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Speaker 1: Like and and like we have seen the blow ups

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Speaker 2: Mela Mellis sixty eight fifteen says OPI is mining her

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Speaker 3: But Harold just like, this's not it.

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Speaker 2: Harold, like this deadbeat guy like doesn't even like have

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Speaker 1: First of the edits Jesus Christ Superstar. There's a lot

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Speaker 1: Harold is in love with me. One next, Harold didn't

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Speaker 1: Magnomia six nineteen says, does your dad know this friend suggested?

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Speaker 3: Do you put up dad's grandchild for adoption?

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Speaker 1: Existential Doge says, I'm glad because your dad defended him

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Speaker 1: Yes, you don't have to put up with him and

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, I was I wasn't going to write update,

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's nowhere. You know, you're you know, you're right.

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Speaker 1: He should be like I, if it's okay with you

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Speaker 3: He definitely wouldn't have done. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: What are we doing?

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Speaker 1: Many of Harold's past comments were made with my father

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Speaker 2: Anyways, yo' that's a crazy dynamic man.

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Speaker 3: Met Dad and Harold met at the Big Dufius Convention. Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 3: they were deceiving the war.

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Speaker 2: Two biggest Dufus bros Award go to Harold and Opie's dad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we also have different definitions on what's offensive, so

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Speaker 3: Boundaries. Hey, that's boundaries. We love it.

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Speaker 1: My father doesn't need to stop being friends with him,

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Speaker 3: It clearly didn't ruin my father's life. I'm not obligated

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Speaker 2: I would have loved to see the dad's face when

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Speaker 3: Did anyone notice?

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Speaker 1: Just like the but she's like already told him that

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Speaker 2: I don't understand, dude, what you saw with your daughter.

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Speaker 2: Dufus is of a feather stick together Dufus Bros.

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Speaker 1: Award twenty twenty four. There was some back and forth,

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Speaker 3: I ignored that. Why would you tell him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just completely ignored, dude. Uh, I am not going

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Speaker 3: Beautiful, found and beautiful.

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Speaker 3: But no, this is this is dad, right, I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 3: I believe you're on the money right.

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Speaker 1: There, reading comprehension in one thousands, nine hundred nine and nine.

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Speaker 1: This was the first time in my life that my

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Speaker 1: It's hard to be hopeful, but I am trying. And

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Speaker 1: Overall, I'm glad I don't have to deceive anyone anymore.

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Speaker 1: My own relationship with my father is rocky, but I

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Speaker 1: anytime soon. And to those who mentioned Jesus Christ, Superstar

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Speaker 3: Because you are now?

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Speaker 1: Not only do we have more relevant comments with a

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Speaker 1: final update. Oh my gosh, possibly prophetically on nine to eleven.

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Speaker 3: We don't know, but that's right, Riley, that's right. Get

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Speaker 2: I think OP has handled the situation perfectly, like you know,

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Speaker 3: Seen five times in the last sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like why would I let that guy win

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Speaker 1: One hundred and listen, Reddit loves to no contact, but

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Speaker 1: I agree with your for lot like family is, I

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Speaker 2: That stuff there are Sometimes when it's no contact is

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Speaker 3: Is the move. Is the move totally, you know, until.

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Speaker 2: They can like improve or like until they prove that

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Speaker 2: they can change in a tangible way. It's like sometimes

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Speaker 3: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: But this seems this seems to you, like okay, continue

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Speaker 2: A good Yeah, And it's don't let Harold win, because

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because yeah, you know, and then he's gonna be

442
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 3: a big do fish with dead and be like, see,

443
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Speaker 3: I told you that she was like too young. She's

444
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 3: what she gonna do? Cut off the baby when the

445
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 3: baby starts crying.

446
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,879
Speaker 2: It's like, don't let that guy dictate anything they can

447
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Speaker 2: do in your life.

448
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,440
Speaker 1: Don't about you know what, I agree, big dog boom.

449
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 1: By the way, Radar drip in the chat in the comments.

450
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Speaker 3: Yeah can get.

451
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,719
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I'm sorry, Riley, but the boys are

452
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:27,120
Speaker 1: dripping today that we really are.

453
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

454
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Speaker 1: You know what you too, dude. The corduroy is going

455
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: going your you'r. This is pure Riley drip right here.

456
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 1: This is style over fashion, which is always the wind. Anyways,

457
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Speaker 1: I digress. Well, we'll do what We'll do a fit

458
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 1: check after this. We'll do a check after so stick around.

459
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 1: But let's get into the relevant comments. So this one

460
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Speaker 1: comes from deleted. I think you made wise choices. Harold's

461
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,920
Speaker 1: comment about breastfeeding and putting your baby up for adoption

462
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,959
Speaker 1: would have sent me over the edge. You uh, you

463
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 1: handled it way better than I ever could have. You're

464
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 1: making healthy decisions for you and your family. Your dad

465
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 1: will just have to suck it up. I think he's

466
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 1: a work in progress and that you have to remind

467
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Speaker 1: your father a few more times that this is not

468
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: a negotiable boundary. Alex David sixteen oh five says, instead

469
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Speaker 1: of opee, if there were any of the few, if

470
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Speaker 1: it were any instead of opee, if it were any

471
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Speaker 1: of the few women I know in my life, I'm

472
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Speaker 1: absolutely certain you'd have seen some flying boots.

473
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Speaker 3: Boy got him. Those boots are flying. Yes, they have

474
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Speaker 3: dressed him down.

475
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: They would have dressed him down with words that he

476
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Speaker 1: would have preferred.

477
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Speaker 3: The flying boots. I can almost hear someone scream, you

478
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 3: don't have a uterus. I don't use yes semen. So

479
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 3: keep your opinion about this job.

480
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,199
Speaker 2: Tell yourself, John, where did you go? Somebody else was

481
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 2: just here? And see we are professionals, John, We are

482
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 2: all professionals on this show.

483
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 1: Okay, we're about to get into the new update. I say,

484
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: we just dive right in.

485
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Speaker 3: This is it. This is the final one.

486
00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: So hey, guys, Wow, I can't believe it's been over

487
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,440
Speaker 1: a year since the last post. We are a year

488
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Speaker 1: deep post, Harold. I've planned on updating some time ago.

489
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 1: These past few months. I've been caught up and raising

490
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 1: a toddler, getting married yay, working crazy and rewatching Supernatural.

491
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 2: Needless to say, I have been busy. It's a busy

492
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 2: a lot of seasons to watch.

493
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: That's the supernatural grind. Openly avoiding Harold has been working

494
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: pretty well. My father has been respecting my boundaries.

495
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 3: Nice. Let's let's hear it for that.

496
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: Whenever he invites me and my husband over for lunch

497
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Speaker 1: or dinner, I will ask who else will be there

498
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Speaker 1: if Harold's coming.

499
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 3: He tells me.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't lied so far and doesn't usually insist when

501
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 1: I tell him I'm not coming.

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Speaker 3: Don't do Harold Win, just stop and ignore it. Nice. Yeah,

503
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,479
Speaker 3: I'll give it to you. I'll give it to you. Riley,

504
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 3: it was You're right on the line of it being

505
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 3: too much of a stretch, But I'll give it to you. Okay, good,

506
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 3: I'll give it to you. You looks so great today.

507
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 3: I just understood what you said. Yeah.

508
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly Opie's dad is addicted to Harold w Yes.

509
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 4: Oh you know how I could class you say like

510
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 4: a joke, like underneath your voice, and then someone else

511
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 4: like says.

512
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 3: It louder and they get all the credit. Yes, that's yeah. Sorry,

513
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 3: this was so much better though, Okay Riley for that credit.

514
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 3: Here go to Riley. You did it right though, you

515
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 3: need it right you Sorry? Sorry. So my father promised

516
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 3: he'd tell him not to talk to me.

517
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: Also, some of my friends, some of my father's friends kids,

518
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 1: most of whom I used to babysit would be there.

519
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: I hadn't seen them in a while, and I would

520
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 1: and I love them more than I hate Harold. So

521
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: I ended up spending most of the party with my

522
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 1: son and the kids. Harold didn't talk to me at all,

523
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: so I guess my father was shoot as work, let's go.

524
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 3: That's good.

525
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 1: My husband and I did catch him staring at us

526
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: a couple of times, but I decided to ignore it.

527
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,719
Speaker 1: I caught my husband staring back once, and the walking

528
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: marshmallow I married actually managed to look threatening.

529
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Speaker 3: I love this man. I'm about to squeze the millow him.

530
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, uppercase w for the marshmallow husband, big marshmallow backbone cracker.

531
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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, there you go. You know who did talk

532
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 3: to me Harold's girlfriend. Oh what, oh, poor thing? Here

533
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 3: we go. No, yes, he has one now. She interacted

534
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 3: with me twice.

535
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: First, she came over to coop over my son before

536
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 1: making a comment about how he needed a haircut.

537
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 3: Ha ha, I already hate you. Yeah, they're a perfect match.

538
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, right later I approached later, she approached me and said,

539
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 1: you're shy, aren't you. I said no, and she laughed

540
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: and said, yeah, you're shy. She said all that and

541
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,199
Speaker 1: in the same tone that you would say to a

542
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 1: six year old. I managed to keep my expression schooled.

543
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: Otherwise I would have told her I'm not shy. And

544
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: I choose to spend the whole party with my kids

545
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: because they were better company than.

546
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 3: Her and her annoying ass boyfriend.

547
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: Yes, so yeah, both my interactions with her Harold's girl

548
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: and with her Harold's girlfriend isn't sufferable.

549
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 3: In other words, they're perfect for each other. Yeah. The

550
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 3: coda called it perfect match. I don't have much else

551
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 3: to add.

552
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: My father broke up with the woman he was dating

553
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: last year, long effing story, and he has a new girlfriend.

554
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 1: She is not annoying or psychotic, and I actually really

555
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: like her.

556
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 3: They won't last a year. Wow, No, well she knows

557
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 3: how her dad rolls out.

558
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: Yes, my relationship with my father is still not perfect,

559
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: by the way, but it has improved.

560
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 3: He's actually starting to apologize to me a lot more often.

561
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: I don't know.

562
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: Whether it's a therapy or the fact that motherhood has

563
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: apparently made me terrifying, but I'll take it, and I'll

564
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: give credit where credit is due. He is a very

565
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: good grandfather. I'm also glad my father is respecting this

566
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: Harold boundary. I very much don't want this man in

567
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: my life, and honestly, I'm pretty satisfied right now. My

568
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: little boy is thriving. Part of me misses the baby

569
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 1: at times, but I'm growing prouder and prouder every day.

570
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: Getting to know my kids has been fantastic, by the way.

571
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: It's fantastic when you join us live every weekdanswering, pan

572
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: pst just to have the profile.

573
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 3: I think that's it. I'm happy to ConA. Are you happy?

574
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 2: I'm ecstatic, And I think this is a great example

575
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: of love trium triumphing over hate. She's like, I just

576
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 2: hate this Harold guy, but I love those kids, and like, honestly,

577
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 2: this is kind.

578
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: Of like a cornerstone story. I feel like for the

579
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: show where it's like you can successfully navigate. I think

580
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: Op is a great example of successfully navigating these situations

581
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: and coming out on top.

582
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 3: Her life is better. Harold's out and she she.

583
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:42,639
Speaker 1: Really she did nothing like extreme over the top or

584
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: anything like I really crash out like means like crash

585
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: out score zero.

586
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, And sometimes it's hard to like move through like

587
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: creating a you know, like, all right, well, I'm just

588
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 2: not gonna be where this guy is.

589
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 3: But then sometimes that gets in the way of what

590
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 3: you actually want to do.

591
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: And you you know, in my head, sometimes I see

592
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 2: that as like, well, the other person is still winning

593
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, they're controlling your

594
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 2: your movements. You can't be there because they're there, But

595
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: in reality you kind of have to. I think the

596
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 2: best way is to go there, yeh, be like I'm

597
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 2: here for these people, not for freaking dumb dumb dumbo Harold.

598
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 3: Harold.

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00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but just you know, what are you gonna He's

600
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: just gonna stare at you awkwardly and be like, uh.

601
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: I shouldn't say anything to this person.

602
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like and they GOP wins huge W for OP

603
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 2: lowercase W for her Dad's slowly getting better. Maybe he

604
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: can upgrade that to a big capital W and uh

605
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: yeah boom, big old W.

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Speaker 1: That's the first story of a stream, a long one.

607
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Speaker 1: Did you guys like Do you guys like the long stories?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Please tell us on the shot we got some

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Speaker 3: donuts hit that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we had one donation that we missed last Tuesday

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Speaker 4: from Pretdinson.

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Speaker 2: Paul Wilson. My first ever time catching a live stream.

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Speaker 2: I loved your show since I discovered it just a

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Speaker 2: few weeks ago. Course, thank you, Paul, We love you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and a media right now, go to hit those Dakota

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Speaker 2: all right, thank you. Kelsey Hoff. Welcome to the Knights

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Speaker 2: to ching, swing ching, that's my sword. Breann, Welcome to

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Speaker 2: the Knights.

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Speaker 2: I got charged an hour ago. Does it count towards

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Speaker 2: the dono bar? If not, Kennet, I went the extra mile?

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Speaker 2: Or I want the extra time? And you sure you

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Speaker 2: went the extra mile too?

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Speaker 3: I think Kit? Does it if it was yeah, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: it has counted towards the towards the bar.

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Speaker 2: Yes, thank you, Keltic answer received Josephine, thank you for this.

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Speaker 2: Spheedish Crowners. Guys, we haven't gotten a wheelspin for a

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Speaker 2: long time.

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Speaker 3: Like the stream, like it now, like it? Or hold

630
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 3: your dreams and you'll never sleep again. Guys, she's not

631
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Speaker 3: wrong for everyone in chat that was uppercase.

632
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Speaker 2: Do this, that's all Maria, sweet sir. Welcome to the

633
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Speaker 2: Nights and we've got Emily member for one month.

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Speaker 3: Yay for one month. Yay much loved, John and Riley.

635
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Speaker 2: I hope your families continue to be okay for the

636
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,719
Speaker 2: duration of what is going on down there with the

637
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Speaker 2: hurriccane ice.

638
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: My family, my sister said it was totally fine. I'm

639
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: like a little bit low key suspicious that it's not

640
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: for them. The path, Yeah, what about the path? Yeah, dude, dude,

641
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: they didn't get out you know, you know how it's

642
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: how it's going straight through Tampa. We're an hour south

643
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: of Tampa, so like the I is like very c

644
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Speaker 1: at least on the current trajectory of when I checked

645
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: this morning, and I'm like, dude, how are you okay?

646
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Speaker 3: Dude? Yeah, I want to get out of there.

647
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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like like they got meteorologists crying because they've never

648
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,479
Speaker 4: seen anything like that. Yeah, sorry, no, that's a scaredy one,

649
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 4: but holy cown.

650
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 3: How's your what's what's your how's your family looking? Are they?

651
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 3: Are they in the path?

652
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 4: They're still like from Helene dude, like it's still Yeah.

653
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 4: Some schools are like not even back in the progress.

654
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 4: And some of the roads and the dams are gone

655
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Speaker 4: for you can't even get to Ashville still.

656
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 3: Yeah Ashville was hit.

657
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's pretty bad. But other than that, Yeah,

658
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 4: I think my family's good.

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Speaker 3: My family's good.

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Speaker 1: And apparently minus too. I'm about to yell at them.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to spank them with Florida.

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Speaker 3: Florida people are built different.

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Speaker 2: They're like hurricane Man, it's time to throw a party.

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Speaker 3: But stay safe.

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Speaker 2: Okay, guys, we have a two dollars donation from vis

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Speaker 2: Mix preparing for Hurricane Milton.

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Speaker 3: Stay safe Florida.

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Speaker 2: They used to They got to name it something besides Milton,

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Speaker 2: if they want people to take it seriously.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Milton. Milton's a whackenames to be like Hurricane Maximus. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we got to get out of here. That's a beefy

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Speaker 3: Maximus is on the way. I kind of like that.

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Speaker 4: Milton sounds like some British due that eats beans for breakfast.

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Speaker 2: That's every British. Every British dude eats beans. Oh, we

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Speaker 2: loving this community and all the family.

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Speaker 3: Why what were having giants? Riley's uh response to giants milk?

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Speaker 2: Oh if you play that that what just happened back

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Speaker 2: in mind a minute ago. We'll just we'll just we're

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Speaker 2: gonna you to amy two dollars. Where has Sam been dead?

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Speaker 2: He's dead?

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Speaker 3: Goodbye? We buried him underneath the floor right here. Yeah, hey, dude,

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Speaker 3: stop stop talking.

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Speaker 2: Uh uh yes, Coco eighty six, Dad's friend is horrible.

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Speaker 2: Agreed terrible, Harold Harold the terrible Josephine with another some

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Speaker 2: another dose Kroner exit chat and like the stream?

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Speaker 3: Do it.

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Speaker 2: Also, Coco eighty six, Like the stream, guys are getting

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Speaker 2: is it getting through?

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Speaker 3: There's literally five hundred and sixty one people on YouTube,

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Speaker 3: one hundred and forty three people in Facebook, and four

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Speaker 3: people on Twitch.

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Speaker 1: If you literally go to YouTube you like the stream,

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Speaker 1: We're done now, will spin will happen immediately? It has

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Speaker 1: been so long. Thank you, Josephine, my God, what's going

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Speaker 1: on here? You know what's going on right now? Actually

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Speaker 1: this next story wait, we have more dome. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: shut up.

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding from a Lola Liita five usd Hey

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Speaker 2: John the Orange, did your family evacuate from Milton sheltering

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Speaker 2: in place in Hernando not to flood or evac zone?

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Speaker 3: And have my parents here? Heart? Yes? So wow?

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Speaker 2: Got Chris tinfoil head gift to twenty Okay, storytime memberships?

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Speaker 1: My goodness, guys, we know what time it is Chris

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Speaker 1: tinfoil Hot.

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Speaker 3: We know Christin foil Hot. Why because she's a legend.

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Speaker 3: She just donated.

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Speaker 1: She just grew the family by twenty. Can you imagine

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Speaker 1: having twenty kids in one day at exact same time,

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Speaker 1: at the exact same time. That's crazy, that's insane.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you popping them out like when you have boba

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Speaker 3: and a straw.

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Speaker 2: And you go, so shout out to Kristin for how

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Speaker 2: my fricking God almost pushing us over to love with that.

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Speaker 2: That was a big, big jump up. Okay, and Lolita,

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Speaker 2: I hope you're good. Yes, I hope you're good. I'm

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Speaker 2: talking to my family as speak there. I mean, look,

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Speaker 2: we have my dad actually built our house.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it is. It is a very it is well structured.

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Speaker 3: We have as you can imagine, in the thirty years

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Speaker 3: we've been there have been through many a hurricane Category

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Speaker 3: fives as well. But I'm I'm checking in on them

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Speaker 3: as we speak.

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Speaker 2: I'm seeing your dad standing on top of the roof

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Speaker 2: with like a flag, yeah, like your own family crest

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Speaker 2: being like you will not take my house in.

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Speaker 1: Flip flops and shorts, yes, like Florida will not stand.

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Speaker 3: Listen, shorts and flip that's the Florida.

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Speaker 2: And we have a donation from Skippy six month member tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: And today is my birthday forty three. Glad to be

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Speaker 3: spending with you guys. Happy birthday.

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Speaker 2: No, you're here too, heck yeah, one more right, and

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Speaker 2: from that Black Girl Magic five usd Loki Glad y'all

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Speaker 2: pushed it a bit. Now I'm actually off work and

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Speaker 2: I get to enjoy the dimples. Uh oh oh oh, Dakota, Oh.

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Speaker 3: That's right, he's legitimately flushing right now. That's all the

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Speaker 3: Dons read.

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Speaker 1: That's all now, okay, it's the story. We're ready to go,

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Speaker 1: But real quick, how how long was that first one?

741
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Speaker 3: Thirty minutes, thirty minutes, twenty seven minutes. We should find

742
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Speaker 3: longer ones then.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh we got another dono wowsers donation from like

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Speaker 2: this streams Mama what wheelspeed?

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Speaker 3: Mama what what? Mama? Gold girl woos it. He's got

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Speaker 3: the voice covered, folks, I don't need to do it, okay,

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Speaker 3: and another live John is a voice actor. That's true,

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Speaker 3: but we can We can still make it in this life.

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Speaker 3: That's true. He doesn't want to. But until then, we're

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Speaker 3: gonna move on to this next story. Way well, oh well, well, okay,

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Speaker 3: you're good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, my boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks

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Speaker 2: I cheated on him with my best friend.

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Speaker 3: Oops.

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Speaker 2: Appropriate, I'm gonna keep this short. I have been best

756
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Speaker 2: friends with Nina for twelve years now. We became especially

757
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 2: close about ten years ago when she confided to me

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Speaker 2: that she was gay and depressed. She comes from a

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Speaker 2: conservative Christian family. She was dealing with a lot of

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Speaker 2: personality conflict for a while, so they were there.

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Speaker 3: She was there for her in a moment crisis.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, this story comes from user messi

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Speaker 2: mess one two three on the r slash. Okay, storytime

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Speaker 2: subred it. So I became her support and cheerleader and

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Speaker 2: encouraged her to get therapy. I went to the LGBT

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Speaker 2: support groups, and while her mental health improved, she decided

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Speaker 2: to stay in the closet.

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Speaker 3: She dated a few girls through the years, disguised as close.

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Speaker 2: Friends and roommates. I was the only one who knew

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Speaker 2: about her relationships. Oh that's a pretty close bond.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now, like many female BFFs, we spend a lot of

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Speaker 2: time together and know an unhealthy amount of info about

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Speaker 2: each other's private and personal life. She has also supported

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Speaker 2: me through my difficult times and is truly my sister

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Speaker 2: in spirit. I have been dating my boyfriend for a

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Speaker 2: bit over a year now and things are getting serious.

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Speaker 3: We are at the point of discussing.

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Speaker 2: Future plans like moving in together and timeline for marriage,

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Speaker 2: et cetera. We have a good relationship overall. Yeah, I'd say,

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Speaker 2: if you're talking about that, sounds pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Pretty good. Now.

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Speaker 2: Two weeks ago, on her birthday, Nina finally came out

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Speaker 2: te Yo congratulationhoh oday kah you said it Riley Okay,

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Speaker 2: So first to her family and then on Facebook to everyone.

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Speaker 3: That's very brave.

787
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Speaker 2: A lot of her family has abandoned her over it,

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Speaker 2: so I invited her to spend.

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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving with us. I'm Canadian, sorry to hear that. No,

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Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. We love the Canadians. We do. You

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Speaker 3: know what else?

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Speaker 1: We love Tina m donating twenty gifted memberships.

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Speaker 3: Oh you thought it was five, You thought it was ten. Hot,

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Speaker 3: you're raw. It was twenty. Big shout out to Tina.

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Speaker 3: It was dislocated because on.

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Speaker 1: The floor exactly. Thank you, Dakota, thank you for your

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Speaker 1: unhinged job.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, pop that one bay yeah okay.

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Speaker 2: So Canadian Thanksgiving invited her after her parents kind of

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Speaker 2: were like, we don't like that, you're gay.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 2: We had our own small dinner with just some close

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Speaker 2: friends on Saturday. At dinner, Nina gave an emotional speech

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Speaker 2: and thanked us for loving her as she is, and

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Speaker 2: then thanked me especially for saving her life, her words,

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Speaker 2: and supporting her for all these years. This just sounds

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Speaker 2: like a beautiful friendship.

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Speaker 3: That makes my heart feel good.

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Speaker 2: Well, after everyone left, I could say, my boyfriend looked irate.

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Speaker 2: I asked him what was wrong, and he suddenly kind

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Speaker 2: of exploded, like you knew she was gay? Why And

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Speaker 2: I was like yo, and I thought he was upset

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Speaker 2: that I never shared it with him and started explaining

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Speaker 2: that it was not my.

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Speaker 3: Secret to share, which is true. He goes on to explain.

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Speaker 2: He feels betrayed that I had a close friend who

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Speaker 2: would be sexually interested in me.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, ross insecure boyfie.

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Speaker 2: He went on about all the times I spent the

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Speaker 2: night at her house, even sleeping in the same bed

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Speaker 2: with her, and concluded that I have basically been cheating

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Speaker 2: on him this entire time. I'm already gonna say, right now,

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Speaker 2: this guy's cheating. This guy's cheated, because that's you can't

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Speaker 2: project that hard without being guilty of that, right.

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Speaker 3: Let's find out though, good good, good prediction, because there's

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Speaker 3: the theory. Let's see.

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Speaker 2: I was baffled and mad and answered, probably louder than

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Speaker 2: I should have, that he was insane and she is

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Speaker 2: my best friend and basically my sister, and what he

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Speaker 2: was accusing me of was sick and he needs to

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Speaker 2: either apologize or GTFO of my apartment. Well, he did

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Speaker 2: and later texted me to uninvite me to his family's dinner,

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Speaker 2: which was on Monday. He said, if he was this

834
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Speaker 2: close to a girl, I'd be mad too. That's literally

835
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Speaker 2: not even the right comparison. I think his comparison is insane. Anyways,

836
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Speaker 2: it's been almost a week, and neither of us think

837
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Speaker 2: we should apologize.

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Speaker 3: What do you think? What would you do? I'm tired

839
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Speaker 3: of living like this. Even a breakup would be less frustrating.

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Speaker 2: At this point, he claims, I disrespected our friendship, and

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Speaker 2: I think our relationship rather and I think he's way

842
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 2: out of line. Who is wrong here? And we do

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Speaker 2: have an update, But before that, John, where are we at?

844
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Speaker 3: Brother?

845
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Speaker 1: Get him out of here, Get him out of here, like,

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Speaker 1: let him go, let him go, you know. And at

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Speaker 1: the end of the day too, it's like if if

848
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Speaker 1: you're at the if just just on the fact alone

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Speaker 1: that they're like, I'm not, you know, feeling the connection

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Speaker 1: in this relationship because the way he's saying this absolutely

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Speaker 1: already you can leave there. But that on top of

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Speaker 1: like I'm smelling some homophobia, I'm smelling some some major projection,

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Speaker 1: probably some cheating just all around. I guess my only

854
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Speaker 1: question is, was there because this guy that was what

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Speaker 1: triggered everything, was there any projection or before.

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Speaker 3: I wonder if did Op have some rose colored glasses

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Speaker 3: that there may have been some mornings before.

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Speaker 2: But maybe I think you might be right where it's

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Speaker 2: like there's just some homophobia here, because yeah, it's a

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00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: pretty brain dead take to be like, Wow, so you're

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Speaker 2: best friend of twelve years just really secretly just wanted

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Speaker 2: to be in a relationship with you this whole time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: instead of a friendship just because she's gay. Yeah, Hey,

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Speaker 2: that's not how that works, buddy.

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Speaker 1: Hey Dakota, listen, you have some gorgeous dimples. Can't be

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Speaker 1: friends with you anymore?

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Speaker 3: Oh sorry, sorry, I forget dimple. That's how that works.

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Speaker 3: That's just how the world works.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well, to be clear, OPI done nothing wrong. No,

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Speaker 2: get him out of there. I'm on board, and let's

871
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Speaker 2: move on to the update. So sorry, it's been a while.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's like reminiscent of like an Adele lyric.

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Speaker 3: It's me So.

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Speaker 2: The day after I posted my original story, my dad

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Speaker 2: suffered an accident at work, oh no, which which led

876
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 2: him to be being hospitalized. He is okay now resting

877
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 2: at home and has not suffered any long term injuries. Wo.

878
00:42:59,040 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 3: That's good Thank goodness.

879
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 2: W my heart dropped there. I did eventually read all

880
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 2: of the comments. Thank you for all the love and

881
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 2: support and advice to the LGBT folks who thank me

882
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 2: for keeping my friend's secret. I did what any person

883
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 2: should do. I hope each and every one of you

884
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 2: find great friends and a strong support system. To people

885
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 2: defending him being upset, I just hope no one ever

886
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 2: trusts you with their secret. Third party secret has nothing

887
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 2: to do with your relationship. Do not share other people's

888
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 2: stuff for the sake of honesty in a relationship. WTF, Yes,

889
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: because that what that has nothing to do with their relationship.

890
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: That's a very correct assessment.

891
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: YEF one download on the context here, and it's like

892
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: it's it's very obvious why she didn't tell him. Yeah,

893
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: because it's like and and and do such a such

894
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: an important thing for like her to know that, like

895
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: she has the safety of being being able to talk

896
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: to her with it not spilling out to anyone.

897
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 3: You got to give her the agency to let that

898
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 3: out into the world. But she did. And if she

899
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,919
Speaker 3: did tell her boyfriend, he clearly would have been.

900
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 2: Like, oh, everybody, you have to know she's gay because

901
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: she's actually into all your girlfriends.

902
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 3: Dude, Thank my god. Yeah, thank god. It would have been horrific.

903
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: So we have some responses to common questions here from Ope, No,

904
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 2: I still do not agree. My situation was the same

905
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 2: as him having a super intimate straight female friend. Yeah,

906
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 2: that doesn't make any sense. Yeah, I am straight. I

907
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 2: have been close with Nina for over a decade. Not

908
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 2: once have we had an awkward or romantic moment the closes.

909
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 2: The closest example would be him having a gay male friend.

910
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 3: Correct. Yes, Like come on, man, and so you get

911
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 3: a few kisses while you're at work, Like it's fine.

912
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: That's how homophobic this guy is is when he's making

913
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: the comparison. He can't even make the hypothetical comparison that

914
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 2: he would be friends with a gay guy. Yeah, he's like,

915
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 2: if I was friends with the straight girl, it would

916
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 2: be the same thing, the same thing, dude, what are

917
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:02,240
Speaker 2: you talking about.

918
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 3: Someone get me some monster. Yeah, yeah, just two straight

919
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 3: guys enjoying monster and bleep that out. No free sponsors.

920
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 2: Also, I know I'm gonna be crucified for saying this,

921
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: but male and female relationships or friendships with the same

922
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 2: gender are different. Males and females bond differently with their

923
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: own gender. Not always, of course, but generally, female besties

924
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: are closer than male besties in the sense of physical boundaries. No, no,

925
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: I disagree with specifically the physical boundaries, completely disagree with,

926
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: but I do agree that there is a different dynamic

927
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 2: ya bonding Like that's I feel.

928
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 1: Like that's like literally women just what always gets me

929
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: is like women in other their girlfriends' Instagram comments.

930
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 3: It's like straight up harassment. But yeah, it's like, oh

931
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 3: my god, my.

932
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 2: God, the things that I would freaking I can't even

933
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 2: write them down because the FBI will arrest squeeze like

934
00:45:58,960 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 2: a box.

935
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 3: Like that is women in each other's comments, and they're like, yeah,

936
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 3: I love it.

937
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, dudes don't do that in the comments. They just

938
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 2: do that in real life. They just like yeah, they

939
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 2: just like physically looking good grass each other at every opportunity.

940
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 3: Right.

941
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: Imagine I said, I'm gonna squeeze your ass like a marshmallow,

942
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: which I do to Riley every day, Like I mean

943
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: that happens, he would probably.

944
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 3: Just turn around.

945
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 4: I was making breakfast this morning, and Sam need to

946
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 4: get out of the ways, who just like tap my butt.

947
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 3: He's like, move it seems anything. Yeah, he just gave

948
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,959
Speaker 3: you a little you know, the baseball tap, Johnny.

949
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 2: Jellous, I have a I have a okay story time

950
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 2: right after this. Okay, uh oh, okay, storytime now after Okay,

951
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 2: that's the signal the bas uh. I can understand next

952
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 2: next bowpoint, I can understand his disappointment. I was ready

953
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 2: to comfort and assure him that me not sharing in

954
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 2: a secret was not due to any lack of trust

955
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 2: in him. But in no way do I feel like

956
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 2: I betrayed him uh, or or for prioritizing Nina over him.

957
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: I always spent a healthy amount of time with him.

958
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 2: We both agreed we want a little independence in our relationship,

959
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 2: and it was one of the things that made us

960
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 2: a better couple.

961
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 3: Okay, so op.

962
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 2: He feels no guilt about keeping Nina secret during my

963
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 2: time in the hospital because of her dad's incident. My

964
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: boyfriend came around once asking about my dad and asked

965
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 2: to put our fight on pause. I agreed initially, but

966
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: then a few days ago he came around again and

967
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 2: we got lunch, and as we were talking, he said

968
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 2: something like, when you were feeling better and are ready

969
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 2: to discuss and apologize. We should talk, and that just

970
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 2: set me off. But I stayed calm and said that

971
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: I apologize for yelling and nothing more.

972
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: That's a great move. Yeah, that's a great move, tactical.

973
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 3: I refuse to apologize for keeping a secret, and I'm

974
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 3: expecting his apology for accusing me of cheating. Long story short,

975
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 3: I broke up with him, and that's a victory.

976
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:07,399
Speaker 2: That's a big W, big OPW, big OLDW.

977
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 3: He has been sending me texts ranging from let's stay

978
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 3: friends to I never want to see you again?

979
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, to mild anger and today, let's talk again.

980
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 3: I am done.

981
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is healthy, but I am

982
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: already over it. Nina is truly my sister in spirit

983
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 2: and has been in my life for much longer. We

984
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 2: are going to Cuba with a few other friends for

985
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 2: the winter holiday.

986
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 3: Let's go. That sounds great. Thanks again for your support.

987
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll meet someone nice.

988
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 3: I know there.

989
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 2: I'm plenty of men out there without a corn ographic

990
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: view on lesbians and with better understanding of female friendship.

991
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 2: And by the way, you can get a better understanding

992
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,720
Speaker 2: of us by tuning into our live stream on YouTube

993
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,959
Speaker 2: every weekday at three pm Pacific Standard time.

994
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 3: Just tap that profile and it's not pornographic. You're welcome. Yes,

995
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 3: zero cornmography And there's an edit.

996
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 2: Edit to add ah. I love how people are piling

997
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 2: on about the sleeping in the same bed. She is

998
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: my close friend with zero schmextual tension. I am straight.

999
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 2: And if he can't trust me around someone I'm not

1000
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 2: attracted to, why would I bother dating him?

1001
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 3: Correct?

1002
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 2: What if I ever make a male friend, will I

1003
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 2: not be allowed to be near him? People are capable

1004
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:35,439
Speaker 2: of non smextual physical contact.

1005
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: Impossible, impossible. So if he can't wrap.

1006
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 2: His tiny mind around it's it's up to him.

1007
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,479
Speaker 3: But I feel like I would rather have said it's

1008
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 3: time for him to leave. Go we found it.

1009
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 2: Yes, John has an okay story time about Riley's But

1010
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 2: yes I do.

1011
00:49:55,280 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: The other day, certain people were in the kitchen and

1012
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: uh so Riley pops out like giving me, give me

1013
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: a face?

1014
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 3: You know? So I said what I say? What I

1015
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 3: always say? What do I say? Riley? Hey? Baby? What's up? Baby?

1016
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 3: I said, what's up? Baby? He leans back, there is

1017
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 3: a woman.

1018
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 2: In our house, Sammy, And see I I wasn't even

1019
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 2: gonna say that, but there we go. No, we have

1020
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 2: to so there and then would a woman be in

1021
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 2: our house if it was not with Sam You're gonna

1022
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 2: you're gonna put me in a bad line.

1023
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 3: Dude, there's eight women here.

1024
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: No, just kidding, and uh I immediately well, first I

1025
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: had like to two realizations of the era.

1026
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 3: First was right in that moment.

1027
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: I was like this person, I'm John, I have a girlfriend,

1028
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: Fry what's going on? And and I'm like, oh my god,

1029
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: Like I was talking to Riley like.

1030
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 3: I didn't see it. Wasn't even thinking like completely ignore him.

1031
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: Like Riley's like listening to his headphones, just like making

1032
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 1: some burritos or something.

1033
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 3: But I was like trying to learn him, like look

1034
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 3: who's here.

1035
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the face he was trying to give

1036
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 1: me that I just totally completely missed, missed the ball.

1037
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 3: I love John, but he is like pretty oblivious about things.

1038
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 3: A seconds.

1039
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm like the worst if you think about it. I

1040
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: left Caesar salad dressing on this table for five days.

1041
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 3: Well, to be fair, five days. I saw it yesterday

1042
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,439
Speaker 3: and I also left it there.

1043
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: But it was it's my it's it's it's me. I

1044
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: am the one responsible.

1045
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 3: We can all share responsibility though we're a team.

1046
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 2: We are team, right, any one of us could have

1047
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 2: taken that rancid salad dressing.

1048
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 3: You know. Yeah, who knows. Maybe it's still good. I

1049
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 3: don't know, but there's still time to find out. Can

1050
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,399
Speaker 3: you get out of the trash? We can? We can't

1051
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 3: the trash man pull it out of the trash. I

1052
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:42,280
Speaker 3: eat garbage. But yeah, that's uh, that's that's that's my story.

1053
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 3: That was pretty good. It's great.

1054
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 2: Wouldn't have been great if she was like, hey, who's

1055
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 2: that really cool guy named John?

1056
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 3: It addressed me like such a cool guy.

1057
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I'll be I am dressed pretty cool. So yeah,

1058
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 2: we are dressed pretty.

1059
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 3: Cool today, are we.

1060
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 2: You can't hate someone for reading a fact out of

1061
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 2: a textbook. Can't need to go to Let's get it.

1062
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 4: Let's get a fit check before he hit the Wait

1063
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 4: a second, wait a second, it's time for that.

1064
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 3: So here's John.

1065
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 4: He has his nice uh shirt on, and he has

1066
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 4: these nice gene looking pants that are what is on

1067
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 4: the bottom wide legged?

1068
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 3: Let's see the wide legs. You see the ankle swimming,

1069
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 3: my ankle swimming, and what kind of a what kind

1070
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 3: of shirt do you have on?

1071
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 2: You know, we got the crochet crochet, the one that

1072
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 2: me and Sam have been like, it's a thing because

1073
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 2: of us, so it's their staple.

