WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Three Meals One Date

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to your week. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning with a brand new second Date update. And

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<v Speaker 1>this is just one where I constantly am shocked to

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<v Speaker 1>what listeners don't tell us. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there are gonna be a lot of thoughts after this.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that for sure, so just sit back and enjoy.

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<v Speaker 1>We always love to start with your comments.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this was a little confusing, but David said, found

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<v Speaker 2>my wife at the d m V, and boy do

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I could return her?

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<v Speaker 1>Lol? Yeah, I didn't know if I was missing the joke. Serious,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how long.

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<v Speaker 3>The lines are. This guy got married a whole.

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<v Speaker 4>Front.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, I didn't know you could return things at

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<v Speaker 1>the DMV. Yeah, maybe that's where he got confused. What

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<v Speaker 1>a romantic Yeah all right, let's get your brand new

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<v Speaker 1>second date right now.

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<v Speaker 3>The second date update. Ladies will tell you that men

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<v Speaker 3>on the dating apps come in all different forms. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you've got the shy boys, the alpha bros, the doggie dads,

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<v Speaker 3>the tough and ruthless, and the rough and toothless. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and most of them all live on a site called

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<v Speaker 3>Plenty of Fish, where, coincidentally, that's exactly where our listener

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<v Speaker 3>Christine met her date recently.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like the toothless ones too?

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder which category of man he's going to fall into.

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<v Speaker 3>But Christine, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hian.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting. Plenty of Fish is ridiculed a lot, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Not just by people on our show, but just in

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<v Speaker 3>the world in general.

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<v Speaker 1>What made you turn to that site?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I just I didn't really have great luck on

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<v Speaker 2>I guess like the other one, Okay, okay, I just

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<v Speaker 2>thought I'll give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 3>I've actually never tried Plenty of Fish because everyone's talked

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<v Speaker 3>bad about it. I guess go towards it.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Desperation can bring you to do a lot of different

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<v Speaker 3>really excited.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like so good. The people on it like talk

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<v Speaker 1>badly to keep it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah all right, Well tell us you obviously met a guy.

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<v Speaker 3>What's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>Luke?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? And what type of guy is he? On the

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<v Speaker 3>dating apps.

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<v Speaker 2>Categorizing He is like a rugged guy and like, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>build a log cabin with my bare hands.

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<v Speaker 1>Log cabin. Rugged guys don't go to private school with

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<v Speaker 1>family yachts.

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<v Speaker 3>He bought a log cabin.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't it is not a Jeffrey because Jeffrey has

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<v Speaker 1>a beer.

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<v Speaker 3>You're sounding very jealous that she actually met a really

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<v Speaker 3>tough and rough funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Because like, you've never had a callous on your hands.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know why I was doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, tell us about Luke, SORRYND.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you know, he's very manly, he's very handsome.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I thought we had a good connection on

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<v Speaker 2>our date.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you guys do? Wait? Hold on, where'd you go?

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, we went to outback steakhouse, which I love.

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<v Speaker 3>Was there like a big highlight moment of the date

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<v Speaker 3>for you? That really stands out as the best part

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<v Speaker 3>of the night.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I'll say this. He was an absolute gentleman,

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<v Speaker 2>like he held the door open for me, and I

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was like flirtatious and I thought we had

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<v Speaker 2>good chemistry.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, I mean the vibe that you're describing right

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<v Speaker 3>now is very positive. You obviously liked his physicalness. You

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<v Speaker 3>say the conversation went really well, hot hands, But what

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<v Speaker 3>signals were you getting from Luke towards you or were

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<v Speaker 3>you getting any signals at all? What was your read?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess it wasn't like overly like he wasn't. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>some people really lay it on sick. I thought he

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<v Speaker 2>was just kind of polite, but I mean he was

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<v Speaker 2>answering my questions. He had good eye contact.

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<v Speaker 3>With me, kind of like a job interview.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think it was that stare.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he shuffles the men usual quick. All right, next question.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a point where maybe he thought something I

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<v Speaker 2>did was a little weird. I'm not entirely sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta tell him what you do.

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<v Speaker 2>I ordered two entrees, and I don't I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>that he liked that.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to a super nice restaurant with my bros recently,

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<v Speaker 3>and one of my friends ordered two entrees just because

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<v Speaker 3>he's like, I'm never gonna come to this nice restaurant

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<v Speaker 3>for a.

