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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.

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Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your

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Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey

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Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and

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Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in

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Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or

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Speaker 1: scripted as well.

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Speaker 2: So you know, listen, we have.

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Speaker 1: To talk about what's been going on in the world

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Speaker 1: of reality television.

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Speaker 2: So rain drops.

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Speaker 1: As you know, every Monday night, we have a new

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Speaker 1: segment called Shots Topics.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Claudia, did you have your shot?

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Speaker 3: I can go get one, go get a baby snatched,

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Speaker 3: But when you're my date on Monday, it's up a shot.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So nothing happy.

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Speaker 4: I sure do?

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Speaker 5: Brown and Ready and Carlos got that. You don't even

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Speaker 5: have your shot. You just got that whatever ginger root extract?

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Speaker 4: What is it? It's kind of extract?

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Speaker 6: What cool?

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Speaker 4: What is it?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 4: You ready?

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Speaker 2: Dustin?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, it's ginger apple limit and cayenne damn.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you're trying to do like this. That's what that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got things to do, Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 3: Think any more like that.

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Speaker 7: I'm not really It's not fun drinking unless you're it's

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Speaker 7: going to end in a happy ending.

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Speaker 3: To me. I like the drinker. I'm about to get some.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mmm, Dustin, are you like that too?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't like drunk sex. I want to remember.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 5: I don't remember what it felt like when everything looked like,

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Speaker 5: what was dark, what was light?

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Speaker 4: What was big? So I want to remember broa, the

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Speaker 4: you know the details, the markers. I can be. I

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Speaker 4: can smoke and have sex, but I don't really like

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Speaker 4: being drunk.

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Speaker 2: Do you smoke during sets?

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Speaker 5: No, he smoked before. Somebody you're trying to kill me,

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Speaker 5: burning me smoke.

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Speaker 1: Because for some reasons, that's I can see you doing

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Speaker 1: this in the in the middle of it, taking a break, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Blowing on it. I see them in their face.

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Speaker 8: I definitely see that. Ye take that smoke, take a

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Speaker 8: little break, you know. But no, I need hands free,

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Speaker 8: so I can't be smoke.

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Speaker 3: Well, you drinking smoke, We don't really see you. I

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Speaker 3: didn't really see you faded.

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Speaker 2: Oh you drink or smoke?

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Speaker 3: Nothing at all.

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Speaker 1: Huh No, I just have I have a lot of

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Speaker 1: energy and stamina.

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Speaker 2: Because I work on a lot so and I know

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Speaker 2: how to lift lift, you know, I know how.

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Speaker 3: We just went in there like that. I know that

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Speaker 3: you sometimes you have to.

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Speaker 1: Like go in You gotta like assess the situation, you know,

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Speaker 1: you gotta like nothing gets it.

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Speaker 5: I do and hopefully I get it tonight at all?

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Speaker 3: Do you have someone best over?

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Speaker 4: I have someone? What am I dating somebody? Nah? I'm single?

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Speaker 3: Me too?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Three?

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Speaker 3: Oh we're all single.

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Speaker 4: We're all single? Yeah, child, yeah, think.

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Speaker 3: So Carlos talking.

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Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's do our shop topics already, yes,

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Speaker 1: top number one chairs, water.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's go, all right, let's go all right. So

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Speaker 1: first things first, okay, breaking news. The biggest topic of

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Speaker 1: a couple in recent months has been loving hip hop

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Speaker 1: Atlanta Us I mean DC and Yandy.

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Speaker 2: If you watch my.

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Speaker 1: Interview with the Kirkim Rashida, it was the first time

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Speaker 1: mean DC had an open marriage because Kirki Rasheda alluded

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Speaker 1: to it in my interview That interview made its way

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Speaker 1: every Tuesday, and with DC feels like Kirk keeps talking

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Speaker 1: about his penis and he doesn't understand why a man

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Speaker 1: mills started to arise in the sense of does Yandy

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Speaker 1: and me and DC have an open marriage? After that,

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Speaker 1: Yandy's former best friend who I also think Dustin was

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Speaker 5: If I'm not mistaken or some thing, there was some

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Speaker 5: other professional relationship as well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so Yandy's best friend and somebody who worked for

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Speaker 1: that she was seeing. That conversation and topic also made

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Speaker 1: his way onto Love and Hip hop Alanta. That scaring

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Speaker 1: the season. I mean, DC and Yandy had a sit

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Speaker 1: down conversation. In this conversation, Yandy revealed that she had

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Speaker 1: an emotional affair. What has been rumor based on Yandy's

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Speaker 1: topic of discuss I would love to get y'all thoughts

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Speaker 1: on it. You've been following the story, Dustin, what are

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on Yandy's saying that she had an emotional affair,

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Speaker 1: although her friend is saying something differently.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad she was halfway honest.

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Speaker 5: I think Yandy told just enough of the truth to

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Speaker 5: be able to say she took accountability in whatever way

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Speaker 5: she felt was necessary. I'm more focused on the fact

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Speaker 5: that the friend told in the first place. To me,

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you can call me old school or whatever,

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Speaker 5: but if we friends and we keep secrets, then I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna keep the secrets even after we fall out. And

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Speaker 5: I don't like it when people have a disagreement, usually

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Speaker 5: something that could be solved easily through communication, and then

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Speaker 5: they want to start running all the things that they

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Speaker 5: kept secret during the whatever time things was good.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: If I was Ma in DC's I would have an

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Speaker 5: issue to take umbrage with that, because you wasn't saying

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Speaker 5: shit until she pitched you off. You were okay with

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Speaker 5: her being deceitful behind my back. So I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That's just what I felt about it. It was a

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Speaker 5: I also think it's a note that Yandy quote unquote

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Speaker 5: help men DC's down. While he did that bit right,

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Speaker 5: she stayed loyal, stayed married to him, kept the businesses running,

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Speaker 5: kept the family together. And so there's a part of

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Speaker 5: me that feels like he should have some reverence and

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Speaker 5: respect for that, in addition to the natural respect that

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Speaker 5: you should have if you're in a marriage, whether it's

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Speaker 5: legal or not. So I don't know, my boy. Men

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Speaker 5: DC's kind of dropped the ball on this one. And Yandy,

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Speaker 5: if she cheated, she was wrong too. But yeah, that's

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Speaker 5: where I'm at with a Claudia what you think I.

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Speaker 7: Feel you on that, especially when the way she did

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Speaker 7: hold him down, It's almost like not that she should

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Speaker 7: get a past, but a little more grace because she

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Speaker 7: had the weight of the world on her shoulders while

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Speaker 7: he was in prison. She held it down with much criticism,

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Speaker 7: and that's when there was lots of drama, love and

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Speaker 7: hip hop. She was left holding the bag, like just

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Speaker 7: having to handle everything, and she did. And I mean

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Speaker 7: maybe she who knows what other baggages they have it

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Speaker 7: to you? I mean, you never hear ye any putting

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Speaker 7: him on blasts, you know, and I'm sure that there's

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Speaker 7: been things in their relationship that probably weren't flattering to him,

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Speaker 7: the friend as far as the front that I'm right

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Speaker 7: with you with that bullshit like mad day now you

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Speaker 7: want to tell the world. It kind of makes it

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Speaker 7: difficult for people that have a lot more to lose, celebrities,

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Speaker 7: realities to befriend and have friends that are outside the business,

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Speaker 7: because like it's a little bit unyoked.

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Speaker 3: Yes that's not the word, but you're not equally yoked,

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Speaker 3: if you know it.

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Speaker 7: If this goes left, I'm the one who has everything

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Speaker 7: to lose, and nobody knows you you have everything to

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Speaker 3: And then it's like, are you putting extra on it

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Speaker 3: because you know it could hurt you.

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Speaker 7: I had someone that was close to me that was

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Speaker 7: angry about something and the first the first threat.

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Speaker 3: Was I'll expose you to the blogs. And I said, well,

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Speaker 3: expose what?

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Speaker 7: And it became like a whatever, Like I can make

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Speaker 3: I have access to your life.

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Speaker 7: You know, when someone has access to your life, it

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Speaker 7: gives it a lot of credibility when they say something.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 7: I had a friend that I was really closer before

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Speaker 7: that did this to me? Said first paulmy, you get

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Speaker 7: blaked for everything I do. And then when when mad

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Speaker 7: because we don't really know how much of it is

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Speaker 7: because of mad Day and an exaggeration, and how much

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Speaker 7: is action too you. I don't really you feel like

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Speaker 7: you can trust those kind of sources to be really accurate.

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Speaker 7: They could put ten on twenty. Maybe it was an

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Speaker 7: emotional affair, but the person's like, well, what if that,

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna say she was like he was clapping cheeks

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Speaker 7: because why were they not believe me? I was right there?

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Speaker 7: And I think that's about even if she was. You know,

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Speaker 7: we got to be able to trust the people that

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Speaker 7: we have around us, and that should transcend when you're

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Speaker 7: mad at me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I agree with that. I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: So listen, just to clear the air based on people

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Speaker 1: wandering the validity of Yandy Emma DC's marriage. So, Yandy

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Speaker 1: im DC did get mad married on television.

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Speaker 2: They signed papers.

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Speaker 1: What Yandy later revealed was that that was pretty much

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Speaker 1: a TV wedding and she did not submit the marriage certificate. However,

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Speaker 1: what happened was after he was released from prison twenty twenty,

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Speaker 1: they are now legally married, although a lot of people,

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Speaker 1: including Rasheeda, are even questioning whether or not their marriage

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Speaker 1: even today is still legal now. One thing that men

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Speaker 1: DC and Yandy did talk about in the episode was the.

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Speaker 2: Fact that I mean d D has been.

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Speaker 1: Revealed that he has been entertaining women the DMS per audio.

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Speaker 2: They talked about you heard me, I've heard you.

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Speaker 1: This is what the married couple were saying to each other,

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Speaker 1: and that was the reason why Yandy said she had

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Speaker 1: this emotional Now, within this emotional affair, there weren't any

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Speaker 1: details whether, like Claudia said, was it intimate, was penetration involved?

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Speaker 1: Wasn't it just conversations? Was it just somebody that they

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Speaker 1: could talk to? What I have been told and I

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Speaker 1: would love to get your thoughts on it, Claudia and Dustin.

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Speaker 2: I'll start with you first.

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Speaker 1: Claudia, I've always been told that when a woman has

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Speaker 1: an emotional affair, it's worse than physical because for a woman,

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Speaker 1: when a woman is emotionally invested in another man, oh baby,

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Speaker 1: forget about the husband. She wants this man, Claudia, what

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Speaker 1: do you have to say about that?