1074
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 4: And then now we have the coda with the iconic

1075
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 4: hat with no no no swimming serums.

1076
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 3: Oh bucket check. Uh, he's on, Oh some joy, nice shirt.

1077
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 3: And then we'll see the pants. Yeah, show them, hold on,

1078
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 3: you got they gotta.

1079
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 4: He imbarded the pants himself in their khaki, fake Korean versace.

1080
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 3: It's very sorry. We we just crushed it today, like

1081
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 3: we just got to give it up to ourselves. This

1082
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 3: is true.

1083
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 4: And then I went for like my mustache loope because

1084
00:52:57,920 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 4: I wanted I I have like a streten my razor.

1085
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 4: I was going to see how I was close to

1086
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 4: the skinna get it. And there's a little bit of stubble,

1087
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 4: but not as much as I usually get. And then

1088
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 4: the hair is going crazy in the back.

1089
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 3: It's good. This is so Riley. That's a classic like

1090
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 3: Midwest cheek. Look, I think that you're talking right now, chic.

1091
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 2: Right Midwest. Come on, you're in cord hats with your

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00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 2: hair hanging out at the back like you got a

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00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: Kentucky Waterfall. Okay, well, I'm from the South, thought Midwest,

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00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 2: they're adjacent. I'm not a Yankee, dude, I'm from the

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00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 2: South there. Hey, come on, hey, are you calling me

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00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 2: a Yankee?

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00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:39,240
Speaker 4: Everyone that's not from the South is a yank The Yankees.

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00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: Just kidding, not gonna trap you. I have a very

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00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: quick question. Did you guys so like the flow that

1100
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: comes out of the back?

1101
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 3: What was it? Uh? Damn it? Let us bucket bucket?

1102
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 3: Let us bucket? Uh bucket lettuce? It's something I literally

1103
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 3: had it and then I lost it. Does anyone else

1104
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 3: know about locally grown but butter lettuce?

1105
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: That was like a thing in North Carolina? Actually, when

1106
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: I would probably go up there, float bucket, blow bloat bucket.

1107
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: That was this guy's name because he would wear like

1108
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: a freaking lax helmet.

1109
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 2: It was.

1110
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 3: That's his freaking yo. I don't know what as you

1111
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 3: can get.

1112
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 2: We got Emily in the chat saying, respectfully, respectfully, Riley, you.

1113
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 3: Look like half the guys in Wisconsin right now, Chatty,

1114
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: that is confirming. The last time I checked the Wisconsin

1115
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 3: is where up there? It's up right, isn't it?

1116
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 2: Is it?

1117
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 3: North North Well Green Bays in Wisconsin. So I'll take that.

1118
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 3: I like I like Green Bay. I'll take it. But

1119
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 3: we got some donuts. We gotta read you. Yes we do.

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00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 3: Love y'all. This has coming from Heidi Browning. Love y'all.

1121
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 2: My forty fifth birthday is Friday. Also, Sophia read my

1122
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 2: message but didn't say it was from my six months membership.

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00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 2: Heidi Browning, I am so sorry because you deserve that

1124
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 2: six months member.

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00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, we're gonna fire in.

1126
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 2: We're gonna She's not getting any dirt today, right queen?

1127
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: And then Lisa ray j in me. Okay, thanks for

1128
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: the twenty five bucks. I've liked, YouTube and Facebook. No excuses.

1129
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: Let's get to the wheelspin guys. We are now less

1130
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: than one hundred away. We are, we are really getting there.

1131
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: We are right there. Shout out again, Tinam for the

1132
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 1: twenty gifted memberships. Absolutely crazy ming Maing. Thanks for one

1133
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,839
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty five Philippine pesos. Good morning for the Philippines.

1134
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 4: No no, no phph or the pH bounce phod.

1135
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,800
Speaker 3: Morning from pH. No from the pH Balance, No pH balance.

1136
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 3: That's not how that works, not it? Becka Apocalypse. Thanks

1137
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 3: for the two Canadian bucks like the stream. Please please Amy,

1138
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 3: thanks for the five bucks.

1139
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: Since you guys killed off Sam, haf to hashtag Team

1140
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: Bunny Tails will carry on the Cardio Bunny Club to

1141
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 1: run from their problems. Our compound will be named after Sam.

1142
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 1: Is there a new inside joke that I'm missing?

1143
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, the if you can run from your problems,

1144
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 4: you get in the Run Club, And that's how you

1145
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 4: get away from all these Reddit stories.

1146
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 3: Ah yeah, okay, I like that.

1147
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 4: And they wear bunny outfits with tails and Sam chases them.

1148
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 1: Ah that you know, that makes a lot of sense,

1149
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: That makes a lot of checks out.

1150
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 3: And is that all the donos? That is all the

1151
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 3: donos that we have at this moment.

1152
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: That is all the donos ladies and gentlemen we are

1153
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: about to get into.

1154
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 3: Is this next story? Are you ready? I was born? Ready?

1155
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 3: I was not? I was born I was born large. Dude.

1156
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 3: Y'all y'all won't even believe how heavy I was. You

1157
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 3: look like we'll do a story for that. You looked

1158
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 3: like you were a heavy baby. I mean maybe maybe

1159
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 3: I was light. Who was thick? Let's get into it.

1160
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: So my ex wife got divorced three years ago but

1161
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 1: now she wants to give it another.

1162
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 3: Go more time, one more time. Yeah, and it's they're

1163
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 3: daft punk. I love that. Hey, guys, long post, but

1164
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,280
Speaker 3: the details are important.

1165
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: My ex female forty seven and I forty five, male,

1166
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 1: have been divorced for three years and we have two sons,

1167
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: Wide and Jack. Our split has been mainly due to

1168
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: our kids in different parenting styles from the South.

1169
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:10,280
Speaker 2: Southern Kids Southern Kids confirmed.

1170
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: This comes from No Dirt sixty eight thirty from the Arts. Okay,

1171
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: storytime sebout it. So my ex is a genius. She's

1172
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: a PhD and a research scientist, while I'm an analyst.

1173
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 3: Wow smarty pants.

1174
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: She grew up with colder parents who instilled strict routine

1175
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: and discipline to be successful, while I grew up with

1176
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 1: a very close relationship to my parents, who encouraged me

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00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: to forge my own path in life. These two backgrounds

1178
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: came head to head when it came to our kids,

1179
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: especially when they started school.

1180
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 3: My wife wanted them to complet.

1181
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: My wife wanted them completely focused on academics, while I

1182
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: wanted them to live a little and let them enjoy

1183
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,680
Speaker 1: being kids and have them figure things out their own.

1184
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 3: A little bit. I agree with that. Let the kids

1185
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 3: be the kids.

1186
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: After months of fighting, we decided that it wasn't going

1187
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: to work. Our split was amiicable and she was actually

1188
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 1: paid way more child support than she had to, but

1189
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: insisted on it. Oh, she's paying him child support. I

1190
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: guess maybe she's the breadwinner in the relationship, which makes

1191
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: sense if she's got like this crazy PhDe And he

1192
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 1: did say she's just like a super genius.

1193
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is true.

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00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: We even spend Christmas and Birthdays all together for the

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00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: sake of the kids, our son's primary Our sons primarily

1196
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: live with me by their own choice, while my ex

1197
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: does see them about once a week. My kids are

1198
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: teenagers now and sometimes they want the weekends to themselves.

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Speaker 1: My older one, Wyatt, has said to me that sometimes

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00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 1: he feels like it's my ex's own fault because of

1201
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: how hard she was on them. I try to remind

1202
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: them that she's still their mother and she was doing

1203
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: what she believed was best and at the very least

1204
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: he owes her respect. This brings us to a few

1205
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: days ago. Since both my kids are on break, my

1206
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: ex decided my ex tries to stop by on the

1207
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 1: weekdays to try and see them more. She stopped by,

1208
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: but both the kids were out with friends for the evening.

1209
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: She had come all the way, so I invited her

1210
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:00,120
Speaker 1: in for a drink.

1211
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 3: I see you in the comments. I need ex wifey

1212
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 3: you want some of his chardonnay, Babe, ex wife I made.

1213
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 3: I made the white Russian. Oh oh oh boy. We

1214
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 3: got two huge donos. Whoa guys, guys, guys.

1215
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: And first off, okay, we're gonna start with who else?

1216
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 3: Who else but the clean of the stream Christian foil hats.

1217
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm gonna have to get a tinfoil hat in

1218
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 2: honor of you, dude.

1219
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 3: Good absolute insanity. Twenty more more.

1220
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 1: Gifted freaking memberships on the stream smack, let's freaking go?

1221
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 3: What are you smacking over? A clap for us? Yes,

1222
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:45,560
Speaker 3: I'm clapping with no hands.

1223
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 2: And Brianna for eighty four dollar tip on Dakota, not

1224
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 2: on on.

1225
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: Where Death, not on the YouTube, super chat yep on

1226
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: the tip win on the temp where we save the

1227
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: thirty percent. Brianna is a double real one love from Australia. Mike,

1228
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 1: thanks for all the advice and laughs. Also, can each

1229
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: of you say my name so I can hear it?

1230
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: In different accents.

1231
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 2: Brianna, Brianna, Brianna.

1232
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 3: Wait, did you want to want her accent?

1233
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 2: Because mine's like I'd be like, Brianna, that's Brianna, That's

1234
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 2: that's Midwest Brianna for sure.

1235
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: Hopefully those are enough accents for you. Brianna, Brianna, thank

1236
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: you for the eighty four. That is freaking amazing down now,

1237
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: And did we just un lock thirty more minutes?

1238
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:31,919
Speaker 3: We did?

1239
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: Yes, we did, freaking go goot chah, here we go. Well,

1240
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: let's get back to it. So I invited her in

1241
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 1: for a drink. We were just chatting and eventually we

1242
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: started looking at old baby photos of our kids. We

1243
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 1: had a lot of laughs.

1244
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 3: Until we got to one picture. It was a picture

1245
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 3: of when my sons were six and two, and I

1246
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 3: had them both on each shoulder and the three of

1247
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 3: us were laughing. My ex just started sobbing out of nowhere.

1248
01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if out of nowhere is a

1249
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 2: p that's some of the most dangerous behavior. I think

1250
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 2: you guys could possibly be indulging.

1251
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 3: It's this is slippery. You were emotionally dangerous territory. This

1252
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 3: is true.

1253
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: And she started apologizing to me for everything Oh. I

1254
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 1: was really confused, but I hugged her and told her

1255
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: that she only did what she thought was best and

1256
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: that she shouldn't apologize for trying to be an involved parent.

1257
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:25,439
Speaker 3: Like in the dynamics so far.

1258
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: We stayed there for a while, but neither of us

1259
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: wanted to let go. Eventually, she looked up at me,

1260
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 1: and her look reminded me of when we were dating.

1261
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: We started kissing and things escalated. It was like the

1262
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 1: twelve years of our marriage came flooding back, and during

1263
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: which my ex kept tearing up and just telling me

1264
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: how she left. She quickly left, How we feeling GOODA deepress, deepress, deepress.

1265
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm running off. We can go, we can go.

1266
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm ready.

1267
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: She quickly left before our kids could come back, and

1268
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: we've been silent until today. I got a text for

1269
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: my ex asking if we can meet alone to talk.

1270
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: What the F do I do here?

1271
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 3: Guys?

1272
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: On one end, both my ex and I still care

1273
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: about each other, But on the other, this thing could

1274
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 1: be a whole huge shock to not only our kids,

1275
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: but to the rest of our families as well. There

1276
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 1: is a big update where we may figure out whether

1277
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: they're getting back together or not. Let's get a pole up.

1278
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: I am going to run to the bathroom and blow

1279
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 1: my nose. And while we're doing that, Dakota and Riley

1280
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: please discuss a poll.

1281
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 3: What kind of pole do you think we should do?

1282
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 3: Get back together or no?

1283
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1284
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 3: Guy, I'm I can't hardly breathe right now. Would you

1285
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: get back together?

1286
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 4: You divorced, you went through divorce lawyers, everything they got half.

1287
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 4: Would you take them back and get try to get

1288
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 4: back your half? After one night of passion?

1289
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Just one night. I don't know. I think you

1290
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 3: got to talk. Oh god, it's a hard talk. I

1291
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 3: mean you already know, like you've already been fair though. Bro.

1292
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 3: It's like He's like, yeah, we just like kept holding

1293
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 3: each other.

1294
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 2: And when I looked down at my ex wife, it

1295
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 2: reminded me that we used to be married.

1296
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, because that's the woman you used to

1297
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 3: be married to. Yeah. Oh god. I have a strict

1298
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 3: thing with Xes. I don't really I'm not really friends.

1299
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 4: I'm only friends with that maybe one, but I like

1300
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 4: dated one on like two or three days with her

1301
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 4: and we decided to be friends. But that's about it.

1302
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 4: I'm not friends with Xes. Also, one time. I do

1303
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 4: remember in middle school I was no.

1304
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 2: No.

1305
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 4: High school I was with the girl and I wasn't

1306
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 4: too sure. And then later on, like a year or

1307
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 4: so ago, I decided like, oh, let me try it again,

1308
01:03:56,560 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 4: and those same feelings of not too sure it came back. Yeah,

1309
01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 4: and I don't know, you should probably stick to your guy,

1310
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 4: I say, I say nah, and like dang forty one

1311
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 4: people said, no, lurkers, wow, put a one or two.

1312
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 3: Forty one people are like, no, don't do it. I

1313
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 3: don't know. Do they hit me right in the right

1314
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 3: in the soul?

1315
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 2: I mean me, I think every serious relationship I've been in, yeah,

1316
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 2: I've had like a kind of on again slashed off

1317
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 2: again like we're breaking up and then being like no,

1318
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 2: but but it there was never that big of a

1319
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 2: gap because that was I mean, how long was the

1320
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 2: gap between the divorce and that.

1321
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 3: I think they got divorced three years ago. Yeah, so

1322
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 3: that's that's a long time to get married to this person.

1323
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 3: You walk down the aisle with this person and are

1324
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 3: they are they? Are they with others significant others now?

1325
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 3: Or they're still both single? Right?

1326
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 2: They're both I think it sounds like they're both I believe,

1327
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 2: so I think yeah, single, because I mean I feel

1328
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:49,919
Speaker 2: like if they weren't then that would be a much

1329
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 2: different vibe. Yeah, yeah, that then it would be like

1330
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 2: one hundred percent unequivocally no, this is wrong.

1331
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is already with another partner, John, would you

1332
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 3: get back together or NA scenario?

1333
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think they could talk about it.

1334
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say gnaw for now just to make the decision,

1335
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 1: but over more time.

1336
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 3: Totally possible. This one. Uh that Black.

1337
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:14,200
Speaker 1: Girl Magic says, Nah, I love my soon to be

1338
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: ex husband, but if he looks at me twice, I'd

1339
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: vow the f out. I'd rather f a beehive. Now

1340
01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: that sounds pretty wow. Wow, my goodness, Well, how would

1341
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: you go.

1342
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 3: About doing that as a as a woman? That's parable?

1343
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 3: That sounds pretty you know what, Either way sounds pretty rough.

1344
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 3: The beehive, you.

1345
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 2: Guys, I won't even I won't even entertain what Riley

1346
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 2: just did.

1347
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 3: I won't even entertain it. You know what I'm gonna

1348
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 3: entertain this next freaking up date. Let's go go.

1349
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 1: So hi everyone, I know it's been a little bit,

1350
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: but I have an update to my last post.

1351
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 3: First of all, thank you to everyone.

1352
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 1: You guys gave some great advice and really helped me

1353
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: prepare for the conversation with my ex. I met up

1354
01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: with my X two days before getting a text from her.

1355
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 1: I went over to her apartment and we had a

1356
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 1: great talk about a year after the divorce and my

1357
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 1: AXE actually went to see a therapist to sort of

1358
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: get an understanding of where her life was. She kept

1359
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 1: going and discussing things from her childhood. She realized she

1360
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:14,880
Speaker 1: was doing the same thing to our kids that her

1361
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 1: parents did, to her surprise, surprise, full circle moment. Yep,

1362
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:22,920
Speaker 1: things were ultimately things that ultimately made her resent her parents,

1363
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 1: which is exactly which is why she was actually closer

1364
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 1: to my mom than her own. She actually teared up

1365
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 1: a bit and told me that she never stopped stopped

1366
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 1: loving me, and that regardless of what a document says,

1367
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 1: I would always be her husband.

1368
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I mean that's I mean, that's not how

1369
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 2: that works, but I get the sentiment.

1370
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 3: That's kind of sweet in its own way.

1371
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's I guess, I guess better better to

1372
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 2: have these feelings said than locked behind closed doors, so

1373
01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 2: at least we know how to move acord.

1374
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 3: What a horrific thing. To keep that locked up for

1375
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:58,040
Speaker 3: the life, that would be hard to deal with. Mikes right.

1376
01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 1: My ex admitted that on the night of the incident

1377
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: that happened, she knew the boys would be out and

1378
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 1: she wanted to spend some time with me alone. When

1379
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: we started looking at old pictures, she got overwhelmed. She

1380
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 1: told me how much she missed me and would do

1381
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: anything it took to make it up and at the

1382
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 1: very least be partners again. I mean that sounds like

1383
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: the most Yeah, I guess partners.

1384
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

1385
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 1: I told her that I always cared about her, and

1386
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 1: then I missed her too, and that I still felt

1387
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 1: something for her. At the end of the evening, we

1388
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: both came to terms that we still loved each other

1389
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: and would give.

1390
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 3: It another shot. The terms were that.

1391
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 1: We were to take it slowly and regularly, attend couples

1392
01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 1: counseling as.

1393
01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 3: Well, and not to tell the kids yet. I think

1394
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 3: that's I think that's a solid move. Yeah, I was

1395
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 3: just about to ask this sounds like the best way

1396
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 3: to go about that took this coming out.

1397
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 1: Black Girl Magic says, honestly, sounds like dating has been

1398
01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: rough for her.

1399
01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1400
01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 4: Do you think she's only coming back because there's been

1401
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 4: no other man that would No.

1402
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 3: I don't think that.

1403
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 2: I think Well, when when you have the opinion of

1404
01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 2: even when we're not together on a piece of paper,

1405
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 2: you're still my husband, it's gonna be hard for you

1406
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:14,520
Speaker 2: to date. Yeah, you're not emotionally available. You already have

1407
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 2: a husband. Yeah, like you're it's you're not it's you're

1408
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:18,879
Speaker 2: not husband.

1409
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 3: You're not my husband. Get out? Uh yeah, no, that's

1410
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:27,639
Speaker 3: that's so true. Is my ex husband get away from me? Dude?

1411
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine, yeah, Yeah, it just it just seems yeah,

1412
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 1: like she never full It seems like this was more

1413
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: him being like, hey, I can't co parent with you

1414
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: fully at Honestly, I was a little bit confused. Uh,

1415
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, you still have to co parent and decide

1416
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: on the schooling. It almost seemed like a thing that

1417
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 1: you'd still disagree upon as co parent.

1418
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:54,680
Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe it just blew up so much

1419
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 3: that it affected all of their life. I'm guessing it

1420
01:08:58,439 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 3: just was.

1421
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 2: I guess it was a breaking point. Yeah, it is

1422
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 2: the crack, and now crack was widened.

1423
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 3: And now we got that glue, getting that crack blue

1424
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 3: in the crack blew that crack well, Opie goes on

1425
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 3: to say.

1426
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:14,800
Speaker 1: Since then, we've been spending almost every day together and

1427
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:17,720
Speaker 1: we actually had our first counseling session. It went pretty well,

1428
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: even after everything that happened with my ex, and my

1429
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 1: ex and I were really able to establish the ground

1430
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 1: of our new slash old relationship. We are going to

1431
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 1: be going to more sessions, but it is a good start.

1432
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 1: I actually hosted a family dinner a couple of nights ago,

1433
01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 1: while our boys still don't know about us.

1434
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 3: I made the.

1435
01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: Excuse that it would be good for the four of

1436
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: us to have a meal together. And honestly, my wife

1437
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 1: has really changed. She was more open with the kids

1438
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: and was more interested in hearing about things like sports,

1439
01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 1: hanging out with friends, hobbies, et cetera. My kids responded

1440
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 1: really well, and for the first time in a while,

1441
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: our sons were enthusiastically engaging and connecting with their mom.

1442
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 3: Wow, jeez, well.

1443
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,559
Speaker 2: This sounds like a pretty good situation getting better.

1444
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 3: I want to get back together for their past.

1445
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:05,760
Speaker 1: She also planned a trip to the zoo for the

1446
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 1: four of us, like we used to do when the

1447
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 1: boys were young. I think my older one has gotten

1448
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: a little suspicious and rolled with it. But the fact

1449
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: that we have co parented so well has been a

1450
01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 1: great cover. By the way, you can.

1451
01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 2: Cover your eyes with our live stream that you can

1452
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 2: join every single week day of.

1453
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 3: Three p MPSD just top r profile. Just let it

1454
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 3: wash over your come on. Oh wow, science. So we

1455
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:31,559
Speaker 3: have a little bit left in the story.

1456
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 1: But let's let's decide right now, even without the further context. Uh,

1457
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 1: continue with the relationship, yes or no?

1458
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:42,879
Speaker 3: Yes? Yes, if the kids are the kids are thriving. Yeah,

1459
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 3: you literally.

1460
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 2: Opie even said he still feels something for his x

1461
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:52,719
Speaker 2: X clearly feels that she made a huge mistake and

1462
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:55,800
Speaker 2: thinks that her ex husband is still her husband in

1463
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 2: her heart.

1464
01:10:56,479 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 3: So I think she's ready to go. Yeah, and uh, at.

1465
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,320
Speaker 2: The end of the day, it's like I think that's

1466
01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 2: the most comforting thing, is like knowing that the person

1467
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 2: you're with is like really down to be with you,

1468
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 2: like like especially if you've already had kids, and like

1469
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 2: you know, this isn't a thing where it's like she

1470
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 2: just had like a moment of weakness when she saw

1471
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 2: that picture and it was like, oh, I was just

1472
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what came over me.

1473
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:21,719
Speaker 3: I was just I kind of had a crazy moment.

1474
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,360
Speaker 2: But like now she's like for years I've been she

1475
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 2: went to therapy for this, and it's like she's it

1476
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 2: feels legit.

1477
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: The kicker for me is uh that she is changing

1478
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 1: the thing that seemed to break the marriage, which is

1479
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:37,760
Speaker 1: how she was treating the kids and like how she

1480
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 1: was like pushing and you know.

1481
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 2: She's going, You're going to be NASA scientists that live

1482
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 2: on the moon, PhD.

1483
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 3: Where you're going to be the first smart person save yourself.

1484
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 3: We love the South. There are smart people from the South.

1485
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 3: There are many smart people. Just a joke.

1486
01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 4: Hard to come back though. It is pretty tom There

1487
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 4: we go, but let's finish the story out.

1488
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 1: So things are good now and I think deep down

1489
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 1: neither of us truly fell out of love, and I

1490
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 1: think we have eventually found our way back to each

1491
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 1: other regardless of what happened that night. Thank you guys

1492
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 1: for all your kind words and support.

1493
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 3: There it is. I liked.

1494
01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 2: I liked that little, a little note that you added there.

1495
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 2: It's a little that little yeah, yeah, that's my Those

1496
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 2: are my scream of anguish welcome.

1497
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:35,719
Speaker 3: To my Welcome to my screaming yawns.

1498
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: I have to give them every second, every millisecond of

1499
01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 1: the show has to be entertaining, so I have to

1500
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:43,879
Speaker 1: like give them something while I'm taking a y I hope.

1501
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 2: I have one of my like category five sneezes streaming

1502
01:12:47,880 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 2: because I too soon, too soon, man, Sorry, sorry, Florida.

1503
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 2: I didn't mean I sneezed too.

1504
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 3: Hard when I was in the Gulf.

1505
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 2: And yeah, okay, stip I I use humor to cope

1506
01:13:05,960 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 2: with stressful situations.

1507
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 3: I hope everyone in Florida is okay. And tell that

1508
01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 3: to my dad and his jordansan flip. He's on the roof.

1509
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 3: He's on the roof as we speak, waving, waving the

1510
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:18,679
Speaker 3: Florida flyer.

1511
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 2: No, right now, he's he's sitting in the chair and

1512
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 2: he's waiting. It's it's the calm, yeah, the storm.

1513
01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 3: He's cracked up and a cold one.

1514
01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 2: He's he's, he's he's on the fold out chair, living life.

1515
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 3: But that's it, guys, that's it. Yeah, we missed a few.

1516
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 3: We gotta go back. Oh my god, coda, do take

1517
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:42,160
Speaker 3: it away, baby one. Let me find right here, honey.

1518
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 2: Honeybee eighty five with the two euros. Thank you, John.

1519
01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 3: Your dad went brave heart on the storm.

1520
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 1: If anyone wants to draw or like make it ai

1521
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 1: or whatever, some sort of illustration of that and put

1522
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:57,280
Speaker 1: it in discord, I wouldn't be able.

1523
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 2: I would also iouldn't mind that one. But Amy for

1524
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 2: five dollars if you buried Sam?

1525
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 3: Why didn't you call me? I'm Italian, so we know

1526
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:12,519
Speaker 3: how to hide the bodies. Why is Sam dead to you? Lol?

1527
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, Riley. I was just following Riley's lead.

1528
01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:17,719
Speaker 3: There no just city times. Someone's not here, they're automatic.

1529
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 3: That's true.

1530
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, big, yeah, yeah point I on the advice of

1531
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:26,719
Speaker 2: my lawyer, I can't tell I can't make any comment

1532
01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:27,080
Speaker 2: about that.

1533
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:32,400
Speaker 3: Uh, bunny Cakes member for six months. Let's go.

1534
01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 2: My forty first birthday was Monday. I was here, but

1535
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:38,479
Speaker 2: I couldn't post a comment. And like the stream guys,

1536
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 2: thank you bunny Cake. We're telling them what's up. Like

1537
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 2: the stream was so close. We're twenty likes away. Dude

1538
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 2: from the big from the prices right, wheel.

1539
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 3: Spin, dude, everyone loves a wheel spin. Oh, let's keep

1540
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 3: it going.

1541
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:57,840
Speaker 5: Come on, I'll get another twenty Chris Chris tinfoil hat

1542
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 5: with another twenty gift subs the FAMI is just expanding

1543
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 5: at a exponential rate.

1544
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 2: It went from family to army. This is this is

1545
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:12,759
Speaker 2: a militia, a militia of members. We are invading another

1546
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:15,599
Speaker 2: live stream podcast. We have yet to let us know

1547
01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 2: which one we should invade with our army. I like that,

1548
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 2: and we will make a battle plan. I like that,

1549
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 2: and we uh donation from the abandoned babies morning nice,

1550
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm saying noise noice it, guys, thank you very much

1551
01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:34,760
Speaker 2: the abandoned babies. Everyone agrees and thank you for Yeah,

1552
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 2: it clearly took a lot of effort for a bunch

1553
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,560
Speaker 2: of babies to get five dollars together, especially after that.

1554
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 3: That was a more power to you to type dude,

1555
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:51,560
Speaker 3: shout out abandoned babies. Those abandoned babies are independent.

1556
01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:55,280
Speaker 1: Crushing it also, uh dcoded it. I just see milkies

1557
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:56,520
Speaker 1: in the chat.

1558
01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:01,800
Speaker 2: Oh some milk, some milk. It's a little milks. So

1559
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 2: milks is that for? Is that for mister giants?

1560
01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 3: Giants?

1561
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:08,600
Speaker 2: Milks donated memberships.

1562
01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 1: Uh, guys, we're going to figure out something. If Riley

1563
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:15,479
Speaker 1: does one more time he's in stream timeout or something.

1564
01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 3: I don't know. We'll figure out a thing for it.

1565
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 3: And oh, go ahead, you got and eighty nine two

1566
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:26,240
Speaker 3: euros like the stream. Thumbs up. I agree, Ellie Gray.

1567
01:16:26,320 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 3: Remember for two months we.

1568
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 2: Ride at sunset because nobody wants to get up for dawn.

1569
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 3: Thank you, Ellie. That's beautiful. That's so true. More people

1570
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 3: need to be down for that. Yeah, we ride it dusk.

1571
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:42,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, right right at sunset we have we have my

1572
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 1: ties and good times.

1573
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 3: You know, Yes, it's a vibe. Be timed out. No,

1574
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 3: I can't be timed out. You don't know the name

1575
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 3: of your own worm? Yeah, Steve dude? Yeah, oh, now

1576
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:57,320
Speaker 3: you know. I knew his name. I just didn't know

1577
01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:58,160
Speaker 3: what you were talking about.

1578
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 2: There's a lot happening bat that you know now, likely story.

1579
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,479
Speaker 2: Speaking of likely stories, I think we're likely to read

1580
01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:08,480
Speaker 2: this next story.

1581
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:09,639
Speaker 3: Are we otherwise?

1582
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 4: Or maybe we can lolligag and wait for the will

1583
01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:13,839
Speaker 4: to get to five hundos.

1584
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 3: Oh, guys, guys, you know what to do? You know

1585
01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 3: what to do?

1586
01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:21,679
Speaker 2: Come on, come on, Amy with the donation five dollars,

1587
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 2: Thank you, Amy. We shall run it down for Sam

1588
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 2: and the donner cardio bunnies. Running from your problems will

1589
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:33,679
Speaker 2: keep you away from becoming a Reddit story. Time's true, though,

1590
01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 2: Actually I'm pretty sure you're running from your problems will

1591
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 2: make you more likely to be worse. Yeah, and then

1592
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 2: you'll have to be like guys, I can't make heavy

1593
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 2: retails of this.

1594
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:46,160
Speaker 3: It reaches the breaking point.

1595
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 4: Yo, yo yo, In life, you're always gonna have Reddit

1596
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 4: stories happen to you. It just depends on the word count.

1597
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,560
Speaker 4: How how how bad are these reddit's?

1598
01:17:57,600 --> 01:17:57,760
Speaker 3: Right?

1599
01:17:57,920 --> 01:17:59,960
Speaker 4: We need the word count we need we need high

1600
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:02,880
Speaker 4: word count. Are you having like three thousand word count?

1601
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:05,400
Speaker 4: Redis stories happened to you? Or like two hundred and fifty?

1602
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 2: Guys, I gotta come clean really quick. Yeah, I was

1603
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 2: just I was just flaming Riley. Yeah, I was flaming

1604
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,960
Speaker 2: Riley for not knowing his worm's name. And Stella actually

1605
01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:18,519
Speaker 2: made a great point that Riley was the one who

1606
01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:20,839
Speaker 2: told me that that worm's name was Stephen.

1607
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, shamed, uh thing.

1608
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 3: You know what?

1609
01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 2: Actually, no, I'm circling back one to eighty. It's even

1610
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:30,800
Speaker 2: more embarrassing that you didn't even know your own worm's name.

1611
01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:36,160
Speaker 2: You forgot your own worm's name. Oh big daddy, big daddy,

1612
01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 2: what are.

1613
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:48,559
Speaker 3: We doing that? Well, spain will, let's go fifteen more minute? Wow,

1614
01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:54,679
Speaker 3: great wheelspin, great wheel spin team, good stuff, shipp How

1615
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:59,200
Speaker 3: oh do we have? Is that for us? Wait that? Yeah?

1616
01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 3: We got a box a box? Wait?

1617
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 2: I also, is there a rule about talking in accents

1618
01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:05,479
Speaker 2: only from a wheelspin?

1619
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:08,320
Speaker 3: Riley? Oh? Yeah, talking to an accents on the wheel.

1620
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:10,200
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk in a British accent yesterday, and

1621
01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 2: Sofio is like, don't do that, Riley will Riley will implode?

1622
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:19,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I probably would. My British accent so good. I

1623
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 3: shouldn't do that.

1624
01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:24,479
Speaker 2: Guys, we have heat on that box boy, a good

1625
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 2: old box.

1626
01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, the only box I'll beat on his yoursy Hey?

1627
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:33,880
Speaker 3: Do I have a box? You do know? All right,

1628
01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 3: let's open this bad You do have milk, that's for sure.

1629
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:40,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm working on getting milk, baby, but I have

1630
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 4: milk that don't doesn't come from.

1631
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 2: My Yeah, we'll just leave that.

1632
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:52,719
Speaker 3: We are just giving chat way too much to Facebook.

1633
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:57,880
Speaker 3: Don't leave that that. You're gonna spank me? Yeah I

1634
01:19:57,920 --> 01:20:02,040
Speaker 3: probably would. Yeah, I'd like to see you try. Hey, yo, Hey, John,

1635
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:03,840
Speaker 3: walk us through this process. What do you. How big

1636
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 3: is this box? Give me some dimion you we have? Uh?

1637
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 3: I see you on this side it says extra large.

1638
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,759
Speaker 1: Box, extra large. It is an extra large it's addressed

1639
01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 1: to me. Good job on addressing it. Well, hopefully we'll

1640
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:17,360
Speaker 1: have a non docsible means of.

1641
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 3: Responding to this person. Dude, there's just so many It

1642
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 3: is secure. It is you know, sometimes things can be

1643
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 3: too secure, right.

1644
01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:29,879
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, come on, if you don't want anybody

1645
01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:32,080
Speaker 2: breaking into your extra large box, John.

1646
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:34,400
Speaker 3: No, dude, my box is so large they couldn't even

1647
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 3: They don't even have a chance.

1648
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:37,719
Speaker 2: When you have an extra large box, people are gonna

1649
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 2: want to break in.

1650
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, here we go. Whoa, this is the fault? Whoa? Okay?

1651
01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:51,200
Speaker 3: Why see bags? So we got? Are those with hobby peas?

1652
01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 3: Are those with hobby peas? It might be he look

1653
01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:59,760
Speaker 3: like peas. Boom, We have a lot of I can't

1654
01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:05,880
Speaker 3: read Japanese. Help. No, these are Chocolate's chocolate in there?

1655
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:10,040
Speaker 3: There is There are so many things. Okay, guys on

1656
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 3: Earth come from Japan. There is these is that seaweed

1657
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 3: some kind. There might be seaweed rolls, pre roll seed

1658
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 3: pre roll pre rolled pre world seaweed. Dude. This is.

1659
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:31,000
Speaker 1: And then we have these I mean, guys, this is

1660
01:21:31,120 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: uh wow, I mean this is I'm going to crack

1661
01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:36,320
Speaker 1: this and see white a package.

1662
01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:36,800
Speaker 3: This is.

1663
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: This is by far the most impressive package we've probably

1664
01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:43,280
Speaker 1: gotten the last like half year earth or so.

1665
01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:44,800
Speaker 3: Uh.

1666
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:52,640
Speaker 1: And then oh, guys, we have a like Japanese like

1667
01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:53,759
Speaker 1: Lego Garden.

1668
01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:59,719
Speaker 2: This is crazy beautiful Lego Japan. That's legit. Lego Japan

1669
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 2: is this Lego Japan is in the top left. Well,

1670
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:06,080
Speaker 2: that's Lego Japan. Is.

1671
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:11,200
Speaker 3: Wow, that's crazy. That's probably highly collectible. Dude, this is

1672
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:14,280
Speaker 3: probably so expensive the ship if this was.

1673
01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 4: All I think I have an idea who maybe since

1674
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:17,599
Speaker 4: who this is?

1675
01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to look Oh wait, wait wait wait wait

1676
01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:22,480
Speaker 1: wait wait guys, this has a little oh my god,

1677
01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 1: what okay, all four of us have a dedicated.

1678
01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 3: Whoa dude Dominos bro.

1679
01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:38,360
Speaker 1: This goes so hard the Japanese Domino thank you card letter.

1680
01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,800
Speaker 3: Bro. Dude, it's probably like just because it's in Japanese,

1681
01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 3: this goes way too hard.

1682
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:49,880
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna hopefully your username or nondoxible thing

1683
01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 1: is in.

1684
01:22:50,120 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 3: Here later later, later, later, And then Riley it.

1685
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:02,840
Speaker 1: It was close, It was close. All right, here we go,

1686
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:06,320
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. I'm going to this. I shouldn't have

1687
01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:08,559
Speaker 1: thrown that down. God, I keep beating this poor box.

1688
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: Let me open this up. I love this card in casing.

1689
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 3: The eccentric and fearless Dragon is warm to those held deer. Dude, Wow,

1690
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 3: look at that? Wow, look at that? Look at that?

1691
01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:25,320
Speaker 3: Because it's the year of the Dragon.

1692
01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:29,559
Speaker 2: Perhaps, yes, yes, you want to know why. I know

1693
01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 2: that Riley was that the charming and clever rat finds

1694
01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:36,240
Speaker 2: fortune in all their endeavors, and you can't hate on it.

1695
01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:40,000
Speaker 3: You can't hate on it, So shut up. You're a rat.

1696
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:41,800
Speaker 3: I'm a rat, but I thought that was a rat.

1697
01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 3: I think the same age. No, yeah, I'm ninety six,

1698
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 3: right do they shore? I don't know how many years

1699
01:23:49,200 --> 01:23:53,400
Speaker 3: am I pig my pig rooster. Guys, this is amazing,

1700
01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:56,320
Speaker 3: it's awesome. We'll have the other peeps open them later

1701
01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 3: when they're on straight. Yeah.

1702
01:23:57,760 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure if if you open someone else is

1703
01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:02,200
Speaker 2: like fortune, you'd be this.

1704
01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:04,000
Speaker 4: I want to say it's one dumb millennial, but I

1705
01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 4: know they're They were in China, not Japan.

1706
01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:15,920
Speaker 3: No, okay, I'll show you this name. Oh I'm I'm

1707
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:24,919
Speaker 3: running out of willpower to not taste test this. Oh dude, Alyssa,

1708
01:24:25,080 --> 01:24:28,719
Speaker 3: thank you so much. But it is amazing.

1709
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:32,920
Speaker 2: Melissa, Kay, this is crazy. This is the date on

1710
01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:40,639
Speaker 2: this says May four. Also, oh, I'm going to eat

1711
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:43,840
Speaker 2: it anyway. No, after the stream. That's that is the rule.