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<v Speaker 1>Back steakhouse, yeah, Italian where they give you too small

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<v Speaker 1>than him out.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also ordered a dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA, No, maybe he's rude if he's paying and you

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<v Speaker 1>order this much.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of subtly offered to pay, but then he

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<v Speaker 2>just he just did.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the night end? Like? Did he say I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to see you again, or make any indication

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<v Speaker 1>that he was thinking about a second date at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>so okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So like at the end of the date, I told him, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're interested, you can because we both drove separately,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like, if you want, you can just follow

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<v Speaker 2>me home. We can watch a movie or something and

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<v Speaker 2>keep hanging out because I was having a really good time.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Wow, that's quite the invite. What did he say?

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<v Speaker 2>He kind of just stept like okay, and you like

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<v Speaker 2>gave me a hug. So I'm not sure if it's

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<v Speaker 2>because I drove too fast and he just couldn't follow me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not really so he said yes to going back

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<v Speaker 3>and following you to your place, but you sped home.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess it was like halfway into the drive home,

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<v Speaker 2>I just looked up and I realized he wasn't there anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Anytime you tell.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone to follow you realize I'll slow your friend's drive.

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<v Speaker 3>I've done this too. You gotta call him. You're like,

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<v Speaker 3>where are you?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I'm still.

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<v Speaker 1>Too like to Yeah, why didn't you just text him

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<v Speaker 1>your address or something?

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<v Speaker 2>So I ended up messaging him the next day because

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't sure, like if you purposefully stitched me or or.

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<v Speaker 1>The Okay, was never an actual like I'm following you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wasn't sure, and if he did ditch me,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to be like, oh, where are you

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<v Speaker 2>right now? So I waited until the next day and

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<v Speaker 2>I messaged him and I basically just was kind of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I had such a nice time. I'd love to see

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<v Speaker 2>you again, but I do want to, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to like talk to him on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to like know what happened, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was really I was really into him.

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<v Speaker 3>So how are we It sounds like you're really into him.

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<v Speaker 3>You just want to hear his voice one more time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll bring you happiness.

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<v Speaker 1>How are we going to call him? If you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were only messaging through the app?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so at that point I didn't have his phone number,

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<v Speaker 2>but I have.

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<v Speaker 3>It now, Okay, you had the police look it up

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<v Speaker 3>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you get on the app?

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<v Speaker 3>Later?

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<v Speaker 1>After?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, do you mind if we just text?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So I have texted him after, but now he's just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of not responding, Okay, Okay, Well that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>That means he doesn't despise you enough.

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<v Speaker 1>To give you It's not gonna be one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners who loves to do things like really higher private

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<v Speaker 1>detectives or something. I'm actually really relieved.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I have a good friend like that, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not okay.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, will you have your friend be our backup

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<v Speaker 3>plan in case we really need to track this? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>rugged guy down, but we're gonna come back and call

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<v Speaker 3>Luke and your plenty of fish Outback Steakhouse. Second Date

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<v Speaker 3>Update a limited edition medium rare coming up right after

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<v Speaker 3>this Second Date update. One Girl, one boy, three entrees,

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<v Speaker 3>forty thousand calories, and somehow zero follow up about a

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<v Speaker 3>second date for a meal like that. It's pretty much

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<v Speaker 3>what happened when our listener Christine met up with the rugged,

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<v Speaker 3>walking mountain of testosterone named Luke over at the Outback Steakhouse.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want to grunt right now even talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 3>She even gave him the rare offer of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you can follow me home tonight if you want, and

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<v Speaker 3>I won't be mad. Well, Christine was obviously very into Luke.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm curious, Christine, what do you have to say

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<v Speaker 3>to anyone who might think you came off as a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit too eager?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm not interested in someone who thinks I'm too eager.

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<v Speaker 2>I want someone who's gonna take me as I am.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good one. And God, why is being excited

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<v Speaker 1>about something bad these days? Be excited. Don't act like

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<v Speaker 1>you've been there before. You know, live in the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never seen a woman before in real life. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you know what, and order the damn too entrees. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>life short, all right, that's right, it pants, Okay, not that.

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<v Speaker 3>So you remember when I talked about a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>too eager, how it comes across. That's exactly what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to call this guy for you, Christine.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that's the perfect amount of it. All right,

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<v Speaker 3>let's just do it. I'm gonna dials number right now.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see if he picks up. And Christine, remember don't

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<v Speaker 3>jump in until we call you out and tell him

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<v Speaker 3>that you're on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, oh yeah, okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Just try try to hold it in. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, this is Luke WHOA I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't expecting that.

