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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota and this is Carly, your favorite

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Speaker 1: My best friend's boyfriend made an explicit AI content of

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Speaker 1: her sister. She stayed, what the heck trigger warning mentions

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Speaker 1: of self harm. Me, Cass, her boyfriend, and Ray also

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Speaker 1: fake name are all friends. Me and Cass have been

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Speaker 1: friends for seventeen years and all of us used to

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Speaker 1: work together. How Cass and her boyfriend met plus how

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Speaker 3: Ray Okay, cute, cute.

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Speaker 1: We hang out and game together regularly, but mainly it's me,

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Speaker 1: Ray and the boyfriend gaming. We've all gone along and

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Speaker 1: have never had any drama for the five years we've

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Speaker 1: all been friends.

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Speaker 3: Wow, pre AI.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like Riley. Riley was just so innocent.

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Speaker 2: Then the fire Nation attacked.

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Speaker 1: This all started earlier this week. I was with Ray

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Speaker 1: and she ask me if I had heard anything from

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Speaker 1: Cass because some crap went down over the weekend regarding

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Speaker 1: her boyfriend. The story goes that she had been seeing

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Speaker 1: weird behavior in her boyfriend of five years over the

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Speaker 1: last several months, prompting her to go through his phone

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Speaker 1: while he's asleep.

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Speaker 3: What kind of behavior? And within the past, when was

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Speaker 3: this post as recently I'll find out?

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Speaker 1: Well, like as AI is getting better, I'm guessing you know,

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Speaker 1: it had to be recent.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying last two years at least.

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Speaker 1: Oh. She then calls Ray sobbing hysterically at what she found.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Cass described seeing AI corn of people they knew they

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Speaker 1: were generated to make them pregnant, with Hugh with the.

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Speaker 3: Huge jest are you serious?

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Speaker 1: What the bigger issue? One of them was her own

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Speaker 1: sister Ah, as well as a distant friend of hers

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Speaker 1: that lives in another state. And his mam is his mom?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Not his mom?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean all of it's bad, but.

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Speaker 1: All of it's bad. And then you add another layer

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Speaker 1: of like your mom, Why you turn off.

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Speaker 3: By your mom? Why is this prompting not stopping him?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Uh it's AI. Isn't that supposed to know? That's his mom? Yeah? Hey, man,

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Speaker 3: this is your mom. You can't generate this.

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Speaker 2: AI doesn't have feelings. Remember this, I look it up.

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Speaker 2: It's within the last month.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, I have friends that are in the

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Speaker 3: AI area, and I've just seen the crazy stuff they

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Speaker 3: can make it, make for it for like good. I

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Speaker 3: just want to read it about the this.

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Speaker 2: Is the bad stuff. Oh, this is below bad. This

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Speaker 2: is wrong.

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Speaker 1: the r slash Okay Storytime Separated. I'm Savannah, I'm Riley,

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Speaker 1: I'm Keon, and we're here to say a little bit

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Speaker 1: about some stuff. But guess what. We do not have

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Speaker 1: all the answers, but we are gonna make it funny.

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Speaker 1: And you should tell us what you think, because we're

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Speaker 1: gonna tell us what we think. Right this side.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm grossed out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna tell you right now. Ew as Opie says.

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Speaker 1: After they end the phone call, Ray sent a text

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Speaker 1: of support to her, but Cas says that she found

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Speaker 1: worse stuff, stuff she didn't want to show or tell

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Speaker 1: Ray about what and says she's going to confront him. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you should.

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Speaker 3: He better. All right, everyone, I'm gonna do a little

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Speaker 3: tech dive real quick. You know. I'll wait for the

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Speaker 3: tech dive, but I I know how people can do it,

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Speaker 3: and it's probably good for people to keep an eye

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Speaker 1: Shortly after, she tells Ray that her boyfriend was in

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Speaker 1: the bathroom with his phone, deleting further evidence, and that

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Speaker 2: The issues not resolved.

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Speaker 1: He just deleted the photos.

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Speaker 3: I guess that's it.

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Speaker 1: Everything's done. He's cured back to normal.

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Speaker 2: I guess it undid everything. You're right, You're right, Yeah, he.

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Speaker 1: Just deleted it. Now there's no evidence and now he's

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Speaker 2: It's like deleting the like the search history. It's cleared. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so clean, clean slate.

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Speaker 3: It's not clear.

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Speaker 1: After hearing this, I had sent a text to Cass

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Speaker 1: to tell me anything, but she had done a very

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Speaker 1: was curious to see if she'd changed the story. Oh

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Speaker 1: that's saying like you are both incredibly I mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, this is.

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Speaker 2: She probably she probably saw like the art and like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you know what, it's a hobby.

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Speaker 1: Wait I look good like that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like wait, wait should.

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Speaker 3: I get should should I get bigger chesticles?

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Speaker 1: Over text, she tells me that it was just regular

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Speaker 2: Little a little.

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Speaker 3: This is deliberately going too far, your mom.

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Speaker 1: His mom was on there.

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Speaker 2: There's like regular use of corn. Sure, and then there's this,

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Speaker 2: and then this guy's making it. This guy's asking AI

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Speaker 3: So I can't. I can't.

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Speaker 1: Oh that he was messing with AI corn and as

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Speaker 3: Good. Oh well not that part. But yeah, I'm glad.

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Speaker 3: He's feeling a little guilt here.

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Speaker 1: But claims that he never got off to it, nor

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Speaker 1: was he attracted to them. Also that he will be

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Speaker 1: going to therapy once he gets insurance from his new job.

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Speaker 2: Uh so, so, he so, he was just he was

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Speaker 2: just curious, he said, computer, Mommy, Malcolm, I want to

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Speaker 2: see the mommy Malcha's. I want to see the mommy

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Speaker 2: Milcher's And I'm happy.

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Speaker 3: Computer from Boston Computer Increase, Mommy Milker's bout.

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Speaker 2: Fifty computer, make my Mommy's Malka's Mommy, Malka's computer computer

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Speaker 3: Mommy computer, milk Mommy.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it. I don't like this. This is gross.

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Speaker 2: This is just for science. Computer computer computer.

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Speaker 3: If my mommy were to have bigger mommy Milkos, what

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Speaker 2: Princess.

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Speaker 1: She was very adamant that they're fine now and how

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Speaker 2: Let a switch up.

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Speaker 1: We set up time to call and talk about it,

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Speaker 1: and here's how it went. She started by repeating that

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Speaker 1: what happened was a regular use of corn that just

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Speaker 1: got out of control. She told me she found Ai

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Speaker 2: Oh she's a liar computer white my braiden.

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Speaker 3: I'd need the men in black to come with their

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so already I'm upset. She's already lying

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Speaker 1: to me, and Ray is absolutely not the type to

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Speaker 1: I brought up how making AI corn of real people

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Speaker 2: Oh good, good good good. Yeah yeah, cool cool cool cool, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know what, You're right what we deleted it from groc?