1712
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 3: No, just no, you cannot eat on this stream the stream. Yeah,

1713
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,080
Speaker 3: that's that's the rule. But what how we know what

1714
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:56,400
Speaker 3: it tastes like? Water after the stream? But do you

1715
01:24:56,520 --> 01:24:59,080
Speaker 3: know what it tastes like? It's we will I can't remember,

1716
01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:04,960
Speaker 3: it's part of it. I know. We gotta get back to.

1717
01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:09,240
Speaker 1: Dude, absolutely the most w package. By the way, this

1718
01:25:09,360 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 1: wasn't even I believe this was from the States. By

1719
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:15,000
Speaker 1: the way, this person so like the fact that they

1720
01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:17,320
Speaker 1: found all of this stuff. I mean this is like

1721
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:21,559
Speaker 1: straight up like bought out of Tokyo, like Japanese lego.

1722
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:25,960
Speaker 1: So anyways, freaking freaking rock. AnyWho who is reading next?

1723
01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 3: Dakota, Dakota, look at the chat, Look at the chat. Nope, nope,

1724
01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:34,439
Speaker 3: we're not looking. Do give the people what they want?

1725
01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 2: Come on, no, it's giving Dakota what he wants. Right,

1726
01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:42,080
Speaker 2: what's the difference. Oh, and Jody Maine, Welcome to the Knights.

1727
01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:42,800
Speaker 3: I went that.

1728
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 2: Sandra Lynn, thanks for the twenty buck dono on the

1729
01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:49,640
Speaker 2: dono link. Love that, love you guys, listening to you

1730
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 2: guys and cleaning around the house.

1731
01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:53,600
Speaker 3: I absolutely love it. Oh and Sharon P. Thanks for

1732
01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 3: the ten bucks. Dakota is a great addition to the

1733
01:25:56,200 --> 01:25:58,639
Speaker 3: host chairs. Thank you, Sharon P.

1734
01:25:58,640 --> 01:26:03,360
Speaker 2: Playing those dimples on mice, Sharon P. Jody made three

1735
01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:05,960
Speaker 2: things on a five bucks USD. Hello from Montana. Thank

1736
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:08,640
Speaker 2: you for making my life a little less stressful.

1737
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:11,200
Speaker 3: Partner, and thanks for making mine stressful. We got you,

1738
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:12,719
Speaker 3: all right, girls.

1739
01:26:13,160 --> 01:26:17,720
Speaker 2: It's about that time, Josephine says, Dakota eats quietly, so

1740
01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:18,639
Speaker 2: let him taste.

1741
01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:22,160
Speaker 3: It will happen eventually. Update. I will join the discord

1742
01:26:22,200 --> 01:26:25,040
Speaker 3: and I will do it in the discord. Thank you

1743
01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 3: Tiffany for being a knight. Here we go.

1744
01:26:30,040 --> 01:26:31,800
Speaker 2: I just found out that my boyfriend was about to

1745
01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:35,600
Speaker 2: propose to me. Buddy changed his mind, probably because he

1746
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:39,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't let me eat an excellent stream. I've been with

1747
01:26:39,160 --> 01:26:42,959
Speaker 2: my boyfriend John for five years.

1748
01:26:47,479 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 3: No way, oh my god.

1749
01:26:51,080 --> 01:26:55,519
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, okay, I'm centered, centering. Oh, we

1750
01:26:55,600 --> 01:27:00,759
Speaker 2: have a pretty awesome relationship, don't John. Great communication, easy

1751
01:27:00,800 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 2: going with good chemistry. We've always talked about getting married,

1752
01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:08,680
Speaker 2: and I have had no doubts that we would be

1753
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 2: getting engaged very soon.

1754
01:27:10,560 --> 01:27:11,759
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from.

1755
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:20,679
Speaker 2: User ace Taste Tasy lick acid a seta lick ass at. Okay,

1756
01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:25,000
Speaker 2: I got it. Yeah, that one so on the r

1757
01:27:25,040 --> 01:27:28,719
Speaker 2: slash Okay story time Starred. It's so recently, John, myself,

1758
01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 2: John's closest friend, and his girlfriend went on a trip

1759
01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 2: to Vegas for several days.

1760
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,320
Speaker 3: We had a great time, all four of us, and on.

1761
01:27:36,280 --> 01:27:38,640
Speaker 2: Our last night there, John told us he wanted to

1762
01:27:38,680 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 2: go to the Bellaggio fountains to see them before we

1763
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,679
Speaker 2: had to leave, which is a good idea because they're

1764
01:27:43,680 --> 01:27:47,320
Speaker 2: pretty cool. Everyone was up for it. We went for

1765
01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 2: a nice dinner beforehand and then began watching the fountains

1766
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:53,599
Speaker 2: and the music came on. It was really romantic and

1767
01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:57,000
Speaker 2: I was really enjoying myself, and that's when John grabbed

1768
01:27:57,000 --> 01:28:00,880
Speaker 2: my wrist. He turned to what he turned me towards him,

1769
01:28:01,240 --> 01:28:09,120
Speaker 2: and I saw that he was sweating profusely, like his

1770
01:28:09,240 --> 01:28:12,640
Speaker 2: face was bright red, and he looked like he was

1771
01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:17,639
Speaker 2: about to pass out from trembling so hard. The whole time,

1772
01:28:17,960 --> 01:28:20,920
Speaker 2: it looked like he was about to say something, but

1773
01:28:21,040 --> 01:28:25,640
Speaker 2: he never did. He just informed all of us that

1774
01:28:25,720 --> 01:28:28,320
Speaker 2: he wasn't feeling well and wanted to go back to

1775
01:28:28,360 --> 01:28:34,920
Speaker 2: the hotel. Our friends looked really puzzled and were whispering

1776
01:28:34,920 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 2: in each other's ears all the way back to the hotel,

1777
01:28:37,280 --> 01:28:40,280
Speaker 2: and I kept asking John if he was okay, and

1778
01:28:40,320 --> 01:28:42,479
Speaker 2: he just said he probably had too much to drink.

1779
01:28:43,600 --> 01:28:46,040
Speaker 2: We've been back for a couple of weeks and he's

1780
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:49,479
Speaker 2: been acting really distant and cold. I honestly knew something

1781
01:28:49,560 --> 01:28:52,880
Speaker 2: was weird that night in Vegas, so I called up

1782
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:56,479
Speaker 2: John's friend's girlfriend, who I'm fairly close to, and asked

1783
01:28:57,240 --> 01:28:59,679
Speaker 2: her if she knew what was going on with John,

1784
01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:02,000
Speaker 2: since he had been at their place a lot this

1785
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:04,200
Speaker 2: past week instead of coming home.

1786
01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:04,960
Speaker 3: Hmm.

1787
01:29:05,960 --> 01:29:09,679
Speaker 2: Eventually, she spilled the beans and told me he had

1788
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:12,000
Speaker 2: plans of proposing to me that night at the fountains,

1789
01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:15,240
Speaker 2: but then he didn't. That's why the two of them

1790
01:29:15,280 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 2: had been acting all confused. I kept grilling her, and

1791
01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:21,639
Speaker 2: she also told me that John had told his friend

1792
01:29:21,680 --> 01:29:27,160
Speaker 2: that it didn't feel right, Oh, don't say that.

1793
01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:28,759
Speaker 3: Keep that to yourself, dude.

1794
01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:30,840
Speaker 2: She made me promise not to tell John that I

1795
01:29:30,920 --> 01:29:33,559
Speaker 2: knew because she didn't want anyone to be upset with her.

1796
01:29:33,880 --> 01:29:34,160
Speaker 3: Girl.

1797
01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 2: Okay, pause, because you just messed all this up by

1798
01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:40,000
Speaker 2: letting that out of the bag. Man.

1799
01:29:40,320 --> 01:29:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, secrets sometimes you keep them. Yeah, you know, like I.

1800
01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:53,280
Speaker 2: My god, John, go ahead, fine when we explained it

1801
01:29:53,320 --> 01:29:55,920
Speaker 2: to you after stream, Oh boy, I cannot wait.

1802
01:29:56,280 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 3: I cannot wait. Go ahead, go ahead, eat as many

1803
01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:02,280
Speaker 3: as you want, now, any as you want. Silverizers takes

1804
01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:04,200
Speaker 3: a five donations. Let to kind of eat the stack

1805
01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 3: on camera, and I'll buy fifteen memberships. Beat my guests.

1806
01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:10,080
Speaker 3: After the stream is getting to be like, but I

1807
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:13,640
Speaker 3: await that moment. Can't go for it, go for it,

1808
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:15,960
Speaker 3: you know? Yeah?

1809
01:30:15,960 --> 01:30:18,720
Speaker 2: All right, we're putting the pause because the friend told her,

1810
01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:20,719
Speaker 2: told that your.

1811
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:22,519
Speaker 3: Husband doesn't even know if he wants to marry or not.

1812
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 3: All right? Smells sweet. Oh it's not crunchy. I thought

1813
01:30:27,000 --> 01:30:28,840
Speaker 3: it would be crunchy. Yeah, I thought so too. Is

1814
01:30:28,880 --> 01:30:31,479
Speaker 3: it like not crunching at all? It's soft. Give us a

1815
01:30:31,479 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 3: taste flavor, but it will ball and put two in there,

1816
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:36,599
Speaker 3: Put another one in there.

1817
01:30:36,640 --> 01:30:42,599
Speaker 2: I thought there'd be chocolate. There's no chocolate. Fa like

1818
01:30:42,600 --> 01:30:44,920
Speaker 2: a yogurt raisin, but he's like a square.

1819
01:30:45,520 --> 01:30:47,880
Speaker 3: It is a sweeter, savory Eat it. I don't know

1820
01:30:47,960 --> 01:30:51,040
Speaker 3: if you can see eat it. It looks like there's

1821
01:30:51,080 --> 01:30:53,479
Speaker 3: like a chunk of chocolate in there, but it's not.

1822
01:30:53,760 --> 01:30:58,680
Speaker 3: It's something else. Good boy, your move, Silverizer. Wow it

1823
01:30:58,800 --> 01:31:03,040
Speaker 3: is it's tasty. Get real close to the mic. Can

1824
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 3: eat as loud as I would that. Oh God, they're

1825
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:11,519
Speaker 3: not going down fast though. Need some water, brig dog,

1826
01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:16,519
Speaker 3: I gotcham don't worry about me. Hm hm hm hmm.

1827
01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 3: There we go.

1828
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:17,840
Speaker 2: Is it?

1829
01:31:18,000 --> 01:31:22,519
Speaker 3: Is it savory or sweet? It's sweet, A little little tangy,

1830
01:31:22,600 --> 01:31:23,320
Speaker 3: a little tangy.

1831
01:31:23,520 --> 01:31:26,080
Speaker 2: It's like I feel like it's the yogurt cover rag

1832
01:31:26,120 --> 01:31:28,559
Speaker 2: and it tastes like it's like a trail mixed edition.

1833
01:31:29,240 --> 01:31:29,599
Speaker 2: Hm hmm.

1834
01:31:29,880 --> 01:31:34,160
Speaker 3: I like that. I'm so surprised. I'm excited. I don't

1835
01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:36,080
Speaker 3: think it's a happy oca ball. I would guess not,

1836
01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:48,000
Speaker 3: but okay, I don't know. There we go. We love

1837
01:31:48,160 --> 01:31:53,800
Speaker 3: someone that keeps their word. Yes, Oh my god, I

1838
01:31:53,800 --> 01:32:00,000
Speaker 3: am vindicated. Wow, Yes, I can't believe they are. I'm speechless.

1839
01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:09,759
Speaker 1: Who I'm speechless, guys, Silver Rizer fifty donated membership, followed

1840
01:32:09,760 --> 01:32:14,080
Speaker 1: by Silver Giants Milk five gifted memberships.

1841
01:32:14,840 --> 01:32:17,479
Speaker 2: What a what a bunch of babes we got in

1842
01:32:17,520 --> 01:32:18,400
Speaker 2: the chat right now?

1843
01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:21,120
Speaker 3: This is a Riley. This is the craziest street. This

1844
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:23,320
Speaker 3: is pretty cool this whole month.

1845
01:32:26,080 --> 01:32:30,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's go, all right, we got more, We

1846
01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:31,960
Speaker 2: have more story to tell.

1847
01:32:32,800 --> 01:32:35,080
Speaker 4: I did join a basketball league, so like I'm hoping

1848
01:32:35,120 --> 01:32:36,639
Speaker 4: to get out here of a reasonable time.

1849
01:32:36,880 --> 01:32:40,400
Speaker 3: I just want you guys to know that, Yeah, we're

1850
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:43,800
Speaker 3: gonna see okay, guys.

1851
01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:49,200
Speaker 2: So where we left off was that her friend told

1852
01:32:49,240 --> 01:32:51,920
Speaker 2: her to promise not to tell John that she knew

1853
01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:55,400
Speaker 2: that he felt cold about the proposal because she didn't

1854
01:32:55,400 --> 01:32:57,800
Speaker 2: want people to be upset with her for being an

1855
01:32:57,840 --> 01:32:58,479
Speaker 2: income poop.

1856
01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:01,839
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. I'm feeling sick to my stomach.

1857
01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:05,000
Speaker 2: We live together, and he has been spending all of

1858
01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:07,320
Speaker 2: his time at his friend's house where at his parents' place.

1859
01:33:07,640 --> 01:33:10,479
Speaker 2: Since we got back. He barely calls me a response

1860
01:33:10,520 --> 01:33:13,240
Speaker 2: to my text anymore. I don't know what's happened that night,

1861
01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 2: but I feel like he's about to end things. Oh Joey,

1862
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:22,439
Speaker 2: that's no one wants to be like position. Yeah, like

1863
01:33:22,600 --> 01:33:26,719
Speaker 2: she feels like her well what would have been her fiance. Yeah,

1864
01:33:27,040 --> 01:33:30,080
Speaker 2: is now gonna get cold feet and cut off the relationship.

1865
01:33:30,160 --> 01:33:32,040
Speaker 3: She's zero to one hundred real quick. It is a

1866
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:35,240
Speaker 3: complete switch up. Those fountains he used, like the Bollaggio

1867
01:33:35,280 --> 01:33:37,479
Speaker 3: founds made me realize I actually don't like you at all.

1868
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:42,240
Speaker 2: God, oh God, Okay. I want to talk to him,

1869
01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:44,559
Speaker 2: but I don't know how to approach the issue. Do

1870
01:33:44,640 --> 01:33:47,000
Speaker 2: I just say, hey, I heard you were gonna pop

1871
01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:48,960
Speaker 2: the question the other night, but changed your mind?

1872
01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:53,639
Speaker 3: What gives? Uh? Was he really not? Am I freaking out?

1873
01:33:54,120 --> 01:33:57,080
Speaker 3: Whoa whoa Tina Tina?

1874
01:33:57,320 --> 01:33:57,559
Speaker 2: Wow?

1875
01:33:57,960 --> 01:34:02,080
Speaker 3: Okay it's uh guys, we ride.

1876
01:34:03,720 --> 01:34:06,040
Speaker 2: Here, we are Yeah, sorry, Riley, You're gonna have to

1877
01:34:06,040 --> 01:34:08,439
Speaker 2: wait to drop five points in your league.

1878
01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:12,599
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, look look all right, all right, okay, it's

1879
01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:19,040
Speaker 4: a new team that was conference. I scored seven on Sunday.

1880
01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:22,080
Speaker 4: It was against the undefeated team. It's okay, I'm working.

1881
01:34:22,200 --> 01:34:24,760
Speaker 3: Okay, guys. To be clear, there was a joke on

1882
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:33,960
Speaker 3: Ley's good at basketball. Yeah. Oh, my accessories are falling

1883
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:37,280
Speaker 3: off of my wrists. Hate Dakota. Uh, Just so you know,

1884
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 3: I hope you packed your toothbrush. Yeah, I'm I'm, I'm here.

1885
01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:46,040
Speaker 2: To stay, pair of underwear, giants milk because uh, I

1886
01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:47,600
Speaker 2: always keep a fresh eye on me. You know.

1887
01:34:48,640 --> 01:34:52,080
Speaker 4: Actually, do have like eight new toothbrush in my bathroom

1888
01:34:52,080 --> 01:34:52,840
Speaker 4: in because you need something.

1889
01:34:53,400 --> 01:34:57,479
Speaker 3: We can three D we can dree d print me

1890
01:34:57,520 --> 01:34:59,400
Speaker 3: new teeth and I'll never have to brush them again.

1891
01:34:59,520 --> 01:35:01,000
Speaker 3: By the way, just to make sure we shout it out.

1892
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:03,719
Speaker 3: Kristen fall Hot for the twenty Gifted Memberships and Giant

1893
01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:09,760
Speaker 3: Smoke with the five story. Okay, let's go.

1894
01:35:10,360 --> 01:35:12,880
Speaker 2: So he's barely calling. She feels like he's about to

1895
01:35:12,960 --> 01:35:15,000
Speaker 2: end things. I want to talk to him, but I

1896
01:35:15,040 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 2: don't know how to approach the itch you do, I

1897
01:35:16,560 --> 01:35:18,320
Speaker 2: just say, hey, I heard that you were going to

1898
01:35:18,360 --> 01:35:20,720
Speaker 2: pop the question the other night, but you changed your mind.

1899
01:35:20,800 --> 01:35:23,680
Speaker 3: Hey, what gives huh? Was he really nervous or am

1900
01:35:23,720 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 3: I freaking out?

1901
01:35:24,960 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 2: TLDR found out my boyfriend was going to propose but

1902
01:35:27,439 --> 01:35:29,720
Speaker 2: changed his mind at the very last minute, said it

1903
01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:33,320
Speaker 2: didn't feel right, don't know what to do. Edit, He'll

1904
01:35:33,320 --> 01:35:35,439
Speaker 2: be home shortly. I told him over the phone I

1905
01:35:35,479 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 2: needed to talk to him, and his words were, I

1906
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:38,280
Speaker 2: need to.

1907
01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:39,520
Speaker 3: Talk to you too.

1908
01:35:39,960 --> 01:35:43,080
Speaker 2: I'll update when I can. Thanks for the advice, folks.

1909
01:35:43,080 --> 01:35:45,320
Speaker 2: And we got an update. We got to update one,

1910
01:35:45,800 --> 01:35:47,839
Speaker 2: which means there will be more than one update.

1911
01:35:49,680 --> 01:35:52,639
Speaker 3: I don't like how this is looking. I don't like it.

1912
01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:54,519
Speaker 3: This is too much.

1913
01:35:55,280 --> 01:35:57,439
Speaker 2: So you think it's gonna just be like a full

1914
01:35:57,560 --> 01:36:00,800
Speaker 2: like nuclear bomb like fallout, like it's over.

1915
01:36:01,160 --> 01:36:04,360
Speaker 1: It has to be, it should and has to be

1916
01:36:04,439 --> 01:36:05,480
Speaker 1: a misunderstanding.

1917
01:36:06,439 --> 01:36:09,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean, well, to be fair, it's I mean,

1918
01:36:10,160 --> 01:36:13,760
Speaker 2: maybe he's like he can just be like nervous on

1919
01:36:13,800 --> 01:36:15,840
Speaker 2: his own end. It doesn't necessarily have to be like

1920
01:36:16,680 --> 01:36:20,559
Speaker 2: because of op Like it could be like it didn't

1921
01:36:20,600 --> 01:36:22,840
Speaker 2: feel right because of Jimmy. It could be something with him.

1922
01:36:22,880 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 2: It's like maybe this just wasn't the right place or

1923
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:25,439
Speaker 2: it wasn't the right time.

1924
01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:31,599
Speaker 3: Maybe could be are you allergic to her? John? Bless me, God,

1925
01:36:31,600 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 3: bless you, John, Thank you, God bless you.

1926
01:36:36,479 --> 01:36:40,719
Speaker 2: But this is crazy in all seriousness, this I feel

1927
01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:43,360
Speaker 2: like this is all like a complete misunderstanding. And if

1928
01:36:43,360 --> 01:36:44,960
Speaker 2: this is if he really was like, oh I feel

1929
01:36:45,000 --> 01:36:48,360
Speaker 2: cold feet and that's not the way it's going. But

1930
01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:52,559
Speaker 2: our feet are hot, our piping red hot, burning flesh

1931
01:36:52,680 --> 01:36:58,080
Speaker 2: off our toebones because Kristin foil Hot gifted twenty memberships,

1932
01:36:58,640 --> 01:37:03,120
Speaker 2: and then Mama Mama or Lord another five to put

1933
01:37:03,120 --> 01:37:05,559
Speaker 2: a seventy cents over the line for.

1934
01:37:07,080 --> 01:37:09,760
Speaker 1: Wow, this is uh oh yeah, this is getting a

1935
01:37:09,760 --> 01:37:10,560
Speaker 1: little ludicrous.

1936
01:37:10,800 --> 01:37:11,160
Speaker 3: Guys.

1937
01:37:11,240 --> 01:37:13,400
Speaker 2: I'll be here my whole life if you want me,

1938
01:37:13,720 --> 01:37:15,679
Speaker 2: if you'll keep me. Guys, we got ten.

1939
01:37:15,560 --> 01:37:20,280
Speaker 3: More, guys. We are we are far from over. Let's

1940
01:37:20,360 --> 01:37:22,839
Speaker 3: go hours. Okay.

1941
01:37:22,920 --> 01:37:25,320
Speaker 2: So I'm predicting that they actually that they worked this out.

1942
01:37:26,080 --> 01:37:28,840
Speaker 2: I'm predicting this kids smoothed over me too. I'm predicting

1943
01:37:28,880 --> 01:37:31,599
Speaker 2: that that he's like, hey, yeah, I got to talk.

1944
01:37:31,760 --> 01:37:33,880
Speaker 2: I wanted to propose to you, and it didn't feel right.

1945
01:37:34,080 --> 01:37:35,880
Speaker 2: Maybe the finances aren't lined up.

1946
01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:38,080
Speaker 3: I don't know. That's got to be a big you know,

1947
01:37:38,120 --> 01:37:40,120
Speaker 3: it's a big reason I agree with you. It's something there,

1948
01:37:40,240 --> 01:37:42,479
Speaker 3: something like that. I just can't believe that it would

1949
01:37:42,520 --> 01:37:43,920
Speaker 3: be just because he's like I don't like you.

1950
01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, here we go. Update time, baby, and oh everyone.

1951
01:37:50,080 --> 01:37:53,759
Speaker 2: I apologize for not updating sooner, but a lot has happened.

1952
01:37:54,200 --> 01:37:55,200
Speaker 3: I'd like to say.

1953
01:37:55,000 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 2: Thank you to everyone who posted comments and to those

1954
01:37:58,120 --> 01:38:02,720
Speaker 2: who tried to reassure me it's reassuring so far. So

1955
01:38:03,280 --> 01:38:05,600
Speaker 2: John came home last night around eleven thirty as I

1956
01:38:05,640 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 2: was watching TV in our bedroom.

1957
01:38:07,640 --> 01:38:08,840
Speaker 3: He came in and.

1958
01:38:08,720 --> 01:38:13,759
Speaker 2: Looked like absolute sniff His eyes looked tired and baggy,

1959
01:38:13,800 --> 01:38:17,040
Speaker 2: and he smelled like beer. He apologized to me for

1960
01:38:17,080 --> 01:38:19,120
Speaker 2: the way he had been acting recently and told me

1961
01:38:19,200 --> 01:38:23,360
Speaker 2: he knew that I knew about the almost proposal, as

1962
01:38:23,400 --> 01:38:25,960
Speaker 2: he had talked to his friend Mike, and he told

1963
01:38:26,080 --> 01:38:30,920
Speaker 2: John that his girlfriend Tara had told me everything, so okay,

1964
01:38:31,040 --> 01:38:32,320
Speaker 2: if for future reference.

1965
01:38:32,120 --> 01:38:33,679
Speaker 3: Never tell these people secrets.

1966
01:38:35,400 --> 01:38:37,719
Speaker 2: He basically said to me that he had the whole

1967
01:38:37,720 --> 01:38:39,840
Speaker 2: thing planned out, that he was going to propose, and

1968
01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:42,160
Speaker 2: Tara and Mike would take pictures and then we would

1969
01:38:42,160 --> 01:38:45,479
Speaker 2: go back to a romantic, more expensive room in our hotel,

1970
01:38:45,920 --> 01:38:47,800
Speaker 2: which Mike and Tara had to end up staying in

1971
01:38:47,800 --> 01:38:50,000
Speaker 2: that night. So as to make sure I wasn't aware

1972
01:38:50,000 --> 01:38:52,559
Speaker 2: of the fact that John was supposed to propose, they

1973
01:38:52,600 --> 01:38:55,040
Speaker 2: switched key cards while I was walking back. I mean,

1974
01:38:55,200 --> 01:38:57,080
Speaker 2: free room upgrade for Mike and Tara.

1975
01:38:57,240 --> 01:38:58,440
Speaker 3: Good for them.

1976
01:38:58,680 --> 01:39:01,880
Speaker 2: He then told me what I was afraid of. It

1977
01:39:02,080 --> 01:39:05,120
Speaker 2: just didn't feel right. I was looking at you and

1978
01:39:05,200 --> 01:39:07,040
Speaker 2: it just wasn't what I wanted.

1979
01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:14,679
Speaker 3: Oh is the moment of proposing. Ouch. Dude.

1980
01:39:16,200 --> 01:39:18,360
Speaker 2: He told me that he had been nervous ever since

1981
01:39:18,400 --> 01:39:21,400
Speaker 2: he bought the ring, and that he thought it would

1982
01:39:21,439 --> 01:39:22,959
Speaker 2: go away once he actually proposed.

1983
01:39:23,640 --> 01:39:25,559
Speaker 3: In the moment, he said he knew that.

1984
01:39:25,520 --> 01:39:28,080
Speaker 2: It was not what he wanted and thought it would

1985
01:39:28,080 --> 01:39:30,880
Speaker 2: be better to not ask me to marry him because it.

1986
01:39:30,840 --> 01:39:33,240
Speaker 3: Knew he knew it wasn't what he'd want in a

1987
01:39:33,479 --> 01:39:34,479
Speaker 3: long run.

1988
01:39:37,360 --> 01:39:41,400
Speaker 2: Why would you bring yourself to that point if you're like, dude,

1989
01:39:42,320 --> 01:39:45,840
Speaker 2: that's that's like I never thought i'd find something worse

1990
01:39:45,880 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 2: than like, we'll have kids, that'll fix everything.

1991
01:39:48,360 --> 01:39:49,240
Speaker 3: I think it might be this.

1992
01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like planning out an entire proposal and then

1993
01:39:53,479 --> 01:39:57,439
Speaker 2: being like, oh, I thought the fountains were cuterer than

1994
01:39:57,439 --> 01:39:58,680
Speaker 2: you now that I think about it.

1995
01:39:58,680 --> 01:39:59,920
Speaker 3: And I was like, I was just looking at you

1996
01:40:00,120 --> 01:40:01,920
Speaker 3: being like, I can't be with you forever.

1997
01:40:02,040 --> 01:40:04,280
Speaker 1: No, it's not really my like vibe, you know, like

1998
01:40:04,320 --> 01:40:06,360
Speaker 1: not even like the vibes that I'm like trying to

1999
01:40:06,479 --> 01:40:06,760
Speaker 1: vie with.

2000
01:40:07,160 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 2: Like, I just knew in that moment if I'm married you,

2001
01:40:10,479 --> 01:40:12,519
Speaker 2: I'd be unhappy for the rest of my life.

2002
01:40:12,640 --> 01:40:14,320
Speaker 1: I just knew right there and I didn't, you know,

2003
01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 1: It's not like I could like think before that moment

2004
01:40:16,640 --> 01:40:18,640
Speaker 1: or like like think at all, Like, hey, maybe let

2005
01:40:18,680 --> 01:40:21,040
Speaker 1: me just like not proposed, like not set the expectation

2006
01:40:21,120 --> 01:40:22,040
Speaker 1: absolutely crushed.

2007
01:40:21,840 --> 01:40:23,639
Speaker 3: And destroy you like I couldn't do that. Of course

2008
01:40:23,680 --> 01:40:24,360
Speaker 3: everyone knows.

2009
01:40:24,439 --> 01:40:26,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, and and you know what, all this goes

2010
01:40:26,600 --> 01:40:28,559
Speaker 2: back to the friends not being able to just keep

2011
01:40:28,600 --> 01:40:31,479
Speaker 2: quiet about this, like maybe this was salvageable, but.

2012
01:40:31,280 --> 01:40:35,000
Speaker 3: But you know would actually no, it's in salvigible it's him,

2013
01:40:35,040 --> 01:40:36,760
Speaker 3: this guy. It's this guy's fault. This guy.

2014
01:40:36,840 --> 01:40:39,680
Speaker 1: This guy starts flip flopper, I will you know, the

2015
01:40:39,760 --> 01:40:42,760
Speaker 1: friends absolutely suck, but you know what, I'll put him

2016
01:40:42,760 --> 01:40:46,840
Speaker 1: to the side. This guy's insane. Yeah, insane, Okay, dude.

2017
01:40:48,080 --> 01:40:51,400
Speaker 3: Oh so at this point I'm in hysterics as I

2018
01:40:51,439 --> 01:40:53,840
Speaker 3: pretty much know that this is the end of the relationship.

2019
01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:56,320
Speaker 3: I tried to be calm and rational about it, but

2020
01:40:56,360 --> 01:40:58,599
Speaker 3: there was one point where I was crying so hard

2021
01:40:58,600 --> 01:41:01,120
Speaker 3: that I literally got down on my knees, put my

2022
01:41:01,240 --> 01:41:03,679
Speaker 3: head in his lap while he sat on the couch,

2023
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:10,160
Speaker 3: and just kept incoherently saying please in between sobs. Not

2024
01:41:10,320 --> 01:41:15,599
Speaker 3: my proudest moment. I feel for you, op my goodness.

2025
01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:19,280
Speaker 2: But at that moment, this man was my best friend,

2026
01:41:19,520 --> 01:41:22,320
Speaker 2: the future father of my children. I just never ever,

2027
01:41:22,400 --> 01:41:25,599
Speaker 2: in a million years pictured our relationship coming to this point.

2028
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:28,800
Speaker 2: He ended it with me last night because it didn't

2029
01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:31,120
Speaker 2: feel right, and that's all he could say to me

2030
01:41:31,360 --> 01:41:35,040
Speaker 2: over and over. It just doesn't feel right anymore. I

2031
01:41:35,120 --> 01:41:37,880
Speaker 2: can't see myself with you, and they have a kid

2032
01:41:37,920 --> 01:41:38,360
Speaker 2: on the way.

2033
01:41:39,200 --> 01:41:40,040
Speaker 3: No, I don't think so.

2034
01:41:40,120 --> 01:41:42,920
Speaker 2: I think it was more of like the hypothetical future

2035
01:41:43,000 --> 01:41:45,639
Speaker 2: children would have been with this guy. Oh, I feel

2036
01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:48,559
Speaker 2: you if there was a kid, if there was a kid.

2037
01:41:48,560 --> 01:41:51,679
Speaker 2: Bacon in the oven, the biological oven.

2038
01:41:51,800 --> 01:41:52,920
Speaker 3: Dude, those are hard.

2039
01:41:53,160 --> 01:41:54,960
Speaker 4: Whenever you look at a woman, you're like, come on,

2040
01:41:55,080 --> 01:41:56,479
Speaker 4: this could be the mother of my children.

2041
01:41:57,040 --> 01:42:00,520
Speaker 3: That's that's surreal. That's real stuff. That's what's the next.

2042
01:42:01,520 --> 01:42:03,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we do have more than one update, folks.

2043
01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:08,360
Speaker 2: So at that point I could barely breathe feels like

2044
01:42:08,360 --> 01:42:10,320
Speaker 2: I'm having a panic attack. So I call my mom

2045
01:42:10,360 --> 01:42:12,320
Speaker 2: and she comes to pick me up from our place.

2046
01:42:12,880 --> 01:42:15,320
Speaker 2: My poor mom, she just looked so helpless while I

2047
01:42:15,360 --> 01:42:17,360
Speaker 2: sat there in the car crying so hard.

2048
01:42:17,400 --> 01:42:18,960
Speaker 3: I eventually got a nosebleed.

2049
01:42:19,520 --> 01:42:22,639
Speaker 2: Oh man, this was the worst day of Op's life.

2050
01:42:22,760 --> 01:42:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah this is oh man, I'm justifiably.

2051
01:42:27,600 --> 01:42:31,280
Speaker 3: So uh yeah, So I wish I could say this

2052
01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:33,360
Speaker 3: is the end of the story. But more has happened

2053
01:42:33,400 --> 01:42:34,240
Speaker 3: since last night.

2054
01:42:34,720 --> 01:42:37,479
Speaker 2: This morning, I'm on Facebook looking through a bunch of

2055
01:42:37,520 --> 01:42:40,719
Speaker 2: old pictures of John and me, sobbing uncontrollably and sending

2056
01:42:40,760 --> 01:42:44,080
Speaker 2: him text after texts with reasons why we should be together,

2057
01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:48,479
Speaker 2: and I eventually stumble onto Mike's page through a tagged photo.

2058
01:42:49,160 --> 01:42:51,640
Speaker 2: He updated his status from a few hours ago to

2059
01:42:51,720 --> 01:42:55,320
Speaker 2: something along the lines of California was amazing, wish work

2060
01:42:55,360 --> 01:42:58,960
Speaker 2: would send me for more than five days. My stomach

2061
01:42:59,000 --> 01:43:01,960
Speaker 2: started doing flips because John kept telling me he was

2062
01:43:02,000 --> 01:43:05,479
Speaker 2: spending the days he was practically ignoring me with Mike.

2063
01:43:06,120 --> 01:43:10,479
Speaker 2: But Mike was in California for several days and we

2064
01:43:10,520 --> 01:43:18,479
Speaker 2: are in Canada, so not very close. Oh another layer

2065
01:43:18,600 --> 01:43:23,360
Speaker 2: has been discovered, Oh, the honestly the most predictable layer,

2066
01:43:23,400 --> 01:43:25,760
Speaker 2: which he is like, this doesn't feel right because I'm

2067
01:43:25,880 --> 01:43:26,720
Speaker 2: cheating on you.

2068
01:43:26,840 --> 01:43:31,400
Speaker 3: But we didn't even predict it. Now, oh yo left.

2069
01:43:31,640 --> 01:43:34,080
Speaker 3: We were so we were so shocked, we.

2070
01:43:33,960 --> 01:43:37,200
Speaker 1: Were from the insanity. We couldn't even possibly fathom that.

2071
01:43:37,400 --> 01:43:39,559
Speaker 3: Oh we were blinded by the lad.

2072
01:43:39,760 --> 01:43:43,760
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, wow, I apologize to everyone who just heard

2073
01:43:43,840 --> 01:43:48,800
Speaker 2: me sing that I freaked. I called Mike from my

2074
01:43:48,840 --> 01:43:51,360
Speaker 2: house phone and when he answered, I said, Hey, it's

2075
01:43:51,920 --> 01:43:54,320
Speaker 2: Op's name that I can't pronounce for the life of me,

2076
01:43:54,920 --> 01:43:57,040
Speaker 2: and all he could say after a few seconds of

2077
01:43:57,080 --> 01:43:59,320
Speaker 2: silence was frick.

2078
01:44:00,479 --> 01:44:00,719
Speaker 3: Eh.

2079
01:44:01,800 --> 01:44:07,479
Speaker 2: Basically, Mike's been covering for John while John is spending

2080
01:44:07,520 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 2: time with the girl he's been apparently effing for the

2081
01:44:10,479 --> 01:44:12,520
Speaker 2: past six months.

2082
01:44:12,560 --> 01:44:19,320
Speaker 3: Oh my, John, don't play innocent. Don't play innocent over

2083
01:44:19,360 --> 01:44:22,080
Speaker 3: there now me six months memberships we have did? Come on?

2084
01:44:23,520 --> 01:44:27,200
Speaker 3: Come on, mister John, I have a girlfriend. That's me.

2085
01:44:27,760 --> 01:44:32,760
Speaker 3: I do have a girlfriend, and I am loyal to her. Okay,

2086
01:44:33,160 --> 01:44:35,679
Speaker 3: I know this girl. Oh god, Oh no.

2087
01:44:35,880 --> 01:44:38,839
Speaker 2: John works with her and she's always been really sweet

2088
01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:39,799
Speaker 2: to me whenever I've.

2089
01:44:39,680 --> 01:44:45,120
Speaker 3: Seen her at John's work related events. Oh God, someone

2090
01:44:45,160 --> 01:44:45,519
Speaker 3: give that.

2091
01:44:49,320 --> 01:44:52,200
Speaker 2: Mike told me that John had told him he was

2092
01:44:52,280 --> 01:44:53,400
Speaker 2: falling in love with her.

2093
01:44:56,520 --> 01:45:01,320
Speaker 3: He said this after the incident in Vaga. He's been

2094
01:45:01,360 --> 01:45:04,679
Speaker 3: spending almost all of the past two weeks with her.

2095
01:45:05,120 --> 01:45:07,519
Speaker 3: Mike then told me he had promised not to say

2096
01:45:07,560 --> 01:45:09,920
Speaker 3: a word to anyone, not even Tara, but he felt

2097
01:45:09,960 --> 01:45:12,360
Speaker 3: guilty and was glad that I called him.

2098
01:45:12,800 --> 01:45:16,080
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, I'm glad that Op's terrible ex

2099
01:45:16,200 --> 01:45:20,240
Speaker 2: boyfriend decided to confide in the terrible secret keepers, right,

2100
01:45:20,320 --> 01:45:22,240
Speaker 2: I'm glad, man, God, thank god.

2101
01:45:22,439 --> 01:45:25,919
Speaker 3: Now they're terrible secret keeping is playing to our advantage.

2102
01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:29,360
Speaker 2: It's extremely crucial that they cannot eat their yap shut.

2103
01:45:29,960 --> 01:45:32,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, god. Oh yeah. Yeah.

