WEBVTT - HIGHLIGHT- Dating Trends 2023

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<v Speaker 1>I love the way you lie, Eminem and Rihanna here

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<v Speaker 1>on one or two point seven, it is m okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know this is always on top of the

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<v Speaker 1>dating trends. Yeah, I'm wondering. I wonder why. I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>if it's because it's fun for you to get these

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<v Speaker 1>assignments where you get to follow the dating trends, because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you can date your husband and you should continue

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<v Speaker 1>any of the that's a good question, or any of

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<v Speaker 1>these trends usable for people who are married to keeping

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe some of these can be tweaked in a way

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<v Speaker 1>if you are already married, like the inflidating. I'll explain

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<v Speaker 1>what that one is. Inflidating, Okay, go ahead, So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so back to dating. I feel like, yes, I personally

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<v Speaker 1>don't envy anybody who's out there trying to find their lobster,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, I just it's tough and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find there. What this goes back to, you just don't

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<v Speaker 1>know one liners from TV shows trying to find your lobster?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you not know that that was like a

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<v Speaker 1>pop culture moment. Don't be so critical. I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>expect it when you when you say lobster. I think

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<v Speaker 1>lobster with you know eating, and when we say finder lobster,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know friends. Okay. Anyways, let me see if

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<v Speaker 1>you're guilty of any of these dating trends that are

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<v Speaker 1>going to be really big main character energy. So I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like two was all about the b d E.

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<v Speaker 1>They're saying it's all about the m c E. The

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<v Speaker 1>main character energy. It's more about focusing on yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>not so much your partner. So it's making sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you're okay before sounds selfish a little bit, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, be selfish. I like the b d E better. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Eco dumping, so dating or dumping someone based on how

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<v Speaker 1>environmentally conscious they are. Conflicting opinions on environmental topics can

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<v Speaker 1>be just as big a deal breakers on someone that

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<v Speaker 1>can communicate though somebody doesn't recycle or anything like that,

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<v Speaker 1>That is eco dumping. That's going to be a trend.

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<v Speaker 1>Heat on for a second. You're telling me that you divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd leave them if they weren't recycling, right, I think that, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you'd be married at by that point,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think if you were dating somebody and then

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<v Speaker 1>you started realizing that they didn't recycle and you were

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<v Speaker 1>like way big on the environment. Yeah, that's a big

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker. That just goes back to like your you know,

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<v Speaker 1>your core values. But if you also are training or

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<v Speaker 1>telling your partner to do something and after a month

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<v Speaker 1>or two much or two months, they're not paying attention

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<v Speaker 1>on listening, then that's a bigger issue, deep rooted. I

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<v Speaker 1>got heat domming. Okay, dating someone specifically for their household amenities,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's heat domming heat. Yes, So it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>live in the valley. Let's say I started dating somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and they lived in the valley too, but they had

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<v Speaker 1>air conditioning. Well, let's always spend the night of your

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<v Speaker 1>house because you got there. I've done this, I've totally

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<v Speaker 1>done this. So that is heat doing air conditioning, a pool,

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<v Speaker 1>comfy mattress, just you know it kind of is. But

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<v Speaker 1>you're you know, you gotta take what you can. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you're not really into I went out with I went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a guy like one time and I my

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<v Speaker 1>apartment flooded and I needed to stay somewhere for two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>And I literally was just like you just with them,

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<v Speaker 1>did you flood your apartment? No, okay, what else we

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<v Speaker 1>started to go back to, like why water follows you

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<v Speaker 1>so much? So much? I know because I'm a cancer

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a water sign. So I feel like there's

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<v Speaker 1>something tied there, but I don't really know what the

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<v Speaker 1>meaning is infloodating, So infloodating going on less expensive dates

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<v Speaker 1>due to inflation and the current economy. So that one

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<v Speaker 1>is that that's timely makes sense, but most of those

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<v Speaker 1>are like somebody just sat in the room trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make up things are gonna be dating trend sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>to me, I think so too, but they're they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>fun James Webbing. James Webbing is the setting to date

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<v Speaker 1>someone after seeing them through a different lens. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the dude that you is your coworker or

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<v Speaker 1>you've been friends with forever, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>it just takes one night and they start being really funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you just were like, oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>see you in a completely different light now and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we should start dating. And that is James Webbing has

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<v Speaker 1>never happened to you, Tony, where you see somebody like

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<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden, I have this different

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<v Speaker 1>look or lens about them. No, I was very much

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<v Speaker 1>like a box gal, like I kind of when I

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<v Speaker 1>met a guy, put him in a box and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>let him out. I dated a friend afterwards and then

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<v Speaker 1>was the actually able to go back to being friends

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<v Speaker 1>only plans. This is the last one. How long is

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<v Speaker 1>the dating trends list? Only plans is repeatedly planning dates

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<v Speaker 1>with someone but never actually falling following through with them. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go, let's get together. It's a last minute work emergency,

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<v Speaker 1>or you suddenly have to babysit your friends pet or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I find romance department, but more of like acquaintances, you're

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<v Speaker 1>running in this. Hey, let's grab a coffee, let's grab

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<v Speaker 1>a bite sometime. And you know when they say it,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't mean it. Yeah, that's so l a like.

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<v Speaker 1>You know when they say it, they're just saying it

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<v Speaker 1>to close the conversation, and it will if it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the sweater you never wear if you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>warned that sweat in a year, donate it. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>they haven't seen that person and you're you won't, let's

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<v Speaker 1>grab it by absolutely, bro, I'll hear you. You need

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<v Speaker 1>a number out of the two people there just needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be a more persuasive person, like I've already experienced

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<v Speaker 1>with some of my mom friends from school, because we've

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<v Speaker 1>done this, we've exchanged numbers and said, oh, we should

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<v Speaker 1>get the kids together and do this or do that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's always them. It's never me, it's always them,

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<v Speaker 1>And they're like, hey, are you free tomorrow, And then

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<v Speaker 1>it happens because we are free, and because you're deliberate

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<v Speaker 1>and precise and yes, precise tomorrow five o'clock. Okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>So you have to just there always has to be

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<v Speaker 1>a stronger person in the pair. Well, good luck out

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<v Speaker 1>there if you're dating and sheer and take itself. I

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<v Speaker 1>stadium three or forty seven days away from now, but

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<v Speaker 1>tickets are next