WEBVTT - 105: The Great Deflation

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<v Speaker 1>It's three thirty am in the abandoned offices of Dr

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<v Speaker 1>Simon Orion in Beverly Hills, and you're listening Tonight Call.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Nightcall, a call in show for our dystopian reality.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Emily Oshida. I am in Los Angeles as always,

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<v Speaker 1>and with me on the other line are Molly Lambert

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<v Speaker 1>and Tess Lynch. Hello, Hello, and Happy plastic surgery April

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody. Happy plastic surgery April. We're finally out of

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<v Speaker 1>spring break. We're down with spring break. Springbreak is over.

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<v Speaker 1>To quote the Governor of Florida or the mayor of Miami,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember which. Um. We are going into our

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<v Speaker 1>new theme month about plastic surgery, but not just plastic

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<v Speaker 1>surge dree cosmetic procedures of all kinds and and physical

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<v Speaker 1>rebirth of all kinds, physical reinvention. Maybe that's like a

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<v Speaker 1>good way to think about it. I am. We plan

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<v Speaker 1>this obviously long ago, before our pandemic days, but I

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<v Speaker 1>still think we're pretty psyched to delve into the world

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<v Speaker 1>of cosmetic procedures for the month of April, because April

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<v Speaker 1>is all about rebirth when you think about it. Springtime, Yeah, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>chickens hatching um New faces hatching, New Faces hatching story.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I've been saying that it's a great time

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<v Speaker 1>for the birds to take over, that the birds should

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<v Speaker 1>do the birds right now. I read that birds are

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<v Speaker 1>actually having to sing less loud now because they're not

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<v Speaker 1>having to like scream over human beings as much anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>What yeah you heard me? Are they whispering? No? But

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<v Speaker 1>normally they have to out over traffic and over humans,

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<v Speaker 1>and now they can just sort of sing in a

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<v Speaker 1>more natural tone. They don't have to yell over us.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that for them too. She also wrote a

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<v Speaker 1>story about how birds speech is just like human speech,

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<v Speaker 1>how it like baby birds babble in the same way

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<v Speaker 1>that human babies do and then learn all the calls

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. That's very cute. Um, well, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>all feel kind of like baby birds right now, like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of you know, not used to outside and blinking

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<v Speaker 1>and covered and fluid. Um, And we can't go anywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't fly. Yeah, we'll fall out of our apartments

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<v Speaker 1>if we try to leave, to stay at home and

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<v Speaker 1>feed each other worms. Yeah. Um so. Plastic surgery April,

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<v Speaker 1>Cosmetic procedure April. However, you want to call it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>obviously it's a little bit difficult right now to um

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<v Speaker 1>partake of any of these procedures. Although I did have

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<v Speaker 1>the thought as as soon as this all started to

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<v Speaker 1>really become real here, Um, that it would be an

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<v Speaker 1>incredible time to to do your your recovery from a

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of major surgical procedure. It would have would

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<v Speaker 1>have would have been a great time to to get

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<v Speaker 1>your nose done, if that's what you wanted, because nobody

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<v Speaker 1>will remember what you used to look like by the

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<v Speaker 1>time everyone gets out. Kylie, who I'm sure we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>up during this month a lot. She said that her

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<v Speaker 1>social media absence, where she was off social media the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time she was pregnant, it was like helped her

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<v Speaker 1>to prepare for the coronavirus lockdown, being like that's the

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<v Speaker 1>only way she could envision not being on social media

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<v Speaker 1>limited activity. She hid in her house all the time

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<v Speaker 1>so that there wouldn't be any photos of her pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. That's so deranged. It's I've said this before,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would like there to be a Sofia Coppola

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<v Speaker 1>movie about this. Kylie just wandering the grounds, Um, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what the New Drake videos like. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>wandering the winter palace. If only we all had winter

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<v Speaker 1>palaces to wander. Um. Well, um, one person got in

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<v Speaker 1>there their injections right before the ship really hit the fan. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's pretty well known now about Kelly rippas

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<v Speaker 1>um last minute coronavirus botox session that she got. I

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<v Speaker 1>think on Friday the thirteenth, which I think of is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of well I think of I now think of

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<v Speaker 1>like the eleventh as being the first, as like as

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<v Speaker 1>being like day one, because I did Tom Hanks get it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the tom That's the Tom Hanks day. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>NBA day. We've discussed this on here. That's the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I think. So this was like two days after that,

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<v Speaker 1>still early in all this, but still like like I

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<v Speaker 1>I will be, I'm gonna have a lot of radical

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<v Speaker 1>transparency this month. Um. But but just for starters, I

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<v Speaker 1>did have a microderm uh scheduled for Friday, and I

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<v Speaker 1>canceled it because I had a haircut and a facial

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<v Speaker 1>on the same day and I decided to get the haircut. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a Sophie's choice of vanity, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>I made the right choice. Um, not that any of

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<v Speaker 1>it matters. That's what's funny about it. It's like so

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<v Speaker 1>so that people can stay groomed, like while they're posting

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<v Speaker 1>from quarantine. That's it. That's the only reason. And stay

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<v Speaker 1>tune for so many things too. Martha Stewart posted like

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<v Speaker 1>an ode to all of her beauty team today being like,

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<v Speaker 1>I missed getting my nails done, I missed getting my

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<v Speaker 1>hair done, like I miss like going to my dermatologist

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<v Speaker 1>and just sort of being like, don't don't try to

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<v Speaker 1>do this and don't try to do it yourself, just

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<v Speaker 1>basically what she said, we'll try. You tried to do

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<v Speaker 1>it yourself. Yeah, I don't care. I mean, that's this

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<v Speaker 1>is my thing, is that I I really don't care

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<v Speaker 1>what I look like at all at this point in

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I'm sure I'll change back. Um. I go

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<v Speaker 1>through phases. But yeah, I cut my bangs. No, first

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<v Speaker 1>I cut split ends. I was outside, which was when

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about my about this with my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, but where was the mirror And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, there was no mirror. It was nature nature. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I did my bangs and I didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>how I did my bangs. But I'm living with that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, what if I just cut

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<v Speaker 1>like an inch off my hair? How hard could it

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<v Speaker 1>be to make that look great? And it turns out

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<v Speaker 1>like a little harder than I can handle the answer

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<v Speaker 1>now it just flips out at the bottom. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>the only person I know who's cut bangs. Lain Con

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<v Speaker 1>always cut my own bangs. I I didn't cut them

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<v Speaker 1>from scratch. That's great, Well, Laine Con gave herself bangs

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<v Speaker 1>are gastolene um. I just think a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>you get the cabin fever and then you want to

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<v Speaker 1>take it out on yourself in some way. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to change something, and I think that getting bangs

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the easiest ways to make a big change.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're like a breakup haircut because it's like a traumatic,

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<v Speaker 1>traumatic incident, so people are like trying to reassert control.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more just that you know that no one will see,

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<v Speaker 1>so it doesn't really matter. Like the worst thing about

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<v Speaker 1>when you cut your own bangs and you screw them

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<v Speaker 1>up and then you realize the next day that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to like go to work or go to coffee

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<v Speaker 1>and like see people and they're going to know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what you did, but you don't want to talk about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and neither today. But it's like we can all acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>like it doesn't look good. We could lean into that

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<v Speaker 1>more too. My boyfriend did a Joe exotic mustache, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love it. You love it? Yeah. My question was,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about that? I'm so into it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like mustaches. Um. But also he was like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get me to give him a Travis Pickle haircut

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<v Speaker 1>as a fun joke, and I was like, I'll do it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do it. And then like two hours later he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>are we doing it? And I was like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I can do it right now? Too late. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think that everybody, like I think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's a very natural thing to want to change your

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<v Speaker 1>appearance when like when out of boredom or out of

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<v Speaker 1>like a seeming lack of control over anything else. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's a total trope for like the

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<v Speaker 1>cutting the hair out of out of angst in a

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<v Speaker 1>movie like um, girl shaves her head or whatever. Um

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<v Speaker 1>if this very um, it's like a troope at this point. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but we can't. Like I I just imagine, like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>people are getting like at least at least injections, Like

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<v Speaker 1>people are probably getting house calls for that. Don't you

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<v Speaker 1>think ends on? Do you have to be super super

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<v Speaker 1>wealthy to get that? Right now, I imagine the Kardashians

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<v Speaker 1>have somebody on the team. Well, you were saying you

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<v Speaker 1>thought that that Kim was like losing her losing her

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<v Speaker 1>face or something, and well, I think her face always

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<v Speaker 1>looks weird in motion because it's like so many different

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<v Speaker 1>faces layered on top of each other. It's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the Kardashian surgery faces, it's like it's made

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<v Speaker 1>for still photographs and whenever you see it in motion,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like very uncanny. Yeah, well there's also the face

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<v Speaker 1>that's made for photographs also just doesn't look great in

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<v Speaker 1>real life even still. You know, like there's something that

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<v Speaker 1>you can see what's been done. You can see which

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<v Speaker 1>parts move in which parts don't. So it's really distracting

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<v Speaker 1>when you're talking with someone who's had a ton of

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<v Speaker 1>work done because it just jumps out at you, but

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<v Speaker 1>in photos it doesn't. Yeah. Now, I've had a few

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<v Speaker 1>occasions where I've like gotten lunch and Beverly Hills after

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<v Speaker 1>a meeting or something like that. And then you see

