Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of the twat Seat.
Speaker 2: Dun Dun Dum, Dun dun dum, Teddy Mellencamp and Damba.
Speaker 3: Judge don't Yes, And today's guest is none other than
Speaker 3: West Wilson from Summerhouse, The Newbie.
Speaker 2: The Newbie who, like, I have a lot of questions
Speaker 2: because I feel like there must have been some like
Speaker 2: off camera conversations that we're missing, and I need to
Speaker 2: dig right in between.
Speaker 4: Him and Ciara, like just between a lot of people.
Speaker 3: To be honest, Well, I need to know if they're
Speaker 3: still together.
Speaker 4: I don't think they are. But they're not together, I
Speaker 4: don't think so. But we need to we need to
Speaker 4: ask them all the things. So let's bring him in.
Speaker 3: West Welcome.
Speaker 1: Hi, guys, how are you good.
Speaker 3: It's so nice to meet you.
Speaker 4: I'm Tamra, never Min, I'm Teddy.
Speaker 1: Great to meet you, guys.
Speaker 3: We're so excited to get to know you.
Speaker 1: Me too. Honestly, this is the first one. This is
Speaker 1: the first podcast where I've been intimidated in a good
Speaker 1: way by my house.
Speaker 4: Because hey, oh we love that. But Why why do
Speaker 4: we intimidate you?
Speaker 1: I just feel like you guys know this stuff better
Speaker 1: than I do. You know, just Bravo World.
Speaker 4: We do we do.
Speaker 2: I mean we've I mean we have gone. I mean,
Speaker 2: granted we are new to Summerhouse. We're the same as you.
Speaker 2: This is our first season.
Speaker 3: Watching Summerhouse, but sixteen years on Bravo.
Speaker 1: So that's awesome. Wow, that's true.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay.
Speaker 3: The first question everybody wants to know, and I think
Speaker 3: we probably know what it is. Yes, are you and
Speaker 3: Sierra's deal together that.
Speaker 1: Will unfold on their reunion in like three weeks.
Speaker 3: I think, oh, okay, Well, if you're not together, I'm
Speaker 3: wondering if your comment it's hard to be exclusive with
Speaker 3: someone you're not having sex with, it's the problem.
Speaker 1: Do you guys hate that or are you okay? I
Speaker 1: feel like actually she was. She has given me more
Speaker 1: support with like that stance than anyone else.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's not because you're a fuck boy.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think so many.
Speaker 3: Come on twenty years.
Speaker 1: Is that I'm young. It feels not that controversial to me.
Speaker 2: To me, this isn't no, it's not It's not a
Speaker 2: problem about having sex versus not having sex exclusivity.
Speaker 4: None of that is really my question.
Speaker 2: My question is there had to have been conversations that
Speaker 2: we aren't seeing because something is missing, because you guys
Speaker 2: seem so connected, you seem like everything like you not
Speaker 2: only seem like you're into each other, but you seem
Speaker 2: like really good friends. So when we like, we're caught up.
Speaker 2: So we're starting off, we just watch your horseback riding date.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so we're in the know of what's going on.
Speaker 2: But on the horse riding date, you guys are talking
Speaker 2: and it's as if this is the first time you've
Speaker 2: had this conversation. But aren't we like twelve weeks into this.
Speaker 1: No, this is like still six weeks. We only filmed
Speaker 1: for like eight weeks.
Speaker 2: Oh oh okay, so how many how many weeks have
Speaker 2: you been sleeping in her bed making.
Speaker 1: Out four weekends? I guess now, I mean, I think
Speaker 1: that part's bizarre too, Like, I in what way I
Speaker 1: mean to be sleeping in the same bed and edging
Speaker 1: for that long? Like, but but it's her hold on.
Speaker 4: You need to help us. What is edging?
Speaker 1: Just? Like? Is that just the tip Google? You're gonna
Speaker 1: have to google edging? Edging is essentially I believe the
Speaker 1: medical term is just like getting each other to almost
Speaker 1: finishing and then waiting.
Speaker 3: Is anything like soaking?
Speaker 1: No different?
Speaker 2: Are you inside or are you just stopping.
Speaker 3: Stopping before an orgasm?
Speaker 1: No? I use that as a metaphor. We're not even
Speaker 1: close to that at this point.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so what.
Speaker 4: Are you doing?
Speaker 1: It's very like seventh grade.
Speaker 3: So dry humping, heavy petting.
Speaker 1: Did you guys try hump in seventh grade? I didn't
Speaker 1: try hump until maybe ninth grade.
Speaker 3: I was a home I'm going to say, hatty old
Speaker 3: lady house. That's awesome, big giant hose. Oh wow, I
Speaker 3: love that so much. Did you did you watch Summerhouse
Speaker 3: before you entered the show?
Speaker 1: No? I didn't even know what it was. I went
Speaker 1: back to watch though before we filmed, obviously, just to
Speaker 1: see what I was kind of getting myself into stereo.
Speaker 1: Not really, I mean, we're being honest, season before this one,
Speaker 1: not a whole lot going on for me. For me, honest,
Speaker 1: I was just kinda like, Oh, he's go hang out
Speaker 1: of the house, get dinner, do whatever. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't really. I also didn't want to go into it,
Speaker 1: like with opinions that I'd formed from TV. I think
Speaker 1: these things are better and you can just kind of
Speaker 1: raw dog it, you know, And so.
Speaker 2: Betweens saying entering raw dogging edging like this podcast is
Speaker 2: solely about wanting to have sex.
Speaker 4: At this point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, we're gonna have and more are gonna come too. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's another one.
