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Speaker 2: Joy, Yeah, Joy, second, you don't use that love. Turn

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Speaker 3: I got to turn the mouth.

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Speaker 4: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out

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Speaker 4: the water the money.

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Speaker 1: Come come on, you think that? Uh huh, I sure will.

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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Listening to the voice, come on, dig me now, One

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Speaker 4: and only Steve Harvey Man oh Man got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 4: God so big to me, man, I just have to

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Speaker 4: tell you about it. I can't help it. It's rather

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Speaker 4: obvious to me how big, how good God is. He's

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Speaker 4: absolutely tremendous. He's off the chain. He owned one, he'd

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Speaker 4: I'm just over here, just on the receiving end. You know,

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Speaker 4: if you're out there, start your mission today, Start your

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Speaker 4: mission today? What are you waiting for? Why do we

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Speaker 4: as people delay what we want or delay the process

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Speaker 4: to begin what we want on our hopes, our dreams,

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Speaker 4: our desires. Why won't you start your mission today? Why

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Speaker 4: don't we all decide together that just individually. Look you listening,

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Speaker 4: you got something that you've been dreaming about. You got

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Speaker 4: goals you haven't accomplished yet. Everybody has them. Everybody's got them.

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Speaker 4: Everybody's got something that's on the table that they haven't

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Speaker 4: yet attacked yet. What are you waiting for? Start your

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Speaker 4: mission today? Stop the procrastination. Now, the procrastination is only

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Speaker 4: hurting you yourself. If you got a goal of aspiration

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Speaker 4: to dream and you fall off track momentarily, you can

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Speaker 4: get back to that because God knows where you're left off.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 4: You may have to accomplish a few more things since

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Speaker 4: you stopped for a long period of time, but God

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Speaker 4: know where you left off. You can get back on track. Look, man,

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Speaker 4: this dream of being on TV since I was a kid,

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Speaker 1: But that's what faith is really about. Faith is the

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Speaker 1: keep hope alive. Sometimes you heard Jesse Jackson say it,

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Speaker 1: just keep hope alive. Sometimes, man, it's just the hope.

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Speaker 1: I was hanging on a hope, and I'm talking about

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Speaker 4: Got real ugly and funky out there for me, when

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Speaker 1: Want to go get back in line, God holds your place.

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Speaker 1: He held on to that for me.

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Speaker 4: He knew I was off tracking, out of line, but

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna hold your place, put you back in line.

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Speaker 4: Then we're gonna finish the journey that took me a

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Speaker 4: lot longer. To get here than I wanted to. But

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Speaker 4: That's why I say it every day. See, because of

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Speaker 4: Appreciate you saying that that's what it was for. See,

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Speaker 4: But through his grace and mercy, he kept me through

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Speaker 4: He forgave me, he said, because man if you ever

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Speaker 4: It's like I was talking to this young brother the

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Speaker 4: You know, this young dude is really good. He said, Man,

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Speaker 4: what is this I feel every night before I go

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Speaker 4: want it off me, I said, sir, listen to me,

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Speaker 4: you young dude. This thing that climbs on my back

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Speaker 4: every night before I go on stage. I don't know

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Speaker 4: What you mean by that, I say, every night I

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Speaker 4: walk out on stage, it's like I'm about to go

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Speaker 4: He said, Man, but you do so well. I said,

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Speaker 4: that's because the parachute opens. I say, but I want

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Speaker 4: it's just stepping off the cliff. Now these yokes provide

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Speaker 4: land softly. The crowd cheers. The night is over with,

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Speaker 4: I said, but it's been too many nights though. When

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Speaker 4: Ain't the parachute didn't open. I said, So see, that's

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Speaker 4: now that fog gets you closer to the grave, right,

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Speaker 4: But the cool thing about a relationship with God is

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Speaker 4: Down, but it's a nice ride, and God just helps

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Speaker 4: like a euphoric fall. Instead of not having no God

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Speaker 4: and provide a parachute for you. I would rather have

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Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, I guess you can't be surprised about

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Speaker 4: what I'm about to say, but you do know that

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Speaker 5: You do know that.

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Speaker 4: Don't you stop being surprised that I bring this up

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Speaker 4: only God can create a new day, and so realizing

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Speaker 4: fact that He allowed you to be here in it present. Man,

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Speaker 4: what a great honor. Man, I'm so grateful today. Thank

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Speaker 4: you God for everything you've done for me, for the

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Speaker 1: Thank You for your grace and mercy everything. Man, this

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Speaker 1: is a big day. Let's go, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Steve Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry College for Real, Mississippi,

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Speaker 4: Monica and the legend that is Nephew.

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Speaker 1: Tell me, Junior steal out still off?

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Speaker 6: What the powerball tonight about the one Monday night I played.

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Speaker 1: Fifteen million tunesday nights. Yeah, time for me to play. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's so high enough.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I ain't want that little you know, eat hundred million?

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Speaker 4: You know how we're gonna be real. Boy, Let me

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Speaker 4: tell you something I wouldn't any I'm taking the path

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Speaker 4: for the end of day off half of that whatever

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Speaker 1: Yeah you should.

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Speaker 1: How much would you pay into the lottery though? How

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Speaker 1: many lottery tickets would you buy? How much.

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Speaker 4: You die when you go down there? Hu, eight hundred million.

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Speaker 1: You dropped two hundred and ten thousand dollars worth of tickets? Easy? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: ten thousand out of mode than that in Vegas? That

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Speaker 1: ain't nothing. And they raked that in a hole.

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Speaker 5: They spun the ball.

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Speaker 1: They can't go in.

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Speaker 4: They rate that whole tea and in that hole. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: at least let me watch some numbers pop up.

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Speaker 1: Wow, let me take my little five dollars and go

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Speaker 1: sit down.

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 4: The most I have bought at one time was two hundred.

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Speaker 4: I bought two hundred tickets and the man didn't want

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Speaker 4: to sell them to me. Had a little confutation coming

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Speaker 4: through Florida. Why would you want to take that opportunity

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Speaker 4: from other people and brodd you out of tickets?

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Speaker 9: What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just print some mo You got a roll of

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Speaker 1: I ain't taking no opportunity for nobody.

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Speaker 4: So it's a little young black girl worked there and

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Speaker 4: came out said, you don't know who this is there?

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Speaker 1: Now, this just ain't right.

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Speaker 4: A man coming here and spend up two hundred dollars

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Speaker 4: I ain't said nothing to you about that three dollars?

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Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that

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Speaker 4: This right here is butt man, Shirley. This is butt man.

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Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I know it's kind of early. It's kind

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Speaker 4: Okay, see yeah, what is?

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Speaker 1: Tell me?

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Speaker 5: What do you?

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Speaker 4: What do you want?

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Speaker 1: It's mean? Okay, it's mean, I got it fake? What

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Speaker 8: I ain't got no sermon for you. I ain't got

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Speaker 8: I'm trying to read von please.

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Speaker 2: VN.

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Speaker 4: This is Darius. Darius with human Resources.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing fine?

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Speaker 5: Can I help you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Listen, we have an incident that has taken place at

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Speaker 1: What floor are you on? Vin? I'm all for twelve

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Speaker 3: Not all the time, but I do use it every

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Speaker 3: once in a while.

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Speaker 8: There's gonna be some actions being taken place here pretty soon,

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Speaker 8: I have no earthly idea. But what's happening now is

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Speaker 8: thinking Friday at eleven a m.

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Speaker 1: Would that be so.

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Speaker 3: Y'all y'all talking, y'all talking about y'all want me to

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Speaker 3: I'm a grown man. Okay, I'm a grown man.

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Speaker 5: I ain't do that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know what. I believe you.

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Speaker 8: I believe you wholeheartedly, Von, But just to clear your name,

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Speaker 8: we have to, I hate to say it, clear your

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Speaker 1: This is on a piece of paper, that did this.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find out.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna find you're gonna find out who's You're gonna

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Speaker 3: find out whose cheeks those are, and you're gonna find

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Speaker 3: out real quickly in our mind. All right, I'm not

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Speaker 3: doing that, man, I'm not gonna come in.

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Speaker 5: You said Friday.

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Speaker 4: You're doing this on Friday, Friday at eleven, not coming

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Speaker 3: I'm pull my pants down. But some strangers looking really

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Speaker 3: look at my look at my cheeks, talking about somebody copy,

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to.

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Speaker 8: I don't want this to take a turn, Von, because

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Speaker 8: right now this is if you're not if you're saying

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Speaker 4: Everybody else that I'm calling they have to come in.

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Speaker 3: How many how many people work on that floor?

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Speaker 1: There's at least eighty plus people on that floor.

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Speaker 3: You're talking about trying to have eighty plus people come

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Speaker 3: don't even know can look at our look at our cheeks,

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Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna do that. I don't know who

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Speaker 8: Well, somebody somebody's xeroxs there butt on the twelfth floor,

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Speaker 8: and we're gonna get to okay, but we're gonna get

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Speaker 8: to the bottom of who did it and what you're

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Speaker 8: what you're not gonna do? Von Is tell me you're

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Speaker 8: not coming in. What you're not gonna do? Do you

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Speaker 8: like your job here with this company?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what you're not gonna do exactly like you're gonna

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Speaker 3: fire me because I'm not gonna show y'all my sweet

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Speaker 3: goodies just because you just because you're from HR You

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Speaker 3: oh yeah, sure, I'm going some strangers look at mine,

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Speaker 3: look at my crack.

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Speaker 5: You must be playing, no, sir, not with me.

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Speaker 8: Okay, let me let me let me ask you this.

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Speaker 8: Do you have a coworker named Andre Andre? Yes, Andre

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Speaker 8: out here. Andre is stating that it could have possibly

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Speaker 3: Really, Andre got the nerve to say it could have

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Speaker 3: been me? Andre? Why didn't he trying to single me out?

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Speaker 3: Like I even use that damn copier not around there

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Speaker 3: playing games.

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Speaker 5: I'm a grown man.

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Speaker 3: He must be out of his mind thinking he gonna

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Speaker 4: All I know is he stated that you were a possibility.

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Speaker 1: That's what. That's what he stated.

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Speaker 3: He said I was a possibility.

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Speaker 5: That that's dumb.

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Speaker 3: He ain't have absolutely the reason to think. I don't

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Speaker 3: even use that copier, man, I use that thing like

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Speaker 3: once every two to three weeks, everybody on that floor.

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Speaker 8: Okay, so out of once every two three weeks, is

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Speaker 3: Not at all, y'all ain't even told me when this happened.

