1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: It's a jewel show and it's International Women's Day, So 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get out of the way in just a second. 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: But I wanted to just start by just reading the 4 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: definition of International Women's Day from their website. Celebrating women's 5 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: achievements and increasing visibility while calling out inequality is key. 6 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: I was thinking about it because we were talking about 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: it last week. I was like, I wonder if there's 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 1: an International Men's Day, because I'm like, if there's an 9 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: International Women's Day, there's got to be an International Men's Day, right, right. 10 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 1: And since I've never heard about it and we've like 11 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: I've never heard it come up or celebrated or anything, 12 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's weird, right, So I look it up. 13 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: Sure enough, there is a day. So I thought it 14 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: was super interesting. I'm like, clearly, since there's an International 15 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: Men's Day that nobody even talks about, um, there's that 16 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: shows you right there, the inequality between the two. Yeah. 17 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: I want to read you the difference between what it 18 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: says for International Men's Day a post to International Women's Day. 19 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: And I'm going to start with International Women's Day. On Wikipedia. Yeah, 20 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: you type in International Women's Day, it says IWD is 21 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: celebrated on the eighth of March around the world. It 22 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: is a focal point in the movement for women's rights. 23 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: Then you can click on women's rights. So I clicked 24 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: on women's rights. It took me to from International Women's 25 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: Day page to the women's rights page explaining what that 26 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: was as trying to getting coal rights as a human 27 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: to the feminist movement, which is equal rights for a human. Yeah, 28 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: for women. So then I'm like, okay, now I'm going 29 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: to read you International Men's Day. This is what is 30 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: so crazy to me, the difference. It says International Men's 31 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Day is an annual international event celebrated on the nineteenth 32 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: of November. The objectives of celebrating an International Men's Day 33 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: are set out in all the six pillars of International 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: Men's Day. It is an occasion to celebrate boys and 35 00:01:54,040 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: men's achievements and contributions, in particular for their contributions to nation, union, society, community, family, 36 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: marriage and childcare. The broader and ultimate aim of the 37 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: event is to promote basic humanitarian values. The broader and 38 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: ultimate aim of the event is to promote basic humanitarian 39 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: values right which women still don't even get to. This day. Damn, 40 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: that's what we say. That's what we're supposed to celebrate 41 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: on International Men's Day. You notice the difference. You can't 42 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: help but notice the difference. I wonder who felt the 43 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: need to create the Men's Day. I mean, why don't 44 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: we celebrate it? We celebrate International Women's Day. Why are 45 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: we not celebrating International Men's Day? And shows you how 46 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: important it is, and then nothing changes after Right, It's maddening. 47 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 1: It is we're celebrating the fact that, like women are 48 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: trying to stand up for themselves. That's what International Wedn'sday is. 49 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: That's what it is. It's it's it's hurtful. I don't 50 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: play the victim. I don't care. I don't don't even 51 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: want you know, I love men, I love women. I 52 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: don't care. I just I want you guys, everybody to 53 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: be happy. I want equal rights, like that's what I 54 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: strive for. And I don't want any man to get 55 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: the wrong impression that that I'm just a hateful, spiteful 56 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: woman because I love men like I get along with men. 57 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: I think like men, I have the same thoughts and 58 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: I was a huge tomboy growing up, Like I just 59 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: think more like a man. The thing is on International 60 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: Women's Day on Wikipedia talks about, right, the struggles. Yeah, 61 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: and the definition on International Women's Day, like dot com 62 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: or whatever has both talks about the struggles and they 63 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: celebrate women. So I don't If the day was for 64 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: celebration and celebrating history and things that women have done 65 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: and have invented, then that's one thing, but it's not. 66 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: It talks about the struggles. If you go to the 67 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: International Men's Day, it talks about what we should celebrate, 68 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: writing childcare right at the beginning you scroll down on 69 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: International Women's you can't find it, Like, yeah, you don't 70 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: go to International Men's Day, and it's like, hey, um, 71 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: here's like five links to horrible things that dudes have 72 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: had to deal with at any point. The moment of 73 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: International Women's Day on Wikipedia is women's rights. Yeah, you've 74 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: got one's rights. And it's like we don't still don't 75 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: have some countries women don't have rights at all. Still no. Yeah, 76 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: So that's how far we've come in the twenty first century. Jubile, 77 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: Can you read me the definition from the International Women's 78 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: Day website again? Please? Yes, I can. It says celebrating 79 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: women's achievements and increasing visibility while calling out inequality is key. 80 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: Your phone prank is coming up in just a few minutes. 81 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: It's the Jubil Show, the Jebil Show on demand. It's 82 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: another Jubile phone pranking. Hello, Hi, this is Pete Eakins 83 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: calling from Donuts. I was looking for or Darius. Oh 84 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: would be me? Hey Darius, how are you feeling today? 85 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: I'm yeah great? Uh you call from where again? I'm 86 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: calling from donuts. You were just in here the other 87 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 1: day and you bought some donuts with some Chaco sprinkles 88 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: on them. I didn't help you out, but one of 89 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: our other guys did. Got your number from the credit 90 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: card statement because I needed to call and just sort 91 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: of talk to you for a sack if you have 92 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 1: a moment. Oh, okay, how'd you like the donuts? I 93 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: guess first question? How'd you like the donuts? The donuts 94 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: was all right? Okay, Well, we'd we strive to be 95 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: better than all right, so hopefully next time we'll make 96 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: it up to you with the flavor then. But I 97 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: can also kind of understand why they might not have 98 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: been the best. So you're feeling okay? You say you 99 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: understand it would it be the best? What do you mean? Well, 100 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: I am just gonna go ahead and come right out 101 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: with it and just be honest with you. Darius. Those 102 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: donuts that you got from us the other day with 103 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: the chocolate sprinkles on them, we actually had a little 104 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: bit of an oops moment here, and that's why I 105 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: want to call you and say oopses and offer you 106 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: a free dozen donuts for the next time you come in. Okay, 107 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: so thank you for your business and sorry about that. 108 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: What was wrong with the donuts? Oh you know what, 109 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: it's not even an issue now. We got it all 110 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: worked out. I apologized, told you get some free donuts. Free, 111 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: you get free dozen donuts when next time you come in. 112 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: Oopsie solved. So I'll just want to I want to 113 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 1: talk to you. Hopefully I'll see you later when you 114 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: come in here to pick up your free donuts. Know 115 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: what happened to the donuts? What? What's going on? What 116 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: happened to what donuts? The ones you're gonna come pick up? 117 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: Nothing except delicious, I hope, No, no, oh, wait, wait no, no, 118 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: I need to know what the happened to the donuts? 119 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: What did you do? Well? I didn't do anything to 120 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: the don't. I didn't do anything, and so that's why 121 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: I was just calling to say, hey, I know they 122 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,559 Speaker 1: weren't the best, but you're feeling better, so that's good. 123 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: And free donuts time you come in. All right? Tell 124 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: me right now, what the hap to those donuts? Rat feces? 125 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: It was rat feces? What did you say this? Um? Uh? 126 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: The sprinkles on those donuts. We thought they were sprinkles, 127 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: but we didn't sprinkle them. It's the weird thing. So 128 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: anybody who bought those donuts, did you just say rat feces? 129 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:29,239 Speaker 1: As in like I read, well, that's an interesting question. 130 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: Did you did you eat the donuts? I had one? 131 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: Then yes, I'm sorry inform me that's sorry oops moment 132 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: that I was talking about. So I'm sorry about that, 133 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: and like, hello, are you like you? What the man? Darius? 