1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Someone's texted, and I agree with this about waiting by 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 1: the phone. You shouldn't you really shouldn't have pictures of 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,239 Speaker 1: other people on your dating profile. Like, I have a 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: few thoughts about about dating profiles. I'd like to share. Yeah, please, 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: I'd like to share. The first thing, Look, you should 6 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: not have pictures of other people on your dating profile. 7 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: They should be pictures of you and only you, Because 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: what if some I mean not everyone who's scrolling through 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: is going to necessarily think that you're the most attractive 10 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: person in the picture. Now some will, of course, but 11 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: you're You're just asking people to look around and see, well, 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: that person's hotter than that whatever. So that's the first 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: thing your eyes on you, it's your dating profile. 14 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 2: Okay. 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: The second thing is if the best picture you have 16 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: of yourself has a toilet or a tampon dispenser, or 17 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: a or a paper towel dispenser behind you, that is 18 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: not the best picture that you have of yourself. People 19 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: I see them all the time on dating apps. They'll 20 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: take it a mere selfie in a public bathroom, there's 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: a toilet behind him. That is that cannot possibly be 22 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: the best picture that you have of yourself. It just 23 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: the whole thing just screams kind of like, I'm just 24 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: looking at the toilet. 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 2: Now, why are you looking at the toilet? Why are 26 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 2: you taking the picture? 27 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 3: There are mirrors everywhere, the lighting could have been biased. 28 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, blurt out or something. 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you the best picture you have of 30 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: yourself is probably not in a public bathroom. 31 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 4: Fact, I think that's fair. The lighting here just is 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 4: different for it. I don't know, you should not be 33 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 4: looking at the toilet though. If I'm in the photo right, why. 34 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 2: Is there a toilet in the phone? 35 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 5: Because the lighting photo so good? Do it look at 36 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 5: Kate A Yeah, well that's true. 37 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: Actually I don't know. Yeah, yeah. Do you have any 38 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: thoughts about your time on the dating apps? 39 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 5: My thoughts on the time, Yeah, I wouldn't post with 40 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 5: my girls because then I feel like we're confusing people. 41 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: And then what if they do about my girls? 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: So you get a wide variety of people looking at 43 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: the dating profiles, so even if they even if you 44 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: might be the hottest to some people, but you're not 45 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: gonna be the hottest to everybody. 46 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 5: And then like if you're the dude, right, let's say 47 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 5: you swipe on my page and you see me with 48 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 5: a bunch of hot girls. Aren't you gonna ask like, 49 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 5: which one are you? Because like you don't know me, 50 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, Right, What an awkward question 51 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 5: to open up with. But you're gonna have to ask 52 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 5: like which one are you? 53 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: Are you the hot one night? Bye bye? 54 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 5: I'm mad. 55 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: You probably shouldn't have pictures with other men or women, 56 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: depending on your gender. And if you have kids in 57 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: the picture, that's wonderful, but you should specify whether they're 58 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: your kids or whether you're you know, an amazing uncle 59 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: or aunt. I think, I think, because that can throw 60 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: people off. 61 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, necessarily, Let's just stick with a nice selfie. 62 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, what is your profile picture? What is it? I 63 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 2: think it's me holding a puppy with a microphone. 64 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 5: Do you know who I am? 65 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 2: It is arms folded, the logo is in the background. 66 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 5: How long have you been my fan? 67 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: Right right? And it's do you know who I am? 68 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: You know it's right there? Exactly, yeah, right exactly. Also, 69 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: don't message to me in your opener that you don't 70 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: listen to the radio, because you obviously do. If your 71 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 1: opener is I don't listen to the radio. I've had 72 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: that a few times, like, I don't listen to the radio. Well, 73 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: how did you know I was on the radio? 74 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 5: Did you think you were on the radio? 75 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: Did you think I was on the radio. 76 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: I've had it happen a few times where I've gone 77 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: on dates and people have been like, well, I don't 78 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: I don't really listen to the radio, and then two 79 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: or three weeks later it's kind of get Taylor Swift tickets, 80 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: but oh so my crappy medium gets you access to 81 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: what you need. 82 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: Oh that's funny. Yeah, Oh that's funny. 83 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 5: You're your radio. 84 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, me tickets. 