WEBVTT - You've Got Decisons: Betrayed & Confused 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:03.760 Yeah, so Harvard has a porn archive. 0:00:04.000 --> 0:00:05.120 I didn't know this. 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:07.480 Yeah, there are a lot of universities like UC Santa 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:10.920 Barbara also has a porn archive. Mirea Miller Young who 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:16.880 was a purpose for university professors, students, grad students to 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:20.639 be able to study the material and be able to 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.040 write about the work, to be able to identify folks 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:25.479 who were doing who are doing this, who were in 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:26.159 the business a. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:28.760 Part of Also, it's a blooming of sexual liberation. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:32.920 Yeah, it's black history, right, but for blackborn it's black 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:36.640 history when you look at people like let's say Johnny Keys, 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:39.839 who was the first black man to ever star in 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:43.480 an interracial sex scene in the Behind the Green Door. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:46.760 He received death threats like do you know what I'm saying? 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.400 And so like, you know, Vanessa del Rio was the 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:53.320 first big star, like you know, like Afro latinas star 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:54.440 in the business. 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:56.200 Heather Hunter was a star. 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:01.200 Yeah, but there's so many of us that are you know, 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:03.160 this is black history. 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.120 And like you mentioned King Magazine. 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:07.520 You know, there's an one of the other people who 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.200 I'm I'm starting to work with, you know, curating his 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:12.840 collection is this guy by the name of Dapper Dan 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:13.720 who's also. 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:14.200 A New York Wang. 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:21.080 Not not there's another dapper Gucci one. There's another dapper 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:26.880 Dan who was the He actually started Black Tail and 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:33.440 Portfolio Magazine and Black Lust magazine. Like he was working 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.840 for another magazine company and they had no And this 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:39.600 is like we're talking about the seventies right this late 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:43.880 seventies early eighties, they had no black magazines. He started 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:47.760 the magazines, the vazines, and he actually has in his 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:53.040 apartment in Brooklyn every magazine that these companies that they 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:53.960 ever produced. 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:54.560 Shut up. 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:56.640 He had so back then, like I'm going to save 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:58.240 this for one day or you just yeah, I mean, 0:01:58.280 --> 0:01:59.760 like you know, someone like him did. 0:01:59.880 --> 0:02:01.400 Like not only does he have the does he have 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.400 the magazines? He also has. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:05.760 Because they used to do video reviews. 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:07.960 So he has every video reviews. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:11.120 Like the companies would send them the video vhs, tapes, 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.360 DVDs to review the movies. 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:15.240 And they would record their review. No, they would put 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:16.160 it in the magazine. 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:20.800 Oh, so he has he has chromes from the photos. 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.960 He has all of the videos that were ever sent 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:23.359 to them. 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:27.519 For like, he has an entire archive of black porn. 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:31.519 Like he he was the first person to put strippers 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:35.119 like Black like Black and Latina strippers in New York 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:36.600 City in magazine. 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:40.239 How old does he know? He's eighty something. Have you 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:42.960 ever seen porn archives? By the way, No, that's why 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:47.000 I saw that Andy Warhol porn archives basically eat it porn. 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:50.040 No, he shot at it, so I didn't know. 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:51.400 I have any Warol in my kitchen. 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.079 Did not know that old gay. 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:53.639 I just don't. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:59.400 And when you watch it, it's like, Okay, porn Archives 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:01.160 is funny because I'm like, I'm trying to like, we're 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:02.959 acting like this is real art, but I'm watching porn. 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:04.760 But it is, but it is, but it is so 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:07.919 like you're watching these two guys in a toilet stall 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:10.160 suck each other's dick and one of them is eating 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:12.000 an apple. The third guy is just on the floor 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:14.120 eating an apple watching them suck dick, and then he 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.760 puts the apple down starts sucking the dick, and at 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.120 what At the first glance, you're like, this is porn. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:21.800 And then you're watching something in black and white with 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:24.320 no sound and you're like, this is art. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:26.239 Yeah, holy shit. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:28.920 Now, I like I want to see a porn art. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.840 There's a day threesome. He has with a woman. Excuse me, 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:35.360 I'm mess but it's by yeah, and she's got a 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:39.040 full bush just shot Like what what probably? 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:39.560 Wow? 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:42.160 Yeah, that's I mean so so Like, I'm really excited 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:45.200 to go through Big John's archives because he has trunks 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:48.600 of photographs. He has photos in frames like on his 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:51.600 that were on his wall. He has like just stacks 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:55.600 and stacks of like this, especially with him being that age. 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:58.560 Is this something that you're requesting, he writes in his 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.480 will and as a part of his estate that you 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.640 have accessed to all this suff With. 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:06.840 Dapper Dan, he has someone who already is like the 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:10.200 who will run his estate. But now since he is 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:14.080 still living, like I'll be working with him to inventory 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:19.159 the archive, ngetize everything, and then make sure and figure out. 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:20.120 Where it's gonna go. 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:22.880 Like he and I were talking about the possibility of 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:26.760 like a of like a gallery exhibition. You know. It's 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:29.719 like I ran into a guy a museum of sex museums. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:32.440 There's a bunch of a bunch of places. I met 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:36.680 a guy on Instagram last year who has his name 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.920 is Andre Uncut. He's a young artist here in New York. 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:44.520 He has an archive called Daddy's secret stash that I 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.599 like done the airy sexy and it's all. But he 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:50.359 has like the he has the original Players magazine with 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.640 Big Daddy Kane on it. He has a copy of 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.440 he has the one with Pam Greer on it. There's 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.359 another one with this woman Anita. I can't think of 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:00.800 her last name, but she was the for the one 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.200 and only black trans woman to be on the cover 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:06.640 of a cover and a layout in Players Magazine. Like 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.960 he has a cover, he has that. He has images 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.480 from the twenties and the forties. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:12.560 And like, I need to, you know, like. 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:13.680 The psychology of this. 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:16.680 I need to know because there's so many things Like 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.520 growing up, I was like, this is gonna be worth 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:20.719 something one day it's gone. 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:21.120 It's God. 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:23.240 I need to know the psychology of someone who knows 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.080 to just keep shit and keep it well in store 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.560 to where it doesn't get fucked up. 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:29.320 Yeah, because I don't know how. 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:30.200 I still just have. 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.240 A box of all my like letters from middle school. Yeah, 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:35.159 the only thing I really have that I fucking kept. 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:36.160 My mom kept. Yeah. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:37.840 But now she's like, but you and your thirties, come 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.000 get your shit. You want your trophies, get them to Yeah. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.320 I'm moving. I'm stick of moving all your shit. 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:46.240 Yeah, but for someone to know to keep history like this, Yeah, 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:47.960 and it's today. 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:51.720 It's so much more important because the Internet is not forever. Well, 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.719 it's not forever. Everything from before two thousand is gone. 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:57.839 Oh I was gonna say, like today, the digital aspect 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:00.679 of it, we don't collect it anymore because it's gone. 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:04.000 Yeah, and the Internet is not forever. Yes, that's the thing. 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:07.080 It's not Ela running it and with Yeah, it's like 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.359 I mean, Project twenty twenty five was very, very clear 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.360 that they want to get rid of porn. They want 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:16.680 anything that is considered harmful to children, which extends outside 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:20.320 of what we think of as porn, and it extends 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.600 to sex education, it extends. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:24.719 The only thing I'm okay with is getting rid of porn. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:29.400 Can't believe I want to say this on social platforms. 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.560 Now, I'll tell you why I. 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:36.600 Don't want my kids to have a phone right right, 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:39.000 I'm talking about family planning right now in my relationship, 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.000 And I'm like, why am I like that? And it's 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:45.560 because I think sex is so accessible and I think 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:49.839 they're going to be desensitized too young. I'm terrified that 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:53.120 my kids are going to be too young and seeing 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:56.680 something super hardcore that they shouldn't be accessing. I think 0:06:56.760 --> 0:07:01.320 there really isn't anywhere that a kid couldn't go and 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:05.040 find it. It's hyper sexual for me though, knowing that 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:09.520 this is knowing that I saw your trailer on social media. 