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Speaker 5: I probably wasn't even working when the booty chicks them.

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Speaker 3: You can you must be out your mind. You can

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Speaker 5: But you're not gonna do that to me.

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Speaker 3: This has to be unethical and illegal on so many levels.

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Speaker 3: You're trying to come in and say everybody on the

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Speaker 3: entire floor has to come show that. Geez man, you

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Speaker 3: want to be kidding me?

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Speaker 5: What's your name?

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Speaker 3: Whole time You're trying to call me saying this is

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Speaker 3: HR what's your name?

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Speaker 8: Because when I'm I'm Darius out of human Resources.

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Speaker 1: I told you that when I first called you.

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Speaker 3: Well Darius, Well Darius.

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Speaker 8: When I do come into work, I want to see

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Speaker 8: let me ask you this vonn Do you know Leslie?

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Speaker 3: Leslie? I know that better not either say my name,

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Speaker 3: but so you do know Leslie?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I know Leslie. She works there with me. So you're

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Speaker 4: Do you want to know what Leslie said?

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Speaker 3: Yes? I would like to know what Leslie says, so

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Speaker 3: when I cuss her out, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Right, okay.

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Speaker 8: Leslie told me to tell you that this is nephew

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Speaker 8: Tommy from the Steve Harvey more on the show. And

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Speaker 8: you just got pranked by your coworker Leslie and Andre.

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Speaker 8: Oh Man, Leslie and Andre got me to prank phone

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Speaker 8: call you, Mande.

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Speaker 3: I was man, I was pssed. Your uncle is right, bro,

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Speaker 3: somebody is gonna whoop your I bet it this year?

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Speaker 8: All right, boy, tell me this man, what is the

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Speaker 3: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Somebody is dad really gonna

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Speaker 1: And there you have it?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: But man, all right, coming up next to it, ask

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Speaker 1: the COLO, our chief love Officer, Steve Harvey in the

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Speaker 1: Then' make that house a home.

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Speaker 10: Now, all that effort has built something hugely valuable, equity.

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Speaker 10: It's the portion of your home you truly own that

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Speaker 1: You don't want to miss our good friend Bill Bellamy

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. But right now it

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Speaker 1: is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Parah and Queen's CLO. Parah writes,

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Speaker 1: my mom and my boyfriend talk on the phone all

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Speaker 1: I don't like my mom being in the mix. How

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Speaker 1: You might not be able to. I don't think so

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Plus I have one is your mama?

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Speaker 1: Fine? And you're asking that because you might want to

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Speaker 1: consider this. You know I've walked in the house and

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Speaker 4: Oh, I you know when I was real young, I

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Speaker 1: And so what happened? Then you started what?

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Speaker 4: No, I was young, I couldn't. There wasn't nothing I

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Speaker 1: Okay, when I'm sixteen, this man fought. No, I'm not

445
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: finish quipped like them. Real What was the first thing

446
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: you said when you saw her mom to yourself? God,

447
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: sixteen is it? He said? All right? Oh, so she

448
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: wants to break them up? Though, how does she do that?

449
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen. They're just gonna stay close and

450
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 1: keep talking about her on the phone. Yeah, I mean,

451
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: you know that's what you got. Two things. You gonna

452
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 1: have a conversation with both of them.

453
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 4: Don't talk about me to my mama, mama, and not

454
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 4: talk me to my boyfriend, and then see how I go.

455
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 4: If they keep talking, then they don't care about you.

456
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. That's good advice.

457
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 4: All right.

458
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,920
Speaker 1: This is from Robin Burbank. Rob says, my girlfriend of

459
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: almost three years, is pressuring me to meet my parents.

460
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: I don't speak to my dad and my mom lives

461
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: in New Mexico. My girlfriend and I are in our

462
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 1: mid fifties, so it seems a bit childish. Do I

463
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: have to carve out time for a trip to New Mexico?

464
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: This is from Rob and Burbank. Rob, you know the.

465
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 4: Answer to that question. Dog, You and your dad ain't speaking.

466
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 4: Why you need to fix that because one day you

467
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 4: could lose this man. Secondly, every man wants his woman

468
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 4: to meet his mama. You know, Rob, if you ain't

469
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 4: been took her down there, you know what's happening a dog?

470
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 4: Come on, man, and how is she pressing you to

471
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 4: meet your family? She ain't pressing you to get married,

472
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 4: but she probably of the of the understanding that if

473
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 4: you don't introduce me to your mama, that means you're

474
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 4: not interested. Why don't you just come clean with how

475
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 4: you really feel. You're three years in, you're fifty.

476
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 1: What y'all doing? Yeah, he thinks it's childish for her

477
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: to want to meet his parent.

478
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 4: I think it's childish to be fifty in date for

479
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 4: three years.

480
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: But you know who am I? You're the clo.

481
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 4: Baby, you are the speak I mean, you know.

482
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:57,959
Speaker 9: What I mean?

483
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 1: You fifty?

484
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 4: What y'all doing if y'all don't know what you want

485
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 4: by fifty, if you've been with somebody three years and

486
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 4: you don't know this to one by fifty? Yes, what

487
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 4: are we doing? I just ain't that hard, man. You

488
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 4: either want somebody or you don't.

489
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: That is not hard.

490
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 4: I ain't show no man, if you ain't show your

491
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:23,479
Speaker 4: don't want them?

492
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: Okay, because you should be shown show almost this show

493
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 1: to be sure.

494
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 4: Don't say to be shown show supposed to show.

495
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 8: What's some country on sham?

496
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: Just I'm so unbothered by you should be sure, by

497
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: ben is what you're saying.

498
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 4: Okay, you can be sure if you want to, but

499
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what you need to be for show?

500
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: All right, all right? Moving on to Alma in Chicago. Alma, Right.

501
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: I went to a retirement party for a friend and

502
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 1: it turns out her that her date for the party

503
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: was a guy I met at church. He had just

504
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: called me. He had just called to invite me to

505
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 1: the movies a few days before that. He has apologized

506
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 1: and still wants to go see a movie.

507
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 7: Should I go?

508
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: Already know you're going.

509
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 4: Are y'all old people sitting up in here? How you

510
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 4: know it's round You know you're going to the movie.

511
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 4: She invited you to the retirement party. Now was he

512
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 4: there specifically for her?

513
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: Well, she just went to a retirement party for a friend.

514
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: It turns out that her date for the party was

515
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 1: a guy that she met at church.

516
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 4: The girl that was retiring. Her date was a guy

517
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 4: that she met it lady met exactly play boy church busy.

518
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,479
Speaker 1: But he went to her retirement party. But he had

519
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 1: just called the other woman a few days ago to

520
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 1: ask her to the movie. Oh, well he go out

521
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: a lot, you know, Yeah, he's booked business.

522
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah.

523
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 4: When the last time somebody asked you to go to

524
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 4: a movie?

525
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 9: I know?

526
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: You know, you know they old. You gotta be old

527
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: to go to the movies. Wow, we last time somebody

528
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: asked somebody, Hey, let's you wanna go to a movie?

529
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: Down?

530
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 1: Know, kids don't do that no more. They watch it

531
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: on Netflix and stuff like that.

532
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 4: They they hang out, hang out to the movie. Well, Tommy,

533
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 4: you're talking about like your son Jordan.

534
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 8: Yeah, he's fourteen. They more in the game room area

535
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 8: at the movie.

536
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 4: These were talking about these older people that just retirement party. Yes, yes,

537
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 4: they really is going to the movie hanging out. They

538
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 4: done drove down there, sitting up there and got popcorn.

539
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 4: Fella sleep in their chairs.

540
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 6: They got the chairs, so you can bring the blanket,

541
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 6: reply all the way back.

542
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: You can order the food and yeah, yeah, yeah, you

543
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: don't want to hear so she's going to the movies. Okay, Khalila,

544
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: this is the last one. Steve and Lakeland Wright sat.

545
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: My husband and I had an argument and he left

546
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: the house and doesn't answer his phone for hours. He

547
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: didn't answer his phone for hours. He said he didn't

548
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: want to talk to me. To get back at him,

549
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: I have ignored him for four days. He's very mad.

550
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: How can he dish it out? But he can't take it?

551
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 9: What?

552
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 4: Two hours?

553
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: Four days? Come on now? She said, four hours? Yeah,

554
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: because he didn't want to talk. Surely you just.

555
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 4: Said four days. You wasn't paying attention to what I said.

556
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: I heard him said two hours, four days.

557
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 4: I was just saying that don't make no sense. Why

558
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 4: he can't dish out He only didn't talk to you

559
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 4: for two hours. Now you ain't talk to this man

560
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 4: for four days. That ain't even fair.

561
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: Oh we're fair. Oh, oh y'all, oh, y'all gonna do

562
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: all right, thank you clo. All right. Coming up at

563
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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, our special guests will be

564
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: the one and only Bill Bellamy. Right after this, you're

565
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 1: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

566
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 4: All right, y'all, we got a special guest this morning.

567
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 4: One of the legends, one of the real legends out

568
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 4: here in the comedy world.

569
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: He's an actor. He he's been doing standing up for.

570
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 4: At least three decades, still performing in front of soul

571
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 4: out audiences. This weekend him and nephew Tommy is gonna

572
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,479
Speaker 4: be at the Botwell in Birmingham and he's gonna tell

573
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 4: us about that and everything else he got going on.

574
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: But let's get to a lazy gentlemen.

575
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 4: My dog. When I first did death Jam, he was

576
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 4: on the show Ladies of Jersey, the one the only

577
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 4: that Bill Belling me.

578
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 7: I made it.

579
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 5: Boy. I'm gonna tell you, Steve, you should introduce me

580
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 5: everywhere I go where I feel so good about myself.

581
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 1: For I as you should.

582
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 4: Okay, Bill, Before we get into this interview, I gotta

583
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 4: ask you one thing, because you'd have made me want

584
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 4: to go. I saw you on Instagram. You went to BUCkies.

585
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 5: Set me let me chell you something.

586
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 4: Buckets everything Bill Bill, We've been telling him.

587
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 5: Let me chell you something, Steve about BUCkies. Right, and

588
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 5: you got a lot of money. You come in out

589
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 5: of there with thirty two grills full take again. You're

590
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 5: gonna have a busher brownies. You're gonna have some meat.

591
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 5: They got brisket everywhere like you can get You can

592
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 5: get half a taste gas and a gallon of brisket,

593
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 5: the just and they got a brisket salt. This is

594
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 5: what's gonna blow your mind, Steve. They sing about the meat.

