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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand jewils dirty Little Secret? Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewels Show. And you texted

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Speaker 1: us at four one o six one telling us that

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Speaker 1: you have a dirty little secret. So we're calling you

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Speaker 1: back to ask what your dirty little secret is? Oh,

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Speaker 1: oh my god? Hi, how's it going? Okay? Okay? How

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Speaker 1: are you not bad? Hey? Can you tell us your

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Speaker 1: dirty little secret right now? Or do you need us

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Speaker 1: to call you back? No? I can tell it, okay. Um. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean I hate confrontations, like really, like I'll do

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Speaker 1: anything to avoid it. Like if you, if you owe money,

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Speaker 1: owe me money, and you tell me that I owe

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Speaker 1: you money, I'll pay you. Yeah, okay, Yeah, It's it's

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Speaker 1: kind of hard when I'm dating because is um literally,

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Speaker 1: if you ask me out, I'm gonna say yes. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna say no, even if you don't want to

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Speaker 1: go with somebody. Yeah, I guess I will, because why

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Speaker 1: you feel bad if you if you say no? I do,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want. I don't want to have to

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Speaker 1: explain why I like what you're doing. And like right

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Speaker 1: now I'm single. But even when I'm dating people, um,

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Speaker 1: I have said yet, and I'm like I am accidentally cheating,

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Speaker 1: but it's not like on purpose. But I think it's

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Speaker 1: like a stressed response. I don't even think about it,

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Speaker 1: like just like it comes out of my mouth, like yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like a co worker comes up to me and

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, you're doing something on Friday. You want

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Speaker 1: to like get some drinks. I'm gonna be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: even if I You're said doing something on Friday, you know,

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Speaker 1: and yeah, so I've been like cheating on people, Um,

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Speaker 1: I go ahead. Sorry, Yeah, I don't I don't know

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Speaker 1: what to do well, But you know, if you have

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Speaker 1: a problem saying no, I mean I don't think people

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Speaker 1: get upset when you say no. I have a boyfriend

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Speaker 1: or whoever you date, right like I have. I can't

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Speaker 1: go on a date because I am in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: So I think that that might help you be able

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Speaker 1: to say no. If you don't want to be going

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Speaker 1: on dates while you're in a relation. And you talk

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Speaker 1: about hating confrontation, The only you're gonna get confrontation if

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Speaker 1: you go out with someone and then they find out

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Speaker 1: that you're dating someone else. Yeah yeah, I know, but

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Speaker 1: they never have like no one has ever fun. You know,

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Speaker 1: you're going to be careful. Yeah, you might hurt some

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Speaker 1: of these feelings. Okay, whose feelings are worse to hurt

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Speaker 1: your significant others or the person that asked you out.

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Speaker 1: I need, logically the person who asked me out, But

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Speaker 1: at the time I'm saying it's like I'm not thinking,

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Speaker 1: that's like automatic. Yes. Oh wow, all right, well, good

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Speaker 1: luck on all the dates you have coming up this week.

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Speaker 1: That actually sounds terrible. Yeah, it does. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: telling us you're doing a little secret and just learned

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Speaker 1: to say no, let's just give her a shirt. Actually,

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Speaker 1: that just says no point at it. Whenever you get stressed,

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Speaker 1: there you go, oh my god, yeah I need that thing.

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Speaker 1: Will get you one, then you will show on demand.