Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your week. It's Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning with a brand new second Date update. And
Speaker 1: this is just one where I constantly am shocked to
Speaker 1: what listeners don't tell us. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like,
Speaker 1: there are gonna be a lot of thoughts after this.
Speaker 1: I know that for sure, so just sit back and enjoy.
Speaker 1: We always love to start with your comments.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this was a little confusing, but David said, found
Speaker 2: my wife at the d m V, and boy do
Speaker 2: I wish I could return her?
Speaker 1: Lol? Yeah, I didn't know if I was missing the joke. Serious,
Speaker 1: that's how long.
Speaker 3: The lines are. This guy got married a whole.
Speaker 4: Front.
Speaker 1: I see, I didn't know you could return things at
Speaker 1: the DMV. Yeah, maybe that's where he got confused. What
Speaker 1: a romantic Yeah all right, let's get your brand new
Speaker 1: second date right now.
Speaker 3: The second date update. Ladies will tell you that men
Speaker 3: on the dating apps come in all different forms. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you've got the shy boys, the alpha bros, the doggie dads,
Speaker 3: the tough and ruthless, and the rough and toothless. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: and most of them all live on a site called
Speaker 3: Plenty of Fish, where, coincidentally, that's exactly where our listener
Speaker 3: Christine met her date recently.
Speaker 1: Did you like the toothless ones too?
Speaker 3: I wonder which category of man he's going to fall into.
Speaker 3: But Christine, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hian.
Speaker 1: It's interesting. Plenty of Fish is ridiculed a lot, right.
Speaker 3: Not just by people on our show, but just in
Speaker 3: the world in general.
Speaker 1: What made you turn to that site?
Speaker 2: Well, I just I didn't really have great luck on
Speaker 2: I guess like the other one, Okay, okay, I just
Speaker 2: thought I'll give it a shot.
Speaker 3: I've actually never tried Plenty of Fish because everyone's talked
Speaker 3: bad about it. I guess go towards it.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Desperation can bring you to do a lot of different
Speaker 3: really excited.
Speaker 1: He's like so good. The people on it like talk
Speaker 1: badly to keep it up.
Speaker 3: Yeah all right, Well tell us you obviously met a guy.
Speaker 3: What's his name?
Speaker 1: Luke?
Speaker 3: Okay? And what type of guy is he? On the
Speaker 3: dating apps.
Speaker 2: Categorizing He is like a rugged guy and like, I'll
Speaker 2: build a log cabin with my bare hands.
Speaker 1: Log cabin. Rugged guys don't go to private school with
Speaker 1: family yachts.
Speaker 3: He bought a log cabin.
Speaker 1: That doesn't it is not a Jeffrey because Jeffrey has
Speaker 1: a beer.
Speaker 3: You're sounding very jealous that she actually met a really
Speaker 3: tough and rough funny.
Speaker 1: Because like, you've never had a callous on your hands.
Speaker 3: So I don't know why I was doing that.
Speaker 1: Okay, tell us about Luke, SORRYND.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, he's very manly, he's very handsome.
Speaker 2: I mean, I thought we had a good connection on
Speaker 2: our date.
Speaker 1: What'd you guys do? Wait? Hold on, where'd you go?
Speaker 1: What'd you do?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh, we went to outback steakhouse, which I love.
Speaker 3: Was there like a big highlight moment of the date
Speaker 3: for you? That really stands out as the best part
Speaker 3: of the night.
Speaker 2: I guess I'll say this. He was an absolute gentleman,
Speaker 2: like he held the door open for me, and I
Speaker 2: thought it was like flirtatious and I thought we had
Speaker 2: good chemistry.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I mean the vibe that you're describing right
Speaker 3: now is very positive. You obviously liked his physicalness. You
Speaker 3: say the conversation went really well, hot hands, But what
Speaker 3: signals were you getting from Luke towards you or were
Speaker 3: you getting any signals at all? What was your read?
