WEBVTT - How To Get More Done in 2024 (Best Advice for Focus and Productivity)

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<v Speaker 1>I've been noticing how you all want twenty twenty four

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<v Speaker 1>to be your year and if you right now are

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<v Speaker 1>thinking Jay January was good, or maybe it wasn't even good,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want February, March, and April to be epic

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<v Speaker 1>and incredible and amazing. This episode is for you. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're thinking you want to be more productive, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be more laser focused, you want to have the power,

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<v Speaker 1>the strength, and the organization to get more done this

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<v Speaker 1>year than this is the episode for you. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be sharing with you all of my personal and

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<v Speaker 1>the most researched productivity tips and hacks that are going

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<v Speaker 1>to help you build a schedule and craft a calendar

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to make sure that you will achieve your

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<v Speaker 1>targets and goals. I think what we often don't realize

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<v Speaker 1>is we start to think that there's some weakness in us.

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<v Speaker 1>We start to feel like maybe I'm not good enough,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm not fast enough, maybe I'm not organized enough.

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<v Speaker 1>And the truth is, no one ever taught us this right.

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<v Speaker 1>No one ever broke down at school how you could

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<v Speaker 1>be more productive. No one ever taught you at home

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<v Speaker 1>how you could get more done. So often we waste

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<v Speaker 1>so much time self criticizing, self judging, when actually, if

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<v Speaker 1>we use that same energy to just implement these skills.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm going to share with you today, you can

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<v Speaker 1>implement starting right now. It's not something you need to learn,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not something you need to develop. You just need

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<v Speaker 1>to start it. All you're going to need is a

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<v Speaker 1>timer that's going to be really useful for some of

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<v Speaker 1>these and I highly recommend if you want to get

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<v Speaker 1>a small, little hour glass or a big one, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is that you need, or if you do want

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<v Speaker 1>to use a timer, maybe you're going to use a stopwatch.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to find a way to use a

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<v Speaker 1>timer that's not on your phone, ideally because that way

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get distracted. But hey, if you can put

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<v Speaker 1>it on airplane mode and then use the timer, that

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<v Speaker 1>could be the easiest and simplest way. I know that

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm building these habits sometimes I need to switch

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<v Speaker 1>away to a new timing device in order for me

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<v Speaker 1>to build the habit so that I can go back

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<v Speaker 1>to my phone. That's often the way I like to

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<v Speaker 1>play it through at least. But like I said, if

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<v Speaker 1>you put your phone on airplane mode, you can use

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<v Speaker 1>it as a timer, which is going to be so

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<v Speaker 1>useful to so many of the tips I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>give you. Now, I want to dive into the first

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<v Speaker 1>productivity tip. Now, the most productive workers engage in job

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<v Speaker 1>related tasks for fifty two minutes, then take a seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>minute break, and studies show that that fifteen to tw

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<v Speaker 1>one ten minute break window is productivity. Is golden hour

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<v Speaker 1>or quarter hour, as the case may be. It's long

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<v Speaker 1>enough for your brain to disengage and leave you feeling refreshed,

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<v Speaker 1>but not so long that you lose focus and derail

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<v Speaker 1>momentum on what you were doing. This research is so

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<v Speaker 1>powerful because I find that a lot of us think, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm doing deep work, I need to work for

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<v Speaker 1>three hours in a row, four hours in a row.

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<v Speaker 1>And often you get into that first hour and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually feeling drained. How many times have you over

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<v Speaker 1>pushed yourself and you said to yourself, I'll take a

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<v Speaker 1>break tomorrow because I've been taking too many breaks, and

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, you're drained, you're tired, you're challenged,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just feeling like, gosh, I feel like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>working this whole time. And what's really interesting is when

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<v Speaker 1>you factor in your break, when you know that in

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<v Speaker 1>fifty two minutes you're going to take a seven teen

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<v Speaker 1>minute break all of a sudden, your mind, let's go

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<v Speaker 1>off that pressure. If you're going to push yourself to work,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a bit of pressure. Oh my gosh, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to stay focused. I have to stay organized otherwise this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't going to get done now. What happens is when

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<v Speaker 1>you talk to your mind in that way, your mind

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<v Speaker 1>can be somewhat like a child, and the child goes, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that right now. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to focus right now. You've probably had that conversation before.

