Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby here. This is not a Bobby cast obviously,
Speaker 1: but last week we debuted new content that was called
Speaker 1: mid Days with Morgan and saw a pretty good response,
Speaker 1: which is pretty cool. So I think people are liking it.
Speaker 1: But it's Morgan Number one, who used to be on
Speaker 1: the radio show but now she works with me in
Speaker 1: a different capacity. But she just does this segment on Instagram.
Speaker 1: We thought it was funny and interesting, and so here
Speaker 1: she is. It was the set. We just saved a
Speaker 1: bunch of it initially and we didn't load it all
Speaker 1: up in the first time. I don't know if we'll
Speaker 1: do another one or not. You can let me know
Speaker 1: if you like it. But it's her talking about life,
Speaker 1: social media, dating and everything in between. You can follow
Speaker 1: Morgan on Instagram and actually watch them for yourself at
Speaker 1: Morgan mass and Gil or I follow her. You can
Speaker 1: find her over there or find the link in the
Speaker 1: episode notes. But here you go one more, maybe the last,
Speaker 1: maybe not. Who knows. It's mid Days with Morgan. So
Speaker 1: today I want to take a little box you down
Speaker 1: memory lane and talk about some full circle moments that
Speaker 1: I've had in my career, like I've heard up in
Speaker 1: a very small town called Mile in Tennessee. If you
Speaker 1: had told me when I was is a freshman in
Speaker 1: high school that I would have gotten to do and
Speaker 1: meet all the people don't do the people do things
Speaker 1: and meet people that I've met, I wouldn't have believed it.
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have been able to wrap my little
Speaker 1: people in around it, you know. Um, But one story
Speaker 1: I want to share, uh, was for my I think
Speaker 1: I was a freshman in high school. So grew up
Speaker 1: in Milan and the neighboring city was Jackson. It was
Speaker 1: a little bit bigger, and Dirt Spentley was coming to
Speaker 1: play a show at the Jackson Civic Center. And I
Speaker 1: was lucky enough that my uncle Andy worked at the
Speaker 1: Jackson Civic Center and he lent me and my sister
Speaker 1: into the show early, so we were able to get
Speaker 1: into the very front front row of this Dirt Spentley show.
Speaker 1: And being thirteen year old made with my lip bumper
Speaker 1: and my graphic roo and just you know it, not
Speaker 1: a cute kid be in front row and just like
Speaker 1: absolutely drooling over Dirt Spentley. It's funny to think about
Speaker 1: he comes out, things come a little closer. I'm like
Speaker 1: come a little low, but you know, like just not anyway.
Speaker 1: But it was a core memory for me. I will
Speaker 1: never forget it. And Luke Bryan was opening for him
Speaker 1: on this tour, so this is I think it was
Speaker 1: one of Luke's very first tours. It was he he
Speaker 1: was singing. I remember him doing country Man and all
Speaker 1: those songs that are now huge hits, but before they
Speaker 1: were huge like they are now crazy. But we're in
Speaker 1: the front row of this show. I remember grabbing Luke's hand.
Speaker 1: I remember, I mean, just a really good freaking show.
Speaker 1: Fast forward all these years later, and I have since
Speaker 1: been able to meet both Dirk's and Luke on numerous occasions,
Speaker 1: but one that stuff into my memory was a day
Speaker 1: that Dirk's was coming into the Morning show to do
Speaker 1: some sort of segment. I think he was surprising Amy
Speaker 1: with something for a birthday. I could be wrong, but
Speaker 1: he pulled into the garage and his kids were with him,
Speaker 1: and when I was helping him in side, I remember
Speaker 1: him just making small talk with me and call me
Speaker 1: by my name, like saying Morgan at one point, and
Speaker 1: I remember just in my mind, can you set back
Speaker 1: and going who would have fought like who would have
Speaker 1: thought that little lip bump for big gas tooth Morgan
Speaker 1: would be here right now in front of Dirt's and
Speaker 1: he's he knows my name. That may sound silly, but
Speaker 1: it's just one of those moments for me that I
Speaker 1: was like, Wow. And I've had some similar things with
Speaker 1: Luke of like I had to interview him once. I'll
Speaker 1: see if I can find a picture and share it
Speaker 1: my story. But I had to interview him once at
Speaker 1: i Heeart Country Festival, and it was another one of
Speaker 1: those moments where I was just like I literally was
Speaker 1: holding your hand trying to pull you up my thirteen
Speaker 1: year old house was story I'll pull you on stage
Speaker 1: at the Jagon Civic Center and now I'm standing here
Speaker 1: talking to you one on one. What in the world?
Speaker 1: So anyway, life is weird, y'all. And if you think
Speaker 1: something is implausible and very well could be possible, that's
Speaker 1: the moral of the story is. I am very grateful
Speaker 1: for the blessings that the Lord has bestowed on me
Speaker 1: because I just couldn't never envision this life for myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a little strolled on memory Lane. I hope you enjoyed it.
