1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: What's up. It's the Lift Service on Angela. Yee, I'm Lauriall, 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: I'm Carrie. I know. All right. Now, I want to 3 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: start up today with some positivity because first of all, 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: I want to congratulate you ladies on your new show 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: on Vices. I think it's really exciting, you know, stick 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: to Sports. So before we start today, I just wanna 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: for each of us because I know I was just 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: saying this the other day. Sometimes it's hard for me 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: to talk about like my own accolades because it just 10 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: feels like, I don't know, I think that might be 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: a woman thing because the guys on my show do 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: it all the time. Because I want each of us 13 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,599 Speaker 1: to go around and just talk about things that we're 14 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 1: really excited and proud of that we have going on. 15 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: So let's start with you, Carrie. Okay. So obviously J 16 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: and I have a new show, so we're excited about that. 17 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: It's called Stick to Sports, which is the ironic title. 18 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: We'll get to that later. Um. I also have a 19 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: pop podcast myself. I have a podcast called The brown 20 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: Print coming out this week. And then I called the 21 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: brown Print, well, the brown Print is basically like the blueprint, right, 22 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: that's the way it was about. You know, for a second, 23 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: why I haven't been thinking that at all? Yeah, but 24 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 1: you know, I love it thinking that. That's how who 25 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: would be thinking that? Come on, Look, it's twelve o'clock here, 26 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,559 Speaker 1: I don't know what time it is, gonna be great clock. 27 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: You're ready, she ready, she's been, ready's been. And um, 28 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,479 Speaker 1: I'm working on some behind the scenes things. I'm producing 29 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: a scripted series a lot. I got a lot of 30 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: stuff going on. I'm like you, I don't always feel 31 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: like I should be like yeah, yeah, yeah, I got 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: a bunch of stocks. But we're working. We out here 33 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: in these streets, and that's what I want to do. 34 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: That's why I want to celebrate those things. And media. Yeah, 35 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: that's that's a major It's hard for me to Um, 36 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to talk about it too. It's 37 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: hard for me to even take compliments because it made 38 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: me just feel so weird and uncomfortable. But you know, 39 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: as Carrie said the show, um, we're really excited about 40 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: that starting August nineteen, um. And you know, I got 41 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: a ton of other stuff going I'm in the process 42 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: of going through the revisions on my manuscript because of 43 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 1: a book coming out next year. I got a ton 44 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: of production projects, um, also to podcasts. So um, I'm 45 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,399 Speaker 1: really thankful, honestly to be as busy as I am 46 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: during a time where a lot of people have you know, 47 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: um they've lost their jobs or their workflow is a 48 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: little uneven. So even on days where I am all tired, 49 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: and we have experienced several of those days leading into 50 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: this premiere of our show, UM, I'm thankful for the 51 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: tiredness because I know if it were the opposite, like 52 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: how that would feel, that would be right? Okay, Well, 53 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: y'all can catch me on lip Service obviously. Uh we 54 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: come out every Tuesday. People now that I have another podcast, 55 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: Bullying the Beast podcast that comes out on Mondays. Also 56 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: every weekday morning I have a morning showed them want 57 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: to Hustle, a syndicated And um, also I might be 58 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: putting out a new song now now I haven't, and 59 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: we are been trying to get her to do some 60 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: music and trying for a long time, and like I 61 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: do these freestyles every week on my show, and um, 62 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: now I got like a team behind me and we're 63 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna put out this record soon. So that's 64 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: what we're working on right now. YE is helping as well. 65 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: So so what you got going on? Ye, let's have 66 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: the mic, so you know, And I wanted to do 67 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: this first because we don't normally start the show like this, 68 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: but I am made it for you ladies, just because 69 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: I know your show is gonna be amazing. We've seen 70 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: the trailer and your personalities. But I wanted to celebrate that, 71 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: and I wanted to celebrate ourselves too, and I think 72 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: sometimes we just don't do that enough. But I just 73 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: recently wanted to contract on a new house, So I'm right, 74 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: just go talk your ship. But then you know, I'm 75 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: opening the store in Detroit. I was just telling Jamal 76 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: before um we started. And then have a line of 77 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,119 Speaker 1: coffee that's coming out, and I have my press Juice 78 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: to be launching, and I got angela Day coming up 79 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: on the page. Look at you. You forgot something lift service. 80 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: You were inducted into the radio and I should have 81 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: lived with that. Are you crazy? That's the that's huge news. 82 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: Like we gotta make sure we throw that in there 83 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: twice at least. Yeah, all right, so Beau, So you 84 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: guys are like on the inside this is how I 85 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: look at it now. It's interesting because on the Breakfast 86 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: Club you were saying how athletes don't really like to 87 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: interact with media, But I always felt like you would 88 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: have a good relationship, like be able to hit somebody 89 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: up just to ask them a question. You know, something 90 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: happened in my head. You know, that's how it is. 91 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: I want to ask you, guys, from the stories that 92 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: you've heard about some of these athletes, like behind the scenes, 93 00:04:52,040 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: what percentage would you say are faithful? Sorry, okay, you 94 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: just for regarding immediately, Yeah, I mean i'd probably say 95 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: maybe ten percent high. Yeah. I was like, and I 96 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: think I'm mean to be honest, like I could say, 97 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: you know, of course, I don't want people to read 98 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: too much into it, but like when I was really 99 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: a sports reporter and covering sports on a day to 100 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: day basis in and out of locker rooms, the only 101 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: professional athlete that I actually believe was faithful was Grant. Wow, 102 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: that for a fact. Yeah, I mean I don't, I 103 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: mean that could Yeah, that's the only That's the only one. 104 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: I would have been like, I'd be shocked if that 105 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: dude is not It is