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<v Speaker 1>like one of the real extreme jobs come in and

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<v Speaker 1>it's somebody like in a picture. If I saw it,

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<v Speaker 1>like if that person was like a minor celebrity or something,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw him in a in like US Weekly or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't think anything of their face. But in person,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, WHOA, that's not how a human normally looks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very yeah, it's very much made for photographs. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very much not made for for face to face. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that strange? Wouldn't you rather look good in life than

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<v Speaker 1>in a picture? I guess it depends on how like

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<v Speaker 1>like the ratio of of your interactions, Like if you're

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who people who the vast majority of people in

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<v Speaker 1>the world interact with via photographs or Instagram or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, then then maybe you you do you run

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<v Speaker 1>the calculation, and it's worth it to look a natural

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<v Speaker 1>in person if you look ideal over these different channels,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know, I mean, I think you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a moment where we crossed a threshold into

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<v Speaker 1>like very young people getting plastic surgery, which I had

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<v Speaker 1>always existed in some form, but you know, the joke

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<v Speaker 1>of it was Kylie, right, Like I was reading this Klie,

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<v Speaker 1>but like you know, like Marilyn Monroe got a no

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<v Speaker 1>shop when she was young, like people get no shops

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<v Speaker 1>when they're younger, but this was more like people doing

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that's like traditionally was like anti aging stuff. Associate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>talks like remember when lip injections were like the joke

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<v Speaker 1>from First Wives Club or it was just an Angelina

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<v Speaker 1>Jolie thing or something like that was like even though

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she even has them by people, she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have them, but it was like everybody was her

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<v Speaker 1>mouth or something. Well, the Kylie thing also was obviously

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<v Speaker 1>part of like the Kardashians general thing of like appropriating

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<v Speaker 1>uh black pete and white washing it and I get

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<v Speaker 1>the butt in the lips and then yeah, you're good

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<v Speaker 1>to go. It's yeah, I mean the Kylie stuff. I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, we can kind of go around and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>get into our general added it's going into all of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I tend to be pretty agnostic about all of it

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of like do what thou will about plastic surgery.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do find the stuff with like really young people.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do find like Kylie to be pretty depressing,

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<v Speaker 1>just because I don't know, Like I it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>it's not even like uh an enhancement of something that

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<v Speaker 1>exists already. It's like getting a whole new It's like

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<v Speaker 1>getting a shirt, but like a shirt you have to

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<v Speaker 1>wear all the time, or something like a completely like

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<v Speaker 1>like it. It has nothing to do with what she

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<v Speaker 1>looks like, right, but it's it's like, I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like she's in such a weird specific greenhouse for this

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<v Speaker 1>to happen, which is just like her mom is essentially

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<v Speaker 1>like running a cult of which she is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the cult members. And I was really hopeful she would

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<v Speaker 1>be the one who would break away and be like

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<v Speaker 1>more like Courtney, but just even more like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want any part of this, you know. But obviously because

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<v Speaker 1>everybody called her the ugly one, that was the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like the ugly one, especially compared to Kendall,

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<v Speaker 1>where everybody was like Kendall's a model. Just reminded me

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<v Speaker 1>of that y a book Jacob have I loved. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like your sister's perfect and you suck and in

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<v Speaker 1>the Kardashian economy of attention that means like, we hate

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<v Speaker 1>you because you get the least attention. And then she

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<v Speaker 1>got the lip injections and completely changed everything about herself

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<v Speaker 1>and became the most popular one by sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>beating him at her own game and being like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like you, but younger. Yeah, And there's something like and

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<v Speaker 1>she's totally rewarded for it too. It's like nobody, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean obviously people are like like, oh, it's so obviously

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<v Speaker 1>what she's gotten done, but like she's still the most

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<v Speaker 1>popular person, and like I can't get a handle on

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<v Speaker 1>even what the appeal is of her. Really, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think anyone it's like, Okay, so like any woman has

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<v Speaker 1>had the experience of like being treated better when you're

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<v Speaker 1>wearing makeup, you know. I think it's like that on

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<v Speaker 1>like a grand scale. It's like people are going to

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<v Speaker 1>treat you better if you're hot because they think that

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<v Speaker 1>the aura of hotness and success will rub off on

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<v Speaker 1>them in some way. Um Like, I feel like there

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<v Speaker 1>have just been times in my life when there was

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<v Speaker 1>like some kind of inflated attention for something that had

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with me, where you're aware that it's

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<v Speaker 1>not really about you. But if you change something physically

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself forever and then you're also like, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not really mine, that just seems like a mind fuck. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that. I think about that, especially with like

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<v Speaker 1>housewives and stuff, like at a certain point, like do

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<v Speaker 1>you even still like how like I'm talking about real housewives,

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<v Speaker 1>Like at what point do you just not recognize yourself

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<v Speaker 1>in the mirror and then like like you're having a

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<v Speaker 1>split of personality based on this other, like this different

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<v Speaker 1>looking person that you've created. I don't know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>all very interesting. I think there's people who get plastic

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<v Speaker 1>sur tree with like a specific outcome in mind. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, my face doesn't look the way I imagine

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<v Speaker 1>it looking, and then they like do something and it does. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think there's a type of person who's

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<v Speaker 1>especially abetted by social media, who gets addicted to plastic

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<v Speaker 1>surgery and just getting whatever the new thing is because

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<v Speaker 1>they're always introducing new procedures that you can get um

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<v Speaker 1>And I think those people will never be happy because

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<v Speaker 1>it'll just never be enough. It's like you're always going

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<v Speaker 1>to still feel bad about yourself because you're not like

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<v Speaker 1>fixing the real problem, which is low self esteem. Yeah. Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to take a break real quick. When we

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<v Speaker 1>come back, we're going to do a brief chicken on

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<v Speaker 1>pandemic times and then more plastic surgery. Welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>night Call. Um, So, our listener Brian Early, who's a

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<v Speaker 1>public health physician who was on the show a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks ago, gave us a nightcall just to sort

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<v Speaker 1>of fill in some of the questions we had last

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<v Speaker 1>week about what we are allowed to do right now. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're going to just play that and uh and discuss. Hi, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Dr Brian Early in Denver. I'm calling in

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<v Speaker 1>to respond to your coronavirus questions from last week. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>Molly's right, the delivery drivers, grocery store workers, and sanitation

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<v Speaker 1>folks are on the front lines of the coronavirus response.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the ones making it possible for us to practice

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<v Speaker 1>social distancing and frankly, by the time people are showing

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<v Speaker 1>up at the hospital feeling sick, the horses out of

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<v Speaker 1>the barn. As far as take out, restaurant workers generally

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<v Speaker 1>have much better food handling practices than people cooking in

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<v Speaker 1>their home so take out is likely very safe, and

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<v Speaker 1>while the rest of getting coronavirus from packaging or other

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<v Speaker 1>surfaces is in zero. To cause his zse, the virus

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<v Speaker 1>is hanging out in the cardboard, would have to survive

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<v Speaker 1>shipping and temperature swing, get transferred to your hand, and

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<v Speaker 1>then make it up into your eyes or the interior

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<v Speaker 1>of your nose. That's a long hazardous trip for a virus,

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<v Speaker 1>and much less likely than droplets from sneeze or cough

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<v Speaker 1>and make it into your airway. Instacrat workers and other

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<v Speaker 1>delivery drivers are probably much higher risk from coronavirus and

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<v Speaker 1>people able to remain at home, But from a population perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>it may actually be better to expose this small number

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<v Speaker 1>of people who can only get sick once each than

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<v Speaker 1>having every person go to the story individually. In the

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<v Speaker 1>same way, many clinics will choose a small number of

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<v Speaker 1>people to do all their coronavirus testing. Um all these

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<v Speaker 1>high risk workers have a right to a fair wage,

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<v Speaker 1>though and appropriate protection in their workplace. Finally, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to emphasize the importance of doing things that support mental health,

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<v Speaker 1>including finding ways to go outside. In fact, air currents

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<v Speaker 1>and UV radiation from the sun probably make interactions outdoors

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<v Speaker 1>safer than indoors, especially when keeping a good distance between

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<v Speaker 1>people and not sharing objects. Thank you, guys, Let's stay

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<v Speaker 1>safe out there. So I feel like we have permission

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<v Speaker 1>to go for a walk. I'm gonna say this is

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<v Speaker 1>my question, which is not exactly answered. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>like more questions for either a doctor earlier whomever. Now

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<v Speaker 1>that we're all supposed to be wearing masks, not medical,

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<v Speaker 1>great mass, but cloth masks. Should we wear those on walks?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I really don't want to, and so I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>for justification to not. But at the same time, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean people say that when um, other people are exercising,

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<v Speaker 1>if you encounter a runner or something, you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>give an extra four feet for a total of ten

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<v Speaker 1>ft between you. Uh and but so obviously I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it would be safer to wear a mask. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>finding the mask so uncomfortable, you guys. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wearing them as much and whenever I go into a store,

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<v Speaker 1>which is very infrequently, I wear them. But they're so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh So, yeah, my understanding is that you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>you have to wear them if you're outside of your

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<v Speaker 1>own environment. Basically even walking I think so. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I also see so many people walking my I tweeted

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<v Speaker 1>about this, but my street has basically turned into like

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<v Speaker 1>running into which is really annoying. Sorry, So there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many people out and and and I've watched the trends