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<v Speaker 1>Right You're telling your mind, hey, we got to focus now.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got some serious work to get done, and your

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<v Speaker 1>mind goes, uhh, I'm out, like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do this right now. Guess what. You turn on the

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<v Speaker 1>next episode of your favorite reality show, and there you go. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's really interesting about this is actually, when you

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<v Speaker 1>say to a child, you say, hey, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to work for this much a time of time, but

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<v Speaker 1>then you're going to get this break all of a sudden.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a bit of give and take there, and so

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<v Speaker 1>the same works for your mind. We have to train

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<v Speaker 1>our mind to commit knowing that there's reward at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of it. That incentive also relieves that stress. It

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<v Speaker 1>relieves that pressure. That's my goal for you. The tips

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sharing today are tips that will help you be

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<v Speaker 1>more productive but also reduce the stress. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to get more done and be more stressed. I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to get more done and be less stressed.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the goal. So remember fifty two minutes and a

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen minute break. And here's the thing you have to

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<v Speaker 1>promise yourself. You put on a timer for both of those,

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<v Speaker 1>and you go back to it knowing that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to have another seventeen minute break after the next fifty

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<v Speaker 1>two minutes. So this is a rolling cycle, right. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a rolling cycle that you can repeat three times

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<v Speaker 1>over in order to get fifty two times three, right,

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and fifty six minutes worth of work completed

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<v Speaker 1>in that time. Now, the Pomodoro technique is a slight

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<v Speaker 1>adjustment to this one. This is a time management method

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<v Speaker 1>based on twenty five minutes stretches of focused work broken

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<v Speaker 1>by five minute breaks. Now, I'll tell you the difference

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<v Speaker 1>in when I use these, when I'm doing fifty two

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<v Speaker 1>minutes at a stretch and then a seventeen minute break.

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<v Speaker 1>It's usually deeper creative work. It's work that requires me

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<v Speaker 1>to bend my mind. It's work that requires writing and

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<v Speaker 1>lots of thought. It's work that requires innovation and when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm challenging myself. But if I'm trying to do more

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<v Speaker 1>logical tasks, if I'm trying to get emails done, if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to get functional things scheduling my task list,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm trying to check off what parts of the

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<v Speaker 1>project are being completed, if I'm doing any sort of

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<v Speaker 1>that organizational work, I find the Pomodoro technique to be great.

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<v Speaker 1>So again, the Pomodoro technique is a time management method

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<v Speaker 1>based on twenty five minute stretches of focused work broken

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<v Speaker 1>by five minute breaks. Now they say that longer breaks,

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<v Speaker 1>typically fifteen to thirty minutes, are taken after four consecutive

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<v Speaker 1>work intervals. So once you've done four rounds of twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes on, five minutes off, twenty five minutes on,

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes off, et cetera. Once you've done that four times,

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<v Speaker 1>you can now extend your break periods to fifteen to

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes. Now I really really like this method, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I said for really functional tasks like emails, I find

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<v Speaker 1>that if you're sitting there on your emails for hours

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<v Speaker 1>and hours and hours, it's obvious that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>switch to YouTube, You're going to switch to another page,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to get lost on a rabbit hole, and

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, you go from answering your emails

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<v Speaker 1>to following a link to someone's video that they sent

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<v Speaker 1>you to ending up watching videos about cats and babies

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. EL maybe right, like it's so easy how

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<v Speaker 1>we lose thought. Whereas when we say to ourselves, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to work for twenty five minutes and then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have a five minute break, and guess when that

