Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and
Speaker 1: the Black Effect. Oh shit, be back on the air,
Speaker 1: Welcome back to you got another carefully reckless episode with
Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious. So we're gonna jump right in.
Speaker 1: We got some written passages, y'all. Remember I told y'all
Speaker 1: people don't be wanting nobody to catch on today voice
Speaker 1: so we don't have voice notes today. But thank god
Speaker 1: that I can read the non punctuations and shit. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna get it popping.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hey Jess, so I'm gay. Damn hold up. That is
Speaker 1: not how you start a story. God damn it. I
Speaker 1: mean I could see if it was June, but how
Speaker 1: you hey Jess, I'm gay? Like that would oh my god.
Speaker 1: Usually it's like, hey JS, I'm Chris, or Hey Jess,
Speaker 1: I'm Courtney.
Speaker 2: He'll say, hey Jess, I'm gay. Straight off the rippy.
Speaker 2: All right, that's cool.
Speaker 1: And I've been talking to this girl for about two months.
Speaker 1: This will be my first relationship with the girl, and
Speaker 1: I'm actually falling for her. Never thought I would be
Speaker 1: in a relationship with a female, but it's going now.
Speaker 1: We're both pretty popular on social media, and we're both
Speaker 1: active on social media with pretty popular platforms, so we've
Speaker 1: been trying to figure out the perfect.
Speaker 2: Time to pop out. Okay, I understand that we don't
Speaker 2: want to rush anything.
Speaker 1: We just want to make sure we're locked in before
Speaker 1: revealing each other on each other's pages. Nothing wrong with it,
Speaker 1: I can relate, But girls, tell me why. I wake
Speaker 1: up yesterday morning, Osha and I see the green circle
Speaker 1: with her name on it, which means she posted in
Speaker 1: her close friends. I was really saying, what the fuck
Speaker 1: that made? I don't know what a green circle is.
Speaker 1: I don't have no close friends or nothing. All Right,
Speaker 1: I clicked and it was a picture of us, but
Speaker 1: my back was turned. So I'm trying to figure out
Speaker 1: if I should be happy about this or should I
Speaker 1: question it? Because if this is supposed to be the
Speaker 1: pop out, why is the PopOut in your close friends?
Speaker 2: M Okay?
Speaker 1: It also got me thinking who is in her close
Speaker 1: friends and why didn't she post it publicly?
Speaker 2: And then, girl, I'm such an overthinker.
Speaker 1: Maybe she took everybody out of her close friends and
Speaker 1: had me in there by myself, so I can see
Speaker 1: it like she's looking for a reaction or something. What
Speaker 1: do you think, Jess, Hmmm, where it could be a
Speaker 1: couple of things. It could be a couple of things.
Speaker 1: If you two have well, I want to know, have
Speaker 1: you two talked about what that looks like for you
Speaker 1: guys to popping out situation? Have you guys even spoke
Speaker 1: on it, like and had a real conversation about it,
Speaker 1: Because I know with me and my man, he's not
Speaker 1: really big on social media, so he can't relate to
Speaker 1: this story, but I can. But I'm about to go
Speaker 1: back and talk about new exos and I lighted, So
Speaker 1: I'm just going to let y'all let you know this.
Speaker 1: We still did talk about it, Chris and I we
Speaker 1: talked about when we were going to post each other,
Speaker 1: and I bought it up because he wasn't really big
Speaker 1: on social he's still not big on social media and
Speaker 1: he's never really cared about it that much to have
Speaker 1: to do a debut of who his girlfriend is, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But I actually did go to
Speaker 1: him and sit down with him and I was like,
Speaker 1: what it looks like for me?
Speaker 2: Is this I think it's time to post you.
Speaker 1: Of course, we were well passed two months, but not
Speaker 1: that far in you know, we were just about like
Speaker 1: six months in or whatever. And the timing doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: It just it just matters if you guys are ready.
Speaker 1: But like you said earlier in your passage, you wanted
Speaker 1: to just see if y'all are locked in. Y'all, you
Speaker 1: want to be completely comfortable with the person before you
Speaker 1: just parade them to the world, before you let somebody,
Speaker 1: because the moment you let somebody into your safe space
Speaker 1: and your relationship is definitely a safe space. You know,
Speaker 1: you want to make sure this is what you want.
