WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Burrito Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date? What counts as dating right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a fair question. Like if you only

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<v Speaker 1>see each other between the hours of three am and

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<v Speaker 1>seven am and you're never sober for that, is that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that dating in that case? And some circles, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>because she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered

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<v Speaker 1>worthy of a second date. Update Okay, she said she

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<v Speaker 1>was hoping that we would do it. Well, we have

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<v Speaker 1>low standards, so I'm sure we will. And she's actually

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<v Speaker 1>lucky that the first four people that we tried calling

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<v Speaker 1>this morning didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you

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<v Speaker 1>are worthy of a second date. Welcome to the show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>resort and Nicole, we look forward to helping you, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start telling

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<v Speaker 1>us what's going on? Nical, who are we trying to

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<v Speaker 1>call today? We're trying to call Evan. I wasn't sure

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<v Speaker 1>if you'd answer because it was actually, um, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that counts more than like a three am hook

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<v Speaker 1>up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned

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<v Speaker 1>out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you meet

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<v Speaker 1>people online just want to build up, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>meet up in person and sometimes it's really awkward, like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't look like their picture and they have no personality,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're you're stuck. Is that why you chose

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<v Speaker 1>to do a virtual date, because you've had such a

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<v Speaker 1>bad run with online dating, or because you can start

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<v Speaker 1>a virtual date with no pants and no one would know.

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<v Speaker 1>It usually makes a date go better even person exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit of both, A little bit of both. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video

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<v Speaker 1>like chatting at all, But it sounds like you can

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<v Speaker 1>talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good.

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<v Speaker 1>She meant that. I think she meant that as a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any nerves just going into a virtual date? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I do have nerves. That was a little nervous because

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<v Speaker 1>he had a really fun date plan. So Evan said

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<v Speaker 1>that we should meet up on online and do a

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<v Speaker 1>virtual burrito date, which I thought was really, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? Sounds messy? No, No, And it wasn't messy

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<v Speaker 1>because his idea is that we would buy three different

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<v Speaker 1>frozen burritos, the same ones, and then we would try

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<v Speaker 1>them together on whom I thought was really cute. But

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's not a bad angle. Well, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the name of it, but it's that orange one

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<v Speaker 1>that let's try and focus on the date and not

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<v Speaker 1>I would have hung up on. How did your frozen

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<v Speaker 1>burrito date go? It was really fun. We both thought

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<v Speaker 1>the bean and cheese was the best. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>greeting system. It was a one to ten like in

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<v Speaker 1>the Olympics, Like we wrote it down and held up

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<v Speaker 1>a little sign so we could both see it scale

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<v Speaker 1>of one to ten. How sexy did Evan look eating burrito?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm saying ten? Okay, the highest right yet? Burrito boy?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so how do you end a burrito date?

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<v Speaker 1>But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah, sprint

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<v Speaker 1>to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does it end? You? Know,

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<v Speaker 1>we just we finished burritos. We're just hanging out and talking.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. We broke the ice and I just

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<v Speaker 1>was told him that I was taking bass guitar lessons,

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<v Speaker 1>which is something really fun. But he asked me to

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<v Speaker 1>play a little bit. So I played a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of my songs. Awkward, Like what did you do? Just

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<v Speaker 1>sit there? He asked for it. Guys gets a slider

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<v Speaker 1>out and like, yeah, the whole thing. You only played

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<v Speaker 1>one song, right, You didn't give him a full concert,

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<v Speaker 1>a full set. I mean I like bits of different songs. See,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking like real songs, not like old McDonald or

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<v Speaker 1>something too. She no, like another one bites his dust

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<v Speaker 1>or like journeys love and touch and squeeze in good stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>That's impressive even if you're not good at it at us.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're worried that it like turned him off. Did

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<v Speaker 1>his mood change or something after you're done with your

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<v Speaker 1>bass plan? I didn't think so. I thought it was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We just kind of like chatted a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>and then it kind of came to its own and

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<v Speaker 1>we said goodbye, and I messaged him about going on

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<v Speaker 1>a real date. Yeah, and he didn't seem as interested

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<v Speaker 1>anymore as before we met, virtually, like he stopped messaging

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<v Speaker 1>me back that much, and I started to think about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like all the things I worry about with

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<v Speaker 1>a with an online date or virtual date. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>do I not look like my picture? And I started

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<v Speaker 1>I asked my my roommates. So I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of faded out. It sounds like you've covered

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of basses there, Nicole. Do you have your

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<v Speaker 1>bass guitar with you right now? It's in the other room,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's it's here. Would do you think maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>could get a sample of your bass guitar playing, just

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<v Speaker 1>so that we know this is research, so that we

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<v Speaker 1>know what we were working with. Uncomfortable people playing music?

