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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am jazellba Ryant. Yes, Robin Dixon

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Speaker 1: into his house. Guys, I'm I woke up this morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling so good. I don't know. Am I taking vitamins? Um?

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Speaker 1: I mean, of course I take vitamins, but I don't

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Speaker 1: know they're kicking in or something right now. I just

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Speaker 1: feel good about life. Yes, have you been listening to Beyonce?

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Speaker 1: I can't nobody break my soul. I just want everybody

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Speaker 1: to know, not one person, not one person, is gonna

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Speaker 1: break my damn soul. But you know, I was like, Beyonce,

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Speaker 1: you're preaching to the quiet because this has been my

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Speaker 1: mantra for a very long time. Of course, right, get

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Speaker 1: with we know that, we know that. So yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: go ahead and talk about Beyonce and break my soul. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Robin just hit her head on the wall, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening. I don't know what's happening. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I was like, um, okay, maybe I'm not a part

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Speaker 1: of the bee Hive because I heard the song, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, man, man, man robbing. Okay, be Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is robbing. This is not just saying this yes,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, I am officially not a

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Speaker 1: part of the beehive. I love Beyonce as an artist,

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Speaker 1: but I was just not like moved by that song. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but but okay, Robin the whole house music, you're a

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Speaker 1: Baltimore girl, and and that's the that's what makes this

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Speaker 1: even worse. Like house music, club music. I love idium music,

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Speaker 1: dance music, with all that stuff. And for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: I was like, man, I hate robbing right now, have

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Speaker 1: come for her, Come for her. So like this morning,

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Speaker 1: I was driving in the car and it was on

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Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm gonna turn this all the

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Speaker 1: way out, talking like really feeling, and I'm like, man,

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Speaker 1: but you know what's gonna happen. I'm gonna like see

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Speaker 1: the visuals for it, and I'm gonna be like, oh yes,

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Speaker 1: because I know she's going to tear the visuals up.

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Speaker 1: She is going to like bring this song to life.

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Speaker 1: And I already is giving people life, like people instantly,

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Speaker 1: We're like, okay, first of all, any funny how like

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Speaker 1: on Instagram it was like every freaking post you roll

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Speaker 1: pass was like, you can't break my son, No, you

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Speaker 1: can't break. Next, you can't break. Okay, but do we

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Speaker 1: think she's talking about jay Z No, No, she didn't.

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Speaker 1: Talking about nobody. And that's the other thing she talking

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Speaker 1: about news. I'm gonna quit my job and ship. No

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Speaker 1: you're not. If you quit your job, you wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: making this damn song in the first place. Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean she she I felt like she was talking about management,

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Speaker 1: the people that surround her that tell her what to do.

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Speaker 1: She's just making up silly music that she knows is

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Speaker 1: that the people are going to be like, yeah, I disagree,

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Speaker 1: I disagree. I disagree. Literally is having people in these

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Speaker 1: streets quit their job. She is. No, one's quitting their jobs.

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Speaker 1: They told them to quit their jobs. They're quitting their job.

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Speaker 1: We're moving on, We're moving on. I can't. I can't

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Speaker 1: looking right now. So okay, like check back with me

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Speaker 1: and like three weeks, three weeks, yes, when the rest

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Speaker 1: of the whole project, like you know, she drops everything

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Speaker 1: exactly Okay, but but I don't know why, Like her

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Speaker 1: vocals didn't sound that great on the song Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I disagree. I think she sounded amazing. I didn't. I

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Speaker 1: don't think so. I was here for it. I think

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Speaker 1: it's because it's beyonest. She gets a pass and then

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Speaker 1: like why she could have passed and Drake doesn't like,

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Speaker 1: Oh no, Drake sucks. Okay, can we talk about Drake.

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Speaker 1: We're so going roll, but I do I do want

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Speaker 1: to talk about format. I know, I do want to

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Speaker 1: talk about Drake really quickly. Because Drake doesn't have friends.