Speaker 1: You know, nobody can tell the future. Nobody knows that
Speaker 1: they're going to be with somebody forever, but that's what
Speaker 1: you plan for, right you know, So without being a
Speaker 1: fortune teller, you're just able to react off your feelings.
Speaker 1: And that's what I think your girlfriend might have done
Speaker 1: in this case. Also, I can see why it kind
Speaker 1: of has you thinking in your mind running because like
Speaker 1: you said, this is your first time in a gay relationship,
Speaker 1: this is your first time in a relationship with a woman,
Speaker 1: you know, shall I say, and you just want to
Speaker 1: make sure you know, and I have a stand up
Speaker 1: joke about this, but you want to be careful posting anybody,
Speaker 1: whether it's girl posing a girl, or a man posting
Speaker 1: a man, a woman on man, whatever, Like you want
Speaker 1: to be careful posting whoever you're with, because it seems
Speaker 1: like that's when everything goes to shit when you let
Speaker 1: people in your business. I guess that's the reason for
Speaker 1: the close friends. She could have been waiting to see
Speaker 1: a reaction she could have. I liked that third option
Speaker 1: that you said. You said you're such an overthinker, but
Speaker 1: I don't think that's overthinking. She could have removed everybody
Speaker 1: out of her close friends to just get a reaction
Speaker 1: out of you. What was your reaction, though? Did you
Speaker 1: hit her up about it? You leaven meet off the posadas?
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean you leaving meat off the bones.
Speaker 1: I need to know what happened. I need an update.
Speaker 1: I know you're gonna update me because this ain't my
Speaker 1: first time helping you out, so I'm gonna need an update.
Speaker 2: But I do want to say maybe she didn't go
Speaker 2: so hard with the.
Speaker 1: Because I know y'all have a thousand pictures with each
Speaker 1: other where she could have posed to want to show
Speaker 1: your face?
Speaker 2: But what that have made you upset?
Speaker 1: If she'd posted your face and then I could see
Speaker 1: what you're saying when you said, Okay, if it's a
Speaker 1: pop out, why is any of your close friends? I
Speaker 1: could see that as well. But are you ready for that?
Speaker 1: Have you posted her yet? Have you thought about that?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 1: So it's just a couple of questions that I would
Speaker 1: like to be privy with the answer to, because I
Speaker 1: don't think it was any harm trying to be done
Speaker 1: or anything. I think that she's just trying to leave
Speaker 1: her little mark, you know what I'm saying. I think
Speaker 1: she wants people to know this is my girl without
Speaker 1: actually showing who you are until you are ready to
Speaker 1: post her too.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Also, she one of those females will feel like, well
Speaker 1: is she one of those people? It is not just girls,
Speaker 1: trust me, and she one of those people who feel like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I posted you, now, when you're gonna post me?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 1: Because and I'm not gonna say that's a tip for
Speaker 1: tad thing, but most of the time, when you show
Speaker 1: somebody off, you definitely definitely looking to be showed off eventually,
Speaker 1: not not too long after you.
Speaker 2: Showing somebody off.
Speaker 1: But I definitely like, I like, I like this story
Speaker 1: because it's a lot of that going on. It don't
Speaker 1: matter how old you are, It don't matter how young
Speaker 1: you are, how popular you are on social media.
Speaker 2: You just want to be careful. You just you just
Speaker 2: want to be careful.
Speaker 1: And whether you have a big platform or not, people
Speaker 1: will be scared to post their people.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: I know you don't want nobody come and see you
Speaker 1: as a woman. So and both of y'all social media's
Speaker 1: is popping. Y'all got pretty popular platforms, like you said, So,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you should kind of sit
Speaker 1: on and talk to her about it, because you damn
Speaker 1: sure ain't telling me whether you hold her up about her.
Speaker 1: Talk to her and just just let me know. But
Speaker 1: I'm absolutely proud of you for telling me your business
Speaker 1: like I tell everybody who sends me in a story.
Speaker 2: Thank y'all.
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for trusting me with your information and trusting
Speaker 1: my life lists, you know, and staying anonymous as well.
