like I'll I always say to her like, I was.

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Speaker 3: Like that is expensive. She was like, that's not that expensive.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, that's a.

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Speaker 3: Waste of money. We need to like there's small things

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Speaker 3: I'm layered like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm also layered, like I still go to pull her outside.

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Speaker 2: I mean at CBS with cupons, Give me a cupons

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Speaker 2: and you check out like wallet, I have the CBS.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, great park. Go to the Blue Note. So

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Speaker 2: I'm standing there waiting for April to get there, and

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Speaker 2: I said, by yourself, Yeah, I see it's a car there,

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Speaker 3: She's like, I do this a lot.

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Speaker 1: Hey, anybody ever tell you look like Savannah James.

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Speaker 3: I'll be like I get that a lot.

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Speaker 2: After the fact, I came out and another friend of

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, it over here. So they're looking

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Speaker 1: But I just don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just live I feel like our life is so abnormal.

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Speaker 1: What else does she do that's normal?

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Speaker 2: I think most of our life is her life is normal.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like we like direct Rightesshi, yeah we do,

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Speaker 2: we do. We'd be doing what's the ratchet ship?

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Speaker 1: You've done this this month?

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Speaker 2: I would say the most ratchet would have been the

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Speaker 2: Trap till the.

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Speaker 1: Sun came Jesus, what was happening? Movie? Trap?

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Speaker 3: And we came out the sun was on the rights

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Speaker 1: We have the time.

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Speaker 2: I think we do whatever we want to do, and

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Speaker 2: I think Savannah normally is like, oh, let's try this,

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Speaker 1: Do you do this? Because you know, I have some

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Speaker 1: I always feel almost I almost feel like I'm jump

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like that of like and we make sure

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Speaker 1: Like but not just that, but I mean, like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I think we give welcoming you knowing up on us.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking like, no, it's okay, we don't give welcoming.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think we do.

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Speaker 1: Who more so than the other he's.

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Speaker 3: A nice one. I'd be like, ma'am no, Like I'm

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Speaker 2: She's like hey, hi, oh, I'm like no.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Savannah, let's go see. Yeah, so you're the one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's chatting and let's go. No, nobody taking no

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you become then the dynamic? Make you

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Speaker 2: In some ways, I just feel like innately, I'm not

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Speaker 3: I don't give what is that?

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Speaker 1: Why is that? I just don't think I'm a.

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Speaker 2: I'm very protective of my personal energy, so I'm not like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, hi, and I'm not fake. So if

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Speaker 2: I don't like it, I'll be like.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you can't do that. I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: Like I'll go sit in the corner and be doing whatever,

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Speaker 2: they come over chat with me.

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Speaker 1: I said, no, keep chatting with her.

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Speaker 3: She's gonna chat with you.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Then you start wanting to drink the alcohol said, I said, no,

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Speaker 3: Like that is funny.

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Speaker 1: It works, So it's okay. So what is the key then,

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Speaker 1: to each of you? What do you think it takes

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Speaker 2: It's a very clear level of understanding. I can sometimes disappear.

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Speaker 2: I need to recharge my social batteries on e so

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Speaker 2: all the things you Savannah, just just not looking at

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Speaker 2: I think very clear level of understanding for me is

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Speaker 1: And your best friend too, that you grew up with.

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Speaker 1: You've been friends for.

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Speaker 3: My whole life, your whole life for almost forty years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so how have you had to I don't

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Speaker 2: I think you have to be mindful of meeting people

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Speaker 2: think that just being there to be honest as a

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Speaker 2: So we don't speak every day, but when we do,

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Speaker 3: It's nothing weird, it's nothing like it's just everything is

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Speaker 2: Now all my friends are on the same level, They're

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Speaker 2: I feel like as you evolve, you need different things

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Speaker 2: between friends because you want me to say some shit?

439
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,679
Speaker 1: Are you delusional? Like that's how I feel. I'm like,

440
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,119
Speaker 1: are you okay? Give me an example of what that

441
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 1: looks like? Though? Like really, like what does that mean

442
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 1: when you say honesty with your friends? Are you're telling

443
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,680
Speaker 1: them they their hair looks bad? Yeah? What's something you told?

444
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 1: What was a radical piece of honesty you gave? Savannah?

445
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, you can't be on calls not saying nothing

446
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:06,959
Speaker 2: like that's sitting there, sitting there looking like I'm like, smile,

447
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 2: do something, engage a little bit, like you're killing me,

448
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 2: Like all right, I'm.

449
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 1: Gonna work on it, you know.

450
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 3: But but she.

451
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 1: Takes it well.

452
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you have to because it's only it

453
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 2: is we're in business together. So like what I'm you know,

454
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,920
Speaker 2: then it looks like the partnership is lopsided when it's not,

455
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,719
Speaker 2: because when the door's closed, she'd be like, all right,

456
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 2: let me tell you. And I'm like, well, why didn't

457
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 2: you say that on the pall if you had an opinion?

458
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 1: Why didn't What is it? What did you get to?

459
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 1: Is it shy or is it just you're used to

460
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 1: like I'm not letting people in or what. I don't know.

461
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that.

462
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,639
Speaker 2: I think it's just that I am not really like

463
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,920
Speaker 2: when I said the pod is an exercise for using

464
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 2: my voice, I'm in that, Like I really would prefer

465
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:53,680
Speaker 2: to just be like.

466
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 1: And then come back like that was some dumb ass shit.

467
00:21:59,200 --> 00:21:59,880
Speaker 1: That's what she be doing.

468
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 3: You thought it was dumbing You was sitting there.

469
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 2: Like, I'm like, I thought that she was crazy and

470
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 2: I was popping off. Also, we just did an exercise.

471
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,119
Speaker 2: We did it enneagram exercise. Explain I so you answer

472
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 2: all of these questions. It's like thirty minutes worth of

473
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 2: question to answer. Oh the god, No, we did it

474
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: in private, okay, yes, and this is is one through nine.

475
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 2: And you are this certain type of person, that's the

476
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 2: way that you show up. Oh yes, I'm a quiet

477
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 2: peacemaker y, So on the calls, I would prefer to say, hmm, okay,

478
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 2: I get that, I understand, and then go back and

479
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 2: be like, this is what I really think because I

480
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 2: don't remember if on no feathers right, and I'm an

481
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 2: active controller, so I'm like, the fuck is happying?

482
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: Wait? Tell me about this personality.

483
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 3: You need to take it. What It's called an enneagram test.

484
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 2: Anyogram I've heard you like, what kind of person you are,

485
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 2: how you see the world, what are the questions?

486
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 3: Where are you? It's like, how do you make decisions?

487
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 2: So a lot of people make decisions, Well, people make

488
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: decisions gut, hard or head. I'm gut, Savannah is hard, right,

489
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: so I'll be like, no, she's like, oh some time.

490
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: Not happening. I don't make it so.

491
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: And then some people are head, which means they come

492
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 2: from like a knowledge standpoint of like head, I think

493
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: you do, I do based on what that's my gut.

494
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 1: I have gut to you don't think. I think your heart.

495
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: I think the same little gut to know just like a.

496
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: Like a of course, we probably all have a little

497
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 2: bit of all things.

498
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 1: But what do you lead with? I guess you think

499
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: that's interesting.

500
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,159
Speaker 2: I don't think you haven't been able to lead like that,

501
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 2: but I think that's what you really are.

502
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 1: In my natural state. My natural state is a little

503
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: bit different than what my career has correct forced me

504
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 1: to become. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I

505
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: would like to I would You're right, you're good. Oh

506
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: my god, why I don't take that drink from that girl?

507
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: My most natural state, I would probably like to be

508
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: on the call and be like, yeah, I would like

509
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: to do that too, but I don't have the luxury

510
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: of that. And also, I'm trying to do this certain

511
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: ship and you're can probably you're probably experiencing some of

512
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: this too. Yeah, sure, well you're like, that's my natural state.

513
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,199
Speaker 1: But if I want to get from A to B,

514
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: I have to show up differently. I'm gonna show up differently.

515
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show and so I think the training that

516
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: I've had over the past whatever thirty years.

517
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 2: Yes, but that's also the conversation we have when I

518
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 2: when she's on the call like quiet, and I'm like, hey,

519
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 2: you gotta say somebody you know, And so this.

520
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: Is like fully pushing you out of your comfort zone way.

521
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 3: But I'm prepared and I think it's time.

522
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: You think it's time, do you have to like consult

523
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: with because and forgive me if I think of this wrong,

524
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: like you keep saying, are you okay that has to

525
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: run things by a council like they probably would like

526
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: me to. They would like you to mind, I imagine,

527
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 1: because it's not just you represent your family really yeah,

528
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: you know, so it's not like you're moving through the

529
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 1: world by yourself. So if you do, if you go

530
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: wild and you go rogue, you get into some crazy ass,

531
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,719
Speaker 1: it doesn't just affect you, it affect your family. So

532
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 1: you have to kind of, I don't know, navigate it,

533
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 1: navigate that. Yeah, I think they will love me too.

534
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 2: But I think at the end of the day, they

535
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 2: know that I'm not going to do anything that's going

536
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: to jeopardize anything that has been built today. So I

537
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 2: think there's a certain level of trust there. I mean,

538
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 2: so far, it's been so far with so much support.

539
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, they love How do the.

540
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: Kids feel, like, does everybody do they like seeing you

541
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: in this way? Like Mom's out doing potting and interviewing.

542
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: Do not care? They don't care? No, what do you mean?

543
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 2: Well, they're supportive as well, but like as a check in,

544
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 2: they just be like, oh, you gotta go to work,

545
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: what you gotta go do? Like that, but supportive like

546
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 2: the boys. Well, Zuri and Bryce have called into the pot,

547
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: so that's nice.

548
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: It's so cute. And Briannie is.

549
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 3: Doing his own thing. Brinnie is twenty one and Thugan he's.

550
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: Outside, not twenty one and Thugan he is living his

551
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: best life. And Lebron won't call it or you don't

552
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: want him to call it. He's called.

553
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: Oh he has called, he's called, he's called, and he

554
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: was on He's live, he's come on live with us,

555
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 2: and he's super supportive. I think it's so nice. Yeah,

556
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 2: well we're like we don't. I don't know nothing about basketball,

557
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 2: not a thing.

558
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: Shut up. So how do you work with all these

559
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: guys and you don't know?

560
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,360
Speaker 2: It's okay. I've been to three games in my whole life, and.

561
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: You got a first. You can probably get you good tickets. Yeah,

562
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: she'd been writing me all the time, like girl.

563
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 3: Lebron's like, don't bring her to the game.

564
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 5: She talked too much because I've been over there talking

565
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 5: game and playing like you too, are just chatting, like

566
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 5: watch the game, So I feel like just basketball and

567
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 5: I'm just thinking it's not where.

568
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: I want to spend my time in the.

569
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: So what have you What have you guys learned about

570
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, because, like you said, its out of

571
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: your comfort zone and you never did a pod. I mean,

572
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: you know this is not fully out of your comfort

573
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: zone in terms of you know, I don't know, just

574
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: but I do.

575
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 3: I think I've always been behind the camera, That's what

576
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 3: I mean.

577
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 2: I think for us, it's not so much about us,

578
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: though I think a lot of people think that it

579
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 2: is or we did it because of that. I think

580
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 2: the way we see the world and the way a

581
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,959
Speaker 2: lot of other people see the world is just very different.

582
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: And I think we want to show more of a

583
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 2: human side of like, no one has it together, no

584
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 2: one like, no one is exempt of hardship, no one

585
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 2: in life like whatever your hardship may be, no one

586
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: is there to judge. But I think just bringing some

587
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 2: humanity to like how people are seeing the world and

588
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: just understanding the pressure people are under and even when

589
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: you have the most resources, when you're evolving is hard like,

590
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 2: and I think when you bring conversation to it, it

591
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 2: makes people feel like they're not alone, you know, and

592
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 2: I think that's why we feel.

593
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: Like you were born to do this, though, but you

594
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 1: jump right into it like I don't know you.

595
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 2: Just I feel like we're comfortable with each other. If

596
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 2: it was someone else, I don't think I would be.

597
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: But even now, you're like, you're doing interviews, you're doing press, you're.

598
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,479
Speaker 3: Outside, girl, let's let's let's dress. Stress.

599
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Who stressed? You? Are you a boat?

600
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: Me?

601
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,719
Speaker 1: More than anything? Stress, because I feel like today like,

602
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: why tell me, let's let's talk.

603
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,439
Speaker 3: I'd rather just be behind my computer making a lot

604
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 3: of money.

605
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: So then why are you doing it?

606
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 2: Because of what I just said, I think the humanity

607
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: and also to be honest, even this is curated, we

608
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: could have went on a million pods.

609
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: We wanted you like that's the.

