WEBVTT - BobbyCast Presents:  Middays with Morgan (Episode 2)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Bobby here. This is not a Bobby cast obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>but last week we debuted new content that was called

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<v Speaker 1>mid Days with Morgan and saw a pretty good response,

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<v Speaker 1>which is pretty cool. So I think people are liking it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's Morgan Number one, who used to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show but now she works with me in

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<v Speaker 1>a different capacity. But she just does this segment on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>We thought it was funny and interesting, and so here

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<v Speaker 1>she is. It was the set. We just saved a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of it initially and we didn't load it all

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<v Speaker 1>up in the first time. I don't know if we'll

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<v Speaker 1>do another one or not. You can let me know

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<v Speaker 1>if you like it. But it's her talking about life,

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<v Speaker 1>social media, dating and everything in between. You can follow

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan on Instagram and actually watch them for yourself at

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan mass and Gil or I follow her. You can

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<v Speaker 1>find her over there or find the link in the

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<v Speaker 1>episode notes. But here you go one more, maybe the last,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not. Who knows. It's mid Days with Morgan. So

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<v Speaker 1>today I want to take a little box you down

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<v Speaker 1>memory lane and talk about some full circle moments that

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<v Speaker 1>I've had in my career, like I've heard up in

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<v Speaker 1>a very small town called Mile in Tennessee. If you

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<v Speaker 1>had told me when I was is a freshman in

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<v Speaker 1>high school that I would have gotten to do and

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<v Speaker 1>meet all the people don't do the people do things

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<v Speaker 1>and meet people that I've met, I wouldn't have believed it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wouldn't have been able to wrap my little

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<v Speaker 1>people in around it, you know. Um, But one story

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<v Speaker 1>I want to share, uh, was for my I think

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<v Speaker 1>I was a freshman in high school. So grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in Milan and the neighboring city was Jackson. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit bigger, and Dirt Spentley was coming to

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<v Speaker 1>play a show at the Jackson Civic Center. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was lucky enough that my uncle Andy worked at the

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<v Speaker 1>Jackson Civic Center and he lent me and my sister

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<v Speaker 1>into the show early, so we were able to get

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<v Speaker 1>into the very front front row of this Dirt Spentley show.

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<v Speaker 1>And being thirteen year old made with my lip bumper

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<v Speaker 1>and my graphic roo and just you know it, not

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<v Speaker 1>a cute kid be in front row and just like

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely drooling over Dirt Spentley. It's funny to think about

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<v Speaker 1>he comes out, things come a little closer. I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>come a little low, but you know, like just not anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was a core memory for me. I will

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<v Speaker 1>never forget it. And Luke Bryan was opening for him

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<v Speaker 1>on this tour, so this is I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>one of Luke's very first tours. It was he he

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<v Speaker 1>was singing. I remember him doing country Man and all

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<v Speaker 1>those songs that are now huge hits, but before they

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<v Speaker 1>were huge like they are now crazy. But we're in

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<v Speaker 1>the front row of this show. I remember grabbing Luke's hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, I mean, just a really good freaking show.

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<v Speaker 1>Fast forward all these years later, and I have since

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<v Speaker 1>been able to meet both Dirk's and Luke on numerous occasions,

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<v Speaker 1>but one that stuff into my memory was a day

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<v Speaker 1>that Dirk's was coming into the Morning show to do

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of segment. I think he was surprising Amy

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<v Speaker 1>with something for a birthday. I could be wrong, but

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<v Speaker 1>he pulled into the garage and his kids were with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I was helping him in side, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>him just making small talk with me and call me

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<v Speaker 1>by my name, like saying Morgan at one point, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember just in my mind, can you set back

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<v Speaker 1>and going who would have fought like who would have

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<v Speaker 1>thought that little lip bump for big gas tooth Morgan

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<v Speaker 1>would be here right now in front of Dirt's and

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<v Speaker 1>he's he knows my name. That may sound silly, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's just one of those moments for me that I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Wow. And I've had some similar things with

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<v Speaker 1>Luke of like I had to interview him once. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>see if I can find a picture and share it

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<v Speaker 1>my story. But I had to interview him once at

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<v Speaker 1>i Heeart Country Festival, and it was another one of

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<v Speaker 1>those moments where I was just like I literally was

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<v Speaker 1>holding your hand trying to pull you up my thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>year old house was story I'll pull you on stage

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<v Speaker 1>at the Jagon Civic Center and now I'm standing here

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you one on one. What in the world?

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, life is weird, y'all. And if you think

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<v Speaker 1>something is implausible and very well could be possible, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the moral of the story is. I am very grateful

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<v Speaker 1>for the blessings that the Lord has bestowed on me

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<v Speaker 1>because I just couldn't never envision this life for myself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a little strolled on memory Lane. I hope you enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 1>After yesterday's mid Day's where I gave advice. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a d M from another girul and I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about it. I have so much to say,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is what she sent me. She said, Morgan,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been dating this guy for three months and could

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<v Speaker 1>really use your advice. When I asked what we are,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he wants to take things slow. His last

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<v Speaker 1>relationship didn't end well, and he's not ready to put

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<v Speaker 1>a label on what we are just yet. How long

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<v Speaker 1>should I give him to let his feelings catch up

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<v Speaker 1>to mine. Okay, I'm making some assumptions here, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming that you guys have a physical relationship, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that was a mistake if you do. What