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Speaker 1: You know, he says, no new friends. He does not

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Speaker 1: have any friends. Okay, because because he there was an

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Speaker 1: Instagram viggio out there and that I saw, and he

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Speaker 1: was in the club but his friends and he was

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Speaker 1: dancing and it was the dumbest, whackest dance I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: It was it was a two fourth step, middle step, backstep.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but all his friends were pumping him

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Speaker 1: up like yeah, Drake, yeah, Drake, you're doing it. You

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Speaker 1: do know you're not doing it? You look goofy. Well

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Speaker 1: what are they going to say? That's there, like meal

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Speaker 1: t They're gonna say, stopped looking goofy. Yeah yeah, Robin,

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Speaker 1: when I do my goofy dance, you tell me to

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Speaker 1: stop because you're my friend, but I don't tell you

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Speaker 1: stop all the time because you know you're goofy, right,

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Speaker 1: and so like me, telling you to stop is a

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Speaker 1: waste of my breath. And so maybe his maybe Drake's

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Speaker 1: friends know that he knows that he's goofy right, and

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Speaker 1: there's like no point in him in them telling him

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Speaker 1: back to format right now, which is a reasonably shady

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Speaker 1: moment of the week, okay, because we want to talk

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Speaker 1: about Drake's music. Okay, Yeah, we're gonna get there, all right. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm like on fire up again again, so fire Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I finally got my other planter. So I have

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Speaker 1: two planters in front of my house. They're beautiful. Thank you, wayfair.

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Speaker 1: I thought you got it the last time I did,

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Speaker 1: but I mean, okay, So I have flowers in the planters, okay,

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Speaker 1: and so okay, so one of them, okay, both of

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Speaker 1: the flowers that because I didn't water them, Okay, my fault.

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Speaker 1: So I went back to the American plant store, I

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Speaker 1: bought some more. I put it in. They were looking

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Speaker 1: so beautiful for like two weeks, like amazing and I

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Speaker 1: was watering them every other day. Their purple yes beautiful.

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Speaker 1: That goddamn dear chewed them up last night. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something. My ring kept going off, and I

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Speaker 1: thought it was like a fox or something, because you know,

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Speaker 1: the fox comes by my house like three o'clock in

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Speaker 1: the morning every morning. Yeah, oh yeah, the foxes like

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Speaker 1: all over my rain. So the ring was going on.

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Speaker 1: Someone wasn't really paying attention. And then I look up

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Speaker 1: this morning and that deer has eaten my Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something, So I take it you didn't put

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Speaker 1: any like what we've hair, So no, I'm supposed to

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Speaker 1: put hair, human hair, human hair. No, but I'm going

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Speaker 1: today to get the spray, so I'm gonna spray all

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Speaker 1: my flowers down, and and it says it's like a

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Speaker 1: dear repellent. I wanted to be a dear killer because

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Speaker 1: these deer got to stop. I don't care animal people.

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Speaker 1: Come for me if you want to, but I want them.

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Speaker 1: Deer's dead, okay, because my house was to get so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: The deer again, y'all a shady But you're the shady

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Speaker 1: one because you should have learned your lesson from the

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Speaker 1: last time. So how are you going to be mad

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Speaker 1: dear de and that you should have been prepared for whatever.

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Speaker 1: Completely forget about that. I did. But see what I

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Speaker 1: was told was they don't come so close to the house.

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Speaker 1: They're scared to come close to the house. So I

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Speaker 1: thought these flowers were safe. They were not safe, and

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Speaker 1: now they are in the deer's belly. This is a disaster. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Jee's what happened to the first time. You know what, Rob,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna move on. This is a sore subject. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So Rob, what is your reasonably shading moment? Because I

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Speaker 1: know you have one? Okay, So okay, So you know, um,

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Speaker 1: I think I've probably told you this before. But like

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Speaker 1: when Juan Antonio decides to contribute and clean up, he

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Speaker 1: just like throws everything away. Yes, so he just throws

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Speaker 1: everything away, right, so that that's his version of cleaning up.