610
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 2: Reality like this because of my heart, because because of

611
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: who you are, because of the story I know of you,

612
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: because of the mom your story, the way you tell

613
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 2: your story. I think we are intentional with every move

614
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 2: we make. If people think we're not your delusion. If

615
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 2: you think that, we don't think about it. We've never

616
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: gone on anybody else's pod. So like when we started

617
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 2: talking about doing this. We were very select on who

618
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 2: that we want to tell our story with because I

619
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: think there is a level of integrity and like how

620
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 2: people tell stories is really important.

621
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 3: So I think for me, I'm.

622
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: Nervous because doing it is more is bigger than us.

623
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 2: I think people look at us and like, oh my god,

624
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: celebrities or whatever, talent or whatever, and I think it's

625
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 2: so much bigger than that. I think what me and

626
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: Savannah are trying to do and build is really for

627
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 2: other people to see that they are not alone.

628
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I get that. What about you? What is this?

629
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 6: Like?

630
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: Does this feel normal to you yet? Nope? Still really so?

631
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: I still I don't know.

632
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 2: I think she says it a lot of like are

633
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: you okay? I still think it's interesting that people even

634
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: want to talk to me like really, yeah, are you okay?

635
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 3: I think it's interesting.

636
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it. We're gonna do it.

637
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 2: Bring you on because I got questions are you okay?

638
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: Are you okay? Are you okay? Yeah?

639
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: But I do think to echo April, what we're building

640
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: is way bigger than us, and I think it's only

641
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 2: the tip of the iceberg at this point.

642
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: What is the goal what is the ever Like, what

643
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: do you what do you want to build? What are

644
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: you trying to build?

645
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 2: So we're we are ultimately the end goal is we're

646
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 2: going to have a holding company and all of our

647
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 2: businesses will roll into it. So crown and conquer. Everybody's crazy,

648
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 2: let it break. And I think what we're trying to

649
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 2: build is just a place for people to understand that

650
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: you can grow, you can laugh, you can be yourself,

651
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: you can be authentic, you can put creative in the

652
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 2: world for communities that are not represented, and you can

653
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 2: still just be human. Like none of this matters without people, period,

654
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 2: Like this show doesn't exist without your viewers hitting us

655
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 2: and you know watching I think everything is bigger than

656
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 2: just two people, you know what I mean. And I

657
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: think a lot of times people don't operate from that place.

658
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 2: So I think everything we're touching is intentional. That we

659
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 2: want impact. We want to see women thrive and grow.

660
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 2: We want to see people realize that they're not alone,

661
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 2: and we want to support other women like you and

662
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 2: other women around us doing great things because it's rare.

663
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: I think we act like this is normal. This is

664
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: not normal.

665
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: None of it's normal.

666
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 3: None of it's normal what we're doing.

667
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 2: None of it is normal. And I think a lot

668
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 2: of times a lot of women like dim themselves. But

669
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 2: I said, I said to Savannah an other day, I'm like,

670
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:55,239
Speaker 2: this is big, and it's okay to be big, you know,

671
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 2: And I think both of us have been not okay

672
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 2: to be big.

673
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we talk about that too here sometimes like main

674
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: character energy, yeah, right, Like you know I have friends

675
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: who are in they might do glam or they do

676
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: your supportive roles. Yes, so you play the role and

677
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,479
Speaker 1: sometimes you know it's a struggle to pop out of

678
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: a supportive role. Yeah, I mean you have and you

679
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: have one to pop out of a supportive role and

680
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: jump into main character energy. You know what I'm saying.

681
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: I wonder for you guys if there's if that feels natural.

682
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: The last year being in fear, what do you mean,

683
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: like in fear about everything we're working on? What I'd

684
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: be like, what the fuck? To men like girl, we

685
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: can do it.

686
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're the we could do it. I would

687
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: think she would be that we could do it, So

688
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: we can do it all the time. We can do that.

689
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, whoa, that's always say what my body what,

690
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 2: don't worry about it. We gonna do it, Like what

691
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 2: this is all day? We can do it.

692
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 3: And I'm always.

693
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: Like, huh oh.

694
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 3: It took me so long to wrap my head around it.

695
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: Like you feel are you feeling? Do you feel main character?

696
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: And that you feels out?

697
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 4: Now?

698
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 3: I feel ready?

699
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: You know what?

700
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 3: I feel like, We're ready?

701
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: What about you? I agree? Was there a transition for

702
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: you though?

703
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 3: Like huge?

704
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me about transition a little bit.

705
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 3: The biggest transition came to me when my daughter says

706
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 3: she wanted to be like me? What like why? But

707
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 3: she said it when she was.

708
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: Like six, and she's like, I'm like, why do you

709
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: want to be like me?

710
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 2: She's like, because you dance and you dressed and you

711
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 2: do your makeup and all things that are feeling to

712
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: a six year old. It just it scared me. And

713
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm like, I having the boys and being a mom

714
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,239
Speaker 2: and in that role and killing it in the way

715
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: that I did, I was okay, well your mom shite period.

716
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 2: And then when I had a daughter, I had to

717
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 2: show up differently, like she's watching me. The boys ain't care,

718
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: they like want to play basketball and whatever, but it's

719
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 2: really somebody that's sitting there watching every move that I make,

720
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 2: and what in my going to do to show her

721
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 2: that she's worthy of whatever she wants to do?

722
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 1: So is that your mova when you get uncomfortable, when

723
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: you get uncomfortable hopping into main character energy.

724
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 2: Like yes, yeah, at the end of the day, I'm like,

725
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 2: it's not about me, even though it is about me

726
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 2: as well, because I think it's it's therapy for me

727
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: as well.

728
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: But it's it's fine. What has surprised you about that

729
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: transition is anything?

730
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 3: It's actually not that bad.

731
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: It's not It's really not that bad. No.

732
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 3: I think I was more so worried.

733
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 2: That I'm starting to see the beauty and making a

734
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 2: mistake and learning from it as opposed to making a

735
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 2: mistake and being judged for it. So I think that

736
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: that's all that. Yeah, just to be like fuck it.

737
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: If it happened and it go wrong, then okay.

738
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: What did you learn? Did you learn them?

739
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 5: All?

740
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: Right? Keep it moving? Yeah? Yeah, because growth comes from

741
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: the fuck ups? Yeah, big time. How are you gonna

742
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: fuck up? If you're so worried about sucking up in

743
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,959
Speaker 1: front of everybody and then you're like stuck. I'm sucking

744
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: up all the time. I'm like, oh, fucks up? Can

745
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: I keep it moving? I fuck up regularly. Yeah, I

746
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 1: hate it still. Yeah it's never get easy, but it

747
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: never gets easy.

748
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 2: But I feel like just embracing that is not going

749
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: to be exactly how you envisioned.

750
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, and going with the flow. Tell me a time,

751
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: each of you tell me a time were the other

752
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: one when you were becoming friends and you realize this

753
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: this she's a real one, Like tell me a time

754
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 1: when you had to show up or actually, you tell

755
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: me a time Savannah showed up for you in a

756
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,240
Speaker 1: way that was meaningful.

757
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: To a lot on the phone, which people just we

758
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: don't see each other a lot, like people are like,

759
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: how often do y'all hang out?

760
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 3: We were like, I like to work, I get to business.

761
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 2: So I mean we talk FaceTime a lot and we

762
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: catch up a lot.

763
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: On the phone.

764
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 2: And I think that that became like a security blanket

765
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 2: for me that I didn't realize I needed. So like

766
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 2: just being able to call invent or say something about

767
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 2: my job or work or parenting. It was like I

768
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 2: was like, oh, it's like being in like a little bootleg.

769
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: Partnership, you know what.

770
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: I mean, and she always was with the shit. I'm like,

771
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 3: do you want to go to Paris?

772
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

773
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, let's go to Paris. Do you want to

774
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 3: go to Bla, Yeah, come on, let's go.

775
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. She do anything, like we could go anywhere.

776
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 3: So yeah, So it was like limitless.

777
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: I think that that's when I started to realize that,

778
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 2: like all a lot was more possible than I really believe.

779
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 2: So I think it was consistently over time, and then

780
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: like two years ago. I've always felt like she knew me.

781
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: But two years ago I went through a breakup and

782
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 2: I was like at my office and I was sad,

783
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: and she just came to the office and I was like,

784
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 2: what are you?

785
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 3: She like never leaves her house, what are you doing here?

786
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: Can give me a huck?

787
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: And I just was sappy and crying and amazing, and

788
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: it felt so good to just like not say what

789
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: I needed, but someone just knowing. And I feel like

790
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 2: I slowly had that over the seventeen years we've been friends.

791
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 2: And then in that moment, I was like, Oh, she's

792
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 2: just showing up because she knows that this is like

793
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 2: hard and she and I was like, you just came

794
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 2: here now, I'm leaving.

795
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: What were you worried about her? Yeah? Yeah, it was

796
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 1: a hard it was a hard time breakup suck. Yeah,

797
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: And you said, I'm gonna get in the car, i'mna

798
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: drive over there.

799
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 2: I brought her lunch on my way.

800
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: What about what about the time she showed up for you?

801
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: You got one of those?

802
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 2: Mmm, It's been so many times I think she shows

803
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 2: up for me. It's not necessarily crisis mode. It's just

804
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 2: her Like she has a way with words that is

805
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 2: like did you like study? Like how did you come?

806
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 2: How did you put that together? Like that, just in

807
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 2: a way that anything is happening. And I feel like

808
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 2: with any situation, I can go to her and she's

809
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: going to get me exactly what I need at that time,

810
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: just talking to me.

811
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: And she doesn't get fired up. I get fired up.

812
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 3: I'm like, and you say it, and you gonna say this,

813
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 3: and you're gonna do that.

814
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, ah, wait a minute, brother, I could

815
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: record and I record and tell and say that and

816
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 2: do that because she she's like, doesn't get upset.

817
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 1: There's so many instances.

818
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 2: I think sometimes you meet people in life that are

819
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: like soulmates, and I think people don't realize you can

820
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 2: have soulmate friends. I have too, and they both have

821
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 2: come later in life, which has been surprising. And I

822
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 2: think soul maate is so attributed to a man a

823
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: lot of times, Yah, it's not attributed to friendships and

824
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: like some because I feel like people a lot of

825
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: times don't value friendship like they're like, oh, I could

826
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 2: people be inclined to get rid of the man before

827
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 2: or get rid of a friend and stay with somebody

828
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 2: that they shouldn't be with, like and never work on

829
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: the friendship. And friendships need work too, you know what

830
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,280
Speaker 2: I mean. So I think it is like a soul

831
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 2: mat connection. Like people are like you, guys are so

832
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 2: in sync. I don't think we we realize, but we're

833
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 2: in sync. But I think we don't work on that.

834
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 2: I think that's just natural and you can have that

835
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: with people. If you allow yourself to be vulnerable.

836
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: Then how do you have time either one of you?

837
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: How many kids?

838
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 4: You have?

839
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: Two kids? Two kids?

840
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 2: I make a lot of time. People make time for

841
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 2: what they want to make time for somebody. Oh, I'm

842
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 2: so busy. I'm like, what, No, you don't know busy.

843
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: We all do be busy.

844
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 2: Though you'll be busy. But I think you see who

845
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 2: you want to see when you want to see it.

846
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: I'll be doing the ship I wanted to do. I

847
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: do because by the way I started golfing, I really

848
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: wish you would go. Do you hate it because your

849
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: husband golfs? Do you hate it because your husband golfs?

850
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: You try?

851
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 3: I think it's.

852
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: When I saw that he started golfing, I was like,

853
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: I hope Savannah golfs too. You haven't even tried it?

854
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: Just crazy, is okay?

855
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 2: I've been a top golf not the same, but I

856
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: really can hit them all. Like I feel like that's part.

857
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: Of it because you're athletic, right, you get you know,

858
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: but no golf. But you don't see what do you

859
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 1: mean it's the greatest port ever.

860
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 3: For six months, I'm obsessed.

861
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: No, I love it. I could go so slow. People like,

862
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 1: how do you find the time? I was like, no,

863
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: I fucking find the time, Manna, I don't have it.

864
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 1: And that's what I find.

865
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 3: That's a crazy amount of time.

866
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 1: Okay, what I find it early? That's what I mean.

867
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: I do it from seven to ten if I have

868
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: to or whatever, and I get it in you know,

869
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: not all the time, but a couple of times a

870
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: week I go what, No, I golf?

871
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 6: That's crazy, I know, are you okay, I'm crazy. I'm

872
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 6: like okay, but I love it though, like all my

873
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:44,479
Speaker 6: guy friends.

874
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 2: And now please go try one time with your husband.

875
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 2: And he loves it so much, like I so much.

876
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 2: But he liked to go to seven am t times.

877
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: That's not mine.

878
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: You're not gonna do it because you don't. You're not

879
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: even it doesn't even make you interested, Like what is

880
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: this new thing that he loves so much and you

881
00:40:59,360 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: don't care?