not faithful, and to me, 106 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: a foul because she said there's a strange house, and 107 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 1: you're saying that he always been faithful, so I feel 108 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: like you need to apologize. I mean, I would agree 109 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 1: with Jay. I think it's hard, Like I think everyone 110 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: that's immediately where we go. I think it's hard to 111 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: say a percentage. I could be like I said, I've 112 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: gotta qualify this. I could be completely offen people. I've 113 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: heard that about Grant. He has the best reputation in 114 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: terms of being faithful. Um, But I mean, I don't 115 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 1: have an idea. I don't know who it could be 116 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: to be honest with you because we don't know them 117 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: that way, and but they have I mean, and we 118 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: do have friends that we talked to you that I 119 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: want to clear that up. But back in the day, 120 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: there was a time in which, uh, certain athletes would 121 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: not talk to us based on you know, the shows 122 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: we did and what they thought was happening. And then 123 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: over after a while when they meet you and see 124 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: you around enough that you develop a rapport. But it's 125 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: hard to say. I hate to even say that about 126 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: these athletes because I'm sure their wives so I'm not disrespectful, 127 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: but you know, you know what I mean, I don't 128 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: want to make a sound that way that said. I 129 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: wasn't really talking about current athletes. I'm just thinking over 130 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: the course of um. You know, I spent a good 131 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: probably five or six years, like a lot of of 132 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 1: of NBA and so um during that time. It was 133 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: you know, you always heard a lot of rumors that 134 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: some of it is that too, like the roup bell 135 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: on them is like constant, right, So half of that 136 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: stuff may not even be true, But you know there, 137 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: I definitely have had some awkward moments where I was, 138 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: you know, just out and then you see a guy 139 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: that you cover and with his wife and you like 140 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: what You're like, who was that them? Like, I'm not 141 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: the nark, I'm not a fan. So like you get 142 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: it out, you live like it is none of my 143 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: business what goes in your house. Have they approached you though, 144 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: like you know, let's keep this between us, like don't 145 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: say no. When they just let it go, it was 146 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: understood like like I don't want no parts nothing, I 147 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: just want to work load over meal just at least 148 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: like that. Yeah. No, I mean, I I've been in 149 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: the situation before. We're like they'd over meal. What's you 150 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: don't like your movie telling something old um now where 151 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: they have introduced me to what is not the woman? 152 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: You know? I mean, but it was clear that this 153 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: woman was a constant in there, but just wasn't the 154 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: white but a constant like I don't know what the 155 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: term is now outside piece feels a little disrespectful, but 156 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: like established established long time personal friends. Long time personal 157 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: friends could be a man. Yeah, maybe not an entanglement 158 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:41,199 Speaker 1: a little stuff above in the time, right, Okay, justentangle 159 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: yourself now. Some cats tell me the other day that, 160 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: and I'm sure y'all get asked to do all kinds 161 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: of things work wise, and somebody tell me the difference 162 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: between me and then they said they lead with no 163 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 1: and I leave with yes. Right, So when you're asked 164 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: to do things, would you say you leave with yes 165 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,319 Speaker 1: or you leave with no? Who told you at the 166 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: other day? Let me see that's a good thing. Who 167 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: told you that the other day? That's one of my 168 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: home girls, And she was saying she thinks it's good 169 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: that a lot of times I do things that maybe 170 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily feel like doing, and you know, I 171 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: do like business. Sometimes i'd be like overwhelmed, but it's 172 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: because I try to do whatever I can and she's like, 173 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: I usually am like no all the time and I 174 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: leave with no. She was like, you lead with yes, 175 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 1: So I just want to know for you guys, do 176 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: you leave with I lead with yes until I just 177 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 1: start saying no. Munch. I definitely think I leave well 178 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: for now the space that I'm in now, I leave yes. 179 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: Back in the day, I would say no, but I 180 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: but you know, we're in a different space right now, 181 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: like we're getting ready to launch a shows. So I 182 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: think for work and trying to get ourselves out there 183 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: and doing certain things, I say yes a lot, but 184 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: I end up regretting that. So I I think I'm 185 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: managing my nose right now, like I'm being very thoughtful 186 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: and aware of my nose. Because you can't say yes 187 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 1: all the time. It's impossible because you can burn yourself out. 188 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: There's no self care. Came pour from an empty cup, 189 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: and you have to make sure that you can give 190 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: something back to yourself. So I always feel like, damn, 191 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,599 Speaker 1: just doing too much? Why did I say yes to that? 192 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: I feel that way a lot, yes, but then sometimes 193 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: when it's over, you feel glad that you did it. 194 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: People like over. When it's over, you'll be like, all right, 195 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: here's what it is. Like I think, like, so I 196 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: commit myself to a lot of panels where I'll say yes, 197 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: like you know, I'll do something and i'll moderate a panel. Um, 198 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: and don't you'll be wrong some of the stuff that's paid, Yes, 199 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: of course, but when you're doing you know what people 200 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: a favor that are your friends or it's for good cause. 201 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: Because I do believe you should give back. You should 202 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: always be like, pay me, pay me. But then you 203 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: just feel like this shore is more because I don't 204 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 1: think people get when they ask you to do these 205 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: quote unquote favors, the amount of time and attention it 206 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: takes to the panel to put something together, to act 207 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: like you know a product that you don't really know 208 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: that much with it. For the people who want to 209 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: have phone calls, like people always be like, can we 210 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 1: send a call about this panel? You said yea, and 211 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: then you said yeah, here's a twenty minute calls, then 212 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: came back and ask for an hour call like no, 213 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: I told you I'm gonna do it fuf free. Then 214 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm have a call one call to understand how to 215 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: do all this y'all get yourself together where we have 216 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 1: this one call, because that's you're asking a lot of 217 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 1: someone time when they're saying, can you host a moderated panel? 