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Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

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Speaker 1: If you need advice on sex, on dating, relationships, work, parenting,

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Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know we could reach your letter like we're

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Speaker 1: going to do that one today. Puppet fuck up and

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Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It

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Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephews, subject he Stole

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Speaker 1: my heart and a few other things. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: A while back, I met a man on a dating

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Speaker 1: app and it was supposed to be just a one

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Speaker 1: night stand. He came over and we had the most

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Speaker 1: explosive sex. After that, we talked all night. He lives

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Speaker 1: out of town, and when he got back home, we

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Speaker 1: talked daily and spend hours getting to know each other.

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Speaker 1: He came back to visit me because he was dying

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Speaker 1: to have sex with me. We admit it that we

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Speaker 1: were catching feelings. After he left, I noticed that he changed.

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Speaker 1: If I missed his call, he called me back to

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Speaker 1: back until I answered. It was so sweet, but I

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Speaker 1: kept reassuring him that I wasn't cheating. He came to

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Speaker 1: visit again, and this time he brought some of his

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Speaker 1: clothes and a few personal things to leave at my house.

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Speaker 1: This made me so happy because it meant we were

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Speaker 1: an official couple. Whenever we got into arguments, he jokingly say,

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Speaker 1: don't make me pop up to see what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: I never thought he would do it, but he did.

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Speaker 1: One Saturday, I volunteered to feed the homeless and I

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Speaker 1: couldn't use my phone while I was serving due to

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Speaker 1: the COVID nineteen guidelines. At the place, I went for

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Speaker 1: four hours without answering my man's calls and he lost it.

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Speaker 1: When I got home, he had kicked my door in

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Speaker 1: and he left me a note. I discovered that he

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Speaker 1: took all of his clothes, and he also took my

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Speaker 1: forty two inch TV, two lamps, some of my shoes,

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Speaker 1: some frozen steaks, and the microwave. It was so random,

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Speaker 1: since he has never bought me anything. I called to

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Speaker 1: beg him to come back, but he said it's over

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Speaker 1: and he never wants to see me again. How can

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Speaker 1: I get this man to see that I would never

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Speaker 1: cheat on him? How can I fix this? Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna read your words back to you and see if

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Speaker 1: this sparks anything in your brain. You say, when I

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Speaker 1: got home, he had kicked my door in, he'd left

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Speaker 1: me a note. I discovered. He took all of my

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Speaker 1: clothes and he also took my two inch TV to lamp,

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Speaker 1: some of my shoes, some frozen steaks, and the microwave. Okay,

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Speaker 1: does that sound crazy to you? I mean, doesn't that

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Speaker 1: sound a little crazy? It does to me. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: it does to Steve and to everyone else listening. So

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Speaker 1: why why would you want this ignorant man back in

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Speaker 1: your life? I mean, honestly, it sounds scary. I mean,

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Speaker 1: who does this? He sounds like some kind of psychopath

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Speaker 1: To me, I just say, consider yourself blessed that that's all.

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Speaker 1: He took the TV and the microwave and some shoes,

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Speaker 1: and I really don't get the stakes part anyway. He

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Speaker 1: sounds violent, he sounds controlling, he sounds possessive. To me,

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad. I'm really glad you weren't in the

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Speaker 1: house because I think he would have put his hands

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Speaker 1: on you. I really do. And it's really a shame

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Speaker 1: I think that I have to tell you this. It

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Speaker 1: really pains me, honestly, because you gotta know, you need

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Speaker 1: to know this, that you shouldn't be so desperate that

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Speaker 1: you would think that you would have to beg this

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Speaker 1: man to come back to you, to do what I mean,

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Speaker 1: let him go, please, girl, you gotta let him go,

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Speaker 1: and don't ever invite him back to your house. I mean,

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Speaker 1: he tried to destroy your house. He kicked the door in.

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Speaker 1: Come on, he's a thief. Remember that. Please don't forget that.