Speaker 2: I guess it wasn't like overly like he wasn't. You know,
Speaker 2: some people really lay it on sick. I thought he
Speaker 2: was just kind of polite, but I mean he was
Speaker 2: answering my questions. He had good eye contact.
Speaker 3: With me, kind of like a job interview.
Speaker 2: I didn't think it was that stare.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he shuffles the men usual quick. All right, next question.
Speaker 2: There was a point where maybe he thought something I
Speaker 2: did was a little weird. I'm not entirely sure.
Speaker 3: I gotta tell him what you do.
Speaker 2: I ordered two entrees, and I don't I don't know
Speaker 2: that he liked that.
Speaker 3: I went to a super nice restaurant with my bros recently,
Speaker 3: and one of my friends ordered two entrees just because
Speaker 3: he's like, I'm never gonna come to this nice restaurant
Speaker 3: for a.
Speaker 1: Back steakhouse, yeah, Italian where they give you too small
Speaker 1: than him out.
Speaker 2: And I also ordered a dessert.
Speaker 1: WHOA, No, maybe he's rude if he's paying and you
Speaker 1: order this much.
Speaker 2: I kind of subtly offered to pay, but then he
Speaker 2: just he just did.
Speaker 1: How did the night end? Like? Did he say I
Speaker 1: can't wait to see you again, or make any indication
Speaker 1: that he was thinking about a second date at that point,
Speaker 1: so okay.
Speaker 2: So like at the end of the date, I told him, like, hey,
Speaker 2: if you're interested, you can because we both drove separately,
Speaker 2: so it's like, if you want, you can just follow
Speaker 2: me home. We can watch a movie or something and
Speaker 2: keep hanging out because I was having a really good time.
Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, that's quite the invite. What did he say?
Speaker 2: He kind of just stept like okay, and you like
Speaker 2: gave me a hug. So I'm not sure if it's
Speaker 2: because I drove too fast and he just couldn't follow me.
Speaker 3: I'm not really so he said yes to going back
Speaker 3: and following you to your place, but you sped home.
Speaker 2: I guess it was like halfway into the drive home,
Speaker 2: I just looked up and I realized he wasn't there anymore.
Speaker 1: Anytime you tell.
Speaker 3: Someone to follow you realize I'll slow your friend's drive.
Speaker 3: I've done this too. You gotta call him. You're like,
Speaker 3: where are you?
Speaker 2: It's like I'm still.
Speaker 1: Too like to Yeah, why didn't you just text him
Speaker 1: your address or something?
Speaker 2: So I ended up messaging him the next day because
Speaker 2: I wasn't sure, like if you purposefully stitched me or or.
Speaker 1: The Okay, was never an actual like I'm following you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't sure, and if he did ditch me,
Speaker 2: I didn't want to be like, oh, where are you
Speaker 2: right now? So I waited until the next day and
Speaker 2: I messaged him and I basically just was kind of like, oh,
Speaker 2: I had such a nice time. I'd love to see
Speaker 2: you again, but I do want to, like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: I just want to like talk to him on the phone.
Speaker 2: I just want to like know what happened, because I
Speaker 2: was really I was really into him.
Speaker 3: So how are we It sounds like you're really into him.
Speaker 3: You just want to hear his voice one more time.
Speaker 3: I'll bring you happiness.
Speaker 1: How are we going to call him? If you guys
Speaker 1: were only messaging through the app?
Speaker 2: Well, so at that point I didn't have his phone number,
Speaker 2: but I have.
Speaker 3: It now, Okay, you had the police look it up
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 1: How did you get on the app?
Speaker 3: Later?
Speaker 1: After?
Speaker 2: I was like, do you mind if we just text?
Speaker 1: Is that? Okay?
Speaker 2: So I have texted him after, but now he's just
Speaker 2: kind of not responding, Okay, Okay, Well that's good.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: That means he doesn't despise you enough.
Speaker 1: To give you It's not gonna be one of our
Speaker 1: listeners who loves to do things like really higher private
Speaker 1: detectives or something. I'm actually really relieved.