2104
01:45:33,040 --> 01:45:35,400
Speaker 2: He apologized and said that if I had to tell

2105
01:45:35,479 --> 01:45:40,160
Speaker 2: John that he told me, I could. Okay, that is

2106
01:45:40,200 --> 01:45:43,559
Speaker 2: all I know for now. I haven't bothered contacting John yet,

2107
01:45:43,760 --> 01:45:45,640
Speaker 2: and I don't know if Mike told him that.

2108
01:45:45,720 --> 01:45:48,040
Speaker 3: I know. I don't know what I'm going to do.

2109
01:45:48,439 --> 01:45:50,800
Speaker 3: I've been throwing up all day. Oh my god.

2110
01:45:51,120 --> 01:45:53,439
Speaker 2: I took one of my moms out of vans, and

2111
01:45:53,520 --> 01:45:56,559
Speaker 2: I am feeling a bit calmer right now. To be clear,

2112
01:45:56,600 --> 01:45:59,120
Speaker 2: we do not condone that kind of behavior, correct, But

2113
01:45:59,280 --> 01:46:02,560
Speaker 2: whenever I think it, which is practically all that consumes

2114
01:46:02,640 --> 01:46:06,840
Speaker 2: my thoughts, I feel disgusted, humiliated, and devastated. It actually

2115
01:46:06,880 --> 01:46:09,320
Speaker 2: feels like my heart is breaking into and I have

2116
01:46:09,479 --> 01:46:10,520
Speaker 2: no control.

2117
01:46:11,120 --> 01:46:11,479
Speaker 3: Ouch.

2118
01:46:12,360 --> 01:46:14,120
Speaker 2: I need to get my stuff from our place. I

2119
01:46:14,160 --> 01:46:16,479
Speaker 2: need to find a new place. We have a dog.

2120
01:46:16,720 --> 01:46:19,120
Speaker 2: Who gets the dog? You get the dog? Yeah, you

2121
01:46:19,160 --> 01:46:22,040
Speaker 2: get the dog. Get you get the dogs ever you want.

2122
01:46:21,960 --> 01:46:26,000
Speaker 3: Literally anything anything. I love my dog. It all feels

2123
01:46:26,000 --> 01:46:26,599
Speaker 3: so surreal.

2124
01:46:27,280 --> 01:46:27,400
Speaker 6: Ugh.

2125
01:46:28,840 --> 01:46:30,559
Speaker 2: John called me a bunch of times while I was

2126
01:46:30,600 --> 01:46:35,599
Speaker 2: in uh RX induced slash depression coma. I woke up

2127
01:46:35,640 --> 01:46:37,760
Speaker 2: as he was calling me again and kind of just

2128
01:46:37,880 --> 01:46:40,479
Speaker 2: answered the phone without thinking about it. He was crying

2129
01:46:40,520 --> 01:46:43,120
Speaker 2: and apologizing. I guess Mike told him that I knew,

2130
01:46:43,439 --> 01:46:47,600
Speaker 2: and saying he was confused. Oh a, babe, I'm so confused.

2131
01:46:47,720 --> 01:46:49,599
Speaker 2: I don't understand what happened.

2132
01:46:49,840 --> 01:46:52,120
Speaker 3: I don't know, like oh I said, like, I was

2133
01:46:52,160 --> 01:46:54,519
Speaker 3: just like expressing you like my love, and then you don't,

2134
01:46:54,600 --> 01:46:58,280
Speaker 3: like so upset. I don't underd I just got confused.

2135
01:46:58,280 --> 01:47:00,160
Speaker 3: I thought you guys, I thought that was you that

2136
01:47:00,200 --> 01:47:01,920
Speaker 3: I was with that whole time. I thought we were

2137
01:47:01,920 --> 01:47:06,680
Speaker 3: working together. I I did it. It's good, right. I

2138
01:47:06,680 --> 01:47:08,519
Speaker 3: don't even know what cheating is. What do you mean

2139
01:47:08,640 --> 01:47:11,120
Speaker 3: like on a test? Howday? What do you mean? Are

2140
01:47:11,200 --> 01:47:14,400
Speaker 3: you am? I in not in school anymore? I forget it.

2141
01:47:14,800 --> 01:47:18,040
Speaker 2: That's what he sounds like, because he's a big dingus

2142
01:47:18,360 --> 01:47:20,679
Speaker 2: dorcas bing bong loser.

2143
01:47:20,840 --> 01:47:23,919
Speaker 3: Shut up, John, op.

2144
01:47:25,840 --> 01:47:30,759
Speaker 2: Opie's boyfriend, Yes, Opie's boyfriend ex boyfriend got him, okay,

2145
01:47:30,960 --> 01:47:33,240
Speaker 2: So he was saying he's confused. He asked me where

2146
01:47:33,240 --> 01:47:34,880
Speaker 2: I was, and I lied, and I said I was

2147
01:47:34,920 --> 01:47:37,160
Speaker 2: with my sister an hour away from her from here,

2148
01:47:37,280 --> 01:47:40,839
Speaker 2: at her place. I asked him if he was with her,

2149
01:47:41,400 --> 01:47:43,679
Speaker 2: and he said yes, but that he'd.

2150
01:47:43,520 --> 01:47:45,880
Speaker 3: Be home tomorrow. So can I please meet him to

2151
01:47:45,960 --> 01:47:47,280
Speaker 3: talk about things at our house?

2152
01:47:47,520 --> 01:47:51,760
Speaker 2: Dude, dude, you deserve to be in jail for the

2153
01:47:51,800 --> 01:47:53,800
Speaker 2: audacity right now.

2154
01:47:54,040 --> 01:47:57,519
Speaker 1: Literally lock this man up and don't throw away the key.

2155
01:47:57,640 --> 01:47:59,479
Speaker 1: Put it in like a like a meat a key

2156
01:47:59,560 --> 01:48:00,560
Speaker 1: meat grind.

2157
01:48:00,360 --> 01:48:02,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, the key, yeah, put it in a put it

2158
01:48:02,439 --> 01:48:05,759
Speaker 2: in a forge, melt the key down into the shape

2159
01:48:05,800 --> 01:48:06,679
Speaker 2: of a middle finger.

2160
01:48:06,800 --> 01:48:10,400
Speaker 3: Yes, and just throw it at him while he's locked up. Dude,

2161
01:48:10,920 --> 01:48:15,240
Speaker 3: my god, this is horrific. I could I just want

2162
01:48:15,240 --> 01:48:23,679
Speaker 3: to scream? Okay? Bro? She said sure, I asked, okay,

2163
01:48:23,760 --> 01:48:25,439
Speaker 3: So they're gonna just meet up and talk now.

2164
01:48:27,280 --> 01:48:29,240
Speaker 2: I asked my mom to drive me to our place

2165
01:48:29,280 --> 01:48:31,479
Speaker 2: a little while ago, and I kidnapped my dog brought

2166
01:48:31,479 --> 01:48:33,160
Speaker 2: her back, and I'm feeling much much better.

2167
01:48:33,479 --> 01:48:36,160
Speaker 3: I'm also not meeting with him tomorrow. Thank god. Okay,

2168
01:48:36,400 --> 01:48:40,479
Speaker 3: oh god, I was losing it. I'm tweaking, yeah, I'm freaking.

2169
01:48:41,479 --> 01:48:43,559
Speaker 3: Oh my god. This is one that just makes your

2170
01:48:43,640 --> 01:48:47,479
Speaker 3: skin crawl. And you know what's not gonna make your

2171
01:48:47,520 --> 01:48:48,120
Speaker 3: skin crawl?

2172
01:48:48,640 --> 01:48:51,719
Speaker 2: Tuning in every weekday at three pm do our Lives

2173
01:48:51,720 --> 01:48:53,760
Speaker 2: stream on YouTube. But all you gotta do is tap

2174
01:48:54,000 --> 01:48:56,960
Speaker 2: the profile and then you will be tuned in. You

2175
01:48:56,960 --> 01:49:01,720
Speaker 2: can get all this juicy goodness. Oh yeah, yeah, I

2176
01:49:01,720 --> 01:49:08,240
Speaker 2: feel like John really needed his face on it. Oh yeah, okay,

2177
01:49:08,439 --> 01:49:12,519
Speaker 2: So continuing, you guys. I didn't think it would help

2178
01:49:12,560 --> 01:49:14,920
Speaker 2: this much. Task you guys for advice, but I've read

2179
01:49:15,160 --> 01:49:17,280
Speaker 2: each and every one of your comments, and dear god,

2180
01:49:17,320 --> 01:49:19,200
Speaker 2: I feel a thousand times better than I did a

2181
01:49:19,240 --> 01:49:19,880
Speaker 2: few hours ago.

2182
01:49:20,439 --> 01:49:21,479
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.

2183
01:49:21,600 --> 01:49:26,960
Speaker 2: Like I feel so different, it's weird. Whoa hey, now

2184
01:49:27,760 --> 01:49:32,000
Speaker 2: there is no second update. Update one was a red herring.

2185
01:49:33,600 --> 01:49:35,519
Speaker 3: We're gonna see, we're gonna see, we're gonna see. But

2186
01:49:35,600 --> 01:49:38,760
Speaker 3: let's talk. Let's talk. Uh, First of all, how are

2187
01:49:38,800 --> 01:49:50,600
Speaker 3: you doing? Because that was wow? No what they removed it? No,

2188
01:49:50,600 --> 01:49:56,960
Speaker 3: no way back. We're cooking, guys, We're cooking on cooking.

2189
01:49:57,240 --> 01:50:03,240
Speaker 2: The second update because my god, a completed story arc here.

2190
01:50:03,160 --> 01:50:09,759
Speaker 3: Dude, this type of like evil person who's like, oh no, no,

2191
01:50:09,880 --> 01:50:12,320
Speaker 3: I'm with her right now, but I'll come meet you. Dude,

2192
01:50:13,360 --> 01:50:18,439
Speaker 3: just yeah for real, Like it's you. You're pathetic to

2193
01:50:18,560 --> 01:50:24,920
Speaker 3: be like, I'm just confused. Are you with her right now? Yeah?

2194
01:50:25,080 --> 01:50:28,559
Speaker 3: But I'm like I don't even know. I don't wait,

2195
01:50:28,680 --> 01:50:30,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, confuse.

2196
01:50:30,720 --> 01:50:34,760
Speaker 2: Guys in the background, like, who is that? Right?

2197
01:50:34,920 --> 01:50:35,639
Speaker 3: Who is that?

2198
01:50:36,400 --> 01:50:39,680
Speaker 4: I am so livid beyond piss right now. Okay, so

2199
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:42,519
Speaker 4: this mod on this reddit channel said you have to

2200
01:50:42,520 --> 01:50:45,280
Speaker 4: add a chield your or else we can't add it,

2201
01:50:45,560 --> 01:50:46,720
Speaker 4: and then they deleted it.

2202
01:50:47,280 --> 01:50:48,960
Speaker 3: They deleted it because they didn't add it till you

2203
01:50:49,040 --> 01:50:57,439
Speaker 3: are dude, that is so sane. Wow. God, Wow, I'm

2204
01:50:57,520 --> 01:51:01,840
Speaker 3: so pissed. Who's that mod? Who's that red? Let's find him?

2205
01:51:01,960 --> 01:51:09,240
Speaker 3: Ten years ago? God, seventeen ago. Guys, can we like

2206
01:51:09,479 --> 01:51:11,800
Speaker 3: go on this quest to find like, can we make

2207
01:51:11,840 --> 01:51:14,360
Speaker 3: like a mini documentary trying to find the how do

2208
01:51:14,439 --> 01:51:16,960
Speaker 3: we hold on? I need to figure out what Op's

2209
01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:18,880
Speaker 3: actual name was because I could never say it. Right.

2210
01:51:20,840 --> 01:51:23,840
Speaker 4: Let's let's see and the f up thing is this

2211
01:51:23,960 --> 01:51:27,599
Speaker 4: happened twelve years ago, and this update happened ten years ago,

2212
01:51:27,600 --> 01:51:28,599
Speaker 4: but they removed it.

2213
01:51:29,000 --> 01:51:29,360
Speaker 3: Dude.

2214
01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:33,160
Speaker 2: By the way, uh, use your name A ceda silic acid.

2215
01:51:33,520 --> 01:51:37,360
Speaker 2: I see the silic silic acid. Yes, it just took me.

2216
01:51:37,680 --> 01:51:42,719
Speaker 3: Third chimes of charm. That's it, turn time karm turned

2217
01:51:42,760 --> 01:51:46,400
Speaker 3: a giggling of bar. It's so not on purpose, but

2218
01:51:46,479 --> 01:51:49,040
Speaker 3: there's perfect timing. Third rhymes in the barn.

2219
01:51:49,240 --> 01:51:56,559
Speaker 2: Third chimes the arm, third third bride the barn. Yeah okay,

2220
01:51:56,600 --> 01:52:00,960
Speaker 2: well wow crazy? How do you incomplete?

2221
01:52:01,120 --> 01:52:03,400
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean just like I feel like I'll never

2222
01:52:03,439 --> 01:52:08,599
Speaker 3: be whole again. It's like I just want to explode.

2223
01:52:08,960 --> 01:52:15,479
Speaker 3: I can't. I can't. Okay, So clearly Opie needed to, Like.

2224
01:52:16,600 --> 01:52:20,120
Speaker 2: I mean, the dastardly things that this man deserved to

2225
01:52:20,160 --> 01:52:22,880
Speaker 2: have done to him so old, like he deserves to

2226
01:52:22,920 --> 01:52:23,840
Speaker 2: be in Like you know.

2227
01:52:23,840 --> 01:52:27,400
Speaker 3: Have you seen the game with Michael Douglas. Uh? Is

2228
01:52:27,400 --> 01:52:28,120
Speaker 3: that the one we watch?

2229
01:52:28,240 --> 01:52:30,439
Speaker 2: It? It's the one where it's like his brother gets

2230
01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:32,560
Speaker 2: him a birthday gift and it's really just an elaborate

2231
01:52:32,600 --> 01:52:34,840
Speaker 2: game that slowly drives him insane.

2232
01:52:34,960 --> 01:52:37,240
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, and he deserves.

2233
01:52:36,840 --> 01:52:40,920
Speaker 2: To get gamed with Michael Douglas. Yes, because dude, dude,

2234
01:52:41,160 --> 01:52:44,760
Speaker 2: you think you're confused now? Oh, boy, wait until I

2235
01:52:44,840 --> 01:52:47,320
Speaker 2: hire a team of people to make your life as

2236
01:52:47,360 --> 01:52:50,639
Speaker 2: confusing as possible for the foreseeable future.

2237
01:52:50,760 --> 01:52:53,000
Speaker 1: What's the what's the Greek mythology thing where it's like

2238
01:52:53,040 --> 01:52:56,320
Speaker 1: the person who needs water and it's like Narcissus.

2239
01:52:56,439 --> 01:52:59,360
Speaker 3: Narcissus fell in.

2240
01:52:59,320 --> 01:53:03,040
Speaker 2: Love with his own reflection, and then the lake was

2241
01:53:03,080 --> 01:53:05,840
Speaker 2: reflected in Narciss's eyes, and is like the live in

2242
01:53:05,880 --> 01:53:09,439
Speaker 2: the lake became narcissistic because the lake could see itself

2243
01:53:09,439 --> 01:53:10,479
Speaker 2: in Narcissus's eyes.

2244
01:53:13,360 --> 01:53:16,120
Speaker 3: I don't even know why I'm upset. I love mythology

2245
01:53:16,240 --> 01:53:16,880
Speaker 3: because this is.

2246
01:53:19,320 --> 01:53:24,760
Speaker 1: Insanity. Insanity, Welcome, Welcome to the show. Where are our

2247
01:53:24,840 --> 01:53:28,080
Speaker 1: own emotions are are twisted like a gut trying to

2248
01:53:28,200 --> 01:53:30,040
Speaker 1: crap out this toxic waste.

2249
01:53:30,080 --> 01:53:32,880
Speaker 2: We get to post our own okay story time about

2250
01:53:33,000 --> 01:53:35,639
Speaker 2: how we were doing an okay story time and didn't

2251
01:53:35,640 --> 01:53:36,560
Speaker 2: have an ending.

2252
01:53:36,360 --> 01:53:39,000
Speaker 3: And dude, now we're dying on the ear.

2253
01:53:39,200 --> 01:53:41,760
Speaker 2: Now we're just carrying around this weight. We got to

2254
01:53:41,800 --> 01:53:42,559
Speaker 2: carry that weight.

2255
01:53:42,800 --> 01:53:46,719
Speaker 1: Our organs are a toilet flushing down and we.

2256
01:53:46,640 --> 01:53:52,120
Speaker 3: Don't know where to where, where or how or what. Okay,

2257
01:53:52,479 --> 01:53:53,840
Speaker 3: I think I'm coming back down to earth.

2258
01:53:54,439 --> 01:53:57,200
Speaker 4: I p am that person so don't worry, but I

2259
01:53:57,320 --> 01:53:59,960
Speaker 4: doubt that they will respond because they've only been acting

2260
01:54:00,160 --> 01:54:00,840
Speaker 4: nine years ago.

2261
01:54:01,120 --> 01:54:03,599
Speaker 3: Oh guys, if there's a will, there's a way. Hey,

2262
01:54:03,600 --> 01:54:07,719
Speaker 3: but shout out to Riley for for for the dude,

2263
01:54:07,840 --> 01:54:09,519
Speaker 3: I went to the way back machine and it didn't

2264
01:54:09,520 --> 01:54:13,160
Speaker 3: even have anything there. Dude. That's we guys, We're we.

2265
01:54:13,160 --> 01:54:13,920
Speaker 3: We did. We did.

2266
01:54:14,120 --> 01:54:15,719
Speaker 1: We did as much as we could in two minutes

2267
01:54:15,760 --> 01:54:20,280
Speaker 1: on a stream. Guys, we'll see but not. The hopes

2268
01:54:20,280 --> 01:54:22,599
Speaker 1: are not high. Okay, so we got more, we got

2269
01:54:22,600 --> 01:54:23,639
Speaker 1: more story final verdict.

2270
01:54:23,600 --> 01:54:27,920
Speaker 2: Thought that guy needs to be like locked, locked away,

2271
01:54:28,200 --> 01:54:30,640
Speaker 2: thrown into the ocean with all of our car battery.

2272
01:54:30,400 --> 01:54:31,920
Speaker 3: In a prison, in a prison, in a prison. Yes,

2273
01:54:31,960 --> 01:54:34,200
Speaker 3: there we go. That's that's what we need to have happened.

2274
01:54:34,560 --> 01:54:39,520
Speaker 3: Thrown into Poseidon's dungeon on a light or dos. Oh, yeah,

2275
01:54:39,520 --> 01:54:43,880
Speaker 3: we got a lot. We got a lot. O. Here

2276
01:54:43,880 --> 01:54:46,960
Speaker 3: we go one second night, yet here we go, here

2277
01:54:46,960 --> 01:54:50,040
Speaker 3: we go. Whoa, Okay, we're about to rip rip a doddle.

2278
01:54:50,080 --> 01:54:52,080
Speaker 3: Do uh?

2279
01:54:52,280 --> 01:54:57,360
Speaker 2: I think it starts with Mela Tiffany Falsey, welcome to

2280
01:54:57,400 --> 01:54:58,560
Speaker 2: the night's Cashine.

2281
01:54:58,720 --> 01:55:01,080
Speaker 3: Let's go. I I think we got Josephine.

2282
01:55:01,640 --> 01:55:04,120
Speaker 2: Did I eat quietly, guys, can the chat let me

2283
01:55:04,120 --> 01:55:09,120
Speaker 2: know if I hate quietly please, Blonda Spurnette remember for

2284
01:55:09,160 --> 01:55:09,920
Speaker 2: seven months?

2285
01:55:10,120 --> 01:55:11,120
Speaker 3: Are you guys gonna.

2286
01:55:10,880 --> 01:55:13,200
Speaker 2: Hang up the Christmas ornaments I made for you and

2287
01:55:13,280 --> 01:55:17,240
Speaker 2: let Dakota eat If we find a tree, Yeah, we

2288
01:55:17,280 --> 01:55:21,320
Speaker 2: gotta get a tree like Charlie Brown tree. But October, yeah,

2289
01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:24,839
Speaker 2: give us us some time. Christmas doesn't start until after Thanksgiving.

2290
01:55:24,960 --> 01:55:32,160
Speaker 2: Thank you, bumble Bumblybree. Welcome to the nights cushing h

2291
01:55:32,400 --> 01:55:37,760
Speaker 2: Josephine says you missed a dono from Notta cocta not

2292
01:55:38,000 --> 01:55:42,280
Speaker 2: a cacti. Thank you for the Thank you, crooner, Let's

2293
01:55:42,320 --> 01:55:45,280
Speaker 2: go here. Also, yeah, we're gonna look for that. We're

2294
01:55:45,280 --> 01:55:48,200
Speaker 2: gonna look for that donor. We're looking Wait, not a

2295
01:55:48,680 --> 01:55:52,760
Speaker 2: big shout out to you. We are currently sifting through it.

2296
01:55:53,200 --> 01:55:55,760
Speaker 3: You're not a cac died. We still we love you. Yes,

2297
01:55:56,320 --> 01:55:57,400
Speaker 3: thank you so much for the dono.

2298
01:55:59,560 --> 01:56:03,000
Speaker 2: Giants milk with the gifted five, okay, storytime memberships, just

2299
01:56:03,040 --> 01:56:06,320
Speaker 2: a goat, Emily with the Ford ninety nine. Is it

2300
01:56:06,400 --> 01:56:09,440
Speaker 2: crazier than the seven hour stream?

2301
01:56:09,480 --> 01:56:11,080
Speaker 3: That was pretty crazy? That was a wild.

2302
01:56:11,000 --> 01:56:15,560
Speaker 2: Giant's milk back with another five. My goodness, Silver riser

2303
01:56:15,640 --> 01:56:18,280
Speaker 2: five dollars. I missed the misery on your faces when

2304
01:56:18,280 --> 01:56:20,480
Speaker 2: you guys still did another one hour rather than the

2305
01:56:20,480 --> 01:56:21,120
Speaker 2: thirty minutes.

2306
01:56:21,200 --> 01:56:22,080
Speaker 3: I'm not miserable.

2307
01:56:22,880 --> 01:56:24,720
Speaker 4: It's still worse because you guys can get the thirty

2308
01:56:24,720 --> 01:56:27,160
Speaker 4: minutes and like multiply faster.

2309
01:56:27,360 --> 01:56:28,320
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, this is.

2310
01:56:28,960 --> 01:56:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, We're I feel like we're gonna get another thirty guys,

2311
01:56:31,280 --> 01:56:34,240
Speaker 2: I feel like we're gonna get another thirty, Okay.

2312
01:56:34,400 --> 01:56:35,840
Speaker 3: Emily with the Ford ninety nine.

2313
01:56:35,920 --> 01:56:38,720
Speaker 2: Riley, that's the equivalent of saying tonight's kind of slow

2314
01:56:38,840 --> 01:56:41,000
Speaker 2: in a restaurant or hospital. Yeah it's true, Riley, this

2315
01:56:41,080 --> 01:56:42,720
Speaker 2: is actually one hundred percent on you.

2316
01:56:43,200 --> 01:56:47,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're like and then angry and ill diseased

2317
01:56:47,440 --> 01:56:50,200
Speaker 4: people come in, not saying that's bad, but that's just

2318
01:56:50,280 --> 01:56:50,840
Speaker 4: what happened.

2319
01:56:51,400 --> 01:56:55,080
Speaker 2: Look, you're almost holy. It's almost holy, Riley. Time Holy,

2320
01:56:58,960 --> 01:57:02,040
Speaker 2: Jessica and Jacob von Welcome to the Night's Cushing. Uh

2321
01:57:02,320 --> 01:57:06,400
Speaker 2: is set kai weirdo. Remember for four months, Yay love

2322
01:57:06,440 --> 01:57:08,720
Speaker 2: how the Okay Storytime family has been growing.

2323
01:57:09,080 --> 01:57:12,040
Speaker 3: We love you guys, we love you back. I always grow,

2324
01:57:12,400 --> 01:57:13,120
Speaker 3: Billy Claire.

2325
01:57:13,200 --> 01:57:17,800
Speaker 2: Remember for two months, Riley screaming no sounds exactly like

2326
01:57:17,880 --> 01:57:18,680
Speaker 2: fro too, baggins.

2327
01:57:18,680 --> 01:57:21,000
Speaker 3: Can you can you get another note? Riley, I gotta

2328
01:57:21,000 --> 01:57:21,480
Speaker 3: be angry.

2329
01:57:21,520 --> 01:57:25,000
Speaker 2: But no, Yeah, we gotta find something else to piss

2330
01:57:25,040 --> 01:57:26,600
Speaker 2: them off, guys, and then you can do you can't

2331
01:57:26,600 --> 01:57:26,760
Speaker 2: do it.

2332
01:57:26,880 --> 01:57:29,440
Speaker 3: You gotta make Riley madd again. What's fun Nordic? Nordic?

2333
01:57:29,520 --> 01:57:33,040
Speaker 3: You guys looking for Nordic looking Nordi not a cact

2334
01:57:33,520 --> 01:57:35,000
Speaker 3: not a cac die, we'll go over here.

2335
01:57:36,960 --> 01:57:39,680
Speaker 2: I don't see if also, if not a cacti, if

2336
01:57:39,720 --> 01:57:43,560
Speaker 2: you could recomment and everyone share that back, it's possible.

2337
01:57:44,040 --> 01:57:47,680
Speaker 3: The the widgets did not. It's so weird.

2338
01:57:47,720 --> 01:57:47,840
Speaker 2: Bro.

2339
01:57:48,000 --> 01:57:48,880
Speaker 3: Technology is weird.

2340
01:57:48,880 --> 01:57:49,040
Speaker 7: Man.

2341
01:57:49,120 --> 01:57:51,320
Speaker 4: I've spent so much some on technology today. You guys

2342
01:57:51,320 --> 01:57:53,080
Speaker 4: would have cried. I cried.

2343
01:57:53,200 --> 01:57:55,560
Speaker 3: It's true, but he did. I was there, all right,

2344
01:57:56,520 --> 01:57:57,160
Speaker 3: an important one.

2345
01:57:57,200 --> 01:58:00,240
Speaker 1: There we go, Tidy Browning, thanks for the five bucks.

2346
01:58:00,600 --> 01:58:02,959
Speaker 1: The box was one dumb millennial, dude.

2347
01:58:02,720 --> 01:58:05,480
Speaker 3: I told you, freaking go and it's Chinese not Japanese.

2348
01:58:05,560 --> 01:58:09,040
Speaker 3: There we go. I'm wrong, I'm wrong. I forgot to

2349
01:58:09,040 --> 01:58:09,520
Speaker 3: tell you all.

2350
01:58:09,520 --> 01:58:11,240
Speaker 1: She was out of China for two weeks and sent

2351
01:58:11,280 --> 01:58:13,760
Speaker 1: it while she was in the States. Dude, one doub millennial,

2352
01:58:13,880 --> 01:58:15,080
Speaker 1: absolute freakin'.

2353
01:58:16,240 --> 01:58:16,480
Speaker 3: Uh.

2354
01:58:16,520 --> 01:58:19,160
Speaker 2: And then uh, mom, or lord five fi five bucks.

2355
01:58:19,200 --> 01:58:22,800
Speaker 2: I think I'll say it again.

2356
01:58:22,840 --> 01:58:23,400
Speaker 3: This is Ellie.

2357
01:58:23,440 --> 01:58:25,400
Speaker 2: I just found out that I'm older than John. I'm

2358
01:58:25,480 --> 01:58:27,360
Speaker 2: nineteen eighty nine, and now I feel my mom's crumbling

2359
01:58:27,400 --> 01:58:30,560
Speaker 2: to dust. Joined the family, Join the family. We all

2360
01:58:30,600 --> 01:58:34,240
Speaker 2: returned to dust. Yeah what Kansas said with a song

2361
01:58:34,320 --> 01:58:40,680
Speaker 2: dust in the an anonymous takes to the five bucks.

2362
01:58:42,280 --> 01:58:45,320
Speaker 2: We'll see that's all right. It takes to the ten bucks.

2363
01:58:45,320 --> 01:58:48,640
Speaker 2: Say goodbye to whatever plans you got. Long time being

2364
01:58:48,680 --> 01:58:50,720
Speaker 2: able to donate, and it feels nice.

2365
01:58:50,840 --> 01:58:53,200
Speaker 3: Gods, I'm trying to make basketball friends. Please, right, come

2366
01:58:53,240 --> 01:58:55,000
Speaker 3: on right, let me be your basketball friend. Roby. Wean

2367
01:58:55,040 --> 01:58:56,760
Speaker 3: one on one and then you can feel good when

2368
01:58:56,800 --> 01:58:59,640
Speaker 3: you beat me. Okay, well, like competition, I mean I'm

2369
01:58:59,680 --> 01:59:00,560
Speaker 3: gonna beete with you.

2370
01:59:00,560 --> 01:59:02,920
Speaker 2: You'll just probably win it first, and then I'll beat

2371
01:59:02,920 --> 01:59:04,400
Speaker 2: you later and it'll make you really mad.

2372
01:59:04,480 --> 01:59:05,879
Speaker 3: Did you grow up playing basketball?

2373
01:59:06,160 --> 01:59:10,680
Speaker 2: I started playing basketball about five years ago. Okay, oh really, okay,

2374
01:59:10,680 --> 01:59:14,560
Speaker 2: Now we're actually gonna now I was just joking. Now

2375
01:59:14,800 --> 01:59:17,640
Speaker 2: you're about to get embarrassed.

2376
01:59:17,360 --> 01:59:20,240
Speaker 3: Bedson and shout out to like the stream for ten

2377
01:59:20,360 --> 01:59:22,080
Speaker 3: bucks donation again.

2378
01:59:22,600 --> 01:59:27,480
Speaker 2: Mama needs weel spin with some funny actions.

2379
01:59:27,680 --> 01:59:32,600
Speaker 3: We'll spin with some funny accents. Another donut, and we

2380
01:59:32,680 --> 01:59:33,240
Speaker 3: got some more.

2381
01:59:33,280 --> 01:59:36,400
Speaker 2: We got some more hold actions. Right now here we go.

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01:59:36,640 --> 01:59:39,640
Speaker 2: Uh but yep, Chell, we go, know me, Welcome to

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01:59:39,640 --> 01:59:42,320
Speaker 2: the Knights. Wo big old know me?

2384
01:59:42,720 --> 01:59:45,080
Speaker 3: Yeah? Are you wait? Are you betraying the Gnomes to

2385
01:59:45,200 --> 01:59:45,880
Speaker 3: Is that still a thing?

2386
01:59:45,920 --> 01:59:48,080
Speaker 2: Everyone in that guy's comments keeps saying that's a dead meme,

2387
01:59:48,600 --> 01:59:49,760
Speaker 2: the Gnomes versus Knights.

2388
01:59:50,000 --> 01:59:52,120
Speaker 3: I hope he keeps doing it forever. Yeah, so he's

2389
01:59:52,120 --> 01:59:54,000
Speaker 3: on the Tonight Show. I don't Thinkjohn knows what you

2390
01:59:54,040 --> 01:59:55,160
Speaker 3: talking about because he's older.

2391
01:59:55,480 --> 01:59:58,040
Speaker 2: Yes, I know is Yes, it's the guy who's always

2392
01:59:58,040 --> 01:59:59,800
Speaker 2: like and he goes into like H and M and

2393
01:59:59,840 --> 02:00:01,480
Speaker 2: there please leave, Yeah.

2394
02:00:02,200 --> 02:00:06,360
Speaker 3: Please get out of here. I'm about it. So this

2395
02:00:06,440 --> 02:00:07,280
Speaker 3: sounds pretty strong.

2396
02:00:08,800 --> 02:00:12,560
Speaker 4: The sun, the sun has revolved perfectly around the Earth.

2397
02:00:14,160 --> 02:00:18,400
Speaker 4: Wait wait no, sorry, it's not the mid the medieval times.

2398
02:00:19,640 --> 02:00:22,840
Speaker 3: Riley's like this, what are.

2399
02:00:24,280 --> 02:00:27,800
Speaker 2: You're in? You're in the year eight hundred. Still you

2400
02:00:27,840 --> 02:00:29,520
Speaker 2: have not the Renaissance?

2401
02:00:30,920 --> 02:00:31,120
Speaker 3: Fia.

2402
02:00:31,160 --> 02:00:32,720
Speaker 4: Do you want to come in here? You're in the

2403
02:00:32,720 --> 02:00:35,840
Speaker 4: comments section? What are you doing in the comments? Come

2404
02:00:35,840 --> 02:00:36,480
Speaker 4: in here if you want to?

2405
02:00:36,600 --> 02:00:39,800
Speaker 2: And I are seeing transformers tonight. I don't know about that, Sophia.

2406
02:00:41,320 --> 02:00:44,280
Speaker 2: You might have to go record it, right, which it

2407
02:00:44,320 --> 02:00:47,440
Speaker 2: would be illegal, and I don't condonate I do, Yeah,

2408
02:00:47,600 --> 02:00:52,880
Speaker 2: I highly maybe maybe I do though, honest uh the

2409
02:00:52,920 --> 02:00:57,520
Speaker 2: three three three three? All right, guys, Okay, after the madness,

2410
02:00:57,800 --> 02:00:59,480
Speaker 2: you know what we do what we do best.

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02:01:00,120 --> 02:01:02,600
Speaker 3: Other story, Riley, Let's get it once.

2412
02:01:02,640 --> 02:01:07,560
Speaker 4: I hold, don't move one second.

2413
02:01:08,560 --> 02:01:12,400
Speaker 3: His vision is based on movement. Okay, you're good.

2414
02:01:12,640 --> 02:01:15,280
Speaker 1: My coworker is having an affair with the owner. But

2415
02:01:15,400 --> 02:01:16,760
Speaker 1: now I'm getting fired.

2416
02:01:16,840 --> 02:01:18,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds about right. I see what's happening here.

2417
02:01:19,160 --> 02:01:21,080
Speaker 2: So one I will be chasing the names of the

2418
02:01:21,120 --> 02:01:22,960
Speaker 2: people and the business for legal reasons.

2419
02:01:23,000 --> 02:01:27,280
Speaker 1: And two, here's everyone. We have the Magic Warehouse. We

2420
02:01:27,400 --> 02:01:31,640
Speaker 1: have the owner that's male, the owner that's female, owner's daughter,

2421
02:01:32,040 --> 02:01:34,920
Speaker 1: the affair b word, and the warehouse secretary.

2422
02:01:35,080 --> 02:01:35,960
Speaker 3: So whoa.

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02:01:36,080 --> 02:01:38,880
Speaker 1: Back in July, I, Female twenty six was serving at

2424
02:01:38,880 --> 02:01:43,000
Speaker 1: a bar when one of my regulars, Male fifty, asked

2425
02:01:43,320 --> 02:01:45,640
Speaker 1: if I would want to do social media marketing for

2426
02:01:45,920 --> 02:01:49,120
Speaker 1: his for his floor company, Magical Warehouse.

2427
02:01:49,680 --> 02:01:55,440
Speaker 3: But WHOA what? I love Magical Warehouse. That's awesome. That's

2428
02:01:55,520 --> 02:01:57,200
Speaker 3: where he got all his floors.

2429
02:02:00,040 --> 02:02:01,280
Speaker 1: Did I see you in the comments and you see

2430
02:02:01,320 --> 02:02:05,120
Speaker 1: what about to happen? This seems very dark and tragic,

2431
02:02:05,120 --> 02:02:08,879
Speaker 1: but we shall see. I said, absolutely, but you've been drinking.

2432
02:02:09,040 --> 02:02:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm going to write this information down. After I did that,

2433
02:02:12,000 --> 02:02:14,000
Speaker 1: he told me that i'd be contacted on Monday. The

2434
02:02:14,120 --> 02:02:16,720
Speaker 1: job offer was given on Saturday. Well, it's actually happening,

2435
02:02:17,000 --> 02:02:21,520
Speaker 1: and this comes from Eliza Eliaza g breath.

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02:02:21,280 --> 02:02:23,320
Speaker 3: On the arsat shokey short times up read it. So

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02:02:23,360 --> 02:02:25,600
Speaker 3: I didn't hear bat So I didn't hear anything back.

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02:02:26,720 --> 02:02:29,000
Speaker 1: So the next time that he was in on a Wednesday,

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02:02:29,200 --> 02:02:31,240
Speaker 1: I asked if he remembered the job offer, to which

2440
02:02:31,240 --> 02:02:33,880
Speaker 1: he replied yes, And a few days later I was

2441
02:02:33,880 --> 02:02:39,360
Speaker 1: contacted by his daughter, the owner's daughter, female twenty. It

2442
02:02:39,400 --> 02:02:42,520
Speaker 1: was asked to come in for a formal interview. It

2443
02:02:42,560 --> 02:02:44,400
Speaker 1: went extremely well and I got the job.

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02:02:45,040 --> 02:02:46,480
Speaker 3: Okay, going good.

2445
02:02:46,520 --> 02:02:50,000
Speaker 2: I see nothing bad could possibly happen, nothing could possibly.

2446
02:02:49,600 --> 02:02:53,280
Speaker 1: Go There are two owners, the man who owns forty

2447
02:02:53,360 --> 02:02:57,920
Speaker 1: nine percent owner male fifty the male owner and his wife,

2448
02:02:58,080 --> 02:03:01,160
Speaker 1: the female owner who's forty eight, who owns fifty one percent.

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02:03:01,520 --> 02:03:03,120
Speaker 3: I was in communication.