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<v Speaker 1>His hands just answered the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Luke, this is a radio show. We're called Brook and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>What's going on guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, man, we know this is weird. Let Jeff explain.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>in the Morning, and we're doing a segment called a

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<v Speaker 3>second Date Update. Second Date Update there, Sorry about that, okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>So basically, it's a segment where we try to help

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<v Speaker 3>out listeners in their dating lives. If they've gone out

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<v Speaker 3>with someone and they're not getting a call back for

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<v Speaker 3>a second meetup, we can try and reach out on

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<v Speaker 3>their behalf to figure out why.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I've heard of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, and we've heard some good things about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hm.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that too eager?

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<v Speaker 3>Nor the tone was a little bit sensual? Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 3>heard it from a woman named Christine who you took

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<v Speaker 3>to the Outback steakhouse recently and now you're not calling

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<v Speaker 3>her back.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, she knows why.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>She has no idea why, otherwise she wouldn't be reaching

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<v Speaker 3>out to our show to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, well, you're yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting. Obviously, it sounds like it should be pretty apparent.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, when you bring your three kids on the date

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<v Speaker 4>and you don't tell the person that you're going on

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<v Speaker 4>the date with bringing the third kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, goodness as Wait, she did not mention she brought children,

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<v Speaker 1>or had children, or invited you home to her house

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<v Speaker 1>with children.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she has three kids that she brought on the date.

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<v Speaker 4>They're like five.

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<v Speaker 3>They were at the table with you, or they were

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<v Speaker 3>out waiting in the car. Let's hope not, Jeff, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>this is a good gauge. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I've been on some dates, and I mean there

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<v Speaker 4>was some positives about it, but I wasn't expecting to

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<v Speaker 4>pay for all theirs.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, that's why she ordered the second entree.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it got a little bit weird. I

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<v Speaker 4>had to take the younger one to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, she had a stranger take her son to the back.

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<v Speaker 4>Older Yeah, the older kid was being really weird and

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't do it so good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Many questions like how did she even introduce you to

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<v Speaker 1>the children like a mom's.

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<v Speaker 4>Friend or what she just you know, said, these are

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<v Speaker 4>my kids, kids, these are luke and you know, it's

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<v Speaker 4>have fun. And it was. It was different for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, were they good kids? Are they well behaved kids? Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, no, they were well behaved. I mean except

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<v Speaker 4>for when it came to the bathroom. The one was

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<v Speaker 4>being a little bit of a brad.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, okay, why why would she not tell us that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is so bizarre.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually a great question, Brooke, and we should just

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<v Speaker 3>ask it directly to Christine, because Luke, you don't know this,

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<v Speaker 3>but she's on the other line right now waiting to

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<v Speaker 3>jump in and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, what.

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<v Speaker 1>The kids are at school, so it's just us.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Yes, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you've got some explaining to do. Christine.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look, I didn't tell you guys that I brought

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<v Speaker 2>my kids because you didn't have.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no one asked that ismal.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fair. We probably should be more thorough. Kids on

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<v Speaker 3>the dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Karids don't bring kids on dates. They don't bring kids

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<v Speaker 1>if you're married and on a date. They don't kids

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not married and single and on a date

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<v Speaker 1>you considered.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you've read the rule book on dating with children.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing sexy about being out on a date and having

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<v Speaker 1>children there, especially if they're your children and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to take care of them.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>You sure are judging her a lot, and we haven't

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<v Speaker 3>even heard the reason why. Like maybe there's a totally

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<v Speaker 3>logical explanation behind us, right, Christine.

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<v Speaker 2>I just figured if he's gonna date me, he needs

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<v Speaker 2>to know all the people that I have in my

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<v Speaker 2>life and that are very close to me, who closer

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<v Speaker 2>to me than my children. So I just thought it'd

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<v Speaker 2>be a good way to just meet us all up front,

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<v Speaker 2>and honestly, I mean, look, you handled my three kids

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<v Speaker 2>really well. I think I could see us having more.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoaa more than three?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, at least six kids. And as we said,

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<v Speaker 2>I only have boys, so nice to get some girls

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<v Speaker 2>in there to balance it out.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. Yeah, Luke, she just put it on the table

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<v Speaker 3>for you.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think I did not know she was

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<v Speaker 4>sharing to be ocome on, Like, I gotta be honest,

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<v Speaker 4>you know. When she invited me back, at first I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, okay, but it felt a little weird. And

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<v Speaker 4>then on the way there, I was like, what are

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<v Speaker 4>we going to do when we get there? You wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to watch a movie? We're gonna watch like Mawana or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Great he's familiar with. That's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I mean I certainly have a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>movies to choose from. I just thought it would be

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<v Speaker 2>kind of nice to do a family.