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Speaker 7: It's true, we're not wired the same. Like a man

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Speaker 7: could be totally detached from the person he's having an

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Speaker 4: Like either way, you.

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Speaker 4: All that, I sometimes I think.

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Speaker 4: Fuck that, you just as wrong. You might as well

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Speaker 2: It's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Once you have an emotional correction, you start thinking about

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Speaker 4: Believe, I ain't going to think about it too long.

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Speaker 7: If I was a betting woman, which I am a

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Speaker 7: he was not.

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Speaker 3: Willing to do for you what she was willing to

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Speaker 7: He could have lied it because he knows the cameras

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Speaker 3: And I think she and and think about it. We're

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Speaker 7: She got to live it, and then she got to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, listen, a lot of men aren't Pat

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Speaker 1: It's when I've watched the scene between Yany and DC.

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Speaker 1: That scene between in DC and Yandy was very different

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Speaker 1: I think, Claudia, you're right and dusn't you're right too.

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Speaker 4: In the sense of.

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Speaker 1: Some My opinion based on watching it is something is

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Speaker 2: It's not easy.

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Speaker 1: It's not easy, but there's some work that needs to

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Speaker 1: Because I don't see chemistry between them anymore. You listen,

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Speaker 1: When you look at them today, they have chemistry. You

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Speaker 2: Claudia, I have a legal note, Claudia.

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Speaker 7: Whatever you're gonna say, I think the jobs know what

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Speaker 2: Okay, we thank you. Okay, so.

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Speaker 1: Wo shout out to Sunny hostage.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I loved Okay. Anyways, Claudia, be nice.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna just speak with my eyes when you talk.

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Speaker 7: Go ahead, tell a story.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So, Mia who was married to Gordon and was

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Speaker 6: Name Ink.

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Speaker 1: The Ink dried up and Mia has moved on with

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Speaker 2: They're on both together, they are dating, doing a lot

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Speaker 2: mind right.

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Speaker 1: So when it comes to Mia dating Bobby Dallatino, Dustin,

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Speaker 2: Were you surprised? Is this on brand for Mia? What

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Speaker 5: Well, of the three relationships that I've seen here have

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Speaker 5: Mia b Duckan, you know what I'm saying, I think

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Speaker 5: They in the discovery phase right now. You know what

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Speaker 4: And that's it.

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Speaker 5: Mia is doing what she did the last time in

443
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Speaker 5: her relationship with Ink, making it seem like it's so

444
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 5: much more intense and serious than what it is. And

445
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Speaker 5: then in the next van she'll cite the fact that

446
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Speaker 5: in the first picture she tagged of them, she said

447
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 5: were just having fun. So she'll say, oh, I just

448
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 5: said were just having fun and then put a thousand

449
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 5: on twenty. As we move forward with all of this,

450
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 5: Bobbie Valentino just happy to be there because this is

451
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 5: good press for him for once. So you know, that's

452
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Speaker 5: just what they're doing. But shout out to me. I

453
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Speaker 5: hope she's having fun. I hope she's having a good time.

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Speaker 2: All right, So let's get off to loving match.

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Speaker 9: Bill smart Man, Hey, R Claudia, what are you.

456
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Speaker 3: Said? Legal? What what about Claudia? It's the legal note.

457
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Speaker 2: Listen, don't say anything disparaging.

458
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Speaker 7: Okay, oh everything so expressions and I think Dustin should

459
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Speaker 7: translate for me.

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Speaker 10: Okay, he translates, Yeah, ok.

461
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Speaker 2: What do you have to say, sir?

462
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 3: We can't legal.

463
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 4: Blow down and boats? It is below deck?

464
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Speaker 7: This that below deck a loot banger. I don't know

465
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 7: Titanic ship's going down.

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Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.

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Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show.

468
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Speaker 3: You know what. I'm cool with Bobby lost of my

469
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 3: song we want to video met him and Benzino.

470
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 5: An Anonymous one of my favorite songs. I love Anonymous

471
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Speaker 5: by Bobby Valentino. That's my shit.

472
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 3: He makes dope music.

473
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Speaker 7: It's just this thing just came out of nowhere, and

474
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Speaker 7: I just feel like it feels.

475
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Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I don't know mea like that.

476
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 3: I just know that dustin a piggyback off of you.

477
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Speaker 7: I'm glad Bobby Valentino is getting some good press because

478
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 7: he hasn't had a good press in a really long time.

479
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 7: Like the last stories we've heard were, you know, running

480
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 7: from people, owing money and stuff like that. And he

481
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 7: does look they actually I kinda say this, thank you

482
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 7: rain drops. They're like they cracking up. They do look

483
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 7: really happy together. They do look happy together. I mean

484
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 7: don't know what the nature is. I mean, I really

485
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 7: happy with some on my best dies as well, you

486
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. But they do look hap together.

487
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 7: She's glowing, she got full on professional glam done. He's

488
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 7: happy as hell. He's really not aging. So hey, if

489
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 7: they love it, they.

490
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Speaker 3: Like it, then I love it. Oh bit, I love that.

491
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 7: For that, maybe they can get on the line of

492
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 7: housewives or I don't know, loving hip hop or or

493
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 7: zeus zeus Bobby, I love you, per That's all I

494
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 7: have to say, right, Okay, Well that that that sums

495
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Speaker 7: up shot topic.

496
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Speaker 2: So I do want to get into Columbia.

497
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Speaker 4: Do you like that?

498
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: Kwami dot pamo sweat and.

499
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 3: I got the sweat like me. I got Bobby Valentino sweat.

500
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I working hard?

501
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 5: Me as tall, working hard. That's like doing an inkind

502
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 5: press every time. You know what I'm saying? Every time?

503
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 3: How tall is Mia? I've never been around mat her.

504
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 2: I'm five nine. Don't shavee me? A'll me is taller

505
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 2: than me? Don't do it?

506
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 7: Okay, see five said she's tall, So she's over. She's

507
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 7: at least five nine?

508
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 2: Oh she me is like five ten, five eleven. Wow, Okay,

509
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 2: me as tall? I met a person as me as

510
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 2: a stallion, and Bobby is not.

511
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 3: So you're saying me is a stallion and Bobby's a

512
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 3: Shetland pony. Me as a little pony, a Shetland pony,

513
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 3: the little ones. Okay, so I said a little pony,

514
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 3: my little pony. You think Bobby's good in bed? Do

515
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 3: you guys get good, big big dick energy from him?

516
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 2: I don't look at him that way.

517
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 5: I have no I wouldn't even want to be looking at.

518
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: I don't.

519
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 5: I did not, haven't given I'll tell you my celebrity

520
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 5: crush offline. It's yeah, god, yeah, yeah, first initials, k.

521
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 4: Damn okay, that is.

522
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 3: The damn okay first initial okay?

523
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 4: Uh huh?

524
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 3: Well sport or.

525
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 2: With TV no script it.

526
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 4: First name? I know, I know exactly who it is.

527
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 2: Okay wait wait wait said.

528
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 4: The first name is shorter in length than the last name.

529
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: Right, Oh okay, like doctors really dispected to you?

530
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 4: Hold on and.

531
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Speaker 3: The kofe? He fine, I got a picture with him.

532
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 3: He's fine. Kevin Hart? You like him? You do like him?

533
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 4: Sure?

534
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 3: Don't you?

535
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 4: And you like to laugh? Is it? Kevin hurt?

536
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 3: Kevin Rich, Pat Williams coffee brown with a k?

537
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 6: Oh?

538
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 4: Okay?

539
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, Why am I not in this?

540
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 2: Don't say skitty?

541
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Speaker 7: You know listen, you have something, you have something that

542
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 7: Why am I not getting the message?

543
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 4: Where?

544
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 3: Oh be fine, that's got your usual type.

545
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: You said, what I know, I'm trying something new.

546
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Speaker 4: He's fine.

547
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Speaker 3: I would definitely first the ball. Wait wait, wait, first

548
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 3: of the ball.

549
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 5: Wait wait wait, do y'all think I am you look

550
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 5: taller in person? Oh, Carlos, you look taller than your

551
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 5: professed type in person?

552
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

553
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 3: They say, Bobby is five three that's what Google says.

554
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, I want to move on Bobby, Miss Juicy

555
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: eighty five three?

556
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 3: Bobby, what do y'all tell you think? How all do

557
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 3: you think?

558
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: Is I think dust in five six?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not.

560
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 7: I'm leg no actually one thousand sent No.

561
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Speaker 4: I can't even talk. Claudia, you're five what seven?

562
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Speaker 3: I'm a legit five seven and a half. Bobby vent

563
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 3: is about five three, five four?

564
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Speaker 4: Thank you five.

565
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Speaker 1: I've met calls in person. He's definitely not short, Thank you, Carlos.

566
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: But Bobby Valentino word, he's not. Let they say five

567
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: three is wild? Okay, you can make up for another area.

568
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Speaker 1: So we want to get into Saturday's episode eleven, marriage

569
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Speaker 1: himes Belle. Before I bring on my guests, Miss now

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Speaker 1: to join us, I want to talk about the episode

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00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: in general. A lot happens episode. So the biggest thing though,

572
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Speaker 1: the biggest thing back that was episode on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: So one of the things.

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Speaker 7: We did look at colors sweating. Are you crying the sweating?

575
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Speaker 7: It's sweating?

576
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: Huh we got the sweat crying. I'm crying crying?

577
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 4: Are you okay? I'm sad?

578
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 3: Okay? Uh wait, what's up doing Atlanta side of y'all

579
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 3: have fun? Did y'all hang out after the gold Drink and.

580
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 4: Hang out went to V twelve Saturday Night.

581
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 5: Shout out to Vinnie Watson and his incredible restaurant that

582
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Speaker 5: he ow was with Kwavo from the Migos.

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Speaker 4: We partied in V twelve Saturday Night.

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Speaker 5: Cynthia Bailey, you know what I'm saying, Nick Roses, Yeah.

585
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Speaker 4: Yep, yes.

586
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Speaker 1: So what did you guys think about the I do

587
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: want to talk to more to that. Let's get into

588
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: the conversation that happened in this episode A love in

589
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: Marriage Huntsville. One of the things that happens episode was

590
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: Miss Nell met with her son Lance. First of all,

591
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Speaker 1: I got so many texts over the weekend about how

592
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: fine Nel's son Lance is so.

593
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: Lance is Nell's son.