Speaker 3: Oh come, oh my god, look it up.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: You have you had the ladies reaching out to you
Speaker 3: and your d ms.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I already said this once and people thought I
Speaker 1: sounded like like too excited about it. But yeah, like
Speaker 1: do she not even do she? Just like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess everything I feel like guys say on the
Speaker 1: internet is like douchey now, but yeah, it's been Yeah
Speaker 1: that there's been a lot of that for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, So when people do slide into your dms, like
Speaker 2: just out of curiosity, because no one, if I'm being honest,
Speaker 2: no one's sliding into my dms unless it's to talk
Speaker 2: shit to me.
Speaker 1: Like no, like I think last night and I think
Speaker 1: I got swerved.
Speaker 4: I don't know what's served.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you pull you did a story that said like
Speaker 1: the was it the twat seat or the twat something
Speaker 1: like the twat seat. I said, what is that question?
Speaker 1: Mark a little emoji, so it was cute and nice red.
Speaker 2: So I you went into my DMS, but you didn't.
Speaker 4: You did the twat seat and then you.
Speaker 2: Did eyes like this, so I thought you were laughing
Speaker 2: that we called ourselves the twatz the twatz seat.
Speaker 1: No, I was inquiring, but to be like humorous, so
Speaker 1: we knew it was like not a serious question.
Speaker 4: Like what know.
Speaker 2: What it would have made me feel better is if
Speaker 2: you would have re shared my my thing that I
Speaker 2: tagged you in, but you didn't, so then you got
Speaker 2: left unswerved.
Speaker 3: Dark damn of crowd.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but now we're learning so much lingo.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm twenty eight again.
Speaker 3: I mean, you're obviously a fan favorite on social media.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 3: Has the reaction surprised you?
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, and like maybe you guys can relate
Speaker 1: to this too. But it's weird just seeing so much
Speaker 1: reaction to just your own personality, Like I've been this
Speaker 1: way forever. I've communicated X y Z way like had
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just is it's strange because all
Speaker 1: I was doing was existing and being myself and so
Speaker 1: many people have opinions and love it, like it, hate it, whatever.
Speaker 1: So I just think the scale to these Bravo shows
Speaker 1: has been a surprise to me. And I'm learning by
Speaker 1: the day how many people you know care about this stuff.
Speaker 1: But being you know, I guess it's all been, for
Speaker 1: the most part, pretty positive. I know that it doesn't
Speaker 1: last forever in these situations.
Speaker 4: So these are two curs. Good luck to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I've I've enjoyed it and like appreciate it,
Speaker 1: but also I know not to get so consumed by
Speaker 1: it because it could all end tomorrow and be horrible.
Speaker 1: And then once you have kind of patterned yourself to
Speaker 1: like care so much, then when it is bad, I
Speaker 1: really you know you're gonna.
Speaker 3: That's a really smart way of looking at it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just trying to stay in the middle and.
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I always tell people that are new to Bravo,
Speaker 3: this is a job. It's not a career. It can end, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: and it's hard to get another show, so joy every
Speaker 3: second of it. How do you how does your family
Speaker 3: react to you being on TV?
Speaker 1: Well, what's funny is I don't know if you guys
Speaker 1: have watched every episode yet, but like I was, I
Speaker 1: was laid off from my job like Christmas before the show,
Speaker 1: and I've been going through the job search process and
Speaker 1: like kind of getting to the point where I was
Speaker 1: just so beat up from you know, getting my hopes
Speaker 1: up from this job not getting it, you know, going
Speaker 1: on calls for two months, and then choosing someone else.
Speaker 3: Like I was discouraging.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it just is very very humbling, And this opportunity
Speaker 1: did come up, and I think because my family was
Speaker 1: ready for me to just get something, going to.
Speaker 4: Get paid, They're like, about you do.
Speaker 1: I think that kind of softened the blow for of
Speaker 1: the whole. Like I don't know whatever TV stipulations there
Speaker 1: could be, but I also it was very clear throughout
Speaker 1: the whole process before I was officially signed on that
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it if I couldn't be
Speaker 1: myself and was very much reassured that's all they needed
Speaker 1: throughout the whole process. So I felt kind of reassured,
Speaker 1: I guess throughout all of it too, And I relayed
Speaker 1: that to my family and they were like, let's do it, so.
Speaker 4: Well, how would your family feel if this?
Speaker 2: I mean, we may say it this season or we
Speaker 2: may not, but if this goes past edging into actual
Speaker 2: full orgasm and sex my.
Speaker 1: Camera, I'm sure my dad would get over it after
Speaker 1: twenty minutes.
Speaker 4: She'd be like.
Speaker 3: I taught you well yeah.
Speaker 1: And then my mom, I don't think she'd love it,
Speaker 1: but I my mom has. She didn't start her career
Speaker 1: as like a sex therapist, but I think she's grown older.
Speaker 1: A lot of women. My mom's in Obja and a
Speaker 1: lot of women have come to her for like sexual help,
Speaker 1: sexual guidance, sexual questions, and I think she's grown into
Speaker 1: kind of a sex shaman role throughout her career.
Speaker 3: And you should have set her up with Lindsay and Carl.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but my family has been relatively open
Speaker 1: in regards to stuff like that, and I don't think
Speaker 1: it would have been a shock. I think my grandparents
Speaker 1: watching and like my friends, that's one thing that I
Speaker 1: don't think my parents would have been okay to be
Speaker 1: totally honest.
Speaker 2: And while we're talking about Carl and Lindsay, I've got
Speaker 2: to say we've been on an emotional roller coaster of
Speaker 2: what I hate to say, team but who side we're
Speaker 2: really seeing? And after last night's episode, I know that
Speaker 2: I've been like, Okay, now I've actually switched.
Speaker 4: I now agree with Lindsay and about what.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm you're Carl right now I am.
