WEBVTT - The Financial Truth About Fast Fashion

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're black, We're brown. Ambisious ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition, Managine,

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I was a little bit late because I

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<v Speaker 1>had just taken a shower and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna wear when I'm gonna wear, so weave on

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<v Speaker 1>this shirt.

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<v Speaker 2>We're free balling, but not ball we're freeing.

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<v Speaker 1>I have like underwear, but I just have like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like you know what it's hot anyway, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just here with a shirt on.

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<v Speaker 2>Sin. I love that for you. And I actually have

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<v Speaker 2>shorts on only because I had to go to my

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<v Speaker 2>kids school. But the we were just talking about, like

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<v Speaker 2>the underwear, the leak underwear, which you know was coming

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<v Speaker 2>out like a few years ago, period underwear, period underwear.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, for the way that I use it,

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<v Speaker 2>it's for leaks and squeaks and anything that should you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just stay a little contained anyway. But like I get

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<v Speaker 2>the big shorts. Why are we talking about this? You

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<v Speaker 2>started it and they passed for shorts. I might take

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<v Speaker 2>the garbage out in those sometimes to the design Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you whoever invented them, thank you, oh man. Well, I

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<v Speaker 2>love that we have our our sunshine oranges on today.

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<v Speaker 2>I love this color orange that I have on with

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<v Speaker 2>a red lip. I live. It is color combo.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's orange. It looks yellow, does it?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a marigold. It's that really pretty. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>ever see the specific color marigolds that they use an

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<v Speaker 2>Indian culture like they always have, like the Maria color.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's the colors that I'm wearing it. It

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<v Speaker 1>looks like, well, it could be both.

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<v Speaker 2>Tiffany Gosh I had a whole point. She's like, some

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<v Speaker 2>is that the color? We're going to start one of

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<v Speaker 2>those internet memes where it's like what color is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it orange?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it yellow?

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yes, curls come through.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you. She showered. It's just a little shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I'm gonna have to get goddamn Rihanna's hair care too.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's a good thing about having locks. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie. Let's talk about the financials behind locks

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<v Speaker 1>that in the beginning, it can be quite pricey because

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<v Speaker 1>as your hair is locking, you have to see your

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<v Speaker 1>locksiction more often, but as your hair locks, you see

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<v Speaker 1>them less frequently, and quite honestly, because my hair is locked.

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<v Speaker 1>It needs way less product even though it's like really long,

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<v Speaker 1>because the product actually doesn't absorb into the hair because

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<v Speaker 1>the hair is like, you know, so tightly locked together.

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<v Speaker 1>So it gets less and less expensive. I mean, my

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<v Speaker 1>hair is like cost me next to nothing now, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was a lot of money to get them started.

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<v Speaker 1>A few hundred dollars, some people even a thousand plus

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<v Speaker 1>to get them started, or if you want sister locks.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, as I'm thinking as you're saying that, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>kind of realizing that I think natural like this, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>all hair this is not Your hair is natural too,

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<v Speaker 2>but like the what do you call this? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know currently, just as it comes out of your head.

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<v Speaker 2>Hairstyle is like the is the hair version of people

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<v Speaker 2>who prefer stick shift, you know, Like why would you

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<v Speaker 2>get a car that's hard to drive, or like an

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<v Speaker 2>old timey car that you have to, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>pull some gizmos and gadgets to get the wipers to

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<v Speaker 2>go on. Like some people like a hobby, and some

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<v Speaker 2>people like something that takes a little bit more like

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<v Speaker 2>time and effort because it's like part of their personality.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I do enjoy the manipulation, the creative,

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<v Speaker 2>the creativity of like the this hair kind of style,

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<v Speaker 2>like the versatility of it. And but that's the only

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<v Speaker 2>place in my life where I'm like, if I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be like my husband when he washes the car. There

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<v Speaker 2>are when I tell you about product. Don't look at

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<v Speaker 2>black women, look at the mountain you wash cars. The

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<v Speaker 2>number of brushes, paint brushes and dust brushes and different rags,

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<v Speaker 2>special rag washing detergent. Yeah, various buckets. He made a

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<v Speaker 2>whole custom cart so we can wheel all of his

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<v Speaker 2>stuff out. It's ridunculous, but that's like his thing, that's

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<v Speaker 2>his creative.

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<v Speaker 1>That was my dad. Every weekend he would he would

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<v Speaker 1>wash his car and it was a very specific process.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we have our own like you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do say like when I had my fro, it

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<v Speaker 1>was way more costly as it relates to products, because

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<v Speaker 1>my fro was thirsty and.

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<v Speaker 2>So I know it's very expensive. Yeah, yes, oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, cause that hair is like, girl, that's all you got.

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<v Speaker 1>I need the whole bottle, Yes, you know, I need

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<v Speaker 1>a whole bottle?

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<v Speaker 2>What a dime sized portion of what? Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>The laughter?

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<v Speaker 2>We chose different paths. Okay, we did. We're gonna jump

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<v Speaker 2>into brown Buzzworthy because there's some topics in the news

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<v Speaker 2>that are kind of juicy juice. Should we start with

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<v Speaker 2>market stuff or start with some fun stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I had seen the market. So one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorites named is let me see, I'm going to Better Wallet.

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<v Speaker 1>What is his name? We had him on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Right better while? Oh? Mark?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, Mark. I was gonna say, is his name

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<v Speaker 1>Mark us something like that. So anyway, I love following

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<v Speaker 1>Mark because he like really breaks down like all things market.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh he is Wait a second, he is going to

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to text him and say, listen to

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<v Speaker 2>the show because he stands for you. And I disappointed

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<v Speaker 2>him so much when I rolled up to fin Con

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of years ago by myself and he just

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<v Speaker 2>told me how much he loved you, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pass it on. Oh anyway, that's he just had

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<v Speaker 2>Marcus tell me what you like all about him.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't give me a trouble. You know, I've got a

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<v Speaker 1>boot now, not like that, you know what I mean? Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Mark Russell's financial coach. He has an

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<v Speaker 1>IG account called Better Wallet. But I really like about

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<v Speaker 1>Marcus that sometimes you like, you know, I'll look at

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<v Speaker 1>what CNBC and all the girls are saying, but Mark

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<v Speaker 1>breaks them in such a way that I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>is that what they mean? Okay? So anyway, it was

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<v Speaker 1>really geeked because I saw that he shared, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you had put money in the stock market

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning of the year, you'd be up nearly

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five percent. So I was just like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how many of us have been too afraid to get

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<v Speaker 1>into the market because obviously that there are ups and

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<v Speaker 1>they are downs, and there's some years that are terrible

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<v Speaker 1>and some years that are amazing. But if you have

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<v Speaker 1>like ten years before you actually need your money, five

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<v Speaker 1>to ten years before you need your money, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you have ten years plus before you need your money,

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<v Speaker 1>the likelihood that you're going to end on the up

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<v Speaker 1>is significantly more likely than not. And so I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to say that They're like, you know, the market

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<v Speaker 1>is marketing and you know what's so strange though, and

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about this before that externally they say job costs,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, jobs are there are so many? The job

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<v Speaker 1>market looks good, the market is strong, and yet I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about you, Mandy, but there is nobody who

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<v Speaker 1>I know that is feeling good about the economy. Although

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<v Speaker 1>if you're looking at it from an objective standpoint, the

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<v Speaker 1>economy is in a better place now more than ever before,

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<v Speaker 1>when I'll say ever before, But you know, like, and

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<v Speaker 1>yet that's not how the people are feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's such an interesting disconnect. Well, I think this

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<v Speaker 2>is like very much. It's we've been talking about the

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<v Speaker 2>theme for the past, like I feel maybe fifteen years

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<v Speaker 2>and since I studied or started working as a business journalist,

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<v Speaker 2>has been the squeezing of the middle class. And how

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the definition of middle class is always changing,

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<v Speaker 2>but that basically if you're not really really rich, or

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<v Speaker 2>you're not like you know, so if you're not, it's

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<v Speaker 2>weird comfortably poor but poor enough or earn little enough

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<v Speaker 2>to qualify for the resources that we have, like the

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<v Speaker 2>people in the middle especially those like on the CUSP

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<v Speaker 2>where it's like technically the irs and the government says

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm not struggling, so I don't qualify for support,

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<v Speaker 2>so I got to pay for everything. And the people

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<v Speaker 2>who are I think benefiting from times like this are

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<v Speaker 2>people who are in the market, like business savvy people.