594
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: He used to hang out with Destiny.

595
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: They hung out on the show last season.

596
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: Lance had a baby recently, and Miss Nell in this

597
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: episode propositioned to her son that she will stay over

598
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: his house at least two nights a week to help.

599
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 2: Him with this new baby. Lance has I believe one

600
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Speaker 2: or two two children.

601
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Speaker 1: Miss miss Nell will correct me if I'm wrong, But

602
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Speaker 1: Miss Nell wants to help out her her son. Her husband,

603
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: Chris Fletcher, does not like the idea of his wife

604
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: being gone two nights a week. What are your thoughts

605
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Speaker 1: on that, Claudia, could you handle as let's say you

606
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: were somebody who had a baby, would you be able

607
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: to be okay with your mother coming over twice a

608
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Speaker 1: week leaving her husband to help you with the baby?

609
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Speaker 7: Well, I mean he's feeling like he needs help, right,

610
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Speaker 7: Like I remember saying, he was saying, he feels like

611
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 7: it's a lot of it is on him, Like why

612
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 7: is the mom not doing enough? If I'm not doing nothing, Yeah,

613
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Speaker 7: your mom will come over to help, but it's probably

614
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Speaker 7: very intrusive.

615
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Speaker 3: What's the relationship relationship with the mom though?

616
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Speaker 1: Well, the mother, the child's mother and Lance. There is

617
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: some legal stuff going on there that we're not allowed

618
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Speaker 1: to touch. But for the sake of this conversation, they're

619
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: not in a relationship and they're not together.

620
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Speaker 3: Oh them, No, then there should be no problem with that.

621
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Speaker 3: They're not together. He needs help. I don't see anything

622
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 3: wrong with that. I actually think I actually.

623
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Speaker 7: Was Women do it all the time. If they need

624
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 7: help with the baby, they have their mom come help out.

625
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Speaker 7: And I think that's the blessing of having grandparents or

626
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 7: having your parents still around, is to have them help out.

627
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Speaker 3: I think that I would welcome that.

628
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree with Claudia one hundred percent.

629
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Speaker 5: And I think as black people, we need to stop

630
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 5: this idea that our kids have to do everything the

631
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 5: hard way. If you have a child that is working

632
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 5: hard and showing up and doing their part, there's nothing

633
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 5: wrong with giving them help to get them further along.

634
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 5: If right shout out to this comment or Sandy Always

635
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 5: Real thirty eight eighty nine, it takes a village. And

636
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Speaker 5: if Neil is able and more most importantly willing to

637
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,760
Speaker 5: help her son with her grand baby, then what's the issue?

638
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 4: And I think that we keep seeing this theme.

639
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 5: Echoing when it comes to the Fletchers of we're helping,

640
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 5: we're helping with help, we're helping, we're helping. But what's

641
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 5: wrong with helping if you're willing to and if you've

642
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 5: got it. I think a lot of this is I

643
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 5: think a lot of this is being played against the

644
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 5: commentary from the fans. People have strong feelings about nepotism

645
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 5: and about people helping their kids out financially and stuff,

646
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 5: and I think it's time out for that. We need

647
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 5: to start helping our kids out more. We need to

648
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 5: start pushing our kids forward and doing what we can

649
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 5: when we can. If we have our work and responsible

650
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 5: children that will appreciate the help, we should do that.

651
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 4: So I just you know, that's how I feel about it.

652
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 3: Does full company or you shared costody with the mom?

653
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on, but because a lot

654
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 5: of my questions were going to be about the mother

655
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 5: of the baby, but Carlos is saying that there was

656
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 5: a legal angle on that that you know, we're avoiding

657
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 5: basically a week and.

658
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: You guys, yeah, miss Nell, miss Nell will be able

659
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: to tell us what she's able to tell us. But

660
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:21,360
Speaker 1: based on what the show is showcasing, the mother is

661
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: in the picture, she's she's in the picture, but in

662
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: the picture of the TV show. Yeah, And that's just

663
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: the basis of it. But in terms of whether or

664
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Speaker 1: not he has s full custody, I do think we

665
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: could ask.

666
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 7: Him to know that when she can say yes, I

667
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 7: will say this now what I would probably thought I

668
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 7: was when I had, you know, a lot of responsibilities

669
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 7: on me to work and take care of my baby

670
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 7: and my mom wants to come over there and help,

671
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 7: but I know my mother is still married and you know,

672
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 7: she has responsibilities at home.

673
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:49,760
Speaker 3: Maybe kind of meet halfway.

674
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 7: Maybe bringing the baby to the grandma's house to leave

675
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 7: her marriage and put a strain over there at her house.

676
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 7: I think that's probably what would probably make it more

677
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 7: palatable for I mean, who are we with a viewers,

678
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 7: but personally, let me drop the baby off instead of

679
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 7: like making her leave her house and spend the night

680
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 7: or stay with me all the time, because then that

681
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 7: can kind of cause some friction.

682
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 3: Over there at the house, unless you know mister flex

683
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: wants to time off.

684
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, listen, it's a tough situation. What I

685
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 2: will say is this, I agree with the both of you.

686
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: I think if you are blessed enough to have a

687
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: living mother who did an amazing job raising you. I

688
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: think if your mother is offering her help voluntarily, that

689
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: showcases to me what an amazing mom and grandmother you have.

690
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: And I say take advantage of it, because what you

691
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: don't want to happen is some scenarios is the wrong

692
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: person raising your child. I mean, not raising the wrong

693
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: person babysitting your child. You know, we do live in

694
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: a world where, like Dustin said, people do feel like, oh,

695
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: let me have my kid rich I agree to a

696
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: certain extent, like have them learn on the job, but

697
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: not to the point where they are visibly struggling, to

698
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: the point where they're making.

699
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: Bad decisions, because you are super hands off.

700
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:18,240
Speaker 1: And in my opinion, I think what miss Nell offered

701
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 1: to me it is beautiful and one thing that I

702
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: do want to bring up that a lot of people

703
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 1: may not connect the dots. Miss Nell owns and operates

704
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: a daycare center. So her livelihood for many, many, many,

705
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: many many many years is taking care of other people's children.

706
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,839
Speaker 1: So if that's her nine to five, five to nine,

707
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: and do it all over again, why wouldn't she volunteer

708
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: to take care of her grandchild, who is somebody that

709
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: has the same blood running through their veins.

710
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 2: If she can do it for the people her client

711
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 2: tele I personally think is a beautiful thing.

712
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 5: That's exactly why she can't do it, because she got

713
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 5: to listen to them holland ass babies all day at

714
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 5: the daycare. She don't want to hear all that Greg

715
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 5: Lynn and spitting up and shitting up the back of

716
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 5: the diaper, She don't want to deal with all that

717
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 5: one so when she leaves that ship at the daycare,

718
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 5: she don't want to deal with that no more. Chris

719
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 5: don't want to deal with new having an attitude from

720
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 5: dealing with them Holland ass babies all day and now

721
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 5: all night with this nigga. So you know what I'm saying,

722
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,919
Speaker 5: that's probably like Chris like, hold on, harpo, we don't

723
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 5: need to do this this way.

724
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. That might be why, But

725
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 4: I think we'll find that she helps him though I do.

726
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and I think two days a week is

727
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 1: not bad. I think she would think she's moving in

728
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: or no shade miss Nell. Worst case if miss Nell said,

729
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: how about you two moving with me? Yeah, I think

730
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: that is when things would be more of an issue.

731
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: And Chris Fletcher like dust instead of You're like my Look,

732
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: we raise our kids and I ain't trying to start over,

733
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: know seeing you take care of another, you know baby,

734
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 1: So I agree with that.

735
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: Claudia will be back on. She did not get kicked

736
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 2: out of the group. She has not.

737
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: Ran away from her luggage, We did not send her phone.

738
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,240
Speaker 1: She is not kicked out of the group.

739
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 4: She is a family member.

740
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,720
Speaker 1: We will make sure she's back on okay, So Dustin

741
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: one of the things that happened in this episode.

742
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

743
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: That has some to talk of social media since the

744
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: preview was posted on Friday. If the inevitable sit down

745
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: between Miss Neil and Dustin, I'll do the honors of

746
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: saying her name the way Miss Neil, cass t Shie.

747
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:47,799
Speaker 4: Scott.

748
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 11: Scott and Scott Scott Scott and Lettist Scott. I'm asking

749
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 11: Lettist Scott. Yeah, that's her name, Scott. That's right, full name, baby.

750
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 11: Mm hmmm, that's her name.

751
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 5: She does it every time. Every time she brings her up,

752
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 5: she says her full name, and I die every time.

753
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:16,720
Speaker 6: Scott.

754
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 4: I'm happy to sit down with Tricia today because Scott,

755
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 4: she's not Scott. Every time. I love it. I love it.

756
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 7: I have an appointment to up my gee's and it's

757
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 7: so frustrating. We all laughing at my Wi Fi while.

758
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no good, no, no, no, you just came.

759
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: You just came on right in time.

760
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about this scene between Latitia, Scott and

761
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: Miss Nell where they said down and had a one

762
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: on one at a coffee shop that Tisha works out

763
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: part time because her husband Marceau has not built her

764
00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: office just yet.

765
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:03,240
Speaker 2: Okay, soh as we all know in last week, Hey Marceau.

766
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 2: In last week's episode.

767
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,800
Speaker 1: Well the start of the season, Nell's husband, Chris Fletcher,

768
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: made a comment that rubbed the Scott's the wrong way.

769
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: He talked about NDA's and he said that he does

770
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: not have people sign DA's. That that sounds like some

771
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 1: shit the Scotts would do, okay, implying that to Marcel

772
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: and Maurice. The wives Kimmy and Tsha did I like

773
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 1: it and they confronted. Well, Tisha and her Hennessy confronted

774
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: Chris about.

775
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: It at Tricia's event, Hey Tisha Scott. So at this event,

776
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 2: Tisha decided to confront.

777
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: Chris and and inquire about, why are you talking about

778
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 1: my husband this way in the sense that having NDAs

779
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: is something they would do. Now, one thing I know

780
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: about producing Love and Matriter Tumpsmith for all these years

781
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:08,240
Speaker 1: is you do not talk to another woman's husband.

782
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: I've learned that.

783
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 6: I know.

784
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 2: That's a big numb noe. Miss Nell decided to push.

