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Standard message and data rates may apply. 11 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation. I'm about to save you, 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: Kiki save me. I'm about to save you right now. 13 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 2: You're gonna thank me later. We don't need a wedding swing. 14 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: We don't need a photo shooting you all over the place. 15 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 2: We don't need fireworks pyrotechnics. We don't need four bands. 16 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: We don't need venue changes. We don't need you levitating in. 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: We don't need raisin canes afterwards. We don't need anything. 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: Right, what are you talking about? 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: Research suggests that how much couples spend on their wedding 20 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: may influence the chance that their marriage lasts. 21 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: Who cares about that? 22 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 3: Who cares if it last? You know, we had a 23 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 3: good time. 24 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 4: Some time. 25 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: We just want to have a big day, and it doesn't. 26 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 2: You already made it this far right, and by that 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: point it will be what nine years have been together, 28 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 2: nine and a half years by the time you get 29 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 2: to the altar. But who cares if it all melts 30 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,479 Speaker 2: down right away? As long as it was a great night, 31 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: we had. 32 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: A good run. We went out with a bang. 33 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: Studies showed the couples who spend more than about twenty 34 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: thousand dollars on their weddings are significantly more likely to 35 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: divorce later than those who spend a more modest amount, 36 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: while lower costs se wait spend more than twenty on 37 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 2: their wedding are significantly more likely to divorce. Yeah, okay, 38 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: so the more you that's why the way right it quickly, 39 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 2: The more you spend, the more likely you already get divorced. 40 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: According to this, lower cost ceremonies tend to be linked 41 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 2: with stronger long term marriages. The takeaway keeping wedding expenses 42 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: reasonable and avoiding starting married life under heavy financial strain 43 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: actually help your relationship thrive. I've been saying this, You've 44 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: been saying this single guy, never engaged, never married. I've 45 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:07,919 Speaker 2: been telling you guys how. 46 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: To do it. 47 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 5: Gives good advice, though you do I hate I'll give 48 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 5: you that party, that's your thing. 49 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a lot, a lot of opinions and 50 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: a lot of perspectives. I've made a career out of it. 51 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that I could live my own life properly. 52 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: That No one said that. That was not part of 53 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 2: the deal. 54 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: No, did you say twenty thousand dollars? 55 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: Twenty thousand dollars? 56 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 5: It still seems really cheap, Well right, I mean, but yeah, 57 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 5: it seems like a micro more. 58 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: Twenty is the threshold. So people spend you know, a 59 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: lot more than. 60 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: That, I guess, but oh yeah, I'm assuming. So I said, 61 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: you don't even have to spend a lot of money. 62 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: Well, I know I have to. 63 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 6: But you know, I agree at this study, and I'm 64 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 6: sure is very true because think about it, you don't. 65 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 6: You don't go into your marriage with a bunch of debts. 66 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 6: The more money you spend means the more people you 67 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 6: have at your wedding. The more people you have in 68 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 6: your wedding, so there's probably less family drama, you know, 69 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 6: And so you're not good for them. 70 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 2: I want to take a quick survey though, eight five 71 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 2: five five three five you can contact the same number. 72 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: First of all, did you spend a ton of money 73 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 2: on your wedding? 74 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: One? Two? Are you still married? Three? Was it worth it? 75 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: Truly worth it? Four? 76 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 3: What's your favorite calling? 77 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: What is your social Security number? And your mother's maiden name. 78 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: But I'm serious, I mean I said this a thousand 79 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: times and reference to a bunch of different people's weddings. 80 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 2: It's like, I don't remember what I ate at ninety 81 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: nine percent of the weddings I've been to. I remember, 82 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: like some of the cool stuff, Like I remember at 83 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: the end somebody brought out like sliders or something at 84 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: the least someone like McDonald's cheeseburgers at the very very 85 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: end of it. 86 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: That's cool. 87 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love the drunk food. 88 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: I mean that's cool. But like that is the jump 89 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: was right the cheapest part of the night. Somebody rand 90 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: it ran on down there and you know, ordered one 91 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: hundred hamburgers and pass them out at the end. I 92 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: mean I could have done that for you. I could 93 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 2: adore dash it for less than you spent. 