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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Batch your happy hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena and we are here.

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Speaker 1: With our two golden luffbirds, Joan and Chock. Welcome back

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Speaker 1: to Batcher Happy Hour.

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Speaker 3: How are you guys doing great? Thanks for having us

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Speaker 3: back too.

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Speaker 4: To see you guys.

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Speaker 1: Get to see you, Joan, what is that box behind you?

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Speaker 4: Got no idea?

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Speaker 1: I honestly I thought it was product.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right now I have, I have my grandkids will

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Speaker 4: be with me right now, and my brother is in

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Speaker 4: my basement building a closet for me. So I'm up

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Speaker 4: in my bedroom.

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Speaker 2: Got Gosha. I need a little extra shoe room.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, oh cod winter codes.

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Speaker 2: Winter co.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we have a storage unit for that stuff. Like

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Speaker 5: you're separate from you guys have New York.

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Speaker 4: You have to.

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Speaker 5: We need a little extra space. We've outgrown this apartment. Chalk,

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Speaker 5: where you you're at home too.

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Speaker 3: I'm in Kansas, back in my office, just working away.

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Speaker 3: I get to see Joan on Thursday, so really excited

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Speaker 3: to have that happen.

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Speaker 2: Chalk.

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Speaker 5: Are you an animal enthusiast? You've got all these photos

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Speaker 5: of animals behind you.

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Speaker 3: That was a trip I've been to Africa a couple

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Speaker 3: of times. That was a trip in two thousand and

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Speaker 3: four and my son America going back in July.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's the first trip.

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Speaker 3: So we're really looking forward to it.

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Speaker 2: What are you most excited for?

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Speaker 3: Just to take him? He's always wanted to do it.

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Speaker 3: He graduated from high school in the in two thousand

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Speaker 3: and COVID prevented us from going at that point, so

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Speaker 3: he's out of college and we're gonna go do it.

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Speaker 3: We're going to have some fun.

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Speaker 1: Nice. That's a fun trip. I've never I mean, I've

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Speaker 1: never done a safari or anything like.

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Speaker 2: That, so it's got to be at some point.

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Speaker 1: Do you think so?

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Speaker 2: I think so. I would love to. I think I

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Speaker 2: don't know if you would like it as much?

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Speaker 1: I yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Maybe, Joan, would you ever do something like that?

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Speaker 4: It's like number one on my bucket list.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you, yeah, it's just to be so amazing.

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Speaker 4: But Chalk's been so many times like this is I

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Speaker 4: don't like his third or fourth trip, so I'm not

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Speaker 4: sure if he's going to want to go again. I

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Speaker 4: might to find somebody, you know what, Serena, you and

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Speaker 4: I can go.

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Speaker 2: We'll go, I'll go it. Yeah, there you go.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's like coming to the US. You know, they

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Speaker 3: think if they go to Chicago or New York they've

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Speaker 3: seen America. I mean, it's just so big and that

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Speaker 3: content is so much bigger than what we have here

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Speaker 3: in the United States North America. So there's a lot

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Speaker 3: to do. We're going to go to Zimbabwe, which is

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Speaker 3: kind of different, so it's going to be pretty rusting,

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Speaker 3: but we're looking forward to it. Nice.

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Speaker 1: That's fun. What so you guys are meeting up on Thursday?

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Speaker 1: How does that look? Who's going? Where? Where are you

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Speaker 4: Joe, he's fine here, he's fine here. A friend of

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Speaker 4: mine has a beach house and she invited Chalk and

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Speaker 4: I with another couple, all couples that he has met.

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Speaker 4: So we're just going to spend the weekend in Ocean City,

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Speaker 4: New Jersey.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so nice. Well, it's supposed to be good. No,

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Speaker 2: not gros gonna say. It's supposed to rain in New

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's supposed to be like kind of sixty and

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Speaker 4: not great. But we'll fun, like we'll play games and

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Speaker 4: you know, you.