595
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 5: This thing is so everybody was telling me to go

596
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 5: to buckets, but they ain't everywhere. You kind of gotta

597
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 5: be going between two places, like you gotta be between

598
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 5: Making Georgia and like a Columbia, South Carolina, and it

599
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 5: be the biggest gas station you've ever seen, and people

600
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 5: are walking out with fourth lines, flash lights and sodas

601
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 5: like it's just weird.

602
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: But it's big.

603
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 4: Punk round flash light and soda.

604
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, Steve. Have you ever been to a gas

605
00:32:52,920 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 5: station and they had seventy five umps with exaggeration, sir,

606
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 5: And you will be in there eating all the strawberries.

607
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: I've been there, Bill.

608
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 4: I saw you doing this thing on BUCkies, and I've

609
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 4: been trying to go to one ever since, and so

610
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna go past.

611
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna go to a BUCkies.

612
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 5: No, No, you got you no re rout re rally

613
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 5: because it's one of those things you're not gonna believe.

614
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: And you're gonna call me from BUCkies.

615
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 5: I'm very king you're gonna call me from bucket.

616
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 9: Listen.

617
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: I bought the Bucky T shirt, Jeff, so I can shirt.

618
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 5: You ain't never bought a T shirt at the gas

619
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 5: station in your life. You're gonna get that Brooklyn T shirt?

620
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 4: What's on the Bucky T shirt?

621
00:33:59,080 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: Here?

622
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 5: Beaver Man? Any good people to Steve?

623
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: You gonna like good people.

624
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 4: You don't even you don't even need it, but you're

625
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 4: gonna buy dep feed.

626
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:14,760
Speaker 5: Listen, Steve, you're not understanding. It's the biggest gas station

627
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 5: flash hospital you ever been to. You could buy seasoning.

628
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 5: It's the weirdest thing you could You could buy seasoning.

629
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 5: You could turn around. You can get you some some

630
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 5: fat back. Gotta sitting in the corner. Just put your

631
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 5: hand the body is so the things you could buy,

632
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 5: like you could buy a sofa. Uh Man, they like

633
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 5: I'm looking at that. Like they got like every kind

634
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 5: of to like strawberry show, barbecue, pork brown. Then you

635
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 5: got you could buy like a cat. It be real Cafi.

636
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 1: All right, Tommy, tell me what y'all got going on?

637
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 9: Man?

638
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: We got going on this with you? Bill. That's all

639
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: I wanted to know was about BUCkies. Man, I gotta go.

640
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 8: Okay, I got you week zero comedy jail this Friday night,

641
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 8: my well auditorium. This myself, Bill Bellamy, Bill, who tell him?

642
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: Who else is with us?

643
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 5: Man?

644
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: I don't know these people?

645
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 5: Man, it's so many people. If we got like fifteen,

646
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,240
Speaker 5: I think Tommy got two comedians from BUCkies.

647
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 4: You Bill, you're crazy, you know.

648
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 5: Tommy like to help me be Tommy be helping people.

649
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 5: We was in BUCkies and he saw two people that

650
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,919
Speaker 5: seen they was funny looking. He's put them on the show.

651
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 5: So I said, okay, probably got a good heart.

652
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 7: You know.

653
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 8: Way, here's one thing I got about down to both

654
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 8: of you two about Uncle Steve and Bill. One thing

655
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 8: I got about down on it. Y'all have done something.

656
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 8: Y'all conquered something I could not conquer. And that one

657
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 8: thing is is that Peppermint Lounge. Man, that place right there,

658
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 8: Hold up, I got this.

659
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 4: Peppermint Lounge was the proving ground of the East Coast.

660
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 5: Man.

661
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell you so.

662
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 4: Bill had this club called the Peppermint Lounge. I called

663
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 4: it the Peppermint Entertainment Complex.

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Speaker 9: It was.

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Speaker 5: It was a.

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00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 4: Hotel, deli club, strip was everything was under the roof.

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00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 4: But you performed, and all the dope boys set up front,

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00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 4: and they all had on coogie sweaters, all of them,

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Speaker 4: and they would have.

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Speaker 1: Was ruthless audience members.

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Speaker 4: And when we come back, I will tell you the

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Speaker 4: greatest thing I seen at the Peppermint Lounge, the legendary

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Speaker 4: Bill Bellamy and the Peppermint Lounge in New Jersey. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 4: we'll be right back with more right after this.

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Speaker 1: Hi everybody, We're back.

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Speaker 4: Our special guest this morning is the legendary comedy legend himself,

688
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 4: Bill Bellamy, who I first met. I think I met

689
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 4: before or that, but maybe Death Jail, maybe death Jail.

690
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, all I know is.

691
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember the first night I.

692
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: Was on death Jail. He was there.

693
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 4: Man, this dude right here was He was killing it

694
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 4: and we've been cool ever since. Or before we left,

695
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 4: we were talking about two things, BUCkies, and Tommy said

696
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 4: it's something that he had never conquered. It was a

697
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 4: club called the Peppermint Lounge in New Jersey and Bill

698
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 4: Bellie was Bill Bill's joint Bill booked, it, ran it everything,

699
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 4: but it was the proving ground. It was one of

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00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 4: the roughest after the Apollo Theater, that was the Peppermint Lounge.

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00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 4: I'm just telling you that, boy, I've seen some great

702
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 4: acts have called down there and and not done well.

703
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 4: And then there's been some dudes that went up in

704
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 4: their man and just got they got they got, they

705
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 4: close toe off. I told this one boy, I said,

706
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 4: hey man, you shouldn't go up last. He said, no,

707
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 4: I'm majoring comedy clubs. I said, look, man, this this

708
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 4: ain't no comedy club.

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Speaker 1: This is a session. This a session to say this

710
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Speaker 1: is really about to go.

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00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 5: It was like the boot camp or some Oh.

712
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 4: It was ugly and boy, the dope boys were sitting

713
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 4: on the front and this one dude was performing and

714
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 4: they didn't like him, and they was reaching in their

715
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 4: champagne buckets and they was throwing ice on him. And

716
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 4: ice was just dripping off this dude's head and he

717
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 4: kept talking. I'm sitting there going how you gonna take

718
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 4: all these ice cubes?

719
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Speaker 1: Marvin? What was the doskined Marvel Man Marvin Dixon.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it was from Miami. I will forget that.

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00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: He walked up on stage and said, hey man, I

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Speaker 1: seen what y'all did.

723
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 4: This other dude. Let me tell you one I ain't

724
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 4: right here. You could throw app he's an ice up here?

725
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 4: What ice chip cube? If I feel cool, spit, I'm

726
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 4: from myammy. It's gonna be yellow tape all round this

727
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:21,320
Speaker 4: Peppermint Lounge. Them dope boys fell out laughing. Well, he

728
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 4: had one of the best sets, and then he took

729
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 4: all his clothes off, all his clothes off.

730
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Speaker 5: He had a red tongue on. He weighed eighty seven pounds.

731
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Speaker 4: That's all he had on was a jockey strap.

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Speaker 5: He was the first dude I've ever seen twerk in

733
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 5: the comedy club. He said, welcome to Miami. We blacked out.

734
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 4: And got a standing ovation.

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Speaker 5: Standing old basin bro. I mean he literally I don't

736
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 5: know if he put on trick Daddy. I know he

737
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 5: had a song that was a theme. Yeah, he had

738
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 5: them dope boys so confused. They brought him about eighteen

739
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 5: bottles of more weet.

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Speaker 4: Hey, y'all, hey, we'll be back. We're talking to Bill Bellamy.

741
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 4: We'll be back with more Bill Bellamie right after this.

742
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 4: We don't find out what had.

743
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 1: In a minute.

744
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 4: All right, y'all, we're back with the legendary Bill Bellamy Man.

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Speaker 1: We just family.

746
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 4: So we've been talking about to Bob Well, the legendary

747
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 4: Peppermint Lounge. But we got a show coming up him

748
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 4: and Tommy told me, you want to talk about the

749
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 4: showing or something.

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Speaker 8: The sow Go start out with straight ignorance with nephew Tommy,

751
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 8: let's get this jumping off the jump, and then Bill

752
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 8: already knows I'm finna come with as.

753
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 4: Much energy and ignorance as.

754
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 5: Numb to man. I don't know how many outfits Tommy

755
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 5: be having, but they I don't know. He don't even

756
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 5: have a rest the room. I don't know when he

757
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 5: changed that in the car between two in the alleyway,

758
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 5: but he changed his clothes a lot, Steve, I don't

759
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 5: know how much money you're paying him, but he got it.

760
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: He got that much.

761
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 4: Oh, he got plenty much, dang it. But the Glasney Bill,

762
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 4: he changed all Bill.

763
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Speaker 5: How many times you think he changed I'm gonna say

764
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Speaker 5: at least sixty three minim in the show. It's a

765
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,280
Speaker 5: sixty minute show. He changed sixty three times. It's unnecessary.

766
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,439
Speaker 5: I got I got before we I know we're gonna

767
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 5: be at the bout Well on Friday, But I gotta

768
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 5: ask you a question, because you know, comedians, we think

769
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 5: of funny stuff. And I'm going to ask you this question,

770
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 5: when the last time you've seen an albino? Because I

771
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 5: remember we used to have one or two in the neighborhood.

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00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: You know, while this is what I'm.

773
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 5: Saying, like where did they go to Albania or did

774
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 5: they leave the country, ain't no.

775
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 1: More with the frosted had and match it eye and

776
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 1: then they.

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00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 5: They eyebrows was just like look, they looked like like

778
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 5: clear caterpillars.

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Speaker 1: Why aren't we talking about this?

780
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 5: Saul I said the same thing the nephew. We whatever happened,

781
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 5: it's a lot of stuff you don't even see no more,

782
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 5: like I ain't seen it.

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00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 8: Uh, we're Latin. You've seen the Messican twins. I swear

784
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 8: I ain't seen nothing.

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00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 5: No, they showed don't build them, they showed them make

786
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Speaker 5: them out.

787
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Speaker 4: Twins.

788
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 5: I've seen it maxic twenty twin and thirty years. I

789
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 5: don't think so. I think they start making them in

790
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 5: sixty two. What about Hey, when the last time you've

791
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 5: seen somebody cross eyed? I think they've been fixing the

792
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 5: eyes for the last twenty Remember we had that one

793
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 5: cousin that I be sitting right on the nose. It

794
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 5: was right and it always was looking at the nose,

795
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 5: and the other I was regular. Do you remember that cousin?

