1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and if you need 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We will be reading yours on 5 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: the air. We could you know now? Or gold leaf 6 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 1: on Toro, gold leaf on what to? Hey? Let's toro? 7 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: What if? What? Hold on? Mister gold leaf? Buckle up, 8 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 1: hold on type We got it for you here. It 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry letter subject. That's not what Steve Harvey 10 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: wrote in that book. Dear Stephen, Shirley my best friend 11 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: and now you're gonna like it. Steve, my best friend 12 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: and I have been really close for seventeen years, but 13 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: now we are constantly bickering over her twisted ideas of 14 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: love and marriage. She has always taken an interest in 15 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: reading books about male and female relationships, but her favorite 16 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: book is Steve Harvey's Act Like a La Do You 17 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: Think Like a Man? And she has twisted each chapter 18 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 1: to fit how she chooses to live. In the past, 19 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: she has dated great guys, but she would break up 20 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: with the guys if they didn't have any desire to 21 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: take care of her financially, she brings nothing to the 22 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: table and she lives paycheck to paycheck. She has a 23 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: new guy that she is dating and he has a 24 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: great job, so she's happy. She brags about how he 25 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 1: helps her with her bills and he gives her money 26 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: to shop. She has told me that he makes comments 27 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: about her current living conditions because she lives with her 28 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: parents and she uses their car. I told her that 29 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: he is making those comments for a reason, because she 30 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: maintains that she will not move out or buy her 31 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: own car, because if a man has an issue with it, 32 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: he will get her a nice place of her own 33 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: and buy her a new car. She said that Steve 34 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: Harvey's book says that males are hunters and that all 35 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: all the women do need to do is stay pretty 36 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: with her hair together, nails and toes done, and a 37 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: man will come in and take care of everything else. 38 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: What grab right now? Whoa Carlin, let's leave. Okay, we're 39 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 1: doing this all wrong, according to her, all right, the lady, 40 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: the letter writer says. She said that Steve Harvey said 41 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: that it's a woman's role to take care of her man, 42 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: raise the kids, and keep the house together. I read 43 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey's book, And nowhere in there does it say 44 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: that I need you to clear this up because she 45 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: listens to the show every day. So do men want 46 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: women to bring something to the table or is it 47 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: really the man's role to step in and do it all? Well, 48 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: let me start by saying, you're so right a letter writer, 49 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 1: you're so right, so on point. It's not so much 50 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: about a woman bringing something to the table, you know, 51 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: it's about the attitude of your bestie thinking that men 52 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: owe her something just because that's what she's saying in 53 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: this letter. I mean, that's where she's she's got it 54 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: all twisted. A man will do that, they'll they'll do 55 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: that and more for her if she has the means, 56 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: if he has the means and the desire to. But 57 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: that's up to him, all right, that's not up to her. 58 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: My advice to her would be save some of her 59 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: money while she's staying with mom and dad, just in 60 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: case her man, you know, doesn't move her out and 61 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: doesn't buy her a car. At least then she'll be 62 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: able to afford her own place, in her own car 63 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: with her own money. And you know, of course it's 64 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: nice to have someone buy and give you gifts and 65 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: stuff like that, take care of you, and all you 66 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: have to do is sit there and look pretty. That's nice. 67 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: But just sitting around and waiting for a man to 68 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: do that, it's just not very smart. Okay, get out, 69 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: get your own, be your own boss. Whatever the man 70 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: does for you, that's gravy. That's extra. He owes you nothing, okay, 71 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: absolutely nothing. And Steve said, nothing of the kind. What 72 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: book did you read? What book did you read? He said, 73 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: nothing of the kind? Did you Steve? She army helped 74 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: me write the book. Yes, that ain't in now. Ain't 75 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: nobody told you that. Go somewhere and sit on your ass. 76 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 1: Just look pretty and that's it. Man, can't get your 77 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: hair done, on your nails. I don't even want to 78 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: be in this left. Straighten her out, Steve, that's not 79 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: what Steve Hart wrote in his book. I appreciate saying that, lady, 80 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: but your friend is seventeen years got all these twisted 81 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: ideas about love and Madge. Yeah, she interested in reading 82 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,359 Speaker 1: books about male and female relationships, but her favorite book 83 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: is the one I wrote. Act like a lady, think 84 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: like a man. Now. In the past, she didn't dated 85 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: some good guys, but she break up with him if 86 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 1: they didn't have any desire to take care of her finance. 