WEBVTT - Stop Comparing Yourself

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned into

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<v Speaker 1>the Vitamin D with Dawn Day Podcast and I am

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Dawn Day, here to get you excited about

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<v Speaker 1>your life so that you can live life on purpose

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<v Speaker 1>and for a purpose. And this is your first time

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in and welcome Vitamin D. It's upon of our name.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Dawn, and you get Vitamin D from

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<v Speaker 1>the sun. So I'm here to shed light into your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do this with inspirational insights and conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>celebrities and everyday people like you and me, Because if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be better and you want to do better,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're going to have to be able to see better.

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<v Speaker 1>So join me on this journey of living our best

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<v Speaker 1>lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest

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<v Speaker 1>ass act. It's time for you to show up, show

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<v Speaker 1>up so that you can show out and understand that

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<v Speaker 1>this showing up is going to require you to step

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<v Speaker 1>into the light. Step into the lights so that you

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<v Speaker 1>can be seen in all of your glory. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not talking about just a full front of you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not talking about aside view. I'm not even talking about

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<v Speaker 1>out of filtered view. I'm talking about a three sixty

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<v Speaker 1>rotational view, seeing all sides of you and always and

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<v Speaker 1>all colors in all shapes, all dimensions, and every environment,

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<v Speaker 1>weathering what ever storm, because all that is is you.

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<v Speaker 1>And sometimes when we're going through things, we have a

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<v Speaker 1>tendency to hide, We have a tendency to put on

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<v Speaker 1>the front as if everything's okay. But what about just

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<v Speaker 1>being seen? What about embracing the fact that you may

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<v Speaker 1>be experiencing a trial of tribulation, feeling what it is

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to feel in that moment, being transparent

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<v Speaker 1>about that moment, and then growing from that moment, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's in that growth process that the magic lies. It's

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<v Speaker 1>in that growth process that you become relatable. It's in

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<v Speaker 1>that growth process that you are revealed who you really are.

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<v Speaker 1>In the growth process, that's what you get up so

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<v Speaker 1>you can show out. And to think about it so

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<v Speaker 1>amazing when you decide to step into who you are

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever room and whatever setting is, that you inspire

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<v Speaker 1>people to do the same. It's almost as though you

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<v Speaker 1>speak before you open your mouth. Your presence is felt

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<v Speaker 1>before it is saying are you ready to show up

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<v Speaker 1>and show out? Is it gonna be challenging. Yes, well

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<v Speaker 1>you want to run away, Yes, but it's who and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care how far and fast you run. You

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<v Speaker 1>still are you and everything about you is perfectly fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Now there's gonna come to a time that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to embrace everything that you are so that you can

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<v Speaker 1>become everything that you are meant to be. But don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that you can become something from nothing, meaning, don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that you can just transform your life from something

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<v Speaker 1>that you are right now own. Because everything you all

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<v Speaker 1>right now is the foundation for you become. So what

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<v Speaker 1>are you building all? Have you had a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>spend time with yourself, to see yourself so that you

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<v Speaker 1>can truly be yourself? Are you ready to show up

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<v Speaker 1>so that you can show out as people count on you.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody that's looking at you and said, because you did,

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<v Speaker 1>they can, because you would, they will. So what do

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<v Speaker 1>you say? What do you say about you showing up

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<v Speaker 1>to be the best that you can be? Life? It

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<v Speaker 1>gets light, shine bright, get your right, mndy right with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I get excited about your lives. I was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>my friend's mom the other day. She's a bit clar boyant.

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<v Speaker 1>So there are times that I've spoken to her to

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<v Speaker 1>get this insight on life. How are this conversation I

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<v Speaker 1>left a little uneasy, a little uncomfortable. And it reminds

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<v Speaker 1>me about how we should choose to live our life,

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<v Speaker 1>and why it's so important to eat the meeting, the

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<v Speaker 1>spell off the bones. How it's so important to realize

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<v Speaker 1>but God, how it's so important to have faith in yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>How you must activate, in charge your life as if

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<v Speaker 1>you had blinders on and your ears are pluged, so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can stay focused, so that you can listen

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself. Now, I called her because one thing she

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<v Speaker 1>talked about, this was probably a year or so ago.

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<v Speaker 1>She kind of mentioned the things that were going on

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<v Speaker 1>with the pandemic. She even went on to say, she said,

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<v Speaker 1>at some point, the everyday items that you could pick

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<v Speaker 1>up the store. Soon there will be no more stories

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be shut down. And I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>had been in the stories and I'm looking at Think

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<v Speaker 1>products and I'm like, things are going and I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call it an update, like oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know right. But when I called for that, she

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<v Speaker 1>immediately began to ask you, well, what's going on? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with you and I'm like, well, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>actually one of the best places I feel as far

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<v Speaker 1>as growth and making room for Dawn that I've been

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<v Speaker 1>in a while. I became disgruntled about the conversation because

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<v Speaker 1>not because I don't want to be charged and challenged

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<v Speaker 1>about what growth is. But she began to say, you

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<v Speaker 1>should be further along than when you are right now.