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<v Speaker 1>in in a social distancing and and protective gear change,

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<v Speaker 1>and now pretty much everybody is wearing masks out there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't think it's a bad idea, especially because

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you are on a narrower street and like if

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<v Speaker 1>a runner goes by, you definitely have the breeze of

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<v Speaker 1>that person. It's so stressful there. I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>better safe than sorry situation, and that you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>probably should have been normalizing wearing the masks for weeks already,

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<v Speaker 1>and that we're just getting on it now sort of

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<v Speaker 1>par for the course of how fucked up the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing has been. But I think the science is not

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<v Speaker 1>People just don't know. Fully. I read something scary yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, oh, also, maybe it's transmitted by breathing

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<v Speaker 1>and talking. I mean, it seems clear that it is

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<v Speaker 1>because of the choir. The choir thing is I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad for all those people there but I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, even without having read a single article about this,

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<v Speaker 1>a choir seems like the worst place to go in

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<v Speaker 1>a pandemic because everybody's breathing loudly, which is also known

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<v Speaker 1>as singing. Right, well, I think if they had just

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<v Speaker 1>come out with stronger advice about this in the first place,

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<v Speaker 1>if they had heard on the side of scaring people

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<v Speaker 1>more rather than trying to make this insane terrifying thing

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<v Speaker 1>seemed less scary, which is like, didn't work at all. Um, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we just we should have We should have looked at

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<v Speaker 1>what other countries did that were successful. My mom is

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<v Speaker 1>in a choir, and she they canceled her choir practice

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<v Speaker 1>pretty early on. I feel like it was around that

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<v Speaker 1>May eleventh time or Marchial line time or something. But

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<v Speaker 1>they've been doing zoom meetings, Like I don't think they've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing actual practice, but I think they've just been

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<v Speaker 1>doing it as a meet up because it was like

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<v Speaker 1>such a big kind of social gathering too, so which

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<v Speaker 1>is good. But shout out to Emily's mom, big supporter

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<v Speaker 1>of the pods. Listening right now, all gardening man. My

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<v Speaker 1>parents told me they talked to my great aunt who's

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<v Speaker 1>like the last of the sort of Holocaust escapees and

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<v Speaker 1>my family. Her name is Friedle. She's awesome and she

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<v Speaker 1>is in like a retirement home where they had to

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<v Speaker 1>isolate everybody, you know. But they said they talked to

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and that she was like I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So that to me has been like, well, if she

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<v Speaker 1>can like be okay about it, you know, she's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>lived through worse. So yeah, that's the attitude I'm taking

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<v Speaker 1>to it. I am this is this is slightly off topic,

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<v Speaker 1>but I watched it's on Criterion. I watched UM Cover

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<v Speaker 1>Girl last night. It's like this Charles vied Or Technicolor

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<v Speaker 1>musical at Jen Kelly and Rita Hayworth in it, like

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<v Speaker 1>perfect fluff. I was taking your que Molly of just watching.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I've been doing. It's watching musical TCM, not

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<v Speaker 1>for dark too. It's always fair Weather. It's actually really cynical,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's still like cynical about television, so it actually

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<v Speaker 1>feels on brand. Well. Cover Girl is like a ninety four,

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<v Speaker 1>like right, you know, Peak Warriors, um musical, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>this whole number in it that I posted on my

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<v Speaker 1>Twitter about rationing that I just thought was so charming

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<v Speaker 1>because the attitude was like, yeah, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know, it sucks stating in and everything and

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<v Speaker 1>like not being able to get certain things. But if

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<v Speaker 1>I think about doing that for like like four years

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<v Speaker 1>or however long that the war effort was truly underway

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<v Speaker 1>and like you know, on the home front. I know

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<v Speaker 1>all these words because I had the Molly doll, the

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<v Speaker 1>American goal doll, which about but like a Victory gardens

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<v Speaker 1>she had. I always was mad that her name was

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<v Speaker 1>Molly because I thought she was the most boring one,

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<v Speaker 1>the best funky, and she was. She always had a scheme.

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<v Speaker 1>She always like, if your name is Molly and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like a nerd with glasses, you don't want Molly to glasses. See.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was the coolest because she had the

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<v Speaker 1>glass the glasses. It was so cool to have a

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<v Speaker 1>doll with glasses and they were really cool wire rimmed glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you guys had the doll. Oh. I

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<v Speaker 1>had like so many of the dolls, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>really went for Yeah, I think I had three. I

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<v Speaker 1>had Felicity, Addie and Molly. And now I'm also showing

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<v Speaker 1>how uncool I am that I was totally getting these

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<v Speaker 1>dolls when I was like older than I collectors items. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, this was like for playing with dolls, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had their beds and stuff. And then my mom

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<v Speaker 1>saved them and sent them to me for my daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>and she made this big thing like, don't give her

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<v Speaker 1>Molly until she's old enough to appreciate. Was like, but

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<v Speaker 1>the other ones, it doesn't matter. She was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>the Molly dolls the best doll. I didn't own the dolls,

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<v Speaker 1>but I remember like pouring over the catalog I did,

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<v Speaker 1>just like all the tiny stuff and looking at it

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<v Speaker 1>and reading the books. I've also been thinking that the

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<v Speaker 1>Francis Hodgden Burnett books, which are like Victorian asceticism. Little

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<v Speaker 1>Princess is like a very good, get you through hard

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<v Speaker 1>times book because it's all all about just like going

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<v Speaker 1>from having a lot of stuff to having nothing and

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<v Speaker 1>being okay about it. Yeah. I was. I was really

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<v Speaker 1>really into a Little Princess. Yeah, before the movie, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I was in a musical Little Princess, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, twelve, can I recommend a Very Nightcall movie

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<v Speaker 1>also that I watched on t C M M. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>married a Witch starring Veronica Lake and Frederick March directed

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<v Speaker 1>I Renee Claire. It is like very much a proto

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<v Speaker 1>love which type movie? Um, and Emily, I saw you

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<v Speaker 1>reposted Annabeller posting that you can substitute eggs with blood

0:25:12.920 --> 0:25:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to make a cake. Annabyll on to know more nice

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:24.439
<v Speaker 1>looking red velvet cake. Yeah, I'm married. I'm married. A

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Witch is like it's just for onical because this like

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<v Speaker 1>sassy like witch who just you know, does a spell

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<v Speaker 1>on this guy to make her fall in love with her,

0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:36.720
<v Speaker 1>make hi fall in love with her. But it's got

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of weird sight gags. I just enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just silly nice. Yeah, we keep meaning to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this every week, but I think we keep forgetting.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know what you guys are cooking, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, for the pandemic cooking update, because every time

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about scary stuff um with regards to the pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we need to take a minute. If

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything you're eating to share, definitely, Um. I well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I shared this on the pod, but I've

0:26:06.000 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 1>been going to India Sweets and Spices, which is like

0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:13.120
<v Speaker 1>a local Indian grocery here an outwater village and they're

0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 1>really sweet there. They've got you know, everything that you

0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:19.959
<v Speaker 1>need to make a ship ton of Indian food, just

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:22.600
<v Speaker 1>like mass amounts. So I think the best thing I

0:26:22.640 --> 0:26:26.639
<v Speaker 1>made recently was some doll um with a modified recipe

0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:31.359
<v Speaker 1>from Chowhound. So if you want to look that up, um, yeah,

0:26:31.359 --> 0:26:33.119
<v Speaker 1>but I have, like, I mean, I had everything to

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:35.440
<v Speaker 1>like really do it. So I had like the key,

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 1>I had all the spices and everything, and it was

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:43.520
<v Speaker 1>really really good. So that sounds amazing. Yea um a

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:47.720
<v Speaker 1>little I Molly gave me potatoes. I did a barter.

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 1>It was really fun Um. I was nervous that I

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:55.280
<v Speaker 1>had like breathed into the air and it was hanging

0:26:55.280 --> 0:26:58.160
<v Speaker 1>there while you retrieved. It was so funny, I said.

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:00.280
<v Speaker 1>It was like the Jackie Brown drop off. But it

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:02.600
<v Speaker 1>was like test standing at her front door with her

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:04.880
<v Speaker 1>kids and like me standing at the curb, and then

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:07.040
<v Speaker 1>like I came forward and dropped the bag and then

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:12.439
<v Speaker 1>ran back, and then she came forward and it almost

0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>went over the line. And TOUCH was like, I mean, no,

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 1>he can be you know, the social distancing. Explaining that

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>to like, you know, in particular, my seven year old

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:24.200
<v Speaker 1>has been a challenge because like on walks he'll be like, oh,

0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 1>look a dog, and I'm like, no, I have been

0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:33.439
<v Speaker 1>having so much fun with these potatoes. I could not

0:27:33.520 --> 0:27:38.360
<v Speaker 1>find potatoes for some reason, and then Molly gave me some, um,

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:40.639
<v Speaker 1>and I think they're like it's one of those weird

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:42.879
<v Speaker 1>things where it just depends on when you go to

0:27:42.960 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 1>the market. I guess, like I I go sometimes and

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 1>they have like no milk, no eggs, and then the

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:51.040
<v Speaker 1>next time I go they have like no poultry. Um.