882
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 3: You like, go ahead, No, my dad played golf my

883
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: whole life growing up.

884
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 1: I've never been with him.

885
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:11,959
Speaker 2: Oh he's taking it up. My son's played like my daughter.

886
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 1: Your daughter's into it. Now, it's still nothing. They like,

887
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: you can come drive the car. What fun is that?

888
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 2: For me?

889
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: That's not fun. No, that's not fun. I gotta be

890
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: the DJ and drive the car.

891
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 3: Maybe one day, give it a try.

892
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: So what is your thing? Because the thing for golf

893
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: for me was like, I don't know, It's like I

894
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: never really had a hobby. I worked so much all

895
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: the time, and then I had, you know, then then

896
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: I was a mom and it was like I didn't

897
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 1: have a thing that was just because I love to

898
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: do it. It's a real thing to add that to

899
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: your life. I don't know. I just wonder if you

900
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 1: guys have found anything that's that for you. Some people

901
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: are some people what is your thing? What I mean?

902
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 2: I do a lot of like mental and body work.

903
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 2: Like I'm with all the all the all the ships.

904
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 3: There talking about that's doing a medicine journey.

905
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 2: I'm going on going to Hoffman doing all the like

906
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:11,359
Speaker 2: unconventional things retreats, a body retreat in Rome, Like I'm

907
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 2: just doing all the things like that, like out of

908
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 2: the box. I don't watch TV, I don't watch movies.

909
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: Like I like a lot of quiet time with myself.

910
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 2: So I mean, I feel like just making sure my

911
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: body feels good so that my mental remains strong is

912
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 2: really important. And I do really enjoy being around friends.

913
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 2: So I'm always curating some a karaoke night, a night

914
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: in the studio, doing this, doing that, Like I love

915
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 2: a little something like that is out of the box,

916
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: going to the museum, things that we don't traditionally do.

917
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 2: I'm always curating something. I'm like, hey, let's go to

918
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 2: the cash go Bain show at Blue Note, Let's go here,

919
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: let's do that.

920
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 3: Like I'm always.

921
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: Doing little things and the arts is really important for me,

922
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: like being in the art space, volunteering, supporting, like giving back,

923
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: Like so that is important for me.

924
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: What you're doing, Savannah, what you're doing for fun, Phillia Soul.

925
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: I like the gone walk.

926
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 3: Every like a poet, like a long walk around l A.

927
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: I like to do pilates. You doing those like, uh,

928
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: you know those walks, those hikes, those can o No,

929
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: just walk four miles four miles.

930
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: I like pilates. I also enjoy body work. I like

931
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: all things health and wellness. But I like pottery too.

932
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 2: If I had the space, pottery, If I had the space,

933
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 2: I would have a pottery studio.

934
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 1: Like what like what are you making? Though?

935
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 2: Like I would to make everything so right now, I

936
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 2: know how to make a bowl in a mug, but

937
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: I got I could make you a bowl in a

938
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: mug handle?

939
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: No nice, nice, Yeah, I gotta see. I'll send it

940
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: to you, all right, A bowl the bug? What do

941
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: you what is the dream?

942
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,320
Speaker 2: What is the I just want to make that for

943
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 2: for He was like like myself, and then what is it?

944
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: What is the thing. Why do you like it?

945
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 2: Like it's relaxing. It's very like, yeah, kind of got

946
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 2: to lock in to do it.

947
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: It's probably a similar thing because I always say with golf,

948
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: it's like I'm not multi It's the one thing, the

949
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: only thing I do where I'm not multitasking. You can't

950
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: be golfing and on the phone or or on the whatever.

951
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,479
Speaker 1: It's like, this is I'm trying to hit this ball.

952
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear nobody talking. But it's also quiet.

953
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: It's quiet your feet in the grass, you're touching. You

954
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's nice. I'm like low key

955
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: trying to recruit y'all. But you.

956
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 3: Will comes support, you know.

957
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 1: I've been trying to people. And then I thought maybe

958
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: because Lebron was golfing. He looks like he really loves it,

959
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: like he got the bug bad, right? Is in it? Yeah?

960
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 1: In it? He just came from Scotland.

961
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, crazy golf course in Scotland.

962
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: Is he getting better any better? Yeah? It looks a

963
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,280
Speaker 1: little better on the the swing looks a little bits

964
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: coming along. Yeah, okay, is crazy. He has like a

965
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: golf like pet, like specific golf piece. Shut the Hell up,

966
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: I need that. That's what I need. Yeah, I'm not

967
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: need a golf The fact that I know that his

968
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: swing has gotten better.

969
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 3: How would you know that?

970
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 1: Because I golf, so I could tell there's a thing.

971
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 1: There's as How good are you? No, I'm not good

972
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: at all, but I I mean I'm good for somebody

973
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: who's only been golfing for a little less than four years, right,

974
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: and so people have been golfing their whole life. Yeah,

975
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: so if somebody who's been golfing three or four years,

976
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good. But I'm not going pro every in

977
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: my life.

978
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 3: So are people going pro?

979
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 2: No?

980
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm just saying you're never going to be that good.

981
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 1: You're always going to be like you know, it's very

982
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: interesting in men. I'm not interesting. All right, Fine, my

983
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: recruiting has failed today. Fuck me? What about motherhood?

984
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 3: You have two two two boys twenty three and sixteen?

985
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: How old were How old are you when you became one? So?

986
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 2: I was my oldest is my stepson I adopted and

987
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 2: he was ten My youngest I had when I was

988
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 2: twenty nine.

989
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: But are you ready to grow? Grown? Yeah?

990
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: And then but still changes, everything changes everything. Yeah, And

991
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 2: I just think you constantly evolve. Like, I think raising

992
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 2: kids and giving them a life that you didn't have

993
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 2: comes with pluses and minuses, you know, Like I'm just

994
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 2: I think that has been the hardest thing for me

995
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: at this age, like not not trying to raise entitled kids,

996
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 2: but in a lot of ways they are entitled because

997
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 2: of the life they live, Yeah, and struggling. Like there's

998
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,760
Speaker 2: something about grit that made me like who I am? Yeah,

999
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: for sure, And I think it's hard to give that

1000
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: to kids that are not in a certain type of environment.

1001
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's for anybody who's like you're raising

1002
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: anybody who's raising children who didn't grow up there's like

1003
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: no blueprint for you. No, if I grew up, if

1004
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: my kids grew up the same way I did, I

1005
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't know how my mother did it exactly. But I

1006
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: don't know how to do this. And it also, Yeah,

1007
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 1: you want to give them more, but you want them

1008
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: to work, and you want them to have accountability, and

1009
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: you want them to care about things. Your kids you

1010
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 1: can't even there's no blueprint for you at all, zero

1011
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: right through any of this. So how do you navigate that?

1012
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,360
Speaker 1: Because you grew up out like middle class.

1013
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 3: I have a siblings, but I'm the youngest by eleven years,

1014
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 3: so it's like yours mine ours stack.

1015
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: The situation.

1016
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 2: Sharing, yeah, sharing, but definitely the baby treated as the baby.

1017
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: All boys girls, two boys, two girls, and then me.

1018
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 2: But I mean, I guess for me, I had, like

1019
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 2: I said before, I had my family as my foundation,

1020
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 2: so that helped a lot being in Ohio and having

1021
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 2: them around to give me or just to help me

1022
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 2: with raising them. Yeah, I was also very young. I

1023
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 2: ain't know what that.

1024
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 1: So, but you know now, I mean you've done.

1025
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,879
Speaker 2: It for sure, for sure, and I do think there's

1026
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 2: a certain level of keeping things normal that worked for us.

1027
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 1: How could you even possibly do that?

1028
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's the way that Lebron and I

1029
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: show up in the house like we did have safety precautions,

1030
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,919
Speaker 2: like we had security and things like that, just because

1031
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 2: the world is how the world is. But other than that,

1032
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 2: we moved around like we would be.

1033
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 3: We're just normal. Like I don't really know how to explain.

1034
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 2: I think you do a good job with it, Like

1035
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 2: even with Zori, like every summer she goes back to

1036
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: Ohio with my r grandparents, and like I feel like

1037
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 2: there is a grounding that innately they have that is

1038
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:54,479
Speaker 2: a actual gift, you know, like there is a sense

1039
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 2: of normalcy and not everything is for show and not

1040
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 2: everything is like these are all the things I got

1041
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 2: and this is how it looks to the world. I

1042
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 2: think Savannah has been really good at like protecting that.

1043
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 2: And Zori is now eleven, and she has such an

1044
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 2: innocence that's so beautiful. Like I think a lot of

1045
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 2: people sometimes being in the limelight your kids can lose that,

1046
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: and she has that.

1047
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 3: Like every time I'll be.

1048
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: Like, oh my gosh, she's so cute, a little.

1049
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 2: Like still a little girl, like not growing up before

1050
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 2: her time, not trying to do all the things. She

1051
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 2: has a rule we always argue, but no cell phone.

1052
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm tea.

1053
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: I'm on the line right now. Teetering a little bit

1054
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 2: with giving it to her when she's twelve, cause she's

1055
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 2: a girl, she's the baby, so she could get it

1056
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:45,919
Speaker 2: a year.

1057
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: Thirteen solid And what is the reasoning behind that? What

1058
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:51,720
Speaker 1: is the thinking?

1059
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 2: I just feel like they're a little bit more understanding

1060
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 2: of the responsibility of having a fu.

1061
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 3: I just think thirteen is a good age.

1062
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: Was that scary for you when you when it happened.

1063
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 2: No, because they were able to get phones at thirteen,

1064
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 2: but no social media know anything like.

1065
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 1: That until fifteen fifteen. Yeah. Wow.

1066
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 2: So when Brownie first got his social we sat there

1067
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 2: and watched the like following it was crazy.

1068
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, see, this is.

1069
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 2: Why he was not ready for that two years ago. Yeah, no,

1070
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:21,240
Speaker 2: this is crazy.

1071
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 1: How did he manage it? At fifteen? He was good? Yeah,

1072
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: he was good, And I don't. I don't.

1073
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 2: He's kind of like me in that way, like it's

1074
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 2: like you can have it or not, Like it's just

1075
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 2: you know, one of those things.

1076
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 1: So I think personality wise, yeah yeah, yeah. Did what

1077
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: about like the fame part of it? How do you

1078
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: navigate that, like especially with the kids too, and keeping

1079
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 1: them normal because fame is a weird thing. I mean

1080
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: you were young coming in and it's weird. Your experience

1081
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: of fame, I'd imagine it's different than it's like you

1082
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: didn't choose that. It's not like you, like I want

1083
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 1: to go be an actress, so I want to like

1084
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: you just living in your your life and then fame

1085
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: is put on put on you. Yeah, was it ever

1086
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: any struggles with that or navigating that?

1087
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 2: I guess navigating it just to figure out how I

1088
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 2: wanted to like what my version of fame is.

1089
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 3: Was a process.

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00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:16,839
Speaker 1: I don't.

1091
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest. I think us starting in Ohio

1092
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 2: was a blessing because I really feel like that is

1093
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 2: what kept us super rounded in.

1094
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 3: I don't even know. I don't even know even Miami.

1095
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 2: Miami was different, like that was the first time that

1096
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 2: either one of us had left home.

1097
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,399
Speaker 1: That was an experience I could imagine Miami, I know,

1098
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:48,720
Speaker 1: going on here. But yeah, but you know how stayed

1099
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: in toast Does that make you closer when you're like.

1100
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 2: For sure like being able to go to I mean

1101
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 2: the markets that we are in the market that we're

1102
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: in now, in the market that we were in in Miami,

1103
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 2: it's like if you don't have each other and standing

1104
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 2: like together through this, like it's going.

1105
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: To go to shit, Like this is not gonna be good.

1106
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, So we did come closer in that time just

1107
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 2: because we knew what it was.

1108
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: It's too much attention or too much.

1109
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 2: I think it was all the things, all the things

1110
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:21,240
Speaker 2: so much more access. I mean, we were in Cleveland,

1111
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 2: like much going on in Cleveland. I love, I love

1112
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 2: where I'm from I'm from Accro, But you know, it's

1113
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 2: just slow and it's it's you know, manageable.

1114
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not that Miami is not so much.

1115
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 2: No, so everywhere, it's everywhere, every every corner you turn.

1116
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 2: So being able to be grounded in our home and

1117
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 2: then in our relationship definitely helped. Yeah. But I think

1118
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 2: for me, Miami is there was a transition that happened

1119
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 2: to me in Miami personally, So I appreciate Miami for

1120
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 2: what it had to offer for me during that time.

1121
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: Do you mean like young when you say transition.

1122
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 2: Like going from I believe like a young girl to

1123
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 2: like a young like a young woman to a woman

1124
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: in Miami.

