Speaker 1: Second date, up date? What counts as dating right now?
Speaker 1: I think that's a fair question. Like if you only
Speaker 1: see each other between the hours of three am and
Speaker 1: seven am and you're never sober for that, is that?
Speaker 1: That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating.
Speaker 1: If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is
Speaker 1: that dating in that case? And some circles, I think
Speaker 1: that might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us
Speaker 1: because she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered
Speaker 1: worthy of a second date. Update Okay, she said she
Speaker 1: was hoping that we would do it. Well, we have
Speaker 1: low standards, so I'm sure we will. And she's actually
Speaker 1: lucky that the first four people that we tried calling
Speaker 1: this morning didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you
Speaker 1: are worthy of a second date. Welcome to the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: resort and Nicole, we look forward to helping you, even
Speaker 1: if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay, well
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start telling
Speaker 1: us what's going on? Nical, who are we trying to
Speaker 1: call today? We're trying to call Evan. I wasn't sure
Speaker 1: if you'd answer because it was actually, um, we had
Speaker 1: a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh, I
Speaker 1: think that counts more than like a three am hook
Speaker 1: up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned
Speaker 1: out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date. I
Speaker 1: actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you meet
Speaker 1: people online just want to build up, and then you
Speaker 1: meet up in person and sometimes it's really awkward, like
Speaker 1: you don't look like their picture and they have no personality,
Speaker 1: and then you're you're stuck. Is that why you chose
Speaker 1: to do a virtual date, because you've had such a
Speaker 1: bad run with online dating, or because you can start
Speaker 1: a virtual date with no pants and no one would know.
Speaker 1: It usually makes a date go better even person exactly.
Speaker 1: A little bit of both, A little bit of both. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video
Speaker 1: like chatting at all, But it sounds like you can
Speaker 1: talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good.
Speaker 1: She meant that. I think she meant that as a compliment.
Speaker 1: Is there any nerves just going into a virtual date? No,
Speaker 1: I do have nerves. That was a little nervous because
Speaker 1: he had a really fun date plan. So Evan said
Speaker 1: that we should meet up on online and do a
Speaker 1: virtual burrito date, which I thought was really, what does
Speaker 1: that mean? Sounds messy? No, No, And it wasn't messy
Speaker 1: because his idea is that we would buy three different
Speaker 1: frozen burritos, the same ones, and then we would try
Speaker 1: them together on whom I thought was really cute. But
Speaker 1: I kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not a bad angle. Well, we don't
Speaker 1: know the name of it, but it's that orange one
Speaker 1: that let's try and focus on the date and not
Speaker 1: I would have hung up on. How did your frozen
Speaker 1: burrito date go? It was really fun. We both thought
Speaker 1: the bean and cheese was the best. We had a
Speaker 1: greeting system. It was a one to ten like in
Speaker 1: the Olympics, Like we wrote it down and held up
Speaker 1: a little sign so we could both see it scale
Speaker 1: of one to ten. How sexy did Evan look eating burrito?
Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying ten? Okay, the highest right yet? Burrito boy?
Speaker 1: All right, so how do you end a burrito date?
Speaker 1: But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah, sprint
Speaker 1: to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does it end? You? Know,
Speaker 1: we just we finished burritos. We're just hanging out and talking.
Speaker 1: You know what. We broke the ice and I just
Speaker 1: was told him that I was taking bass guitar lessons,
Speaker 1: which is something really fun. But he asked me to
Speaker 1: play a little bit. So I played a little bit
Speaker 1: of my songs. Awkward, Like what did you do? Just
Speaker 1: sit there? He asked for it. Guys gets a slider
Speaker 1: out and like, yeah, the whole thing. You only played
Speaker 1: one song, right, You didn't give him a full concert,
Speaker 1: a full set. I mean I like bits of different songs. See,
Speaker 1: we're talking like real songs, not like old McDonald or
Speaker 1: something too. She no, like another one bites his dust
Speaker 1: or like journeys love and touch and squeeze in good stuff.
Speaker 1: That's impressive even if you're not good at it at us.
Speaker 1: But you're worried that it like turned him off. Did
Speaker 1: his mood change or something after you're done with your
Speaker 1: bass plan? I didn't think so. I thought it was fun.