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Speaker 2: Also what states that I didn't know that was a thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was crazy, Like the new rules are coming out,

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Speaker 3: For the first lady. She's been making like really big

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Speaker 3: pushes for that. That's been like like the only thing

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Speaker 3: like the deep fake stuff. She's been like pushing aid

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Speaker 2: I've heard like a lot of especially with the actor

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Speaker 2: know making AI corn of people?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, huh, Like I could I could take a photo

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Speaker 3: of you and put you in a bikini.

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Speaker 1: Let's not well because you could use that as like defamation,

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Speaker 3: Got what is grock? Grock is another form of AI

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Speaker 1: He like didn't even though did he.

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Speaker 3: Wow, we'll get into it. COWBOYT two point zero says,

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Speaker 3: I missed the person I was ten minutes ago.

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Speaker 1: I love that statement.

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Speaker 3: Same and Grok is made by Elon Musk is his

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you can get it in your tesla.

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Speaker 2: I know that.

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Speaker 1: I mean that content is still out there somewhere and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a few things I have to speak about Ray,

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Speaker 2: Listen, whoever denied it supplied it.

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Speaker 3: She probably did buy the internet service.

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Speaker 1: The more I tried to make sense of it, the

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Speaker 1: than the AI corn, she completely changed the topic and

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Speaker 1: didn't bring it up again. Yeah, because she's guilty and

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Speaker 1: he's guilty. She's just like enabling it and being like, no,

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Speaker 1: it really wasn't that bad. It could have been way worse.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what he did was pretty nasty. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to see mommy milkers. The

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Speaker 1: phone call ended amicably, but with.

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Speaker 3: Nothing really Sorry, This is just a little taste of

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Speaker 1: The phone call ended amicably, but with nothing really resolved.

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Speaker 1: To me personally, just the fact that someone made AI

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Speaker 1: corn of real life people is violating and disrespectful enough

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Speaker 1: for me to cut contact with him, but for it

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Speaker 1: to also be people we know that's close to her,

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Speaker 1: and deciding she's going to stay and forgive him leaves

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Speaker 1: I would just not like Geat. We can't stop thinking

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Speaker 3: And they're young, twenty one, twenty three, college time.

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Speaker 2: Well, when I was saying, like there is corn use,

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Speaker 3: Storm Kitton said, it is really a loss at this

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Speaker 2: And again, the biggest thing is there was more. There

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Speaker 1: So no, she's backtracking and she knows that. Like I've

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Speaker 3: And it's like, oh, so with Cass, I'm gonna say this.

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Speaker 3: there before. It's tough. She can't just leave. It's big. Now.

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Speaker 3: I want to talk with the about the boyfriend, but.

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Speaker 2: That guy needs well obviously he's getting therapy, Like I

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Speaker 3: I'm any space. I'm gonna see a lot of change.

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Speaker 3: I believe people can come away from his addictions, but

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Speaker 3: another key thing that I saw about him he has

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Speaker 3: not shy away from it. Yes, it's scary. Yes, there's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you got to give her the

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Speaker 2: this and I get it. This is your boyfriend of

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Speaker 2: a connection. I cannot be friends with that guy. Yeah, sorry, No, Like,

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Speaker 2: let's do an extreme case here. Oh, I found him

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Speaker 2: he said he won't do it again.

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Speaker 3: Well, did he unlive a lot of people with cool

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Speaker 3: downtime because that makes him a serial killer and that

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Speaker 2: Stop stop it.

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Speaker 1: Well, there are some relevant comments. Comment to number one says,

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Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet the things she doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: definitely one of those things where it's not like it's real,

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Speaker 1: just doesn't hold up. OPI responds, I can definitely understand

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that that's a very good thing that I've

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Speaker 3: if we went to her brain right now, remember Mabel.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, it's Mabel from.

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Speaker 1: Mabel.

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Speaker 2: I love her her.

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Speaker 3: World that build made, remember that.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, she's like she just wants a boyfriend and

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Speaker 3: Mabel.

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Speaker 1: I love that. She's the best character. Commage number three

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Speaker 1: says Cast needs your support more than she needs condemnation

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Speaker 1: She needs time to assimilate. This is her long term relationship.

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Speaker 1: She's invested in it. To leave would be difficult, complete upheaval.

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Speaker 1: There are financial implications. You can offer her support while

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Speaker 1: Ope, he responds, this is a very mature take. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. We're hoping giving her a little more

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Speaker 3: All right, will we get Cast out of the situation?

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Speaker 2: Stay tuned. I'm thinking no.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: The fact that she's she's already on this hill of

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Speaker 2: It's living in Yeah, and it's sad.

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Speaker 1: There's an update next day, whoa so quick. Something that

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Speaker 1: Me and Ray agreed we would still be going and

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Speaker 1: we didn't want to do anything to ruin her night.

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Speaker 1: What do you say. It's like, well, he just had

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Speaker 2: And it's like, so we're gonna he's good. Right, We're good,

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Speaker 2: We're good, We're good. We're all cool, back to normal,

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Speaker 2: nothing ever happened, right.

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Speaker 1: take that. Oh God, like she had pulled the ultimate

441
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 1: wind con or had played all five pieces of exodia.

442
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 1: We tried to argue that while we sympathize with him

443
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 1: and are deeply sorry that he went through that, that

444
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 1: it cannot be used as an excuse or explain away

445
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,439
Speaker 1: his behavior. Thank you, thank you friends, you got a

446
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 1: brain brain alert. She seemed genuinely upset that we didn't

447
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: just forgive him right then and there and move on.

448
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 1: Ray goes on to tell her that now wasn't the

449
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 1: best time to discuss all this. Her and casts were

450
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 1: fairly wasted by this point, and that tonight was about

451
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: celebrating her and we should focus on her having fun.

452
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 1: Also that she should take more time to truly process

453
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,439
Speaker 1: everything and consider if she really is okay with what

454
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: he did, if she's really okay with the fact that

455
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: he made corn of her sister and his mom. But

456
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,919
Speaker 1: this only led to another rant about how she's fine

457
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 1: and it doesn't affect her flying.

458
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 3: We'll get the real answer soon.

459
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 1: As we tried to voice several of our concerns, we

460
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,439
Speaker 1: were constantly being interrupted and talked over. But you know

461
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 1: that isn't like him or but his trauma, etc.

462
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's reaching, she's reaching for any excuse to find

463
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:32,920
Speaker 2: this okay and have her friends be like this is okay.

464
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, she really wants her friends to approve of it.

465
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,879
Speaker 1: And it's like no normal person is gonna be like,

466
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 1: oh yeah, that's you just want to understand.

467
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 2: It's like it's like just a mental issue, like all

468
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 2: he did, like it wasn't his fault.