796
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a cousin. We used to call him waller.

797
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 4: That's terrible because one of his eyes was always looking

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00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 4: at the wall.

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Speaker 1: I tell you something I ain't never seen to. I

800
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: ain't never seen an Amish.

801
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 4: On the talk show.

802
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 3: What is that about?

803
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 1: It's something with him and Amish.

804
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 4: It's something with him and all I do Amish all

805
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 4: the time because they come talk to Steven talking about

806
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 4: Amish what they gonna do.

807
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 5: But I ain't never seen an Amish in the nightclub either.

808
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 5: Though they don't go out.

809
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: No, they're not so shocked.

810
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 4: They got them little high pants home with them suspenders.

811
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Speaker 1: They don't say.

812
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 5: They pull up the valet with their horse, throw everybody

813
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 5: off in that.

814
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Now he blocking the whole intry because don't

815
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 4: nobody know how to park the horse, drive no carriage.

816
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 4: He just up in there with got the big triangle

817
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 4: on the back.

818
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 8: Hey Bill, What happened to that thing that used to

819
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 8: hang in the bath from on a coat hanger with

820
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 8: that holes on it?

821
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: What happened to that thing? When is that?

822
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 5: I don't know what that was, but my grandmama said,

823
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 5: don't touch it.

824
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 4: Well, me and my nepht we touched it one time.

825
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,439
Speaker 4: We had a We had a we had a fight

826
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: with it. One time we filled it with water. We

827
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 4: didn't even tell her we did it. Then she came

828
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 4: in the house from shopping and said, why does house

829
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,800
Speaker 4: smell like vinegar? And then next thing you know, she

830
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 4: went in there and did the math on it. We

831
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 4: got to beat with that same holes, that same hole.

832
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like it was like a pinkie show,

833
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 5: like a if you surely, why wouldn't y'all just put

834
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 5: it in the in the close or somewhere while y'all leave.

835
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 8: If you're looking for most stupid, it's happening Friday night,

836
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 8: Baby Bockwell Auditorium, Birmingham, Alabama, Week zero comedy. Damn, it

837
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 8: is myself, nephew Tommy and the one and only Bill

838
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 8: bella me in the building.

839
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 5: Let go Bill Bell. We love you boy, and love

840
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 5: you mean thank you and amen. Gone the BUCkies man

841
00:45:59,200 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 5: to get you something.

842
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: I'm going to Bucky. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

843
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after the hour.

844
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today and the subject is

845
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: what is my role in my we in my marriage?

846
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,439
Speaker 1: What is my role in my marriage? We'll get into

847
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: that find out what as myself. That all about a

848
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: lot of time I pay for every day. That's a

849
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: good role. That's a good I like your role. All right, nephew,

850
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 1: What you got for us today?

851
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 3: Oh?

852
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 8: We're going down to the church. You know church people,

853
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 8: I love pranking them. We're going down to the church.

854
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 8: Right here is a church fee, church fee, church all right? Yeah,

855
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 8: we got fees. We got church feed. What you ain't

856
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 8: gonna do is be coming up in church late. You know,

857
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 8: you'll pay a late fee if I got If I

858
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 8: catch you coming in here late, you're gonna pay a fee.

859
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 8: All right, y'all gonna get yourself together when y'all come

860
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 8: into the house, let's go get Hello.

861
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 9: Hello, I'm trying to reach us the church.

862
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 3: Hey, you got her?

863
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 9: Hey? How you doing? This is this is brother Glenn

864
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 9: from the church.

865
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 11: Hey, brother Glenn, how you doing.

866
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 9: I'm good. I'm good, I'm real good. Did you enjoy

867
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 9: service boring?

868
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 4: Oh?

869
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 11: I enjoyed it past the PASTA brought it down.

870
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 9: Yes, Oh my god. That was a word for me,

871
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 9: right right, right right?

872
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 11: So what do I owe the pleasure of this call?

873
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 9: I wanted to give you some information that the that

874
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 9: the church has come up with and we wanted to

875
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 9: let you know what was going on before next Sunday.

876
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 9: You got. I didn't interrupt you, Dinna, No, no.

877
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 11: I actually I may sound a little a little off

878
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 11: a little bit. I'm trying to get getting ready for

879
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 11: my little babes, my little darlings, and I'm trying to

880
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 11: your voice sounds so familiar to me. It just sounds

881
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 11: so familiar. Trying to place place that voice.

882
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 9: Okay, Well, you've seen me at the church quite a

883
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 9: few times. I think I have.

884
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 11: I'm just trying to place it. I can't place it

885
00:47:59,400 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 11: right now.

886
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 9: Well, nevertheless, I just wanted here's what's going on now.

887
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 9: You're aware that for the last the last six Sundays

888
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 9: you've been actually coming into service late. Have you realized that, Yes,

889
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 9: I know.

890
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 11: I'm sorry about that, but you know, yes I have,

891
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 11: I have my reasons.

892
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 9: So okay, okay, Well here's what's going on. The officials

893
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 9: at the church have gotten together and this is what

894
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 9: they've decided on, is that anybody who is late starting

895
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 9: next Sunday, there would be a fifteen dollar charge for

896
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 9: that for coming in and disrupting services. Fastest tired of

897
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 9: service being disrupted by people walking in late that that

898
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 9: could not come at a worse time.

899
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 11: I don't have fifteen dollars to give.

900
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: I don't have it.

901
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 11: Oh look, I'm sorry. I'm sorry that we're late. I

902
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:56,280
Speaker 11: am we are doing our best. I have three kids.

903
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 11: I have three young kids, two seven and and they

904
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 11: are a handful, and we do the best that we

905
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 11: can to get the church on time. And to tell you,

906
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 11: when we get there, it's doing praise and worship. I mean,

907
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 11: Pats ain't even preaching.

908
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 9: Yet, so I know it's not pass is not up yet,

909
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 9: but he's he's stating that people coming in. It just

910
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 9: seems very disruptive to the service that's going on. So nevertheless,

911
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 9: like I said, this is a warning call, you know,

912
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 9: to let you know that if you are late on

913
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 9: next Sunday, then they will be charging you fifteen dollars

914
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 9: are late charge. And actually you won't be able to

915
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:36,760
Speaker 9: even come in what until you until you pay fifty dollars.

916
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 11: I can't even get in church with we Look, Okay, look,

917
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 11: I don't I don't owe nothing. I don't owe you

918
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 11: no explanations, but I need to tell you something. We

919
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 11: are me and my kids for the last few Sundays

920
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,959
Speaker 11: that we've been late. It's because my car broke down.

921
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 11: We are on the bus man public transportation.

922
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 9: Okay, I mean, and I understand. I understand. I said

923
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 9: civilitize whatever thing that you're going through.

924
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 11: But why are you called if you understand? Why are

925
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 11: you calling me about fifteen dollars? If you understand what

926
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 11: I'm going through?

927
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 9: Well I didn't at first of all, I didn't know

928
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 9: what you were going Why are you raising your voice

929
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 9: at me? Why are you raising? Did you just raise

930
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 9: your voice at me?

931
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 5: You know what?

932
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 11: You know what I think? You're raising your voice at me?

933
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 11: How dare you call me about this? About a feat?

934
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,720
Speaker 11: And I'm there at church, I got my key. Instare

935
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 11: trying to raise them up? Is the way they should go,

936
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 11: just like the Bible say. And you know why I

937
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 11: gotta do this and why I'm late? Why we got

938
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 11: to catch the bus? Do you understand why that is?

939
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 9: Brother Gleed, No, I do not.

940
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 11: That is because they to their.

941
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 9: Daddy is ain't And yes it's Tracy. You got to

942
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 9: calm down a little bit now.

943
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 11: Oh Jesus, healthy, Jesus help me Jesus.

944
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 9: Okay, listen, here's the deal, all I can do is

945
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 9: tell you this. I hope you can make it. Maybe

946
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 9: you can catch an earlier bus, you know what I mean,

947
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 9: and get that a little earlier. But but I'm just

948
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 9: stating the facts that as of next Sunday, if you

949
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 9: come in late, it's fifteen dollars late fee, and that's

950
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 9: what you'll pay to get in the service.

951
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 11: You know what, Well, maybe next Sunday I just won't

952
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 11: be there. How about that? You know I'm already working

953
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 11: six days a week. The only day I have office Sunday,

954
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 11: I've been baking, breaking my back. Do you know I

955
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 11: work two jobs. I work two jobs, and they always

956
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 11: trying to take money out of my check, always trying

957
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 11: to pull me here and there, and I'm always tired.

958
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 11: I get two hours of sleep, and then now the

959
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 11: church wants to dump another fifteen dollars charging me for

960
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 11: being at church when that's what I'm supposed to do.

961
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 9: But you're coming in late, though, Tracy.

962
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:35,240
Speaker 11: You know what, you know what late ain't bad. Okay,

963
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 11: I might be delayed, but I ain't denied, and I'm

964
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 11: getting there the best way that I know how. For Oh,

965
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 11: the bus, I have to put my kids on.

966
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 9: The school bus and long did I.

967
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 11: Have to put them on the school bus. Then I

968
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 11: have to get on the bus to myself to work

969
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 11: because I don't have a car. Because they Daddy ain't

970
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 11: doing nothing nothing for them. Do you understand what I'm

971
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 11: saying to you? I need to under that Number one,

972
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 11: it's what hit daddy for two, he in jail. I've

973
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 11: been there about five years. He ain't And daddy number

974
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 11: three she decided to go ahead and walk out. And

975
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 11: I ain't heard from that that t listen in about

976
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 11: seven months now. He knows we struggling. She had to

977
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 11: nerve to take my wallet too. You don't You don't

978
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,280
Speaker 11: even understand what I'm going through. You don't even understand

979
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 11: that I'm trying to make a better life for me

980
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 11: and my children.

981
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 9: There is one one thing, Sister Tracy, that the Church

982
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 9: wants you to know before next Sunday that you definitely

983
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 9: need to know.

984
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 11: What one more thing does the church want me to know?

985
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:28,720
Speaker 11: It's fifteen dollars.

986
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 9: The Church just wants you to know that this is

987
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 9: Nephew towm me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your

988
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 9: sister Patrece got me the prank phone call you.

989
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 11: I am gonna walk. I'm no, are you you know

990
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 11: I ain't got time for that. You know I ain't

991
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 11: got time for that. Oh hook for trees?

992
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 9: Uh huh, you got you all right?