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<v Speaker 2>They tend to not look like us as much as

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<v Speaker 2>we love BA FAM and I would say the vast

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<v Speaker 2>majority of you guys are already investing because you're listening

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<v Speaker 2>to us, So that's a good indication. But the reality

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<v Speaker 2>is that most people investing and benefiting from these tax

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<v Speaker 2>breaks that have been in that are going on eight

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<v Speaker 2>years now, that have been implemented during the Trump years.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's who's really profiting and who's doing really well.

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<v Speaker 2>And plus these businesses that are charging us more under

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<v Speaker 2>the cloak of inflation and additional labor costs, like that's

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<v Speaker 2>all trickling down to the majority of people. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that the question is what are we going to do

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<v Speaker 2>with our discomfort? Because if we're getting these signs that like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>the economy is great and all of that, I would

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<v Speaker 2>not you have to go off of what your personal

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<v Speaker 2>economy is, Like you can't. I'm worried about this sense

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<v Speaker 2>of oh, well, they're saying the economy is good, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go ahead and you know, get put that on credit.

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<v Speaker 2>Things will work out next year, yeah, or yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>I'll you know, maybe I will just stay where I'm

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<v Speaker 2>at because I should be, you know, confident that I'll

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<v Speaker 2>get a raise or that you know, some opportunities will

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<v Speaker 2>come to me, and like you're not thinking strategically about

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<v Speaker 2>your career or asking for that raise or promotion or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever it may be. It's always got to come back

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<v Speaker 2>to what is happening for you personally and what are

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<v Speaker 2>your goals? And headlines are headlines? Yes, you know, because.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, the day will end.

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<v Speaker 1>So wow, wait, that's very very that's very like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very girl podcast. I just hurt. Yes, I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>It reminds me that video of you and all the

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<v Speaker 2>other black Lady influencers be like, at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the day, the day is going to end.

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<v Speaker 1>No, okay, But.

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<v Speaker 2>When you said the stock markets going up, I went

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<v Speaker 2>to log into Vanguard, and I love it when it

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<v Speaker 2>forgets who I am because that's how little I check it,

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<v Speaker 2>which is exactly what you should be doing. I'm like, oh, Yang,

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<v Speaker 2>good credit, how you cuter? I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know my password right now. I just I'll find out later.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly. I mean, I'm not gonna send my net worth,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not gonna lie. This has been the last

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<v Speaker 1>two years. I'm like, oh, there's been a definitely, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>What about the increase? The percentage increase, that's what you

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<v Speaker 2>can focus on. How much of you give it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to flee. Let me see if he's going to slay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm logging in right now because I'm like Mandy.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, can we just talk about how terrible

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<v Speaker 2>the Vanguard? Uh? I'm sure there's nice people who work there,

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<v Speaker 2>and hey, y'all got cheap index funds and we love

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<v Speaker 2>you for that, but like, your face.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the their interface is the worst. What am I up? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. They say it's up, it's up.

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<v Speaker 2>Because economic sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'll say this that I I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to because I'm like, child, let's see what percentage is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know the number of year to date, Like

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<v Speaker 1>what it's up?

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, show you the percentage? What am I

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<v Speaker 2>doing wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>It is?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm up twelve percent? That's something?

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<v Speaker 1>But are you just like what are you invested in?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you invested across the stork?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, oh that's cute. My ire my individual four one k,

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<v Speaker 2>so my solo four one K is up twenty five

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<v Speaker 2>point one percent, So I think that is like one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred percent invested in the stock market.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I say, yes, because if you're invested in,

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<v Speaker 1>because you have to remember that, somebody you might be

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<v Speaker 1>looking and say, hey, I'm not invested, but it's like no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no are you. That's just like we're talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>S and P five hundred, Like if you invested in

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<v Speaker 1>the overall stock market, but if you have maybe some

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<v Speaker 1>NA Video whatever that company is called, some apples and

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<v Speaker 1>this and that, then it's going to look different. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're just invested in like what the S and P

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred is currently doing, then you should be up

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<v Speaker 1>around like you said, like your your four one k

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<v Speaker 1>about five about which is great. This is why you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to necessarily pick individuals. Like that's the thing,

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<v Speaker 1>right that I think it was like the last one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred years or so, on average, the stock market has

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<v Speaker 1>brought back annually on the low end seven to eight percent,

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<v Speaker 1>on the higher end ten percent, right, And so certain

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<v Speaker 1>years it's been down, down, down. Let's just say it

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<v Speaker 1>was down thirty percent, and we know during the recession

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<v Speaker 1>it was hugely down. But then we have some years

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<v Speaker 1>where it's tremendously up and so it evens its way

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<v Speaker 1>out to about eight to ten percent. And the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is you just have to be in it and not

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<v Speaker 1>to take your money out when it's down and have

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<v Speaker 1>those realized losses. But then knowing that if you're needing

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<v Speaker 1>the money, let's just say you're needing the money to

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<v Speaker 1>purchase home or car or retirement. The closer you get

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<v Speaker 1>to that time of needing the money, the more you

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<v Speaker 1>should kind of excuse yourself from the market because you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what year is going to hit and what

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<v Speaker 1>year is not, you know. And so that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>like about those target day funds that kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>rebalance yourself for you. So if you're like my dad

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<v Speaker 1>is eighty four, so he does not need to be

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<v Speaker 1>heavily into the market, even though he'd be doing what

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<v Speaker 1>he want to do, I'm like, he's like, you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, so eighty four, you're living on borrow time.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just joking, not for today's episode, but I

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<v Speaker 2>want to dive into senior citizens. You get mortgages and

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<v Speaker 2>like a thirty year mortgage.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go to have a Mandy's.

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<v Speaker 2>But like I get it though, you know, you know

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<v Speaker 2>you think about that and I hate this word so much. Amortizee.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to like warm up before I say it.

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<v Speaker 1>Me Me, me, me, I'm still stuck one pepper.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirty eight. Amortization. Amorization. Yes, amortorization. So that is what

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<v Speaker 2>when you when you get a mortgage and you have

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<v Speaker 2>your mortgage monthly mortgage payments, if you actually look at

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<v Speaker 2>how much goes to your actual principal payment, like what

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<v Speaker 2>you versus interest, Yeah, it's like ninety nine point nine

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<v Speaker 2>percent is interest payments. And I'm like, oh, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why they're giving thirty year mortgages to senior citizens, Hi, daddy,

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<v Speaker 2>because like they're not They're like, oh, we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>get them while they're still here. And then you're but

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<v Speaker 2>then you're not actually creating a lot of equity for

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<v Speaker 2>your your area family unless the market is going crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's giving fun, fact, right, is giving? Okay, I'm fever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, capitalism because I was just shocked. I'm like, dad,

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<v Speaker 2>don't they only want you to get like a fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>year old? It's terrible all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, moving on, state farm agents are small business owners too,

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<v Speaker 1>so they know how to help you choose personalized policies

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<v Speaker 1>that fig your needs, like a good neighbor state farm

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<v Speaker 1>is there? Talk to your local agent today. Moving on

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<v Speaker 1>to some other shady news. So what do you know

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<v Speaker 1>about Shean or Sheen, Sheen or she And?

