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Speaker 2: Y'all know what y'all don't know y'all.

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Speaker 3: All at all, So don't given all.

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Speaker 1: The bus Steve Yeah, listening to.

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Speaker 5: Joy, y'all joy, you gotta.

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Speaker 4: Love you.

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Speaker 5: Turn you probably got to turn, mouth, turn out, turn

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Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think, ahh, I sure will. Good

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Speaker 2: morning everybody. You all listening to the voice, Come on,

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Speaker 2: dig me now, one and only.

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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Hell Man back in

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Speaker 7: business too, Man, Man, how good is God? I mean, really,

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Speaker 7: if you think about it in spite of all that's

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Speaker 7: going down in your life. First of all, it could

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Speaker 7: be worse. But secondly, sometimes you have to remember. And

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Speaker 7: I've just had to have this conversation with myself this morning.

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Speaker 7: That's how I'm fresh on this one right here. When

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Speaker 7: a challenge faces you, are you going through a difficult moment,

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Speaker 7: or you didn't hit a bump in the road in

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Speaker 7: the middle of that, if you could manage to be grateful,

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Speaker 7: it would take you a long way.

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Speaker 2: Gratitude is a powerful resource.

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Speaker 7: If you can be grateful in the middle of it,

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Speaker 7: gratitude is a powerful resource when it's dim for you.

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Speaker 7: And then got a little bumpy on the road, and

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Speaker 7: he ran into some obstacles, and you done ran up

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Speaker 7: into some detailed signs, and your journey ain't smooth as

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Speaker 7: it was.

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Speaker 2: Last week or last year.

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Speaker 7: You gotta be grateful for the things that are going

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Speaker 7: right and that have gone right, and for the thing

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Speaker 7: that's wrong right now to get right?

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Speaker 2: Man? Can I share that with you?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: Is that a tough one to learn? It is for me.

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Speaker 7: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to

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Speaker 7: learn how to be grateful because it's a powerful resource,

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Speaker 7: but how to be grateful in moments of despair when

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Speaker 7: it ain't going right. See here's a mistake I would make.

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Speaker 7: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on

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Speaker 7: the wrong so much in an.

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Speaker 2: Attempt to fix it.

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Speaker 7: But even then the focus ain't always in to fix it.

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Speaker 7: The focus becomes, Man, this is bad, man, I can't

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Speaker 7: believe this has happened. Why just keep going down? That

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Speaker 7: doesn't fix anything? You know, mealing over it, going over

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Speaker 7: what's wrong, explaining it, sharing it with your friends, you know,

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Speaker 7: making it sound worse than it is. Tell the story

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Speaker 7: for pity from other people. All of that right there,

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Speaker 7: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just

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Speaker 7: mulling over it. You're just making it worse. You're just

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Speaker 7: making it a bigger problem. You're manifesting it into your atmosphere,

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Speaker 7: You're putting it out there in your spirit. Now, all

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Speaker 7: of a sudden, it consumes your day. Next thing, you know,

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Speaker 7: it's because you've been having some bad thoughts. So what

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Speaker 7: I've had to learn how to do, and what I'm

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Speaker 7: that Ben cropped up. I was going kind of smooth

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Speaker 7: the things that God has given me, for all the

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Speaker 7: a good god man. It's a lot to be grateful for.

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Speaker 7: So while I'm tripping on this bumping the road out

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Speaker 7: So instead of being down about this new bumping the road,

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Speaker 7: Do I have to fix this bump in the row?

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Speaker 7: Of course I do. Are There's some things I'm going

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Speaker 7: it is. But Steve just going to get the business

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Speaker 7: of doing it and straighten it out. What you mulling

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Speaker 2: Know, old people.

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Speaker 7: I heard old people say something when I was growing

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Speaker 7: up in the church, they say, if you're gonna pray

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Speaker 2: But if you're gonna worry about it, don't pray about it.

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Speaker 7: That's an amazing thing. And prayer just happens to be

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Speaker 7: my weapon of choice. Now, it ain't always been that way.

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Speaker 7: I want you to understand that My first weapon of

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Speaker 7: choice was you do it to me, I do it

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Speaker 7: to you. You called me out, I call you out.

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Speaker 7: You say something bad about me. I've tried to find

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Speaker 7: in the past. How did that work out for you, Steve?

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Speaker 7: Not so good? Because you know what, I spend a

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Speaker 7: I could have spent all that time climbing. See, all

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Speaker 7: you trying to do at the end of the day, folks,

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Speaker 7: is have a better life than the one you got.

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Speaker 7: All you trying to do is to improve your position

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Speaker 7: no time for that. It's not my job to assure

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Speaker 7: no time for that. Your real mission and purpose is

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Speaker 7: to have the best life that you can have, to

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Speaker 7: to make your family as comfortable as you can, to

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Speaker 7: provide as much as you.

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Speaker 2: Can for your family. But legally, see, those.

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Speaker 7: Of us are sitting up here trying to come up

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Speaker 2: I knew not to go down there. Something told me

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Speaker 7: them throw away people, nah, man, Because everybody make mistakes,

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Speaker 7: and God is in the forgiving business. And some of

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Speaker 7: But now we sit up here we pass judgment on

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Speaker 7: I don't care what you've done. God can forgive anything,

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Speaker 7: but our position our motivation in life is to try

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Speaker 7: And that's not the way to get it done. It's

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Speaker 7: helps me that I don't have to fight back. Now

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Speaker 7: if I get cornered, I'm gonna fight you. I ain't

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Speaker 7: even gonna lie to you. And now I'm still working

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Speaker 7: weapon of choice is prayer now. So when it happens

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Speaker 7: the thing about prayer, man, is prayer changes things. Yes,

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Speaker 7: it does now, read about it and try it. That's

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Speaker 7: the deal, Okay, Come on, prayer is a wonderful weapon. Show,

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Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, this is the beginning of the Steve

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Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. The show is beginning a little bit

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Speaker 2: Well enough for that. What y'all doing today? Showly is

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Speaker 7: Mighty grateful, filled with gratitude, woke me off. I ain't

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Speaker 7: I got you, and I'll take it. I will take it,

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Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen. Shirley Strawberry calling for real the Mississippi

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Speaker 7: Monica Junior kissed Fates, the legend of Nephew Tommy Junior Day.

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Speaker 7: What could possibly be on your mind today?

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Speaker 2: Gifts you don't really happy to get? You really good

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Speaker 7: don't hand it to me. There's that open I understand that.

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Speaker 7: and if it ain't there, you know, it's just it's

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Speaker 7: hard sometimes because you want you want to appear grateful.

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Speaker 7: You know that, you know that somebody even thought of you,

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Speaker 7: and you want to remember. You know, it's a thought

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Speaker 2: Yeah tell me okay, but what about when somebody then

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Speaker 2: brought us some.

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Speaker 8: Food or cake or pie, and now they want us

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Speaker 8: to sit there and cut it and eat it right here?

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Speaker 7: First of all, let me tell y'all, people who can cook.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate you cooking. I bet you can cook, but

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Speaker 7: we not fin to eat it. We just want to

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Speaker 7: let you know that because we don't know where this

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Speaker 7: poecake cookies come from.

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Speaker 2: They did.

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Speaker 7: I made these for y'all, Thank you so much. Set

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Speaker 2: Much food out and left at radio shows? Remember when

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Speaker 2: you should go out? How much food out and left?

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Speaker 2: How many cakes is in that? Drivers? I gave it

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Speaker 7: Oh man, oh oh, I had one driver told me,

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Speaker 7: oh man, I heard it. This lady good, good, good,

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Speaker 8: They found out you like red velvet. Everywhere we went,

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Speaker 8: somebody was bringing the red velvet cake.

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Speaker 9: It was it was a couple of years or so

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Speaker 1: Ookie. You can you cannot. They had them in their

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Speaker 7: Well, you know, cleaning ship is in the bathtub. Ain't

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Speaker 9: Yeah for that one time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen that before.

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Speaker 7: Especially if you got to if you got to do

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Speaker 9: Okay, uh, we're moving on, coming up and doctor, minutes

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Speaker 10: You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 9: It is time now to start your morning off with

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Speaker 1: What you got, nephew, Look.

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Speaker 2: At the time already, it's time to be stupid.

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Speaker 8: Okay, ladies and gentlemen, parasites, parasites cat all.

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Speaker 1: If you hello.

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Speaker 4: Hello, I'm trying to reach it, Brian, Brian, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: see hey Brian, this is doctor Jacob. How you doing today, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm hey, I'm okay. Listen. You actually came in, uh

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Speaker 4: maybe like two and a half weeks to go here

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, right.

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Speaker 11: Right, yeah, everything okay.

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Speaker 4: Uh well yeah, yeah, everything's gonna be pretty good. I'd

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Speaker 11: Yeah, what kind of procedure is?

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Speaker 4: Well? Actually, I don't know if you've heard of it.

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Speaker 4: This is an okay, astromy.

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Speaker 11: Nah, I got something?

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Speaker 4: That's what's so? Some dude? You want now some do

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Speaker 4: in my eyes? Hang on? What's this? No? No, has

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Speaker 4: nothing to do with the eyes. No, nothing at all.

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Speaker 4: We found a little bit of parasites in a particular area,

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Speaker 4: just remove it completely and you'll be fine. You'll get

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Speaker 4: your life in feriance, you and your family will be great.

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Speaker 4: So can I get you to come in tomorrow? Maybe

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Speaker 4: Thursday afternoon? As? Wow? What what area? I found? The

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Speaker 4: So what we're gonna do is what's called a okostrom

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Speaker 4: and okom is actually removing that testicle completely and then

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Speaker 4: everything will be fine. It's all confined and we'll be

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Speaker 4: Like I said, can I get can I can I

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Speaker 4: get you to come in tomorrow? What are you gonna tacle? Well?

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Speaker 4: Only one, only one, and it's not gonna take long.