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<v Speaker 1>five minute break, I'm going to allow myself to do

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is now. I do have some recommendations because

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<v Speaker 1>our natural tendency is to scroll on TikTok or scroll

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram, and we know that that can outlast five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>But one of my favorite things to do is to

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<v Speaker 1>really use that five minutes to walk around to get

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<v Speaker 1>some blood pumping, to get some energy pumping. It's to

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<v Speaker 1>get some water to get hydrated. Right, allowing yourself to

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<v Speaker 1>walk to get some water, finding a window. If you

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<v Speaker 1>can open it to get some fresh air, fantastic if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't. The ability to look out into the distance.

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<v Speaker 1>So much of our life has become consumed by what's

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<v Speaker 1>close to us. We're so used to looking at our

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<v Speaker 1>phones up close, our kindle's up close, all of our

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<v Speaker 1>device is up close. So when you look off into

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<v Speaker 1>the distance and you find a bird, a tree, you

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<v Speaker 1>look at a cloud, you look into the sky right,

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<v Speaker 1>just allow your eyes to gain some relaxation, to gain

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<v Speaker 1>some rest, to gain a bit of a break. It

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<v Speaker 1>can be really really powerful. The three ws, walking, water,

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<v Speaker 1>and window are my go to in that five minute

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<v Speaker 1>break so that I can come back refreshed. If you

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<v Speaker 1>go from your screen of your laptop to the screen

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<v Speaker 1>of your phone and your whole life becomes screen time,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be really tiring, really really exhausting. So those

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<v Speaker 1>are two really core techniques that I use when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually breaking down my work. For deep work, I'm using

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<v Speaker 1>fifty two minutes seventeen minute break. For functional email type work,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm using twenty five minute stretches of focused work broken

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<v Speaker 1>by five minute breaks. And the way you do this

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<v Speaker 1>is you identify the task or task you need to complete.

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<v Speaker 1>You set your timer for the twenty five minutes, then

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<v Speaker 1>you work on the task and you put everything aside.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I said airplane mode. And then finally, when

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<v Speaker 1>the alarm goes off, you allow yourself to take that break.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you can repeat that process four times in total,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you can extend your breaks to fifteen to

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes. So that's how I work effectively with tasks.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to give you one more before I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about my week schedule. So I don't

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<v Speaker 1>look at planning and organizations just as tasks and to

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<v Speaker 1>do lists. I see it also as a week plan.

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<v Speaker 1>lot of you've been asking me, Jay, what about the

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<v Speaker 1>to do list? Right? Do you recommend to do list?

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<v Speaker 1>You not? Here's how I like to break it down.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to break down what I need to do

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<v Speaker 1>by something I call TTC Task Time Calendar. So first

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<v Speaker 1>what are the tasks you need to complete? A task

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<v Speaker 1>could be write a summary chapter for my book. A

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<v Speaker 1>task could be write my next episode of my solo podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>A task could be research a guest. Right, these are

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<v Speaker 1>all tasks. Now, what you really want to do for

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<v Speaker 1>repetitive tasks is to know how long they take. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the time. So remember TTC Task Time Calendar. Once

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<v Speaker 1>you've got the task, how much time is that going

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<v Speaker 1>to take? This is where I see most of us

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<v Speaker 1>making the biggest mistakes. We often overestimate how much time

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<v Speaker 1>we need. By that we end up wasting time, or

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<v Speaker 1>we underestimate the time, and by that we end up

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like we failed. Right, when was the last time

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<v Speaker 1>that you had a task You know you needed to

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<v Speaker 1>get it done, but you gave yourself too much time.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it gave yourself two weeks and actually you lost

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<v Speaker 1>momentum and you lost enthusiasm for it, and two weeks

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<v Speaker 1>later it kind of didn't feel as good. Or you've

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<v Speaker 1>had the other option or other situation where you gave

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<v Speaker 1>yourself two hours and really you needed like five or six.