Speaker 1: We just kind of like chatted a little bit more
Speaker 1: and then it kind of came to its own and
Speaker 1: we said goodbye, and I messaged him about going on
Speaker 1: a real date. Yeah, and he didn't seem as interested
Speaker 1: anymore as before we met, virtually, like he stopped messaging
Speaker 1: me back that much, and I started to think about,
Speaker 1: you know, like all the things I worry about with
Speaker 1: a with an online date or virtual date. I was like,
Speaker 1: do I not look like my picture? And I started
Speaker 1: I asked my my roommates. So I don't know why
Speaker 1: he's kind of faded out. It sounds like you've covered
Speaker 1: a lot of basses there, Nicole. Do you have your
Speaker 1: bass guitar with you right now? It's in the other room,
Speaker 1: but it's it's here. Would do you think maybe we
Speaker 1: could get a sample of your bass guitar playing, just
Speaker 1: so that we know this is research, so that we
Speaker 1: know what we were working with. Uncomfortable people playing music?
Speaker 1: That I mean, I'd have to get my amp and
Speaker 1: get it set up. I could. That's good because we
Speaker 1: actually have to play a song. So we're gonna leave,
Speaker 1: we'll come back, yeah, and then you can play as
Speaker 1: a song when we do your second date update right
Speaker 1: after this. Okay, all right, second update. You're in the
Speaker 1: middle of a second date update update. We're gonna find
Speaker 1: out how the couple is doing right after you here
Speaker 1: Part two. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any
Speaker 1: music because we got our own in house band today.
Speaker 1: I've never been so excited about thee apart. It's just
Speaker 1: a moment alone. One person. Our listener, Nicole, who we've
Speaker 1: been talking to about her dating life. We're gonna get
Speaker 1: to that in just a second. But she's an up
Speaker 1: and coming bass player. Nicole. We asked for a little
Speaker 1: demonstration because you played a little bit of bass on
Speaker 1: your dates. So what are we going to be hearing today?
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you. I just started this month another
Speaker 1: one bites the dust. Okay, Okay, before you get I'm
Speaker 1: going to introduce you. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to
Speaker 1: the stage for your listening pleasure. Nicole and the finger
Speaker 1: flicks that would give our a second date I think,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay flooding, Yeah, all right, now we've
Speaker 1: heard the YouTube version, I'll play it yourself. Also, way
Speaker 1: better than I was expecting you to do after this
Speaker 1: one month of lessons. That was legit. So if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us and you don't know why Nicole played,
Speaker 1: it's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan,
Speaker 1: she played the bass guitar to show him what she's
Speaker 1: been doing, along with tasting some frozen burritos with him.
Speaker 1: But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing
Speaker 1: an in person meet up. So we're gonna call Evan
Speaker 1: and ask what's going on. That is, if you didn't
Speaker 1: die from embarrassment just now, Nicole embarrass you. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just hear you in the background, kind of like laugh,
Speaker 1: moaning or something. I'm still breathing. You're still breathing. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Take a deep breath. Yeah, we're gonna
Speaker 1: dial Evan's phone number try and get you a second date.
Speaker 1: I just hope that another one doesn't bite the dust.
Speaker 1: But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey' is a seven?
Speaker 1: Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name's Jeff from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're
Speaker 1: hoping to talk with you a little bit about your
Speaker 1: dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested, So would
Speaker 1: you take me up your lift? No? Yeah, it's not us.
Speaker 1: It's actually somebody that you went on a date with
Speaker 1: who's asked us to call you. Her name is Nicole.
Speaker 1: Oh so this is a real call. That yes, yea
Speaker 1: dial one to sign up, So what's going on? This
Speaker 1: is called a second date update. And Nicole reached out
Speaker 1: to us because she told us that you guys went
Speaker 1: on a virtual date together, and she's been trying to
Speaker 1: hang out in person but she's confused why that isn't
Speaker 1: happening yet. Yeah. Well, uh, to be honest, I don't
Speaker 1: think an in person date is going to happen. So
Speaker 1: thank you. Okay, Oh that's too bad. I mean she
Speaker 1: seems so fun loving and your date sounded awesome. She
Speaker 1: told us that you like put together what would we
Speaker 1: call it a burrito battle? Yeah, we had burritos and
Speaker 1: it was fun. It was a fun date, don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole
Speaker 1: is a liar. Whoa, that's heavy? Well what I found
Speaker 1: out that she lied to me about her age? Oh? Oh?