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<v Speaker 2>You said Sheen? I said she And I know that

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<v Speaker 2>the girlies love Slash hate Shean and that if you

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<v Speaker 2>read the news, it's pretty easy to find out that

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<v Speaker 2>it's horrible for the environment and for people. Yes, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's fast fashion.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, fast fashion. So so as of who is this,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe this is CNBC and I'm on right, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm literally just here today June twenty fourth, fast

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<v Speaker 1>fashioned giant. She And has confidently filed for a public

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<v Speaker 1>listing in London. So confidentially, I know because they're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be on a low look because they know people

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<v Speaker 1>will be mad at them. So you like, so An

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<v Speaker 1>I p O and.

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<v Speaker 2>And oh initial public offering, girl, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, like I had done. That's basically when they

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<v Speaker 1>come to market and they say, hey, we're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a private company anymore. You guys want a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of the company, and so it's the first time a

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<v Speaker 1>company kind of like says you can have a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of us, and that's an initial public offering. And so

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<v Speaker 1>they applied for one in the United States in November,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was a lot of pushback because the girls

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<v Speaker 1>were like, hey, one, you know you there's allegations of

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<v Speaker 1>forced labor in your supply chain. And two I would

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<v Speaker 1>think it was because they're also like notoriously known for

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<v Speaker 1>like just poisoning the environment. And so now they file

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<v Speaker 1>for one in London. I guess to see, like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see if we can have the girls buy stocks

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<v Speaker 1>in US in London town. Just touch down in London Town.

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<v Speaker 1>We're the hottest in the world right now. Just touch

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<v Speaker 1>down and remember American book.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I know that song, but I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>you raise me, take me, That's.

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<v Speaker 1>What she says. Just touch down in London Town anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so, so how do you feel about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I feel conflicted? I am, because it's almost like

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<v Speaker 1>follow me with this weirdest analogy and I'm a good

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<v Speaker 1>for word. That's analogy. It's like when the girlies will

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<v Speaker 1>loose balloon release balloons because their loved ones, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>or graduation or whatever, and then you find out that

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<v Speaker 1>the balloons land in the ocean, so then you feel bad,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's like, okay, so the girlies are like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to look cute, but child, the way my

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<v Speaker 1>budget is budgeting, I need to stick within a tight budget,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I can give me a two dollars three

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<v Speaker 1>dollars four dollar piece of shine, okay, but unfortunately that

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<v Speaker 1>piece of sine is likely going to like lay in

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<v Speaker 1>a landfill, you know, not be able to be absorbed

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<v Speaker 1>back into the into nature. And allegedly, you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't treat their people very well, like they they I

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<v Speaker 1>think I saw it was on Instagram. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>these machine workers sleeping in the factories. Very reminiscent of

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<v Speaker 1>like the twenties when people used to work in factories

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<v Speaker 1>and you know in New York and you know, until

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<v Speaker 1>they can like caught fire and burn down.

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<v Speaker 2>Or do they produce that I'm assuming in Asia, in

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<v Speaker 2>China and China, I mean China is like the capital

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<v Speaker 2>and many countries like the other outside of the US

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<v Speaker 2>and beyond, like many places like or the capital of

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<v Speaker 2>you know, child labor abuse, adult labor, just labor practice,

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<v Speaker 2>horrible labor practices in general. I think that well, first

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<v Speaker 2>of all, San deserves all this negative attention, but it

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<v Speaker 2>did not invent fast fashion. So can we talk about

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<v Speaker 2>old navy? We talked about Target. Sorry in advance for Target,

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<v Speaker 2>but sorry not sorry because the quality. I have had

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<v Speaker 2>to stop buying Target, like basic brand stuff because the

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<v Speaker 2>quality is so shite. I can actually like the sweaters

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<v Speaker 2>all like the little like cause they swap out their

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<v Speaker 2>looks with every season and almost like every month there's

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<v Speaker 2>new looks and it makes you want to like get

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<v Speaker 2>new stuff. But I have found that when I am

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<v Speaker 2>donating clothes, bags and bags of like shitty Target stuff

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<v Speaker 2>to them is another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Although it was like hmmm yeah, Sam, yeah forever twe

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<v Speaker 1>low key high key Zara.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Zara can sometimes too, so yeah, it definitely is

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<v Speaker 2>on a Shan problem. It's just a consumerism problem. Like

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<v Speaker 2>we are the fast fashion industry and the Internet and

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<v Speaker 2>influencers and the TikTok halls.

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<v Speaker 1>You've seen the halls they were like, oh I got

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<v Speaker 1>these three hundred pieces and I mean low key, high key.

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<v Speaker 1>I am part of the problem. I'm sorry. Mother Beyonce

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<v Speaker 1>had us all where the silver and there was uptick

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<v Speaker 1>of silver being sold and then did you hear later

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<v Speaker 1>how it was all trickled his way down to the

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<v Speaker 1>good of the wheel and all those other drift shops.

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<v Speaker 1>All of our silver, I mean, some of my top

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<v Speaker 1>is there and my sneakers.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait you sent that to That was a hot little

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<v Speaker 2>haulter top. You donated that, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm like, it's not really me. My back was

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<v Speaker 1>at you know, I was swinging on one of.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Way, I know what I I just say all that

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<v Speaker 1>to say it is a struggle, right, because it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>not that I can't afford better quality clothes, but certainly,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, back in the day, people you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>had a handful of clothes because you like made them,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a hole. I remember distinctly, if there

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<v Speaker 1>was a hole, my mother would would like she would

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<v Speaker 1>do the laundring, you know that. What is it called,

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<v Speaker 1>like the sewing, you know, like once a week, like socks, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the dot Yeah. But now it's just like tossome. And

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I had an awakening and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why I never thought about this before. It was maybe

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<v Speaker 1>like a few years back. I was in Burlington co

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<v Speaker 1>Factory and I was looking for something and I just looked,

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<v Speaker 1>and the one I was in in New Jersey was

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<v Speaker 1>so huge, and it was Rose and Rose and Rose

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<v Speaker 1>and Rose and Rosa clothes. And for the first time ever,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought to myself, there's no way all of these clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>even most of them, are going to be sold. Where

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<v Speaker 1>did they go? It was the first time I ever

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<v Speaker 1>thought about that. I thought, where do all these clothes

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<v Speaker 1>that will never be sold go? And then I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just one Burlington in this, you know, in Newsey,

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<v Speaker 1>in this one town in New Jersey. What about the

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<v Speaker 1>Burlington two towns over and the other one another? And

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<v Speaker 1>how many Burlington's and not to pick on Burlington, but

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<v Speaker 1>how many of them nationwide? And then how many and

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<v Speaker 1>then Targets and how many other stores? And I got

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<v Speaker 1>like a pang in my heart of like wow, like

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<v Speaker 1>so much waste. And so I am trying I reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to my friend Jessica and to Mongo. She's like

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<v Speaker 1>the first black woman to travel to every recorder, to

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<v Speaker 1>travel to every country in the United and in the world,

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<v Speaker 1>and then also every state in the United States, and

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<v Speaker 1>then every something else. She did too. I kept every continent,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's been to every continent every state, every country,

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<v Speaker 1>the first black woman in period.

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<v Speaker 2>To do all that. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, So I love the way Jessica dresses really comfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>a really beautiful, very afrocentric chic, and I said, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to upgrade my style. And I think with

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<v Speaker 1>my new kindo and new place, Mandy, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be mindful of not having a ton of stuff, of

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<v Speaker 1>really picking things that I enjoy and then I can

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<v Speaker 1>wear again and again and so yeah, because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be part of the Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>On the other hand, I'm like, the fight against stuff

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<v Speaker 2>is just it is like it's like a curse upon us.