218 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: It becomes a job, it really does. It's a whole 219 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 1: another job. Y'all know that her head and require yes no. 220 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: It is like that that it's It's a part I 221 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: don't necessarily like about myself, is that I am. I'd 222 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 1: say yes too often, and I'm really trying to change that. 223 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: And I think part of it is just that, like 224 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: I didn't necessarily have a fear of missing out. But 225 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: I do think once I made the transition, especially away 226 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: from ESPN, where you're really your own business woman, that 227 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: you want to make sure that you're maximizing while you 228 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: have all the resources available to you, because like, I 229 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: don't want to say no, and then when those requests 230 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: aren't coming in a few years, being like, damn, why 231 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 1: did I always say no? I've been saying yes a 232 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: little bit more to continue, um, to help my business 233 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: grow or whatever. But what I've learned out, I mean, 234 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: and Carrie just talked about it, is that if I 235 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: don't protect my mental energy, I'm no good to anybody. 236 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: And so I have to really protect my bandwidth because 237 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: it's it's raised in these days. And as she said, 238 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 1: people assume, especially if you're in media like we all are, 239 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: you know, we're front facing talent. They see us, you know, 240 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: we're very engaging and energetic and all that. They don't 241 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: understand what it takes to be that, and they think that, oh, 242 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: you know, can you just do this interview real quick 243 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: for twenty minutes, or can you just do this panel 244 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: it's just a half hour. It's like a half hour 245 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: panel might cost me three hours in my life. If 246 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: you gotta get killed, you gotta do show the prep word. 247 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: We gotta do the prep exactly thirty minutes of me 248 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: showing up. And especially because we all take pride anytime 249 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: we say yes to an appearance, like we want to 250 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: come off well. We wanted to be engaging, we wanted 251 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 1: to be fun, entertainment, entertaining, educational. I can't just step 252 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 1: right into that. So UM I have said no more 253 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: lately then UM I probably have in the last few months. 254 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: But and that's the other thing, especially with this pandemic. 255 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: I mean, nobody knew how it work was gonna be 256 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: coming through and so I had a tendency, especially after 257 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: the pen didn't to say yes a lot, and I 258 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: was burnt out, like I really needed a vacation. I 259 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: still need one now because I took a few days 260 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: off and when I got back to my email, it 261 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: felt like an explosion happened. You know why, because if 262 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: I don't, you know, if I get to a point 263 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: where I do get burnt out, then I started getting um, 264 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: you know, then assideomy comes out that I don't really 265 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 1: like people I like as I have my sorry. We 266 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: were just asking you guys that because we were trying 267 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: to figure out how we can ask you all to 268 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: do stuff. So I just wanted to see that, I said. 269 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: The main goal now that we know that you're saying 270 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: all right, I do feel like we've always been taught 271 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: to not say no, though even from young they're like, 272 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: don't say no, don't say no. So then it gets 273 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: to the point where you felt bad, even when you 274 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: are doing things for yourself and saying no to other people, 275 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 1: like I know with me, sometimes i'll do that, like 276 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: I'll be like, all right, I just can't do it, 277 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: and then I'll start feeling bad and I'll call them 278 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: back and be like a matter of fact, just for 279 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 1: twenty minutes, that's all, you know, you know what I mean, 280 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 1: you know, and there's never twenty minutes. That's the crazy thing, 281 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 1: like I said, But it'll be like people will lead 282 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: with that just to get you in the door, and 283 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: then it's like they got you, and they got you. 284 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: That's it. But like you said, I'm learning that too, 285 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: to like take care of yourself and because if you 286 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: burnt out, how you're gonna function, like how you gonna 287 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: do your job right if you don't take some time 288 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: to yourself. And that's something that I'm learning, Like I said, 289 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 1: a lot of people, it was frustrating me with the 290 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: pandemic and stuff because people were complaining like I'm bored. 291 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm doing nothing Netflix again, and I'm like, damn, 292 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: I'm burnt out over here, you know, I need a 293 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: day of Netflix. But I was just grateful to be 294 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: able to keep working when there was some people that 295 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: was unfortunate to not be able to you know, of color. Though. See, 296 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: we have a totally different perspective on this, and one 297 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: is women. I think there's a certain fear that we carry. 298 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: But also it's the insecurity that you have as a 299 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: person of color, that we all live with this fear 300 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: that it can all go away and at in a moment, 301 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: any moment, at any moments, like it could be we 302 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: could say the wrong thing, or something can happen, because 303 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: you know, as much as cancel culture maybe doesn't exist 304 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: for some people, but it's a real thing for us, 305 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: and that's not necessarily based off what we say or 306 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: what we don't say. It could just be that this 307 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: just ain't the weak that they're fucking with women of color. 