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Speaker 5: Know what they last weekend or two weeks it was

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Speaker 5: supposed to rain like all weekend, and it rained overnight

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Speaker 5: every single time, and it was sunny all day.

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Speaker 2: So that's what I'm hoping for, you guys.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm going to bring clothes and pretend it's going

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Speaker 4: to be sunny and just hope for the best.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, throw on a sweater.

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Speaker 3: Joe and Serena, we're going to be in New York

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Speaker 3: in a couple of weeks. What do we need to do?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I mean it's going to be great weather hopefully.

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Speaker 5: June's always the best, so you should go.

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Speaker 1: I could be really hot though, Yeah, but the other

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Speaker 1: day it was like it was like, I think two

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Speaker 1: days ago it was like eighty, but it was like

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Speaker 1: a hot eighty like I was. I was walking down

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Speaker 5: I mean, if you're going to do outdoor stuff like

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Speaker 5: we love Central Park obviously, and the West Side Highway

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Speaker 5: is a great walk too. On the water, you get

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Speaker 5: a little bit more of a breeze there, which is

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Speaker 5: so nice. And then also just like all the patios

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Speaker 5: in the West Village, they have so many cute like

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Speaker 5: wine bars and cocktail bars. You can just like sit

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Speaker 1: Been to Have you guys been to Williamsburg yet?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been a lot. He probably hasn't.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you guys should go there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're bring my mom who's ninety three, and my

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Speaker 4: aunt who's eighty six, who's coming here from Spain to visit.

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Speaker 4: So Chalk and I are ticket. They love to go

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Speaker 4: to Broadway shows, so we're gonna come up and see

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Speaker 4: a show. So if you can recommend a show that

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Speaker 4: would be great.

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Speaker 5: Yes, apparently Outsiders. The Outsiders is amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I had some friends here that just went and saw.

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Speaker 4: That and they lookay good.

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Speaker 2: Yes. At one a bunch of Tony's and.

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Speaker 1: Sara Highland's in a play. I think she's did in

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Speaker 1: like the Great Gas, Great.

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Speaker 5: Gas, but I think she just wrapped Oh really Yeah,

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Speaker 5: but that's supposed to be amazing. Great Gatsby and Juliet.

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Speaker 5: It is supposed to be really fun. They're always promoting

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Speaker 5: that in Taxis. It's like all like modern day music.

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Speaker 5: It's like a modern take on Romeo and Juliet.

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Speaker 4: Juliet. Yeah, I think I still do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm trying to think what else we've seen, Like

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Speaker 5: Book of Mormon obviously like all the classic yeahle museum.

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Speaker 1: Last time you guys are the last time we talked

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Speaker 1: to you guys, you were looking for an apartment in

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Speaker 1: New York. What is going on with that?

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Speaker 3: So most likely stay tuned. August September will make an announcement.

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Speaker 3: I'm a little frugal. I'm not going to deny that,

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Speaker 3: but we've been traveling so much so we just wanted

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Speaker 3: to put it on hold to make sure that when

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Speaker 3: we do get the place, we're going to be able

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Speaker 3: to use it. But August September, we'll make an announcement.

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Speaker 1: And what do you can you tell us what area

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Speaker 3: Joan wants five bedrooms, a view of Central Park and

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Speaker 3: a door man and I'm thinking a studio about four

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Speaker 3: hundred square feet with a air fryer, so someplace in

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Speaker 3: between that, wouldn't you say, Honey, I.

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Speaker 2: Say closer to what Joan wants.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Now we're going. Now we're to live together and we're

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll live in one of your five bedrooms and

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Speaker 5: we'll get out.

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Speaker 3: In the you know, in the places to live in

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Speaker 3: New York City, there's just so many good ones. We've

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Speaker 3: looked at SOHO, but there's just not a lot of

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Speaker 3: available availability. I like the Upper west Side. We've looked

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Speaker 3: at some on the Upper east Side, Midtown, and I'm

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Speaker 3: just getting to know New York City, so we're going

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Speaker 3: to still continue to look.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, things come and go so faster.

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Speaker 1: I like the Upper west Side is Yeah.