785
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: Chris back and step in front until Tsha Scott don't

786
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: talk to my husband, talk to me. And that's when

787
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: they had their little one two one two. So this

788
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: sit down was an opportunity for Nell and Tisha to

789
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: address it. Unfortunately it did not go that way. Dustin,

790
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 1: what were your thoughts on the sit down between Nell

791
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 1: and Tisha?

792
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 4: It was doomed from the start.

793
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 5: I knew Latitia Scott was ready for war when she

794
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 5: put up in the ford instead of the Bends. Normally

795
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 5: she'd be driving that Benz truck that they got. She got,

796
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 5: they got several nice cars, sports cars, the Bends with

797
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 5: the suicide doors, all that shit. When she put up

798
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 5: in a ford, I knew Latitia came to get busy. Okay,

799
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 5: part right in the front might even been handicapped. She

800
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 5: parked right up in the front and pulled up and

801
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 5: got to work. Latitia Scott is very comfortable anchoring this

802
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 5: cast as a season one, episode one founding member, right,

803
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 5: and you can tell because we get to see a

804
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 5: totally different, more and much more confident whether you agree

805
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 5: with her opinions and stances or not. She's very blatant

806
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 5: and honest and upfront with them at this point, and

807
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 5: so she came with a level of clarity and a

808
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 5: level of intention that it was just bound to be

809
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 5: a volcanic eruption of arguing when they said down together,

810
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 5: because miss nell was on the exact same shit. I

811
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 5: don't think they ever really liked each other ever. I

812
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 5: think that they tried to get to know each other

813
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 5: and form some sort of cordial working relationship. But when

814
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 5: they were at that table, they both was like, all right,

815
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:49,959
Speaker 5: now we can finally fucking argue.

816
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 4: Let's get it on. And that's what we saw at

817
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 4: that table. That's literally what that was.

818
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 5: So much so that Letitia was determined to remain in

819
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 5: control of the dialogue and remain in the driver's.

820
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 4: Sept so she got up and left. Once she saw

821
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 4: that miss Nelle was really on that, she left.

822
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 5: And so I don't know how they can get to

823
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 5: a place where they can talk things out because they're

824
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 5: both mad as hell right now, well at least at

825
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 5: the time of filming.

826
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 4: So that's what I thought it was.

827
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 5: I understood it to I anticipated it rather going down

828
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 5: exactly how it went.

829
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 7: You know, when you like aingraly feeling someone for a

830
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 7: while and then something happened to oh here this is

831
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 7: my time, this is my kind of like getting that

832
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 7: ass for all the stuff that happened like last year

833
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 7: or the year before and whenever, we're going to get

834
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 7: it all up right now now that it was right

835
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 7: to step in front of her husband and to make

836
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 7: it woman a woman, But I probably would have probably

837
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 7: would have had more success to talk to both of

838
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 7: them because he's the one that had You have the

839
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 7: issue with what he said about the NBA is the

840
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 7: wife didn't say it right, you know, it's the fledger

841
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 7: said it. So that's really maybe it's like, hey, you

842
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 7: can maybe have addressed it like no disrespect. I want

843
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 7: to talk to you and your husband together that I

844
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:58,919
Speaker 7: want to talk to your husband behind your back, because

845
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 7: that's what we're trying to avoid, right, being disrespectful, having

846
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 7: sidebars with people's husbands. Okay, like they do want housewives.

847
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 7: But anyways, I think that you know, that was the

848
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 7: right She had the right intention starting off. But it

849
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 7: just that energy, the energy was there, and you know,

850
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 7: when you have the cameras on you, it ain't feeling

851
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 7: as broad each other. It ain't gonna end peacefully. You're

852
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 7: not gonna get it resolved. You're gonna get an eye

853
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 7: checked her or she you didn't check me. It's more

854
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 7: about that, It's more about the egos. But again started

855
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 7: off right with with like, you know you're gonna talk

856
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 7: to me and not my husband. But it needed to

857
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 7: be with both of them and maybe would have been calmer.

858
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 3: Maybe do you think Carlos would have been calmer if well, no,

859
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 3: I think.

860
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: I think it's what you two are saying. I think

861
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:43,240
Speaker 1: at the end of the day now is still really

862
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: from the fact that she feels that Tea should disrespected

863
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 1: her husband and right by approaching my husband, right, my man,

864
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: my man, my man.

865
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 7: Right.

866
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: So that's the energy Nail, in my opinion, had coming in,

867
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 2: like you.

868
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 1: Dispect my husband, and and because you just you disrespect

869
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: my husband, you disrespected me.

870
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 2: Right.

871
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: Teacher's coming in feeling like Chris Fletcher disrespected her marriage

872
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: by telling the world that nda sounds like something that

873
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: her husband would do.

874
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 7: Right.

875
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 1: So in this conversation, a lot of it, like you

876
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: two pointed out, had to deal with a couple of

877
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: years of issues when Marcel in Atlanta and there were

878
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: allegations Marcell was cheating on Teach in Atlanta, Marcel told

879
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: t in the parking lot, I was there with a friend.

880
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 2: That friend was Chris Fletcher.

881
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: And then that's when Chris Fletcher said, I was with

882
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: Marcell but not for a long period of time. We

883
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 1: had one meeting and that's when Nel was like your girl,

884
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: he was with me. We went to the Piccadilly or

885
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: Home Depot or KFC. I forgot what it was, but

886
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: it's never Yeah, okay, got the two plus two.

887
00:47:56,480 --> 00:48:00,439
Speaker 2: So the thing is to me, you too, our writing

888
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 2: sense up.

889
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: They both came in with that energy rightfully so rightfully so,

890
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: but it obviously did not go as planned. So without

891
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: further ado, let's bring on the one we're talking about

892
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 1: rain drops. Give it up for the beautiful, the amazing.

893
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: Her WiFi is better than claudiaus.

894
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 2: Tonight about it? Give it up y'all for miss nol Fletcher.

895
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 6: Hello, how y'all doing?

896
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 3: Hey, welcome? Thank you?

897
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: Okay, So, miss, now, before we get into your storyline

898
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: this season, we had a segment topic and I want

899
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 1: to ask you this.

900
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,879
Speaker 2: You've been very open this season. I'm not this season.

901
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you've been very open about something. He'll but

902
00:48:55,920 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: ask right when it came to your marriage and the

903
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: infidelity experience in your marriage, right. On the recent episode

904
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: of Love the hip Hopaganta, a couple named Yandy and

905
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: men DC had a conversation and Yandy, the wife, admitted

906
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: to her husband that she had an emotional affair with

907
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: another man. So, miss now, I want to ask you this,

908
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: what is worse in your opinion, the physical affair or

909
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 1: an emotional affair?

910
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 6: Can you hear me?

911
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 4: You got a fan on her something?

912
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 2: Neil, Yep, it's.

913
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 3: Got that on high.

914
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 6: Give me sick.

915
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:51,479
Speaker 3: Got the Angelo Oakly fans over there? Way better? Sorry

916
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 3: about that.

917
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 6: I apologize again.

918
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: Yes you could have heard of a wind miss Nell

919
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: as a married woman men who experienced in fidelity years ago.

920
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: I do want to ask you what do you think

921
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:10,280
Speaker 1: is worse an emotional affair or a physical affair?

922
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 6: Hmmm, I don't know. They're both terrible with emotional women

923
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 6: are very emotional physical Now now you're touching, so I

924
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 6: don't like neither one. I would have to say that

925
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 6: either one. It's you're kind of putting your marriage in

926
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 6: a funky space to even trying to make it work

927
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 6: or get back together, especially as a woman, because we

928
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 6: are emotional, oh, very emotional creature.

929
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 3: When you say that, you mean like, do you think

930
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 3: it's more meaningful?

931
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,399
Speaker 7: Like I was telling the Fellas earlier, I think women

932
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 7: we fall in love with what we hear, and like

933
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 7: when we're on the phone listening to your voice and

934
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 7: it's like it's it's like, it's not it's less based

935
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 7: on looks for us, right, or physicalities. Right, of course,

936
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,800
Speaker 7: nobody wants to imagine the thought of their man, you know,

937
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 7: being intimate with another women. But it's even the fact

938
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 7: that you love her, where you care about this person,

939
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 7: like you you really like that.

940
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 6: It's the emotional is actually, Claudia, emotional to me is

941
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 6: worse than physical.

942
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 4: Mm hmm, Okay.

943
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 3: I know it's hard to pick on, right because you're like, yeah.

944
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 6: Suck, Yeah, the bow suck. But emotional there's there's feelings involved.

945
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 4: That's it that can linger on and turn into a

946
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 4: longer connection.

947
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 3: Exactly like longing for the person. You're thinking about them

948
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 3: when you're with me and all that.

949
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 7: And it's hard to come back from Yeah yeah, yeah,

950
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 7: but they both suck and they both weren't ask right.

951
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 6: I wouldn't recommend neither one, of course. You know, physical

952
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 6: you touch me and sometime with them is why I'm

953
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 6: bound thank you, ma'am. And and they're good and can

954
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 6: move on. But if they are emotionally attached to another

955
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 6: woman outside of yourself, then that's hard. That's that's a

956
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 6: hard feel to swallow. So I would have to say emotional.

957
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 7: No.

958
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 2: I I definitely agree with that too.

959
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: So the biggest topic tonight, Miss Now, has a lot

960
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: to do with you volunteering to stay at your son,

961
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: Lancen's home for two days to help.

962
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 2: Him with his newborn baby.

963
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 1: There's a lot of questions and commentary about this, and

964
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: I would love for you to address as much as

965
00:52:56,239 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 1: you can, understanding that when it comes to the mother

966
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: of this child, you know, we want to be able

967
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 1: to leave that alone in her privacy. So but as

968
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 1: much as you can, can you explain to us just

969
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: for the records, that we're able to move on with

970
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: the question. We know that we know that Lance has

971
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 1: been married twice.

972
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,280
Speaker 2: Correct, that's correct?

973
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 1: Okay, So Lance has been married twice. And how many

974
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: children does Lance have?

975
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 6: Lance has three beautiful children.

976
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: Three beautiful children. Okay, So when it comes to.

977
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: Your volunteering to help out Lance, explain to us where

978
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: that comes from. If a lot of people, Miss Now

979
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure you've read the comments. They feel like your

980
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: son has grown. He had two wives.

981
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 2: He he if he can, if he can lay down

982
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: and make one, he should be able to stand up

983
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 2: and take care of them on his own without you.

984
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that?

985
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 6: Actually, to a certain extent, I agree with them. Most

986
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 6: of the time. Everyone hears me going in on all

987
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 6: of my children. With Lance. Let me say this first.