0:27:51.119 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I was having trouble finding potatoes and then

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Molly gave me potatoes and it made a really good

0:27:55.560 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>hash with Friday so good, so thank you. I found

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:04.320
<v Speaker 1>at Cafe Tropical is running a grocery um saying get

0:28:04.320 --> 0:28:07.480
<v Speaker 1>eggs there. So oh, but did you guys hear that

0:28:07.520 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>they may be stopping restaurants from doing that. It makes

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:16.080
<v Speaker 1>me so upset. It's because I read that. Yeah, Barbara Ferrer,

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>who is I think the county health person um has

0:28:19.800 --> 0:28:22.760
<v Speaker 1>said that because they don't have grocery licenses, they're going

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 1>to start cracking down on restaurants that are selling groceries,

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:30.919
<v Speaker 1>which has been one of the best things most like

0:28:31.000 --> 0:28:35.240
<v Speaker 1>resourceful and helpful. That's done. So they're not gonna stop

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:38.239
<v Speaker 1>grocery stop restaurants from letting you pick up delivery just

0:28:38.320 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 1>from buying groceries there. It's going to be that they

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 1>have to be preparing, like they have to be selling

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>food that's prepared as opposed to selling grocery items are panting.

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:52.400
<v Speaker 1>They need to they need to make a temporary suspension

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.920
<v Speaker 1>of that law because that's going to be so much waste.

0:28:54.960 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>Then it's so much waste, and it's so it's the

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 1>only way that a lot of these small businesses are

0:29:00.040 --> 0:29:03.120
<v Speaker 1>staying that float. Well. It's funny because I've seen people

0:29:03.160 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 1>being like, look at how much like milk is getting

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:10.720
<v Speaker 1>wasted because it can't be like all used or delivered correctly. Basically,

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 1>it was just about how there's like all this food

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 1>waste because the supply chain being sucked up. But then

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>people were like, hey, I've got some news for you

0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 1>about grocery stores, like they all do that every day.

0:29:23.280 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>I keep thinking that if there's one thing that we

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 1>can continue to take with us from this, it would

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:33.400
<v Speaker 1>have been having you know, small like independently owned restaurants

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:37.120
<v Speaker 1>being able to sell groceries and pantry items instead of

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:39.560
<v Speaker 1>having people just rely on grocery stores. It seems like

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:43.800
<v Speaker 1>such a mutually beneficial and sustainable thing to do. So

0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:45.680
<v Speaker 1>it was I was shocked. I mean, I was like,

0:29:45.720 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 1>grocery lobby is cracking down. They closed down the Brentwood

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:55.520
<v Speaker 1>Farmers Market because Katherine Schwarzenegger complained. Yes, so Katherine Schwarzenegger

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:58.840
<v Speaker 1>get on the phone with Dr Ferrer, please, I'm just like,

0:29:59.400 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I just do. It made me kind of mad because

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like cool, cool, like the mayor of l

0:30:04.120 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 1>a like listens when like a famous person speaks, he

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 1>does something about something. But of course so frustrating. I mean,

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>this whole thing is every so often you're just like

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:21.400
<v Speaker 1>nobody smart is in charge. That's the problem, Like the

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 1>dumbest person in the world is in charge of the country.

0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 1>But also like locally, most people are kind of showing

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 1>their ass. It seems like especially I saw this really bummer.

0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Not to make it a bummer again, but there was

0:30:36.720 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 1>like a picture in Las Vegas of how they put

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>all the unhoused people in a parking lot where people

0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 1>were six ft apart in a parking lot with like

0:30:43.680 --> 0:30:47.360
<v Speaker 1>no shelter, and it was like, hey, guess what, all

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:50.960
<v Speaker 1>the hotels are empty. Yeah, it doesn't make any sense.

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it only makes sense if you only care

0:30:55.280 --> 0:31:00.040
<v Speaker 1>about I don't even doesn't make sense. But I've and

0:31:00.200 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 1>cooking a lot. Love to cook great way to get

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 1>my mind off things. I use some of those potatoes.

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 1>I have a whole sack of potatoes, made some baked potatoes,

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:12.080
<v Speaker 1>made a pasta salad last night just because I was

0:31:12.120 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>stressed and needed a task sad. I finally got some

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.719
<v Speaker 1>produce on the last trip. I was kind of just

0:31:20.760 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 1>all eating you know, can stuff and beans, and it

0:31:23.520 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 1>was funny because I had been eating like I guess healthy. Uh.

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:30.200
<v Speaker 1>And then one night I just like got some fucking

0:31:30.360 --> 0:31:32.840
<v Speaker 1>ruffles or something and I was like it was like

0:31:32.880 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 1>a narcotic. It was crazy. I was like, Oh, turns

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 1>out that like my body still is like mmmm delicious chemical. Um. Well,

0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I know that you don't have quite the same effect.

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 1>But if you guys need any beans, hit me up.

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I actually have a surplus of beans now after having

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:56.560
<v Speaker 1>been a I'm covered on beans. It's more like replenishing

0:31:56.920 --> 0:32:01.600
<v Speaker 1>fresh stuff that is making me stressed out now, Like yeah,

0:32:01.600 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>well I took I took a page out of Molly's

0:32:03.920 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>parents book and put my parsley. I put all of

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:09.280
<v Speaker 1>my herbs and vases. Um, and it works better with

0:32:09.320 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 1>some than others. I got green onions, but they didn't

0:32:11.360 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 1>have their roots. Um, they were in like a produce

0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:16.680
<v Speaker 1>basket from Little Dom's. Actually, speaking of restaurants that are

0:32:16.720 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 1>doing grocery deliveries, they've been doing great produce boxes and stuff. Um,

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:24.840
<v Speaker 1>but my parsley is going great base style And that

0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 1>was totally ripped from Molly's mom's Instagram shout out to

0:32:28.520 --> 0:32:32.520
<v Speaker 1>my parents. My parents are also hippies, so they're like chilling,

0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 1>and my mom said something nice about like, oh maybe

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:38.680
<v Speaker 1>like the hippie ethos will come back more like people

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:42.160
<v Speaker 1>will become less materialistic because of this. It's like, I

0:32:42.200 --> 0:32:45.680
<v Speaker 1>hope so, but for now, back to plastic surgery month

0:32:46.440 --> 0:33:08.920
<v Speaker 1>after a quick break Welcome Back. We were going to

0:33:09.040 --> 0:33:11.719
<v Speaker 1>kick off this segment with a night email from Emily,

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:15.719
<v Speaker 1>not me, I can't yes, not not Emily Oshida, other Emily.

0:33:16.240 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 1>I can't recall who first mentioned it, but someone once

0:33:19.080 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 1>pointed out that Bella Hadid, who clearly had a significant

0:33:22.000 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 1>amount of facial work done, almost certainly used Carla Bruney's

0:33:25.720 --> 0:33:28.600
<v Speaker 1>face as a model for her facial re sculpting. It's

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 1>especially apparent if you make a side by side comparison

0:33:31.600 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 1>of pre surgery Bella, young Carla Bruney and then post

0:33:34.840 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 1>surgery Bella. It's also impossible not to see it once

0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 1>you've noticed it. Lots of lum from a longtime fan,

0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Emily Um, this is a very striking resemblance. Guys, Yeah,

0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>I went through a she looks exactly like Carla Bruney. Also,

0:33:50.800 --> 0:33:53.960
<v Speaker 1>my friend Dina Rankin was supposed to call it Unkno,

0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>she did, but she wanted to report robbery, which is

0:33:58.000 --> 0:34:01.080
<v Speaker 1>that Bella had stole her face, which is also true

0:34:01.080 --> 0:34:04.280
<v Speaker 1>because she naturally does look like Bellahodie looks like now.

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:07.640
<v Speaker 1>It's like one thing if she kind of was like,

0:34:07.640 --> 0:34:09.840
<v Speaker 1>oh I like her nose or whatever, I'd like to

0:34:10.120 --> 0:34:13.000
<v Speaker 1>I'd like that nose. But like it seems she's met.

0:34:13.080 --> 0:34:16.240
<v Speaker 1>They've met several times, like I think Bella has called

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Carla like her soul twin. Um. She met for the

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:25.040
<v Speaker 1>first they met for the first time and can last year,

0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 1>and it feels like every single picture that they take together,

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 1>it just genuinely feels like something from a single white

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:37.480
<v Speaker 1>female esque movie. Like it feels like she is actually

0:34:37.480 --> 0:34:40.320
<v Speaker 1>trying to steal her face and her identity in the process.

0:34:40.360 --> 0:34:45.520
<v Speaker 1>It's very odd, right, I Mean, the problem with this

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:48.680
<v Speaker 1>type of plastic surgery is that first of all, you

0:34:48.719 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 1>have to have a lot of money to do it,

0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:57.880
<v Speaker 1>so that's the main problem. But I also like Bella Hadid.

0:34:58.000 --> 0:35:00.799
<v Speaker 1>She comes up a lot on slub New sleb face

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:05.000
<v Speaker 1>um as somebody who photoshops her pictures. Still, even though

0:35:05.040 --> 0:35:07.359
<v Speaker 1>she keeps changing her face a little bit, she also

0:35:07.520 --> 0:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>denies that she changes her face, which is fine. I

0:35:10.480 --> 0:35:13.359
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's also the Kardashian strategy. They're just like

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:17.400
<v Speaker 1>say they didn't get anything done, but you know, photos

0:35:17.400 --> 0:35:21.960
<v Speaker 1>tell a different story. Yeah, And can you explain what

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>what celeb faces cleb faces and Instagram account that compares

0:35:28.160 --> 0:35:31.839
<v Speaker 1>people's candid photos to the versions they put on Instagram

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:36.399
<v Speaker 1>that are photoshopped. It's super interesting because you find out

0:35:36.400 --> 0:35:39.360
<v Speaker 1>that all of the big influencers and like basically every

0:35:39.400 --> 0:35:42.800
<v Speaker 1>famous beautiful person still photoshops their pictures and do oblivion.