Speaker 2: So check back in with me, baby, If you love me,
Speaker 2: you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right
Speaker 2: back moving on.
Speaker 1: Hey, Jess, please fix my mess. I've been dating a
Speaker 1: man for sixteen months and it ended last month. Okay,
Speaker 1: So that's a little over a year. Backstory. I met
Speaker 1: him through social media. What is it social media that
Speaker 1: we gonna call this this episode social media. He was
Speaker 1: not working at the time until last January, which I
Speaker 1: helped him expand his job hunt to get the job
Speaker 1: he got and still has. Okay, that's good, I know,
Speaker 1: that's right, supportive queen. He told me he had a
Speaker 1: child on the way. Wait a minute, hold up, okay,
Speaker 1: and I too told him I have kids also, So
Speaker 1: kids are no big deal to me. Yeah, yeah, if
Speaker 1: they are already here, but if they on the way,
Speaker 1: let me just finish reading. He told me he never
Speaker 1: plans on getting back with the child's mother. However, in February,
Speaker 1: the child's mother wanted to work things out. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: she was pregnant. That lasted until the beginning of May.
Speaker 1: During that time span, we continue to communication, but the
Speaker 1: dating stopped. However, after he tells me it ended in May,
Speaker 1: it's back to us again.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Now, from the beginning, we implemented the rules of we're
Speaker 1: only dating each other. Okay, so that means you're only
Speaker 1: dating him, you only dating you and having sex with
Speaker 1: each other. Okay, you only having sex with him, he
Speaker 1: only having sex with you. If someone else did pop
Speaker 1: up in our lives, we would tell each other. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you being honest with him and he being honest
Speaker 1: with you. Now fast forward to December. We're on a
Speaker 1: lunch date and I see his Apple watch. It's a
Speaker 1: selfie picture of him and this one chick uh uh okay,
Speaker 1: and that's it. Listen, I am so so let me.
Speaker 1: Let me let me vent real quick to y'all answers.
Speaker 1: I'm so sick of y'all with these open ended ass stories. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be re in this shit no more.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna change the whole fucking trajectory of carefully reckless
Speaker 1: if y'all asses cannot send me a whole fucking story,
Speaker 1: Like why do you guys start and then you stop?
Speaker 1: This is irritating the shit out of me. This is
Speaker 1: like the fourth weekend. I'm sorry, my sister, gret my shoulder,
Speaker 1: Like no, no, no, no, no, what's going on?
Speaker 2: I'm sick of as shit.
Speaker 1: This is like the fourth week in a row that
Speaker 1: these people write these fucking stories and then they stop
Speaker 1: right there. I always make fun of it, like maybe
Speaker 1: a nigga walked in the room while you was typing.
Speaker 2: The shit.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sure he ain't staying in the room right now. Shit,
Speaker 1: you this, if it's a two be continued. You come
Speaker 1: back and continue, motherfuck girl. Shit, I don't know what
Speaker 1: the fuck the sound you after that? After you saw
Speaker 1: the selfie of him and the one chick on the
Speaker 1: apple wash?
Speaker 2: What did you do? And was it the baby? Mom?
Speaker 2: What was it? God damn it.
Speaker 1: I want to give you some advice, but I can
Speaker 1: if y'all coming with these open ended stories.
Speaker 2: This shit is crazy. So basically, now I'm about to
Speaker 2: get in your ass because where you.
Speaker 1: Turn, where you went wrong at anyway, was getting with
Speaker 1: a nigga who had a baby on the way.
Speaker 2: Now, I don't give a fuck. I've been through them all.
Speaker 1: I've been in almost every situation that somebody that I
Speaker 1: read on these on this hip podcast like that somebody
Speaker 1: has giving me. I've either been through it or I
Speaker 1: know somebody who has.
Speaker 2: But that's a red flag right there.
Speaker 1: A guy got a woman pregnant and then he's still
Speaker 1: dating while she's pregnant. Listen, when I was pregnant with Ashton,
Speaker 1: Rome was dating. Of course, he told people that he
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna be with me. But where was he at
Speaker 1: every fucking night with his girlfriend me? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, A nigga gonna say whatever the fuck he
Speaker 1: can to get what he wants. Of course, the girl
Speaker 1: was telling them he wanted to be with her, She
Speaker 1: wanted to be with him and work things out. They
Speaker 1: was probably just going through it because of hormonal changes
Speaker 1: or she must have.