988
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 6: He's a hard worker, and that's why I agree to

989
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 6: help him. Lance will work from sun up to sundown.

990
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 6: Lance is the person that I have to say, hey, Lance,

991
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 6: go home, Lance, clock out. Lance. You just can't leave

992
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 6: the job and then go fall asleep or get up

993
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 6: the next morning and try to do quotes and be

994
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 6: back on the job at seven o'clock in the morning.

995
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 6: Let's make sure his kids get to school. For two

996
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 6: of his kids, he actually have joint custody with the

997
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:49,359
Speaker 6: one he has. Now he has temporarily for custody. We're

998
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,399
Speaker 6: not sure how long it's gonna stay that way. That's

999
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 6: the most I can say about that. We have to

1000
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 6: go back to court here real soon.

1001
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 3: But Lance is a.

1002
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 6: Hands on death. He's very much hands on, And the

1003
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 6: reason why I said I would go to his house

1004
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 6: is because if you heard him, he was at my

1005
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 6: house and correct, Lance has his own home. Lance's owned

1006
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 6: his own home for about what eight ten years now

1007
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 6: when he first got his small child. He came here

1008
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 6: because I'm on the safety plan as well. So I

1009
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 6: am I'm so involved because I have been placed on

1010
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 6: the safety plan. He was here in one of the

1011
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 6: guest rooms. The reason why volunteer to go to his

1012
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:55,760
Speaker 6: house is he he will get up in the morning

1013
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 6: and it kind of remind me of when he was

1014
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 6: a teenager back at home. It's like, oh no, hell,

1015
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 6: wait a minute, now, we gotta closed doors around here.

1016
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,760
Speaker 2: As beginning in now, y'all ain't even.

1017
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 6: Sometime about getting it in. I mean, if you if

1018
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 6: you used to sleeping with your.

1019
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 4: Ass out, yeah, talk about it. Yeah, you know, get

1020
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 4: hot and I don't, Yes, I throw it out. Might

1021
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 4: just want to be laid up. You know what I'm saying.

1022
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 4: I get it. I get it this a lot.

1023
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, I forget they hear, you know, because he will

1024
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 6: keep his baby all night in the room you know,

1025
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 6: houses being let me say that, so he'll be on

1026
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 6: the outside of the house. So I'm forgetting that he's here,

1027
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 6: and he'll just come in boomomo, and I'm like, oh ship,

1028
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 6: let me try to, you know, throw something back, and

1029
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 6: it's like this ain't working. Then he want to come

1030
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 6: in and like hey, y'all this and y'all good, oh dad,

1031
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 6: and just come right in, Hey mammy, give me the baby.

1032
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 6: He already got them and got dressed for work. And

1033
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 6: I'm like, won't wait a minute, you know, Fletcher like

1034
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 6: good morning Sun, Like okay. So that's why I thought

1035
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 6: I was doing Fletcher fav work when I agree to

1036
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 6: say I just go to his house two days, maybe

1037
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 6: three out of the week so Fletcher can have a break. Hell,

1038
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 6: I guess he didn't like that, but I was just

1039
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 6: trying to help out. Because he come in, like I said,

1040
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 6: hand me the baby. He's already ready to get ready

1041
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 6: to go out the door. He's talking to his dad

1042
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 6: about work or some quotes or contracts he has to do,

1043
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 6: or want his dad to meet him out somewhere on

1044
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 6: one of the job sites. And I'm like, you know what,

1045
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 6: it's too early for me to be talking about this,

1046
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 6: or I just can't come to my room like this.

1047
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 6: I'm not used to him just being at the house.

1048
00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 6: So maybe I'll go to his house and let me

1049
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 6: be a person that gets up and put my damn

1050
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 6: clothes on and go out the door and leave, and

1051
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 6: I don't have to worry about him just coming in

1052
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 6: dropping the baby on me early he gets to go

1053
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 6: out the door.

1054
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 7: That that makes a lot more sense, like what you're saying,

1055
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 7: because without your explanation, it could seem like you're babying him.

1056
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 3: You're doing too much, you know what I mean.

1057
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:25,200
Speaker 7: And now you citing the fact that he, you know,

1058
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 7: the the care that he has with the other two kids,

1059
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 7: and then having temporary full county of this one. Clearly

1060
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 7: he's not a bad dad. Clearly that means he's a

1061
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 7: really good dad. And the fact that you see your

1062
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 7: son working so hard, he's a heart. The fact I

1063
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 7: love that you said hard worker and you want to

1064
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 7: give him a break and then you go into his

1065
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 7: house is more to keep your house peaceful and your

1066
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 7: comfortability in your house. That makes total sense, Like, Nah,

1067
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 7: you ain't about to have me having to put down

1068
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 7: clothes and I'm home and I want to be butt

1069
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 7: making my man with the fan on right like out

1070
00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 7: Morio house. And but does it feel but well me, Now,

1071
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 7: do you feel like you bet up on than you

1072
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 7: can shoot or are you cool with itself?

1073
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 6: I kind of I'm cool with it, but I would

1074
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 6: be lying if I sit here and said, oh, I

1075
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 6: didn't bite off more than I should have been. With

1076
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 6: everything I have going on right now, it is a lot,

1077
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 6: but I'm willing to do it. I signed up to

1078
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 6: do it, and I'm gonna do it. That's what you know.

1079
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 6: Grandma's support, which I think I'm a grandmom. So I'm

1080
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 6: gonna hang in there and I'm gonna see him through it.

1081
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 6: Like I said, I signed up for it. I told

1082
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 6: my husband what was going on, and like he said, sure,

1083
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 6: you know that's all Grundschild. We're not gonna have her anywhere.

1084
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 4: Else, so right, So that's so what you're saying is Tick.

1085
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 6: Care center and the baby beat somewhere else but in

1086
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 6: the custody of us.

1087
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 5: So what you're saying is Destiny. So Chris over there

1088
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 5: taking care of them or Lance, excuse me, taking care

1089
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 5: of them kids? Good, getting up, going to work every

1090
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 5: damn day, holding it down. She said, that's a good man, Savannah.

1091
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 5: That's why Destiny wanted some of that, ain't it. That's

1092
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 5: what you're saying. She saw his work ethic kind of

1093
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 5: man he was, and that's why Destiny was like, sign

1094
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 5: me up. It makes more sense. See, that's why we

1095
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 5: needed to have this conversation. We getting light shed on

1096
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 5: everything tonight.

1097
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 6: Now we don't Yeah, well Lance said Desney wants to

1098
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 6: build a man, so I don't know.

1099
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 4: Oh oh.

1100
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 6: Hey, that's he is still my friend. That's the hard

1101
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 6: part that I did not want them to get involved

1102
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 6: to begin with, because when things like this happened and

1103
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 6: it doesn't work out, I'm in the middle. I'm sad

1104
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 6: with Din and then I gotta hear her side, I

1105
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 6: gotta hear his side, and.

1106
01:00:55,840 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 5: It's like, you know what, this is Angel Godson's side too, right, Oh.

1107
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 4: You know what doesn't a lot of sides. It's a

1108
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 4: lot of sides.

1109
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just getting I'm just getting hit and blows

1110
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 6: from every direction right now, and I'm trying to like

1111
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 6: hear everybody out.

1112
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 3: And it's over women, really, it's all.

1113
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 6: It's it's a lot people.

1114
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 7: Want to tell everybody just like you don't want to

1115
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 7: hear it. Just keep me out of it, working out

1116
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 7: amongst yourselves. I don't want to be the person the

1117
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 7: founding board for everybody in the middle.

1118
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 6: You know what, Claudia, That's where I'm about it with

1119
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:34,360
Speaker 6: this ship. I'm like, you know what, I'm tapped out.

1120
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 6: Fuck it like y'all do what y'all want to do.

1121
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 6: You're damn grown. You're gonna do what you want to

1122
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 6: do anyway. You don't damn listen. But every time I

1123
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 6: said that, I'm crazy as hell, mis now crazy. I'm

1124
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 6: over the top, I'm loud. I don't listen, No, I listen.

1125
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 6: I'm tired of they bullshit. This is what I was

1126
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 6: talking about when I said I didn't need therapy. They

1127
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 6: ass needed therapy. You know, I'm doing my own business.

1128
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 6: They want to have all the interests and then they

1129
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 6: bring it to me and then it gets dropped off

1130
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 6: on me and I got to listen to all the

1131
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,439
Speaker 6: ship I'm good.

1132
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 1: Well, well, you seem to be good now, but you

1133
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: weren't good when what's the name, Dustin latist Scott?

1134
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 4: You say her whole name every time.

1135
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 5: That's how I knew she had pitched you off like that,

1136
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 5: because when you're getting them interviews looking beautiful with all

1137
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 5: your ship on. You know what, I'm saying you sit

1138
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 5: up there and lettist Scott and see I said down

1139
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 5: and Lettista Scott said that's all I knew.

1140
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 4: I said, name she hot. We love it, love it.

1141
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 2: You know it's good. It's good, it's good.

1142
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: So I want to take you back to the moment

1143
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 1: where you know, this season it did start off with

1144
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 1: you seeing that Laticia Scott and Marcel, Kimmy and Maurice

1145
01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: they did have issue with your husband making the comment

1146
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 1: that NDA seems to be like something that their husbands

1147
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: would do, Marcel and Maurice and not necessarily him, and

1148
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 1: that Tisha was not happy with that comment. I do

1149
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: want to ask you this, Do you understand where they're

1150
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: coming from? Or were you more upset with the fact

1151
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 1: that t Sha addressed your husband and base what I'm

1152
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: learning about marriage, when a wife has an issue with

1153
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: the husband, the wife should address the white.

1154
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 2: Was that your issue or both?

1155
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 6: Well, actually, let me say this, I understood exactly where

1156
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 6: they were coming from. I even said to him, what

1157
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 6: the fuck? Like, Okay, that's the part where when you

1158
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 6: do not know what you're doing, and you knew with

1159
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 6: this and you let somebody kind of sidetrack you into

1160
01:03:56,640 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 6: catching yourself up in something I can't say, but the

1161
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 6: conversation that was being had at that time, Yeah, yeah,

1162
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 6: he didn't. He didn't do a good job in in

1163
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 6: that conversation in handling his words, and uh, with a

1164
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 6: pro that he was sitting back with that know how

1165
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 6: to handle her words.

1166
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 2: So he hooked hisself, honestly.

