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Speaker 2: Dear Cheekies, I have one question. My question is how

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Speaker 2: So where do you begin in the music industry?

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Speaker 1: Dear Ruby, thank you for your question. First of all, look,

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Speaker 4: And thank you for being you, thank you for staying humble,

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Speaker 4: Thank you for not forgetting where you came from. You know,

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