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<v Speaker 1>That I mean, I'd have to get my amp and

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<v Speaker 1>get it set up. I could. That's good because we

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<v Speaker 1>actually have to play a song. So we're gonna leave,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back, yeah, and then you can play as

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<v Speaker 1>a song when we do your second date update right

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<v Speaker 1>after this. Okay, all right, second update. You're in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update update. We're gonna find

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<v Speaker 1>out how the couple is doing right after you here

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<v Speaker 1>Part two. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any

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<v Speaker 1>music because we got our own in house band today.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been so excited about thee apart. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>a moment alone. One person. Our listener, Nicole, who we've

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<v Speaker 1>been talking to about her dating life. We're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>to that in just a second. But she's an up

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<v Speaker 1>and coming bass player. Nicole. We asked for a little

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<v Speaker 1>demonstration because you played a little bit of bass on

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<v Speaker 1>your dates. So what are we going to be hearing today?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not telling you. I just started this month another

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<v Speaker 1>one bites the dust. Okay, Okay, before you get I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to introduce you. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the stage for your listening pleasure. Nicole and the finger

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<v Speaker 1>flicks that would give our a second date I think,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, okay flooding, Yeah, all right, now we've

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<v Speaker 1>heard the YouTube version, I'll play it yourself. Also, way

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<v Speaker 1>better than I was expecting you to do after this

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<v Speaker 1>one month of lessons. That was legit. So if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just joining us and you don't know why Nicole played,

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<v Speaker 1>it's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>she played the bass guitar to show him what she's

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<v Speaker 1>been doing, along with tasting some frozen burritos with him.

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<v Speaker 1>But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing

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<v Speaker 1>an in person meet up. So we're gonna call Evan

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what's going on. That is, if you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>die from embarrassment just now, Nicole embarrass you. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just hear you in the background, kind of like laugh,

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<v Speaker 1>moaning or something. I'm still breathing. You're still breathing. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Take a deep breath. Yeah, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dial Evan's phone number try and get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hope that another one doesn't bite the dust.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey' is a seven?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name's Jeff from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to talk with you a little bit about your

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<v Speaker 1>dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested, So would

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<v Speaker 1>you take me up your lift? No? Yeah, it's not us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually somebody that you went on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>who's asked us to call you. Her name is Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so this is a real call. That yes, yea

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<v Speaker 1>dial one to sign up, So what's going on? This

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<v Speaker 1>is called a second date update. And Nicole reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to us because she told us that you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>on a virtual date together, and she's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out in person but she's confused why that isn't

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<v Speaker 1>happening yet. Yeah. Well, uh, to be honest, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think an in person date is going to happen. So

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Okay, Oh that's too bad. I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>seems so fun loving and your date sounded awesome. She

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<v Speaker 1>told us that you like put together what would we

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<v Speaker 1>call it a burrito battle? Yeah, we had burritos and

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<v Speaker 1>it was fun. It was a fun date, don't get

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<v Speaker 1>me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole

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<v Speaker 1>is a liar. Whoa, that's heavy? Well what I found

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<v Speaker 1>out that she lied to me about her age? Oh? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>D Like, I mean, is that much a big deal

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<v Speaker 1>to you? Like? Yeah, how much? She told me she

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<v Speaker 1>was twenty nine, but I found out that she was

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<v Speaker 1>actually thirty? Wait? Year? Are you? Was that a joke? No?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the red flank to me, Like, what a stupid

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<v Speaker 1>thing to lie about, especially by one year? That's true?

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<v Speaker 1>Who cares? It's one year? Well? What does that mean

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<v Speaker 1>to you, Evan, Why is that such a big deal

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<v Speaker 1>that she's one year off? Well, she's lying about that.

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<v Speaker 1>What else could she be lying about it? Just maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she made her profile when she was twenty nine and

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<v Speaker 1>she just never updated it it at on update. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're that concerned about it, Evan, then you should

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<v Speaker 1>have asked her. Yeah, but this was after our date

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<v Speaker 1>and I wasn't gonna just text her about that. You're

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna move on? Well, are you okay if I

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<v Speaker 1>ask her that question? Because Nicole's actually on the line

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<v Speaker 1>and she's been listening this entire time, and I'm happy

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<v Speaker 1>to do that for you. Oh great, So yeah, here

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<v Speaker 1>she is, Nicole. Is it true? Did you lie about

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<v Speaker 1>your age to Evan? Um? I wasn't like lying directly

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<v Speaker 1>to Evan, it's not that big of a deal on

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<v Speaker 1>my dating profile, I said, yeah, I'm twenty nine. It's

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<v Speaker 1>one year. It really bothers you have, ye firm. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just really weird, Like why why one year? Like? I see,

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<v Speaker 1>if you lied by like five years, I almos wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>respect that more old really honestly, Like okay, wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>would be actually more upset if like I met someone

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<v Speaker 1>and they were like forty instead of thirty. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>big difference. This is one year, and I really feel

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<v Speaker 1>weird that I have to explain this, But I was

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<v Speaker 1>on other dating websites and I have found that if

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<v Speaker 1>you say you're in your twenties, you get way more matches.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just a way to just maybe broad

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<v Speaker 1>in the field and they get to meet more people.