1125
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: Were you Grays friends at that point? Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're.

1126
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 2: Already Yeah, yeah, that was I got married there, ye

1127
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,879
Speaker 2: proposed to there in Miami. Well, I didn't get married

1128
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 2: in Miami, but like we were living in Miami when

1129
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,760
Speaker 2: we got married, got it. So I think those those

1130
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 2: transitions like helped. So it's just always kind of a

1131
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 2: special place for me.

1132
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: Can you tell me because told me the story of

1133
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: the reader, Can you tell me the story why was

1134
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: he involved or at your engagement so involved in your engagement.

1135
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: I mean always the thing is happening by happenstance, he

1136
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: was involved. Tell me, tell me about this engagement and

1137
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 1: why was there.

1138
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 2: So we were at a New Year's Eve party at

1139
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 2: the Shelbourne or the Short Clubs, one of them, one

1140
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 2: of them hotels in Miami, and it was like this

1141
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: whole thing. I was getting dressed with Gabrielle that day

1142
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 2: and I wanted to wear this black dress and this

1143
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 2: hot pink lipstick, and Cab is like, I don't think

1144
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 2: you should wear that lipstick. And I'm like, girl, I've

1145
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 2: been looking at this lipstick.

1146
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 1: I'm wearing this liftick. So she's like, okay, knowing yes,

1147
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: she knew yes. So we're at the party.

1148
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 3: Countdown happened, a girl's girl, come the countdown happens.

1149
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: Happy New Year. We come back.

1150
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,919
Speaker 2: I'm on my phone texting like all my people Happy

1151
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 2: New Year or whatever, and Lebron is behind me, tapping

1152
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 2: me on my shoulder, like just tapping. I'm like, hold up,

1153
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 2: So somebody on this side of me, because like now

1154
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 2: it's like a like a crowd. So somebody says, Savannah,

1155
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 2: turn around, and I turned around and he was on

1156
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 2: his be Oh my god, mind you Miami was it was.

1157
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: It was a time. So in that instance, I was like,

1158
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:51,479
Speaker 1: oh my god.

1159
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 2: So I just busted out crying and he did his

1160
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 2: speech and put the bring on and I say yes,

1161
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:58,720
Speaker 2: and he like, okay, go get yourself together because.

1162
00:54:58,520 --> 00:54:59,280
Speaker 1: You're looking crazy.

1163
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 3: I was all.

1164
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: The pink. It was awful.

1165
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 3: I wish I never would have Warren that lipstick. I

1166
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:05,799
Speaker 3: should have listened to Gap.

1167
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 2: But I go in the bathroom and the doors are closed,

1168
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 2: like locked. So I'm like, they're like knocking, like can

1169
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 2: we please get in here?

1170
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: Please get in here? And Joe opened up the door

1171
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: like oh oh oh.

1172
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,240
Speaker 2: Because I'm balling like he don't know what to say,

1173
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 2: so they're like, oh, she just got proposed to.

1174
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: So he's like, oh, okay, you can come in. I'm sorry, congratulations.

1175
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: Does he know who you are or maybe you know?

1176
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 2: But he was just like because I'm like, I look

1177
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 2: like something had happened something.

1178
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: Oh wait, is this like a public party, like in

1179
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: a club like mad People? It was here. It was

1180
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: a curated party, public but public. He thought this was

1181
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,879
Speaker 1: a good this was a good time. He thought, at

1182
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: this public function, this is where I'm gonna do it.

1183
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: This, this is all these years, because you have been together

1184
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 1: years at that point, right, ten years already, and he thought,

1185
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: right now, this club in Miami with this pink lipstick on,

1186
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:10,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get on his knee. So you had no idea, zero,

1187
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: no idea. Whoa, but you know what's gonna happen. Usually

1188
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: when you get engaged, you kind of know it. You

1189
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 1: didn't know.

1190
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 3: I didn't know. I had no idea. Really, yeah, you got.

1191
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 1: Me and then there was fed Joe in the bathroom

1192
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 1: and you were crying, balling.

1193
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,399
Speaker 3: He looked at me, like the hell, like the going

1194
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 3: over here like she just got engaged.

1195
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: You're like, oh oh oh, congratulations. And you had already

1196
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: had two of them already, you already had two kids.

1197
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: So what did that? What does that transition feel like

1198
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: in that moment, like this marriage changed anything? Or I

1199
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: don't think so. Really you already committed in like a

1200
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: family unit. Yeah.

1201
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the only thing that happened is I said

1202
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 2: I wasn't having no more kids until we got married.

1203
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: It was it? Do you put that all down? That

1204
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: was it? Yeah? The milk you bought the milk already.

1205
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it to get.

1206
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:09,720
Speaker 1: That that's amazing. Shout out to Joe that picture.

1207
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm glad he does not have. That was crazy. How

1208
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: the Gab know in advance the whole plan.

1209
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: Lebron has spoken to d D Toe Gab.

1210
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 2: Gab was like my liaison for today, so I kind

1211
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 2: of hung with her all day. The guys had some

1212
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 2: kind of meeting or something practice or something, so I

1213
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 2: was basically with her shopping and doing all the things

1214
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 2: and got to the hotel to get time.

1215
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 1: It was so fun. Mimi was it seems like from

1216
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: the outside, you guys had like a I don't know,

1217
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 1: it was Gab and Adrian Adrian and I don't know.

1218
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: It feels like a good wife crew. It was a

1219
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: good wife girl.

1220
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 2: Very different from my experience that I had had before that,

1221
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 2: very different.

1222
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 1: And I'm sure there's a unique way and that you

1223
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: guys have to show up for each other that only

1224
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:00,080
Speaker 1: you guys.

1225
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 2: Understand for sure. Yeah, those girls are great. That was

1226
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 2: that was a part of that transition as well.

1227
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you keep those friendships, the friendships.

1228
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: Like that not as close knit just because I mean,

1229
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 2: we didn't have a choice then, but we still definitely chat.

1230
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 2: But life at YEP and everybody's in different places now.

1231
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm sure those bonds are forever, Yeah, forever.

1232
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: What a time? All right, we have a couple segments

1233
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 1: we gotta do. We're gonna do our little secretions of

1234
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: voice note and then like the bowl. And so when

1235
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: you guys do your podcast, do you do like a

1236
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: whole bunch of like prep or do you guys just

1237
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: get in the chair. So we're evolving. No prep. You

1238
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: don't have cards when you do your pod? No, no,

1239
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 1: we had we try cards.

1240
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 2: One time we tried cards on the Boyfriend episode and

1241
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 2: it didn't works.

1242
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: Savannah was like, you did not read your cards.

1243
00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I was just weird and I was nervous.

1244
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 3: No, we're we're prepping now because.

1245
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: We always what was the boyfriend episode?

1246
00:58:55,400 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: We did Phantom Kay Sinnett, Lebron and Taco. It was

1247
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 2: so great. I think again another we're gonna do another one.

1248
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 2: But I think just being able to hear from guys

1249
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 2: in their perspective around like dating and like how people

1250
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 2: see things. It's so wild, like when you really sit

1251
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 2: down and talk about it, it's just so many different perspectives.

1252
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 3: And we wanted guys from different age groups.

1253
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 2: So like Kai was on the younger side, Phantom younger side,

1254
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 2: Taco is in his thirties, Lebron obviously forty like so

1255
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 2: it was a lot of different perspectives, Like the younger

1256
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 2: guys talked more about dating, but also being in relationships.

1257
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 2: What you expect in partnership, how people view partnership like

1258
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 2: also wild.

1259
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 3: Interesting the evolution of partnership.

1260
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 1: Like sometimes pods though, too, they challenge you to talk

1261
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: about things that what didn't normally talk about, even with

1262
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: like your friends. Sometimes other people watch something and she'd

1263
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: be like I didn't know. Yes, Like she'll watch my

1264
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,439
Speaker 1: pot and she'll hear me talk about something and be like, yes,

1265
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: I didn't know that happened. I'm like, yeah, yeah, what

1266
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: do you mean? Yeah? I wondered, like, if you're interviewing

1267
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: your husband, does he say something that you're like absolutely

1268
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 1: like running back? Yeah, I was like, you say, what

1269
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: did he say on the pod? That's surprised you? What's

1270
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 1: the feel? I mean, it's a clip now that's.

1271
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 2: Going here going viral about him saying where he is

1272
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 2: now at forty, he couldn't have a significant other that

1273
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 2: when he came home was on the couch and I'm like, yeah,

1274
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:45,720
Speaker 2: I think that that was also news to me. Yeah,

1275
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 2: but also on the couch is not they clipped it up.

1276
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 3: That's the thing about like.

1277
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 2: He was talking about evolving and where where you are

1278
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: in life, but like what does that even mean if

1279
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 2: someone's a mom, No one is on the couch. But

1280
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 2: also then that's the thing, that's how they took it,

1281
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 2: like Y's not working, Yeah, not working, not doing anything.

1282
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 2: But it's so crazy, like the opinions, and I don't

1283
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:15,959
Speaker 2: I'm again don't pay a lot of things in his mind.

1284
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:17,919
Speaker 1: So like she was like, did you see the e clip?

1285
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 1: I looked at it.

1286
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 2: I was like, and then the comments are crazy and

1287
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 2: it's so interesting, like we're just sitting around and doing shit,

1288
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:26,919
Speaker 2: Like are you out of your fucking mind? Like that's

1289
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 2: the thing like, because somebody may be more reserved, is

1290
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 2: perceived as you're not doing anything, which is crazy to

1291
01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 2: me because the people that are showing everything a lot

1292
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 2: of times we're not doing.

1293
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 1: What he MEANU, I didn't see the whole clip, but

1294
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: did you mean like lazy somebody who was lazy or

1295
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 1: somebody basically I mean he's up super early, like he

1296
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,919
Speaker 1: well his work ethic is next level and I can't

1297
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 1: even unmatched.

1298
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 3: Yes, sir, but again it's he.

1299
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: Has to be inspiring to wayes even somebody work with

1300
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: him or even as his wife, like watching somebody's work

1301
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 1: ethics very much so, but never get that before the

1302
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: sun comes up, You're not doing that. You're not that

1303
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 1: inspired me.

1304
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 2: I'm up at the crack of dawn. Like minute, I

1305
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 2: love the morning, love love. She like, I admire it.

1306
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 2: I think it's amazing. You get a lot done, you

1307
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 2: use all of your hours.

1308
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great.

1309
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 2: She's like, don't call me, I'll be right here, Yes,

1310
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 2: right here, don't call me, but also doesn't feel bad

1311
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 2: about that, like she lives in her truth and you

1312
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 2: can live in your truth.

1313
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.

1314
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: But I think with this social media makes it everything

1315
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 2: perceived in a certain type of way and allows you

1316
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 2: to perceive it how you wanted to be able to

1317
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 2: make your own notion about it.

1318
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it's.

1319
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 3: A lot of misconceptions about stay at home mom's.

1320
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 1: Hey, guys, you ever sign up for a phone plan

1321
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 1: thinking wow, what a great price, and then a few

1322
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 1: months later it's like, surprise, your bill is higher. We

1323
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:49,320
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Speaker 1: is now a legit nationwide five G network. They invested

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Speaker 1: billions building five G towers across the country. So what

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01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: you need to do is visit boostmobile dot com or

1330
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: head to your local booths store today and get unlimited talk, text,

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01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 1: dollars a month as long as they remain active on

1335
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 1: the boost Unlimited plan. All right, are we ready for

1336
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 1: a voice note? This is our voice note section. Somebody

1337
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: said a question. I don't know if it's for one

1338
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: of you or both of you, or it's presented by

1339
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 1: boost Mobile, and let's have it.

1340
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 4: Hi, Savannah and April. My question for y'all is when

1341
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 4: do you tell your homegirl that you saw her man

1342
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 4: without her outside.

1343
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: She's been dating this guy for like.

1344
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 4: Over a year, and I went to dinner and I

1345
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 4: saw him on what could have been a double date.

1346
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 4: It was him, another guy and two women. I literally

1347
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 4: was walking by and saw them. Now, I don't like

1348
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 4: to give myself a mess. So do you think I

1349
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 4: should tell her or just kind of let the universe

1350
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 4: figure it out.

1351
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: I have this, I have an answer to this question also,

1352
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: But I'm curious to what you guys, what I know?

1353
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: I have this conversation with friends. This is a debate.

1354
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 2: Actually you're getting this a video a snap before I

1355
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 2: leave the run, and I'm liable to walk to the table.

1356
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say, use me, sir, are you okay?

1357
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 2: I'm not going to address it because you know, I'm

1358
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 2: gonna tell my friend. You know I'm gonna tell my friend.

1359
01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna roll up on you, like, hey, how

1360
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 2: you doing?

1361
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 1: Hey guys, are y'all okay? Good to see you?