134 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: So you're okay there? I I that's why I was 135 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: telling you, you know, free donuts when you come in. 136 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: Oopsis sorry about that. I'm glad we cleared it up though. Okay, 137 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: thank you for your business and I hope to see 138 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: again soon. No, that's not a claro. You you get 139 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: out donuts were wet? Yes, guilty has charged. Part of 140 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: being a good business is admitting when you've done something 141 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: wrong or had a little bit of an oopsie. That's 142 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: what we're doing. But again we're fixing it. Everything's right 143 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: because he can come in and get some free donuts. 144 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: So you know, like I said, sorry about that little 145 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: oopsie we had, and I can't wait to see her 146 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: shining face in here getting some more donuts, free donuts 147 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: this time. No, it's not good, like you keeps saying, 148 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: there's no way you can make eating any better. What 149 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: if I tell you it's a prank phone call, would 150 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: that make it better or still bad? I'm sorry to 151 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: see what. Oh, this is actually Jewel from The Jewel 152 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: Show doing a phone prank on you and your girlfriend 153 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: set you up. Oh thank you. Yeah, she said that 154 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 1: you you had some donuts the other day it weren't 155 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: the best and wanted me to mess with you. So 156 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: good news you didn't. Oh, okay, wake up every morning 157 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 1: with Jebil phone pranks the Jewil Show on demand. It's 158 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: a show and today is International Women's Day. And just 159 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: wanted to read the definition of International Women's Day from 160 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: the official website for do It. You could do it. 161 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: The definition for International Women's Day, according to their website, 162 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: is this International Women's Day sees a number of missions 163 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:20,359 Speaker 1: to help forge a gender equal world, celebrating women's achievements 164 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 1: and increasing visibility while calling out inequality is key h. 165 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: That's the definition. Do you agree? Text in for one 166 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: of six one? Do you agree? Yeah? Do you agree? Alex, 167 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: I just didn't want to even really talk about or 168 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 1: I didn't really get why I should talk about International 169 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: Women's Day because I just don't get the point of it. 170 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: When you say you don't get the point of it, 171 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: what do you mean? Like? Why do we even have 172 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 1: to have a day like that? Just goes to show 173 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: right there that there's an issue, but it's not getting 174 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: better right we talking about it. I feel ultimately is 175 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: not going to change anything. I think just to answer 176 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: why I didn't want to do it in the first 177 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 1: place is because I just feel like, ultimately, I don't 178 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: think anything is going to change, and I just feel 179 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: like a lot of men, which I don't. I don't 180 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: want to put you guys in a box, but there 181 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: are certain ways that I have to explain something. Even 182 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: when you're not trying to be exclusive with women, you 183 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: do it without realizing it in your words, because I 184 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: like dudes. Yeah, I get along, Like I have the 185 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,559 Speaker 1: same mentality, in the same mindset as dudes. I just 186 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: feel like my thoughts are just more like dude's thoughts. 187 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: They are, so it pisses me off when I've been 188 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: put in a box right my whole life. So why 189 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: do I need to talk about a day that we 190 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 1: have to celebrate women, which is confusing itself, Like what 191 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: are we celebrating? What are we celebrating? I just don't 192 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: get it because it doesn't make sense to me how 193 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: we're like if we're not going to be making changes. 194 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about how cool your mom is, 195 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: how awesome and sweet your grandma is, or or what 196 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: they've accomplished. Great. I'm a hard working ass woman too, 197 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: and I've a compliation ton I don't care. I don't 198 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: care to get the recognition like that. I just want 199 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: to be equal. So unless I thought things would change 200 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: in my lifetime or that my voice would make a change, 201 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: even if it changes one guy's mind, that's not good 202 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: enough for me to talk about it because it's not 203 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: going to make a difference as far as equality goes. 204 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: Because I've seen it my whole life, year after year. 205 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: People can talk about it all day long, but until 206 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 1: people make changes, it doesn't mean anything. Can I just 207 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: take a break for a second, Yeah, for sure. All right, 208 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, and then dive into 209 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 1: this some more. If you're cool with that. Yeah, I 210 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: just need I just need a minute. All right, We'll 211 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: play a song, come back, We'll talk about this some more. 212 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: It's a jewel show. It's a jewel show if you're 213 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: just tuning in. We had to pause for a moment 214 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 1: because we're talking about International Women's Day and Alex was 215 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 1: just sharing her point of view that she feels like 216 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: nothing she says today or just in general, is really 217 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: going to make a difference and really matters. And Alex 218 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: is the only person I've known, She's the only woman 219 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: I've heard go, what's the point Our voices don't really matter? 220 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: Like it's not gonna change anything. I might make one 221 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: person think a little differently for a second, but ultimately, 222 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, in my lifetime, nothing's 223 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: gonna change. And I was like, you really feel that way? 224 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: She was like yeah, And then I heard from also 225 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: other women when she would talk about it agree with her, 226 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: it was not. I think it's more common. I'm I'm speculating, 227 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: and Alex, you can tell me if I'm right wrong. 228 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: But I think that feeling that you're talking about right 229 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: now is more common then people give credit to like that. 230 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: That's one of the things that has not talked about 231 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: if you're talking about International Women's Day is the fact 232 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: that there are a lot of women that feel just 233 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: like Alex does, that it doesn't matter. Yeah, and the 234 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 1: World Economic Forum agrees with me, Brad. Can you read 235 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: the quote, Yeah, a gender parody won't be attained for 236 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: one hundred years globally, and in the US that figure 237 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: rises to one hundred and fifty one years. Wow. Me 238 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: talking about this is not going to change anything in 239 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: my lifetime. And then I see this quote yesterday. It's 240 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: just how it is. Like men are controlling in the workforce, 241 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: and it's just how it is. It's like men are 242 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: the moneymakers, men are the head of household. There the 243 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: breadwinner is like why because someone for a long time 244 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: ago said it should be like that pretty much, But 245 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 1: I don't feel like that. I don't feel like I 246 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: want to be like that. I don't want to be 247 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,719 Speaker 1: a stay at home I think that something that's really 248 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: frustrating to me is that all the like the positions 249 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: that women are in is not what I aspire to 250 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: be in. I want to be further than that, and 251 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 1: women don't get the opportunity. Yeah, I want to be 252 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: the won What if I want to be the red runner, 253 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: which I was for a long time, and I had 254 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: fun and I enjoyed it, and I'm a hustler and 255 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: I'm business minded. And yet at a previous job when 256 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: I was younger, my boss asked me to because out 257 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: of nowhere, and after saying no, he says, well, can 258 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: I just finish over here? Then myself and then rubs 259 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: it in the carpet. That's what I have to deal 260 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 1: with while getting paid half as less as my peer. 261 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: And also I dealt with somebody who stalked me for 262 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: five years and when HR was finally contacted, not by 263 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: me because I was too scared, and ended up giving 264 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: my entire statement. He wasn't fired, and we were still 265 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: in the same building. And I don't think I was 266 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: ever more scared in my entire life. And and so 267 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: when when I say that I didn't want to