469
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. A lot of the comments right now, they're all

470
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 3: saying they have seen people or them themselves have been

471
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 3: through hard things, but others have not suffered because of

472
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 3: the traumas they went through. Yeah, get help, dude.

473
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: Yeah. Some people can face it and own up to

474
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 1: it and be like, yes, I understand there's a problem.

475
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: This guy is just like babe, there's no problem, this

476
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: is normal, or like I didn't do really any harm.

477
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: You know, this is just like for me, like no

478
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: one else was involved. She's like, oh, you're right. Wait, okay,

479
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: come on, wake up. I even tried to ask her

480
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 1: to let me get my full thought out before she responded,

481
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: but I was interrupted twice, just trying to get out

482
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 1: one sentence.

483
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 3: I have a friend like that too.

484
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 1: It's not me that.

485
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: Wow, we're family.

486
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: It became very clear to both me and Ray that

487
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: she didn't want to actually have a conversation. She wanted

488
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: us to listen to her, but she didn't want to

489
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: listen to us.

490
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 2: Second, it was just a one sided conversation.

491
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: M hmm. She wasn't retaining anything we said. She was

492
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 1: just waiting for her turn to speak.

493
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 3: I know that just a waist out of birthday right now.

494
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 3: We should wait, no for.

495
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 1: Real, like enjoy your birthday. Girl. She's like, everyone has

496
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: to like agree with me, everyone agree with me. It's

497
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: like no, because we it's wrong. It's not right for

498
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,360
Speaker 1: those wondering if it was kids. She was very adamant

499
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: that she didn't see anything like that. Anne wasn't entertaining

500
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: our concerns about it either. This wasn't going anywhere, nor

501
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 1: was it productive. We eventually convinced her that we should

502
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: all go back inside and try to enjoy the night,

503
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: and that we should talk about this when we're not

504
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,719
Speaker 1: two thirds wasted and in the cold. Things were awkward

505
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: for a bit, but we all seem to recover quickly.

506
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: I took Ray home at the end of the night,

507
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 1: and as it stands, neither of us want a friendship

508
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: with her boyfriend going forward, but how we feel staying

509
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: friends with Cass is still blurry. We've both already blocked

510
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 1: him on everything, but still leaving a line open to

511
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,959
Speaker 1: Cass in case she somehow snaps out of it.

512
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 3: Please in this nightmare fuel.

513
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, there is a little bit left.

514
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 3: I'm done with it.

515
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 1: I think, just get into it. I wasn't sure if

516
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: it was important to add in the first post, but

517
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: Cass has borderline personality disorder, which explains her strong attachment

518
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 1: to him, as well as how we have to go

519
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: about speaking to her.

520
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 3: I don't like how we have to phrase our words

521
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 3: because of other.

522
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: People's walk on eggshells, walk.

523
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 3: On egedshews, because of what people other people are going through.

524
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 3: I should be able to go to my friend and

525
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 3: tell her, hey, this is a messed up situation. You

526
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 3: got to get out of here the betterment of your

527
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 3: own person.

528
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: It's hard to convince those people.

529
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 2: It's impossible to say, it's impossible to convince those people. Yeah,

530
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 2: because all they hear is I'm right, I'm right, I'm right,

531
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 2: And whatever you say that's not confirming with me or

532
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 2: reassuring me that I'm right, and saying I'm wrong is wrong.

533
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 2: Your opinion doesn't matter. My opinion is only when that matters,

534
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 2: And if you say anything else, you're wrong. No, literally crazy.

535
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: You just have to agree and be like, Okay, well

536
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: I hope he does better.

537
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 3: And then stop being friends with her.

538
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then she got no, we can't do that.

539
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: We have to make sure our tones are even if

540
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: there's any hint of aggression or disdain, then it'll trigger

541
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: her abandonment wound and cause a meltdown. I also added

542
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: this to say that just right up cutting her off

543
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: could have potentially dangerous implications. To her, but we have

544
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: yet to see eye to eye on this, and I

545
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,880
Speaker 1: doubt we will. Thank you all for reading this far.

546
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: All advice and comments have been very helpful. Me and

547
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 1: Ray have been reading all of them and considering our options.

548
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 3: Sort Kitten says, now I have BPD, and no amount

549
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 3: of attachment would make me stay through all that. There

550
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 3: has to be a breaking point get her to therapy.

551
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 3: I would be thinking about an intervention with a therapist present.

552
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I just don't like those types of

553
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: people though.

554
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 2: They just it's like talking to a brick wall. Yeah,

555
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 2: it's it's just so.

556
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: They have to come up with the idea.

557
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 2: Truly, and you have to make.

558
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: Them seem like they came up with it and that

559
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: they're right.

560
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 2: I'm really good at But then like, like if you again,

561
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: if you're telling them like we think you should get therapy,

562
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 2: you're attacking them.

563
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: Oh for sure.

564
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 2: They yeah, attack and you hate them and you're no

565
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 2: longer their friend.

566
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 3: You're really good at that.

567
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 2: It's literally a lose lose situation, is and the best

568
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 2: thing you can do is lose that friend. Unfortunately, you

569
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 2: could try, but it's hard.

570
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: There are similar relevant comments comment to one says, please

571
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: drop this friend. She needs therapy. You're not responsible for

572
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,959
Speaker 1: her emotions or her behavior. I guarantee this girl is

573
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: so unregulated or delusional that she'll actually become an enabler

574
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: to her boyfriend's regular use of corn. Common Number two

575
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 1: says it's frustrating that Opie can't see when they explained

576
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: that his trauma doesn't make up for what he's doing.

577
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 1: Yet they're also defending their best friend the same way.

578
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: Opie responds, you're right, I know it's over. Ray knows

579
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 1: it's over. I was doing my best to keep the

580
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 1: post somewhat neutral, but her actions as well as his

581
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: obviously aren't possible to defend. I figured bringing up her

582
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 1: mental health issues could bring in more context as to

583
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 1: why this is so frustrating. I can see that I

584
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: was doing the same crap I was complaining about. Thank you.

585
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that unless Opiever's one of that.

586
00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 1: One comment to number three says, buy BPD. Do you

587
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: mean bipolar or borderline personality disorder? Because if it's the

588
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 1: second walk the f away from her right now, this

589
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: is not going to get better, and by the end

590
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: you will be the villain and you will lose a

591
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: lot of friends in a not very pleasant way. Opie responds, borderline.

592
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: You guys are right funny you say that last part.

593
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: I already have lost friends, mainly in high school. But yeah,

594
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm used to taking her side, but I can't do

595
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 1: it this time.

596
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

597
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is hard those types of friends. Like it's

598
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: frustrating because it's like you see it, but they don't,

599
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: and then somehow, maybe one day they will, but you

600
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: can't make them. They don't want to. They rather live

601
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: in ignorant bliss, which cool, but I can't. I cannot

602
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: support that. Like Moraley, I can't say yeah, that's all right, sorry,

603
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: but I can't call me a bed friend.