308 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: And then so you know, you out of a job, 309 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: and then that's it, and so you feel more pressured 310 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: to take advantage of all the opportunities that come your way, 311 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: even if sometimes the juice is not worth the squeeze, 312 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: right that. Let's because I felt like sorry about that 313 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: in your situation. I felt like you was speak in 314 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: your mind at any time, and people speak their mind 315 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: at any time right now, right and people are not 316 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: necessarily getting canceled for that. So it's like if you 317 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: speak on politics and things like that, you people are 318 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: just like okay with it and they welcome the conversation nowadays, 319 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: But a few years ago it wasn't all right and 320 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: I think that that's what's my stuff about the situation 321 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: is because the same things you may have been saying 322 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 1: a few years ago, people are saying ten times way worse. 323 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 1: The president is saying things way work and it just 324 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: gets waved away like it was nothing. But I felt 325 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: like things happened for a reason, right, and you're in 326 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: a great space. Yeah, yeah, no, definitely. I mean, I 327 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: I mean, if that doesn't happen, if I don't go 328 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: through that, then I'm not seeing sitting here talking to 329 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: you guys right now and and carry and I don't 330 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: have a show that's launching like that. Um in the moment, 331 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: it may have been a little tumultuous and rocky and everything, 332 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: but I knew that something, necessarily something bill would come 333 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: out of it. But I just knew it would give 334 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: me to a better place to that professionally, personally or emotionally. 335 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: I wouldna say, I think she you guys, don't you 336 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: realize don't you feel this way? Black women, we always 337 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: gotta take the hit for everybody else and expect for 338 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: everybody else, no matter what. It always it's always hard 339 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: to be the first. You know, your girl, our girl VP, 340 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: whether you like her or not. Kamala here said something 341 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: I thought that was really smart in a podcast that 342 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: she did, and she said, breaking barriers is hard to do, 343 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: not only because you're the first, but there's pain involved 344 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: in that. Whatever you are the first of your breaking 345 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: a barrier, you're stepping into an area in which nobody 346 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: has ever been in before because of the way you look, 347 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: because of how you present yourself, whatever it may be. 348 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: And that's the hard part. There will be some pain 349 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: with that. So with Jay being one of the first 350 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: to be able to speak up, the pain in the 351 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: moment might have been just whatever we thought, you know, 352 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: we saw visually, but you know, there's a lot of 353 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: respect that comes with what she did. You know, her 354 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 1: saying he was a supremacist, white supremacist, a racist is 355 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 1: like saying water is wet color, you know what I mean. 356 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 1: So she she did it first, and you know, if 357 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 1: there came to the cost, but she got paid back 358 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: and then something. So I think that's something that black 359 00:17:53,800 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: whom you can relate to. It literally, that's when that's 360 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: when the people got to come out and support and 361 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 1: that's when you show how much of an impact you 362 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: really made and you've shown that you know what I mean. 363 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: Everybody got behind you on that, and everybody will continue 364 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: to get behind you because, like you said, we know 365 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: that that's in fact true and you're not speaking nothing 366 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: of effects, So what what is there to be upset about? 367 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: But it's like whenever black woman said something, it's like, oh, 368 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: hold the phone, or even if we get in a debate, 369 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 1: we automatically gotta be beef in, Like damn, my can't 370 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: just not agree with something that someone else said. It's 371 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: just that people have no problem disrespecting you on social 372 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 1: media saying the craziest thing, but then they'll have like 373 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: some type of God quote in their um like or 374 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 1: something supporting women. But then they'll be bashing you and 375 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: you're like, um, this don't match up. We all have 376 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: like very jobs that can be stressful at times, right, 377 00:18:56,920 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: and so how does that affect you in the bedroom. 378 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 1: Let's just say you've been having really we go turn 379 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: it up. Does that make you want to have sex 380 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 1: more to get rid of that stress? Or did that 381 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,920 Speaker 1: make you not feel sexual? It doesn't affect me either way. 382 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 1: Like I always feel like like my little bito is 383 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: high and I'm That's why they called her Carrie Champions. 384 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'm ready. If I'm stressed out of work, 385 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: the only thing you gonna have years to be complaining 386 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: about it like it ain't gonna be like I don't 387 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: feel like I could perform. I'm gonna be ready to go. 388 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 1: Um yeah, I would say, uh, definitely, the highest stress day, 389 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 1: the more that I want to have sex, just because 390 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: it's just the way of mentally relieving all the things 391 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,199 Speaker 1: that you sort of thinking about it, just all the 392 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 1: situations or whatever. So you know, I'll definitely um call 393 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: my husband or texting and being like you're about to 394 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 1: get it tonight because I'm figuring out on somebody listen 395 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 1: when you're stupid stress. But he ever just go down 396 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: on you and then not expect anything every turn like 397 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: this is just a gift. I mean he's trying to 398 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,160 Speaker 1: do that. He's trying to do that. But I was like, no, no, no, 399 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: I need the whole gi yeah, don't be a seed now, 400 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: sare you ain't gonna get me out here here? I 401 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 1: want to know what life was like prior to you 402 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: being married. Were you always this vocal about sacks trouble. 403 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't, I don't know that woman. That's 404 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: a good question. Actually, yeah, I like, you know, I 405 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm trying to give me a trouble. How 406 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 1: are you trouble? You who you get a shirt that 407 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 1: says plucked me, I'm bothered. I like that? Like that, 408 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 1: that's it, that's it right there? Oh my god, alright, 409 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: Steel that you should yo, that's the name of your show, 410 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: get anything. That's a good porn name too. So if 411 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 1: you want to just we're not gonna just attack jamil Okay. 412 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: I have a going out with y'all love life. I 413 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: have a foundation called Brown Girls Dream. This is the 414 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 1: funniest parts about me, just mentoring young brown girls who 415 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: just want to succeed in whatever aspect. I get a 416 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 1: bunch of my friends together and I assigned them a 417 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: different young ladies said, I think you're dope, that neat guy. 418 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 1: It's personally a profession. So I'm talking to one of 419 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 1: my homegirls about it. She's like, I don't like the name. 420 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 1: She said, it should be called Brown Girls Cream. I 421 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 1: love Brown Girls Cream. I was like, you know what 422 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 1: I was. Yeah. I was like, because I'm out here 423 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 1: trying to save lives. She's like, it just sounds very 424 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: very exciting. I was like, it sounds like a porno. 425 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: Probably it probably is a porner. Now, I will be 426 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: honest with you guys. I am single as of late, 427 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: probably the last like year and a half. I haven't 428 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: had a boyfriend or a significant other and a long 429 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 1: long time. Now what that means is I could just 430 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: be getting it all the time, which is not the case, 431 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 1: or I could just be like real casual with mine. 432 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I am very much um a man 433 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: because like during the you know how you like if 434 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 1: you like somebody and you just be like, I don't 435 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: like you know, more like you have your old school 436 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: friends and what I like to call them, these long 437 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 1: time established personal friends you have rapports with if you 438 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 1: know what I mean. You know somebody you don't need 439 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: a benefit? Yeah, sahip, little situation ship you. I'll reach 440 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: out during the pandemic. That's who I've been hanging out with. Like, 441 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: but I'm in a significant way, but just in a 442 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: way where I'm just like, oh, I'm bored tonight what 443 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: you're doing with Sometimes you need a hug somebody feet 444 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,160 Speaker 1: you can get a little lonely. Jamal can't do any 445 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 1: of these things. She can't rub my shoulders and tell him, 446 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: but she can, but then it would be a different show. 447 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: It's told and she and I'm like, I wanted this 448 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: friendship turned into this if that's good, But I don't 449 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: know what just happened. Happen to be here, you know? 450 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: So I I literally I am like looking but not 451 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 1: aggressively because I've been busy, but I am looking like 452 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: I hope I meet somebody. I think if you don't look, 453 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: then you'll meet somebody that you every time or get 454 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: you da hu get a fake boyfriend because you know, 455 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship, it's always somebody perfect that 456 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 1: comes along. You're like, damn, I should have waited. I 457 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: think correct the universe and you get like a fake boyfriend, 458 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: the real one gonna come along and then you're gonna 459 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 1: be good. You like guys who don't know who you are, 460 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,239 Speaker 1: what you do, or do you think it's cool if 461 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: they like, I'm a fan of yours? I I you know, 462 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I'm like no, meaning like I've never 463 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 1: met a guy who like, oh, I'm just a fan. 464 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: Can we go out? Or if he did say that, 465 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't go out with. I think that would 466 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 1: be awkward because if just well I think they know 467 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: I want to Okay, so let me check that back. 468 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: Obviously they know what we do if they're in men 469 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: who watch sports or whatever. I'm not gonna pretend. However, 470 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 1: if it was one of these like things where they 471 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: were like, oh my god, you know, I would be uncomfortable. 472 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: I couldn't take that. Like, you know, I love what 473 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 1: you do. I love you, and Jamal, you know you 474 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 1: got Yeah, yes, I've dated I've dated my I've dated 475 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: a guy like that before. My my last boyfriend was 476 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: like that. He was just like yeah no, but it 477 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: was real casual. He wasn't trying to I like, I like, 478 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 1: this is so weird. This is gonna sound silly because 479 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: people who don't even know if they like this no more, 480 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,360 Speaker 1: I really like super sweet, Like I lead with super 481 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: sweet guys because I'm like that. And so I need 482 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: you to calm my crazy because I'm very very sweet, 483 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,159 Speaker 1: and i'd be ready to cuss everybody out. Jamale, she 484 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,679 Speaker 1: lets it build up. I call her miss suffering silence. 485 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like a it happened today. Actually, yeah, let's 486 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: talk about the trailer then, Luria. I know you have 487 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: some questions because of the trailer. Okay, so um, it 488 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 1: was one question on there and this is something that 489 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 1: we talked about on the show before and what you say. 490 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: I didn't get backlash, but a lot of people reached 491 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: out to me about it, and it was about dating 492 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: a white man. It was choked me personally. I don't 493 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 1: date white men like I don't do that because and 494 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: I said this before and on another episode, I just 495 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: felt like I'll be in the bed with Master like 496 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 1: we can't. You don't say like we can't because it's true. 497 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: We can't teach our kids about like reparations and stuff 498 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: like that when you're fighting against us and ship it's 499 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 1: like the enemies in the house. So I just don't. 500 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: It's just how I feel like, I don't know thatwadays. 501 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,719 Speaker 1: What's funny is that when I asked to mel that 502 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 1: and she was like, that's not the point, that's besides 503 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 1: the point. She never question I under answer, I don't 504 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: necessarily know if that shoot, and I never pressed the issue. 505 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: I had got a sad like people talking to my 506 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: by me they just know they swear only day white 507 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: guys like I had. I was tricking guys. She only 508 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: day white guys. I am the most I don't even 509 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: I'm the most militant person you can meet. But having 510 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,400 Speaker 1: said that, I will there to find that's white guy 511 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,719 Speaker 1: named Chris Evans who is Captain America. You can come 512 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: say so that like your only white crush though, or 513 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,959 Speaker 1: you got grap it grappit. Okay, so you got lined up. 514 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: Then when they're ready, they can go on to dip 515 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,439 Speaker 1: some of this shine out. You know, my all the 516 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,919 Speaker 1: bad pass kids. You're good with that he don't have 517 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: to deal to be and that we got the nanny's. 518 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: But I definitely preferred to date black man. However, have 519 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: you ever dated a white guy? Um? Defined date, but 520 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 1: we could we could do, we could figure it out. 521 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: You have you been out to a restaurant where he 522 00:26:55,040 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 1: paid for the mail and y'all kissed in public? You 523 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 1: could have kised him and the private and kiss in 524 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 1: private in the private. Yeah, no, I mean I guess 525 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,640 Speaker 1: I had situation ships. Um this is a no long 526 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 1: time ago. I had situation ships, you know before and 527 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: mostly in college. Really, um, so you know, I mean 528 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't I think it was one of those things 529 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,679 Speaker 1: where I never felt because I certainly in my experience, 530 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: it was like the wold white boy, so like to 531 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 1: worry about, you know, with that one guy you know 532 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 1: I dated for a little bit of time. He um. 533 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: He was actually an African American studies major and white dude. 534 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god, so he was black on the inside. 535 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: Like what I mean, protest together? We do want protests, 536 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 1: so next we're going to the next. It was as 537 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: a wold white dude. You ain't gonna tell me. It's 538 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: like I can see him being like, yo, let's go 539 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: on to here and show these people we gotta do, 540 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: you know, talking like this and stuff. See Brad, that 541 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 1: makes sense to me because his kids, I'm got all 542 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: kind of racist no matter what. So I could do 543 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: that because he's a United gotta married. You think you 544 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 1: can marry a white guy, Well I didn't, So I 545 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 1: don't get that. I'm not here. I'm talking to you, 546 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: and I knew she wasn't talking to me. That's a 547 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,719 Speaker 1: great question, Jamalan. I used to talk about this all 548 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,679 Speaker 1: the time because she said she knows one day she's 549 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 1: gonna come home, and prior to her being marriage, the 550 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: N word was spons about and she would just gonna 551 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 1: be like you can't, he gotta she gotta go off, 552 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: and like yeah, like I was saying, Um, so that's 553 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. That's a tough question, especially 554 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: in this If you had asked me that, I'm gonna 555 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: be honest. If you'd ask me that, probably years ago, 556 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: I would have been like, shuter, why, I mean, why not? 557 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 1: But now, um, you know, the more time that I 558 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 1: have been spending in corporate America, what's going on in 559 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: our country, I have a hard time. I I need 560 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: black love. I need to experience it. I need to 561 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 1: talk about it. I need to I need to show it. 562 00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,959 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. What I think black women have our 563 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm answering this question is because they hate when black 564 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: man j up on their case. So I knew you 565 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: only day to white guys, but we see them date 566 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: every other thing all the We don't say anything, we 567 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: take it, or we do if we do say something, 568 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: we'd being a hater. But they can come to us 569 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 1: all the time black and when we take the brunt 570 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: of everything, like everything everything, all the time, it's annoying. 571 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: And if I but right now, I mean, I gotta 572 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: be honest, I would want to marry a black man 573 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: simply because I understand that our culture and our family 574 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: is under attack, in my opinion, and I feel like 575 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: you need to see more of that and understand what 576 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: that means. Um, my son, inevitably, if I married a 577 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: white man, would still be black, and he need to 578 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: need to have the experiences of a black father to 579 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: help him through his life. Right. So that's where I 580 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: am now. But I wasn't always that way. I was like, 581 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: love is love cut two six months from now, I'm 582 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 1: inviting not to my me and Brad Pitt's wedding. Okay, younger, 583 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: I'm have a white man. She like you talking all this, 584 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: You're gonna end up with a white man. I'm like, 585 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 1: I know, I'm not. So you got all of my 586 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 1: mouth his mom, and I'm gonna be like, get this 587 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: herd as bitch out of. I want to get some 588 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: advice right from you, ladies, for all the girls who 589 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: are coming up in this business, which is not an 590 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: easy business. I've said that I think that for women 591 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: hip hop and sports, having to report on both of 592 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 1: those can be, uh, some of the most misogynistic environments 593 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: to be in. So how do you turn And people 594 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: ask me this all the time. A situation where somebody's 595 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: trying to highlights you, but you want to do business 596 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: with them. How do you manage to flip that into Okay, 597 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you, but I still 598 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: want to be able to work with you. How do 599 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: you navigate that? Mm? Well, I mean, I think it's 600 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: always important to set the boundaries. I mean I've definitely 601 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 1: had you know, that happened to me just a couple 602 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: of times in my career, and usually especially like when 603 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: you're you know, you're in sports and you're covering a 604 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: team and covering after links, like all the time, I 605 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,959 Speaker 1: have found that generally, once I let them know what 606 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: it wasn't gonna be, that they actually were relatively respectful 607 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,719 Speaker 1: of that. Like nobody's ever stopped talking to me because 608 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't holler back at him, or like, 609 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: you know, to some degree in this environment being in sports, 610 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: like a lot of dudes are gonna try it, right, 611 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: But I've never encountered, thankfully, the situation where it impacted 612 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 1: me professionally in any way. And so typically, I mean 613 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: I try to take the air out of this situation, 614 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: like if they try to holler um, and you know, 615 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 1: sometimes I'll look for clarification on that, Like a dude 616 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: just asking me for my number doesn't always mean that 617 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 1: he's trying to holler me. So until he makes like 618 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: a real ford like Yo, let's go to dinner or 619 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 1: you're something or something flirty or whatever, I know for 620 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: sure he's trying to go there, then I'll say like, oh, 621 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: I'm really flatter about that. However, that being said, you 622 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: know I'm not on that right now. Um, but I 623 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: would still love to talk to you about X if 624 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: you don't mind. And I've never had that backfire, but unfortunately, 625 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: I've known a lot of women in the business where 626 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: that has backfired, and sometimes to the point where they've 627 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: had to get a third party involved. We'd be a lawyer, 628 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 1: be a telling HR or something like that, and um, 629 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 1: you know, or with athletes in particular, where they've had 630 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: to go off on on them and it's gotten ugly 631 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 1: to the point where they don't speak, or you know, 632 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: life has got involved, or a girlfriend has got involved. 633 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: Like yeah, I mean, there's there's some dramatic situations. So 634 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: I've just been thankful not to encounter it. What I 635 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: would say is like, never compromise your integrity for advancement. 636 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: It's like, it's just not gonna work. You know, never work. No, 637 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: it's not gonna work. It's like, you know, look, I know, 638 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: we all know that there are things that happen with 639 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 1: women in this business. They do get romantically involved. It 640 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: doesn't all necessarily wind up being disastrous if you will, 641 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: but you know, our reputations will be judged a lot harshly, right, 642 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: it will be okay, they'll be like, oh you big, 643 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: but it's yours. And so you have to ask yourself. 644 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: I mean, if you choose to go there, um one, 645 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: if you do, you better make sure them he held 646 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: a discreet Okay, you can't even make sure of that. 647 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 1: You know that you can't, right, exactly, you can't. I 648 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: don't know much about you know, artists, but you're dotting 649 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: an athlete. They can't help or run their mouths. They 650 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 1: always work, they ever won't. They might tell one person, 651 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: but that one person gonna tell somebody. It's the same 652 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: thing that I talked to. Yeah, we are the ones 653 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 1: to have more discreet about it. So like, if that's 654 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 1: what you choose to do, you have to be okay 655 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 1: with it. What it is like I would think women 656 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: because we see it happen all the time. I had 657 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: a colleague who married somebody, and I know that when 658 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: she was covering him, he was in college, so I'm like, oh, yeah, 659 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: just getting married. Of course she was saying that before 660 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 1: we did about it. I've been around man that will 661 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: talk about women that they suck with and they don't 662 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 1: even know me well, and they're talking about people that 663 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 1: I may know or whatever the case, just to impress 664 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: some dudes in the round. And now yeah, I was, oh, yeah, 665 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: I like x Z. She was doing this and breaking 666 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: it down though, like yo, oh she squirts, she helped 667 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: pussy wat And I'm like, damn, like what listen, I've 668 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: seen that. But you know what, I'm in the studio too. 669 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 1: So when I'm in the studio with a bunch of guys, 670 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 1: like throughout my career, I've been in studio with a 671 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: bunch of guys where I was working with the artist, 672 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm usually the only girl because I wrapped so and 673 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: they'll just sit there and talk and talk and talk. 674 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 1: This ever since I was a little girl, Like I 675 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: would hear them talking about people that I knew or 676 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: that everybody know and just yeall sun that bitch the 677 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: other day, and it's like you're talking to a run 678 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: full of people that you don't even know everybody here. 679 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 1: That's why I think it's funny that women get to 680 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: reputation for being gossips when me and Missy as fun 681 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: I'm on this show. They got some way more than 682 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 1: I do. My god, like they are just so messy, 683 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: like they just kn't because it's like their ego too. 684 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 1: They need to let somebody know, yeah, we've been with 685 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 1: and you know, and also the like, look, don't get 686 00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: it twisted. A lot of dudes, like when they did 687 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 1: straight up my my god, I can I name my belt? 688 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: Be like yeah I had that, Like no, you just 689 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 1: ate it. That's it. They might not like whenever I 690 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 1: hear a rumor about somebody that's got a high profile, 691 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 1: that's the woman stuff with somebody I always did. He 692 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,800 Speaker 1: don't repeat it unless I'm talking to carry because I 693 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 1: but I don't repeat it people, because you know, that's 694 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: how rumors get starting, their reputations get room uh ruined. 695 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: But to I always realize that for all these rumors 696 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,359 Speaker 1: they have about who doing what with who, like half 697 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: of that ship is usually not even true. So it's 698 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 1: just because a lot of guys out there are legitimately 699 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,600 Speaker 1: trying to get clout by even if they outright say it, 700 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 1: they try to at least insinuate there's something going on 701 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 1: with a certain type of a certain woman who may 702 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: have a certain pro following platforms sort at ESPN and 703 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 1: Jamale and I weren't friends who kind of gave angelast 704 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 1: story earlier, but she we had a mutual friend and 705 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,360 Speaker 1: a guy who did work there. He doesn't work there 706 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 1: any longer. Was telling somebody that he and I had 707 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: had a relationship, and by relationship, that he had hit 708 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 1: it and he was like Joan. I was like, damn, 709 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: you should I even tell carry to our mutual friend? 710 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: And then I was like that stupid, don't even bring 711 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: it up to her. That's time. Anyway. I find out 712 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: later who the person was. He clearly has a reputation 713 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: for lyon on his dick. He does it often and 714 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 1: he thinks everybody likes him. He's the blackest. And I 715 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,840 Speaker 1: get front of him and I was like, that's rude. 716 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 1: I was like, I just got here. Why would you 717 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: do that to me? Why do I even have to 718 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: walk into this environment and you say that, uh it 719 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: was more than you know, rude. And he was like, no, 720 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: I didn't say it. I didn't say it. Jamelle had 721 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 1: no reason to lie to me, why would she like 722 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: she and she waited this is so she waited year. 723 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 1: She was like, I see you still cool with selling, 724 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you what I know. But she 725 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: waited until we were actually friends to where we have 726 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,839 Speaker 1: conversations like that. You ain't ever about up a boy 727 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 1: that's interesting? Why is he? And then that's when she 728 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 1: told me I was so it hurt one because it 729 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 1: that's hurt your feeling. She's like, we're still doing that, 730 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 1: grown as fucking we still like what, like, how old 731 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,359 Speaker 1: are you? Why are you doing that? You know? Because 732 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,920 Speaker 1: it made me look bad? No woman said nothing about him. 733 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 1: It made me look bad to all these other these 734 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: group of people, uh and even I still see each 735 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: other every so often around And he had such a 736 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 1: look of shame because he knew what he did was wrong. 