WEBVTT - Be Independent! (Minisode)

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Reasonably Shady. I am jazellba Ryant. Yes, Robin Dixon

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<v Speaker 1>into his house. Guys, I'm I woke up this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling so good. I don't know. Am I taking vitamins? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, of course I take vitamins, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know they're kicking in or something right now. I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel good about life. Yes, have you been listening to Beyonce?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't nobody break my soul. I just want everybody

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<v Speaker 1>to know, not one person, not one person, is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>break my damn soul. But you know, I was like, Beyonce,

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<v Speaker 1>you're preaching to the quiet because this has been my

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<v Speaker 1>mantra for a very long time. Of course, right, get

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<v Speaker 1>with we know that, we know that. So yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and talk about Beyonce and break my soul. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So Robin just hit her head on the wall, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's happening. I don't know what's happening. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, um, okay, maybe I'm not a part

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<v Speaker 1>of the bee Hive because I heard the song, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, man, man robbing. Okay, be Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this is robbing. This is not just saying this yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, okay, I am officially not a

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<v Speaker 1>part of the beehive. I love Beyonce as an artist,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was just not like moved by that song. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but but okay, Robin the whole house music, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>Baltimore girl, and and that's the that's what makes this

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<v Speaker 1>even worse. Like house music, club music. I love idium music,

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<v Speaker 1>dance music, with all that stuff. And for whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, I hate robbing right now, have

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<v Speaker 1>come for her, Come for her. So like this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>I was driving in the car and it was on

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I'm gonna turn this all the

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<v Speaker 1>way out, talking like really feeling, and I'm like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what's gonna happen. I'm gonna like see

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<v Speaker 1>the visuals for it, and I'm gonna be like, oh yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know she's going to tear the visuals up.

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<v Speaker 1>She is going to like bring this song to life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I already is giving people life, like people instantly,

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, okay, first of all, any funny how like

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram it was like every freaking post you roll

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<v Speaker 1>pass was like, you can't break my son, No, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't break. Next, you can't break. Okay, but do we

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<v Speaker 1>think she's talking about jay Z No, No, she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about nobody. And that's the other thing she talking

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<v Speaker 1>about news. I'm gonna quit my job and ship. No

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<v Speaker 1>you're not. If you quit your job, you wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>making this damn song in the first place. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she she I felt like she was talking about management,

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<v Speaker 1>the people that surround her that tell her what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just making up silly music that she knows is

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<v Speaker 1>that the people are going to be like, yeah, I disagree,

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree. I disagree. Literally is having people in these

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<v Speaker 1>streets quit their job. She is. No, one's quitting their jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>They told them to quit their jobs. They're quitting their job.

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<v Speaker 1>We're moving on, We're moving on. I can't. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>looking right now. So okay, like check back with me

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<v Speaker 1>and like three weeks, three weeks, yes, when the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the whole project, like you know, she drops everything

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<v Speaker 1>exactly Okay, but but I don't know why, Like her

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<v Speaker 1>vocals didn't sound that great on the song Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree. I think she sounded amazing. I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so. I was here for it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because it's beyonest. She gets a pass and then

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<v Speaker 1>like why she could have passed and Drake doesn't like,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, Drake sucks. Okay, can we talk about Drake.

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<v Speaker 1>We're so going roll, but I do I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about format. I know, I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Drake really quickly. Because Drake doesn't have friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he says, no new friends. He does not

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<v Speaker 1>have any friends. Okay, because because he there was an

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram viggio out there and that I saw, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was in the club but his friends and he was

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<v Speaker 1>dancing and it was the dumbest, whackest dance I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was a two fourth step, middle step, backstep.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but all his friends were pumping him

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<v Speaker 1>up like yeah, Drake, yeah, Drake, you're doing it. You

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<v Speaker 1>do know you're not doing it? You look goofy. Well

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<v Speaker 1>what are they going to say? That's there, like meal

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<v Speaker 1>t They're gonna say, stopped looking goofy. Yeah yeah, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>when I do my goofy dance, you tell me to

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<v Speaker 1>stop because you're my friend, but I don't tell you

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<v Speaker 1>stop all the time because you know you're goofy, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so like me, telling you to stop is a

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<v Speaker 1>waste of my breath. And so maybe his maybe Drake's

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<v Speaker 1>friends know that he knows that he's goofy right, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's like no point in him in them telling him