993
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 11: I got something for her?

994
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 3: How about that?

995
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 9: You tell what she says? She said the corproo. Now

996
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 9: she says, she got these kids, you over a struggling

997
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 9: and struggling and she's trying to make it. But you

998
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 9: gotta give a hard time. She just wanted, she wanted,

999
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 9: she wanted you to put she wanted to put a

1000
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 9: smile on your face.

1001
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 11: Well, you want being settled out, I'm gonna have to

1002
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 11: say she did.

1003
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 9: Right.

1004
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 11: Wow, Now that I know you y'all were joking, And

1005
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 11: now I know this is nephew Tommy.

1006
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 9: Hey, I gotta ask you something, baby, what's the baddest

1007
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 9: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

1008
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 11: That's Steve Harven Morning Show.

1009
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 5: Babies, there we go, folks.

1010
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 8: Is that nephew? Is that ignorant? It's that stupid? It's

1011
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 8: that nephew all right? And you just heard earlier who

1012
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 8: is mo ignorant? Bill Bellamy and the nephew will be

1013
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 8: off the twenty ninth Friday Night. Well, Auditorium, Birmingham, Alabama.

1014
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 8: It is week zero comedy, damn, it is week zero.

1015
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 8: Of course they got the big football games Valdosta's say

1016
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 8: it against Clarke, Atlanta University, West Alabama against Fort Valley,

1017
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 8: and that's all going down Saturday night. But on Friday night,

1018
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 8: it's where it's stupidity Stars, And that's where you want

1019
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:11,479
Speaker 8: to start.

1020
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 4: You want to start with stupidity, straight ignorance. That's how

1021
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 4: you start a labor day weekend.

1022
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: All right, all minds clear? End with that.

1023
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:25,240
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, yes, yes, And it's not sixty something out fifth,

1024
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:26,439
Speaker 8: it's like four or five.

1025
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: You know that was an exactuate. I didn't know you

1026
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: changed that many times. I never did that, you know

1027
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: I got different. Yeah, I got that from Patty Le Belle.

1028
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: You do that a lot.

1029
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, made Megan Stars do that.

1030
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying. That's like you got that

1031
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 8: from Patty La Belle. Okay, yeah, yeah, you knew you'd

1032
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 8: have done it. You know what I'm saying. I'm saying,

1033
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,959
Speaker 8: we moving across this country. That's Friday night. I'm sorry,

1034
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 8: Oh my god. If you know, if you're not in

1035
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 8: the city of Birmingham, then you'll catch me. I'm ready

1036
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 8: to love. I'll be there on my own network. Okay,

1037
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 8: and we're coming up on one hundred and fift the episode.

1038
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 8: So hey, come on, Hey, what you got?

1039
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, that's cool. Nephew, congratulations. Yeah he got ten thousand.

1040
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 4: But don't worry about me though, dog please, you know

1041
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 4: I tell people all the time it's hard to catch

1042
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 4: somebody still running though.

1043
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is my Strawberry Letter for today

1044
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 1: and the subject is what is my role in my marriage?

1045
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this.

1046
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1047
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1055
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

1056
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, work, sex,

1057
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve

1058
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: HAARBFM dot com and click submit Strawberry letter. We could

1059
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like

1060
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now,

1061
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. It could

1062
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:27,959
Speaker 1: be yours.

1063
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 8: Buckle up and hold on type you got it for you,

1064
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 8: And here it is strawberry letter.

1065
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: All right, Telly, thank you. Subject what's my role in

1066
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: my marriage? What's my role in my marriage? Dear Stephen Shirley.

1067
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm married to a man that doesn't do his own laundry,

1068
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 1: rake his own plate into the sink, or do any

1069
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: chores in our home. He said. He makes the money

1070
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,399
Speaker 1: and provides a decent living for our children, and I'm

1071
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: supposed to have sex with him and do my duty

1072
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: as the wife and mother. He is only thirty two,

1073
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 1: so he's getting this from his daddy, who's been divorced twice.

1074
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: He told me that if he can't be a king

1075
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: in his household, he will have to go where he's celebrated.

1076
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 1: I have told him several times to go ahead and

1077
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: see if the grass is greener on the other side,

1078
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: but he won't do it. I refuse to be treated

1079
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 1: like a handmaid at home. The only time he treats

1080
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: me like an equal is when it counts. He brags

1081
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: to his friends that I'm so smart, and I'm a

1082
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: great wife, and I'm raising our daughters to be polite

1083
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: and kind. Then as soon as we're alone, he's telling

1084
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: me to go get ready for bed and wait for

1085
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: him before I fall asleep. Because he is in the

1086
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: mood for intimacy. He never does the appetizer part first anymore.

1087
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 1: He skips right to the entree and then takes the shower.

1088
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: If I try to take a shower with him like

1089
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: we used to, he will say that he won't be

1090
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: in there long. I would love to know where I

1091
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 1: stand with my husband and if this is what our

1092
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: marriage will be like forever. I want to talk to

1093
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: his dad to see why he's advising him to treat

1094
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: me like I'm his servant. And I want to ask

1095
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: his mother if this is how her marriage was. My

1096
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: husband said, I have no right to speak to his

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00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: parents if he is not present. Am I part of

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00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 1: this marriage or am I a smart maid and nanny

1099
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: that he enjoys having sex with? What is my role

1100
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 1: with him? Well, right now, your role is that of

1101
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: a wife who is being controlled and defined by her husband.

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00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: I don't like the fact that you are letting him

1103
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 1: tell you who you are in this marriage. Marriage is

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00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 1: supposed to be a loving, committed partnership between two people.

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00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: Marriage is not a dictatorship like what your husband has

1106
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: going on in your marriage. You can control your own narrative,

1107
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: meaning you decide your own role with him. He doesn't

1108
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: decide that.

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00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 5: You say.

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00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: He treats you well outside of the house, but inside

1111
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 1: he's cold and mean. You've told him many times to

1112
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: go ahead and see if the grad greener on the

1113
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: other side. Go ahead, but he won't do it. And

1114
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: why do you think that is? Because he knows better.

1115
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 1: He knows that it isn't. So don't just allow him

1116
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 1: to continue to treat you this way. Talk to you crazy?

1117
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: How dare he? You have to teach him how to

1118
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: treat you. And you don't need to talk to his

1119
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: parents about what's going on in your house either. Talk

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00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: to him that's your husband. Tell him how you feel

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00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: or better yet, show him. Don't wait for him to

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00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: come to bed only to just satisfy himself. You go

1123
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: to bed and go to sleep if that's what you

1124
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 1: want to do, because your body and mind only respond

1125
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: to a caring, loving husband. Let him know that that's

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00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: what you got to tell him. No one said he

1127
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: couldn't be the king of the castle. He's just got

1128
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 1: to remember that you are the queen of the castle

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00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 1: and he needs to treat you as such. Period.

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00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 4: Steve Well, the problem with this guy realizing that his

1131
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 4: wife says the queen of the castle is he doesn't

1132
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 4: have a good definition of what queen is. He doesn't

1133
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 4: understand that the queen is the most powerful position on

1134
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 4: the chessboard, always has been, always will be. Now the

1135
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 4: game is over once you capture the king, but if

1136
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 4: you lose your queen, and the game is very difficult

1137
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 4: to win, especially if somebody else got one. Now you're

1138
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 4: I'm married to a man. What's my role in my marriage, lady,

1139
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 4: that's for you to define. This is your definition of

1140
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 4: what your role in the marriage is. What role are

1141
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 4: you willing to play?

1142
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 5: Now?

1143
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 4: You're married to this man that don't do his own line,

1144
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 4: you rake his own plate, int to the sink, or

1145
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 4: do any chores.

1146
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:41,439
Speaker 1: In our home?

1147
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 4: He said, he makes the money, provides a decent living

1148
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 4: for our children, and I'm supposed to have sex with

1149
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 4: him and do my duty as a wife and mother.

1150
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 4: He's only thirty two, so he's getting this from his daddy,

1151
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 4: who's been divorced twice. He told me that if he

1152
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 4: can't be a king in his household, he'll have to

1153
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 4: go where he's celebrated. Look, man, early threats and what

1154
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 4: you're gonna do and all this hell man bye. I

1155
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 4: told him several times to go ahead and see if

1156
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:11,479
Speaker 4: the grass is green on the other side.

1157
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: But he won't do it. No, let me explain something

1158
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: to you. It ain't that he won't do it. He

1159
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: done tried it properly. But what the deal is is

1160
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: he not.

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01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 4: Gonna find nobody that's gonna take in with this nineteen

1162
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 4: fifty two marriage agreement nineteen fifty two.

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01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: This ain't my three sons or leave it to beaver.

1164
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:37,439
Speaker 1: This is the same. What this is the Saint Black

1165
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: and White TV.

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01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 4: No more think on you. You don't get You don't

1167
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 4: get to talk to women like this man. You you

1168
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 4: don't get to tell a woman that go in there

1169
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 4: and get ready for bread till I come in there.

1170
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 4: What where are you if you're getting this from your

1171
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 4: stupid daddy that's been divorced twice. Don't you know that's

1172
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 4: where you're headed. I refuse to be treated like a

1173
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 4: handmaid at home. Then you say, the only time he

1174
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 4: treats you is equal is when it counts.

1175
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 1: That's so.

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01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 4: That's a double canandra what you call it? That's a

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01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 4: oxy moron. I don't know what they call it. This

1178
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 4: don't make no sense.

1179
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 9: Now.

1180
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 4: The only time he treats me like an equal is

1181
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 4: when it counts. What getting treated right counts all the time.

1182
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 4: But you think it's kind when he brad to his

1183
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 4: friends that I'm smart and a great wife and kind

1184
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 4: of politen. Then when he's alone, he's telling me to

1185
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 4: go get ready for bed and wait for him before

1186
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 4: I fall asleep because he in the move for intimacy. Man, girl,

1187
01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 4: I'm tired.

1188
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of

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01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the

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01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: hour Today's Strawberry letter subject what is my role in

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01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: my marriage? We'll get back into it right after this.

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01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,800
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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

1204
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: The subject is what is my role in my marriage

1205
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: a wife?

1206
01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 9: One?

1207
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 4: That's the question and that we can't answer that one.

1208
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 4: You're supposed to determine that you've married this guy that

1209
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 4: don't do no household chores at all. Told you that

1210
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,919
Speaker 4: that's the way it works because he make all the money,

1211
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 4: He take care of his wife and kids, and all

1212
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 4: you need to do is your wifey dudies, the wifely duties.