604
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: Sorry, I was gonna say, Opie. All you gotta do

605
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 2: is just say your piece, send it and write it down,

606
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: send a letter, give it to her. Yeah, don't you

607
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: know if she can't really accept it. When you speak,

608
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: you say your piece, wish the best. Hopefully you can

609
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 2: come back down the line. But there's no changing her.

610
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 2: She's already set her mind. She's defending her boyfriend. You

611
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 2: got to bring up both of those cases, because it

612
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 2: seems like there's two separate cases, her and also her boyfriend. Sorry,

613
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 2: you gotta walk away. It's just something you can't put

614
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 2: your time, your effort, your mental state for because you're

615
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: just going to be talking and fighting against a brick wall.

616
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 3: This is sad. Van Camper says, my best he had

617
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 3: BPD and was in a bad relationship. She found him left,

618
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 3: but nothing I said would get through to her. It

619
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 3: took a very severe event and hospitalization to leave, jeez.

620
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 2: And that's what it is. It takes the most extreme

621
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: things for them to change or understand that. Oh my gosh,

622
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 2: what was I thinking? Yeah, But then at that point

623
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: everyone's gone, well.

624
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: They're yeah, and they're also conditioned truly. I mean she's

625
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: been doing it for five years, so I mean, anything

626
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: he does at this point, it's not the worst. It

627
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: could be worse, Okay, And then when it is worse,

628
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, it could still be worse, Like what is

629
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: the worst.

630
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: Then I did look this up for op and see

631
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: if there's any update. Opie did post an update about

632
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: five days later after this. These two posts. The title

633
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 2: of it. I won't read all of it, but the

634
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 2: title of it is leaving my best friend of almost

635
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: twenty years.

636
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 3: Wow, good for her.

637
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: I'll read the last two things because I think it's

638
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 2: very important for OPI. She said, I stayed for so

639
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: long because I would feel guilty leaving. She's told me

640
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 2: before that she would do very bad things if I

641
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 2: ever stopped being her friend. Exactly, I stayed because she

642
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,479
Speaker 2: scared me. Something happened recently that I could absolutely not

643
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 2: defend her nor condone morally. Watching her double down on

644
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: it made something click in my brain. I don't have

645
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 2: to deal with this anymore. It's not my problem. She's

646
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: not my problem. She knows she's wrong, but she doesn't care.

647
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 2: We never had a discussion about not being friends anymore,

648
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: but I just silently removed her from all socials and

649
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 2: messaging platforms. I'm not sure if she's noticed yet. That

650
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 2: could her to call me once again screaming and crying,

651
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: but it's been silent so far. Obi finishes off saying,

652
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: I'm not even sad. I'm relieved, And I think that's

653
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: a huge thing for anyone out there dealing with anyone

654
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,239
Speaker 2: with BBT, or like, if you yourself are dealing with it,

655
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: you need to, you know, snap into reality or understand

656
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 2: that you could be not harming just yourself, but everyone

657
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: around you or you might lose them.

658
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, and we're.

659
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Speaker 3: Dumb with that one. I hope we don't read another

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Speaker 3: the last one. This is so much worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Uh no, my worst nightmare.

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Speaker 3: Emily when she suggested our other friends Sarah move in

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Speaker 3: If you have anything you'd like to add, please add

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Speaker 3: down below. In the comments, Obi says two months past

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Speaker 3: and Emily says that her friend Lily needed to move

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Speaker 3: out of her parents' place since she shared a room

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Speaker 3: with her parents and younger brother. We ended up finding

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Speaker 3: a three bedroom and moved in at the beginning of

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Speaker 3: December twenty twenty five. Sarah and I have our own

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Speaker 3: rooms and share the hallway bathroom, while Emily and Lily

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Speaker 3: share the master bedroom and bathroom. Okay, living situations, living space,

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Speaker 3: Sarah owned bedroom, op owned bedroom. Emily and Lily share

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Speaker 3: a bedroom, three bedroom apartment.

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Speaker 1: Mmm, okay, so opie their own, Sarah their own, and

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Speaker 1: then Emily and Lily together.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it got it, got it.

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Speaker 3: The first month of us living here wasn't terrible, But

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Speaker 3: now that has been a little over five months, I

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Speaker 3: genuinely hate living with them, and I'm starting to hate

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Speaker 3: them as friends too.

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Speaker 2: No, they said, why they usually tell you not to

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Speaker 2: live with your friends.

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Speaker 3: It is tough. Here's my biggest grievances with each of

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Speaker 3: them because they all drive me insane and they're all

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Speaker 3: in the ways.

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Speaker 2: How do you do that? Does your body not hurt.

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Speaker 3: No, I really think I'd be a really good clown

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Speaker 3: if I wanted to be.

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Speaker 1: Take the clown class.

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Speaker 3: It costs money, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But it's you're already a clown.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: Clown classes are so good if anyone has the opportunity

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Speaker 1: to do it, freaking do it. It was one of

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Speaker 1: the best classes I've ever taken. I would take it

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Speaker 1: again in a heartbeat. You get a red nose after.

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Speaker 3: Emily has two cats and does not let them out

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Speaker 3: of her room for more than ten minutes every few days.

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Speaker 3: I have a cat as well, but they get along well,

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Speaker 3: so I don't understand why she doesn't let them out,

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Speaker 3: but I feel so bad for them. They're constantly cooped

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Speaker 3: up in their rooms, and it smells disgusting from the

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Speaker 3: cat's litter.

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Speaker 2: At least it's in their room and in the house.

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Speaker 3: Right, got a cat, wud be an outside cat? Oh,

727
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 3: and it would love it because I live on a farm. Okay,

728
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 3: you could smell it from the hallway with their door closed.

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Speaker 3: She also buys take out every single day and leaves

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Speaker 3: her half eating food and bags on the counter directly

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Speaker 3: next to the trash for days. Ew. She has not

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Speaker 3: washed a single dish in over a month, but lets

733
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Speaker 3: her dishes sit in the sink.

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Speaker 2: Ew.

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad my mother taught me how to clean

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Speaker 3: me too. According to Sarah, Emily's grandmother cleaned her room

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Speaker 3: for her, did her laundry as well as iron and

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Speaker 3: folded it, and took care of her cats for the

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Speaker 3: past five years.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: And so she wants you guys to do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, be my grandma.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know. That's what happens.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: You want to take care of your child, but there's

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Speaker 1: time when they become independent and can learn how to

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Speaker 1: take care of themselves.

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Speaker 2: Dang, she's expecting you guys to do it. That's crazy. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and she's like, I don't know how to do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm a girl. Guess what you're going to learn right now? Right?