Speaker 4: I First, let me tell you why.
Speaker 3: I feel like she comes off a little controlling with
Speaker 3: him and gaslighting, and anytime he says something to her,
Speaker 3: she basically is like, stop yelling at me. Stop yelling
Speaker 3: at me, like almost like soundbites to make the audience
Speaker 3: think he is yelling when he's not.
Speaker 1: Subjectively, Carrel is not aggressive.
Speaker 3: Like I've never seen himmressive.
Speaker 1: I've never seen him aggressive, and if anything, he's maybe
Speaker 1: a little too soft sometimes, and I think kind of
Speaker 1: what Lindsay's issue is, but it goes back and forth.
Speaker 1: I agree where it's like early in the season there's
Speaker 1: going to be heavy team Carl, and now people are
Speaker 1: kind of teams. I'll say, Accusing anyone of relapsing, especially
Speaker 1: someone who you're engaged to, I think is grounds for
Speaker 1: a break up objectively right out of the gate. And
Speaker 1: I think that has kind of been enough of an
Speaker 1: umbrella for everything else to me that I like, don't
Speaker 1: really read as much into it because that was such
Speaker 1: a big deal, I think obviously to Carl, and then
Speaker 1: just watching it back, I thought it was like pretty sad,
Speaker 1: just in like, once you get to know Carl, you
Speaker 1: know how hard he's worked it being sober in his story,
Speaker 1: and I think too falsely pull holes in that is
Speaker 1: so so damned it's not nice.
Speaker 3: I love Lindsay, I know her personally, I love her.
Speaker 3: I just feel like they are obviously clearly not meant
Speaker 3: to be together. She is very, very strong personality, and
Speaker 3: I feel like he's a little bit of a pushover, fully.
Speaker 2: But these are things they knew, so I get I
Speaker 2: agree with you, West, and the fact that, like, yes,
Speaker 2: what she did at the beginning of the season was unfathomable.
Speaker 4: If they would have broken up in that moment.
Speaker 2: Or if they would have continued to say the reason
Speaker 2: I can't be with you is because you are willing
Speaker 2: to poke holes in something that I am so dedicated
Speaker 2: to and it broke my heart and I can't get
Speaker 2: over it. That would make sense, but making it all
Speaker 2: about whether I'm going to work at lover Boy or
Speaker 2: this other non alcoholic beverage company or this, or the
Speaker 2: fact that she can even ask a question at this point,
Speaker 2: and then he's like, you're not soft and kind and love, like,
Speaker 2: it's not resonating with me because I'm like, you know
Speaker 2: who you proposed to?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well Jesse said that, and that was like Jesse's
Speaker 1: big his first kind of like quote card moment when
Speaker 1: it's like early in the morning. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you guys remember this, and Jesse was like, hasn't Lindsay
Speaker 1: always been this way? And Carl's like yeah, and He's
Speaker 1: like me kind of signed up for it.
Speaker 3: Which do you think he just wanted to get married
Speaker 3: and have a family.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was also in the beginning of
Speaker 1: his sobriety, and I think as humans, we all liked
Speaker 1: the things when things are new and scary, and she did.
Speaker 1: She did go out of her way to like support him.
Speaker 1: I mean, not that I'm here to like unpack the
Speaker 1: season before, but I think Danielle when she was super
Speaker 1: had concerns about how quick they're moving. I think that's
Speaker 1: a fair take.
Speaker 2: But I feel like he kind of likes to poke
Speaker 2: and pick to get under her skin because he wants
Speaker 2: to come off as soft and he wants her to
Speaker 2: look like the asshole. So I have the opposite view
Speaker 2: of Tamra and you don't think that she pokes him.
Speaker 2: Of course I think she pokes him, but currently what
Speaker 2: we're watching last night's episode, I didn't think she was
Speaker 2: poking him. I think she was legitimately asking questions.
Speaker 3: I disagree.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do think it would do him well to
Speaker 1: maybe man up and fucking tell her how it is
Speaker 1: sometimes and it's usually it's always like I need softness,
Speaker 1: and that's kind of his route. But also when we
Speaker 1: were talking about early or like how things are playing
Speaker 1: out now, I mean I two things. One, I get
Speaker 1: her wanting him to have a job, a job like
Speaker 1: I just think that's pretty clear. I uh, as someone
Speaker 1: who was raised by a woman who worked hard and
Speaker 1: like had made a great career, like I so admire
Speaker 1: both my parents for being like having independent careers of
Speaker 1: each other and like both working hard, and I just
Speaker 1: have always loved that about my family. And then as
Speaker 1: someone who's also unemployed for a while, being unemployed was
Speaker 1: fun for three days, and then I felt so gross
Speaker 1: and like, yeah, you need something like as human beings,
Speaker 1: I think we need things to wake up and do
Speaker 1: and accomplish, and you can't just wake up and exist.
Speaker 1: It just feels weird. Yeah, and so I don't know
Speaker 1: how he has just been kind of floating around for
Speaker 1: so long. And I get that how long.
Speaker 3: Has it been floating around because this is the first
Speaker 3: season we've watched.
Speaker 1: Uh well, it depends how he's been in and out
Speaker 1: with lover Boy. And I don't know if we count
Speaker 1: that as like a job. No, I mean it is.
Speaker 1: It's just like with Kyle. So I don't know if
Speaker 1: Lindsay counts that as.
Speaker 3: Uh well, if he's making money, it's a job.
Speaker 1: Yeah, very true. I get Lindsay's like urgency to kind
Speaker 1: of try to like light a fire, and I think
Speaker 1: to him, do you think he's lazy not being supportive?