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:46.839
<v Speaker 1>And there's a really funny one if Bella Hadid from

0:35:46.840 --> 0:35:49.320
<v Speaker 1>the other day where somebody photoshopped in like a patch

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:52.879
<v Speaker 1>of grass and it looks like net art because it's

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:58.440
<v Speaker 1>like very badly photoshopped in I'm gonna find this. It's like,

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 1>isn't it a lot? Or it's like an invite only

0:36:01.200 --> 0:36:02.960
<v Speaker 1>account or it used to be. Yeah, but there's a

0:36:03.000 --> 0:36:05.600
<v Speaker 1>bunch of them. It's a whole cottage industry now of

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:08.279
<v Speaker 1>people that post, you know, here's a candid photo of

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:11.080
<v Speaker 1>this person, and here's what they look like online. Because yeah,

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 1>one of the things about the new plastic surgery is

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:17.480
<v Speaker 1>that it is so much based on like what will

0:36:17.520 --> 0:36:21.800
<v Speaker 1>it look like on a camera phone, you know, And

0:36:23.560 --> 0:36:26.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot of these people do end up getting basically

0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:33.279
<v Speaker 1>the exact same face. And Bella Hadid got Carla Bruni's face,

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>and with that, I have to wonder because her mom.

0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:39.120
<v Speaker 1>The thing about the Hadid sisters also is that their

0:36:39.160 --> 0:36:43.239
<v Speaker 1>mom is like a manager, a model manager. For those

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>yo not Hadid anymore. Yeah, for those who watched Real

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Housewives of Beverly Hills, she was like a super intense,

0:36:51.680 --> 0:36:56.640
<v Speaker 1>awful um manager to them. She told she couldn't have

0:36:56.640 --> 0:36:59.319
<v Speaker 1>a slice of cake. She said this thing about like,

0:36:59.320 --> 0:37:01.840
<v Speaker 1>if you're hungry, just eat four almonds, which like a

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of famous people say, And then I found out

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:07.800
<v Speaker 1>it comes from some super famous wellness retreat that people

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 1>all go to. Weird, Yeah, where they starts, I forget,

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 1>but it's like old school. It's like the Door or something.

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 1>It's some detox wellness thing, but like one of the

0:37:21.000 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 1>things that they put you on, like a cleanse of

0:37:23.040 --> 0:37:29.279
<v Speaker 1>where you just like drink juice and eat almonds. But um,

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if Yolanda was obsessed with Carla Bruney. Yeah,

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:38.000
<v Speaker 1>it's such a weird pull for somebody. Bella's h That's

0:37:38.040 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 1>the weird thing about it. I'm like, why would she

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:44.080
<v Speaker 1>be obsessed with Carla Bruney? Um, Like, if she was

0:37:44.120 --> 0:37:47.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna go to a nineties model, you would just assume

0:37:48.000 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 1>she would go for one of like your classic supers,

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:53.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it would make more sense if she

0:37:53.960 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 1>was trying to morph into Cindy Crawford or something. But

0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:00.920
<v Speaker 1>don't you think that she that it probably had something

0:38:00.960 --> 0:38:04.759
<v Speaker 1>to do with her pre surgery. See like getting that

0:38:04.960 --> 0:38:07.840
<v Speaker 1>comparison maybe once or twice and just being like, oh,

0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:12.319
<v Speaker 1>if I look, if someone thinks nothing like when you

0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:15.360
<v Speaker 1>look at it, I look, but I still think that,

0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Like you don't just random. I don't I don't think

0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:21.560
<v Speaker 1>that it was completely like, I mean, it's hard for

0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 1>me to believe she was a huge carl La Bruney

0:38:23.640 --> 0:38:26.120
<v Speaker 1>fan or something like that and was like I'll steal

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:28.919
<v Speaker 1>her face. I think it was probably that they were

0:38:29.000 --> 0:38:32.320
<v Speaker 1>talking about things that they could do and maybe going

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:35.120
<v Speaker 1>like that. I mean, now I'm going totally crazy and

0:38:35.160 --> 0:38:39.840
<v Speaker 1>picturing a plastic surgeon who's like really an artist or something,

0:38:39.920 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>being like like showing a portfolio and being like, I

0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:45.440
<v Speaker 1>think we could do a really good Carla Bruney. That

0:38:46.160 --> 0:38:51.320
<v Speaker 1>it's possible, right, it's picture to the salon. Yeah, I

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:54.640
<v Speaker 1>could see Yolanda doing that too. People do do that though.

0:38:54.680 --> 0:38:57.520
<v Speaker 1>Now apparently they do bring pictures from Instagram to their

0:38:57.520 --> 0:38:59.480
<v Speaker 1>plastic surgeons and are like, make me look like that.

0:38:59.680 --> 0:39:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Some US exurgions are like, I can't doesn't exist. Yeah.

0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I think the thing that's always most striking from celeb

0:39:08.760 --> 0:39:12.319
<v Speaker 1>face and and those kinds of accounts is that it's

0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:16.319
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily um like how things have been doctored, but

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:19.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just like it's like the quality of people's skin

0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:22.000
<v Speaker 1>is so tell tale when they've had stuff done. It's

0:39:22.000 --> 0:39:24.400
<v Speaker 1>like that really kind of like there's a sheen to

0:39:24.560 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>it that where it's just like that that stands out

0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:31.399
<v Speaker 1>almost as much as the work itself, where it's just

0:39:31.480 --> 0:39:36.479
<v Speaker 1>like this, there's something that something unnatural has been going

0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:40.400
<v Speaker 1>on to read the surface here, it's all right, um,

0:39:40.440 --> 0:39:44.920
<v Speaker 1>but you see that with her and with an extent too,

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. It's just kind of breaks my

0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:50.960
<v Speaker 1>brain a little bit because the whole thing is I'm like, well, like,

0:39:51.000 --> 0:39:53.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, what are you supposed to tell people, like,

0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:57.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, just develop a good personality, work really hard,

0:39:58.000 --> 0:40:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and you know you'll catch up to these people and

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like, well that's not true, like yeah, getting it's

0:40:06.600 --> 0:40:09.360
<v Speaker 1>like it is giving them current like more currency in

0:40:09.400 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 1>the world. And there was like a very scary to

0:40:12.239 --> 0:40:14.920
<v Speaker 1>me thing I saw emerge online where people were like

0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:17.839
<v Speaker 1>there's something before people were like there's no such thing

0:40:17.880 --> 0:40:22.960
<v Speaker 1>as ugly, like just poor, oh yeah definitely, Like well

0:40:23.040 --> 0:40:27.279
<v Speaker 1>that's your problem. It's like anybody can like anybody can

0:40:27.360 --> 0:40:31.160
<v Speaker 1>like exercise and learn how to put on makeup. You know,

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:35.080
<v Speaker 1>there's like things people that want to do the self

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:39.359
<v Speaker 1>improvement can do to make themselves look better if that's

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:42.760
<v Speaker 1>what you care about. But like you won't be able

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 1>to compete with somebody who just has like endless reserves

0:40:45.360 --> 0:40:48.040
<v Speaker 1>of money, and that's their whole jobs working on being hot.

0:40:48.239 --> 0:40:51.560
<v Speaker 1>And that's what the shift was when younger people started

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:55.600
<v Speaker 1>getting like significant work done, was that it wasn't about

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:59.479
<v Speaker 1>youth anymore. It was about money. Um right, totally because

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:01.800
<v Speaker 1>because pole that are young, that have a lot of botox,

0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:05.040
<v Speaker 1>it like makes you perversely look older in my mind,

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:07.560
<v Speaker 1>because it makes people because people who have a lot

0:41:07.560 --> 0:41:11.400
<v Speaker 1>of botox, I'll have that same sort of like porcelain

0:41:11.520 --> 0:41:15.399
<v Speaker 1>doll forehead thing. It's it's just also, I mean, we're

0:41:15.520 --> 0:41:18.800
<v Speaker 1>we associate that, we associate that kind of look with

0:41:18.880 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 1>other people. Historically, older people got exactly do you think

0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:25.799
<v Speaker 1>younger people don't? They just don't know. No. I see

0:41:25.800 --> 0:41:28.920
<v Speaker 1>it all the time when when someone I know gets

0:41:29.280 --> 0:41:32.359
<v Speaker 1>a significant amount of work done, I think it makes

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:34.880
<v Speaker 1>them look a lot older. But I also know that

0:41:34.920 --> 0:41:37.479
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter at all what I think of the face.