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<v Speaker 1>And now when you don't complete in two hours, you

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<v Speaker 1>feel frustrated. So one of the key things that we

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<v Speaker 1>need to understand when it comes to being productive is

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<v Speaker 1>we need to start getting better and knowing how long

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<v Speaker 1>something takes us. So, for example, when I used to

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<v Speaker 1>first script my solo episodes, they used to take eight

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<v Speaker 1>hours worth of work. Today they take two hours worth

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<v Speaker 1>of work because of the time invested over the last

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<v Speaker 1>five years. And so I know that in two hours

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<v Speaker 1>I can research and record my solo episodes, and so

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<v Speaker 1>that's what's scheduled in my calendar, task time calendar. The

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<v Speaker 1>task is recording a solo episode, researching and recording. The

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<v Speaker 1>time is two hours, and it's in my calendar every

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<v Speaker 1>week on a day when then I can send it

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<v Speaker 1>to the team for editing. So again it's calendared in.

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<v Speaker 1>I find that to do lists end up being a

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<v Speaker 1>long list without the time and without the calendar, and

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<v Speaker 1>without the time and the calendar, all you have is

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<v Speaker 1>a task list or a to do list, and that

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<v Speaker 1>can kind of stretch over too many days or too

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<v Speaker 1>little days. It can keep adding up. Whereas if something

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<v Speaker 1>goes straight from tasking time into your calendar, you know

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<v Speaker 1>when it's going to be completed. So if I opened

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<v Speaker 1>up my calendar right now, Every single task I have

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<v Speaker 1>to do this week is in my calendar, scheduled during

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<v Speaker 1>my work hours, and so there is no room for

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<v Speaker 1>me to miss anything. The only mistake I can make

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<v Speaker 1>is not correctly allocating the right amount of time. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're someone who has lots of new tasks, tasks

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't often do and are not repetitive, that

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<v Speaker 1>can be challenging. But what you want to do is

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<v Speaker 1>get a better estimate, maybe from the person giving you

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<v Speaker 1>the task. You can always say, hey, how long do

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<v Speaker 1>you think this should take? Hey, how long or when

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<v Speaker 1>would you like this back? And what level would it

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<v Speaker 1>be at? What quality would you like I think asking

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<v Speaker 1>those two questions is huge. How much time do you

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<v Speaker 1>think this will take me? And secondly, what quality do

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<v Speaker 1>you expect in that time? And then after doing that

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times, you get a sense of how

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<v Speaker 1>that works for you. So these are my core ways

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<v Speaker 1>of breaking down task time and calendar. And what I

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<v Speaker 1>like about this is it stops me from being indecisive. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to wake up and go, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>what am I doing today? Or oh I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>doing that one, Maybe I'll do this other one. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>oh which, Oh no, I got started on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me carry on. You actually set your whole week

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<v Speaker 1>up and you have it all in the calendar, so

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<v Speaker 1>it really takes away that indecisiveness. The other thing is

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<v Speaker 1>it gives you the opportunity to schedule for work life balance.

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<v Speaker 1>You get the opportunity to say, okay, well i'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>that many hours that day. Let me take a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of time off here as well, and it helps you

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<v Speaker 1>stay on track. Now, one thing I will add is

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<v Speaker 1>when you start calendaring out your days, you have two options,

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<v Speaker 1>something called eat the frog right or the frog first

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<v Speaker 1>thing in the morning. And this is the idea of

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<v Speaker 1>doing the hardest thing first. The idea is if you

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<v Speaker 1>can do the hardest thing first, everything else becomes easier.