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Speaker 1: Let's be clear. This man sounds very unstable. I think

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Speaker 1: you need to run and run quickly and get away

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Speaker 1: from him. Steve Well, good letters, Shirley. I see a

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Speaker 1: little something else in here that I probably need to

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Speaker 1: go over and cover. Yes, oh, metis man on this

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Speaker 1: day now, this way, this went wrong. It was supposed

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Speaker 1: to be a one night stand. This and hit it,

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Speaker 1: quit it, sock it, knock it, throw it, catch it.

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Speaker 1: He came over and we had, in your words, the

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Speaker 1: most explosive sex. Now, let me show you what happens

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Speaker 1: after you have explosive six y'all talk daily, spend hours

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Speaker 1: getting to know each other. Came back to visit because

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Speaker 1: he was dying to have sex with me again. You

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Speaker 1: know why, because it was explosive. We admitted we was

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Speaker 1: catching feelings. He left, and I noticed he changed. If

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Speaker 1: I missed his calls, he would call me back to

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Speaker 1: back to back. You know why, because y'all had explosive sex.

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Speaker 1: Explosive sex will make you call back to back to

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Speaker 1: back to back. Damn it, answer me. If you'd just

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Speaker 1: had regular sex, none of this would be happening to you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you thought it was so sweet, didn't you. I kept

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Speaker 1: with shooting him. I wasn't cheating. He came to visit again,

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Speaker 1: and this time he bought some clothes with him and

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Speaker 1: a few personal things and leaving my house. You know why,

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Speaker 1: because y'all was down there having exploding sex, just blowing

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Speaker 1: a spoom, just blowing up stove, snatching pigs after nags,

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Speaker 1: dropping it on the side of the bed. This made

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Speaker 1: me happy. It made you think you was an official couple.

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Speaker 1: Whenever we got in the arguments, he jokingly, safe, don't

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Speaker 1: make me pop up. See what you're doing. You know why, man,

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Speaker 1: just pop up, because y'all had explosive sex. Explosive This

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Speaker 1: your whole damn problem, that all right? Hold on, explosive,

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Speaker 1: Hold on Steve we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: showing up twenty three minutes after the hour of today's subjects.

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Speaker 1: He stole my heart and a few other things. We'll

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Morning show,

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters

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Speaker 1: subject he Stole my heart and a few other things.

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Speaker 1: Met a man on the day nap hooked up with him.

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Speaker 1: Puposed to be a one night stand, end up having

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Speaker 1: the most explosive sex ever. He called every day because

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Speaker 1: you was having explosive sex. He came back because he

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Speaker 1: missed you so much, because y'all was having explosive sex.

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Speaker 1: He admitted that he wanted you. Y'all had sex. I

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Speaker 1: missed his call. He called back to back to back

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Speaker 1: because y'all was having explosive sex. You thought it was sweet.

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Speaker 1: And then he came to visit. He bought some clothes

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Speaker 1: and left some personal things at the house. That's so

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Speaker 1: he can just have a shirt over that. Because you don't.

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Speaker 1: After you have explosive sex, you need to have a

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Speaker 1: change a clue explosive sex and put them same draws

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Speaker 1: on you. Explosive sex. You gotta change your side. See

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Speaker 1: explosive sex is different. Your belt probably don't fasten no more.

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Speaker 1: You need a set of clothes, shoes, strings, and came

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Speaker 1: all out your shoes. Because y'all have an explosive sex,

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Speaker 1: you open the doors. He diving across the porch. Then

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Speaker 1: when y'all have an arguments, he say, don't make me

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Speaker 1: pop up and see what you're doing. I never thought

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Speaker 1: he'd do it, but he did. You down there trying

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Speaker 1: to feed the homeless. You volunteer to feed him, and

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Speaker 1: you can't use your phone while you're serving because you're

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Speaker 1: different foods due to the COVID guidelines. You went four

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Speaker 1: hours without answering your man's car and dog go on it.