87 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: And that's Steve's fat girl. Well it's day two. You 88 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: let me show you this I bought in my purse. 89 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: You see these stack of bills right now? We're going 90 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 1: back to your place or what, but we need to 91 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: go through these bills. I got these car notes. We 92 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: you know, huh you ain't. You ain't fend to pay 93 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: these bill Oh, you get your ass out of here. 94 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: I ain't sleeping with you no more. She brings nothing 95 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: to the table, nothing, and she lived paycheck to paycheck, 96 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 1: and she's dating this new guy. Got a great job, 97 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: so she happy. She brags about he helped so with 98 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: her bills. It gives her money to shop. Wow, now 99 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: she's not telling you what she's doing to get these 100 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: little car notes in the shopping spree. She up in 101 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: hell on her back? What she in hell back? Letting 102 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: it go. She don't bring nothing to the table. She 103 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: is the table. I'm telling you right now. See y'all 104 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: put looking at these letters without seeing was in hell? 105 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: He a new guy? M He pay her bills, gives 106 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: her money to shop. All this hell because she up 107 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: in hell on her back. I thought all she was 108 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: keep her hair done, putting it down. She keep her 109 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: head hanging off the edge of the bed. That's how 110 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: she keep her head. Who always going down up in here. 111 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: It's going down up in here. And she knows what 112 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: she's doing too. It's just so when men get tired 113 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: of it and get you all these reading all these 114 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: bills while eating, just putting out all kind of bills, sail, 115 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: phone bill, grocery bill. Yeah, look what I had to help. 116 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: I help my mom deal with the rinch. You don't 117 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: you don't want to do nothing for that? Wow? Wow, 118 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: all right, hang on. Part two of Steve's response is 119 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three after the hour of today's letter. 120 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: The subject that's not what Steve Harvey wrote in that book, 121 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: let's recap. This woman been dating using my book all wrong. 122 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: An'tybody told her do none of this head? So she 123 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: don't want no man. Everybody she dated a man, and 124 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: if they don't start taking care of her financially, she 125 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: break up with him. When she got a new guy. 126 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: Now and you know he got a good job and everything. 127 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: So she bragging about how he helps up with her bills, 128 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: and he gives her money to shop. Before we left, 129 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: I explain to you why you getting money for your 130 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: bills and why you can go shop? Why? Because you 131 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: ain't here on your bash. She's not just looking pretty 132 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: with her hair, nails and raise your role? Okay? She 133 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: said that Steve Harvey said it's a woman's role to 134 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: take care of her man, raise the kids, and keep 135 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: the house together. All that. When did I tell you 136 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: your job is to take care man? All the women 137 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: need to do is stay pretty with our hair together, 138 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: nails and toes done, and that's not in my book, 139 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: and take care of everything else. Ain't nobody fing to 140 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: do that? And you bring nothing to the table. According 141 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 1: to this letter, she told me that this man now 142 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: been making comments about her current living conditions because she 143 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: lives with her parents and she uses their car. The 144 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: lady wrote the ladder saying, I told it he's making 145 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: those comments for a reason. But she maintains that she 146 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: will not move out or buy a whole car because 147 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: if a man has an issue with it, he will 148 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 1: get it got an issue with it, he will get 149 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: her a nice place on her own and buy her 150 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: a new car. Okay, are you crazy. See, baby, let 151 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: me explain to you where you're going wrong with this 152 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: whole thing. First of all, you had several men good man, 153 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: and the moment they don't want to financially take care 154 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: of you want to break up with him. Well, let's dude, right, 155 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 1: here's taking care of some stuff for you. Yeah. But 156 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: now he hadn't brought up the fact that you live 157 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: with your mom and you're using their car, because he 158 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: can he trying to figure out, okay, now where we are. Now. 159 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: Now you say, if he really loves you, here, help 160 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: you get your place and buy a new car. No, 161 