0:41:37.680 --> 0:41:40.799
<v Speaker 1>It's like everybody like, it's just it's no longer to

0:41:40.960 --> 0:41:44.399
<v Speaker 1>look more like a slider scale towards beauty or youth

0:41:44.480 --> 0:41:46.239
<v Speaker 1>or something. It's more like to look like I had

0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:51.680
<v Speaker 1>the work done to look like yeah, um, I mean

0:41:51.719 --> 0:41:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's the case all the time, but

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:56.279
<v Speaker 1>I think when when it comes to like influencers and

0:41:56.320 --> 0:41:58.640
<v Speaker 1>the most visible people who are getting this work done,

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 1>I think I think that that is that's more that

0:42:02.440 --> 0:42:05.080
<v Speaker 1>and it's I think for people who like people like

0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.960
<v Speaker 1>us who came up more in the nineties or something

0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:12.320
<v Speaker 1>and like had I think a more in some ways

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>less diverse, but in other ways more diverse ideas of

0:42:15.200 --> 0:42:18.000
<v Speaker 1>like what could be beautiful in terms of like beautiful

0:42:18.040 --> 0:42:21.719
<v Speaker 1>celebrities and stuff. It's very odd, like it's just it's

0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:24.960
<v Speaker 1>very the same too. I don't know. I feel like

0:42:25.080 --> 0:42:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I was just as I felt just as afraid of

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:32.759
<v Speaker 1>like girls and Delia's catalogs, you know, just like there

0:42:32.880 --> 0:42:35.040
<v Speaker 1>was still this thing of like, oh, well, some people

0:42:35.080 --> 0:42:38.640
<v Speaker 1>are just like naturally better looking than others, and like

0:42:38.719 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 1>what can be done about that? Too? Bad? Our whole

0:42:41.160 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 1>like society is constructed about around telling women this is

0:42:45.120 --> 0:42:49.600
<v Speaker 1>their only quality. Yeah. You know, what I always think

0:42:49.760 --> 0:42:53.239
<v Speaker 1>is kind of interesting is like wondering if people get

0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:57.880
<v Speaker 1>plastic surgery young so that they don't have to see

0:42:58.320 --> 0:43:01.520
<v Speaker 1>how they age naturally. Like it's you could even maybe

0:43:01.560 --> 0:43:04.640
<v Speaker 1>say that they don't care whether it prematurely ages them

0:43:04.640 --> 0:43:07.960
<v Speaker 1>in a way, because it takes away their body's capacity

0:43:08.040 --> 0:43:10.839
<v Speaker 1>to show how it naturally would age, so it kind

0:43:10.840 --> 0:43:14.200
<v Speaker 1>of gives them control, you know that. It is like

0:43:14.520 --> 0:43:17.560
<v Speaker 1>always kind of alarming when you get to like I

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:20.080
<v Speaker 1>would say it probably for me around the age of

0:43:20.120 --> 0:43:23.120
<v Speaker 1>thirty five, So just about two years ago, I was like, wow,

0:43:23.560 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>totally different texture of my skin. Like it it went

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 1>from like the skin of a person who was this

0:43:30.280 --> 0:43:32.319
<v Speaker 1>age to the skin of a person who was a

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:34.200
<v Speaker 1>different agent. And a lot of that's because I live

0:43:34.360 --> 0:43:36.320
<v Speaker 1>in l A and I get a lot of sun

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:39.080
<v Speaker 1>and you know whatever. And I didn't freak out about

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:41.719
<v Speaker 1>it so much as I just kind of observed that, oh,

0:43:41.760 --> 0:43:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I can see how I'll be in ten years, Like

0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:46.879
<v Speaker 1>I can kind of predict the trajectory. So I think

0:43:46.880 --> 0:43:48.919
<v Speaker 1>in a way, it can also just feel like you're

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:53.879
<v Speaker 1>taking back control and how you look becomes almost secondary

0:43:53.920 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 1>to just feeling as if you've regained control of something.

0:43:58.160 --> 0:44:01.520
<v Speaker 1>That that's the thing. It's like, there's a that's the

0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:04.200
<v Speaker 1>point to which I'm like, Also, it's fine to get

0:44:04.239 --> 0:44:09.600
<v Speaker 1>plastic surgery, you know, like, even like if it's for

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 1>you in some way. Well it's nobody's business. I mean,

0:44:13.880 --> 0:44:18.640
<v Speaker 1>it's nobody's business, you know. Especially people were like obviously

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:20.960
<v Speaker 1>if it's like an expression of your gender identity, like

0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:23.799
<v Speaker 1>that is fine, and I have no issues about It's

0:44:23.960 --> 0:44:25.680
<v Speaker 1>the only time I ever get stressed about it is

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:30.440
<v Speaker 1>when I feel like it's like women trying to achieve

0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:34.320
<v Speaker 1>something that's unachievable. Well, yeah, I mean it's there's like

0:44:34.360 --> 0:44:36.880
<v Speaker 1>a big debate about whether or not it's feminist to

0:44:37.000 --> 0:44:40.560
<v Speaker 1>do it's. I don't I think it's pretty. I mean

0:44:40.680 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 1>I think it's not even on that like line of thinking.

0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 1>It's like not, that's not there. There was a whole

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 1>thing of like choice feminism that was like any choice

0:44:50.239 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 1>a woman makes this feminist, and I do think of

0:44:52.360 --> 0:44:54.360
<v Speaker 1>it because I was thinking about like Gwen It Paltrow's

0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:57.880
<v Speaker 1>whole thing is like, you know, I eat so healthy

0:44:57.920 --> 0:45:01.040
<v Speaker 1>that it's like shaming other people for being not as

0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 1>like healthy and full of energy as me. But also

0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:08.080
<v Speaker 1>like I get like botulism put in my face, you know,

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:12.399
<v Speaker 1>like not it's not the old hippie ethos in any way,

0:45:12.480 --> 0:45:15.840
<v Speaker 1>because it's like I don't know, it has nothing to

0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:19.319
<v Speaker 1>do with like also I'm gonna just like let my

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:22.239
<v Speaker 1>hair grow gray and like see what I look like. Well,

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I think that's like the I think there are kind

0:45:24.680 --> 0:45:27.440
<v Speaker 1>of two poles of how you can think about this stuff.

0:45:28.000 --> 0:45:30.120
<v Speaker 1>And there's like one pole is like what I would

0:45:30.160 --> 0:45:34.239
<v Speaker 1>call like the glow, like when people don't talk about

0:45:34.280 --> 0:45:36.719
<v Speaker 1>actually getting work done, but they're just like like you

0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 1>just want to nash a natural fresh glow and you

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 1>want to look like you didn't do anything, and like

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:45.240
<v Speaker 1>that you just starre Gwyneth Paltrow and you just drink

0:45:45.320 --> 0:45:48.400
<v Speaker 1>juice all day and your skin just radiates youth and

0:45:48.440 --> 0:45:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you don't get wrinkles because of that. And then there's

0:45:51.320 --> 0:45:54.600
<v Speaker 1>like the Kardashians poll, which is just like, yeah, I

0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:57.520
<v Speaker 1>bought my lips, Like that's what I did. I made

0:45:57.520 --> 0:46:00.640
<v Speaker 1>a choice that I caught them, and I I feel

0:46:00.680 --> 0:46:03.520
<v Speaker 1>like and I wouldn't put a value judgment on either

0:46:03.560 --> 0:46:06.440
<v Speaker 1>of those. I just think that there's like there's just

0:46:06.480 --> 0:46:08.920
<v Speaker 1>like a spectrum of how people approach it where it's

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:11.520
<v Speaker 1>like they're both expressing the same thing, which is like

0:46:11.640 --> 0:46:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I have money and that's what we're saying. It's like

0:46:14.000 --> 0:46:16.359
<v Speaker 1>that's all it really is a signifier of It's like

0:46:16.440 --> 0:46:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I can afford to do this. Yeah, I think that

0:46:19.680 --> 0:46:23.759
<v Speaker 1>that's sort of like especially like talking about this stuff now,

0:46:23.960 --> 0:46:26.480
<v Speaker 1>That's like what I keep coming back to. It's just that,

0:46:27.040 --> 0:46:31.560
<v Speaker 1>especially when we think about like um like fictional depictions

0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:35.400
<v Speaker 1>of procedures and stuff, it's like there's so much sci

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:40.239
<v Speaker 1>fi or like futurefi um stuff where it's just like

0:46:40.719 --> 0:46:46.120
<v Speaker 1>the decadent rich just like doing expressive things to their

0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:50.200
<v Speaker 1>faces because they yeah, and like a lot of it too.

0:46:50.239 --> 0:46:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's like this very like pitiful portrayal

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:56.440
<v Speaker 1>like via men of what they think it's like to

0:46:56.560 --> 0:46:59.560
<v Speaker 1>be an aging woman, you know, like the Brazil scene

0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like there's a little or sunset boulevard, you know,

0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:05.879
<v Speaker 1>just like, oh, what could be more tragic than being

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:08.400
<v Speaker 1>a woman who used to be hot and like can't

0:47:08.480 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>be again. And you know, first of all, it's like

0:47:11.480 --> 0:47:18.200
<v Speaker 1>remember Dousman is hot? Yeah, probably like thirty five. If

0:47:18.239 --> 0:47:21.879
<v Speaker 1>you learned anything from Valley of Adults, Yes, yeah, yeah,

0:47:22.080 --> 0:47:24.479
<v Speaker 1>but I did. I wrote something for the newsletter about

0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:27.920
<v Speaker 1>Dean Martin's nose job and some of the other famous

0:47:28.080 --> 0:47:31.040
<v Speaker 1>men who got procedures that I had no idea about,

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:33.759
<v Speaker 1>but like John Wayne got a facelift um because it's

0:47:33.760 --> 0:47:36.359
<v Speaker 1>not even in the vocabulary. You know, Like obviously all

0:47:36.400 --> 0:47:39.120
<v Speaker 1>the A list male actors get work done, but to

0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 1>admit they're getting work done and dying their hair like

0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:44.120
<v Speaker 1>isn't masculine. So like none of them ever admit to it.