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02:03:02,640 --> 02:03:06,160
Speaker 1: Mostly with female owner, who loved my work and agreed

2451
02:03:06,280 --> 02:03:09,160
Speaker 1: that we needed a change and we and was ready

2452
02:03:09,200 --> 02:03:11,520
Speaker 1: to be press and was ready to present their business

2453
02:03:11,520 --> 02:03:14,200
Speaker 1: in a professional manner. The male owner liked that ideal

2454
02:03:14,240 --> 02:03:16,920
Speaker 1: as well. When I first started, nobody was in the

2455
02:03:16,960 --> 02:03:19,520
Speaker 1: office at all. I was there alone, having no clue

2456
02:03:19,560 --> 02:03:22,560
Speaker 1: what I was supposed to do because there was no communication, instruction,

2457
02:03:23,040 --> 02:03:27,120
Speaker 1: or expectations by them. So instead I began wandering the

2458
02:03:27,160 --> 02:03:30,920
Speaker 1: business warehouse. The office was upstairs, learning the products they had,

2459
02:03:31,000 --> 02:03:33,440
Speaker 1: and just dove deep into the website to learn more

2460
02:03:33,640 --> 02:03:36,280
Speaker 1: and just visually seeing the flooring options. So op, he's

2461
02:03:36,320 --> 02:03:38,640
Speaker 1: trying to like, all right, I'm gonna make my own task.

2462
02:03:38,680 --> 02:03:40,480
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be a go get or we're gonna figure

2463
02:03:40,480 --> 02:03:43,880
Speaker 3: it out. Model employee, Model employee of the Year.

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02:03:44,280 --> 02:03:46,960
Speaker 1: The website was extremely thorough and I learned a lot,

2465
02:03:47,160 --> 02:03:50,240
Speaker 1: which helped in creating the social media posts. You can

2466
02:03:50,360 --> 02:03:54,520
Speaker 1: basically call me an expert. I built a Google document,

2467
02:03:55,600 --> 02:03:58,400
Speaker 1: loved the formal, even calling it a Google document so

2468
02:03:58,480 --> 02:04:03,080
Speaker 1: formal that included important notes, essentially making my own handbook

2469
02:04:03,160 --> 02:04:04,120
Speaker 1: because there wasn't one.

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02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:07,720
Speaker 3: Given to me. Wow, Ips, listen if you need another

2471
02:04:07,880 --> 02:04:10,800
Speaker 3: job if this doesn't work out, to hit our line

2472
02:04:11,600 --> 02:04:14,520
Speaker 3: I made a list of post ideas and descriptions, updating

2473
02:04:14,560 --> 02:04:17,320
Speaker 3: the website to be more accurate and specific, as well

2474
02:04:17,360 --> 02:04:19,720
Speaker 3: as what should be added to the website and other channels.

2475
02:04:19,920 --> 02:04:22,800
Speaker 1: For weeks I was on my own, creating ads without

2476
02:04:22,840 --> 02:04:25,000
Speaker 1: knowing what they were wanting, but still sending them for

2477
02:04:25,040 --> 02:04:28,040
Speaker 1: approval without getting a response. This was the first red

2478
02:04:28,040 --> 02:04:30,920
Speaker 1: flag about three and a half weeks. About three and

2479
02:04:30,920 --> 02:04:34,080
Speaker 1: a half weeks in, I was approached about sales and promos.

2480
02:04:33,640 --> 02:04:35,760
Speaker 3: That they wanted to do. I was given very.

2481
02:04:35,640 --> 02:04:37,880
Speaker 1: Little information on what they were going to be, and

2482
02:04:37,920 --> 02:04:40,960
Speaker 1: it was expected to know all the information. Because I

2483
02:04:40,960 --> 02:04:43,320
Speaker 1: had doven deep on the website, I was able to

2484
02:04:43,360 --> 02:04:46,400
Speaker 1: determine what they were referring to. But it was still

2485
02:04:46,480 --> 02:04:50,360
Speaker 1: walking in murky waters. Yeah, because if she's like creating ads,

2486
02:04:50,520 --> 02:04:54,600
Speaker 1: like running these campaigns, not having like I get like, hey,

2487
02:04:54,640 --> 02:04:56,480
Speaker 1: here's the full sink, all right, you can you know,

2488
02:04:56,480 --> 02:05:00,200
Speaker 1: carry the torch from here, but giving like almost no contact,

2489
02:05:00,200 --> 02:05:03,080
Speaker 1: and then her going and like doing these ads spins

2490
02:05:03,080 --> 02:05:05,760
Speaker 1: and like like they're just setting up the owners are

2491
02:05:05,760 --> 02:05:07,000
Speaker 1: setting themselves up for failure.

2492
02:05:07,080 --> 02:05:10,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to you gotta give them structure something

2493
02:05:10,720 --> 02:05:12,440
Speaker 2: or if you're not going to give them structure. You

2494
02:05:12,480 --> 02:05:15,800
Speaker 2: cannot then be like surprised or upset with what happened

2495
02:05:16,040 --> 02:05:19,280
Speaker 2: exactly exactly you literally didn't tell them.

2496
02:05:19,160 --> 02:05:19,960
Speaker 3: One hundred percent.

2497
02:05:20,640 --> 02:05:23,000
Speaker 1: Now I would create an ad, submit for approval and

2498
02:05:23,040 --> 02:05:25,160
Speaker 1: would get a response that it didn't look right, it

2499
02:05:25,200 --> 02:05:29,040
Speaker 1: needed to be more flashy, basically wanting to continue the

2500
02:05:29,120 --> 02:05:30,760
Speaker 1: Microsoft word looking ads.

2501
02:05:31,080 --> 02:05:32,000
Speaker 3: They were horrible.

2502
02:05:32,160 --> 02:05:34,240
Speaker 1: I expressed how important it is to have ads that

2503
02:05:34,280 --> 02:05:36,720
Speaker 1: were presented in a certain way. Also, I love how

2504
02:05:36,760 --> 02:05:39,400
Speaker 1: like Opie just went from like bartender to like social

2505
02:05:39,440 --> 02:05:41,960
Speaker 1: media ads expert, just in like zero to sixty.

2506
02:05:42,040 --> 02:05:46,280
Speaker 3: I love it. It's uh, something I've done myself. Maybe

2507
02:05:46,880 --> 02:05:48,760
Speaker 3: there we go. I wouldn't say I'm an expert though

2508
02:05:49,120 --> 02:05:52,280
Speaker 3: they listen, but it is true. You can't have ugly ads.

2509
02:05:52,320 --> 02:05:54,640
Speaker 2: Come on, you can't have boring ugly ads unless that's

2510
02:05:54,640 --> 02:05:55,840
Speaker 2: the gimmick, unless.

2511
02:05:55,600 --> 02:05:56,240
Speaker 3: That's the vibe.

2512
02:05:56,280 --> 02:05:58,040
Speaker 4: Come on, now, if you guys ever seen them do

2513
02:05:58,080 --> 02:06:02,000
Speaker 4: a sponsor, that's how you do it. Yeah, you guys

2514
02:06:02,000 --> 02:06:03,760
Speaker 4: do the best sponsors. When I was a fan, I

2515
02:06:03,800 --> 02:06:05,160
Speaker 4: loved listening. I look forward to them.

2516
02:06:05,320 --> 02:06:08,040
Speaker 2: Everybody blow Riley a kiss for being such a sweetie.

2517
02:06:08,200 --> 02:06:14,880
Speaker 3: Right. Uh those are from my girl friend life. That's

2518
02:06:14,880 --> 02:06:19,800
Speaker 3: for you, Riley, But this was like talking to a

2519
02:06:19,800 --> 02:06:21,120
Speaker 3: brick wall. Well, I gave up.

2520
02:06:21,520 --> 02:06:24,600
Speaker 1: I began doing exactly as they wanted, making awful looking

2521
02:06:24,640 --> 02:06:27,960
Speaker 1: ads that they liked. The post was completed and submitted

2522
02:06:27,960 --> 02:06:30,600
Speaker 1: for approval, with the response being that they hate it

2523
02:06:30,840 --> 02:06:33,480
Speaker 1: and want to change it up. There were multiple There

2524
02:06:33,480 --> 02:06:36,920
Speaker 1: were multiple promos occurring, but the battle of changing it

2525
02:06:37,000 --> 02:06:37,960
Speaker 1: went on for weeks.

2526
02:06:38,600 --> 02:06:39,959
Speaker 3: Enter the affair.

2527
02:06:40,080 --> 02:06:44,280
Speaker 1: Bish female thirty two, a fair bish is our accountant

2528
02:06:44,400 --> 02:06:44,640
Speaker 1: and in.

2529
02:06:44,720 --> 02:06:46,760
Speaker 3: Charge of payroll. Oh.

2530
02:06:46,840 --> 02:06:48,920
Speaker 2: She was super nice to me the entire time that

2531
02:06:48,960 --> 02:06:51,000
Speaker 2: I was working there, friendly and would check in to

2532
02:06:51,040 --> 02:06:53,240
Speaker 2: see how I was doing. It was nice having someone

2533
02:06:53,240 --> 02:06:54,960
Speaker 2: else there, so I got comfortable and.

2534
02:06:54,920 --> 02:06:58,320
Speaker 1: Friendly back with her. I shared personal information about myself,

2535
02:06:58,360 --> 02:07:00,680
Speaker 1: thanks for my own job, for my old job, and

2536
02:07:00,720 --> 02:07:03,080
Speaker 1: she joked and laughed and I considered.

2537
02:07:02,640 --> 02:07:05,600
Speaker 3: Her a work buddy. I would soon regret this.

2538
02:07:06,240 --> 02:07:08,160
Speaker 1: There was a day where I went to discuss with

2539
02:07:08,200 --> 02:07:10,680
Speaker 1: the female owner about the ads and also wanted to

2540
02:07:10,720 --> 02:07:13,720
Speaker 1: inform her about my medical history, as it wouldn't have

2541
02:07:13,760 --> 02:07:16,120
Speaker 1: an effect on my job performance, but would require me

2542
02:07:16,200 --> 02:07:18,440
Speaker 1: to work from home if needed. She was okay with

2543
02:07:18,520 --> 02:07:21,080
Speaker 1: that and then proceeded to tell me the juiciest work

2544
02:07:21,160 --> 02:07:26,680
Speaker 1: drama I've ever heard. The affair bish was having an

2545
02:07:26,720 --> 02:07:32,080
Speaker 1: affair with the male owner. The wife. The female owner

2546
02:07:32,520 --> 02:07:35,640
Speaker 1: was the one that told me about the affair.

2547
02:07:38,000 --> 02:07:42,800
Speaker 2: What YO, honestly keep me out of that. Don't tell me.

2548
02:07:43,640 --> 02:07:47,360
Speaker 2: Let me just have my job in peace. Tell your

2549
02:07:47,400 --> 02:07:49,560
Speaker 2: friends that not your underlings.

2550
02:07:49,800 --> 02:07:53,720
Speaker 1: Are we doing anything about this? Is this some sort

2551
02:07:53,760 --> 02:07:56,120
Speaker 1: of weird thing that you like?

2552
02:07:56,360 --> 02:07:57,800
Speaker 3: Is this ye?

2553
02:07:59,000 --> 02:08:01,120
Speaker 1: Are you trying to Are you trying to gossip? Your

2554
02:08:01,120 --> 02:08:03,320
Speaker 1: way to getting a gossip army to go after your

2555
02:08:03,360 --> 02:08:05,480
Speaker 1: husband for you. She's trying to temperature check.

2556
02:08:05,560 --> 02:08:09,120
Speaker 2: She's like, so, my husband's cheating on me, and that's sed.

2557
02:08:09,960 --> 02:08:12,600
Speaker 3: Vote one for yes, two for knowing the chat. No,

2558
02:08:12,680 --> 02:08:14,960
Speaker 3: that's bad. I don't like that. I don't like it.

2559
02:08:15,000 --> 02:08:17,760
Speaker 3: I don't Yeah, the wife needs a chat to help

2560
02:08:17,800 --> 02:08:19,160
Speaker 3: her see the light. Wow.

2561
02:08:19,600 --> 02:08:21,680
Speaker 1: The affair had been going on for at least three

2562
02:08:21,800 --> 02:08:24,560
Speaker 1: months before I started working there, and it was continuing

2563
02:08:24,640 --> 02:08:28,560
Speaker 1: on throughout my time at the Magical Warehouse. I am

2564
02:08:28,640 --> 02:08:31,720
Speaker 1: learning that this is still occurring after I left a

2565
02:08:31,840 --> 02:08:32,680
Speaker 1: month later.

2566
02:08:33,000 --> 02:08:33,320
Speaker 3: Wow.

2567
02:08:33,480 --> 02:08:36,400
Speaker 1: There's no HR department in the company to handle situations

2568
02:08:36,400 --> 02:08:39,720
Speaker 1: such as these. This is red flag number two. Now

2569
02:08:39,720 --> 02:08:42,000
Speaker 1: I partially knew about the affair based on the time

2570
02:08:42,040 --> 02:08:44,240
Speaker 1: that the Maile owner came into the restaurant that I

2571
02:08:44,280 --> 02:08:46,920
Speaker 1: work at before I worked at the Magical Warehouse on

2572
02:08:46,960 --> 02:08:49,880
Speaker 1: a Saturday around midnight and he was facetiming a girl

2573
02:08:49,920 --> 02:08:51,840
Speaker 1: that was not his wife or his daughter.

2574
02:08:52,280 --> 02:08:54,600
Speaker 3: I got him beer and a shot and went about

2575
02:08:54,640 --> 02:08:56,040
Speaker 3: serving the other customers.

2576
02:08:55,680 --> 02:08:58,000
Speaker 1: In the bar, not thinking about it again because again,

2577
02:08:58,040 --> 02:09:01,560
Speaker 1: this is like pre working there, so I think, Op,

2578
02:09:01,600 --> 02:09:03,960
Speaker 1: he's now kind of like digging back in the archives, like.

2579
02:09:04,320 --> 02:09:08,680
Speaker 2: Oh, I remember the time regular right before he was

2580
02:09:08,720 --> 02:09:09,320
Speaker 2: my boss.

2581
02:09:10,200 --> 02:09:11,600
Speaker 3: For really she was his boss.

2582
02:09:12,960 --> 02:09:16,480
Speaker 1: Affair bish cans come in multiple times before uh before,

2583
02:09:17,080 --> 02:09:20,360
Speaker 1: but always with the male owner, female owner and the

2584
02:09:20,400 --> 02:09:24,160
Speaker 1: owner's daughter, never alone with the male owner. I may

2585
02:09:24,160 --> 02:09:27,080
Speaker 1: be a server, but I know and see nearly anything.

2586
02:09:27,960 --> 02:09:31,760
Speaker 1: Uh the affair bish and UH and uh owner's daughter

2587
02:09:31,800 --> 02:09:35,200
Speaker 1: are both sales reps for the company or uh. The

2588
02:09:35,320 --> 02:09:38,160
Speaker 1: male owner had tasked the affair bish to watch the

2589
02:09:38,200 --> 02:09:41,160
Speaker 1: owner's daughter, who ultimately snitched on the littles of things,

2590
02:09:41,680 --> 02:09:44,040
Speaker 1: obviously because her dad is cheating.

2591
02:09:44,840 --> 02:09:46,360
Speaker 3: Hello. Uh.

2592
02:09:46,400 --> 02:09:48,720
Speaker 2: The owner's daughter was on her phone for a moment,

2593
02:09:49,240 --> 02:09:52,520
Speaker 2: had been into the bathroom too long anything to make

2594
02:09:52,680 --> 02:09:55,640
Speaker 2: a fair bish seem like the better person and to

2595
02:09:55,760 --> 02:09:59,000
Speaker 2: get the uh uh owner's daughter in trouble.

2596
02:09:59,480 --> 02:09:59,879
Speaker 3: Dude.

2597
02:10:00,160 --> 02:10:02,840
Speaker 1: I soon learned just how much of a snake the

2598
02:10:02,880 --> 02:10:06,720
Speaker 1: affair bee was and began to talk about only work

2599
02:10:06,760 --> 02:10:09,960
Speaker 1: related topics to her. A week before I was let go,

2600
02:10:10,160 --> 02:10:12,959
Speaker 1: there was a meeting regarding the promos and sales, updating

2601
02:10:12,960 --> 02:10:16,000
Speaker 1: me on the sales information so that I can change

2602
02:10:16,040 --> 02:10:17,080
Speaker 1: the ads of flyers.

2603
02:10:17,560 --> 02:10:18,240
Speaker 3: Everybody.

2604
02:10:18,360 --> 02:10:20,920
Speaker 2: So, the male owner, female owner, owner's daughter, and the

2605
02:10:20,960 --> 02:10:23,920
Speaker 2: affair bee and the warehouse secretary and myself were all there.

2606
02:10:23,920 --> 02:10:25,720
Speaker 1: We got the whole gang. The whole gang is in town,

2607
02:10:25,800 --> 02:10:29,360
Speaker 1: the whole crew who after the meeting ended, only the

2608
02:10:29,400 --> 02:10:31,840
Speaker 1: owner's daughter and myself were in the room, which is

2609
02:10:31,880 --> 02:10:36,280
Speaker 1: where she told me some insane things. Because everything we've

2610
02:10:36,320 --> 02:10:39,480
Speaker 1: heard was not insane at all. This is the first insane.

2611
02:10:39,600 --> 02:10:43,080
Speaker 3: Everything we've heard has been completely like textbook normal.

2612
02:10:43,200 --> 02:10:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, the wife telling OP about the affair totally normal.

2613
02:10:47,200 --> 02:10:48,640
Speaker 1: This is par for the car.

2614
02:10:48,840 --> 02:10:51,600
Speaker 4: It's like a midwesterner having hot wings and it's on

2615
02:10:51,760 --> 02:10:53,240
Speaker 4: medium and we're about to get hot.

2616
02:10:54,440 --> 02:10:57,440
Speaker 3: Excuse me, Yeah, I'm talking about you.

2617
02:10:57,920 --> 02:11:02,320
Speaker 2: I've eaten spicy foods, then you can even dream of. Okay,

2618
02:11:03,480 --> 02:11:07,280
Speaker 2: we have a spice off save it stream. I want

2619
02:11:07,280 --> 02:11:12,080
Speaker 2: to freak off buddy. All right, diddy, here we go.

2620
02:11:12,680 --> 02:11:16,320
Speaker 1: So she knew her father was having an affair with

2621
02:11:16,400 --> 02:11:19,760
Speaker 1: the affair bee and that the female owner again her

2622
02:11:19,800 --> 02:11:21,560
Speaker 1: mom was also aware of it.

2623
02:11:22,200 --> 02:11:25,320
Speaker 3: A faira bee was living with.

2624
02:11:25,680 --> 02:11:29,560
Speaker 1: The female owner, the male owner, and the owner's daughter

2625
02:11:30,400 --> 02:11:34,800
Speaker 1: and taking care of the female owner and uh uh

2626
02:11:34,800 --> 02:11:39,880
Speaker 1: and male owners special needs child. So wait, okay, yeah,

2627
02:11:39,880 --> 02:11:41,440
Speaker 1: so let me break it down. I know this is

2628
02:11:41,880 --> 02:11:46,000
Speaker 1: I'll try to think of better names for everyone. Yeah. Basically,

2629
02:11:46,200 --> 02:11:49,000
Speaker 1: there's like the owners of the warehouse. It's it's the mom, dad,

2630
02:11:49,000 --> 02:11:55,360
Speaker 1: and the daughter right the the the cheater is getting

2631
02:11:55,360 --> 02:11:58,760
Speaker 1: with uh, getting with the dad. She lives with them

2632
02:11:58,880 --> 02:12:01,120
Speaker 1: and helps take care of you know, not just them.

2633
02:12:01,160 --> 02:12:03,440
Speaker 1: She's basically like helps around the house. They also have

2634
02:12:03,480 --> 02:12:07,000
Speaker 1: another kids who who's whose special needs. She's helping with

2635
02:12:07,040 --> 02:12:12,240
Speaker 1: that child like caretaking, and she's their accountant for the company.

2636
02:12:12,360 --> 02:12:14,480
Speaker 3: John, Yes, I got, I got.

2637
02:12:15,120 --> 02:12:18,040
Speaker 4: I got something even crazier to say about this, the

2638
02:12:18,120 --> 02:12:21,320
Speaker 4: something that puts it from hot to extra hot.

2639
02:12:21,800 --> 02:12:25,480
Speaker 3: Talk to me. This comes from our subreddit. This is

2640
02:12:25,480 --> 02:12:28,360
Speaker 3: a This is a direct person from our sub breddit.

2641
02:12:29,560 --> 02:12:34,960
Speaker 2: Oh, the plot thickens game. Oh it's like condensed milk.

2642
02:12:35,040 --> 02:12:39,080
Speaker 2: This is so thick. Dude, got the heck? This is

2643
02:12:39,160 --> 02:12:40,080
Speaker 2: like Riley's cakes.

2644
02:12:40,120 --> 02:12:42,760
Speaker 3: This is so thick. I don't know what to say.

2645
02:12:43,480 --> 02:12:43,920
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2646
02:12:44,520 --> 02:12:48,280
Speaker 2: Oh, p please please freak out to us. This feels

2647
02:12:48,280 --> 02:12:51,560
Speaker 2: like a very like a one of one type situation. Yeah,

2648
02:12:51,640 --> 02:12:53,360
Speaker 2: I don't I've never heard anything like this.

2649
02:12:53,440 --> 02:12:56,840
Speaker 1: We're Dakota. This is your truest test of being a host.

2650
02:12:57,240 --> 02:13:00,880
Speaker 1: This is our like Michael Jordan's Michael Jordan Lovell, good

2651
02:13:00,880 --> 02:13:04,280
Speaker 1: advice must be given. This is flu flu game, and

2652
02:13:04,280 --> 02:13:07,800
Speaker 1: we are sick as a dog, all right, and it's

2653
02:13:07,840 --> 02:13:14,320
Speaker 1: time to go okay for Patrick Mahomes. So so Rogers

2654
02:13:14,520 --> 02:13:14,800
Speaker 1: does that?

2655
02:13:14,960 --> 02:13:16,800
Speaker 3: Did that? Think? Yes?

2656
02:13:16,880 --> 02:13:16,960
Speaker 2: No?

2657
02:13:17,320 --> 02:13:18,480
Speaker 3: And it's I'm on.

2658
02:13:19,920 --> 02:13:26,080
Speaker 1: Basically and helping with everything crazy. The cheater was trying

2659
02:13:26,160 --> 02:13:32,400
Speaker 1: to convince the dad to fire Ope, the male owner.

2660
02:13:34,280 --> 02:13:36,760
Speaker 1: When the mom found out about the affair, she then

2661
02:13:37,000 --> 02:13:40,360
Speaker 1: threw shoes and anything she could see at the cheater.

2662
02:13:41,600 --> 02:13:44,400
Speaker 1: The mom was forcing the daughter to be kind and

2663
02:13:44,600 --> 02:13:48,240
Speaker 1: friends with UH with the cheater because of in their culture,

2664
02:13:48,360 --> 02:13:52,200
Speaker 1: the men always take power and UH.

2665
02:13:51,800 --> 02:13:53,879
Speaker 3: And the mom didn't want to have.

2666
02:13:53,760 --> 02:13:57,600
Speaker 2: The dad go crazy at home? Wait, am I crazy?

2667
02:13:57,680 --> 02:14:01,560
Speaker 2: Didn't the didn't the mom tell her? Yes, she's still affair.

2668
02:14:03,080 --> 02:14:06,280
Speaker 3: The mom has a very very very weird relationship.

2669
02:14:06,320 --> 02:14:09,600
Speaker 1: She's throwing choos at the cheater but also telling her

2670
02:14:09,680 --> 02:14:12,280
Speaker 1: daughter like, hey, be nice to her. Men have all

2671
02:14:12,320 --> 02:14:16,920
Speaker 1: the power, like something along those lines, telling OP it's.

2672
02:14:16,760 --> 02:14:19,160
Speaker 3: A very very very weird dynamic.

2673
02:14:20,400 --> 02:14:22,360
Speaker 2: Oh P, I'm gonna tell you right now, tell us,

2674
02:14:22,440 --> 02:14:25,800
Speaker 2: tell us get a different job.

2675
02:14:26,280 --> 02:14:30,720
Speaker 3: Yeah. Leave, That's gonna be your cleanest solution to this problem. Dude,

2676
02:14:30,760 --> 02:14:32,120
Speaker 3: that's honestly all we need to do here.

2677
02:14:32,200 --> 02:14:34,800
Speaker 2: Get out of there, dude, never talk to these freaks

2678
02:14:34,800 --> 02:14:36,760
Speaker 2: ever again, because what is going on.

2679
02:14:36,800 --> 02:14:42,600
Speaker 3: There's so many freaky layers to this freak cake and

2680
02:14:42,680 --> 02:14:44,600
Speaker 3: conspiracy theory.

2681
02:14:44,800 --> 02:14:47,440
Speaker 1: The dad was like, I need even more side action

2682
02:14:48,480 --> 02:14:51,480
Speaker 1: and he loves the mess. Let me, let me bring

2683
02:14:51,680 --> 02:14:56,000
Speaker 1: another person into this and get it going crazy.

2684
02:14:56,040 --> 02:14:59,560
Speaker 3: Oh so wait, so conspiracy. Maybe she's trying to fire.

2685
02:14:59,360 --> 02:15:02,959
Speaker 2: OP because says she's she now the cheater feels threatened

2686
02:15:03,320 --> 02:15:06,400
Speaker 2: by OP that she's going to be brought into the

2687
02:15:06,440 --> 02:15:08,880
Speaker 2: cheating fold's my point.

2688
02:15:08,960 --> 02:15:10,840
Speaker 3: There we go, Thank you, sir. Conspiracy.

2689
02:15:11,880 --> 02:15:16,440
Speaker 4: Uh, the person the fire partner has a family member

2690
02:15:16,480 --> 02:15:18,520
Speaker 4: that they're trying to get a job. So they're using

2691
02:15:18,600 --> 02:15:21,680
Speaker 4: this to leverage because they could replace them if.

2692
02:15:21,560 --> 02:15:25,280
Speaker 1: She if if the affair partner eventually kicks out the

2693
02:15:25,320 --> 02:15:29,960
Speaker 1: mom the wife and then just takes takes over. But

2694
02:15:30,120 --> 02:15:33,480
Speaker 1: guess what, there's a very special detail that was in

2695
02:15:33,520 --> 02:15:36,680
Speaker 1: the beginning of the story. Guests who owns fifty one

2696
02:15:36,680 --> 02:15:37,280
Speaker 1: percent of the.

2697
02:15:37,200 --> 02:15:43,640
Speaker 2: Company, why they wish yes, very good.

2698
02:15:43,920 --> 02:15:49,280
Speaker 1: Wow, Well, let's get back to it. The wife, the

2699
02:15:49,280 --> 02:15:52,400
Speaker 1: mom was forcing them. I already read that. So the

2700
02:15:52,520 --> 02:15:55,200
Speaker 1: daughter told me that she knows I didn't do anything

2701
02:15:55,200 --> 02:15:57,440
Speaker 1: wrong and that I was only there during the time

2702
02:15:58,240 --> 02:16:00,160
Speaker 1: during my time of ten am to five pm, I'm

2703
02:16:00,440 --> 02:16:03,040
Speaker 1: daily doing any work that I could, and then leaving

2704
02:16:03,080 --> 02:16:03,520
Speaker 1: for the day.

2705
02:16:03,720 --> 02:16:06,040
Speaker 3: She even mentioned that she was gonna try and get

2706
02:16:06,080 --> 02:16:07,880
Speaker 3: a contract going with.

2707
02:16:09,520 --> 02:16:13,040
Speaker 1: The mom that says firing of jobs cannot be influenced

2708
02:16:13,040 --> 02:16:15,480
Speaker 1: by current employees. Unfortunately, that didn't work out, so I

2709
02:16:15,480 --> 02:16:18,040
Speaker 1: guess almost trying to like get some sort of like

2710
02:16:18,120 --> 02:16:20,320
Speaker 1: more official case to bring op back.

2711
02:16:21,680 --> 02:16:24,080
Speaker 2: I don't think that you could make that leap, being like, yeah,

2712
02:16:24,200 --> 02:16:29,120
Speaker 2: the employees literally don't have his like any impact.

2713
02:16:28,720 --> 02:16:31,160
Speaker 3: On if someone gets fired. Her I don't know if

2714
02:16:31,200 --> 02:16:31,760
Speaker 3: you can do that.

2715
02:16:31,800 --> 02:16:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't know how it would work, but I have

2716
02:16:34,480 --> 02:16:36,720
Speaker 1: to imagine with the level of messiness, I feel like

2717
02:16:36,760 --> 02:16:38,720
Speaker 1: there could be some sort of case here because it's

2718
02:16:38,720 --> 02:16:41,240
Speaker 1: like she's sleeping with the guy and telling him to

2719
02:16:41,240 --> 02:16:41,640
Speaker 1: fire her.

2720
02:16:41,760 --> 02:16:45,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's clearly like bad faith at at very least.

2721
02:16:45,560 --> 02:16:48,520
Speaker 1: So right the friday before I was let go, the

2722
02:16:48,600 --> 02:16:50,800
Speaker 1: daughter approaches me at the end of the day and said,

2723
02:16:50,959 --> 02:16:53,400
Speaker 1: it seems like I would be getting fired, and she

2724
02:16:53,520 --> 02:16:57,840
Speaker 1: was so sorry. So I called the mom, the wife,

2725
02:16:57,840 --> 02:17:00,640
Speaker 1: the female owner, who told me that it may happened

2726
02:17:00,640 --> 02:17:03,320
Speaker 1: because they have been reported about things that I've said

2727
02:17:03,360 --> 02:17:04,800
Speaker 1: and done.

2728
02:17:05,959 --> 02:17:09,240
Speaker 2: See, yeah, I have some reports for the woman in

2729
02:17:09,240 --> 02:17:10,400
Speaker 2: your accounting department.

2730
02:17:11,320 --> 02:17:12,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, she might want to take a look at them.

2731
02:17:12,920 --> 02:17:17,600
Speaker 3: I was firing the wrong person, dude. Look at the numbers, dude,

2732
02:17:17,600 --> 02:17:20,280
Speaker 3: Look at the numbers. Rung the numbers, dude.

2733
02:17:20,879 --> 02:17:24,680
Speaker 1: Back when I was feeling friendly and comfortable around the cheater,

2734
02:17:24,840 --> 02:17:26,840
Speaker 1: I shared stuff about me with her and.

2735
02:17:26,840 --> 02:17:28,720
Speaker 3: She ultimately turned around.

2736
02:17:28,520 --> 02:17:32,279
Speaker 2: Twisted my words, and spewed negative reports to the owners.

2737
02:17:32,520 --> 02:17:35,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's why, Okay, this is making more sense.

2738
02:17:35,280 --> 02:17:38,080
Speaker 1: This is where the Snakey's coming into play, claiming that

2739
02:17:38,160 --> 02:17:40,960
Speaker 1: I was disrespectful, didn't care about the company, and I

2740
02:17:41,000 --> 02:17:43,120
Speaker 1: didn't get paid enough to do what they wanted me

2741
02:17:43,200 --> 02:17:45,160
Speaker 1: to do, or that like, oh, he's complaining about that,

2742
02:17:45,320 --> 02:17:48,280
Speaker 1: all of which is extremely unto untrue, as I cared

2743
02:17:48,280 --> 02:17:50,120
Speaker 1: for the job with all my heart and I was

2744
02:17:50,160 --> 02:17:50,720
Speaker 1: excited that.

2745
02:17:50,720 --> 02:17:55,160
Speaker 3: I was asked to join. They believed her. Where's the

2746
02:17:55,320 --> 02:17:58,160
Speaker 3: HR department? They don't have one? Yeah, so so literally

2747
02:17:58,240 --> 02:18:01,840
Speaker 3: is it? It doesn't exist? Mm hmm, okay, okay, I'm cooking.

2748
02:18:01,840 --> 02:18:05,760
Speaker 2: I'm studs do on that ste on that there wasn't

2749
02:18:05,800 --> 02:18:08,160
Speaker 2: a meeting set with me to clarify and determine if

2750
02:18:08,200 --> 02:18:09,920
Speaker 2: the claims are true, which they were not.

2751
02:18:10,200 --> 02:18:13,240
Speaker 1: But they had the audacity to believe every single word

2752
02:18:13,360 --> 02:18:16,760
Speaker 1: that the cheater said. I wasn't able to fight, fight

2753
02:18:16,800 --> 02:18:20,000
Speaker 1: for my job or prove them wrong. So was she

2754
02:18:20,040 --> 02:18:22,160
Speaker 1: at the was she at the meeting? She went to

2755
02:18:22,200 --> 02:18:22,560
Speaker 1: the meeting?

2756
02:18:22,560 --> 02:18:24,520
Speaker 2: And what they just set you down and you didn't

2757
02:18:24,520 --> 02:18:26,760
Speaker 2: get to say anything while this the woman from accounting

2758
02:18:26,879 --> 02:18:29,160
Speaker 2: just laid into you, and I guess we believe her.

2759
02:18:30,200 --> 02:18:32,760
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, yeah, so so this was like I

2760
02:18:32,800 --> 02:18:33,920
Speaker 2: think this was backdoor.

2761
02:18:34,480 --> 02:18:36,039
Speaker 3: She goes cheater goes.

2762
02:18:35,840 --> 02:18:38,040
Speaker 1: To the male feem my owners like, oh, she's saying

2763
02:18:38,040 --> 02:18:43,520
Speaker 1: all these things. Meanwhile, meanwhile the mom knows that she's

2764
02:18:43,600 --> 02:18:47,840
Speaker 1: cheating with her husband with the dad, Like what are

2765
02:18:47,840 --> 02:18:50,000
Speaker 1: we even talking about? And she owns fifty one percent

2766
02:18:50,000 --> 02:18:52,200
Speaker 1: of the company. I'm hoping that we have like some

2767
02:18:52,240 --> 02:18:55,640
Speaker 1: sort of like second or third update where mom comes

2768
02:18:55,640 --> 02:18:58,360
Speaker 1: in at like like the last second, the last quarter

2769
02:18:58,480 --> 02:19:02,320
Speaker 1: and hits a buzzer beaters the cheater brings op back

2770
02:19:02,400 --> 02:19:04,160
Speaker 1: and we win the flu game. And I hope, so

2771
02:19:04,800 --> 02:19:09,480
Speaker 1: that's what I'm praying for. But the day after Labor Day,

2772
02:19:09,560 --> 02:19:12,959
Speaker 1: I hand a letter with my name on it. I

2773
02:19:13,080 --> 02:19:19,200
Speaker 1: was handed a letter with my name on it from.

2774
02:19:17,480 --> 02:19:20,879
Speaker 3: Was WS, the warehouse secretary, the.

2775
02:19:20,800 --> 02:19:25,800
Speaker 1: Warehouse secretary, the rogue Pokemon that's been waiting in the bushes.

2776
02:19:26,200 --> 02:19:29,560
Speaker 1: In the letter, a note said this, we regret to

2777
02:19:29,600 --> 02:19:31,720
Speaker 1: inform you that, effective two weeks from the date of

2778
02:19:31,760 --> 02:19:34,720
Speaker 1: this notice, we will no longer require your services.

2779
02:19:34,760 --> 02:19:36,240
Speaker 3: Here. I was thinking she was going to come and

2780
02:19:36,240 --> 02:19:38,480
Speaker 3: clutch she's just the's just running.

2781
02:19:38,120 --> 02:19:42,720
Speaker 2: The doing the dirty works. Yeah, she's the messenger, Yes,

2782
02:19:42,800 --> 02:19:43,520
Speaker 2: she's the messenger.

2783
02:19:43,840 --> 02:19:46,600
Speaker 1: This decision has been made after careful consideration, and we

2784
02:19:46,640 --> 02:19:49,240
Speaker 1: appreciate the work you have contributed during your time with us.

2785
02:19:49,480 --> 02:19:52,960
Speaker 1: Please ensure that all outstanding task and responsibilities are completed

2786
02:19:53,200 --> 02:19:54,360
Speaker 1: before the effective date.

2787
02:19:55,879 --> 02:19:59,640
Speaker 2: Don't okay the audacity to put that in the letter, right,

2788
02:20:00,000 --> 02:20:02,560
Speaker 2: Make sure you do all of the work, by the way,

2789
02:20:02,640 --> 02:20:05,280
Speaker 2: before we kick you out of here.

2790
02:20:05,440 --> 02:20:07,160
Speaker 3: We won't tell you what any of it is, but

2791
02:20:07,200 --> 02:20:09,600
Speaker 3: you have to make sure it's all done. If you

2792
02:20:09,640 --> 02:20:12,400
Speaker 3: have any questions or need further assistance during this transition,

2793
02:20:12,480 --> 02:20:15,320
Speaker 3: feel free to contact us. Thank you for your understanding

2794
02:20:15,360 --> 02:20:16,200
Speaker 3: and cooperation.

2795
02:20:17,480 --> 02:20:21,600
Speaker 2: Oh dude, I'm sniffing a lawyer here, Like you were saying,

2796
02:20:21,600 --> 02:20:24,119
Speaker 2: like this is because also like this is so bad,

2797
02:20:24,280 --> 02:20:26,520
Speaker 2: Like this could be so bad. Imagine if like they

2798
02:20:26,600 --> 02:20:29,600
Speaker 2: reach out and then these owners like regurgitate all this

2799
02:20:29,720 --> 02:20:33,200
Speaker 2: nonsense from the accounting lady, and now like your new

2800
02:20:33,240 --> 02:20:35,599
Speaker 2: employers are getting this bad info.

2801
02:20:35,800 --> 02:20:38,240
Speaker 1: And then they discover the truth. Boom, it's over. It

2802
02:20:38,320 --> 02:20:41,160
Speaker 1: is like everything is game over. Honestly, probably could shut

2803
02:20:41,160 --> 02:20:43,080
Speaker 1: down their company like sue amount of existence les.

2804
02:20:43,280 --> 02:20:45,280
Speaker 2: It's hard because you gotta have a paper trail for stuff.