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Speaker 2: There's some really nice neighborhoods up there, and.

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Speaker 1: You can get space up there.

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Speaker 4: And it's also really hard if you're not living there

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Speaker 4: day it comes available, like sometimes it's gone by the

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Speaker 4: seeing hotels and looking at places all the time. That

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Speaker 4: has been so untrue. We have been in a million

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Speaker 4: other places, but really not that much in New York.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, when Joe and I decided to move here, we

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Speaker 2: Then we came in.

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Speaker 1: March, right all to March, and we loved.

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Speaker 5: We did one day looking in Brooklyn, one day looking

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Speaker 2: We're like, great that one sign we moved in two

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Speaker 4: Wow, I know. So it's so rushed and I think

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Speaker 4: he lives in Kansas. I live in Maryland. I can

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Speaker 4: I want him there to see it. I don't want

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Speaker 4: to make that myself totally.

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Speaker 3: We had something interesting happened too, is we put an

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Speaker 4: And we're like what we said we wanted, like or

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Speaker 4: Fielcher walked it for us and videoed it while she

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Speaker 4: was walking through it. We're like, perfect, we'll take it,

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Speaker 4: and they're like, no, they wouldn't ran into us.

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Speaker 2: Was it a co op?

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Speaker 4: It wasn't a co op, but they had other offers

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Speaker 5: But that's such a weird, so weird, Like, what do

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Speaker 5: like if you're saying, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You signed the lease and you put down a jack,

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Speaker 4: which they require, I mean, that would be a weird

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Speaker 4: that picky. I felt confident by seeing I've seen enough

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Speaker 4: places that when she walked through it, I had an

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Speaker 4: idea since of what it was going to be like

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Speaker 4: and they wouldn't do it.

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Speaker 5: Well, maybe it's the side. Maybe your dream place is

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Speaker 5: still out there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope, so we'll find it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So you guys have been busy, any busy with any

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Speaker 1: media work?

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Speaker 3: I think?

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Speaker 1: Were you guys both at the Hulu event.

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Speaker 3: Just me j New York? Weren't you, honey?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I was in New York. I was on Andy

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Speaker 4: Cohen watch What's Happening Live that night?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: How was that?

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Speaker 4: That was fun? That was such an experience. You know,

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Speaker 4: it is live and it's Andy Cohen. So and there

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Speaker 3: He's got some riz and I think you need somebody

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Speaker 3: with it. I learned that word last year. I didn't can't.

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Speaker 2: And have they been beating him up? What are they say?

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Speaker 3: A little bit? A little bit? So Mel, if if

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Speaker 4: I think I haven't met him yet, but I think

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 5: We haven't had the chance to meet him or connected

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was surprised that it seemed like he was

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like they always picked so last minute though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you guys? What do you guys think?

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Speaker 1: Anything you could tell us about Bachelor in Paradise?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what have you heard? Share the secret? Share the.

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Speaker 4: I can't tell what I know, but oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point, actually, I kind of forgot

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Speaker 5: Like that the women who are gearing more towards their

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, Serena, I read that there's some partying going

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Speaker 2: Does Keith have good like party Samurai?

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Speaker 3: He can go all night, incredible, incredible diet. I don't

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Speaker 5: Keith, they're talking about him if they're is there a

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Speaker 1: Who would you choose? Now, granted we don't know who's there,

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Speaker 3: Couple, well, we know Leslie's there and who I really like.

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Speaker 3: I like a lot of them, but I think Nancy's

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Speaker 3: I'd go have fun, you know, enjoy it, and it's

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Speaker 5: I do think there is something about the show that, like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's crazy. I mean, so many of them, and

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, on paper, it totally makes sense, and even

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Speaker 4: like those relationships sometimes work better than the ones from

442
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Speaker 4: the show, like from the regular Backslor show, because they

443
00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,320
Speaker 4: have more time just to have more downtime. They have

444
00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:50,359
Speaker 4: more time just to like interact organically as opposed to

445
00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,200
Speaker 4: a cand date.