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<v Speaker 2>This is just like that we're we're going to be

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<v Speaker 2>fighting our parents' stuff because you know, they come from

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<v Speaker 2>the generation that love the stuff, and I think that

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<v Speaker 2>we are repeating a lot of those same mistakes, just

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<v Speaker 2>in different ways. You know, my mom and her my

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<v Speaker 2>former step dad, like they would love buying infomercial stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>like we had the like individual egg like little thing

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<v Speaker 2>to make yeah, and like little like the the vacuum

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<v Speaker 2>ceiling was like a huge thing and like the chopping

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<v Speaker 2>thing that could chop the ca like onions like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and that m hm, and like we make a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fun like, Okay, Boomer, but this is the same

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<v Speaker 2>shit on TikTok. Do you know that people are obsessed

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<v Speaker 2>with literally like ice cube trays. Now I go to

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<v Speaker 2>home goods and I can see what's on TikTok because

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<v Speaker 2>it's all on the wall. It's like, do I need

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<v Speaker 2>flower ice cubes and honeybeecomb ice cubes and the letter

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<v Speaker 2>G ice cubes? It's all gonna melt like and you

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<v Speaker 2>have to have the storage containers for those things, and

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<v Speaker 2>just yeah, I think it's it's important to be conscious

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<v Speaker 2>conscious of it. At the same time, it is so

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<v Speaker 2>overwhelming to try to be good for the environment, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like good for sustainability, and wow, why are the firefighters?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what did she do?

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<v Speaker 2>That happened with Dshaw? What if she was on the

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<v Speaker 2>show Dsha Dyer whatever? I think I did double thumbs

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<v Speaker 2>up and that's what And I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 2>I was thumbing up.

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<v Speaker 1>But cyber a whole request of that. Why do we need.

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<v Speaker 2>Blame chat GPT? Like that's just the root of all

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<v Speaker 2>evil Right now, you guys can check out YouTube for

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<v Speaker 2>what the heck just happened on my screen? Okay, any who.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's good to have the conversations. I can

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<v Speaker 2>only do so much, and so the small things every

0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:10.119
<v Speaker 2>day that I do to try to not be a problem.

0:24:10.280 --> 0:24:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Is composting for me is a way easier problem. So

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<v Speaker 2>like by taking my kitchen scraps, and I have my

0:24:17.080 --> 0:24:20.520
<v Speaker 2>little jar of kitchen scraps that my husband loves to

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<v Speaker 2>like complain about, but I don't care because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I am putting it back in the earth, and this

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<v Speaker 2>is my little thing. And I will try to not

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<v Speaker 2>buy stuff that I don't need in terms of like clothing,

0:24:33.000 --> 0:24:35.000
<v Speaker 2>but I could say the same for these kids toys

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<v Speaker 2>and all this like plastic coming into the house and

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh. But my thing with like clothing is

0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I have to make peace with needing to buy new

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<v Speaker 2>clothes sometimes at my price point, because my body is

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<v Speaker 2>changing and I'm not comfortable in clothes that I was

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<v Speaker 2>three years ago. I'm not one of those people who

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<v Speaker 2>can say I've had this since I was in the

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<v Speaker 2>third grade and look it still fits. My friend Julie

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<v Speaker 2>came over and every time I'm like, oh, it's a

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 2>cue jumpsuit, She's like, oh, this whole thing I've had

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<v Speaker 2>this for like seventeen years. I'm like, I just I'm

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<v Speaker 2>happy for you. But I was like, yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't I can't fit jeans I had six months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, amen and amen, amen, amen. And you don't

0:25:16.840 --> 0:25:19.119
<v Speaker 2>want to walk around uncomfortable, And it's like, what am

0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:22.040
<v Speaker 2>I going to feel so shitty about myself because like

0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 2>this is bad for the environment, But like I just

0:25:23.840 --> 0:25:26.520
<v Speaker 2>really need a pair of shorts like that don't ride

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<v Speaker 2>up my ass and make my thighs chafe. I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to like walk with dignity into the world, into

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<v Speaker 2>the stopping shop, you know what I mean. Yeah, So

0:25:35.760 --> 0:25:37.959
<v Speaker 2>it's a balance. So I feel you guys, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>listening and you're like, God cannot live and you know,

0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:43.800
<v Speaker 2>but just just food for thought, don't let it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just something to think about as you're buying, think about.

0:25:47.000 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 1>We're not here to judge. I get it, you know.

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:52.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, I get it. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>not destroy this world at the same time figure out

0:25:56.040 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 1>how to live in it while I'm currently here.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, just give yourself grace and give each other grace,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, And then a quick little pop culture buzzy well,

0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:06.719
<v Speaker 2>you say it's pop culture, it's more like a sports

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<v Speaker 2>pop sports.

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<v Speaker 1>Char call Richardson.

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<v Speaker 2>She runs real fast, real fast in a sport that

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna tell us about.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, it's track, honey, which one is it?

0:26:21.200 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 2>The fact? Like the short one? I think?

0:26:23.760 --> 0:26:26.720
<v Speaker 1>So I never see her? Yeah, I mean she might have.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I've ever seen her relay, but

0:26:29.000 --> 0:26:30.720
<v Speaker 1>it's it's pretty short from what I could tell. She's

0:26:30.720 --> 0:26:33.879
<v Speaker 1>not long distance track. She's like explosive, which is like

0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:37.760
<v Speaker 1>the exciting one sprint. So she she made the so

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<v Speaker 1>for I saw all the clips, you know, everything's on ig.

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 1>I saw the clip. I guess she got out of

0:26:42.040 --> 0:26:44.399
<v Speaker 1>the block pretty slowly. But she made up for baby

0:26:44.480 --> 0:26:47.320
<v Speaker 1>because she won the race that qualified her to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the Paris Olympics. I don't know if this is

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<v Speaker 1>her first time going. I don't know, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Really thought this was the Olympics, not me being like,

0:26:55.680 --> 0:27:03.720
<v Speaker 2>oh she go congrat Oh well so oh so she It.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like a qualification, yes, right now, everybody's qualifying to

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<v Speaker 1>get into the Paris Olympics.

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:12.879
<v Speaker 2>It was this summer is it that last minute? Is

0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:15.040
<v Speaker 2>it summer Olympics or winter? It's got to be summer.

0:27:15.760 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 2>I do not know.

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 1>So let me see, girl, you got me. Let me

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 1>get to googleing. When is the Olympics?

0:27:21.240 --> 0:27:23.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh? You know what I always remember because when Enrique

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<v Speaker 2>and I started to date, it was during the Olympics

0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:28.520
<v Speaker 2>of twenty twelve, and we went on my birthday that

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 2>was in August.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, so it's the end of July there, Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>July twenty sixth to August eleventh.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Core memory. Okay, so that's very last minute. That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, you're giving boomerades right now. I'm supposed to

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:46.080
<v Speaker 1>be the one who's like, what what happened?

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:46.199
<v Speaker 2>Now?