talk 268 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: about it to begin with, like they say celebrate, which 269 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: is just confusing to me because those are what like 270 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: I remember, and that's what like those are. Just that's 271 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: just a tip of iceberg that doesn't even I mean, 272 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: that's just one and it's just really overwhelming to think about, 273 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: and I don't know what the point of it would be. 274 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: Even though I still don't care to talk about it 275 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: because it's really really like hurtful and sad and it 276 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: doesn't make sense to me, I realize that it is 277 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: still important, and so I'm putting my my stubbornness aside 278 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: and saying my two cents because Jewel and Brad and 279 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: even think that the things that I bring up and 280 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: and say in my way is really impactful. So I 281 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: hope that that's I guess what we accomplished today. And 282 00:15:55,520 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: like I said before, if one person changes something cool, Bro, 283 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: you could be a small business, you could be a 284 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: medium sized business. Like I just say business because that's 285 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: where the most inequality is and like that's who I 286 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: am is Like I've gone through a lot, and that's 287 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: where like most of my experiences and that's where you know, 288 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: Alex and I are married by the way you know that. Uh. 289 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: But Alex and I are married, and she's the business 290 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: minded person, Oh definitely, uh. And that's where where her 291 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: passion lies. So that's what she focuses on, you know. 292 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: And I've heard all the stories and the reasons why 293 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: for her it's about business. It's not even about the household, 294 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: you know, which I think for a lot of other 295 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: people it is. That's where it resonates. So when when 296 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: she's talking about business like she's a she's a strong 297 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 1: business minded person. She can run a business. She runs 298 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 1: this business, really, and so she speaks from from that perspective, 299 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: and the fact that I, as a dude, I was 300 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 1: a white male, have had so many conversations with her 301 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: where she's broken stuff down to me in the way 302 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: that she does, which is different than I've heard any 303 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: woman explain it to me before. And also being in 304 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 1: a place where you're not defensive automatically. So I did 305 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 1: want to say, if you're a dude that's listening to 306 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: this and right away you're like, oh, whatever, it's not 307 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: that way, it is that way, and I can tell 308 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,479 Speaker 1: you that it is that way, and even if you 309 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: feel like you don't feel that way, because I feel 310 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: like I'm very I'm all I've always felt like I'm 311 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: all about equality. I don't care who you are, right, 312 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: I actually really like strong women. It's like, one of 313 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: the most beautiful things about Alex to me is how 314 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: he does strong. She is even when she's upset with me. 315 00:17:50,720 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: I love it because I'm not the same passion. But 316 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,880 Speaker 1: she's been able to explain to me that, oh, even 317 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: the way I feel, and as supportive as I feel 318 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: and as inclusive as I feel, there's things I do 319 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: on accident that I didn't even realize was a thing 320 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 1: because it's been so ingrained on a regular basis in work, 321 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: in meetings where where I don't even want to talk 322 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: because I don't want to be in charge. I want her, yeah, 323 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 1: like I want anybody else to be in charge with me. 324 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,919 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not a very good like leader in 325 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: that way, and I know that it's not my strong suit, 326 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 1: it's not my skill set, so I'd rather be quiet 327 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: in a meeting. But there are things that I do 328 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: in meetings that like our slights to her, and I'm 329 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 1: sure other women that are there or have been there 330 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 1: before that I didn't even realize. I was doing. And 331 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:49,439 Speaker 1: it's definitely because that's the way it's been made to 332 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: be in the workplace for women. So I can understand 333 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 1: every single word that Alex says. When she says it's 334 00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: hard to understand the point of being told to talk 335 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: about International Women's Day, it makes sense to me. Yeah, yeah, 336 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:06,479 Speaker 1: thank you for breaking it down. So, yes, today we 337 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: are going to celebrate women, but we're also going to 338 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 1: call out inequalities as we see them. Okay, Jebel, do 339 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: your thing, do your little thing over there. Okay, got 340 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 1: you're a beast. It's the Jewels Show, the Jewil Show 341 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: on demand, Jewbils. Dirty little Secret. It's time for your 342 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: dirty little secret. Remember text in four one of six one. 343 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: If you have a dirty little secret that you'd like 344 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 1: to tell us, you can tell us anything you want, yes, 345 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,479 Speaker 1: and nobody will know who you are because we keep 346 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: everybody anonymous. We don't even ask what your name is. 347 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: So just text in four one of six one tells 348 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:38,679 Speaker 1: you have a secret and you can say it on 349 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: the show, and everybody gets a fake anonymous nickname. That's 350 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: why on the phone right now to tell us a 351 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: dirty little secret. Is Kendall Jenner's red bathing suit. Yeah, 352 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:51,479 Speaker 1: I don't know which one. Yeah, I don't know which one? 353 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: Which one? Are you? Which red bathing suit are you? 354 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 1: Kendall Jenner's red bathing suit? Oh? You know the best one, 355 00:19:56,520 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 1: the patriotic one with the flag on it? Yeah? Yeah, okay, yeah, 356 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, okay. So what is your dirty little secret? 357 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: All right, that's quite a few secrets, but anyway, Yeah, 358 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 1: I'll just pick one off. Okay. I am really bad 359 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: about I check my boyfriend's social media all the time. 360 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,479 Speaker 1: I'm like constantly trying to see who he's friends with, 361 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: who he's added, who photos he's commenting on, and and 362 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: it's you know, it's taking up like a lot of 363 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 1: my time. Do you not trust him before? You just 364 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 1: don't like him commenting on people's pictures? Yeah? Um, like 365 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: one time, this is somebody that he knows. He was like, jeez, 366 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: I don't know which of your pics are hot? What 367 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 1: he's in a relationship with you? Yeah, this is when 368 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 1: we first got into a relationship, like with in a 369 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: couple of months. Oh how long have you guys been together? Now? 370 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: A little over two years? Oh, and have you talked 371 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: to him about it like that? It bothers. You. I 372 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: actually when when that one. When I saw that one, 373 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: because that was very early on, I was, yeah, I 374 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:16,160 Speaker 1: mentioned it because I'm like, um, that is not cool, dude. 375 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: That is like you said earlier that I feel like, 376 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 1: that's just respectful. That's kind of embarrassing, humiliating to me 377 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,199 Speaker 1: because people that we know will see that because we 378 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: have you know, mutual friends on social media. You know, right, 379 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: They're gonna think I'm cool then, and I'm actually not. Yeah, 380 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 1: that's completely understandable. I you know, I think that is 381 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: disrespectful from a dude's perspective. I would never do that 382 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,640 Speaker 1: if I were if I were dating someone, even Alex 383 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: and I am Mary by the way, you didn't know that, 384 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: And I would never go to to like another woman's 385 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: profile and comment about her being hot. I just wouldn't 386 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 1: do Yeah, yeah, I He of course was like, you know, oh, yeah, 387 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: you're right, and you know, like I said, this is 388 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: very early on. And now what I'm noticing is, I 389 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: mean he's like not really commenting like words. Now he's 390 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: like switching over to these and loogis that are freaking suggestive, 391 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: like heart teach, you know, fire, Well, maybe you should 392 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: talk to him about it, or find a new boyfriend. Yeah, 393 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:23,479 Speaker 1: leave him right right, because yeah, there's definitely a lot 394 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 1: of guys who won't do that when they're in a relationship, 395 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: who are respectful. Yeah, that shouldn't do that, right right, Yeah, 396 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: that's what I'm thinking, you know. But I mean, he 397 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 1: thinks I'm super insecure, which I probably I think that. 398 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 1: UM know that you have every right to feel the 