Speaker 1: I don't know if lazy is the word, but I
Speaker 1: just think sometimes like not everything's going to be perfect,
Speaker 1: Like I think sometimes you have to take a shitty
Speaker 1: job to either make connections in that field or to
Speaker 1: learn what you like and don't like in that moment.
Speaker 1: And like I think he's waiting for the like a
Speaker 1: perfect fucking person to show up and be like, have
Speaker 1: this job. It's X amount of money, You're gonna love
Speaker 1: doing it. It'll be easy, and like, don't think if
Speaker 1: you wait for that to comment it's never gonna happen.
Speaker 1: You kind of have to do.
Speaker 3: Do you think he's relying too much on his Bravo
Speaker 3: paycheck and not really thinking like this is just a job,
Speaker 3: not a career, and not focusing on what he needs
Speaker 3: to do is a career.
Speaker 1: Probably because if you can, I can see how anyone
Speaker 1: would like you know, you always.
Speaker 3: Need a backup plan when you have a job on Bravo.
Speaker 2: But also I can see both sides of the fact that,
Speaker 2: like you said, when you didn't have a job, you
Speaker 2: felt you felt shitty, which I do think every person
Speaker 2: reacts differently. I think it depends how you're raised or
Speaker 2: whatever may happen. But what you need from your partner,
Speaker 2: your significant other, your friends, whatever it may be when
Speaker 2: you're in that situation. Like I'm a person that like,
Speaker 2: if I have somebody that's misery loves company with me,
Speaker 2: and it's just like it's okay, you're gonna be fine,
Speaker 2: blah blah blah, I love you.
Speaker 4: It's I don't respond well to it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, then I'm like, okay, well I'm not even gonna
Speaker 2: talk to you about it then, because I need someone
Speaker 2: to help push me and get me out of my
Speaker 2: funk yep.
Speaker 4: And I think that's a core.
Speaker 2: Issue that the two of them just really respond differently
Speaker 2: to any sort of They both get defensive with one
Speaker 2: another because I both think they just fundamentally disagree with
Speaker 2: how you love one another.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the other thing too. I mean, I wish Lindsay
Speaker 1: sometimes could just say sorry and that I She'll do everything,
Speaker 1: but that when like Carl prefaces everything he says with
Speaker 1: like something self deprecating in like apology before it, and
Speaker 1: it's just like they don't even have one like it
Speaker 1: just never it just does not flow together at all.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't even think that we see them edge
Speaker 2: this season. Then Edge the computer is always in the middle.
Speaker 3: It was so funny. It was so funny last night
Speaker 3: when they did like the you guys came home from
Speaker 3: the bar, you like kiss Sierra and then Carl gets
Speaker 3: in and just gets in the bed and over the side,
Speaker 3: and then Kyle tries to launch Amanda three different things.
Speaker 2: I can't say that I've appreciated your conversation relationship with Jesse. Yes,
Speaker 2: it was tough for me to see a cancer cliffhanger
Speaker 2: on the show last night, Like.
Speaker 3: No, I know you can't tell us that I'm like, Okay.
Speaker 4: That was really tough.
Speaker 2: But I would say that like the showing that on
Speaker 2: this show I think is so important, and just how
Speaker 2: how you're able to be such a good friend to him,
Speaker 2: like have How were you able to do that in
Speaker 2: such an authentic way with all the cameras there, with
Speaker 2: your friends struggling.
Speaker 1: I think it's super real when someone who's been laughing
Speaker 1: and joky and smiley for six straight weeks, just I
Speaker 1: can kind of see it in his eyes. Even like
Speaker 1: the hour we're coming home, he was just off and
Speaker 1: we got out of the car and I think I
Speaker 1: just asked him if he was okay, and fucking just
Speaker 1: he was down so bad, and like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just think everything else feels nonexistent when something like
Speaker 1: that happens, and it's not I can't really really, that's
Speaker 1: not something any of us can relate to or that
Speaker 1: I know of, no me, but I think one, I'm
Speaker 1: like a very physical, touchy person in general, so I
Speaker 1: you know, I lead with like hugs, let him like
Speaker 1: fucking put his head on my shoulder, whatever, and then
Speaker 1: I don't know, just reassure what is he thirty thirty
Speaker 1: old man it's like, okay to let it out. I
Speaker 1: think everyone would agree. Just a good cry. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: feel better after.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like Kyle, yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 5: When Page ended him and then he went upstairs and
Speaker 5: looked into the camera and starts crying and then does
Speaker 5: it again in case we didn't catch it the first time.
Speaker 4: I was like, I didn't catch that.
Speaker 3: I didn't catch that. I felt bad for him because
Speaker 3: he felt so frustrated because he's been working his ass
Speaker 3: off for his you know, lover boy, and he just
Speaker 3: I think he's just frustrated.
Speaker 1: I made your.
Speaker 4: Take on all this.
Speaker 1: I did a YouTube channel with one of my best
Speaker 1: friends in twenty nineteen, and even doing that, I resented
Speaker 1: him so much. He resented me for like literally making
Speaker 1: a YouTube panel that was not our job. It was
Speaker 1: not it was just a project. I cannot imagine working
Speaker 1: with in a real company, your wife, Like, I just
Speaker 1: think objectively, you guys work together. I'm sure there are
Speaker 1: times where you're kind of it's just kind of naturally
Speaker 1: you're going to butt heads. It causes extra tension because
Speaker 1: you're two different brains trying to accomplish whatever one thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you both want to succeed, but The difference is
Speaker 2: this is our thing. Both of us one hundred percent
Speaker 2: have the same partnership.
Speaker 4: So we both have it at stake. But if it
Speaker 4: was if.
