1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby here. This is not a Bobby cast obviously, 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: but last week we debuted new content that was called 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: mid Days with Morgan and saw a pretty good response, 4 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: which is pretty cool. So I think people are liking it. 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: But it's Morgan Number one, who used to be on 6 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: the radio show but now she works with me in 7 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: a different capacity. But she just does this segment on Instagram. 8 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: We thought it was funny and interesting, and so here 9 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: she is. It was the set. We just saved a 10 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: bunch of it initially and we didn't load it all 11 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: up in the first time. I don't know if we'll 12 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: do another one or not. You can let me know 13 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: if you like it. But it's her talking about life, 14 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: social media, dating and everything in between. You can follow 15 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: Morgan on Instagram and actually watch them for yourself at 16 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: Morgan mass and Gil or I follow her. You can 17 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: find her over there or find the link in the 18 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: episode notes. But here you go one more, maybe the last, 19 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: maybe not. Who knows. It's mid Days with Morgan. So 20 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: today I want to take a little box you down 21 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: memory lane and talk about some full circle moments that 22 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: I've had in my career, like I've heard up in 23 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: a very small town called Mile in Tennessee. If you 24 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: had told me when I was is a freshman in 25 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: high school that I would have gotten to do and 26 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: meet all the people don't do the people do things 27 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: and meet people that I've met, I wouldn't have believed it. 28 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have been able to wrap my little 29 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: people in around it, you know. Um, But one story 30 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: I want to share, uh, was for my I think 31 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: I was a freshman in high school. So grew up 32 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: in Milan and the neighboring city was Jackson. It was 33 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: a little bit bigger, and Dirt Spentley was coming to 34 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: play a show at the Jackson Civic Center. And I 35 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: was lucky enough that my uncle Andy worked at the 36 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: Jackson Civic Center and he lent me and my sister 37 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: into the show early, so we were able to get 38 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 1: into the very front front row of this Dirt Spentley show. 39 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: And being thirteen year old made with my lip bumper 40 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: and my graphic roo and just you know it, not 41 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: a cute kid be in front row and just like 42 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: absolutely drooling over Dirt Spentley. It's funny to think about 43 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: he comes out, things come a little closer. I'm like 44 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: come a little low, but you know, like just not anyway. 45 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: But it was a core memory for me. I will 46 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: never forget it. And Luke Bryan was opening for him 47 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: on this tour, so this is I think it was 48 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: one of Luke's very first tours. It was he he 49 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: was singing. I remember him doing country Man and all 50 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: those songs that are now huge hits, but before they 51 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: were huge like they are now crazy. But we're in 52 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: the front row of this show. I remember grabbing Luke's hand. 53 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: I remember, I mean, just a really good freaking show. 54 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: Fast forward all these years later, and I have since 55 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: been able to meet both Dirk's and Luke on numerous occasions, 56 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: but one that stuff into my memory was a day 57 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: that Dirk's was coming into the Morning show to do 58 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: some sort of segment. I think he was surprising Amy 59 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: with something for a birthday. I could be wrong, but 60 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 1: he pulled into the garage and his kids were with him, 61 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: and when I was helping him in side, I remember 62 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: him just making small talk with me and call me 63 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: by my name, like saying Morgan at one point, and 64 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: I remember just in my mind, can you set back 65 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: and going who would have fought like who would have 66 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: thought that little lip bump for big gas tooth Morgan 67 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: would be here right now in front of Dirt's and 68 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: he's he knows my name. That may sound silly, but 69 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: it's just one of those moments for me that I 70 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: was like, Wow. And I've had some similar things with 71 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: Luke of like I had to interview him once. I'll 72 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: see if I can find a picture and share it 73 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: my story. But I had to interview him once at 74 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: i Heeart Country Festival, and it was another one of 75 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: those moments where I was just like I literally was 76 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: holding your hand trying to pull you up my thirteen 77 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: year old house was story I'll pull you on stage 78 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: at the Jagon Civic Center and now I'm standing here 79 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: talking to you one on one. What in the world? 80 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,839 Speaker 1: So anyway, life is weird, y'all. And if you think 81 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: something is implausible and very well could be possible, that's 82 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: the moral of the story is. I am very grateful 83 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: for the blessings that the Lord has bestowed on me 84 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: because I just couldn't never envision this life for myself. Yeah, 85 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: a little strolled on memory Lane. I hope you enjoyed it. 86 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: After yesterday's mid Day's where I gave advice. I got 87 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: a d M from another girul and I really want 88 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 1: to talk about it. I have so much to say, 89 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: but this is what she sent me. She said, Morgan, 90 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy for three months and could 91 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: really use your advice. When I asked what we are, 92 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: he said he wants to take things slow. His last 93 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: relationship didn't end well, and he's not ready to put 94 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: a label on what we are just yet. How long 95 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: should I give him to let his feelings catch up 96 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: to mine. Okay, I'm making some assumptions here, but I'm 97 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: assuming that you guys have a physical relationship, and I 98 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: think that that was a mistake if you do. What 99 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: I mean by that is, I don't think that this 100 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: guy is struggling to decide