Speaker 1: After yesterday's mid Day's where I gave advice. I got
Speaker 1: a d M from another girul and I really want
Speaker 1: to talk about it. I have so much to say,
Speaker 1: but this is what she sent me. She said, Morgan,
Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy for three months and could
Speaker 1: really use your advice. When I asked what we are,
Speaker 1: he said he wants to take things slow. His last
Speaker 1: relationship didn't end well, and he's not ready to put
Speaker 1: a label on what we are just yet. How long
Speaker 1: should I give him to let his feelings catch up
Speaker 1: to mine. Okay, I'm making some assumptions here, but I'm
Speaker 1: assuming that you guys have a physical relationship, and I
Speaker 1: think that that was a mistake if you do. What
Speaker 1: I mean by that is, I don't think that this
Speaker 1: guy is struggling to decide if he wants a day
Speaker 1: you're not. I think he knows that he doesn't, and
Speaker 1: I think he's getting some sort of need met from
Speaker 1: you and wants to keep it to what it is,
Speaker 1: because three months is not five minutes. If you've been
Speaker 1: consistently seeing someone for three months and they can't determine
Speaker 1: if they want to be in a relationship with you
Speaker 1: or not by that point, up they don't. And I
Speaker 1: know that that's a hard truth to hear, but I
Speaker 1: would walk. If I were you, I wouldn't give him
Speaker 1: one more second of time to let his feelings catch
Speaker 1: up two yours. I would walk. I'm also curious of
Speaker 1: how it started, Like did this guy's tell you the
Speaker 1: very beginning that he had just gotten out of bad
Speaker 1: relationship and really wasn't looking for anything serious, and then you, well,
Speaker 1: maybe I could change his mind, because if that's the case,
Speaker 1: that was also a mistake. When a guy is up
Speaker 1: front and says he's not looking for anything, take that
Speaker 1: for what it is. You don't think, Oh, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be even one to just be the exception to that rule,
Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna make him fall for me. No, you're not. Um,
Speaker 1: you're not. He isn't in a place where he wants
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship if he's saying those things
Speaker 1: and what he's wanting is casual hookup And maybe that's
Speaker 1: where you guys haven't landed and you're not liking it. Um.
Speaker 1: I personally, Man, I'm gonna really out myself here, but
Speaker 1: I personally don't have sleepovers with guys that we haven't
Speaker 1: clearly defined what's going on. Meaning I find it extremely
Speaker 1: important and I'm probably gonna sound really old school and
Speaker 1: prudish right now. Um, I've had it extremely important to
Speaker 1: build the emotional relationship first. Physical is important, for sure,
Speaker 1: but it a guy needs a chase. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna get somebody, you know, because
Speaker 1: I'm so old school. But a guy needs a chase,
Speaker 1: he truly does. And if you're making it so easy
Speaker 1: to get to that physical place with you, I think guys,
Speaker 1: just even if it's subconscious, I think that guys just
Speaker 1: put you one you in a different category. At that
Speaker 1: point of there's there's wicky material and then there's took
Speaker 1: up material in a guy's mind, and you might disagree,
Speaker 1: you might disagree, and that's probably fun. This is how
Speaker 1: I see it. And once you cross that line of oh, like,
Speaker 1: I'm just on the second day, like we how to
Speaker 1: sleep over, Like I think it's hard to other feelings
Speaker 1: catch up. It's always so much better for me personally
Speaker 1: when I know a guy is just like truly he
Speaker 1: likes me for me, and he's wanting to define it,
Speaker 1: say we're in a relationship, and then the good physical
Speaker 1: stuff comes later. I don't know. I just think you've
Speaker 1: you've most likely mess this one up, and if you're
Speaker 1: wanting a relationship, you need to move like someone who
Speaker 1: is wanting a relationship. If you're showing up being like
Speaker 1: you just can't hook up. Culture is so rough, and
Speaker 1: I get it, Like, if you want to just be
Speaker 1: hooking up, go do that, more power to you. But
Speaker 1: if you're wanting a relationship, you have to move like
Speaker 1: you're wanting a relationship. I have definitely been on dates
Speaker 1: with guys, and that's what I'm saying, like this weeds
Speaker 1: out the ones that just want to hook up. I've
Speaker 1: definitely dated guys who were not into waiting around for
Speaker 1: the physical stuff, and it was no sweat off my back,
Speaker 1: like Okay, we're not gonna be a match, move on.
Speaker 1: So I think you just have to understand your worth,
Speaker 1: your value, and have some pretty pretty define mind boundaries
Speaker 1: about around the physical stuff. Yeah, I think that you
Speaker 1: just if you it's three months in, you've been seeing
Speaker 1: this guy, You've been giving him the girlfriend package with
Speaker 1: the uh we're not anything um subscription Like, it's just
Speaker 1: I don't know that there's any salvaging it. I think
Speaker 1: that you walk and if he realizes that, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like she's not just gonna be here to fulfill my
Speaker 1: every women need. I'm gonna have to really step up,
Speaker 1: then great. But if not, he wasn't your person. And
Speaker 1: if you're not, if it isn't life or death, If
Speaker 1: he wants to be in a relationship and you just
Speaker 1: are cool, carrying all the way, you are cool. But
Speaker 1: if not, if you want to be something more and
Speaker 1: he's not there, he would have been here by now.
Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying, take it for what it is.
Speaker 1: He's not your person if he's not caught up the ship.
Speaker 1: And guys will use a past relationship, I mean they
Speaker 1: will run that stuff into the ground. And if it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter, if a guy's had his heart broken before,
Speaker 1: he's gonna know when he's gonna know if you're someone
Speaker 1: he wants to be with and sister, the second that
Speaker 1: you walk away from this man, you're gonna know because
Speaker 1: if he comes running back of oh, like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to lose you, okay, but I don't think he's
Speaker 1: going to sadly, and I hope, I hope I'm not
Speaker 1: being too blunt. If you want a relationship, you gotta
Speaker 1: move like you want a relationship in life. You can't
Speaker 1: settle for for these guys that just want to hook
Speaker 1: up and get give them that piece of it. And
Speaker 1: your emotions are getting all tied up in the mix,
Speaker 1: and there's aren't like that's not benefiting your sister. Walk
Speaker 1: that would be my advice. Walk and see what happens.
Speaker 1: I think I know what's gonna happen, but walk and
Speaker 1: see what happens.