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: he's n Now, you haven't been on your back with 162 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: these men before and it ain't produced a house or 163 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:11,079 Speaker 1: call or nothing. To hell else when you're fitting to 164 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: learn that this don't work. I got this your requirement, 165 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: but you keep passing out cookie before you get calls apartments, 166 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: rents and money. And then the dude, that dude give 167 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 1: you this money. He started asking you why are you 168 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: still living with your mom and you and you're driving 169 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: that car? So does that mean he's getting sick of HER's? 170 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: Because he thought he had something, He got food, he 171 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: thought he had something. Found out he didn't. Now she 172 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: said that Steve Harvey books said that males are hunters. 173 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: I've always said that, and all that women need to 174 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: do is stay pretty without had together, nails and toes done, 175 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: and a man will come and take care of everything else. 176 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: What girl, let's leave now because y'all ought to have 177 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 1: a lock on it? You calling Monica can go now? 178 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: Y'all have dung your nails? And does y'all ought to 179 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: be good? What y'all in here for? Ya'a? I'm trying 180 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: to take care of y'rself. Oh, y'all y'all trying to 181 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: be independent? Dam that's dumb, he says. Steve Harvey said, 182 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 1: it's a woman's role to take care of her man. 183 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: How are you gonna take care of man? Or you 184 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: ain't working? See why would I say that and you 185 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: ain't working? Yeah? I ran Steve Harvey's book, and nowhere 186 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: in there doesn't say that. I need you to clear 187 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: this up because she listens to the show everything. So 188 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: do men want women to bring something to the table? 189 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 1: The answer to that is yes. Now, let me help 190 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 1: you understand this a little bit better. If a man 191 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: is wealthy, his requirement may not be for you to 192 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: have a job. But now, if he has the means, 193 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 1: let me tell you what he do want. He wants 194 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: a woman that he can put on his arm and 195 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: take places. He wants a woman who looks good, I 196 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: mean that sounds good in meetings and social settings. He 197 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: wants a woman that's able to classly mingle in and 198 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 1: out of all different situations. He wants a woman that's stylished. 199 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: So what may want a woman who's really good with kids, 200 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: because he may have children. He's also looking at a 201 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: woman where if she has kids, what type of mother 202 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: she is, and how can he fit in there and 203 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 1: be provider for her and all of them. He also 204 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: looking for a woman who can better him, who can 205 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: help him be or better him. Now, if for a 206 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: woman can do those things, that becomes your job. And 207 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: your job is very simple, it has a great reward 208 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: to it. But if you bring nothing to the table. 209 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: See at one point in time, this is what happens 210 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: to people who bring nothing to the table. You're gonna 211 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 1: pull your champ one time. It ain't gonna be nothing. 212 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: Oh it's not gonna be a table. Yeah, you're gonna 213 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: pull your champ and ain't gonna be nothing eat. Oh 214 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: you at the table, but ain't a damn thing on 215 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: there for you to eat because he didn't eat and left. 216 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: You've got to bring something to the table. And in 217 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: this last swaggered elegance under wisdom or something, you know, 218 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: watch his back. Yeah, maybe listen to me. I don't 219 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 1: like him because when you're not looking, he looking upside 220 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: your head. Yes, loyalty, Yeah, Steve, Steve, his name is Sawyer. 221 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: Stop calling this man. Seem you've done that a few times. 222 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: Having this much Steve, that's al Burns. Don't say nothing else. 223 00:13:52,720 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: Ain't say stupid ass. I said, hell boy, she'd be 224 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 1: behind me if you don't, Steve, say Steve before you 225 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 1: shake their hand. Just turned around. I know everybody in 226 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 1: all my friends know these people. Stop just guessing. Yeah 227 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 1: you don't know, and and and stop saying what's happening? 228 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, quick calling anybody. M These white people don't 229 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. What's happening? Uh my man, 230 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: I see you boy, good to see you get going on? 231 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: What that Yeah, talking to this Russian man. He don't 232 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: know what that means. It's just so funny because that's 233 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: so true. We've seen you do that man, oh man, 234 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: she'd be behind me all the time. Steve, Steve, that's 235 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: the president of NBC, who all right, we gotta get 236 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: out of here. Email us our Instagram us your thoughts 237 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey f M. You're 238 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: listening show