Speaker 1: D Like, I mean, is that much a big deal
Speaker 1: to you? Like? Yeah, how much? She told me she
Speaker 1: was twenty nine, but I found out that she was
Speaker 1: actually thirty? Wait? Year? Are you? Was that a joke? No?
Speaker 1: That's the red flank to me, Like, what a stupid
Speaker 1: thing to lie about, especially by one year? That's true?
Speaker 1: Who cares? It's one year? Well? What does that mean
Speaker 1: to you, Evan, Why is that such a big deal
Speaker 1: that she's one year off? Well, she's lying about that.
Speaker 1: What else could she be lying about it? Just maybe
Speaker 1: she made her profile when she was twenty nine and
Speaker 1: she just never updated it it at on update. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: if you're that concerned about it, Evan, then you should
Speaker 1: have asked her. Yeah, but this was after our date
Speaker 1: and I wasn't gonna just text her about that. You're
Speaker 1: just gonna move on? Well, are you okay if I
Speaker 1: ask her that question? Because Nicole's actually on the line
Speaker 1: and she's been listening this entire time, and I'm happy
Speaker 1: to do that for you. Oh great, So yeah, here
Speaker 1: she is, Nicole. Is it true? Did you lie about
Speaker 1: your age to Evan? Um? I wasn't like lying directly
Speaker 1: to Evan, it's not that big of a deal on
Speaker 1: my dating profile, I said, yeah, I'm twenty nine. It's
Speaker 1: one year. It really bothers you have, ye firm. It's
Speaker 1: just really weird, Like why why one year? Like? I see,
Speaker 1: if you lied by like five years, I almos wouldn't
Speaker 1: respect that more old really honestly, Like okay, wow, I
Speaker 1: would be actually more upset if like I met someone
Speaker 1: and they were like forty instead of thirty. That's a
Speaker 1: big difference. This is one year, and I really feel
Speaker 1: weird that I have to explain this, But I was
Speaker 1: on other dating websites and I have found that if
Speaker 1: you say you're in your twenties, you get way more matches.
Speaker 1: So it was just a way to just maybe broad
Speaker 1: in the field and they get to meet more people.
Speaker 1: So you were just trying to optimize your matches by
Speaker 1: going down one year. Evan in your twenties, Evan, what
Speaker 1: do you think is that a reasonable excuse for you?
Speaker 1: I mean, I buy it, but I don't feel weird
Speaker 1: about it. How old are you, Evan? I thought it
Speaker 1: was going to be something like I don't date women
Speaker 1: in their thirties because I'm twenty three, or something like.