0:47:45.160 --> 0:47:47.839
<v Speaker 1>And it's not sad even if it was like out there,

0:47:47.880 --> 0:47:50.440
<v Speaker 1>it's not sad in the same way that like a

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:53.239
<v Speaker 1>woman trying to like freshen her face so that she

0:47:53.320 --> 0:47:57.600
<v Speaker 1>can continue to get work it's like sad. I don't know, Yeah,

0:47:58.280 --> 0:48:00.200
<v Speaker 1>And I like that Jane Fonda said she you was

0:48:00.239 --> 0:48:03.759
<v Speaker 1>going to stop getting work done because like it's just

0:48:04.480 --> 0:48:07.000
<v Speaker 1>for me. With somebody like Jane Fonda, You're like you

0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:11.480
<v Speaker 1>would have looked amazing just anyway because you're Jane Fonda.

0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:15.400
<v Speaker 1>But I understand also how somebody who was like so

0:48:16.000 --> 0:48:20.920
<v Speaker 1>hot and you know, sold stuff, they had a lot

0:48:21.000 --> 0:48:26.960
<v Speaker 1>of self esteem issues anyway, like without having Yeah, I

0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:29.520
<v Speaker 1>think the issue is it like praise on people with

0:48:29.680 --> 0:48:35.040
<v Speaker 1>low self esteem, you know, So like when somebody gets

0:48:35.080 --> 0:48:36.719
<v Speaker 1>work done because they think it's going to like fill

0:48:36.760 --> 0:48:39.800
<v Speaker 1>a hole in their soul, you just know that it

0:48:39.880 --> 0:48:43.440
<v Speaker 1>won't probably, But when somebody does work done for like

0:48:43.520 --> 0:48:46.279
<v Speaker 1>a financial reason, Like if you're a stripper and you

0:48:46.400 --> 0:48:49.320
<v Speaker 1>want to make more money by getting bigger boobs, like

0:48:49.480 --> 0:48:53.640
<v Speaker 1>that is great, that makes perfect sense to me. That's like, yeah,

0:48:53.719 --> 0:48:55.880
<v Speaker 1>it depends on how you. I think, like everybody, just

0:48:56.640 --> 0:49:00.520
<v Speaker 1>everybody's body has a different used to that. And I

0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:05.400
<v Speaker 1>think that's why it's hard to judge somebody getting something

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:08.239
<v Speaker 1>done versus another person getting something done. Is that like

0:49:08.920 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm I don't use my body in that way or

0:49:12.640 --> 0:49:14.680
<v Speaker 1>rely on it for that thing. I'm not a person

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:16.799
<v Speaker 1>in front of a camera. I'm not a person who

0:49:17.239 --> 0:49:20.080
<v Speaker 1>dances for money or anything like that. So like it's

0:49:20.120 --> 0:49:24.520
<v Speaker 1>not it's not something that I would do. Therefore, it's

0:49:24.560 --> 0:49:28.320
<v Speaker 1>not like my my opinion of whether or not I

0:49:28.400 --> 0:49:30.479
<v Speaker 1>would do it has nothing to do with like whether

0:49:30.640 --> 0:49:34.080
<v Speaker 1>or not somebody else should I don't know exactly. Turns

0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:36.920
<v Speaker 1>into like some judge ship is the problem, you know,

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:41.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like it's because it threatens people. I think. I

0:49:41.320 --> 0:49:44.840
<v Speaker 1>also think and this is like this is something I

0:49:44.880 --> 0:49:46.800
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'll keep coming back to. Is that I

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:51.279
<v Speaker 1>think that as much as um, you know, whatever is

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:55.400
<v Speaker 1>trendy right now, having jubiterm lips or getting button plants

0:49:55.480 --> 0:50:00.480
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, like however much that's prized or or idea realized.

0:50:01.040 --> 0:50:03.959
<v Speaker 1>I do also think the idea of like your true

0:50:04.080 --> 0:50:08.399
<v Speaker 1>face is also sort of over idealized. I think it's

0:50:08.440 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 1>like kind of a it's like a fake ideal because

0:50:12.640 --> 0:50:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I think that so many things can happen to a face,

0:50:15.800 --> 0:50:19.160
<v Speaker 1>like don't like in my case, like I had an

0:50:19.200 --> 0:50:22.040
<v Speaker 1>injury when I was a kid to my face. I

0:50:22.040 --> 0:50:23.560
<v Speaker 1>got bit by a dog in the face and I

0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:27.080
<v Speaker 1>was like eleven, and I've had two reconstructive surgeries on

0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:30.480
<v Speaker 1>my face, and so like from an early age, even

0:50:30.560 --> 0:50:32.959
<v Speaker 1>before like you know, actually like at the prime time

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:34.960
<v Speaker 1>when you start to be super self conscious about your

0:50:35.000 --> 0:50:38.640
<v Speaker 1>looks and everything, I have not had quote unquote my

0:50:39.040 --> 0:50:42.239
<v Speaker 1>my real face or my natural face or something. And

0:50:42.600 --> 0:50:44.759
<v Speaker 1>and so I think, like I guess from an early

0:50:44.840 --> 0:50:47.640
<v Speaker 1>age that's why I kind of started to feel like

0:50:47.680 --> 0:50:51.520
<v Speaker 1>it was all kind of subjective, like there's there's not

0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm there's no like normal for me to to, you know,

0:50:57.280 --> 0:50:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I think beauty is subjective. And that's like I think

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:03.600
<v Speaker 1>just in the way that everything has gotten more extreme constantly,

0:51:04.440 --> 0:51:08.879
<v Speaker 1>it's like there's also been a greater acceptance of real

0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:12.759
<v Speaker 1>body types and real human looks. It does feel like

0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:15.520
<v Speaker 1>the standards of beauty have also brought in in like

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:21.000
<v Speaker 1>a very necessary way, because yeah, because it's like there

0:51:21.200 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 1>is no one ideal. People like all different kinds of things,

0:51:24.280 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 1>like between the three of us, like we all like

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:31.640
<v Speaker 1>totally different things, you know, like the myths that everyone's

0:51:31.640 --> 0:51:34.600
<v Speaker 1>in competition for the same resources all the time. It's like, no,

0:51:34.760 --> 0:51:38.560
<v Speaker 1>it's good that we all find different things beautiful. And

0:51:38.680 --> 0:51:41.600
<v Speaker 1>what you notice about Instagram faces, it's like it does

0:51:41.760 --> 0:51:44.959
<v Speaker 1>just sort of lose its appeal at a certain point

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:49.719
<v Speaker 1>because it's so expected. There's never any like asymmetry. Yeah,

0:51:50.360 --> 0:51:52.400
<v Speaker 1>and I think like it always comes out like I

0:51:52.640 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 1>always realize that there is so much room for different

0:51:55.960 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 1>ideas of beauty whenever, especially like on film, Twitter or something,

0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:02.520
<v Speaker 1>and if people just start talking about like their crushes,

0:52:02.600 --> 0:52:06.359
<v Speaker 1>their celebrity crushes, and it's always so wild and all

0:52:06.480 --> 0:52:09.360
<v Speaker 1>over the place where people find hot um you know,

0:52:09.560 --> 0:52:13.600
<v Speaker 1>like Adam Drivers like a sex symbol at this point,

0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:15.960
<v Speaker 1>which is just like kind of tells you everything you

0:52:16.080 --> 0:52:18.920
<v Speaker 1>need to know, Like like there's not as much as

0:52:19.160 --> 0:52:22.520
<v Speaker 1>I think whatever powers that be want us to think

0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:25.080
<v Speaker 1>that there's one particular kind of way for somebody. Look,

0:52:25.120 --> 0:52:27.320
<v Speaker 1>it's very clear that people left with their own devices,

0:52:27.520 --> 0:52:32.160
<v Speaker 1>Like there's some for men for sure, definitely, yeah, I

0:52:32.239 --> 0:52:35.560
<v Speaker 1>mean yeah, but I get to have like interesting noses

0:52:35.680 --> 0:52:39.320
<v Speaker 1>and be actors still, so do women. I mean, I

0:52:39.360 --> 0:52:42.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I feel like it's not it's not how

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:45.920
<v Speaker 1>it used to be at all. Like I think that

0:52:46.000 --> 0:52:48.279
<v Speaker 1>there is so much more room and I feel I

0:52:48.320 --> 0:52:53.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I mean, to me, I've never really, I really,

0:52:53.160 --> 0:52:56.719
<v Speaker 1>for the past like ten years, I have let go

0:52:56.920 --> 0:53:00.600
<v Speaker 1>of caring at all about how people look to to.

0:53:00.760 --> 0:53:04.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean not obviously there's gonna be like a subconscious

0:53:04.160 --> 0:53:07.480
<v Speaker 1>thing going on, but I really tried to like have

0:53:07.719 --> 0:53:10.080
<v Speaker 1>that be something I worked on. And I feel like

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:13.920
<v Speaker 1>you very quickly realize that the subjectivity also has to

0:53:14.040 --> 0:53:17.440
<v Speaker 1>do with like, you know, Adam drivers very confident. You know,

0:53:17.600 --> 0:53:22.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys know how I feel driver, but he's very confident,

0:53:22.760 --> 0:53:25.760
<v Speaker 1>and like, you know, I mean, look at Harvey Kitel's

0:53:25.960 --> 0:53:28.480
<v Speaker 1>very sexy man Like. It's like there's there's a lot

0:53:28.560 --> 0:53:30.800
<v Speaker 1>of things that go into it, but you can train

0:53:30.880 --> 0:53:33.719
<v Speaker 1>yourself to care less and then when you do that,

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:38.759
<v Speaker 1>it feels tedious to be around people who really care.

