Speaker 1: I love the way you lie, Eminem and Rihanna here
Speaker 1: on one or two point seven, it is m okay,
Speaker 1: So you know this is always on top of the
Speaker 1: dating trends. Yeah, I'm wondering. I wonder why. I wonder
Speaker 1: if it's because it's fun for you to get these
Speaker 1: assignments where you get to follow the dating trends, because
Speaker 1: obviously you can date your husband and you should continue
Speaker 1: any of the that's a good question, or any of
Speaker 1: these trends usable for people who are married to keeping
Speaker 1: Maybe some of these can be tweaked in a way
Speaker 1: if you are already married, like the inflidating. I'll explain
Speaker 1: what that one is. Inflidating, Okay, go ahead, So okay,
Speaker 1: so back to dating. I feel like, yes, I personally
Speaker 1: don't envy anybody who's out there trying to find their lobster,
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I just it's tough and trying to
Speaker 1: find there. What this goes back to, you just don't
Speaker 1: know one liners from TV shows trying to find your lobster?
Speaker 1: How do you not know that that was like a
Speaker 1: pop culture moment. Don't be so critical. I just didn't
Speaker 1: expect it when you when you say lobster. I think
Speaker 1: lobster with you know eating, and when we say finder lobster,
Speaker 1: it's you know friends. Okay. Anyways, let me see if
Speaker 1: you're guilty of any of these dating trends that are
Speaker 1: going to be really big main character energy. So I
Speaker 1: feel like two was all about the b d E.
Speaker 1: They're saying it's all about the m c E. The
Speaker 1: main character energy. It's more about focusing on yourself and
Speaker 1: not so much your partner. So it's making sure that
Speaker 1: you're okay before sounds selfish a little bit, but you
Speaker 1: know what, be selfish. I like the b d E better. Okay.
Speaker 1: Eco dumping, so dating or dumping someone based on how
Speaker 1: environmentally conscious they are. Conflicting opinions on environmental topics can
Speaker 1: be just as big a deal breakers on someone that
Speaker 1: can communicate though somebody doesn't recycle or anything like that,
Speaker 1: That is eco dumping. That's going to be a trend.
Speaker 1: Heat on for a second. You're telling me that you divorce,
Speaker 1: you'd leave them if they weren't recycling, right, I think that, Well,
Speaker 1: I don't think you'd be married at by that point,
Speaker 1: but I think if you were dating somebody and then
Speaker 1: you started realizing that they didn't recycle and you were
Speaker 1: like way big on the environment. Yeah, that's a big
Speaker 1: deal breaker. That just goes back to like your you know,
Speaker 1: your core values. But if you also are training or
Speaker 1: telling your partner to do something and after a month
Speaker 1: or two much or two months, they're not paying attention
Speaker 1: on listening, then that's a bigger issue, deep rooted. I
Speaker 1: got heat domming. Okay, dating someone specifically for their household amenities,
Speaker 1: so it's heat domming heat. Yes, So it's like I
Speaker 1: live in the valley. Let's say I started dating somebody
Speaker 1: and they lived in the valley too, but they had
Speaker 1: air conditioning. Well, let's always spend the night of your
Speaker 1: house because you got there. I've done this, I've totally
Speaker 1: done this. So that is heat doing air conditioning, a pool,
Speaker 1: comfy mattress, just you know it kind of is. But
Speaker 1: you're you know, you gotta take what you can. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you're not really into I went out with I went
Speaker 1: out with a guy like one time and I my
Speaker 1: apartment flooded and I needed to stay somewhere for two weeks.
Speaker 1: And I literally was just like you just with them,
Speaker 1: did you flood your apartment? No, okay, what else we
Speaker 1: started to go back to, like why water follows you
Speaker 1: so much? So much? I know because I'm a cancer
Speaker 1: and that's a water sign. So I feel like there's
Speaker 1: something tied there, but I don't really know what the
Speaker 1: meaning is infloodating, So infloodating going on less expensive dates
Speaker 1: due to inflation and the current economy. So that one
Speaker 1: is that that's timely makes sense, but most of those
Speaker 1: are like somebody just sat in the room trying to
Speaker 1: make up things are gonna be dating trend sounds like
Speaker 1: to me, I think so too, but they're they're gonna
Speaker 1: fun James Webbing. James Webbing is the setting to date
Speaker 1: someone after seeing them through a different lens. So maybe
Speaker 1: it's like the dude that you is your coworker or
Speaker 1: you've been friends with forever, and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: it just takes one night and they start being really funny,
Speaker 1: and then you just were like, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: see you in a completely different light now and maybe
Speaker 1: we should start dating. And that is James Webbing has
Speaker 1: never happened to you, Tony, where you see somebody like
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I have this different
Speaker 1: look or lens about them. No, I was very much
Speaker 1: like a box gal, like I kind of when I
Speaker 1: met a guy, put him in a box and didn't
Speaker 1: let him out. I dated a friend afterwards and then
Speaker 1: was the actually able to go back to being friends
Speaker 1: only plans. This is the last one. How long is
Speaker 1: the dating trends list? Only plans is repeatedly planning dates
Speaker 1: with someone but never actually falling following through with them. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go, let's get together. It's a last minute work emergency,
Speaker 1: or you suddenly have to babysit your friends pet or whatever.
Speaker 1: I find romance department, but more of like acquaintances, you're
Speaker 1: running in this. Hey, let's grab a coffee, let's grab
Speaker 1: a bite sometime. And you know when they say it,
Speaker 1: they don't mean it. Yeah, that's so l a like.
Speaker 1: You know when they say it, they're just saying it
Speaker 1: to close the conversation, and it will if it's not.
Speaker 1: It's like the sweater you never wear if you haven't
Speaker 1: warned that sweat in a year, donate it. Like if
Speaker 1: they haven't seen that person and you're you won't, let's
Speaker 1: grab it by absolutely, bro, I'll hear you. You need
Speaker 1: a number out of the two people there just needs
Speaker 1: to be a more persuasive person, like I've already experienced
Speaker 1: with some of my mom friends from school, because we've
Speaker 1: done this, we've exchanged numbers and said, oh, we should
Speaker 1: get the kids together and do this or do that,
Speaker 1: and it's always them. It's never me, it's always them,
Speaker 1: And they're like, hey, are you free tomorrow, And then
Speaker 1: it happens because we are free, and because you're deliberate
Speaker 1: and precise and yes, precise tomorrow five o'clock. Okay, fine,
Speaker 1: So you have to just there always has to be
Speaker 1: a stronger person in the pair. Well, good luck out
Speaker 1: there if you're dating and sheer and take itself. I
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