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:14.120 The only fans people that I actually do pay four monthly, 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:17.280 I found them on X So I get where we 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:20.440 can see social media being this super accessible thing. 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:21.640 But right now, watch porn. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:24.320 I watched porn on X No on Instagram where the 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:26.239 trailer was that was age appropriate? 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:30.360 No, But I like, but but you can and you can. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.320 Oh, there's the whole page right now, a sance sentence 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:35.200 to me and we right now don't know how to 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.440 sign down. It's nothing but dicks and maybe because they 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.600 like to, uh what is it they like to censor 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:45.840 women's bodies, bab We do not know how the nothing 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:50.080 but like on Instagram full pages of big dicks and 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:52.200 I'm like, how is this still up? Mining one hundred 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:56.040 thousand fucking followers? And I'm like, what's crazy? At hearing 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:58.800 all the women that we've had on here talk about 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:00.680 I showed a nipple, they were moved it. I can't 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.000 even they've removed my Full Course Soul's page. Now I 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:05.120 know it's because I'm a woman. There's a whole page 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:08.440 on Instagram. Yeah, launting the male body. Yeah, but women 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.160 have such a hard time doing It's great. 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:13.480 And also there is a double standard for celebrities, you know, 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:19.200 Lizzo Cardi. They can, they can, they can like free 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:21.280 the nipple, they can torque, they can do all these 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:23.520 because we're soliciting. 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:25.880 Yes, the last time I got my Instagram removed was 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.360 pretty recent. I think it was right before a live show. 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.960 Maybe I don't know, but it was some Oh was 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:32.080 it before the rebrand? 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:34.000 And I would I don't know, yes. 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.520 Because you cut your page off so much, I don't 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:38.160 know when it gets removed. I just know you shut off, 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:39.640 like I need a mental health break, So I don't 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:41.480 know when it's removed or when you did it. 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.480 Shut Off is not mental health related. I just hate 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:45.559 living for the Internet. 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:46.600 I get that. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.640 So So here's my thing about the about the about 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:54.080 porn on social media right there. I think there is 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:59.800 space for platforms to create a you know, a twenty 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:03.080 an eighteen and over, twenty one and over access to 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:08.800 their platforms. The problem is that the federal banking regulations 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:13.320 do not allow any venture capitalist funding for any any 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:17.160 porn related business, any adult or sex related business. 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:18.880 So they can't make the technique behind it. 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:20.680 They can't make the tech re find it to be 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:23.280 able to create it. So fair answer, so they won't 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:23.719 do it. 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:27.079 You just got a little taste of the Horrible Decisions Patreon. 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:28.319 But why's that there? 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:32.680 Tap in for the full, uncut and waynaster episodes over 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.839 on Patreon. Go to patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:41.160 and unlock all the messyt wild stories and bonus content 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:46.960 you won't hear anywhere else. 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We can. 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:15.040 I mean you still just need a beat and like 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.600 a way to do it, like Chat Gibt's gonna write 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.240 the words, but you gotta still kind of put it 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:20.720 into a little flow to make. 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:23.360 It the point I thought you were supposed to. Okay, 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:25.880 here's my great y'all. Let me tell you about this 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:29.400 rant I had online before a meeting and the nigga 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:30.840 called me out. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:33.520 Oh so Alex and. 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:36.880 I Alex from WTF We did a picture podcasting where 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:39.720 we gave way free studio time to the winners. All 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:42.040 they had to do was pitch their podcast us in 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.720 order to get a chance to come to the event 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:46.640 live and go back to back. By the way, shout 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:50.040 out to s K from the episode. S K and 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.920 my Lynn, the couple we had that were turgates for 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.040 their kids and her podcast actually won. 