94 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 7: I will say, the most fun weddings I've been to 95 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 7: are the ones that are more chill. Like I just 96 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 7: like thinking of all the weddings I've been to, like 97 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 7: in a barn with solo cops or you know, just 98 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 7: like a chill been as. 99 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: Simple and and maybe it wasn't as much money to 100 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 2: do it that way. I mean, who knows, maybe the 101 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: barn with the solo cups actually. 102 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: Logistically was very expensive or hard to do. I don't know. 103 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: It was at their barn and there's there. 104 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 7: So it was in West Virginia, and okay, yeah it was. 105 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. 106 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,799 Speaker 2: I think the weddings that were intended to look simple, 107 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: but like they were in the middle. Like I went 108 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 2: to one wedding I didn't know what I was getting into. 109 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 2: It was somewhere in Colorado, I can't remember, breckon Ridge, 110 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: Steamboat maybe Steamboat was in Steamboat. 111 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 3: I don't know why. 112 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: It was in the middle of a forest. 113 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: There was like a clearing and it literally was just 114 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 2: chairs and trees, and I'm like, well this now, of 115 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 2: course we were all busts there on luxury. I mean, 116 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 2: this was this wedding probably customiated luck and actuality. It 117 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 2: probably could, but like at first it's very simple. Like 118 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: we pull up, there's like trees, the forests, like there 119 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 2: was I think I think there was like there were 120 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 2: drinks and water in plastic cups. And I'm like, okay 121 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: or something like very very simple. We walk into this, 122 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: you know, this opening and the forest and there was 123 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,359 Speaker 2: chairs and I'm like, okay, very simple, only for us 124 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: to be led down this path through this entire village 125 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 2: that they built in the middle of the forest with 126 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 2: like glass tops and and oh my god, it was 127 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: over the top and it was cool and I had 128 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: a good time and I sat at a good table 129 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: and it was all good. And these people had a 130 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: lot of money, so fine. But at first I'm thinking 131 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 2: the buses were the most like this is a campsite, 132 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 2: like this is no big deal. Oh my god, No, 133 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: this was a whole thing. And then I later went 134 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 2: it was like in Conde Nast or one of those 135 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: you know, like Vanity Fair or something like one of 136 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 2: these venues that like famous people tried, and you know, 137 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 2: people line up for years to get into this thing. 138 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 2: And I'm going and they're a nice couple, they're still married, 139 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 2: they have kids, they're wonderful people. I hope they stay 140 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: together forever. But I'm thinking, man, there was a teepee. 141 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: They had a tepee erected at this thing. I mean 142 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 2: that with some lady in a tepee at a wedding. Yeah, yes, 143 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:50,359 Speaker 2: so I remember all of that. 144 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: You know what, Maybe I'm full of it. I am, well, 145 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: I am full of it. But yeah, you need a teepee. 146 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 7: I need Oh my gosh, if you make out with 147 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 7: someone at Kiki's wedding, that would make me so happy. 148 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: I think I'm a know everybody at Kiki's wedding. 149 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 6: So no, no, no, no, I got so many women 150 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 6: lined up for you at my wedding period. 151 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: Outside contest you're doing where you can buy one hundred 152 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 2: dollars raffles. 153 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: I see what you're up to. 154 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 2: You're selling raffle tickets so you can have the worst 155 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 2: night of your life as a wedding date. 156 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm not a good wedding date. 157 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: I'm I'm not a good because if dancing is the 158 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: main entertainment thing at the wedding, I don't I'm not 159 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:23,679 Speaker 2: a dancer. 160 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Shelley's wedding. 