751
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Speaker 2: It's not rocket science. You have, you got your two hands,

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Speaker 2: do it?

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Speaker 3: Do it?

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Speaker 1: Picking up a dish and cleaning it is truthfully not

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Speaker 1: that bum Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I have a I have a pivot kitchen.

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Speaker 1: Pivot kitchen.

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Speaker 3: What is that pivot? It's it's so small that you

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Speaker 3: can pivot on one foot and get to everything you

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Speaker 3: need to.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I would hate that. No, I like a

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Speaker 1: big kitchen.

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Speaker 3: Oh good for you. I enjoy it because I can

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Speaker 3: pivot around the kitchen. Boom boom, boom boom. After four

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Speaker 3: minutes it's unloaded.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: See that.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that works for you. Me. I like to

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Speaker 1: spread out. I like to have room. I like to

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Speaker 1: put things everywhere. But then like, I also like to

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Speaker 1: clean up. I just like not being like this and

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Speaker 1: everything's on top of each other and I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: my goh, no color space.

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Speaker 3: No, It's like I'm bording. It feels like I'm on

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Speaker 3: chopped anyways, grandmother. To this day, Emily brings her laundry

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Speaker 3: to her grandma's, drops them off, and picks them up

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Speaker 3: a few days later, despite us having a washer and dryer.

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Speaker 3: She also gets her and her boyfriend food all the

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Speaker 3: time and leaves it in the fridge until it goes bad,

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Speaker 3: but tells us we cannot touch it.

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00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: Oh dude, no, I am throwing it out.

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Speaker 2: If this is happening for five months, either I'm moving

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Speaker 2: out or I'm having a roommate intervention saying hey, we

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00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 2: got to change our mindsets around here, or I'm gone

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00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: good luck. Oh wait, You're.

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Speaker 3: Gone, Keon. We haven't even gotten to the other two roommates.

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Speaker 3: This is just Emily.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh no, Sarah, no, no, she has a man

789
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Speaker 4: using this loosely because he literally just mooches off of her,

790
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Speaker 4: but she refuses to see.

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Speaker 3: That that comes over multiple times a week. She has

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Speaker 3: never told anyone when he is coming up, so multiple

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Speaker 3: times now Emily and I have walked out of our

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00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 3: rooms with no pants on and are run back end

795
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Speaker 3: because he was there. Instead of saying anything to him

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Speaker 3: or telling us when he's here, despite us asking her to,

797
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 3: she makes jokingly comments saying that we should just know.

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Speaker 2: You can smell him across across town.

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00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can smell him after Emily's door of the

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00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 3: cat litter. The only ways I know he is here

801
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 3: before actually seeing him are one going to the restroom

802
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 3: and seeing both toilet lids are up, and two if

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00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 3: they cook food every time he comes over, enough to

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Speaker 3: feed five people, mind you, and they leave their dishes

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00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 3: with food in them for a few days on the

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Speaker 3: stove and in the sink.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm picture okay, Okay, I'm picturing with us, Okay,

808
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 2: both of us. Okay.

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00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 3: One, nothing is wrong for cooking food for five people.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how to cook for two, leave me alone, kan.

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Speaker 2: Same so what we got from Emily. She has food

812
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 2: next to the frash can that's standing out there for days.

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00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: Sarah has food. Where does she have? It's the stove

814
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: on the stove for days. And there's unclean dishes in

815
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 2: the sink. Okay, I'm getting I'm picturing this kitchen.

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00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: Oh, it's probably nasty. There's probably like bugs and like flies,

817
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: like nats. At least.

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00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 3: I hate this episode.

819
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:24,479
Speaker 2: There's spoiled food in the fridge. Okay, keep going. I'm

820
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: so excited the smell.

821
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Speaker 1: Yes, no, no, I mean, like, oh god, I hate it.

822
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: I'm so sensitive to smell.

823
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 3: So I didn't smell my fart a little bit ago.

824
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 3: I liked the meal prep and sometimes she has to

825
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 3: have a little.

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Speaker 2: Why hold on, she's making food for five.

827
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Speaker 3: Always give her a bowlerplate. The last few times she asked,

828
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 3: she ate multiple of my prepped meals, even though I

829
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 3: said not to eat more than one. Since I budget

830
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 3: my grocery shopping and cooking portions, I cook all the time.

831
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Speaker 3: I give my roommates. Sometimes I cook a lot. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: here you go, man, love you.

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Speaker 2: It's very nice of you.

834
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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I am actually gonna bank this weekend my famous chocolate

836
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: chip and muffins, and I will give them to my

837
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Speaker 1: roommates because I did that last.

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Speaker 3: Time, up and down, clapping with my hands not touching

839
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 3: each other. That sounds amazing.

840
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: I'll bring them here too, They're really good.

841
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 3: She has yet to offer any of the food she

842
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 3: has cooked for herself or her man. The one time

843
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 3: I asked for some, she told me no because her

844
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 3: man wanted to take the rest home. She also leaves hair,

845
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: toothpaste and whatever else all over the bathroom sink and counters,

846
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 3: and never cleans up after herself. This is why I

847
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 3: love having a bathroom by myself, because I don't really

848
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 3: go to worry about.

849
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Speaker 1: My bathroom is spotless, and I love it. I like,

850
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Speaker 1: really take care of the bathroom because that you spend

851
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: a lot of time in there, you know you're and

852
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: it's a lot of cleaning and grooming and like especially

853
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Speaker 1: with like being a girl on my hair, Like I mean,

854
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: my I don't shed a lot, but my sister's bathroom,

855
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: I mean both of them just shed everywhere. And I'm like,

856
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 1: do you guys just inter admitted clean in here, you

857
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,399
Speaker 1: just walk around the hair.

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Speaker 3: What do you do today? Specifically, I had asked her

859
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: to turn her music down so I could do my homework.

860
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 3: She turned it down one notch and said, oh, by

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00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 3: the way, I'm using your speaker.

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00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 2: Oh okay, terrible. I was going to say she did

863
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 2: turn it down, you just didn't. Weren't. Specific She's being

864
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Speaker 2: a smartass about it.

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Speaker 3: So that was Sarah. We already did Emily. We are

866
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Speaker 3: now on to Lily.

867
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Speaker 2: Do we save the best for last or worse for last?

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Speaker 3: I'm hoping this is medium.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna find out.

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Speaker 1: Let's see how Emily and Lily live because they live together.

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Speaker 3: Lily I have the least issues with Good, mainly because

872
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 3: she is only home a total of maybe three hours

873
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 3: a week. What okay, she have a boyfriend. That being said,

874
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 3: my first issue comes from the fact that Emily asked

875
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Speaker 3: if she could move in with us to move out

876
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 3: of her parents house. She spends more nights at her parents'

877
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 3: house than hours.

878
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 2: Every week, so she's paying rent.