1213
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 4: And you're supposed to have sex with him when he

1214
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 4: wants to. And he'll tell you, you know, go in

1215
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 4: there and get ready for bed and before I fall asleep,

1216
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 4: and I'm coming there because I want to be intimate.

1217
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 5: What do you.

1218
01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 4: Then here's a line that stood out for me in

1219
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 4: the whole letter. The only time he treats me like

1220
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:24,439
Speaker 4: an equal is when it counts, lady, it counts all

1221
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 4: the time. But you think when he gets in front

1222
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,479
Speaker 4: of his friends and he brags on you, talk about

1223
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 4: how smart you are and how good of a wife,

1224
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 4: and how you're waising your daughters and all that. And

1225
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 4: then after that, as soon as we're alone, he telling

1226
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,080
Speaker 4: me to go get ready for bed and wait for

1227
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 4: him before I fall asleep, because he in the mood

1228
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 4: for intimacy.

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01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 1: Who married to this? Where do you find? Huh?

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01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 9: How you?

1231
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 1: What did you say? Get in there?

1232
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 4: Get in there and get ready for bed till I

1233
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 4: come in there?

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01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 9: What?

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01:04:57,240 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 4: He never does the advertiser part first anymore. He skips

1236
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 4: right to the entree and then takes a shot. If

1237
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 4: I try to take a shot with him like we

1238
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 4: used to, he'll say he won't be in that long.

1239
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 4: And I would love to know where I staying with

1240
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 4: my husband. You don't stand no where with him. He

1241
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 4: done told you you don't stand You get in there

1242
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 4: and lay in that bed, wait till I come in. Now,

1243
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:23,439
Speaker 4: I don't do no charge. You do all this clean

1244
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 4: and mopping, wiping, take caady, kids, I'm the king of

1245
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 4: this castle. I want to know where I stand with

1246
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 4: my husband. If this is what our marriage would be

1247
01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 4: like forever. Yeah, unless you change it, you're getting what

1248
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 4: you're gonna get. And if you keep doing what you

1249
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 4: been doing, you gonna keep getting what you've been getting.

1250
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 4: The change is up to you. I want to talk

1251
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 4: to his dad to see why he's advising me to

1252
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 4: treat me like this. I'm his servant, and I want

1253
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 4: to ask his mom if this is how and her

1254
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 4: marriage was.

1255
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 1: What are you talking to them for? What you keep

1256
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 1: looking for? Insight?

1257
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 4: See your problem, young lady, is you keep looking for

1258
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 4: your justification in other people. You won't talk to his daddy,

1259
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 4: you won't talk to his mama. Then you say he

1260
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 4: only treats me right when he counts. You keep waiting

1261
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 4: on validation for somebody else. My husband said, I have

1262
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 4: no right to speak to his parents if he is

1263
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 4: not present. Wow, what kind of relationship y'all got? Am

1264
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 4: I a part of this marriage? Or am I a

1265
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 4: smart maid and a nanny that he enjoys having sex with.

1266
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 4: You're a part of his marriage. Once you insert yourself

1267
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 4: into the marriage, you do know that it takes two

1268
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 4: people to be married. I don't know what y'all's viles was,

1269
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 4: but I most women don't listen to him no way. Now,

1270
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 4: I'm not talking about in terms of lawty is nothing

1271
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 4: like that, but that that they even took them words

1272
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 4: out honor and obeyed. They don't even say that no more,

1273
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 4: I don't think because if you can get one to obey,

1274
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 4: that have to be a miracle. Please please tell me

1275
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 4: how that works. Donna and obeyed, I be I at

1276
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 4: never and these two that's on this show married down

1277
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 4: obeyed nothing. I can just tell you that it's just

1278
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 4: not in their card. So I don't even really anyway.

1279
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 4: They ain't got nothing to do with it. What is

1280
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 4: my role with him? Well, you're the lady that does

1281
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 4: all the housework. You're the lady that goes in there

1282
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:31,479
Speaker 4: and lay down till he get ready to have sex

1283
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 4: and shut up all this talking.

1284
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 1: You don't come in here, don't show with me.

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01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 4: I don't want to. I don't want that. Don't be

1286
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 4: a hero of nohing to stop. That's your role, that's

1287
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 4: what you've described to us. Now, Am I a smart

1288
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 4: maid and a nanny that he enjoys having sex with

1289
01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 4: I think you just described your role because so far

1290
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 4: in the letter that's what you are. You're a smart maid,

1291
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 4: a nanny, and he enjoys having sex with you. What

1292
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 4: are you getting out of this? What's in it for you?

1293
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 4: I mean, you didn't say he was a great dad.

1294
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 4: He told you he's a great provider.

1295
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 1: I know I am.

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01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 4: I want that credit all the time. But that ain't

1297
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 4: all you get to be though, when you're a husband

1298
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 4: and a father, you got to be something else. And

1299
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 4: so yeah, lady, what's your role in this marriage? Only

1300
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 4: you can determine that. But I tell you what you

1301
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,760
Speaker 4: all are young. If you don't change this, this is

1302
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,560
Speaker 4: this is what's gonna happen in your marriage from now on.

1303
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: And you're gonna be miserable.

1304
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 4: Because I don't really see what you're getting out of it.

1305
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 4: And here's left to his other point, I almost forgot this.

1306
01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 4: Y y'all ain't had none of these discussions.

1307
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: Before y'all got married. Helen, you didn't. You didn't know

1308
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 1: that this is what he expected you to do. You

1309
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 1: didn't know he never told you when I get married,

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Speaker 1: I make this money. I ain't doing no cleaning.

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Speaker 4: I told her to Marrow.

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01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 1: I said, hey, when we get married, don't ask me

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Speaker 1: to clean.

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Speaker 4: I told her that.

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Speaker 1: She still asked me to clean. You've lift up through.

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01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 4: Now I gotta go in there and wipe the count

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01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 4: off every night. It's my plate.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Damn the dish washer for what are

1319
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 1: these people in here?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 4: What has we got these people walking around here for?

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01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 1: Oh one?

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01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 4: I don't understand right, all right, please stop telling me

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01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:36,240
Speaker 4: what I need to do, but clearly these people are

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01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:36,680
Speaker 4: in here.

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Speaker 1: You're coming, buddy on Today's letter on Instagram at.

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Speaker 4: White your clothes can't find the hample. They can't find here,

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01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 4: but I don't know where it is.

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01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 1: At Steve Harvey FM and check us out on the

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01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:51,840
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up

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01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 1: next to It's Tommy and for Junior with Sports Talk.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: The swap to Swiffer power mop the only one.

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Speaker 12: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down

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Speaker 12: Get yours today and mop smarter with the swiffer power mob.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, Tommy is here and for junior with

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01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 1: sports talk. What you got Tommy?

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01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:30,879
Speaker 4: Aren't they talking about it? Talking about Shallow?

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01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 8: Shallowed and got cut from Tampa Bay Buccaneers. There's talks

1343
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 8: about Dollar possibly going to play Canadian football, and there's

1344
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 8: also a rumor that the door might be going to

1345
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 8: Canadian football.

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01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,679
Speaker 1: You're going to know where? Okay, I'm.

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01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 4: All right, clean, clean, and just traded Kenny Pickett to

1348
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 4: the Los Angeles Raiders for a fifth round pick.

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01:10:58,520 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 1: In next year's draft.

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01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 4: Cleveland's draft board next year is outstanding. Okay, so now

1351
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 4: they have three quarterbacks, well technically, but go ahead, No,

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01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 4: how they got full Trump?

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01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 1: Well are you adding? Uh uhha?

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01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 4: Oh no, he ain't even in the company, man, he

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01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:26,879
Speaker 4: ain't even in the conversation.

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01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 8: Thank you, congratulations. I think he just got married. But yeah, so,

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01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 8: so what do you think do you think shot? This

1358
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,439
Speaker 8: is a good move for Shallow going to Canadian malls.

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01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 4: I don't think that's necessary yet.

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Speaker 8: Okay, he can get cornerback man. He played pretty good

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01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 8: throughout the preseason. He did pretty decent.

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Speaker 1: Is he a cornerback or safety? I thought he was corner.

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01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 1: Maybe it's safety. I thought he was corner like a dad.

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01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:55,679
Speaker 1: Well not like his dad. You know what I'm trying

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01:11:55,720 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 1: to say. He can play something.

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Speaker 8: I don't understand. Man, This this preseason, of course, is

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01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 8: for everybody. You know, you got you got rookies coming in.

1368
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 8: You're either gonna make the team or not make the team.

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01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 8: But at least you see, you get to see your

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01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:15,639
Speaker 8: main quarterback come do a couple series, march the field.

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01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:16,719
Speaker 1: That's that's normal.

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Speaker 8: What I don't understand, Dallas, Cowboy Dak Prescott has not

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01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:26,600
Speaker 8: taken a snap yet, and I don't get that. And

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01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 8: you finna come play Philadelphia for your first game? Uh,

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01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:33,599
Speaker 8: the big defense opening game Thursday night would be will

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01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 8: be the Philadelphia Eagles and the Cowboys.

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01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 1: And he ain't took a snap. That doesn't make no

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01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 1: sense to me. Well you know this, Dallas, though, this Dallas, what.

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01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 4: Makes sense in I mean? And this ain't me hating.

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01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 4: I'm just asking a question. The fans are confused. This

1381
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 4: man ain't sign Parsons yet. Parsons. It's confused. Everybody want

1382
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:01,519
Speaker 4: to know what's happening. That's how Jay jorganes NEI running

1383
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 4: the organization. Man, there is where That's why. Man, I

1384
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 4: like the Dallas Cowboy players. Man, I just can't stand

1385
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 4: the teams. No, the dog I ain't got no problem

1386
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 4: with the fans. Well, I loved a cheerleaders. Let me

1387
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:22,679
Speaker 4: just put that out there. They have the most americous team.

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01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Coming up at the top

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01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,800
Speaker 1: of the hour, a lady needs some advice Steve on

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01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 1: how to handle her baby daddy and his wife. Okay,

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01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 1: we'll get into that God right after this. You're listening

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01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this

1394
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 1: is from Precious in Memphis. Prescia says, I had a

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01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,680
Speaker 1: baby in March, and my child's dad has been to

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01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 1: see the baby once. He called and asked if he

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01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 1: could come and get our child to introduce the baby

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01:13:56,280 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 1: to his wife. I told him if my I pause

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01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,200
Speaker 1: there because I know you needed a moment. I told him,

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01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 1: if my baby goes to meet his wife, then I

1401
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 1: should go meet her too. He said that his wife

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01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: doesn't want to meet me. Should I keep my baby

1403
01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 1: away until I meet his wife? That is her question.