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Speaker 4: It's a thirty minute procedure. But we want to get

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Speaker 4: we get you to go. Whether are you available? We

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Speaker 4: want it for a routine stud How I gotta remove

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Speaker 4: with test sir? You know what, oftentimes when people come

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Speaker 4: in with life insurance, these type of things happen. So

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Speaker 11: Nah man, I'm waiting for a routine physical. Maybe I

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Speaker 11: wasn't supposed to be taking all this extra stuff. Now

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Speaker 11: I get a parent site. Man in my testical y'all

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Speaker 11: don't remove a testicle. Man, I'm twenty.

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Speaker 4: Five men and my wife, I know kids trying to do.

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Speaker 4: I gotta move a testicle. Let me say this to you, Brian,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna be completely fine. You'll be able to create children.

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Speaker 4: You'll be able to live a normal life. You know,

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Speaker 4: you'll just see you won't have all of them, but

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Speaker 4: you'll have enough to create children.

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Speaker 11: You understand that, Nah man, I can't no, I ain't

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Speaker 11: gonna I can't come in for that.

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Speaker 4: Noah, sir, is there any way I can get you

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Speaker 4: so forth.

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Speaker 11: Nah, man, Man, we ain't rescheduled now. I need to

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Speaker 11: take in a third opinion on that. He's talking about

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Speaker 11: taking one of my We ain't rescheduling nothing, man, I'm

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Speaker 11: gonna need to see another doctor. Man, it's some sir.

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Speaker 4: Sir, you can go around the entire city and see

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Speaker 4: several doctors. I'm going to tell you you're just gonna

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Speaker 4: be wasting time. I'm going to try to knock this

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Speaker 11: Knock it up.

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Speaker 4: I ain't agreed to nothing, listen, Yeah, I just doing

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Speaker 4: this to get money. Medicine scheduling, nothing.

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Speaker 11: Man, I need to take a third pity.

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Speaker 4: It's blubal Brian. I'll tell you if you come in

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Speaker 4: and let me get this thing taken care of, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'll have you back. You know, big ball and shot

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Speaker 4: calling before it's all over. You know what's big big

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Speaker 11: I told you, man, I ain't going in for none

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Speaker 11: this this ain't cool. Man, I ain't going in for that.

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Speaker 4: Man. I'm rescheduling. Man, you scheduled. What do you mean

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Speaker 4: you're rescheduling? Sir?

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Speaker 11: What I'm getting I'm getting another opinion. I ain't going

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Speaker 4: Okay you, But I'm trying to make you a big

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Speaker 4: baller shot caller. You know, man, what what is your name? Man?

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Speaker 11: You're supposed to be a doctor. You and making little jokes, man,

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Speaker 11: and you're doing a little play on words. Man, it

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Speaker 4: Man, I'm calling it. Insurance.

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Speaker 11: Probably tell him they give me some doctor. Man, you

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Speaker 11: think he's funny, Hey, it ain't funny.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 11: You know you're making a little chase. Man, it ain't funny.

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Speaker 4: Man. I'm thinking, Man, I have for getting all of

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Speaker 4: the work that we got, the blood work, the urine work,

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Speaker 4: the complete physical. That's when we realize that you had

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Speaker 4: parasites in a particular area. So what we're trying I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I don't mean I turned to make a light of

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Speaker 4: little bit more comfortable. I apologize all right. That ain't funny, man.

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Speaker 4: You wouldn't want to lose it. No, that ain't funny. Man.

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Speaker 11: If I had a situation that nurse would have.

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Speaker 4: Told me that.

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Speaker 11: You ain't telling me nothing. Man, ain't me thinking, I'm

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Speaker 11: all good. Now you telling me I got to come

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Speaker 4: We had to run tests on you, sir. We got

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Speaker 4: completely cleared out. The only way I can clear that

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Speaker 4: out is to remove that testicle. Man, it's some man.

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Speaker 11: I ain't got no pair sites. Man, may I have

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Speaker 11: here running out of these tests? I mean I'm going

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Speaker 11: no paircite. Man, all these kids got somebody that remind

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Speaker 11: me I gotta remove them. That's some you know, yeah,

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Speaker 11: something that's I know you doctor.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 11: I ain't got a parcise man.

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Speaker 4: I'm following my head shirt.

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Speaker 11: I'm telling like dealing with you. You man, I ain't

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Speaker 4: Brian, Let me make you understand something clearly here. It's

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Speaker 4: my job as a physician that if the patient doesn't

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Speaker 4: come to me, it's my job to come to you

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Speaker 4: and extract the problem. You're leaning towards me having to

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Speaker 4: come to your home and extract the problem.

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Speaker 11: Man, when you want to come home house, may you

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Speaker 11: not what you want just with the house of tests?

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Speaker 11: May you you fust that I'm going to another doctor,

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Speaker 11: I'm getting another test. I ain't got a test.

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Speaker 4: Let it, sir, You've got the parasite, and you only

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Speaker 2: Sir.

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Speaker 4: I have to move on this quickly.

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Speaker 11: Brian, Okay, I'm not gonna take it at I ain't gotta.

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Speaker 4: Three minutes. Can't give it.

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Speaker 11: I ain't give it.

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Speaker 9: I ain't got it.

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Speaker 10: Man.

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Speaker 4: It's not something that's transmitted. It doesn't come from an

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Speaker 4: I got to extracted from you. You try to tell

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Speaker 11: Man you know gonna come.

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Speaker 4: Fine, there's something else that you have that I haven't

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Speaker 4: told you about. There's something else I need to tell you.

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Speaker 4: I got it. Here's something I got passed. Bran. You

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Speaker 4: just got pranked. You just got pranked by nephew Tommy

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Speaker 4: from the Steve Hally Morning Show. Your wife and Nika

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Speaker 4: got me the plaint fall called you have me.

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Speaker 2: You ain't even got to say nothing to me. I

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Speaker 2: know what I just did. You go to the next break.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got say nothing, but what I know what.

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Speaker 9: I appreciate it all right, it is asked the CELO

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Speaker 9: with our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, and the building

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Speaker 9: ready for your love questions.

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Speaker 10: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 9: Time now for us the CLO Chief Love Officer, the

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Speaker 9: one and only Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Steve.

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Speaker 1: This one is from john And Mississippi.

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Speaker 9: He says, my wife and I have been separated for

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Speaker 9: over a year, but she moved back in with me

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Speaker 9: after she got laid off. I got the house because

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Speaker 9: I caught her cheating on me. I never got upset

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Speaker 9: the kids have been better off since then. Now that

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Speaker 9: say so and she should be glad she has a

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Speaker 9: roof over her head. She's been very rude to my

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Speaker 9: be wrong?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: No, you wasn't wrong for she cheated on you? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: What you take her back forth? Why aren't you gonna

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Speaker 7: stay with the dude you cheated with right back? Over

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Speaker 7: her fault?

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Speaker 2: They're never available. The one you cheat it with is

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't be wrong put as out? You cheat on

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Speaker 7: me and I'll put you out. You trust you ain't coming?

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Speaker 2: Maybe he had you better be lucky one on them

440
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:17,160
Speaker 2: over here?

441
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 4: Really? Okay?

442
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 9: Player?

443
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 10: What we're doing?

444
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 4: No?

445
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: Clem and Lake Charles.

446
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 2: The reason there's a lot on over here because your kids,

447
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 2: like everybody.

448
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:32,959
Speaker 1: You know, they're so sweet.

449
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 9: Cleming Lake Charles Louisiana says, I'm a forty nine year

450
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 9: old married man and I have a birthday weekend plan

451
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 9: for my fiftieth in June. Me and my boys are

452
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 9: going to Miami to kick back, eat good drink, and

453
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,120
Speaker 9: talk a lot of smack. Well, my wife doesn't understand

454
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 9: why we're going to Miami to have a good time.

455
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 9: We were both married, we've been married for fourteen years,

456
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,719
Speaker 9: and I have never had a boy's weekend, so she's suspicious.

457
00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 9: Do I owe her an explanation? I don't say anything

458
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 9: when she takes girls trips.

459
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 7: Dog m hmmm, So she takes trip, she takes girl trip,

460
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 7: you take boy trip.

461
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 2: You going to Miami?

462
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 7: Uh, this is sciences first fellows trip though certain let

463
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 7: me blash it might Miami.

464
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 2: It can't be your first trip.

465
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 1: Sexist city in the US.

466
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to go slow. Y'all.

467
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 7: Don't want to go Kansas City or nothing. Yeah, y'all

468
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 7: don't want to go Mississippi. Go Graceland or some Miami Memphis. Boy,

469
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,959
Speaker 7: let me take you something. Go down on Lincoln Square

470
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 7: and just pull up a chair, get yourself cigar and

471
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 7: pull up a chair.

472
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,959
Speaker 2: You're gonna be there all night. And then get over

473
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 2: there on South Beach.

474
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,239
Speaker 7: Go down to that hotel with them sheets riding them

475
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 7: day beds and be blowing in the wind. And go

476
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 7: out there and get your ass a cotail and try

477
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 7: to make it back home. Burn all your shirts though.

478
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: Why is it shirt?

479
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 4: Like?

480
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 2: Whatick? Perfectly?

481
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 9: Now?

482
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 7: If you get lipstick on your collarge, listen to me, fellas,

483
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 7: buy yourself a pack of white bread.

484
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 2: Like white bread, take lipstick out of college. Just just

485
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 2: need to know that.

486
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so you've done this trick before going to the store.

487
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:33,679
Speaker 2: Done bar loafer tough used to drive around with bread

488
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: in the cor.

489
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 1: Oh, they weren't for making sandwiches.

490
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 2: Okay, all right.

491
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 9: Joy in Dover, Delaware says, I'm in my mid fifties

492
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,880
Speaker 9: and my husband and I lost the spark in our bedroom.

493
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 9: He suggested we try try a threesome with a young

494
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 9: lady that cleans her home. This young black lady had

495
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 9: applied for a job at his company, but she was underqualified,

496
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 9: so he offered her a job as a sort of

497
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 9: a house cleaner. But I'm concerned that she's been doing

498
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 9: other duties for him, if you know what I mean.