446
00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:52,480
Speaker 1: Definitely.

447
00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:54,960
Speaker 3: So I got to tell you, I'd love to see

448
00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,399
Speaker 3: Charles out there. I would love to see him on

449
00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,600
Speaker 3: the beach. I don't know if he's going, I don't

450
00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,280
Speaker 3: know what he thing, but he would be so fun

451
00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,399
Speaker 3: to watch in America wants to see the guy again.

452
00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,240
Speaker 3: Everyone's everyone every When I talked to what's going about

453
00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,920
Speaker 3: with Charles L where's he do? You know, where's he

454
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:10,840
Speaker 3: at disappeared?

455
00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,359
Speaker 5: I wonder if his hair is still black, he told Diet,

456
00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,879
Speaker 5: and he's aging backwards.

457
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:16,919
Speaker 3: He was.

458
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:21,920
Speaker 4: So that's like, that's one of those things that people's

459
00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:25,159
Speaker 4: personality changed so much for him, you know, that was

460
00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:29,399
Speaker 4: like so life changing for Charles l I thought it

461
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,240
Speaker 4: was going to carry out into real life. You know,

462
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,439
Speaker 4: sometimes a lot of people there on the show go

463
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,240
Speaker 4: back to their you know, real life and they you know,

464
00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,439
Speaker 4: nothing really comes from them being on the show, and

465
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:43,280
Speaker 4: then they had this great experience. I thought Charles was

466
00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,600
Speaker 4: going to kind of stay with us. We would we

467
00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,080
Speaker 4: were going to be seeing him a little bit more.

468
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 4: I'm a little surprised that he's kind of faded back

469
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:50,400
Speaker 4: into his old life.

470
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

471
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, see, well you never know, maybe he'll pop up

472
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 5: on the beach and he'll be back at it again.

473
00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 1: Maybe a ponytail and yeah, la oh, we saw that.

474
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 1: We saw that.

475
00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:11,159
Speaker 6: You guys put wedding plans on hold for now. Can

476
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 6: we get into that a little bits.

477
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 4: Okay, I think I'm the spokesperson on this one, you know.

478
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:21,880
Speaker 4: You know, I said, we've been super busy, but that's

479
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,400
Speaker 4: really not the whole thing. You know, you guys understand

480
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,199
Speaker 4: this because you've been on the show before. You know,

481
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 4: you date kind of in a weird backwards way. You

482
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,840
Speaker 4: go and you date really intensely and you take this

483
00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:33,800
Speaker 4: leap of faith and you get engaged, and then you

484
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 4: come off the show and then you get to know

485
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,719
Speaker 4: each other, you know, in those everyday mundane ways that

486
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 4: you haven't done yet. You've done the big stuff, you

487
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 4: haven't done the little stuff. So we're kind of doing that.

488
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 4: And and I'm not saying that that's the reason we

489
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,400
Speaker 4: haven't made wedding plans. It's just we're having fun doing that,

490
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 4: and you know, we're going to make wedding plans. It

491
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:53,919
Speaker 4: just doesn't seem like it's a rush. We don't have

492
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 4: like a biological clock. And it also seems to me

493
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 4: a little bit when you get married, you're probably should

494
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 4: be living together at that point, and we still have

495
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 4: a little bit of time that we need to be apart.

496
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 4: Chuckshaw has a business. You know, we're both really still

497
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 4: kind of busy, and we're having fun meeting, like we

498
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 4: see each other about every two weeks, and those interactions

499
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,280
Speaker 4: are really still very fun.

500
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Speaker 3: You know.

501
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 4: The absence makes the heart grow funder is a little

502
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,120
Speaker 4: bit true. I'm like I, you know, I'm jumping out

503
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,360
Speaker 4: of the car, like, you know, so excited to see

504
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,119
Speaker 4: him when he comes into town, or the same thing

505
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 4: when I go to Kansas. So it doesn't seem like

506
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,159
Speaker 4: there's a rush to get married. It seems like it

507
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 4: would maybe put a strain on our relationship at this

508
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:39,400
Speaker 4: point because we're both really busy and it's working out

509
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 4: really well the way we're doing it now.