Speaker 2: No, I have a good friend like that, but I'm
Speaker 2: not okay.
Speaker 3: All right, will you have your friend be our backup
Speaker 3: plan in case we really need to track this? Yeah,
Speaker 3: rugged guy down, but we're gonna come back and call
Speaker 3: Luke and your plenty of fish Outback Steakhouse. Second Date
Speaker 3: Update a limited edition medium rare coming up right after
Speaker 3: this Second Date update. One Girl, one boy, three entrees,
Speaker 3: forty thousand calories, and somehow zero follow up about a
Speaker 3: second date for a meal like that. It's pretty much
Speaker 3: what happened when our listener Christine met up with the rugged,
Speaker 3: walking mountain of testosterone named Luke over at the Outback Steakhouse.
Speaker 1: And I just want to grunt right now even talking
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 3: She even gave him the rare offer of you know,
Speaker 3: you can follow me home tonight if you want, and
Speaker 3: I won't be mad. Well, Christine was obviously very into Luke.
Speaker 3: But I'm curious, Christine, what do you have to say
Speaker 3: to anyone who might think you came off as a
Speaker 3: little bit too eager?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not interested in someone who thinks I'm too eager.
Speaker 2: I want someone who's gonna take me as I am.
Speaker 1: That's a good one. And God, why is being excited
Speaker 1: about something bad these days? Be excited. Don't act like
Speaker 1: you've been there before. You know, live in the moment.
Speaker 3: I've never seen a woman before in real life. Oh
Speaker 3: my goodness.
Speaker 1: Hey, you know what, and order the damn too entrees. Yeah,
Speaker 1: life short, all right, that's right, it pants, Okay, not that.
Speaker 3: So you remember when I talked about a little bit
Speaker 3: too eager, how it comes across. That's exactly what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to call this guy for you, Christine.
Speaker 3: All right, that's the perfect amount of it. All right,
Speaker 3: let's just do it. I'm gonna dials number right now.
Speaker 3: We'll see if he picks up. And Christine, remember don't
Speaker 3: jump in until we call you out and tell him
Speaker 3: that you're on the phone.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah, okay, all right.
Speaker 3: Just try try to hold it in. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello, this is Luke WHOA I know.
Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 1: His hands just answered the phone.
Speaker 3: Luke, this is a radio show. We're called Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: What's going on guys.
Speaker 3: Sorry, man, we know this is weird. Let Jeff explain.
Speaker 3: This is a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: in the Morning, and we're doing a segment called a
Speaker 3: second Date Update. Second Date Update there, Sorry about that, okay. Yeah,
Speaker 3: So basically, it's a segment where we try to help
Speaker 3: out listeners in their dating lives. If they've gone out
Speaker 3: with someone and they're not getting a call back for
Speaker 3: a second meetup, we can try and reach out on
Speaker 3: their behalf to figure out why.
Speaker 4: Okay, I've heard of it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and we've heard some good things about you.
Speaker 2: Hm.
Speaker 1: Was that too eager?
Speaker 3: Nor the tone was a little bit sensual? Yeah, we
Speaker 3: heard it from a woman named Christine who you took
Speaker 3: to the Outback steakhouse recently and now you're not calling
Speaker 3: her back.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, she knows why.
Speaker 1: Actually she doesn't.
Speaker 3: She has no idea why, otherwise she wouldn't be reaching
Speaker 3: out to our show to get a hold of you.
Speaker 4: Really, well, you're yeah.
Speaker 1: That's interesting. Obviously, it sounds like it should be pretty apparent.
Speaker 4: Well, when you bring your three kids on the date
Speaker 4: and you don't tell the person that you're going on
Speaker 4: the date with bringing the third kids.
Speaker 1: Well, goodness as Wait, she did not mention she brought children,
Speaker 1: or had children, or invited you home to her house
Speaker 1: with children.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she has three kids that she brought on the date.
Speaker 4: They're like five.