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<v Speaker 1>to stop, right right. Okay, Well, anyway, we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>back to format right now, which is a reasonably shady

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<v Speaker 1>moment of the week, okay, because we want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Drake's music. Okay, Yeah, we're gonna get there, all right. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like on fire up again again, so fire Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I finally got my other planter. So I have

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<v Speaker 1>two planters in front of my house. They're beautiful. Thank you, wayfair.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you got it the last time I did,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, okay, So I have flowers in the planters, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so okay, so one of them, okay, both of

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<v Speaker 1>the flowers that because I didn't water them, Okay, my fault.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went back to the American plant store, I

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<v Speaker 1>bought some more. I put it in. They were looking

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<v Speaker 1>so beautiful for like two weeks, like amazing and I

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<v Speaker 1>was watering them every other day. Their purple yes beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>That goddamn dear chewed them up last night. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something. My ring kept going off, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was like a fox or something, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the fox comes by my house like three o'clock in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning every morning. Yeah, oh yeah, the foxes like

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<v Speaker 1>all over my rain. So the ring was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone wasn't really paying attention. And then I look up

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<v Speaker 1>this morning and that deer has eaten my Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something, So I take it you didn't put

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<v Speaker 1>any like what we've hair, So no, I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>put hair, human hair, human hair. No, but I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>today to get the spray, so I'm gonna spray all

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<v Speaker 1>my flowers down, and and it says it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>dear repellent. I wanted to be a dear killer because

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<v Speaker 1>these deer got to stop. I don't care animal people.

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<v Speaker 1>Come for me if you want to, but I want them.

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<v Speaker 1>Deer's dead, okay, because my house was to get so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>The deer again, y'all a shady But you're the shady

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<v Speaker 1>one because you should have learned your lesson from the

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<v Speaker 1>last time. So how are you going to be mad

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<v Speaker 1>at the deer for doing something that you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>dear de and that you should have been prepared for whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Completely forget about that. I did. But see what I

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<v Speaker 1>was told was they don't come so close to the house.

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<v Speaker 1>They're scared to come close to the house. So I

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<v Speaker 1>thought these flowers were safe. They were not safe, and

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<v Speaker 1>now they are in the deer's belly. This is a disaster. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Jee's what happened to the first time. You know what, Rob,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna move on. This is a sore subject. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So Rob, what is your reasonably shading moment? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>know you have one? Okay, So okay, So you know, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've probably told you this before. But like

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<v Speaker 1>when Juan Antonio decides to contribute and clean up, he

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<v Speaker 1>just like throws everything away. Yes, so he just throws

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<v Speaker 1>everything away, right, so that that's his version of cleaning up.

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<v Speaker 1>So if he's cleaning up his closet, he just gets

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<v Speaker 1>rid of all the clothes. You know, I'm saying, he's

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<v Speaker 1>cleaning out the garage, throwing out literally did I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you how he we literally took well, he and the

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<v Speaker 1>boys took probably like forty basketball's, football's, baseball, tennis, tennis,

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<v Speaker 1>do tennis balls to the dumpster, just because that was

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<v Speaker 1>his way of cleaning up. That's not cleaning up one,

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually lazy a little bit, right exactly. So, um,

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<v Speaker 1>so this time he decides to clean the refrigerator. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>mind you, I had cleaned the refrigerator like the day before,

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<v Speaker 1>like I got rid of like all the takeout food

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<v Speaker 1>that was old, all the you know, lettuce and tomatoes

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<v Speaker 1>and strawberries with mold on. God oh god, yes, because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like cutting them up and washing them anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'd already did that the day before. So but

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<v Speaker 1>for whatever reason, he decides he's going to clean up,

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<v Speaker 1>so clean the refrigerator. So I walk in um to

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen. I opened the refrigerator and I look at

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, there's like my my kitchen, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>my refrigerator is like empty. But I look at the

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<v Speaker 1>shelves on the door, like you know, you open the

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<v Speaker 1>door and on the inside of the door, the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>shelf has absolutely nothing on it, like nothing, like it's empty,

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<v Speaker 1>empty like nothing, and so and where the day before

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<v Speaker 1>they were like seven bottles of salad dressing. So he

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<v Speaker 1>literally throws away salad, using that was bothering nobody because

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<v Speaker 1>it was on the door, right, It's like it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>not even that it was like a mess, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if it was like in the Frigera refrigerator and creating

