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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and

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Speaker 1: the Black Effect. Oh shit, be back on the air,

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to you got another carefully reckless episode with

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Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious. So we're gonna jump right in.

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Speaker 1: We got some written passages, y'all. Remember I told y'all

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Speaker 1: people don't be wanting nobody to catch on today voice

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Speaker 1: so we don't have voice notes today. But thank god

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Speaker 1: that I can read the non punctuations and shit. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get it popping.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jess, so I'm gay. Damn hold up. That is

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Speaker 1: not how you start a story. God damn it. I

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Speaker 1: mean I could see if it was June, but how

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Speaker 1: you hey Jess, I'm gay? Like that would oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Usually it's like, hey JS, I'm Chris, or Hey Jess,

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Speaker 1: I'm Courtney.

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Speaker 2: He'll say, hey Jess, I'm gay. Straight off the rippy.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: And I've been talking to this girl for about two months.

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Speaker 1: This will be my first relationship with the girl, and

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Speaker 1: I'm actually falling for her. Never thought I would be

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Speaker 1: in a relationship with a female, but it's going now.

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Speaker 1: We're both pretty popular on social media, and we're both

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Speaker 1: active on social media with pretty popular platforms, so we've

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Speaker 1: been trying to figure out the perfect.

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Speaker 2: Time to pop out. Okay, I understand that we don't

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Speaker 2: want to rush anything.

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Speaker 1: We just want to make sure we're locked in before

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Speaker 1: revealing each other on each other's pages. Nothing wrong with it,

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Speaker 1: I can relate, But girls, tell me why. I wake

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Speaker 1: up yesterday morning, Osha and I see the green circle

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Speaker 1: with her name on it, which means she posted in

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Speaker 1: her close friends. I was really saying, what the fuck

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Speaker 1: that made? I don't know what a green circle is.

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Speaker 1: I don't have no close friends or nothing. All Right,

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Speaker 1: I clicked and it was a picture of us, but

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Speaker 1: my back was turned. So I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: if I should be happy about this or should I

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Speaker 1: question it? Because if this is supposed to be the

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Speaker 1: pop out, why is the PopOut in your close friends?

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Speaker 2: M Okay?

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Speaker 1: It also got me thinking who is in her close

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Speaker 2: And then, girl, I'm such an overthinker.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she took everybody out of her close friends and

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Speaker 1: had me in there by myself, so I can see

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Speaker 1: it like she's looking for a reaction or something. What

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Speaker 1: do you think, Jess, Hmmm, where it could be a

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Speaker 1: couple of things. It could be a couple of things.

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Speaker 1: If you two have well, I want to know, have

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Speaker 1: you two talked about what that looks like for you

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Speaker 1: guys to popping out situation? Have you guys even spoke

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Speaker 1: on it, like and had a real conversation about it,

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Speaker 1: Because I know with me and my man, he's not

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Speaker 1: really big on social media, so he can't relate to

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Speaker 1: this story, but I can. But I'm about to go

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Speaker 1: back and talk about new exos and I lighted, So

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to let y'all let you know this.

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Speaker 1: We still did talk about it, Chris and I we

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Speaker 1: talked about when we were going to post each other,

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Speaker 1: and I bought it up because he wasn't really big

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Speaker 1: on social he's still not big on social media and

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Speaker 1: he's never really cared about it that much to have

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Speaker 1: to do a debut of who his girlfriend is, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. But I actually did go to

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Speaker 1: him and sit down with him and I was like,

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Speaker 2: Is this I think it's time to post you.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we were well passed two months, but not

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Speaker 1: that far in you know, we were just about like

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Speaker 1: six months in or whatever. And the timing doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: It just it just matters if you guys are ready.

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Speaker 1: But like you said earlier in your passage, you wanted

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Speaker 1: to just see if y'all are locked in. Y'all, you

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Speaker 1: want to be completely comfortable with the person before you

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Speaker 1: just parade them to the world, before you let somebody,

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Speaker 1: because the moment you let somebody into your safe space

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Speaker 1: and your relationship is definitely a safe space. You know,

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Speaker 1: You know, nobody can tell the future. Nobody knows that

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Speaker 1: they're going to be with somebody forever, but that's what

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Speaker 1: you plan for, right you know, So without being a

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Speaker 1: fortune teller, you're just able to react off your feelings.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I think your girlfriend might have done

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Speaker 1: you know, shall I say, and you just want to

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Speaker 1: make sure you know, and I have a stand up

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Speaker 1: joke about this, but you want to be careful posting anybody,

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Speaker 1: whether it's girl posing a girl, or a man posting

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Speaker 1: like that's when everything goes to shit when you let

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Speaker 1: people in your business. I guess that's the reason for

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Speaker 1: that you said. You said you're such an overthinker, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's overthinking. She could have removed everybody

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Speaker 1: out of you. What was your reaction, though? Did you

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Speaker 1: hit her up about it? You leaven meet off the posadas?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean you leaving meat off the bones.

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Speaker 1: I need to know what happened. I need an update.

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Speaker 1: I know you're gonna update me because this ain't my

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Speaker 1: first time helping you out, so I'm gonna need an update.

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Speaker 2: But I do want to say maybe she didn't go

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Speaker 1: Because I know y'all have a thousand pictures with each

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Speaker 1: other where she could have posed to want to show

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Speaker 2: But what that have made you upset?