1362
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 3: Very nice and pleasant, the smilest a little bit more annoyed.

1363
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 3: But you're in front maybe like are you serious?

1364
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:47,960
Speaker 1: What's happening? Are you okay? Yeah?

1365
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 3: Are you see?

1366
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 2: That's the difference between having no associates. I got all

1367
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 2: the same.

1368
01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 3: Level of friends.

1369
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 2: We rided what is you doing? Sir, this is messy. Yeah,

1370
01:04:58,560 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 2: what's happening?

1371
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 1: She You're gonna cook.

1372
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:06,919
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna double date.

1373
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,440
Speaker 1: This is interesting because I've had this conversation with my

1374
01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 1: little crew of girls, and most of us feel the

1375
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: same way. It's two or three, then there's one of us,

1376
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: and it drives me nuts because we get into this argument.

1377
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: But she's like, her experience is that nine times out

1378
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: of ten say they're gonna stay. And now you're the

1379
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 1: friend who done inserted yourself into a problem in your

1380
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: friend's situation. Or the other part of it is that

1381
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 1: sometimes the friend knows what who she's with, and so

1382
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 1: as a friend, why are you going? You know what

1383
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So she feels like that, so she might

1384
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 1: minds her business. She doesn't say it couldn't be my friend.

1385
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: She couldn't be your friend. You say that she cut

1386
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: her off. She's really good, and many other ways.

1387
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 3: It's very nice. It's good for you, I'm very happy

1388
01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 3: for you.

1389
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm good my friend. No, I'm not seeing how to

1390
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 1: cut her off. It's good for you.

1391
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 3: It does not work for me.

1392
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 6: Here.

1393
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 2: You see some stuff there it's not kosher, and you

1394
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 2: don't feel to say something and that is where her

1395
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 2: her her feeling comes from, her feeling like she's going

1396
01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:16,360
Speaker 2: to be excluded if she gives her honest opinion.

1397
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 3: Y'all not friends. That's how I feel, like what I

1398
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 3: saw your.

1399
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 2: Man out like, no, I'm sorry, I just I feel

1400
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 2: convicted about it because I think that's crazy that you know,

1401
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 2: and what if one.

1402
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: Day we're out from the restaurant.

1403
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:35,760
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm texting, like the fuck and then I'm

1404
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 2: saying something. Then I'm walking out the restaurant like bitch.

1405
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 2: I went up to the table. I told that, like,

1406
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,720
Speaker 2: I'm running it down. I'm the last person you want

1407
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 2: to see. So you are not confrontational though I'm not

1408
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 2: gonna roll up and make a scene. He's calling you, and.

1409
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 1: She's calling the friend the restaurant, immediate.

1410
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 2: Text whatever it is. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna we were

1411
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 2: about that life.

1412
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: I love that for you.

1413
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel like that is the right way

1414
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 2: to be with friends, Like why not disclosed?

1415
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 3: I agree, well, and it's okay if you stay.

1416
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 1: No, No, I agree, But I do think I'm a

1417
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 1: little different that. I do think there are levels of

1418
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: friends because I have a lot of people that I know,

1419
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 1: you know, what I'm saying. I know y'all, but we're not. Yeah. No,

1420
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: you have either all the way friends or we're all nothing.

1421
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 3: You know everything about me, or you'll know nothing.

1422
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:32,920
Speaker 1: Got it?

1423
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:38,200
Speaker 2: Like I'm good, there's no no how can you show

1424
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 2: up half yourself.

1425
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 1: It's like that you just meet people along the way

1426
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: and you really like them and you you have a

1427
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: rappoort and you see them and it's cool and you've

1428
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 1: hung out a few times. And I'm not telling that

1429
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 1: person about her business with her man and nothing.

1430
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 2: I'm not hanging out a few times with nobody. I

1431
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 2: don't really kind of know you're not hanging out of.

1432
01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 3: I'll be like, what's.

1433
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 2: Happening over there? I'm not coming. I don't want to

1434
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 2: be there, Like I'm just not doing it. It's no

1435
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 2: in between for me.

1436
01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 1: I don't believe you. There's no way ask.

1437
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 3: Her believe, please believe, please really believe it.

1438
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 1: No middle, no acquaintances people, just.

1439
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 2: Because it's just also like I'm not for everybody, just

1440
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 2: like you're not supposed to be for everybody. Everybody's not

1441
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 2: for everybody. Everybody doesn't have to like you. So like

1442
01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 2: I'm not going to censor myself in a situation where

1443
01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 2: and I see a.

1444
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 3: Lot, I'm around a lot, I'm privy to a lot.

1445
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: I'm a volt.

1446
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 2: So I need to be in a place where I

1447
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:38,839
Speaker 2: feel like I can actually have real conversation that feeds

1448
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 2: me and I feed you, and I can be my

1449
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 2: real self. I don't want to be somewhere guessing. If

1450
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 2: I could say this, and now you talk about you

1451
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 2: don't text it, your friend, your friend coming back, girl, goodbye.

1452
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 2: I ain't got no time for me. I just I'm

1453
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 2: too busy. So like censoring myself in certain rooms, if

1454
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 2: I'm not talking, that means I don't know nobody there,

1455
01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 2: and I'm good.

1456
01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm not the same. I'm not that harsh.

1457
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,799
Speaker 2: I allow, like if a connection is meant to happen,

1458
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 2: I allowed that. He was like, I've recently made really

1459
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 2: great friends, really just because I was a little more

1460
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 2: open open.

1461
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:17,759
Speaker 1: She's jolly well, she also was so guarded for so long. Yes,

1462
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 1: so now you probably trust yourself a little bit more, right,

1463
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:23,639
Speaker 1: a lot more. Yeah. So they're red flags for people

1464
01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 1: who we need to not let in the circle. Because

1465
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 1: we talked about red flags with dating or relationships, Yes,

1466
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: but what about friend red flags? Are their friendship red

1467
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:33,799
Speaker 1: red flags.

1468
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:36,560
Speaker 2: I think you can engage with people that are like fans.

1469
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:41,360
Speaker 2: Oh I can't stand it. Oh my god, I'm no,

1470
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, oh I.

1471
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 1: Can't even So another red flag for you would be

1472
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,280
Speaker 1: like if they feel like they wouldn't tell you if

1473
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: they saw your man, that would be a flag for you.

1474
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, that's a character flag to me.

1475
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 1: Interesting.

1476
01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 2: That's like going back to transparency on radical honesty. Are

1477
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 2: you d honest or do you want to hold some

1478
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 2: of the information. The most eloquent way of lying is

1479
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:10,679
Speaker 2: not saying anything when people be like, oh, I ain't

1480
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 2: say nothing, Okay, I was sitting there the whole time

1481
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 2: at the dinner table knowing this man's in a relationship.

1482
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: Like I just think that that is formal. Ok. It's

1483
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,639
Speaker 1: so interesting. You made me think about myself now because

1484
01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: I be minding my business. Sometimes I mind my business too,

1485
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 1: but don't let me hear you know with my friends,

1486
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: I mind my business because I'm gonna see you through

1487
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: this and I'll wait till you get to the other side.

1488
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:34,679
Speaker 1: But it's like a level of how much I want

1489
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 1: to interject with what I think I saw, what I saw,

1490
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 1: what I feel about what I saw.

1491
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 2: When you know all that already, I feel like it

1492
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 2: just is Yeah, I don't think it's inserting yourself. You

1493
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 2: can still support your friend and be like, listen, I

1494
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 2: don't like how this made you feel, but I'm gonna

1495
01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 2: support you. I feel like I can talk like that.

1496
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 1: I'm not like judge on it.

1497
01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 2: But when it starts going over the line. We were

1498
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 2: talking about this yesterday. I was like, if you were

1499
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 2: walking down the street in the car last night at

1500
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:04,360
Speaker 2: eleven o'clock.

1501
01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:04,799
Speaker 1: That's what I asked.

1502
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:08,840
Speaker 2: Quiz Yes, she gave you a quizit, yes, yes, test

1503
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 2: my morals. I said, I'm sleepy and we're driving down

1504
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 2: the street and we saw a lady getting beat up.

1505
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 1: What would you do? Right?

1506
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 2: And so she was like what I was like, if

1507
01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 2: we saw somebody beating up, what would you do?

1508
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:26,600
Speaker 3: She was like, well, I would be like.

1509
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 2: Like trying to get what if he was really beating her?

1510
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 3: She like, I'm gonna call the cops. I'm like, I

1511
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 3: don't know. I think I may have to jump in, like.

1512
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 1: You know you can't and I can't help you.

1513
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 2: But then then she gave her a video. ILL say,

1514
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:43,320
Speaker 2: all right, right, I'm ana call the cops. I'm a

1515
01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 2: corner cops. I'm gonna stay there. I ain't gonna leave

1516
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 2: her because she's getting beaten up. But to me, I

1517
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 2: think it is a morality, cause like it's it's the

1518
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 2: this or that on how you view things, and it

1519
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 2: can be multiple opinions on how people decide to show up.

1520
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,639
Speaker 2: It doesn't make them a bad person though, just different,

1521
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:03,559
Speaker 2: just different. But I know what kind of friend that want.

1522
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 1: So what were you gonna do? You're gonna stay and

1523
01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 1: fight At first, I was gonna fight. She was gonna

1524
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:13,040
Speaker 1: fight down, and nobody there to help either one of us.

1525
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:20,519
Speaker 2: Know, kill that man, that's why everybody need a friend.

1526
01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:22,759
Speaker 1: Like man, I was like, I.

1527
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 5: Was gonna kill his feeling, Well, we were gonna die,

1528
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 5: like like we.

1529
01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 1: Were like, and this is somebody that you don't even know, right,

1530
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:32,800
Speaker 1: It was just a what if in your mind, like

1531
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 1: this is a stranger street.

1532
01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 3: So she's like, we don't even know her.

1533
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 2: I was like, I know, but it's just wrong, like

1534
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 2: that man, gonna beating both for so you because now

1535
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:47,840
Speaker 2: this is where it goes, because now if she jump

1536
01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:52,400
Speaker 2: in and I gotta jump in, don't jump in.

1537
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 1: That you guys have a plan in the event plan

1538
01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:02,000
Speaker 1: don't jump in because she wants to jump in. Call

1539
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 1: the cops. Ready, We're ready. I think I would call

1540
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:10,160
Speaker 1: the cops and I would try to create some type

1541
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:10,920
Speaker 1: of diversion.

1542
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 3: Yes, it's like, yeah, maybe I would throw said.

1543
01:13:22,720 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 1: Literally said I would throw something.

1544
01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 2: But I think it's like a morality. It doesn't you

1545
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 2: know how you how would you deal with certain things?

1546
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:32,639
Speaker 1: That's a good one. What else?

1547
01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 3: I was like, girl, what she was like around the

1548
01:13:37,040 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 3: house talking about we rid in the card? But I

1549
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 3: saw somebody walk out.

1550
01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: Said what is She's the one that made you do

1551
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 1: this other quiz too that you did at the house, right, Yes, yeah,

1552
01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:46,360
Speaker 1: because I want to know.

1553
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 3: I'm curious.

1554
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 1: Hey, guys. Support for this podcast is brought to you

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Speaker 1: bowl irl questions presented by Walden University. Big a question

1568
01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 1: each one of you. The best kind of friend is

1569
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 1: someone who is patient with you. Mm hmmm, So is

1570
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 1: this bold for them? Specifically? Oh?

1571
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 3: Can I know another one?

1572
01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: Yes? All right? Oh no, No, she didn't like that.

1573
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:57,320
Speaker 1: I feel like we talked about that a lot.

1574
01:14:57,400 --> 01:15:03,240
Speaker 2: Anyway, lately, I've been reminding myself that it's okay to

1575
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:04,560
Speaker 2: be big m.

1576
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 1: Did you not feel like I feel like your personality

1577
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 1: lends to that answered you started that whole podcast here.

1578
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:15,320
Speaker 3: No, I think I came up in it.

1579
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:18,680
Speaker 2: I came up in an industry where being behind the

1580
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 2: scenes was rewarded, especially as a female, and just like

1581
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:27,680
Speaker 2: making it all happen was how I was celebrated. And

1582
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:31,639
Speaker 2: I think being in front of the camera and thinking

1583
01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:34,719
Speaker 2: about all the things that we're building and like owning

1584
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:40,360
Speaker 2: that has been a real pivot for me personally. And

1585
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 2: I think even though going back to what people see

1586
01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 2: and what they believe. Like, I am very confident in

1587
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 2: who I am, like innately, I've always been like that

1588
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 2: since I was small, But I think being big has

1589
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 2: another type of responsibility that I've kind of like like

1590
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 2: for Up until this point, we were saying the pod

1591
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:01,720
Speaker 2: was like a high, it's a hobby.

1592
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: Like you didn't want to claim it like.