399 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: way that you do. Yeah, you are insecure, but you 400 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: but you're not insecure because necessarily you're insecure about yourself, 401 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: but you're insecure about your relationship because that's how you 402 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: are insecure. But you're insecure for a very good reason, 403 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: and you shouldn't. You should tell him that that's why 404 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: you're insecure is because boyfriend, he's doing that. Yeah, And 405 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: if he's a good partner to you, he'll see your 406 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 1: side and be like, oh, I get it, I'm in 407 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,879 Speaker 1: a relationship. Should I know. I was trying to be 408 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: like a jokey about it because I'm like, you should 409 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: already get it, should definitely already get it. But even 410 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: you know, if you yeah, if you explained that to 411 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: him when he calls you insecure, because that's a defensive response, 412 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,640 Speaker 1: then be like, yeah, insecure because you're doing something wrong, 413 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: and then hopefully he'll go, oh, yeah, maybe I shouldn't 414 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 1: be licking other chicks picks, but probably not. Probably. Yeah, 415 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 1: well that didn't turn out the way you thought. Hey, 416 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: you should. You know what we should do. I've seen 417 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 1: this recently, for like his birthday or your anniversary, or 418 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: like a holiday coming up. You should print off the 419 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 1: pictures that he's liked good and hang them around the house. Yeah, 420 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:53,239 Speaker 1: you should. That's a great idea. And then be like, 421 00:23:53,280 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: all right, I'm leaving. Okay, guys, what's your dirty little secret? 422 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 1: The Jewel Show on demand? It's a jewel show, and 423 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: it's International Women's Day, and I'm just going to start 424 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: segments with the definition for International Women's Day because I 425 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: don't feel like it's appropriate for me to really do 426 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: it too much. So here we go. The definition, according 427 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: to the International Women's Day website, is celebrating women's achievements 428 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: and increasing visibility while calling out inequality is key. I'm 429 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: going to celebrate a couple of men on International Women's Day, surprising, 430 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: I know. But first I want to talk to you 431 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: about something that happened to me. At one of my 432 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 1: old jobs. This was after five years of working there. Okay, 433 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 1: I had to go to HR and complain about my pay. 434 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: One year I had I got a sixteen percent raise. 435 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: Sixteen just to be equal to my male peers, Oh 436 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 1: my god, just to be equal. And that is new hires. 437 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: And I was the senior person on the team, so 438 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: I had been as the longest and I got paid 439 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: less than people who would just get hired on. And 440 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: you know how like companies they don't want you talking 441 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: about your pay to your coworkers. Yeah, it's kind of 442 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: like a taboo. Yeah, it's like a it's like a 443 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 1: tactic they use, right, because they don't pay equally to people, right, 444 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: and it depends on if they're male or female. It 445 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,400 Speaker 1: depends on how much do you have some insidiable Yeah, 446 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm like jumping up 447 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 1: and down because I'm like sixteen. I just want people 448 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 1: to like think about that for a second. Get like one, 449 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,120 Speaker 1: two or three percent raise every year. Yeah, you get 450 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: raise most at most, you get raise at most, and 451 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: that's a normal, like most of the time. Sometimes you 452 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: don't even get a cost of living increase. You had 453 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 1: to get almost a twenty percent raise when you were 454 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: the person who had been there the longest, the longest team, 455 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: just to be equal to pay the same as the 456 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: new people that just got hired. When insanity and I 457 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 1: would tell my boss has but nothing would happen. And 458 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to talk to your peers about it. 459 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: You're not supposed to. They tell you not to. You 460 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 1: can get written up, you can get a lots of 461 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 1: trouble talking about how much you get paid. Yeah, nobody 462 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: talks about their salaries in corporate environments or in work environments. No, 463 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,879 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to. Yeah, because of that, because of 464 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 1: the inequality. It's a tactic. Yeah, they tell their employees 465 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 1: they cannot talk about their pay. And it's only because 466 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: it's not equal. And until you said the word tactic 467 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: and the word inequality together in the same sense, it 468 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: didn't really dawn on me. I just figured, well, they 469 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 1: don't want other employees. But that's the side of me 470 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: that is conditioned because I haven't had to think about 471 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: stuff like altez because I'm not a woman, right, you know, 472 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: And that's exactly what they do. They don't want people 473 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: to know, so they can continue to pay women less. 474 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: And if you don't believe that they do that story right, 475 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 1: there is proof. This is where they get away with 476 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: it because you know, they're supposed to be like an 477 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 1: equal opportunity employer, all of them. But it's based on experience. 478 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 1: You had the most experience I did of anybody there, 479 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,919 Speaker 1: I did, and I was young twenties, you know, and 480 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 1: they took advantage of me and I knew it, and 481 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 1: I went through those years very angry women and tell 482 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,719 Speaker 1: from wrong. But I've certainly what it seems like is 483 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: you're already conditioned to go it's not gonna matter. I 484 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: gotta wait for my boss to do it for me, 485 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna say it, and my boss does it 486 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 1: for me if my boss does it. Yeah, I don't 487 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,119 Speaker 1: know if it's necessarily conditioned either. I think it's just 488 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 1: you've got to the point where you know the reality 489 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 1: of the situation. Yes, it's not that you don't think 490 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,439 Speaker 1: that your actions will have a difference, it's that you 491 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 1: know they won't have a difference. Yeah, yeah, yeah, well 492 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: the same thing kind of Yeah, I love you, stupid man. So, 493 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 1: like I was saying, and when I teased this little 494 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 1: bit up teased it up. We were going to celebrate 495 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: some men weird, right, that is weird weird. Well, what 496 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: I was meaning is there's some companies who have some 497 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 1: policies that have equal rights for men and women in 498 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: the company as far as like position and pay and 499 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 1: all of that. So I just wanted to highlight a 500 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: couple of guys who started companies who did a right. 501 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: Oh cool, So like these two guys at base Camp. 502 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 1: So they started a company called base Camp. Their names 503 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: are Jason Freed and David Hanson. They base their salary 504 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: solely on the position, no negotiations, like I was talking 505 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 1: about before, There's no disparity between two people doing the 506 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 1: same job. They also share profits equally with all their employees, 507 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 1: which is cool. It is really regardless of the position 508 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 1: or status in the company. So they'll just pay a 509 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 1: blanket like fe fee salary to whatever the position is. 510 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 1: They don't discriminate, right, And their handbook, their company handbook 511 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: is online for people to see, which is not common. Wow, 512 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,479 Speaker 1: that's transparent And I was going to say that so 513 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 1: forward thinking, but that's just really how it should be. 514 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 1: It is. It absolutely is. So thank you to those 515 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,639 Speaker 1: two guys, Jason and David for making women equal in 516 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: your company, which is where it begins as the founders 517 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: as a company. You know, women can create companies all 518 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 1: day long, but a lot of companies are ran by men. 519 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: That's just the reality. Another one that I just wanted 520 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: to talk about is Visa. So Visa has a CEO. 521 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 1: His name is Alfred Kelly, and Visa was named a 522 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: best employer by Forbes because of their equal opportunities in 523 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: equal pay, and like base Camp, they're just like really 524 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 1: transparent on what they do and like how they do 525 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: things okay and involving women. Had no idea. Yeah, they're 526 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: a huge company. Here's company and run by a dude 527 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: named Alfred, Alfred Alfred Kelly. He's definitely an old white guy, right. 