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:48.840
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's really great because you know, remember remember

0:27:48.920 --> 0:27:52.280
<v Speaker 1>she got this qualified before because somebody being important to

0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 1>her passed away. I think it was her mother passed

0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:59.160
<v Speaker 1>away and she smoked a little something something, oh John,

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:01.919
<v Speaker 1>if you will, and then you know, as a result,

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:03.920
<v Speaker 1>she you know, she owned it. It was like, you know,

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I knew I wasn't supposed to, but quite honestly, I

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 1>was really struggling. Young woman made a mistake, owned up

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 1>to it. You know a lot of people came down

0:28:11.000 --> 0:28:13.879
<v Speaker 1>on her, and you know, she didn't do well for

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:16.359
<v Speaker 1>a few races after that, if I remember correctly, But

0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>since then she's been on fire and our girl is

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:22.400
<v Speaker 1>back and so yeah, you know, people love to bring

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:24.440
<v Speaker 1>you up. But what I love about it is that

0:28:24.520 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 1>she gets it now. She's like, she's not so invested

0:28:28.160 --> 0:28:30.520
<v Speaker 1>in Chad. Y'all put me up on your shoulders before

0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:31.960
<v Speaker 1>and then you threw me down the moment that I

0:28:32.000 --> 0:28:34.440
<v Speaker 1>had trouble so you could keep all that. Yeah, I'm

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:36.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, I edified myself.

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:39.720
<v Speaker 2>Okay, oh, very smart, because goddamn, like they just some

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:42.040
<v Speaker 2>of the mayor in Baltimore released like one hundred thousand

0:28:42.680 --> 0:28:45.440
<v Speaker 2>or pardoned one hundred thousand inmates who had low level

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:52.320
<v Speaker 2>marijuana offenses or whatever possession offenses, and the tides are changing.

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.920
<v Speaker 2>But I still feel like in the in the public's eye,

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:58.360
<v Speaker 2>when a black woman or black man you know, smokes,

0:28:58.400 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 2>it is still not as like accept did or you know,

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:03.640
<v Speaker 2>it's still more frowned upon them, more likely to be

0:29:03.680 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 2>criticized than you know. Elon Musk, who has you know,

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 2>talked about like his love for drugs or whatever.

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Girl the girls be out here doing muscle, all kind

0:29:15.120 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 1>of foolishness, all kind of ski slopes, snowing all kinds.

0:29:19.200 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 2>Of trailers for euphoria.

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:23.360
<v Speaker 1>I know what they do, girl, I please. I went

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:25.320
<v Speaker 1>to I we to Westfield High School. I saw what

0:29:25.400 --> 0:29:28.120
<v Speaker 1>they do. Okay, yeah, I had intentions.

0:29:28.200 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 2>I know what. You know, you can do a little

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 2>wed you know.

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Then, I mean, I ain't doing nothing of that stuff

0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:36.120
<v Speaker 1>because I was scared. I have African parents at home.

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>But you know, yeah, it's just a shame. And then

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 1>you think about the financial ramifications of not having people

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:44.760
<v Speaker 1>home for something like that. But yeah, so we are

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:48.600
<v Speaker 1>proud of you. Shakiri Shakaari, Shakari Richardson, Miss ma'am, go

0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 1>ahead onto the it's gonna between you and the Jamaicans

0:29:51.240 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 1>because you know the make us be a little fast, honey,

0:29:53.480 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 1>may be all fast. I ain't gonna lie either way

0:29:55.480 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 1>as long as you black or want you away you

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 1>know what, non black to win. It's just that, like

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm mooty for everybody black, so everybody, Yeah, should we

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:08.960
<v Speaker 1>take up breaky mm hmm.

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:13.360
<v Speaker 2>Good note for Tanya. When that happens, Can you just

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:15.760
<v Speaker 2>edit out us tripping over each other? That's always I

0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:25.240
<v Speaker 2>like it, you do, listen, it's annoying. I think no

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:27.600
<v Speaker 2>I think we don't do it very often, and we

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 2>do it often do it? I don't know. I'm very

0:30:30.840 --> 0:30:32.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm always self conscious of it and I'm like, dang,

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:35.400
<v Speaker 2>where's our rhythm? Like we off the rhythm double Dutch.

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 1>Keep keep all of this in listeners. You tell us

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:41.640
<v Speaker 1>if do you hate it, like oh my god, you

0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:44.480
<v Speaker 1>guys are always tripping over each other, or you're like, no, girls,

0:30:44.520 --> 0:30:46.040
<v Speaker 1>so cute little one two one two, and then you

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:48.000
<v Speaker 1>guys get back on track. So we're gonna leave all

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 1>of that in and you're gonna let us know and

0:30:49.520 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 1>our DMS Branda Vision podcast on our g and just

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:55.760
<v Speaker 1>say like, girl, you fine, or like actually I hate it,

0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 1>but keep it cute because we do black. I mean,

0:30:58.040 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>you could be honest, but honestly I mean nasty.

0:31:00.440 --> 0:31:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I talk to Perry. Fame is never nasty. I

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:06.080
<v Speaker 2>think it only happens when I get too caught in

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:07.640
<v Speaker 2>my own head and I get in like an anxious

0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 2>state and I forget to just like talk to you

0:31:10.200 --> 0:31:12.000
<v Speaker 2>because I'm thinking about, oh, it should come next. I

0:31:12.120 --> 0:31:13.280
<v Speaker 2>just need to be a little more present.

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 1>No, and also a girl, it's humane, Like, I mean,

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, when you talk to people sometimes we're both

0:31:19.400 --> 0:31:23.200
<v Speaker 1>thinking to talk at the same time. It's natural. So anyway, yay, fam,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:26.480
<v Speaker 1>you got a little behind the scenes. So we will

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:30.000
<v Speaker 1>be back and blacker than ever with our what did

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:32.080
<v Speaker 1>it not be a q A with our phone boost?

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>We are back, y I fam, All right, we're gonna

0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:44.920
<v Speaker 1>do and now it's time to boost up, break up,

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 1>boost up, break up, boost up? Break Are you gonna boost?

0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna break? What you're gonna do? What you're

0:31:54.400 --> 0:31:58.440
<v Speaker 1>going to were boosting a breaking? And you want to

0:31:58.480 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>go first, you want to go second.

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:03.360
<v Speaker 2>I can go first since you did all the work

0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:07.200
<v Speaker 2>involved with singing us in with backing vocals somehow at

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:11.120
<v Speaker 2>the same time, she is a multi hyphen it. I

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 2>want to give myself a big brown boost because outside

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:18.840
<v Speaker 2>of like having kids and needing to prepare meals for

0:32:18.920 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 2>them on the weekend, when I'm like, oh dang, three

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:23.760
<v Speaker 2>meals a day plus next there's a lot of work,

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:26.000
<v Speaker 2>I feel very adult in those moments. I'm like, when

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:28.120
<v Speaker 2>did I become a grown up? I have a new

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:31.600
<v Speaker 2>milestone of like, holy shit, I am a grown up.

0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 2>I filed a grievance against my tax assessment, my property

0:32:38.440 --> 0:32:42.320
<v Speaker 2>assessment of my house. So for those of you who

0:32:42.400 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 2>are homeowners, you may live in a state where well

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 2>a lot of most states have property taxes, right like,

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:52.560
<v Speaker 2>there's no zero percent property tax states are there? I

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.240
<v Speaker 2>don't know could I move there if there is? But anyway,

0:32:56.080 --> 0:32:58.720
<v Speaker 2>you pay property taxes based on the assessed value of

0:32:58.760 --> 0:33:01.200
<v Speaker 2>your home. So I don't know what kind of methods

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 2>these towns municipal offices used to like determine. They probably

0:33:05.440 --> 0:33:07.960
<v Speaker 2>are on zillo like the rest of us, like figuring

0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:10.440
<v Speaker 2>out what your home is worth, and that is directly

0:33:10.520 --> 0:33:13.480
<v Speaker 2>what influences how much you pay in your annual taxes.

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:18.520
<v Speaker 2>My taxes, our taxes are insane. I know Jersey has

0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:22.160
<v Speaker 2>high property taxes as well, but I think my husband

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 2>and I are looking at like sixteen thousand a year

0:33:25.040 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 2>just in property taxes. And it's wild. Anyway, the annoying

0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 2>thing is that once a year you will get a

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.160
<v Speaker 2>letter or usually in the Atlasma you just got yours.

