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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your week. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning with a brand new second Date update. And

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Speaker 1: this is just one where I constantly am shocked to

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Speaker 1: what listeners don't tell us. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like,

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Speaker 1: there are gonna be a lot of thoughts after this.

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Speaker 1: I know that for sure, so just sit back and enjoy.

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Speaker 1: We always love to start with your comments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this was a little confusing, but David said, found

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Speaker 2: my wife at the d m V, and boy do

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Speaker 2: I wish I could return her?

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Speaker 1: Lol? Yeah, I didn't know if I was missing the joke. Serious,

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Speaker 1: that's how long.

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Speaker 3: The lines are. This guy got married a whole.

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Speaker 4: Front.

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Speaker 1: I see, I didn't know you could return things at

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Speaker 1: the DMV. Yeah, maybe that's where he got confused. What

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Speaker 1: a romantic Yeah all right, let's get your brand new

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Speaker 1: second date right now.

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Speaker 3: The second date update. Ladies will tell you that men

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Speaker 3: on the dating apps come in all different forms. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you've got the shy boys, the alpha bros, the doggie dads,

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Speaker 3: the tough and ruthless, and the rough and toothless. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: and most of them all live on a site called

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Speaker 3: Plenty of Fish, where, coincidentally, that's exactly where our listener

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Speaker 3: Christine met her date recently.

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Speaker 1: Did you like the toothless ones too?

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Speaker 3: I wonder which category of man he's going to fall into.

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Speaker 3: But Christine, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hian.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting. Plenty of Fish is ridiculed a lot, right.

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Speaker 3: Not just by people on our show, but just in

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Speaker 3: the world in general.

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Speaker 1: What made you turn to that site?

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Speaker 2: Well, I just I didn't really have great luck on

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Speaker 2: I guess like the other one, Okay, okay, I just

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Speaker 2: thought I'll give it a shot.

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Speaker 3: I've actually never tried Plenty of Fish because everyone's talked

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Speaker 3: bad about it. I guess go towards it.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Desperation can bring you to do a lot of different

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Speaker 3: really excited.

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Speaker 1: He's like so good. The people on it like talk

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Speaker 1: badly to keep it up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah all right, Well tell us you obviously met a guy.

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Speaker 3: What's his name?

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Speaker 1: Luke?

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Speaker 3: Okay? And what type of guy is he? On the

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Speaker 3: dating apps.

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Speaker 2: Categorizing He is like a rugged guy and like, I'll

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Speaker 2: build a log cabin with my bare hands.

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Speaker 1: Log cabin. Rugged guys don't go to private school with

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Speaker 3: He bought a log cabin.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't it is not a Jeffrey because Jeffrey has

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Speaker 1: a beer.

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Speaker 3: You're sounding very jealous that she actually met a really

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Speaker 3: tough and rough funny.

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Speaker 1: Because like, you've never had a callous on your hands.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know why I was doing that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, tell us about Luke, SORRYND.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, he's very manly, he's very handsome.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I thought we had a good connection on

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Speaker 1: What'd you guys do? Wait? Hold on, where'd you go?

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Speaker 1: What'd you do?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh, we went to outback steakhouse, which I love.

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Speaker 3: Was there like a big highlight moment of the date

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Speaker 2: I guess I'll say this. He was an absolute gentleman,

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Speaker 2: like he held the door open for me, and I

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I mean the vibe that you're describing right

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Speaker 3: now is very positive. You obviously liked his physicalness. You

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Speaker 3: say the conversation went really well, hot hands, But what

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Speaker 3: signals were you getting from Luke towards you or were

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Speaker 3: you getting any signals at all? What was your read?

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Speaker 2: I guess it wasn't like overly like he wasn't. You know,

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Speaker 2: some people really lay it on sick. I thought he

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Speaker 3: With me, kind of like a job interview.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think it was that stare.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he shuffles the men usual quick. All right, next question.

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Speaker 2: There was a point where maybe he thought something I

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Speaker 3: I gotta tell him what you do.

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Speaker 2: I ordered two entrees, and I don't I don't know

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Speaker 3: I went to a super nice restaurant with my bros recently,

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Speaker 3: he's like, I'm never gonna come to this nice restaurant

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Speaker 1: Back steakhouse, yeah, Italian where they give you too small

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Speaker 2: And I also ordered a dessert.

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Speaker 1: How did the night end? Like? Did he say I

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Speaker 1: can't wait to see you again, or make any indication

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Speaker 2: So like at the end of the date, I told him, like, hey,

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Speaker 2: if you're interested, you can because we both drove separately,

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Speaker 2: so it's like, if you want, you can just follow

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Speaker 2: me home. We can watch a movie or something and

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Speaker 2: keep hanging out because I was having a really good time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, that's quite the invite. What did he say?

