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Speaker 1: Second date, up date? What counts as dating right now?

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Speaker 1: I think that's a fair question. Like if you only

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Speaker 1: That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating.

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Speaker 1: If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is

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Speaker 1: that dating in that case? And some circles, I think

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Speaker 1: that might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us

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Speaker 1: because she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered

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Speaker 1: worthy of a second date. Update Okay, she said she

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Speaker 1: was hoping that we would do it. Well, we have

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Speaker 1: low standards, so I'm sure we will. And she's actually

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Speaker 1: lucky that the first four people that we tried calling

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Speaker 1: this morning didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you

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Speaker 1: are worthy of a second date. Welcome to the show. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: resort and Nicole, we look forward to helping you, even

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Speaker 1: if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay, well

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start telling

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Speaker 1: us what's going on? Nical, who are we trying to

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Speaker 1: if you'd answer because it was actually, um, we had

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Speaker 1: a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: think that counts more than like a three am hook

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Speaker 1: up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned

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Speaker 1: out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date. I

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Speaker 1: actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you meet

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Speaker 1: and then you're you're stuck. Is that why you chose

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Speaker 1: to do a virtual date, because you've had such a

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Speaker 1: a virtual date with no pants and no one would know.

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Speaker 1: It usually makes a date go better even person exactly.

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Speaker 1: A little bit of both, A little bit of both. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video

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Speaker 1: She meant that. I think she meant that as a compliment.

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Speaker 1: Is there any nerves just going into a virtual date? No,

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Speaker 1: I do have nerves. That was a little nervous because

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Speaker 1: he had a really fun date plan. So Evan said

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Speaker 1: virtual burrito date, which I thought was really, what does

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Speaker 1: that mean? Sounds messy? No, No, And it wasn't messy

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Speaker 1: because his idea is that we would buy three different

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Speaker 1: them together on whom I thought was really cute. But

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Speaker 1: I kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.

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Speaker 1: It's not it's not a bad angle. Well, we don't

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Speaker 1: that let's try and focus on the date and not

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Speaker 1: I would have hung up on. How did your frozen

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Speaker 1: burrito date go? It was really fun. We both thought

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Speaker 1: greeting system. It was a one to ten like in

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying ten? Okay, the highest right yet? Burrito boy?

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Speaker 1: All right, so how do you end a burrito date?

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Speaker 1: But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah, sprint

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Speaker 1: middle of a second date update update. We're gonna find

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Speaker 1: Part two. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any

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Speaker 1: it's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan,

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Speaker 1: dial Evan's phone number try and get you a second date.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey' is a seven?

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Speaker 1: Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name's Jeff from

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Speaker 1: the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're

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Speaker 1: hoping to talk with you a little bit about your

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Speaker 1: dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested, So would

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Speaker 1: you take me up your lift? No? Yeah, it's not us.

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Speaker 1: It's actually somebody that you went on a date with

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Speaker 1: Oh so this is a real call. That yes, yea

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Speaker 1: dial one to sign up, So what's going on? This

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Speaker 1: stop yelling me. Fine a second date, Nicole to celebrate

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Speaker 1: I am dating a cougar right now. It's nice when

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Speaker 1: one of these actually turns out. Congratulations guys, and remember

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