1593
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 2: No, because I think when you work hard and you've

1594
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:10,920
Speaker 2: been raised to work hard, I think more responsibility feels

1595
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:15,800
Speaker 2: like like it doesn't have to feel like that if

1596
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 2: you have the right team around you and the right

1597
01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 2: people around you. And I think we're finally at a

1598
01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 2: point where we feel like we're supported in that way.

1599
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure you feel like that too. You that's probably

1600
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 1: why you guys connect so much in business aside from friendship. Yes,

1601
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:35,839
Speaker 1: you both kind of like blossoming into this elevated version

1602
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 1: of it.

1603
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 2: I feel like we're growing into something that we have

1604
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 2: not yet imagined.

1605
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that too. I don't. I don't

1606
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 1: think that. I don't know. I feel like at every

1607
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 1: stage or every age, like always trying to push ourselves

1608
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 1: to Yeah, there's always another level, right, there's always a

1609
01:16:52,479 --> 01:16:53,360
Speaker 1: level that But.

1610
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 2: I think as a young girl, you think you get married,

1611
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,400
Speaker 2: you have a family, you pick a career, and it's

1612
01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 2: like WHOA, I made it, and then you're like, on

1613
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:02,639
Speaker 2: a second, this shit's about to change again and again

1614
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 2: and again. And I think that that is something young

1615
01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:09,000
Speaker 2: women should know, Like if you learn how to pivot early,

1616
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:13,599
Speaker 2: it won't feel so debilitating. M Like, if you could

1617
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:16,680
Speaker 2: pivot quicker and not be so stuck on like I'm

1618
01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 2: gonna have this career, I'm gonna marry this man. I'm

1619
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,120
Speaker 2: gonna be married by this time. I'm gonna have a

1620
01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 2: baby here. Like it doesn't work like that, Like, but

1621
01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 2: I think when we were coming up, it was like

1622
01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 2: that was what you did, you know, And now young

1623
01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:32,600
Speaker 2: women are doing things differently and really embracing that and

1624
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:34,719
Speaker 2: it doesn't have to look how you imagine?

1625
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 1: H Do you still have those thoughts? So yoursel like,

1626
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to get too much in your business.

1627
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:43,920
Speaker 1: You're single or yes? Single? Mmm? Are you in the

1628
01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:48,160
Speaker 1: are you out here looking around? I'm not looking around?

1629
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 3: No, I would like to I'm trying.

1630
01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,240
Speaker 1: She don't try to be a matchmaker over here. You

1631
01:17:56,320 --> 01:18:00,240
Speaker 1: probably had no friends. That would be a good no.

1632
01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:04,760
Speaker 2: No, no, No, I think I think we all run

1633
01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 2: in a very small circle.

1634
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 3: Ye, like and it have been I think, yeah, I

1635
01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:11,640
Speaker 3: don't know.

1636
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:14,040
Speaker 2: I'm open to it, but I think it is a

1637
01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:17,760
Speaker 2: level of like, you know, that protection factor that I

1638
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:21,440
Speaker 2: operate in and trying to be open in one area

1639
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 2: but also being mindful of letting people in and the

1640
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 2: right people.

1641
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:28,559
Speaker 3: So are we supposed to pick it out?

1642
01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 1: She wanted to picked you pick? Did you did it?

1643
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 1: All right? Go to another one? Fine? One?

1644
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 2: We both answering this, all right, I love that. Don't

1645
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:45,839
Speaker 2: be scared, trust me, Okay, all right? First one value

1646
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 2: you think we're losing as a society.

1647
01:18:53,160 --> 01:19:02,639
Speaker 1: What you have to say? Yeah, say it? I feel

1648
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:04,240
Speaker 1: like I do. I don't know.

1649
01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:10,320
Speaker 3: Honesty mm hmm. I really think we are missing honesty.

1650
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:13,640
Speaker 2: Like I think a lot of times people are fearful

1651
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:17,720
Speaker 2: of being honest about what they're fearful of. And I

1652
01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 2: just think people are shy away a lot of times

1653
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,519
Speaker 2: from honesty of like hurting people's feelings or being true

1654
01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:26,720
Speaker 2: to themselves or doing what the world wants them to

1655
01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:29,840
Speaker 2: do and not being their real self, and like, just

1656
01:19:30,040 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 2: do you and just be honest. And I wish people

1657
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:36,320
Speaker 2: would get it together and Instagram is not real. People

1658
01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:39,880
Speaker 2: be swearing. I'm like, are you people okay? This is

1659
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:40,599
Speaker 2: like a sham.

1660
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:44,440
Speaker 1: It's one piece of It's like one sliver of a narrative.

1661
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:49,720
Speaker 2: And it's the most inflated narrative, Like you know what

1662
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 2: I mean. And then when you show your real self,

1663
01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 2: the world wants to judge. But like if people would

1664
01:19:57,080 --> 01:20:02,800
Speaker 2: just vaccine instead of worrying about somebody priding on that

1665
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:05,600
Speaker 2: Internet or whatever, and focus on yourself.

1666
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:12,519
Speaker 1: Wishing one word, come on, give it to mine.

1667
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 2: Was gonna be authenticity, Like even as a business owner

1668
01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 2: now and understanding the importance of like doing what is

1669
01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:25,640
Speaker 2: authentically like solid to you, I don't. I think a

1670
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:27,160
Speaker 2: lot of people do things cause they feel like they

1671
01:20:27,200 --> 01:20:30,200
Speaker 2: have to, and I think that goes right back to honesty.

1672
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:34,680
Speaker 3: But I think authenticity is a value that be you

1673
01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:34,880
Speaker 3: know what.

1674
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm curious. This is one of my IRL questions to hear.

1675
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: I like this for you because you know, we always

1676
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 1: ask like what are you most proud of, like in

1677
01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 1: your career or as a mom, what are you most

1678
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 1: proud of about yourself and what you've been able to doing.

1679
01:20:50,360 --> 01:20:54,400
Speaker 2: Honestly, the biggest compliment that I get is when people

1680
01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:57,720
Speaker 2: come to me and tell me how great my kids are, Like,

1681
01:20:58,280 --> 01:21:00,400
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of the people that they are and

1682
01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 2: who they've become and the way that they've been able

1683
01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 2: to handle.

1684
01:21:04,880 --> 01:21:05,400
Speaker 3: Everything.

1685
01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 2: Like we've been through some things, and I just think

1686
01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:12,400
Speaker 2: that they have. I mean, they've done an amazing job

1687
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 2: with all of it given the circumstance.

1688
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 3: So I'm most proud of who I've.

1689
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: Been able to.

1690
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:26,120
Speaker 2: Support in their growth and just becoming who they are

1691
01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 2: as young men and now a little lady.

1692
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 1: So you're very, very proud of that. You're a good mom, great,

1693
01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:37,120
Speaker 1: killing it the best, the best mom. What about as

1694
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:39,880
Speaker 1: a wife, especially such a high profile wife, Like what

1695
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:42,120
Speaker 1: are you most proud of in that space?

1696
01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:45,599
Speaker 2: Just being able to and I know this might sound crazy,

1697
01:21:46,240 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 2: but being able to understand the situation for what it

1698
01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:52,640
Speaker 2: is as far as how I showed up being a

1699
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:56,200
Speaker 2: support system to him, Like I was totally okay with

1700
01:21:56,400 --> 01:21:58,759
Speaker 2: the way that things have panned out up until this point,

1701
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 2: being sportive to him, being able to be there for him,

1702
01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 2: being able to pick him up when he's not feeling good,

1703
01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:08,200
Speaker 2: Like I was okay with being in the background and

1704
01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:10,080
Speaker 2: doing those things. So that he was able to do

1705
01:22:10,280 --> 01:22:14,120
Speaker 2: exactly what he wanted to do in that space. So there,

1706
01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 2: I'm most proud of that, as far as being a

1707
01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:18,760
Speaker 2: wife and his wife.

1708
01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:21,759
Speaker 1: And support system. What about this pod and what you're creating?

1709
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 1: What are you guys most proud of about this, this business? This?

1710
01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:32,800
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm most proud of stepping into what

1711
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:36,920
Speaker 2: we have been shying away from, you know, and really

1712
01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 2: owning it, and I think also being authentically ourselves. Like

1713
01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 2: I think there is a lot of misconceptions about being

1714
01:22:46,200 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 2: an entrepreneur, building something, being in friendship with each other.

1715
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,759
Speaker 2: So I think I'm most proud of just being able

1716
01:22:54,160 --> 01:22:58,200
Speaker 2: to own it for once, and also proud to put

1717
01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 2: a team around us that is helping us to do it,

1718
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:04,680
Speaker 2: which allows us to be more visionary in building it,

1719
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:07,720
Speaker 2: which is exciting, and also commit to the pod and

1720
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:12,440
Speaker 2: commit to using our voices and commit to being comfortable

1721
01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:13,720
Speaker 2: with being uncomfortable.

1722
01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: I just want to go through my last cards and

1723
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 1: then we're done, and maybe I'm going to ask you

1724
01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:19,240
Speaker 1: my one favorite question in the ball for both. Okay,

1725
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 1: you probably have probably know that one. Okay, we've been

1726
01:23:22,120 --> 01:23:24,160
Speaker 1: talking a lot about the like the inner workings of

1727
01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 1: your friendship and this like space that you created, but

1728
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:29,559
Speaker 1: you also both live in a very big space.

1729
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:31,280
Speaker 3: Yes, very big.

1730
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:35,639
Speaker 1: You didn't you do? You did Drake's thirtieth birthday party?

1731
01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:38,200
Speaker 1: You plan that for him? Yes, that's a big that's

1732
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:43,160
Speaker 1: a big, high profile, lots of a lot of moments. Yeah,

1733
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:44,880
Speaker 1: how does that even happen? Or did you work for

1734
01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:46,639
Speaker 1: Drake or you know, I don't work for Jake.

1735
01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:47,679
Speaker 3: I never worked for Drake.

1736
01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 1: You never worked for Drake? And you do the thirtieth Well.

1737
01:23:49,960 --> 01:23:51,559
Speaker 3: He hired my agency, got it?

1738
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:55,040
Speaker 1: So I think, how does I go to see call? No,

1739
01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:55,639
Speaker 1: he doesn't call.

1740
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:58,800
Speaker 3: Future calls, Future calls, Future is grace, Future is the best.

1741
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:03,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, Future Drake and I've been doing a couple of

1742
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:06,439
Speaker 2: things with them. A lot of people don't know context,

1743
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:09,519
Speaker 2: But I own a creative agency. It does experiential and

1744
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:13,559
Speaker 2: creative campaigns for brands. So it started because we did

1745
01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:15,760
Speaker 2: it was called two Kings.

1746
01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 3: It was Drake and Lebron at.

1747
01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:23,559
Speaker 2: All Star in Toronto and we did something called the

1748
01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:25,799
Speaker 2: House of Tings with beats.

1749
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 1: It was oh my God. And we transformed all.

1750
01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:32,880
Speaker 3: Of these rooms into like little immersive rooms.

1751
01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:35,200
Speaker 2: So we had trapped karaoke We had a room with

1752
01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 2: an owl that opened up like a live owl.

1753
01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:41,679
Speaker 3: We had David Blaine in a room we.

1754
01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:44,880
Speaker 1: Got we had enough of them money.

1755
01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:46,960
Speaker 2: Yes, it was like all these little rooms and you

1756
01:24:47,000 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 2: went into this like house of tings and it was crazy.

1757
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:50,959
Speaker 3: It was freezing cold in Toronto.

1758
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 2: So it started there and then over time I just

1759
01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:57,400
Speaker 2: built a relationship with future and team and they were amazing.

1760
01:24:57,439 --> 01:25:00,160
Speaker 2: They were amazing and I just did his thirty if.

1761
01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:01,680
Speaker 2: They called and was like can you do it? It's

1762
01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 2: going to be in l A.

1763
01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:05,320
Speaker 3: And I was like, I got it, And.

1764
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:08,920
Speaker 2: I mean it feels like years ago, I mean thirty

1765
01:25:09,040 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 2: nine something like that.

1766
01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, but it was awesome. What about your big

1767
01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:17,040
Speaker 1: wow moments? First of all, the mean gala is a

1768
01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:21,880
Speaker 1: wow moments for you? What is that? What is that experience?

1769
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:23,160
Speaker 1: Like stressful?

1770
01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:27,240
Speaker 2: It was so much prep and just like it was

1771
01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 2: my first time, so it was making sure I got

1772
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 2: it right.

1773
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 1: It was a pressure a little bit. That's a big carpet.

1774
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 1: That's a big carpet, A big carpet. What is the prep?

1775
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 1: What is the what is what goes into this?

1776
01:25:39,320 --> 01:25:42,479
Speaker 2: Just a just a look the look it's the most like, yeah,

1777
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:44,760
Speaker 2: the look it came together.