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Speaker 2: He kind of just stept like okay, and you like

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Speaker 2: because I drove too fast and he just couldn't follow me.

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Speaker 3: I'm not really so he said yes to going back

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Speaker 3: and following you to your place, but you sped home.

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Speaker 2: I guess it was like halfway into the drive home,

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Speaker 2: I just looked up and I realized he wasn't there anymore.

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Speaker 1: Anytime you tell.

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Speaker 3: Someone to follow you realize I'll slow your friend's drive.

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Speaker 3: I've done this too. You gotta call him. You're like,

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Speaker 2: It's like I'm still.

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Speaker 1: Too like to Yeah, why didn't you just text him

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Speaker 2: So I ended up messaging him the next day because

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Speaker 2: I wasn't sure, like if you purposefully stitched me or or.

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Speaker 1: The Okay, was never an actual like I'm following you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't sure, and if he did ditch me,

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Speaker 2: I didn't want to be like, oh, where are you

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Speaker 2: I messaged him and I basically just was kind of like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I had such a nice time. I'd love to see

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Speaker 2: I just want to like talk to him on the phone.

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Speaker 2: I just want to like know what happened, because I

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Speaker 3: So how are we It sounds like you're really into him.

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Speaker 3: You just want to hear his voice one more time.

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Speaker 3: I'll bring you happiness.

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Speaker 1: How are we going to call him? If you guys

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Speaker 2: Well, so at that point I didn't have his phone number,

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Speaker 3: It now, Okay, you had the police look it up

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Speaker 1: How did you get on the app?

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Speaker 1: After?

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Speaker 2: I was like, do you mind if we just text?

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Speaker 1: Is that? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So I have texted him after, but now he's just

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Speaker 2: kind of not responding, Okay, Okay, Well that's good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That means he doesn't despise you enough.

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Speaker 1: To give you It's not gonna be one of our

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Speaker 2: No, I have a good friend like that, but I'm

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Speaker 3: All right, will you have your friend be our backup

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Speaker 3: plan in case we really need to track this? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: rugged guy down, but we're gonna come back and call

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Speaker 3: Luke and your plenty of fish Outback Steakhouse. Second Date

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Speaker 3: Update a limited edition medium rare coming up right after

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Speaker 3: this Second Date update. One Girl, one boy, three entrees,

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Speaker 3: forty thousand calories, and somehow zero follow up about a

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Speaker 3: second date for a meal like that. It's pretty much

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Speaker 3: what happened when our listener Christine met up with the rugged,

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Speaker 1: And I just want to grunt right now even talking

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Speaker 3: She even gave him the rare offer of you know,

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Speaker 3: I won't be mad. Well, Christine was obviously very into Luke.

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Speaker 3: But I'm curious, Christine, what do you have to say

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm not interested in someone who thinks I'm too eager.

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Speaker 2: I want someone who's gonna take me as I am.

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Speaker 1: That's a good one. And God, why is being excited

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Speaker 3: I've never seen a woman before in real life. Oh

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what, and order the damn too entrees. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: life short, all right, that's right, it pants, Okay, not that.

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Speaker 3: So you remember when I talked about a little bit

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Speaker 3: too eager, how it comes across. That's exactly what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to call this guy for you, Christine.

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Speaker 3: All right, that's the perfect amount of it. All right,

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Speaker 3: let's just do it. I'm gonna dials number right now.

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Speaker 3: We'll see if he picks up. And Christine, remember don't

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah, okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: Just try try to hold it in. Here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, this is Luke WHOA I know.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting that.

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Speaker 1: His hands just answered the phone.

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Speaker 3: Luke, this is a radio show. We're called Brook and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: What's going on guys.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, man, we know this is weird. Let Jeff explain.

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Speaker 3: This is a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: in the Morning, and we're doing a segment called a

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Speaker 3: second Date Update. Second Date Update there, Sorry about that, okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So basically, it's a segment where we try to help

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Speaker 3: out listeners in their dating lives. If they've gone out

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Speaker 3: a second meetup, we can try and reach out on

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Speaker 3: their behalf to figure out why.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I've heard of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and we've heard some good things about you.

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Speaker 2: Hm.

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Speaker 1: Was that too eager?

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Speaker 3: Nor the tone was a little bit sensual? Yeah, we

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Speaker 3: heard it from a woman named Christine who you took

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Speaker 3: to the Outback steakhouse recently and now you're not calling

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Speaker 3: her back.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, she knows why.

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Speaker 1: Actually she doesn't.

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Speaker 3: She has no idea why, otherwise she wouldn't be reaching

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Speaker 4: Really, well, you're yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, when you bring your three kids on the date

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Speaker 1: Well, goodness as Wait, she did not mention she brought children,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she has three kids that she brought on the date.

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Speaker 4: They're like five.