528 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: So you know what, I encourage you guys to do 529 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 1: something today, whoever's listening. I encourage you to go talk 530 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: to your co workers about how much they get paid. 531 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: If you're a man, if you're a woman, I encourage 532 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: you just go ask the questions. Do it? Why not? 533 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 1: It's your right, see see what the difference is. That's 534 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: my challenge to you is to create transparency and maybe 535 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: some change in the next one hundred and fifty one year. 536 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: It's coming up. Yeah, the Jebil Show on demand. It's 537 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: another Jebil phone Brame Mornings. Hello, what well, Hello, and 538 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: God bless. My name is Father Frank Joseph Samboni. I'm 539 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 1: calling from our lady of and I was looking for Drew. 540 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 1: This is Drew. Well, Hello, Drew, how are you. I 541 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 1: don't think we have had the pleasure of actually meeting 542 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: in person before, have we? No? We ever not? Okay, Well, 543 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm new to the church and I know y'all haven't 544 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: been in in a while. Your wife was saying I 545 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: talked to carry your wife and she said that you 546 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: would also like to do over the phone confessional since yeah, 547 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: min in in a while. I got some sins in 548 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: my want to confess, and I said I would give 549 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: you a call and talk to you and help so 550 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: to counsel you through it if you need it. Well, Father, 551 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: frame that means a time to me. Yeah, with COVID 552 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: and everything going on, I've definitely needed someone to talk to. Yeah. Well, 553 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 1: that's why I'm here, and I can't wait for you 554 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: to get back in the church. Apparently you guys used 555 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: to go all the time, but haven't been in and 556 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: I would love to see a shining face on Sunday 557 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: morning because I'm gonna I'm gonna be speaking soon and 558 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: delivering the message, the good message. So it'd be nice 559 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: if you'd be in there, Okay, we'd be happy to 560 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: hear that. I would love for you to be And 561 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: I've been doing these over the phone confessionals quite a 562 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: bit lately. And well, let me tell you some of 563 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: the stuff that I'm hearing. It's crazy, y I mean, 564 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: I think that this COVID thing has got people all 565 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: kinds of twisted up. Oh yeah, absolutely, I feel that 566 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: way too. And I got some things. Okay, So do 567 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: you know Margaret in the congregation. I don't. I don't 568 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: think I know Margaret. Father. Well, I just got off 569 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: the phone with her, and let me just tell you, 570 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: do not if she ever comes on to you, do 571 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 1: not do anything with her. Okay, she has got more 572 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,239 Speaker 1: STDs and I was shocked at the thing she had 573 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 1: to say. Yes, father, I don't think Margaret would be 574 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 1: happy if I knew that. Oh well, I know, but 575 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 1: she's old. So I figured we could just bond a 576 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: little bit. I could tell you a little bit about her, 577 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: But jeez, I was I mean, I thought things stopped 578 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 1: working after seventy, but apparently not with Margaret. They just 579 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: working overdrive. Okay, okay, and you know what, I am 580 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: so sorry about that, Drew. This is not about Margaret 581 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: and her fast living ways. This is about you and 582 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 1: some things that you wanted to get off your y'all chest. 583 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: So why don't you go ahead and just share with 584 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: me a little bit? Everything stays between you and man upstairs. Well, father, 585 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 1: how do I know that you're not going to tell 586 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: everyone else in the congregation what I'm about to tell you? Well, 587 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: I can see how you'd be hesitant now because I 588 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: did sort of spills the beans on that one, didn't 589 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: I just a little yeah, I can tell you. I 590 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: promise you, cross my heart hope to die. Just between me, 591 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 1: you and the man upstairs, I will not say a 592 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 1: single word about anything you confessed me, and that was 593 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: honestly a mistake. I shouldn't have done that. I'm gonna 594 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 1: go say some hail mayres after this, just because I 595 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 1: feel bad. What would you like to share with me, 596 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: little lamb, Little lamb? Okay, Well, first, I recently went 597 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 1: to the self checkout. And by self checkout, do you 598 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 1: mean that you were engaging in memorial activity by yourself 599 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 1: in the bathroom on a Saturday morning. No, I meant 600 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: like at the grocery store, Father, like the self checkout. 601 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: When he said self checkout, I just assumed that that's 602 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: what we were talking about, because that's what I hear 603 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: a lot when I'm doing confessionals. A lot of people 604 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: are doing self check out on themselves, if you know 605 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 1: what I mean, self checking themselves out all day long. 606 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: Like Margaret, we just spoke about she's checking herself anyway, 607 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's not about her. It's not me. Okay, 608 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: that's not me, Father. I was just at the grocery 609 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 1: store and I missed a few items, and that's what 610 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 1: I was trying to talk to you about. Okay, Well, 611 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: I can understand that that is a thin. So I'm 612 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and tell you that I'm gonna forgive that. 613 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 1: If you say ten hail marys, you got that ten 614 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: of them, ten hail Marys, and you spank yourself on 615 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: the bottom and you say Drew's been a bad bad boy, 616 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna spake myself and say I've been a 617 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: bad bad boy. What is going on here? Then I'll 618 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 1: just tell you it's a prank phone call. I guess 619 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,479 Speaker 1: I'll just do that, and your wife care sat you up, 620 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: So there you go. What. Yeah, this is actually Jewel 621 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 1: from The Jewel Show doing a phone prank on you. 622 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: Your wife Kara say you up? She said, you guys 623 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: haven't been to church in a while and wanted me 624 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: to give you an over the phone confessional. So there 625 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: you go, Drew, You've been a bad bad boy, all right, 626 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 1: I have been a bad bad boy. Wake up every 627 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:12,919 Speaker 1: morning with Jubil phone pranks the Jubil Show on Demand. 628 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 1: Edie is on the phone for a first date follow 629 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: up and she blames Instagram Instagram for not getting a 630 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: call back from a guy she went out with. Instagram 631 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,439 Speaker 1: always the gram, right, I will find out right now. 632 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: But apparently Edie went on a date with the dude 633 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 1: name Art. Now he's not calling her back and it's 634 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 1: all Instagram's fault, Is that right, Eadie? Yes, I blame Instagram? 635 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: What Instagram do? Well? I felt like the date was 636 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 1: really great. We had chemistry, you know, like when you 637 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 1: feel like that little electricity across Yeah, and I felt like, 638 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: you know, like we have a lot of things in common, 639 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,520 Speaker 1: like as far as music and what kind of music 640 00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 1: do you guys like, well, we love going to live show. 641 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 1: When we were talking about how much it changed and 642 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 1: how you know there's things online and you know, zoom 643 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 1: conversations and Zoom happy Hour and like, I just I 644 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: don't know. This guy just seemed like so easy to 645 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 1: talk to and everything just the conversation wasn't awkward. I'm 646 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: usually nervous. He pulled out my chair, made sure that 647 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: I ordered first. He asked, do you want me to 648 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: order for you? Because some women are like, oh meet 649 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: you know women's lib I want to order for myself. 