1167
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 6: But with that said, I'm the one that actually said

1168
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 6: to Letitia, you can go say something to him, because

1169
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 6: I cannot really say exactly what what made him say

1170
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 6: that or what was his motive of saying that. I cannot.

1171
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 6: I'm not him. Basically, he's if I feel like something

1172
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 6: is wrong and it's bothering her, then it needs to

1173
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,760
Speaker 6: be addressed. What I did not expect was hard to

1174
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 6: go over there and just run straight in and go

1175
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 6: in straight attack mode. And I was trying to hurry

1176
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 6: up and get over there and like whoa, whoa, no

1177
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 6: you get get At that point I had changed my mind,

1178
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 6: like no, get your get your ass, get on back

1179
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 6: over there, because I did not think she was gonna

1180
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 6: go over there and go in on him like that.

1181
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 6: I thought she was gonna go over there and maybe say, hey, Chris,

1182
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 6: can I talk to you? For a moment. The new

1183
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 6: guys had already talked, so I thought she was gonna

1184
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 6: pull him to the side and talk to him or

1185
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 6: some of that nature. But when I seen her going

1186
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 6: straight up in his face and hand out, I stepped

1187
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 6: in and I was like, no, we're not gonna do this, this, this.

1188
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 6: I didn't expect her to do that.

1189
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 7: So you're okay with having a conversation because you're the

1190
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 7: one that needed to tell her, like, go ahead and

1191
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 7: go talk to him, But you didn't, like she said,

1192
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 7: came in on ten and she need to come in

1193
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 7: at like a six five.

1194
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 3: She was came in too hot, a little too hot.

1195
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, she came in very hot, came in very hot.

1196
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 6: And that's what I did not like.

1197
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 2: But I did.

1198
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:12,479
Speaker 6: I did tell her she could go talk to him. Yeah,

1199
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:13,440
Speaker 6: I did do that.

1200
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: So what what Claudian doesn't picked up on the energy

1201
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 1: that you both had and your one on one sit down.

1202
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 1: So when you sat down with her, what was going

1203
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: on where the two of you just did not appear

1204
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 1: to come to an agreement just based on halving the

1205
01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 1: conversation the first place you brought up the fact that, look,

1206
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to explain to you where all of this

1207
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: came from the Atlanta trip your husband saying that my

1208
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: husband's with him.

1209
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 2: Would you like to clear that up to since you

1210
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 2: weren't able.

1211
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: To get it out if the one on one is now, Yes,

1212
01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: Actually what happened was Mar.

1213
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 6: So this was like two years ago. Mars and Fletcher

1214
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 6: met up in Atlanta, and I was there as well.

1215
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 6: And I know I was there because I was having

1216
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 6: the girls done and a lot. We don't like to

1217
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 6: talk about that type ship, but that doesn't bother me.

1218
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 6: It is what it is. If I was not there,

1219
01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 6: I would tell you I wasn't there, But I was there.

1220
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 6: I have receipts showing that I was there. I actually

1221
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 6: was in our airbnb. Fletcher went out to meet with

1222
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 6: Mars because Marshall was considering putting a black restaurant in Atlanta,

1223
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 6: so they went to look at some land and then

1224
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 6: from there they went out to eat and want to

1225
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 6: Atlanta Fish Market one of our favorite places, and you

1226
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 6: know there's two yes, So they went there to eat

1227
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 6: and everything, and from there Fletcher came back to the

1228
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 6: Airbnb because he was taking care of me, so I

1229
01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:01,000
Speaker 6: knew I knew where he was. He wasn't even going

1230
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 6: that long, maybe what two hours talks when Marcel when

1231
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 6: it aired, and Marshall said, Letitia questioned him, and he

1232
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 6: paused for a very long time, and then he said,

1233
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 6: I was with a friend and the suspense of everybody

1234
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 6: wanting to know, and he says, Chris Fletcher, It's like,

1235
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:27,680
Speaker 6: what the hell now you look guilty. You make your

1236
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:31,920
Speaker 6: Fletcher look guilty. The damn phone over here is ringing

1237
01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:36,879
Speaker 6: off the hook, like, what's going on in your household?

1238
01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 6: Did you know your husband was in that. I was

1239
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 6: there with him. Come down. I'm wrapped up and ship

1240
01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:47,840
Speaker 6: right now. So it's it's it's good, We're good. So

1241
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 6: for her to bring me up and bring this up

1242
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 6: and say that my husband keeps putting her husband's name

1243
01:08:56,840 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 6: in his mouth, and I was like, no, Mars started

1244
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 6: all this shit two years ago. He started this. Now,

1245
01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 6: did Fletcher add on to the fire, Yes, with the

1246
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 6: damn NDA shit he did, you know, I will admit that,

1247
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 6: but do not make it seem like it's Fletcher Fletcher,

1248
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 6: Fletcher Fletcher, And that's not true. Marceau has a hand

1249
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 6: in this shit too, And that's why I was trying

1250
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 6: to explain to her, and if it was just she

1251
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 6: was coming at me, I was coming at her. She

1252
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 6: didn't really want to hear what I had to say.

1253
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 6: At that point I had to tapped out because I

1254
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 6: can't hear. We were talking over each other at that point.

1255
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 6: She was trying to say, well she wanted to say.

1256
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 6: I was trying to get out what I was trying

1257
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 6: to say. But I know that she was heated with me,

1258
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 6: and at that moment, I was heated with her because

1259
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 6: she had at that point she did had get him.

1260
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 6: She got in my husband's face, and I didn't expect

1261
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:51,679
Speaker 6: it to go that way.

1262
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 4: So let's talk about the transparency piecements now.

1263
01:09:56,200 --> 01:09:58,600
Speaker 5: I think a lot of people would love for you

1264
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:01,639
Speaker 5: to clarify exactly the way it means. What you mean

1265
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 5: when you say that Letitia and Kimmy as well have

1266
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 5: been less than transparent in their expressions of what's going

1267
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 5: on in their lives. What is it that you what

1268
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 5: areas or what things do you feel like they could

1269
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 5: be more transparent about and in what ways could they

1270
01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 5: be more transparent about those things?

1271
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:23,760
Speaker 6: Okay, for Kimmy to make the statement, you think we

1272
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 6: don't want to talk about our husband's gene kill. Nobody does.

1273
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,680
Speaker 6: I don't, but I'm not. If it's known and it's

1274
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 6: out there, of course I'm not gonna sit in the line.

1275
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:38,600
Speaker 6: I'm not telling them to confront Center about something they

1276
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 6: say they don't know. Okay, I'm good, you don't have to.

1277
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 6: What I'm saying is, do not always come to me

1278
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:51,719
Speaker 6: asking me about my family, what's going on in my family,

1279
01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:57,720
Speaker 6: my husband, my children, my grandchildren. It's always what, hey,

1280
01:10:57,840 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 6: now we heard this, or no, you knew about your

1281
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 6: grand baby or your husband did this. But then when

1282
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 6: it comes to your husband or your spouse, Uh, what

1283
01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 6: you think or I'm not talking about that, or we're

1284
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 6: not talking about that. That's not being transparent. Stay the

1285
01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 6: hell out of my business. If your business is off

1286
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:19,400
Speaker 6: for the table.

1287
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

1288
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 6: I'm sorry. I say that again, Claudia.

1289
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:24,680
Speaker 7: I was.

1290
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 3: They're the thing that that happens a lot though.

1291
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 7: You know, like everybody want to be in each other's business,

1292
01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 7: but nobody wants to be fully parent and until they're own.

1293
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 7: But that's kind of like what almost all the reality

1294
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 7: shows are giving a lot of times. That's why when

1295
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:39,520
Speaker 7: someone comes along like yourself, that's pretty transparent.

1296
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 3: People rock with that.

1297
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 7: They like that because a lot of people, how are

1298
01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 7: you gonna sign up for a reality show and then

1299
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,599
Speaker 7: you can't talk about things and then you get mad

1300
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 7: when people go and ask you your question.

1301
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 3: So you know, keep doing what you do.

1302
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 7: That's why they rock with you. But I get the

1303
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 7: hypocrisy of it all. It's actually annoying right like it is.

1304
01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 6: Because I get uh like shut down if I ask

1305
01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 6: a question about them or something of if they're going on,

1306
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:12,400
Speaker 6: not necessarily in their household that's wrong terminology, but something

1307
01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 6: that's they're dealing with, or something that's been said out

1308
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 6: in the streets or in you know, social media. If

1309
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:24,560
Speaker 6: I say something, it's quick to when not talking about that.

1310
01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:30,240
Speaker 6: Even Latcha said at the last episode, and I said, well,

1311
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:33,719
Speaker 6: you always talk about my family in in my kids,

1312
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 6: and we do and we will. M okay, then keep

1313
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:42,599
Speaker 6: that ship across the board. Let's talk about your shit too,

1314
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 6: That's all I'm saying.

1315
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:50,760
Speaker 1: One of the things that people said miss Now they

1316
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: feel like when it comes to Tisha Marceau that since

1317
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: day one of them being on the show, they have

1318
01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 1: been transparent. People feel like Tsha has addressed people saying

1319
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:06,759
Speaker 1: her husband had twenty women. They said, Tisha has showed you, guys,

1320
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:11,479
Speaker 1: her family, Miss Wanda, her uncles and aunties, cousins and

1321
01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:11,760
Speaker 1: all that.

1322
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 2: They feel like Tisha has shown you her issues with

1323
01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 2: the girls. Some people do feel like Tisha has.

1324
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 1: Been transparent and they don't understand why you feel like

1325
01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 1: she hasn't.

1326
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:25,560
Speaker 2: Can you can you touch on that?

1327
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 6: Well? For me, you can't please everybody. Everybody's gonna like

1328
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 6: who they like, say, depend who they're gonna defend, whether

1329
01:13:32,200 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 6: it's Tisha or whether it's me. Hell, they know what

1330
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 6: the hell real transparent is. Hell, I can show my

1331
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 6: damn family all them day long. I'm doing that now.

1332
01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 6: And if my mother was alive, I would show her too,

1333
01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 6: So you know it is what it is because I've

1334
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 6: been coming at about that too. So look, it just

1335
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 6: seels what it is. Everybody's gonna just decide what they figure,

1336
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 6: who they're gonna rock with, who they're not gonna rock with,

1337
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 6: what they like, what transparent is to them, and what

1338
01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 6: transparent is not. So that their definition of transparent, that's them.

1339
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 6: That's that's their opinion. They have a way to feel

1340
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:06,679
Speaker 6: the way they feel. I have a way to feel.