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Speaker 3: They were at the table with you, or they were

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Speaker 4: Look, I've been on some dates, and I mean there

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Speaker 1: Oh well, that's why she ordered the second entree.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it got a little bit weird. I

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Speaker 3: Oh, she had a stranger take her son to the back.

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Speaker 4: Older Yeah, the older kid was being really weird and

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Speaker 1: Many questions like how did she even introduce you to

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Speaker 4: Friend or what she just you know, said, these are

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Speaker 4: have fun. And it was. It was different for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, they were well behaved. I mean except

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, why why would she not tell us that?

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Speaker 3: It's actually a great question, Brooke, and we should just

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Speaker 3: ask it directly to Christine, because Luke, you don't know this,

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Speaker 4: Wait, what.

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Speaker 1: The kids are at school, so it's just us.

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Speaker 3: Hello, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Hello, Yes, I'm here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you've got some explaining to do. Christine.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, I didn't tell you guys that I brought

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Speaker 1: No no, no one asked that ismal.

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Speaker 3: That's fair. We probably should be more thorough. Kids on

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Speaker 1: Karids don't bring kids on dates. They don't bring kids

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Speaker 1: if you're married and on a date. They don't kids

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you've read the rule book on dating with children.

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Speaker 1: Nothing sexy about being out on a date and having

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: You sure are judging her a lot, and we haven't

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Speaker 3: even heard the reason why. Like maybe there's a totally

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Speaker 2: I just figured if he's gonna date me, he needs

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Speaker 2: be a good way to just meet us all up front,

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Speaker 2: and honestly, I mean, look, you handled my three kids

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Speaker 3: Whoaa more than three?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, at least six kids. And as we said,

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Speaker 2: I only have boys, so nice to get some girls

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Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, Luke, she just put it on the table

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Speaker 4: What do you think I did not know she was

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Speaker 4: sharing to be ocome on, Like, I gotta be honest,

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Speaker 4: you know. When she invited me back, at first I

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Speaker 4: to watch a movie? We're gonna watch like Mawana or something.

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Speaker 3: Great he's familiar with. That's a good sign.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean I certainly have a lot of

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Speaker 4: I just think that something you mentioned on a first

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Speaker 1: It can't be good for your kids to be part

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Speaker 2: Brother, Fine, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Alexis, do you like being involved with your mother's dating life? Okay,

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Speaker 1: well no, but but.

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Speaker 3: She's older now. As a five or seven year old,

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Speaker 2: Fun of well, I mean, it could have turned out

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Speaker 3: No, you said, baby daddy's plural, there's multiple.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why would.

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Speaker 2: They asked? And they have every right to see their kids,

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Speaker 2: So I mean, if they want to come by, Wow,

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Speaker 4: Three kids is some baggage, but three kids and two

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Speaker 1: But they do feel it does sound like they all

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we do.

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Speaker 2: I get along with the two of them. I don't

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Speaker 3: It makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Are you're trying to have six kids? By six different guys,

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Speaker 2: This family's really important to me. And look, Luke, I

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Speaker 2: think you're great. I think you're this like wonderful, traditional

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Speaker 2: thought maybe if you're up for it to do a

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's a pretty good deal for you, Luke,

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Speaker 3: It's just that she surprised you with him and you

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Speaker 3: weren't ready for it. So Luke, hopefully you can forgive

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Speaker 2: I'm only going to bring one kid next time. I

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Speaker 2: I think it'll go a lot better.

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Speaker 3: Wait, which are bringing the bathroom one or the troubled one?

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Speaker 3: You probably shouldn't bring the bathroom one.

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Speaker 2: Theems like the good one.

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Speaker 3: What do you say, Luke, one more chance.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to pass guys. Sorry. Oh wow, Christine,

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Speaker 4: you're a really sweet girl, and I hope everything works

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Speaker 3: You're just saying that because his voice is really sexy.

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Speaker 2: It is a very sexy voice.

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. A lot of weirdness in that call,

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Speaker 3: for sure, But at the end of the day, it was.

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Speaker 1: On us because we didn't ask. You brought her three children.

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Speaker 3: Said, I ordered multiple meals, multiple dinners, and no one

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Speaker 3: at the table with you. No, we all just assumed

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Speaker 3: she ate it herself because that's exactly what we would do.

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Speaker 1: Excited, she's like, get a girl, I'm a hungry girl.

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Speaker 1: I got her on that the three kids. She lost

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Speaker 3: Have been more forward and more asking better with our

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Speaker 3: journalistic abilities, Brooke, you went to college for this.

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Speaker 1: The last thing I want to think about when I'm

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Speaker 3: Okay, but again, I think the point is we can

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Speaker 3: like this, all right. It was that was really tragic.

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Speaker 3: But we do have some good work in our history.

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Speaker 3: You can go find some of it online, and all

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Speaker 3: of our podcasts, they're available up wherever you get them.

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Speaker 3: Abroke and Jeffrey