1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: My dad cheated, disown my family and now he wants 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: by inheritance. 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Okayop, this is OKAYOP. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 3: I'm Samuel Daughter and I'm John Fry and we tell 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 3: the funniest stories on the Internet. And John, please tell 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 3: me you have a story that will make me giggle. 7 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,159 Speaker 3: Might just rock your socks off. Okay, I'm ready to 8 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 3: have my socks rocked. Rock to the moon like Elon Musk, 9 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 3: go into Mars. 10 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Baby, my dad cheated, disown my family and now he 11 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: wants by inheritance. 12 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: Bruh. It seems like your inheritance. 13 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 3: You opt out of your inheritance when you start cheating 14 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 3: and disowning ex. You know, like you, what do you 15 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 3: check those boxes? You can no longer check that. I 16 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: wantd my inheritance box. 17 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't get your family inheritance when you leave 18 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: the family. 19 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, kind of how it goes, all right. 20 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: So, when I was thirteen years old, my mother found 21 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: out my father was having an affair and got the 22 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 1: other woman pregnant. 23 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 2: Oh, start you off with a bank. 24 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: See, it's like one thing to cheat, and then there's 25 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 3: one thing to leave a permanent reminder of that. 26 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: After this came out, my father confessed he was in 27 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: love with the other woman and wanted to leave my mother. 28 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: Oh no, god, it keeps getting worse. She was obviously 29 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 1: broken hearted and didn't know what to do. We had 30 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: moved to a new state with my father for work, 31 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: so she had no family around. 32 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: Oh no, that a whole move. 33 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go ahead and say it, controversial, opidion, A 34 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 3: whole move. 35 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: Dad, take over here. My father dropped us like a 36 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: bad habit. As soon as this came out. He attempted 37 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: to keep our relationship with me, but ultimately his new 38 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: family was his priority. As he said, he said that 39 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 1: yes to his daughter. 40 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: Oh no, goods. Oh what a piece of pooh. 41 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: Seriously tough to understand as a thirteen year old. But whatever, 42 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: if he didn't want if he didn't want me, I 43 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: wasn't going to need him. So my mother and I 44 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: moved on. Man, tough decisions. Wow, that is a lot 45 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: of emotional wreckage to sift through at thirteen. 46 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. 47 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: But the only way we were able to move on 48 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: was with the help of my grandmother, my father's mother. 49 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, this is it. It's interesting his father's 50 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: mother came in. She always loved us and was appalled 51 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: by what her son had done to us. He stopped 52 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: seeing her as well. For the most part, we became 53 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: very very close over the years, seeing each other for 54 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: special occasions and holidays while her son was nowhere to 55 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: be found. 56 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: So it sounds. 57 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 3: Like like the father disowned the family, but then the 58 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 3: grandmother disowned the father. 59 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: Yes, serves your right, buddy. 60 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: And during these times, my grandma even helped my mom 61 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: out monetarily when she needed to. And you know it's 62 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: not her daughter, you know, technically, like so she didn't 63 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: have to. 64 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: She didn't have to. But wow, what a what a 65 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: stand up move by Grandma. Shout out to Grammy. Shout 66 00:02:59,040 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: out to Grammy. 67 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, the years cut up with her and she developed 68 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: colon cancer advanced late stage and her decline was rapid. 69 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: Within a few months, she was in hospice. Days before 70 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: she passed, she asked me to call her son, my dad, 71 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: to come see her, as she knew her time was coming. 72 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: He had only come a few times to see her 73 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: after she had gotten sick. When he came by, I 74 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: was visiting as we did every few days, and he 75 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: acted like I was some random person. 76 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 2: Wait, the dad, Yeah, the dad kind of just like. 77 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 3: What this guy just knows how to show up consistently and. 78 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 2: Terribly oh awful. 79 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: Grandma asked him to come back tomorrow, but he said 80 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: he'd be back in a few days. She ended up 81 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: passing four days later without him coming back, despite my 82 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: calls and texts for him to come visit. Oh no, 83 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: she went peacefully with me and my mom by her side. 84 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: But it was hard. I missed her every day and 85 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: she was the guardian angel of my life, and I 86 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: know she continues to watch over me. After the services, 87 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: when my father did show up to make a big 88 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: scene and make it about himself, we were contacted by 89 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: her lawyer. Unbeknownst to everyone else, she had left me 90 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: her house and a good amount of money. 