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Speaker 1: If she'd posted your face and then I could see

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Speaker 1: what you're saying when you said, Okay, if it's a

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Speaker 1: pop out, why is any of your close friends? I

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Speaker 1: could see that as well. But are you ready for that?

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Speaker 1: Have you posted her yet? Have you thought about that?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: So it's just a couple of questions that I would

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Speaker 1: don't think it was any harm trying to be done

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Speaker 1: her little mark, you know what I'm saying. I think

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Speaker 1: Also, she one of those females will feel like, well

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Speaker 1: is she one of those people? It is not just girls,

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Speaker 1: trust me, and she one of those people who feel like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I posted you, now, when you're gonna post me?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: Because and I'm not gonna say that's a tip for

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Speaker 1: tad thing, but most of the time, when you show

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Speaker 1: not not too long after you.

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Speaker 1: But I definitely like, I like, I like this story

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Speaker 1: because it's a lot of that going on. It don't

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Speaker 1: matter how old you are, It don't matter how young

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Speaker 2: You just want to be careful. You just you just

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Speaker 1: And whether you have a big platform or not, people

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Speaker 1: I know you don't want nobody come and see you

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Speaker 1: as a woman. So and both of y'all social media's

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you should kind of sit

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Speaker 1: Talk to her and just just let me know. But

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Speaker 1: I'm absolutely proud of you for telling me your business

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Speaker 1: like I tell everybody who sends me in a story.

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Speaker 2: Thank y'all.

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Speaker 1: Thank y'all for trusting me with your information and trusting

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Speaker 1: my life lists, you know, and staying anonymous as well.

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Speaker 2: So check back in with me, baby, If you love me,

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Speaker 2: you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jess, please fix my mess. I've been dating a

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Speaker 1: So that's a little over a year. Backstory. I met

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Speaker 1: him through social media. What is it social media that

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Speaker 1: that's right, supportive queen. He told me he had a

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Speaker 1: During that time span, we continue to communication, but the

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Speaker 1: Now, from the beginning, we implemented the rules of we're

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Speaker 1: only dating each other. Okay, so that means you're only

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Speaker 1: up in our lives, we would tell each other. Okay,

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Speaker 1: with you. Now fast forward to December. We're on a

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Speaker 1: and that's it. Listen, I am so so let me.

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Speaker 1: Let me let me vent real quick to y'all answers.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sick of y'all with these open ended ass stories. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be re in this shit no more.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna change the whole fucking trajectory of carefully reckless

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Speaker 1: if y'all asses cannot send me a whole fucking story,

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Speaker 1: Like why do you guys start and then you stop?

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Speaker 1: This is irritating the shit out of me. This is

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Speaker 1: like the fourth weekend. I'm sorry, my sister, gret my shoulder,

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Speaker 1: Like no, no, no, no, no, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: I'm sick of as shit.

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Speaker 1: This is like the fourth week in a row that

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Speaker 1: these people write these fucking stories and then they stop

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Speaker 1: right there. I always make fun of it, like maybe

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Speaker 1: a nigga walked in the room while you was typing.

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Speaker 2: The shit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sure he ain't staying in the room right now. Shit,

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Speaker 1: you this, if it's a two be continued. You come

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Speaker 1: back and continue, motherfuck girl. Shit, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: the fuck the sound you after that? After you saw

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Speaker 2: What did you do? And was it the baby? Mom?

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Speaker 2: What was it? God damn it.

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Speaker 1: You're you're certainly handsome. I don't understand what do you

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Speaker 1: Do you like comedy? Do you like to do you

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Speaker 1: that they don't want to do. I mean, because you

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Speaker 1: certainly have a choice. You're twenty seven, You're of age.

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Speaker 1: You can do any and everything you fucking want. I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you travel? Do you what are some of your

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Speaker 1: favorite shows? Do you watch TV?

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Speaker 2: What do you do? What excites you? You know?

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Speaker 1: You know what excites you down there too, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, I don't have you ever watched porn?

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Speaker 2: Like? What's up? I don't. I don't know what the fuck?

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Speaker 1: But I am here for you, and I as hard

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Speaker 1: as that may sound, you know, I think I may

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Speaker 1: have feel a little bit too many jokes that cause

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you like. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: you do. I don't know if you're like allergic to

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Speaker 1: laughing or some shit. But listen, we need to get

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Speaker 1: you some But we need to get you a great woman,

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Speaker 1: a good woman, because, like I said, don't waste the

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Speaker 1: virginity on nobody that don't deserve it.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: If you've saved yourself, like you said, not by choice,

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Speaker 1: but it don't matter by choice or not. You have

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Speaker 1: saved yourself obviously, and so a woman that's worthy of

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Speaker 1: that is the only woman deserving of it.

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Speaker 2: So just put some more meat on the bones for me.

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Speaker 1: Let me know what you like, what you don't like

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Speaker 1: and let's see, let's see do you even know what

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Speaker 1: you don't like?

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Speaker 2: You know, I can ask you questions all day because

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Speaker 2: you don't know shit.

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Speaker 1: But just like that, we've come to the end of

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Speaker 1: yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your Girl just hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you tune into Carefully Reckless every Wednesday on

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Speaker 1: Pam voice.

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Speaker 2: Peace.

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