499
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 9: Why else would he suggest a threesome with her?

500
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: So what's she asking me? Is this or she's just

501
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 2: making a statement.

502
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 9: She's making a statement, but she wants you to confirm

503
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 9: or deny her suspicions.

504
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 2: I can't confirm or deny that.

505
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 7: I don't know if the man had a relationship with

506
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 7: her at all, but he bought her up specifically as the.

507
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 10: Threesome, That's what saying.

508
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 2: So now do you mean that he.

509
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 7: Gonna have to now take the idea to her or

510
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 7: do you think he already know Ite's to go.

511
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 2: Ah, see which one you think it is? Either way,

512
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: you got a damn problem.

513
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, because first of all, if you want to

514
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 7: add some spice, why is her name at the top

515
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 7: of the damn list.

516
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: That's what she wants to know exactly.

517
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 2: I mean what he been looking at him?

518
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 9: He'd been doing, what was happening, That's what she thinks.

519
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 9: She thinks it's more than that going on.

520
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, you know, you find out in a couple

521
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 7: of years, you know Ernest Washingigga.

522
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: God, yeah he did. He had a whole son with Yeah.

523
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 7: He detle age boy looked just like on he really

524
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 7: has years old, just as muscular.

525
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 2: Or just stood up there and look at just like

526
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 2: the term. He ready for baby Olympia.

527
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 9: All right, we're moving on LaToya and Philly says. I'm

528
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 9: a single mom of a middle schooler and a high schooler.

529
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 9: My children's father has visitation rights, but he hasn't spent

530
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 9: much time with them since they're older. I have a

531
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 9: work trip coming up and I needed him to keep

532
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 9: the kids for a week and he said no. He

533
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 9: said he'd need advance notice because he's living with his

534
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 9: girlfriend now and her five year old child is in

535
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 9: the bedroom that was for our children. How can you

536
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 9: choose her kid over ours?

537
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: Wow?

538
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 2: What a loser? Well that's messed up.

539
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 7: You know you got two kids, and you know you

540
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 7: don't need no you don't need no notice because the

541
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 7: bedroom got them.

542
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 2: Your key heads, they all getting medical. I think it's me.

543
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 7: Yeah, hey, here come your brother, school jokes, scoot me,

544
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 7: just your sister, say hi.

545
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: Now go in there and play.

546
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: Who else is going to keep them? He's horrible for

547
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: the dad.

548
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: You deny your kids. He sucks.

549
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 7: Yep, truly, I ain't got I don't know. Wow, he

550
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 7: don't want to keep his own kids. I can't make

551
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 7: a man not be trifling over there?

552
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: Not enough time?

553
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 4: All right?

554
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: Colo? Yeah, all right, Colo, thank you?

555
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 10: You're listening to Hardy morning show.

556
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 9: Personality is more important than looks to most people. While

557
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 9: a lot of us are overly concerned about how we look,

558
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 9: especially when it comes to finding a mate, it turns

559
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,959
Speaker 9: out looks really art everything. In fact, a New Planet

560
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 9: Fitness poll finds that ninety two percent ninety two percent

561
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 9: of people say they prefer a partner with a good

562
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 9: personality to one with a great body. Overall, eighty one

563
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 9: percent of people say they're looking for a partner with

564
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 9: a good personality, while seventy six percent want one with

565
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 9: a sense of humor. There you go, Steve with a

566
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,239
Speaker 9: positive attitude and seventy three percent open minded and as

567
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 9: sixty two percent also important characteristics for a mate. So

568
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 9: I gotta ask you, Steve, I gotta ask junior antomy.

569
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 9: You guys, chime into what's the most important thing you're

570
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 9: looking for in your significant other?

571
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: Well, and really, how important are looks?

572
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 7: Personality is critical, it's absolutely critical. But I'm gonna need

573
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 7: you to be cute too, though, thank you, because so

574
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 7: what I'm not gonna be doing is sitting up in

575
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 7: here with your glass just cause you nice person. Yeah,

576
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 7: sit up and do all that. Yeah, I got you nice,

577
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 7: but you know you'll you'll horrid.

578
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 9: That used to be the standard if someone wasn't cute,

579
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 9: that you'd ask them are they cute? You say, well,

580
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 9: they have a nice personality.

581
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 2: That mean they was ugly? You That's all that meant

582
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 2: right away.

583
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 7: But now I would prefer personality over you said a

584
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 7: great body. Yeah, yeah, because my body got flaws. I

585
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 7: can accept the flaw on your body. The ain't no problem.

586
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 7: Couple of flaws, you know, so I ain't worried about that.

587
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: And it was nice though.

588
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is rolling over every morning looking at that. No, no,

589
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna need something now till de do us part?

590
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 4: You die?

591
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 7: Baby, Yeah, I'm every What I'm not gonna do is

592
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 7: die every morning you wake up. Well, I mean, I

593
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 7: mean for you I to make up to resemble the

594
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 7: person in maker?

595
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: How is that? Okay?

596
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: So we know men are visual. We got that men

597
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: are very visual.

598
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: Women are surely okay, and I was.

599
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 9: That's what I was coming to. And you guys, all

600
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 9: of you guys, well, with the exception of Tommy. You

601
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 9: guys say you're not cute? So where are we now?

602
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: No, I'm not Tommy. Were still when them not cute

603
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: and I'm just cute?

604
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 4: What?

605
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 8: What was what?

606
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 2: Tommy? You're not gonna make me ugly? It ain't.

607
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 7: I'm not going that way, tom I was not okay, Okay, okay, Tommy,

608
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 7: let me ask you a question.

609
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: List your flaws and my flower.

610
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: Who you might take a minute. Let me talk among.

611
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 8: My shoulders ain't like nice. You know my hand strings

612
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 8: of course, it's gone to hell.

613
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: See your shoulders ain't ain't good ain't like my shoulder. No,

614
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 2: you got brought you wide. Now you're wirde. I ain't

615
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: got that.

616
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: I ain't got that shoulders, okay.

617
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: Shoulder my star with the sage.

618
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: Come on, so far it's your shoulders.

619
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 7: The other one star with their sation shoulders and or.

620
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: Listen.

621
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 8: First of all, I'm not short, but short can be sexy,

622
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 8: so let's not let's not kill that. Okay, you don't

623
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 8: have to be tall to be sexy. Now I'm not tall,

624
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 8: but I'm not short. No, women don't have to be

625
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 8: tall to be sexy. No, I'm not talking about women.

626
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 8: I'm talking about people.

627
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 2: Period. There's that. Yeah, people, there's short, there's short.

628
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: There's short sexy women there, and there's good looking shorter men.

629
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 2: What you're talking about?

630
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: What we're just at the shoulders though?

631
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 2: Go ahead, go ahead, finish your shoulders. What else? Wrongs?

632
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 8: Lower back ain't wearing all to be got hair on it?

633
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 8: You know, it's just it's just something.

634
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 2: You can't see your lower back because of your other

635
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: fle short?

636
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: Does they need help?

637
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 10: Because okay, here.

638
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: You finish behind. I don't have a high behind. I

639
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 2: don't claim you can't see your lower back. If toms.

640
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,719
Speaker 7: When you put your belt on, if your belt buckle

641
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 7: is lower than the top of your ass, what do

642
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 7: you think that's from.

643
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm just bad belts. Built, bad built is what you

644
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: bad belts?

645
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 7: Okay, beult Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, let me help you with

646
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 7: your with your shortcomings.

647
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: Your flaws is your shoulders. You got a high ass,

648
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 2: your short and your.

649
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: Profile profile, that's all I mean. What is your time?

650
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: What do you mean profile?

651
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean look at when.

652
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: He turns to the side. I've never noticed.

653
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 2: Okay, ladies, look at me from the side. Okay, yeah,

654
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 2: do you see anything? He talks back? What do you

655
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: say you don't see a jaw line? Have chin run

656
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 2: straight down into his chest? My son said that, man,

657
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 2: I don't. Okay, I don't have a chance. So that's

658
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: that makes me ugly though.

659
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: With shindless, I don't know. Just get over here. We

660
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: should have chins in life.

661
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: Seriously, our family not famous for that. My profile tore up.

662
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 2: How much do chins?

663
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 1: Coke get implants all day?

664
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Speaker 2: You don't need. If I get a chin, then I

665
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Speaker 2: look good.

666
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:25,439
Speaker 9: You're supposed to be encouraging him.

667
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 7: He ain't encouraging nothing. Well, I didn't say I was

668
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 7: gonna en carriage you. I said, list your shortcomings. You

669
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 7: seem to be struggling, shoulders, short, high ass, and your

670
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 7: profile and your hamstrings is gone?

671
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: What is your and your jumping ability?

672
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 4: Is you get?

673
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:48,360
Speaker 7: I got big lips, I got a full nose, My

674
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 7: profile is shot, my stomach cannot seem to get reduced.

675
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 9: Okay, we gotta go this. This could take forever because

676
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 9: I know that you're listening morning show and it's time

677
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 9: now for a rounded. Would you rather, guys, would you

678
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 9: rather have your ariola pearced?

679
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 10: Okay?

680
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 9: Or yeah, your ariola pears? Or would you rather have

681
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 9: a tattoo inside your lip?

682
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: Which one you think would be?

683
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 4: What is it?

684
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: Your oratory?

685
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 4: Yeah?

686
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 2: Tattoo? Yeah? Any idea? How long that'll take?

687
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 4: Now? No, you know.

688
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 2: So much? We're gonna have to use a lot. You

689
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 2: know how so much we can put on him all week?

690
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 7: You get your test, Pierce though, I can put Psalms

691
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 7: twenty third songs on my lip?

692
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: Surely?

693
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 2: Goodness?

694
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 8: All?

695
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 2: You know how much? You how much lip I got?

696
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: If I pull it down, boy, let me tell you something.

697
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 9: Okay, So definitely your areola will be pierced all right,

698
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 9: I was a little boy.

699
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 2: This how I knew I had a big lips.