1341
01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 6: I can feel the way I feel.

1342
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 7: Miss Now, Can I ask you if you want to

1343
01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 7: put if you care to put a name on it,

1344
01:14:11,560 --> 01:14:13,800
Speaker 7: who's probably the worst at shutting you down? Because I

1345
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 7: feel a lot of people in the comments responding to

1346
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 7: you saying you feel shut down, They're like, don't let

1347
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:19,720
Speaker 7: it happen, like they rock. They don't want you to

1348
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:22,000
Speaker 7: like feel shut down. So is there one person that

1349
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:25,560
Speaker 7: she would say of or in particular that does that?

1350
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:27,600
Speaker 7: Does that the most to you that you feel like

1351
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 7: is closed? You said closed, and they try to shut

1352
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 7: or try to shut you down and doesn't want to

1353
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 7: like give up their information.

1354
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 6: Let sha is the one I argue with the most

1355
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:42,640
Speaker 6: lat is.

1356
01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 3: The one argu the go ahead and say that full

1357
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 3: name for us?

1358
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:52,759
Speaker 6: As far as Nick Jimmy, we we really don't have nothing.

1359
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 6: That's there's nothing, miss Now.

1360
01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:01,559
Speaker 2: Who do you feel like is the least transparent person

1361
01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:02,679
Speaker 2: on the cast?

1362
01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 4: Oh, there's that many to choose from.

1363
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:18,360
Speaker 6: No, you said, I would have to say, well, see

1364
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 6: I do. I know she had a cancel issue, but.

1365
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 3: That's what I said.

1366
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:27,559
Speaker 6: People identify transparency as different.

1367
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 2: But but I want to I want to ask you

1368
01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:35,360
Speaker 2: about that. So you feel like Kimmy is the least

1369
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 2: transparent person on the show. Tell me why you feel

1370
01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:38,679
Speaker 2: that way?

1371
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 6: You know what, I don't know. Maybe it's Destiny. Well,

1372
01:15:48,240 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 6: I'm trying to think, like when you're talking to the

1373
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 6: I really don't talk to Kimmy. H. I talked to Destiny,

1374
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,840
Speaker 6: but I know there's a lot she says she can't

1375
01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 6: talk about too. M hm, Trish, just less it all,

1376
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 6: damn hang out there. So I don't know. Me and Leticia, hey,

1377
01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 6: ide is what it is? It would have to be

1378
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:22,680
Speaker 6: Destiny okami for me between those two.

1379
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 4: So I have a question for you, miss Nel.

1380
01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 5: Part of what fans loved the most about you and

1381
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 5: Chris's contribution to this cast was your beautiful family.

1382
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:33,439
Speaker 4: Right.

1383
01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:36,760
Speaker 5: We were really introduced to you all and seeing the

1384
01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 5: relationships and the complexities of the relationships between you and

1385
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 5: your adult children, and we were fascinated at seeing that.

1386
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 5: And one of the most memorable scenes that was you

1387
01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:48,680
Speaker 5: all were really vulnerable and brave to share, was when

1388
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:51,080
Speaker 5: you all were sitting around that dining that dinner table

1389
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 5: and having a family conversation and things kind of got

1390
01:16:53,880 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 5: heated between your daughter Lexi and the rest of your family.

1391
01:16:57,560 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 5: And we know that there's been some some videos made

1392
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:03,880
Speaker 5: where Lexi kind of shared and expressed her feelings. What

1393
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:07,560
Speaker 5: do you want to share about how you feel about that?

1394
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:10,640
Speaker 5: How much you how you because we were introduced to

1395
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 5: you loving your daughter Lexi, and we saw you all

1396
01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:15,640
Speaker 5: working through some very personal issues on the screen and

1397
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:18,640
Speaker 5: you were brave to share that with the recent you know,

1398
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 5: expression of feelings from Lexi. What is it that you

1399
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 5: want the audience to know about how you and Chris

1400
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:27,679
Speaker 5: feel about that part of your family and that dynamic.

1401
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,679
Speaker 5: Is there anything that you want to share to the audience.

1402
01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 6: Well, for me, Dustin, I would not entertain that. Okay,

1403
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:39,400
Speaker 6: I did not know there was an issue when Lexi

1404
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:44,160
Speaker 6: came to the dinner table. I thought we were one big,

1405
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 6: happy family. Of course, over the years, there's always been

1406
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 6: Lexi the ones not in the household, even we try

1407
01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:57,679
Speaker 6: to do the most for her when she do come

1408
01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:04,640
Speaker 6: to the household. I had no idea that that was

1409
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:07,599
Speaker 6: an issue. Actually, when we sat down at that dinner

1410
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 6: table and things started coming up about me and her

1411
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 6: mom's past that we had already talked about and we

1412
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 6: were good. I was just at their house probably three

1413
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 6: weeks or so before we decided to sit down and

1414
01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 6: have that dinner scene. We were all hanging out there,

1415
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 6: I wanted to say it stayed at a mom's house

1416
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:38,799
Speaker 6: for shit eight ten hours. We all had drinks, liquor,

1417
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:43,320
Speaker 6: having a good time. So you think you know your

1418
01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:46,760
Speaker 6: family and you don't. You think they're over something or

1419
01:18:46,800 --> 01:18:50,200
Speaker 6: you passed something and it's not. You get all these

1420
01:18:50,280 --> 01:18:54,240
Speaker 6: feelings and emotions that come back up that so make

1421
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:57,400
Speaker 6: you think, Okay, we've gotten past this, we've conquered this,

1422
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 6: we're family. We locked in and then the damn dinner

1423
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 6: sing and it's like checkmate, we'll not put y'all ass

1424
01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 6: on blasts and it's like, WHOA, Okay, Well I did

1425
01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 6: not see that coming. Honestly, I was told that we

1426
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 6: set her up. That's not true. I would never put

1427
01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:26,320
Speaker 6: none of my children on here for a setup. She

1428
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:31,880
Speaker 6: was never looked at as a bonus child. Anyone who

1429
01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 6: knew me, they knew I had four kids. A lot

1430
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,560
Speaker 6: of people didn't not even know that she was in

1431
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 6: mine by largical m So.

1432
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna I'm not that. Yeah, but stew with

1433
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 3: everything you have going on, right, that's an.

1434
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 6: Old enough grandchild that I'm sure that still loves us

1435
01:19:54,439 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 6: and we cannot see right to this day and this

1436
01:19:57,280 --> 01:20:01,080
Speaker 6: other grandchildren that are smaller that all this has been

1437
01:20:01,120 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 6: scripted by.

1438
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 4: I get it, and I wish you are healing with that,

1439
01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:06,559
Speaker 4: miss Now. Thank you for sharing you.

1440
01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:10,000
Speaker 7: Miss Now, with everything we have going on right, like

1441
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 7: you know, you're a mother or your wife, you're a grandmother,

1442
01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:14,200
Speaker 7: You're doing this show, and you have all these people

1443
01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 7: that are using you as a sounding board complaining about

1444
01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 7: each other, right, and you're trying to navigate and balance

1445
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 7: all that, and then on top of everything else, helping

1446
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:25,120
Speaker 7: out and being away and being with your son, helping

1447
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:27,519
Speaker 7: out with the baby, your grandbaby two or three times

1448
01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 7: a week.

1449
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,519
Speaker 3: Do you feel stretched? Do you feel like overwhelmed? Do

1450
01:20:30,520 --> 01:20:31,840
Speaker 3: you feel like you have too much on your plate?

1451
01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:34,639
Speaker 7: Or is it just like I know, you know, black

1452
01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 7: women are used to just putting on the cape and

1453
01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:37,479
Speaker 7: just figuring it out.

1454
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 3: But do you ever feel like I'm overwhelmed, like I

1455
01:20:40,400 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 3: need a break?

1456
01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:45,160
Speaker 7: Because it's easy to make it look easy, but I

1457
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 7: would imagine that's a lot to deal.

1458
01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 6: With, it is. It can be very stressful. I have

1459
01:20:55,280 --> 01:21:04,200
Speaker 6: kind of like broken down. I wasn't always in my world,

1460
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:13,000
Speaker 6: my mother Lord, rest her soul. I wasn't allowed to cry.

1461
01:21:15,200 --> 01:21:17,280
Speaker 6: It was your strong sucking up you.

1462
01:21:19,360 --> 01:21:19,680
Speaker 2: Got this.

1463
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 6: This season. Hell, all I did was cry, And I

1464
01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 6: don't know it was because my mom is gone and

1465
01:21:31,280 --> 01:21:37,559
Speaker 6: I'm able to start releasing some things, or because she's

1466
01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 6: gone and I don't have her to run to to say, Hey,

1467
01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:46,000
Speaker 6: I need help here, I need your advice here. How

1468
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,639
Speaker 6: would you handle this? Or as tough as everyone think

1469
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 6: I am. Yeah, my mother was very tough and she

1470
01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:56,000
Speaker 6: didn't play when it came to those those young men

1471
01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 6: that I'm dealing with now.

1472
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 7: I hope your more as a point of release, not

1473
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 7: not sadness, but to release because you know, it's not

1474
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:11,360
Speaker 7: even I think the world expects women, Black women, the

1475
01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:14,400
Speaker 7: heads of their household, the heads of their families, the matriarch,

1476
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 7: to be teflon, to never show sadness or emotion. That's

1477
01:22:19,240 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 7: not weakness, you know what I mean. And it's and

1478
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,680
Speaker 7: you got to put your your mental health first. And

1479
01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 7: it's okay to scream like I don't like. That's what

1480
01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:29,600
Speaker 7: I'm saying. Always people relying on you and complaining to

1481
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 7: you about each other. That's a lot to you're taking

1482
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:32,840
Speaker 7: on everybody else's stuff.

1483
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,960
Speaker 3: Where's your time? Like, where's your time? Where it's about you?

1484
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:37,799
Speaker 3: And are you okay?

1485
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:39,080
Speaker 2: Do you need a break?

1486
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:41,800
Speaker 3: Let me give you a break and not like dump

1487
01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 3: all my stuff on you.

1488
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 7: So I hope you So I'm trying to encourage black

1489
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 7: women to take that damn cape off because we put

1490
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:51,840
Speaker 7: on ourselves. We take Friday be I'm a strong black woman. No,

1491
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:54,760
Speaker 7: I'm not saying that anymore, like Nope, I'm weak.

1492
01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:58,360
Speaker 3: I need help. I can't do it all anymore because

1493
01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 3: there's nothing wrong with that. Hope you know that, you know.