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Speaker 1: He lost it. You know why he lost it because

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Speaker 1: he was looking. But that explosive to six, It was

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Speaker 1: not on the phone when I got home. He didn't

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Speaker 1: kick your dough in and left you a note. But

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Speaker 1: you discovered he took all his clothes, took your forty

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Speaker 1: two inch TV two lamps, some of your shoes, some

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Speaker 1: frozen steaks, and the microwave. Now, after he did all that,

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Speaker 1: this is what you said. It was so random, since

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Speaker 1: he never bought me anything. He didn't buy me, no

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Speaker 1: shoeses a no microwave, and just taking TVs down off

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Speaker 1: the wall. I don't understand he didn't buy none of

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Speaker 1: that stuff. That was your statement after that. Then right

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Speaker 1: after that, you said I called to beg him back.

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Speaker 1: Let's park this letter for a minute. What is wrong

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Speaker 1: with you? See? Maybe this explosive sex wasn't just having

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Speaker 1: him do ignorant mess. It's got you doing ignorant mess too.

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Speaker 1: So a man kick your dough in, leave you a note,

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Speaker 1: took his clothes, your forty two inch TV, two lamps,

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Speaker 1: some of your shoes, some frozen steaks, and the microwave,

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Speaker 1: and you begged him to come back. What did he

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Speaker 1: miss something? Baby? You got to come back. I can't

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Speaker 1: believe you left all this chicken in this freezing How

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Speaker 1: can I get this man to see that I would

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Speaker 1: never cheat on him? Wait a minute, shirt on he

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Speaker 1: head just right? What are you talking about? Why are

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Speaker 1: you concerned with getting him back and trying to prove

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Speaker 1: to this man that you didn't cheat? He kicked your

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Speaker 1: doing yes, come on, he took a flash grin, You're

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Speaker 1: not how hard you take a far to two? His TV?

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Speaker 1: Awful wall put it in your car with your shoes.

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Speaker 1: Oh damn microwave? How did he get that microwave? About

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Speaker 1: that wall? Can I ask you something? Huh? Why did

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Speaker 1: he take frozen steaks? So because he had to drive home?

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Speaker 1: They keep better. Oh, so you don't take nothing out

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Speaker 1: refrigerator because he'd be small. It's hot. He put him

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Speaker 1: in a trunk back there. That engine, that engine kick off,

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Speaker 1: And then you know he probably stay out of town

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Speaker 1: because they met on the Alum. Yeah, he spent and

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Speaker 1: they talked daily, and he came back to visits. He

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Speaker 1: didn't come over, he came back to visit. He stay

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Speaker 1: keep on the highway. But you know what, I'm not

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Speaker 1: thank you for bringing it. I'm just I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: to help. Yeah, I appreciate it. You got to think

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Speaker 1: this thing out. You don't when you fit to go

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Speaker 1: back home, you got drive a while. You don't take

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Speaker 1: an out refrigerator. That's bass. You get it. Frozen, so

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Speaker 1: it can as I don't know why I would not

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Speaker 1: want to see him again, all having all this exploding

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Speaker 1: sex and he's still is stuffing. He didn't explode it

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Speaker 1: so good. I don't even know. He's still is stuff

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Speaker 1: to kick the whole damn dough And you ain't got

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Speaker 1: a lock no more. You ain't that trying to go

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Speaker 1: to bed to night. You don't leave some cardboard up,

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Speaker 1: get show dough? That's crazy? How can I fix this?

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Speaker 1: What did you do wrong? Because I'm looking in the letter,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what you did? Lady, lady,

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? Don't you? You are what's called

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Speaker 1: from don't get on this explosive sense and get yourself hurt?

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Speaker 1: Something wrong with him? From you? Don't answer the phone.

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Speaker 1: He kicked a doe in the star still it and

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Speaker 1: she just matters. But the whole damn doughe when you

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Speaker 1: kick a doe in dog, you know how hard he

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Speaker 1: is to kick a dough in man? Everybody can't do it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Steeve FoST. You're kind of on

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