0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:35.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh look at you.

0:33:35.760 --> 0:33:38.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm literally opening right now to be like what

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 1>kind I'm own bout goheay?

0:33:40.280 --> 0:33:42.960
<v Speaker 2>So our property, it has gone up and up and

0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 2>up and up every year, and we always miss the

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:50.880
<v Speaker 2>little window to file a grievance. It's usually so for us,

0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 2>it was between June first through the eighteenth and the

0:33:53.480 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 2>way I showed up and on June eighteenth with that

0:33:57.200 --> 0:34:01.080
<v Speaker 2>piece of paper and all the application that you need

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:04.760
<v Speaker 2>or whatever. But I did it, and now it was

0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 2>it was not as scary of a process as I thought.

0:34:06.920 --> 0:34:08.680
<v Speaker 2>I thought I'd have to like stand up and defend

0:34:08.719 --> 0:34:10.360
<v Speaker 2>my home. But this is like the first step in

0:34:10.400 --> 0:34:13.880
<v Speaker 2>the process. So yeah, if you've received one of these letters,

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:17.520
<v Speaker 2>check them out and actually do the grievance. I'm very

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 2>interested to see if we'll actually like get our assessment down.

0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:24.840
<v Speaker 2>I know it's good, like for example, if I wanted

0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 2>to get a home equity loan or I wanted to

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:29.799
<v Speaker 2>sell my home, it's nice having a higher home value,

0:34:29.840 --> 0:34:32.920
<v Speaker 2>right because you'll get more profit. But in terms of

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:35.120
<v Speaker 2>like just staying in your home, which I know a

0:34:35.160 --> 0:34:37.920
<v Speaker 2>lot of homeowners are because rates are so high, like

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 2>your taxes are going up, and I don't know. In

0:34:42.280 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 2>my neighborhood, there's lots of flips, Like people will come

0:34:45.239 --> 0:34:47.040
<v Speaker 2>in they just write next door to me, they built

0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:49.720
<v Speaker 2>like a nine hundred thousand dollars home, which is twice

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:51.960
<v Speaker 2>the value of many of the homes on my block

0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:55.359
<v Speaker 2>that they were purchased for and so that they will

0:34:55.400 --> 0:34:57.640
<v Speaker 2>look at the comps like next to you and say, well,

0:34:57.680 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 2>then you know, we'll increase your property to by like

0:35:00.600 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 2>twenty orth sorry, your assessment by like twenty or thirty

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:06.799
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars. And it's not always fair, it's not always right,

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:09.920
<v Speaker 2>but big points for me being a grown up.

0:35:10.840 --> 0:35:14.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that, and I'm looking like mine amount.

0:35:14.560 --> 0:35:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Dude says three thy nine hundred, So say three thousand

0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 1>times four, it's twelve thousand dollars. I'm like it was

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>just ten thousand last year, so it's going up for girl.

0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh so that's so what you got is you're like,

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 2>you pay quarterly then quarterly yep, okay, they just put

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:31.520
<v Speaker 2>it on our more. They just put it on our

0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 2>mortgage bill monthly.

0:35:33.600 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Wh I got a mortgage carl?

0:35:36.000 --> 0:35:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's right, So that's all you pay? Yeah, gotcha?

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:43.600
<v Speaker 2>When we don't feel very bad, girl, bo'ts are. But

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 2>it is based on your assessed value. So like has

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:47.440
<v Speaker 2>your assessed value?

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:50.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah up up, yeah yeah, because all these houses are

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 1>selling for I'm like not a million dollars in our neighbor.

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean don't get me wrong, I'm happy about it.

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:57.320
<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, I will say what I

0:35:57.360 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 1>have heard because a friend of mine did it. She

0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 1>had an attorney help, so I may actually reach out

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:04.720
<v Speaker 1>because one of my friends is a real estate attorney

0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:08.799
<v Speaker 1>and that helps significantly. So I'm going to see because

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:11.239
<v Speaker 1>it has been going. Like when I first moved here, girl,

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 1>it was eight thousand, and now we're at twelve, five

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:19.440
<v Speaker 1>years later. It's cristy, so we fittishy. So I just

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 1>literally work in Newark. Yeah, And meanwhile, Newark is actually

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:27.560
<v Speaker 1>Essex County apparently, or Newark in particular. Now Essex County

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.440
<v Speaker 1>actually has some of the lowest which I'm like, this

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:32.759
<v Speaker 1>is low because, for example, like East Orange next to me,

0:36:33.480 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Like when I was looking for homes similar size in Newark,

0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:39.280
<v Speaker 1>it would be like six to eight thousand dollars in Newark,

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and an East Orange would be twelve thousand or in

0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Orange Orange and the Stars, which I'm like, wow. And

0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:47.400
<v Speaker 1>apparently there's some reasons that come into that that, like

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:51.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the businesses have what does that thing

0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:52.439
<v Speaker 1>when you don't have to pay taxes for a while,

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:53.399
<v Speaker 1>not probate.

0:36:55.280 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 2>To pay tax now a while yeah, I forget.

0:36:57.640 --> 0:36:59.760
<v Speaker 1>There's like a word for somebody right now is screaming

0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:02.040
<v Speaker 1>at the saying the word. I'm like, whatever, gir I

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:03.800
<v Speaker 1>can't hear you. So whatever.

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 2>It is.

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Basically, in order to attract businesses to certain cities, sometimes

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:10.440
<v Speaker 1>they'll waive their taxes for like however many years and

0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:13.520
<v Speaker 1>apparently and it's either an Orange or East Orange. They

0:37:13.600 --> 0:37:15.839
<v Speaker 1>did it for so long that they have to get

0:37:16.000 --> 0:37:17.880
<v Speaker 1>so much money from the people who own homes and

0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just crazy. So Newark has a lot of businesses,

0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I guess to offset, so our taxes as far as

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Essex County go is some of the lowest of like

0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>in our county. But still I'm my girl anyway, I guess.

0:37:33.680 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 2>So if you're wondering, like if you're a homeowner, you're

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.480
<v Speaker 2>listening and you're wondering how to check to see if

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:40.759
<v Speaker 2>you can file a grievance, just google the name of

0:37:40.840 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 2>your town and county and Grievance Day because that's what

0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:48.200
<v Speaker 2>it's called. Grievance Day is the day. And for us

0:37:48.239 --> 0:37:49.880
<v Speaker 2>at least it was a couple of weeks over that

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 2>period we could have submitted it. But you need to

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:53.880
<v Speaker 2>submit it because if you missed a grievance day, then

0:37:53.920 --> 0:37:55.880
<v Speaker 2>that's your biggest window to like combat it. And then

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:59.240
<v Speaker 2>after that you may have to take on an attorney

0:37:59.400 --> 0:38:03.200
<v Speaker 2>or there's actually like real realist realtors who also like

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:07.439
<v Speaker 2>have as a freelance offering. They will offer to file

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:10.360
<v Speaker 2>a file a late grievance or whatever and like appear

0:38:10.440 --> 0:38:14.320
<v Speaker 2>in court and we're at the town municipal office to

0:38:15.040 --> 0:38:21.360
<v Speaker 2>to argue against your assessment. So it's a grown up stuff,

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:22.360
<v Speaker 2>but we gotta do that.

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:26.840
<v Speaker 1>We gotta do it well. Mine is I guess it

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:30.279
<v Speaker 1>is a booze. Yeah, it's a boost. So Supergirl has

0:38:30.360 --> 0:38:35.440
<v Speaker 1>graduated high school. But now she went to prom. She

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:37.759
<v Speaker 1>looks so beautiful a prom. She's such a pretty girl.