700
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 7: I was a little boy, and you know how you

701
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 7: hang your head out the car when it's driving sometime,

702
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 7: and it normally just take y'all's breath. Awall, I almost

703
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 7: got smothered because my lips went back up over my nose.

704
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 2: And I almost got smothered like that. Yeah, I can

705
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: see it. Yeah, all right.

706
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,240
Speaker 9: Would you rather have your wife ignore you for three days?

707
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 9: Or would you rather have your wife? You and your

708
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 9: wife argue for three days.

709
00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: Ignorant, ignoring me? Any man would.

710
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: Say, guys don't like the silent treatment either.

711
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: Ignore.

712
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 8: Both of them and extending that three for me, you'll

713
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 8: take six days, take five hundred.

714
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 6: All right?

715
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 9: Would you rather take cold showers every day or warm

716
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 9: bubble bats just twice a week?

717
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,919
Speaker 2: Warm bubble baths twice a week? Yeah, be you little

718
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 2: funk yourself?

719
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 7: Yes, you little or you and you always talk about

720
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 7: how clean you you're going in there, Take that cold

721
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 7: shower you want. I'm gonna take them. I'm gonna take

722
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 7: coal health. One thing about me. There's nobody nobody ever

723
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 7: said Steve Harvey Steak.

724
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 2: If you get down to these two days, you're gonna.

725
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 7: I want, well whatever, you'll be a first wash, You'll

726
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 7: be a first But I'm not gonna be in that

727
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 7: cold shower because how long you think I can do this?

728
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:56,879
Speaker 2: Here?

729
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 9: They say cold showers are good for you though, well

730
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 9: who yeah, yeah, it's good for information all that.

731
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's roundup. Would you rather you're listening.

732
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Speaker 10: Morning show?

733
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 9: All right, Jay, it's time for comedy Roulette. Guys, please

734
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 9: set it up for us.

735
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 3: I can't do this without explaining it because we have

736
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 3: new listeners that are not familiar with the hot this

737
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 3: game go. I mean, new people tuning in right now

738
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 3: don't know what we're doing. So what I'm gonna do

739
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 3: now is explain how it works. Take pice subjects, put

740
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 3: it on the wheels, fund the wheel wedbstop will do it.

741
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: And the reason we can do this because Junior is

742
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: a comedian, I'm a.

743
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 3: Comedian, Time is a comedian, and Steve's the King comedians watching.

744
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 3: Yes that though, see Junior's comedian meaning Times comedian and

745
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 3: Steve is King comedian.

746
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 9: All right, before it gets really mad, these are the subjects. Okay,

747
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 9: Number one things people say if they've been in jail

748
00:38:58,520 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 9: a long time.

749
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Speaker 2: Number.

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00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a good one.

751
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 9: Number two Live men tell when they're caught looking at

752
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 9: another woman.

753
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 2: I want to.

754
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 9: Three excuse these men say when they're not getting a

755
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 9: lot of sex?

756
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 1: Man' that's another dude's good.

757
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 4: Number.

758
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: Four things people say when they don't have cable. Wow,

759
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: all right, kay?

760
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 2: Funny spunny funny. Yeah, that's the one I want.

761
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: Oh it stopped all This is a good one.

762
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 9: Number two Live men tell when they're caught looking at

763
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 9: another woman.

764
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 3: Let U good, I wasn't looking at her. I was

765
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 3: gonna get you a pair of pants just like that,

766
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 3: And I just wanted to make sure those are the

767
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 3: one's that.

768
00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: These men say.

769
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 2: He's been sake when they called looking at another form?

770
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Speaker 4: Right?

771
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 2: Me looking her? Okay? Need all the ass show her

772
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 2: ass show why for what?

773
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 1: Abs?

774
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 4: Right?

775
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:18,879
Speaker 2: Need all her asps showing why?

776
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 7: Come on?

777
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 8: Yeah, The only reason why I'm looking at her because

778
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 8: you know my cousin Rolanda.

779
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: That had died just like her.

780
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 8: My cousin Rolanda looked just like That's why I'm staying

781
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 8: at herle.

782
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 10: You thought it was coming.

783
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 4: All right?

784
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 2: Come see? Maybe why are you looking at her?

785
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: Hum?

786
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 2: I'm looking at her.

787
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: Don't you ever divorce this man?

788
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 4: Yes?

789
00:40:56,160 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 3: Yes, things things men say when they're coat looking at

790
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 3: another woman. I got a crook at my neck, and

791
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 3: every now and then it just jerked from left to right.

792
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:14,760
Speaker 3: So that's all that is nothing, nothing, all right? Class

793
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 3: men tell when they go looking at another woman.

794
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 2: Babe, let me tell you something. I was looking over

795
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: I did.

796
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: I would, but I don't like her raids hanging.

797
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 2: Off her ass like that. I don't like ass like that.

798
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 2: I would see the purpose. Baby, Listen, I'm just so glad,

799
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 2: I really am. That's your butt is not that big?

800
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 4: You know that.

801
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 2: I mean, that's just ridiculous. Maybe you know what? They

802
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 2: just look at it. That's just ridiculous, ain't it. They

803
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 2: have a butt that big. That's just too much.

804
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 4: For sure?

805
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: You My wife had asked.

806
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: Me, excuse you, why are you looking over there at

807
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: that other woman.

808
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm right here. Jesus. She needs Jesus.

809
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: Jesus, you better bring the Lord into.

810
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 2: What had to fud for.

811
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 9: Hard for me not to hollow, Yeah, hard, hard for

812
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 9: me not to holler your father, hard for me not

813
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 9: to hollow. Come on, see, we got to shut this

814
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 9: one down. Lies men tell when they're they're caught looking

815
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 9: at another woman.

816
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 2: You know what, that is the cutest dog I have

817
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: ever seen in my life. That's a dog over there.

818
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 2: I've never seen a dog. They're cute.

819
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: All right, great job as usual, guys. I'm to switch

820
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: gears up.

821
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 4: Next.

822
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: It is the nephew with the prank phone call coming

823
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: up right after this.

824
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 10: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

825
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

826
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 9: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the

827
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,439
Speaker 9: subject I don't know my husband at all. Wait till

828
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 9: you hear this. We'll get into it in just a

829
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 9: little bit, but right now, Yeah, the nephew is here

830
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 9: with today's prank phone call.

831
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 1: What you got for his neph more stupid?

832
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, let me jump on in here and put

833
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,280
Speaker 8: a little sprinkle a little stupid on here for you. Surely,

834
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 8: this oneund here is called Christmas Lights expiration, Christmas lights

835
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 8: and black people listen, it's time to take them down,

836
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 8: right now? Ain't Christmas old?

837
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 2: Wick? Ain't it over?

838
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 4: Yes?

839
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 2: Yes it is, okay, So take them down? Lights down?

840
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 8: Okay, Frost you ought to be thought, you ought to

841
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,280
Speaker 8: be thawed out by night it take you people down, Jesus,

842
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 8: don't make no sense. Christmas lights expiration, Christmas lights expiration?

843
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: Cat dog? If you would.

844
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 4: Hello, Well, I'm trying to reach James. Yeah, hey James.

845
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 4: How you doing? This is Greg? I want to get neighbors.

846
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 4: I live a few streets over from you. How you

847
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 4: doing today?

848
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 6: I'm doing fine?

849
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 4: What's up? Just want to make sure I got the

850
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 4: right person. You're at chick uh North Willow Ben Yeah, okay,

851
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 4: why are you calling? What's I'm on? I live on

852
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 4: a shadow band man? My name is Greg, and I

853
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 4: wonder I want to reach out to you. Uh, we

854
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 4: seem to have a bit of a problem.

855
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: Man.

856
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 4: You still have your Christmas lights up on the house

857
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,439
Speaker 4: and what what? What's what's going on? You know, we've

858
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 4: you know, some of the neighbors have had a conversation

859
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 4: when you're gonna take these down? Man?

860
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 6: We go through this every year and uh, it ain't

861
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 6: no problem. Man. The lights are gonna stay up?

862
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 2: What what?

863
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 4: What do you mean they're gonna stay up?

864
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 6: Did I start up? I said the lights are gonna

865
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 6: stay up?

866
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 4: You know? No, no, no, hold on, bro, Christmas is

867
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 4: over the lights thing Finnish stay up okay, you knights,

868
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,479
Speaker 4: me tell you that the lights need to come down.

869
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 4: You know, I don't. I don't even why do you

870
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 4: have your light stuff? After Christmas? Shutter close? The whole

871
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:23,879
Speaker 4: Christmas thing is over?

872
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: Wait?

873
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 4: Wait, wait to god?

874
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 6: Man, what what's your name against?

875
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 4: Greg?

876
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 6: Who?

877
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 4: Of? Then? My name is Greg. My name is Greg,

878
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 4: and I live on Shadow Ben. I live post greets

879
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 4: over from you.

880
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 6: I don't give about where you live.

881
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 4: Man. You know how did you get my number? I

882
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 4: got your number from the h o A you know,

883
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 4: the president hu a alum, the one gave me your number.

884
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 4: But that but that's neither that's neither hear nor that.

885
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 4: The big issue is the Christmas light just got to

886
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:51,919
Speaker 4: come down.

887
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 6: You sound like a joke.

888
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,439
Speaker 4: Man, You sound like a fool.

889
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,280
Speaker 6: What you're gonna take my Christmas?

890
00:45:59,800 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 4: Like?

891
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 6: You know, I keep those lights up. You know why

892
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 6: I keep those lights up.

893
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 4: I'm a listener.

894
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 6: My mama loves those lights.

895
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 4: She is.

896
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 6: She keeps the lights up a little bit longer than usual.

897
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 6: But we don't give a fuck about that as long

898
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 6: as she's happy.

899
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 4: So okay, okay, I'm hearing you with your mama. Understand

900
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 4: that you know you got love for your mom. Cool,

901
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 4: but take the whole neighborhood won't show life down. So

902
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you this right here, from neighbor to night.

903
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 4: You got to tomorrow evening to take them life down.