1778
01:25:44,600 --> 01:25:46,600
Speaker 1: Body of look though, you have a couple of like

1779
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:50,880
Speaker 1: iconic look moments, we should flash those as we're mentioning

1780
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:53,240
Speaker 1: that right now. Just let the people do that do that.

1781
01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was great.

1782
01:25:56,200 --> 01:26:01,639
Speaker 3: The theme with being I can't Taylor, I can't think

1783
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:02,040
Speaker 3: of the thing.

1784
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh the theme, Yeah, it was like.

1785
01:26:06,840 --> 01:26:09,120
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, And then it was tailor to Perfection or

1786
01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 2: something like that. So the process of trying to find

1787
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:15,240
Speaker 2: a designer for that was kind of like like what

1788
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:18,360
Speaker 2: do I do? And then I wanted to make sure

1789
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:21,559
Speaker 2: I had a black designer. So I'm like, well, I

1790
01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:22,880
Speaker 2: wonder if Pidneva would do it.

1791
01:26:23,280 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 1: And she did it. She killed it.

1792
01:26:24,680 --> 01:26:26,479
Speaker 3: We had a great time. It was so much fun

1793
01:26:26,520 --> 01:26:27,719
Speaker 3: working with her and her team.

1794
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:30,040
Speaker 1: Or events like that. Fun though you always think like

1795
01:26:30,120 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 1: is it really fun when you get there?

1796
01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:35,799
Speaker 3: So I was actually so I was okay.

1797
01:26:35,840 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 2: I was there because I was supposed to be there,

1798
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:40,439
Speaker 2: but I was a plus one because Lebron was a chair.

1799
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 2: He was a co chair for that particular Matt and

1800
01:26:44,320 --> 01:26:45,920
Speaker 2: he couldn't make it because they were in the postseason.

1801
01:26:46,000 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 2: So I still went in support to be there for him.

1802
01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:51,439
Speaker 1: But also because she was supposed to because I was

1803
01:26:51,479 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 1: supposed to.

1804
01:26:53,560 --> 01:26:57,080
Speaker 2: But it is a room and like I said, like

1805
01:26:57,320 --> 01:27:00,240
Speaker 2: I don't typically like deal in like.

1806
01:27:02,479 --> 01:27:04,840
Speaker 3: I guess rooms like that, Like that's just not my

1807
01:27:04,880 --> 01:27:05,479
Speaker 3: comfort zone.

1808
01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:07,640
Speaker 1: And if you do, you're usually with your husband.

1809
01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:09,679
Speaker 2: With my husband, or with a friend or just somebody

1810
01:27:09,680 --> 01:27:11,720
Speaker 2: as an ally. You know, they don't play that like

1811
01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 2: nobody you're taking yourself. So it was just interesting. I

1812
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:20,680
Speaker 2: actually sat with Debbie Allen, and I had met her

1813
01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:25,320
Speaker 2: in La my daughter went to her dance academy, and

1814
01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 2: so I just found an ally in her and her.

1815
01:27:27,040 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 1: Husband and I sat there and talked to them. So

1816
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:29,040
Speaker 1: it was great.

1817
01:27:29,720 --> 01:27:34,639
Speaker 2: And Tyler Perry was my seat mate, yeah.

1818
01:27:34,479 --> 01:27:35,559
Speaker 1: And chatted with him.

1819
01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:37,800
Speaker 2: I was cool, told him how much I love all

1820
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 2: of his movies, And it was a great experience. My

1821
01:27:41,200 --> 01:27:44,360
Speaker 2: dress was so heavy, though, my hips were so sorely

1822
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:46,720
Speaker 2: because I don't know if people know, but when you walk,

1823
01:27:46,800 --> 01:27:48,719
Speaker 2: the carpet is long, and there're stairs on the carpet,

1824
01:27:49,240 --> 01:27:50,880
Speaker 2: so you gotta get up those stairs. But once you

1825
01:27:50,880 --> 01:27:53,120
Speaker 2: get in the museum, there's like four more flights of

1826
01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:57,400
Speaker 2: stairs and a country mile to get to where the actual.

1827
01:28:00,640 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 1: And this dress is like forty pounds. I was.

1828
01:28:02,720 --> 01:28:03,200
Speaker 3: I was done.

1829
01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:06,560
Speaker 1: I was good, but I did it, and you look gorgeous.

1830
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:07,479
Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

1831
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:09,800
Speaker 1: Those moments must feel like because you don't do that

1832
01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:11,360
Speaker 1: a lot, right, you know, do the stuff like that.

1833
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:13,760
Speaker 1: What does that feel like for you? Because I don't know,

1834
01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:15,880
Speaker 1: it almost feels like from the outside looking at like

1835
01:28:16,000 --> 01:28:20,400
Speaker 1: watching you, it's like, look so bad. Yeah, old light.

1836
01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:22,960
Speaker 1: You don't know really like in your own light and

1837
01:28:23,040 --> 01:28:25,000
Speaker 1: your own moment. Yeah, I was.

1838
01:28:26,479 --> 01:28:29,720
Speaker 2: I was excited to be there, but just like kind

1839
01:28:29,720 --> 01:28:31,920
Speaker 2: of a little bit in shock, like, damn, I'm actually

1840
01:28:31,920 --> 01:28:34,800
Speaker 2: on the med carpet and by myself. This is crazy.

1841
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 2: This exactly is crazy. Shot Like, yeah, this is crazy.

1842
01:28:38,560 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 2: The whole time I was there, I'm like.

1843
01:28:42,160 --> 01:28:45,519
Speaker 1: Looking at Anna went to table, like what you at

1844
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:49,639
Speaker 1: Anna's table? Yes? Yeah, did she comment? Did she compliment

1845
01:28:49,680 --> 01:28:53,040
Speaker 1: your dress? Yes? Oh she did? I did right, Like,

1846
01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 1: I don't feel like she's the type said anything.

1847
01:29:01,680 --> 01:29:04,320
Speaker 3: That joint She didn't time.

1848
01:29:04,479 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 1: Oh that's great, We're gonna see more of that. I

1849
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:08,840
Speaker 1: feel like you're like, do you feel like you're blossoming

1850
01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:14,360
Speaker 1: into another kind of phase of your life? So it's

1851
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:15,800
Speaker 1: scary exciting.

1852
01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:19,120
Speaker 2: It's exciting, But I think I would like to handle

1853
01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 2: the amount of it because I know sometimes any situations

1854
01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 2: that goes from zero to one hundred and I would

1855
01:29:24,120 --> 01:29:26,760
Speaker 2: like to like just pace myself a little bit, but

1856
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:27,639
Speaker 2: definitely excited.

1857
01:29:27,840 --> 01:29:31,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, slow progression, right, yeah, well yeah, yeah, you got

1858
01:29:31,600 --> 01:29:34,720
Speaker 1: her on your side. So she's gonna she's gonna fight

1859
01:29:34,720 --> 01:29:37,719
Speaker 1: the lady in the street field. She's gonna she's gonna

1860
01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:41,759
Speaker 1: tell you the truth. She's gonna not talk to anybody

1861
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:47,599
Speaker 1: who don't. It's a little friend. We didn't talk about

1862
01:29:48,479 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 1: spirituality much or anything like that in this conversation. But

1863
01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 1: my final question, which is in the bult is my

1864
01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:56,000
Speaker 1: favorite question is a little bit so connected to you know,

1865
01:29:56,040 --> 01:30:00,400
Speaker 1: what our higher purposes and our higher connection is. So

1866
01:30:00,439 --> 01:30:02,240
Speaker 1: the question of the ball that's my favorite is if

1867
01:30:02,280 --> 01:30:06,080
Speaker 1: God would have text you right now, what would it say.

1868
01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:10,599
Speaker 2: Well, I don't really like text, so you will tell

1869
01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:14,679
Speaker 2: God not to text, Like God can keep short.

1870
01:30:15,960 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 1: I don't have to respond to that one.

1871
01:30:19,200 --> 01:30:21,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll have to respond to God's text.

1872
01:30:22,280 --> 01:30:25,479
Speaker 1: She doesn't like that, You're a terrible text. I like text.

1873
01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:27,800
Speaker 2: It's just you know, be on my own time. But

1874
01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 2: the response with God, get me done, you're fired. But

1875
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:35,160
Speaker 2: what would it say if you've got a text from

1876
01:30:35,200 --> 01:30:35,759
Speaker 2: him today.

1877
01:30:35,800 --> 01:30:40,439
Speaker 1: What would it say? I think mine today would say

1878
01:30:41,960 --> 01:30:45,439
Speaker 1: you need some rest? Mm hmmm, I think today that's

1879
01:30:45,439 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 1: what mine would say.

1880
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:52,920
Speaker 3: I think mine would say, you're exactly where you're supposed

1881
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 3: to be. That's good, I think mine would say, and

1882
01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:00,719
Speaker 3: you with a ride?

1883
01:31:02,920 --> 01:31:08,639
Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty good that Angie. Oh, we didn't

1884
01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:09,240
Speaker 1: do the game?

1885
01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:11,920
Speaker 3: Okay, come on, you want to do it?

1886
01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:14,880
Speaker 1: Okay? So the pot is called Everybody's crazy? This is

1887
01:31:14,920 --> 01:31:19,880
Speaker 1: the who is crazier of the two of you? You

1888
01:31:19,960 --> 01:31:25,519
Speaker 1: love this already? Who is crazier? Just in general? You

1889
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:30,439
Speaker 1: are the crazier? Who is crazier when it comes to

1890
01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:38,200
Speaker 1: being protective of the people they love me? Really? Why

1891
01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:39,680
Speaker 1: do I feel like you're gonna be the crazier in

1892
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:43,559
Speaker 1: all of these circumstances? Oh? For god? Who is crazier

1893
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:50,360
Speaker 1: when it comes to holding a grudge? Huh? Dead to me? Forever? Cooked?

1894
01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:55,040
Speaker 1: How much does it take to be in that box?

1895
01:31:56,080 --> 01:32:01,000
Speaker 1: A minute? Yeah? I don't have a time. You get there,

1896
01:32:01,040 --> 01:32:06,599
Speaker 1: but when you go, you ain't coming back forever? Who

1897
01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:11,800
Speaker 1: is crazier when it comes to being competitive? Do you

1898
01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 1: really think I'm not competitive? I? Thank you? Maybe? Neck

1899
01:32:17,040 --> 01:32:21,519
Speaker 1: and neck? Do you play games or do anything. No,

1900
01:32:21,600 --> 01:32:26,360
Speaker 1: she don't play no games. You don't just like game

1901
01:32:26,479 --> 01:32:30,360
Speaker 1: night or nothing? Or no she does not really or

1902
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:38,799
Speaker 1: even like karaoke. That's a good answer. Who is crazier

1903
01:32:38,800 --> 01:32:42,360
Speaker 1: when it comes to being stubborn? Mm hmm.

1904
01:32:45,760 --> 01:32:51,640
Speaker 2: I would say me, yeah, you take Yeah, yeah, I'm

1905
01:32:51,640 --> 01:32:52,120
Speaker 2: gonna think me.

1906
01:32:52,720 --> 01:32:58,080
Speaker 1: You are who you are? Mm hmmm. Crazier during an argument.

1907
01:32:58,479 --> 01:33:03,479
Speaker 2: Me, oh know that this tongue is lethal, slicing you

1908
01:33:03,520 --> 01:33:06,680
Speaker 2: to pieces. That's why I want to go there. I

1909
01:33:06,840 --> 01:33:10,240
Speaker 2: just say, God bless because if I go there, We're

1910
01:33:10,280 --> 01:33:10,760
Speaker 2: going to hell?

1911
01:33:11,000 --> 01:33:17,000
Speaker 1: What's crazier when it comes to online shopping or shopping? Her? Shopping?

1912
01:33:17,040 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 2: Me?

1913
01:33:17,360 --> 01:33:18,400
Speaker 3: Online shopping her?

1914
01:33:18,520 --> 01:33:20,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that.

1915
01:33:20,320 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 3: I like I r L. I like an I r L.

1916
01:33:22,800 --> 01:33:25,680
Speaker 1: You got boxes? What on boxes and delivery?

1917
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,320
Speaker 3: What ship I'm never going to use?

1918
01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:31,919
Speaker 1: What's something crazy that you just that you've bought recently online?

1919
01:33:32,160 --> 01:33:33,880
Speaker 2: A desk that I could put on top of my

1920
01:33:33,920 --> 01:33:37,200
Speaker 2: desk so I could stand up while I'm at my desk.

1921
01:33:37,840 --> 01:33:46,720
Speaker 2: What it's like a desk, Like an adjustable desk that

1922
01:33:46,720 --> 01:33:48,160
Speaker 2: goes on the top of the desk.