if he wants a day 101 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: you're not. I think he knows that he doesn't, and 102 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: I think he's getting some sort of need met from 103 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: you and wants to keep it to what it is, 104 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: because three months is not five minutes. If you've been 105 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: consistently seeing someone for three months and they can't determine 106 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: if they want to be in a relationship with you 107 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: or not by that point, up they don't. And I 108 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: know that that's a hard truth to hear, but I 109 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: would walk. If I were you, I wouldn't give him 110 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: one more second of time to let his feelings catch 111 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: up two yours. I would walk. I'm also curious of 112 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: how it started, Like did this guy's tell you the 113 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: very beginning that he had just gotten out of bad 114 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: relationship and really wasn't looking for anything serious, and then you, well, 115 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: maybe I could change his mind, because if that's the case, 116 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: that was also a mistake. When a guy is up 117 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: front and says he's not looking for anything, take that 118 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: for what it is. You don't think, Oh, I'm gonna 119 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: be even one to just be the exception to that rule, 120 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna make him fall for me. No, you're not. Um, 121 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 1: you're not. He isn't in a place where he wants 122 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: to be in a relationship if he's saying those things 123 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: and what he's wanting is casual hookup And maybe that's 124 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: where you guys haven't landed and you're not liking it. Um. 125 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: I personally, Man, I'm gonna really out myself here, but 126 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: I personally don't have sleepovers with guys that we haven't 127 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: clearly defined what's going on. Meaning I find it extremely 128 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: important and I'm probably gonna sound really old school and 129 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 1: prudish right now. Um, I've had it extremely important to 130 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: build the emotional relationship first. Physical is important, for sure, 131 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: but it a guy needs a chase. Oh my god, 132 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna get somebody, you know, because 133 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: I'm so old school. But a guy needs a chase, 134 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: he truly does. And if you're making it so easy 135 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: to get to that physical place with you, I think guys, 136 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: just even if it's subconscious, I think that guys just 137 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: put you one you in a different category. At that 138 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: point of there's there's wicky material and then there's took 139 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: up material in a guy's mind, and you might disagree, 140 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: you might disagree, and that's probably fun. This is how 141 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: I see it. And once you cross that line of oh, like, 142 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm just on the second day, like we how to 143 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: sleep over, Like I think it's hard to other feelings 144 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: catch up. It's always so much better for me personally 145 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: when I know a guy is just like truly he 146 00:07:55,200 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: likes me for me, and he's wanting to define it, 147 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: say we're in a relationship, and then the good physical 148 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: stuff comes later. I don't know. I just think you've 149 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: you've most likely mess this one up, and if you're 150 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: wanting a relationship, you need to move like someone who 151 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: is wanting a relationship. If you're showing up being like 152 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: you just can't hook up. Culture is so rough, and 153 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: I get it, Like, if you want to just be 154 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: hooking up, go do that, more power to you. But 155 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: if you're wanting a relationship, you have to move like 156 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: you're wanting a relationship. I have definitely been on dates 157 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: with guys, and that's what I'm saying, like this weeds 158 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: out the ones that just want to hook up. I've 159 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 1: definitely dated guys who were not into waiting around for 160 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: the physical stuff, and it was no sweat off my back, 161 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: like Okay, we're not gonna be a match, move on. 162 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 1: So I think you just have to understand your worth, 163 00:08:56,160 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: your value, and have some pretty pretty define mind boundaries 164 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: about around the physical stuff. Yeah, I think that you 165 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: just if you it's three months in, you've been seeing 166 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: this guy, You've been giving him the girlfriend package with 167 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: the uh we're not anything um subscription Like, it's just 168 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: I don't know that there's any salvaging it. I think 169 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: that you walk and if he realizes that, oh my god, 170 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: like she's not just gonna be here to fulfill my 171 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: every women need. I'm gonna have to really step up, 172 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: then great. But if not, he wasn't your person. And 173 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: if you're not, if it isn't life or death, If 174 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: he wants to be in a relationship and you just 175 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: are cool, carrying all the way, you are cool. But 176 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: if not, if you want to be something more and 177 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: he's not there, he would have been here by now. 178 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying, take it for what it is. 179 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: He's not your person if he's not caught up the ship. 180 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: And guys will use a past relationship, I mean they 181 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: will run that stuff into the ground. And if it 182 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: doesn't matter, if a guy's had his heart broken before, 183 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: he's gonna know when he's gonna know if you're someone 184 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: he wants to be with and sister, the second that 185 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: you walk away from this man, you're gonna know because 186 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: if he comes running back of oh, like, I don't 187 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: want to lose you, okay, but I don't think he's 188 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: going to sadly, and I hope, I hope I'm not 189 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: being too blunt. If you want a relationship, you gotta 190 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: move like you want a relationship in life. You can't 191 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: settle for for these guys that just want to hook 192 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: up and get give them that piece of it. And 193 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 1: your emotions are getting all tied up in the mix, 194 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: and there's aren't like that's not benefiting your sister. Walk 195 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: that would be my advice. Walk and see what happens. 196 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: I think I know what's gonna happen, but walk and 197 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: see what happens.