879
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 3: We went from paying eight hundred dollars a month each

880
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 3: between the three of us, me, Emily and Sarah, to

881
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 3: paying over nine hundred a month each since we had

882
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:11,879
Speaker 3: to find a bigger place. I see, I know it's

883
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 3: not that much more, but it's one hundred dollars more

884
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 3: a month that I could be saving. Lily treats our

885
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 3: apartment like a storage unit rather than a place to live.

886
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 3: That brings me to my next issue with her. She

887
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 3: and Emily share a room. As I said before, Emily

888
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 3: already is not the cleanest person. Ever, however, Lily makes

889
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 3: her seem like a tidy and neat individual. Oh no, no,

890
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 3: are you No?

891
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: She doesn't even live there, and she's messier than everyone.

892
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 3: She's messier than Emily, not Sarah. Sarah's the worst one.

893
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: Emaly, Sarah's the worst one.

894
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 3: Okay, Lily has not cleaned her side of the room

895
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: since we moved in.

896
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 2: Well, how can she. She's never home.

897
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: She's home three hours a week.

898
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 3: They're all in college. This is a nightmare. I don't

899
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 3: think I could do it. I'm so glad I didn't

900
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 3: have sisters growing up because of this.

901
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 1: They're great and also horrible at the same time.

902
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,240
Speaker 3: See, Okay, I'm just saying this. If I had sisters

903
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 3: going up, I would have to play more into the

904
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 3: psychology warfare of people. I know Kean has to play

905
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 3: with This is like the psychology thing being like living

906
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 3: with Sofia. That was the first woman I've ever lived with.

907
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 3: Really that was tough because I'm like, is she mad

908
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 3: at me? Or does she just need on space? And

909
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 3: I always think that, like is this something I did wrong?

910
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: Sofia just says things how they are. She's like, yeah,

911
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: you need to do that, but like with like no,

912
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: not any emotions. So it's like was that aggressive or

913
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: was she just stating it as a fact.

914
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,839
Speaker 3: And my mom would always grip trip me for not

915
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 3: doing dishes, and I always be like, Sophia did the dishes.

916
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 3: I'm a good roommate. Op he needs to grow at

917
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 3: effings spine. I would draw the line at eating my food. Yeah,

918
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 3: we have an apartment inspection coming up, and I had

919
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 3: gone into their room with permission and cleaned up since

920
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 3: I am worried about being marked for hoarding. By the

921
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 3: time I was done getting the piles of clean and

922
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 3: dirty clothes off the floor, there was a layer of

923
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 3: trash I had to pick up. I know a lot

924
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 3: of my issues come from me wanting things to be clean.

925
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,760
Speaker 3: We do have a rules list that we made even

926
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 3: before we moved in officially.

927
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 2: Good things. Rules are meant to be broken.

928
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: Dude. We have a chorchhart at my place, and you

929
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: like just mark off when you do things, Like yesterday

930
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: I came home and I saw that like the dishwasher, said,

931
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: oh it's clean, so I just unloaded it. You just

932
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 1: kind of do it when you have time. And I

933
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: feel bad because I feel like a lot of them

934
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: work from home, so a lot of them do it

935
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 1: all the time. And I don't work from home, so

936
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 1: when I have time to do it, I try to

937
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 1: do it as much as I can.

938
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, And are you just to mark it off like

939
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 3: thirty minutes in the mornings and just kind of yeah,

940
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 3: make it happen.

941
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: See, I always I work at night. I like that's

942
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 1: my most energy, believe it or not, most energy at night.

943
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: I like to bounce around.

944
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 3: That's awesome.

945
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 1: Thanks.

946
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 3: One of the rules being to clean up after yourselves

947
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:50,280
Speaker 3: in common spaces. Another is to be conscious of others times,

948
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 3: work schedules, and space. I take it upon myself once

949
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 3: a week to deep clean all common areas. It's embarrassing

950
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 3: to live in such a disgusting place, and I feel

951
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 3: horrible and I come home and can't even set my

952
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 3: stuff down because the calendars are covered in bags, food

953
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 3: and trash. Easy solution, obviously, is just to move out.

954
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 3: I live in Southern California for one and for two

955
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 3: our lease isn't up until December. I have learned by

956
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 3: now to just come home, do what I gotta do

957
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 3: in our personal spaces, and lock myself in my room

958
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 3: for the rest of the day. She lives in Southern California.

959
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: She's paying, and she's paid nine hundred a month.

960
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 2: That's nice, plus with three other roommates. But I would

961
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 2: you know what, if I have to pay nine hundred

962
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 2: month to live like this, I wouldn't. I would pay

963
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 2: fifteen hundred to live at least semi clean and with

964
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 2: some sanity. This is what I did in college, Like

965
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: we had that many roommates and the downstairs was just

966
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 2: so gross because we had one roommate who was just

967
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 2: disgusting that I have a massive bedroom with a friend.

968
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: We'd be like, you know what, we can't go downstairs.

969
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 2: Like he'll go downstairs to cook and stuff, but not

970
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 2: even use the fridge. I'm like, you know what, I

971
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: got a mini fridge for our room. I couldn't go

972
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 2: down there. It was disgusting. I was like, hey, bye,

973
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 2: go into my room. They're like, we'd never see you, really,

974
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 2: and I say yeah, because it's freaking gross down here.

975
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like you don't need to

976
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 1: live in a pristine, clean all the timehouse, Like I mean,

977
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: sometimes obviously things build up, but then you realize, Like

978
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: literally the other day, I noticed like, oh, I've had

979
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: these like shirts and a pile over here because they're

980
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: not dirty, and I just don't feel like hanging them up,

981
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: and so I just kind of put them in like

982
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: a little pile on like this cushion, and I'm like,

983
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: I should clean them up, and so I do.

984
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 2: Sometimes the biggest thing is there's public spaces in private space,

985
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 2: and that's also do whatever you want in your room

986
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: as long as it's not affecting other people, like the

987
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 2: kiddie litter, Hi, Dakota disgusting.

988
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 3: Yeah right now, that's affecting other people because they can

989
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: smell in the hallway.

990
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 2: Truly, if it's just in your room and it's not

991
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 2: bothering me, that's okay. Yep, Yeah, I agreed, Keon. How

992
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 2: do you and dakota'sp rent evenly.

993
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 3: Nice.

994
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 1: Hey, it's Garly Keon's go friend here. We're gonna get

995
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Speaker 1: from our sponsors. My bridesmaid scared me so badly I

997
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: thought she'd ruin the altar, so I cut her off.

998
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Speaker 3: What did she do?

999
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 2: Nothing? She wasn't there anymore.