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<v Speaker 1>a mess, a whole bunch of junk, you can't fit anything. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's literally on the door, not bothering anybody. Throws away

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<v Speaker 1>seven bottles seven salad jest and ain't hurt nobody, not

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<v Speaker 1>a soul. And what was his reasoning? He said, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they were expired. Nobody weren't. No, they weren't. Maybe one

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<v Speaker 1>of them was like expired like in salad. And I

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<v Speaker 1>told him that, I'm like, I don't care what the

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<v Speaker 1>date is on it, like I could still it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>smell good. Did you do the taste test? Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>still just a little put a little pinky and okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's still good. That tastes all right, right, Like did

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<v Speaker 1>you do any of that? No, but the date said November.

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<v Speaker 1>That's oh, And I said, okay, maybe like two of

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<v Speaker 1>them said that, but I know there were at least

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<v Speaker 1>two that were like brand spanking new, not opened. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Wan Antonio you waste. You waste the money out here

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<v Speaker 1>in the street, money and effort. It thought, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta fear, Well, what salad dressing did I have? Which

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<v Speaker 1>one did I like? Where did I get it from?

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<v Speaker 1>And everything is expensive in the grocery store these days. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>salad dressing. It's not cheat exactly, especially if you buy

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<v Speaker 1>the big bottles. Girl, Oh I know, yeah, okay, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you wrong for that? So? Yes, anyway, okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna we're gonna move on. We're gonna move on. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is fourth of July. Happy fourth of July people, Yes, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So fourth of July used to be very near and

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<v Speaker 1>dear to me. Do you know why? Um? Nobody or not?

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<v Speaker 1>That was what was that wrong? Was that sound effect?

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<v Speaker 1>That was like me thinking, thinking really hard. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>got married on the fourth of June, So it was

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<v Speaker 1>my wedding anniversary that I cared about, you know when

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<v Speaker 1>I was right? Yes, so it was. And when we

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<v Speaker 1>got married, we actually got married in my Hawaii and

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<v Speaker 1>so you have like fireworks and we have fireworks. Funny story,

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<v Speaker 1>Magic Johnson was actually at my wedding by accident. Back then. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a huge accident. He had no idea who

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<v Speaker 1>I was, but he was there. Um and all of

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<v Speaker 1>the guys at the resort, we're telling Jamal that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get married on the fourth of July because it's

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<v Speaker 1>Independence Day and you're giving up your independence on the

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<v Speaker 1>day you're supposed to celebrate independence. Well we see how

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<v Speaker 1>that worked out, and he has all the independence in

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<v Speaker 1>the world right now. That's funny, that's hilarious. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do like the fourth of July. It made sense for

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<v Speaker 1>us because our first kiss, right for whatever reason, it

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<v Speaker 1>was on the fourth of July, and fireworks went off

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<v Speaker 1>after we kissed. I don't know how this brother playing that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it happened. I don't know. It was kiss smith?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what? Kiss smith? Is that a word? Yes? Sure, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it just worked anyway. So but now for the July

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<v Speaker 1>is just like barbecues and let's get drunk. Turned us, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean definitely. Well for me, like as a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>it was always just like something to look forward to.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fun. You go, you know, watch some fireworks

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, hang on hang out. For me, it

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<v Speaker 1>was hang out at the Inner Harbor, watch the fireworks,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be on somebody's boat that was docked at

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<v Speaker 1>the harbor have a good old time. I can remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I have this funny video. So Corey, my oldest son,

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<v Speaker 1>is like a scaredy cat. So he was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>scared of the dark, scared a lot of noises. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was scared of fireworks. So we went one day

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<v Speaker 1>and took There was fireworks going off at like Caytonsville

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<v Speaker 1>High School maybe right, which is in Baltimore. So we

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<v Speaker 1>wrapt my parents house like swimming for the day and

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<v Speaker 1>then we're like, oh, let's go see the fireworks. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that? Robin? Robin was raised real bougie at

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<v Speaker 1>my parents house swimming for the day because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>her parents got a pull in the back, grew up

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<v Speaker 1>with swimming fools. So we were at my parents house

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<v Speaker 1>swimming and then we went, um, you know, I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to see the fireworks and he's like, I'm scared,

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<v Speaker 1>but okay, So we drive over there. We're just in

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<v Speaker 1>the car. We're like, okay, we're just gonna drive over there.