0:53:39.000 --> 0:53:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I think it's also like the way that that men

0:53:42.680 --> 0:53:46.360
<v Speaker 1>present their standards, especially on the internet, but also just

0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:51.080
<v Speaker 1>like teenage boys, it's like it scares you into being like, wow,

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:55.000
<v Speaker 1>guys only want like this super hot girl, and then

0:53:55.160 --> 0:53:58.839
<v Speaker 1>like later in time you're like, oh, everyone like ended

0:53:58.920 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>up with a regular sin. Well yeah, and also like

0:54:02.400 --> 0:54:05.279
<v Speaker 1>I I think that's like that's actually kind of like

0:54:05.400 --> 0:54:09.560
<v Speaker 1>this chain reaction thing, right. It's like teenage boys have

0:54:09.680 --> 0:54:13.799
<v Speaker 1>a very often stupid and limited imagination of what's hot,

0:54:14.000 --> 0:54:16.080
<v Speaker 1>but that's at the same time they're projecting that on

0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:19.080
<v Speaker 1>girls or like oh I have to be like that.

0:54:19.320 --> 0:54:21.759
<v Speaker 1>And then even if those boys grow up and have

0:54:22.360 --> 0:54:27.239
<v Speaker 1>more nuanced or personal ideas of beauty, like there's still

0:54:27.440 --> 0:54:30.479
<v Speaker 1>some like we're we're this is all in the realm

0:54:30.480 --> 0:54:33.520
<v Speaker 1>of hetero sexuality obviously, but like we're left with this

0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:38.800
<v Speaker 1>sort of complex of whatever teenage boys like this is cute,

0:54:39.160 --> 0:54:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Like no, I don't think like any most women like

0:54:43.160 --> 0:54:47.400
<v Speaker 1>don't think they are beautiful. Even if they are, uh

0:54:48.160 --> 0:54:51.800
<v Speaker 1>and beautiful, women are all still super super self conscious

0:54:51.840 --> 0:54:56.040
<v Speaker 1>about something, and people who are really beautiful also get

0:54:56.120 --> 0:54:59.839
<v Speaker 1>treated like objects in a way that sucks really bad.

0:55:01.600 --> 0:55:06.320
<v Speaker 1>So that also like huge downside is there anything less

0:55:06.360 --> 0:55:10.279
<v Speaker 1>attractive than someone who being with someone who's tremendously vain.

0:55:10.800 --> 0:55:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've always found that to be one of

0:55:13.719 --> 0:55:17.719
<v Speaker 1>the kind of least appealing characteristics that a person can have,

0:55:17.920 --> 0:55:21.320
<v Speaker 1>because it really boils down to like a superficial selfish

0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:24.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm grossed out by male vanity, and I

0:55:24.239 --> 0:55:26.960
<v Speaker 1>remember by female vanity too. I don't think that's what

0:55:27.000 --> 0:55:30.000
<v Speaker 1>it's male, No, totally, but I just mean, like when

0:55:30.080 --> 0:55:33.000
<v Speaker 1>like the metro sexual thing happened in the two thousand's

0:55:33.040 --> 0:55:36.040
<v Speaker 1>and they were trying to like normalize like like, hey,

0:55:36.120 --> 0:55:38.520
<v Speaker 1>straight men, like you should also spend a lot of

0:55:38.640 --> 0:55:44.279
<v Speaker 1>money and energy caring about your appearance. It was like no, no, nobody, yes,

0:55:44.360 --> 0:55:47.600
<v Speaker 1>please don't make them like wax themselves and put on

0:55:47.800 --> 0:55:51.239
<v Speaker 1>contours on their face. And it's because it's tedious when

0:55:51.320 --> 0:55:54.520
<v Speaker 1>you grow up, like you know, if you're a woman

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:57.239
<v Speaker 1>or a man who grows up kind of trying to

0:55:57.400 --> 0:56:01.080
<v Speaker 1>achieve these like effects through make up or like you know,

0:56:01.560 --> 0:56:04.120
<v Speaker 1>pushing yourself to work out or plastic surgery or whatever,

0:56:04.680 --> 0:56:08.200
<v Speaker 1>then you become you hate it even more in other people,

0:56:08.480 --> 0:56:11.320
<v Speaker 1>maybe even you know, because who could be in a

0:56:11.440 --> 0:56:14.680
<v Speaker 1>partnership with somebody who also spent that amount of time

0:56:15.160 --> 0:56:17.240
<v Speaker 1>just caring about how they look. I mean, I suppose

0:56:17.280 --> 0:56:20.160
<v Speaker 1>it happens all the time. It's probably extremely common, but

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 1>I just can't imagine a happy relationship where both people

0:56:24.160 --> 0:56:28.280
<v Speaker 1>were so vain, like how did they even communicate? Somebody

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:30.120
<v Speaker 1>was saying, this must be the most time Kim and

0:56:30.200 --> 0:56:33.399
<v Speaker 1>Kanye have ever had to spend together. Continue if they're

0:56:33.400 --> 0:56:36.400
<v Speaker 1>in the same in the same house, supposedly, and this

0:56:36.560 --> 0:56:38.399
<v Speaker 1>is definitely the most time Kim's ever had to spend

0:56:38.440 --> 0:56:42.160
<v Speaker 1>with her kids. Because she was complaining about it, look

0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:44.680
<v Speaker 1>more power to Kim. I mean, none of us have

0:56:44.800 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 1>ever spent you. You're doing it other times. I think

0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:53.040
<v Speaker 1>the point was like she just uses her kids as accessories,

0:56:53.120 --> 0:56:55.279
<v Speaker 1>and then she had to deal with their them being

0:56:55.320 --> 0:56:59.800
<v Speaker 1>annoying and was like I don't want this. Yeah, before

0:57:00.000 --> 0:57:01.960
<v Speaker 1>you wrap up, since we just talked about Kim, I

0:57:02.040 --> 0:57:04.000
<v Speaker 1>do want to point out so when we when we

0:57:04.120 --> 0:57:07.960
<v Speaker 1>opened this episode, we talked about Simon orion Um from

0:57:08.239 --> 0:57:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I pronounce it a piony. I

0:57:10.880 --> 0:57:17.400
<v Speaker 1>think Beverly Hills Um. Yeah, I don't know, in Beverly Hills.

0:57:17.440 --> 0:57:18.720
<v Speaker 1>But I do want to say that One of the

0:57:19.040 --> 0:57:23.720
<v Speaker 1>crazy things about him is that he experimented with procedures

0:57:23.800 --> 0:57:27.480
<v Speaker 1>on himself and so as a result, he looks a

0:57:27.600 --> 0:57:32.520
<v Speaker 1>lot like Kim Kardashian. It's like he tried to perfect it. No, no, no,

0:57:32.640 --> 0:57:35.560
<v Speaker 1>they all are turning into Chris Jenner, and that's the

0:57:35.600 --> 0:57:38.520
<v Speaker 1>spurious part. But I was a moment, There was a

0:57:38.640 --> 0:57:41.440
<v Speaker 1>moment where Kim looked exactly like Chris, and I think

0:57:41.520 --> 0:57:43.840
<v Speaker 1>she kind of moved away from it. Oh yeah, she

0:57:44.000 --> 0:57:46.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh no, I think it's probably like Simon

0:57:46.960 --> 0:57:49.120
<v Speaker 1>Orion gave himself that face, and then he gave it

0:57:49.200 --> 0:57:51.160
<v Speaker 1>to Chris Jenner, and then Chris Jenner gave it to

0:57:51.240 --> 0:57:56.600
<v Speaker 1>all of her kids. It's like herona can Yes, can

0:57:56.640 --> 0:58:00.720
<v Speaker 1>you imagine being a plastic surgeon who's messing around with

0:58:00.800 --> 0:58:04.120
<v Speaker 1>your own face? Yes, I'm gonna say I think it's

0:58:04.120 --> 0:58:06.760
<v Speaker 1>a lot more common than you would like to think. No, no,

0:58:06.920 --> 0:58:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I think it's pretty. But it never I never like

0:58:09.280 --> 0:58:12.480
<v Speaker 1>looked at a person saw and then found out like, oh,

0:58:12.560 --> 0:58:14.320
<v Speaker 1>he did it to himself, And then I could kind

0:58:14.320 --> 0:58:16.840
<v Speaker 1>of see like, oh, you know, he probably had to

0:58:16.920 --> 0:58:19.320
<v Speaker 1>correct this a million times, and then he was look,

0:58:19.440 --> 0:58:22.000
<v Speaker 1>that's right. If you're a doctor who plays god with

0:58:22.120 --> 0:58:27.280
<v Speaker 1>people's faces. That's a probably attracts a certain personality type

0:58:29.200 --> 0:58:32.840
<v Speaker 1>for sure. Um, well, that will do it for us

0:58:32.960 --> 0:58:36.160
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