2805
02:20:46,000 --> 02:20:48,040
Speaker 2: And that's what I'll give you advice. Man, If anything

2806
02:20:48,200 --> 02:20:51,000
Speaker 2: sketchy is happening at your job. You need to make

2807
02:20:51,080 --> 02:20:55,200
Speaker 2: a paper trail, you need receipts. You need it because

2808
02:20:55,200 --> 02:20:57,520
Speaker 2: that's the only thing that like a third party is

2809
02:20:57,560 --> 02:20:59,039
Speaker 2: gonna like arbitrate by.

2810
02:21:00,080 --> 02:21:03,080
Speaker 1: A quick question before we keep going, should oh you

2811
02:21:03,240 --> 02:21:07,640
Speaker 1: just leave or try to do something like like legal here,

2812
02:21:07,840 --> 02:21:08,680
Speaker 1: like like suthan.

2813
02:21:08,520 --> 02:21:09,400
Speaker 3: Or I think both.

2814
02:21:09,800 --> 02:21:11,840
Speaker 2: I think you need to get I think I think

2815
02:21:12,240 --> 02:21:14,760
Speaker 2: clearly you don't want to sue to stay there, like

2816
02:21:14,800 --> 02:21:17,480
Speaker 2: you don't want to keep working here, but you don't

2817
02:21:17,600 --> 02:21:21,920
Speaker 2: want this nonsense to impact your ability to find work

2818
02:21:23,040 --> 02:21:26,360
Speaker 2: down the line, which it could, like because you know,

2819
02:21:26,480 --> 02:21:29,760
Speaker 2: people call your previous employer or whatever, unless you want

2820
02:21:29,760 --> 02:21:31,800
Speaker 2: to just strike this from your resume, like don't even

2821
02:21:31,800 --> 02:21:34,880
Speaker 2: give them the information, and then your employers won't even

2822
02:21:34,920 --> 02:21:38,039
Speaker 2: know that they would call these people, right, Yeah, I mean,

2823
02:21:38,120 --> 02:21:39,760
Speaker 2: I mean maybe with a background check. I don't know,

2824
02:21:39,840 --> 02:21:45,520
Speaker 2: but I think, uh, you need Yeah, I guess. I

2825
02:21:45,760 --> 02:21:48,160
Speaker 2: also don't know exactly what the accountant has been saying

2826
02:21:48,240 --> 02:21:51,080
Speaker 2: to like get her kicked out, Like how egregious?

2827
02:21:51,160 --> 02:21:52,280
Speaker 3: Is it? For real? For real?

2828
02:21:52,640 --> 02:21:55,720
Speaker 1: I'm curious, let's throw up a pole of sue or nah,

2829
02:21:55,920 --> 02:22:00,480
Speaker 1: because I'm right now, I'm actually nah. I will say

2830
02:22:00,560 --> 02:22:03,640
Speaker 1: I might change my mind in the story because I

2831
02:22:03,680 --> 02:22:05,360
Speaker 1: think we might see how egregious it was.

2832
02:22:06,640 --> 02:22:08,920
Speaker 2: Well, I think is it even legal for I mean,

2833
02:22:08,959 --> 02:22:10,520
Speaker 2: how many employees do they have? When do you need

2834
02:22:10,560 --> 02:22:13,400
Speaker 2: an HR department? Like? What what are they like bypassing

2835
02:22:13,480 --> 02:22:16,120
Speaker 2: like rules and regulations that companies need to follow, Like,

2836
02:22:16,520 --> 02:22:20,320
Speaker 2: I don't know, look at I think it's a chat.

2837
02:22:20,520 --> 02:22:22,720
Speaker 1: Let us know if we have anyone that works in

2838
02:22:22,879 --> 02:22:25,199
Speaker 1: HR knows, Please, we want to see your comments.

2839
02:22:25,600 --> 02:22:28,640
Speaker 3: We're going to keep going through this absolute crap show.

2840
02:22:28,959 --> 02:22:31,760
Speaker 1: So in turn, I made careful consideration that I was

2841
02:22:31,800 --> 02:22:34,000
Speaker 1: no longer going to spend any more time or effort

2842
02:22:34,000 --> 02:22:36,920
Speaker 1: working for a company that didn't value employees unless it

2843
02:22:37,000 --> 02:22:41,560
Speaker 1: involved a male body part. The minute I walked through

2844
02:22:41,560 --> 02:22:44,800
Speaker 1: my front door, I grabbed my computer and began converting

2845
02:22:44,879 --> 02:22:48,200
Speaker 1: all of my documents I created into a file for

2846
02:22:48,280 --> 02:22:52,320
Speaker 1: a magic warehouse to use, detailing important notes highlighting were created,

2847
02:22:52,360 --> 02:22:55,720
Speaker 1: and providing them with the multitude of Google docs back

2848
02:22:55,720 --> 02:22:58,760
Speaker 1: to informal UH that we're done. During my time of

2849
02:22:58,879 --> 02:23:01,959
Speaker 1: not knowing what I was supposed to do, I sent

2850
02:23:02,000 --> 02:23:04,120
Speaker 1: an email with all of his information and included an

2851
02:23:04,160 --> 02:23:07,039
Speaker 1: important note that I expected to have my check mail

2852
02:23:07,120 --> 02:23:10,560
Speaker 1: to me. This was sent on September third. Very smart

2853
02:23:10,840 --> 02:23:14,240
Speaker 1: to Takota's point, have receipts. I've sent everything. Here's a documentation.

2854
02:23:14,400 --> 02:23:16,800
Speaker 1: Send me my check September third, Boom. I like this

2855
02:23:16,879 --> 02:23:20,119
Speaker 1: great move. After compiling all the documents and saving all

2856
02:23:20,160 --> 02:23:22,000
Speaker 1: the work, I made use for future portfolios.

2857
02:23:22,280 --> 02:23:26,000
Speaker 3: I called my mom, and boy, oh boy, she wasn't happy.

2858
02:23:26,480 --> 02:23:29,080
Speaker 3: My parents live almost six hours away from me, so

2859
02:23:29,280 --> 02:23:31,600
Speaker 3: I wasn't able to have a physical conversation, so a

2860
02:23:31,600 --> 02:23:34,640
Speaker 3: phone call had to suffice. My mother is a digital

2861
02:23:34,680 --> 02:23:39,000
Speaker 3: marketing executive at her company, Big Shot. Mama. Oooo, she's

2862
02:23:39,000 --> 02:23:41,560
Speaker 3: got like where this is going? Right? Mom knows what

2863
02:23:41,680 --> 02:23:42,480
Speaker 3: to do here.

2864
02:23:42,879 --> 02:23:45,240
Speaker 1: And she is my inspiration for the field I chose

2865
02:23:45,240 --> 02:23:47,959
Speaker 1: to study in college. I contacted her as she has

2866
02:23:48,000 --> 02:23:51,039
Speaker 1: been in this field in her thirty year I contacted

2867
02:23:51,040 --> 02:23:53,680
Speaker 1: her because she has seen this happen in her thirty

2868
02:23:53,760 --> 02:23:56,760
Speaker 1: years of work, and because she's my mom. Mom always

2869
02:23:56,840 --> 02:23:59,200
Speaker 1: knows what to say, and having her there, even though

2870
02:23:59,200 --> 02:24:04,440
Speaker 1: she was over the phone, helped me sustainably substantially. I

2871
02:24:04,560 --> 02:24:08,200
Speaker 1: was in the middle of the Winko Winko Bakery, balling

2872
02:24:08,200 --> 02:24:10,680
Speaker 1: my eyes out as she comforted me, reassuring that I

2873
02:24:10,720 --> 02:24:13,360
Speaker 1: did nothing wrong and that I and that I was

2874
02:24:13,400 --> 02:24:16,160
Speaker 1: there to work and provide an increase of sales amongst

2875
02:24:16,160 --> 02:24:19,920
Speaker 1: the business. On September sixteenth, I received an email from

2876
02:24:19,959 --> 02:24:23,400
Speaker 1: the wife, the female owner, claiming that my check had

2877
02:24:23,400 --> 02:24:26,760
Speaker 1: been mailed to me. It is now October third, a

2878
02:24:26,840 --> 02:24:30,760
Speaker 1: month a month out, I believe, and I have yet

2879
02:24:30,800 --> 02:24:33,800
Speaker 1: to receive any payment for twelve days of work. In

2880
02:24:33,840 --> 02:24:36,359
Speaker 1: conversing with my mom, I asked if I should contact

2881
02:24:36,360 --> 02:24:40,039
Speaker 1: the magic Warehouse about where my check is and and

2882
02:24:40,280 --> 02:24:42,440
Speaker 1: replied with a hard no. You need to make a

2883
02:24:42,480 --> 02:24:45,440
Speaker 1: report with the Labor and Industries Department and they will

2884
02:24:45,440 --> 02:24:47,800
Speaker 1: take it from there. That's, I think what we were

2885
02:24:47,800 --> 02:24:50,600
Speaker 1: looking for. That's the Labor and Industries department.

2886
02:24:50,640 --> 02:24:51,800
Speaker 3: You want to make them sweat.

2887
02:24:51,840 --> 02:24:54,560
Speaker 2: They're not gonna sweat if you the person that they

2888
02:24:54,840 --> 02:24:57,039
Speaker 2: disrespected calls.

2889
02:24:56,760 --> 02:24:58,560
Speaker 3: And is like, where's my money, and you're gonna be like,

2890
02:24:59,440 --> 02:25:03,160
Speaker 3: damn off, lose her. Give them the sweat. I'm bousy

2891
02:25:03,240 --> 02:25:08,040
Speaker 3: cheating on my wife. Baby, I'm just trying to tam

2892
02:25:08,080 --> 02:25:10,440
Speaker 3: on my bike phone bay. Come man.

2893
02:25:12,440 --> 02:25:17,160
Speaker 2: Now, having having the labor and issues, having the Labor

2894
02:25:17,200 --> 02:25:19,520
Speaker 2: and Industries's department handle it will allow me to get

2895
02:25:19,520 --> 02:25:20,240
Speaker 2: all the money.

2896
02:25:20,080 --> 02:25:23,640
Speaker 3: I should be getting. Okay, let's go. Let's go. Because

2897
02:25:23,879 --> 02:25:28,280
Speaker 3: the cheater is our accountant and handles the payroll, I

2898
02:25:28,280 --> 02:25:31,720
Speaker 3: don't trust her. I see us in the comments. Fortunately,

2899
02:25:32,000 --> 02:25:35,039
Speaker 3: I took a picture of three weeks of timestamps just

2900
02:25:35,080 --> 02:25:38,320
Speaker 3: in case anything happened, and of course something happened. I

2901
02:25:38,360 --> 02:25:40,879
Speaker 3: get paid thirty dollars an hour, and I worked.

2902
02:25:40,879 --> 02:25:43,959
Speaker 1: Sixty nine points sixty six hours throughout those twelve shifts,

2903
02:25:44,040 --> 02:25:48,560
Speaker 1: and phe number well, Riley, we have a calculation that

2904
02:25:48,640 --> 02:25:51,840
Speaker 1: I owed two thousand and eighty nine dollars and eighty cents.

2905
02:25:52,720 --> 02:25:55,879
Speaker 1: It is confirmed, thank you, sir, before taxes, Before taxes.

2906
02:25:56,280 --> 02:25:58,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised if she meddled with my paycheck,

2907
02:25:58,760 --> 02:26:00,959
Speaker 1: which is why I am now going through the big

2908
02:26:01,000 --> 02:26:04,600
Speaker 1: guns and now we wait. I hadn't seen any of

2909
02:26:04,600 --> 02:26:06,600
Speaker 1: them since the day I was let go, when they

2910
02:26:06,640 --> 02:26:08,520
Speaker 1: would look at me, when they would look at me

2911
02:26:08,560 --> 02:26:10,440
Speaker 1: in the eyes, or speak a single word to me,

2912
02:26:10,600 --> 02:26:13,720
Speaker 1: when my office was directly where everyone could see me,

2913
02:26:14,520 --> 02:26:19,320
Speaker 1: until October first, when the dad and the cheater came

2914
02:26:19,360 --> 02:26:21,480
Speaker 1: into the restaurant that I worked at. I kept one

2915
02:26:21,520 --> 02:26:23,560
Speaker 1: shift just in case, and I'm really glad I did,

2916
02:26:23,879 --> 02:26:27,000
Speaker 1: and they had some drinks. I was stressed, beyond all

2917
02:26:27,080 --> 02:26:32,360
Speaker 1: stressed until I found out that my manager overheard the

2918
02:26:32,480 --> 02:26:35,760
Speaker 1: dad calling the cheater honey and asked if it was

2919
02:26:35,760 --> 02:26:39,120
Speaker 1: his daughter, and the cheater looked at my boss and

2920
02:26:39,160 --> 02:26:39,560
Speaker 1: said no.

2921
02:26:40,480 --> 02:26:42,800
Speaker 3: That made my gosh darn day.

2922
02:26:43,400 --> 02:26:44,720
Speaker 2: And by the way, if you want to make our

2923
02:26:44,840 --> 02:26:47,640
Speaker 2: gosh darn day, then tap the profile and join us

2924
02:26:47,640 --> 02:26:48,959
Speaker 2: live every weekday.

2925
02:26:48,600 --> 02:26:52,760
Speaker 3: At three pm PST. Just a little poopy thank you.

2926
02:26:53,480 --> 02:26:56,800
Speaker 3: Now the chaos isn't over at the business.

2927
02:26:56,800 --> 02:27:00,400
Speaker 1: There is something, there's some other illegal activity going on

2928
02:27:00,760 --> 02:27:02,480
Speaker 1: that can easily get them shut down.

2929
02:27:02,520 --> 02:27:04,720
Speaker 3: And I have photographic proof. Oh wow.

2930
02:27:06,120 --> 02:27:08,560
Speaker 1: So now it's twiddling thumb's time until I get my

2931
02:27:08,640 --> 02:27:12,199
Speaker 1: paycheck and then the real madness begins. Life lesson, don't

2932
02:27:12,240 --> 02:27:15,840
Speaker 1: mess with me, don't uh, don't think with your pants,

2933
02:27:15,959 --> 02:27:17,560
Speaker 1: and don't f around because.

2934
02:27:17,320 --> 02:27:23,240
Speaker 2: You will find out. Yeah, come on, now there is uh.

2935
02:27:23,280 --> 02:27:26,560
Speaker 2: There is a very short update. But look, having this

2936
02:27:26,640 --> 02:27:29,720
Speaker 2: kind of closing convo real quick, I think I switched

2937
02:27:29,720 --> 02:27:33,160
Speaker 2: over so eighty nine percent and said, Sue, I now agree.

2938
02:27:33,320 --> 02:27:35,359
Speaker 1: Now we know that like the Labor and Industries Department,

2939
02:27:35,400 --> 02:27:38,080
Speaker 1: that's like basically what we were trying it. That's like,

2940
02:27:38,120 --> 02:27:39,520
Speaker 1: what's the equivalent of suing or whatever?

2941
02:27:39,800 --> 02:27:41,600
Speaker 3: I see that I don't know. See this is where

2942
02:27:41,640 --> 02:27:42,440
Speaker 3: I kind of disagree.

2943
02:27:42,480 --> 02:27:46,720
Speaker 2: Now, oh right, I say, don't sue because as some

2944
02:27:46,760 --> 02:27:49,640
Speaker 2: people in the comments have said, it's like sue you.

2945
02:27:49,800 --> 02:27:53,960
Speaker 2: Suing the company opens you up for more like scrutiny

2946
02:27:54,120 --> 02:27:57,640
Speaker 2: from other company because there are other entities out there

2947
02:27:57,800 --> 02:27:59,959
Speaker 2: that will take care of this already. They are dizzy

2948
02:28:00,440 --> 02:28:04,760
Speaker 2: to go after companies that are like not operating within

2949
02:28:04,879 --> 02:28:08,000
Speaker 2: the confines of the law or doing sketchy stuff.

2950
02:28:08,240 --> 02:28:10,000
Speaker 3: Just let them take care of like the labor like

2951
02:28:10,040 --> 02:28:13,040
Speaker 3: the labor department. Yah. I mean, like like you'd need

2952
02:28:13,080 --> 02:28:14,360
Speaker 3: your money that you're owed.

2953
02:28:14,720 --> 02:28:17,680
Speaker 2: But in terms of all that other stuff, let the

2954
02:28:17,920 --> 02:28:20,760
Speaker 2: let the entities that are designed to do it take

2955
02:28:20,760 --> 02:28:22,320
Speaker 2: care of it. And because they do a really good

2956
02:28:22,360 --> 02:28:26,240
Speaker 2: job to like and and then that, you know, then

2957
02:28:26,480 --> 02:28:29,560
Speaker 2: companies won't be like, oh you you sued the last

2958
02:28:29,560 --> 02:28:32,240
Speaker 2: place you worked, ye oh, so why should.

2959
02:28:31,959 --> 02:28:33,480
Speaker 3: We hire you? A great point.

2960
02:28:33,640 --> 02:28:35,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, that's a good point, and that

2961
02:28:35,600 --> 02:28:37,880
Speaker 1: probably would come up in like a background check or something.

2962
02:28:37,959 --> 02:28:41,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. So you just imagine the slate clean and clearly

2963
02:28:41,520 --> 02:28:43,480
Speaker 2: it's like I think someone else in the comments also

2964
02:28:43,680 --> 02:28:47,360
Speaker 2: had a comment that they were like, the accountant is

2965
02:28:47,560 --> 02:28:51,120
Speaker 2: doing sketchy stuff on the books, and she knows about it,

2966
02:28:51,120 --> 02:28:52,879
Speaker 2: which is why they can't let her go and why

2967
02:28:52,879 --> 02:28:55,240
Speaker 2: they can't fire her, and why the wife knows about

2968
02:28:55,280 --> 02:28:57,760
Speaker 2: the affair, but nothing has been done about the accounting

2969
02:28:57,800 --> 02:29:01,440
Speaker 2: person because she knows that the books are being cooked.

2970
02:29:01,840 --> 02:29:04,240
Speaker 3: Who commented that, do we know? I think it was

2971
02:29:04,800 --> 02:29:08,720
Speaker 3: shout them out. It started with k I think I

2972
02:29:08,760 --> 02:29:09,440
Speaker 3: think it was Kimberly.

2973
02:29:09,520 --> 02:29:12,640
Speaker 2: Kimberly, fine, Kimberly. Think it was Kimberly. I'm not sure.

2974
02:29:13,280 --> 02:29:16,279
Speaker 2: Correct you said that don't burn the people with the secrets.

2975
02:29:16,360 --> 02:29:19,240
Speaker 2: I think I really finds that that as well.

2976
02:29:19,360 --> 02:29:24,600
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, that makes it. Oh yeah, there was

2977
02:29:24,680 --> 02:29:30,920
Speaker 3: right there. Something something shaping up a little more more Sophia,

2978
02:29:31,720 --> 02:29:34,480
Speaker 3: Sophia cologne. Something shady is going on.

2979
02:29:34,520 --> 02:29:37,160
Speaker 2: That's where the account that is being kept in or

2980
02:29:37,440 --> 02:29:39,119
Speaker 2: sure some corruption.

2981
02:29:38,879 --> 02:29:42,600
Speaker 1: Definitely, No, that is that is a great point.

2982
02:29:42,840 --> 02:29:43,120
Speaker 3: Wow.

2983
02:29:43,280 --> 02:29:46,240
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think, yeah, go through like file with

2984
02:29:46,280 --> 02:29:49,199
Speaker 1: the with the correct agency, like the labor labor department

2985
02:29:49,920 --> 02:29:53,360
Speaker 1: as we saw here. But other than that file that

2986
02:29:53,600 --> 02:29:55,640
Speaker 1: get your money, get out and live your life and

2987
02:29:55,680 --> 02:29:57,360
Speaker 1: just like move on from it.

2988
02:29:57,400 --> 02:30:02,920
Speaker 2: Also genius for holding onto that shift. Yes, that one shift, man,

2989
02:30:03,200 --> 02:30:06,880
Speaker 2: op Opie like did great again, Opie. If you're looking

2990
02:30:06,879 --> 02:30:10,720
Speaker 2: for extra work, pit her a line for all Right, Well.

2991
02:30:10,600 --> 02:30:12,360
Speaker 3: Let's get into this final update and close this out.

2992
02:30:12,720 --> 02:30:15,640
Speaker 2: It is important to mention that the cheater lives with

2993
02:30:15,800 --> 02:30:19,039
Speaker 2: the owners and takes care of their disabled son, so

2994
02:30:19,080 --> 02:30:22,760
Speaker 2: she has easy access to the dad and makes sense

2995
02:30:23,200 --> 02:30:24,360
Speaker 2: why the mom was.

2996
02:30:24,400 --> 02:30:30,520
Speaker 3: Able to throw shoes at here. That's it, And Nicole

2997
02:30:30,720 --> 02:30:33,600
Speaker 3: h uh says she was skimming off the top two

2998
02:30:33,800 --> 02:30:36,640
Speaker 3: I could a thousand trillion percent you that like it

2999
02:30:36,760 --> 02:30:40,119
Speaker 3: seemed dude, it seems like she like leeched her way.

3000
02:30:40,360 --> 02:30:43,400
Speaker 1: Like, dude, she's she's living with them, she's their accountant,

3001
02:30:43,480 --> 02:30:45,080
Speaker 1: she's she's getting Opie fired.

3002
02:30:45,400 --> 02:30:46,920
Speaker 3: Dude, this is this.

3003
02:30:47,040 --> 02:30:52,360
Speaker 2: Is so so, so so messy. Yeah, I'd keep a

3004
02:30:52,400 --> 02:30:55,320
Speaker 2: close eye on that kid, like are they I don't

3005
02:30:55,320 --> 02:30:56,680
Speaker 2: know if I would trust this person take care of

3006
02:30:56,720 --> 02:30:57,040
Speaker 2: that kid.

3007
02:30:57,200 --> 02:30:58,520
Speaker 3: Not not at all, Not at all.

3008
02:30:59,120 --> 02:31:02,560
Speaker 1: She is not to be a caretaker, especially especially with

3009
02:31:02,600 --> 02:31:03,760
Speaker 1: the kids with special needs.

3010
02:31:03,800 --> 02:31:06,120
Speaker 3: Like, dude, get get get her.

3011
02:31:06,520 --> 02:31:09,520
Speaker 2: Maybe that's really her calling and it was the dirty,

3012
02:31:10,280 --> 02:31:15,279
Speaker 2: the dirty lure of money where working in the accountant

3013
02:31:15,320 --> 02:31:17,520
Speaker 2: books that made her turn.

3014
02:31:18,480 --> 02:31:22,840
Speaker 3: That's what That's what got her childcare. That's where it's at.

3015
02:31:23,320 --> 02:31:24,800
Speaker 2: That's the only thing that makes sense to me, because

3016
02:31:24,800 --> 02:31:27,520
Speaker 2: why do you let your sketchy, dirty accountant take care

3017
02:31:27,560 --> 02:31:28,920
Speaker 2: of your special needs child?

3018
02:31:29,120 --> 02:31:31,720
Speaker 3: Right? She gotta be good at it at least, right,

3019
02:31:32,080 --> 02:31:36,400
Speaker 3: Absolutely absolute insanity. What a wild, wild story. We've had

3020
02:31:36,440 --> 02:31:38,520
Speaker 3: a lot, a lot of crazy ones today. Three just

3021
02:31:38,640 --> 02:31:43,600
Speaker 3: wild back. Bam bam, bam bam. I'm doing good. I do.

3022
02:31:43,640 --> 02:31:45,240
Speaker 2: I need to use the bathroom, got hit that. I'll

3023
02:31:45,240 --> 02:31:50,600
Speaker 2: talk to the paper. I gotta go PayPal, Oh, let's

3024
02:31:50,640 --> 02:31:56,240
Speaker 2: read some. Here we go, Emily, thanks for five gifted memberships.

3025
02:31:56,280 --> 02:31:58,480
Speaker 2: Love all the gifted memberships we've been seeing today, freaking

3026
02:31:58,600 --> 02:31:59,879
Speaker 2: freaking w giving.

3027
02:31:59,680 --> 02:32:00,680
Speaker 3: Them back to then.

3028
02:32:01,000 --> 02:32:04,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, we haven't had a long stream like this in

3029
02:32:04,080 --> 02:32:04,480
Speaker 5: a minute.

3030
02:32:04,560 --> 02:32:05,400
Speaker 3: Yeah right, I know.

3031
02:32:05,480 --> 02:32:07,920
Speaker 2: I was just about to say that crazy Come on

3032
02:32:08,040 --> 02:32:09,800
Speaker 2: now any other that's it?

3033
02:32:10,560 --> 02:32:12,760
Speaker 3: Well here, let me let me refresh this. We're gonna

3034
02:32:12,800 --> 02:32:15,840
Speaker 3: refresh the tip like, yep, that's it. Refresh. There we go,

3035
02:32:15,959 --> 02:32:17,840
Speaker 3: there we go, Thanks for that, guys.

3036
02:32:18,720 --> 02:32:21,960
Speaker 2: Just Casana says we need to shout out one done

3037
02:32:21,959 --> 02:32:23,320
Speaker 2: Millennial for the package.

3038
02:32:23,800 --> 02:32:26,760
Speaker 1: Here in chat oh one doumb millennial. You Yes, I

3039
02:32:26,840 --> 02:32:32,600
Speaker 1: just crushed it, just uh responded to Avery literally mine

3040
02:32:32,640 --> 02:32:34,840
Speaker 1: blum mine blum yep.

3041
02:32:35,240 --> 02:32:39,160
Speaker 3: I am like this is so it feels like can

3042
02:32:39,160 --> 02:32:41,400
Speaker 3: we can we do it together? Can we build it together?

3043
02:32:42,320 --> 02:32:42,680
Speaker 2: Oh?

3044
02:32:44,120 --> 02:32:45,959
Speaker 1: Oh we did read our cards. I thought we didn't

3045
02:32:45,959 --> 02:32:47,160
Speaker 1: read our cards first we did.

3046
02:32:47,200 --> 02:32:52,519
Speaker 2: But Sam and Sophia one dounb millennial alsome allnae An says.

3047
02:32:52,280 --> 02:32:54,640
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, I've been three weeks gone and back, so

3048
02:32:54,840 --> 02:32:59,560
Speaker 1: glad that you're back. We're gonna also have uh Riley,

3049
02:33:00,440 --> 02:33:03,520
Speaker 1: Sam and Sofia read their cards when they when they

3050
02:33:03,520 --> 02:33:04,080
Speaker 1: come on the stream.

3051
02:33:04,120 --> 02:33:05,960
Speaker 3: Actually, I should like pull them out for you guys.

3052
02:33:06,080 --> 02:33:08,440
Speaker 4: I'd never do that on stream, but whenever I'm here

3053
02:33:08,480 --> 02:33:16,000
Speaker 4: on stream, whenever they're here on stream. Also, I'm like, oh,

3054
02:33:16,040 --> 02:33:16,920
Speaker 4: now you want to eat.

3055
02:33:17,000 --> 02:33:20,400
Speaker 2: No, but I was, I was just curious, Okay, it

3056
02:33:20,480 --> 02:33:22,360
Speaker 2: was it's you're so against it.

3057
02:33:22,640 --> 02:33:24,720
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna open it just to see see

3058
02:33:24,720 --> 02:33:27,440
Speaker 3: what it was. I'm going to open it. Dude, you're

3059
02:33:27,440 --> 02:33:28,840
Speaker 3: trying you're trying to change history over.

3060
02:33:28,840 --> 02:33:30,840
Speaker 4: No, no, you I was with you, but now you're

3061
02:33:30,879 --> 02:33:33,199
Speaker 4: going on the other side. You're trying to change history

3062
02:33:33,640 --> 02:33:34,280
Speaker 4: the gas like.

3063
02:33:34,320 --> 02:33:35,959
Speaker 3: Eat, dude, you're gaslighting me.

3064
02:33:36,320 --> 02:33:38,120
Speaker 4: See I was like, please, don't eat on stream. And

3065
02:33:38,160 --> 02:33:40,000
Speaker 4: now you're taking you're opening it. Now you have to

3066
02:33:40,040 --> 02:33:40,600
Speaker 4: take a byte.

3067
02:33:40,760 --> 02:33:44,520
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, established it. Eat it. You can't just

3068
02:33:44,760 --> 02:33:48,320
Speaker 3: use psychopath. It's okay, eat it. We'll do it next time.

3069
02:33:49,080 --> 02:33:51,080
Speaker 3: It'll happen. It'll happen. Anyways.

3070
02:33:51,240 --> 02:33:53,000
Speaker 4: The code is getting more water. I think we should

3071
02:33:53,160 --> 02:33:55,160
Speaker 4: there we go, get start a new one.

3072
02:33:55,280 --> 02:33:57,800
Speaker 1: Get that liquid. Yep, let's do it. You and me,

3073
02:33:57,840 --> 02:34:01,000
Speaker 1: big dog, here we go. My boss tried to make

3074
02:34:01,040 --> 02:34:02,280
Speaker 1: a move on me, so I.

3075
02:34:02,280 --> 02:34:03,560
Speaker 3: Quit comes often.

3076
02:34:05,320 --> 02:34:08,440
Speaker 1: Dang it, Riley, I think I thirty one female, have

3077
02:34:08,520 --> 02:34:10,520
Speaker 1: been in a new department for just over a month.

3078
02:34:11,000 --> 02:34:14,320
Speaker 1: My direct supervisor, Levi fake name of course, thirty nine mail,

3079
02:34:14,440 --> 02:34:17,040
Speaker 1: took an immediate interest in me. It started coaching me

3080
02:34:17,080 --> 02:34:18,800
Speaker 1: on how to excel in the business world.

3081
02:34:18,959 --> 02:34:21,480
Speaker 3: I'm grossed out already. I just know what's gonna say.

3082
02:34:21,480 --> 02:34:25,360
Speaker 3: You wear jeans. I wear my jeans. My name's Levi.

3083
02:34:27,440 --> 02:34:31,320
Speaker 3: In a mind, Jene, it.

3084
02:34:31,360 --> 02:34:34,320
Speaker 1: Was incredible, all his inside, all his advice, I was.

3085
02:34:34,760 --> 02:34:37,520
Speaker 1: I was readily. I readily was able to see it

3086
02:34:37,600 --> 02:34:39,000
Speaker 1: changing my life for the better.

3087
02:34:39,160 --> 02:34:41,120
Speaker 3: By the way. This comes from Flufey on the ar

3088
02:34:41,160 --> 02:34:42,480
Speaker 3: Slash showcase story. I'm sup read it.

3089
02:34:42,760 --> 02:34:45,240
Speaker 1: So he asked me to work weekend over time with

3090
02:34:45,360 --> 02:34:47,400
Speaker 1: him after the first week, and of course I was

3091
02:34:47,520 --> 02:34:52,360
Speaker 1: eager to oblige. Saturday, when he first started explicitly talking

3092
02:34:52,400 --> 02:34:56,360
Speaker 1: about his former sexual experiences, he was very chill about it,

3093
02:34:56,360 --> 02:34:59,400
Speaker 1: and I wanted to be chill too, so I participated.

3094
02:34:59,480 --> 02:35:02,480
Speaker 4: Okay, only job that you should be okay with sharing

3095
02:35:02,520 --> 02:35:06,560
Speaker 4: your sexual explicit things is this jug and that's only

3096
02:35:06,640 --> 02:35:07,200
Speaker 4: for sam So.

3097
02:35:07,160 --> 02:35:11,280
Speaker 3: That's right, only for name is Samuel daughter? What did

3098
02:35:11,360 --> 02:35:13,160
Speaker 3: I just walk into right now?

3099
02:35:13,840 --> 02:35:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3100
02:35:15,400 --> 02:35:18,080
Speaker 1: So after that day he kept suggesting we drink some

3101
02:35:18,120 --> 02:35:22,240
Speaker 1: Bruskis together at my place. Oh god, I finally conceded

3102
02:35:22,240 --> 02:35:25,959
Speaker 1: and invited him over where we talked about work and yep,

3103
02:35:26,680 --> 02:35:30,240
Speaker 1: more spicy sleep talking about it. I think quick deal

3104
02:35:30,280 --> 02:35:34,040
Speaker 1: the r few OPI just got a new job. There's

3105
02:35:34,080 --> 02:35:37,280
Speaker 1: this like new boss manager guy who was giving her

3106
02:35:37,280 --> 02:35:39,760
Speaker 1: like super helpful advice. But then's like, hey, let's work

3107
02:35:39,800 --> 02:35:43,360
Speaker 1: over the weekend. Let's uh go get a few bruskies

3108
02:35:43,400 --> 02:35:46,160
Speaker 1: at your place and chatting all about spicy.

3109
02:35:46,080 --> 02:35:47,480
Speaker 3: Let's work in each other's bedrooms.

3110
02:35:47,680 --> 02:35:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is getting a little crazy. He got me

3111
02:35:50,240 --> 02:35:53,320
Speaker 1: a quasi promotion at work, the best he could do

3112
02:35:53,400 --> 02:35:57,960
Speaker 1: so the other so the others wouldn't get jealousikes others

3113
02:35:58,200 --> 02:36:01,039
Speaker 1: taught me, and after a couple of week invited himself

3114
02:36:01,120 --> 02:36:05,520
Speaker 1: over again. He told me I better drink three drinks

3115
02:36:05,520 --> 02:36:08,000
Speaker 1: this time, and if he had more than three then

3116
02:36:08,080 --> 02:36:13,200
Speaker 1: I'd be in trouble. Oh my god, well, fam you

3117
02:36:13,280 --> 02:36:16,760
Speaker 1: all guessed it. He came over, had a drink, told

3118
02:36:16,800 --> 02:36:19,119
Speaker 1: me to stand up and turn around, told me how

3119
02:36:19,120 --> 02:36:22,640
Speaker 1: incredible I look, and how I'm a Ferrari and just

3120
02:36:22,879 --> 02:36:30,320
Speaker 1: the right driver in the seat. Bro, can't even be creepy, right, Bro,

3121
02:36:30,440 --> 02:36:34,160
Speaker 1: can't even be disgusting.

3122
02:36:33,080 --> 02:36:36,600
Speaker 3: Right, I would laugh so harsh? Right, Yeah, that's what

3123
02:36:36,680 --> 02:36:37,400
Speaker 3: he's Golly.

3124
02:36:37,959 --> 02:36:42,800
Speaker 1: Fortunately, somehow he left before texting asking me asking to.

3125
02:36:42,560 --> 02:36:43,680
Speaker 3: Test drive the Ferrari.

3126
02:36:44,280 --> 02:36:46,360
Speaker 1: He told me that he wants to teach me how

3127
02:36:46,360 --> 02:36:49,840
Speaker 1: to separate my emotions from work and how he wouldn't

3128
02:36:49,879 --> 02:36:53,160
Speaker 1: want my emotions to get in the way of a promotion. Dude,

3129
02:36:53,200 --> 02:36:55,760
Speaker 1: this guy can get fired so hard it is not

3130
02:36:55,920 --> 02:36:59,440
Speaker 1: even funny. And I am bab I am praying that

3131
02:36:59,440 --> 02:37:00,640
Speaker 1: that's what's This.

3132
02:37:00,600 --> 02:37:02,720
Speaker 3: Guy is disgusting and.

3133
02:37:04,080 --> 02:37:06,080
Speaker 2: For him to have the audacity to be like, let

3134
02:37:06,120 --> 02:37:09,560
Speaker 2: me teach you how to separate work emotions from personal

3135
02:37:09,560 --> 02:37:12,800
Speaker 2: emotions while I tell you you're the Ferrari i'd like

3136
02:37:12,920 --> 02:37:13,440
Speaker 2: to drive.

3137
02:37:14,360 --> 02:37:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't worry, I'll get you that promotion too. Yeah, scumbag.

3138
02:37:19,160 --> 02:37:20,879
Speaker 3: You know what, Hey, you can get to my Ferrari,

3139
02:37:21,000 --> 02:37:24,320
Speaker 3: the one I'm driving off of bridge. Yeah. Take that

3140
02:37:25,520 --> 02:37:26,400
Speaker 3: got him Stan.

3141
02:37:27,400 --> 02:37:29,680
Speaker 1: Of course he has to call me for the last

3142
02:37:29,680 --> 02:37:34,039
Speaker 1: part because he just hates He told me that he

3143
02:37:34,120 --> 02:37:36,920
Speaker 1: had to teach me how to separate emotions so I

3144
02:37:36,920 --> 02:37:40,160
Speaker 1: could fly in my career because I have so much potential.

3145
02:37:40,560 --> 02:37:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god, what a beautiful speech.

3146
02:37:42,760 --> 02:37:46,119
Speaker 1: I can't believe this all happened. It effing happened. I'm

3147
02:37:46,160 --> 02:37:48,160
Speaker 1: so shook right now. I don't know what to do

3148
02:37:48,520 --> 02:37:51,080
Speaker 1: other than to show up tomorrow and pretending nothing happened,

3149
02:37:51,080 --> 02:37:54,160
Speaker 1: business as usual. He said he's getting promoted to out

3150
02:37:54,160 --> 02:37:56,720
Speaker 1: of state in the next few weeks, so hopefully that's

3151
02:37:56,800 --> 02:38:00,160
Speaker 1: not a lie too. I am just so unbelievably shito.

3152
02:38:00,520 --> 02:38:03,600
Speaker 1: The nightmare of my male boss using a woman's career

3153
02:38:04,000 --> 02:38:07,760
Speaker 1: against her for a spicy, sleek sleep actually happened to me.

3154
02:38:08,080 --> 02:38:10,920
Speaker 1: I've heard so many stories, but never thought.

3155
02:38:11,440 --> 02:38:14,960
Speaker 3: Girl. Please wish me uh girl, please beroe well tonight.

3156
02:38:15,240 --> 02:38:17,800
Speaker 3: I wish you well tonight. I you know, I'll need

3157
02:38:17,840 --> 02:38:20,240
Speaker 3: your collective courage to get through tomorrow. Thank you.

3158
02:38:21,600 --> 02:38:24,480
Speaker 1: We have an update and we're gonna see if OP

3159
02:38:24,520 --> 02:38:28,480
Speaker 1: he decides to report him or not. So I'm going

3160
02:38:28,520 --> 02:38:31,840
Speaker 1: to ask the question, would you would you report?