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01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:15,439
Speaker 1: That's precious.

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01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:20,280
Speaker 4: He's your baby. He'dn't been to see her once. I

1406
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 4: don't think he's in a position for demands. If you say, look,

1407
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,640
Speaker 4: you can come get the baby, but I want to

1408
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:28,599
Speaker 4: meet your wife. You got to know who got your kids.

1409
01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 4: Now his wife don't want to meet her, then you

1410
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 4: can't meet the baby. What what the hell?

1411
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 1: This woman had the baby?

1412
01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 4: She got DIBs. The mother got DIBs. Sorry, yeah, wow,

1413
01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 4: yeah she had Yeah, brother, you'd have been to see

1414
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 4: her one time. Now you want to pick the baby

1415
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 4: up and take so your wife can meet her. Oh well,

1416
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 4: I want to meet your wife. She don't want to

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01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:55,519
Speaker 4: meet you.

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01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: Okay, Well cool, she don't want to meet me. Shea's

1419
01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:06,639
Speaker 1: fit to meet my baby, right baby? Okay? All right,

1420
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:10,760
Speaker 1: So she should keep the baby until she meets the wife. Absolutely,

1421
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: this is a simple request. Yeah, it was stupid asked it.

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01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 1: He's stupid. A baby mama for your wife. All right,

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01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 1: we have time for another one, Steve. This is from

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01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 1: Cynthia in Studio City. Cynthia says, I pay my teenage

1425
01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 1: son to help me out by picking up his little

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01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 1: brother from school this year and keeping him until I

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01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: get home from work. I found out that he's been

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01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 1: smoking weed out back and leaving my son inside unattended.

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01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 1: I told him that if he can't be as sharp,

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01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 1: that he can't be as sharp as he needs to

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01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: be when he's under the influence of drugs. He says,

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01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 1: he's better when he smokes. He's nineteen years old and

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01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: weed is legal here.

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01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:57,600
Speaker 3: So what do I do?

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01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 1: Do I stop paying him if he's going to be high? Well,

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01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:07,719
Speaker 1: I mean you're paying him to watch is your son? Okay?

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01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 1: I mean he's not smoking in front of the How

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01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:12,400
Speaker 1: old is the boy?

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01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 9: That? Yeah?

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01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 4: And I mean if he's outside smoking weed, you know

1441
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:24,400
Speaker 4: he thinks he can. He the reason he watched him

1442
01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 4: better when he high is called he ain't watching it.

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01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:35,200
Speaker 1: Explain that please here out back smoking weed? I can

1444
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:41,479
Speaker 1: watch him better from out back. See how that sounds crazy? Yeah?

1445
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:45,360
Speaker 1: And she's concerned about the younger brother, the little brother

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01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:48,800
Speaker 1: in the house by himself, just leaving him in the house.

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01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 4: He got to be a toddler, he you, well, yeah.

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01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Should you stop paying

1449
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 1: him if he's going to be high? She says, yeah,

1450
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:07,759
Speaker 1: But he told his mom that he's better when he smokes.

1451
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:11,640
Speaker 4: We didn't get paid to watch our siblings. You just

1452
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:12,879
Speaker 4: had to watch your siblings.

1453
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 1: But I mean, this is a nice savage from the mom. Toddler.

1454
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:19,880
Speaker 1: He's in school, so he's yeah, he's not. Yeah, he's

1455
01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:23,720
Speaker 1: not a toddler problem. That's daymare. Yeah.

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01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:28,759
Speaker 4: I can't imagine wrapping my lips up to tell my mama,

1457
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm better when i'm high.

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01:17:30,400 --> 01:17:37,559
Speaker 1: I there, let's go right, right, right right? Nineteen he's

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01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 1: ninety Yeah, next question, Shirley, I can't. All right, that's it,

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01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:47,519
Speaker 1: that's it, that's it. Yeah, he's better when he smokes.

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01:17:48,520 --> 01:17:48,680
Speaker 8: Yeah.

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01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:53,479
Speaker 1: If you believe that, then then tyda, we have a problem. Yeah, yeah,

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01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: I think they have a problem. Yeah, but weed is

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01:17:57,200 --> 01:18:01,360
Speaker 1: legal there, and he's nineteen. He can't he's stupid. He's

1465
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: here his little brother. Yeah, yeah, but it's not legally

1466
01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:08,360
Speaker 1: if you're nineteen. Well maybe the mom doesn't know that.

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01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 4: I mean, don't weed have a like twenty one? Yeah,

1468
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 4: you gotta be twenty one to smoke it.

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01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:17,720
Speaker 1: I don't know about wheed, but she did say it's

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01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:20,639
Speaker 1: legal there. All right, all right, coming up at about

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to

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01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here's a question.

1474
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 1: Listen to this, guys, what celebrity do you hate for

1475
01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:41,560
Speaker 1: no good reason? Not do you love, but do you

1476
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:43,840
Speaker 1: hate for no goo for some reason? You just don't

1477
01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:44,400
Speaker 1: like them?

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01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 9: You know?

1479
01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,639
Speaker 1: This question was posed on a Reddit pop culture chat,

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01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: and the answers were funny. Luckily, Steve, no one named you.

1481
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:58,920
Speaker 1: No one, so see people love you if you've ever

1482
01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:02,439
Speaker 1: experienced dream anger or discussed with the celebrity that you

1483
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 1: don't know or that you know for absolutely no reason,

1484
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: who was that person?

1485
01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 4: I ain't really never had no beef with no real celebrity.

1486
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:15,639
Speaker 4: I ain't got nobody. I don't like it for no reason,

1487
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:18,759
Speaker 4: no even for a reason.

1488
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:20,400
Speaker 1: What about?

1489
01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 9: What?

1490
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: What are you gonna say that just I hate Tyl?

1491
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:32,160
Speaker 1: I asked this man this question. I do Uh, you're good? Yeah,

1492
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:36,439
Speaker 1: I'm good man. I don't really all right, we're getting

1493
01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:38,680
Speaker 1: through it. Then it's just like you know, one or

1494
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 1: two people I bet not see nowhere.

1495
01:19:40,560 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 4: But he said, I got about three more people that

1496
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 4: I want to drag across the concrete.

1497
01:19:52,040 --> 01:20:03,559
Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna get baptized. Oh wow. Okay, dude, all right,

1498
01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:05,680
Speaker 1: I'm glad it's all love on this show. We'll have

1499
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:08,680
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

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01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we will play around.

1501
01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 1: I would you rather right after this you're listening to

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01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, get.

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Speaker 1: It's time now, guys, for a round. It would you rather?

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Speaker 8: All right?

1514
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,559
Speaker 1: So on a woman? Would you rather a big pretty

1515
01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:00,679
Speaker 1: smile or big pretty eyes on a woman?

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01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 5: Wow?

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01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:09,400
Speaker 1: Smile teeth or eyes like a pretty mind pretty smile?

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01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:11,040
Speaker 4: Okay, all right?

1519
01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:12,479
Speaker 1: Like your.

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01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:19,439
Speaker 4: Eyes? Your eyes is too much. You got a big

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01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:20,479
Speaker 4: smile and big.

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Speaker 6: Overnight you come a b It's like your nose and

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01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:33,599
Speaker 6: your lips I get too much, too much.

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01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 9: Much.

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01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:39,400
Speaker 4: You're too close, You're too close. Back up, back up,

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01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 4: scare the kids.

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01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:46,799
Speaker 1: Now all right? Would you rather run in a street

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01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:49,560
Speaker 1: race barefoot? Or would you rather dangle your feet in

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01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 1: a lake? Dang on my feet on the lake. Wait?

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01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:54,879
Speaker 4: What are the choices?

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01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 1: What race?

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01:21:59,000 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 9: Well?

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01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 1: This, this, this is what it is.

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01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:04,680
Speaker 4: Would you rather I'm gonna dangle my feet in the

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01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:11,320
Speaker 4: lake all the Okay, I'm.

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01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,680
Speaker 1: A good dangler. You're a good thing.

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01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:15,240
Speaker 9: Yeah, we know.

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01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 1: Would you rather have one account with your spouse or

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01:22:21,160 --> 01:22:27,600
Speaker 1: just live without a debit card? One bank account? Just

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01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:31,120
Speaker 1: one account with your spouse one probably a joint account.

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01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just gotta keep going down that to the

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01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:34,120
Speaker 4: bank and getting me.

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01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 1: You got a debit car, debit card? Okay?

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01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:43,680
Speaker 4: Explain you mean a debit card like to go to

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01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:44,839
Speaker 4: ATM machine?

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01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:46,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

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01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't been to an ATM machine since.

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01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, you can do more with a debit

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01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:56,599
Speaker 1: card than just go to the ATM. It's your cat.

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01:22:56,680 --> 01:22:57,519
Speaker 4: It's just like cash.

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01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:01,200
Speaker 8: You ain't done it, you know, you pull up in

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01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:03,479
Speaker 8: there to day and stick your card in and and

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01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:04,759
Speaker 8: and check your balance.

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01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:07,040
Speaker 4: I put that card in there. I ain't even gonna

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01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:07,759
Speaker 4: know what to push.

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01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:12,680
Speaker 1: They have prompts. They ask me what.

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01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 4: Okay, suppose I say credit or debit?

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01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 1: Then they then they're gonna ask me for some numbers.

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01:23:20,439 --> 01:23:23,200
Speaker 1: What's your personal identification number? Your PIN?

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01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 9: What is it?

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01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:28,360
Speaker 1: Credit? You don't need a pin if you press debit? Yeah,

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01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:31,040
Speaker 1: the PIN number to make the purchase?

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01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:31,760
Speaker 2: What is the pin?

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01:23:31,960 --> 01:23:33,360
Speaker 1: Photo? Why would I do that?

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01:23:34,680 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 4: You and.

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01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:44,640
Speaker 1: Or your card in the machine? Oh, you can tap it.

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01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: You can tap from it. Now tap, you can tap

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01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:48,960
Speaker 1: a card. I just I did.

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01:23:49,120 --> 01:23:51,080
Speaker 4: The first time I did that was last year I

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01:23:51,160 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 4: taped that bass pro shot.