1494
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:02,880
Speaker 1: Care?

1495
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 5: Yes, that's why we want you to get that closet.

1496
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 5: Did you get your damn closet in that closet?

1497
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 4: That's what we need to see. We need that closet

1498
01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:12,920
Speaker 4: up and rolling. That's what.

1499
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 6: I did. Not get the closet. It's actually been on

1500
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:20,800
Speaker 6: the burner.

1501
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:24,839
Speaker 4: Okay, But we rooted team closet. We root for your closet.

1502
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:26,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1503
01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 4: But and and.

1504
01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:31,880
Speaker 1: What what what the world will see later on this

1505
01:23:32,080 --> 01:23:35,439
Speaker 1: season because we are we're still filming, believe it or not,

1506
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:40,639
Speaker 1: is the world will see a lot of what now

1507
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,799
Speaker 1: is going through. We just sort of scratch the surface

1508
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 1: in terms of what she is going through. But one

1509
01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 1: thing I will say is, uh, miss Nell, you are

1510
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: an amazing addition to this show, you and your husband

1511
01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:57,519
Speaker 1: and your family as well. You know how much I

1512
01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:00,320
Speaker 1: love you. I think you are funny. You me and

1513
01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: me and miss Nell have this fake that she yells

1514
01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:05,600
Speaker 1: child at miss Nell yells at me, honey when we

1515
01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 1: see each other child I love it.

1516
01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:11,680
Speaker 2: But now, miss Nell, you are a firetracker. You are

1517
01:24:11,840 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 2: definitely listen.

1518
01:24:14,760 --> 01:24:16,280
Speaker 1: Like I said, you're a great addition to this show.

1519
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:20,720
Speaker 1: And Claudia you don't know that, but doesn't us. We

1520
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 1: want to miss Neil on the show for many many

1521
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:24,320
Speaker 1: years and she was like, I don't want to do it,

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Speaker 1: but she finally said yes a couple of seasons ago,

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Speaker 1: and you are fantastic and I.

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Speaker 2: Do want you to you know, listen to Claudia too,

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01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:36,800
Speaker 2: because she is right.

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Speaker 1: You know, you are a representation of a lot of

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Speaker 1: black mothers who are the sort of the emotional kid

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01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 1: of the household to where you are there for every

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01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:55,280
Speaker 1: single body and oftentimes you may feel depleted at the

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01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:59,080
Speaker 1: end of the day because you gave yourself to everybody.

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01:24:59,680 --> 01:25:01,640
Speaker 1: And what I don't want you to do is have

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01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:05,160
Speaker 1: any stress added to you because that could cost some

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01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:08,080
Speaker 1: health concerns and we all want you to take care

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01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:10,599
Speaker 1: of yourself. And like Laudia said, it's okay to ask

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01:25:10,640 --> 01:25:14,160
Speaker 1: for help, and it's okay to say I feel weak today.

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01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:18,240
Speaker 1: You're not a weak person. You're happy the day of weakness,

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01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:21,320
Speaker 1: and it's okay to embrace that and to ask for help.

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01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:23,760
Speaker 1: And I want you to ask for help the same

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01:25:23,800 --> 01:25:25,719
Speaker 1: way people ask for your health.

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Speaker 2: So please take heed to that.

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01:25:27,960 --> 01:25:30,840
Speaker 3: And it's okay to say no.

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01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:34,840
Speaker 4: And it's okay to scream. We like it. We actually

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01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:42,439
Speaker 4: like itree to do that.

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01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:48,519
Speaker 6: Sometimes that's done out of love. I do not scream

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01:25:48,840 --> 01:25:51,479
Speaker 6: just to be screaming. I do not yell just to

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01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 6: be yelling. I usually do it for my compassion of

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01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 6: I'm trying to get my want to cross to you,

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01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 6: like I need you to hear me. Now. If I'm

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01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:11,640
Speaker 6: in a back a boxing match with Latitia Scott, then

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01:26:11,720 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 6: that's different. Most of the time. You know, everybody said

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01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 6: she's loud, She's yelling and streaming. That's how she does well.

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01:26:28,360 --> 01:26:32,200
Speaker 6: You know what, guys, I have a lot of children

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01:26:32,800 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 6: and they are adult children, and that's not always easy.

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01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:41,519
Speaker 6: I do not have the perfect family. Okay, yes, thank you.

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01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:44,320
Speaker 6: You say they're good looking, they're beautiful, but it's a

1556
01:26:44,439 --> 01:26:47,479
Speaker 6: lot of damn headaches coming with being good looking at beautiful.

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01:26:49,880 --> 01:26:54,479
Speaker 6: It's not easy for them. What's white? What's wrong?

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Speaker 3: You are every day.

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Speaker 6: About? Like, yeah it is, you know. I sit down,

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01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:10,120
Speaker 6: even with them as adults, I tell them, this is

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01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:12,479
Speaker 6: what you need to do, this is how you need

1562
01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 6: to move. Do not take this for granted. And then

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01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 6: they go out there and they fuck up, and it's like,

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01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:23,000
Speaker 6: here we go. I told you this ship. You didn't listen.

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01:27:23,120 --> 01:27:28,240
Speaker 6: So that's what gets me to know and wright and

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01:27:28,320 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 6: I go from zero to one hundred because I'll have

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01:27:31,360 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 6: sat down and had these conversations with them. It's not

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01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:38,759
Speaker 6: I don't have just one child and they're not children.

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01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:40,280
Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't just have two.

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01:27:40,680 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 6: I just don't have three. And then if you throw

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01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:45,920
Speaker 6: Lexi in there, that's four and they all have some

1572
01:27:46,360 --> 01:27:51,040
Speaker 6: shit going on or that they do that I don't

1573
01:27:51,120 --> 01:27:54,559
Speaker 6: agree with. I have to take it as it comes.

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01:27:54,640 --> 01:27:58,160
Speaker 6: So if that makes me loud and you know, yell

1575
01:27:59,400 --> 01:28:02,160
Speaker 6: the hell, I guess that's just that's just what it is.

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01:28:02,680 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 6: I'm not all the time, you know, I do you

1577
01:28:05,240 --> 01:28:07,840
Speaker 6: know get korreshed by Fletcher and.

1578
01:28:10,360 --> 01:28:10,560
Speaker 4: Like that.

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01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:13,719
Speaker 6: Of course I didn't get to get thirty one years

1580
01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:17,600
Speaker 6: for nothing, thirty one years this year, so and I.

1581
01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:20,400
Speaker 5: Want to around the Lance's house at night. He wanted

1582
01:28:20,400 --> 01:28:21,920
Speaker 5: you home with him so he get correct.

1583
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:26,400
Speaker 6: He likes my leg to be thrown over.

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01:28:30,160 --> 01:28:30,320
Speaker 7: All.

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01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:36,400
Speaker 2: Well, don't don't please your man, baby. We love you,

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01:28:36,479 --> 01:28:36,920
Speaker 2: miss Now.

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01:28:37,160 --> 01:28:43,360
Speaker 12: Yes you for coming moving close, just dusting. Hopefully I

1588
01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:46,800
Speaker 12: get it, but I did get something else. I don't

1589
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:47,839
Speaker 12: know if I could say.

1590
01:28:47,680 --> 01:28:48,800
Speaker 2: It, but no you can't.

1591
01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:52,720
Speaker 4: Well can I just tell you see you coming up?

1592
01:28:52,840 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 4: We'll see it coming up?

1593
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:54,680
Speaker 6: Get it?

1594
01:28:55,200 --> 01:28:56,760
Speaker 3: Miss Now. I want to tell you I'm looking at

1595
01:28:56,760 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 3: the comments this.

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01:28:57,640 --> 01:28:59,960
Speaker 7: I hope you go back and watch the show tomorrow

1597
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:02,400
Speaker 7: or whenever you get time, just so you can see

1598
01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:04,639
Speaker 7: all the love you're getting in the comments.

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01:29:05,160 --> 01:29:06,960
Speaker 3: People say they want to see a spin off with

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01:29:07,040 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 3: you and your hobby. They love you, they love your energy.

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01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:11,519
Speaker 7: And I just want to say your hair is super cute,

1602
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:13,639
Speaker 7: like I want to try that yourself, super cute.

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01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:15,679
Speaker 3: I want you to go back to my week girl.

1604
01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:18,479
Speaker 3: Well it's a good ass wig because sometimes you can tell.

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01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:20,720
Speaker 6: I throw it back and then put it back over

1606
01:29:20,760 --> 01:29:21,720
Speaker 6: and push it up.

1607
01:29:21,760 --> 01:29:22,200
Speaker 3: I like that.

1608
01:29:22,960 --> 01:29:24,320
Speaker 6: Takes me hairstyle.

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01:29:24,640 --> 01:29:24,840
Speaker 4: That's that.

1610
01:29:25,040 --> 01:29:26,280
Speaker 3: That's that bedroom hair.

1611
01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 2: Go go in your bedroom.

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01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:31,080
Speaker 6: You got their room hair right now, Yeah, but I.

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01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:32,559
Speaker 3: Ain't got none in my bedroom right now.

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01:29:34,520 --> 01:29:38,280
Speaker 6: No problem in girl, you wait problem? Are you took

1615
01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:42,080
Speaker 6: you and already kill you? Make it? Know what to do.

1616
01:29:44,320 --> 01:29:46,240
Speaker 3: But check out the comments tomorrow because they I want

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01:29:46,240 --> 01:29:46,599
Speaker 3: you to see.

1618
01:29:46,640 --> 01:29:48,080
Speaker 7: I want you to receive all this love that you're

1619
01:29:48,080 --> 01:29:50,680
Speaker 7: getting in people saying take the cap off and put

1620
01:29:50,760 --> 01:29:51,360
Speaker 7: yourself first.

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01:29:51,760 --> 01:29:54,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, So take he to that. Miss now, we love you,

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01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 2: miss now, thanks for coming.

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01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:55,759
Speaker 10: On, boob.

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01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:58,400
Speaker 6: I love y'all too. Thank you so much, callos for

1625
01:29:58,520 --> 01:29:58,840
Speaker 6: having me.

1626
01:29:59,479 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 2: Thanks for we love you booth.

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,

1628
01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:14,639
Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.

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01:30:14,160 --> 01:30:16,280
Speaker 4: With the Lack Effect Network.

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01:30:16,640 --> 01:30:19,320
Speaker 1: You can also find us on my YouTube channel at

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