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:41.719
<v Speaker 1>She went to prom and that was great and expensive girl,

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 1>and then she she went to We just actually just

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:51.640
<v Speaker 1>went to her graduation the other day and then she

0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:53.680
<v Speaker 1>had her party here. So she had proms send off

0:38:53.719 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>at her mom's house and then she had her party here.

0:38:56.600 --> 0:38:59.400
<v Speaker 1>It was actually last night, so she had like her

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:02.719
<v Speaker 1>family come earlier and then she had her friends come later.

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:06.600
<v Speaker 1>So you know that was cool, and so was it

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:09.400
<v Speaker 1>when it came to it was I mean, you know

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:11.759
<v Speaker 1>they're seventeen eighteen, so you know, I could keep it

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:14.080
<v Speaker 1>like baby because the backyard that shair is all like

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 1>laid out. I mean I was here, okay, I was

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:20.239
<v Speaker 1>leaving the kids alone, even though like at twelve thirty

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 1>day was outside just talking talking. I was like, we

0:39:21.920 --> 0:39:23.800
<v Speaker 1>have neighbors, Galo. I had to come out in my

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.279
<v Speaker 1>auntie robe and Lena like opened the front door and

0:39:26.400 --> 0:39:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Lena against the doorjam. They just looked at They're like, ooh,

0:39:29.680 --> 0:39:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. She texted me this morning. She was like,

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry Tiffany for my friends. I truly apologized.

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I'll look at her all sweet.

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:39.319
<v Speaker 1>But no, they were like really respectful, nice kids. They

0:39:39.360 --> 0:39:42.320
<v Speaker 1>were just outside like talking like you know, unempolieding. I

0:39:42.440 --> 0:39:44.839
<v Speaker 1>no job, you know, they were just like I said, girl,

0:39:45.040 --> 0:39:47.319
<v Speaker 1>go tell your friends to get out my front lawn.

0:39:48.880 --> 0:39:51.920
<v Speaker 1>But we are now like So she did get some

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:54.600
<v Speaker 1>scholarships for school. Her father left her money. I have

0:39:54.719 --> 0:39:59.880
<v Speaker 1>money for her too, So navigating the financial component for

0:39:59.880 --> 0:40:05.120
<v Speaker 1>her her is interesting because I want her. You know,

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:07.720
<v Speaker 1>it's hard because she's seventeen, so soon she turns eighteen.

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:09.759
<v Speaker 1>The way the state works is that if you lose

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:13.839
<v Speaker 1>a parent, many times they will hold your your your

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:16.239
<v Speaker 1>the child's money and trust if the parent has left

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:18.640
<v Speaker 1>any sort of like life insurance, which which Jerrelle did,

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:20.920
<v Speaker 1>so they'll hold that money in trust for the for

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:24.080
<v Speaker 1>the child, and then in New Jersey it just gives

0:40:24.120 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 1>it to them when they turn eighteen, which I feel

0:40:26.040 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>like is so young, you know, you know, because it's

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:32.359
<v Speaker 1>like she could do whatever and it's not a little

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:35.880
<v Speaker 1>bit of money. And so I am having her thankful

0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 1>because she turns eighteen in October, so we have some

0:40:38.160 --> 0:40:41.400
<v Speaker 1>months away. So she's meeting with my financial advisor. It's Angelie.

0:40:41.440 --> 0:40:44.240
<v Speaker 1>It's something that she offers to the children of her clients.

0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh she's got to have a Yeah, several conversations, but

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 1>by herself, like a Jelie and I have already spoken

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:51.040
<v Speaker 1>about what we thought it was best practices for what

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:54.520
<v Speaker 1>should happen next, but I think it's important. I spoke

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:58.239
<v Speaker 1>to Melissa's mom you know me, and you know, we've

0:40:58.239 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>been cool. We talked about like what do we think

0:40:59.760 --> 0:41:02.280
<v Speaker 1>we shoul to do and she was like, honestly, Tiffany,

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that if you meet with her and Angelie

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:06.239
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, she's got to turn off her

0:41:06.239 --> 0:41:07.719
<v Speaker 1>brain because she's going to say, there's an adult in

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 1>the room. Tiffany got it, and so Angelie actually agreed too.

0:41:10.719 --> 0:41:12.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, that's really that was really great

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 1>feedback from her mom. So we both talked about it,

0:41:13.920 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, I think she should meet with her

0:41:15.280 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 1>separately because she's really smart, because she's gonna be like, wait,

0:41:18.560 --> 0:41:21.080
<v Speaker 1>it's just me, let me focus and take notes. So

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking forward to that. Actually have to convict. I'm

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna I'm going to connect them via text this week

0:41:27.280 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 1>so they can schedule a call because I want onto

0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:31.440
<v Speaker 1>a few things. I want Angelie to look at, like,

0:41:32.000 --> 0:41:33.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, the school that she's going to. I want

0:41:33.520 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>her to also look at the scholarship that she got,

0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 1>to really dissect the award letter to tell Alyta, this

0:41:41.280 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>is how much is coming to you, and here is

0:41:44.040 --> 0:41:46.279
<v Speaker 1>some some things you can do to make the most

0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:49.360
<v Speaker 1>of that money, you know. And so I was stressed

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:50.640
<v Speaker 1>about it. I'm like, oh, what does she choose to

0:41:50.719 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>in correctly? But I'm like, girl, I finally had to

0:41:54.320 --> 0:41:58.040
<v Speaker 1>let that go because all I can do is I

0:41:58.160 --> 0:42:00.279
<v Speaker 1>never understood my dad would say sometimes I could do

0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:02.560
<v Speaker 1>is advise. Sometimes he would say that to us when

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:05.439
<v Speaker 1>he was just like, I cannot at this big grown age,

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you what to do. And then not

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:10.280
<v Speaker 1>that she's an adult, cause she's only seventeen. But ultimately

0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:12.759
<v Speaker 1>when she turned to eighteen, it's her money. Yeah, and

0:42:13.120 --> 0:42:16.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, one of the things Angelie said that she

0:42:16.480 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 1>highly suggests is that to set aside a nice little

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:21.960
<v Speaker 1>piece of it, you know, not a quarter of it,

0:42:22.080 --> 0:42:24.719
<v Speaker 1>but a little chunk that Alissa basically can do whatever

0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 1>she wants with to ease some of that. It's my money.

0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I do what I want.

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:29.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what I mean.

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:32.080
<v Speaker 1>And so like whatever that is, it's like, okay, like

0:42:32.160 --> 0:42:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm buying her car, you know, I told you she

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:37.279
<v Speaker 1>said she wanted to. The Audis are real cute. I'm

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:42.800
<v Speaker 1>like an Audi girl girl A bajillion dollars. I don't know,

0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:44.479
<v Speaker 1>it's more than whatever I'm driving now.

0:42:44.480 --> 0:42:46.800
<v Speaker 2>Or anyone else's prios No.

0:42:47.080 --> 0:42:48.520
<v Speaker 1>I told her, we talked about it. I said, she's

0:42:48.520 --> 0:42:51.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna get the typical freshman year car for a girl.

0:42:52.400 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 2>A girl classic.

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a I'm a freshman and I just

0:43:03.719 --> 0:43:07.400
<v Speaker 1>so she got I mean, shently she was like, oh,

0:43:07.560 --> 0:43:09.399
<v Speaker 1>they are really cute. I'll say, yeah, girl, and you're

0:43:09.400 --> 0:43:10.520
<v Speaker 1>getting a certified.

0:43:10.120 --> 0:43:14.719
<v Speaker 2>Pre owned one. So Audie is like cute, She's like

0:43:14.800 --> 0:43:16.600
<v Speaker 2>anti TIPI does know about cars, so let me just

0:43:17.840 --> 0:43:18.560
<v Speaker 2>this is like a start.