650 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I think that's sweet. You know, 651 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 1: he was very old school, which I love. Is he 652 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: is he actually old? Or done him on the senior 653 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 1: dating site? Okay, so he's he's like your age. He's 654 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 1: not just an old guy who maybe doesn't know how 655 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,280 Speaker 1: to work a phone and that's why he's not getting 656 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 1: back to you. Yeah, so you said that you think 657 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 1: that Instagram might have ruined your date or the is 658 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,840 Speaker 1: the reason that he's not calling you back. Why? I 659 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: don't know. I just felt like the chemistry was right, 660 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: But I tend to take selfie sometimes my friends when 661 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: we go to happy hour we're together, they're like, oh 662 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: my god, eat enough with the pictures, But I like 663 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 1: to capture all the moment, you know. And I thought, well, 664 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: maybe that was annoying to him because it wasn't just 665 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 1: of me. Oh, you were taking pictures on your date 666 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 1: at the date, yeah, and maybe I got carried away 667 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: taking pictures, you know, people get annoyed by that. Yeah, 668 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 1: on a first date. I could see how that might 669 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: be a little strange. Were you taking pictures of like 670 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 1: yourself or you both of you, like us at the table, 671 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:39,439 Speaker 1: my food, sometimes in myself taking pictures of everything basically yeah, yeah, 672 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 1: like of the date. I like to post on Instagram 673 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: a lot. There are some people, lots of girls who 674 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 1: take lots of pictures, yeah, and there are lots of 675 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: guys who don't like that. And I get annoy You 676 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: seem awkward about that. He didn't say anything. He just 677 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 1: was like, at first, a little nervous, like oh me too, 678 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 1: Like okay, let me wipe my mouth. And then I thought, oh, 679 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: maybe that's what it is. But honestly, I would have 680 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: I would have two thoughts. If I was on a 681 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,360 Speaker 1: first date with somebody, this is the first time you 682 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,240 Speaker 1: guys went out, right, Yeah, I would have two thoughts 683 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,960 Speaker 1: if somebody started taking selfies with me, I'd say one 684 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,760 Speaker 1: would be, all right, they have a boyfriend or somebody 685 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 1: they're trying to make jealousy, trying to get back with them. 686 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 1: That would be one thought, And the other thought would 687 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 1: be like, whoa, they think I'm like that cool that 688 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 1: they want to take a picture with me already boyfriend material, 689 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 1: That's awesome, Like comment to me that that would probably 690 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 1: be more what I would think than anything, you know, like, Wow, 691 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: they're on a date with me and they think that 692 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm that good that they would want to take a 693 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: selfie with me. That's cool. This date is going great. Yeah, 694 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 1: that's that's the idea, Like look at this cute guy, 695 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 1: lucky me, look at this awesome place steak, and you 696 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,240 Speaker 1: don't think he felt that way. I mean he didn't 697 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: mention anything, and I mean the chemistry was there. We 698 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,760 Speaker 1: like made out and stuff. Okay, so how long before 699 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 1: you guys met. Did you guys talk before you met? Yeah, 700 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: that's that's another thing. We would text on the phone 701 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh my god, you see that 702 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 1: new music video and what are you watching these days? 703 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: And he would be really quick to respond. But lately 704 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:14,280 Speaker 1: it's like cricket. I mean, he didn't really seem annoyed 705 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 1: or upset with me taking pictures. Normally, when I'm annoyed 706 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: to somebody, I don't make out with him. No, if 707 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,359 Speaker 1: I make out, well, actually never right to have. Yeah, 708 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: I guess I've made out with people and not talk 709 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,439 Speaker 1: to him after two So he hasn't texted you back 710 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: at all? Sense of date or you guys have talked 711 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:33,280 Speaker 1: a little bit. There was one text, but I noticed 712 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 1: it was like a couple days later and it was 713 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: more like the polite response, where before it was like 714 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 1: all day, you know, when you're like talking throughout the 715 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 1: day and it doesn't seem weird right now, Oh they're 716 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 1: gonna text me back? And it felt like, why is 717 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 1: he not texting me back? Right? So he doesn't seem 718 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 1: into it anymore. Yeah, and I just want to know 719 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 1: why because I really liked him a lot. Okay, what 720 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 1: We'll play a song, come back and call him and 721 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: see if we can figure it out for you. All right, 722 00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: Thanks guys all right, we'll do it next. Did you 723 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: show right in the middle of your first date? Fall 724 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 1: up if you're just joining us? Edie is on the 725 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: phone and Edie isn't getting a call back from a 726 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 1: dude named Art. They went out to dinner. She says 727 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,359 Speaker 1: she had a great time um and that they even 728 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 1: made out at the end of the date. But for 729 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,799 Speaker 1: some reason he's not calling her back now, and she 730 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 1: thinks that maybe it's because she was taking too many 731 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 1: pictures on their dates and a lot of selfies, a 732 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 1: lot of pictures. And she said, you said he didn't 733 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,719 Speaker 1: seem annoyed though at that right, Yeah, he didn't really. 734 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:34,880 Speaker 1: I mean he was a little throne. But then he 735 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,840 Speaker 1: smiled and he was into it and he posed for 736 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: the pictures, so he posted its. Okay, I don't know 737 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,279 Speaker 1: if that's the reason. We'll figure it out. I mean, 738 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: you guys did make out and haven't talked to him since. 739 00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: So I'm Gonnadallas one of her right. Now, get him 740 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 1: on the phone and see if we can figure it 741 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 1: out for you. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. 742 00:39:51,920 --> 00:40:13,840 Speaker 1: One second, hello him? I think the art? Please? Who's 743 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 1: this art? How are you? This is Jewbil from the 744 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 1: Jewel Show. As a matter of fact, it's just the 745 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: whole Jewel Show. My name's Jewbil, my name is Alex, 746 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 1: my name's Evan. Oh wow, okay, hello, how's it going? 747 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 1: Oh what's this about? So you know the Jewel Show? Yeah, 748 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,879 Speaker 1: I've heard you guys before. Okay, cool, funny stuff coming 749 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 1: you from you guys. All right, It weird that we'd 750 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: call you because, yeah, I mean, I haven't signed up 751 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:42,879 Speaker 1: for any contests or anything, so a little I'm trying 752 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,719 Speaker 1: to understand what's going on. Yeah, well, we're calling you 753 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: because we got an email about you from someone who 754 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 1: listens to the show. Who who emailed you about me? 755 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 1: Her name is Edi. Do you know why we would 756 00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:04,279 Speaker 1: be calling you about Edie? Oh h yeah, that's uh yeah, 757 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,479 Speaker 1: I might know what this is about. Then, Okay, well 758 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 1: i'll I mean, if you you might know, you probably 759 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:14,399 Speaker 1: do know. You shouldn't know. Yeah, I'll just tell you 760 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,359 Speaker 1: what it is. Oh. I just had a day with 761 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: her and things were interesting. That's what I was trying 762 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: to tell you is that this is the first date 763 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 1: follow up where if you got on a date with 764 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: someone and then they don't call you back after we 765 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 1: they email us to get you on the phone and 766 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 1: find out what happened. But you already know that. So 767 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 1: Edie send an email asking why you're not calling her back. Well, 768 00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 1: I liked her things. We're pretty good on our date, 769 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 1: but she was a little aggressive for me. Aggressive. Well, 770 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 1: she did tell us that she took a bunch of pictures, 771 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 1: So was it like, you know, too many? Yeah, no, no, 772 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 1: nothing like that. Um, he's a really aggressive kisser, aggressive 773 00:41:55,920 --> 00:42:00,719 Speaker 1: kiss her really yeah. Like we were walk in and 774 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: then kissing and things were like nice at first, and 775 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 1: then we were stopping and get into it a little 776 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: bit more, and she started biting a lot more. And 777 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 1: then this thing where she spit my tongue and like 778 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 1: sucked it in her mouth. And you don't like that, Well, 779 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 1: I mean she tore my my friendulum a little bit. 780 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: And I've been having this pain still. It's been a 781 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: couple of days later, and I got hold on she 782 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 1: did what to you? What tore my freendulum part of 783 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: your tongue. It's that little under part of your tongue. 