904
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 4: If not, I'm gonna take them down, my damn sir.

905
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 4: What time you coming, bro?

906
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 6: What time you coming?

907
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 4: Okay, I'll tell you what. I get off the fine,

908
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 4: I'll be at your house about six to take these

909
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 4: their life down. If you're not, I'll be looking for

910
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 4: you too. Man. You know we got a big family.

911
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 6: I'm gonna call my brothers and we're gonna meet you.

912
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 6: We're gonna meet you because you ain't taken down. You

913
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 6: understand what lights to gona stay up?

914
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 4: Bro? Okay, I don't care if you and your mama

915
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,879
Speaker 4: got to take them damn life down. Hold up, brother,

916
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 4: what you say about my mama? God said you and

917
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 4: your mama can take them life down or somebody got

918
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 4: to take them down. Mother?

919
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 6: You talking about my mom? We ain't taking down.

920
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 4: Where did you say you lived shadow? Being a shadow?

921
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 12: You just you trying to You're trying to sign your

922
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 12: death sentence. If you come over to my crib and

923
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 12: talk about taking down our mother Christmas like you.

924
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 4: Man, you if I come over there and you and

925
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 4: your mama ain't on the ladder trying to get their

926
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 4: lives off that house, then I'm taking them down. Hey, man, you.

927
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 6: You're talking about my mama taking down the light. I've

928
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 6: got a baseball back for your mother and everybody at

929
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 6: the h o A. I don't everybody at that club,

930
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 6: you in whatever h o A and whatever.

931
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:05,879
Speaker 4: I'm you up, mother, I'm you up? Okay? Well if

932
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 4: you if you meet up, you're gonna have to You're

933
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 4: gonna have to tie me up too.

934
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 2: He's one.

935
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 4: He the one told us you had the lights on

936
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 4: the house. It hadn't taken them there, Tommedy one time.

937
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 6: Cool? I mean you can you get over here right now?

938
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 4: I can come. I'll tell you what. I come through there.

939
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 4: Me and Tommy both will come through there. If that's

940
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 4: what you want. Come on, mother, yo, silly? Okay? So

941
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 4: so can I say something else? So what? Mother? Can

942
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 4: I can I say one more thing? Because man, you

943
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 4: ain't got to say.

944
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 6: Tell you say that when you get over here. You're

945
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 6: talking about my mama.

946
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 4: Man, Okay, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, calm down, dude,

947
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 4: Calm down, Okay, I'm down about what God? Can can

948
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 4: I say something else? Can I say one more thing?

949
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 4: Just that? Then one more thing? Mother? What all I'm

950
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 4: gonna say is this nephew tire me from the Steve

951
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 4: Harvey Morning Show. Did you say you you got to

952
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 4: be kidding me? Man? Yeah? Man, you got James? You

953
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 4: all right? Man? No? Man, it ain't all right? Man?

954
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 6: What you got my blood pressure off?

955
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 2: What?

956
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 4: Hey?

957
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 7: Wow?

958
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 4: Hey hey, James? You got some labors Russell and shot knee,

959
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 4: Russell and shotes. They are the ones that got me

960
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 4: to prank call you back.

961
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 6: They ain't gonna get no Christmas present for me next year?

962
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 4: You have some boys? Man? O wow? Oh you was heated.

963
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 2: Boy.

964
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 4: Oh man, you was heated.

965
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:56,399
Speaker 9: Man.

966
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 4: One thing I didn't know about you, James. You love

967
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 4: your mama, don't you. I love it. I love it

968
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 4: to death. Man. You you you had to take it there.

969
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 6: That's that's right.

970
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 4: Man. Oh man. You gotta let me know. Man, what

971
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 4: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show

972
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 4: with the last Let me hear it?

973
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 6: Oh God, Steve Harvey in the Morning Show?

974
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:23,879
Speaker 4: Men?

975
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: What Steve?

976
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:34,240
Speaker 8: What morning?

977
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 2: Blank? In morning? Man?

978
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: I love Jane.

979
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 8: James, You and your mama on man lodder, y'all need

980
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 8: to get your damn life down.

981
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 2: That's all. But everybody coming over for you to get

982
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 2: some of this baseball back. Man, he just say blankety

983
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 2: death certificate.

984
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 10: He was he worried for you.

985
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 2: Had me a little worried. Yeah, little, He had a

986
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:06,479
Speaker 2: little whimper in his voice.

987
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 7: When oh yes, oh dog dog, when you when a

988
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 7: man boy started cracking, you got problem.

989
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well see now he did it.

990
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 4: You.

991
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 7: You're dealing with the inside of him. You find to fight.

992
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 7: You find to fight what's on the inside of him.

993
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 7: You ain't just so now he gonna draw on some

994
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 7: stuff that you ain't ready. It's ugly, man, I'm telling

995
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 7: you right now. It's ugly when the.

996
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 2: Dude get the whipping.

997
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 4: Mama.

998
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 2: But it's that.

999
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 7: But still want to fight though he ain't getting in

1000
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 7: the car crime. He getting out the car crime.

1001
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: Keep on talking, dealing with the inside of No.

1002
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 2: You, you you're messing with the heart that you you

1003
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 2: don't get to see so instantly.

1004
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 7: It's gonna be more. It's gonna be more. It's it's ugly, man.

1005
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 7: Well I've got to be real.

1006
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 9: Go ahead, all right, nephew coming up next Strawberry Letter,

1007
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 9: the subject I don't know my husband at all. We'll

1008
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 9: get right into it. We'll get into it right after this.

1009
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 9: You're listening Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

1010
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 9: And if you need advice on relationships, work, dating, sex,

1011
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 9: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEBARVEFM

1012
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 9: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

1013
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 9: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

1014
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 9: going to read this one right here, right now.

1015
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 2: Buggle up, hold on tight. We got it for you. Here.

1016
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 2: It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you.

1017
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 9: Nephew's subject, I don't know my husband at all. Dear

1018
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 9: Stephen Shirley. I am an old married woman and this

1019
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 9: is my second marriage. When I met my husband, he

1020
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 9: was extremely handsome and generous. We connected spiritually and he

1021
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 9: joined my church. We didn't court for long, and he

1022
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 9: said he knew I was his soulmate the minute we met.

1023
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,359
Speaker 9: I knew things could be going too fast because I'm

1024
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 9: his third wife, but I felt the same connection to him,

1025
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,839
Speaker 9: so I agreed to marry him. Only five people came

1026
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 9: to our wedding, and they were all my family. None

1027
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 9: of his children or family members came. My two daughters

1028
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 9: thought we were rushing into this since I had only

1029
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 9: known him for eight months, and I told him how

1030
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,760
Speaker 9: they felt, and he snapped back and said, my grown

1031
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 9: daughters need to stay out of our business. On our

1032
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 9: wedding night, we had sex and it was just okay,

1033
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 9: so I figured it would get better with time. It

1034
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 9: has not, because we haven't had sex since we got

1035
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,760
Speaker 9: married three months ago. He does not go to church anymore,

1036
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 9: and on Sunday mornings he goes to the casino with

1037
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 9: his brother. When I asked him about wasting money, he

1038
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 9: said he has extra money because my house is paid

1039
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 9: for and all he has to pay is utilities, so it's.

1040
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:12,240
Speaker 1: Not a waste of money.

1041
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 9: I asked him why we don't have sex, and he

1042
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 9: said it's not a woman's place to do the chasing.

1043
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 9: So I need to be patient and let him come

1044
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 9: on to me. If I ask him anything, I get

1045
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 9: that kind of response, and his mouth is so reckless

1046
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 9: that I go for days without talking to him. My

1047
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 9: daughters do not like him and think I should get

1048
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 9: my marriage annulled. I am not ready to give up

1049
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 9: on him. On the bright side. He cooks dinner every

1050
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 9: day and he keeps the house clean. We live his roommates,

1051
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 9: not his husband and wife. What has happened to the

1052
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 9: man I'm married? Well, this is him, This is who

1053
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 9: you married. This is who you married. You just weren't

1054
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 9: with him long enough to get to know him, to

1055
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 9: find out this other part. I know, this is not

1056
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 9: what you signed up for. You say you're not ready

1057
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 9: to give up on him, but waiting on you say,

1058
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:04,320
Speaker 9: he talks to you crazy, He goes to the casino

1059
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 9: on Sunday, loses money after only three months, he's already

1060
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 9: given up on you and the marriage.

1061
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: You get no sex.

1062
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 9: You're right, and you don't know your husband at all

1063
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 9: because you never met him. The guy you met was

1064
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 9: a representative who you know, the generous one going to

1065
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 9: church with you, you all connected spiritually and all that.

1066
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 9: The one who had sex with you one time, and

1067
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 9: that was on your wedding night.

1068
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 10: You say.

1069
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: That was all in the beginning. But and he was

1070
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: definitely not your soulmate. Okay.

1071
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 9: I do you think though, maybe you guys moved too fast,

1072
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:43,400
Speaker 9: because I think that you were concerned that this was

1073
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 9: your second marriage.

1074
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: This is his third marriage. I think you guys moved

1075
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,399
Speaker 1: too fast. I'm sure this is not what you want

1076
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: in a husband.

1077
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 9: Cooking and cleaning those are great qualities, great qualities to have,

1078
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 9: but since that's all he does, it's definitely not enough

1079
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 9: to sustain a marriage or to stay in a marriage.

1080
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:06,320
Speaker 9: He's mean to you, he's selfish and controlling, and he

1081
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 9: has no regard for what you need. It just sounds

1082
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 9: like he married you, I'm gonna say it, because your

1083
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 9: house was paid for and all he had to pay

1084
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 9: were utility, so he got a scott free financially. I

1085
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 9: agree with your daughters who said you should get your

1086
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 9: marriage anulled. I think you should get out of this

1087
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 9: sham of a marriage just as quickly as you got

1088
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 9: in it, because it's going to keep getting worse, and

1089
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 9: you're not having sex anyway, and you know he's not

1090
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 9: the man you thought you knew anyway, So why waste

1091
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 9: more of your time?