Speaker 2: I was on Tamor Show or Tamraw was on my right, right,
Speaker 2: right right, I think that power struggle would be exhausting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that for sure. And also I just think I
Speaker 1: I think if she stopped working at lover Boy, got
Speaker 1: a new job and Kyle came to terms with it,
Speaker 1: they'd I think they would love each other one hundred
Speaker 1: times more.
Speaker 3: It's hard to work with I think I worked together
Speaker 3: when he had a gym for ten years and at
Speaker 3: a certain point, I'm like, it's all yours.
Speaker 1: I can't walk with you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's better. Just made our relationship better.
Speaker 1: I just think the resentment in trying to like is
Speaker 1: going to be NonStop, and that's not either of their faults.
Speaker 1: I just think that's then like name of the game
Speaker 1: when you're working for somebody like I don't know.
Speaker 4: Why do you think he won't move to Jersey?
Speaker 2: And why did it upset him more that Page and
Speaker 2: Ciara were frustrated with him than when Amanda was.
Speaker 1: I think he's so used to Amanda kind of complaining
Speaker 1: that it probably doesn't sit as like real as it
Speaker 1: does when his friends do it to do Jersey thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think he just wants to stay. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think she's she just wants to raise a family.
Speaker 1: They'll closer her parents, so like that.
Speaker 4: I think that's a good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fair.
Speaker 4: But how far is it?
Speaker 2: How long would it take him to get into the city, Like,
Speaker 2: couldn't they have an apartment, a small little apartment and
Speaker 2: then forty five minutes?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean obviously depends how deep you go. I think,
Speaker 1: I mean he could do it, and yeah, forty five
Speaker 1: seems accurate. I just think he likes as I mean,
Speaker 1: he likes to go out and like have fun. And
Speaker 1: I think there might be This is an assumption because
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I don't feel this way, but like maybe
Speaker 1: a part of him that feels like his business mantra
Speaker 1: is like a little lost if he goes out into
Speaker 1: the suburbs, like I do think New York City has
Speaker 1: this feeling where like you wake up and there's cabs
Speaker 1: honking and the energy the business guy like it just
Speaker 1: feels like business in New York. And I think he
Speaker 1: would maybe feel like he lost, that he's giving out.
Speaker 1: If he moved to New Jersey.
Speaker 4: He probably would Yeah, well no, he probably wouldn't.
Speaker 2: But I think the fact that he's also struggling with
Speaker 2: the fact that he said that, you know whatever, it
Speaker 2: was one point three million dollar loss or whatever it is.
Speaker 2: I think that, combined with also picking up and moving,
Speaker 2: can feel like a failure, even if if it's not.
Speaker 4: But what are your thoughts on Jesse flirting with Amanda
Speaker 4: on Instagram?
Speaker 1: Amanda's hot? Oh? Actually not? She is hot. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: I never thought anything of it in person. He just
Speaker 1: sometimes Jesse just like there's no plan with anything he's doing.
Speaker 1: I think he just has been commenting like how hot
Speaker 1: she is on all of her Instagram posts.
Speaker 3: Oh god, no, Jesse, he can't do that. She's a married.
Speaker 1: Woman, I know. Yeah. And like they just have a
Speaker 1: little they have like a nice little banter, but Amana
Speaker 1: does with everyone.
Speaker 2: But do you think Amanda and Kyle are gonna last?
Speaker 2: If you were to guess, yeah, I think.
Speaker 1: Off camera it's like feels good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you could.
Speaker 2: When he started to cry at the pool and she
Speaker 2: immediately got out and like was like, oh she could
Speaker 2: see it was like real for a second, and you
Speaker 2: saw her energy shift and I was like, is this stick?
Speaker 4: All this fighting that they're doing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my my parents actually said they thought Kyle and
Speaker 1: Amanda had the most realistic drama on like any TV.
Speaker 1: It's just marriage shit, where like one person doesn't feel
Speaker 1: appreciated by the other and it's kind of back and forth.
Speaker 3: I agree, yeah, just as that is.
Speaker 1: But it obviously seems super dramatic because it's on a show,
Speaker 1: so we're all like judging both of them.
Speaker 3: But I'm sure there's a ton of sweet moments that
Speaker 3: we just don't see.
Speaker 1: But I do think, like I've been told by my
Speaker 1: parents a one hundred times, in marriage is like not
Speaker 1: the easiest thing ever, And so I think reading into
Speaker 1: them fighting and like not getting along as a little dramatic,
Speaker 1: given I don't know any married couples who don't fight,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: So yeah, I agree, But I also wouldn't want my
Speaker 2: husband to go out till four in the morning multiple Like,
Speaker 2: I'm fine if that happens like every couple of months,
Speaker 2: every six but like once a week, like you the
Speaker 2: cameras aren't following you guys out at those clubs yeah that.
Speaker 2: I mean, you can tell that probably because they don't
Speaker 2: have they don't have permits to film, they don't have promits.
Speaker 3: But in a show, who knows if he does that?
Speaker 3: In everyday life, they say he does.
Speaker 4: He does.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he said up to them.
Speaker 1: If he goes out, Kyle fucking goes out. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you that much. But he saw me a couple of times.
Speaker 1: He's like, no summers when I really like have fun
Speaker 1: and I feel like fall, winter, spring, I'm like in
Speaker 1: business mode. But we were.
Speaker 4: We were all till six am last Friday.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Wes, do you consider yourself a blabbermouth?
Speaker 3: Any truth behind that?
Speaker 1: That's a yes, yeah, to like juvenile stuff though, like
Speaker 1: I don't know, well I wouldn't. Do you have the reference?
Speaker 3: Are you are?
Speaker 4: Is your zoom paused or are you having I just
Speaker 4: see that you've.
