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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. That is for you,

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Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Brown. We miss you. Buggle up, hold on tight,

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Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it ease a Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject we were nude when we met.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty one year old

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Speaker 1: single man. I'm six four and I work out five

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Speaker 1: days a week, so I'm in great physical condition. I

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Speaker 1: am a doctor now and I come from a large family.

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Speaker 1: So to put myself through medical school, I worked as

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Speaker 1: a mail dancer and porn star, and I was able

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Speaker 1: to make a lot of money. Sex was never a

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Speaker 1: problem for me, and when I worked, I was having

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Speaker 1: sex up to five times a day with all kinds

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Speaker 1: of voluptuous women. I didn't think much about sex because

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Speaker 1: it was my job. All of that changed when I

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Speaker 1: met a new girl at work. She walked into the

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Speaker 1: set and we both were nude, and she had the

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Speaker 1: most beautiful body I'd ever seen. She was a veteran

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Speaker 1: it was instant chemistry. It was like we were made

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Speaker 1: for each other. Sex didn't mean much to her either, Steve,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love this line, but she had to admit

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Speaker 1: that I was very good at what I did. We

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Speaker 1: ended up being friends with benefits, and that's all we

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Speaker 1: could be since she was married. There's also an age

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Speaker 1: difference she's older, but that never mattered to her, and

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Speaker 1: we have been in our situationship for over six years.

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Speaker 1: To this day. I'm still under her spell. She is

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Speaker 1: not happy in her marriage, but she told me she'd

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Speaker 1: never get a divorce because her husband always supported her

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Speaker 1: lifestyle and he has been good to her. I love

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Speaker 1: her too, and I want to be with her. You

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Speaker 1: love her, too, Junior. I'm thinking about moving to a

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Speaker 1: neighboring city to get a fresh start, but I'm afraid

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Speaker 1: she will forget about me. Am I crazy to think

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Speaker 1: she might have a change of heart and want me,

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Speaker 1: Uncle Steve? Should I start dating other women or should

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Speaker 1: I keep shooting my shot with her. Well, you know

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Speaker 1: we're going to tell you, at least I am, stop

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Speaker 1: shooting your shot with her. You know we're going to

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Speaker 1: tell you to leave this married woman, of course, because

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Speaker 1: that is the right thing to do. Everybody says they're

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Speaker 1: not happy in their marriage when you're dating them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: everyone says that when when they're in an affair, they're

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Speaker 1: not happy in their marriage. Everybody says that. Whoo hoo hoo.

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Speaker 1: Who are you tell too, saying, day, yes you did, Yes,

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Speaker 1: she did. Be quiet, Okay, be quiet just because we're

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Speaker 1: talking about naked people. You think you can get into

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Speaker 1: letter all right? I definitely think you should go ahead

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Speaker 1: and move to a neighboring city and get a fresh start. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you have chemistry with this woman. Yes, she's beautiful, the

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Speaker 1: most beautiful body you've ever seen. Yes, you you know

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Speaker 1: you guys love working together, and you're intrigued and you're

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Speaker 1: under her spell and you've been together for over six years.

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Speaker 1: But how is this gonna work? I mean, you want

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Speaker 1: to just keep hope alive thinking that she's gonna leave

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Speaker 1: her husband. It usually never works out that way, Okay,

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Speaker 1: it just does. You're a doctor, you can get someone. Okay,

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Speaker 1: keep hope alive. Yeah, are you crazy to think she

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Speaker 1: might have a change of heart and want you? I

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Speaker 1: mean you're not crazy, but most people who think that

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Speaker 1: You got to start dating other women and stop in

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Speaker 1: and nothing's changed. It is time to move on, mister.

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Speaker 1: Six four working out five days a week and a doctor.

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Speaker 1: Now you can find someone else, all right, Steve, and

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Speaker 1: you make a lot of money. Come on, See what

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Speaker 1: what Shirley? You heard me? I mean every word of that.

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Speaker 1: This was your response to this. These people like this

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Speaker 1: We're talking about. Two punch stalls. He rolls. Guys, why

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Speaker 1: contrying two damn punch stalls. He asked the question he

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Speaker 1: damn about the right thing. He's a doctor. Now they

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Speaker 1: is prostitution being filed. This is what this is, to

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Speaker 1: have sent for money. That's talking about Shirley. How dare you?

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Speaker 1: I'm too much of a Christian sometimes being a doctor?