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<v Speaker 1>I mean by that is, I don't think that this

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<v Speaker 1>guy is struggling to decide if he wants a day

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<v Speaker 1>you're not. I think he knows that he doesn't, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's getting some sort of need met from

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<v Speaker 1>you and wants to keep it to what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>because three months is not five minutes. If you've been

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<v Speaker 1>consistently seeing someone for three months and they can't determine

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<v Speaker 1>if they want to be in a relationship with you

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<v Speaker 1>or not by that point, up they don't. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know that that's a hard truth to hear, but I

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<v Speaker 1>would walk. If I were you, I wouldn't give him

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<v Speaker 1>one more second of time to let his feelings catch

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<v Speaker 1>up two yours. I would walk. I'm also curious of

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<v Speaker 1>how it started, Like did this guy's tell you the

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<v Speaker 1>very beginning that he had just gotten out of bad

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and really wasn't looking for anything serious, and then you, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I could change his mind, because if that's the case,

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<v Speaker 1>that was also a mistake. When a guy is up

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<v Speaker 1>front and says he's not looking for anything, take that

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<v Speaker 1>for what it is. You don't think, Oh, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be even one to just be the exception to that rule,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm gonna make him fall for me. No, you're not. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not. He isn't in a place where he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be in a relationship if he's saying those things

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<v Speaker 1>and what he's wanting is casual hookup And maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>where you guys haven't landed and you're not liking it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I personally, Man, I'm gonna really out myself here, but

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<v Speaker 1>I personally don't have sleepovers with guys that we haven't

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<v Speaker 1>clearly defined what's going on. Meaning I find it extremely

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<v Speaker 1>important and I'm probably gonna sound really old school and

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<v Speaker 1>prudish right now. Um, I've had it extremely important to

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<v Speaker 1>build the emotional relationship first. Physical is important, for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but it a guy needs a chase. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm gonna get somebody, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so old school. But a guy needs a chase,

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<v Speaker 1>he truly does. And if you're making it so easy

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<v Speaker 1>to get to that physical place with you, I think guys,

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<v Speaker 1>just even if it's subconscious, I think that guys just

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<v Speaker 1>put you one you in a different category. At that

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<v Speaker 1>point of there's there's wicky material and then there's took

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<v Speaker 1>up material in a guy's mind, and you might disagree,

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<v Speaker 1>you might disagree, and that's probably fun. This is how

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<v Speaker 1>I see it. And once you cross that line of oh, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just on the second day, like we how to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep over, Like I think it's hard to other feelings

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<v Speaker 1>catch up. It's always so much better for me personally

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<v Speaker 1>when I know a guy is just like truly he

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<v Speaker 1>likes me for me, and he's wanting to define it,

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<v Speaker 1>say we're in a relationship, and then the good physical

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<v Speaker 1>stuff comes later. I don't know. I just think you've

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<v Speaker 1>you've most likely mess this one up, and if you're

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<v Speaker 1>wanting a relationship, you need to move like someone who

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<v Speaker 1>is wanting a relationship. If you're showing up being like

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<v Speaker 1>you just can't hook up. Culture is so rough, and

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, Like, if you want to just be

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<v Speaker 1>hooking up, go do that, more power to you. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you're wanting a relationship, you have to move like

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<v Speaker 1>you're wanting a relationship. I have definitely been on dates

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<v Speaker 1>with guys, and that's what I'm saying, like this weeds

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<v Speaker 1>out the ones that just want to hook up. I've

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<v Speaker 1>definitely dated guys who were not into waiting around for

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<v Speaker 1>the physical stuff, and it was no sweat off my back,

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<v Speaker 1>like Okay, we're not gonna be a match, move on.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think you just have to understand your worth,

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<v Speaker 1>your value, and have some pretty pretty define mind boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>about around the physical stuff. Yeah, I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>just if you it's three months in, you've been seeing

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, You've been giving him the girlfriend package with

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<v Speaker 1>the uh we're not anything um subscription Like, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that there's any salvaging it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that you walk and if he realizes that, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's not just gonna be here to fulfill my

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<v Speaker 1>every women need. I'm gonna have to really step up,

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<v Speaker 1>then great. But if not, he wasn't your person. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not, if it isn't life or death, If

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to be in a relationship and you just

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<v Speaker 1>are cool, carrying all the way, you are cool. But

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<v Speaker 1>if not, if you want to be something more and

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<v Speaker 1>he's not there, he would have been here by now.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm just saying, take it for what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not your person if he's not caught up the ship.

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<v Speaker 1>And guys will use a past relationship, I mean they

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<v Speaker 1>will run that stuff into the ground. And if it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter, if a guy's had his heart broken before,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna know when he's gonna know if you're someone

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to be with and sister, the second that

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<v Speaker 1>you walk away from this man, you're gonna know because

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<v Speaker 1>if he comes running back of oh, like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to lose you, okay, but I don't think he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to sadly, and I hope, I hope I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>being too blunt. If you want a relationship, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>move like you want a relationship in life. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>settle for for these guys that just want to hook

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<v Speaker 1>up and get give them that piece of it. And

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<v Speaker 1>your emotions are getting all tied up in the mix,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's aren't like that's not benefiting your sister. Walk

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<v Speaker 1>that would be my advice. Walk and see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know what's gonna happen, but walk and

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<v Speaker 1>see what happens.