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<v Speaker 4>I just think that something you mentioned on a first

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<v Speaker 4>date that you have kids, you don't necessarily bring them

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<v Speaker 4>on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>It can't be good for your kids to be part

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<v Speaker 1>of your dating life. Hey, they got a nice meal

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<v Speaker 1>out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Brother, Fine, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis, do you like being involved with your mother's dating life? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well no, but but.

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<v Speaker 3>She's older now. As a five or seven year old,

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<v Speaker 3>it would have been really.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun of well, I mean, it could have turned out

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<v Speaker 2>a lot worse. You know, my two baby daddies. They

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<v Speaker 2>were asking what I was up to. I was thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about even inviting them.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you said, baby daddy's plural, there's multiple.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why would.

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<v Speaker 1>You bring them on a date?

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<v Speaker 2>They asked? And they have every right to see their kids,

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, if they want to come by, Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>a party.

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<v Speaker 4>Three kids is some baggage, but three kids and two

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<v Speaker 4>baby daddies, that's a whole lot of baggage.

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<v Speaker 1>But they do feel it does sound like they all

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<v Speaker 1>get along.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we do.

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<v Speaker 2>I get along with the two of them. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>get along with the other one though.

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<v Speaker 3>It makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you're trying to have six kids? By six different guys,

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<v Speaker 4>like what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>This family's really important to me. And look, Luke, I

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<v Speaker 2>think you're great. I think you're this like wonderful, traditional

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<v Speaker 2>manly guy. I love your big hands. And I just

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<v Speaker 2>thought maybe if you're up for it to do a

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<v Speaker 2>date with less people and I could just bring like

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<v Speaker 2>one kid or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that's a pretty good deal for you, Luke,

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<v Speaker 3>because I mean, I get how expensive babysitting is, so

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<v Speaker 3>there is that. Yeah, And it sounds, Luke like you

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<v Speaker 3>weren't turned off by the fact that she had kids.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just that she surprised you with him and you

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<v Speaker 3>weren't ready for it. So Luke, hopefully you can forgive

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<v Speaker 3>her for her one little mistake of not warning you

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<v Speaker 3>about her mistakes warning you, and then we would love

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<v Speaker 3>to offer to send you on one more date with her,

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<v Speaker 3>a date that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm only going to bring one kid next time. I

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<v Speaker 2>won't bring all three. It'll be a much cheaper date.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it'll go a lot better.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, which are bringing the bathroom one or the troubled one?

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<v Speaker 3>You probably shouldn't bring the bathroom one.

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<v Speaker 2>Theems like the good one.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you say, Luke, one more chance.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have to pass guys. Sorry. Oh wow, Christine,

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<v Speaker 4>you're a really sweet girl, and I hope everything works

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<v Speaker 4>out for you.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just saying that because his voice is really sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a very sexy voice.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the morning. A lot of weirdness in that call,

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<v Speaker 3>for sure, But at the end of the day, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>On us because we didn't ask. You brought her three children.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, I ordered multiple meals, multiple dinners, and no one

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<v Speaker 3>in the room was like, oh, were there other people

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<v Speaker 3>at the table with you. No, we all just assumed

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<v Speaker 3>she ate it herself because that's exactly what we would do.

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<v Speaker 1>Excited, she's like, get a girl, I'm a hungry girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I got her on that the three kids. She lost

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<v Speaker 1>me on We should.

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<v Speaker 3>Have been more forward and more asking better with our

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<v Speaker 3>journalistic abilities, Brooke, you went to college for this.

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<v Speaker 1>The last thing I want to think about when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on a date is kids them. Yes, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to think about him when you're having a romantic date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but again, I think the point is we can

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<v Speaker 3>be better and not have surprises like that. Slam us

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<v Speaker 3>in the face. The next time we do a call

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<v Speaker 3>like this, all right. It was that was really tragic.

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<v Speaker 3>But we do have some good work in our history.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go find some of it online, and all

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<v Speaker 3>of our podcasts, they're available up wherever you get them.

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<v Speaker 3>Abroke and Jeffrey