Speaker 3: They were at the table with you, or they were
Speaker 3: out waiting in the car. Let's hope not, Jeff, Yes,
Speaker 3: this is a good gauge. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Look, I've been on some dates, and I mean there
Speaker 4: was some positives about it, but I wasn't expecting to
Speaker 4: pay for all theirs.
Speaker 1: Oh well, that's why she ordered the second entree.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it got a little bit weird. I
Speaker 4: had to take the younger one to the bathroom.
Speaker 3: Oh, she had a stranger take her son to the back.
Speaker 4: Older Yeah, the older kid was being really weird and
Speaker 4: wouldn't do it so good for you.
Speaker 1: Many questions like how did she even introduce you to
Speaker 1: the children like a mom's.
Speaker 4: Friend or what she just you know, said, these are
Speaker 4: my kids, kids, these are luke and you know, it's
Speaker 4: have fun. And it was. It was different for sure.
Speaker 1: I mean, were they good kids? Are they well behaved kids? Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, they were well behaved. I mean except
Speaker 4: for when it came to the bathroom. The one was
Speaker 4: being a little bit of a brad.
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, why why would she not tell us that?
Speaker 1: Like that is so bizarre.
Speaker 3: It's actually a great question, Brooke, and we should just
Speaker 3: ask it directly to Christine, because Luke, you don't know this,
Speaker 3: but she's on the other line right now waiting to
Speaker 3: jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 4: Wait, what.
Speaker 1: The kids are at school, so it's just us.
Speaker 3: Hello, are you there?
Speaker 2: Hello, Yes, I'm here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've got some explaining to do. Christine.
Speaker 2: Well, look, I didn't tell you guys that I brought
Speaker 2: my kids because you didn't have.
Speaker 1: No no, no one asked that ismal.
Speaker 3: That's fair. We probably should be more thorough. Kids on
Speaker 3: the dates.
Speaker 1: Karids don't bring kids on dates. They don't bring kids
Speaker 1: if you're married and on a date. They don't kids
Speaker 1: if you're not married and single and on a date
Speaker 1: you considered.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you've read the rule book on dating with children.
Speaker 1: Nothing sexy about being out on a date and having
Speaker 1: children there, especially if they're your children and you have
Speaker 1: to take care of them.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: You sure are judging her a lot, and we haven't
Speaker 3: even heard the reason why. Like maybe there's a totally
Speaker 3: logical explanation behind us, right, Christine.
Speaker 2: I just figured if he's gonna date me, he needs
Speaker 2: to know all the people that I have in my
Speaker 2: life and that are very close to me, who closer
Speaker 2: to me than my children. So I just thought it'd
Speaker 2: be a good way to just meet us all up front,
Speaker 2: and honestly, I mean, look, you handled my three kids
Speaker 2: really well. I think I could see us having more.
Speaker 3: Whoaa more than three?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, at least six kids. And as we said,
Speaker 2: I only have boys, so nice to get some girls
Speaker 2: in there to balance it out.
Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, Luke, she just put it on the table
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 4: What do you think I did not know she was
Speaker 4: sharing to be ocome on, Like, I gotta be honest,
Speaker 4: you know. When she invited me back, at first I
Speaker 4: was like, okay, but it felt a little weird. And
Speaker 4: then on the way there, I was like, what are
Speaker 4: we going to do when we get there? You wanted
Speaker 4: to watch a movie? We're gonna watch like Mawana or something.
Speaker 3: Great he's familiar with. That's a good sign.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean I certainly have a lot of
Speaker 2: movies to choose from. I just thought it would be
Speaker 2: kind of nice to do a family.
Speaker 4: I just think that something you mentioned on a first
Speaker 4: date that you have kids, you don't necessarily bring them
Speaker 4: on the first date.
Speaker 1: It can't be good for your kids to be part
Speaker 1: of your dating life. Hey, they got a nice meal
Speaker 1: out of it.
Speaker 2: Brother, Fine, I mean.