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.440 Oh I want I know they gonna think that they was. 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:02.920 They was awesome. I felt that too. My boyfriend was like, yeah, 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:05.680 sure like that. You can't be giving it to guess 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.480 on the pod. That's kind of no, Lie, Mandy, I. 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:12.160 Didn't choose the finalists Clara, me and Alex did she wasn't. 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:13.160 They weren't my pick. 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:17.840 I was sitting with ettn Maurice Oaklove from Essence, who 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:20.960 interview does Jacob Willis from the Justice Podcast and Alex 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:22.480 and we all were like hands. 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:25.000 It wasn't even a everybody in the room. 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:27.200 So I felt bad too because I was like, damn, 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:28.760 now I gotta pick this bitch. 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.240 But whatever, they were the best. It is what it is. 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:33.200 And as you guys can tell because when they came on, 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:34.360 they were so lovable and sweet. 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:34.920 They were great. 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:38.040 Well, anyway, we go through about fifty pitches and I'd 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:41.840 say thirty five of them were chat GBT. Now this 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:43.400 is what I mean by chat GPT, and this is 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:44.959 what I mean by everybody needs to start using it. 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:49.480 Right People giving me the outline of their podcast through 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.760 chat GBT and like the verbiage doesn't even sound original. Now, 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:55.080 if you're pitching a podcast, you want to kind of 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:56.640 see and feel the personality. 0:11:57.160 --> 0:12:00.080 People are like, here are the games I would play and. 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.280 Then it's like a list of three bullet pointed games 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:04.840 with the line in the spacing, and I'm like, oh, dog, 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:08.560 like this is really crazy. So I get on a 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:10.560 call the next day for someone that wants me to 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:13.000 produce this show. Well, WT have to produce it, and 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:14.800 he goes, hey, ways, he lovely to meet you. I 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.960 actually follow you on Instagram where I've been called out 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.600 for chat GPT. But that's why I'm trying to hire 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:24.360 you guys. I was like, okay, I'll know what to say. 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:26.920 So I'm like, was I wrong for what I said? 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:29.720 Mitch that email was probably used with chet GPT, the 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:31.959 one he sent me, it was probably I know what 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.320 now I saw it, so bitch, I went, wait to 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:39.200 go take a look, I said, Sam, wrong. Now I 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:41.360 feel bad because Clara and Alex are just like, with this, bitch, 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:44.800 shut up. He's like, many people use chat GPT in 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.079 the same industry we're all in, So I don't know 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:49.040 why there's so much shame around it. I was like, 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:51.560 maybe it's just the way you used it. Mitch Ill 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:52.400 was dad serious. 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:54.760 All I know is chet GPT is one of my 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:59.520 many boyfriends. He chet GPT is actually my husband. Then 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:03.440 I have boyfriends, so I mean I I and again, 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:05.960 I think that's why we're yin and yang. For a 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:08.640 lot of things that you like, I dislike and vice versa, 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:10.640 and chat GPT is one of them things. 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:13.880 I think you should love it, replacing your own words. 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:17.559 I think chat GBT for research. I don't shade that 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:21.720 I'm shading chat GPT as a replacement for your own voice. 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:23.319 Oh no, I get that. 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:25.280 That to me is really I mean, did I kind 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:27.520 of use that too a little bit like when like 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.600 definitely for like my my monologues, like and now I'm 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:33.640 ALREADYO guys, y'all can listen to me on Hot one 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.120 on seven nine off the clock six' eight On. Saturdays 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.360 but even for HOW i want to break, down especially 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:42.520 because radio is LIKE i have like two fifty second 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:45.280 breaks AND i have to get like a summary of 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:47.040 the topics That i'm going to talk about for my 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:49.560 two minute, Break it's easier to use CHAT gbt to 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:52.200 help me condense my thoughts and to say it. 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:58.439 QUICKLY i Fucking i'll. LISTEN i love. 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Time and y'all already Know i've 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.600 talked about being insecure about my inability. 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:39.760 To say certain. 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.640 Words so there's things THAT i would like to say 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:45.600 THAT i just need some fine tuning on how to say. 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:47.920 It SO i love everything about, it BUT i do get, 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:51.200 it like remove the. Emojis emails don't need all the 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:55.280 emojis and bullet. Points, no that's like crazy bullbari emojis 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.000 with the emojis and bullet. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:15:00.560 Points the way that it phrases out your thoughts is. 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:02.760 Nuts like y'all can change that. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:12.080 Out you know what's fighting with my neighbor about a 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:13.200 sound issue, right. 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:16.480 Let me read you this email he wrote. 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:18.480 Me this is did he writes you at chet chip 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:23.680 t roach CHAT gbt wrote, Me, okay Hi, guila thank 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:26.160 you again for all the energy and intention you've brought 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:30.320 behind your letter to. Me we're genuinely excited to see 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:32.880 if we can make this work as we've been finalizing 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.160 things on our. End we've landed on a structure that 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:40.119 would make the most sense moving. 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Niggas oh my, goodness. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:08.640 Bitch my lawyer said him to some ship to, say 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:09.479 call the police. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:12.560 On that hole, again and you're getting, Evicted and my landlord, said, 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:15.960 yeah absolutely so once he started sending you CHAT, gpt oh, 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:17.560 BITCH i, okay. 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:20.080 This whole a thousand dollars an hour for. You the 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.400 fuck around with, me bit y'all was. 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:28.120 Pissed use CHAT, GPT i think for me to get 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:30.000 you the information you need and maybe learn how to 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:33.280 use the. Language something that EVEN i iPhones ruined for 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:36.600 me was a lot of like my spelling When i'm writing, 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:39.600 handwritten DON'T i don't HAVE t Nine so. 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.720 Like i've removed that from my, shit cause they be. 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:46.760 Bruh they just be putting words THAT i would never 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:49.120 fucking say or do and they just be, it just 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:49.640 be fucking it. 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:52.000 Up So i've never had auto correct on my. 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:56.160 Phone oh so you gonna get these misspelled, words y'all 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:57.080 know what the FUCK i was trying to. 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:00.200 SAY i actually prefer misspelled words and like bull shit 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:03.720 chat THEN i know if something feels. Real it's like 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:05.240 WHEN i get on the, phone this is HOW i 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:05.680 feel about. 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:06.480 Chat oh, no that's a. 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:10.480 Text to, me an, EMAIL i don't on your, phone 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:12.760 or you're calling the cell phone, company calling, somebody or 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:14.800 you call Them delta and you're, like is this? 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.080 Hello or are you? 0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:19.280 Going when scam likely calls you and it's, Like, Hi 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:22.399 i'm NOT i don't answer them. Calls if this they scam, 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.520 likely it ain't GETTING. Ansl you're getting me? 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.639 Now hold they? Did NOW i got no. Scam? No 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:26.920 you know? 0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:28.760 WHAT i feel so down bad for my nine year 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:31.480 old dad because now you even don't say scam. Likely 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.800 he is having phone conversations with somebody in front of. 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:36.840 Me i'm, Like, daddy why do you need to take the? 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:38.119 Phone they need to talk to? 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:43.520 Me, yeah, NO i can't let. It and them telemarketing, 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:46.800 Companies oh that's that's who they be scamming the. Most 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:51.639 they be getting all their retirement funds every single. Time all, 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:54.360 right well we're gonna get into this Week's You Got. Decisions, 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:58.240 also if you are watching us On, patreon because the 0:17:58.280 --> 0:18:00.840 full video goes On, patreon make sure you drop in 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:01.840 the comments below your. 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:05.280 Thoughts all chat. Chept i'd like to. Know i'd like 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:07.760 to hear. IT i, am that's what they. Said i'd 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:09.280 like to hear. It all, right. 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:12.520 Guys if you also want us to answer your, email 0:18:13.080 --> 0:18:16.880 make sure you email Us Decisions pod at gmail dot, 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:21.400 com where we can give y'all our very, professional very 0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:26.880 needed advice on your. Problems, okay so here we. Go, hey, 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:30.560 GUYS i recently turned twenty nine and have found myself 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:33.879 in a really difficult place in my. RELATIONSHIP i was 0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:37.720 in WHAT i thought was a, serious committed. Partnership we 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:41.919 were about to reach our two year. Anniversary we initially 0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:45.280 met online during the, pandemic but didn't make it official 0:18:45.400 --> 0:18:46.520 until twenty twenty. 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:47.960 Three what DID i need to? 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:50.760 Do even though we live in different parts Of, Florida 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:54.160