1923
01:33:48,400 --> 01:33:49,960
Speaker 1: I don't have to sit at my desk. You have

1924
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:53,240
Speaker 1: to put it together? Does it require together? Oh? It

1925
01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:56,479
Speaker 1: came together, delivered and have you used it? You did? It?

1926
01:33:56,560 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 1: Be half love that for you. I've been really good lately,

1927
01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:01,839
Speaker 1: but there was a period I was ordering just wild

1928
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:05,240
Speaker 1: sh like or so. Instagram gets me to.

1929
01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:09,480
Speaker 2: Buy Instagram shot by buy stuff on Instagram.

1930
01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:14,240
Speaker 1: It's so easy. What is this? Because it's all line

1931
01:34:14,240 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 1: of looks cute and then it comes.

1932
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:20,240
Speaker 2: And it's like, I'm not playing instead, No more bathing suits,

1933
01:34:20,240 --> 01:34:20,679
Speaker 2: I will.

1934
01:34:23,160 --> 01:34:27,200
Speaker 1: Amazon. What. No, that's craziness. I have one from Instagram.

1935
01:34:27,240 --> 01:34:30,400
Speaker 1: It's worse the like butt pads in it. You didn't

1936
01:34:30,400 --> 01:34:35,759
Speaker 1: expect those to be there? What the fuck is this? Okay?

1937
01:34:36,800 --> 01:34:39,080
Speaker 1: Who's crazy when it comes to protecting their peace?

1938
01:34:40,520 --> 01:34:43,040
Speaker 2: I think that's both of us, both of us. But

1939
01:34:43,160 --> 01:34:47,320
Speaker 2: Savannah is better at boundaries. We both can kind of

1940
01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:51,040
Speaker 2: disappear in our own way, but she's better at what. Yes,

1941
01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:54,000
Speaker 2: a lot of quiet time for both of us.

1942
01:34:54,360 --> 01:35:01,920
Speaker 1: Who's giving the best gifts? Me? Hm? I didn't. Oh?

1943
01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:04,439
Speaker 1: I didn't. Oh what? Oh?

1944
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Speaker 2: Because she used to talk about me so bad because

1945
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Speaker 2: I didn't give. I didn't give gifts. I love gifts,

1946
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Speaker 2: you do, Yes, you didn't give gifts at all?

1947
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Speaker 4: No?

1948
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Speaker 2: She even know gifts. It was crazy. Now she's redeeming

1949
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Speaker 2: herself because I couldn't gift.

1950
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Speaker 1: Yes, it's probably because you have a lot of things

1951
01:35:22,120 --> 01:35:27,280
Speaker 1: and so you're like things. Yeah, I love a gift, like,

1952
01:35:27,680 --> 01:35:29,920
Speaker 1: love it to me too. I will stay I love it.

1953
01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:31,599
Speaker 1: I will stay at the you know in the parties

1954
01:35:31,640 --> 01:35:33,559
Speaker 1: when they give gift bags. I don't want that ship,

1955
01:35:33,760 --> 01:35:39,800
Speaker 1: but I still want it. Oh, what was the redeeming gift? Yes,

1956
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Speaker 1: you said she'd been redeeming herself. Like, what's a lot

1957
01:35:42,960 --> 01:35:45,400
Speaker 1: of good gifts? What's a good it's your favorite gift

1958
01:35:45,400 --> 01:35:46,320
Speaker 1: that I got you? Oh?

1959
01:35:46,520 --> 01:35:50,479
Speaker 3: She bought me this Judith Lieberman bag?

1960
01:35:51,000 --> 01:35:53,600
Speaker 1: What is your favorite? That's one of my favorite? What

1961
01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:56,000
Speaker 1: is it in a bag? Is it it's a special

1962
01:35:56,040 --> 01:35:58,200
Speaker 1: because it was my shortcake? Right? That was? I got

1963
01:35:58,240 --> 01:36:00,479
Speaker 1: you to shortcake? No, Marnie got me. Okay, you got

1964
01:36:00,479 --> 01:36:02,360
Speaker 1: me the French fries. Oh got you the French fries.

1965
01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:10,160
Speaker 1: The French fries. She's really happy, she really loves it.

1966
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Speaker 1: I do. Is she a good gift giver? Yoh? No,

1967
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Speaker 1: for my was it thirty five? Not thirty fIF?

1968
01:36:21,520 --> 01:36:25,040
Speaker 3: So we go we like to go to the ms

1969
01:36:25,280 --> 01:36:26,280
Speaker 3: when we go shopping.

1970
01:36:26,479 --> 01:36:30,040
Speaker 2: Around the world and I have been wanting these plates

1971
01:36:30,040 --> 01:36:32,080
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm get the plates. I buy one

1972
01:36:32,160 --> 01:36:34,519
Speaker 2: by two okay whatever, she finished my collection?

1973
01:36:34,800 --> 01:36:41,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, who's knowing the most tea? Who's crazy when

1974
01:36:41,439 --> 01:36:42,639
Speaker 1: it comes to knowing the most tea?

1975
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Speaker 4: Me?

1976
01:36:44,320 --> 01:36:50,120
Speaker 3: Hm, you know the tea, all of it, This is

1977
01:36:50,320 --> 01:36:54,400
Speaker 3: all of it. That's why I said, don't be out No.

1978
01:36:54,920 --> 01:36:59,360
Speaker 1: And the last one who is crazier about protecting this friendship?

1979
01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:04,760
Speaker 2: Both of us, both of us, I think we don't,

1980
01:37:05,840 --> 01:37:07,680
Speaker 2: you know. I think you see a lot of like

1981
01:37:08,240 --> 01:37:14,200
Speaker 2: whether it's female business partners, female groups, female duos.

1982
01:37:14,600 --> 01:37:16,760
Speaker 3: There's not a lot you know.

1983
01:37:16,800 --> 01:37:20,479
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of people allow emotion, ego, money,

1984
01:37:20,680 --> 01:37:23,760
Speaker 2: success to get in the way of like who they are.

1985
01:37:24,000 --> 01:37:27,439
Speaker 2: And I think for us, we want to be the

1986
01:37:27,479 --> 01:37:32,080
Speaker 2: ones that someone's like, oh they did it, and we

1987
01:37:32,120 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 2: want young women to see that, and we want Zori

1988
01:37:34,520 --> 01:37:36,599
Speaker 2: to see that and see my kids see it, and

1989
01:37:37,240 --> 01:37:40,880
Speaker 2: you know, and also continuing to support women like I

1990
01:37:40,880 --> 01:37:43,880
Speaker 2: think it's a lot of like I'll be honest, like

1991
01:37:44,000 --> 01:37:47,800
Speaker 2: fake black girl magic and fake like girl tribe. The

1992
01:37:47,840 --> 01:37:50,360
Speaker 2: shit is fake. Like you go places and people are like,

1993
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:52,640
Speaker 2: you know, so like really.

1994
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Speaker 1: Being thoughtful format.

1995
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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, so I think really being thoughtful around that

1996
01:37:58,680 --> 01:38:03,000
Speaker 2: and continuing to like be amongst women like yourself, like

1997
01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:08,519
Speaker 2: other women that we admire, And it's okay to admire

1998
01:38:08,600 --> 01:38:13,240
Speaker 2: somebody like right, that's a difference, Like you can admire

1999
01:38:13,280 --> 01:38:15,679
Speaker 2: somebody and not be a fan and not be weird,

2000
01:38:16,280 --> 01:38:18,960
Speaker 2: like that's where you lose me. But you can admire

2001
01:38:19,000 --> 01:38:21,880
Speaker 2: somebody but also admire somebody and want to be you.

2002
01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:24,439
Speaker 2: Like a lot of people admire people and want to

2003
01:38:24,479 --> 01:38:25,120
Speaker 2: be them.

2004
01:38:25,600 --> 01:38:27,639
Speaker 1: You don't want to be me. Well, anybody who wants

2005
01:38:27,680 --> 01:38:30,320
Speaker 1: to be you is not going to be a good friend, correct.

2006
01:38:30,120 --> 01:38:33,000
Speaker 2: And I think just like you can admire somebody and

2007
01:38:33,040 --> 01:38:35,840
Speaker 2: admire the essence of them, Like me and Savannah are

2008
01:38:35,840 --> 01:38:36,840
Speaker 2: not the same type of mom.

2009
01:38:38,439 --> 01:38:41,000
Speaker 3: Really, No, she's a way better mom.

2010
01:38:41,400 --> 01:38:44,160
Speaker 2: She's a better mom in a different type of way.

2011
01:38:44,240 --> 01:38:48,640
Speaker 2: I feel like, oh, I'm militant.

2012
01:38:49,160 --> 01:38:50,320
Speaker 1: She is a good mom.

2013
01:38:50,400 --> 01:38:52,519
Speaker 2: But I mean, I'm a good mom, but it's only me.

2014
01:38:53,200 --> 01:38:56,000
Speaker 2: It's different when someone has a dad, you know what

2015
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:59,400
Speaker 2: I mean. Like my boys haven't had their dad around

2016
01:38:59,400 --> 01:39:01,840
Speaker 2: since they were like three and ten. So I have

2017
01:39:01,960 --> 01:39:03,680
Speaker 2: to be the nurturer, but I also have to be

2018
01:39:03,720 --> 01:39:07,320
Speaker 2: the discipline area. So it's a level of grace that's

2019
01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:10,240
Speaker 2: given in that that I've come to terms with. So

2020
01:39:10,400 --> 01:39:13,880
Speaker 2: there's something that she can give that. Like my son

2021
01:39:13,960 --> 01:39:17,000
Speaker 2: is quick to call her when I say no, my youngest,

2022
01:39:17,320 --> 01:39:21,040
Speaker 2: what ask Savannah. She's more lenient, Like she'd like, girl,

2023
01:39:21,120 --> 01:39:22,559
Speaker 2: just la him stay out extra hours?

2024
01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:24,679
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll be like, how did you get in our house?

2025
01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:28,040
Speaker 2: Like there's always a more, you know, because there is

2026
01:39:28,080 --> 01:39:31,080
Speaker 2: no ying and yang yeah, and that's yeah, And I

2027
01:39:31,160 --> 01:39:34,719
Speaker 2: think that is a different that's a different dynamic.

2028
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Speaker 3: So it is a little bit more. And I'm raising boys.

2029
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Speaker 1: It's different. I don't know that better though.

2030
01:39:39,800 --> 01:39:43,240
Speaker 2: Better for I think in the way you are able

2031
01:39:43,280 --> 01:39:45,960
Speaker 2: to show up, you know. And I would desire that

2032
01:39:46,080 --> 01:39:46,920
Speaker 2: for my kids too.

2033
01:39:46,960 --> 01:39:47,519
Speaker 1: They love me.

2034
01:39:47,600 --> 01:39:50,160
Speaker 2: But my son is like, my wife is not gonna

2035
01:39:50,200 --> 01:39:52,760
Speaker 2: work because I work a lot. My son is very

2036
01:39:53,040 --> 01:39:57,280
Speaker 2: honest about he's sixteen. He's like, my wife's not gonna work. Yeah, wow,

2037
01:39:57,479 --> 01:40:00,120
Speaker 2: because I think I work hard, you know what I mean.

2038
01:40:00,200 --> 01:40:02,800
Speaker 2: But they also benefited, you know, So I think that

2039
01:40:02,880 --> 01:40:05,639
Speaker 2: there are certain things and I don't I'm not upset

2040
01:40:05,680 --> 01:40:07,559
Speaker 2: by that, Like I'm like, that's honest.

2041
01:40:07,720 --> 01:40:08,639
Speaker 3: I hope she don't work.

2042
01:40:08,760 --> 01:40:15,519
Speaker 2: As long as y'all not using my money, we're good,

2043
01:40:15,960 --> 01:40:19,080
Speaker 2: you know, I think just like being honest with it.

2044
01:40:19,160 --> 01:40:22,160
Speaker 1: But yes, it's obvious why you guys are friends. It's

2045
01:40:22,200 --> 01:40:29,479
Speaker 1: like compliment each other's lives. So for sure friends. We

2046
01:40:29,479 --> 01:40:31,600
Speaker 1: should end with the podcast. Everybody should check out the

2047
01:40:31,640 --> 01:40:33,840
Speaker 1: way do they? How do they? How do people support her?

2048
01:40:34,240 --> 01:40:36,439
Speaker 1: We don't even know who you don't even know?

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Speaker 7: Subscribe, subscribe, subscribe, subscribe, subscribbe that's how.

2050
01:40:57,240 --> 01:41:00,400
Speaker 1: You really support me. What I'm talking about, what has

2051
01:41:00,400 --> 01:41:07,400
Speaker 1: been nice? I don't known in real life ma.

2052
01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:12,960
Speaker 2: Hi and Savannah James and April McDaniel and real life.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, thanks for watching. Make sure you subscribe, like comments,

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Speaker 1: and check out all of the other episodes we have

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