Speaker 2: You know, girl, if you've never oh yeah, you have
Speaker 2: had babies.
Speaker 1: Okay, I was gonna say, if you've never been pregnant,
Speaker 1: you don't understand you got kids.
Speaker 2: You ain't got one.
Speaker 1: You got kids talking about You told them in what
Speaker 1: no big deal? Yeah, damn right, it's a big deal.
Speaker 1: It has to be a big deal if his kid's
Speaker 1: not here yet. But I like how you said you
Speaker 1: stopped talking to him and that was that, and then
Speaker 1: you fans forward a little bit. So when he told
Speaker 1: you that it ended in May, and then you said
Speaker 1: it was back to y'all again, all right, cool? And
Speaker 1: so then you lay down some rules because giving how
Speaker 1: it was going before, I know, when you know he
Speaker 1: spent the block or you spent the block. You know,
Speaker 1: y'all had to lay down some ground rules, because there
Speaker 1: was certainly some groundwork that that should have been done,
Speaker 1: you know, because you didn't want the same thing that
Speaker 1: happened before to happen again. Cool, but obviously he broke
Speaker 1: that rule because when you all at lunch, a selfie
Speaker 1: pop up on your phone and I don't know what
Speaker 1: else so you need to do.
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna milk this shit.
Speaker 1: Try to stretch it or whatever you need to let
Speaker 1: me know what else happened.
Speaker 2: And if you don't, oh fucking well, pissing me off
Speaker 2: of this shit. God damn it. Fuck girl, I'm shit.
Speaker 1: They off my sister in here, like just like a
Speaker 1: calm down. How I hate when they do that. Lord,
Speaker 1: hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good.
Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, got another story
Speaker 1: for you. First off, Happy New Year is just listen.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all one more time, it's happy New Year.
Speaker 2: How it's gonna be more than one year?
Speaker 1: Is? It's happy new Year. We go, we go a
Speaker 1: year at a time, but Happy New Year to YouTube boom.
Speaker 1: I'm just a woman who feels alone. Yes, I'm married,
Speaker 1: I'm a mother, I'm an auntie, I'm a daughter, and
Speaker 1: I only had one friend, my best friend of forty
Speaker 1: five years. Okay, even with this, I feel alone. The
Speaker 1: first man in your life is your father, who teaches
Speaker 1: you how a man should love you. My dad was
Speaker 1: a great dad. However, in eighty nine, my father started
Speaker 1: using crack and drinking up a storm.
Speaker 2: Our world has been turned upside down. Oh wow.
Speaker 1: He started to physically abuse my mother. I loved my mother,
Speaker 1: but she was weak. Many years go by, she found
Speaker 1: her strength to leave my father and later passed in
Speaker 1: ninety seven.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I then took care of my father with his addiction
Speaker 1: because my older brother and younger sister didn't want to
Speaker 1: deal with him.
Speaker 2: I understand that as well.
Speaker 1: Fast forward, my father passed in twenty fifteen. He lived
Speaker 1: a long time after that though, So that's that's something
Speaker 1: to be grateful to God for. By ninety seven, I
Speaker 1: met the man of my dreams. We had two children,
Speaker 1: one boy and one girl. After fourteen years together, we
Speaker 1: were married. Biggest mistake of my life. Damn, after fourteen
Speaker 1: years somethingwha wasn't a mistake. He was so kind and loving.
Speaker 1: Then things changed. He's so disrespectful, y'all. Naya hold on, Wade,
Speaker 1: it stopped. I don't know if this is an error
Speaker 1: or what the fuck this is. I maybe it's something
Speaker 1: going on with this shit, because that that story stopped
Speaker 1: like that too. But then how is somebody how some
Speaker 1: of them getting through and some of them not unless
Speaker 1: all of y'all just not finishing.
Speaker 2: What the fuck is going on? Y'all?