1092
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 7: Steve, very quick letter to me. You're an older woman,

1093
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 7: it's your second marriage. You met your husband, he was

1094
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 7: extremely handsome and generous. Well you say he was extremely

1095
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 7: handsome and general Well, so something happened. Something happened, now

1096
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 7: Glass and got yeah, yeah, he just he he was

1097
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 7: extremely handsome. Y'all connected spiritually, and he joined your church.

1098
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 4: Y'all.

1099
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 7: We didn't court long because he said he knew I

1100
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 7: was just so so mate. The moment we met, I

1101
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 7: knew things was going too fast because I'm his third wife.

1102
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 2: But I felt the same connection to him, so I

1103
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 2: agreed to marry him.

1104
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 7: Really, okay, we'll check this out. Only five people came

1105
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 7: out wedding, and they were all my family. None of

1106
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 7: his children or family members came. That's cause they knew,

1107
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 7: here we go again. He ain't worth for damn nowhere,

1108
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 7: so here we go again. Okay, so now that's the

1109
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 7: end of that. You you, you, you done got this wedding.

1110
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 7: Five people came, all of your family. Then your two

1111
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 7: daughters thought y'all was rushing into it since you only

1112
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 7: knew him for eight months. I told him how they felt.

1113
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 7: He snapped back and said, your grown daughters need to

1114
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 7: stay out of our business. Oh he touchy too, so

1115
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 7: he fast moving.

1116
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: He ain't handsome no more, and.

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00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 7: There ain't nobody in his family either bothered coming to

1118
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 7: THEO to the wedding, and now he touches.

1119
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: I don't see nothing good in this letter at all.

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00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 7: On our weddnight, we had sex and it was just okay,

1121
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 7: all right, And then you figured it would get better

1122
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 7: with time. It has not, because we ain't had sex

1123
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 7: since we got married three months ago. What and he

1124
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 7: don't go to church anymore? Well, he just joined the

1125
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 7: church to make to make a good showing. On Sunday morning,

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00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 7: he go to the casino with his brother. When I

1127
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 7: asked him about wasting money, he said, he has extra

1128
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 7: money because my house is paying for and all he

1129
00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 7: has to do is pay utility.

1130
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 2: Wow, he played. He's straight cold plage.

1131
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 7: So he got extra money because his money his money,

1132
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 7: y'all's money, ain't y'all's money.

1133
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 2: I'll be.

1134
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 9: We'll have part two of your response coming up in

1135
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 9: twenty three minutes after the our subject today, I don't

1136
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 9: know my husband at all.

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00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: hard morning show.

1139
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 9: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1140
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 9: The subject I don't know my husband at all?

1141
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 7: Well, you don't because you rushed into it like your

1142
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 7: daughters thought you did, and like you realize you did,

1143
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 7: and you said you thought it might be moving fast.

1144
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 2: Because this was his third marriage. He used to be handsome.

1145
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 2: He ain't no more.

1146
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 7: Ain't but five people come to the wed and they

1147
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 7: was all your family, his kids, and nobody else showed up.

1148
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 7: He ain't even tell nobody. Then, you've only known it

1149
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 7: for eight months. Ain't nobody come to the because they

1150
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 7: knew he wasn't about nothing. Then you told him that

1151
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 7: your daughters thought they ran into it too quick. He

1152
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 7: said they need to mind their own bis. Is he

1153
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 7: touchy on you wed? Not y'all had sex? He was

1154
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,479
Speaker 7: just okay, So I figured it would get better with time.

1155
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 7: Is not because y'all ain't had sex since we got

1156
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 7: married three months ago? You might not be the only

1157
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 7: one thought it was just okay. Then I just wanted

1158
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 7: to throw that out there, but it probably it got

1159
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 7: nothing to do with you, though it looks like to me, ma'am,

1160
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 7: you just married the wrong guy. He does not go

1161
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:39,120
Speaker 7: to church anymore. That's because he just joined your church

1162
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 7: to make it look good. On Sunday morning, he goes

1163
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 7: to the casino with his brother. When I asked him

1164
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 7: about wasting money, he said, he's got extra money because

1165
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 7: my house is paid for and all he has to

1166
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 7: do is pay utilities what? So he made this own

1167
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 7: arrangement himself. So in the eight months where you didn't

1168
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 7: get to know him, he found out everything he needed

1169
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 7: to know about you.

1170
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 2: And one of the things he found out your house

1171
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 2: was paid so now, so it's not a waste of money.

1172
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 7: I asked him why we don't have sex, and he

1173
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 7: said it's not a woman's place to do the chasing.

1174
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 2: So I need to be patient. Let him come on

1175
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 2: to me.

1176
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 7: But it's been ninety days. When I created the ninety

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01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 7: day rule in my book, it wasn't for people who

1178
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 7: was maby.

1179
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 2: I don't.

1180
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 4: You know?

1181
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 2: You can go ahead half six now do this ain't

1182
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 2: the place for the ninety day rules.

1183
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: Okay, Steve, I got a question. Okay, she says on

1184
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: the bright side, Yeah, you got it. You gotta get

1185
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: to that.

1186
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 4: Let me.

1187
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 1: And keep the house clean.

1188
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 7: It's kind of a response to mouths. Records go for days.

1189
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 7: I talked to my daughters. Don't like him. I think

1190
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 7: I should get my marriage to know. Shirley said, you

1191
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 7: should get in an old I agree. I'm not ready

1192
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 7: to give up on him.

1193
01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 2: Well that's a stupid statement, because he gave up on

1194
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 2: you yeah.

1195
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 4: Right.

1196
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 7: On the bright side, he cooks dinner every day and

1197
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 7: he keeps the house clean.

1198
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:21,840
Speaker 2: So damn what he cooked it every day, ain't you.

1199
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 7: Ain't like he's making plates for you and the people,

1200
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 7: the homeless people in the neighborhood.

1201
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 2: He eating, He like cooking, and he like a clean house.

1202
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 7: He don't like sex with you. He don't like going

1203
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:43,200
Speaker 7: to church. He don't like talking to you with respect.

1204
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 7: He don't like your daughters.

1205
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: He doesn't like his family.

1206
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,959
Speaker 7: He don't like his family. His family don't like him.

1207
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 7: He don't really want to be married. He don't like

1208
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 7: nobody but the casino.

1209
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 2: And his brother.

1210
01:02:57,920 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: His brother didn't come to the waiting.

1211
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 2: That he go gambling with. It's just a lot right now.

1212
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: Man, Why did you tell him your house was paid for.

1213
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 2: Less? Wow?

1214
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: So he does pay utilities, cook and clean.

1215
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 2: The game.

1216
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 7: If I was you, i'd get your marriage to know

1217
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 7: like your daughter said, yeah, get it or no, they

1218
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 7: don't even count as a marriage, and walk off and

1219
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 7: put him out.

1220
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 2: And you ain't lost nothing. Ain't nothing lost right now?

1221
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 2: You ain't that you ain't ready to give up on it?

1222
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 2: You should be.

1223
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 7: He gave up I mean he threw yeah, he got

1224
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,919
Speaker 7: out rolled all over him, and how you gonna see

1225
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 7: it is beyond me.

1226
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,240
Speaker 2: I'm out, Lady, you ain't gotta take this here.

1227
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 7: You could do this by your See, you thought you

1228
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 7: had a soul mate because he said I knew used

1229
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 7: my soulmate. The moment you member that, this is how

1230
01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 7: he treats a soul mate. I don't want to be

1231
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 7: that type soul man. Right right, man, I'll tell you what.

1232
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 7: Don't call me so made, call me stranger, right right?

1233
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: He about her daughter's crazy.

1234
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 2: Man, this dude is a complete wasting time, lady, Come

1235
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 2: on about your bish real because he used to be handsome, remember.

1236
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 1: And generous? Oh boy, he so stingy and ugly now.

1237
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 2: Steve, Yeah, he did just enough to get you.

1238
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 1: Now, that's what I'm saying.

1239
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 9: Heive, wow, I don't want apologize to some low down

1240
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 9: ass dudes out here.

1241
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 8: Man.

1242
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 2: All that's but that's why I.

1243
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 7: Say, Man, you've got to take your time to get

1244
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 7: to know these people instead of falling in love with

1245
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 7: their representative the first thirty days. You're gonna get the

1246
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 7: best him he can be if you just wait. If

1247
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 7: you'd have waited out, you could have found all this out.

1248
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 9: Because she's an older woman. You know, sometimes she she

1249
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 9: may have gotten anxious thinking she wasn't going to find

1250
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 9: anyone else, you know, and all that.

1251
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 2: Nobody.

1252
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's true.

1253
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 7: So just let him go get that annment like your

1254
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 7: daughter's say, please get the lady business.

1255
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Steve, thank you.

1256
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 9: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letters Steve HARBFM on

1257
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 9: Instagram and Facebook.

1258
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.

1259
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 10: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

1260
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: All right, guys, uh, it is time for ask Steve.

1261
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 2: We have a question.

1262
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, now listen to this. Yeah, a A one question one?

1263
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, yeah, Well this is from a twenty two

1264
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 9: year old and his name is also Steve, your namesake.

1265
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 9: He says, Hi, mister Harvey, I work full time and

1266
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 9: I'm currently in school to become a psychiatric mental health nurse.

1267
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 9: My faith is wrong and I know that with God

1268
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 9: anything is possible. So my question to you is, on

1269
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 9: your path to become an entertainer, did you ever doubt yourself,

1270
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 9: think your dream was too big, or think about giving up?

1271
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 9: And how did you strengthen your connection to God and

1272
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 9: never lose hope that your prayers and hard work would

1273
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 9: pay off.

1274
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 1: That's a great question.

1275
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 7: Well, you know, look, no matter who you are, we're human,

1276
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 7: and you're gonna have moments of doubt because it's so

1277
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 7: difficult to make a success of yourself. So there's gonna

1278
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 7: be times. Man, what you're gonna be faced with? The

1279
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 7: man that I make the right move? Man?