510
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Speaker 1: Nice.

511
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 3: We do have a little test coming up over July fourth.

512
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 3: We'll be together for two weeks solid.

513
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Speaker 5: Is that the longest amount of time you guys will

514
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 5: have spent together. Yes, okay, hopefully you don't get sick

515
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 5: of each other.

516
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: I feel like.

517
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Speaker 4: When we're together, the longer we're together, the more comfortable

518
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,159
Speaker 4: will we get. And so I feel like at the

519
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 4: end of those two weeks it's going to be hard

520
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:04,400
Speaker 4: to actually leave each other.

521
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Speaker 1: Do you guys have any other trips planned together over

522
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 1: the summer?

523
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 3: We have New York and then that's the middle of June,

524
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 3: and then the two weeks back in Maryland, and then

525
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 3: Joan and I haven't told you, but we're working on

526
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 3: a potential reunion with all the guys in the Why

527
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 3: in Vegas. We've worked on that for the past two

528
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 3: days and then the guys today were texting me going,

529
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 3: Jones got to come, So I don't you know, we'll

530
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 3: have to talk about our schedule. We're usually about three

531
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 3: months out with our schedule, but with the summer, we're

532
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 3: just kind of piecing it together. But we try to

533
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 3: spend some time in New York as well.

534
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 4: And well, he's on the Safari with his son, which

535
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 4: is the first week in August. I'm going to be

536
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,679
Speaker 4: on a cruise in the Mediterranean with Nancy from go

537
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 4: to Maxer.

538
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 5: Oh, it's gonna be so much at Oh that's amazing. Well,

539
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 5: you go to this reunion in Vegas. I feel like

540
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 5: you got to bring a girlfriend or something unless you're

541
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 5: down to me with all the boys.

542
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 4: Well, you know, they're all my old boyfriends, so I know.

543
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. The good thing is I'm not a jealous guy.

544
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 3: But if we put it together, it will be a

545
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 3: great weekend.

546
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what are you guys thinking you want

547
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 2: to do in Vegas?

548
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 3: Well, and honey, I have to tell you. I mean,

549
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 3: this is almost everyone that was on the show. Everyone's

550
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 3: going to get in live.

551
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 4: Well, Oh my gosh, I think Charles l would have

552
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 4: a good time in Vegas. He's probably never been.

553
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 3: Well a couple of guys go. I hope Joan remembers

554
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 3: me because she only spent ten minutes with me before

555
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 3: she takes me off the show.

556
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 4: Well, you know how hard that it's like the first

557
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 4: night is you guys know, like some people you hardly

558
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 4: have to spend any time with them, then they're gone forever.

559
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tough.

560
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 2: It's tough.

561
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 5: Hopefully you know you don't meet one of those guys

562
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 5: and be like, damn, I made a huge mistake.

563
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Speaker 6: Chip, If a couple does come out, a golden couple

564
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 6: does come out of Paradise, what after show advice would

565
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 6: you give them?

566
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 4: You have a thought, Chuck.

567
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is cliche, but just live

568
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 3: your life. You know you're in the public eye a

569
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 3: little bit or maybe a lot, But just live your life.

570
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 3: Do what you want to do, and some opportunities will

571
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 3: come your way. But do what you think is right,

572
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,479
Speaker 3: what you're comfortable with, and spend as much time as

573
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 3: you can together. But then get to know the person.

574
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 3: Because Joan and I have been very authentic on this

575
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 3: is it was quick. It was fast, the attraction was there.

576
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 3: We knew we were going to be a good fit.

577
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 3: But as she said earlier, Jone said earlier, we're just

578
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,160
Speaker 3: now still getting to know each other. And even if

579
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 3: we were married, you know, had just a flash of

580
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 3: the pan marriage that first year. You're still learning about

581
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 3: the person, their family, what they like, what they don't like,

582
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 3: you know, just the whole thing. So just take it

583
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 3: slow and enjoy life.

