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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Tim,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you good morning, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're doing great?

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: So you think you may have been ghosted by this

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Speaker 1: woman Melissa Fell. Listen, how did you meet Melissa? Tell

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Speaker 1: us about any dates that you've been on and kind

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Speaker 1: of where things are now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well on this awesome girl Melissa on you know,

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Speaker 3: one of those dating apps. I won't say which one,

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Speaker 3: but we chatted a little bit before agreeing to meet up,

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Speaker 3: and we bet at a it's like a bar restaurant

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Speaker 3: that I chose. I took a little initiative to make

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Speaker 3: sure that we had a firm date, time and location,

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Speaker 3: you know, because women like organized and assertive men. You know.

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Speaker 1: I have noticed that more and more than people want,

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Speaker 1: like in advance time location, Like it's not like, hey,

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Speaker 1: the day before or the morning of.

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Speaker 2: I think that kind of you used to.

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Speaker 1: Be able to get a with that, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like now I don't know if it's a TikTok trender,

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Speaker 1: I don't know something, but it's like I want to

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Speaker 1: know two days in advance, where are.

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Speaker 2: We going, what time, what are we doing what I'm.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know. I just feel like that's a

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Speaker 1: lot to ask for it. No, but I feel like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you I agree, I agree to just get

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Speaker 1: a drink.

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Speaker 2: Somewhere or whatever. I know, I don't, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't feel like.

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Speaker 1: In the past, you the standard was necessarily planning on

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Speaker 1: an entire evening in advance.

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Speaker 2: But you're right, it's not too much to ask. And

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Speaker 2: that's what you did.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I did, and uh and the day was awesome

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Speaker 3: and you know, it's just all around, uh, really good time.

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Speaker 3: And I was really excited hoping to see this lady again,

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Speaker 3: but she's been you know, she's I haven't heard from

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Speaker 3: her since. Okay, Uh, you know, it's a really nice

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Speaker 3: place too. Uh. It was an excellent conversation. The wine

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Speaker 3: was was great, pretty expensive. I don't I don't know

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Speaker 3: what wine there would be any issue, So I'm a

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Speaker 3: little confused, and I'm hoping to get some clarification.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's call her now. Good luck, Tim, Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Melissa? Yeah, Hi Melissa, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I

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Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Is that okay?

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Speaker 1: If we ch have for just a second, you can

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Speaker 1: hang up anytime, I guess, so, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy who says he

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Speaker 1: met you on one of the dating apps. His name

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Speaker 1: is Tim, and you guys recently went on a date. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well what happened with Tim? Because he described

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Speaker 1: just a second ago when he thought was a really

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Speaker 1: really good date with you, and he's surprised that you

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Speaker 1: haven't responded to him. I guess he's reached out to

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Speaker 1: plan another one. He thought it went really well. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like maybe you don't think the same.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm a little surprised by this call. But yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean, Tim seem to like a nice enough guy,

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Speaker 4: but he was really insistent that we go to this

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Speaker 4: particular restaurant, I mean, and which it was fine like that,

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Speaker 4: you know, we chatted back and forth on one of

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Speaker 4: the dating apps and then we kind of decided to

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Speaker 4: meet up. But when we got to the restaurant, I

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Speaker 4: kind of understood why he was so insistent on that

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Speaker 3: Because it was just clearly like his spot to impress

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Speaker 3: his date.

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Speaker 2: It was like Tim spots.

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Speaker 4: And I just felt really out of place. But like

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Speaker 4: as soon as we walked in, everyone knew his name.

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Speaker 4: He had one of those lockers with his own wine.

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Speaker 1: You see those fancy restaurants. I get a little name

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Speaker 1: on it. You can keep stuff in there. Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: So he wanted to take you somewhere where he was

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Speaker 1: the man like this was he was this is his

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Speaker 1: spot much.

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Speaker 2: Spot?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you walk in, everybody knows him. He obviously

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Speaker 4: That was my first thought was that this is not

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Speaker 4: be surprised if all the waiters like know him by name,

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Speaker 4: and they did so the server came over.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's like he had.

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Speaker 4: His own cable and the server and him were had

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Speaker 4: like known each other for a long time, and it

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Speaker 4: just felt really weird, like he was kind of being

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Speaker 4: put up on a pedestal, and like I was just.

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Speaker 2: There in Tim's world and he thought you'd be impressed

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Speaker 2: by all.

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Speaker 4: This, yeah, and it was just kind of no.

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Speaker 3: I was. I was I truly wasn't.

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Speaker 4: I was kind of annoyed, and it just felt really

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Speaker 4: over the top, like it wasn't a date where I

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Speaker 3: It was just this is.

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Speaker 4: Tim's spot, and I was probably one of many women

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Speaker 4: that have been there before with him.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's ask Tim about that, because I forgot that

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Speaker 1: Tim is here. I'm very forgetful and I I am sorry.