161 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 7: We were trying to get you out there and you 162 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 7: were like, no, I'm good, No, but none of them. 163 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 2: Maybe you were dancing, but a few of us in 164 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 2: the group, we all sat in the corner and didn't dance, 165 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 2: Like I didn't feel alone, not wanted to dance. And 166 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: then Shelley's sister came over and like bullied me. 167 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 3: She wanted to dance. 168 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I didn't because at that point, because we came, 169 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 2: we were invited later in the evening, so everybody was 170 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: ready to go when we were, and we were not. 171 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: We were not prepared for I wasn't prepared for that. 172 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 2: I should have pre partied for two hours before I 173 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 2: should have to be, you know, in line with these people. 174 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:58,559 Speaker 2: I think Mike had a shirt off by that point, 175 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: which is not uncommon for military life, Shelley's husband to 176 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 2: have his shirt off. But yeah, no, hey, Natalie, how 177 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 2: you doing you? Natalie, you eloped. You've been married for 178 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 2: eight years, and so it cost you very little. I 179 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 2: assume very little, Okay, And. 180 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: We decided you go ahead. 181 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 8: We decided we weren't gonna do all that wedding stuff, 182 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 8: especially since when we're getting married, we saw so many 183 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 8: people get divorced, especially in our families, and we said 184 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 8: we're not going to waste our time. If this isn't 185 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 8: going to be ten years, we're not going to do 186 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 8: a big party for what. 187 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 2: See that's interesting, like what if you had a really 188 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 2: simple wedding and then you celebrate making it past the 189 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 2: national average with like a big shin dig and then 190 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: you could save slowly for that and make it exactly 191 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: what you want. You have all this time because you 192 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 2: don't have to. You can do it ten years, you 193 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: can do it fifteen, you do twenty something like that. 194 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 2: So you didn't spend a lot of money, and you're 195 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 2: happy and you're to get and you're not broke at 196 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: least not from that, not from that for sure, right 197 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 2: right exactly, you're not broker than broke. Then thank you, Natalie, 198 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 2: have a good day you too. I'm glad you called Sonia. 199 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 2: How you doing, Sonia? 200 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 3: Oh I'm doing great. 201 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 8: Fred, how are. 202 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: You doing well? 203 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: You're about to blow up my theory because you spent 204 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: less than ten k and your. 205 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: Divorce you got it. 206 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: It was one hundred and fifty people less than ten k. 207 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 3: Granted that was twenty fourteen, so prices were cheaper, but 208 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: the theory does not check. 209 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: Out all right, So without lars, if you had it 210 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 2: to do over again. Would you've just had a bigger wedding, 211 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 2: because why not? Or I mean did you get the 212 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 2: wedding that you wanted and it didn't work out? I 213 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 2: mean did you try and save on it? 214 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 8: Yes? 215 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 3: Yes, we tried to save on it. 216 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 1: And I would do it over again. 217 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 5: Because Fred, my friends still say this was the best 218 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 5: party They've ever went to, was the best party I've 219 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 5: ever thrown. 220 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: E don't want to hear from a lot of people. 221 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: I hear that, And this is what Kiki's saying too. 222 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 2: It's like, look, look, yeah, the wedding whatever, whatever, But like, 223 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 2: this is my time to shine. This is my time 224 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 2: to have my night, my way, do it how I want. 225 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 2: And if it costs ever much, it costs by it 226 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 2: and if it melts down that we still had a 227 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 2: great night. I look at it too, pragmatically, just like 228 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 2: everything else. 229 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: Perfect. Hey, love you guys, have a good day. 230 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: Fred Hayter Lawrence back for twenty twenty six. This is 231 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 2: a woman who, for the last two years has told 232 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 2: us she's forced to listen, but yet listens every day, 233 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: probably more than most people. Fred starting out twenty twenty 234 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 2: six with how many girls he soaked up with When 235 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 2: did I even say that? 236 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 3: You're always bragging? 237 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: Segment is next, where we do the daily tote board 238 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 2: of how many people I've hooked up with? 239 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 4: You have? 240 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: We haven't gotten there yet, You're ahead of yourself. Fred Hayter, 241 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 1: Lauren Lauren. 