584
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would feel like, you know, you are suddenly

585
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 4: in the limelight a little more so when you're contestant,

586
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 4: you're one of many. When you come out as a couple,

587
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 4: people are very interested. They've invested in this journey, they've

588
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 4: watched you fall in love. They want to know more

589
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 4: about you. So, like, I think you have to respect

590
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 4: that you have. You know, you have introduced them to

591
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 4: this relationship and it's not very nice to leave them

592
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 4: at the curb at this point, So you do have to.

593
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 4: I feel like you owe it to the people that

594
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 4: have watched the show to you know, at least give

595
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 4: them updates on how you guys are doing. But I

596
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 4: don't think that needs to be the main part of

597
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 4: your relationship, and I do think that happens sometimes. I

598
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 4: look at some bachelor couples and they're all about being

599
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 4: out and you know, doing Instagram and you know, being

600
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,400
Speaker 4: on shows. I think that needs to be a part

601
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 4: of it. But I think the bigger part of it

602
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 4: has to be you and the two of you really,

603
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 4: you know, learning about each other and seeing each other

604
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 4: how you live, because how you live is important, especially

605
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 4: as Golden's you have a very established life. You're not

606
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 4: you know, saying no, I'm going to get up and

607
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 4: move to where you live. You're going to give up

608
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 4: a move where I live. You know, you have families,

609
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 4: you have friends, you have jobs, you have lives that

610
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 4: you really established, so figuring it out it is a

611
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 4: little bit harder.

612
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 1: Definitely. Yeah, that makes sense. So overall, right now, the

613
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: plan for you guys would be hopefully to move in

614
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: together at some point and then and then marriage.

615
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 3: Yep.

616
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think we're you know, I would say

617
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 4: in the next eighteen months will be in that that place.

618
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 4: But we're not rushing it. There's no reason to, and

619
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 4: we want to make sure we do it right. We

620
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 4: want to make sure that you know, everything is settled

621
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 4: for chalk with his you know, with his business, and

622
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 4: you know that that has a little ways to go,

623
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 4: and so you know, there's no huge rush, and we

624
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 4: want to do it right, you know, real we're building

625
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,120
Speaker 4: a big future, and you know you can't rush.

626
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: It, especially not a five bedroom apartment in Manhattan.

627
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: Can't rush that.

628
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 3: July have psychologically get there because I have a hamper.

629
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 3: But for some reason, my clothes don't make it to

630
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 3: the hamper. And when I'm with Joe, they need to

631
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 3: make it to the hamper. So my life, my lifestyle

632
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:11,479
Speaker 3: is going to change a little bit.

633
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 5: So the hamper right next to the vad as accessible as.

634
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it needs to be right in his face.

635
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 3: And then everyone in what you tel knows the story

636
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 3: about my socks or everybody in the United States knows

637
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 3: about my socks collection. But then the latest thing was

638
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 3: is I've never had salt in my house. And honey,

639
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 3: I heard all about that the last few days. All

640
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 3: the ladies were laughing and going, I can't believe you

641
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 3: didn't have any salt whatsoever.

642
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 4: You didn't have any salt. He didn't have any mixing bowls.

643
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 4: I was trying to cook something. We were going to

644
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 4: a friend of his house and I said, oh, I'll

645
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 4: bring dessert, and I went to find stuff. There was nothing.

646
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 4: He has no like mixing things. She doesn't have a

647
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 4: bowl to put like batter in.

648
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 3: There was.

649
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 2: I take it, you're not really a cook chalk.

650
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 3: Actually I am. But it's all protein.

651
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: You're salt, but you don't seal. You don't salt anything

652
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: your steak.

653
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 3: Wow?

654
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: Is it like a health thing or just an indifference?

655
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 3: It started with a health thing, and then I'm a

656
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 3: little different, like I haven't had cable TV for fifteen years.

657
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 4: I'm Catholic, and they were. It was in the process

658
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 4: of the pope being selected, and it was driving me crazy.