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<v Speaker 1>So you were just trying to optimize your matches by

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<v Speaker 1>going down one year. Evan in your twenties, Evan, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think is that a reasonable excuse for you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I buy it, but I don't feel weird

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<v Speaker 1>about it. How old are you, Evan? I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be something like I don't date women

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<v Speaker 1>in their thirties because I'm twenty three, or something like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more if she would have told you she was thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>you would have been cool. Yeah, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>thinks like she's gaming the system a little bit. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that what dating maps are? Four though? Yeah, you obviously

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<v Speaker 1>on your range set that you like twenty year old

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<v Speaker 1>like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know, Evan, I

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<v Speaker 1>ought to say on your profile you said that you

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<v Speaker 1>were athletic and fit for your build and that question,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, you look a little more average

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Wow. First of all, I was sitting down

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<v Speaker 1>for the entirety of the thing. I think I look

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<v Speaker 1>way better standing up. Obviously, Nicole's feelings are a little

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<v Speaker 1>hurt Evan because it just it seems like a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>superficial reason not to call her back. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>if you would have just asked her her age, she

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<v Speaker 1>would have told you. Yeah, I guess so, And I

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<v Speaker 1>except her reasoning to be honest. Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>this is probably good because that's going to bother you

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna not call me back or even talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me about it. It probably is better that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't see each other again. Sounds like he was just

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<v Speaker 1>getting over Wait wait wait, but now that I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>your reasoning, like, I'm into it, let's not give up

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<v Speaker 1>on that. It's just like that. Oh no, you called

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot. The first thing you said about me

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<v Speaker 1>on this call was I'm a liar. No thanks, but

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<v Speaker 1>you did lie. Okay, it's not wrong. Oh man, this

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<v Speaker 1>is like such a little thing. Guys, I know what

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<v Speaker 1>it's like they're already in their first fight and they

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<v Speaker 1>have even met in real life. Yeah. Yeah, she is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks So, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still willing to offer to send you guys out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up to

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<v Speaker 1>this point you were into it. Yeah. I mean maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I I jumped to conclusions too quickly and I probably

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't just asked. But I'm into it. But if she's

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<v Speaker 1>a said get it okay, well, Nicole, he admits that

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<v Speaker 1>he made a mistake, and which is a huge thing

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Like to find a person who could admit

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<v Speaker 1>they were wrong and learn from it, like that is

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<v Speaker 1>a good quality to have. So can we meet in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle here and go out just one more time

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll pay for I can prove that build And

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<v Speaker 1>maybe what would do it is if he's honest with

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<v Speaker 1>you right now and he tells you what he really

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<v Speaker 1>thinks about your bass playing. It was pretty solid for

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<v Speaker 1>someone who live been doing it a month see, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was honest. It wasn't over the top glowing review,

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't horrible. It was like, it's pretty good. I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to hear more. Come on, all right, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>stop yelling me. Fine a second date, Nicole to celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>you want to play a little bit of bass guitar

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<v Speaker 1>on the way out? Yeah, I'm Mike. I don't. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to think it would No, maybe not broken Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, making their glorious return to our show.

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<v Speaker 1>A few months later, we have Evan and Nicole once

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<v Speaker 1>again back to give us an update. Welcome back, guys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hey everybody. Hey, you both still sound friendly, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a good sign. I guess. Want to first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>clear the air. A bit after that second date, the

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<v Speaker 1>infamous second Day aired, I got a lot of pea

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<v Speaker 1>actually for my friends and family who've really about lying

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<v Speaker 1>about being twenty nine on your dating profile. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but um, you know, when when we did the call,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what Evan was gonna say. We got

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone, and yes, he called me a

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<v Speaker 1>liar because I am actually older than what my profile said.

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<v Speaker 1>What I said on my profile, I panicked, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a lot Jason call your a liar on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio. So I went with what he said. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was thirty, but the truth is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not thirty. What the whole thing was based on how

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<v Speaker 1>it was only one year, it didn't really matter. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how old are you? I am thirty four? Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>still not that big, I know, but it is when

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<v Speaker 1>you say, Okay, you're right, I'm thirty and then you

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<v Speaker 1>come back out. Next time we're going to Calle, she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be fifty. Why didn't you come clean and just

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<v Speaker 1>say that to us? Well, I was. I was worried

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<v Speaker 1>that if I know, admitted that I was actually thirty four,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd come off even more. That's right or whatever, because

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<v Speaker 1>he's already really mad at me for being thirty. And Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you take that? Not as bad as I

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<v Speaker 1>did the first time? Weirdly, Oh it was pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 1>He was conditioned at that point. Uh. Well, she opened

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<v Speaker 1>with it, which I appreciated, and uh, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she was on the radio, there was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of pressure, so I totally understood why she did what

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<v Speaker 1>she did. Are you dating an older woman then? Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I am dating a cougar right now. It's nice when

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<v Speaker 1>one of these actually turns out. Congratulations guys, and remember

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<v Speaker 1>you can always email the show. We'll call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who wasn't calling you bad. Broke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning