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Speaker 1: Call it what it is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille

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Speaker 1: Luddington an iHeartRadio podcast. Well Hello, Hello, Hello.

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Speaker 2: Short and Sweet, Shorty and Sweetie, it's harder sweating.

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Speaker 3: Hello, call it Crewe we have another episode for you.

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Speaker 1: Oh, by the way, just the Short and Sweet again. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's just I'm just get letting you into my musical taste.

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Speaker 1: That's Sabrina Carpenter album now that it's dropped. I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love it, love it, love it. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: share with you, share. I'm gonna share with you the

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Speaker 1: little thing that I want to say. Sabrina, you are

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Speaker 1: fucking great. I love you, I love it. I actually

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you. Last time then an album came

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Speaker 1: out and I loved as many songs on it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe Tyler.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, I have children that are eight, twelve, and thirteen, Sabrines.

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Speaker 1: Can we can we talk about your lyrics? So I

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Speaker 1: do mean, I love that you're so horny and yes,

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Speaker 1: girls scream that from their rooftops.

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Speaker 3: Well I guess really, this isn't.

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Speaker 1: For you, Sabrines. This is for me. I need to check.

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Speaker 1: I need to get a clean version.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the problem is is the non clean versions are better.

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Speaker 1: Of course they are because they're naughty and spicy.

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Speaker 4: I know I've played Please Please Please in the Car

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Speaker 4: with Hayden a few times and there's the whole part

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Speaker 4: that's like the mother the girl, and I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just on that part, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well

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Speaker 1: there's a there's a refrain that is just like explative

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Speaker 1: after explative after explative, and it's like, really truly, I

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Speaker 1: think it's like like it's got like a four repeat situation.

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Speaker 1: And by the time we got to the third when

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Speaker 1: I was like.

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Speaker 3: Okyokie, I can't You're like a long all right, I.

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Speaker 1: Can't sneeze my way through this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we need the BBS album for the school run.

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Speaker 1: Which and by the way, the hero song for me

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Speaker 1: right now is Taste, And I think that if you

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Speaker 1: use your imagination you can think about what taste might mean.

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Speaker 1: Not of your cherry Coca cola, not a little.

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Speaker 5: Siy you sound so old out of your cherry Coca cola,

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Speaker 5: which was shocking to me.

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Speaker 3: I was very confused.

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Speaker 1: It's not just a little lock of your lollipoo.

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Speaker 3: Well, I was, what is happening? It's not a ring pop.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, this is These are the times when it doesn't

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Speaker 1: feel like a job to talk to you, Kimilla. I

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Speaker 1: know sense that there's a job situation happening. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I love this topic so so so much because it's

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Speaker 1: actually it has imparted a phrase that is one of

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Speaker 1: my favorites to use in conversation and actually very effectively

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Speaker 1: into disagreement, which is, what are the tiny hills that

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Speaker 1: we will die on?

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Speaker 3: Die protect?

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Speaker 1: What are the things that you were like, I am

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Speaker 1: willing to die on this hill rather than let you

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Speaker 1: do this, stay over, do this.

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Speaker 4: Stay over do this thing. The call It Crew we

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Speaker 4: have been peeing our pants a little bit because the

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Speaker 4: call It crew send us the best submissions for this,

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Speaker 4: and so we're just going to get it.

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Speaker 3: We're going to get into it because I have opinions

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Speaker 3: on some of these myself that you guys sent in. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so let's take it one by one.

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Speaker 4: Great you start, Okay, I'm glad I'm reading this one

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Speaker 4: because I have my own feelings. I know this is

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Speaker 4: controversial and I need your lady's thoughts, but pineapple does

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Speaker 4: belong on pizza one Ella.

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Speaker 3: I agree. I don't know why it's controversial.

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Speaker 1: I don't either actually, but to me, I've only ever

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Speaker 1: seen it represented as hand in hand with ham. Right,

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Speaker 1: it's pineapple and ham.

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Speaker 4: It's so good because it doesn't love that combo a

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Speaker 4: little sweet.

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Speaker 1: Like ketchup on your taco.

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Speaker 3: It's a git. I know. Jess is already the plugging

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Speaker 3: the brand that's about to be released.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be a hot tickets.

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Speaker 1: Our next emission comes from someone who shall remain nameless.

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Speaker 3: Okay, anonymous.

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Speaker 1: If you and your significant other are on a break,

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Speaker 1: you're allowed to hook up with other people during that time. Again,

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Speaker 1: I love it when you're anonymous. It's so obvious why

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Speaker 4: You're clearly this person is already it's in the middle

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Speaker 4: of a hookup on a break.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, writing this with their right hand the back of

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Speaker 3: This is fine, Oh man, I have. This is a

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Speaker 3: tough one. This is a toughie.

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Speaker 1: It's so situational, I think. I mean, if you're going black,

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Speaker 1: if you're going black and white, like just right wrong,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I would land on. Oh, you're right,

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Speaker 1: it is tough.

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Speaker 4: Here's what I think, here's what I think. You can't

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Speaker 4: I go on a break and like two days later.

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Speaker 4: If you're in a serious relationship just lasts a long time,

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Speaker 4: you can't go on a break and like the next

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Speaker 4: day hook up. There has to be a period of time,

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Speaker 4: like a buffer on your break that doesn't feel like

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Speaker 4: you're just like out at your cruising bone Town the

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Speaker 4: moment the relationships ended, like you're in the bone Town

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Speaker 4: convertible and you're.

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Speaker 3: Like, who's up? Like can we just can we sit

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Speaker 3: on the porch for a second. That's what I reel like.

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Speaker 1: Watching the bones go by.

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Speaker 4: Just let the bones go by and then you can

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Speaker 4: find them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that there's a buffer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that feels right. That feels right.

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Speaker 4: It also has to be like a very clear agreement

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Speaker 4: if you go on to break, like what's okay and

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Wait, I mean, but maybe I want

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Speaker 1: don't I think you don't hook up when you're on

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Speaker 1: a break. I think you hook up when you've decided

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Speaker 1: that you're broken, like we're done. There's no because also

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Speaker 1: just think about it. Okay, let's say you get that

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Speaker 1: into Bonetown and something happens and you bone someone else,

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Speaker 1: and then you get back together with the one that

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Speaker 1: you were just on a break with. Do you have

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Speaker 1: to by the way, okay, here's another question.

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Speaker 3: Do you do you have to vuld that? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I do think that you don't. Here's what I think.

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Speaker 4: This is a hill I will die on. I think

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Speaker 4: that if you break up with someone, you don't owe

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Speaker 3: Tell them what happened during that breakup time. But if

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Speaker 3: they ask, I think that you have a right to be, like,

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Speaker 3: you know what, we were broken up.

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Speaker 4: But I know if you've like gone I mean, if

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Speaker 4: you've gone banged other people like I think you owe

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Speaker 4: I don't think you have to list the names.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna go to what Richard has written in,

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Speaker 1: which is speakerphone and FaceTime are not meant for use

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Speaker 1: in public. Richard, you and I are from the same tribe. No,

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Speaker 1: of course, these people that walk around in the aisles

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Speaker 1: of Target on full volume speaker are out of their minds.

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Speaker 4: I you disagree, I've done a speakers.

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Speaker 1: Camela Letting, Gene you're walking down the aisles.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I've done a speaker.

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Speaker 1: I can take your phone.

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Speaker 3: Stop it. Sometimes it's easier for my hands to do

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Speaker 4: I don't know what it is. Sometimes I need I know, hill,

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Speaker 4: I will die on but I and yet I do

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Speaker 4: it to you. Is you can't just FaceTime someone out

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Speaker 1: I think you're wrong on this one, but.

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Speaker 3: I will still. I will continue to do it to you.

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Speaker 1: No, and I love when you do it to me.

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Speaker 1: And here's FaceTime I do and I because guess what again,

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Speaker 1: FaceTime someone randomly out of nowhere, and a person can

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Speaker 4: It's only like a very small handful of people I

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Speaker 4: would accept it from, And there's other people that I'd be.

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Speaker 3: Like, what in the are you doing? How dare you?

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Speaker 1: That's how the kids feel about voicemails, by the way,

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Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, yeah, if you leave them a voicemail. Truly,

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Speaker 1: First of all, I'm surprised. I don't even actually think

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Speaker 1: a voicemail? Someone left a message? Yeah, because they just

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Speaker 1: send each other voice memos, which we did the other day.

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Speaker 3: We had a little voice memo situation the other day,

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Speaker 1: Gosh, that was very funny, talk about the performers, and

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Speaker 1: we had a full back and forth the voice memo

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Speaker 3: We could have called each other, but we didn't.

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Speaker 1: No, we played characters.

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Speaker 3: We did, we did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fun. Okay, hit me with your favorite

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Speaker 4: Well, Mariam, summer is the best season, hands down, doesn't

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Speaker 3: We would never be friends, Miriam.

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Speaker 4: We would never work out as friends because everyone knows

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Speaker 4: the answer is fall.

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Speaker 3: It's just a fact.

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Speaker 1: And say more why Fall? I mean, I know.

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Speaker 3: Because I do I need to?

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Speaker 1: Well it does. You can say one word, say the

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Speaker 3: Halloween.

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Speaker 4: But also but it's not just Halloween though. There's like coziness,

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Speaker 4: there's magic in the air, like I'm I fully embrace

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Speaker 4: my basic bitch and fall. I can love a pumpkin

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Speaker 4: like ninety degrees outside in La right now. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: Like I'm I just love the whole feeling of it.

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Speaker 3: M what do you feel you're during your well?

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Speaker 1: Now that I've moved to the East Coast, I prefer

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Speaker 1: my favorite My favorite seasons are fall and spring. Spring.

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Speaker 1: Spring snuck up on me.

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Speaker 3: Man, oh man, really I don't care for spring.

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Speaker 1: Oh, because you don't live in these kinds on the

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Speaker 1: East Coast. Literally, there's like dirt somewhere like one day

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Speaker 1: and the next day there's a sing like beautiful green

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Speaker 1: bush flower situation that you're like, where did that come from?

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Speaker 1: And did magic make that happen? And then you realize

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Speaker 1: it's no, it's nature. Nature made it happen.

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Speaker 3: Nature made it happen.

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Speaker 1: Random it all the time. Not you, but me.

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Speaker 3: I am yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, So okay this one.

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Speaker 1: My kids and I get into real, real tussles over

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Speaker 1: this one. Eden wrote it and said, movies in the

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Speaker 1: theater should have subtitles. No, they should not, nor should

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Speaker 1: all the screens that you're watching. Why are you all

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Speaker 1: putting subtitles on? Because it drives me crazy, and I

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Speaker 4: Well, that's what I decorate. I decorate the the weekend after. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Avery Avery said PDA is not cute, nor should it

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Speaker 1: Oh, I have one. Okay, go Christmas lights up after

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Speaker 6: No, no, I don't know how she hasn't, under the

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Speaker 3: Well, she's gonna know. Now if your light suddenly.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 6: I love that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we are going to we should we should continue.

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Speaker 3: This is I think this will make this a series. Hills,

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Speaker 3: you will die on.

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Speaker 4: Continue writing us, and every I know we have some

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Speaker 3: Continue writing us because tell us fun and it's making

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Speaker 3: you call it this was fun?

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