659
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 4: I couldn't watch the news. I really wanted to see

660
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 4: this whole thing. We were at a at a Vietnamese restaurant.

661
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 4: They had a TV on and I saw that the

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Speaker 4: pope had been selected because he has no cable.

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Speaker 5: No, all right, so we need cable, we need mixing balls,

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Speaker 5: we need a.

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Speaker 2: Laundry hamble yes, salt, salt.

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Speaker 5: When I first went to Joe's place in Chicago, he

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Speaker 5: had like two bowls, two plates.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Last myself, I was like, we.

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Speaker 4: Need to go to Target and then talked to the

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Speaker 4: cutest thing. He bought me a mug, so I had

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Speaker 4: my own mug and it was really really cute, and

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Speaker 4: I go, so I'm there. The last time I get

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Speaker 4: up in the morning, I'm like, I'm to make my

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Speaker 4: coffee and I look in the cabinet. I can't find

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Speaker 4: my damn mug. He's taken it to his office. So

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Speaker 4: he told my mug.

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Speaker 2: He liked it. He was like, ah, it's pretty nice.

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Speaker 4: It was a really nice mug.

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Speaker 6: Before before we let you guys go, any we talked

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Speaker 6: about trips, any projects coming up?

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Speaker 1: You want to talk about plug anything like that.

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Speaker 4: How about you, Chuck.

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Speaker 3: I will tell you I had something unique cap in

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Speaker 3: last week. And I'm kind of a tough guy that

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Speaker 3: has just a little sensitive side. But what's a top

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Speaker 3: Medical It's a nonprofit organization for people who have been

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Speaker 3: assaulted in victims. And I've heard about you know, I've

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Speaker 3: heard about it. They're actually a client of mine. But

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Speaker 3: I went and met with the board of directors and viewed,

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Speaker 3: had a tour of their facility. Absolutely incredible. And I'm

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Speaker 3: a guy that, you know, everyone knows what nine to

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Speaker 3: one one is. I didn't know what two to one

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Speaker 3: one is, and that's for assault victims to call in

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Speaker 3: to get count lean and those type of things. But

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Speaker 3: this group offers a medical facility if somebody does not

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Speaker 3: want to go to the hospital, they want complete privacy.

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Speaker 3: And it was just it was incredible and it's just

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Speaker 3: a very small nonprofit. They run on a shoestring budget,

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Speaker 3: and it just made me feel good about humanity. And

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Speaker 3: the board of directors they were all people that were

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Speaker 3: connected to it in one way or another, Catholic charities,

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Speaker 3: they had a prosecutor, they had a detective, all females

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Speaker 3: from the local police department, and it was just really good.

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Speaker 3: It made you feel good about humanity and people doing

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Speaker 3: good for other people in a bad situation. So that's

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Speaker 3: a little bit of what the platform gives you is

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Speaker 3: it gives you exposure to the stuff. And I'm at

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Speaker 3: a point where if I do anything on a platform

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Speaker 3: I wanted to, you can't. You're not always going to

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Speaker 3: be perfect, but you want it to mean something for

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Speaker 3: someone educational or just say hey, here's this group. And

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Speaker 3: at first I was like, you know, I didn't want

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Speaker 3: to push for people to donate, but I'm going just

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Speaker 3: what a fantastic group and they what they need is

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Speaker 3: supplies and a little bit of money for their facility,

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Speaker 3: but that's it. Everyone that volunteers there does not take

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Speaker 3: a salary. So just a very great, great two hours

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Speaker 3: that I had last week.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 5: Can you say the name of the facility one more

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Speaker 5: time in case people want to look it up for don't.

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Speaker 3: It's Wichita Medical and it's a forensic facility. And my

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Speaker 3: mother was a forensic pathologist, so she dealt with end

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Speaker 3: of life that type of thing. And that's what I

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Speaker 3: go explained to me, the forensic but it's scientific of

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Speaker 3: going in to say, you know, who's the perpetrator all

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Speaker 3: that stuff, and it really protects it. It's not only

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Speaker 3: for women, but it protects people's rights and gives them advocacy.