784 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,880 Speaker 1: Why do you know the name of that thing? Because 785 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: she tore my freendulum And I went to the doctor 786 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 1: and they explained to me what the issue was. Apparently, 787 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 1: freendulum is the under part of your tongue and the 788 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 1: thing that falls in the back of your throat. Wow, 789 00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 1: that's handy. Actually, I've I've torn mind before out Really 790 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 1: I was kiss no no, not from kissing. I was 791 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 1: standing on a chair and fell onto my keyboard. Not 792 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 1: as fun as kissing. Okay, So how did how did 793 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 1: that happen? Though? Well, she sucked my tongue into her 794 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,120 Speaker 1: mouth and like she couldn't like, I guess, apparently I 795 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: have a really short one. Okay, it was already actually 796 00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 1: disadvantaged for me. Wow. All right, So you learned from 797 00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 1: dating her that you have a short tongue, and you 798 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: learned what a friend ulum is, and we've all now 799 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 1: learned what a friend friendulum is if you didn't know, 800 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:17,800 Speaker 1: and that's the reason you're not calling her back. And 801 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,400 Speaker 1: she was just too rough of a kisser for you. 802 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 1: And well, I mean, I guess I told your friend. Yeah, 803 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 1: it was my mouth filled with blood. I mean, I 804 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 1: mean I was trying to like be nice about it, 805 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,280 Speaker 1: and like she'd walk a little bit ahead, I backtrack 806 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 1: a little and then spit blood onto the concrete and 807 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,719 Speaker 1: try to walk her walk her back. But it was 808 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 1: just like, oh my gosh, it was in pain. Oh 809 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: wow wow. Yeah, I've never heard of I've never heard 810 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 1: of that. I've never heard of that. I'm trying to 811 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 1: figure out how that even can happen. Yeah, and too, 812 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 1: let me tell you there's a lot of blood. Dang. Yeah, 813 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:54,640 Speaker 1: I want to figure out how it can happen too. 814 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,359 Speaker 1: And I think that we should just ask Edie, who's 815 00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 1: on the phone listening, don't you think? Yeah? I think so. Uh, 816 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, I feel awful. This is so embarrassing. 817 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:13,280 Speaker 1: I can't believe I did that to you. Yeah, I'm 818 00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: so sorry. Oh my god, that sounds awful. You told 819 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: me my my kiss were salty, and I was just like, 820 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:28,759 Speaker 1: in my mind, I was steep and wait, so I 821 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,799 Speaker 1: like had your blood in my mouth, I mean a 822 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: little bits ready to go. I didn't even think about that, 823 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 1: just a little bit fine, But I mean but it 824 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 1: was you mean you sucked his short tongue too hardy, 825 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:46,120 Speaker 1: That's why you purpose. I swear I wasn't trying to 826 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:49,359 Speaker 1: like eat your face. I I guess I was just 827 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,239 Speaker 1: really into it and excited and I lost myself. Well 828 00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 1: it might not be your fault because he said he 829 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 1: has a short tongue. Yeah, it's more of a genetic thing. Honestly, Art, 830 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 1: you should know if if you have a short tongue, 831 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:02,640 Speaker 1: you should be aware of that and you should warn 832 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 1: the person that you're kissing, need like a disclaimer. But yeah, 833 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,320 Speaker 1: yeah he did. Eat. I mean I had to go 834 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: to the doctor and my tongue was all swollen, so 835 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: I needed to get it address. But at least it's 836 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,800 Speaker 1: doing a little bit better now. I mean it was one. 837 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,920 Speaker 1: It wasn't like an extreme, but it was. It was 838 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: just enough to tear it a little. Oh my god. 839 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: I feel like I should send you like a care 840 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:35,240 Speaker 1: package with like ice packs or something pop maybe some selfies. Yeah, hey, 841 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: I honestly it kind of still hurts because we're talking 842 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: a lot. Oh yeah, I'm sorry to get to talk more. 843 00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,839 Speaker 1: So how do we just how about we just wrap 844 00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: this up there? Art, even though she damaged your tongue, 845 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: would you like to go on another date with EATY 846 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 1: will pay for it. I mean, if she's gonna be 847 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,080 Speaker 1: a little less aggressive with the making out, then yeah, yeah, 848 00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: I'll do it again. I promise no kissing until you 849 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: are better and I'll calm down. Maybe slower, slower kissing 850 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 1: work on the sucking tongue. Oh my god, Oh my god, 851 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 1: that's so embarrassing. Jewbils First Date follow Up The Jewels 852 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 1: Show on Demand Jewbils Dirty Little Secret something you definitely 853 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,919 Speaker 1: should not do in today's world. Fake being sick. Oh 854 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,240 Speaker 1: it's the Jewels Show. It's time for Dirty Little Secret. Remember, 855 00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,319 Speaker 1: if you have something to get off your chest, just 856 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,960 Speaker 1: text us four one oh six one and we'll let 857 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 1: you tell your secret on the air. Also, remember everybody 858 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: stays anonymous, so it doesn't matter what you have to 859 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 1: tell us, we will always keep you anonymous. So on 860 00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 1: the phone right now, we have Captain America. Hello, Captain America. 861 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 1: That name, I'll take it. Captain Americans was a little 862 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 1: higher pitched than I than I would have expected. But 863 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,080 Speaker 1: you know that's funny, and I never heard Captain meag 864 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 1: like that. But anyway, I know your secret has to 865 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 1: do with you being sick. But that's all our producers 866 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:10,480 Speaker 1: told us. So that's your secret. Well, okay, so it's 867 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:14,960 Speaker 1: not really um me taking sick for myself. I it 868 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: has to do with me um thinking that my cow 869 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 1: is sick. Oh why why would you have to fake 870 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 1: that your cat was sick? Okay, so I just need 871 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: to start by thinking, I really hate weddings. I think 872 00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 1: they're so awkward, yeah, you know, and uncomfortable. Yeah they 873 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 1: really are. Actually, yeah, no exactly, that's exactly how I feel. 874 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: It's just like super weird this wedding. I was like 875 00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:46,800 Speaker 1: in it. Oh the wedding. Yeah, I was supposed to 876 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,880 Speaker 1: be at least what were you supposed to be in 877 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 1: the wedding? Oh bride's mate? Oh is that the main one? 878 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:59,120 Speaker 1: What's the main one? The best woman of honor? Honor? 879 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,959 Speaker 1: But only she had one, She'd one maid of honor, 880 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,839 Speaker 1: and then she had three bridesmaids, and then he had 881 00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 1: like one groomsman, and then like three more so it 882 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 1: was like balanced. It was like four people. I completely 883 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: lost track of what there was. But I just I 884 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: know that you said you were in the wedding party, 885 00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,239 Speaker 1: and that's a big deal. Dudes hate getting at it, 886 00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 1: Like anytime I've been at grooms when I'm like, oh, 887 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: why did you not want to be in the wedding? 888 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,000 Speaker 1: Because I hate weddings. That's the only reason I couldn't 889 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: do it. For your good friend. Well, I'm like so also, 890 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: like the groomsman, it was a while ago, but like 891 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,640 Speaker 1: we had hooked up and he was a total jerk. 892 00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 1: So I just was like, oh God, I'm gonna have 893 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,840 Speaker 1: to spend the day being around this guy that I 894 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 1: hate and like new girlfriends, and I'm just like, oh 895 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 1: my god. Okay, was it the fact that you guys 896 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,160 Speaker 1: had hooked up before or the fact that he has 897 00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,360 Speaker 1: a new girlfriend and you want to all of the above. 898 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 1: To be honest, it's just awkward. Oh man, that's right. 899 00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:54,239 Speaker 1: So you blamed it on your cat. Yeah, I said 900 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: she was sick. Well, okay, So if I had said 901 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 1: I was sick, my friend would have been like, oh anyway, 902 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,000 Speaker 1: Like I could tell her that, like I had a 903 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 1: fever and diarrhea and she'd be like still come ye. 904 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,360 Speaker 1: She's an animal lover, so if I told her my 905 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:09,120 Speaker 1: cat sick, she she's obsessed with her dog. So I 906 00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:10,879 Speaker 1: knew if I said my cat was sick, she would 907 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 1: be oh my god, you have to be there for her. Okay, 908 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 1: And did your friend actually like accept this as a 909 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 1: legit excuse, Like did you go into detail about what 910 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: the cat had? Yeah? Yeah, Well so what did the 911 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 1: cat have Um, Well, like cat was older and she 912 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:27,839 Speaker 1: was just she was definitely on the edge of her 913 00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 1: She actually did pass away a few months later, and 914 00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:37,080 Speaker 1: that she was just older. You know, she was like 915 00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,319 Speaker 1: eighteen and that's like a long time for a cat 916 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,600 Speaker 1: to live. So um. But I had a roommate and stuff, 917 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,319 Speaker 1: so it's like she wasn't going to be alone. I 918 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,800 Speaker 1: just knew I was going to have a miserable time, 919 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 1: and I thought it was better for everyone if I 920 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 1: didn't go. And that was like the best thing I 921 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: could think of. Better for everyone or better for you. Yeah, 922 00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: better for everyone, because like when I'm like upset or uncomfortable, 923 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 1: I my heart on my sleeve, like everybody knows, and 924 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 1: like they're drinking, Like what if I got really drunk 925 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,520 Speaker 1: and I like, you know, threw a glass of wine 926 00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:12,359 Speaker 1: about the new girlfriends impressed myself. Yeah, I know your 927 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 1: name is Captain America, but I wish it was Becky. 