242 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 7: Wait for Jason and I's podcast, where we have every 243 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 7: woman on. 244 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we have to yes, Oh my god, He'll 245 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 2: never run out of a podcast. 246 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: That we liked and we miss we have fun. You 247 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: have to datum. 248 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 3: You always bring them around and we get attached to that. 249 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 2: They now right, kids are happy to. 250 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 7: Jason I loved, and we're like, where are they? 251 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 2: Everybody I've ever dated is married with kids are happy 252 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 2: now and when they weren't happy with me makes perfect sense. 253 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: They're satisfied with their lives. They feel fulfilled. 254 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 255 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: I just I love this person because I don't know 256 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: what show you're listening to, but it sounds better than 257 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 2: the one that we're doing. 258 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: Hey Aaron, how you doing? 259 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 7: Hi? 260 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 5: Good? 261 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 6: Are you? 262 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: Aaron? I don't know? You know? They say that, like, 263 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: what is that saying about haters? Like? 264 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 2: I think our haters spend way more time with this 265 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 2: show than the people that like it. 266 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:37,359 Speaker 1: Haters are your motivators. 267 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: I mean, it's I appreciate it, thank you. You know, 268 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: if you don't like it, you like it. I don't 269 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: care listen. As long as it's possible. I appreciate your 270 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 2: loyalty either way, whether it's love or hate. Aaron, are 271 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 2: you Are you on the lover or the hate side? 272 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 2: I'm just curious. 273 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 9: Oh, I'm I'm an alum partier. 274 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: This is right, this is fine. You how much have 275 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: you spent on your wedding? 276 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 9: Seventy thousand dollars? 277 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: Seventy thousand dollars and what is a drum roll? Please? 278 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 9: Seven d seven zero? 279 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? 280 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 2: Seven, zer's seventy thousand dollars and drum roll? 281 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 1: Where are we at? 282 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 10: Uh? 283 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 9: Three years happily married and expecting our first baby? 284 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: There you go. 285 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 2: I think so this is poppycock? Then, is what you're saying? 286 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 2: This twenty thousand dollars thing? 287 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 9: Yeah? No, that's crap. I mean maybe now it's twenty 288 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 9: thirty five. It would be probably a lot more to 289 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 9: get what I got, But I'm a kiki. It's like 290 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 9: the day of your life. I do what you want, 291 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 9: and honestly, my husband help me get like the green wedding. 292 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 9: So when you find the right one, you side together 293 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 9: and set. 294 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 2: Up there you go, why not, Aaron, have a good day. 295 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 2: Thanks for calling and for listening. 296 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 3: Thank you guys, Thanks for coming. 297 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: Some one section Fred is good luck, Chuck? I am? 298 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: I am. 299 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 2: You know you date me and you're like, I need 300 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: to get my life together, and then you go find 301 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: someone and get married. It's fine now, I will say 302 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 2: there have been two cycles of my life where people 303 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: get married, and then there's two cycles of my life. 304 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: Where they come back. 305 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: And we're we're entering into one of those again now 306 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: where some of the ones from the past are beginning 307 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 2: to emerge again. The problem is some of them are 308 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,959 Speaker 2: not divorced yet. Hi, Sarah, how you doing? It's a 309 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 2: nasty world out there. 310 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 1: How you do it? 311 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 9: Hi? 312 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 3: Good morning, I'm good. 313 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 2: How are you Sarah? How much you spent great? And 314 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 2: thanks for listening. You spent how much on your wedding? 315 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 2: And where are we at? 316 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:24,079 Speaker 3: It was about twenty two thousand. We were in Urbana, Illinois, 317 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 3: very very small venue. She had just started out. Honestly, 318 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 3: we spent more on our open bar than we did 319 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 3: anything else. 320 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: Yep, Okay, all right. 321 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 2: So essentially, though you've written here, you had a barbecue wedding, 322 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 2: spent twenty two K, and you're still together. 