91 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 2: Guess how much it was? How much? 92 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: Two hundred thousand dollars house and two hundred thousand dollars. 93 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 2: That's sharooney, that's you know that like a house included, 94 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: that's like close probably half a million. Dude. You're you're 95 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 2: looking good. You're looking good good, except you know, mis 96 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 2: a grandma. 97 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: But yeah, the op op has been set off right, 98 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: so again shout out to Grammy. Now I had no 99 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: idea that she did that. But in the will there 100 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: was a note to me from her, you are worth it, 101 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: love Grandma. Very beautiful, very beautiful. She's amazing. Also in 102 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: her will, my grandma did leave my dad something. Getting 103 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: out guess how much he left the dad t k 104 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 1: one dollar inheritance. 105 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: Bra, that's hilarious. He deserves that dollar though, one dollar 106 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: bro oh Man. 107 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: Now and my dad found out, he went ballistic. 108 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but you know, but honestly, to be expected, 109 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,239 Speaker 3: this guy's an a hole and he's gonna go ballistic 110 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 3: like an ahole. 111 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: He started blowing up my phone all the time, like 112 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: when I was blowing up his phone for him to 113 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: come visit. Yeah, and he was demanding that I give 114 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: him his house and his money. 115 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Nope, that ship has sailed. 116 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: My friend, his new wife and son were messaging me 117 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: a lot, and his son was writing on social media 118 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: saying that I manipulated my grandmother. Bruh is it manipulation? 119 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: Just to actually be there for that person and off. 120 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 2: Good God. 121 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: My father Paul and said that he was under a 122 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 1: lot of stress because he's in debt and was banking 123 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: on the money to come in for bills. And to 124 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: son is son to college. That made me feel bad, 125 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: like maybe I should give him something. No, now I've 126 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 1: thought about it a lot, and I don't think I'm 127 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: going to share anything with him, And I think that 128 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: makes me kind of an a hole because they really 129 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: do need it. 130 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: But on the other hand. 131 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: Fan, yeah, honestly, like the thing is giving that money 132 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 3: will just tie you closer to that person, and he's 133 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 3: already made it clear that he wants nothing to do 134 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 3: with you, and so don't invite that person back into 135 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 3: your life. 136 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: So honestly, I don't know. Am I the A hole? 137 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: And I there's a comment, there's a comment. Update, all right, 138 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: not a comment, there's a comment. There we go, bac an. 139 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: Egg and cheese SPK. I love these usernames really great. 140 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: Not the A hole. 141 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: The reason that the grandma left him one dollar was 142 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: to make it clear to the court in case he 143 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: tried to challenge the will, that she had not forgotten 144 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: to include him, but that she intended to disinherit him. 145 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: She knew that her son would try to make the money. 146 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: She knew her son would try to take the money 147 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: that she left you. It is very common practice to 148 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: leave one dollar when disinheriting someone, respect your grandmother's wishes 149 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: and don't give him a dime. I didn't know that 150 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: about the uh about like giving inheritance of a dollar. 151 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: It definitely seems like a like an f in the 152 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: chat kind of deal where it's just like definitely you're, uh, 153 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: you're intentionally cutting them out and they feel it. Yeah, 154 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: And it makes sense like he could have been like 155 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: you know, she was, you know, no in her own mind, in. 156 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 2: Her right mind. 157 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, she remembered, she remembered she gave you that one 158 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: bucker rooney my du Yeah. Wow, what uh what a 159 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: what a tale of misery. But at least least Op 160 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: got some some money and a good relationship with the 161 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: grandma out of it. 162 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 2: And yeah, you know, cut the father out, you. 163 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: Know, and you know, Sam, you know what, it's better 164 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: than getting two hundred thousand dollars and a house? What 165 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: Subscribing to okop ladies describe follow us on Spotify, follow 166 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: us on tick took Everywhere and with that, we bid 167 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:21,559 Speaker 1: you would do later.