928 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 1: But look, you lived up to your name, Captain America. 929 00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,439 Speaker 1: You sit for the day by not going You sound 930 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:24,560 Speaker 1: like a very intelligent superhero. All right, well, thank you 931 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:28,000 Speaker 1: for telling us your secret. Sure, ye, my friend, Okay, 932 00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:29,880 Speaker 1: we won't but get a new cat so you can 933 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 1: get out of things more in the future. I have 934 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: a new cat. Oh yeah, all right, Well you haven't 935 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:39,319 Speaker 1: built an excuse in congratulations. Bye bye, guys. At least 936 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: she gave me an idea of an excuse to you. 937 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 1: Next time I am invited to add saying you want 938 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 1: to get a cat in any wedding you want to know, 939 00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 1: I'll just say I have a cat that's sick. That's great. 940 00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:53,800 Speaker 1: What's your dirty little secret? The Jewil Show on demand. 941 00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,319 Speaker 1: It's a jewil show and it's International Women's Day. So 942 00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna just read you the definition from the 943 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,200 Speaker 1: official website for International Women's Day. The definition is this 944 00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 1: celebrating women's achievements and increasing visibility while calling out inequality. 945 00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,200 Speaker 1: It's key, that's right. So we're going to call out 946 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,880 Speaker 1: some inequality right now. Okay, So let's talk about what 947 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:18,399 Speaker 1: you can say to a woman, because it seems like 948 00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 1: men think women are easily offended, and that women may 949 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 1: not enjoy locker room talk, or never enjoy locker room talk, 950 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,239 Speaker 1: or can't handle locker room talk, you know, and I 951 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,080 Speaker 1: can handle it. I talk like that. I have a 952 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 1: foul mouth. I swear a lot. Yes, you do, and 953 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 1: I like to so a lot of other women swear though, 954 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,319 Speaker 1: so it's a common thing that adults do, men and women, right, 955 00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:43,640 Speaker 1: So why not instead of talking about what men shouldn't 956 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,080 Speaker 1: be saying to us, why not talk about what you 957 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,840 Speaker 1: guys can say. Because when I'm in certain conversations throughout 958 00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: my life, I feel like men exclude me and they 959 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 1: just look at me like I'm just dumb, Like because 960 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,680 Speaker 1: because I'm a female, I get why you guys do it, 961 00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,239 Speaker 1: because it's like who's going to be offended? Right, and 962 00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,520 Speaker 1: it's like cancel culture and like people are called out. 963 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,040 Speaker 1: I get it, and I know a lot of other 964 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 1: females feel the same as me. It would be nice 965 00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:07,360 Speaker 1: to just be included in conversations and not be shielded 966 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 1: because you think women can't handle it. I feel like 967 00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,840 Speaker 1: what you're saying, and tell me if I'm wrong, as always, 968 00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,680 Speaker 1: but say it. I feel like you're saying, as a woman, 969 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 1: it's more offensive to you that guys go into a 970 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: conversation with you going, oh, I can't say that a 971 00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,840 Speaker 1: word because she's the woman and she might get upset, 972 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 1: rather than saying it and giving you the opportunity to go, 973 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:27,799 Speaker 1: I'm not cool with that language because you not use 974 00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 1: that around me, yes, or judging me. I would rather 975 00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 1: talk about, Hey, it's okay to treat me as an equal, 976 00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,920 Speaker 1: is what I heard from you. Yes, doing a segment 977 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:41,320 Speaker 1: on things men shouldn't say to women is being more exclusive. Yeah. 978 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,239 Speaker 1: My guess is if you shouldn't say those things to 979 00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,480 Speaker 1: a woman, then you probably shouldn't say them to a man. 980 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:49,319 Speaker 1: Just treat people with respect, treat people as equals. The 981 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: biggest problem in work environments is not necessarily how you're 982 00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:56,719 Speaker 1: talking to women. It's a legit sexual harassment that goes on. Well, 983 00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,439 Speaker 1: I had an aha moment from today. I feel quite 984 00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 1: bad about it too. But I've I've heard you tell 985 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 1: the story about the sexual like assault and misconduct that 986 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,160 Speaker 1: you've faced in the workplace before. Man Alex has stories, 987 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, as like a person makes me matter, 988 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 1: as a husband makes me want to kill someone. But 989 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,600 Speaker 1: I've heard you tell those stories with a very straight 990 00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:21,360 Speaker 1: face and a demeanor that wasn't so like, you know, serious. 991 00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 1: And then hearing you today like break down kind of 992 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 1: you know, and get very emotional about it. Before then 993 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,680 Speaker 1: I feel really terrible about myself. Because I've laughed and 994 00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 1: like just been like ah, you know, because of how 995 00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:38,680 Speaker 1: you're speaking about it and stuff, when really it's such 996 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 1: a serious issue. I mean the fact that you know 997 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,720 Speaker 1: some guy is doing something to make you think to yourself, 998 00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,839 Speaker 1: oh my god, like I don't feel safe at work. 999 00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,759 Speaker 1: I don't feel you know, he might do something to 1000 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,760 Speaker 1: me at homie. You know. It's just yeah, yeah, it's 1001 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 1: incredibly ignorant on my part, for one. So I'm sorry 1002 00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 1: about laughing at that. Well, I appreciate you saying that 1003 00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,919 Speaker 1: I just live as a woman. Yeah, and you guys 1004 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 1: don't have the same fear. You guys don't have to 1005 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:05,160 Speaker 1: walk down the street I'm looking around making sure nobody's 1006 00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:07,839 Speaker 1: following you, or have keys or pepper spray in your 1007 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 1: hand or freaking brass knuckles if you need them. Yeah, 1008 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 1: it's different living as a woman. Yeah, definitely sad and scary. 1009 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,640 Speaker 1: And I'm not looking for any sympathy whatsoever, because I 1010 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:20,439 Speaker 1: just didn't even want to do this in the first place, 1011 00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 1: like I was talking about earlier, and I understand me 1012 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,120 Speaker 1: not wanting to do this one smart conversation and have 1013 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 1: Evan have that a home moment. But the deal is 1014 00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,359 Speaker 1: we can have these conversations all day long, and these 1015 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,759 Speaker 1: men and whoever can have these aha moments all day long, 1016 00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: but if there's no change in their actions, then it's 1017 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,920 Speaker 1: not worth it to me. And that's why, that's why 1018 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,439 Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it in the first place, 1019 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 1: because I genuinely feel like they don't know how to understand. Yeah, yeah, 1020 00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,879 Speaker 1: they don't care. They don't care. They really don't care. 1021 00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: It's either those two and they won't make a change. 1022 00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:00,319 Speaker 1: And that's fine, that's their decision. But I don't get it. 1023 00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 1: I'll never get it. Talking to people just isn't going 1024 00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,759 Speaker 1: to do much. You can't change a prejudice mind if 1025 00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,839 Speaker 1: it's already made up, very rare, right, But you can 1026 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 1: force them to change their behavior if you change the system, 1027 00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:16,920 Speaker 1: and that starts with business owners. You don't have to 1028 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,720 Speaker 1: change minds, You just have to start with changing the system. 1029 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,959 Speaker 1: And the system that we operate under in America, both 1030 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:26,279 Speaker 1: culturally and in business, is a system of oppression for 1031 00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 1: both minorities and for women. So forget changing minds, change 1032 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,959 Speaker 1: the system, and then maybe it wouldn't take one hundred 1033 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 1: and fifty one years for gender equality. I actually wrote 1034 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,160 Speaker 1: this quote several months back, and when most people think 1035 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,640 Speaker 1: of gender equality, they think of the LGBTQ community. So 1036 00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,400 Speaker 1: I'm going to say this quote. Please know that if 1037 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,680 Speaker 1: you've heard anything that I said today, obviously I want 1038 00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,200 Speaker 1: everybody to be happy and live how they want, love 1039 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,320 Speaker 1: who they want, be who they want a thousand percent. 1040 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 1: So this has nothing to do with anything other than 1041 00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,799 Speaker 1: this issue. With what we spoke about today, I came 1042 00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:04,319 Speaker 1: up with the quote gender equality not just how you identify. 1043 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:08,000 Speaker 1: So just think about that for a minute. Gender equality 1044 00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:12,040 Speaker 1: not just how you identify. Your phone prank is coming 1045 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,080 Speaker 1: up in just a few minutes. It's The Jewble Show. 1046 00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:16,320 Speaker 1: The Jewble Show on Demand,