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<v Speaker 1>How Dawn, you give so many people ideas, but you

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<v Speaker 1>don't leave them for yourself. How look at this next

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<v Speaker 1>person that you helped down, how further along they are

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<v Speaker 1>from you. My spirit was very uncomfortable, but yet I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make room to receive her, to hear what

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<v Speaker 1>she had to say. Now, I know that myself and

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<v Speaker 1>what my mother taught me, Janie Hill, is that you

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<v Speaker 1>always operate and good, and that good means that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to hoard my blessings or things for myself,

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<v Speaker 1>because when we talk about abundance, that's an overflow. Like

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<v Speaker 1>could you imagine guys saying I'm not gonna bless you

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<v Speaker 1>anymore because I gotta say some blessings for someone else.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how it works. So when she began to

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<v Speaker 1>say those things, she said, don't you're giving those ideas. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give you idea because if I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>use it, I know that's your dream. Why would I

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<v Speaker 1>hold that from you? Why wouldn't I want that the

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<v Speaker 1>best for you? She then said, Hey, you know your

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<v Speaker 1>friend over there, Uh, they're going on. Uh, they're progressing

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<v Speaker 1>further in life than you. That really made me uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to tell her that immediately. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>one that made me feel uncomfortable. It made me feel

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable because I never look at my friends and compare

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing and what I'm doing. I begin to

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<v Speaker 1>even saying, I said, you know, you make this mention

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<v Speaker 1>about being further along. And this is where I started

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<v Speaker 1>challenging me, because now I became defensive. Why am I

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<v Speaker 1>defending myself about who I am and what it is

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm doing with I said, I'm getting ready. The

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<v Speaker 1>process is happening, and if you're not careful, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>not mindful, you'll listen so much to the outside noise

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<v Speaker 1>of people who aren't living your life for a vision

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't given to anybody else but you. Because there

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<v Speaker 1>is success being able to take a chance on your dreams.

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<v Speaker 1>There is success of saying, Hey, I'm gonna leave a

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable job because I believe in myself that much that

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to take a chance. Isn't that growth? Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that success to transform into something else? Even so much so,

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<v Speaker 1>I even recalled that said tire, I said, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for sharing, But I disagree because when I look back,

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<v Speaker 1>I have this picture. I probably was Jeremiah's age. I

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<v Speaker 1>was in New York at Radio City Music Hall. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know the building that I was in, but

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<v Speaker 1>I looked back in the picture. It's an old coworker.

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<v Speaker 1>We worked together at WBLS in New York. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Andres. He goes by e J. He's on Kiss

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<v Speaker 1>one or two seven out here in l A. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's a picture of us standing in the hallway, and

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<v Speaker 1>behind us it says Premiere Networks. I didn't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what it was. I was there because a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>mine worked at Premiere. And you know what I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>I was up at Premiere because Duyanne was helping me

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<v Speaker 1>put together my radio checked my hear check demo. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what he was doing. I'm getting emotional because you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>out the hole door, because here we are almost tim

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<v Speaker 1>plus years fast forward. I'm in Sherman Oaks, California. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my back right behind me, like right there, it says

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<v Speaker 1>Premier Networks, and I hurt media. So don't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that I should be farther along than where I am.

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<v Speaker 1>And not because I'm feeling emotional because I'm mad. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just this is joy for me because it ain't nothing

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<v Speaker 1>like saying something having a vision for a dree and

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<v Speaker 1>it starts manifesting. And when these things are spewed at me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say spewed, that's probably sounds like a harsh word.

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<v Speaker 1>But when she's saying, hey, Dawn, you give ideas for

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<v Speaker 1>other people, will you even help other people? Even want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, you know, talking about Jeremiah and talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how amazing is and I said I know, and she

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<v Speaker 1>says he's gonna going through the great things and I

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<v Speaker 1>said I know, and she said well, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, I was like, you know, I'm so grateful

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<v Speaker 1>for him because you know, I've been able to do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the things that I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>right now just to be and she said, well, he

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna always be there with you, so what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do after that, I said, well, that's okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, and when he goes on to do great things,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine too, because that's what it's supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>You're supposed to help people. And I think that further,

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be a testament of the environments you're in and

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing if it promotes you to grow, because remember,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a success. Now, in my mind, I'm like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you implying that, Hey, I don't give you too much advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't give them too much advice so that he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sore what you know, We don't do good based

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<v Speaker 1>on what somebody else is gonna do for us. You

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<v Speaker 1>do good to do good. And despite the countless ideas

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<v Speaker 1>I've given to people, huh and help them with their

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<v Speaker 1>confidence and sore. I know I'm reaping my benefits because

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<v Speaker 1>I look at the circumstances, the opportunities, and the back

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<v Speaker 1>doors that I've been able to walk through. And I

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<v Speaker 1>call it grace. I call it favor because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I put out there. So don't you ever get to