Speaker 1: It's more if she would have told you she was thirty,
Speaker 1: you would have been cool. Yeah, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: thinks like she's gaming the system a little bit. Isn't
Speaker 1: that what dating maps are? Four though? Yeah, you obviously
Speaker 1: on your range set that you like twenty year old
Speaker 1: like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know, Evan, I
Speaker 1: ought to say on your profile you said that you
Speaker 1: were athletic and fit for your build and that question,
Speaker 1: and I don't know, you look a little more average
Speaker 1: to me. Wow. First of all, I was sitting down
Speaker 1: for the entirety of the thing. I think I look
Speaker 1: way better standing up. Obviously, Nicole's feelings are a little
Speaker 1: hurt Evan because it just it seems like a pretty
Speaker 1: superficial reason not to call her back. It sounds like
Speaker 1: if you would have just asked her her age, she
Speaker 1: would have told you. Yeah, I guess so, And I
Speaker 1: except her reasoning to be honest. Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly,
Speaker 1: this is probably good because that's going to bother you
Speaker 1: and you're gonna not call me back or even talk
Speaker 1: to me about it. It probably is better that we
Speaker 1: don't see each other again. Sounds like he was just
Speaker 1: getting over Wait wait wait, but now that I've heard
Speaker 1: your reasoning, like, I'm into it, let's not give up
Speaker 1: on that. It's just like that. Oh no, you called
Speaker 1: me a lot. The first thing you said about me
Speaker 1: on this call was I'm a liar. No thanks, but
Speaker 1: you did lie. Okay, it's not wrong. Oh man, this
Speaker 1: is like such a little thing. Guys, I know what
Speaker 1: it's like they're already in their first fight and they
Speaker 1: have even met in real life. Yeah. Yeah, she is
Speaker 1: kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks So, but
Speaker 1: I'm still willing to offer to send you guys out
Speaker 1: on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up to
Speaker 1: this point you were into it. Yeah. I mean maybe
Speaker 1: I I jumped to conclusions too quickly and I probably
Speaker 1: shouldn't just asked. But I'm into it. But if she's
Speaker 1: a said get it okay, well, Nicole, he admits that
Speaker 1: he made a mistake, and which is a huge thing
Speaker 1: right now, Like to find a person who could admit
Speaker 1: they were wrong and learn from it, like that is
Speaker 1: a good quality to have. So can we meet in
Speaker 1: the middle here and go out just one more time
Speaker 1: and we'll pay for I can prove that build And
Speaker 1: maybe what would do it is if he's honest with
Speaker 1: you right now and he tells you what he really
Speaker 1: thinks about your bass playing. It was pretty solid for
Speaker 1: someone who live been doing it a month see, but
Speaker 1: it was honest. It wasn't over the top glowing review,
Speaker 1: It wasn't horrible. It was like, it's pretty good. I
Speaker 1: would like to hear more. Come on, all right, fine,
Speaker 1: stop yelling me. Fine a second date, Nicole to celebrate
Speaker 1: you want to play a little bit of bass guitar
Speaker 1: on the way out? Yeah, I'm Mike. I don't. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to think it would No, maybe not broken Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning, making their glorious return to our show.
Speaker 1: A few months later, we have Evan and Nicole once
Speaker 1: again back to give us an update. Welcome back, guys. Yeah,
Speaker 1: hey everybody. Hey, you both still sound friendly, which is
Speaker 1: a good sign. I guess. Want to first of all,
Speaker 1: clear the air. A bit after that second date, the
Speaker 1: infamous second Day aired, I got a lot of pea
Speaker 1: actually for my friends and family who've really about lying
Speaker 1: about being twenty nine on your dating profile. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: but um, you know, when when we did the call,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what Evan was gonna say. We got
Speaker 1: him on the phone, and yes, he called me a
Speaker 1: liar because I am actually older than what my profile said.
Speaker 1: What I said on my profile, I panicked, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's a lot Jason call your a liar on
Speaker 1: the radio. So I went with what he said. Yes,
Speaker 1: I thought I was thirty, but the truth is I'm
Speaker 1: not thirty. What the whole thing was based on how
Speaker 1: it was only one year, it didn't really matter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how old are you? I am thirty four? Oh that's
Speaker 1: still not that big, I know, but it is when
Speaker 1: you say, Okay, you're right, I'm thirty and then you
Speaker 1: come back out. Next time we're going to Calle, she's
Speaker 1: gonna be fifty. Why didn't you come clean and just
Speaker 1: say that to us? Well, I was. I was worried
Speaker 1: that if I know, admitted that I was actually thirty four,
Speaker 1: I'd come off even more. That's right or whatever, because
Speaker 1: he's already really mad at me for being thirty. And Evan,
Speaker 1: how did you take that? Not as bad as I
Speaker 1: did the first time? Weirdly, Oh it was pretty bad.
Speaker 1: He was conditioned at that point. Uh. Well, she opened
Speaker 1: with it, which I appreciated, and uh, I get it.
Speaker 1: Like she was on the radio, there was a lot
Speaker 1: of pressure, so I totally understood why she did what
Speaker 1: she did. Are you dating an older woman then? Right now?
Speaker 1: I am dating a cougar right now. It's nice when
Speaker 1: one of these actually turns out. Congratulations guys, and remember
Speaker 1: you can always email the show. We'll call the person
Speaker 1: who wasn't calling you bad. Broke and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: morning