Speaker 1: I can't even give full advice. I don't know what
Speaker 1: she wants. I mean, I know she feels alone. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry about hearing the story about your parents, both your
Speaker 1: mom and your dad. You lost them, and you know
Speaker 1: you definitely was a blessed daughter to have taken care
Speaker 1: of your father after seeing him struggle with such an
Speaker 1: addiction and you know, be physically abusive and mentally abusive
Speaker 1: to your mom. I don't like how you called her
Speaker 1: week though. You know, you just don't know what she
Speaker 1: was going through in that time. She could have been
Speaker 1: battling depression, she could have been you know. And again,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to change how you feel. You because
Speaker 1: you know your mother. You knew your mother more than
Speaker 1: I did or any of us listening. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, But I'm sure if there was something that
Speaker 1: she could have done to not be in that situation,
Speaker 1: I'm sure she would have done it for you and
Speaker 1: your sibling's sake. You also went on to tell me,
Speaker 1: after fourteen years off you and your children's father being together,
Speaker 1: that was a big mistake you married him. Things changed.
Speaker 1: He was disrespectful and mentally and emotionally.
Speaker 2: And verbally abusive.
Speaker 1: So if you can say that your mom was weak
Speaker 1: for taking that abuse from your father, and the same
Speaker 1: breath as you taking the abuse, then what does that
Speaker 1: make you. You wouldn't call yourself a weak woman, right right?
Speaker 1: And you know how they say the apple don't fall
Speaker 1: far from the tree.
Speaker 2: I'm not insulting you.
Speaker 1: I just want you to realize you called your mother weak,
Speaker 1: and you would be upset if I were to call
Speaker 1: you weak. I don't know what your mental stability is like.
Speaker 1: I don't know what your mental health is like. I
Speaker 1: don't know the status of your mental health. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're going through. I do know that you're
Speaker 1: a mom and you have to live for your children.
Speaker 1: You know you have to raise your children. You have
Speaker 1: to be mentally stable enough to raise your children. You
Speaker 1: have to be Okay, it sounds as if you need
Speaker 1: therapy because you started off saying that you're alone. You're
Speaker 1: a forty five year woman and you're alone. You have
Speaker 1: one best friend, you have one friend. This is not
Speaker 1: going to make you feel any better, I suppose. But
Speaker 1: there are people with no friends, no family, no siblings,
Speaker 1: know nothing. You know, so let's look around and see
Speaker 1: what you do have and get some therapy. That's all
Speaker 1: I can tell you right now, because I don't know
Speaker 1: what else your story is. I'm gonna look further into
Speaker 1: what the hell may be going on with Instagram because
Speaker 1: I know all of y'all can't be this like dense
Speaker 1: to keep stopping a goddamn story. And I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: just like, what the fuck is going on? But okay,
Speaker 1: last story and then we are going to end this episode, y'all.
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: So I think I read this one last last week,
Speaker 1: but this guy came back. He said, I have a question.
Speaker 1: Is it bad for a guy my age to still
Speaker 1: be a virgin without choice? I never smoked, dranked, or
Speaker 1: slept with anyone, and I feel embarrassed. I'm twenty seven
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna be forever a virgin. Sadly, I'm
Speaker 1: an in cell. You are fucking what I don't even
Speaker 1: know what that means. And I'm not choosing this because
Speaker 1: I want to. Beautiful women don't want me. You're twenty seven,
Speaker 1: You're a virgin. You're never taking a drug in your life.
Speaker 1: And by that, I mean you said you never smoked,
Speaker 1: you never dranked or anything. You feel embarrassed, Well, what
Speaker 1: else do you tell me more about yourself? This is
Speaker 1: also opening it as well. I mean you you finished it.
Speaker 1: It's just that most guys don't really leave a lot
Speaker 1: of meat on the bone as well. I do want to,
Speaker 1: first and foremost say thank you for even exposing this
Speaker 1: little part for me.
Speaker 2: You know, of your life. I definitely can understand why
Speaker 2: you feel embarrassed.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't be. I mean, twenty seven. That just means
Speaker 1: when you do get some, it's going to be a
Speaker 1: magical moment for you, honey. Like you know, make sure
Speaker 1: because you have held your virginity up to par for
Speaker 1: so long, that you don't just give it away to
Speaker 1: any fucking body.