Speaker 3: Been referred to you. I've just seen that you've been
Speaker 3: referred to as a blabbermouth. Well, so is that just
Speaker 3: moving storyline along? Talking sharing what you've heard?
Speaker 1: No, I just have Okay, I've learned that if I
Speaker 1: talk about sex in any form, it's going to be
Speaker 1: received negatively. Because I was talking about how we weren't
Speaker 1: having sex, so with that and this is not not
Speaker 1: pressuring her. I was just I think, as adults and
Speaker 1: we're dating, that is a three probably conversation piece that
Speaker 1: you have at least in your twenties and thirties. I
Speaker 1: don't know about forties fifties, but.
Speaker 2: If it's that shade look off West, fuck you West.
Speaker 3: I was like, you don't be there soon.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not blabbering when I'm saying that
Speaker 1: we aren't hooking up, Like I just that doesn't feel
Speaker 1: like telling.
Speaker 3: Hey, I appreciate blabber mouth, but by my mouth on
Speaker 3: Bravo is awesome. I'm a I'm a blabber mouth.
Speaker 1: I just felt like I wasn't sharing anything invasive because
Speaker 1: we weren't.
Speaker 4: So like if you were sharing that, you were maybe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see what you're Yeah, either lie about it
Speaker 1: then or say or just be a fucking rock and
Speaker 1: like don't talk to anyone about anything, like, well.
Speaker 3: That's not what you're getting paid for.
Speaker 2: No, you've never been you can have never been in
Speaker 2: a committed or long term relationship. Now that we know
Speaker 2: this is only six weeks and in my head because
Speaker 2: this is episode thirteen, I'm like, this has been thirteen yees.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a long summer.
Speaker 4: Dad, I'm not good at math. West.
Speaker 1: Well take months. Uh no, the last long term committed relationship,
Speaker 1: I was like, twenty are you? Yeah, it's been a minute.
Speaker 1: I'll own it. I wear it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, long term being how long?
Speaker 1: Twelve weeks? I think we dated like a year? Maybe?
Speaker 4: Does that I mean exclusively?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Did you have you pause? Did you ever cheat?
Speaker 1: No? That's what Teddy.
Speaker 3: She just goes there.
Speaker 4: Well his did you see his smile?
Speaker 3: He went like this, like shit, he said, committed for
Speaker 3: a year.
Speaker 1: No, I mean I think part of the reason. Oh
Speaker 1: what do you mean? Yell?
Speaker 3: I was I believe you?
Speaker 2: He goes, Oh my god, she's get a pissed at you?
Speaker 4: Whoever that is?
Speaker 3: So you recently recently did a breakdown of Summerhouse and
Speaker 3: you're on TikTok, which completely ignored Danielle.
Speaker 1: Was that intention saw that? Yeah? That's funnier ship? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Is that intentional?
Speaker 1: No? Those are my boys who I used to work
Speaker 1: with it Bleach Report, and they do like breakdowns like
Speaker 1: that all the time. And uh, I think he just
Speaker 1: uh his name's Brody. I think he just forgot he did.
Speaker 4: But you weren't like, oh, there's also Danielle.
Speaker 1: I called it out in the middle. When I realized
Speaker 1: she wasn't on there, I was like, fuck, Danielle's gonna
Speaker 1: hate this. And then he did it. He did like
Speaker 1: a d circle.
Speaker 2: So well, speaking of d and then we'll get back
Speaker 2: to Danielle with your dumplings video.
Speaker 4: Were you trying to show your ball there? Like a
Speaker 4: double entendre there or what?
Speaker 1: I was hungover set my camera up and I was.
Speaker 4: At your cross region and You're like, no one.
Speaker 1: No, I don't know, nobody will notice. He's like, good
Speaker 1: for the table.
Speaker 3: So I had like my husband, he does the same ship.
Speaker 1: I have the bag there and I'm pulling out like
Speaker 1: Lomain dumplings, dumplings whatever, move the bag and like start
Speaker 1: fucking talking about who knows what? And then I in
Speaker 1: the TikTok didn't review it. I just pressed post, set
Speaker 1: it down eight food for like an hour come back,
Speaker 1: and I was like, why we're freaking out about this video?
Speaker 1: And then one of my friends texted me like a
Speaker 1: screenshot of it and it is so so bad and
Speaker 1: they were like little lemon shorts.
Speaker 4: So I guess we could see a moo knuckle. Yeah,
Speaker 4: oh god, yeah, it's a moosknuckle.
Speaker 2: I think forgot, But then you did another one with Wanton,
Speaker 2: So now I need to know do you prefer dumplings
Speaker 2: or wantons?
Speaker 1: I good the difference, and one of them is like dumpling.
Speaker 1: It's not a batter, but it's like dumplings have egg
Speaker 1: in the coating and wanders don't. But they're like very similar.
Speaker 1: I think I eat technically I eat dumplings more, but
Speaker 1: they're both both great.
Speaker 4: And then Danielle's stuff.
Speaker 2: Why was she crying about when Kyle got upset this
Speaker 2: week and like threw whatever at the garage and then
Speaker 2: but then Danielle was like chatting with Carl so much
Speaker 2: about it, and then she was emotional and crying. I'm like,
Speaker 2: what is happening?
Speaker 3: Why is she so upset?
Speaker 1: I Danielle has said before, I like look up to
Speaker 1: Kyle as a founder of a business, you know, And
Speaker 1: I think in those moments she wants to relate to
Speaker 1: him on a like a business kind of pov.
Speaker 2: And I think that's because she's not actually a CEO
Speaker 2: or whatever it is that she said she was.
Speaker 1: I went to a party for the app so that
Speaker 1: was the thing.
Speaker 4: On camera.