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<v Speaker 1>The other one that I like is eat the fly,

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<v Speaker 1>which is do the simplest thing the easiest thing. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to eat frogs or flies, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like those terms, but you get the point. Eat

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<v Speaker 1>the fly. Let's start with the fly. Let's start with

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<v Speaker 1>the smallest, easiest thing first so I can build my confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>This is really based on your psychology, and it's based

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<v Speaker 1>on your personality type. So maybe you're someone who gains

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<v Speaker 1>confidence from doing big things first and hard things, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you're someone who gains confidence from doing more things

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<v Speaker 1>and doing them well, and now you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>big things. This is where the idea of make your

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<v Speaker 1>bed first thing in the morning came from. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the psychology of making your bed is really easy. When

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<v Speaker 1>you get that done, you feel a sense of accomplishment.

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<v Speaker 1>So this comes back to a point of self awareness.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you someone who likes to start with a hard

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<v Speaker 1>thing or start with an easy thing. I'm definitely someone

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<v Speaker 1>who's oscillated between the two. I've definitely done both of

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<v Speaker 1>these things. And I find that if I keep putting

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<v Speaker 1>something off because it's hard, that's when I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>start on that thing. If I've noticed that too many

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<v Speaker 1>weeks have gone by, I keep putting off the hard thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I keep pushing back on it, it keeps becoming something

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<v Speaker 1>that's frustrating me. I'm overthinking it. That's the thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to start with. So so far, we've covered

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<v Speaker 1>some brilliant techniques of how to actually break down each

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<v Speaker 1>hour of your day. We've also talked about how to

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<v Speaker 1>break down your tasks overall, and now I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get into how I look and map a week of

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<v Speaker 1>my time. So the first thing I have which has

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<v Speaker 1>changed my life is something called creative versus logical days.

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<v Speaker 1>I have creative days and I have logical days. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me explain what I mean by that. Logical days are

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm processing data, numbers, analytics, functional project management. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I have creative days when I'm doing things like innovation, creativity,

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<v Speaker 1>coming up with new ideas, brainstorming, trying to challenge myself

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<v Speaker 1>out of my comfort zone, learning, being curious. Right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I've found and I will tell this to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really want you to implement this. If you try

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<v Speaker 1>and do both in the same day, It's like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to drive from one side of town to the other

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of rush hour. Right. It's a longer journey.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it, it's just more stressful. Imagine you're on

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<v Speaker 1>one side town and this happens a lot in LA

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<v Speaker 1>You're in Santa Monica, and then your next meetings in

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<v Speaker 1>West Hollywood, and all of a sudden, you've got to

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<v Speaker 1>drive in the middle of the day. You're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get stuck in traffic, You're going to get stressed and

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be late for the meeting when you

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<v Speaker 1>try and rush from being logical to being creative. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's say you just had a numbers meeting, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the next meeting you've got to come up with a

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<v Speaker 1>new creative idea. It's going to be really hard. You

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<v Speaker 1>might be able to do it for a while, but

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<v Speaker 1>eventually you'll get exhausted or you've had a creative day

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden, you've got to be organized

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<v Speaker 1>and numbers focused. So what I like to do is

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<v Speaker 1>I like to break down my days and say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Monday is going to be a creative day, Tuesday's a

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<v Speaker 1>logical day, Wednesday's a creative day, Thursday's a logical day. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it may be, whatever may work out. I often

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<v Speaker 1>do this when I'm interviewing for the podcast. So if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interviewing for the podcast, I'm trying to do two

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<v Speaker 1>episodes a day for three to five days a week

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<v Speaker 1>because I know I can go really deep into interviewer mode.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I'm going to be able to ask

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<v Speaker 1>the right question. I know that I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 1>in flow state. That's how we access flow state. But

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<v Speaker 1>if I said to myself. I'm going to do two

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts today, and I'm going to look at analytics, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to look at my finances. That becomes challenging. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have the luxury of planning each day,

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<v Speaker 1>you can plan the morning and afternoon, before and after lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a great way of thinking about this. Before lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being creative. After lunch, I'm doing the logical tasks.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a great way of creating separation for your

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<v Speaker 1>mind and creating that space for yourself. Now, at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, when I look at my logical or creative days,