3161
02:38:32,400 --> 02:38:34,560
Speaker 3: One hundred percent? Actually I'm taking the hat off for this.

3162
02:38:36,800 --> 02:38:37,720
Speaker 3: We're getting serious here.

3163
02:38:39,040 --> 02:38:42,240
Speaker 2: No, I just wanted to be dramatic. Although my hair's

3164
02:38:42,240 --> 02:38:45,240
Speaker 2: a little I look a little slick back, greasier.

3165
02:38:45,959 --> 02:38:47,000
Speaker 3: You're giving, you're giving.

3166
02:38:48,800 --> 02:38:50,960
Speaker 2: To be like, hey, yeah, I'm really thinking of the

3167
02:38:51,240 --> 02:38:54,320
Speaker 2: you know, uh, report him to your superiors.

3168
02:38:54,520 --> 02:38:57,200
Speaker 3: You know he's about to be reporting with the fishes.

3169
02:38:57,440 --> 02:39:02,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's going to be sleeping with the fishes. Luca

3170
02:39:02,440 --> 02:39:06,800
Speaker 2: Brasi sleeps with the fishes. Okay, uh yeah. This guy

3171
02:39:06,800 --> 02:39:09,200
Speaker 2: doesn't deserve to get a promotion anywhere, dude. He needs

3172
02:39:09,280 --> 02:39:13,240
Speaker 2: to be told that he's fired for being an absolute creepo.

3173
02:39:13,400 --> 02:39:16,400
Speaker 3: He has to be fired so so hard, and do

3174
02:39:16,480 --> 02:39:19,400
Speaker 3: it now before he leaves for two weeks. Please yeah.

3175
02:39:19,720 --> 02:39:23,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well actually, actually only thing I would say is

3176
02:39:24,040 --> 02:39:25,600
Speaker 1: wait till after he leaves.

3177
02:39:26,520 --> 02:39:29,400
Speaker 3: Do the report. He's not physically close.

3178
02:39:29,120 --> 02:39:32,000
Speaker 1: To you for you know, just anything that might happen

3179
02:39:32,000 --> 02:39:34,160
Speaker 1: in that that department, and.

3180
02:39:35,800 --> 02:39:39,120
Speaker 3: Then do the report. You could do either way.

3181
02:39:39,400 --> 02:39:44,279
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, no matter what, pay per trail portrail

3182
02:39:44,440 --> 02:39:47,119
Speaker 2: is very important for this stuff. Yes, and especially if

3183
02:39:47,120 --> 02:39:50,560
Speaker 2: you have like texts, He's like, I hate texting. It's like,

3184
02:39:50,640 --> 02:39:53,360
Speaker 2: I wonder why he hates texting. Maybe because texts can

3185
02:39:53,400 --> 02:39:55,040
Speaker 2: be traced back to him.

3186
02:39:55,200 --> 02:39:58,560
Speaker 1: I want, like he has to I freaking pray that

3187
02:39:58,560 --> 02:40:01,560
Speaker 1: that he has been like there's something that hasn't been,

3188
02:40:01,600 --> 02:40:02,160
Speaker 1: like he's been.

3189
02:40:02,000 --> 02:40:05,520
Speaker 3: Fired before for this or something like that. Who knows, dude,

3190
02:40:05,600 --> 02:40:07,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Maybe the promotions have been sweet enough

3191
02:40:07,959 --> 02:40:10,640
Speaker 3: to where no, I'm just kidding. That's come on, dude,

3192
02:40:10,720 --> 02:40:13,680
Speaker 3: come on this. This guy needs to go.

3193
02:40:13,959 --> 02:40:17,240
Speaker 2: This guy needs to go. But we have the update

3194
02:40:17,480 --> 02:40:19,080
Speaker 2: where we find out are you ready to go to

3195
02:40:19,520 --> 02:40:22,160
Speaker 2: are you sad? I am prepared, Are you sad off?

3196
02:40:23,040 --> 02:40:25,320
Speaker 3: Ready to go? I really don't know where to begin,

3197
02:40:26,040 --> 02:40:27,600
Speaker 3: neither do I.

3198
02:40:27,600 --> 02:40:32,920
Speaker 1: I ultimately decided not to report him because, based on

3199
02:40:32,959 --> 02:40:35,959
Speaker 1: the way he talked about our director, I thought that

3200
02:40:36,000 --> 02:40:36,959
Speaker 1: they would take his.

3201
02:40:37,080 --> 02:40:39,600
Speaker 3: Side instead of mine.

3202
02:40:40,120 --> 02:40:42,840
Speaker 1: Everyone kept telling me the HR is here, to protect

3203
02:40:42,959 --> 02:40:46,440
Speaker 1: the company, not you, and I was on the bottom

3204
02:40:46,760 --> 02:40:49,400
Speaker 1: of the totem pole. So I went back to work

3205
02:40:49,440 --> 02:40:57,920
Speaker 1: every day and act nothing happened. Dude, that is so unbelievably, Dad.

3206
02:41:00,440 --> 02:41:03,280
Speaker 2: I don't take that deal. I don't take that deal.

3207
02:41:03,440 --> 02:41:07,200
Speaker 2: I reject this deal. I I no deal for me. Yeah,

3208
02:41:07,280 --> 02:41:08,359
Speaker 2: it's come on, man.

3209
02:41:08,280 --> 02:41:09,280
Speaker 3: I get it.

3210
02:41:09,320 --> 02:41:12,560
Speaker 1: I get it, and I I understand the fear of

3211
02:41:12,640 --> 02:41:16,000
Speaker 1: like if you're in this environment where like everyone is

3212
02:41:16,080 --> 02:41:17,680
Speaker 1: like if you report it, it's kind of like what

3213
02:41:17,680 --> 02:41:19,520
Speaker 1: we're saying in the last story where it's like, oh,

3214
02:41:19,560 --> 02:41:21,720
Speaker 1: if you sue the employer, like they'll probably check it

3215
02:41:21,760 --> 02:41:23,800
Speaker 1: on your record and not want to hire you. It's

3216
02:41:23,879 --> 02:41:26,360
Speaker 1: it almost feels like a situation like that where it's

3217
02:41:26,440 --> 02:41:30,000
Speaker 1: like everyone in HR is so f that Ope, he's

3218
02:41:30,080 --> 02:41:33,119
Speaker 1: going to be the one that gets punished for trying

3219
02:41:33,120 --> 02:41:35,240
Speaker 1: to like take down this absolute grease ball.

3220
02:41:35,320 --> 02:41:39,400
Speaker 2: Here's what I'd say about that, Like if if if

3221
02:41:39,560 --> 02:41:42,280
Speaker 2: HR really does take the boss's side, or it's like

3222
02:41:42,400 --> 02:41:45,560
Speaker 2: he faces no consequences to listen. Instead, you now have consequences.

3223
02:41:45,680 --> 02:41:47,640
Speaker 2: You now just know for fact that this is not

3224
02:41:47,680 --> 02:41:48,560
Speaker 2: a company you want.

3225
02:41:48,440 --> 02:41:49,640
Speaker 3: To work for one hundred percent.

3226
02:41:49,760 --> 02:41:52,640
Speaker 2: Like and I think that it's you know, it's definitely

3227
02:41:52,640 --> 02:41:56,200
Speaker 2: a more sympathetic situation than being like, well, I just

3228
02:41:56,360 --> 02:41:58,120
Speaker 2: they you know, they didn't give me my last paycheck

3229
02:41:58,160 --> 02:41:59,920
Speaker 2: fast enough, and like I sued them because I didn't

3230
02:41:59,920 --> 02:42:00,600
Speaker 2: like the way that I was.

3231
02:42:00,920 --> 02:42:04,480
Speaker 3: It's like, this is like sexual harassment that business and

3232
02:42:04,480 --> 02:42:05,720
Speaker 3: and this is a difference.

3233
02:42:06,000 --> 02:42:08,720
Speaker 2: And it's the quid pro quo stuff where it's like, yeah,

3234
02:42:08,720 --> 02:42:10,160
Speaker 2: oh you let me talk to you like this and

3235
02:42:10,200 --> 02:42:12,039
Speaker 2: I give you a little promotion and then I give

3236
02:42:12,040 --> 02:42:15,800
Speaker 2: you another little promotion if we you know, that's completely illegal,

3237
02:42:15,959 --> 02:42:19,480
Speaker 2: Like that is very well established that you cannot be

3238
02:42:19,560 --> 02:42:23,600
Speaker 2: doing that. Yeah, in pretty much every ethical code like

3239
02:42:24,240 --> 02:42:27,000
Speaker 2: laid down in every company that is made.

3240
02:42:27,240 --> 02:42:31,560
Speaker 1: Like now, maybe you know, maybe the move is le

3241
02:42:31,600 --> 02:42:34,600
Speaker 1: even get a new job as quickly as possible and

3242
02:42:34,680 --> 02:42:37,680
Speaker 1: then when outside of it, don't go through HR just

3243
02:42:37,720 --> 02:42:41,480
Speaker 1: straight up freaking freaking soothe them. And like I'd be

3244
02:42:41,480 --> 02:42:44,000
Speaker 1: curious if anyone in chat or comments also knows this,

3245
02:42:44,280 --> 02:42:48,480
Speaker 1: But I imagined I imagine some like employment law firms

3246
02:42:48,760 --> 02:42:51,879
Speaker 1: would probably be like down to take this case, like

3247
02:42:51,959 --> 02:42:53,760
Speaker 1: it'll pay pay if we win type.

3248
02:42:53,840 --> 02:42:55,920
Speaker 3: Thing all comes down to the paper trail. Yes, it

3249
02:42:56,000 --> 02:42:57,240
Speaker 3: all comes down to pay per tril.

3250
02:42:57,440 --> 02:43:00,879
Speaker 2: I hr report is really and even if they don't

3251
02:43:00,879 --> 02:43:03,720
Speaker 2: take your side, it needs to be on the paper

3252
02:43:03,760 --> 02:43:06,240
Speaker 2: trail that you did report this guy for it.

3253
02:43:06,400 --> 02:43:08,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, good point, Yeah, good point. Yeah.

3254
02:43:08,920 --> 02:43:12,000
Speaker 1: And maybe like also to your point of the paper trail,

3255
02:43:12,280 --> 02:43:13,879
Speaker 1: can we get in writing some of the other like

3256
02:43:13,920 --> 02:43:16,240
Speaker 1: if we get everyone saying like, don't report it, they

3257
02:43:16,320 --> 02:43:18,000
Speaker 1: punish you don't report it, the punish you don't report it,

3258
02:43:18,000 --> 02:43:20,000
Speaker 1: the punish you get. Yeah, every get everything in writing,

3259
02:43:20,280 --> 02:43:24,240
Speaker 1: absolute paper trail, right now, get that all together, send

3260
02:43:24,240 --> 02:43:26,880
Speaker 1: the report. Leave once you're there. That's when you lay

3261
02:43:26,879 --> 02:43:28,920
Speaker 1: the hammer downe. That's what I'm thinking as of right now.

3262
02:43:28,959 --> 02:43:30,560
Speaker 2: And even if the company did if you get those

3263
02:43:30,600 --> 02:43:32,680
Speaker 2: written statements ahead of time, and then the company does

3264
02:43:33,160 --> 02:43:36,400
Speaker 2: go after you for that report, that's just another paper trail. Yes,

3265
02:43:36,480 --> 02:43:39,119
Speaker 2: now it's more evidence and more, more and more. You

3266
02:43:39,160 --> 02:43:45,160
Speaker 2: just want to build that foundation of like certifiable reports

3267
02:43:45,520 --> 02:43:46,520
Speaker 2: on this guy's behavior.

3268
02:43:46,600 --> 02:43:50,080
Speaker 3: Well, let's see what happens. So I went back to

3269
02:43:50,160 --> 02:43:52,760
Speaker 3: work every day and act like nothing happened. Two days

3270
02:43:52,800 --> 02:43:55,600
Speaker 3: after he had come over, I sent him a long

3271
02:43:55,720 --> 02:43:57,640
Speaker 3: text as a form of documentation.

3272
02:43:57,959 --> 02:44:00,360
Speaker 1: There we go detailing back to him what he said

3273
02:44:00,360 --> 02:44:02,640
Speaker 1: to me over the phone and said that I didn't

3274
02:44:02,640 --> 02:44:04,600
Speaker 1: want either of us to risk our careers, so I

3275
02:44:04,640 --> 02:44:07,640
Speaker 1: thought it would be best to avoid all spicy sleep

3276
02:44:07,680 --> 02:44:12,640
Speaker 1: talk altogether. I also told him I wasn't sexually attracted

3277
02:44:12,680 --> 02:44:15,000
Speaker 1: to him and therefore had no interest in having spicy

3278
02:44:15,040 --> 02:44:17,800
Speaker 1: sleep with him. He has told me time and time

3279
02:44:17,840 --> 02:44:22,039
Speaker 1: again that he always gets the yes. Oh, I know,

3280
02:44:22,240 --> 02:44:24,840
Speaker 1: super icky, so I don't want to give him any

3281
02:44:24,840 --> 02:44:28,600
Speaker 1: wiggle room for further manipulation about After about a month,

3282
02:44:28,680 --> 02:44:31,879
Speaker 1: he got an interim promotion as a manager what in

3283
02:44:31,959 --> 02:44:35,160
Speaker 1: our department at a different campus about thirty minutes away.

3284
02:44:35,600 --> 02:44:38,280
Speaker 1: It was a huge relief, and it also opened up

3285
02:44:38,320 --> 02:44:39,600
Speaker 1: his position, which I.

3286
02:44:39,440 --> 02:44:40,800
Speaker 3: Immediately applied for.

3287
02:44:42,840 --> 02:44:45,039
Speaker 1: I was just showing for his old position, and all

3288
02:44:45,120 --> 02:44:48,200
Speaker 1: the leadership knew it. The director, David scheduled an interview

3289
02:44:48,240 --> 02:44:51,360
Speaker 1: for me, inviting every manager of our local location to

3290
02:44:51,360 --> 02:44:53,720
Speaker 1: be on the panel, including LEVI.

3291
02:44:56,920 --> 02:45:01,080
Speaker 3: Hew, this is good, I mean it's but it's a messy.

3292
02:45:01,320 --> 02:45:05,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is insanely messy, but could be good if

3293
02:45:05,440 --> 02:45:07,280
Speaker 2: we if we follow the path we were saying.

3294
02:45:07,320 --> 02:45:10,760
Speaker 1: But we shall see regardless. The interview went well and

3295
02:45:10,800 --> 02:45:13,879
Speaker 1: I felt confident. The next day Friday, at five pm,

3296
02:45:14,040 --> 02:45:16,920
Speaker 1: David called me at home. He asked my manager Linda

3297
02:45:17,200 --> 02:45:20,240
Speaker 1: to the call and said, there's no easy way to

3298
02:45:20,280 --> 02:45:23,280
Speaker 1: ask this, but I got an anonymous tip. Have you

3299
02:45:23,360 --> 02:45:25,760
Speaker 1: been in any form of relationship with Levi?

3300
02:45:28,600 --> 02:45:31,800
Speaker 2: Who's the anonymous tip that you're in a relationship, Because

3301
02:45:31,959 --> 02:45:34,400
Speaker 2: that's not a relationship, that's harassment.

3302
02:45:34,720 --> 02:45:38,640
Speaker 1: I think Levi planted the anonymous tip, or like through

3303
02:45:38,640 --> 02:45:42,959
Speaker 1: a surroguit or whatever, he masterminded the anonymous tip. Therefore,

3304
02:45:43,280 --> 02:45:46,680
Speaker 1: to your point of documentation, now it looks like, oh well,

3305
02:45:46,720 --> 02:45:48,600
Speaker 1: the first thing we have documentation of is that you

3306
02:45:48,600 --> 02:45:52,560
Speaker 1: guys were actually in a relation, secret relationship, when it's

3307
02:45:52,560 --> 02:45:55,720
Speaker 1: like no, he was literally using his power over me

3308
02:45:56,040 --> 02:45:59,320
Speaker 1: to in the most disgusting way, try to manipulate me

3309
02:45:59,560 --> 02:46:03,480
Speaker 1: into spicy sleep, like a bottom scum of the earth.

3310
02:46:04,000 --> 02:46:10,879
Speaker 1: Disgusto ball. I was shocked. I hadn't told a soul,

3311
02:46:11,240 --> 02:46:14,119
Speaker 1: which meant LEVI did. I figured the cat was out

3312
02:46:14,160 --> 02:46:16,360
Speaker 1: of the bag and I had done nothing wrong. So

3313
02:46:16,400 --> 02:46:19,840
Speaker 1: I ended up telling David and Linda everything. They were

3314
02:46:19,879 --> 02:46:23,960
Speaker 1: both shocked and disgusted. Linda was so angry she couldn't speak.

3315
02:46:24,200 --> 02:46:26,280
Speaker 1: David was so disgusted he said he wanted to take

3316
02:46:26,280 --> 02:46:31,760
Speaker 1: a shower. Yes, there we Thank god. I felt so

3317
02:46:31,879 --> 02:46:35,960
Speaker 1: much validation and was and it was so completely unexpected.

3318
02:46:36,560 --> 02:46:39,040
Speaker 1: David ended up telling me the anonymous tip was very

3319
02:46:39,080 --> 02:46:42,039
Speaker 1: close to my story, but had some key differences. Apparently

3320
02:46:42,280 --> 02:46:44,800
Speaker 1: the person who made the tip made it against me,

3321
02:46:45,200 --> 02:46:48,480
Speaker 1: claiming that I was sleeping with Levi to get promoted again.

3322
02:46:48,640 --> 02:46:51,800
Speaker 1: Totally Levi trying to play this. Yes, I am still

3323
02:46:51,959 --> 02:46:54,920
Speaker 1: disgusted by that. David asked me to write him an

3324
02:46:54,959 --> 02:46:57,840
Speaker 1: email detailing what I said over the phone, including attachments

3325
02:46:57,879 --> 02:47:00,959
Speaker 1: of all my documentations, screen talk, screen shots of texts,

3326
02:47:00,959 --> 02:47:03,480
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera, and he would send it to HR.

3327
02:47:03,720 --> 02:47:07,760
Speaker 1: Now she has the upper management setting it, which is good,

3328
02:47:07,800 --> 02:47:12,200
Speaker 1: thank god. The investigations started pretty swiftly. The next Wednesday,

3329
02:47:12,280 --> 02:47:15,440
Speaker 1: the HR investigator called to interview me and spent an

3330
02:47:15,560 --> 02:47:17,920
Speaker 1: hour and fifteen minutes on the phone with me. He

3331
02:47:18,040 --> 02:47:21,000
Speaker 1: said the absence of a witness was unfortunate, but that

3332
02:47:21,080 --> 02:47:24,360
Speaker 1: my documentation was solid. While waiting for HR to complete

3333
02:47:24,400 --> 02:47:27,879
Speaker 1: the investigation, David was incredibly supportive. I couldn't believe it.

3334
02:47:28,200 --> 02:47:31,520
Speaker 1: His character was completely different than how Levi had described him,

3335
02:47:31,680 --> 02:47:34,520
Speaker 1: which Levi described him that way so she wouldn't think

3336
02:47:34,560 --> 02:47:39,200
Speaker 1: to do this. Maybe Levi was the one planting all

3337
02:47:39,200 --> 02:47:39,800
Speaker 1: these ideas.

3338
02:47:39,920 --> 02:47:41,320
Speaker 3: Oh, I just love that.

3339
02:47:41,400 --> 02:47:43,960
Speaker 2: All of this really feels like it's about to completely

3340
02:47:44,000 --> 02:47:45,560
Speaker 2: blow up in Levi's face.

3341
02:47:45,640 --> 02:47:49,640
Speaker 1: Dude, Levi is about to get absolutely crushed, and it

3342
02:47:49,760 --> 02:47:55,840
Speaker 1: is so delicious delectable. Oh, which, of course now makes sense,

3343
02:47:55,879 --> 02:47:58,480
Speaker 1: as we just said. David assured me that he never

3344
02:47:58,560 --> 02:48:01,560
Speaker 1: went against HR's recommend so he was going to wait

3345
02:48:01,600 --> 02:48:04,560
Speaker 1: for the investigation to be completed about a week, and

3346
02:48:04,600 --> 02:48:08,320
Speaker 1: then he would follow up with me. Two days later, Friday,

3347
02:48:08,640 --> 02:48:13,960
Speaker 1: Linda called me into her office. It was done. David

3348
02:48:13,959 --> 02:48:20,879
Speaker 1: had fired Levi. He was gone completely, Booby, That's what

3349
02:48:20,920 --> 02:48:21,720
Speaker 1: I'm talking about.

3350
02:48:22,480 --> 02:48:27,080
Speaker 3: Sweet freaking just yes, Now, dare you do the name?

3351
02:48:27,160 --> 02:48:30,160
Speaker 2: Levi's so dirty by being such a scumbag of a person.

3352
02:48:30,240 --> 02:48:35,000
Speaker 3: Levi's such a great name, exactly, I thought, Liam, my cousins,

3353
02:48:36,120 --> 02:48:39,120
Speaker 3: I respect it. Yeah, really, your cousin's cool. You can

3354
02:48:39,200 --> 02:48:43,680
Speaker 3: learn a thing or two from him. He's like ten. Yeah,

3355
02:48:44,000 --> 02:48:45,520
Speaker 3: they're usually proved point.

3356
02:48:46,920 --> 02:48:49,959
Speaker 1: So he turned in his keys, was banished from establishment forever,

3357
02:48:50,240 --> 02:48:53,400
Speaker 1: and he was gone. I threw up my arms and

3358
02:48:53,480 --> 02:48:57,480
Speaker 1: loudly cheered hooh, a reaction that surprised even me. The

3359
02:48:57,560 --> 02:49:01,280
Speaker 1: immediate sense of relief was overwhelming. Never again had to

3360
02:49:01,280 --> 02:49:04,119
Speaker 1: fear him showing up out of the blue talking nonsense

3361
02:49:04,120 --> 02:49:06,959
Speaker 1: about getting me promoted when the CEO of the company

3362
02:49:07,080 --> 02:49:07,879
Speaker 1: told David.

3363
02:49:07,640 --> 02:49:09,560
Speaker 3: Himself that he should promote me.

3364
02:49:10,040 --> 02:49:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3365
02:49:10,480 --> 02:49:13,040
Speaker 1: The beautiful part of this is that OPI was promoted

3366
02:49:13,200 --> 02:49:17,720
Speaker 1: into his position while getting him kicked out, not him

3367
02:49:17,800 --> 02:49:18,959
Speaker 1: with this like oh you know.

3368
02:49:20,200 --> 02:49:28,000
Speaker 7: Two birds, one stone, ah cho pow. I never again

3369
02:49:28,080 --> 02:49:29,360
Speaker 7: had had to fear him showing up out.

3370
02:49:30,080 --> 02:49:30,680
Speaker 3: I already said that.

3371
02:49:30,920 --> 02:49:33,840
Speaker 1: And now, well, now four months after this horrible or

3372
02:49:33,879 --> 02:49:36,480
Speaker 1: do you begin, I sit in Levi's old chair at

3373
02:49:36,480 --> 02:49:39,680
Speaker 1: his old desk, with my name now programmed into his

3374
02:49:39,800 --> 02:49:42,920
Speaker 1: old phone, the position he vacated his mind, and he

3375
02:49:42,959 --> 02:49:44,280
Speaker 1: doesn't even have a job.

3376
02:49:44,879 --> 02:49:45,480
Speaker 3: F that guy.

3377
02:49:45,879 --> 02:49:50,360
Speaker 1: Ladies, it's worth the risk to speak out. Let's freaking go.

3378
02:49:50,840 --> 02:49:53,400
Speaker 3: Shout out to the ladies. Shout out to the ladies.

3379
02:49:53,560 --> 02:49:58,200
Speaker 2: Due to deal with these scumbag I don't even know

3380
02:49:58,200 --> 02:50:06,720
Speaker 2: what to call him. Just scum, just like absolute bottom feeders, yes, absolute.

3381
02:50:07,200 --> 02:50:09,240
Speaker 3: And not even a tasty one like a catfish or

3382
02:50:09,240 --> 02:50:13,359
Speaker 3: something like a just like a leech. Yeah, just a gross,

3383
02:50:13,800 --> 02:50:14,800
Speaker 3: slimy leach.

3384
02:50:15,240 --> 02:50:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolute, Yeah, garbage leach, a leash just full

3385
02:50:19,600 --> 02:50:20,120
Speaker 1: of garbage.

3386
02:50:20,200 --> 02:50:23,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, just stick stucking on garbage juice, stinky leach.

3387
02:50:25,240 --> 02:50:28,080
Speaker 1: Ultimately, in retrospect, I wish I had gone to an

3388
02:50:28,080 --> 02:50:31,040
Speaker 1: authoritative figure I trusted who would take it to HR

3389
02:50:31,120 --> 02:50:33,440
Speaker 1: for me. I know the CEO would have one hundred

3390
02:50:33,480 --> 02:50:36,280
Speaker 1: percent had my back, including people in other apartments. I

3391
02:50:36,320 --> 02:50:38,520
Speaker 1: was afraid to be buried, so I didn't do it myself.

3392
02:50:38,920 --> 02:50:41,320
Speaker 1: But had I confided in someone I trusted to not

3393
02:50:41,440 --> 02:50:44,240
Speaker 1: let it rest, I think it would have been okay. Regardless,

3394
02:50:44,400 --> 02:50:47,240
Speaker 1: justice has been done. Leve lost out on one hundred

3395
02:50:47,280 --> 02:50:50,759
Speaker 1: and fifty thousand dollars a year job because.

3396
02:50:50,400 --> 02:50:54,560
Speaker 3: He wanted to Coachy. What thing idiot such to suckle,

3397
02:50:55,200 --> 02:50:58,480
Speaker 3: such to suck? This is so great again.

3398
02:50:58,720 --> 02:51:03,039
Speaker 1: I understand Ope's fear because in the moment, it's it's

3399
02:51:03,080 --> 02:51:07,240
Speaker 1: the it's the distortion, the reality distortion field. Because Levi

3400
02:51:07,440 --> 02:51:09,680
Speaker 1: was feeding her all of this information and doing all

3401
02:51:09,680 --> 02:51:11,879
Speaker 1: these things, telling her he'd be getting promoted, telling her

3402
02:51:11,920 --> 02:51:15,119
Speaker 1: that like, oh, you know, people who report things, it's

3403
02:51:15,160 --> 02:51:17,240
Speaker 1: they're they're just out for the company, not for people.

3404
02:51:18,000 --> 02:51:21,800
Speaker 1: And she was afraid, and I totally understand, you know,

3405
02:51:22,400 --> 02:51:24,879
Speaker 1: the fear of being in that position, but so glad

3406
02:51:24,920 --> 02:51:26,840
Speaker 1: that ultimately it came out to light and it was

3407
02:51:27,480 --> 02:51:29,560
Speaker 1: I think this was was pretty decent justice.

3408
02:51:29,840 --> 02:51:32,600
Speaker 3: Oh full justice, dude. And when you think about it,

3409
02:51:32,600 --> 02:51:33,960
Speaker 3: you know he was gonna have that one hundred and

3410
02:51:33,959 --> 02:51:36,280
Speaker 3: fifty k job. You know, if he had, if he

3411
02:51:36,280 --> 02:51:37,920
Speaker 3: had played his cards right, he could have saved up

3412
02:51:37,959 --> 02:51:38,600
Speaker 3: for a Ferrari.

3413
02:51:39,120 --> 02:51:42,119
Speaker 2: Right now, you can't save up for anything because she's unemployed.

3414
02:51:42,320 --> 02:51:45,640
Speaker 3: You should be driving in a police car to jail.

3415
02:51:45,879 --> 02:51:48,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Now this is going to follow you around

3416
02:51:48,120 --> 02:51:49,440
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life. Oh, I see you

3417
02:51:49,440 --> 02:51:52,240
Speaker 2: were fired from your previous job for being an absolute creep.

3418
02:51:52,879 --> 02:51:57,040
Speaker 1: Actually, please please tell me there's like a legitimate like

3419
02:51:57,360 --> 02:52:00,680
Speaker 1: charge that can be brought against them, because I think,

3420
02:52:00,720 --> 02:52:01,760
Speaker 1: I mean, he could.

3421
02:52:01,560 --> 02:52:05,640
Speaker 3: Probably be charged with some level of criminal harassment. I

3422
02:52:05,680 --> 02:52:10,600
Speaker 3: would just pray, so I would just pray for civil court,

3423
02:52:11,120 --> 02:52:15,200
Speaker 3: civil court, right, civil at least at least civil courts.

3424
02:52:15,320 --> 02:52:20,760
Speaker 3: I mean, it wasn't at the point of harassment, was it. Yes,

3425
02:52:20,800 --> 02:52:25,480
Speaker 3: it was. You just need the right seat, stand up,

3426
02:52:25,560 --> 02:52:26,519
Speaker 3: turn around.

3427
02:52:26,240 --> 02:52:30,960
Speaker 1: Bed like even coming over boss. Yeah, tell him telling

3428
02:52:31,000 --> 02:52:35,000
Speaker 1: her to make sure to drink more. There is so many,

3429
02:52:35,400 --> 02:52:40,160
Speaker 1: so many levels. Yeah, this, but you know what I'm

3430
02:52:40,280 --> 02:52:42,680
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that he was outed, kicked out and

3431
02:52:42,680 --> 02:52:44,880
Speaker 1: that she got the job at a bare minimum, at

3432
02:52:44,920 --> 02:52:45,520
Speaker 1: a bare minimum.

3433
02:52:45,520 --> 02:52:47,840
Speaker 3: At least at least they got that gone. But guys,

3434
02:52:47,840 --> 02:52:52,480
Speaker 3: we got some donations, dakonta take it away? Who from

3435
02:52:52,640 --> 02:52:54,760
Speaker 3: Sandra Lynn five us D.

3436
02:52:55,040 --> 02:52:59,400
Speaker 2: I love when John and Sophia say discussing disgusting. What

3437
02:52:59,480 --> 02:53:04,400
Speaker 2: she meant to say this disgusted, disgusted, And it's hilarious

3438
02:53:04,400 --> 02:53:05,119
Speaker 2: when John.

3439
02:53:04,959 --> 02:53:09,039
Speaker 3: Yells shut up, shut up. It is pretty hilarious.

3440
02:53:09,400 --> 02:53:13,720
Speaker 2: Emily with the gifted five okay, storytime memberships that man,

3441
02:53:13,760 --> 02:53:15,160
Speaker 2: the family just keeps getting.

3442
02:53:14,879 --> 02:53:18,199
Speaker 3: Bigger, back to back, double fives.

3443
02:53:18,080 --> 02:53:22,520
Speaker 2: Twenty one new memberships five brush five is ten.

3444
02:53:22,959 --> 02:53:26,800
Speaker 1: Two hundred and twenty one two two one one That

3445
02:53:26,959 --> 02:53:29,960
Speaker 1: is one absolutely insane.

3446
02:53:29,440 --> 02:53:29,920
Speaker 3: Two two one.

3447
02:53:29,920 --> 02:53:32,480
Speaker 2: And how many likes are we away from another wheelspin

3448
02:53:32,720 --> 02:53:35,000
Speaker 2: uh matay only one hundred.

3449
02:53:34,760 --> 02:53:37,440
Speaker 3: Eyes one hundred, Hey, we need a hundred more, like

3450
02:53:38,240 --> 02:53:39,760
Speaker 3: one hundred and twenty four more likes.

3451
02:53:39,800 --> 02:53:43,240
Speaker 2: We are so close that Riley's dyslexia almost is close.

3452
02:53:43,120 --> 02:53:44,200
Speaker 3: Enough to let read it out.

3453
02:53:44,320 --> 02:53:47,040
Speaker 4: Okay, so one hundred and gosh, one hundred and thirteen.

3454
02:53:47,720 --> 02:53:49,040
Speaker 4: I could do math, dude, I could.

3455
02:53:49,080 --> 02:53:52,600
Speaker 2: I can't only what eighty five bucks away from another

3456
02:53:52,680 --> 02:53:55,360
Speaker 2: half hour, So you can drive Riley crazy and he'll

3457
02:53:55,400 --> 02:53:56,519
Speaker 2: never be good at basketball.

3458
02:53:57,480 --> 02:54:00,560
Speaker 3: Oh wow, dude, this is really becoming a thing. This okay,

3459
02:54:00,680 --> 02:54:04,680
Speaker 3: all right, don't worry. He'll be com He'll beat me

3460
02:54:04,680 --> 02:54:07,160
Speaker 3: the first time. He'll even beat me the second time,

3461
02:54:07,840 --> 02:54:09,840
Speaker 3: but that third time he'll beat me a little less.

3462
02:54:11,040 --> 02:54:13,000
Speaker 3: That fourth time. Hey, you never know.

3463
02:54:13,040 --> 02:54:16,840
Speaker 1: We went from we went from uh all sounding like

3464
02:54:16,840 --> 02:54:18,600
Speaker 1: oh yeah, like ill like, oh like let him win,

3465
02:54:18,640 --> 02:54:19,879
Speaker 1: you know, the first time, and they come back.

3466
02:54:19,959 --> 02:54:21,800
Speaker 2: Now we're like three times in and he's just beating

3467
02:54:21,840 --> 02:54:25,360
Speaker 2: me less. I don't know, dude, you're we're walking back.

3468
02:54:25,440 --> 02:54:25,879
Speaker 3: I'm playing.

3469
02:54:25,879 --> 02:54:28,000
Speaker 2: I play some scrappy defense, all right, my, I I

3470
02:54:28,040 --> 02:54:31,360
Speaker 2: emulate Alex Caruso, Right, you know anything about that?

3471
02:54:31,400 --> 02:54:34,800
Speaker 3: You know he's a scrapper. Yeah, shout out Alex Caruso.

3472
02:54:35,200 --> 02:54:38,280
Speaker 2: Play a nice built like I feel like you got

3473
02:54:38,360 --> 02:54:42,040
Speaker 2: some brick, some wall mass, dude, I know, I throw

3474
02:54:42,080 --> 02:54:47,240
Speaker 2: it around, yeah yeah around, turn that mass around.

3475
02:54:47,320 --> 02:54:51,359
Speaker 3: Bab Oh my god.

3476
02:54:51,240 --> 02:54:55,400
Speaker 2: Guys, guys, Chris tin foil hot.

3477
02:54:56,200 --> 02:54:59,840
Speaker 3: We need we need our old, our old foil hot.

3478
02:55:00,360 --> 02:55:01,880
Speaker 3: He sounded like a fog horn.

3479
02:55:02,120 --> 02:55:07,120
Speaker 2: Right, that's the that's the sound we need for Christian

3480
02:55:07,160 --> 02:55:09,000
Speaker 2: fail Hot because we have unlocked.

3481
02:55:08,640 --> 02:55:13,720
Speaker 3: Another thirty wow minutes and another.

3482
02:55:13,600 --> 02:55:18,160
Speaker 1: Now probably around two hundred and forty one new members.

3483
02:55:18,320 --> 02:55:22,000
Speaker 3: My beautiful God, Wow, you did that math so well?

3484
02:55:22,040 --> 02:55:25,080
Speaker 3: Good Jo and do hey? Is that is vic math?

3485
02:55:25,280 --> 02:55:27,640
Speaker 3: Is that one more dono from vix Maxx? Do they

3486
02:55:28,160 --> 02:55:30,400
Speaker 3: did we already read that one? Read that one while I.

3487
02:55:30,400 --> 02:55:33,959
Speaker 2: Was getting liquid of course, kristin fail Hat, Yes, yes,

3488
02:55:36,120 --> 02:55:37,039
Speaker 2: did you already.

3489
02:55:36,720 --> 02:55:39,440
Speaker 3: Read that one from? Yeah? Okay, God shout out vix

3490
02:55:39,480 --> 02:55:44,520
Speaker 3: Mix again. Well, ladies and gentlemen, we just got Chris.

3491
02:55:44,879 --> 02:55:45,160
Speaker 3: I know.

3492
02:55:45,320 --> 02:55:50,280
Speaker 2: Guys, guys, top hats in the chats, go in the yeah,

3493
02:55:50,560 --> 02:55:53,120
Speaker 2: come on, especially if you were one of the people

3494
02:55:53,120 --> 02:55:55,720
Speaker 2: that got the gifted membership, like, gotta give it up,

3495
02:55:55,720 --> 02:55:58,400
Speaker 2: gotta get it absolutely all right, guys, let's up, Let's

3496
02:55:58,440 --> 02:55:59,520
Speaker 2: do what we do best.

3497
02:56:00,240 --> 02:56:02,640
Speaker 3: Let's keep the good times rolling. Dakota, I'm gonna tak

3498
02:56:02,640 --> 02:56:05,800
Speaker 3: it away. I'm gonna change my hair. Really Oh hold on, whoa,

3499
02:56:06,200 --> 02:56:09,199
Speaker 3: oh snap, dude, you just just shook up the whole

3500
02:56:10,280 --> 02:56:13,080
Speaker 3: The vibe is the vibe is unhead now, all right,

3501
02:56:14,360 --> 02:56:17,600
Speaker 3: all right, my boss called me out for ruining his

3502
02:56:17,680 --> 02:56:24,600
Speaker 3: team building exercise, so I got him suspended. Why not energy,

3503
02:56:24,680 --> 02:56:28,280
Speaker 3: The hair matched the energy, So okay, I'm going back,

3504
02:56:28,320 --> 02:56:31,400
Speaker 3: going back. It was like chicken baby chickens that like

3505
02:56:31,440 --> 02:56:32,119
Speaker 3: the they're.

3506
02:56:32,040 --> 02:56:35,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, oh boy.

3507
02:56:36,280 --> 02:56:36,720
Speaker 3: Okay.