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Speaker 3: It gives them access to people that deal with this

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Speaker 3: for a living, that care about it, that can help

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Speaker 3: these people through these situations.

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Speaker 4: It's amazing. You know, those organizations exist all over the place.

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Speaker 4: So because women that are abused are afraid a lot

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Speaker 4: of them because their abusers will come find them. So

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Speaker 4: the fact that they make an effort to make or

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Speaker 4: that this is secretive and they feel safe is really

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Speaker 4: important because otherwise they won't come forward. So that's an

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Speaker 4: amazing network. And I'm doing a couple of things. I

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Speaker 4: think both of us feel very privileged that, you know,

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Speaker 4: at this age in life, we have a little bit

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Speaker 4: of a platform that people like at least we have

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Speaker 4: maybe some followers, or we get to be on a

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Speaker 4: show like this and talk about, you know, some special projects.

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Speaker 4: So I'm doing the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network and that

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Speaker 4: was you know what I talk about because I was

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Speaker 4: on Andy Cohen. But that's a big, big, big charity,

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Speaker 4: and it's what my husband died from, pay credic cancer

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Speaker 4: and it's on track to be the second leading cause

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Speaker 4: of cancer related deaths in the United States. So that

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Speaker 4: scares you. It should, because it was a cancer that

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Speaker 4: we never heard about before, and all of a sudden

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Speaker 4: there's a huge uptake in it and there's no test

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Speaker 4: to detect it, and there are very few treatment options.

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Speaker 4: So if anybody wants to give, that's an amazing organization

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Speaker 4: to give to. And I'm also going tomorrow night to

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Speaker 4: do a local charity called Comfort Cases. A guy who

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Speaker 4: had been part of the foster care system, just like

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Speaker 4: my mother had been, and a lot of people we

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Speaker 4: probably all know have been part of that system. Started

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Speaker 4: a company or started a phill on topic organization, a

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Speaker 4: nonprofit that gives people going into foster care comfort pack.

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Speaker 4: So at their backpacks and they take they have toiletries

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Speaker 4: and pajamas and you know, for the younger ones, a

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Speaker 4: little a stuffed animal, for the older ones, you know,

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Speaker 4: some other things. But he gives them something. So when

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Speaker 4: they go to these places sometimes they have nothing. They've

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Speaker 4: been taken out of a home because it's an emergency

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Speaker 4: and they have nothing. So they Last year he provided

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Speaker 4: two hundred and fifty thousand of them, so to organizations

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Speaker 4: across the United States. All you have to do is

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Speaker 4: go on the website and say what I need, like

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Speaker 4: how many you need, if you need ten, if you

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Speaker 4: need twenty. A lot of a lot of people in

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Speaker 4: the legal system and in the you know, in like

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Speaker 4: that works with kids access these through this organization. So

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Speaker 4: he will send them to anybody re charge. So I'm

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Speaker 4: going to be there tomorrow night stuffing packs with a

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Speaker 4: bunch of my friends.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 5: I love hearing the different organizations that you guys are

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Speaker 5: involved with.

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Speaker 2: And if anyone is looking to support.

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Speaker 5: There's two two awesome charities and organizations right there that

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Speaker 5: you can take fred in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joe, I have a question for you.

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Speaker 1: Let's hear it.

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Speaker 3: You've been working out. You kind of got the gun

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Speaker 3: show going pretty good. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No, I think it's just the way I mean, I

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Speaker 6: do work out, But I think it's but I appreciate.

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Speaker 6: I think I think that's the perfect way to end

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Speaker 6: this podcast. Thank you guys so much for coming on

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Speaker 6: and taking the time.

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Speaker 3: Really, we really, it's always a pleasure. Joe, I'll see

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Speaker 3: you Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Bye to all our listeners. Thank you guys so much

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Speaker 1: for tuning in the Better Happy Hour. Make sure you

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Speaker 1: download and subscribe to the podcast.

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Speaker 5: don't ready to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 3: Bye,