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<v Speaker 1>I can go even further into whether I want them

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<v Speaker 1>to be effective or efficient days. Now, effective days are

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<v Speaker 1>where you do one thing and you achieve one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but you feel really accomplished. Efficient days are when you

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<v Speaker 1>do lots of things. You check loads of things off

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<v Speaker 1>your to do list, your laundry, your groceries, you're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're your taxes, whatever else it may be. Now, what's

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting about this is often we do so many

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<v Speaker 1>things in a day, but mentally we still feel dissatisfied.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times have you ever checked everything off your

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<v Speaker 1>to do list and still felt like you hadn't done

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<v Speaker 1>the most important thing, or how many times have you

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<v Speaker 1>had it the other way where you actually only did

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<v Speaker 1>one thing, but you felt like you had lots left

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<v Speaker 1>to do. This is because we haven't mentally made a

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<v Speaker 1>choice as to whether it's an efficient day or an

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<v Speaker 1>effective day. So efficient days or days when I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, this day, I'm going to get lots of

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<v Speaker 1>logical tasks done. Effective days where I'm like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>just need to get this one big thing done and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to feel really accomplished. All of this takes

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of planning on a Sunday night or a

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<v Speaker 1>Monday morning, and that's what I recommend if you like

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<v Speaker 1>doing on a Sunday night because you like to be

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<v Speaker 1>set for the week. I like to wake up on

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<v Speaker 1>Monday and not have to think about what I have

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<v Speaker 1>to do. But if you're someone who wants to plan

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<v Speaker 1>your week and your work week when you're at work,

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<v Speaker 1>Monday morning is a great time. If you set aside

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<v Speaker 1>time to do this every week, it will save you hours, weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>even months of time. I promise you it's a game changer.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting on with work doesn't get more work done. Planning

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<v Speaker 1>out your work gets more work done. So that's the key, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so many of us are thinking, oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>I just got to get on with it. If I

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<v Speaker 1>get on with it, I'll get more done. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work that way. Now. There's one thing I really wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to add because I think it's often not spoken about,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's this idea of energy versus time. And what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean by that is often sometimes we feel we

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<v Speaker 1>have the time for something, but when it gets to it,

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<v Speaker 1>you realize you don't have the energy for it. So

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<v Speaker 1>me and Bradley were talking about this. We love seeing

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<v Speaker 1>our friends, but we realize that on weeknights we really

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<v Speaker 1>struggle because we like to go to sleep early, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've realized that our cutoff point on a weeknight is

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<v Speaker 1>nine pm. We want to be in bed by nine pm.

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<v Speaker 1>And so recently I started sharing with my friends who

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<v Speaker 1>I'd still wanted to see on weeknights, and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to be in bed by nine pm.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to set that boundary for myself because what

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<v Speaker 1>I realized was friends would come over, I would then

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<v Speaker 1>push myself to stay up till ten or eleven on

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<v Speaker 1>a weeknight. I'd feel really upset. That I wasn't good

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<v Speaker 1>company after nine pm because I'm yawning and tired and

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<v Speaker 1>not as present, And then I'm feeling like I also

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<v Speaker 1>am missing out on sleep and some thinking to myself, well,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, what is it that I actually need?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to show up as my best self for others.

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<v Speaker 1>I want people to have a good time with me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to have a good time with them,

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<v Speaker 1>and for that, it's not about whether I have the time,

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<v Speaker 1>It's about whether I have energy. So I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to also think about your schedule in terms of energy.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have a meeting, are you setting it at

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<v Speaker 1>a time when you know your energy is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be amazing? Think about your most important meetings this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they said at times that you feel you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be energetic, enthusiastic and engaged, or are they said

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<v Speaker 1>at times when you usually switch off get a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit tired. I also want you to think about what

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<v Speaker 1>are some of the healthy habits that help with your energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you need to be eating at a particular time?