1280
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 2: It's this working man? Ever, is it gonna change? Is

1281
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 2: it gonna get better? I mean, you know I'm living

1282
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 2: in that calm I'm going Man, Is it gonna get better?

1283
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 4: Man?

1284
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 2: Did I make the right move? Man? Should I go

1285
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 2: back home?

1286
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 4: Man?

1287
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 7: I mean, you know you're gonna have doubts along the way.

1288
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 7: Sometimes you're gonna doubt it. Or let me say it

1289
01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:01,080
Speaker 7: to you this way. It's going to be so daunting

1290
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 7: at times that you're going to be faced with some

1291
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 7: things that appear to be insurmountable.

1292
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 2: But here's what I always had to do.

1293
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 7: Whenever I got to moments like that, I thought of

1294
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 7: the ultimate dream that I had for myself and my family.

1295
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 7: What am I really shooting for? And I think what

1296
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 7: people have to do is you have to be conscious

1297
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 7: of the size of your dreams. You have to have

1298
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 7: dreams so big that not getting your dream is unacceptable

1299
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 7: because the consequence, the alternative, the alternative to not receiving

1300
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 7: your dreams is unacceptable. And you've just got to dream

1301
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 7: so big that your dreams are bigger than whatever problem

1302
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 7: you're having. So dreaming big is not the problem, because

1303
01:07:56,880 --> 01:08:00,120
Speaker 7: God is all out there in them big dreams to

1304
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:01,120
Speaker 7: make your dream come true.

1305
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 2: Business.

1306
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 7: So I want you to just state you have to

1307
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 7: stay prayerful man, throughout the journey. Oh, prayer changes things,

1308
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 7: and prayer gives you a relationship with your creator that

1309
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,040
Speaker 7: allows you to have the strength that you don't have

1310
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 7: in your weakest moment, allows you to be your strongest

1311
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 7: because it connects you closer to him. Your weakness is

1312
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 7: where He gives you the strength.

1313
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: Hey, man, go ahead, All writes Steve.

1314
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 10: You're listening hard morning show.

1315
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: Well, Steve, this one's for you. This one's from Derek

1316
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: on Facebook.

1317
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 9: He writes, I'm finally starting dating again after a divorce

1318
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 9: and two years off. These days, I share custody of

1319
01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 9: my daughter with my wife, and I have my little girl,

1320
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 9: Kelsey over every other weekend. The downside is that I

1321
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 9: made the mistake of introducing the woman I've been seeing

1322
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:55,679
Speaker 9: to my daughter and have regretted it ever since. Even

1323
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 9: though she's not a parent and has only known my

1324
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 9: daughter for less than a month, she somehow got the

1325
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 9: idea in her head that she has the right to

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Speaker 9: punish and discipline Kelsey when she comes over. It's led

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Speaker 9: to some uncomfortable moments and it needs to stop. Is

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Speaker 9: this the relationship killer that I think it is? The

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Speaker 9: relationship with my little girl is far more important, and

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Speaker 9: there's a line that's going to be crossed if I

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Speaker 9: don't control it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, just a deal, brother, This is bad, especially if

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01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:29,840
Speaker 7: she don't understand that. You better and if the mama

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Speaker 7: find it right, Mama dudema. Man, it's not good, brcause

1335
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Speaker 7: I'm a little stunned anyway. What you finally started dating

1336
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 7: after your divorce and waited two years? Who you do that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 7: I'm not really sure that's the truth, bro, because me

1339
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 7: and we don't wait two years to date.

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Speaker 1: That's not who we are, even if you have a

1341
01:09:58,560 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 1: little girl to raise.

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Speaker 2: Whatever.

1343
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: Maybe he was concentrating on his baby there, no, no.

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Speaker 7: No, she got to go to sleep though, somebody coming

1345
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 7: over here, somebody coming over here from baby. Go to

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01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 7: bed right now? D two years we fins moved your

1347
01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 7: bedtime up. You finish your on horse man, I'm put

1348
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Speaker 7: a lock on your damn though.

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Speaker 1: You can't get out two years.

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Speaker 2: BEDI normal downy? Would you moving it up to bedtime?

1351
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Speaker 1: Was at nine?

1352
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:39,679
Speaker 2: What you moving it up to six thirty? We ain't

1353
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 2: got no more TVs in here? Nothing?

1354
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 7: Your our pet go off? All the internet in his

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01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:47,639
Speaker 7: house go off at five thirty.

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Speaker 1: But Daddy, I'm not sleepy.

1357
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:54,560
Speaker 2: I didn't ask you if you sleep, I said go

1358
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Speaker 2: to bed, and I don't give it. Damn what you're

1359
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 2: doing now, Daddy?

1360
01:10:58,120 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: I need some help with my homework.

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Speaker 7: I don't know nothing about that damn homework. I got

1362
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:06,640
Speaker 7: somebody coming over here. We can get to f We

1363
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:07,439
Speaker 7: can deal with the f.

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Speaker 2: You want me to fail?

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Speaker 1: Are you helping Derek? He needs your help here, Steve?

1366
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 4: What? What? What? He won't?

1367
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 11: Shall?

1368
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: He wants to know? Is this a relationship killer that

1369
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:27,560
Speaker 1: he thinks it is?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so he should do she discipline in his baby

1372
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Speaker 2: and dog.

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Speaker 7: You got to get some permissions. You've only been around

1374
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 7: for one month and you're talking about she gonna cross

1375
01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 7: the line. You already know what it's going broad.

1376
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 2: That woman whooped, whooped back cow.

1377
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Speaker 9: All right, here's another one, another relationship question from Tracy

1378
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 9: Steve uh.

1379
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Speaker 10: This is from Steve.

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01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 9: Steve har It's been over two years since I was

1381
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:04,720
Speaker 9: in a relationship. I have a pretty active social life.

1382
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:06,720
Speaker 9: I meet lots of new people, but I just don't

1383
01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 9: ever seem to meet anyone that I'm particularly attracted to.

1384
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 9: I'm afraid that I'm going to spend the rest of

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01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,360
Speaker 9: my life alone. Is there something wrong with me? Should

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01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:16,679
Speaker 9: I be doing something different?

1387
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

1388
01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:19,600
Speaker 7: First of all, why don't you quit putting that in

1389
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 7: the atmosphere that is something wrong with you? Am I

1390
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 7: doing something wrong? I'm socially in f Why don't you

1391
01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 7: stop saying that. It's been two years of you saying that,

1392
01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:38,680
Speaker 7: and so you keep attracting the wrong people, and you

1393
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 7: keep claiming that you're socially in f and so you

1394
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:43,879
Speaker 7: keep winding up in the same situation.

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01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 2: Positive affirmation is the first thing.

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01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 4: You need to do.

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01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 2: I like that step every day in every way. I'm

1398
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 2: getting better and better.

1399
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Speaker 9: All right, thank you, that was good. Coming up at

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Speaker 9: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the

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Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 10: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 9: All right, so Steve our last break, we were talking

1404
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 9: trying to help Tracy, who said, you know, she's it's

1405
01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:16,920
Speaker 9: been two years since she's been in a relationship.

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01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:18,719
Speaker 1: She has a pretty active social life.

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01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 9: She meets new people, but she doesn't ever meet anyone

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01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 9: that she's interested in. And she's asking herself, is there

1409
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:28,599
Speaker 9: something wrong with her? Should she be doing something different?

1410
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:31,639
Speaker 9: And you said, don't put that out in the atmosphere first,

1411
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 9: what you know.

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01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 7: Like, is this something wrong with her? I think only

1413
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 7: she can answer that question. But now, what a lot

1414
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 7: of the mistake a lot of women do is they

1415
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:44,240
Speaker 7: listen to other people talking about girl, you too picky

1416
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 7: and all that is here.

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01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 2: And there's no such thing as being too.

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01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 7: Picky unless you're underqualified for the things that a man

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01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 7: has to be qualified for. See, if you're looking for

1420
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 7: a man that's all that. Then I hate to tell

1421
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 7: you these ladies, but you need to be all that.

1422
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,600
Speaker 2: Too, right, that's a huge part of it.

1423
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 7: And a lot of times you go in here and

1424
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 7: you dump all this on this man, but then the

1425
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:11,639
Speaker 7: man want something dumped on him too. And if you're

1426
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 7: not gonna be what you're looking for what do you

1427
01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 7: think a man who has all that is? Y'all think

1428
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 7: we just out here because you got some lashes on.

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01:14:20,439 --> 01:14:21,160
Speaker 2: That's what you think.

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01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 7: If you watch the African Famous and Rich. You've seen

1431
01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:29,280
Speaker 7: that show? Uh huh, yes, I don't know how they

1432
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 7: open their eyes with them that show.

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01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 1: Heavy lids.

1434
01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 2: Man, you touch your eyebrow? Went your dad?

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01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:44,759
Speaker 1: Fun coming up in thirty three minutes?

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01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 10: Thank you, Steve.

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01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: Thirty three minutes after the our, we'll play around him.

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01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 9: Would you rather right after this you're listening hard morning

1439
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:56,479
Speaker 9: show and it's time out for a rounded? Would you rather, guys,

1440
01:14:56,680 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 9: would you rather have your areola pear okay? Or yeah

1441
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:06,879
Speaker 9: your ario appears? Or would you rather have a tattoo

1442
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:08,800
Speaker 9: inside your lip?

1443
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 1: Which one you think would be?

1444
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 4: What is it?

1445
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 2: Your oratory? That's yeah, tattoo? Yeah? Any idea how long

1446
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 2: that will take?

1447
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 4: No? No, you know.

1448
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 7: So much we're gonna have to use, yes, a lot.

1449
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 7: You know how so much we can put on here

1450
01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 7: all week? You get your test, Pierce though, Now I

1451
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 7: can put Psalms twenty third songs on my lip.

1452
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:53,600
Speaker 1: The Lord is my Spherd, truly, goodness and mercy.

1453
01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:57,320
Speaker 4: All.

1454
01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 2: You know how much lip that ill you how much

1455
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 2: lip I got if I pull it down?