Speaker 1: Off on, oh, it was like a that's I think
Speaker 1: maybe like the next episode. I don't know. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think she just wants to kind of feel like she
Speaker 1: relates to the like business founder, CEO landscape and that's
Speaker 1: why in those situations, it's like she's probably reaching a
Speaker 1: little too far to like relate to Kyle. But I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean she was also with Kyle now
Speaker 1: with Amanda, who knows?
Speaker 3: Yeh, who do you think is the most different off
Speaker 3: camera question?
Speaker 1: Like in our Yeah, someone's pretty The thing about our
Speaker 1: show though, is one it's non stop filming from Friday
Speaker 1: morning to Sunday afternoon. So if you were to be performative,
Speaker 1: I think you'd be so fucking tired and like that
Speaker 1: would be impossible. And then also big cameras go down
Speaker 1: and our house is still rigged with cameras, and that's
Speaker 1: you don't like, you're not really performing in those moments either,
Speaker 1: because it's doesn't feel like you're actually filming. Like when
Speaker 1: we come home from the bars, you're literally drunk entering
Speaker 1: the house that you're staying and you fuck around like
Speaker 1: and go to bed, So do I do feel like
Speaker 1: everyone is portrayed.
Speaker 3: There's nobody that like plays it for the cameras. I mean,
Speaker 3: everybody does. I mean you have to act a little
Speaker 3: camera versus off camera.
Speaker 1: This is tough. I mean we got we got the
Speaker 1: girls to go out a lot more this summer, and
Speaker 1: they it's harder to do not in the house. Maybe
Speaker 1: it because we're all together, but.
Speaker 4: Trying to get your answer.
Speaker 3: Come on.
Speaker 2: You you still haven't given the answer. You're as like
Speaker 2: you're as hard to get an answer out of as
Speaker 2: like Katie Maloney, let's go, buddy, come on, give it
Speaker 2: to us.
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I want this to be a good answer
Speaker 1: that I want to give you. Bullshit, I guess you
Speaker 1: know what, I'll go Carl in the sense, I do
Speaker 1: think he oh it would I would be this way
Speaker 1: too if I was engaged to Lindsay. But I do
Speaker 1: know there were so many times I want to be like,
Speaker 1: you can just call Lindsey a fucking crazy bitch because
Speaker 1: she's acting like one. But everything is like he prefaces
Speaker 1: everything with a little again and self self deprecation are kind.
Speaker 4: Of like passive aggressive, kind.
Speaker 1: Of passive, and I do think it is a little
Speaker 1: bit to protect himself when you know, I think I
Speaker 1: don't know if he knew this date would come, but
Speaker 1: when you're marrying, I.
Speaker 4: Mean clearly he did when he had that sit down
Speaker 4: with his parents.
Speaker 3: I mean, the way they interact. I'm surprised neither one
Speaker 3: of them broke up with each other.
Speaker 1: Well, someone said they were like, imagine if you watched
Speaker 1: this season and then they did get married after.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, do you have any big regrets from the season, Like, shit,
Speaker 3: I wish I wouldn't have done that.
Speaker 1: No, not really, because I was I mean after we
Speaker 1: were done filming, I was like, I felt like I
Speaker 1: was elf the whole time. And so if unless something
Speaker 1: was like incredibly twisted, which it hasn't been, you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't say whatever I said.
Speaker 2: So have you ever been scared the next day when
Speaker 2: you wake up like, oh shoot, I was so drunk
Speaker 2: I did camera or.
Speaker 1: I think a part of the reason I was comfortable
Speaker 1: doing this show is because this will sound like I'm bragging.
Speaker 1: I am kind of when I am fucked up, I
Speaker 1: do not like I stay very level. There are minimal,
Speaker 1: minimal horror stories from when I'm like super wasted, like
Speaker 1: I'll just come home and people be like you brush
Speaker 1: your teeth like watch ESPN.
Speaker 3: God, I wish I was like that.
Speaker 4: I was like, so you are the polar opposite for
Speaker 4: me in camera.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're swappy, drunk assholes. Yes, I have the same
Speaker 3: drunk voice as Kyle.
Speaker 1: Oh, super whiny sounding.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I can't even stand to listen to my top
Speaker 3: self talk.
Speaker 4: And I'm mean that, oh she's me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm are you guys both in la No, I'm a.
Speaker 1: Oh, well okay to me, that's respectfully.
Speaker 3: An hour away or an hour away. Now, you just
Speaker 3: shot your first ever reunion?
Speaker 1: Were nervous?
Speaker 3: How did it go?
Speaker 1: Oh? Awful?
Speaker 3: So you did? I see your pits were sweating?
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, wearing because my pits would sweat too.
Speaker 1: I did like an ivory kind of creamish stream suit.
Speaker 1: Like not great, not great? Yeah, no, pretty horrible. I
Speaker 1: think I I think that my biggest regret. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: that's actually that answers the regret question. The reunion. I
Speaker 1: regret every moment of it. Oh, I just think I
Speaker 1: was like.
Speaker 3: A little activated.
Speaker 1: We're trying to respond to other people instead of just
Speaker 1: like telling my own story, if that makes sense.
Speaker 3: And so you really got into it. You really engaged.
Speaker 1: I'm not built for renions at all.
Speaker 2: I like, I kind of really because it's more prep
Speaker 2: and manufactured, and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I'm not. Like before I did the show,
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, I'm not confrontational. I hope that's okay.
Speaker 1: I just I naturally it like feels like so exhausting
Speaker 1: and scary to like.
Speaker 3: How long did you guys film?
Speaker 1: Dude? From like seven A well, film probably like nine
Speaker 1: am to I think seven pm is a long time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you have to or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got in early and.