737 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: He's never apologized to still the nice it, but he 738 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 1: knows that he knows that we know he's full of ship. 739 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 1: And that's how do you apologize? Like y'all lied on 740 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:41,080 Speaker 1: my dick about like, well, there's just so Yeah, he's 741 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 1: corn by the way, he's corny, like get Jamale laughing, 742 00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,520 Speaker 1: he's the corniest. You'd be like, and that's about that 743 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 1: because you was being nice to him and ship and 744 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,359 Speaker 1: the whole time he was gone behind your back saying 745 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: Ship that. That's why I don't believe these things, Like 746 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 1: I don't care they can say run down and say 747 00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 1: her pussy this that I'd be like that if anything 748 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 1: that makes me feel like he didn't have sex with 749 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 1: the girl, I'll be like, let's make it lying volunteering 750 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 1: that information. Thank you out chasing. No one cares alright, looking, 751 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 1: I know y'all got a busy day, so I want 752 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 1: to do this rapid fire. Y'all gotta answer these questions quickly. Okay, okay, 753 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: all right. The first part I ever saw, I haven't 754 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,879 Speaker 1: watched more. And you guys gonna hate that ever watched. 755 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 1: But in your life, I've never I wouldn't even like. 756 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: I remember when I was a kid and my mom 757 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: had like she had one of the channels and she 758 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,399 Speaker 1: had went out. I remember just like and I tried 759 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:40,840 Speaker 1: to watch it, and then I remember being like I 760 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 1: had to be like eight years old. I was like, 761 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: this makes me use the bathroom. I don't want to 762 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 1: watch it no more. I let you my money. I'm 763 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 1: not even killing something. And I don't even know what 764 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 1: I was feeling. And I was like, yeah, I was 765 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 1: making me feel like I had to. I was teeling apparently, 766 00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 1: and so I was squirt it. That's kind of I 767 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,719 Speaker 1: don't think we dump about that. I feel dirty. I 768 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 1: do too, and I've never I've never been on it. 769 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,799 Speaker 1: I know that sounds awful and boring, but you know, 770 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,879 Speaker 1: maybe you let's say, if you have to watch the point, 771 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: what kind of point would you want to watch? Um? Oh, 772 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. Is there any category? I don't know. 773 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 1: It's like so many categories, you know, categories. Give me 774 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,440 Speaker 1: some categories. Um, girl on girl sent you like massages 775 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 1: from your mouth? Ju No, I don't want to watch 776 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 1: that one. Go and give me another one. Gang bang penetration, 777 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:50,800 Speaker 1: Oh guys, homosexual, Oh my goodness, getting what. I can't 778 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:59,880 Speaker 1: take that act. She's blacked out. Eight girls, one girl tended, 779 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 1: she can singly again, she's about to be he made 780 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,799 Speaker 1: you square on live servant. Sorry, she was pulling her 781 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:20,240 Speaker 1: shirt open. That's all it days. Okay, no, we know 782 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: that was first cour you ever watched. Um, well, I 783 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,439 Speaker 1: would say probably. I mean my grandmother has skinner bags. 784 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: Back in the day ship the soft core actually from 785 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 1: from that Emmanuel series. Because I'm nine thousand years old, 786 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 1: I remember that. That's what that was, a soft soft 787 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,240 Speaker 1: soft corse. Yeah, it was softcore born alright. My favorite 788 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:51,560 Speaker 1: erotic zone on my body. Um, I'm gona say, uh, 789 00:40:52,080 --> 00:41:00,759 Speaker 1: back of my neck? Okay, you here just when when 790 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 1: we're on the under deadline she feeling impressured and she's like, 791 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:14,280 Speaker 1: forgive what it's called down? No. I like neck in general, 792 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 1: like anywhere on my neck, kiss me on my neck 793 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: in wait, I think handle is frozen. Oh bye? And 794 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,800 Speaker 1: you back? I was like, yeah, you were froz like 795 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:28,400 Speaker 1: a motherfucker. What's going on over there? My favorite part 796 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 1: of a man's body, besides his peanuts, it's his famus hands. 797 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 1: I like nice big hands. Hands is a good one. 798 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,800 Speaker 1: I am blessed to have a husband who has abs. 799 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 1: So for you. That ain't fair, you know you wheverybody 800 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:51,440 Speaker 1: can't have as you rude, that's nice, so good all right? 801 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 1: And last one, if I had to kiss a woman, 802 00:41:53,400 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 1: it would be don't see um I'm gonna say. I'm 803 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,879 Speaker 1: just saying, Halle Berry, Oh that's a good, great, Okay, 804 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 1: amazing she does it was she just ever celebrated the 805 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: birthday and it's like she is aging backwards. That Lakini 806 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,280 Speaker 1: picture she put up, she her body was on point. Okay, 807 00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 1: I kiss Lisable name. That's a girl like because I 808 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: don't want to kiss her to figure out what's the formula. 809 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: I want to know formula. Get all these fine asked men. 810 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 1: I want to kiss that baby daddy, I kiss him. 811 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 1: I want to kiss on her baby daddy. True got 812 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 1: her and Jason Momore and she got Liddy Kravis and Jason. 813 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: They like best buddies. I'm like girl and they both 814 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:45,520 Speaker 1: find it side by just and she just be like 815 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: I made d'arcole here listen and she just be chilling 816 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 1: like like teach me listen. Harry used to have a 817 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,040 Speaker 1: chance to be a pimple like that. I do and 818 00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm still working on it. Don't just listen. Keep hoping. 819 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:01,879 Speaker 1: I don't know who y'all praying to you, but pray 820 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:06,080 Speaker 1: to your gods and hope because I'm listening. But thank 821 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,799 Speaker 1: you all. So much. We'll be watching Wednesday nights VICE. 822 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 1: So we appreciate y'all. And I love the energy that 823 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:12,719 Speaker 1: you guys have. I told you I feel like it's 824 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 1: about to be one of my favorite talk shows. So 825 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 1: I would thank you just from the trail alone, so 826 00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,480 Speaker 1: you can send us over the episodes early week if 827 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 1: y'all want. Thank you, you guys, Thank you so much. 828 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 1: Thank y'all,