Speaker 1: Alexis, do you like being involved with your mother's dating life? Okay,
Speaker 1: well no, but but.
Speaker 3: She's older now. As a five or seven year old,
Speaker 3: it would have been really.
Speaker 2: Fun of well, I mean, it could have turned out
Speaker 2: a lot worse. You know, my two baby daddies. They
Speaker 2: were asking what I was up to. I was thinking
Speaker 2: about even inviting them.
Speaker 3: No, you said, baby daddy's plural, there's multiple.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, why would.
Speaker 1: You bring them on a date?
Speaker 2: They asked? And they have every right to see their kids,
Speaker 2: So I mean, if they want to come by, Wow,
Speaker 2: a party.
Speaker 4: Three kids is some baggage, but three kids and two
Speaker 4: baby daddies, that's a whole lot of baggage.
Speaker 1: But they do feel it does sound like they all
Speaker 1: get along.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we do.
Speaker 2: I get along with the two of them. I don't
Speaker 2: get along with the other one though.
Speaker 3: It makes sense.
Speaker 4: Are you're trying to have six kids? By six different guys,
Speaker 4: like what's going on?
Speaker 2: This family's really important to me. And look, Luke, I
Speaker 2: think you're great. I think you're this like wonderful, traditional
Speaker 2: manly guy. I love your big hands. And I just
Speaker 2: thought maybe if you're up for it to do a
Speaker 2: date with less people and I could just bring like
Speaker 2: one kid or something.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's a pretty good deal for you, Luke,
Speaker 3: because I mean, I get how expensive babysitting is, so
Speaker 3: there is that. Yeah, And it sounds, Luke like you
Speaker 3: weren't turned off by the fact that she had kids.
Speaker 3: It's just that she surprised you with him and you
Speaker 3: weren't ready for it. So Luke, hopefully you can forgive
Speaker 3: her for her one little mistake of not warning you
Speaker 3: about her mistakes warning you, and then we would love
Speaker 3: to offer to send you on one more date with her,
Speaker 3: a date that we would pay for.
Speaker 2: I'm only going to bring one kid next time. I
Speaker 2: won't bring all three. It'll be a much cheaper date.
Speaker 2: I think it'll go a lot better.
Speaker 3: Wait, which are bringing the bathroom one or the troubled one?
Speaker 3: You probably shouldn't bring the bathroom one.
Speaker 2: Theems like the good one.
Speaker 3: What do you say, Luke, one more chance.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to pass guys. Sorry. Oh wow, Christine,
Speaker 4: you're a really sweet girl, and I hope everything works
Speaker 4: out for you.
Speaker 3: You're just saying that because his voice is really sexy.
Speaker 2: It is a very sexy voice.
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. A lot of weirdness in that call,
Speaker 3: for sure, But at the end of the day, it was.
Speaker 1: On us because we didn't ask. You brought her three children.
Speaker 3: Said, I ordered multiple meals, multiple dinners, and no one
Speaker 3: in the room was like, oh, were there other people
Speaker 3: at the table with you. No, we all just assumed
Speaker 3: she ate it herself because that's exactly what we would do.
Speaker 1: Excited, she's like, get a girl, I'm a hungry girl.
Speaker 1: I got her on that the three kids. She lost
Speaker 1: me on We should.
Speaker 3: Have been more forward and more asking better with our
Speaker 3: journalistic abilities, Brooke, you went to college for this.
Speaker 1: The last thing I want to think about when I'm
Speaker 1: on a date is kids them. Yes, I don't want
Speaker 1: to think about him when you're having a romantic date.
Speaker 3: Okay, but again, I think the point is we can
Speaker 3: be better and not have surprises like that. Slam us
Speaker 3: in the face. The next time we do a call
Speaker 3: like this, all right. It was that was really tragic.
Speaker 3: But we do have some good work in our history.
Speaker 3: You can go find some of it online, and all
Speaker 3: of our podcasts, they're available up wherever you get them.
Speaker 3: Abroke and Jeffrey