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Speaker 1: So if he's cleaning up his closet, he just gets

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Speaker 1: rid of all the clothes. You know, I'm saying, he's

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Speaker 1: cleaning out the garage, throwing out literally did I tell

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Speaker 1: you how he we literally took well, he and the

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Speaker 1: boys took probably like forty basketball's, football's, baseball, tennis, tennis,

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Speaker 1: do tennis balls to the dumpster, just because that was

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Speaker 1: his way of cleaning up. That's not cleaning up one,

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Speaker 1: that's actually lazy a little bit, right exactly. So, um,

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Speaker 1: so this time he decides to clean the refrigerator. Now,

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Speaker 1: mind you, I had cleaned the refrigerator like the day before,

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Speaker 1: like I got rid of like all the takeout food

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Speaker 1: that was old, all the you know, lettuce and tomatoes

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Speaker 1: and strawberries with mold on. God oh god, yes, because

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like cutting them up and washing them anyway,

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Speaker 1: like I'd already did that the day before. So but

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason, he decides he's going to clean up,

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Speaker 1: so clean the refrigerator. So I walk in um to

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Speaker 1: first of all, there's like my my kitchen, I mean,

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Speaker 1: my refrigerator is like empty. But I look at the

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Speaker 1: shelves on the door, like you know, you open the

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Speaker 1: shelf has absolutely nothing on it, like nothing, like it's empty,

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Speaker 1: empty like nothing, and so and where the day before

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Speaker 1: they were like seven bottles of salad dressing. So he

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Speaker 1: literally throws away salad, using that was bothering nobody because

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Speaker 1: it was on the door, right, It's like it's it's

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Speaker 1: not even that it was like a mess, you know,

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Speaker 1: if it was like in the Frigera refrigerator and creating

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Speaker 1: a mess, a whole bunch of junk, you can't fit anything. No,

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Speaker 1: it's literally on the door, not bothering anybody. Throws away

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Speaker 1: seven bottles seven salad jest and ain't hurt nobody, not

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Speaker 1: a soul. And what was his reasoning? He said, Oh,

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Speaker 1: they were expired. Nobody weren't. No, they weren't. Maybe one

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Speaker 1: of them was like expired like in salad. And I

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Speaker 1: told him that, I'm like, I don't care what the

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Speaker 1: date is on it, like I could still it doesn't

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Speaker 1: smell good. Did you do the taste test? Like it's

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Speaker 1: still just a little put a little pinky and okay,

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Speaker 1: that's still good. That tastes all right, right, Like did

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Speaker 1: you do any of that? No, but the date said November.

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Speaker 1: That's oh, And I said, okay, maybe like two of

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Speaker 1: them said that, but I know there were at least

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Speaker 1: two that were like brand spanking new, not opened. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Wan Antonio you waste. You waste the money out here

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Speaker 1: in the street, money and effort. It thought, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: gotta fear, Well, what salad dressing did I have? Which

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Speaker 1: one did I like? Where did I get it from?

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Speaker 1: And everything is expensive in the grocery store these days. Yes,

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Speaker 1: salad dressing. It's not cheat exactly, especially if you buy

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Speaker 1: the big bottles. Girl, Oh I know, yeah, okay, why

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Speaker 1: are you wrong for that? So? Yes, anyway, okay, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna move on. We're gonna move on. So

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Speaker 1: this is fourth of July. Happy fourth of July people, Yes, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: So fourth of July used to be very near and

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Speaker 1: dear to me. Do you know why? Um? Nobody or not?

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Speaker 1: That was what was that wrong? Was that sound effect?

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Speaker 1: That was like me thinking, thinking really hard. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: got married on the fourth of June, So it was

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Speaker 1: my wedding anniversary that I cared about, you know when

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Speaker 1: I was right? Yes, so it was. And when we

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Speaker 1: got married, we actually got married in my Hawaii and

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Speaker 1: so you have like fireworks and we have fireworks. Funny story,

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Speaker 1: Magic Johnson was actually at my wedding by accident. Back then. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was a huge accident. He had no idea who

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Speaker 1: I was, but he was there. Um and all of

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Speaker 1: the guys at the resort, we're telling Jamal that you

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Speaker 1: don't get married on the fourth of July because it's

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Speaker 1: Independence Day and you're giving up your independence on the

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Speaker 1: day you're supposed to celebrate independence. Well we see how

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Speaker 1: that worked out, and he has all the independence in

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Speaker 1: the world right now. That's funny, that's hilarious. But I

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Speaker 1: but it happened. I don't know. It was kiss smith?

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Speaker 1: is our episode for today. We love y'all so much.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy the Fourth of July, like, go see the fireworks,

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Speaker 1: love your family, like, spend time with your family, Let

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Speaker 1: going on? Since a good time? Yes, and if you

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