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Speaker 1: You was excited. All right, that's today's would you live

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Speaker 1: and approved? I'd be just wonderful. Coming up next, it

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01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:07,280
Speaker 1: is our last break of the day, and we'll close

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01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:09,080
Speaker 1: out the show with the one and out and leave

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 10: planning and hard work to get in the doors.

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Speaker 4: Didn't make that house a home. Now, all that effort has.

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Speaker 10: Built something hugely valuable, equity. It's the portion of your

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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Speaker 1: the day. Whoo, it's been a good day. It's been

1590
01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:54,400
Speaker 1: a fun day. We want to say thank you to

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01:24:54,560 --> 01:25:00,599
Speaker 1: our very special guest, Bill Bellamy. He was fantastic, sick. Yeah,

1592
01:25:00,800 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 1: off the shame. Always tell me what's your show this weekend?

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01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:05,840
Speaker 4: With you and you and Bill?

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01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:09,600
Speaker 8: Oh? Come on man, this is zero baby, this is

1595
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 8: week z ro, this is the comedy Jam. This is

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01:25:13,120 --> 01:25:16,840
Speaker 8: Friday Night bock Well Auditorium. Me and Bill Bellamie what

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01:25:17,640 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 8: I am stupid? And I'm making changes at the same

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01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:23,880
Speaker 8: time a costume.

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Speaker 1: He said, sixty three. I think Bill Bella, are you

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Speaker 1: taking hand? Yeah, I'll be sweating.

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01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 7: I'll cause you jump around the stage and do all

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01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 7: kinds of crazy stuff. Yeah, too much energy.

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01:25:44,040 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm working up there. I'm putting into work.

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01:25:46,800 --> 01:25:48,280
Speaker 8: How come I hang out with us? Man, We're gonna

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01:25:48,280 --> 01:25:50,920
Speaker 8: have a good time bought well off Friday night.

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01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:54,599
Speaker 1: That should be a lot of fun. All right, Steve,

1607
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:58,439
Speaker 1: here we are time for closing remarks. I did want

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01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 1: to ask you this. You know, sometimes you talk to

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01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:05,599
Speaker 1: us about relationships and things like that. I always love

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01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:09,719
Speaker 1: when you talk about the four bank accounts, four bank accounts.

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01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 1: People ask me, what did Steve say about the four

1612
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:14,439
Speaker 1: bank accounts? Can you explain that? Please?

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01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:14,800
Speaker 8: Oh?

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01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:17,720
Speaker 4: You know, that's crazy because I just had this conversation

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01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:22,360
Speaker 4: with this couple who were having an argument about money.

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01:26:23,040 --> 01:26:26,800
Speaker 4: Oh why And they said, well, let's ask mister Harvey

1617
01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 4: and see what you think. And so I just had

1618
01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:33,680
Speaker 4: this conversation and it was taught to me actually by

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01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 4: a friend of mine who's deceased now, the great Roger E. Salter,

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01:26:40,160 --> 01:26:44,639
Speaker 4: who owned San Mar Financial up in Chicago. That man

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01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:51,040
Speaker 4: right there taught me so much about finances. Roger Salters

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01:26:51,120 --> 01:26:57,400
Speaker 4: man Frat Brother sixty eight, MISSI man. He was a great, great,

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01:26:57,520 --> 01:27:03,160
Speaker 4: great friend. He taught me something. He said, Steve, every

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01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:07,559
Speaker 4: couple should have four bank accounts. He said, you could

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01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:10,400
Speaker 4: save yourself a lot of trouble. Because he was advising

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01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:12,920
Speaker 4: me years ago. This was in the nineteen nineties, and

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01:27:13,479 --> 01:27:15,479
Speaker 4: he was giving me some advice. Now I was struggling.

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01:27:15,520 --> 01:27:19,160
Speaker 4: He said, here's why you're struggling, because even though you're married, man,

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01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:23,479
Speaker 4: you need to have individuality. I said no, He said,

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01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 4: nobody wants to ask somebody for something all the time.

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01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:32,400
Speaker 4: Say you got to create freedom within your marriage, he say,

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01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:35,760
Speaker 4: and within your partnership. So every couple should have four

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01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:36,479
Speaker 4: bank accounts.

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01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 1: He said, you.

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01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:39,920
Speaker 4: Should have number one. If both of you are working,

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01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 4: you should have a joint account where you both put

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01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:47,680
Speaker 4: your incomes into this account and you sought out the

1638
01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:49,400
Speaker 4: bills that have to be paid.

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01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 1: These are the.

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01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:55,479
Speaker 4: Must do things, the rent, the mortgage, the light, the gas,

1641
01:27:55,760 --> 01:28:00,640
Speaker 4: the groceries, the card notes, the insurances are cation for

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01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:03,760
Speaker 4: all of this has to go in in it. And then,

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01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:07,560
Speaker 4: no matter who you are, you have to make a

1644
01:28:08,040 --> 01:28:13,200
Speaker 4: concerted effort, the two of you to save something. He said,

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01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:17,519
Speaker 4: I don't care if it's twenty dollars a week, two

1646
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 4: hundred a week, five percent of your money a week,

1647
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,800
Speaker 4: whatever your two of you decide, you've got to save

1648
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:28,280
Speaker 4: something from every check. Don't ever spend the whole check.

1649
01:28:29,400 --> 01:28:32,800
Speaker 4: Put it in a joint account that requires both of

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01:28:32,880 --> 01:28:37,439
Speaker 4: your signatures to move the money so now you've taken

1651
01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:40,760
Speaker 4: care of your household, you've taken care of your necessities,

1652
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:43,719
Speaker 4: and now you have a little nest egg that you're building.

1653
01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:46,120
Speaker 4: But it requires two people to move, so one person

1654
01:28:46,560 --> 01:28:48,639
Speaker 4: can't go and take the money out without the other

1655
01:28:48,720 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 4: person's knowledge. He said, Now a bank account three and

1656
01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 4: four that you need is she needs her own personal

1657
01:28:57,439 --> 01:29:00,799
Speaker 4: account and you need your own person. There's no account

1658
01:29:01,600 --> 01:29:04,320
Speaker 4: because what that does is you all decide out of

1659
01:29:04,400 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 4: the joint account where you all put your money. Who

1660
01:29:07,840 --> 01:29:11,400
Speaker 4: gets what as there monthly or buy monthly. If you

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01:29:11,479 --> 01:29:13,960
Speaker 4: get paid once a month, it goes in once a month.

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01:29:14,000 --> 01:29:16,160
Speaker 4: If you get paid twice a month, it goes in

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01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:18,639
Speaker 4: twice a month. If you get paid weekly, it goes

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01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:21,320
Speaker 4: in weekly. However you want to decide it. But who

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01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:21,760
Speaker 4: gets what?

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01:29:22,600 --> 01:29:22,920
Speaker 1: He said?

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01:29:22,960 --> 01:29:24,679
Speaker 4: Now, let me give you a piece of advice. Son,

1668
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:26,280
Speaker 4: He said, you.

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01:29:26,320 --> 01:29:30,000
Speaker 1: Should always give your wife more than you get.

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01:29:32,439 --> 01:29:35,360
Speaker 4: He said, I explain something to you, he said, because

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01:29:35,400 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 4: you're not gonna be able to give this woman, especially

1672
01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:41,439
Speaker 4: if you have a true partner, because she will take

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01:29:41,479 --> 01:29:43,559
Speaker 4: care of stuff with her money that you don't even

1674
01:29:43,600 --> 01:29:46,680
Speaker 4: think about. She gonna do stuff for the kids, she

1675
01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:49,639
Speaker 4: gonna do stuff for the grandkids. She gonna do stuff

1676
01:29:49,680 --> 01:29:53,800
Speaker 4: for the house out of her money. But now she

1677
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:57,280
Speaker 4: needs more to maintain herself than you do. You gotta

1678
01:29:57,320 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 4: go get a haircut. She gotta get a hair done.

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01:30:00,160 --> 01:30:04,240
Speaker 4: She gotta buy makeup. She gotta do manicures, pedicures. She

1680
01:30:04,360 --> 01:30:07,639
Speaker 4: gotta do spa treatments to keep it up. She gotta

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01:30:07,680 --> 01:30:10,680
Speaker 4: buy skincare products. All you got is some lotion at

1682
01:30:10,720 --> 01:30:14,479
Speaker 4: the house, he says, So give your wife more than

1683
01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:18,840
Speaker 4: you get now in her account. She does not have

1684
01:30:19,000 --> 01:30:22,600
Speaker 4: to ask your permission for anything. If she want to

1685
01:30:22,600 --> 01:30:25,639
Speaker 4: spend it on barettes, she get to buy bags or barettes.

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01:30:26,160 --> 01:30:28,280
Speaker 4: She want to spend it on skin care products, You

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01:30:28,360 --> 01:30:31,560
Speaker 4: can't say nothing. You, on the other hand, sir, you

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01:30:31,680 --> 01:30:34,120
Speaker 4: get your own money. She can't say nothing. If you

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01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:44,599
Speaker 4: buying cigars, tequila, if you buying golf clubs, whatever you buy,

1690
01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:48,960
Speaker 4: she can't say anything. You want to loan your partner

1691
01:30:49,000 --> 01:30:52,080
Speaker 4: one hundred dollars, that's on you. She want to give

1692
01:30:52,200 --> 01:30:55,400
Speaker 4: her family members one hundred dollars, that's on her. And

1693
01:30:55,520 --> 01:31:00,280
Speaker 4: it keeps a level of independence while you're made married

1694
01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:03,680
Speaker 4: in freedom and allows the one person not to be

1695
01:31:03,800 --> 01:31:06,600
Speaker 4: beholden to the other person. It'll cut down on a

1696
01:31:06,720 --> 01:31:09,880
Speaker 4: lot of financial arguments. It'll ensure that you all have

1697
01:31:10,040 --> 01:31:12,479
Speaker 4: taken care of your basics, and it will ensure that

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01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:14,800
Speaker 4: you all are building for the future with some type

1699
01:31:14,840 --> 01:31:18,240
Speaker 4: of saving. Four bank accounts per couple is a must have.

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01:31:18,560 --> 01:31:21,679
Speaker 4: Greatest advice I've ever had. Those are my closing remarks today,

1701
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:25,639
Speaker 4: and listen to everybody. Please don't forget talk to God today.

1702
01:31:26,920 --> 01:31:29,200
Speaker 4: He would absolutely love to hear from you.

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01:31:35,280 --> 01:31:38,720
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01:31:38,760 --> 01:31:42,280
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