1000
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: She was actually a ghost. I asked a friend to

1001
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: be a bridesmaid when we were on good terms and

1002
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: really close, but more recently I have become uncomfortable with

1003
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: our friendship and do not feel that it would be

1004
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:26,240
Speaker 1: a good fit anymore. Her behavior has become incredibly erratic

1005
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: and inappropriate in private and in public, and makes myself

1006
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: and the rest of my bridesmaids and friends in general

1007
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,359
Speaker 1: uncomfortable what. It has gotten to the point where if

1008
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 1: I ask the other girls if they want to hang out,

1009
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: they now ask is blank coming?

1010
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: Ah?

1011
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 3: Dude's that's hard. There's a guy on my basketball team

1012
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 3: that's like that.

1013
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Onion and Celery And

1014
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1015
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1016
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 1: I'm ke On, and We're here to get some good advice.

1017
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll make you laugh, maybe we won't, but I'm

1018
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: hoping that we do. But guess what, we do not

1019
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 1: know everything. We only know what we know. But let

1020
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: us know what you know in the comments you know,

1021
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 1: as Op says, I have started to spend less time

1022
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: with this person, but have not completely removed her from

1023
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: my life because she is my coworker. Ooh, it's getting

1024
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 1: even harder to avoid her. So you work with her

1025
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,760
Speaker 1: and you also have her in your bridal party.

1026
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: Wow.

1027
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 3: I could not imagine a world that that could happen.

1028
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: Wow.

1029
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: So when we spend time together, it is mostly related

1030
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: to work now. Behavior contexts, excessive cursing. I curse, but

1031
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: she curses every other word which is not an exaggeration,

1032
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: and screams them in public, so people stare ugh, so trashy.

1033
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: I like to swear as much as the next person,

1034
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 1: but I also know when to filter it. I watch kids.

1035
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 1: I used to watch kids for a living I and

1036
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: never once did they hear me swear.

1037
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 2: Don't believe you.

1038
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm really good at it. I'm really good at censory.

1039
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: Myself goes into excessive detail regarding her spicy sleep, life, positions,

1040
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: liquids STD results over ten men each week.

1041
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 2: Hey yo, who has the energy for that?

1042
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: In public? Again, screaming it while people stare okay, So

1043
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: she just wants attention.

1044
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 2: Spotlight, spyl spytlight, spotlight, spylight, god, spotlight.

1045
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 3: Anything for reaction that I like that be me for

1046
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 3: a while. I try to dempress Jhon and Sam all

1047
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 3: the time, and I would just say anything for reaction.

1048
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 3: And I got it, and I will. I told my

1049
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 3: girlfriend this, I will say anything to make people laugh.

1050
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 3: Oh I know, not really anything. Actually, I take that back,

1051
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 3: but I am a laugh for I like. I like laughs.

1052
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 3: You too.

1053
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,919
Speaker 1: Saves information to use against people later.

1054
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Cut this person off.

1055
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: I told her not to eat on the couch to

1056
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: avoid oil stains, and she responded, Oh, I know how

1057
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: to piss you off. I will just come here and

1058
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: destroy all of your furniture. I'll cut it all up

1059
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,800
Speaker 1: and ruin your house. Then laughs it off.

1060
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 2: Is that a threat?

1061
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: Are you threatning me?

1062
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe effing is. I don't know, effing

1063
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 3: know you word. That's how she would respond.

1064
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: That is how she would respond.

1065
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, oh, p let me talk to

1066
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 2: one of the ten guys with a hook up with

1067
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: this week.

1068
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 3: Oh, Pepe, show me your five friends and I'll show

1069
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 3: you who you are. Are you like this person? Is

1070
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 3: this who you want to be?

1071
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 1: Says? The choices I have been making for the wedding

1072
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 1: are ef being stupid and asks financial questions. I feel

1073
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: bad wanting to remove her because I am the one

1074
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: who asked her to begin with. But she makes me

1075
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: anxious now, and I am so afraid she's going to

1076
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 1: do something inappropriate at the altar, like talk during the

1077
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: ceremony for attention or to intentionally ruin it.

1078
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 2: She's definitely the type of person to be, like I

1079
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 2: object now, I'm just kidding, keep going.

1080
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: She would be she would be that person this.

1081
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 2: Body, right haha. And she's looking at all the grooms

1082
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: men she's like you you you you you targets.

1083
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, God, I truthfully, I think you might need to

1084
00:49:56,520 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 1: just get her out, just be like, oh you had

1085
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: someone else drop out from the groom's side, so to

1086
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: make it even like give like some type of excuse.

1087
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to do it in like a way

1088
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 2: where it's like because if you're like, hey, you can't

1089
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 2: do this anymore? Why because you suck.

1090
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 3: You're a horrible person, and we're not friends that person.

1091
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 2: This is the type of person who will burn it

1092
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,919
Speaker 2: all down well, and plus you still have to work

1093
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 2: with her like she's your coworkers, and it's not like

1094
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: you will.

1095
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: Never see it again.

1096
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 2: You gotta do something.

1097
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 3: You'll see her on Monday, hr get h involved in

1098
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 3: your wedding.

1099
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,240
Speaker 1: Is it better to ask her to be a guest

1100
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 1: or is it better to just cut off the friendship?

1101
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: But she will still be my coworkers. So not sure

1102
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: how to fully cut ties when we have meeting. I

1103
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: just don't really know what happened to her. She's an

1104
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: entirely different person now from when I asked her, and

1105
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: there's an update. I think that you have to go

1106
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: about this in a very particular way. I think any

1107
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: way you do it, she's gonna be annoyed and pissed

1108
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: off and you're just gonna have to deal with that.

1109
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 1: Or you can just say, you know what, whatever, I'm

1110
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: just gonna suck it up. Hopefully nothing happens at the wedding.

1111
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: You know, you got options here. I don't know what

1112
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: the best course of action take is, but yeah, I don't.

1113
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,959
Speaker 3: I don't know. Please go to her off. It's gonna

1114
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 3: be hard at first, but for the well being of

1115
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 3: your wedding and your sanity, it's the best call on.

1116
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1117
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 3: All I'm here is more cons and pros.

1118
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: Here there's an update. I found a few psychiatrists RECs

1119
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: for her, and I'm going to have a discussion with

1120
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: her regarding the wedding. I really appreciate everyone's input. I

1121
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: think the right thing for her is to get some

1122
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: assistance that she has to commit to on her own.

1123
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: I am also going to end the friendship because I

1124
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 1: do not think after telling her this good things will come. Yeah, Unfortunately,

1125
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: there will most likely be retaliation towards me, my friends,

1126
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 1: and my employment. I will update you all later. Oh boy,

1127
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:46,760
Speaker 1: and there's an updates.

1128
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 3: They'll fall out.