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<v Speaker 1>Went stay in the car okay, and um, I have

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<v Speaker 1>the cutest little video because it was like it was

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<v Speaker 1>like recording the audio as these were sitting along this

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<v Speaker 1>side of things on rolling road and these fireworks are

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<v Speaker 1>going off, and Corey is like, go gee, my mom

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<v Speaker 1>was driving. Okay, so he was like go go, like

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted her her drive to leave. Yes, yes, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>poor Cory, Poor Cory. He was like, and we're dying laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, he's like, drive the car and go gee.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he still like that? He? I mean, he's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit better now. Okay, it's like fourteen, but he

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<v Speaker 1>definitely is like he's like one of them, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>scared of the dark stairs and when there's no one

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<v Speaker 1>down there, like he's he still has his little little phobias.

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<v Speaker 1>But the video is the cutest thing. I have to

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I can send it to Taylor and he can

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<v Speaker 1>and he can put it in. He can put it

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<v Speaker 1>in and you can hear his cute little voice. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he should, So Taylor, our producer, drop it,

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<v Speaker 1>drop it in if you can. Yes, Corey, can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell me what is scary about fireworks? God to go?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh look at that going, Corey. I can't in front

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<v Speaker 1>of these people. He wanted to come and see him

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<v Speaker 1>in real life. And now he's tell him, I'll start

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<v Speaker 1>the car. Oh he's a good Corey. Look you want

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<v Speaker 1>you wanna watch him? Corey? I can't. What's gonna happen

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<v Speaker 1>to you? Hory? So that's like my favorite memory of

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<v Speaker 1>fourth of July. I just got to kick out of that, right. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna keep you all on the day because

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<v Speaker 1>we know y'all have barbecues to partake in, but we

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<v Speaker 1>do want to just talk about one quick thing because

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<v Speaker 1>women across the country got their independence taken from them

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<v Speaker 1>with this role versus wade overturning, and it is pathetic.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes absolutely no sense. If you don't want an abortion,

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<v Speaker 1>then don't get one, right. It's so infuriating. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so infuriating to me. And I think about myself when

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<v Speaker 1>I was seventeen, eighteen years older, freshman in college, I

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<v Speaker 1>chose to have an abortion because I was a college student.

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<v Speaker 1>I first of all, I was scared of my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that was my number one surprised Mom and Dad.

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<v Speaker 1>If y'all listening, so want oh lord, oh lord, that

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling them right now? This is the this is

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<v Speaker 1>the confession, I guess. So, okay, maybe they I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the news. But but anyway, they didn't know it

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. But like, I just think about if

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<v Speaker 1>I did not have that choice, or if I was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a college student and I'm scared, Like think about, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm scared of my parents and what they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to think, what they're gonna say, and I'm getting in trouble,

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<v Speaker 1>like I could have done something very wrong or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like to hurt myself to not have to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>the reality of, you know, what was happening, and so

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<v Speaker 1>being able to have the option to do that, um

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<v Speaker 1>also you know, worrying about you know, I'm in college.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to you know, get my degree, like you

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<v Speaker 1>can absolutely like those that's those are very like just

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<v Speaker 1>to not have been able to make that decision for

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<v Speaker 1>myself would have been horrible, and but you were able to.

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<v Speaker 1>And so imagine all of these ladies moving forward. It's like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not going to have the options that we did.

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<v Speaker 1>All of these girls that were chanting and so excited

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<v Speaker 1>when it was overturned, y'all gonna need some abortions. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here to tell y'all, y'all gonna need some abortions, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you won't have that right, right because you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be cheering and all excited because they overturned it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, and I hope that this can go

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<v Speaker 1>the other way eventually in the future, but um, we

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna pray on that. I just think it's just

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<v Speaker 1>so wrong. I wants for people that, yes, it's just bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, leave my body alone. Let me do with

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<v Speaker 1>what I want with my body. Now. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>no more eggs left, and so this is not an

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<v Speaker 1>option for me. But I'm just saying yes anyway, That

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<v Speaker 1>is our episode for today. We love y'all so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Enjoy the Fourth of July, like, go see the fireworks,

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<v Speaker 1>love your family, like, spend time with your family, Let

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<v Speaker 1>them know that you appreciate the Enjoy the summer y'all

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, we spent a couple of years with

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<v Speaker 1>this COVID mess, right, not sure what the hell is

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Since a good time? Yes, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whatever you do, just live your life either

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