323 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 3: Yes, we are, and we actually moved to Georgia. So 324 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 3: I'm listening from Georgia. 325 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: Well, thank you, thank you very we appreciate that. Thank 326 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: you so much. 327 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 2: And so maybe this twenty thousand dollars thing is right, 328 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 2: because twenty two that's closed. So and you guys are happy. 329 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 2: So thank you, Sarah, Yes, thank you. 330 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: Having a good day. 331 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 2: Put us on a radio station in Georgia, somewhere we 332 00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 2: need Georgia. 333 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: We got North Carolina on lock doing great North. We 334 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: had North Dakota on lot. 335 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 2: Well, no, no one's listening in Charlotte that no one 336 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 2: even knows exists. And then but you know Raleigh, Raleiah, Yes, 337 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 2: they love us in Raleigh, apparently, God bless you. Brandon, Brandon, 338 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 2: you I'm talking to you. Brandon, Hat says yeah, Brandon 339 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 2: decided to hang up sixty five grand still married, he said, So, 340 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe this is ALLBS, Yes it is, 341 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 2: but I can see a world where it would make 342 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: sense that you if you don't spend as much money 343 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 2: and you don't feel as much pressure to you know, 344 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 2: because a lot of people are going into big, major 345 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 2: debt for this. I mean, who's got seventy thousand dollars 346 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: is laying around so you're going into dad. I say 347 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 2: the same thing about rings. People spend all this money 348 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: on a ring. Good for you if you can afford it. 349 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 2: But if you can, now you've got these payments and 350 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 2: this pressure. So now you've started your life together with 351 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 2: all these bills that you have to pay, and yet 352 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 2: you're still trying to figure out how to navigate, you know, 353 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 2: being in a relationship, being together. So I just think 354 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 2: it would be rudn't to maybe just spend what you 355 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 2: can afford and then you know, build on it as 356 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 2: you as you stayed together the longer. 357 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 3: Would you guys be pissed if you traveled? 358 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 7: I told you guys off the air that I have 359 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 7: friends who like, had this big wedding in Spain and 360 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 7: it was in vogue and it was so elaborate, and 361 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,599 Speaker 7: not even less than a year later, they're already divorced. Like, 362 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 7: would you guys be pissed if you like traveled all 363 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 7: that way and he's a guest. 364 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 6: Yes, if I was a guest i'd be hot. 365 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. Did you enjoy yourself though? Because you went to Spain? 366 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 7: I didn't go, but it looked beautiful. A lot of 367 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 7: my friends went. 368 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. I guess I would have to ask them, 369 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 3: but I'd be. 370 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: Like the experience. 371 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy though. 372 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 7: Date for ten years, you have this huge wedding and 373 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 7: then what could happen? 374 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah with a year. 375 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: That's this is why I sometimes wonder if I'm better 376 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 2: off just dating someone forever. You'll give him a ring 377 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: in the commitment, because that explain to me, like, how 378 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 2: are you to get it for a decade? I know, 379 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: and then divorce within a year. The only thing that 380 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 2: change was that you went to Spain and got married technically, 381 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 2: so you know, I mean, we just skip that part 382 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: and they're probably still together. 383 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 7: I have a friend that's been engaged for five years 384 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 7: and I don't know if they'll ever get married, which 385 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 7: I think is an interesting one. 386 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 2: Well, and Camlin, people hear me say this or us 387 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 2: talk about this, and they're like, wellether he has a 388 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 2: commitment issue or whatever. No, I don't like I would 389 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 2: get we get together. We can move in together, but 390 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 2: perhaps separate houses connected with a tunnel of some kind, 391 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 2: and then a ring and the whole thing. It has 392 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: nothing to do with seeing other people. It has nothing 393 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 2: to do with variety, has nothing to do with the 394 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 2: concern about being with one person for the rest of 395 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: my life. It has everything to do with the thing 396 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 2: falling apart, because you see it all the time. People 397 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 2: date forever and ever and ever, they get married and 398 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 2: then it just melts down. Why it's got to be 399 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: a mental thing. 