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<v Speaker 1>Are there certain foods that actually don't help you focus

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<v Speaker 1>because you had them at lunch time? You may love

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<v Speaker 1>them and enjoy them, but have you noticed that you

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<v Speaker 1>feel that afternoon slump. I know for me that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting a little pick me up in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the day with my June is a great way of

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<v Speaker 1>getting that little boost. For me of fruit bowl with

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<v Speaker 1>some almond butter can be a really, really great boost.

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<v Speaker 1>But what is that thing that's holding you back with

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<v Speaker 1>your energy? And also when you're mapping out your schedule,

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<v Speaker 1>are you taking into account energy? If you've got a

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<v Speaker 1>big pitch, making a big sales meeting, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>have your best energy. Now, it doesn't always work that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to also be adaptive, but if you

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<v Speaker 1>can plan it out, it makes a huge difference. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess what I'm saying overall is that so many of

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<v Speaker 1>us are trying to get a lot done. But having

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<v Speaker 1>a smart plan and a smart focused, organized timer and

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<v Speaker 1>everything else, can I actually set you up for greater

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<v Speaker 1>success in the long term. Yes, it takes away from

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<v Speaker 1>the amount of time you have, but you make more

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<v Speaker 1>of the time you have. Right. That's what's so powerful

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<v Speaker 1>about operating with all the things I mentioned today is

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<v Speaker 1>that you may think, oh, well, that's going to take

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<v Speaker 1>up two three hours of my Monday Jay. That may

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<v Speaker 1>take up four hours of mon Monday. But I promise

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<v Speaker 1>you you're going to get so much more time than that

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<v Speaker 1>back when you follow through on that process. Now, for

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<v Speaker 1>those of you are saying, Jay, I just get distracted

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, I've found that having my phone away

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm at work, when I'm in meetings is actually

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<v Speaker 1>really useful. I found my phone to be a distraction

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<v Speaker 1>unless there's an emergency. Of course, having a special tone

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<v Speaker 1>for an emergency is the best way to go about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And allowing yourself to disconnect. Separating your work email and

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<v Speaker 1>your personal email if you haven't done that already, makes

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<v Speaker 1>a huge difference or devices that you see both those

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<v Speaker 1>things on. And the biggest thing I want to remind

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<v Speaker 1>you all is that we all are going to get distracted.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no one in the world who doesn't get distracted.

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<v Speaker 1>I get distracted too, and I found that what's worse

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<v Speaker 1>is when I start making myself feel bad for getting distracted,

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<v Speaker 1>as opposed to use that energy to just get refocused.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's what helps me more than anything,

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<v Speaker 1>is saying, look, I'm going to give myself grace. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to get back to it, and I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to overcomplicate it. Another thing that's been huge for me

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<v Speaker 1>is keeping my desk clean. Right. You may have to

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<v Speaker 1>spend a couple of hours just cleaning up your desk,

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<v Speaker 1>cleaning up your space, but that's going to give you

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<v Speaker 1>mental clarity. Your external space has a huge impact on

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<v Speaker 1>your internal mindset. And that's why I tell people, don't

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<v Speaker 1>eat at your desk, eat somewhere else, like, don't bring

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<v Speaker 1>that energy to your desk. Right. A lot of us

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<v Speaker 1>eat where we're meant to sleep. We sleep where we're

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<v Speaker 1>meant to work, and we work where we're meant to eat.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave your bedroom just for sleeping, leave your desk just

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<v Speaker 1>for working, and leave your kitchen counter just for cooking

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<v Speaker 1>and eating. Right, break it up and create that energy

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<v Speaker 1>in that space. Thank you so much. I hope this

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<v Speaker 1>makes you more productive in twenty twenty four. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you get more done this year. I hope you win

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<v Speaker 1>am I hesitating on this because I'm scared of making

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<v Speaker 1>the choice because I'm scared of doing the work, Or

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<v Speaker 1>am I sitting with this because it just doesn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>right yet