0:43:19.920 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 1>So I told her, I said, you got to get

0:43:21.120 --> 0:43:23.480
<v Speaker 1>a certified pre owned hot toa civic like nothing older

0:43:23.520 --> 0:43:26.880
<v Speaker 1>than probably twenty nineteen, twenty eighteen, something between twenty eighteen

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:30.600
<v Speaker 1>and like twenty twenty three. I told her, like, you know,

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:33.239
<v Speaker 1>it has to be as far below twenty thousand dollars

0:43:33.280 --> 0:43:37.600
<v Speaker 1>as possible, and uh, just a bunch of other kind

0:43:37.640 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 1>of like parameters I gave her. I told her why

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:42.279
<v Speaker 1>certified pre owned. I told her why. I gave her

0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 1>like some you know, Toyota, Honda or something else like

0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:49.120
<v Speaker 1>which are really reliable cars. She chose Honda, and so

0:43:49.239 --> 0:43:51.520
<v Speaker 1>we just kind of talked through why she's getting this,

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:53.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, like why that car is going to be

0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:55.080
<v Speaker 1>a good car for her. I also too, I sought,

0:43:55.080 --> 0:43:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I want you to be able to drive. Everyone gets

0:43:56.680 --> 0:43:58.480
<v Speaker 1>intoll like a little bit of a fender bender, and

0:43:58.520 --> 0:44:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to be feeling like you have

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:02.640
<v Speaker 1>this fancy car. But I also want something safe, also

0:44:02.719 --> 0:44:04.160
<v Speaker 1>something that's not going to break down in you all

0:44:04.200 --> 0:44:07.080
<v Speaker 1>the time, which handas are notorious for being really reliable

0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:08.799
<v Speaker 1>cars that don't need to be fixed all the time.

0:44:09.280 --> 0:44:11.480
<v Speaker 1>So she's excited about it. But I also told her

0:44:11.800 --> 0:44:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I will get you the car, but the insurance is

0:44:14.120 --> 0:44:17.680
<v Speaker 1>on who you and Chuck E Cheese were you working?

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:21.360
<v Speaker 2>And so that's what she worked at, Chucky Cheese.

0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:26.719
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I know, I'm not gonna lie.

0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:28.359
<v Speaker 2>She's a nice one though, because some of these people

0:44:28.400 --> 0:44:29.439
<v Speaker 2>with chunky cheese is are.

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:31.279
<v Speaker 1>Like no, she says, she has a good time. She

0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:33.760
<v Speaker 1>was like me, first of all, she was like tippy.

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Your people don't like to tip. I'm like, who's bar people?

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 1>She's like, no, they tipping compliments Nigeria Africans. I was like,

0:44:38.640 --> 0:44:39.000
<v Speaker 1>don't do it.

0:44:41.160 --> 0:44:41.480
<v Speaker 2>She said.

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:44.200
<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh wow, you're such a hord worker. You're

0:44:44.280 --> 0:44:44.960
<v Speaker 1>so smart.

0:44:45.360 --> 0:44:45.400
<v Speaker 2>You.

0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 1>So she's like, so does that Ben?

0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 2>Wait? When would you tip someone a chuck? Like is

0:44:51.760 --> 0:44:57.640
<v Speaker 2>she waiting? Ye? Managing the parties a bunch, that's stuff

0:44:57.640 --> 0:44:57.840
<v Speaker 2>to you.

0:44:58.120 --> 0:45:00.239
<v Speaker 1>But I love that right because she's the only she

0:45:00.320 --> 0:45:02.800
<v Speaker 1>hasn't really wanted for anything, and so there you know,

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:05.719
<v Speaker 1>there's responsibility, there's like, I love what she's like, I

0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:07.520
<v Speaker 1>have to I have to call out. I got to

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<v Speaker 1>get coverage. I'm like, oh, look, but these are the

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<v Speaker 1>types of conversations you want to start to go to

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<v Speaker 1>have as soon as possible. But also, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>try my best to talk through talk through these kind

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<v Speaker 1>of financial things with her, like, hey, you have money

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<v Speaker 1>coming in, you know, Like, cause what I'm the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>lessons I want her to learn is that that you

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<v Speaker 1>have agency over the money that that you have, but

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<v Speaker 1>that you should not navigate it alone. It's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest lessons that like, I do not now this

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<v Speaker 1>is the person that helps me. And if you don't,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay not to know what to do with your money.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's how you vet for smart people to help

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<v Speaker 1>you navigate. And here's how you make the plans ahead

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<v Speaker 1>of time, you know, by deciding what your goals are

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<v Speaker 1>and then making your money work for you. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm not stressed about anymore. She's smart and

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<v Speaker 1>she's responsible and even if she blows some of it,

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<v Speaker 1>that is okay. And you know, she's not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be unhoused and she's not going to be hungry we've

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<v Speaker 1>got her, and if she I still have a pile

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<v Speaker 1>for her that I'm not I'm watching how she navigates

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<v Speaker 1>where her dad left versus what I've set aside for her,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, if she makes choices that are not

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<v Speaker 1>the wisest, it might look like student loans, even though

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<v Speaker 1>I can make sure she doesn't have student loans. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you need to learn the hard way, and then when

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<v Speaker 1>you're smarter, it's like, Okay, you're ready now to take

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<v Speaker 1>in you know the rest. So you know, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited for this next stage for her. She's like really excited.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to go to what is that called exercise science?

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to be theological therapist now a physical therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, yeah, well that's really great. I love that

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<v Speaker 2>you are letting her meet alone because also she'll be

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<v Speaker 2>less self conscious about asking questions, probably because she might

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<v Speaker 2>be like, well, Tiffany thinks I should know this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's so great. I'm excited for her, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>this is a perfect example of like how you can

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<v Speaker 2>like not associate this whole NEPO baby thing that people

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<v Speaker 2>are talking about, like who gives you a life? I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>she has like y'all work so hard, and Superman with

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<v Speaker 2>all the love that he had for her, made sure

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<v Speaker 2>that she would be okay, And like she gets to

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<v Speaker 2>move forward with options and move forward without that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of stress. And that's such an incredible gift. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so proud of Jarelle and the legacy that he left

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<v Speaker 2>for her, and of you guys and how you have

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<v Speaker 2>co parented her. I mean, she is the product. How

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<v Speaker 2>could she? I don't want to put pressure because she

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<v Speaker 2>will make mistakes, of course, and like you expect that,

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<v Speaker 2>but like you guys have given her the best foundation.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like at this point, I'm talking a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of like shit because I will probably be a

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<v Speaker 2>basket case if Rio ever goes out into the money

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<v Speaker 2>he goes out into the real world as an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>But like feels so good about the foundation that y'all

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<v Speaker 2>gave her and she is going to be if if

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<v Speaker 2>y'all's love and your foundation that you provided for her,

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<v Speaker 2>like that is the best launch pad for wherever she's

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<v Speaker 2>going to go in life. Yeah, yeah, it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>You still be worthy. You're like, girl, what can I

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<v Speaker 1>drive the car? Do you have a short? Oh? It's sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, congrat Supergirl and other graduates of twenty twenty four. Yeah, congratulations,

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<v Speaker 2>Pandemic babies.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we like those, Yes we do.

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<v Speaker 2>We haven't had a review in June. I'm sorry. Where

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<v Speaker 2>are y'all? Where where are you at? Please get on

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<v Speaker 1>Needs some friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you, read a check? She says, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>at home with this podcast. I learned loads of information

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, she needs some reviews and join us on

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<v Speaker 1>Friday for b AQA. Until then, goodbye, fare well.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll ven and say now do I don't think too

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<v Speaker 2>much where we owe them money?

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<v Speaker 1>Just okay, bye,