400 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: Matt. 401 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 2: You spent five grand on your wedding, not even five grand, Okay, 402 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 2: well tell me about it. I mean, tell me about 403 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: your five thousand on a wedding, because I bet it 404 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 2: was dope. 405 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 406 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 407 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 10: We had about fifty to seventy five guests, not sure exactly, 408 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 10: wedding on the river, beautiful venue. We decorated everything ourselves, 409 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 10: had a bar catering done. 410 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: It was great. 411 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 3: I love that. 412 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: And we're together yep, been married twelve years. There you go. 413 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 2: Okay, so the point for my not my theory, but 414 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 2: this is the research theory. You have a barbecue. Thank you, Matt, 415 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 2: have a good day. Well all christian can be that Christian. 416 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 2: You spent seven hundred dollars. 417 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 5: What amazing? 418 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: What you spend it under dollars. 419 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 4: Honestly, I think the judge was about. 420 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 1: Two hundred and fifty. Yeah, she brought a dress. I 421 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: bought a suit and a hotel room. Okay, yeah, we 422 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: got we got married. 423 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 4: We got married in the literally in the beginning of COVID, 424 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 4: so it was twenty twenty. It kind of worked out 425 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 4: perfect because me and me, me and the wife, we 426 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 4: don't really like big events when we have to pay 427 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 4: for fluff people, and so we were outside at a forest 428 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 4: was there pretty much They allowed us to use a 429 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 4: forest reserve for free. We set up our family set 430 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 4: up for us. We had about twelve people only, and 431 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 4: the judge came out at the wedding. We zoomed it 432 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 4: to everybody. Everybody could be on zoom and watched the wedding. 433 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 4: They had about one hundredcent people. But yeah, we didn't 434 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 4: have to pay for over that and Dan we closed 435 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 4: on a house Michael week and a half later. 436 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 2: So see, that was smart because you probably wound up 437 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 2: spending your money on that instead, and that probably will 438 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 2: work out better in the long term. 439 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,120 Speaker 1: Good for you, Christian, have a good day. That's awesome 440 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: you too, well, see. 441 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 2: And he makes an excellent point too. Think about Kiki. 442 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 2: You don't have to say, like specifically, how many people 443 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: are coming to your. 444 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: Wedding two hundred and fifty? WHOA. 445 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: Now, you're not going to answer this question honestly because 446 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 2: I don't know that many people would. 447 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 1: But of the two point fifty. 448 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 2: Truly, truly, how many would you demand attend? What percentage? 449 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 2: Twenty seventy five? Okay, even so's twenty five percent of 450 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 2: the people there, which is what about seventy people? I'm 451 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 2: just off the top of my head, are fluff for 452 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 2: people that you're paying However, howmver much money for? Absolutely? 453 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: They don't have to be there, yes, and I think 454 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 2: that's true in every wedding. You know, it's all my 455 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 2: mom's you know, coworker has to be there, my dentist 456 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 2: from kindergarten has to be there. 457 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: My Yeah, I don't know. 458 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 2: These people are there and you're paying for this, but 459 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 2: like they are not essential to the operation. 460 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 6: Yes, but you know, I don't want I'm like making 461 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 6: people feel left out. 462 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 2: You know. 463 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 6: I like to be invited to everything, so I feel 464 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 6: like everybody should be invited. 465 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: Okay, but see, there you go. 466 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 2: That is money that you're having to spend on something 467 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 2: that if you just hey, if if we can do the. 468 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 6: United Center, I would do it. 469 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: Oh God, absolutely, yeah, I know we can get into 470 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: All State Arena. 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All thanks to 480 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: Live Nation the Nut. 481 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,360 Speaker 1: Yeah they talk better than the Excite. 482 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred shows, like 483 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: running in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 484 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. 485 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 5: Paulina, Yes, take it away, Thank you so much, dear blog. 486 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 3: So you know, I know we hear the term. 487 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 5: We talked about it here on the show too, like work, wife, work, husband. 