Speaker 2: I mean, because you have not come this far just
Speaker 2: to go grab some chlamydia, all right, so just make
Speaker 2: sure that it's you know, my sister is like nigger.
Speaker 1: But seriously, shit, you know, it's a lot of men
Speaker 1: out here who got bodies on bodies on bodies, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And I'm pretty sure there is
Speaker 1: a woman out there who could appreciate meeting a twenty
Speaker 1: seven year old virgin because she would be at first,
Speaker 1: you know, and hopefully you meet somebody like Yvonne Orgy.
Speaker 1: You know, she as sexual as her last name. Maybe
Speaker 1: she is or was recently, you know, a virgin up
Speaker 1: until like I think she's in like her mid thirties.
Speaker 1: So it's not unheard of. It's not like it's like
Speaker 1: something that you have to be embarrassed about. But I
Speaker 1: would I would definitely tell me more about yourself. You know,
Speaker 1: what are some things that are fun to you? What
Speaker 1: do you do? You know, I'm going through your page.
Speaker 1: You're you're certainly handsome. I don't understand what do you
Speaker 1: mean by beautiful women don't want me? What the hell
Speaker 1: do you do? That's gonna be hard to say, but
Speaker 1: it's like, are you weird? What the fuck would you
Speaker 1: classify yourself as a I don't know what you mean
Speaker 1: by an inceell does that mean an introvert?
Speaker 2: I mean I could.
Speaker 1: Certainly google it, because only a super duper smart ass
Speaker 1: genius as Nigga who ain't hand section we use a
Speaker 1: word like that.
Speaker 2: If it's a word, maybe it was a mistake.
Speaker 1: Okay, So in cell means members of an online subculture
Speaker 1: who defines themselves as unable to find romantic Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you read books and shit, all right.
Speaker 2: So.
Speaker 1: You're smart obviously you know just by the word that
Speaker 1: you use. I would never be like, hey, I'm an
Speaker 1: insol but that's you're smart. So you need to find
Speaker 1: you another little smarty pants. What do you like to
Speaker 1: do for fun? Please don't tell me you read books.
Speaker 2: In the house.
Speaker 1: I want I need to know more. I need I
Speaker 1: need for you to uh lighten up a little bit.
Speaker 1: I throw some little humor in there for you.
Speaker 2: Do you laugh?
Speaker 1: Do you like comedy? Do you like to do you
Speaker 1: want to take a damn shot? I mean, I know
Speaker 1: you don't smoke. I'm not encouraging anybody to do anything
Speaker 1: that they don't want to do. I mean, because you
Speaker 1: certainly have a choice. You're twenty seven, You're of age.
Speaker 1: You can do any and everything you fucking want. I mean,
Speaker 1: do you travel? Do you what are some of your
Speaker 1: favorite shows? Do you watch TV?
Speaker 2: What do you do? What excites you? You know?
Speaker 1: You know what excites you down there too, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, I don't have you ever watched porn?
Speaker 2: Like? What's up? I don't. I don't know what the fuck?
Speaker 1: But I am here for you, and I as hard
Speaker 1: as that may sound, you know, I think I may
Speaker 1: have feel a little bit too many jokes that cause
Speaker 1: I don't know what you like. I don't know what
Speaker 1: you do. I don't know if you're like allergic to
Speaker 1: laughing or some shit. But listen, we need to get
Speaker 1: you some But we need to get you a great woman,
Speaker 1: a good woman, because, like I said, don't waste the
Speaker 1: virginity on nobody that don't deserve it.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If you've saved yourself, like you said, not by choice,
Speaker 1: but it don't matter by choice or not. You have
Speaker 1: saved yourself obviously, and so a woman that's worthy of
Speaker 1: that is the only woman deserving of it.
Speaker 2: So just put some more meat on the bones for me.
Speaker 1: Let me know what you like, what you don't like
Speaker 1: and let's see, let's see do you even know what
Speaker 1: you don't like?
Speaker 2: You know, I can ask you questions all day because
Speaker 2: you don't know shit.
Speaker 1: But just like that, we've come to the end of
Speaker 1: yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your Girl just hilarious.
Speaker 1: Make sure you tune into Carefully Reckless every Wednesday on
Speaker 1: iHeart under the Black Effect umbrella and in my deepest
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