1456
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 1: Boy, let me tell you, okay, so definitely your area

1457
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:12,679
Speaker 1: will be pierced.

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01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 2: All right. I was a little boy. This how I

1459
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 2: knew I had a big lips. I was a little boy.

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01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:19,800
Speaker 7: You know how you hang your head out the car

1461
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:23,639
Speaker 7: when it's driving sometime, and it normally just take y'all's

1462
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,760
Speaker 7: breath away. I almost got smothered because my lips went

1463
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 7: back up over my nose.

1464
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 2: And I almost got smothered like that. Yeah, I can

1465
01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 2: see it. Yeah, all right.

1466
01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:45,200
Speaker 9: Would you rather have your wife ignore you for three days?

1467
01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:47,960
Speaker 9: Or would you rather have your wife? You and your

1468
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:49,639
Speaker 9: wife argue for three days?

1469
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 2: Ignore, I ignore me.

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01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:59,240
Speaker 1: I don't like the silent treatment either.

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01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 2: Ignore both of them and extend that three for me.

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01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:09,519
Speaker 1: You take six days, I take five hundred.

1473
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 12: All right?

1474
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:16,799
Speaker 9: Would you rather take cold showers every day or warm

1475
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:18,920
Speaker 9: bubble bats just twice a week?

1476
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:23,719
Speaker 2: Warm bubble baths twice a week? Yeah, you little funk yourself?

1477
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,759
Speaker 7: Yes, I mean you look, yeah, you and you always

1478
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 7: talking about how clean you you're going in there?

1479
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,680
Speaker 2: Take that cold shower, you will, I'm gonna take them.

1480
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take health. One thing about me.

1481
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 7: There's nobody, nobody ever said Steve Harvey, Steak.

1482
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 2: If you get down of these two days, you're gonna

1483
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:43,439
Speaker 2: stay that.

1484
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:47,519
Speaker 7: I want, well whatever you to be a first wash,

1485
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 7: You'll be a first But I'm not gonna be in

1486
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 7: that cold shower because how long you think I can

1487
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 7: do this?

1488
01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:52,599
Speaker 2: Here?

1489
01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 9: They say cold showers are good for you though. Who yeah, yeah,

1490
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:01,600
Speaker 9: good for information all that.

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Speaker 1: All right, that's today's roundup. Would you rather.

1492
01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 2: When we come back, is.

1493
01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 9: Our last break of the day, and we'll have some

1494
01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 9: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Parky.

1495
01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:15,600
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening.

1496
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 10: Morning show.

1497
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:20,639
Speaker 9: Here we are, last break of the day, last break

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01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:23,200
Speaker 9: of the day, with just one more thing, Steve, I'm

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01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 9: glad for one. I think we all are that your

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01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 9: closing remarks are back. Yeah, they're always inspirational. You always

1501
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 9: motivate us to do something.

1502
01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 2: Really, I was just.

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01:18:34,439 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 7: Now I don't want to sound you know, but anyway,

1504
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 7: what I was just asking God, what could I do more?

1505
01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 2: What what could I do?

1506
01:18:43,240 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 7: And it was just put on my heart to share more,

1507
01:18:46,240 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 7: you know, start take a moment out at the beginning

1508
01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 7: and the close of the show and just try to

1509
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 7: encourage more people. You know, I've learned so much over

1510
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:57,439
Speaker 7: the years. Uh, you know, I've had a tough goal

1511
01:18:57,479 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 7: of it as many of you have. Mine animal rich

1512
01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:03,599
Speaker 7: or deep it than nobody else's. So I just try

1513
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 7: to share the information that I've actually learned, because I've

1514
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:08,720
Speaker 7: learned a lot.

1515
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:12,639
Speaker 2: And one of the things that I've learned is about

1516
01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:14,120
Speaker 2: when to start.

1517
01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:17,600
Speaker 7: You know, whenever you come up with an idea or

1518
01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 7: a thought or move you want to make, or something

1519
01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:25,600
Speaker 7: comes from your imagination. The thing that I find that

1520
01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:33,680
Speaker 7: stops people oftentimes is when do I start? Now Here's

1521
01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:38,599
Speaker 7: the thing with starting. What people do is they delay

1522
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 7: the start by overthinking it. And if you overthink something,

1523
01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 7: guess what will eventually and you over explain it to

1524
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:48,719
Speaker 7: other people.

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01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:53,360
Speaker 2: Eventually the how it won't work, it's going to come up.

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01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 7: So you have this fabulous idea that you've thought of, right,

1527
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 7: and then you shared with some people and he say, man,

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01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:01,160
Speaker 7: I'm gonna go do this, and you start talking it

1529
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:03,679
Speaker 7: over and you start thinking it through and you share

1530
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,000
Speaker 7: it with more people. The more people you share with

1531
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 7: and the more people you and the more you think

1532
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:10,720
Speaker 7: it through. You know what you keep coming up with

1533
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 7: the mishaps, the things that can go wrong, and you

1534
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 7: end up delaying the start. The other thing that happens

1535
01:20:18,200 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 7: is people try to line all they ducks up in

1536
01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:23,720
Speaker 7: a row before they start so they can just go

1537
01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 7: on and start knocking them down. That's a mistake because

1538
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 7: that almost never ever happens. I have yet to see

1539
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:36,760
Speaker 7: any deal I've ever done, any project i've started go

1540
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:38,680
Speaker 7: just the way I thought it was gonna go.

1541
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 2: I have never seen that.

1542
01:20:41,439 --> 01:20:45,480
Speaker 7: I have yet to close a deal that just went smoothly,

1543
01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 7: no wrinkles, no bumps, no nothing.

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01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:50,200
Speaker 2: I've never seen that.

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01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 7: So when you're waiting to start and then that they

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Speaker 7: say is hit and you're waiting to start to get

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01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 7: your ducks lined the row, you're delaying the process.

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Speaker 2: You know when the best time to start is.

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Speaker 7: Right now, because right now alleviates procrastination. If you wait

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01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:18,200
Speaker 7: on the ducks to get lined up in the role

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01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 7: and you're listening to the naysayers, procrastination has already set

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01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:27,000
Speaker 7: in and taken place, and oftentimes it takes hold. So

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Speaker 7: what I found is when I come up with the idea,

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Speaker 7: I start the process. Now, I start the process.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 7: Look, man, you can easily do that it's simple things.

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Speaker 7: What stops people is you try to figure out all

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01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:45,800
Speaker 7: the way through. You have this goal that you got

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01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:47,639
Speaker 7: and you say, okay, I'm gonna do this. Then if

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01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:49,680
Speaker 7: I do that, then if I do that, and then

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01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 7: you get stuck because you go, well what happens after that?

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Speaker 7: Because you've never been in that area before, you've never

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 7: gone down that road, so the unknown strikes you. And

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Speaker 7: then because you can't figure out what you do when

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01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:02,960
Speaker 7: you get to the unknown, you stop. So now you

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01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 7: couldn't line up all your ducks in a row, so

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Speaker 7: the process to success is delayed.

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Speaker 2: Again. Stop doing that to yourself, y'all start now, do

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Speaker 2: it now. What you have to do next.

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Speaker 7: Will be shown to you. It'll your first step will

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01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:23,560
Speaker 7: lead you to the stat second step. Now, sometimes on

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01:22:23,680 --> 01:22:25,760
Speaker 7: your journey you make a bad turn. You gotta make

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01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 7: a U turn and come back and cross over the

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01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:30,200
Speaker 7: other bridge instead of going that way. But until you

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01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 7: take one step, you'll never know where the next turn is.

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Speaker 7: If it's a fork in the road, if it's a

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01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:38,840
Speaker 7: U turn, if it's a being, if it's a valley,

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Speaker 7: if it's a mountain, you gotta start today. Stop delaying it.

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01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:45,679
Speaker 7: Everybody whatever it is you want to do, start today.

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01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 7: You may be surprised that you can actually get yourself

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01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 7: further than you thought you could with nobody else's help. Now,

1582
01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 7: in order to be successful, you're gonna need somebody's help

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01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:05,280
Speaker 7: to start. Oftentimes you just need yourself start the process.

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Speaker 7: God will show you the way. He really will. He

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01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:16,320
Speaker 7: always has. I say this often to people. God will

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01:23:16,360 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 7: get you through.

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Speaker 2: For though. Everybody's listening right now.

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01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:26,040
Speaker 7: Name one thing that God hasn't gotten you through, And

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01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 7: if he hasn't gotten you through it, he's currently pulling

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01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:32,320
Speaker 7: you through it right now. And you know how I

1591
01:23:32,479 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 7: know because you're listening to the radio. How you listening

1592
01:23:37,360 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 7: to the radio. It's because he's pulling you through something

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01:23:41,360 --> 01:23:44,759
Speaker 7: right now. He's gotten you through all the other stuff,

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01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 7: but he's pulling you through right now. If you start

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01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:55,680
Speaker 7: the process, God will pull you through. But you'll never

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01:23:55,760 --> 01:24:01,920
Speaker 7: know until you start. Start Start something right. Don't participate

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01:24:01,960 --> 01:24:05,600
Speaker 7: in no mess this year. Stay out of mess. You

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01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:06,600
Speaker 7: know what mess is.

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01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:11,800
Speaker 2: Mess looks like, it ain't right, it don't feel good,

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01:24:11,880 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 2: it don't sound good. It's mess. Stay out of mess

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Speaker 2: this year.

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01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 7: Remove yourself from messy situations so you can move in

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01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:25,920
Speaker 7: the right direction. Start this year, man, make it happen. Okay,

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01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:29,519
Speaker 7: start today. That's the best time. Thank y'all for listening.

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01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 7: Hope that helps you.

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01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:32,519
Speaker 1: Thank you right?

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Speaker 10: So ye yeah like that?

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01:24:34,479 --> 01:24:37,080
Speaker 1: Stee all right, take us home.

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01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:39,679
Speaker 2: Hey, talk to God today. Love to hear from your peace.

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