Speaker 3: You filmed in New York.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: We ask all of our guests, Shag, Mary, never see again.
Speaker 2: We don't like to say kill or so, so Shag
Speaker 2: I never see again. Your options are Page, Amanda and Sierra.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go Mary Sierra.
Speaker 3: That gives me hope you're still together.
Speaker 4: I know they're not together. I don't feel it, but
Speaker 4: I want them to be. Maybe next summer.
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna have to uh well, hm hmm,
Speaker 1: let's do let's do Shag Amanda in the spirit of Jesse.
Speaker 3: And taking one for the team.
Speaker 1: I guess I'm killing Paige because I do love Craig,
Speaker 1: and I like that, and so in honor of Craig,
Speaker 1: I'm killing Paige, okay.
Speaker 4: Because if he can't have her, no and can Yeah,
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 1: He's the I think he's great.
Speaker 4: From being honest, do you think they're gonna make it?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, when I think about all the relationships on
Speaker 1: this TV show, I'm like, because obviously it's like it
Speaker 1: doesn't it's not beautiful and perfect. And I think about Carl, Lindsay, Kyle, Amanda,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, does it that does? I don't want
Speaker 1: to sign up for any of that. And then I'm like, actually,
Speaker 1: Paige and Craig seem to be pretty flawlessly dating.
Speaker 3: Such a cute couple before I love.
Speaker 1: But they like actually like love each other, and it's
Speaker 1: very evident.
Speaker 3: So who's gonna move where?
Speaker 1: I don't think she's gonna. I think he'd have to
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 3: You'd have to do it.
Speaker 4: He could probably live both places.
Speaker 1: That's what's what, but I wouldn't. I don't know if
Speaker 1: if he's going to propose, I think they'd want to.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna raise a caid in two cities, no.
Speaker 4: Different television shows? Yes you are, guys. I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I would not be as.
Speaker 2: You guys, I guarantee that's what's gonna happen. There's no
Speaker 2: way one of them is gonna quit. Well, you also
Speaker 2: can't do Summer House with babies.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a great creep.
Speaker 4: We're really gonna be I think if.
Speaker 1: Kyle and Amanda had a baby, Kyle would like bring
Speaker 1: the baby to the house.
Speaker 3: And the top of he'd be like hangover. Remember the
Speaker 3: show Hangover. He'd just dropped him to Yeah, drinking and
Speaker 3: go into bars. Oh my god. Now Summerhouse has been
Speaker 3: renewed for season nine. Fun you want to return right
Speaker 3: and have have contracts gone out?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I still have no idea if they want me back
Speaker 1: or not, but I would do it if they liked I'm.
Speaker 3: Sure they do. I have one last question, who's your
Speaker 3: favorite housewife?
Speaker 1: Did you guys see the video I did trying to
Speaker 1: explain housewives?
Speaker 3: No, I need to see it with Where do we
Speaker 3: find it?
Speaker 1: Bravo did it? I'll send it to you guys. Do
Speaker 1: you even watch No, I don't watch any I don't
Speaker 1: know anything about Bravo at all.
Speaker 3: How many housewives have you met? You two are my
Speaker 3: first I think, Oh, okay, then we're your favorite.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah like that.
Speaker 3: Yeahs elimination.
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, you guys have been great and so this
Speaker 1: is a hard like it'd be hard to come for
Speaker 1: this spot, if we're being honest, unless someone else podcast Who.
Speaker 4: Did you do? W'ch what happens live with? That's what
Speaker 4: I'm trying to remember it.
Speaker 1: So it's not like that crazy.
Speaker 2: Oh so you didn't get to meet another Has any
Speaker 2: Bravo person been not that works at the network but
Speaker 2: works on the television show been an asshole.
Speaker 1: To you, I'd be honest. No, not yet. I'm sure the.
Speaker 3: Day will not yet not yet word right there, not yet.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I'm just you know, along for the ride
Speaker 1: and we'll see what happens.
Speaker 2: But well, thank you for joining us. Where do we
Speaker 2: have people watch your balls? I mean TikTok's or whatever.
Speaker 1: My nutsack is just going to be on Instagram at
Speaker 1: Westling Conrad.
Speaker 3: Which I follow right now.
Speaker 1: I have to shout out this because it happens every day.
Speaker 1: There's a tea at the end of my fucking name,
Speaker 1: and people don't know that w.
Speaker 3: St La Oh I know, I kept saying Wes in
Speaker 3: my head. Wes, and then I looked at the rendown.
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's Wes. Why do I keep saying Wes.
Speaker 1: You can say it and it kind of passes by.
Speaker 1: But when someone like I had a cousin wished me
Speaker 1: happy birthday like a year ago, spelled my name wrong,
Speaker 1: and I was like, dude.
Speaker 4: Everyone spells my name wrong. But I thought your name
Speaker 4: was west Weston not even close. Didn't I.
Speaker 2: But didn't I say, didn't Page say? Or somebody at
Speaker 2: the beginning when you first came you said it was like.
Speaker 1: Well, tho, yeah, WESTL. Conrad is my full name, like
Speaker 1: Westling Conrad Wilson. It sounds very.
Speaker 3: Okay, so it is and that is your and that's
Speaker 3: your Instagram handled yeah, oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: All right, well, we can't wait to see you soon.
Speaker 3: And it was great meeting you.
Speaker 1: Ye, great to meet you guys. Thank you for having me.
Speaker 3: And we can't wait to watch the reunion. Don't watch
Speaker 3: to see your sweaty pits.
Speaker 1: I love a.
Speaker 4: Sweaty pity up.
Speaker 3: There's a few guys that Yeah, let's do it all right.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Bye, Wes.