1129
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: I mean, anyone in this situation I feel like would

1130
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,879
Speaker 1: not take it well. You know, if I was part

1131
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: of a bridal party and then all of a sudden

1132
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: they're like, hey, actually we can't have you in it,

1133
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,439
Speaker 1: or we don't want you in it, and then that's

1134
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: just gonna make me feel absolutely terrible. But obviously there's

1135
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 1: reasons why. But those reasons are also like horrible reasons

1136
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: just coming out her character. It's like, it can't not

1137
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: be an attack. This is so hard to like, just

1138
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 1: kind of phrase it in a way that's not gonna

1139
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: be hurtful, but it's really, we don't like your character. Ah,

1140
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 1: I would hate this, hate to be in the situation.

1141
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agreed. You do have to be a word

1142
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 3: ninja in order to get the point across with how

1143
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 3: she takes things as well, just say it straight.

1144
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,959
Speaker 1: Sofa king, tell her you've decided to elope, and then.

1145
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 3: What happens whenever you post the wedding pictures?

1146
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it'd be like we hoped without you.

1147
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 3: It is eloping.

1148
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: Update number two, But here we go. Well, I spoke

1149
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 1: with her today and she lost it, really her wo

1150
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 1: that doesn't seem like her.

1151
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 2: Make sure you have the cops ready to protect you.

1152
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: Go on. She kept calling me, cussing me out, hanging up,

1153
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: and I stopped answering after the third time. I straight

1154
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: up asked her if maybe she had been diagnosed with

1155
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: something in the past, and she said no. I then

1156
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: asked her if she would see a psychiatrist or wanted

1157
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 1: help finding one. Based on what myself and others have

1158
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: been noticing, Oh, this didn't go well. I didn't expect

1159
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: it to be was gonna go.

1160
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, you gotta rip off that band aid.

1161
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 2: It might get some of that scab, but you know

1162
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 2: what again, get it, yeah, take it off hard.

1163
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, just do it. It's gonna help you out in

1164
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 3: the long run. Do not let this person be near

1165
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 3: your new family. Yeah, she's getting married, she have new family.

1166
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 1: She lost it there and said I was projecting and

1167
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: I was defensive, which neither made sense to me, and

1168
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: that I am discriminating against her, and that the other

1169
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 1: girls put me up to this, and said I just

1170
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 1: wanted a specific number of bridesmaids, not the case. Removing

1171
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: her actually causes fewer bridesmaids and makes it uneven. But

1172
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: to me, I don't care if fits even. I just

1173
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: want people I care about there, what a nice bride.

1174
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: We don't get those. I tried to explain more, and

1175
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: she began screaming and talking over me, snatching belongings. So

1176
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: I dipped, and that's when she started calling again and

1177
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: again and cussing me out. So I'm not sure where

1178
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 1: to go from here. I'm pretty certain she will just

1179
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 1: go talk about me to her other friends, which is fine,

1180
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 1: she convents, but I will not be unblocking. I think

1181
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 1: there is only so much I can do before she

1182
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: needs to do something for herself. She also told me

1183
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: not to contact her friends, who I became friends with

1184
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: after her intro, because they are hers and they cannot

1185
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 1: be friends with me because she found them first.

1186
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 2: Cool. Whatever. You know they're adults, right, you know they

1187
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 2: can do whatever they want, right, Yeah, what I mean?

1188
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 2: I get it. That is like unspoken the rules.

1189
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: But also you can't really control people. We are at

1190
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 1: thirty five years old and you're doing this. Oh crazy,

1191
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: friends are not proper. But if it stops her from

1192
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: contacting me, so be it. I was trying to be patient,

1193
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: but god, she was so scary today, making all sorts

1194
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,919
Speaker 1: of weird comments. And that's the end.

1195
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 2: Op. Keep your eyes open, yeah, just crazy. She's definitely

1196
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 2: thinking and plotting revenge any way she can keep your

1197
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 2: eyes open.

1198
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:25,919
Speaker 1: I would definitely have like, you know, maybe a made

1199
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: of dishonor it's like the people who like if they

1200
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: are bad people at the wedding, or like don't want

1201
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 1: you there, they can take care of them.

1202
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yeah they're there.

1203
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 1: Maide of dishonor I think you should have.

1204
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 3: That's cool, and then set up passwords for all your vendors.

1205
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 3: Do the protectionary things of weddings that people do, just.

1206
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 1: Like have someone on standby. I guess get.

1207
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 2: Ready for work too.

1208
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, to be gone here.

1209
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: Work will be a nightmare.

1210
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,360
Speaker 3: And they're not the same department.

1211
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, well they go to meetings together. That's the thing.

1212
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,399
Speaker 1: She is her co worker, so she has to see

1213
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: her sucks.

1214
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,319
Speaker 3: That this never happens to one of us guys.

1215
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 2: Ah, I don't think we hang out with people that.

1216
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1217
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: I feel like we're all pretty chill and if we

1218
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 1: have a problem, I feel like we you know, we

1219
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: take a walk.

1220
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 3: Can we discuss sometimes.

1221
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:14,839
Speaker 1: But that's the end of that story. And we got

1222
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: some comments here. These comments are from am I the

1223
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: a hole for telling my wife to tell her mom

1224
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 1: to move out of our home after she decided to

1225
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 1: leave all inheritance to her brother. This was posted on

1226
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: May nineteenth, twenty twenty six, so literally a couple weeks ago.

1227
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: This is the TLDR for story one, and it says

1228
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 1: Ope's father in law passed away and left a huge

1229
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: life insurance pay out to Op's mother in law and

1230
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: lazy brother in law, but his hard working daughter, Ope's

1231
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 1: wife got nothing. Now mother in law and brother in

1232
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 1: law are living in Ope's house. The brother does nothing

1233
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: but play video games all day, and OP and his

1234
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: wife are stuck doing every single chore aaron and renovation,

1235
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: while brother in law sits on a pile of cash.

1236
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: Five months later, things take a turn nobody saw coming,

1237
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,760
Speaker 1: and OPI finally reaches his breaking point. Will the family

1238
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: ever make brother in law grow up? Or will Op

1239
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: walk away for good? If you're curious to know the

1240
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: full story, you can go watch the full video.

1241
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: I do not remember this one. I remember this one, Okay,

1242
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 2: so you remember how it turns out? Okay, no spoilers,

1243
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 2: Oh no, I won't tell anything good. But we have

1244
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 2: some comments here, and let's start off with the grid

1245
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 2: Girls Great name saying if I'm inheriting money, you're not

1246
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 2: getting in my way. I don't give a f lmao.

1247
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 2: Tough love. You really don't want him to improve and

1248
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 2: do any better? You're still not getting that money. Lol. Oh.

1249
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 2: We have another comment here from Random Stuff's XP seventy

1250
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 2: three sixty two saying, boy moms are wild? Moms are

1251
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 2: what wild.

1252
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 1: Oh moms, I thought you said mom's are wife, and

1253
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I mean maybe.

1254
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 2: Sometime boy mom's are wife.

1255
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: So I was confused. Is that the end?

1256
00:57:58,000 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 2: That is the end of the comments.