85 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 3: Huh, why you talking about me on the radio? I 86 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 3: thought you didn't listen exactly. That's my other favorite one. 87 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 3: Don't I don't listen to your stupid show. But yet 88 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: somehow they can quote things that I've said verbato. 89 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 5: Yes, you don't even remember what you said. 90 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: And then apparently somehow people are sending people. That's another 91 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: one I've heard lately. I got a clip from your show. 92 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: Oh so we got people out here audio editing, Yeah, 93 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: we got people out of here. Oh I didn't realize 94 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: everyone had an Adobe audition and pro tools on their 95 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: computer and they're just they're they're streaming us live and 96 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: cutting out pieces and sending you MP three clips. 97 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 3: Come on, yeah, I mean you've been on the dating 98 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: apps before, Kitlyn. 99 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 2: Do you have any thoughts, any places that people go wrong? 100 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 6: You know, I don't do the apps. Well, I've never 101 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 6: gone out on a date from them. 102 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: But like, what what have you seen on the app 103 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 2: where you're like, oh. 104 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 5: If I opened it, I would know. 105 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think. 106 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 6: I mean obviously, like I'm not like a big hunting. 107 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: Gal so or like holding a fish. A lot of 108 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: men like to hold a fish. 109 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, sure, yeah, I mean I think that if you're 110 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 6: still doing that, it's like so talked about that, it's 111 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 6: like you're doing it on purpose, because I feel like 112 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 6: everyone says that I wouldn't be down for like a 113 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 6: hunting photo. I don't think I have seen like a 114 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 6: cute girl and been like, is that your sister? 115 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 5: Is that your ex? 116 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 6: You know, the way you're holding each other, it's not 117 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 6: giving sister. 118 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: I will say, though, what's interesting is if I'm out 119 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: in public with a hot girl like like Kaitlin, we're 120 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: not together, but if I'm out in public with you 121 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: I immediately look better. 122 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: So I can see why you might. 123 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: I can see how that I guess that could translate 124 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: to a picture and the dating apps. But I also, 125 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: I don't know, there's something about being out in person 126 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: where you can also read that the energy between the 127 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: two people to know that like, oh, that's his friend, 128 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: that's his sister, that's his you know what I mean? 129 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: Because like again, if I see a dude in a 130 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: picture with you, I'm assuming it's not your boyfriend or 131 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend. But I guess it's like, well, who 132 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: is that and why do I have a look at 133 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: a guy? 134 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that kind of thing. 135 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, But at the same time, I have benefited from 136 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: going out with attractive women, Like I have married friends 137 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: who are very good looking women, Marley, you know, people 138 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: I go out with them, I get more attention from 139 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: women because it's like, well, she's hanging out with them, 140 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: and she's good looking, and they don't have and they 141 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: don't necessarily have to know she's married either. They could 142 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: just be like because I think I think men and 143 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: women tend to get a little competitive too. It's like, 144 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: not only have I stepped up my game by being 145 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: with an attractive person, but it's like, oh, well, I'm 146 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: going to get his attention because she has his attention. 147 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 6: It's like a silent co sign. I feel like it's 148 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 6: like a beautiful, well dressed woman. I feel like it's like, Okay, 149 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 6: well you know you are friends with him. You're saying 150 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 6: he's a good guy in some way. I think I 151 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 6: would look at it that way. 152 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 1: But if I post a picture with a bunch of dudes, 153 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: I'm asking for someone to find. You know, inevitably someone 154 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 1: I think is attractive to find someone else in that 155 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: picture more attractive. 156 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 5: But wouldn't you argue then it's just not your person. 157 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: Well yeah, you know, yeah, But I mean, why you 158 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: even tempt anybody on my Why am I advertising for 159 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: other men on my profile? 160 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 5: Don't put me on your profile? 161 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 4: Like if we're friends and we're don't put my our 162 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 4: group photo on your profile, just because I don't need 163 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 4: anybody that i'm talking to a dating to be on 164 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 4: the app or whatever and they get the wrong impression 165 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 4: like kiky, I saw you, No you didn't, that was 166 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 4: let me take it. 167 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 5: Let's appear on mind because he might be there's a. 168 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: Picture of you and I'm making out on my dating Pross, 169 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: I'll take that down. Sorry, yeah, my bad. I mix 170 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: it up.