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Speaker 1: He did that to to work his way through school.

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Speaker 1: You heard that medical school paper, girl? You heard that?

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Speaker 1: How many times have you heard strippers say this? But

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Speaker 1: you still a shower for you? I'm girl. Just give

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Speaker 1: your answer. That's my answer. Just give yours. My answer

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Speaker 1: is about your answer. So when I answer this on

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Speaker 1: the second half of this letter, everybody's gonna understand why

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Speaker 1: I'm But I'm not changed. I don't give it. Damn

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Speaker 1: want you to do it this time? My aunt an Steve,

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Speaker 1: that's too much. We don't want to do that on

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Speaker 1: know I'm gonna say that, all right, and we know

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Speaker 1: we're going to do this on the air. You did, Joe,

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Speaker 1: all right, Look we'll have part two of Steve's gonna

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Speaker 1: work out five days a week. Yeah, that's what you're

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Speaker 1: mad about. Just say it, really, just say it. What

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Speaker 1: They ain't got a damn thing to do with it,

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Speaker 1: nothing at all. You'll find out what I'm mad about.

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Speaker 1: Come on, let's go all right, we'll be back with

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter object. We were nude when we met.

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Speaker 1: He is a man. He gonna try to trick us

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Speaker 1: with workout five days so I'm in great physical condition.

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Speaker 1: They ain't. I'm saying about nothing. I don't care. I

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Speaker 1: ain't thirty one. I am a doctor now, and I

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Speaker 1: come from a large family. Oh man, congratulations, don't get

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Speaker 1: the letter starts turning. So to put myself through medical school,

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Speaker 1: this way we post give everything. I worked as a

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Speaker 1: for me when I worked. Okay, dog, a lot of

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Speaker 1: people can say that I can make that statement. Really,

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Speaker 1: All that change when I met a new girl at work.

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Speaker 1: She walked on the set and we were both nude,

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Speaker 1: and she had the most beautiful body I had ever seen.

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Speaker 1: We'll get in line, homie, you ain't the only one

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Speaker 1: seen this beautiful body. She was a veteran in the industry.

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Speaker 1: I was intrigued that she wanted to work with me.

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Speaker 1: She didn't work with everybody else vetric in the industry,

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Speaker 1: Okay part it was like we was made for each other. Yes,

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Speaker 1: come on. Sex didn't mean much to her either, I

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Speaker 1: guess not. I don't mean nothing to her. We ended

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Speaker 1: be since and here when Sherley started getting real Christie,

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Speaker 1: since she was married in the Borno Star is married, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: obviously d's weren't the same. Vows you both to take

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Speaker 1: vectoran you thirty one putting it on you like you

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Speaker 1: ain't ever had before. But that never mattered to her.

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Speaker 1: And we have been in this situation for over six years,

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Speaker 1: so you've been the side piece for six years. To

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Speaker 1: this day, I'm still under her spell. She did something.

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Speaker 1: You know why, she good at it because she do

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Speaker 1: it all the time. Fratice. She get paid voice that

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Speaker 1: trigger practice. She'd have done stuff for you. She learned

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Speaker 1: this stuff. She is not happy in her marriage. But

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Speaker 1: in her happy because she sleep with a lot of men,

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Speaker 1: her husband. Do. You're damn right. She ain't happy because

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Speaker 1: she got too many people to compare to. The list

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Speaker 1: goes more. I like Thunderboat. I like Thunderboat, I like

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Speaker 1: tantalizing Terrorists. I like ben Juicy Jerome. She got a

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Speaker 1: he stayed with her over to you, don't you, dummis

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Speaker 1: that's a doctor want to marry a punt style? And

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Speaker 1: and your customers recognized, ain't And he know what's gonna

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Speaker 1: happen because he says, I love her too and I

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Speaker 1: She didn't. I love her too and I want to

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Speaker 1: you know how many men won't to be with her?

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Speaker 1: You can't count the men that hasn't been with her,

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Speaker 1: work and quit being stupid. Now, this is how stupid

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Speaker 1: he is. I'm thinking about moving to a neighboring city

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Speaker 1: to get a fresh start, but I'm afraid she'll forget

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Speaker 1: a change of heart. You better hope she don't, and

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Speaker 1: won't me boy, she won't shoot who she don't want

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Speaker 1: just give me that list. She won't who she was,

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Speaker 1: all right, So Steve, we gotta get out of this letter. Okay.

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