488 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 3: We've heard of these terms. We're familiar. 489 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 5: And one term that I've heard before but not in 490 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 5: this way. And I think this applies a lot of 491 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 5: people who work like in maybe offices and stuff, because 492 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 5: then you're around a bunch of different people, different age groups. 493 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 3: Right, it's the work daughter. 494 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: The work daughter. I thought about this. 495 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 5: Before I have either, and I'm very offunded. I'm very 496 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 5: upset because my mom she's I guess she's the girl, 497 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 5: right a Cirie high school shoutout. I went to high 498 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,640 Speaker 5: school there, like that, that's our that's our territory administration. Yeah, 499 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 5: so she's in the office correct yet and one of 500 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 5: the offices, and you know, she's that girl. And I 501 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 5: know that she's like mentored so many people that have walked, 502 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 5: you know, just through that building, whether they were students 503 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 5: or they've worked there part time, full time, and people 504 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 5: love her. And I love to see that. And you know, 505 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 5: my mom's the best, Like she is just the best. 506 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 5: But now I'm getting a little offriend they were crossing 507 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 5: the line here, because if it's getting a little more 508 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 5: serious than just being like, oh, you know, I love Marta, right, 509 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 5: or I love you know all she's done for me 510 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 5: this and that, it's like, that's my work mom. 511 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 3: And then she goes yeah, that's my work daughter. 512 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 5: I'm like, ma, you got two daughters, Like this is 513 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 5: like we're in a fight, Like this is crazy. Meet 514 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 5: me at the train station like this is crazy and 515 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 5: she's like no, like they're my daughters, like I love them. 516 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 5: And she's got sons she apparently. I mean, I'm not a. 517 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 3: Boy, so whatever, work sons, but work daughters. 518 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 5: Personally offended, Yes, I am threatened. I feel like you 519 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 5: know that that is my my mommy. 520 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, my mommy. It's my mommy, and you cannot the line. 521 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: More than likely prioritize your needs over there is maybe. 522 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 5: I mean, it's okay, she doesn't like I'm Gronias of 523 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 5: the day. 524 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 3: I'm sure she's hired of me too. 525 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 5: But I truly believe that like this has to happen 526 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 5: in offices because when you're other like kind of you know, 527 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 5: places of work, because if you think about it, you've 528 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 5: got like, you know, making this up, miss Cheryl, who's 529 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 5: like whatever, fifty five years old, and then you've got like, 530 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 5: you know, Jessica who's twenty two. 531 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 3: It's hysterical. Work friend groups are so funny. 532 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 7: Like I worked at a job where like this woman 533 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 7: was way older than me. And like she was spilling 534 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 7: her like affair secrets to me. She was having an 535 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 7: affair and like, well, like I would have never had 536 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 7: like this. I was like this little girl, like what 537 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 7: is going on? 538 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 8: You know? 539 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 3: But it's funny. 540 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 2: Well so, so your mom is showing motherly qualities and 541 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 2: attributes to other young women and and you feel as 542 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,199 Speaker 2: though you're encroaching on your territory. 543 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 5: I thought it was one, but there's there have been many, 544 00:21:58,840 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 5: and there's more to comum. 545 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 8: Shit. 546 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: I think it's very sweet. 547 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 3: Actually, it is the sweetest things. 548 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 2: You know who she is and how what she means 549 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 2: to people, and yes, yeah, yeah, we're. 550 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 5: Going through some stuff right now with my mom, and 551 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 5: I get a lot of messages your mom means the 552 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 5: world to me. 553 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 3: I love her so much. 554 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 5: And I'm like, and they're my age or younger, they're 555 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 5: actually younger, and I'm like that that is so good. 556 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 1: I respond back, the hell up. 557 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 5: Yeah, I said that my birth certificate and I'm like, 558 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 5: that's my mommy. 559 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 2: You're like, that's weird, that's weird think to respond combatively 560 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 2: to people who you know are cheering her on. 561 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, exactly. 562 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: The middle finger emoji is a little aggressive but