3508
02:56:36,840 --> 02:56:41,640
Speaker 2: So last week my boss forty two male, organized a

3509
02:56:41,720 --> 02:56:47,400
Speaker 2: mandatory team building exercise for our department at an escape room. Yeah, okay,

3510
02:56:48,000 --> 02:56:51,920
Speaker 2: I twenty nine female love puzzles and escape rooms. I've

3511
02:56:51,920 --> 02:56:55,240
Speaker 2: done like twenty of them, and I'm really good at them.

3512
02:56:55,320 --> 02:56:58,480
Speaker 2: I feel like twenty is not enough. Okay, cool, I

3513
02:56:58,520 --> 02:57:01,200
Speaker 2: feel like you should have done more. Twenty escape rooms

3514
02:57:01,200 --> 02:57:03,560
Speaker 2: is twenty escape rooms is insane. I haven't been done

3515
02:57:03,560 --> 02:57:05,400
Speaker 2: any Yeah, I've done zero because every.

3516
02:57:05,200 --> 02:57:08,080
Speaker 3: Time I wait, like twenty different ones. Okay.

3517
02:57:08,120 --> 02:57:10,280
Speaker 2: I in my head, it was like doing the same

3518
02:57:10,320 --> 02:57:11,560
Speaker 2: one twenty times.

3519
02:57:11,720 --> 02:57:14,680
Speaker 4: Even still one times it's like every time I go

3520
02:57:14,720 --> 02:57:16,720
Speaker 4: to one, it's like, oh, it's like eighty bucks for

3521
02:57:16,760 --> 02:57:18,560
Speaker 4: an hour, and I'm like, no.

3522
02:57:19,440 --> 02:57:19,800
Speaker 3: You're trying.

3523
02:57:19,879 --> 02:57:21,880
Speaker 2: You're trying to make my money escape from my wallet,

3524
02:57:21,920 --> 02:57:22,720
Speaker 2: which I say.

3525
02:57:22,600 --> 02:57:24,720
Speaker 3: No, yeah, keep it in.

3526
02:57:24,959 --> 02:57:28,920
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, So this person's like super good

3527
02:57:28,959 --> 02:57:31,440
Speaker 2: at escape rooms. And the thing is is my boss

3528
02:57:31,520 --> 02:57:34,680
Speaker 2: is kind of like a control freak type who loves

3529
02:57:34,680 --> 02:57:36,760
Speaker 2: being the smartest person in the room. By the way,

3530
02:57:36,800 --> 02:57:39,680
Speaker 2: this comes from user puzzle headed key seven five three

3531
02:57:39,760 --> 02:57:44,160
Speaker 2: seven on the r slash okay storytime subreddit. So at

3532
02:57:44,200 --> 02:57:46,200
Speaker 2: the start, he made it clear he was leading the

3533
02:57:46,360 --> 02:57:49,400
Speaker 2: escape room and told us to follow his instructions.

3534
02:57:50,000 --> 02:57:54,800
Speaker 3: That's fine, but the thing is he wasn't exactly great

3535
02:57:54,840 --> 02:57:57,600
Speaker 3: at it, like me, I see you.

3536
02:57:58,840 --> 02:58:02,160
Speaker 2: He kept overthinking the clues and barking out bad ideas

3537
02:58:02,240 --> 02:58:03,520
Speaker 2: that were going nowhere.

3538
02:58:03,640 --> 02:58:07,160
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, I had already mentally solved half the puzzles, but

3539
02:58:07,240 --> 02:58:09,240
Speaker 3: kept quiet because I didn't want to be that person

3540
02:58:09,280 --> 02:58:12,240
Speaker 3: who takes over dud dude, Op, he's so good at

3541
02:58:12,320 --> 02:58:13,320
Speaker 3: escape rooms. This is.

3542
02:58:15,160 --> 02:58:17,480
Speaker 2: Freaking escape rooms, bro opee. I'm gonna give you advice

3543
02:58:17,560 --> 02:58:19,560
Speaker 2: right now. Just make your own escape room. Yeah right,

3544
02:58:19,560 --> 02:58:21,240
Speaker 2: start your own escape room. If you're this good at

3545
02:58:21,240 --> 02:58:23,680
Speaker 2: the escape rooms, just start your own prove it.

3546
02:58:23,920 --> 02:58:26,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can. I believe in you make the

3547
02:58:26,200 --> 02:58:27,280
Speaker 3: unescapable escape room.

3548
02:58:27,680 --> 02:58:30,840
Speaker 2: So fifteen minutes into this team building exercise, the rest

3549
02:58:30,879 --> 02:58:34,959
Speaker 2: of the team was getting visibly frustrated. People were just

3550
02:58:35,000 --> 02:58:37,440
Speaker 2: standing around while my boss argued with himself over a

3551
02:58:37,480 --> 02:58:40,600
Speaker 2: clue I'd already figured out, so I casually solved a

3552
02:58:40,600 --> 02:58:43,160
Speaker 2: few puzzles and unlocked the door while he was rambling.

3553
02:58:44,040 --> 02:58:46,840
Speaker 2: He immediately got annoyed and said I was ruining the

3554
02:58:46,840 --> 02:58:50,160
Speaker 2: team experience and needed to let others contribute.

3555
02:58:50,160 --> 02:58:52,480
Speaker 3: And speaking of contributors.

3556
02:58:52,560 --> 02:58:58,400
Speaker 1: Mutual Space drifters on the tipling, no last fifty dollar donation.

3557
02:58:59,360 --> 02:59:01,640
Speaker 1: I don't do with tech stuff, so my YouTube and

3558
02:59:01,640 --> 02:59:04,400
Speaker 1: my payments is through different emails or whatever.

3559
02:59:04,640 --> 02:59:07,320
Speaker 3: But I love you all. You must stay. My three

3560
02:59:07,400 --> 02:59:10,600
Speaker 3: kids are finally sleeping and I need some mommy time

3561
02:59:10,640 --> 02:59:11,680
Speaker 3: as a single parents.

3562
02:59:12,200 --> 02:59:15,720
Speaker 6: I love the you must stay, must stay. I must

3563
02:59:15,800 --> 02:59:20,640
Speaker 6: have the mommy time right now. I love watching the

3564
02:59:20,720 --> 02:59:22,480
Speaker 6: show is as mommy time.

3565
02:59:22,760 --> 02:59:25,280
Speaker 3: That's so great. Hey, well we give we give mommy

3566
02:59:25,280 --> 02:59:26,280
Speaker 3: time to whoever needs it.

3567
02:59:26,360 --> 02:59:28,840
Speaker 2: Guys, let's put I want the chat flooded with w's

3568
02:59:28,879 --> 02:59:29,600
Speaker 2: for mutual space.

3569
02:59:29,800 --> 02:59:32,840
Speaker 3: Actually, what's what? What do you galaxy? Yeah?

3570
02:59:32,920 --> 02:59:36,280
Speaker 2: Galaxy galaxy for mutual SpaceX.

3571
02:59:36,120 --> 02:59:42,280
Speaker 3: W gallaxy or just like and send it in the chat. Yeah, sorry,

3572
02:59:42,360 --> 02:59:42,760
Speaker 3: not that one.

3573
02:59:42,760 --> 02:59:46,960
Speaker 4: That not that one, yeah that one right, Okay, people

3574
02:59:47,000 --> 02:59:47,800
Speaker 4: make mistakes.

3575
02:59:48,840 --> 02:59:50,320
Speaker 3: Oh not this person though.

3576
02:59:51,240 --> 02:59:54,400
Speaker 2: At this point I backed off, but the team kept

3577
02:59:54,400 --> 02:59:56,840
Speaker 2: stalling and we were running out of time. Finally, with

3578
02:59:56,920 --> 02:59:59,320
Speaker 2: only ten minutes left, I couldn't take it anymore and

3579
02:59:59,400 --> 03:00:03,040
Speaker 2: solve the major puzzle opening the exit door. We beat

3580
03:00:03,080 --> 03:00:06,280
Speaker 2: the room, but barely, which had to have been so

3581
03:00:06,360 --> 03:00:10,480
Speaker 2: embarrassing classic OPE. Everyone cheered, except for my boss, who

3582
03:00:10,480 --> 03:00:13,400
Speaker 2: was clearly upset. He muttered something about how the point

3583
03:00:13,480 --> 03:00:17,240
Speaker 2: was to work together and not show off. Hey, OP,

3584
03:00:17,400 --> 03:00:21,119
Speaker 2: can't help it that they're like the top upper echelon

3585
03:00:21,879 --> 03:00:22,840
Speaker 2: escape room solver.

3586
03:00:23,000 --> 03:00:25,160
Speaker 3: Okay, some people are gods and some people are losers.

3587
03:00:25,440 --> 03:00:26,400
Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you.

3588
03:00:26,440 --> 03:00:28,760
Speaker 2: If OP really needed to work on their team building,

3589
03:00:28,840 --> 03:00:30,959
Speaker 2: you know, skills, maybe you should have made this more

3590
03:00:31,080 --> 03:00:34,959
Speaker 2: about OPE working on their team building right instead of

3591
03:00:35,000 --> 03:00:36,400
Speaker 2: making it a whole thing for the group.

3592
03:00:36,600 --> 03:00:39,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, should have taken them aside. Mm hmm. Okay.

3593
03:00:39,879 --> 03:00:43,480
Speaker 2: So later that day he pulled me aside and said

3594
03:00:43,480 --> 03:00:45,879
Speaker 2: that I ruined the team building experience by not letting

3595
03:00:45,879 --> 03:00:48,000
Speaker 2: the group figure things out on their own. I told

3596
03:00:48,080 --> 03:00:50,240
Speaker 2: him I was just trying to help because we were

3597
03:00:50,240 --> 03:00:53,440
Speaker 2: falling behind, but he accused me of undermining him in

3598
03:00:53,480 --> 03:00:54,160
Speaker 2: front of the team.

3599
03:00:54,280 --> 03:00:55,320
Speaker 3: All boo hoo.

3600
03:00:55,920 --> 03:00:58,480
Speaker 2: Now my coworkers are saying I did nothing wrong and

3601
03:00:58,520 --> 03:01:00,959
Speaker 2: we would have failed if I hadn't stepped whoa, But

3602
03:01:01,360 --> 03:01:03,800
Speaker 2: my boss is still giving me the cold shoulder and

3603
03:01:03,840 --> 03:01:06,720
Speaker 2: it's making things awkward at work. Am I the a

3604
03:01:06,840 --> 03:01:09,560
Speaker 2: hole for solving the escape room too quickly and stepping

3605
03:01:09,600 --> 03:01:12,760
Speaker 2: in on my boss's toes? Should I have let us

3606
03:01:12,840 --> 03:01:17,400
Speaker 2: fail to spare his ego? I think clearly your boss

3607
03:01:17,480 --> 03:01:19,400
Speaker 2: is being the a holier. I mean, we have an update,

3608
03:01:20,000 --> 03:01:23,680
Speaker 2: but out of all the people, I mean, look, look,

3609
03:01:24,000 --> 03:01:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm looking, I think somebody is clearly maybe maybe it

3610
03:01:28,000 --> 03:01:28,800
Speaker 2: could be a little up.

3611
03:01:28,760 --> 03:01:30,280
Speaker 3: On a high horse about how good they are to

3612
03:01:30,360 --> 03:01:30,879
Speaker 3: escape rooms.

3613
03:01:31,000 --> 03:01:33,280
Speaker 2: Yes, two things give me true And it's like if

3614
03:01:33,320 --> 03:01:36,279
Speaker 2: you really are It's like, you know, does Russell Westbrook

3615
03:01:36,320 --> 03:01:36,959
Speaker 2: have an ego?

3616
03:01:37,720 --> 03:01:41,920
Speaker 3: Yeah? Because he averaged a triple double people all season long? Yeah,

3617
03:01:42,000 --> 03:01:44,320
Speaker 3: forty two. And you get to have an ego when

3618
03:01:44,320 --> 03:01:45,400
Speaker 3: you average a triple double.

3619
03:01:45,480 --> 03:01:47,600
Speaker 4: That means that means you got double digits and points,

3620
03:01:47,600 --> 03:01:49,640
Speaker 4: assist and rebounds or other things.

3621
03:01:50,080 --> 03:01:54,279
Speaker 2: And it's it's uh impressive, very and it's clearly opie

3622
03:01:54,560 --> 03:01:56,240
Speaker 2: as the skills to pay the bills when it comes

3623
03:01:56,280 --> 03:01:58,720
Speaker 2: to you know, getting out of an escape room. So

3624
03:01:58,800 --> 03:02:01,199
Speaker 2: if they wanted the team to get better, the boss

3625
03:02:01,200 --> 03:02:03,959
Speaker 2: should have taken Op aside and been like, look clearly.

3626
03:02:03,680 --> 03:02:05,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, instead of the goat here. Yeah.

3627
03:02:05,760 --> 03:02:08,400
Speaker 4: And if you are the Michael Jordan, you sometimes need

3628
03:02:08,440 --> 03:02:10,760
Speaker 4: to step up, me to Scottie Piven. If you want

3629
03:02:10,760 --> 03:02:12,760
Speaker 4: a championship, you gotta you gotta come together.

3630
03:02:12,879 --> 03:02:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. And if you're not contributing much, but you know

3631
03:02:14,879 --> 03:02:17,760
Speaker 3: your role, like Dennis Rodman, just get the boards, just

3632
03:02:17,760 --> 03:02:20,440
Speaker 3: grab the boards. Hey, MJ doesn't win six rings with

3633
03:02:20,480 --> 03:02:24,879
Speaker 3: that without Scotty, that's right, or without Dennis. Yeah, I

3634
03:02:24,920 --> 03:02:27,360
Speaker 3: love how to you guys just got to cooking right now.

3635
03:02:27,520 --> 03:02:29,080
Speaker 4: And sometimes you need to be Steve Kerr on the

3636
03:02:29,160 --> 03:02:31,240
Speaker 4: on the on the bench coming out from three pointers

3637
03:02:31,280 --> 03:02:31,480
Speaker 4: and you.

3638
03:02:31,520 --> 03:02:36,120
Speaker 2: Hit that shot on the wing and it goes in. Okay,

3639
03:02:36,480 --> 03:02:38,600
Speaker 2: and then sometimes Michael Jordan punches you in the mouth.

3640
03:02:39,440 --> 03:02:41,400
Speaker 3: Oh I forgot about that, Yeah.

3641
03:02:41,040 --> 03:02:45,640
Speaker 2: Auci okay, But yeah, I think I think you have

3642
03:02:45,680 --> 03:02:47,240
Speaker 2: anything to add to that. I mean, I feel like

3643
03:02:48,680 --> 03:02:50,960
Speaker 2: it's it's pretty much it's it's pretty much well defined

3644
03:02:50,959 --> 03:02:53,640
Speaker 2: that Op is not really being the ale here.

3645
03:02:54,000 --> 03:02:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree that, like maybe it may

3646
03:02:57,440 --> 03:03:00,640
Speaker 1: be a little pretentious, but not not not any action

3647
03:03:00,720 --> 03:03:01,520
Speaker 1: that reach a holary.

3648
03:03:01,879 --> 03:03:03,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's my That's what I'm saying. I guess

3649
03:03:03,959 --> 03:03:04,480
Speaker 3: it would depend.

3650
03:03:04,520 --> 03:03:06,480
Speaker 2: We need a camera inside the escape room to see

3651
03:03:06,520 --> 03:03:08,920
Speaker 2: exactly how op was like solving these puzzles.

3652
03:03:08,959 --> 03:03:13,640
Speaker 3: Imagine just be like, ah, did anybody try that?

3653
03:03:13,840 --> 03:03:14,080
Speaker 4: Over?

3654
03:03:14,160 --> 03:03:18,800
Speaker 3: There? Could be an unreliable narrator, We don't know. Let's

3655
03:03:18,800 --> 03:03:21,560
Speaker 3: get into this update, do it. Thanks for the many

3656
03:03:21,600 --> 03:03:23,959
Speaker 3: reactions and advice you guys gave me. I wanted to

3657
03:03:23,959 --> 03:03:26,280
Speaker 3: give you all an update on the situation with my boss,

3658
03:03:26,320 --> 03:03:29,240
Speaker 3: who is the head of our department. Things have definitely

3659
03:03:29,320 --> 03:03:32,119
Speaker 3: become more uncomfortable since the escape room incident.

3660
03:03:32,240 --> 03:03:35,920
Speaker 2: He's been quite hostile towards me today. Uh It's subtle

3661
03:03:35,959 --> 03:03:39,200
Speaker 2: but noticeable. He's been cutting me off in a meeting today,

3662
03:03:39,320 --> 03:03:42,160
Speaker 2: refusing to acknowledge my contributions, and even giving me side

3663
03:03:42,160 --> 03:03:44,360
Speaker 2: task that seemed beneath my role.

3664
03:03:45,480 --> 03:03:47,680
Speaker 3: Kind of side tasks? Are you getting hit the escape

3665
03:03:47,720 --> 03:03:50,640
Speaker 3: room beneath you? Wait? Come on, man, I thought.

3666
03:03:50,480 --> 03:03:53,400
Speaker 2: You all of you, if you're passionate about the escape rooms,

3667
03:03:53,440 --> 03:03:55,160
Speaker 2: you should just you know, it should be a.

3668
03:03:55,120 --> 03:03:57,560
Speaker 3: Fun day no matter what you're doing. Anything that isn't

3669
03:03:57,600 --> 03:04:01,879
Speaker 3: conquering the escape room is made. But feel this is

3670
03:04:01,959 --> 03:04:02,760
Speaker 3: so embarrassing.

3671
03:04:04,320 --> 03:04:08,600
Speaker 2: What's even more concerning is that some of his comments

3672
03:04:08,640 --> 03:04:11,720
Speaker 2: have taken on a sexist tone.

3673
03:04:12,440 --> 03:04:15,160
Speaker 3: I think here we go talk about it.

3674
03:04:15,360 --> 03:04:18,440
Speaker 2: For example, during a meeting, I suggested a solution for

3675
03:04:18,520 --> 03:04:21,880
Speaker 2: an ongoing project, and he responded with, let's have someone

3676
03:04:21,959 --> 03:04:23,600
Speaker 2: with more experience handle it.

3677
03:04:23,760 --> 03:04:25,920
Speaker 3: You wouldn't want to get your head wrapped around something

3678
03:04:25,959 --> 03:04:26,879
Speaker 3: too complex.

3679
03:04:27,120 --> 03:04:32,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's at a bare minimum. That's a demeaning, undermining and.

3680
03:04:34,240 --> 03:04:36,520
Speaker 2: Probably has more to do with how he's insecured, how

3681
03:04:36,560 --> 03:04:38,000
Speaker 2: good you are at escape rooms?

3682
03:04:38,080 --> 03:04:40,960
Speaker 3: And yeah, RABA didn't have anything to do with your gender.

3683
03:04:42,440 --> 03:04:44,600
Speaker 2: He said it in a patronizing tone, making it clear

3684
03:04:44,600 --> 03:04:47,480
Speaker 2: he thinks I'm not capable. On another occasion, he joked

3685
03:04:47,520 --> 03:04:50,480
Speaker 2: that probably only solved the escape room so quickly because

3686
03:04:50,520 --> 03:04:54,200
Speaker 2: I like puzzles as a girly hobby. I'm sorry, but

3687
03:04:54,440 --> 03:04:58,480
Speaker 2: escape rooms and puzzles, I don't think that's a traditionally girl.

3688
03:04:58,520 --> 03:05:01,000
Speaker 3: Have you ever seen Da Vinci Code, an action movie?

3689
03:05:01,360 --> 03:05:04,879
Speaker 3: It was written by Dan Brown. There's a book man.

3690
03:05:05,200 --> 03:05:08,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll tell you a quick okay story time.

3691
03:05:10,400 --> 03:05:13,880
Speaker 2: When I was when I transitioned from like middle school

3692
03:05:13,920 --> 03:05:14,640
Speaker 2: to high school.

3693
03:05:15,040 --> 03:05:18,160
Speaker 3: Went from middle school to high school. Sorry, we just

3694
03:05:18,160 --> 03:05:19,280
Speaker 3: started talking about sex.

3695
03:05:19,480 --> 03:05:22,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I transition from middle school to high school. I

3696
03:05:22,440 --> 03:05:25,880
Speaker 2: picked up the hobby of Rubik's cubes. A word was

3697
03:05:25,959 --> 03:05:29,520
Speaker 2: in like the Rubik's Cube club. There were not any

3698
03:05:29,520 --> 03:05:30,480
Speaker 2: girls in that club.

3699
03:05:31,480 --> 03:05:33,600
Speaker 3: Do you want to do O L on the rubescube?

3700
03:05:34,240 --> 03:05:36,040
Speaker 3: I used to know how to do like all kinds

3701
03:05:36,080 --> 03:05:39,119
Speaker 3: of different ones. I I had, like the the triangle

3702
03:05:39,160 --> 03:05:42,440
Speaker 3: ones and like the mirror cubes where it's like the

3703
03:05:42,560 --> 03:05:44,600
Speaker 3: blocks aren't actually the same size and when you mix

3704
03:05:44,640 --> 03:05:44,920
Speaker 3: it up.

3705
03:05:44,879 --> 03:05:47,120
Speaker 2: It like looks like a oh y yeah. And I

3706
03:05:47,440 --> 03:05:53,279
Speaker 2: loved solving those. And I just, I guess, started liking girls.

3707
03:05:55,800 --> 03:05:56,560
Speaker 3: I started.

3708
03:05:58,600 --> 03:06:02,640
Speaker 2: Not being obsessed with plastic puzzle cubes. And I was like, girls,

3709
03:06:02,680 --> 03:06:05,400
Speaker 2: look nice. You're like, let me trade in this box

3710
03:06:05,520 --> 03:06:06,480
Speaker 2: for that box.

3711
03:06:09,720 --> 03:06:15,560
Speaker 3: Okay, let's get back, let's get it's too smooth. Got him,

3712
03:06:15,959 --> 03:06:17,039
Speaker 3: he's too smooth.

3713
03:06:18,440 --> 03:06:23,080
Speaker 2: Oh we're doing this okay, okay, Sorry, any babies, I

3714
03:06:23,160 --> 03:06:23,640
Speaker 2: just woke up.

3715
03:06:24,440 --> 03:06:27,000
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay.

3716
03:06:27,040 --> 03:06:29,959
Speaker 2: It is becoming clear that this isn't just about the

3717
03:06:30,120 --> 03:06:33,800
Speaker 2: escape room. His behavior is getting more problematic. His behavior

3718
03:06:33,840 --> 03:06:37,280
Speaker 2: seems to reflect deeper issues, probably possibly with how he've

3719
03:06:37,320 --> 03:06:40,800
Speaker 2: views women in the workplace. I'm seriously considering reporting him

3720
03:06:40,840 --> 03:06:43,200
Speaker 2: to HR, but I want to make sure I document

3721
03:06:43,320 --> 03:06:47,959
Speaker 2: everything first talk Like you guys suggested, those are good suggestions.

3722
03:06:48,800 --> 03:06:50,600
Speaker 2: I don't want to quit my job right away because

3723
03:06:50,600 --> 03:06:52,920
Speaker 2: my boss decided to bully me. If I leave, I

3724
03:06:52,959 --> 03:06:55,480
Speaker 2: also leave my coworkers with this crazy behavior without speaking

3725
03:06:55,560 --> 03:06:59,120
Speaker 2: up myself. I appreciate all the advice you gave in

3726
03:06:59,160 --> 03:07:01,320
Speaker 2: my original post to help me to see the situation

3727
03:07:01,400 --> 03:07:02,720
Speaker 2: for really it for what it really is.

3728
03:07:02,720 --> 03:07:05,360
Speaker 3: But what do you think about that? Updates?

3729
03:07:06,240 --> 03:07:10,320
Speaker 2: Like me personally, I think I don't think the other

3730
03:07:10,360 --> 03:07:12,680
Speaker 2: coworkers are really getting the crazy behavior because it sounds

3731
03:07:12,680 --> 03:07:14,800
Speaker 2: like your other coworkers are helpless in the face of

3732
03:07:14,800 --> 03:07:17,960
Speaker 2: an escape room and your boss is really just taking

3733
03:07:17,959 --> 03:07:20,880
Speaker 2: this out on you because he's like smarty pants over

3734
03:07:20,920 --> 03:07:23,199
Speaker 2: here thinks she's the queen of all escape rooms.

3735
03:07:23,240 --> 03:07:27,760
Speaker 3: He needs to pipe down, and uh yeah, it's it's.

3736
03:07:27,560 --> 03:07:30,720
Speaker 2: Definitely it's it's it's giving, like the whole thing is giving.

3737
03:07:30,920 --> 03:07:35,480
Speaker 2: He insecure in every area, and he's like trying to

3738
03:07:36,879 --> 03:07:38,920
Speaker 2: like basically put op down.

3739
03:07:38,879 --> 03:07:41,800
Speaker 1: To feel like the big the big boss man. And

3740
03:07:41,800 --> 03:07:44,200
Speaker 1: all this stuff, and Nope, you should definitely because this,

3741
03:07:44,480 --> 03:07:47,400
Speaker 1: remember this whole thing started with this as a team

3742
03:07:47,400 --> 03:07:51,240
Speaker 1: building exercise to work cohesively and operate wall as a team.

3743
03:07:51,280 --> 03:07:53,400
Speaker 3: That is a great point. And and as the.

3744
03:07:53,320 --> 03:07:55,320
Speaker 2: Manager and like the leader of this group, he should

3745
03:07:55,360 --> 03:07:58,440
Speaker 2: have been lifting everyone up and trying to you know,

3746
03:07:58,560 --> 03:08:01,680
Speaker 2: empower everyone on the team to feel like like, if anything,

3747
03:08:01,680 --> 03:08:03,200
Speaker 2: it should have been like, you know what, this is

3748
03:08:03,240 --> 03:08:05,560
Speaker 2: something that Opie feels like like really confident. Let me,

3749
03:08:05,680 --> 03:08:08,720
Speaker 2: let me empower op and give Opi this shining moment

3750
03:08:09,040 --> 03:08:11,560
Speaker 2: that's gonna give her the wind in her wings to like,

3751
03:08:11,720 --> 03:08:13,160
Speaker 2: you know, just go crush it with the team and

3752
03:08:13,160 --> 03:08:16,520
Speaker 2: everyone's cheering and celebrating whatever. You literally did the exact

3753
03:08:16,520 --> 03:08:18,720
Speaker 2: opposite of what this whole the whole point of a thing. Yeah,

3754
03:08:18,760 --> 03:08:23,039
Speaker 2: he put down his most talented Escape room employee, Yes,

3755
03:08:23,120 --> 03:08:25,280
Speaker 2: who should have probably been put into a position of

3756
03:08:25,360 --> 03:08:29,440
Speaker 2: maybe a team leader. Yes, because clearly the other employees

3757
03:08:29,640 --> 03:08:32,080
Speaker 2: are not up to snuff. Yep. And this one, you know,

3758
03:08:32,240 --> 03:08:34,720
Speaker 2: op is like, Hey, I'm solving puzzles in my head.

3759
03:08:34,760 --> 03:08:36,880
Speaker 2: I'm coming up with new puzzles all the time. It's like,

3760
03:08:37,280 --> 03:08:39,600
Speaker 2: maybe she can run a workshop with the other employees

3761
03:08:39,600 --> 03:08:42,200
Speaker 2: being like, hey, so this is how an escape artist

3762
03:08:42,360 --> 03:08:45,120
Speaker 2: would think about this particular I love scenario.

3763
03:08:45,360 --> 03:08:46,560
Speaker 3: Like instead, he's just.

3764
03:08:46,480 --> 03:08:50,520
Speaker 2: Like, nah, you're it's settled down, girly girl with your

3765
03:08:50,560 --> 03:08:54,280
Speaker 2: puzzles all the time, little tiny, little brain can comprehend

3766
03:08:54,360 --> 03:08:56,360
Speaker 2: all the this thing's going on.

3767
03:08:56,760 --> 03:09:01,600
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's too much big business. Shut up yet,

3768
03:09:01,920 --> 03:09:06,120
Speaker 3: shut up, shut up. Thanks for doing a shut up

3769
03:09:06,160 --> 03:09:08,240
Speaker 3: with me. I was nice, was cute. Great moment.

3770
03:09:08,400 --> 03:09:10,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we kind of synchronized the fit there, and now

3771
03:09:10,680 --> 03:09:12,680
Speaker 2: we do have another update. Pool, let's go, We do

3772
03:09:12,760 --> 03:09:16,760
Speaker 2: have another update. Thank you to everyone who offered their

3773
03:09:16,760 --> 03:09:19,480
Speaker 2: support and advice. I wanted to share how things have

3774
03:09:19,640 --> 03:09:22,680
Speaker 2: unfolded since my last post. The situation with my boss

3775
03:09:22,800 --> 03:09:27,720
Speaker 2: has escalated further and it's becoming impossible to ignore. After

3776
03:09:27,760 --> 03:09:31,400
Speaker 2: documenting everything and gathering evidence, I decided it was time

3777
03:09:31,480 --> 03:09:34,520
Speaker 2: to take action. I started to sort out my so

3778
03:09:34,720 --> 03:09:37,800
Speaker 2: called evidence so I would be providing them with detailed

3779
03:09:37,800 --> 03:09:40,720
Speaker 2: notes on the incidents and examples of the sexist and

3780
03:09:40,800 --> 03:09:44,680
Speaker 2: undermining behavior I've experienced. It turns out I wasn't the

3781
03:09:44,720 --> 03:09:46,520
Speaker 2: only one having issues with him.

3782
03:09:46,920 --> 03:09:49,879
Speaker 3: I was wrong. Here we go, Here we go. I

3783
03:09:50,000 --> 03:09:51,200
Speaker 3: was wrong look at him.

3784
03:09:53,320 --> 03:09:55,600
Speaker 2: As it turns out, I wasn't the only one having

3785
03:09:55,600 --> 03:09:58,400
Speaker 2: issues with him. Another colleague who had been dealing with

3786
03:09:58,440 --> 03:10:01,400
Speaker 2: similar frustration since the escape a room incident, had already

3787
03:10:01,400 --> 03:10:04,560
Speaker 2: filed a complaint with HR. Before I could schedule a

3788
03:10:04,560 --> 03:10:06,840
Speaker 2: meeting with HR myself, they actually reached out to me

3789
03:10:06,920 --> 03:10:11,039
Speaker 2: for a conversation. Apparently, HR had been investigating my colleagues

3790
03:10:11,080 --> 03:10:14,760
Speaker 2: complaint and was in the process of gathering more information

3791
03:10:15,080 --> 03:10:18,480
Speaker 2: when they received my documentation. It was clear that both

3792
03:10:18,480 --> 03:10:21,800
Speaker 2: of our experiences painted a troubling picture of my boss's behavior,

3793
03:10:22,000 --> 03:10:26,640
Speaker 2: particularly towards women. As a result, HR has taken the

3794
03:10:26,680 --> 03:10:30,520
Speaker 2: situation seriously, and my boss has been temporarily suspended while

3795
03:10:30,560 --> 03:10:34,039
Speaker 2: the investigation continues. Even though I hadn't planned for things

3796
03:10:34,040 --> 03:10:37,520
Speaker 2: to move this quickly, I'm relieved that steps are being

3797
03:10:37,560 --> 03:10:41,320
Speaker 2: taken to address this issue, and you can find relief

3798
03:10:41,360 --> 03:10:45,920
Speaker 2: of your own by tuning in every weekday on YouTube

3799
03:10:46,080 --> 03:10:50,600
Speaker 2: to join our live stream at three pm Pacific Standard time.

3800
03:10:50,800 --> 03:10:54,119
Speaker 2: Just tap that profiles. Dude, Riley, aren't you happy about

3801
03:10:54,120 --> 03:10:54,640
Speaker 2: this outcome?

3802
03:10:54,959 --> 03:10:56,320
Speaker 3: I'm so happy. Yeah.

3803
03:10:56,360 --> 03:10:59,039
Speaker 1: You're really the defender of women, Riley. You know, when

3804
03:10:59,080 --> 03:10:59,840
Speaker 1: you think about it.

3805
03:11:00,120 --> 03:11:03,080
Speaker 3: Defend all the women in my life. That's true. You

3806
03:11:03,160 --> 03:11:05,120
Speaker 3: sure do, Riley. You do a great job at that,

3807
03:11:05,360 --> 03:11:10,440
Speaker 3: especially my coworkers, my one female co worker. Yeah yeah, yeah, Riley,

3808
03:11:10,480 --> 03:11:13,879
Speaker 3: I've only ever seen you deeply respect all of your

3809
03:11:13,920 --> 03:11:20,039
Speaker 3: female co workers. It's true. Hey, Riley, why don't you

3810
03:11:20,080 --> 03:11:22,400
Speaker 3: tell me how many points are you gonna drop on

3811
03:11:22,440 --> 03:11:22,880
Speaker 3: him tonight?

3812
03:11:24,480 --> 03:11:27,800
Speaker 4: I'm gonna drop so many points at the basketball court tonight.

3813
03:11:28,120 --> 03:11:30,720
Speaker 3: I've been I've been doing it with these old guys

3814
03:11:30,800 --> 03:11:31,320
Speaker 3: and you know.

3815
03:11:31,320 --> 03:11:31,480
Speaker 4: Like.

3816
03:11:33,959 --> 03:11:34,840
Speaker 3: Clown them.

3817
03:11:36,240 --> 03:11:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, if that makes sense, Riley's dunking on senior citizens.

3818
03:11:45,560 --> 03:11:50,120
Speaker 3: We are the senior citizens of the old Yeah yeah,

3819
03:11:50,280 --> 03:11:52,840
Speaker 3: old retirement home over here. That's why we're so full

3820
03:11:52,879 --> 03:11:55,879
Speaker 3: of wisdom. Yeah, that's why we're here telling the telling.

3821
03:11:56,160 --> 03:11:58,520
Speaker 2: That's and that's why my voice just cracked because I'm

3822
03:11:58,560 --> 03:12:02,880
Speaker 2: so old. Gez Okay, so okay, we're almost at the end. Here,

3823
03:12:02,920 --> 03:12:04,000
Speaker 2: Here we go, Here we go.

3824
03:12:05,840 --> 03:12:06,080
Speaker 3: Uh.

3825
03:12:06,160 --> 03:12:10,560
Speaker 2: The office atmosphere has already improved noticeably, And while it's

3826
03:12:10,640 --> 03:12:12,760
Speaker 2: unfortunate that it took this much to make a change,

3827
03:12:13,040 --> 03:12:16,520
Speaker 2: I feel validated knowing that speaking up was the right choice.

3828
03:12:16,920 --> 03:12:19,400
Speaker 2: This experience has taught me the importance of standing up

3829
03:12:19,400 --> 03:12:22,600
Speaker 2: for myself even when it's daunting. Thank you all again

3830
03:12:22,640 --> 03:12:24,400
Speaker 2: for your advice and support.

3831
03:12:25,000 --> 03:12:25,280
Speaker 3: Cool.

3832
03:12:25,800 --> 03:12:30,039
Speaker 2: Well, hey, I mean, I guess some bad sexist boss

3833
03:12:30,040 --> 03:12:34,879
Speaker 2: who's you know, talking down and demeaning all his employees suspended.

3834
03:12:34,959 --> 03:12:37,640
Speaker 3: Everyone's doing better. I like it.

3835
03:12:37,680 --> 03:12:37,920
Speaker 2: I am.

3836
03:12:37,959 --> 03:12:40,760
Speaker 1: I am thrilled with this. The only the only thing

3837
03:12:40,920 --> 03:12:44,640
Speaker 1: that would have been better was they go do another

3838
03:12:45,000 --> 03:12:47,920
Speaker 1: escape room and at the end of the escape room,

3839
03:12:48,040 --> 03:12:51,240
Speaker 1: it like a window pulls up. It's like a like

3840
03:12:51,400 --> 03:12:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm imagining, like a like a window shade. It pulls up,

3841
03:12:54,600 --> 03:12:57,400
Speaker 1: and it's a big sign through the window that says, boss,

3842
03:12:57,720 --> 03:13:01,360
Speaker 1: you're fired. Opl everyone's solve it. And the boss is

3843
03:13:01,400 --> 03:13:05,280
Speaker 1: just like, oh my god, I'm just stupid to understand

3844
03:13:05,879 --> 03:13:12,039
Speaker 1: because I'm a stupid sexist boss idiot clip that got him?

3845
03:13:12,120 --> 03:13:15,400
Speaker 3: That's right, got him. That's right. I don't that's right.

3846
03:13:15,840 --> 03:13:17,720
Speaker 2: But you know, wouldn't it be also a great twist

3847
03:13:17,760 --> 03:13:22,320
Speaker 2: if instead, you know, they do another escape room and

3848
03:13:22,360 --> 03:13:25,240
Speaker 2: the curtain comes up just like you described, and instead

3849
03:13:25,560 --> 03:13:27,560
Speaker 2: it's the boss and he's.

3850
03:13:27,360 --> 03:13:30,640
Speaker 3: Like, surprise. I put this all together to bring you

3851
03:13:30,720 --> 03:13:33,959
Speaker 3: closer together. I wanted to give you a common enemy.

3852
03:13:34,440 --> 03:13:37,240
Speaker 2: I was pretending to be a sexist piece of crap

3853
03:13:37,400 --> 03:13:39,520
Speaker 2: so that you guys would learn the.

3854
03:13:39,520 --> 03:13:43,400
Speaker 3: Value of speaking up and sticking together. And that's the

3855
03:13:43,520 --> 03:13:47,880
Speaker 3: dangers of sexism kids. Yeah, have you ever seen Arrested Development?

3856
03:13:47,959 --> 03:13:50,120
Speaker 3: Where do you know that show? Yeah? Yeah, they had

3857
03:13:50,120 --> 03:13:51,800
Speaker 3: the guy that I was like, blow his arm off.

3858
03:13:51,800 --> 03:13:53,840
Speaker 3: And that's why you don't be sexist.

3859
03:13:53,879 --> 03:13:57,560
Speaker 2: And that's why you don't leave the empty milk carton

3860
03:13:57,640 --> 03:13:59,080
Speaker 2: in the fridge exactly