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<v Speaker 1>a point you hear me that you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>got hold back on your love, on your joy, because

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<v Speaker 1>what if somebody go ahead and magnify it and live,

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<v Speaker 1>You've done your part again saying hey, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you should be further along. What y'alln't heard

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<v Speaker 1>me talk about on this podcast of making room? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>Seeing don huh? This vulnerability? Huh? How am I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be further along than where I can show up

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<v Speaker 1>to you? Ask? Because if you can't see me, how

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<v Speaker 1>can I see me? How can I be me? How

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<v Speaker 1>can I shine? How can I be an example? It

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<v Speaker 1>goes along with the lines of when we're asking for

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<v Speaker 1>things in life and defining whether or not we have

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<v Speaker 1>the capacity to hold them. If I say, God, you

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<v Speaker 1>put the vision in my life to be bigger than Oprah.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I got this vision, but God said exceedingly and

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<v Speaker 1>be odd. Hey catch it? Don't I need to show

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<v Speaker 1>up as me so that you can see me. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I tell you about something I recommend, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>believe me. Huh. What I share news about what's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna believe me because you know me. I'm making

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<v Speaker 1>rules so I can know and see myself. So oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>we can look at different things in life and say

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<v Speaker 1>this is what we want, But sometimes you just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>slow down and say, wait, do I truly have the

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<v Speaker 1>capacity to hold it? Am I willing to open up

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<v Speaker 1>to have the capacity to hold it? Mm hmm. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I even left the conversation that was a

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<v Speaker 1>little disgruntled. I felt a little drained, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>at ease because there wasn't no stress because I trust

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<v Speaker 1>this process. I can't tell you how everything has been

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<v Speaker 1>working out, but the fact that I've been able to

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<v Speaker 1>have my peace of mind and grow that says something.

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<v Speaker 1>But be mindful of what you allow to get in

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<v Speaker 1>your ears, because what that was what I received, And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't look at it as she was being a

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<v Speaker 1>mean person. I looked at it more so is that

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<v Speaker 1>she's speaking from her experience. But I have to remind

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<v Speaker 1>myself of who I am, who'se I say I am,

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm connected to, and the vision that came to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and understanding and trust, think having the confidence where I

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<v Speaker 1>am and where I'm going. That's all this life, this,

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<v Speaker 1>this this whole game of life about it's your confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>It's how you move. Do you have confidence to declare

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<v Speaker 1>what you want out of life and to go after it?

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<v Speaker 1>Not mean worried about other people because you can't compare.

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<v Speaker 1>In contrast, see for me and having a faith, it's

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<v Speaker 1>exceedingly and beyond. It's far more than what I could

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<v Speaker 1>ever imagine. So when someone says to me and judgment

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<v Speaker 1>about my process, where I'm going, or what you're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to remind yourself deficient what's given to you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a dreamer like me, and you go for

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<v Speaker 1>exceedingly and beyond how you expect to comprehend this, ain't

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<v Speaker 1>that a trip? Ain't that a trip? You get excited

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<v Speaker 1>exceedingly beyond the far more than what you imagine. And

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<v Speaker 1>then when you can't imagine it, when you can't figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the steps, all of a sudden you want to

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<v Speaker 1>feel down and out what happened to the confidence? Exceedingly

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<v Speaker 1>and beyond, far more than what you could ever imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I get caught up in the imagination of

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<v Speaker 1>others that wasn't given to me, do you see the

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<v Speaker 1>how it can derail your life? So I want to

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<v Speaker 1>charge you eat the meat and spit out the bones,

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<v Speaker 1>get rooted and trust yourself. Don't be one to hold

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<v Speaker 1>onto your blessings, let them overflow. Never look at somebody else,

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<v Speaker 1>a comparing contrast, and more importantly, my God, have faith

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<v Speaker 1>in the vision that was given to you. You're worth

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<v Speaker 1>taking a chance on. You're worth someone believing in you,

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<v Speaker 1>are worth somebody to inspire. Okay, So again I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>mad at my friend's mother, but I'm just reminded about

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<v Speaker 1>my vision for my life and where I'm going and

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<v Speaker 1>and and that's probably why they say gratitude is everything,

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<v Speaker 1>because I could sit here and say, oh, at this

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<v Speaker 1>age on you could have had this, you should have

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<v Speaker 1>this or with these experiences. But we talk about success,

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<v Speaker 1>when we talk about growth. I think about that little

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<v Speaker 1>door at Howard. I'm beginning that booth at six, I

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<v Speaker 1>am to produce my radio commercials, doing my drops, and

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about that, doing that, stood in front of that

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<v Speaker 1>sun that staid Premiere Networks, thinking about this doing right now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's talking to you, right now, it's behind my back,

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<v Speaker 1>and imagining that going. That's the come by God. So

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<v Speaker 1>live your life all a dream big, okay, and don't

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<v Speaker 1>let nobody else tell you where you are and where

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<v Speaker 1>you're going. Right with me, and get excited about your

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<v Speaker 1>lives