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Speaker 1: But Tim, so so this is your place, right You

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Speaker 1: take all the ladies there, you take everybody you want

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Speaker 1: to look like a big, big time guy.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe that this is the issue. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 3: I am a I'm a regular at this place. It

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Speaker 3: is a it's a really nice place. You know. I

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Speaker 3: don't know why that would be a problem. I would

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Speaker 3: you care if they if they know me. That's why

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Speaker 3: I wanted to take you there. I'm you know, I

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Speaker 3: don't know why you would feel intimidated. You know that

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Speaker 3: maybe I'm more popular than.

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Speaker 2: You are right there? Oh my god, that's the problem.

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Speaker 2: Right there is the problem. I mean, you pay these people.

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Speaker 3: It's not contact.

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Speaker 4: Apparently clearly it is because you wanted to show off

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Speaker 4: that everyone knew you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you could have gone to any restaurant, but

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Speaker 1: you chose the place where everybody was going to know

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Speaker 1: your name.

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Speaker 2: I'm with him.

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Speaker 5: I'm with him, Like if she's a hated just say that.

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Speaker 5: I mean, he tried to take her, so it's fine

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Speaker 5: that he knew they would get a supreme service. And

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Speaker 5: you know the he knows the food as well, he

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Speaker 5: knows it it's going to be a great time.

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Speaker 2: He was trying to put his.

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Speaker 5: Best foot for.

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Speaker 3: It was too much, too soon.

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Speaker 4: We went from zero two one hundred, and it wasn't

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Speaker 4: like you know, maybe that would have been trying to

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Speaker 4: gone on a few days jealous given jealous.

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Speaker 2: I didn't like you were a little jealous like that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I just I.

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Speaker 1: Think it was it was too much like you were

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Speaker 1: trying too hard, like you wanted to look like a

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Speaker 1: big like a big deal, like you could have taken No,

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Speaker 1: it's no.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, if you're not I don't know,

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Speaker 3: if maybe you're just not cultured. This is a little

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Speaker 3: very nice, fine play. That's and that's the place that

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Speaker 3: I thought that we would have a really good We

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Speaker 3: did have a good time, I thought, and maybe you

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Speaker 3: uncomfortable for me being more popular there. That's you know,

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Speaker 3: I make friends easily.

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Speaker 2: You can't.

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Speaker 4: The fact that you're not even willing to hear other

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Speaker 4: people out about their experience at your spot just goes

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Speaker 4: to show the kind of person you are. It's not

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Speaker 4: like you are quote unquote trying to be the man

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Speaker 4: and it did not work with me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm not trying to be anything. I

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Speaker 3: am who I am. And yes, so I have a spot.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, look, there are certain places in the

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Speaker 1: place that I go and I do know people.

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Speaker 3: And I took you to a place, a very fancy

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Speaker 3: and expensive place where I happened to have some report.

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Speaker 1: You keep talking about how expensive it was. I mean,

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Speaker 1: clearly you were doing this. You were trying to portray

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Speaker 1: a particular kind of image, and it sounds like she

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Speaker 1: just wanted just to be chill.

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Speaker 2: She did not an image.

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Speaker 3: No, sir, it's not an image. This is you know,

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Speaker 3: that is who I am.

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Speaker 1: I like nice things.

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Speaker 3: I like to take women to deserve this place.

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Speaker 4: How many other women? How many other women have you

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Speaker 4: taken there?

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Speaker 3: That's that's not the point. It's when I go out

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Speaker 3: with somebody, I always like to treat them to a

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Speaker 3: very good time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they pretend like they never see it.

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Speaker 3: I know that, Dame.

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Speaker 2: I know that, dame.

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Speaker 1: Look, we've all got spots that we go to where

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Speaker 1: we know people or whatever. And I guess what she's

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Speaker 1: saying is she wanted something that maybe felt a little

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Speaker 1: more original, a little less scripted, a little a little

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Speaker 1: bit you know, I don't know, more catered to her.

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Speaker 1: And you're saying it was nice and expensive, so she

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Speaker 3: Well, it was a very fine place. And I don't

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Speaker 3: know what the problem would be If she just doesn't

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Speaker 3: appreciate nice things, then I don't understand why that's okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, Well, look it was very very nice. We

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Speaker 3: had a great date, and I think that's a great date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just didn't want on her. I guess she

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Speaker 1: wasn't impressed, and so it's not a match man. Look

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Speaker 1: you you you thought that was the best you could do,

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Speaker 1: and she didn't agree on the vibe. And so Melissa,

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Speaker 1: I'll ask, I mean, what if we pick another place

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Speaker 1: where they don't know his name, another place that is

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Speaker 1: in his personal cheers, would you go?

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Speaker 2: No, that ship has failed?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, Tim, I mean maybe maybe, maybe it's working

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Speaker 1: for you in other situations. It just didn't work here.

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Speaker 3: You know what. I'm really sorry. It's it's ultimately your loss. Melissa.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, all right, okay, that's right, Tim stand obviousness.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. Look at you, Look at you guys. Guys, Tim, Melissa,

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Speaker 1: best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you,